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Met new guy at a park, there was an ant in my hair that he flicked out, I didn't recoil, but the ant landed on my breast!! You should've seen his face!! Then he said 'you'll have to get it now!' He said he wasn't risking getting smacked on the first date!! Lol.... thought you'd find that funny! We had a good laugh!
I play with my hair all the time, but not when I'm with guys I like. I'm going bald and I fear that by moving it I'll get their attention to one of my flaws, so... Last date I had, I decided to tie my hair halfway through it so I turned my back to him meanwhile... Probably gave away the wrong message :/ but they'll still catch it, I'm way too bald now
Usually when I like a guy, I’ll try to talk to him as much as possible plus flirt and ask him to hang out or shoot just even ask him out on a date. I ain’t afraid! I’ve confessed my feelings to someone before and he rejected me but I would’ve rather done that than keep quiet like I’ve done with my other former crushes.
It's important to be forthright, but in the beginning, try and see if you can spot signals he's feeling the same way about you. As a good rule of thumb, I'd hold off on disclosing true feeling until after consistently dating for a few months. Then, it won't come out of the blue to someone if you've been seeing them for a while 🙌🏼
I need to do this. I see this bag boy every so often. He’s so gorgeous. I am 17 (in July) and I don’t know his age or anything about him. Just his name..
So, hum I am a senior citizen who has a major crush on a neighbor. The problem is he's Brazilian. It's hard to read his interest. Although he speaks to me daily. He's said if I ever need anything don't hesitate to ask. Yesterday he told me I always seem so happy. He's very active. He's the headed maintenance man at a big resort. It's a spectacular job. Very covetted postion he's had for decades. His yard & house are beautiful. He still looks good for his age nice hair, beautiful smile, trim flat stomach... It's been more than 3 years & he hasn't made a move yet. Other then cutting my grass for free once.
I love how he gives advise but is Funny at the same time. Makes me feel more Relaxed instead of watching men give advice staring at the camera without blinking 😂
@Moi Maris: let's pray to Jesus Almighty that pandemic gets over , so u may rejoin your beloved soon 😊😇🙏 I feel ur guy must be a shy person, that's why he might be behaving differently.
Very helpful. I'm a huge flirt, sometimes it's not even on purpose but I agree with everything you said. The part where he's fidgety and that's a good sign surprised me a little but now I'm more sure the guy I like likes me too, so thank you.
Thank you! I needed this! For me I am very jittery but also very friendly and sometimes my friendliness sometimes gets mistaken for flirting or whatever so thank you!!
You bet, Bella! Yup, if you can practice just slow down your movements and speech when you feel all that coming on, you might find those involuntary responses stop happening over time 😉
I always give myself a “spritz” of angel, my signature perfume. I even keep one handy in my car door pocket & if i get pulled over i mist a cloud while they cop is walking over to my window, roll it down when his face is close & i ask what’s the matter! Never got a ticket yet
the eye contact thing works so well when he’s like a full foot taller. especially if you have a hat on. example; into my coworker. he’s a lot taller. we wear hats (it’s a restaurant.) so if i want to make eyecontact, i have to strain my neck, otherwise my hat will block my line of eyesight from him. it makes it obvious. the eyecontact thing i’ve been doing since before this, i didn’t really know about it. and from that point on he started hitting on me.
This is really good to know. My crush is 6'3" and I'm 5'5", and we definitely do make eye contact at random moments sometimes. I'll keep the elevations in mind and maybe even at some point let it be obvious like you did naturally with the hat! (This is one of my brothers' favorite human beings in the world so the dynamic is close, but very delicate.)
Hi Ryan, I recently found your channel and I am enjoying your videos immensely. I was drawn to it as someone who is interested in becoming a relationship coach, but also as someone who is single. All your topics are amazing and very helpful, not only for dating and relationship purposes but also for self-growth. As I was watching your videos I was thinking of my past experiences, how I put myself out there and what may be holding me back. So with being connected to body language, I'd love to see a video on dating and being in a relationship while suffering from Anxiety (or any kind of mental health issues) since having anxiety can hugely impact how you date and how you form relationships.
Earlier, I just searched "How to communicate with your crush nonverbally" and saw first MEN'S BODY LANGUAGE DECODED. now I'm here at your another video. Thank you, tho.
