Canceled Wedding Motivates Halloween Home Invasion | Napa Valley Murders Analysis
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Speaking of Halloween......Dr Grande, are you going to treat us to a Halloween-themed shirt? Asking for a friend.
Asking for a friend, love it❤❤❤
He pretty much DOES, every DAY!!
WHAT??? They checked TWO HUNDRED MEN before checking one of their BOYFRIENDS????
Im thinking a cactus with a jack o lantern on top
Haha the Grandemania is like beatlemania, as it should be.
I had to watch this twice to comprehend, that after Eric killed her best friend and another woman, Lilly MARRIED the killer?! I would think murdering a best friend would be a deal breaker.
Yes. There's a forensic files episode about this case that gives a little more detail about what happened with Lily and Eric after this whole thing. When Lily and Eric got married. Lily had the NERVE to invite the victim's parents to the wedding even tho everyone already knew that Eric was most likely the perpetrator. Lily is a POS, just like Eric. They deserve each other.
not if he and others were threatening her
@@carsonsmith8607she absolutely might’ve been in on it
Agreed, Lily sounds absolutely disgusting.
Right…I’m confused as well…
Who needs a friend like Lily?
Halloween frightening entities "children dressed up like Kim Kardashian" 🤣 I adore Dr. Grande's subtle shade lol
😂Didn't see that one coming.
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This was awesome. Love the deadpan delivery too.
Yes! Just posted a similar comment, and have now seen yours! You beat me to it!
This comment made me giggle 😂
At the trial the wife of the murderer said to him "There is nothing you can do which could make me love you less." One of the most horrendous statements I have ever heard.
@decafmocha211 Lily's self-serving statement to her newly convicted husband seems like a virtue signaling two-fer. With or without any false claims of innocence in every aspect of life, her endless love gives him a pass to do the most hideous things to others, but she will stand by her man no matter what happens, that is, until he turns on her. Sounds like the unhealthy and abusive relationships convicted psychopathic predator, porn-addicted pedophile, child and adult rapist, threatening arsonist, animal and human torturer and murderer Steven Avery had throughout his life with his family of origin and extended family, former wife, fiancées, friends, and insane international fans on social media. Just because someone is proven innocent once in a lifetime does not make him or her innocent forever.
Match made in hell
Any normal person would certainly love their SO less, if they found out they had brutally murdered their best friend and their other roommate. This woman sounds like the kind who write to serial killers in prison.
but he was such a "fine man".
She does not want to get deleted too.
Story of yet another person being totally useless in an emergency.
That made me absolutely livid! She heard Adrian crying and dying and LEFT HER THERE! No first aid or anything! Not even sitting by her side and letting her know that help was coming. Adrian died completely alone thats awful!
Side note: her standing at the bottom of the stairs is also wild i mean if youre gonna leave...leave if youre gonna stay get a weapon and do something 😅 even just grabbing a knife and hiding, but like...what was the point of just standing there lmao
@@anomboingNPC.exe has crashed.
Ghosts, skeletons, children dressed up like Kim Kardashian…I’m still laughing. You say these things with a remarkably straight face!!
"One theme of Halloween is how certain entities can be frightening- ghosts, skeletons, zombies, children dressed up as Kim Kardashian." 😆
Doc, your wit is above and beyond!
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Can we talk about how Lily took her tail up there to still defend that monster who ended the life of her best friend?! She is sick and her loyalty is totally misplaced.
I think they are all a waste of oxygen, with the exception of the surviving witness. I'm rather suspicious of monster Lily's best friend, guilt by association you could say. Maybe Adrianne wouldn't have been impressed by Eric's willingness to murder for love but her bestie sure was!
I hope I'm wrong and frankly there isn't enough information in this presentation to make an informed opinion.
Okay?! She triflin’ for that, and it makes me wonder if she already knew he killed her friends. Folks are so twisted.
@@kryssyskloud FACTS!!! I wondered too because standing by that rabid animal convinces me she is sick in the head.
@@kryssyskloudyeah it does make me wonder
Eric must have been good in bed
I know for me there's no way I could stand up and say I still love anyone who did such a thing . Lots of people have a troubled past . It doesn't give them a right to take anyone's life .
This case reminds me of the Idaho murders. I'm sure the roommates got used to hearing people coming and going when they were in bed. So they couldn't be worried every time they heard noises in the house at night. The only thing that didn't make sense was Lauren hearing a scream and not thinking much of it.
I'm surprised more people didn't mention how it's almost like the Idaho murders. I mean there was even the growling, barking dog too.
I can't image choosing to live in a home or apartment where I'd have to lock my bedroom door at night or having to hear people coming and going, no way. It's one thing living in a home where you grew up and maybe as a teen felt like locking your bedroom door at times to keep your idiot brother or sister out, but the hell with living with wild roommates, ugh. Not everybody actually wants that kind of experience to begin with.
