How To Change My Ex's Mind About Me

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
  • How to change your ex's mind about you. During a breakup, an ex can start to see you differently and have certain expectations of how you might behave towards them. Sometimes ex's will say that they never want to repair the relationship or that they've "lost feelings". In this video, I talk about ways to transform your ex's perception of you after the breakup.
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  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth Рік тому +13

    Take a moment to subscribe to the channel 💪

  • @RoseClimbPaintC
    @RoseClimbPaintC Рік тому +24

    It is impossible and that is okay. He doesn't have to know I have changed. I know it.

    • @SharonBurc
      @SharonBurc 8 місяців тому

      I absolutely love this comment

  • @bhuvana43
    @bhuvana43 4 місяці тому +5

    He changed his mind after 16 days ! Ya he came back!!!😂

  • @thevikingbeard89
    @thevikingbeard89 9 місяців тому +5

    A lot of the issues i had were losing my confidence and inner peace. Being screwed over by my business partner and best friend sent me spiraling and becoming more anxious. Im really sorry for leaning on my ex too much- it really isn't like me. The growth is coming to not lose myself again and also grow from all this. I do miss and love her but deep down, i already knew i needed some change. However, i would like if she'd be willing to communicate more through her avoidant style. While i hope she works on some things, i know if i cant find myself again i wont be able to find her again.

  • @rwentfordable
    @rwentfordable Рік тому +11

    Someone has seen the Brad Browning adverts on their channel. 😂

  • @walterschneider8033
    @walterschneider8033 8 місяців тому +2

    Jealousy isn't unreasonable.

  • @LonelyRider87
    @LonelyRider87 Рік тому +13

    Only Coach Craig can have you laughing & sobbing in the same video 📹 God bless this lovely man. ❤🔐

  • @Troy12-fitnessmodel
    @Troy12-fitnessmodel 9 місяців тому +5

    Starts 4.51

  • @richardsullivan2749
    @richardsullivan2749 8 місяців тому +3

    Loving the workbooks half way through #1 and ready to get #2 soon they are as fabulous as you, Victoria and the much loved Margaret

  • @amandaj0sie
    @amandaj0sie Рік тому +9

    Blob of anxiety checking in😂

  • @lujolonewolf
    @lujolonewolf Рік тому +2

    I just had a breakup 2 days ago 12 years long, she has major anxiety and depression, I’m completely cut off but one of my concerns is how she is doing, she has surgeries every year and she’s been going through many psychiatrists and psychologists every year and that’s all I ask from her family but I get no answer.

  • @natesearfoss881
    @natesearfoss881 Рік тому +7

    Tell me how I’m doing no contact, it’s been two months since I got dumped and yesterday I go past her on the sidewalk and she yelled “F you” to me. While I’m minding my own business. Why the hostility two months later?

    • @Takezo.D.Shinmen
      @Takezo.D.Shinmen Рік тому +6

      She's still emotionally charged. It's good

    • @natesearfoss881
      @natesearfoss881 Рік тому +2

      @@Takezo.D.Shinmen how is it good if I may ask?

    • @DaArvant
      @DaArvant Рік тому +3

      @@natesearfoss881 It means she still cares. Like Craig says, the opposite of love isn't hate, but indifference. Just be stoic about any type of negative actions from her. Eventually she'll come to terms on how she feels and consider talking to you.

    • @natesearfoss881
      @natesearfoss881 Рік тому +4

      @@DaArvant I hope she wants to talk. I’ve been feeling like reaching out to her at times but I feel if I were to, it wouldn’t end well since she is this angry and yelling curses at me in public.

    • @DeadMysticx
      @DeadMysticx Рік тому

      @@DaArvant After 9 months of no contact I finally deleted my ex from whatsapp, to move forward (he stalked every story there, a few times daily since the breakup)
      After my deleting I realized he didnt delete me too, he blocked me. 9 months after the breakup he is still emotionally charged and was emotional that I deleted him?
      Normally, if he saw that I deleted him, and he were over me, he would delete me, but not block me?
      As I said, I never contacted him and I never provoke him somehow via stories.

