If you look at Joe Dispenza’s work you’ll understand why you should not waste your semen on porn… instead use that Kundalini energy for your pineal gland to access higher states of consciousness
@@demarcusds95 most of the info in his books is available in his interviews/podcasts. While giving you some insights he ultimately tries to upsell you... selling meditation dvds with ad breaks like really??
What's evil is the propaganda of Kundalini that was brought into america by Yogi Bhajan. The true knowledge in the western culture is Holy Spirit and it activates on its own through good without having to force it, chase it or do weird practices to active it. Just pray deeply to God everyday and it will activate in you in non detrimental ways that can drive you crazy like in the kundalini teachings @@alsahib3768
I love that He uses phrases like, "We're not sure, but this is what we THINK is happening" Instead of Here's what that means for you. Confessing to not knowing things for sure is a sign of higher intelligence.
He comes across as more grounded and balanced in applying his spiritual practices and education/profession then the typical extremes of abandoning one because of the other or playing the cash grab game of pretending one validates people giving you money for the other
Sweets, sugar, chocolate, watermelon nahi khayege to hum hawas /kaam vaasna se dur ho jayege. Ragi soup piyo. 💪💪👍 1 saal se brahmacharya ka palan kar raha hu.
It is needed ...POINT of Evolution ...So he says JIVE TALKING . Esoterics without Practice ...Effective Practice ...Is NONSENSE I have all that and more .....but didn't find my Twin ..So it's rubbish as this ...😂
if all that energy youre saving up you dont use for something else, its gonna give trouble, yes. your body in most cases will expel it on its own through wet dreams to save itself. you gotta move that energy around otherwise there is no point in retention. imho
Been limiting ejaculation (not necessarily orgasam) since I was 28 (I’m now 44). The idea was well known and discussed in the Nor Cal hippie/new age/festie circles when I was in my 20’s. I have more energy, focus, drive, ambition, sex drive, a deeper voice, peace, health, and I look (not my opinion here) 10 years younger than my age. IDK, I’m going to continue… I’ve learned to orgasam without ejaculation, but it took some time exploring and learning this. Maybe I actually ejaculate a couple times a month, but I orgasam closer to (5-20)times a month, depending on the month. I’ve had many partners over the years, and they all benefit from getting as much as they want:) cheers to conversations about this subject reaching the main stream!
Same here. In fact I started with this retention thing at 25 yrs, now 39. Healthy in all respects, testosterone at 39 matches that of a 23 yr old guy.. 80 percent of the time my partner, a girl always 😊, finishes before I do...in fact I don't like to ejaculate. Ejaculation seems to drain away all the energy...whereas Orgasm without ejaculation keeps you energetic and ready for another and another round. Sad to hear people commenting here in disbelief... PPL just cannot seem to believe that it works. Poor chaps
@@kumark214 you can’t force the hold, that can lead to retrograde ejaculate (seamen in the bladder) which is not the worst, but is not healthy either. The real deal is learning to orgasm energetically, and not feeling the need for actual physical contraction type orgasm. Learning to accomplish this on your own is the first step, although exploring with a partner is the most fun😅
If you practice semen retention with proper rest, yogic food [ satwik food ] and a loving sex partner, bliss will start after three hours of sex practice and you will go to samadhi and sex will be completely trasformed into love and you will come out of sex addiction . You will become master of sex insted of servant of sex. Afterwords no more sex is required,because you experience the ultimate bliss. A great silence enter your mind . You will become dreamer without dreams and thinker without thought. You will meet yourself in absolute silence. All thoughts suddenly vanishes. Your ego vanishes, real YOU [ atman] remains. Your soul will detach from everthing and become completely free. This state of mind is called Nirvana in yoga. After achiving nirvana your mind body organism will never be interested in attachments called samsara.
No that happens when you are having sex with your wife because you are free from guilt from anyone one including God. Fornication will always bring shame and evil.
I used to tell people skydiving was very much like meditation for me. Once you jump, regardless of what is going on in your life, you’re only thinking about one thing during those 40 seconds of freefall and 4 minutes under canopy, and that is the ground coming towards you very very quickly. This did not resonate for folks who have never meditated or skydived. Perhaps comparing meditation to orgasm would be better understood.
I fully agree. I meditate since 92 but the focus i need when Kite Surfing, 68 yrs young, is fantastic. It is a very unforgiving sport. It is a little easier now but first few years i could hear myself thinj
I went skydiving a couple years ago and I agree. The mind (and body) cannot help but be fully present. It's too extreme and unusual to think about anything else.
Summary: Meditation is about focusing on something, and letting everything else fall away. Eventually, the thing you're focusing on falls away as well, and you are left with an empty mind. From there, you can ascend to higher/transcendent states, but emptiness is the basic idea. Tantra is the process of using sex as that focal point. You may notice that the mind is usually empty during orgasm. So, Tantra contains a lot of techniques for prolonging the orgasm without ejaculation. Traditional tantra involves two people chanting and meditating together. Most religious traditions involve celibacy or some restriction around sex. Part of this may be because celibacy physiologically changes people to be more spiritual, or because desire is a distraction from higher forms of consciousness. However, high-level hindu monks can still have sex, if they have become indifferent to lust, and be considered to have a kind of celibacy. The goal is equanimity, because if one is obsessing over not having sex, the desire is still controlling the person. "The more you fight your mind, the less healthy you're going to be". There was an interesting digression that mindfulness techniques don't work on people with trauma -- in that case something intense like an ice plunge is used to clear the mind. NNN may arise from a transmuted/sublimated desire for achievement or control in other areas of life. It can be positive if it's used to break free of porn addiction.
All cool points except for your take on tantra. It is highly reductive. Tantric sex is only a small, specialized part of tantra, not the entirety of it. For those who are wondering, tantra, simply put, is ritualistic worship of Hindu deities. It's an entire path with its own scriptures and mantras. There are codified procedures for rituals for attaining different benefits. Tantric sex is only a niche application of this idea.
