9 Proven Ways To Attract The Man You Truly Deserve | ATTRACT MEN The RIGHT Way

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  • Опубліковано 29 лип 2024
  • NEW SUMMER 2024
    Ryan now offers self-guided online courses to help women of ANY age crush those single streets FASTER and more efficiently!
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    In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick uses science and psychology to explain simple attraction hacks and tips that get men's attention, specifically, 9 proven ways to attract the man you truly deserve, and some ideas of how to attract men the right way that are scientifically effective.

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  • @datingcoachryanpatrick
    @datingcoachryanpatrick  2 місяці тому +1

    *NEW SUMMER 2024*
    I now offer self-guided *online courses* to help women of ANY age and experience level CRUSH those single streets FASTER and more efficiently! 🙂
    Check out my course offerings here 👉 www.boyfriendblueprint.com/courses

  • @niccole.m
    @niccole.m 4 роки тому +200

    When I was younger, I did some of these things. I wore red, straightened my hair, wore makeup etc only to discover the men that were attracted to me only wanted sex. Now that I am in my late 30's, I decided I was just going to be me. No longer was I going to change myself for a man. I'm still single and that's okay because I realised that if a man was going to fall in love with me, it was going to be because of me. To be honest, no matter how confident, funny or how big your heart is, if men don't see you as "their" type, they look the other way. They don't even bother getting to know you. Why should a woman change her entire appearance to attract a man, then have to keep up that fake appearance to keep him happy. I can straighten my hair but if it rains, or I sweat....it gets curly again. Eventually he's going to see your true appearance.

    • @samtula5946
      @samtula5946 3 роки тому +8

      True none of the previous videos I watched mentioned men having types and they only go for that certain type and it’s really true.. experienced this many times where I was into guys and they only wanted a certain type that I wasn’t. Also, why straight hair? Curly hair is gorgeous... a lot of women have been doing that wavy hair trend for years now with a curling iron

    • @jiliciar.1423
      @jiliciar.1423 3 роки тому +2

      @@jaythenihilist4689 Thanks for sharing the real truth.

    • @msbosslady6054
      @msbosslady6054 3 роки тому +2

      Amen!!!

  • @AShMR_
    @AShMR_ 4 роки тому +317

    Personality is key. I don't care how drop dead gorgeous you are, how straight or white your teeth, or long your hair. If you have a horrible personality (mean, petty, condescending, etc.) you are not attractive. All of these are great to know, but confidence and personality always end up being the real winners for a happier and healthier relationship.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +17

      Thank you for saying this! I was hoping that this message hopefully came through in the video! 😀

    • @LisaGemini
      @LisaGemini 4 роки тому +9

      Do a video about how to acquire more confidence. That could be super helpful.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +4

      @@LisaGemini I like it! Thanks for the suggestion, Lisa!

    • @zerofuks416
      @zerofuks416 4 роки тому +13

      Beautiful people don’t have to be associated with ugly personalities either. Dated not the best looking guy (nerd) which turned out to be a douche on the inside as well.

    • @diegoalejandrogarciasanche7930
      @diegoalejandrogarciasanche7930 4 роки тому

      Winner of a video, I've been looking for "dress to attract women" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Weyrayden Qiyvelyn Framework - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.

  • @hp8087
    @hp8087 3 роки тому +54

    I did all of these when I was younger... Didn't get anyone. When I started to embrace my plain-jane beauty, and lead by personality, somebody fell head over heels for me.

  • @afankhalil6467
    @afankhalil6467 4 роки тому +308

    I wore a red shirt my crush told that I look beautiful today

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +38

      I'm so glad he noticed it, Afan! 😄

    • @afankhalil6467
      @afankhalil6467 4 роки тому +5

      Ryan Patrick thanks and can u please tell me what to do so I’m in a relationship with this guys and I just moved to somewhere I will be here for like 6 more months and then I will move back to my hometown but i don’t know how to keep him interested while I’m away from him😭 please reply

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +5

      @@afankhalil6467 6 months isn't too bad. At least you were able to create a bit of a foundation with him before you leave. If you can, try and have at least one visit with him per month. This would be a short-term LDR, so he will know that you are planning on returning to your area at a very specific time to manage his expectations 😉

    • @Hadria7777
      @Hadria7777 4 роки тому +3

      @Stacy Caruso I just wear a red pair of shoes, belt or even just a chunky red bracelet. I'm not a huge fan of red but always get complements just wearing a pop of it. Hope that helps

    • @buffy2257
      @buffy2257 3 роки тому

      🥰🥰

  • @victoriamundae2570
    @victoriamundae2570 4 роки тому +72

    Boddddyyy Languagggeee. I use it all the time. Even job interviews. At work. Out in the world. It’s one of the strongest tools in a woman’s arsenal. 😉

  • @kristencreates1316
    @kristencreates1316 4 роки тому +34

    I really like how you approach all the subjects on your channel with care, humor, and positivity.