  • @misterhenchmen
    @misterhenchmen Рік тому

    thanks so much for another great video. your jokes crack me up .. the one in the middle of this one about err...umm.. explosive "digestive issues" had me cracking up so much that I had to pause and go back to the topic. I honestly usually don't like a whole lot of humor in videos like this but you put just the right amount in that there is some nice lighthearted energy. On another note your videos have been helping have real hope that I can have healthier relationships going forward in a real way. I'm seeking counseling & it feels like I am on such better ground for when that great boyfriend shows up.. whether its my ex or someone else who is awesome & loving. Keep up the great work!! :)

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 10 місяців тому

      I like Detective Columbo. It´s an interesting series. He has a car that doesn't work, a dog that doesn't listen to his commands, old coat,
      and people confuse him with a homeless man, but he is very smart. The fashion of 70s is very elegant, elegant heirstyle and clothes.

    • @alaalfa8839
      @alaalfa8839 10 місяців тому

      Jan Werich a Czech comedian said several of quotes about "fools": "Laughter heals smart people. And only offend fools ."
      "The worst collision in life is a collision with a fool. You can never convict an idiot of being an idiot. From a crash like that, you always come out the biggest idiot under the sun.'
      "If a man overcomes his own stupidity, is he a winner or a loser? Either way, it's good.'
      "It is established in the world that a lot of stupid people play smart. Of the smart ones, of which the world is in short supply, only the smartest play dumb.”
      "It is better to talk to a smart person about something stupid than to a fool about something smart."
      "Who knows, he is banished from the paradise of stupidity."
      "If you argue with an idiot for more than half a minute, two idiots are already arguing."
      "Humor is a fight against human stupidity. We can never win this fight. But we must never stop in it, otherwise stupidity will flood the whole world."
      "Don't say you can't if you don't want to! The days will come when it will be much more complicated and worse: you will want to and you won't be able to. And the important thing, don't forget that a man must not be stupid in three situations: behind the wheel, at the table and in bed. Everywhere else is acceptable…”
      "The product of a sick brain need not always be nonsense, because we know from experience that the product of a healthy brain often turns out to be utter nonsense." ...I guess he means the smartest stuff look like the most simple idea.

  • @TheGixernutter
    @TheGixernutter 8 місяців тому

    I am a huge blob of anxiety. Quite a bit lately.

  • @upupandaway5646
    @upupandaway5646 Рік тому +2

    You're BRILLIANT 😊

  • @brianmef71
    @brianmef71 4 місяці тому

    Why would you want somebody back in your life that didn't treat you the way you should have been treated?

  • @romantico1735
    @romantico1735 Рік тому +1

    Today is our 3rd anniversary. But everything changed 🙂😟😔.

  • @jayl1712
    @jayl1712 4 місяці тому

    What if they left you on read and unfollowed you. It’s like no contact w/o a choice.

  • @flat4wankel
    @flat4wankel Рік тому +1

    Sometimes its not you. In my situation my ex dump me for another man just cause she is an drug addict (coke) and an alcoholic. Apparently in our 3 years relationship she always been an addict... never saw it. This guy she monkey branch to, she had known him for 7 years! Even before i was in the picture.
    Not always you you need to change. Not sure how i feel about this video or the other ones to "better yourself" when maybe you have an ex that is an drug user. You cant help them in that situation

  • @alicedragn
    @alicedragn Рік тому

    Ahahaha! I see that advert to 'rewire your ex's brain' all the time XD

  • @goldy140
    @goldy140 10 місяців тому

    We were in so much love for 1 year. He was a BPD & Avoidant, later only I knew. But after 9 months only he did chats with me very personally. But he didnt like my long msgs, always msgs, he told it in a calm way, but I was anxious type & I had to explain bcos I needed him mo closer, have intimacy , bcos he was avoidant type. I didnt know he is Avoidant & cudnt listen to this video earlier :(
    He gets angry so much , distance me whenever if I wanna go to next step. He got angry with me for a small issue for the 3rd time, 2nd time he broke up for few months ,but came back after he realize he miss me, after I stop msgn him. 3rd time he broke up end of Sep in a mean way for sudden outburst & he has a huge trust issue for BPD :(

  • @uAreMyComputer
    @uAreMyComputer Рік тому

    Can you please dive deep in to action plan about this in next video? ❤

  • @crystalbrown6300
    @crystalbrown6300 Рік тому

    ? They gonna know if we in NC? And not speaking

  • @RoseMoke
    @RoseMoke 7 місяців тому

    Yeah

  • @pamplinafranczeskaliannee.5381

    I apologize to him after pressuring him to get back together by using other person. I did not get any response. After a couple of days he stalked me in my account but still not replying. I saw him posting qoutes that he liked someone else.What does it mean? Can I still get my ex back?

    • @DaArvant
      @DaArvant Рік тому +2

      He's still probably hurt from your actions. If you sincerely apologized for what you did, you just need to wait.