Musician Goes Missing After Visiting Kauai to Find Alien Civilization | Alex Gumm Case Analysis

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 666

  • @MattCurrieImprov
    @MattCurrieImprov 6 місяців тому +47

    This story is bizarrely similar to what happened to my brother. He died in Hawaii this year while homeless. He was a musician and an artist and a vegan and had gone through a lot of problems too, we miss him so damn much. Prayers for Alex’s safe return. We also grew up in Maine.

    • @rosiemcking72
      @rosiemcking72 6 місяців тому +4

      Sorry for your loss..

    • @MattCurrieImprov
      @MattCurrieImprov 6 місяців тому +2

      @@rosiemcking72 God bless you so much

    • @JulieHannah-lg7fy
      @JulieHannah-lg7fy 5 місяців тому +3

      So sorry for your loss 🙏

    • @commonsense2680
      @commonsense2680 4 місяці тому +2

      So sorry for your loss.

    • @MattCurrieImprov
      @MattCurrieImprov 4 місяці тому

      @@commonsense2680 I’m grateful for every person who extends kindness to me, God bless you and your family.

  • @manewland1
    @manewland1 6 місяців тому +93

    As a parent, I really feel for Alex's family (especially his mom; she never got that phone call). Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande.

    • @jimcronin2043
      @jimcronin2043 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm sure that they're tearing their hair out and feel helpless to do anything about it.

    • @JR-gl1nx
      @JR-gl1nx 6 місяців тому

      Yeah I felt more pity for the parents the more I heard. Unemployed adult son moves back in then disrespects them with a vow of silence. Probably only spoke to them before leaving to ask them to pay for his trip.

    • @karen3353
      @karen3353 6 місяців тому

      @@JR-gl1nx ~ It probably wasn't his intention to disrespect them...He probably was just trying it as a spiritual practice, which didn't apparently last long anyway...Plus, he could write notes....But he should have called them when he got there...That was disrespectful, deeply...

  • @carolynsilvers9999
    @carolynsilvers9999 6 місяців тому +91

    Cults usually want the recruit to fork over their money. Since his is still in the bank, it suggests he's not with a cult.

    • @fuzzamajumula
      @fuzzamajumula 6 місяців тому +2

      Good point.

    • @aarondavis8943
      @aarondavis8943 6 місяців тому +3

      Seems like he was in a cult of one, where he was the chosen anointed. The leader and the follower.

    • @charlesreid9337
      @charlesreid9337 24 дні тому

      This isn't true. Not all play cults are like this. There was actually one in Hawaii who are the opposite of this.
      The word is often used can you stigmatized groups the mainstream doesn't like.

  • @Giulorma1121
    @Giulorma1121 6 місяців тому +185

    My poor 75 year old Dad has dementia and he watches Ancient Aliens all of the time. When ever he gets rattled at night we just put on Ancient Aliens and it immediately calms him down.

    • @mountainstream8351
      @mountainstream8351 6 місяців тому +19

      I find alien stories to be soothing as well.

    • @ginfizzz2895
      @ginfizzz2895 6 місяців тому +16

      Seriously great naps thanks to those Friday marathons

    • @moonshineblues204
      @moonshineblues204 6 місяців тому +12

      I mean, good for him! I wish I had something like that 😕

    • @StAlphonsusHasAPosse
      @StAlphonsusHasAPosse 6 місяців тому +31

      Sorry about your Dad. My Mom has dementia also.

    • @nunyabisniss1179
      @nunyabisniss1179 6 місяців тому +9

      ​@@StAlphonsusHasAPosseAw, mine did too. I know how that can feel. Sending hugs! ❤

  • @fuzzamajumula
    @fuzzamajumula 6 місяців тому +18

    Poor kid. It's heartbreaking to watch someone you love suffer from mental health issues and not be able to do a damn thing to help them because they refuse it. There is no more helpless feeling. None.

    • @charlesreid9337
      @charlesreid9337 24 дні тому

      People being different from you does not mean they are mentally ill

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 6 місяців тому +103

    Disappearance cases are always quite sad and frustrating. I hope his family finds closure one day.
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this case, Dr. Grande.❤

    • @user-mf7nb6fg1b
      @user-mf7nb6fg1b 6 місяців тому +1

      yeah .. I know. I disappeared 10 years ago and no one has found me - yet. But of course I changed my name, had plastic surgery, and even replaced my fingerprints

    • @dila4834
      @dila4834 6 місяців тому

      ​@@user-mf7nb6fg1b😂😂😂😂😂

    • @JulieHannah-lg7fy
      @JulieHannah-lg7fy 5 місяців тому

      Yea I think that's got to be the worst thing ever as a parent bc your always wondering if their alive or not. Prayers for everyone going through this 🙏

    • @adotintheshark4848
      @adotintheshark4848 2 місяці тому

      @@user-mf7nb6fg1bwe found you.

  • @elliebellie7816
    @elliebellie7816 6 місяців тому +85

    The only truest indication of Alex's "disappearance" is he never touched his money again. He's dead, folks.

    • @ComegetsomeID
      @ComegetsomeID 6 місяців тому +2

      Não me diga...