  • @judithbraun4854
    @judithbraun4854 4 роки тому +29

    My Ex Husband always wanted me to change when I occasionally wore red. Maybe he was afraid?

  • @amaliavanable
    @amaliavanable 4 роки тому +2

    You are so good Ryan! love the videos and content!!! And the best part is you keep them short and sweet, which really helps with all that we have on our plates. Easy to digest and just enough to not make our heads spin. Thank you!!!

  • @Hadria7777
    @Hadria7777 4 роки тому +50

    I don't care what some study said ladies you are ALL BEAUTIFUL just the way you are. Stay healthy and strong, see the love and light in others and treat everybody with respect. You don't have to change your appearance to find love

    • @Hadria7777
      @Hadria7777 3 роки тому

      @@EnoI539 absolutely correct

  • @TheSariasama
    @TheSariasama 4 роки тому +123

    I'll not damage my hair with hair iron to get attention 😏😏 my hair is naturally curly

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +35

      Work that curly hair, Saria! It's *confidence* that is king in attraction! 🙌🏼

    • @amberwren
      @amberwren 4 роки тому +12

      It's the next big thing, literally.
      But really, curly hair is coming back in fashion.
      Watch this space 😉

    • @gabriellehorton3928
      @gabriellehorton3928 4 роки тому +9

      I have loved all of your videos but this was a big miss for me. BIG. Obviously info like having white teeth and accentuating and hourglass frame is totally fine but come on....quoting a “study” from Zoosk? Telling women to straighten their hair from some tiny “study’s”. Based on what? For someone who claims to be accredited in phycology this is so ignorant. 🙄
      You really need to check your mansplaining in this video. It’s not your place to tell women to straighten their hair and damage it all in the hopes of making a man attracted to you? Sooooo much NO. I’m sure your motives are good, but that doesn’t excuse the ignorance.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +15

      @@gabriellehorton3928 Hey Gabrielle, thanks for checking out my content! I appreciate your feedback about his video, but I can't help but take issue with a few things you said as I put a *tremendous* amount of time and preparation into ALL of my videos. First off, this video is about the science and psychology of attraction. We're literally talking about science here. So you may call my pointing out that having straight and white teeth and accentuating the hourglass figure as "mansplaining," but when in reality, science has got my back on this one. You may not like the things I'm saying, but to call it mansplaining is just simply silly. Believe me, I'd be *the first* to hear about mansplaining from my wife, and she watches ALL of my vids before they're released. I'm very conscious about my tone.
      And yes, Zoosk had a sample size of over 2,000 men! That's statistically significant! Zoosk has plenty of professionals that run these studies and surveys, because if they're done poorly, that's their reputation on the line! They've had a really good track record with these things in the past, you should know. Your comments also negate the fact I cited other "academic" studies, but are they just mansplaining to women too? And I never told any woman she *had* to do anything. So thank you for your feedback, but I'm not going to roll over here when my intentions were, in fact, solid and I know I'm putting out good information 🙂

    • @gabriellehorton3928
      @gabriellehorton3928 4 роки тому +10

      Allow me to rectify something I believe you may have misunderstood. In my initial comment I used the hourglass figure and white teeth examples as “totally fine”. Meaning, I agree with you and you are 100% correct there. Those are absolutely indisputable facts. I think If you re-read my comment you will understand that. :)
      My issue is with you selecting one study from one source to declare a standard of what hair type is preferred by most men and then suggesting women ALTER themselves accordingly. . It’s not responsible to make such claims, as several studies with similar parameters should be reviewed and cross examined before arriving at such conclusions and making such statements. In my opinion, that just good sense.....
      I understand why you don’t see a problem with this, and I applaud you for your concern and monitoring your tone and including your wife. That’s great. Like I said in my comment; I assumed you were coming from a good place.
      However, good intentions can still have negative consequences and it is important to learn when presented with the opportunity to do so.
      Women of color with textured hair and women (like myself) with curly hair have had different experiences than those that do not, and it’s not possible for your wife to speak for all women. Did you know it was ILLEGAL for African Americans to grow their hair naturally from their head in this country at one time? People were actually arrested for this. Do you know that people have actually asked me to my face if I was poor because they saw that I didn’t fit into an orange county mold and didn’t have straight blonde hair? Did you know manipulative and controlling men tell women “ohhhh you’d be so pretty IF you just straightened your hair and changed the color?” Did you know that women spend thousands of dollars a year to achieve something they will never have and end up destroying their natural hair by processing? (Personally it took me two years of looking like a drowned 🐀 to get my curls back)
      I said that you were mansplaining because you’re speaking on and giving advice on a sensitive issue without, in my opinion, being very educated on that issue. Which is a fair criticism of a page such as this.