I did karma yoga (physical work with awareness), asanas (physical postures dynamically), bhakti yoga (love for God), raja yoga (meditation), gnana yoga (reading of spriritual books), satsang (attending speeches by enlightened yogis) and hatha yoga (cleansing/purificaton of the body and its energies), and I suppressed my sexuality as best as I could. God came and opened anahata chakra (the heart center) by raising kundalini (not in the physical body but in the cosmic body, the time-space continuum, which is our wider body). I was 23 years old at the time. Now I am 56. Never once did I have sex or masterbate during these 33 years, and nocturnal emission very rarely, once evey a few years, perhaps it has't happened now for ten years. To fight against "primary instict" successfully is possible, but it's good to do many things, not just try meditation. You have to be more involoved in yoga. Then God can also come into the picture, through guru.
One doesn't need to "fight" sexual tendencies if kundalini is awakened. Below is an analogy: If one's stomach is full then he will not eat a tasty cheese loaded Pizza even if you force him.
@@anantsky There is always temptation, but abstention is much more easy and spontaneus when higher chakras function. The "suppresion" of my sexuality that I mentioned related to the period before the chakra awakening. After that of course it was infinitely easier. Let me also note the kundalini's role in my case was only to open the higher chakra. Then, while the chakra stayed awake henceforth, kundalini went to slumber again. It is not active. I don't know how it is to have an active kundalini day in day out, but I have read it just might make abstention more difficult. Perhaps it also depends on which chakras are functioning, because it is actually possible to have an active kundalini without higher chakras functioning. That's why it just might be that, as long as one is not ready for enlightenment, awakening the chakras could be more important than an active kundalini day in day out. But I don't know. I am no expert on this. I only know my own experience and the result. PS. I deem your simile of the stomach being full accurate. When there is a higher chakra functioning, you are fuller in a permanent, continuous way, you have more energy in the psyche, and you don't need an explosion of sexual, orgasmic energy to make you feel alive. And it makes sense that the higher you go, the fuller you feel within your psyche. (AND within your body. Because body then becomes united with psyche, they become part of the same vibration. That's why saints who visit us in dreams have a strong physicality of a spiritual kind. They have in essence turned body to a living, conscious fire, that exists unaltered even when the physical body rots. That's partly the result of an active love for eternity, to which it just might happen that God responds.)
@@VideoTranslations The purpose of all types of Yoga is to activate kundalini either directly or indirectly. The more kundalini one gathers the higher the spiritual experiences. The ultimate prize is to open the Sahasrara chakra which takes years of practice focusing at Ajna chakra. After kundalini has been activated one has to maintain the flow with everyday sadhana.
@@VideoTranslations Well let me enlighten you a little bit. First of all, stop deluding yourself by believing that your kundalini raised some how and then went back and and all other stuff that you mentioned. You're as close to being wrong as to labelling an apple tree as a mango tree! Kundalini Yoga and meditation is the most powerful and yet the most dangerous form of Yoga and meditation because it involves working with and transmuting your life energies themselves. It's akin to nuclear energy- when used correctly, it can power up millions of homes, but when handled wrong- it becomes a bomb with power to destroy millions. Practices like these literally take "lifetimes" to succeed- whether you believe in the cycle of birth and death is another thing, but one should never attempt such thing on his own just by reading some online tutorial or joining an online or offline course. Now when you said "God came and opened anahata chakra (the heart center) by raising kundalini (not in the physical body but in the cosmic body, the time-space continuum, which is our wider body)." Well I don't know what you experienced but it never happens this way, it never has happened in the history and it never will 'cause that's not the mechanism. And if you really did attend all of those kinds of Yoga sessions then you would be aware that the Kundalini energy lies dormant at the base in the Muladhar chakra wrapped around in 3 and half coils. This energy awakens either through "lifetimes" of spiritual practice or can happen by another enlightened Guru. BUT...!! The moment it happens, it will result in the instantaneous death of that person! Why? Because as the Kundalini raises from the base, it pierces through the seven chakra up to the Sahasrar Chakra and that's when enlightenment happens and the person becomes free from the cycle of birth and death. It is never half way up to this or that chakra. And the enlightened beings who don't die- well they are spiritually adept enough to be able to keep hold of their bodies if they wish to in order to do some work or higher purpose, otherwise like what normally happens- they die.
@@winniepooh4130 The kundalini may, as you say, go from the base to the crown. That's one experience. But we are all in different stages of spiritual evolution depending on which chakras are open. It is not "all or none". It's not as if we are all on the base chakra and then the kundalini goes to the crone and we die unless we become saviors of humanity. At some point during our evolution a chakra opens by the awakening of kundalini. (Is there any other way for the chakra to open?) The kundalini doesn't go half way through a chakra. It goes *all* the way to the particular chakra. But it doesn't go all the qay to the *crone* chakra, as you suggest, because it often takes many lifetimes from one chakra to the other. If we were all at the base chakra, then there would be no in-between. We would either be lowest or highest. But in fact, there are stations in between. This train is not an express one. Or, more precisely, though it is very swift, it does do stops before the final destination. Then you get out, make more effort, store more energy, and you are on your way again. My guru ignited the experience to me. At its end, he showed me also a previous lifetime of mine. He came to me inside my sleep, at a different plane. I think he has also written somewhere that it is better for all the chakras to be open before the kundalini rises. Chakras being open is a different thing. They open through kundalini, but this doesn't mean that it is active day in - day out. Because we all have some chakras open, but our kundalini is not active day-in day-out. It got active at some point in a previous lifetime, opened a chakra, then you are operating from that chakra, but kundalini is not active in the way it is inside some kundalini yogis. There are no explosions any more. One explosion, chakra opens, then no explosions. After some years or lifetimes, on more explosion, next chakra opens, then no more explosions. This is how I undertand it generally happens. Although it seems that in some people, it becomes active irrespective of how many chakras have been awakened.
either way, cutting out super high stimuli or pmo in general is just good. to much of anything is bad. it creates addictions. it's not a healthy way to cope with life.
Professional who has actual personal experience, maturity, spiritual elevation and actual understanding like this man here should be the one counselling people not those fools that got A++ for a 📜 people think monk is an easy thing. Most of y'all hadn't even tried a 10 day vipassana course. Full time monks got lots of chores, work and service apart from full day of meditation/sadhana/Kriya. His community is truly lucky to have a gem like this that stay in the market place rather than isolating into deeper higher states of consciousness for self ascension.
