1. Make your partner feel safe and comfortable 2. Listen to the breath of your partner, as the breathing increases in intensity so do you (like the shifting gears metaphor, shift up when her breathing gets heavier or faster). Keep a steady and predictable rhythm but shift gears to a slightly higher intensity when her breathing tells you to. Learning to read energy helps a lot too.
CORRECTION and CLARIFICATION 3:09: Dr Wilder G Penfield -In 1928, Penfield accepted an invitation from Sir Vincent Meredith to move to Montreal, Quebec, Canada. There, Penfield taught at McGill University, and not Universite de Montréal as Dr Komisaurack said. He was a neurosurgeon at the Royal Victoria Hospital, becoming the city's first neurosurgeon. Later on, he went on to co-found the Montreal Neurological Institute at McGill University. The institute was part of McGill’s downtown campus and was attached to the Royal Victoria Hospital. The RVH has since moved from that location. With regards to brain surgery, the practice of having the patient conscious during the procedure is common for the reasons that were given in your interview. The patient is sedated and sleepy while part of their skull is removed at the beginning of the surgery, and also when doctors reattach the skull at the end of the surgery. During the surgery, the anesthesiologist will stop administering the sedative medications and allow them to wake up.
Some men are sensitive enough to register a woman's reaction to certain motions, momentum and being in the zone. Young men have had their first experiences through masturbation and transfer without thinking that behaviour. If you as a man care for 'your partner' and sense the flexible responses, you can reach in-sync as a couple and not to each their own. CAT and then when plateau also cervix and rhythm, energy/strength not force but hey each one can be sensed without being tooo mechanically written but felt. I like this combination of the two here talking though. Well done.
You can't just start out with fast pounding. Women do like it, but you have you work up to it. I lost my virginity at 16 and luckily I had a gf who had no problems telling me exactly what she wanted and when. I learned a lot from her.
@@oldscratch3535 lol, I am happy for you. Two sisters of mine in their youth did so to their pick-ups from the dance floors and .... to my sisters disappointments ... the dudes both left before things came to fruition. Your gf was more intuitive than my sisters (I know 🤫)
At the end of the day - as long as your hitting multiple spots and sensitive areas all at the same time, you're probably going to be doing a good job to satisfy your partner.
That mapping study is mind boggling. I like the parts of his explinations where Rena had a "hellooooo" look on her face. Lol. Note to self: Slosh in rhythm. Thanks for sharing, your videos are always informative.
Doctor: * explains neurobiological facts and specific experiments that have been done to explain which brain regions react to which stimulation * Random YT guy: doesn't everyone know this? Sure bro
Didn't Freud say the clitoral orgasm was an immature orgasm and the vaginal organism as more mature one. And in both cases this was men telling women what they should be feeling?
So refreshing to see an interesting, smart and easy on the eyes get excited about human needs. She tears the mask off women's indifference to her own body and I sure wish women would notice her. I've been lucky to know a few aware ones. Ease up and let a natural man get close. Good men are standing by! What a time we live in. So much potential!
I am not sure I’ve met any women indifferent to their bodies! I have, however known some who have known men who were indifferent about the woman’s body aside from how they (men) derived pleasure from it.
I've had my scalp cut on during a very minor surgery before. It is very odd sensation. The local anesthesia made sure I didn't experience pain of course but I still felt pressure and tugging. The worst part was you can hear it. It sounded and felt like a zipper and fabric tearing.
What affects does hysterectomy cause related to these things? My wife had one and before that, she had nipple sensitivity, after, nothing. Also, i can stimulate her g spor or her clitoris individually with pleasurable results, but if i stimulate both at the same time, this kills all pleasure.
Interesting. So the ear connection leads to an explanation of why whispering in someone's ear is erotic... And there are women who find that breast feeding arouses them. Section on timing is something we should all know about.
Fascinating research-based findings. And as an aside, did the Penfield experiment inspire the macabre scene with Ray Liotta and Anthony Hopkins in the film "Hannibal?"
Nice to feel a little bit more confident with information on the good Doctor’s channel. So much poor information on these topics that people are quick to buy in on. Thanks for the science based information.