  • @joythornz
    @joythornz 4 роки тому +5

    I once wear this red sporty type of hoodie/jacket when I took my dogs out for a walk. I was getting glances/stare from men (even men driving past me) trying to check me out. So I agree that wearing red clothing does not have to be skimpy or provocative to capture attention.

  • @mjr3777
    @mjr3777 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Ryan, I'm a new subscriber and your new fan.. I watch your videos for almost a month now. I love all the content of your video! You nailed it man!!

  • @sibzism
    @sibzism 4 роки тому +1

    I LOVE your channel!! ❤❤🙏🏾 thank you 😊 its actually really unique as well!

  • @arjieguangco9346
    @arjieguangco9346 4 роки тому +1

    Your wife is blessed to have you in her life! And same goes around for sure. The most realistic and straightforward advice i've heard. Thank you for this video 😊 Good luck and more vidoes! 😂

  • @lorienymmaglangit9894
    @lorienymmaglangit9894 4 роки тому +2

    Love this so much Ryan thanks sharing I really love science and psycology so this me help so much

  • @LaHoraMusical
    @LaHoraMusical 4 роки тому +60

    Comment/Question: I KNOW for a fact that the color red works and specially the Straight hair; I did a test and changed my profile dating picture with a red dress and silky straight hair: I am not exaggerating my messages went from 5 a week to 10+ a day HOWEVER I was attracted a lot of superficial guys who had a 6 packs and looked way to perfect. I have natural curly hair. I want a guy to want me for me, the real me. Isn’t it deceiving to have the pictures of your profile with straight hair and show up on the date with straight hair and dated for a while go back to curly hair?
    I used to keep my hair straight before but it takes me 3 hours to do and even more work to keep it up. And what did it for me to keep my hair naturally curly for good was when my 3 years old told me: “Mommy, I wish I had pretty straight hair like you”. That broke my hair and I don’t have straight hair and YES I used to attract more guys but what kind of guys! And I want a guy to like me for me, not my looks.

    • @FreedomUninterrupted
      @FreedomUninterrupted 4 роки тому +11

      I'm glad you came to this conclusion. The information he's giving is only information. This does not mean that anybody should take it to heart and change everything about themselves for this. This only attract the typical majority of men. Just like you say!
      I have a tightly curled afro and it attracts quite a bit of men on its own. My hair type is the exact opposite of what he's mentioning in the statisticshowever people are attracted to different things for different reasons. This may be the majority and that's okay. The majority of men can like what they wantbut I'm not trying to attract the MAJORITY. I'm trying to attract the ONE for me. I'm going to enjoy my body, continue to wear makeup that plays up my NATURAL FEATURES and dress for my personality and body.

    • @ginaalzaidi1972
      @ginaalzaidi1972 4 роки тому +2

      Johanny Piñeyro I went from dark brown to blonde and men seemed to like that a whole lot more

    • @pennylanekane
      @pennylanekane 2 роки тому +1

      You’re hair is perfect the way it is. Plus if you catch a man with straight hair, he’ll expect it like that forever

  • @naram8282
    @naram8282 4 роки тому +46

    Ryan can I borrow the red ‘Subscribe’ pillow in your background when I’m going on a date ?😁

  • @Dazzling_Rabbit274
    @Dazzling_Rabbit274 3 роки тому +12

    I’m actually about to go on my first date with my crush tonight! 🙂😁

  • @amberwren
    @amberwren 4 роки тому +5

    Thanks for doing the Livestream, appreciate you doing that.
    Hope to be there with my sunglasses on 😎🤩

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +1

      Can't wait to rock that Livestream out! 🤙🏼

    • @amberwren
      @amberwren 4 роки тому +1

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick woooh! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @starflowermarie86
    @starflowermarie86 3 роки тому +4

    I love the eye-contact practicing thing w the sunglasses. I get so nervous or giddy looking people in the eyes, even if I'm not attracted to them. 😂 I've been workin' on it tho! 💫

  • @pearlgeneste1890
    @pearlgeneste1890 4 роки тому +1

    You are so totally funny in this video! The teeth, the sun glasses thing... l adored!