Exactly, these westerners deliberately say east which is Indian if it is intellectual but if it is bad then they say it is Indian. They are complex ridden of our antique culture. They propagate a lot Egyptian, Greece, Chinese and even Buddhist but never Indian. Because Indian antique culture is source of all these cultures.
The cross-over I have been hoping for. I think there are a lot of interesting topics you guys could touch on and contribute to a more holistic perspective.
The goal is not orgasm without ejaculation. You are dancing energies in union; it’s the experience itself. The flow and dance of it. Complete surrender. Mostly I notice people can explain things very well but it doesn’t mean they actually experience it or are even capable of it… The state of what you call orgasm is a quality that is always there if we can just drop the mind stuff. It’s like enlightenment. Many people can describe the stages etc but the point is to experience it. Don’t mistake the finger for the moon. Unfortunately the most popular influencers these days are really good at being fingers that point but not the moon. The rational mind can helps us get a lot done. But tantra is a natural state of life. It’s not just with a partner. Ahh this is pointless. People here just trying to deal with their porn addictions or be like superhuman. 🙄
Western world spends most of their life in survival. For eastern cultures survival was never an issue it was already settled as family generational business or something. people had whole life to learn arts, teachings from different lands, cultures and so on. we have fallen to worst times at the cost of luxury of advanced technology. nature always balances out sufferings and luxury in different eras.
The guy knows nothing about his tradition, unfortunately! He is promoting, unknowingly, a form of hedonism which has nothing to do with tantra, which is actually quite dangerous!
101 is nothing stop being stupid if you choose that path you have to bring it home, go one year and you will see how your life will change for the craziest. 100 days is nothing
The hippie movement started with various groups of westerners finding gurus in India and transferring this knowledge. Indian gurus still are the reason for vegetarian veganism Natural cosmetics like aveeda… even alternative medicine or Silva mind or pranayama yoga - converted to Christian or Islamic yoga.. all from India… every mind science has its origin in India - spices were medicines
This guy is way too good in the way he is explaining and drawing examples like drinking water temperature - simple amazing . Apparently he has written a few books too. And host has done fantastic job by not interrupting his flow of thoughts
I HAVE 35 of meditation experience, I teach meditation and know inside out Indian tradition and Buddhist traditions and have a general good understanding of eastern practices, literature and study. THIS GUY IS FAKE, he is not a Buddhist monk, he is talking a nonsense of Indian yogic tradition and there is no tantric sex as this guy talks. He is also clearly absorbed in his delusion. He does not know awakened consciousness. Don believe any of this information. We can all ask this channel to specify ONE tantric text that describes any of this. THERE IS NONE.
🤦 The student forgot his master ever existed. marxist, communists, nihilist, woke what else are you? I had heard about Buddhist terrorists that destroyed our temples, claimed our ancient deities as their recent only 2500-3000 years old Buddha? I found these atrocities wired now it's confirmed.
It is easy to come to this realization by observing the level of acceleration with which he communicates, just looking at his hands makes me feel I need to rush too. Maybe that is why he is not a monk anymore... luckily we are all free to choose our path 🙏🏽 Much love and pleasure for y'all family ❤
Seems like 4-5 days of retention is the sweet spot …. With a natural Ejaculation source at the end , is something personal and meaningful , like sex video with a ex 😅 or something with you involved .
7:04 celibacy being married, well Sir that’s what most men are!! Marriage after few years is the easiest way to celibacy!! Jokes apart, loved it, very well explained in such a short video
He is spot on when he says that if you practice yoga right, you automatically become detached and your desires rein in and that ppl are forcing themselves to go desireless which will backfire. As the yoga practice gets denser, one starts to experience the temporariness and futility of desires and that is when natural detachment comes through. This detachment is effortless and does not create any dichotomy.
@@demarcusds95 It's like asking humans have so many vocal sounds is it good or bad thing. or in a game if we do not unlock some higher levels wouldn't life would be incomplete? but here it's ok to not unlock because it isn't forced.
Though you now reject semen retention, I’m impressed you were able to achieve that goal. I myself haven’t the foggiest notion how one could go about doing that. I have always thought that orgasm and ejaculation were literally inextricably linked.
Same. The cramps aren’t fun. Was also just annoyed, not calm. Cutting out adult videos and other external stimulation that isn’t natural is absolutely worth it though.
@@ILoveWeightedPullups it wasn't worth it for me. It's different for everybody. And there is nothing unnatural about voyeurism or masturbation. Everything that occurs WITHIN nature is natural. But even it it wasn't natural it wouldn't matter to me because I already do a lot of unnatural things such as wearing shoes.
All unnecessary discussion. If you consider yourself only Body , you have fear associated with it and that fear brings sexual acts to relieve you ( temporarily ) from that fear and tension. If you consider yourself a soul , that fear is not there and you feel like immortal and once you are soul , no fear and hence no sexual desires often ( It may come occasionally but it won't be fear based)
I just want to know how to be rid of my libido for good, since there's no pill that can do it. Can meditation do this? I've meditated for years, but I guess I really suck at it.
Great explanation. Simple and straightforward. Rajnishiji said same thing. But I guess he spoke from spiritual perspective. This guy is for our ordinary day today life. Sex is reality & how we ordinary people can come to terms with it. Thank you.
Tantra in a Vajrayana Buddhist Perspective is about working with basically with the chakras, channels, and energy flow. The goal is Enlightenment of All Buddhist Practices. This is aided by clearing the channels, opening the chakras, and bringing the energy into the central channel. The Energy naturally flows in the central channel they say when you die, when you orgasm, and when you sneeze [lol]. Semen Retention is part of the practice so as to not lose your Bodhichitta, Loving Kindness, Compassion and wisdom.