    • @evelynwaugh4053
      @evelynwaugh4053 6 місяців тому +14

      Maybe not. Given his interests such as monasticism and veganism, perhaps he is giving this up as a spiritual sacrifice (like Lent). If he was a victim of foul play, I'd expect the assailant to empty his bank account.

    • @houseofsolomon2440
      @houseofsolomon2440 6 місяців тому +7

      ​@@evelynwaugh4053Some 'groups or organizations' bully the devotees into giving up all material possessions/$$ to the group. So then, the money trail vanishes.

    • @evelynwaugh4053
      @evelynwaugh4053 6 місяців тому

      @@houseofsolomon2440 Yeah, but the money is untouched. Cults are pretty greedy.

    • @SeaBlue1976
      @SeaBlue1976 6 місяців тому +27

      Yes but just have in mind that friends and families read our comments.
      Let's be kind.
      Could be our brother or best friend.

  • @tortimeese
    @tortimeese 6 місяців тому +110

    Alex Gumm has similarities to Christopher McCandless in that they were searching for an esoteric meaning for life and their 'dream' eventually led to their deaths (possibly for Gumm). Very sad. He sounds like he was talented and creative. I hope his family finds the peace they deserve.

    • @amrasangaran6041
      @amrasangaran6041 6 місяців тому +18

      Did he have medical evaluation. I wonder. His traveling to India first and then wanting to travel Kaui. Lots of youngsters are adults but definitely not mature to face unknown territories alone. We see often in western cultures. So much loss of young lives with the whole world in front of them. Lots of them educated too. In some cultures they don't know where their next plate of food is and no roof above their head. Let alone travel to these strange places looking for only God knows what. Sad.

    • @llYossarian
      @llYossarian 6 місяців тому +6

      Where's any indication he was _"talented"?_

    • @AnastasiaFafo
      @AnastasiaFafo 6 місяців тому +6

      Into the Wild is one of my favorite books.

    • @EllaJay
      @EllaJay 6 місяців тому +5

      Yep, two total idiots. They'll probably make a martyr out of this guy too if it's a sad outcome. And a movie, "Into The Void: The Story of A Lost Musician". 🙄

    • @llYossarian
      @llYossarian 6 місяців тому +5

      @@EllaJay Like that guy who heroically tried to go through alcohol withdrawals on a winter hunting/camping trip and died from hypothermia because sub-freezing camping in winter gear while you have vicious body sweats/trouble generally regulating your body temperature and massively reduced cognition _wasn't_ just insanely stupid...

  • @ung427
    @ung427 6 місяців тому +59

    Actually, he might have read a book called, "Lemurian Scrolls" written by the Hindu Monestary... however in that book, Lemuria, although located in the same space as Kauai, Lemuria was said to be in a more subtle and spiritual dimension.

    • @user-mf7nb6fg1b
      @user-mf7nb6fg1b 6 місяців тому +3

      sounds more like "The Fog" .

    • @ung427
      @ung427 6 місяців тому

      @@user-mf7nb6fg1bOne thing is for sure, if you are searching for it, then you are affirming that you don't have it. Which is fine for physical things and objects, but when it comes to inner peace, the search becomes the barrier.

    • @Katch.22
      @Katch.22 6 місяців тому +8

      Crazy how much books and active imaginations can effect someone. I read a book when I was 12 I wish I didn't. In just put stupid negative things in me because I'm in type of person to put myself into others shoes and I did that with that main character 😕 some books need warnings..

    • @oghash4912
      @oghash4912 6 місяців тому +2

      Lemuria and Atlantis are being uncovered now. As is Antarctica being shown to have an interesting landscape under the ice... Wouldn't be surprised if most citizens (like us) weren't informed of what Earth actually looks like.

    • @prince_dogboy
      @prince_dogboy 6 місяців тому

      ​@@Katch.22I remember this kid I knew getting his hands on a copy of The Celestine Prophesy, (a work of fiction that presents new age beliefs as being real) and he went off the deep end and essentially believed himself to be a "Jedi" that could manipulate the minds of individuals when in reality he was just making himself look like a fool. This video made me think of the Jedi and just how easy it can be for some people to drastically change upon encountering certain beliefs and tenants of new age and mysticism. beliefs

  • @godfreyofbouillon966
    @godfreyofbouillon966 6 місяців тому +19

    I really liked it that you pointed out "research" in such peoples speak does not mean what it does in English. Watching a couple of youtube videos, reading 4chan, smoking pot and making shit up is not generally considered "research" by the commonly accepted meaning of the word. But that's exactly how such types conduct what they call research.

  • @mikelobrien
    @mikelobrien 6 місяців тому +83

    I know of a couple of spiritual "extraterrestrial communicators" who moved to remote locations to better pursue their goals. One relocated to the Big Island of Hawaii. After some years she intentionally cut ties with all family and was never heard from by any of them again. If you want to get lost, Hawaii seems to be a good place to do it.

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT 6 місяців тому +13

      Still very selfish 😢

    • @carnifaxx
      @carnifaxx 6 місяців тому +20

      that's quite a redundant information, basically everyone living their life is selfish, just in different ways. Forcing this man to live with a family just for them to feel better would be also selfish, they don't own him.