Wow thanks, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
Conversation and information.. is extremely informative to humanity and understanding to how it all intertwines...for a better quality of life for concerned.. definitely tapping into another dimension of intelligence..I congratulate you dr r . Malik
@@counterbalancelife4305 Haha probably not. But there must be a difference. I don't think stimulating my nipples does anything to me but i could be wrong...
Thanks for the video. The ideas are interesting. I'm skeptical about this guy driving a manual transmission car. Either he's very good or he's never driven one. The first time a friend tried to teach me to drive a manual transmission, we were on a slight uphill. I tried and tried and tried to get the thing to go, but it would die every time. Everyone had a good laugh over the situation. The car was one of those old "three on the tree" models with the gear shift on the steering column and no indicator of the actual gear. When I finally gave up and said I couldn't drive a manual transmission, He got behind the wheel again. His first try didn't work, and then he said, "Oh, we had you in third gear." There were a couple of times that I got the car going a few inches forward, but starting in third gear just wasn't possible. At that point, I was too disgusted to try again. I've driven manual transmission cars a few times, and if I start in first gear, I can get one to go. Getting one to go from third gear still seems impossible to me.
Don't know about the 3rd gear but I can confirm that it's possible on 2nd gear. I found myself in that situation, slightly uphill, with cars behind me, a gearbox where the first gear had just "died" and the traffic lights just turning green. I had to give it a try before switching the hazard lights on, calling car- rescue and listening to all those people behind swearing at me. Luckily, it worked!
@@mariapap8962 That's great! How many gears did your car have? Maybe it wouldn't have been so bad if third gear hadn't been the highest gear in my friend's car. Either way, I applaud your skill. I'm not sure that I would ever be coordinated enough to get a manual transmission car started going uphill in second gear. Granted, I've only tried to drive manual transmissions a few times. If someone asks, I always say that I can't drive a manual even though I've technically done it a few times.
That A-spot is deep, for me it's right above the cervix. When you doing it you have to rock and not punch it, plus it would feel good and snug like a cap on your head.
@@davidorawe3931 The same way she rock in cowgirl, do the same in missionary by physically lifting her up and down, pretty much rocking her. Depending on your shape, I have to put a pillow under her.
Interesting I thought this was going to be another stretching or exercise video and I was surprised to learn that our sexual health begins in the prefrontal cortex and your attitude and behaviors affect it also. No wonder I'm decent sized..... be a good person. Thanks.
Interesting that as an often overlooked erogenous zone, anal stimulation wasn't explored in combination with the others. Or was it? And just not discussed? On it's own can cause orgasm and combined with stimulation of the G spot through anal penetration has led to female ejaculation (or squirting).
You thought you mastered the G Spot? Wait till you hear about your body's largest expansion to date. Time to master previously unknown content. Explore and master new lands: A spot and C spot. You and your partners flesh awaits you.
U just have to get the right rhythm going and that will kick start the chain reaction and then u will have a lot of slushing and spraying everywhere.⛓️💦
Interesting science. Now, how the stimulation is delivered is the next topic. One would think geometry and space are relevant: sufficient penile girth and length to create pressure and reach these spots. Again, size may be important. An uncomfortable topic but....
It should be a woman who explained the way rhythm applies to sexual intercourse, and the remark that women get more orgasms by clitoral stimulation is not emphasized enough. There are saying that the only kind of orgasm is clitoral, and that the vaginal stimulation is not giving orgasm but simply is an act of accepting the partner and because the area also tugs and draws on the clitoral hood and clitoral area the clitoris "signals" now it is OK to get an orgasm. Also, Malik, you must describe how different muscular reactions there are to male and female orgasms. I know my language isn't perfect, I am not used to write on this subject, but I hope you get the meaning and will work on describing what actual happens in the muscular system.
Being touched in the cervix isn't a bad experience if partner is going in rough or abrasive. Cervix like to be touched after woman is already fully aroused. And then gentle touch or light grinding pressure will feel good to the cervix. Some women have to get used to this.
Women store trauma in the cervix. It needs to be gently unlocked. It’s a process that the both of you need to be involved in but there’s plenty of guides for it here on youtube.