In meditation , thoughts dont "go away" u get better and better at a)..either letting them go and refocusing on your "point of attention ", mantra, breath, candle etc. b) giving little or no attention to the random thought(s) and refocusing on the mantra/point of attention. Its practice. Its called the practice of meditation. Actually staying fully focused , with no thoughts, is rare, and a gift to be let go of and to resume the practice. The "enjoyment" is a side effect and not the goal. One enjoys "strength" to be of use. Thats my experience ...lol, and lots of "so, so " practice.
Should not be an "outlet" because it will easily become an addiction. What do you do when everything seemingly stops going your way. What will you rely on?
What I have observed in life is have sex as many as many times u can buy most important is get marry early so that u will not longer need porn and neighter it will distract u in achieving goal of life
My experience: It is not 3 hours etc. Women have the capacity of "Multiple orgasm". sequentially. Each one is an improvement on the former. I found that it makes the participants as being one identity, and not two. The important part. I am unable to move the experience out of memory. I can completely "Reexperience" But the participant has to be willing to participate. I am 91. All others are dead. In my belief and experience I owe it to that experience that I can recreate.
You're 91 years old ans on youtube? How usually people age 60 don't even know how to due a computer let alone type without getting hacked or giving their social security number online
Sometimes in higher state of meditation very few drops of semens coming out, it's not total ejaculation,even that thing comes to know when going for urination, means it happens out of knowledge during meditation, Out of all energies, sexual energy is 16 times more powerful,if it is regulise in proper way,it creates overall tremendous effect , these proper ways required lots of sadhana.... meditation.
15:49 what they are trying to achieve is not clear. In fact what they have achieved is not at all coming out. They are just discussing something creative which no one can feel or even understand. It just kills your time easily by emptying your mind
Semen retention is not necessary. It was created as a fear-mongering tactic to stigmatize sexuality and hence, give validation to monks and those who choose monkhood. Tantric Sex is everything! and Semen Emission is the all-encompassing enhancing factor... and the very goal of life So you should always be emitting your Semen (your Light) onto the world. Monks, although they represent a legit spiritual path, are very radical and unjust for denouncing sex or the emission of the semen
Here comes propaganda the NPC bots paid by cornwebsite owners to not lose their own money making sheep's who milk themselves while letting cornwebsites milk their bank account
What exactly you think he doesn’t understand? He is talking from his experience as a doctor. He talks sense. So is someone with a saffron robe, a beard and says bs like he is enlightened, then you will say that’s all truth?
Okay nothing crazy only a few hair follicle, and not the tip, at the bellow of its head or mushroom thingy, and the root of my pp has hair but thats normal, but the way up it gets rarer until i reach the bottom of the head, so yeah i have some hair on my whole pp, only at one side tho ( sry if i write weird im not english)
The 7 steps before samadhi make us ready for samadhi to happen. samadhi itself is of multiple types about 7-8 of them. Savikalpa samadhi, Nirvikalp samadhi, sa-asmita, sasmita, Dharmamegha, Sabija, Nirbija, Savitarka, Mahasamadhi/kaivalya/moksha/mukti/nirvana.
If you look at Joe Dispenza’s work you’ll understand why you should not waste your semen on porn… instead use that Kundalini energy for your pineal gland to access higher states of consciousness
Does he talk about this in any books?
@@demarcusds95 most of the info in his books is available in his interviews/podcasts. While giving you some insights he ultimately tries to upsell you... selling meditation dvds with ad breaks like really??
Is kundalini not evil??
What's evil is the propaganda of Kundalini that was brought into america by Yogi Bhajan. The true knowledge in the western culture is Holy Spirit and it activates on its own through good without having to force it, chase it or do weird practices to active it. Just pray deeply to God everyday and it will activate in you in non detrimental ways that can drive you crazy like in the kundalini teachings @@alsahib3768
@@alsahib3768it depends on the characteristics of the person, if the person is evil then it'd be evil to them and vise versa
I love that He uses phrases like, "We're not sure, but this is what we THINK is happening" Instead of Here's what that means for you. Confessing to not knowing things for sure is a sign of higher intelligence.
It also means he probably is very sympathetic and caring about his patients
He comes across as more grounded and balanced in applying his spiritual practices and education/profession then the typical extremes of abandoning one because of the other or playing the cash grab game of pretending one validates people giving you money for the other
Sweets, sugar, chocolate, watermelon nahi khayege to hum hawas /kaam vaasna se dur ho jayege. Ragi soup piyo. 💪💪👍
1 saal se brahmacharya ka palan kar raha hu.
Avoid sweets, sugar, chocolate, watermelon, fastfoods etc to avoid lust feelings.
Brahmacharya since 6 months. 💪💪👍
It is needed ...POINT of Evolution ...So he says JIVE TALKING .
Esoterics without Practice ...Effective Practice ...Is NONSENSE
I have all that and more .....but didn't find my Twin ..So it's rubbish as this ...😂
This young doctor speaks sense and science. Enjoyed his explanations.
He's talking about Samadhi like selling street food. Don't think his consciousness has expanded even a bit.
if all that energy youre saving up you dont use for something else, its gonna give trouble, yes. your body in most cases will expel it on its own through wet dreams to save itself. you gotta move that energy around otherwise there is no point in retention. imho
Most sense full comment!
The science of edging XD
my brain rot found this hilarious. (I'm done for)
Been limiting ejaculation (not necessarily orgasam) since I was 28 (I’m now 44). The idea was well known and discussed in the Nor Cal hippie/new age/festie circles when I was in my 20’s. I have more energy, focus, drive, ambition, sex drive, a deeper voice, peace, health, and I look (not my opinion here) 10 years younger than my age. IDK, I’m going to continue… I’ve learned to orgasam without ejaculation, but it took some time exploring and learning this. Maybe I actually ejaculate a couple times a month, but I orgasam closer to (5-20)times a month, depending on the month. I’ve had many partners over the years, and they all benefit from getting as much as they want:) cheers to conversations about this subject reaching the main stream!
Please educate me on that plz
I tried that and was able to but it kind of screwed me up a bit I think. I read somewhere that it can screw up your physiology.
@@stevenbrewer8788 hi kindly educate more on this
Same here.
In fact I started with this retention thing at 25 yrs, now 39.
Healthy in all respects, testosterone at 39 matches that of a 23 yr old guy..