  • @rexyfatandsexy7617
    @rexyfatandsexy7617 3 роки тому +2

    I love how respectful you are 💝

  • @cunhokim7299
    @cunhokim7299 4 роки тому +13

    cant wait for the next week post :P

  • @nikkiblack1183
    @nikkiblack1183 4 роки тому +1

    Ryan, you are gift. A body language video with psychology behind it would be amazing

  • @freespirit3818
    @freespirit3818 4 роки тому +2

    Love the tip about the sun glasses. I live in Spain so should be easy to practice as we have many sun days.

  • @naram8282
    @naram8282 4 роки тому +5

    That was a clean joke Ryan btw🙂
    Love your content 😃
    Stay fantastic !!!

  • @nathalie5238
    @nathalie5238 4 роки тому +15

    I do all of this.... yeah it attracts lazy men 🙄 damn in the past 2 months I attracted quite a lot of men.... they are so low effort!!! Not one asking for date or just flake... they expect me to chase them, no way!!!
    I want a man that wants, really wants me

  • @hawaiigirl8089
    @hawaiigirl8089 2 роки тому +1

    Red is true!!! I wore a red shirt that was cute on a trip to Hawaii. Was a long sleeve top with hood & gray track pants. The men that smiled, bought me drinks (in coach) & helped me with my luggage! It was amazing

  • @rbjsculpture
    @rbjsculpture 2 роки тому +5

    Your Creator loves you and wants an intimate relationship with you.
    2 Corinthians 5:17-21

  • @arundhatiarjun9919
    @arundhatiarjun9919 4 роки тому +36

    Yes for the body language video!

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +3

      Good to know guys! Thanks for letting me know by liking this and other similar threads 🙂😉

  • @FrostyDufour
    @FrostyDufour 3 роки тому +2

    I have curly hair that's too fine to straighten, boo. But, I've really upped my eye contact and flirting since having to wear a mask. Works really well too!

  • @lieunguyen9310
    @lieunguyen9310 4 роки тому +1

    I’m enjoy watching your video, you’re really funny Ryan . I’m appreciated you being here on you tube.

  • @katedauphinee7536
    @katedauphinee7536 4 роки тому

    Hi Ryan: It would be helpful to add your LIVE video dates on your website. I missed the February one because I forgot to write it down and couldn't find the info. Thanks!

  • @roxanekeeley-monet9352
    @roxanekeeley-monet9352 4 роки тому +2

    Yes please Ryan! I'd love a more comprehensive Body Language Video. Thank you. Roxy -UK

  • @RMPR07
    @RMPR07 4 роки тому +10

    I wear red sometimes, I have wide hips (my waist is not that narrow though), I have long dark hair (straighten with nanokeratin since it’s naturally curly and frizzy), I have normal teeth, I’m introverted first but when I get to know someone I’m more open, still... I don’t know what has happened! My relationships (with men who I knew via apps such as match or tinder 🤦🏻‍♀️) don’t last much and no man approaches me, not at work and definitely not at gym.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +5

      It might be time to crack out of your shell and start bringing some new energy into your sphere, Reyna! I've got a video next week coming out about this very thing (toward the very end)! When things get stale or you're not getting the results you want in life, it's just a sign it's time to mix things up 😋

    • @RMPR07
      @RMPR07 4 роки тому

      Ryan Patrick thank you 🙏🏼

    • @phugh3878
      @phugh3878 4 роки тому

      Reyna Pacheco do you get approached like at malls, or grocery stores? Or other random places

    • @sibzism
      @sibzism 4 роки тому +2

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick this is great advice, but dont you think maybe some (most) men are just intimidated by her? Honest question and I'd LOVE to see you do a video on this topic please 🙏🏾 Are there signs when men are just being chicken shit? 😂 (title is optional)

    • @Partycitybaex
      @Partycitybaex 3 роки тому +1

      Omg same girl 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @joyceunderwood7534
    @joyceunderwood7534 4 роки тому +2

    Good job, Ryan

  • @hawaadam784
    @hawaadam784 4 роки тому

    now you are my #1 favorites coach

  • @tayotaewalred2942
    @tayotaewalred2942 4 роки тому +1

    Your No, No Text had me laughing hard, it was great, thanks goodness i have never used any.of your No, Nos, however, i am a bit chatting from time to time.
    Love your posts, Wado, Ryan.

  • @Misfit9405
    @Misfit9405 4 роки тому +1

    Ryan, I really enjoy watching your videos. I had one of the truck drivers at my job yesterday say to me "I think it's adorable when you get annoyed." I guess that's why he always likes to annoy me.