Why do we need a PHd to explain how to get a woman off? Not every woman is the exact same and they change over time. If you study a woman you will learn what she likes, and if you continue to do so you will be a-breast of any changes. This why after 25 years of marriage my wife’s average O count increased and she has. ever gotten board of or said no to sex.
Wow Spookey i was only just discussing the importance of Rythmn & momentum with my partner this morning 😇 in order to achieve climax. Already a subscriber to Dr Rena, but what a coincidence - great discussion thank you both x
Thanks for watching! Check out the full interview here: ua-cam.com/video/8k8tGFaSsvc/v-deo.html
This society is sooooo lacking in good sexual education! THANKS!!
1. Make your partner feel safe and comfortable
2. Listen to the breath of your partner, as the breathing increases in intensity so do you (like the shifting gears metaphor, shift up when her breathing gets heavier or faster). Keep a steady and predictable rhythm but shift gears to a slightly higher intensity when her breathing tells you to. Learning to read energy helps a lot too.
Best sex education on UA-cam. Thanks Dr Malik. You are the best. I am learning things I wish I knew 3 decades ago.
Love how he said “Another area is just above the ear canal opening”, and Dr Malik reaches up and touches her ear. Keep up the good work guys!
How many of us did the same? I did! :)
Didn't you? 😄
Whispering sweet nothings!
What about the "toes".. wake up!!!..time to step out of childhood..and progress to woman hood..
and don't forget to warm up the engine first!
I heard about G spot, now C spot and A spot? this is soon turning into guitar hero.
❤🎉🪨 🎸 🤘 😅🎉❤
And there was menioning of the ears and the toes ... E-Spot .. T-Spot ..
😂
the g spot connected to the a spot and the a spot connected to the c spot
song practically writes itself . .
Just don’t B flat!
❤ *I've been married to my wife for 20 years this week and I've finally found the G Spot.*
Turns out her sister had it all along.
😆😂🤣
🤣😂🤣🤦
😂😂😂
@@Eddybo22 🤦
@@Martin_Priesthood ?
Wait so now we need to hit the cervix too 😢
Another cry baby 🐥🍼
I know most people will probably think wtf, but lick your partner's ear (make sure it's clean!) and watch what happens. They will go CRAZY.
CORRECTION and CLARIFICATION 3:09:
Dr Wilder G Penfield -In 1928, Penfield accepted an invitation from Sir Vincent Meredith to move to Montreal, Quebec, Canada. There, Penfield taught at McGill University, and not Universite de Montréal as Dr Komisaurack said. He was a neurosurgeon at the Royal Victoria Hospital, becoming the city's first neurosurgeon. Later on, he went on to co-found the Montreal Neurological Institute at McGill University. The institute was part of McGill’s downtown campus and was attached to the Royal Victoria Hospital. The RVH has since moved from that location.
With regards to brain surgery, the practice of having the patient conscious during the procedure is common for the reasons that were given in your interview.
The patient is sedated and sleepy while part of their skull is removed at the beginning of the surgery, and also when doctors reattach the skull at the end of the surgery. During the surgery, the anesthesiologist will stop administering the sedative medications and allow them to wake up.
Is that why Q-tips feel so good?
OMG, that experiment is wild.
I call my wife, my lil love puddle ... jaja, she loves it. And I love her.
Dont sweet spots vary from person to person so i feel like it still needs a lot of self discovering instead of relying on scientific data lol
SHE WAS ASKED WELL WHAT DID IT FEEL LIKE, HER REPLY I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU DO IT AGAIN
Question, Is the Rythm related to breathing or pulse rate, that increase with exitation?
Amen. I find that young men think that fast pounding is going to be successful while older men understand how momentum and rhythm work.
Some men are sensitive enough to register a woman's reaction to certain motions, momentum and being in the zone. Young men have had their first experiences through masturbation and transfer without thinking that behaviour. If you as a man care for 'your partner' and sense the flexible responses, you can reach in-sync as a couple and not to each their own. CAT and then when plateau also cervix and rhythm, energy/strength not force but hey each one can be sensed without being tooo mechanically written but felt. I like this combination of the two here talking though. Well done.