80 percent of the time my partner, a girl always 😊, finishes before I do...in fact I don't like to ejaculate.
Ejaculation seems to drain away all the energy...whereas Orgasm without ejaculation keeps you energetic and ready for another and another round.
Sad to hear people commenting here in disbelief... PPL just cannot seem to believe that it works.
Poor chaps
@@kumark214 you can’t force the hold, that can lead to retrograde ejaculate (seamen in the bladder) which is not the worst, but is not healthy either. The real deal is learning to orgasm energetically, and not feeling the need for actual physical contraction type orgasm. Learning to accomplish this on your own is the first step, although exploring with a partner is the most fun😅
If you practice semen retention with proper rest, yogic food [ satwik food ] and a loving sex partner, bliss will start after three hours of sex practice and you will go to samadhi and sex will be completely trasformed into love and you will come out of sex addiction . You will become master of sex insted of servant of sex. Afterwords no more sex is required,because you experience the ultimate bliss. A great silence enter your mind . You will become dreamer without dreams and thinker without thought. You will meet yourself in absolute silence. All thoughts suddenly vanishes. Your ego vanishes, real YOU [ atman] remains. Your soul will detach from everthing and become completely free. This state of mind is called Nirvana in yoga. After achiving nirvana your mind body organism will never be interested in attachments called samsara.
Is this knowledge experiential or from books?
No that happens when you are having sex with your wife because you are free from guilt from anyone one including God. Fornication will always bring shame and evil.
You can’t practice semen retention having sex. Sex should only be for conceiving life
I used to tell people skydiving was very much like meditation for me. Once you jump, regardless of what is going on in your life, you’re only thinking about one thing during those 40 seconds of freefall and 4 minutes under canopy, and that is the ground coming towards you very very quickly. This did not resonate for folks who have never meditated or skydived. Perhaps comparing meditation to orgasm would be better understood.
I've not skydived but a great analogy
I fully agree. I meditate since 92 but the focus i need when Kite Surfing, 68 yrs young, is fantastic. It is a very unforgiving sport. It is a little easier now but first few years i could hear myself thinj
O great today it is going well and boom before the thought was finished i was falling, which is somewhat violent!!
I went skydiving a couple years ago and I agree. The mind (and body) cannot help but be fully present. It's too extreme and unusual to think about anything else.
@@karynakloude160 there’s a great deal of sensory overload.
Retention of semen to avoid porn it's extremely healthy cause u need a release normaly with a partner how it should be
Say it louder for the people on the back
Summary:
Meditation is about focusing on something, and letting everything else fall away. Eventually, the thing you're focusing on falls away as well, and you are left with an empty mind. From there, you can ascend to higher/transcendent states, but emptiness is the basic idea. Tantra is the process of using sex as that focal point. You may notice that the mind is usually empty during orgasm. So, Tantra contains a lot of techniques for prolonging the orgasm without ejaculation. Traditional tantra involves two people chanting and meditating together.
Most religious traditions involve celibacy or some restriction around sex. Part of this may be because celibacy physiologically changes people to be more spiritual, or because desire is a distraction from higher forms of consciousness. However, high-level hindu monks can still have sex, if they have become indifferent to lust, and be considered to have a kind of celibacy. The goal is equanimity, because if one is obsessing over not having sex, the desire is still controlling the person.
"The more you fight your mind, the less healthy you're going to be".
There was an interesting digression that mindfulness techniques don't work on people with trauma -- in that case something intense like an ice plunge is used to clear the mind.
NNN may arise from a transmuted/sublimated desire for achievement or control in other areas of life. It can be positive if it's used to break free of porn addiction.
All cool points except for your take on tantra. It is highly reductive. Tantric sex is only a small, specialized part of tantra, not the entirety of it.
For those who are wondering, tantra, simply put, is ritualistic worship of Hindu deities. It's an entire path with its own scriptures and mantras. There are codified procedures for rituals for attaining different benefits. Tantric sex is only a niche application of this idea.
I did karma yoga (physical work with awareness), asanas (physical postures dynamically), bhakti yoga (love for God), raja yoga (meditation), gnana yoga (reading of spriritual books), satsang (attending speeches by enlightened yogis) and hatha yoga (cleansing/purificaton of the body and its energies), and I suppressed my sexuality as best as I could. God came and opened anahata chakra (the heart center) by raising kundalini (not in the physical body but in the cosmic body, the time-space continuum, which is our wider body). I was 23 years old at the time. Now I am 56. Never once did I have sex or masterbate during these 33 years, and nocturnal emission very rarely, once evey a few years, perhaps it has't happened now for ten years.
To fight against "primary instict" successfully is possible, but it's good to do many things, not just try meditation. You have to be more involoved in yoga.
Then God can also come into the picture, through guru.
One doesn't need to "fight" sexual tendencies if kundalini is awakened.
Below is an analogy:
If one's stomach is full then he will not eat a tasty cheese loaded Pizza even if you force him.
@@anantsky There is always temptation, but abstention is much more easy and spontaneus when higher chakras function. The "suppresion" of my sexuality that I mentioned related to the period before the chakra awakening. After that of course it was infinitely easier.
Let me also note the kundalini's role in my case was only to open the higher chakra. Then, while the chakra stayed awake henceforth, kundalini went to slumber again. It is not active.
I don't know how it is to have an active kundalini day in day out, but I have read it just might make abstention more difficult. Perhaps it also depends on which chakras are functioning, because it is actually possible to have an active kundalini without higher chakras functioning. That's why it just might be that, as long as one is not ready for enlightenment, awakening the chakras could be more important than an active kundalini day in day out.
But I don't know. I am no expert on this. I only know my own experience and the result.
PS. I deem your simile of the stomach being full accurate. When there is a higher chakra functioning, you are fuller in a permanent, continuous way, you have more energy in the psyche, and you don't need an explosion of sexual, orgasmic energy to make you feel alive.
And it makes sense that the higher you go, the fuller you feel within your psyche. (AND within your body. Because body then becomes united with psyche, they become part of the same vibration. That's why saints who visit us in dreams have a strong physicality of a spiritual kind. They have in essence turned body to a living, conscious fire, that exists unaltered even when the physical body rots. That's partly the result of an active love for eternity, to which it just might happen that God responds.)
