Dr. Gabor Maté on Decoding Suppressed Emotions, Cancer Traits, and Trauma-Addiction Connection

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  • Опубліковано 14 тра 2024
  • In this episode of The Luke Coutinho Show, I am privileged to bring you an eye-opening discussion with Dr. Gabor Maté, a Canadian physician, a renowned addiction expert and speaker, New York Times best-selling author, known for his expertise in childhood development and trauma.
    Join me as we uncover:
    The link between suppressed emotions and diseases like cancer and the idea of a fixed 'cancer personality'
    Overview of Dr. Mate's Compassionate Inquiry program for healing trauma
    Factors hindering authenticity: childhood experiences, societal pressures, and loneliness
    Strategies to strengthen parent-child bonds for better emotional well-being in children
    Exploring reasons for extramarital affairs, their impact on intimacy and self-distancing, and the trauma-addiction correlation
    And much more…

КОМЕНТАРІ • 39

  • @ramanaarti
    @ramanaarti День тому

    Seeing such collaborations makes me feel positive about the future !

  • @cherylsack2466
    @cherylsack2466 16 днів тому +6

    Dr Gabor is a gift to the world. He is a special, special human

  • @sandracaezza7234
    @sandracaezza7234 День тому

    Such an excellent show. My marriage went horribly wrong. Addiction/relapse/rinse repeat however letting go finding healing for myself has been the best time if my life.
    Anger saved me to let go of my marriage & actually probably force him out of the closet @ 65.
    I hope he has found peace.
    For me internal growth is my peace
    Ty gentleman 👍🏻

  • @sarahtushemereirwetwine3722
    @sarahtushemereirwetwine3722 Місяць тому +5

    Thank you so much for inviting him. Thank you Dr Mate🎉❤

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 8 днів тому +1

    Breat cancer and Anger..So True for me! I married into a family that was critical of me and I suppressed it..I got Caner in my breast at 32. Jesus Saved me. Though..and I am still here..at 80! Thank You 🙏 Jesus! 😊❤

  • @vaishalivaidya7978
    @vaishalivaidya7978 Місяць тому +5

    When he's been called as a Human Whisper,the time does him complete justice.
    Have attended a couple of his workshops on Compassionate Enquiry and it's beautiful.
    Love his authenticity...Would love to meet and connect with him in person some day.
    And his book,The Myth of Normal, is just amazing,insightful and brilliant.

  • @nidar1812
    @nidar1812 2 місяці тому +3

    I follow Dr. Mate and Luke. I couldn’t walk and cured my health just be aligning physical and mental body.

  • @divyareddy876
    @divyareddy876 Місяць тому +2

    I truly believe in this as part of my own experiences.Suppressed emotions are always ignored and don't get attention and focus it needs.The comparison he made of emotional balance and immunity makes completely sense to me.
    Thanks to Dr.gabor mate for bringing about this topic here.

  • @TeaRose9
    @TeaRose9 16 днів тому

    SO MUCH THISSSSS. Took me a lifetime to learn that I can just be myself.

  • @elliedavis9618
    @elliedavis9618 Місяць тому +7

    It's scary to put this information out with no solution. But still helps me to raise my daughter. Makes me feel like it's too late for me though.

    • @movingbreath
      @movingbreath Місяць тому +7

      It's never too late. Dr Gabor Mate's book "When the Body Says No" writes about the 7 A's of healing at the end of the book. You can also find a summary of this online. I highly recommend looking into this further.

    • @ramaacharya9399
      @ramaacharya9399 Місяць тому

      There is tons of solutions .
      He is a doctor .
      U need to look for psychologists who have found solutions.
      Look up dr shefali tsabary book parent trap and conciois parenting .

    • @ramaacharya9399
      @ramaacharya9399 Місяць тому

      Look into the book Good Inside as well as The Awakened Family ..
      U need to read books by child psychologists

    • @dr.arpitakar436
      @dr.arpitakar436 Місяць тому +2

      It's not scary dear..it's the answer, solution for many diseases which we didn't knew before..let go of those emotions which doesn't serve you

    • @SuLawn
      @SuLawn 29 днів тому +4

      While you are breathing it is never too late. ❤🤗🙂🙏

  • @vanithabt5997
    @vanithabt5997 Місяць тому +1

    I m so touched by this talk. Thank you so much Luke.