  • @blackpinkbtstreasure
    @blackpinkbtstreasure 3 роки тому

    Just saw your videos. I love it! Thank you!

  • @fraisedesbois7240
    @fraisedesbois7240 2 роки тому +2

    "long, straight, dark hair"
    Marilyn Monroe : *am I a joke to you?*

    • @TeutonicTribe
      @TeutonicTribe 4 місяці тому

      Actually, yeah that was a big problem for her

  • @gracemwangi8075
    @gracemwangi8075 2 роки тому

    OMG! Your advice is priceless. I love all your videos..Keep it up please..

  • @sarahc561
    @sarahc561 4 роки тому +4

    The eye contact tip is genius!!

  • @jocelynnmpelaez7913
    @jocelynnmpelaez7913 4 роки тому +1

    Definitely do the body language video. By the way great job ], great teacher

  • @Heather-vg1dh
    @Heather-vg1dh 4 роки тому +43

    Great video Ryan . I say do the video on body language .

    • @carmencruz6724
      @carmencruz6724 4 роки тому +3

      Floral Moral you’re really the first comment bruh😳

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +1

      Excellent Floral! I'm brain-storming it now! 💁🏻‍♂️

  • @ashleyjohnson9971
    @ashleyjohnson9971 3 роки тому

    You just made my day by saying this looks really trippy 😂😂 but in all seriousness I am going to use the sunglasses trick because I need to work on eye contact I struggled with that for a while

  • @HerLoveJourneyy
    @HerLoveJourneyy 3 роки тому

    Some of these techniques will work so well and so quickly, it’ll almost feel like you have too much power!

  • @paulasmith3577
    @paulasmith3577 4 роки тому +2

    Yes, make the video!

  • @missanthropy2251
    @missanthropy2251 4 роки тому +10

    Any tips on how to bring out the magnetic personality and mindset? I don’t want to get stuck in another self fulfilling prophecy

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +4

      My suggestion would be to find what I call a Personal Stability Zone (or a PSZ, as I'm all about acronyms lol). For me, it was my high school stadium in my hometown on a Sunday afternoon -- super quiet and beautiful. Get quiet and still with yourself about who you are and what you stand for (i.e. what you value the most). This way, you're calling up that side of yourself without any extraneous voices around telling you "you can't have that"(for instance, family members that may not always have your best interests at heart). Finally, make an agreement with yourself that *you're not tied to any certain result* with men moving forward. There are no self-imposed deadlines or other silly things that are going to hinder your growth or make you feel like you're not making progress when you actually are 🙂

  • @Raihana2024
    @Raihana2024 3 роки тому

    Thank you Ryan for sharing these important information 🙏😊
    From among the points you mentioned, I think that the body language, precisely the eyes contact, reflects my personality, most of people whom I work with or those around my social relationship admit that they are attracted by my eyes, they say that they’re like a deep ocean of emotions and kind warm heart, and men sometimes avoid the eye contact with me as this makes them feeling sexually excited 😆.

  • @nunya257
    @nunya257 3 роки тому

    Great advice about the sunglasses! It’s all good advice.

  • @wildblackberry9164
    @wildblackberry9164 4 роки тому +3

    Thanks Ryan, absolutely do a video on body language! :)

  • @wtovell251
    @wtovell251 4 роки тому +1

    Yes, please do a body language video...about men and women's body language. Thank you so much :)

  • @Rubiastraify
    @Rubiastraify 4 роки тому +6

    Yes, please do a video on body language. This may sound odd/funny, but I use a combination of "tells" to gauge how a man might feel about me. Yes, I look at his body language, but I also trust my gut feelings. For example, recently I tried to express interest (friendly tone of voice/open body language) with a man in whom I was interested. He was giving me mixed signals, so for a time, I couldn't tell if he was just being friendly, or was interested in me. My guts were telling me he was just being friendly. Turns out that he's homosexual, so I have my answer! He *was* just being friendly. And, the tip-off to me were gestures and body language that I've only seen in homosexual men.
    On other areas - such as attractive qualities in men and attractive body language - to me - yes, physical attraction has a role, but someone's character - not just personality traits - are what pique my interest. I've met drop-dead handsome men that couldn't carry a conversation across the room who turned out to be very unattractive to me, and "so-so" guys who were real charmers in the area of character and knowing how to treat a woman, who were real turn-ons.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому

      Copy that! I've already got some good ideas cookin' for that body language vid! 🤗I like how you interpret what your gut is telling you, too. It sounds like it's an even mix of interpreting your heart & brain... That's the secret sauce! If you notice a guy keeps coming back, almost unnecessarily, to the point where you tell yourself "Oh... he's back!" Pay close attention to those guys. They'll want to keep talking and will keep plowing forward with the pursuit! When he gets wishy-washy and stops doing things he said he was going to do... NEXT!