    • @stephenmccagg
      @stephenmccagg 6 місяців тому +5

      ​@@carnifaxxyou can't escape your Ancestral Line! Remember, no matter where you go, there you are.

    • @carnifaxx
      @carnifaxx 6 місяців тому +10

      @@stephenmccagg then that's even less of a problem of him being wherever he feels best, if his ancestral line is always with him...

    • @missbearlockholmes
      @missbearlockholmes 6 місяців тому

      Good to know.

  • @Modern_Nostalgia
    @Modern_Nostalgia 6 місяців тому +51

    I really hope he's out there living off the land while on a spiritual quest. I get it, I've done similar things. But no matter what, I always check in with loved ones.

    • @user-mf7nb6fg1b
      @user-mf7nb6fg1b 6 місяців тому +8

      yeah .. but the drugs wear off .. then you're back to scary reality

  • @pavla2055
    @pavla2055 6 місяців тому +28

    Upon visiting Hawaii a few years back my thoughts were that it was a great and beautiful place to visit but I wouldn't want to live there . Too remote for me . A guide on the Big Island mentioned that the islands had many visiting people disappear every year and it was thought that at least some may have fallen into volcanic vents that are made difficult to see by surrounding vegetation . I don't know how plentiful these vents are on Kauai but I can attest to the rain , mud and bad footing . It must be terrible for his family to be left wondering what has happened .

    • @karen3353
      @karen3353 6 місяців тому +1

      Also, the holes in the rocks where the ocean comes through...i saw a video about that...a wave can push you into the holes permanently...There is more and more human trafficking, so that is at the top of the list for me with him...

    • @adotintheshark4848
      @adotintheshark4848 2 місяці тому

      @@karen3353they can also suck you out into the ocean where you'll never be found.

  • @victrola2007
    @victrola2007 6 місяців тому +35

    Just what he needed - B12 deprivation 🤦‍♀️ that mimics schizophrenia. To those who questioned his parents' apathy. It's nearly impossible to commit a legal adult. Sigh.

    • @jasonvoorhees7288
      @jasonvoorhees7288 5 місяців тому

      While I completely agree with you on the B12 thing his parents seem VERY ok with him being gone..

  • @NedReck6967
    @NedReck6967 6 місяців тому +7

    I read a story about a hiker who disappeared on Kauai and years later they found an abandoned campsite with a few of his belongings and theorized that he hiked near some cliffs by the ocean and fell.

  • @carlyrennae3963
    @carlyrennae3963 6 місяців тому +16

    Sooooo hungover at work dyyyying ....then youtube sends out the Grande notification.....instant improvement to my state of mind 😂😂 thank you Dr G 🙏

  • @kristinleigh7445
    @kristinleigh7445 6 місяців тому +5

    Hearing Dr. Grande say "his magical journey" in his deadpan way killed me lol

  • @kuyajeff6552
    @kuyajeff6552 6 місяців тому +11

    The only one I trust who does his own research is Dr. Grande.

  • @ircjesselee
    @ircjesselee 6 місяців тому +17

    What if his ancestral alien family picked him up? 😂

    • @evoluna3056
      @evoluna3056 6 місяців тому +3

      😳🛸🛸🛸👽👾

  • @tmajcan94
    @tmajcan94 6 місяців тому +30

    Really nice to catch a Dr Grande video early. I hope Alex is found one way or another. That way his family can find peace and closure. Thanks again for another great upload doc.

  • @TheVagolfer
    @TheVagolfer 6 місяців тому +15

    Alex is not "missing" he has been lost for a long time. R.I.P Alex.

  • @LB-bw4vj
    @LB-bw4vj 6 місяців тому +41

    I do hope the family gets some answers one way or other so they can have some peace. Would love to hear the doctors take on the Grimes sister murders if it was not already covered. Read about it as a teen and was always haunted by the thought that they never got justice.

  • @Diaz.et.Pam.
    @Diaz.et.Pam. 6 місяців тому +13

    Homeless individuals can blend in with hikers…Dr. Grande is something else😭🥰

    • @wintercame
      @wintercame 6 місяців тому +2

      He doesn't just spout things out of the blue. He'd have reason to make this comment.🤔

    • @Diaz.et.Pam.
      @Diaz.et.Pam. 6 місяців тому +3

      @@wintercame Agreed, that’s basically what I mean. He’s too too freaking amazing he knows he’s stuff and the connections are impeccable 🥰

  • @user-ru3ql6ji4p
    @user-ru3ql6ji4p 6 місяців тому +45

    Sad story, Dr. Grande. He couldn't find the Aliens neither could he find himself.

  • @colindeer9657
    @colindeer9657 6 місяців тому +7

    Having been a happy visitor there for repeated fantastic experiences, I completely agree with you. To survive there and not normally be from the island would be challenging as much as I loved it.

  • @tracyking5945
    @tracyking5945 6 місяців тому +25

    I agree with your analysis Dr. Grande. Alex further isolated himself by going as far away as Kauai. He turned a corner a bit too sharp for his own good.