You can't just start out with fast pounding. Women do like it, but you have you work up to it.
I lost my virginity at 16 and luckily I had a gf who had no problems telling me exactly what she wanted and when. I learned a lot from her.
@@oldscratch3535 lol, I am happy for you. Two sisters of mine in their youth did so to their pick-ups from the dance floors and .... to my sisters disappointments ... the dudes both left before things came to fruition. Your gf was more intuitive than my sisters (I know 🤫)
Men like fire, women water, water take time to boil
At the end of the day - as long as your hitting multiple spots and sensitive areas all at the same time, you're probably going to be doing a good job to satisfy your partner.
That mapping study is mind boggling. I like the parts of his explinations where Rena had a "hellooooo" look on her face. Lol. Note to self: Slosh in rhythm. Thanks for sharing, your videos are always informative.
I love watching an old guy explain things about the female body that I, a lesbian, have known for years
Definitely using this info to my advantage
Excellent topic Docs!!!!! Enjoy the rest of your week Doc!!!!!❤
I'm listening thinking "doesn't every guy know this?" and then I read the comments and realize what a valuable service this channel is.
But wait a minute.. tell me what you don't have a clue!!! . if you really knew..then you would share your wealth of knowledge with mankind!...
Doctor: * explains neurobiological facts and specific experiments that have been done to explain which brain regions react to which stimulation *
Random YT guy: doesn't everyone know this?
Sure bro
What would you like to know..I will gladly enlighten.. for the sake of abolishing confusion..
@@Mc12136to be fair, I was also thinking, "Wait, do other guys not know about these spots?" 😂
Holy crap, bring this guy back on to talk about his friend who peeled off ur scalp and sawed open ur brain. 🧠 😳
Didn't Freud say the clitoral orgasm was an immature orgasm and the vaginal organism as more mature one. And in both cases this was men telling women what they should be feeling?
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I almost turned it off when he said cut the Skull open. Oh my God.
Exactly. What the hell.🙄
She's not dead,a brave soul for empirical research for profound knowledge on female orgasm.
So refreshing to see an interesting, smart and easy on the eyes get excited about human needs. She tears the mask off women's indifference to her own body and I sure wish women would notice her. I've been lucky to know a few aware ones. Ease up and let a natural man get close. Good men are standing by! What a time we live in. So much potential!
I am not sure I’ve met any women indifferent to their bodies! I have, however known some who have known men who were indifferent about the woman’s body aside from how they (men) derived pleasure from it.
Everyday I find a new way to disappoint a woman. Cool cool, cool cool cool
Wow! I feel like ive just been given all the infinity stones 😅
I've had my scalp cut on during a very minor surgery before. It is very odd sensation.
The local anesthesia made sure I didn't experience pain of course but I still felt pressure and tugging.
The worst part was you can hear it. It sounded and felt like a zipper and fabric tearing.
What affects does hysterectomy cause related to these things? My wife had one and before that, she had nipple sensitivity, after, nothing. Also, i can stimulate her g spor or her clitoris individually with pleasurable results, but if i stimulate both at the same time, this kills all pleasure.
The combo could be too much stimulation at one time???
A very informative professional discussion. Thanks!
Interesting. So the ear connection leads to an explanation of why whispering in someone's ear is erotic...
And there are women who find that breast feeding arouses them.
Section on timing is something we should all know about.
Great subject choice
One of the best videos on the phisiological aspects of sexual education I have seen.
Fascinating research-based findings. And as an aside, did the Penfield experiment inspire the macabre scene with Ray Liotta and Anthony Hopkins in the film "Hannibal?"
Nice to feel a little bit more confident with information on the good Doctor’s channel. So much poor information on these topics that people are quick to buy in on. Thanks for the science based information.
Wow thanks, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
Conversation and information.. is extremely informative to humanity and understanding to how it all intertwines...for a better quality of life for concerned.. definitely tapping into another dimension of intelligence..I congratulate you dr r . Malik
So is there a relationship issue where the solution is *not* communication?