    • @Rubiastraify
      @Rubiastraify 4 роки тому +1

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick Thanks for your response! Yes, many times it comes down to the quote from Maya Angelou: "When someone tells you who they are, BELIEVE THEM the first time."

  • @lovelee9315
    @lovelee9315 4 роки тому +1

    Yes.. we want that video

  • @gildastigliano7936
    @gildastigliano7936 4 роки тому +3

    my EUM is colorblind, sadly...red can't work---NEXT step!

  • @joannmaesoy5114
    @joannmaesoy5114 4 роки тому +1

    Yes I want that vedio..thank you

  • @laragardner1675
    @laragardner1675 4 роки тому +1

    Yes, detailed body language video

  • @yolandapai-ge7521
    @yolandapai-ge7521 4 роки тому +3

    Bravo! Even though you’re giving away Major Secrets it will still require a charismatic dainty objective to topple that list. 😅 I am adopting this list as my New 2020 outline. Great content this was Superb! 😎😘

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +2

      Thanks very much Yolanda! Yes, both science and psychology have a powerful voice (not to mention the numbers!) when it comes to how attraction really works 😁

    • @raymondderrick7632
      @raymondderrick7632 2 роки тому

      Beautiful lady how are you doing?

  • @isoldel.
    @isoldel. 4 роки тому +3

    Haha, omg the liner lisp is a true struggle!

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +1

      Been a year and I still can't get my speech right LOL with them in! Fortunately, we're now on the retainer version of the aligners, and you wear those only during sleep hours. The new aligners they have are 100% during sleep, so my wife and I missed that boat! That would have saved me a little embarrassment 😂😂

  • @FreedomUninterrupted
    @FreedomUninterrupted 4 роки тому +13

    So what I'm hearing Ryan say is nowadays ......men want us to look like the Kardashian sisters. LOL 🤣😅😏

    • @rhiannoncee3127
      @rhiannoncee3127 3 роки тому

      i literally have no waist to hip ratio this is trash and all about looks so far ugh

  • @joshbraithers6846
    @joshbraithers6846 2 роки тому

    Thanks! this really helped me!

  • @rosieharborne
    @rosieharborne 4 роки тому +2

    I made incredible eye contact with a guy but didnt know how to initiate conversation?

  • @lilyherbal2262
    @lilyherbal2262 3 роки тому

    Damn...Ryan! You’re a pro. I’m happily married but do enjoy your videos...👍🏻😆😆😆

  • @akirasweat1998
    @akirasweat1998 3 роки тому

    Wow, this is very helpful

  • @YouMissedLoosers
    @YouMissedLoosers 4 роки тому

    Very useful, thanks.

  • @charlottebronze6721
    @charlottebronze6721 4 роки тому +8

    Yes! make a body language video!

  • @robynfurse9148
    @robynfurse9148 4 роки тому

    I would love the comprehensive body language video. How will I know if you post it?

  • @barbieblue3336
    @barbieblue3336 3 роки тому +1

    The point is, to find a guy you like and then attract him with different ways. He is not saying to CHANGE, he is giving you research to pay attention to.

  • @bethnewhart1578
    @bethnewhart1578 4 роки тому +1

    Please do a video on where I can meet guys! Exclude dating apps and bars.

  • @hoodbratakajustcass2454
    @hoodbratakajustcass2454 2 роки тому

    I get loads of looks in these super cute red shorts

  • @ludwigvanbeethoven3896
    @ludwigvanbeethoven3896 3 роки тому

    Binge watching 10 videos of Ryan landed me here😃

  • @UniversoSpiritualUnido
    @UniversoSpiritualUnido 3 роки тому

    so funny loved the ad I'm getting smile

  • @ritvikkorrapati5667
    @ritvikkorrapati5667 3 роки тому +1

    I can’t wait to pull new guys

  • @geofferypmeyers
    @geofferypmeyers 4 роки тому +6

    Perfect, I’ve lost 80 pounds, I have braces, and I have extensions. 🤞🏼

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому

      Sounds like the full package is coming together nicely Sarah! 👍

    • @geofferypmeyers
      @geofferypmeyers 4 роки тому +5

      Ryan Patrick it’s sad that we have to change all these things about our appearance in order to attract a partner, but if I can change something about myself to improve my life I will. I also don’t want to be forever alone 🥺😂

    • @amberwren
      @amberwren 4 роки тому +5

      You're beautiful just as you are. Go you're personal best ✌🏻

  • @sarahbaldwin5842
    @sarahbaldwin5842 4 роки тому

    What’s the difference when a man says he’s dating or I am in a relationship?