  • @peaceseeker52
    @peaceseeker52 6 місяців тому +11

    He could have died from lack of nutrients scurvy, beriberi, anemia etc Those make you go out of your head towards the end.

  • @y_knot_tri
    @y_knot_tri 6 місяців тому +6

    The most reliable sources of food in the wilderness are fishing and trapping and those are off the menu. Wild plants don't have nearly the calories as what you find in the store and it's easy to misidentify one and poison yourself. His best option for food would be dumpster diving, though that would put him near people who could spot him.

    • @adotintheshark4848
      @adotintheshark4848 2 місяці тому

      probably not many dumpsters in the Kauai wilderness. About as many manhole covers.

  • @BidensTaint
    @BidensTaint 6 місяців тому +481

    What do you call a musician without a girlfriend? Homeless! 😅

    • @Zachary3D
      @Zachary3D 6 місяців тому +18

      🦗

    • @MakerInMotion
      @MakerInMotion 6 місяців тому +28

      ​@@reid_makes_artIt's like acting. For every one who manages to make a living there's 1,000 who don't.

    • @kimdawcatgirl
      @kimdawcatgirl 6 місяців тому +25

      Or gay.

    • @elliebellie7816
      @elliebellie7816 6 місяців тому +25

      @@reid_makes_art And a lot of them aren't. Plenty of them are putting in the work and yet they are starving and so are their families.

    • @stormysmom222
      @stormysmom222 6 місяців тому +9

      Zing!

  • @connectingthedots100
    @connectingthedots100 6 місяців тому +5

    I think it's most likely he slipped off a cliff, or got swept away by a freak wave or current.

  • @darkwing3713
    @darkwing3713 6 місяців тому +7

    He didn't join a cult because there's no way a cult wouldn't have emptied his bank account. Twenty years ago I would have said that he was unlikely to have been murdered as a homeless person on Kauai. Back then living on the beach on Kauai was pretty normal. But I've heard that homelessness has become a lot worse in Hawaii.
    But it's very likely that, if he is dead, he was not murdered. Nor would he have had to follow through on a self sufficiency fantasy to get into trouble. Kauai is actually pretty dangerous. The Nā Pali coast is made of very old volcanic rock, and the interior wilderness is not a place for amateurs. And the beaches can be dangerous. Some of them are swimmable and some really aren't. Not all the risks are obvious. Swimming the day after a heavy rain might get you attacked by a shark just because the water is murky.
    My idea is that he felt his personality changing and instinctively fled from everyone he knew. He may have eventually lost his original sense of who he is. In some of his photos, he's smiling but his eyes look scared. The only adult photos where he seems at peace are the ones where he's playing music.
    Wishing him peace and happiness.

  • @dissidentfairy4264
    @dissidentfairy4264 6 місяців тому +12

    How sad for the family not to have answers or closure. I would rate the theories in this order: 4. 2. 1. 3. If he died from foul play he no doubt would have been discovered. Theory 2. makes some sense since he talked about joining a monastery. It's possible that monks are covering for him. I feel it's also possible he is hanging out with the homeless or same-like minded type people. He might be deliberately not spending money from the bank account because he wants people to think he's dead.

  • @stacykeller3812
    @stacykeller3812 6 місяців тому +19

    This was a sad case. I saw the Disappeared episode. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts!

  • @anthonycrowley2778
    @anthonycrowley2778 6 місяців тому +28

    I think you covered all the bases , Sir. I wonder why he felt he had this special calling. And chased such bizarre things. Many of us can feel we don’t belong or feel different but this type of searching is out there

    • @wanyatelborn
      @wanyatelborn 6 місяців тому +1

      You wonder why um doc explains that in this video

    • @farcenter
      @farcenter 6 місяців тому +4

      Psychosis/ people are crazy lol

    • @ricktyuio283
      @ricktyuio283 6 місяців тому +8

      @@farcenterthe psychotic drowns in the same waters the mystic swims in with delight. I think that was Joseph Campbells quote. When it comes down to it, as long as we aren’t injuring others in any way, who are any of us to place final judgment upon another? And considering what culture nowadays is trying to engineer to be normal, I’d say it’s more of a sign of respect and integrity to NOT fit in, in any way.

    • @oghash4912
      @oghash4912 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@ricktyuio283wonderfully stated 👏💚 thank you

  • @dianemorton2222
    @dianemorton2222 6 місяців тому +7

    I feel so sorry for Alex. He must have felt lonely and was seeking someone to connect with. He must be in Hawaii. I hope he finds peace.

  • @wildfireintexas
    @wildfireintexas 6 місяців тому +4

    The teleseries “The Thorne Birds,” was also filmed on Kauai. I visited once, it was beautiful.

  • @bunnymad5049
    @bunnymad5049 6 місяців тому +5

    So heartbreaking for his family. I guess we can only hope he comes to his senses one day and comes back. Hoping he's safe. Thanks Dr G.

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette 6 місяців тому +5

    Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande!

  • @discospiders
    @discospiders 6 місяців тому +5

    I’ve been to Kauai 6 times and I’ve never heard of this case!