Grandpa's be Knowing
so the male nipples are innervated differently? love the swing comparison btw
So if a man identifies as a woman it instantly rewires...
@@counterbalancelife4305 Haha probably not. But there must be a difference. I don't think stimulating my nipples does anything to me but i could be wrong...
@alexlackner1945 Some men have more nipple sensation than others, as do women.
Dr. Bodansky's books on extended climaxes
Pure science-proven wisdom! ☝️
He is so adorable, but so explicit in the same time!
Thanks for the video. The ideas are interesting.
I'm skeptical about this guy driving a manual transmission car. Either he's very good or he's never driven one. The first time a friend tried to teach me to drive a manual transmission, we were on a slight uphill. I tried and tried and tried to get the thing to go, but it would die every time. Everyone had a good laugh over the situation. The car was one of those old "three on the tree" models with the gear shift on the steering column and no indicator of the actual gear. When I finally gave up and said I couldn't drive a manual transmission, He got behind the wheel again. His first try didn't work, and then he said, "Oh, we had you in third gear." There were a couple of times that I got the car going a few inches forward, but starting in third gear just wasn't possible. At that point, I was too disgusted to try again. I've driven manual transmission cars a few times, and if I start in first gear, I can get one to go. Getting one to go from third gear still seems impossible to me.
Don't know about the 3rd gear but I can confirm that it's possible on 2nd gear. I found myself in that situation, slightly uphill, with cars behind me, a gearbox where the first gear had just "died" and the traffic lights just turning green. I had to give it a try before switching the hazard lights on, calling car- rescue and listening to all those people behind swearing at me. Luckily, it worked!
@@mariapap8962 That's great! How many gears did your car have? Maybe it wouldn't have been so bad if third gear hadn't been the highest gear in my friend's car. Either way, I applaud your skill. I'm not sure that I would ever be coordinated enough to get a manual transmission car started going uphill in second gear. Granted, I've only tried to drive manual transmissions a few times. If someone asks, I always say that I can't drive a manual even though I've technically done it a few times.
Anyone else find it a little odd that it's a guy explaining women's anatomy and sexuality to a woman? 😅
It is odd if you see him just as a man and her as just a woman. They're more than just men and women. He's a doctor.
That A-spot is deep, for me it's right above the cervix. When you doing it you have to rock and not punch it, plus it would feel good and snug like a cap on your head.
Side to side or forward and back?
@@davidorawe3931 The same way she rock in cowgirl, do the same in missionary by physically lifting her up and down, pretty much rocking her. Depending on your shape, I have to put a pillow under her.
No in and out, stay in her and lift her up and down.
@@georgestill2473 Ah ok. I do like to do something similar.
SOUNDS WONDERFUL
Anyone who didn't know about the A and C spot never read the Bible.
Ezekiel 23.20. 😂😂😂
Interesting I thought this was going to be another stretching or exercise video and I was surprised to learn that our sexual health begins in the prefrontal cortex and your attitude and behaviors affect it also. No wonder I'm decent sized..... be a good person. Thanks.
An implant is the NUCLEAR option and is irreversible. All other options should be exhausted first. These procedures can and do go wrong.
Interesting that as an often overlooked erogenous zone, anal stimulation wasn't explored in combination with the others.
Or was it? And just not discussed?
On it's own can cause orgasm and combined with stimulation of the G spot through anal penetration has led to female ejaculation (or squirting).
A,GBDU ,spots. Once I got into one of those spots.
Week leather I felt like pickle in the barrel.
You thought you mastered the G Spot? Wait till you hear about your body's largest expansion to date. Time to master previously unknown content. Explore and master new lands: A spot and C spot. You and your partners flesh awaits you.
Interesting stimulation concept 🤔 Thank You Dr. Malik 😊
Thanks so basically just stimulate every part and erogenous zone we can lol
Summary of the video: Just stimulate all the spots same time - A-spot, B-spot, C-spot,....Y-spot, Z-spot
Maybe... this is why cleaning your ear with a q-tip feels so good.
WOW, just amazing and informative to me as a man and someone interestes in biology.