@@cynthiamurphy3669I could never.
She thought the scream was sex-related.
@@marthahanley6650 I thought of the Idaho murders immediately as I was listening to Dr. Grande.
"relying on fear to protect people isn't logical. We don't know what lurks beneath even the seemingly nicest of people". As I learn about many murders, the actual killers surprisingly don't look like someone who'd do it.
50% of murders in America are committed by 13% of the population which is black people. The majority of those murders are committed by young males that brings it down to maybe 6% or less? So at least half the time you can see them coming. We just don't talk about it.
That is so true. If you look at images of the top Nazis during World War II they look more like a friend's dad or somebody's grandfather.
Relying on fear is exactly how governments control their citizens. I know you said 'protect', but it's sort of the same.
There is a video interviewing a US federal investigator who specializes in serial killers. He said that most of the time they are just losers and completely unremarkable, like how this killer was described. Some are creepy/scary at most.
@@spOOkytimes Serial killers are of various varieties. BTK Dennis Rader led his church council. The Green River Killer Gary Ridgway' was just a regular blue collar working guy. John Wayne Gacy was a respected business man. NONE of their wives had any idea. Some other Serial killers were creepy types.
Then you have Sociopaths that walk among us that have no empathy but know how to fake it. People who'll stop at nothing to get whatever it is they want. Will kill someone to cover up their own wrong doings, get rid of a spouse for insurance etc.
What’s remarkable is, I loathe commercials, all commercials, but somehow actually listening to yours is quite enjoyable. Signed, a hopeless victim of Grandemania ❤
Eww🤢
The ad with the lady taking out her fake teeth is unappealing.
@@katie0303 Haven’t seen that one, but I’ll take your word for it :)
I like his ad where his cute little white dog is in the background. It was for meals that are delivered to you.
Somewhere out there is a perpetrator who watched you analyze their case and is like ‘damn this guy nailed it’
Probably many more than one! 👫👬👭
Me 🙋🏼♀️ It was me. He hit the nail on the head with my "O.C.E.A.N." personality characteristics!
The best friend sucks! How can she stand by him? 🤮
Good lord. 200 romantic partners I think she needed her own place. As a 6’ 245 lbs man - I wouldn’t feel comfortable with that many people coming and going from my residence.
Yes, it was certainly a busy house. And yet there are still smug knobs in the comments who are blaming Lauren for not acting soon enough - she was obviously used to some noises in the night often enough - and then for her being scared and reacting on it.
@@It-is-me...Melsie true. Honestly, unless it was my kids or mom - I would have locked my room and called the police. She was brave enough to go to the stairs.
@@PatS.1976 Yes, my thoughts too. If it was my son I'd be running to him even if the intruder was still in the house - he's possibly the only one on earth who I'd completely disregard any danger to myself for - but I think for anything else my fear would take over. It must have been very scary going up those stairs.
Not sure what your sex and size even has to do with it.
@markmike7933 because every man over 6' and 200 lbs is a total hard ass and not afraid of anything at all, doy. Lol I thought the same think. Classic mansplain lol.
Never mind the fact that at 6' and 245 lbs, his BMI would be about 33, which is firmly in the obese category. Irony is fun.
So she had motion alarms but her first guess was "it must be a cat". Then, the alarm became useless 😢
Well perhaps. But it's not her fault if cat activity makes them useless.
Dogs that alert are also solid alarm systems. The dog also got ignored. I can easily ignore the motion light, but not the dog.
I had those alarms too, it went off with an ant, never again
motion detectors detect motion from anything..cats. raccoons, even the wind blowing branches.
An absolutely awful crime. He was such a piece of utter crap.
How many of these cases involve infidelity, cheating, multiple partners, jealousy, etc...?
And alcohol!
But this case did not involve any of those things
Sad story, i don't see how the police went so long before they became aware of Eric.
How long was it?
It doesn't get much weirder than this tragedy. Don't trust people too much and don't leave doors and windows unlocked. Thank you again Dr. Grande 🙏
People should be careful when out jogging or just doing errands when they have earbuds in! You can't be alert to your environment!
@@michelleA9502 I totally agree with you
" i guess everything worked out for Eric in the end, except for the double homicide part" 😂
Alot of wealth in NAPA. A beauty queen in that area with suitors giving her money should have had her own place. I find it truly bizarre that she had two room mates.
Yeah, maybe, but being a beuty queen isn't usually lucrative. Men giving gifts doesn't pay the rent, especially in an expensive area. Also, 26 isn't that old.