  • @theowlshowofficial9563
    @theowlshowofficial9563 6 місяців тому +10

    Aloha Doc from Hawaii nei. BTW, before the end of the last ice age about eleven and a half thousand years ago the islands were one land mass from Oahu to The Big Island called Maui Nui The channel between Kauai and Oahu was still water.🏝🗿

  • @Sunchild_26
    @Sunchild_26 6 місяців тому +1

    Love these unknown cases you cover❤

  • @JorgeBarbat
    @JorgeBarbat 6 місяців тому

    Thank you Dr Grande I do enjoy your video so much, so insightful and interesting!!!!

  • @ZYX54321
    @ZYX54321 6 місяців тому +9

    13:11
    If his last place was at salt pond, chances are he went into the Wiamea canyon, Wiamea Canyon goes from the area where he was all the way over to the north shore of Hanalei ..
    If he got stranded in the middle of the island, Waimea Canyon, chances are wild pigs have eaten him .. That’s all I have to say about that..
    Trying to live off the land, good luck with that, bananas, they’re more than likely on other peoples land you better not be caught stealing, mangoes, papaya, those things don’t bloom year around..
    If you think you’re gonna go catch a fish!😂
    Good luck with that too unless you have a boat to you get out past the breakwater ..
    Yeah my theory is, he’s a deadman ..

  • @colindeer9657
    @colindeer9657 6 місяців тому +2

    Btw, your presentation was really interesting from start to finish. Many thanks for producing this. I certainly appreciated your expertise in this case. A most probable outcome. You explained the situation clearly and made segments easy to follow and understand for the viewer. On the strength of this presentation, I have decided to subscribe, doctor. I found it of positive value to me . RN

  • @wintercame
    @wintercame 6 місяців тому +8

    Really sad story, but well told as usual by Dr G.

  • @jeanholmes7976
    @jeanholmes7976 6 місяців тому +8

    Thank you Dr. Grande. So sad for his family. I hope Alex is living his life, but not too promising. 🌵💕😇💕from Jean

  • @aurorincorporated
    @aurorincorporated 6 місяців тому +4

    Great timing, as usual. =)
    *gets some tea*

  • @alexandramail930
    @alexandramail930 6 місяців тому +12

    That's 2 days in a row now that I've been the first to 'Like' your video. You are amazing Dr G. You have such. a great and unique insight into human behaviour like I've never seen before. And your delivery is so interesting and humerous as well.
    Can you please do a Bio video of your life and what has shaped and informed your personol and professional evolution? I am interested to know what your formative years werre like. I realise I'm not the only one to be fascinated by your ability to unpack and analyse the cases you present.
    Btw, you are 1 month older than me. Also, if you ever want to visit Australia I have ample room for you and your fam to stay. I think I rate you as much as I do Dr Phil - & that's alot!

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 6 місяців тому +2

      Being first is fun! 🤸

    • @wintercame
      @wintercame 6 місяців тому +3

      He has shared some personal stories when he reached certain YT milestones. Two were significant to me - the first was a very serious car accident when he was a young man and the interactions with a Doctor who told him what his life would be like. He does live with residual physical effects and limitations. Note: You probably know he knows plenty about guns and cars. The other was a description of a typical day in producing videos, from research to uploading, how much time etc. Also his motivations in producing a high volume of work, making money while he can while his work is popular. He seems to have found just the right formula which has evolved - if you've seen his earlier educational videos.

    • @alexandramail930
      @alexandramail930 6 місяців тому +2

      Thanks for above info.

  • @JoshPhoenix11
    @JoshPhoenix11 6 місяців тому +6

    When it comes to a clinical diagnosis, the fact that a condition may be rare or uncommon has no bearing what so ever when it comes to the individual person and case.
    If the person presents with the diagnostic requirements that isn't better met by any other diagnosis, then the diagnosis of the rare condition must be given.

  • @Ma1q444
    @Ma1q444 6 місяців тому +13

    Can you do a video on the Setagaya family murder, that case has always disturbed me, the intruder left all the evidence and still has not been caught.

    • @robinthrill3r7
      @robinthrill3r7 6 місяців тому

      en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Setagaya_family_murder

  • @-ilkis-
    @-ilkis- 6 місяців тому +4

    No real spiritual quest requires the person to cause anguish to his loved ones by not letting them know he is alive. It’s just selfishness in pursuit of a higher ego dressed as detachment and humbleness.

  • @rizalukman7982
    @rizalukman7982 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for the video Dr Grande.Before I listened to your podcast I always think that the most dangerous thing which is threatening our life is the possibility of foul play so I always be careful with strangers.As I learned about the information from you I started to understand that most frequent thing that endanger one's life is his or her own reckless behaviour ( drink,use of drug,cigarettes) etc.The second dangerous thing is our high risk activities in nature (eg climbing mountain) without adequate preparation

  • @yamnjam
    @yamnjam 6 місяців тому +30

    Poor kid. I hope he's living off the grid somewhere, but realistically after all this time it's more likely he perished somewhere out in the wild. It'd be really hard to go that many years without needing any money. He had money saved so he must have planned to buy a few things at some point, so it's telling he's never accessed it.