  • @bibhup192
    @bibhup192 2 місяці тому +5

    I am very much happy to have found this wisdom from your videos. Thank you Luke and
    Dr. Gabor , thank you very much 😊.

  • @poornimagupta8923
    @poornimagupta8923 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks Luke and Dr. Gabor Maté

  • @peacefulisland67
    @peacefulisland67 17 днів тому +1

    "Falling in love" is a total misapprehension of the word love to begin with.
    The good and quite addictive feelings are what bring people together and enmesh them well enough to tolerate one another's issues. Without those memories of over the top feelings who would volunteer to enter the mess of coupleship?
    Love is born of the first hand knowledge of it; having it oneself, we can't help but wish it for others.
    Having it oneself, we can't help but give it away knowing it is always refreshing the well.

  • @mariabuckley1749
    @mariabuckley1749 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you both so much 💓

  • @lifegoeson6461
    @lifegoeson6461 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this wonderful podcast

  • @annedsouza6285
    @annedsouza6285 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this podcast.

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 25 днів тому +3

    ❤ Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤

  • @rachelk8661
    @rachelk8661 Місяць тому +3

    Luke and Dr. Gabor, absolutely beautiful podcast. Thank you for this ❤

  • @peacefulisland67
    @peacefulisland67 17 днів тому

    Haven't repression and suppression always been with us?
    I agree with mind body being one entity but as disease and chronic conditions grow, the reality is that it's more about the acceptance of our respective circumstances that eases stress.
    When we constantly are wanting more than we have and are, and are bombarded with the possibility, we are always in battle.
    Maybe we're simply in the throes of a great change and absolute chaos where very few will escape without deep suffering.
    Genetic shifts are at minimum awkward, and worst like shredding skin.
    All this is not to say a person shouldn't resist unjust situations, but accept life as it is within the resistance.

  • @elliedavis9618
    @elliedavis9618 Місяць тому +1

    This makes sense but also fills me with fear because I have these traits. Makes me want to throw in the towel. Makes me angry. What is healthy anger? I've never seen it in anyone. I feel very sad after listening to this

    • @movingbreath
      @movingbreath Місяць тому +1

      For me, healthy anger means 1) acknowledging the feeling of anger inside of me when I feel angry, rather than suppressing it or labelling it as wrong/bad, 2) setting boundaries, 3) standing up for myself when boundaries are crossed, 4) finding a healthy outlet for anger and other strong emotions. This could be writing it down, meditating on it, making music, dancing or even kickboxing!

  • @sujatadang2704
    @sujatadang2704 2 місяці тому

    Hello....u hv just disappeared from u tube🤔...no more videos?

  • @devyanihinge1
    @devyanihinge1 2 місяці тому

    🙏💐

  • @elliedavis9618
    @elliedavis9618 Місяць тому

    Literally giving me a panic attack.

  • @ncagaminggaming8837
    @ncagaminggaming8837 2 місяці тому +2

    I am kalki my name is alen kumar. Please help
    Lord Parushram... Help mmeeee

    • @vanitagomes3794
      @vanitagomes3794 2 місяці тому

      I am helping you. Where are you. I am coming soon

  • @ArtemiusJosephian
    @ArtemiusJosephian 18 днів тому

    Luke, you're Brazilian or Indian ?

    • @anuragkota840
      @anuragkota840 4 дні тому

      Hes from goa india
      Goa had a Portuguese influence

  • @dilsefeelings
    @dilsefeelings 2 місяці тому

    First, I am MS person, i am not agree, with reason of suppression. I have lived my life with full freedom still i have MS. So cancer and autoimmune disease or most of the disease progression was there in West countries.... after following west lifestyle we are having all the diseases started coming here... so whatever suppression started after that , we never heard old generations in that .... don't try to show india has problem with because of ppl suppression etc. Go to Muslim communities how much women and children has to suffer.. so it's not link with it.

    • @cyndijohnson5473
      @cyndijohnson5473 26 днів тому

      Vitamin D deficiency causes a lot of disease too