@@dogtrainer4645 I agree the title of Beauty queen in itself is not a money maker. Also some exceptionally attractive women aren’t even comfortable with all the male attention. But Leslie clearly was. Coupled with the fact that she worked at a winery (as opposed to Dollar Tree) where she interacted with men who had considerable disposable income. It’s realistic to conclude that she could have had a “sponsor” or three willing to help finance an apartment.
Maybe she lived with roommates for safety reasons or due to the area not having available 1 bd places.
"Suitors"
I remember this case being covered on Forensic Files.
Congrats!
Always watch the quiet ones!
“Children dressing up as Kim K” ha! Love your sense of humor!
good ole blackouts 🙄🙄😤
Dr. Grande, I found a channel a while back of a man who talks about graphic murders that happened in New York. There's one I couldn't finish watching about a man who beheaded a bar owner. I would love to hear your thoughts on how can a person go this far in the midst of addiction. Here is the title of the video, "Forced To Cut Off Her Colleagues Head - The Night Of Horror In Queens" by Evil Intentions. To be quite honest, I commend this man, I don't know how he gets through these stories without having nightmares. I've been sober now for over 32 years of my life, I don't think I can ever do something like this, but how far does addiction go in the rabbit hole of crime?
Much Respect, for your sobriety ✌️
Congrats on your sobriety.
Depends on the drug of choice and/or what your doc is spiked with.
Congrats on choosing sobriety, every day.
Your voice always leaves me feeling like I've just been to a good therapy session. Thank you
I remember watching the Forensic Files episode of this case a long time ago.
200 dudes had to provide dna?!
At that point the house is really just a brothel.
I’m getting vibes of the Idaho murders.
Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande! Your true fans love your humor and sarcasm!
Her "vigorous interest in dating..." lmao
"Children dressed up as Kim Kardashian" ... OMG! I literally guffawed when I heard that! 😂
That’s fantastic… and so scary … those lethal Brazilian Butt Lifts
Usually I hate advertisements, however when our doctor speaks, I love them. 😊
It's a good thing this discount Michael Myers was dumb enough to smoke his Turkish Camels at the crime scene.
This keeps occurring, this, "I can't take no for an answer, so I must destroy you."
Cannot tell what you are trying to say.
@@eadweard. you have made this exact same comment under multiple peoples responses.
@@Catglittercrafts I've written it under the ones where I cannot tell what they are trying to say.
Being a Kardashian or having my son's one day possibly marry one if their offspring is perhaps my greatest fear 😂
Dr. Grande you truly are a delight😂
My kids marrying “celebrities” have never ever crossed my mind. Glad I’m simple. Lol
'Children dressed up as Kim Kardashian..." 😂 You're hilarious. This case is so terrifying and disturbing, this is something out of my worst nightmare...I just got up outta bed now to make sure all of my windows are locked. 😳 I can't imagine the terror these women felt. Thank you again for another interesting video, Dr. Grande. ❤
Lesson learned: Choose your roommates carefully and remember that each one comes with their own circle of friends and lovers or even stalkers that could on rare occasion prove to be deadly, like the Idaho murders!
That one would have been difficult to predict though.
How would anyone know that a roommates friend’s fiancé would come in the house and murder you. No one saw it coming. It wasn’t indicative of anything Adrianne did.
True, In this case it wasn't. I do however feel that people need to be super careful in general when choosing roommates.@@DottieMinerva
True. @@It-is-me...Melsie
@dissidentfairy4264 Those were my exact thoughts.
If people could control themselves Dr Grande would be out of work!
This case still makes me sad.
"A ghost of a chance. " You are hilarious 😂.
Lily sounds like a FOOL
Isn't she just! Clearly with not just low standards but perhaps none!
I wonder where she is today.
@@It-is-me...Melsiemaybe VISITING him in jail. Such an idiot
@@It-is-me...Melsie Whatever it is, she certainly doesn't deserve a happy ending. She's a crappy person and she's very much responsible for this mess too. She put everyone at risk by being so pathetic and codependent. It's infuriating.
Want to bring men over? Get your own place! Don't put your flatmates in that kind of situation having strangers in and out of the house. That should be rule number one in a shared house: go to a hotel.
Agree. With all the money she was getting could afford her own place. The more strangers the more danger.
True, but you're far more likely to be murdered by someone you know.@@sunnydelight5255
Thanks for another thrilling video. Could you analyze the case of Mary Bailey? She was married to an abusive husband and convinced her young daughter to murder him. There’s a lifetime movie on it but I would rather watch your take on it.
God how much is this like the Idaho murders.
I'm so sorry for what Lauren went through. I hope she has healed and rebuilt her life. Home invasions are horrible, but add murder. She did the smart thing. I'm so sorry for her ordeal and the loss of her friends.
What people do to people.
As soon as you showed Eric's photo...😬
The Kim Kardashian costume comment -hilarious!!!! 😂😂😂😂
I have never been this early to a video being dropped.