@@VideoTranslations The purpose of all types of Yoga is to activate kundalini either directly or indirectly. The more kundalini one gathers the higher the spiritual experiences. The ultimate prize is to open the Sahasrara chakra which takes years of practice focusing at Ajna chakra. After kundalini has been activated one has to maintain the flow with everyday sadhana.
@@VideoTranslations Well let me enlighten you a little bit. First of all, stop deluding yourself by believing that your kundalini raised some how and then went back and and all other stuff that you mentioned. You're as close to being wrong as to labelling an apple tree as a mango tree! Kundalini Yoga and meditation is the most powerful and yet the most dangerous form of Yoga and meditation because it involves working with and transmuting your life energies themselves. It's akin to nuclear energy- when used correctly, it can power up millions of homes, but when handled wrong- it becomes a bomb with power to destroy millions.
Practices like these literally take "lifetimes" to succeed- whether you believe in the cycle of birth and death is another thing, but one should never attempt such thing on his own just by reading some online tutorial or joining an online or offline course.
Now when you said "God came and opened anahata chakra (the heart center) by raising kundalini (not in the physical body but in the cosmic body, the time-space continuum, which is our wider body)." Well I don't know what you experienced but it never happens this way, it never has happened in the history and it never will 'cause that's not the mechanism.
And if you really did attend all of those kinds of Yoga sessions then you would be aware that the Kundalini energy lies dormant at the base in the Muladhar chakra wrapped around in 3 and half coils. This energy awakens either through "lifetimes" of spiritual practice or can happen by another enlightened Guru. BUT...!! The moment it happens, it will result in the instantaneous death of that person! Why? Because as the Kundalini raises from the base, it pierces through the seven chakra up to the Sahasrar Chakra and that's when enlightenment happens and the person becomes free from the cycle of birth and death. It is never half way up to this or that chakra.
And the enlightened beings who don't die- well they are spiritually adept enough to be able to keep hold of their bodies if they wish to in order to do some work or higher purpose, otherwise like what normally happens- they die.
@@winniepooh4130 The kundalini may, as you say, go from the base to the crown. That's one experience. But we are all in different stages of spiritual evolution depending on which chakras are open. It is not "all or none". It's not as if we are all on the base chakra and then the kundalini goes to the crone and we die unless we become saviors of humanity. At some point during our evolution a chakra opens by the awakening of kundalini. (Is there any other way for the chakra to open?) The kundalini doesn't go half way through a chakra. It goes *all* the way to the particular chakra. But it doesn't go all the qay to the *crone* chakra, as you suggest, because it often takes many lifetimes from one chakra to the other. If we were all at the base chakra, then there would be no in-between. We would either be lowest or highest. But in fact, there are stations in between. This train is not an express one. Or, more precisely, though it is very swift, it does do stops before the final destination. Then you get out, make more effort, store more energy, and you are on your way again.
My guru ignited the experience to me. At its end, he showed me also a previous lifetime of mine.
He came to me inside my sleep, at a different plane.
I think he has also written somewhere that it is better for all the chakras to be open before the kundalini rises.
Chakras being open is a different thing. They open through kundalini, but this doesn't mean that it is active day in - day out. Because we all have some chakras open, but our kundalini is not active day-in day-out. It got active at some point in a previous lifetime, opened a chakra, then you are operating from that chakra, but kundalini is not active in the way it is inside some kundalini yogis.
There are no explosions any more. One explosion, chakra opens, then no explosions. After some years or lifetimes, on more explosion, next chakra opens, then no more explosions.
This is how I undertand it generally happens. Although it seems that in some people, it becomes active irrespective of how many chakras have been awakened.
Former Buddhist monk here. He presented the subject very very well
Why former?
@@Power50505 personal decision. There’s a provision for returning vows
😂😂😂former monk?😂😂😂what happnd...u got bored of the buulllsgite mate?
@@polarisss148No kundalini has awakened in him. He shouldn't be talking about the sacred topic of Yoga.
Hindu Yogic
either way, cutting out super high stimuli or pmo in general is just good. to much of anything is bad. it creates addictions. it's not a healthy way to cope with life.
Men have been perfecting semen retention since the invention of the PlayStation
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Professional who has actual personal experience, maturity, spiritual elevation and actual understanding like this man here should be the one counselling people not those fools that got A++ for a 📜 people think monk is an easy thing. Most of y'all hadn't even tried a 10 day vipassana course. Full time monks got lots of chores, work and service apart from full day of meditation/sadhana/Kriya. His community is truly lucky to have a gem like this that stay in the market place rather than isolating into deeper higher states of consciousness for self ascension.
He is a therapist. He needs to people to make money. He gives people knowledge in exchange of money.
Just be aware of your every act I say everything in your life including marital bliss which is the sole creation of World. And do nothing.
It's not 'Eastern Philosophy', its 'Indian Philosophy'.
Exactly, these westerners deliberately say east which is Indian if it is intellectual but if it is bad then they say it is Indian. They are complex ridden of our antique culture. They propagate a lot Egyptian, Greece, Chinese and even Buddhist but never Indian. Because Indian antique culture is source of all these cultures.
Complicated topic but nicely explained, bravo!
The cross-over I have been hoping for. I think there are a lot of interesting topics you guys could touch on and contribute to a more holistic perspective.
He's not even conscious about what he's talking. Just blabbering whatever that comes to his mind. What kind of a monk is he?
UA-cam monk duh
But in indian law, tantric sex is pinned as unnatural or illegal in constitution.
Spell binding ignorance or deliberate disinformation?
The goal is not orgasm without ejaculation. You are dancing energies in union; it’s the experience itself. The flow and dance of it. Complete surrender.
Mostly I notice people can explain things very well but it doesn’t mean they actually experience it or are even capable of it…
The state of what you call orgasm is a quality that is always there if we can just drop the mind stuff.
It’s like enlightenment. Many people can describe the stages etc but the point is to experience it.
Don’t mistake the finger for the moon.