    • @Fractal_blip
      @Fractal_blip 6 місяців тому

      I feel that he had his head popped

    • @Hollylivengood
      @Hollylivengood 6 місяців тому +4

      Living off grid is an exciting concept to people who have never lived off the land and who usually make fun of people who live off the land. The fact that he googled edible plants in Hawaii tells me he never took a real course, or bothered to ask a few oldies who know these things. Sad.

  • @bellsina7150
    @bellsina7150 6 місяців тому +7

    Unfortunately it sounds like he develops schizophrenia and he would have been at the right age for the onset of symptoms. Late teens early 20s. My brother also developed this in his late teens. Early 20th money went to college. It was more pronounced. He traveled the world as it progressively worsened. How sad that he disappeared and his family didn't have time to get him medicated or help him. My brother died of cancer at 32 so we lost him twice. Wants to the mental illness and then again to cancer.

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom 6 місяців тому +12

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating how a person might find a truly fresh and authentic Hawaiian pizza.

    • @wintercame
      @wintercame 6 місяців тому +1

      🍍🍕🍍

    • @BigZebraCom
      @BigZebraCom 6 місяців тому

      @@wintercame thank you for the slice and the pineapples. Technically, Hawaiian Pizza came from Canada and not Hawaii, but I 'm rolling with it anyway.

  • @MARILYNANDERSON88
    @MARILYNANDERSON88 6 місяців тому +3

    Rogue wave almost got us in that locale as we strolled on the beach in the moonlight

  • @karenpayne1011
    @karenpayne1011 6 місяців тому +2

    You have such wisdom. Appreciate you so much ❤️

  • @lulumoon6942
    @lulumoon6942 6 місяців тому +3

    Kids these days need to be taught that one can be noble in living average & everyday lives. 🙏

  • @philmusson1265
    @philmusson1265 6 місяців тому +5

    Dr Grande, Australia has some incredible stories as of late that I'd love to see you cover. The mushroom poisonings, the school teacher and the Aldinga fire murders. Australia is a crazy place haha

    • @kenmccormick8059
      @kenmccormick8059 6 місяців тому

      He has produced two videos about the mushroom case, be has also covered the Train family case and others. Searching UA-cam for dr todd grande Australia should turn them up.

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 6 місяців тому

      he did

    • @sadiestoltzfus9798
      @sadiestoltzfus9798 6 місяців тому

      I'll say right now it is spring time in Australia while in America it's fall. So Christmas would be celebrated in the summer. Not to mention kangaroos. Very crazy.

    • @philmusson1265
      @philmusson1265 6 місяців тому

      @@sadiestoltzfus9798 summer Xmas is the best!!!

  • @navypti
    @navypti 6 місяців тому +1

    Fascinating analysis Dr Grande. Thank you for your thoughts.

  • @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413
    @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413 6 місяців тому +14

    He may be out in the jungle there. I once met someone who’s been living like that for years.
    It’s possible. There’s some wild fruits growing there, no deadly poisonous animals and the weather is good year round.
    Sounds nicer than it actually is, but it’s doable.
    He may also be dead though. There’s some parts of the jungle that are covert agricultural enterprises. The owners don’t take kindly to strangers stumbling upon their plants.

    • @user-mf7nb6fg1b
      @user-mf7nb6fg1b 6 місяців тому

      You knew Tarzan too ??

    • @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413
      @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413 6 місяців тому +6

      @@user-mf7nb6fg1bNah, just a guy who’s been living in the Kauai jungle.
      Sounds like paradise.
      Until you need a dentist.
      Or get too old for that shit.

    • @mr.iforgot3062
      @mr.iforgot3062 6 місяців тому +2

      What your saying is true. They would bury the corpes where they killed it. No see, no nothing. That's are world. I can imagine an aloof young man, in his own world of thought, stumbling upon a grow field. Happens in the Emerald triangle more often then you'd think.

    • @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413
      @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413 6 місяців тому +3

      @@mr.iforgot3062 But, we don’t know what really happened and, we’re not diagnosing anybody in the comments, just speculating about what could be happening in a situation like this.

    • @mr.iforgot3062
      @mr.iforgot3062 6 місяців тому

      @@thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413 My gut says he's alive. It would be expensive, but hiring a private investigator could help. Most P.I.s use the computer, but in this sitution he's somewhere in that jungle and thats going to take some good boots.

  • @americandeadhead5025
    @americandeadhead5025 6 місяців тому +3

    Not sure about Kauai but on the Big Island there wouldn't be a much better place to live off grid. The majority are that way here. People live on just a platform with tarp over it over here. Lots of people living in tents. The nice weather allows for it. But wherever you are is owned by someone so you can't go completely unnoticed. Locals know, even in the interior of the island

  • @Pichuuh
    @Pichuuh 6 місяців тому +6

    Hey Dr love your videos! Could you make an analysis about the Toy Box Killer? I believe he would be similar with BTK

    • @poindextertunes
      @poindextertunes 6 місяців тому +3

      I can tell you this. David Parker Ray was 100% producing and selling snuff films. Thats how he could afford all the devices he had(like a gynecological chair) with a state park maintenance man salary. Also the FBI agent tasked with looking through the t0rture footage found in the trailer, later committed suicide bcuz of what she saw 😳

    • @Pichuuh
      @Pichuuh 6 місяців тому

      @@poindextertunes I heard about that, yeah it would definitely explain how he could afford all of that stuff, also maybe he charged some of his 'friends' to use the girls.