Fun isn't it!🤗
Welcome! Plenty of room, grab a seat!
Yessss king go off
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Lauren made all of the wrong assumptions…
Very intriguing case! Thank you for reviewing it, Dr. Grande.❤
Pleeeeeaaaaase tell me that Lily isn't still married to this monster? Or is she one of those women who fill the emptiness in their lives by devoting themselves to loving and defending a murderer?
The dog didn’t make any assumptions, it growled because something was up. My dog went crazy one night. The neighbour got up to yell at him. I know this because the neighbour came to see us the next morning to tell us that we had a wonderful dog and he could bark all day and all night as far as he was concerned. He had gone out to yell at Toby only to discover two thieves trying to steal his car. He frightened them off.
We miss you beautiful, protective, intelligent Toby. RIP.
"...children dressed up as Kim Kardashian" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I totally enjoy your channel in particular your sense of humor!
What a horror story.😢
Poor Kim & New Jersey don't have a chance with Dr. Grabde
I adore your play on words. Keep up the good work Dr. Grande!
the Halloween themed puns at the end!❤
As always, thanks, Doc!
An outbreak of the shadow aspect. Such a contrast to Eric's persona.
Great analysis for upcoming Halloween!
Always interesting
Thank you
Peace
Thank you Sr. Grande!
Ooh, wheee! Dr Grande time! :)
Thanks!
Such a sad case again, but very interesting. Thank you. ( I always love your dry humour - eg the children dressed as KK. Very scary indeed!)
Interesting & strange case again. Great analysis & quips. Thanks Dr G😊🤎🤎
Perfect content for drama addicts. Dr Grande could you make a video about addiction to drama?
Dr Grande - endlessly supplying us with grizzly tales, fascinating insights, and magnificent wit.
Happy Halloween 🎃
I really enjoyed this video! I've heard this case so many times however you really dug into the info.... A real DEEP DIVE!!! Great Job Dr Grande!!!..... Thanks for your effort to Quality Work.....!!
I think it would be interesting to hear Dr. Grande speak about the Jennifer Freed, PhD Astrologer "incident"
You are stellar. That Kim K reference. Stellar. YOU ROCK.
Very interesting, tragic case.
I love Calistoga! I got a chance to visit a couple fo years ago and it was beautiful!!!
It's October
Witch season
Will you ever do a Carlos Casteneda analysis?
Watching these and trying to figure out where the dramatic sting would be in a cable TV retelling. Most of the time it's the boyfriend's mugshot lol.
What's a dramatic sting?
@@eadweard. like the *DUNNNNNN* noise they play in movies or TV shows when something dramatic happens.
LOL, love your scary theme for childrens costumes!
Good one! 😅
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Thank you for covering this case for us, Dr. Grande.❤ I found the video
Interesting and informative and it means a lot to me, as do all your videos.❤ We look forward to learning from your case studies every day.❤ And we also look forward to your Grande zingers included in most videos. Thanks, Grande!❤
So so true I could not have said or expressed it any better than you had amazing AMAZING WORK !
-side note: thanks Doc 👍☺️
The only fertilizer in Eric’s story was the bulls-t he spread to avoid responsibility
Ohhh man , I remember this case!! 😔
There were too many people coming in and out of this house. These people were not college students and there was a negative undercurrent running through the activities with some house members. Most people upon entering this house would run for the hills.
Grande zingers! Dressing up like Kim Kardashian is truly the scariest thing ever!😂😂
"children dressed up as Kim Kardashian" lmao i was listening and making breakfast, when I heard that I turned my head so fast to look at his face during his deadpan delivery lol
Two minutes in: _"Here's this guy's mugshot."_
I adore your humour 😂❤
Well now we all know how to scare Dr. G, so I'll be selling the all-new Kardashian Costume Kit, complete with a pair of water balloons, a gallon of lip gloss, and Dr. G's Halloween whereabouts if anyone's interested.
Dr. Grande I think I have that exact same shirt. Excellent! Hey thanks for covering this one. I hope you have a great weekend!
I’m from Anderson, SC. I never thought I’d hear my hometown uttered on UA-cam.
Dr. Grande, could you examine the matter of Jim Schnick, a case of family annihilation, double lives and family inheritance in Elkland, Missouri back in 1987? Very interested in your take on this one. Thanks.
12:23 hahahaha love the on-running joke
This case was so gruesome and terrifying, especially when you learn the details.
This was a sad one. They're all sad. There is so much horror going on that it is just amazing humans haven't gone extinct yet.
Don't be silly.
@@eadweard. well, it's very depressing what people do to each other!
Only a matter of time.
Dang. What an awful story. The human’s capacity to fall into uncontrollable rage is truly frightening. Happy Halloween??!!