Unfortunately the most popular influencers these days are really good at being fingers that point but not the moon.
The rational mind can helps us get a lot done.
But tantra is a natural state of life. It’s not just with a partner.
Ahh this is pointless. People here just trying to deal with their porn addictions or be like superhuman.
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Western world spends most of their life in survival. For eastern cultures survival was never an issue it was already settled as family generational business or something. people had whole life to learn arts, teachings from different lands, cultures and so on. we have fallen to worst times at the cost of luxury of advanced technology. nature always balances out sufferings and luxury in different eras.
11:39 bro threw his middle finger up 😆
The guy knows nothing about his tradition, unfortunately! He is promoting, unknowingly, a form of hedonism which has nothing to do with tantra, which is actually quite dangerous!
Sanatan (Hindu) knowledge 🚩
101 days of SR here. I'm now looking for a prey to break that streak in.
101 is nothing stop being stupid if you choose that path you have to bring it home, go one year and you will see how your life will change for the craziest. 100 days is nothing
Beautifully explained, felt hypnotized he is so good at explaining it!!
You can use prayer beads...more uses for those in a second lol
Good info for the inexperience western mind...you can't meditate without moral discipline
Every Tom, Dick and Harry who has accents is Monk 😂😂😂😅
The hippie movement started with various groups of westerners finding gurus in India and transferring this knowledge. Indian gurus still are the reason for vegetarian veganism Natural cosmetics like aveeda… even alternative medicine or Silva mind or pranayama yoga - converted to Christian or Islamic yoga.. all from India… every mind science has its origin in India - spices were medicines
Being celibate sometimes is a good thing. But honestly, there's nothing wrong with occasionally doing it.
There is, unless it's with your wife.
Have faith in scriptures.
This guy is way too good in the way he is explaining and drawing examples like drinking water temperature - simple amazing . Apparently he has written a few books too. And host has done fantastic job by not interrupting his flow of thoughts
I HAVE 35 of meditation experience, I teach meditation and know inside out Indian tradition and Buddhist traditions and have a general good understanding of eastern practices, literature and study. THIS GUY IS FAKE, he is not a Buddhist monk, he is talking a nonsense of Indian yogic tradition and there is no tantric sex as this guy talks. He is also clearly absorbed in his delusion. He does not know awakened consciousness. Don believe any of this information.
We can all ask this channel to specify ONE tantric text that describes any of this. THERE IS NONE.
🤦 The student forgot his master ever existed. marxist, communists, nihilist, woke what else are you? I had heard about Buddhist terrorists that destroyed our temples, claimed our ancient deities as their recent only 2500-3000 years old Buddha? I found these atrocities wired now it's confirmed.
It is easy to come to this realization by observing the level of acceleration with which he communicates, just looking at his hands makes me feel I need to rush too. Maybe that is why he is not a monk anymore... luckily we are all free to choose our path 🙏🏽
Much love and pleasure for y'all family ❤
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Seems like 4-5 days of retention is the sweet spot …. With a natural Ejaculation source at the end , is something personal and meaningful , like sex video with a ex 😅 or something with you involved .
What a bot NPC zombie sheep
7:04 celibacy being married, well Sir that’s what most men are!! Marriage after few years is the easiest way to celibacy!!
Jokes apart, loved it, very well explained in such a short video
He is spot on when he says that if you practice yoga right, you automatically become detached and your desires rein in and that ppl are forcing themselves to go desireless which will backfire. As the yoga practice gets denser, one starts to experience the temporariness and futility of desires and that is when natural detachment comes through. This detachment is effortless and does not create any dichotomy.
The easiest way to understand tantrics is to realize that they are meditation hackers.
Is that a good things or a bad thing?
Depends on ppl..
Its like power @@demarcusds95
@@demarcusds95 It's like asking humans have so many vocal sounds is it good or bad thing. or in a game if we do not unlock some higher levels wouldn't life would be incomplete? but here it's ok to not unlock because it isn't forced.
Thanks
I did semen retention for a few months several times now and I'm never doing it again. There were no benefits but only increased issues.
Though you now reject semen retention, I’m impressed you were able to achieve that goal. I myself haven’t the foggiest notion how one could go about doing that. I have always thought that orgasm and ejaculation were literally inextricably linked.
Same. The cramps aren’t fun. Was also just annoyed, not calm.
Cutting out adult videos and other external stimulation that isn’t natural is absolutely worth it though.
@@ILoveWeightedPullupsyeah, two totally different things.
@@ILoveWeightedPullups it wasn't worth it for me. It's different for everybody. And there is nothing unnatural about voyeurism or masturbation. Everything that occurs WITHIN nature is natural. But even it it wasn't natural it wouldn't matter to me because I already do a lot of unnatural things such as wearing shoes.
"Increased issues" *groan*
All unnecessary discussion. If you consider yourself only Body , you have fear associated with it and that fear brings sexual acts to relieve you ( temporarily ) from that fear and tension.
If you consider yourself a soul , that fear is not there and you feel like immortal and once you are soul , no fear and hence no sexual desires often ( It may come occasionally but it won't be fear based)
A monk never seeks to talk with the world.
I just want to know how to be rid of my libido for good, since there's no pill that can do it. Can meditation do this? I've meditated for years, but I guess I really suck at it.
It's a habit that builds over controlling impulses over time. It's hard work but it pays off.
Tantric means: do sex don't come?
Love this content! Very informative
Lord have mercy
Take a shot every time he says “tantric”
I just watched another dopamine content online 😢
If it prevents people from BREEDING I'd be all for it 😂
We’re done ✅ “evolutionarily” wow 😯
They totally smashed after this episode
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Both my favorite docs yessir🔥🔥🙏
Classic sir
Great explanation. Simple and straightforward. Rajnishiji said same thing. But I guess he spoke from spiritual perspective. This guy is for our ordinary day today life. Sex is reality & how we ordinary people can come to terms with it.
Thank you.