  • @winkieblink7625
    @winkieblink7625 6 місяців тому +12

    Unfortunate. Likely starved himself into a psychosis….then, unstable, walked into the island on some trail…..and was lost forever. One cannot REALLY live off the land. It’s not that easy.

    • @markiangooley
      @markiangooley 6 місяців тому +4

      Living off the land while keeping vegan is even harder…

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 6 місяців тому +1

      I think of all the fruit I could eat there

    • @cwired9407
      @cwired9407 6 місяців тому

      going off grid / no one observing you for long periods of time is pretty difficult on kauai; maybe you go higher altitude forest areas (if you’re on west side you’d be heading up waimea/kokee). fruit there are mainly invasives like blackberry, guava (w/ worms), banana poka… you’d need to kill/eat a wild boar at some point to survive. agree, likely starved into psychosis… :(

    • @mrazik131
      @mrazik131 6 місяців тому +1

      I agree also trespassing is a big thing……,,Wild bore when hungry is major danger…

  • @connectingthedots100
    @connectingthedots100 6 місяців тому +2

    Oooo-kay! On the Hawaiian Islands is a large homeless population. I have yet to meet someone who is voluntarily so. And to preemt an argument that homeless people come from other states or are sent by other states to ease there own problem could not be corroborated by data. Existing data shows people who were born here or long term residents. Most homelessness is hidden (sleeping in cars, on someones couch etc). The homeless you encounter prominently are often there because of a lacking infrastructure to care for mentally ill people or drugs or both.

  • @brianpratt3224
    @brianpratt3224 6 місяців тому +5

    You should have worn one of your Hawaiian shirts for this one!

  • @carrielaatsch9388
    @carrielaatsch9388 6 місяців тому +2

    I have lived houseless on Kaua'i before. I don't know how he would be surviving without touching any of his money unless he is doing some kind of work trade on a farm.

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ 6 місяців тому +2

    Dr. Grande's analysis' are the best of the best 🏆
    Thank you again doctor

  • @doxellstruloeff4396
    @doxellstruloeff4396 6 місяців тому

    PRAYERS & LOVE ALWAYS

  • @SchroederN8
    @SchroederN8 6 місяців тому +5

    I think Mr. Gumm may have bitten off more than he could chew.

  • @hle144
    @hle144 6 місяців тому +2

    Wow, such knowledge at the tender age of 22.

  • @poindextertunes
    @poindextertunes 6 місяців тому +19

    psilocibin induced psychosis
    I know ppl who did mushrooms just once and they were never the same. Lsd can do it too

  • @dubief420
    @dubief420 6 місяців тому +1

    We have quite the story I'd like to hear you cover in Maine

  • @Hatbox948
    @Hatbox948 6 місяців тому

    Oh my gosh, the kitty box ad was priceless lol.

  • @LadyCatterly
    @LadyCatterly 6 місяців тому +4

    Poor kid.

  • @tomheineman4369
    @tomheineman4369 6 місяців тому +8

    Kaui is a huge place and in many places the flora is dense and tropical. It is possible to collect rain water for survival. He is probably on the north side hiding.

    • @wmpx34
      @wmpx34 6 місяців тому

      You don’t need any skills to survive solo out there in the jungle?

    • @monicageorgson4870
      @monicageorgson4870 6 місяців тому +2

      @@wmpx34There’s a camp on the north side you have to hike all day to get to, sketchy people hide out there

  • @btetschner
    @btetschner 5 місяців тому

    I remember reading about Lemuria after seeing a short video clip.
    Without developed outdoor skills, it would be very hard to survive in the wilderness like that.
    There is a chance he just doesn't know what to do after his spiritual trip has ended and is anxious about contacting his family and friends.

  • @tiredofit4761
    @tiredofit4761 6 місяців тому +3

    He probably went into the ocean/forest looking for enlightenment and met his death. This young man was apparently schizophrenic and/or other serious mental issues. Sad

  • @beachboy0505
    @beachboy0505 6 місяців тому

    Excellent video 📹
    THE END 📖

  • @jbinmd
    @jbinmd 6 місяців тому +16

    Possibility #5: he was abducted. I'm not saying it was by aliens, but it was by aliens.

    • @Mrch33ky
      @Mrch33ky 6 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for that! 😆

  • @snappybean
    @snappybean 6 місяців тому +12

    I believe that if Dr Grande asked me to hand him a tool, he would be able to describe its exact location and description without raising his voice once.

  • @flyoverkid55
    @flyoverkid55 6 місяців тому +2

    Seems that he spent most of his time entertaining his " inner child " and never acquired the skills and outlook necessary to exist in the adult world.

  • @marinaalba1707
    @marinaalba1707 6 місяців тому +1

    Is it me or Dr Grande has been seriously sharpening his irony skills lately? If that is even possible 🙂

  • @JS-bm9tf
    @JS-bm9tf 6 місяців тому +1

    Just watched the movie "Blue Hawaii" and spotted Alex perched in a coconut tree during the wedding scene. Not sure if he found aliens but he did seem to manage getting back to 1961 & appearing in an Elvis Presley film! (Unfortunately, during a 2nd watch, he seems to have disappeared ... again.)