  • @iinspiredmantic2301
    @iinspiredmantic2301 4 роки тому +1

    Hey Ryan, how are you all doing there? Great video,that pic of you as a kid was cute 🙂You had some really interesting tips 🙂 Tbh I don't focus on my appearance much anymore, except for my weight because I've been thinking about trying to join the army this year. I've been on a diet since xmas & I've lost 17lbs so far, but I gotta lose another 44lbs to meet their BMI requirement. I haven't completely given up on trying to find the right guy, but I'm also not worried about finding him atm. Ohhhkay... not entirely true, I actually really wanted a guy the other day when I scored a free tv. I can't set the damn thing up😩Not even YT videos could help me... & it ate 1 of my dvd's & it won't give it back 😕arghhh defeated by a tv once again, it's now collecting dust on top of my cupboard 😕
    The body language thing sounds interesting, you'll have to let me know what it means when a guy opens & shuts his legs like he's fanning a fart, his balls or both. There's a few guys here that do that & it would be nice to know why they're doing that, than assuming it's for those reasons🤮If it is for those reasons does that mean they're comfortable around me or are they being disrespectful?

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +1

      Hey Jax! Congrats on losing the 17 lbs! Not easy to do over the holidays!! I wanted to join the Air Force recently, since I'm getting close to the cut-off age, but now that I'm married, I don't know if I missed my timing for it... As for the guy, men typically take up space with their legs and bodies when they feel comfortable with you. Otherwise, they keep their bodies small and knees angled away from you. If he's spreading out, let's hope he's not THAT comfortable to be ripping a few in front of you! 🙄🤦🏻‍♂️Lol

    • @iinspiredmantic2301
      @iinspiredmantic2301 4 роки тому +1

      Thanks @@datingcoachryanpatrick 🙂it wasn't easy, I like food even when it's not xmas🤤That's cool you want to join the AirForce🙂You should give it a go, if that's something you're interested in 🙂There's plenty of married guys in the AirForce & you're a smart guy, you can do it if you tried/wanted too🙂I've had 2 heart attacks, my more recent 1 was last year at 34 & I'm still trying🙂
      Thanks for answering my question about the legs, I wished guys felt less comfortable in that regard😬 It's distracting when guys do that. It's like when people swing their leg or foot when they're sitting down, you get fixated on it because it's so annoying.

  • @npkrn6764
    @npkrn6764 4 роки тому

    In my 40s I too had to fix my smile again. I opted for actual braces BUT they were lingual braces (attached behind teeth). I had them on for two years and no one knew (unless I told them) and I consider it some of the best $$$ I ever spent! I looked at Smile Direct and Invisalign, but no way I could handle the not drinking any liquids without taking it out! I'm always sipping tea all day. Plus...people CAN see those supposedly "invisible" devices.

  • @butterflydiva72
    @butterflydiva72 4 роки тому +7

    Im a plus size woman and have been all of my life from puberty. I never had the confidence to look a man in the eyes or and god forbid they approach me!I was just too shy. Now I'm in my late 40s I am confident and strong. I can even approach a guy. Most every guy I meet tells me that I look fun and my confidence is what they notice from a distance. They love my smile as well and tell me a happy woman is highly attractive to them. It takes some doing and as Ryan said it takes time.

  • @normaramirez886
    @normaramirez886 4 роки тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @tabithacrapser6369
    @tabithacrapser6369 4 роки тому +1

    Yes for extensive body language video please

  • @reginak3607
    @reginak3607 4 роки тому

    Hi Ryan, So I wonder about cultural difference. Whether cultural difference changes things or not. I am from Europe, but I live in Japan, and the man I am interested in is a Japanese man. And I can tell you, it is a difficult situation.

  • @hoiliswu6070
    @hoiliswu6070 4 роки тому +2

    Wow thank you so much body language guy you are looking for handsome

  • @monicaredondo203
    @monicaredondo203 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Ryan, if I may, I would like to suggest that next video take place on a Friday or Saturday, to help with the time difference. I am 9 hours ahead which makes it very difficult to watch it live. Thank you.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому

      Hey Monica! Just so I'm clear, are you suggesting this particular video for the next UA-cam Live after next Wednesday's? Not my normal Monday video releases, correct?