Loooove this!! Keep it going
Yes, faster, faster.
Don’t stop!!!
Sloshing might not have been the best choice of words for this topic 😂
Imagine how Penfield would've convinced a volunteer to agree for his research work.
Verry verry intresting
This is great! Can you also do the male erogenous zones and sexual points? For men and gay men’s information
U just have to get the right rhythm going and that will kick start the chain reaction and then u will have a lot of slushing and spraying everywhere.⛓️💦
You confirmed everything I already knew all along.
Great analogies
Where was the A spot discussion?
The A spot is near the G spot side and a little deeper than the G spot.
@@armandoalaniz Basically in front of the cervix, towards the stomach.
@@armandoalanizI thought the g spot was just about q inches into the vagina in the middle and not the side? Then the a spot is deeper still? Thx.
Starts off with people should this.
It’s not like this is public knowledge.
Interesting science. Now, how the stimulation is delivered is the next topic. One would think geometry and space are relevant: sufficient penile girth and length to create pressure and reach these spots. Again, size may be important. An uncomfortable topic but....
Yes. Very important
Spot On!
What happens to the people who loose there scull caps ?
It should be a woman who explained the way rhythm applies to sexual intercourse, and the remark that women get more orgasms by clitoral stimulation is not emphasized enough. There are saying that the only kind of orgasm is clitoral, and that the vaginal stimulation is not giving orgasm but simply is an act of accepting the partner and because the area also tugs and draws on the clitoral hood and clitoral area the clitoris "signals" now it is OK to get an orgasm. Also, Malik, you must describe how different muscular reactions there are to male and female orgasms.
I know my language isn't perfect, I am not used to write on this subject, but I hope you get the meaning and will work on describing what actual happens in the muscular system.
NCTUGACPOK
Im the 1000th like on this video yay! 👍
9:31 crazy analogy
So, no-one watches Friends any more? Season 4, episode 11
Monica: 7, 7, 7, 7!
SEVENNNNN
Mantak chia is the master.
Great information, thanks 😎
This is great stuff
Sorry two clinical for me right from the start
?🌚
As a man I have very sensitive nips, really can't understand how guys could not notice they're fun to play with?
Because for most men even though they’ve tried, it doesn’t produce any good feelings
@@titaa56 Must be doing it wrong.. :P It's not tuning a radio ya know!
It doesn't do anything for me. It's not sexual or erotic to me in any way.
@@oldscratch3535 Then I'm sorry for you :(
Men talking about female orgasm makes me laugh
That's quite sad
barbaric research cited.
Somebody had to do it
Not barbaric they had anesthesia. No pain
And gave consent I'm sure
You'd consider a lot of surgery barbaric by this logic.
Look into it more 😅
@@carolcooper3138History is filled with research that would not be done today for ethical reasons.
what if you bang the bath water really hard hard with no rhythm, couldn't you get some water to splash out it the tub
Not if the tub is deep enough 😅
Spit it out man
U to
Time x
Once again, i leave the video more confused than before entering it
That hit D Spot! 🤣🤣🤣
Women are built different, min doesn't like to be touched on the cervix
Being touched in the cervix isn't a bad experience if partner is going in rough or abrasive.
Cervix like to be touched after woman is already fully aroused. And then gentle touch or light grinding pressure will feel good to the cervix.
Some women have to get used to this.
Women store trauma in the cervix. It needs to be gently unlocked. It’s a process that the both of you need to be involved in but there’s plenty of guides for it here on youtube.
Ok Dr Freud just what we need another man telling us about female orgasms.
Where is the male nerve test?
Males don't have as much nerves as women do.
Orgasms got us kicked out of Eden.
Why do we need a PHd to explain how to get a woman off? Not every woman is the exact same and they change over time. If you study a woman you will learn what she likes, and if you continue to do so you will be a-breast of any changes. This why after 25 years of marriage my wife’s average O count increased and she has. ever gotten board of or said no to sex.
Wow Spookey i was only just discussing the importance of Rythmn & momentum with my partner this morning 😇 in order to achieve climax.
Already a subscriber to Dr Rena, but what a coincidence - great discussion thank you both x