I ❤you both. Lifetime yoga practice. Knowledge and experience with this. But this completes my understanding. Thank you. 🙏
-Dan
Eventually, blue balls force at least self relief
Bro you made some sense and lot of non sense
Best of all these Great VASTAYANA Not only positions Theory /this such useless fellows trying😢to Talk like US UK acssent try to impress local citizens
Tantra in a Vajrayana Buddhist Perspective is about working with basically with the chakras, channels, and energy flow. The goal is Enlightenment of All Buddhist Practices. This is aided by clearing the channels, opening the chakras, and bringing the energy into the central channel. The Energy naturally flows in the central channel they say when you die, when you orgasm, and when you sneeze [lol]. Semen Retention is part of the practice so as to not lose your Bodhichitta, Loving Kindness, Compassion and wisdom.
In meditation , thoughts dont "go away" u get better and better at a)..either letting them go and refocusing on your "point of attention ", mantra, breath, candle etc. b) giving little or no attention to the random thought(s) and refocusing on the mantra/point of attention. Its practice. Its called the practice of meditation. Actually staying fully focused , with no thoughts, is rare, and a gift to be let go of and to resume the practice. The "enjoyment" is a side effect and not the goal. One enjoys "strength" to be of use. Thats my experience ...lol, and lots of "so, so " practice.
So we can have sex with our partner... i m 26 still virgin getting soon married to my boyfriend.. so should it will effect me??
He's part 2 of Deepak Chopra. All BS and nothing practical or experiencial.
What valuable information and clarity you provided 🙏 so much appreciation ❤️
When you focus on your breath during meditation. Can your breath be your alambana?
"Sambhog Se Samadhi Tak" in 17 minutes.
Wish all 'educated' understand religion this way, world will not be the same if we have 1000's of Mr.K out there
Oh yes now youre beginning to get into the real stuff. You have untapped potential content from your people's knowledge and history
I’m so impressed by his way of explaining things.
Invite me on the show I'll elucidate way by better
Should not be an "outlet" because it will easily become an addiction. What do you do when everything seemingly stops going your way. What will you rely on?
What I have observed in life is have sex as many as many times u can buy most important is get marry early so that u will not longer need porn and neighter it will distract u in achieving goal of life
Confirmation bias
1000%
Finest topic, particularly so coz the way professor K explains.
He is an authoriry
Very interesting- more aligned with OSHO philosophy
My experience: It is not 3 hours etc.
Women have the capacity of "Multiple orgasm". sequentially. Each one is an improvement on the former. I found that it makes the participants as being one identity, and not two.
The important part.
I am unable to move the experience out of memory. I can completely "Reexperience"
But the participant has to be willing to participate.
I am 91. All others are dead.
In my belief and experience I owe it to that experience that I can recreate.
You're 91 years old ans on youtube? How usually people age 60 don't even know how to due a computer let alone type without getting hacked or giving their social security number online
from tantric OHM to frantic OH..MMM..Cheers🎉
One Love!
Always forward, never ever backward!!
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another good vid by dr.rena.she knows alot about sex&more.shes not affraid to ask the questions&shes a woman.''keep it up''
H 7:56 😢
7:56 😮😢😮
You should interview Layla Martin it would be so epic it would break the internet
if you really want to go deeper about Tantra or Sex Magic
Sometimes in higher state of meditation very few drops of semens coming out, it's not total ejaculation,even that thing comes to know when going for urination, means it happens out of knowledge during meditation,
Out of all energies, sexual energy is 16 times more powerful,if it is regulise in proper way,it creates overall tremendous effect , these proper ways required lots of sadhana.... meditation.
Nope not at all😊
Hallelujah for this film!
Very nice interview Rena! Very good quality content! Very well conducted interview! And hes amazing guest ofcourse! All the best to you two! Cheers!!
15:49 what they are trying to achieve is not clear. In fact what they have achieved is not at all coming out. They are just discussing something creative which no one can feel or even understand. It just kills your time easily by emptying your mind
😂 u r vfoolish
Semen retention is not necessary. It was created as a fear-mongering tactic to stigmatize sexuality and hence, give validation to monks and those who choose monkhood.
Tantric Sex is everything! and Semen Emission is the all-encompassing enhancing factor... and the very goal of life
So you should always be emitting your Semen (your Light) onto the world.
Monks, although they represent a legit spiritual path, are very radical and unjust for denouncing sex or the emission of the semen
Here comes propaganda the NPC bots paid by cornwebsite owners to not lose their own money making sheep's who milk themselves while letting cornwebsites milk their bank account
11:40 yo did dr K just flipped us
These people do not understand what they are talking about, booksmart no experience leads to misleading conclusions and understandings
What exactly you think he doesn’t understand? He is talking from his experience as a doctor. He talks sense. So is someone with a saffron robe, a beard and says bs like he is enlightened, then you will say that’s all truth?
7:33-7:56 Small balls = big brain IQ?
I would like to hear your opinion on the correlation between testicle size and sperm production
So denial?
Hell no.
Fantastic duo, loved every part of this discussion
Great episode of self accepting and self owning
This whole retention fad online has to be a form of warfare. Don’t fall for it.
How so?
Is there a Dr practicing in the area of medicine in the CT area
Semen retention is every bit as natural as ovum retention.
It's amazing how these you tube 🧙♂️ wizards know everything
Does age matter? For men , older you get harder to perform sex?
Is it okay to have a little bit of hair on my foreskin like almost at the tip?
Absolutely not!
Okay nothing crazy only a few hair follicle, and not the tip, at the bellow of its head or mushroom thingy, and the root of my pp has hair but thats normal, but the way up it gets rarer until i reach the bottom of the head, so yeah i have some hair on my whole pp, only at one side tho ( sry if i write weird im not english)
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@@ricsi6444 I have the same, only in one side.
I'd love to know more about Samadhi.
Yoga nidra
Anapana Meditation
The 7 steps before samadhi make us ready for samadhi to happen. samadhi itself is of multiple types about 7-8 of them. Savikalpa samadhi, Nirvikalp samadhi, sa-asmita, sasmita, Dharmamegha, Sabija, Nirbija, Savitarka, Mahasamadhi/kaivalya/moksha/mukti/nirvana.
Read books by Osho.
great talk ! Thx for this very informative video doc's
Semen retention is pure peseudoscience.
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