  • @Zachary3D
    @Zachary3D 6 місяців тому +3

    Dang.
    He found them...

  • @KaraLey98
    @KaraLey98 6 місяців тому

    I was surprised to hear DrG say that the island was not a good place to live off of the grid. A few minutes earlier he said one could live off the land and the climate was friendly-& I knew this climate to be mild except for the rain. The rain is never cold enough to be health or life threatening. The general lack of significant population, plus lassiez faire attitudes among permanent residents there would seem conducive to maintaining level of either anonymity or significant distance socially so as to not be registered or counted in any particular group which would be part of the grid.
    Only thing is Dr G did say Alex was not the outdoor/survival type-but this island is not challenging as far as living of the land, and it sounds like many people do just that, so Alex had enough time over a few years to learn some skills. I hope he is found and it still healthy.

  • @hopbup7401
    @hopbup7401 6 місяців тому +2

    It’s a small island. Someone would have seen him and everyone would know. He fell or got lost deep in the wild and is dead.

  • @nate_8403
    @nate_8403 6 місяців тому +2

    Not sure why anyone would want to hang out with aliens. Because if we're being totally honest, aliens probably suck.

  • @ivantothemax
    @ivantothemax 6 місяців тому +4

    He has more money sitting in his account walking around being homeless than I do working and paying bills 😩😩 bruh I hate it here

    • @y_knot_tri
      @y_knot_tri 6 місяців тому +2

      Well if you weren't paying bills you'd have money sitting around too.

  • @Mrch33ky
    @Mrch33ky 6 місяців тому +7

    Sounds like post-adolescent depression caught up with him at age 22. I barely survived it myself thanks to psychological counseling and meditation. Sounds like he spiralled down further and further over the years of self-treatment. He may have purposely emulated some hippie heroes like Jimmy Hendrix, Janis Joplin and Kurt Cobain who also did not survive PAD and died in their mid-20's.

  • @sharonharris450
    @sharonharris450 6 місяців тому +2

    Please do a story on the Lahaina fire. Your on the right Island.

    • @LaniLanilei
      @LaniLanilei 6 місяців тому +2

      Lahaina is on Maui not Kauai

  • @babstarr9775
    @babstarr9775 6 місяців тому +2

    You see his skateboard videos and he went hard...dang. I wonder if he had hit his head a few too many times.😢

  • @Blackheathenly
    @Blackheathenly 6 місяців тому +4

    I think this is the same reason the Brady family visited Hawaii.

  • @lifetimeactor6789
    @lifetimeactor6789 6 місяців тому +11

    Q- What’s the difference between a conspiracy theory and the truth?
    A- These days it’s about three months.

    • @RetroFilmRush
      @RetroFilmRush 6 місяців тому

      His strange belief in being descended from aliens doesn’t strike me as a “conspiracy theory” since many of those are later found to be at least partially true

  • @markboheman5691
    @markboheman5691 6 місяців тому +2

    “It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again.” Sorry. My mind immediately went to that.

  • @bthomson
    @bthomson 6 місяців тому +8

    Interesting how often musical ability and a tenuous relationship to reality go together. The lifestyle of playing, often late into the night around drugs and alcohol, does not foster health or grounded behavior.

    • @user-mf7nb6fg1b
      @user-mf7nb6fg1b 6 місяців тому

      it's also interesting that a lot of comments here make absolutely no sense ..

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson 6 місяців тому

      I was going to try and list how many musicians have been in rehab multiple times or died early ( the 27 club) but it would be too many. Wish it wasn't true.

  • @mateosimon4237
    @mateosimon4237 6 місяців тому +1

    I remember this case being researched and described as a missing 411 type occurrence

  • @Minimalist-Lifestyle
    @Minimalist-Lifestyle 6 місяців тому +16

    I'm suspicious if he even made it to Hawaii...
    If this fellow really thought he was a Lemurian, then they're looking in the wrong place. Mt. Shasta is the place to look for him. Deep within Shasta is Telos, the rumored hidden City of Light where Lemurians escaped to after the destruction of their island paradise. Lots of New Age types make pilgrimages to Shasta in search of Telos...
    ...It would be really bizarre if his fate is somehow entangled with the disappearance of Davohnte Morgan...the similarities are quite striking.

    • @user-mf7nb6fg1b
      @user-mf7nb6fg1b 6 місяців тому

      well .. I have used the stargate to go from Mt. Shasta to Nibiru numerous times ...

    • @lorenfulghum2393
      @lorenfulghum2393 6 місяців тому

      wrong

    • @pwallace5359
      @pwallace5359 6 місяців тому +4

      I thought they must have records from his flight.

  • @Seawitch907
    @Seawitch907 6 місяців тому +2

    Dr. Grande, you must analyze some of the politicians . I’m sure you know who’s going to be most entertaining 😜

  • @sweeabn6736
    @sweeabn6736 6 місяців тому

    Dr Grande. What you say in the end is true. However, those folks who gave their money will never get it back.