    • @monicaredondo203
      @monicaredondo203 4 роки тому +1

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick Hi Ryan, yes I do. Just for the live videos, so more people can participate while it is taking place. The regular ones are fine because we do not have live imput. Thank you for responding to my message and have a nice day.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому

      @@monicaredondo203 I'm going to experiment with a few times for the UA-cam Lives over the next few months, so I'll make sure to try one over the weekend for sure Monica 🙌🏼

  • @karla54xd13
    @karla54xd13 4 роки тому +1

    If he stares at me but I look away, and he’s always around me and mocks my friends jokingly except me, and makes his voice louder when telling jokes, does that me he’s interested?
    Ps (both of us aren’t allowed to date so that’s why none of us made the move BUT I’m very curious if he likes me!)

  • @ShinyOctopus
    @ShinyOctopus Рік тому +1

    TYSM 😍😍🥰🥰

  • @sawkehelenhealth5438
    @sawkehelenhealth5438 3 роки тому

    What if you have the body the ankle are small to where all those, what do you do??? Legs are everybody

  • @christinewatson1989
    @christinewatson1989 3 роки тому

    This is very interesting. I hate styling my natural hair and heat damaging it so I like to wear a variety of wigs. I've found that when I wear the longer, straight dark ones I get WAYYYY more looks and comments from rando men.

  • @LeonSKennedy2002
    @LeonSKennedy2002 3 роки тому +1

    I’m just a few seconds into the video and not sure yet if this is what I’m looking for, I just started looking for people to date and have no idea how I let people passing me by on the streets know I’m interested. But reading through the comments I love how you seem to take your time to take care of the concerns of your viewers, which is really wholesome!

  • @annibananni2844
    @annibananni2844 3 роки тому +1

    Pixie cut. Jaw broken and an implant I have no control over. I’ve never been happier in my life and that energy flows more than when I was 30 and flawless. Usually a big fan, and I’m in healthcare so I get science, but we know so little about the brain that I don’t trust this much at all. FWIW, I’ve never had more compliments in my life than with my pixie cut - confidence is the most attractive. Hands down. Sadly this one leaves me wanting-super surface.

  • @tanaburgard1302
    @tanaburgard1302 4 роки тому

    Yes... that next body Lang vid PLEASE... Thx

  • @miriammezher4616
    @miriammezher4616 4 роки тому

    yes please do a video on body language

  • @vickiweber4718
    @vickiweber4718 4 роки тому +4

    I can never get my hair stick straight plus I prefer the red I color it.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 роки тому +3

      Rock that red hair, Vicki! That's the magic color of attraction after all! 😄

    • @mmc4214
      @mmc4214 4 роки тому +1

      I was born a Ginger (red hair) but am finding men do not appreciate it like I think they could or should. It seems fake red hair is more popular. Kinda sad for us, we are the real deal.

    • @raymondderrick7632
      @raymondderrick7632 2 роки тому

      Beautiful lady how are you doing?

  • @taweddingsdav8587
    @taweddingsdav8587 4 роки тому

    what is limit to move on man doesnt call back ?30 40 60 days?

  • @sarahlovesyewww
    @sarahlovesyewww 4 роки тому +90

    are you really suggesting to change your hair for a dude. DEAD

    • @annepro5548
      @annepro5548 4 роки тому +5

      Lol,,I guess I'm screwed because I have curly red hair and my hair is my glory. I'm not about to damage my hair with a straightner. Guess there's no point in bothering with a man at all

    • @illmeeillmee9373
      @illmeeillmee9373 4 роки тому +2

      oh shut up!! this is a general comment

    • @manojkumarp1
      @manojkumarp1 4 роки тому

      And......I have short straight dark hair....now what?

    • @raymondderrick7632
      @raymondderrick7632 2 роки тому

      Beautiful lady how are you doing?

  • @hayaamir3538
    @hayaamir3538 3 роки тому +2

    Sir please help I love a guy but he has already a girlfriend 😭😭😭😭

  • @normaramirez886
    @normaramirez886 4 роки тому +1

    Is it possible to intimidate men by being to confident?

  • @thomtevungpi2294
    @thomtevungpi2294 4 роки тому +6

    What about girls with glasses? Are guys less attracted to them?

  • @angelwings6193
    @angelwings6193 4 роки тому

    hi there ! love your vids, i was wondering if you have recomendations or tips on choosing a co that sells invisaligners, same story id wear mine at night but, my mom threw mine out, sigh, control, and wondering if you have this info to share w your viewers/fans/ yes i love seeing how others think on the subject, interesting how we mate,,, haha evolution of the species, perhaps, hahaha so id like to say thank you and a big shout out, to you, god bless,