Anyone else read the board behind him as "How to get the spork back in a relationship"?? 😂 I'm hoping that means I need glasses, not that I'm doomed to be alone forever haha
The first time my crush touched me, he scared the crap out of me and I punched him in the stomach. I was doing work on a computer and he got a scam phone call. (There are some really bad ones going around Canada telling you that you're social insurance number has committed fraud) we had talked about them and had a good laugh about how bad the grammar was, so he decided it would be funny to come up behind me and put his phone up to my ear while resting the other on my shoulder... well I've been in the military for 10 years and don't respond well to being grabbed from behind... I felt so bad, and appologised profusely... it's been a month, and he just gave me a gentle shoulder pat. So hopefully I didn't scar him too much😅
I had one guy literally lean against me at the bar . From time to time. He was gross and just got there. Sober. So I knew he was doing it on purpose- so after he did it three times I moved on the other side next to my friend and the guy leaned back, shocked I wasn't there and made a huge scene knocking over a bar stool and moving another one. My friends were 🤣😂
oh my god i’m already doing all of this. and i just watched the video on how to tell if a guy “friend” is interested in you on a more than friendly level and he does all of THOSE. i think we’re both just too nervous to tell each other whoops
The consistent advice I run into is to cultivate a friendship, so if you meet someone how can you develop that friendship while considering a relation in the future..is that even a thing?
Casy that is exactly what i’m trying to do! i’m trying to be friends with my crush and get to know him as a friend first. I don’t want to act too casual toward him because i don’t want to be treated as one of the guys. Hopefully i can muster up to be more flirty toward him whenever we hang out so that he’ll get the hint and hopefully be together lol
For sure, Casy. It's about building up trust now so you can build up intimacy later. Trust and intimacy are the two bedrocks of what will make the long-term relationship last down the road. Focus on the trust within the friendship now 😉
Hey Ryan, I hope you & Brittney are doing well 🙂Thanks for another great video🙂I could've gone with this video the other day lol 🙂 Especially the opposite part, I've been trying to reject a guy by avoiding & ignoring him. Which has caused him to do things he knows will piss me off to get my attention. Long story short... he finally got my attention on Saturday. I lost my cool & called him some really horrible names. Which I honestly meant, but I didn't mean to say them to him. Which sucks because he's gone from annoying me because he likes me to now annoying me because he doesn't 😩I just wanted him to leave me alone to begin with.
Thank you, Jax! I really believe, aside from the negative body language I mentioned in the video, we can all take advantage of the "social distancing" excuse to get away from people who we don't care to be around. I have a feeling that will become the go-to breakup text of a generation... 🤔🤦🏻♂️😄
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Most certainly 🙂Though I reckon coughing might be more effective, they'd have to decide are you a risk or not & are they willing to take that gamble 😇Social distancing for most people is impossible, I have the opposite problem. I can talk to people online, but I can't stand being around them in person & those I can stand to be around in person, I can't stand talking to them online because they're 💩with computers😂 Anyways... take care of yourself, Brittney & your loved one during this virus & congratulations on hitting 50K 🥂🍾
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thanks for being so awesome 🙂 I love all of your videos & the fact you let me be me & aren't offended by it. The dating coach I use to watch before I found your channel, he'd grumble at me, hide & remove my comments. Then one day I saw your comment on his channel & I haven't looked back 🙂 Yours & Brittney's advice has been really helpful & it's nice feeling accepted, I consider you both as friends & it's so awesome to have smart educated down to earth funny people like you, Brittney & your followers to talk too 🙂 I wish you & your channel all the success in the world, 100K & beyond 🙂
Oh I almost forgot...how about a body language video with current COVID precautions in place? Like the mask hides the smile and the social distancing etc...
Lol I’m 32 years old and have never been approached in public ever. Nor has anyone asked me for my number or given me theirs. Does this really happen in real life?
@@datingcoachryanpatrick I hope everything calms down soon. This is craziness Ryan. My job was closed because of this nonsense. And right at the time I now have 2 guys all into me. Yikes! Take care of yourself and Britney
When you were talking about eye contact it made me think about how my crush always has staring competitions with me. Could that be a sign for something?
Love your videos!!! Because of the COVID-19 situation and the social distancing; do you have tips or advise on how to keep our partners still focused on us? Specially if we’re not in a serious relationship yet. Thank you for reading. 🙂
Great list! Can you think of tips to get one step closet to a date in this time of social distance and maybe Facetime instead of IRL ? How do you get a guy to talk freely after texting for some time? It can be weeks until we can meet in person... Take care from Amsterdam 🙏
NEED ADVICEEEEEE So theres this guy and we never talked much except when we were talking to a mutual friend Now all of the sudden after our homecoming game (which was the last game because it got canceled due to covid) he started saying hi to me Like we NEVER talked without a mutual friend and now hes saying hi to me like what? Hes all bubbly and his voice goes higher like "Hi Queen Sparkles!" and now we cant go walking past each other without saying hi without getting offended jokingly Can guys or something tell me whats going on? I mean I think he might like me but idk mannn we havn't really gone past "how was your day? " "whats your next class" or "have a nice day" I need help with these signsssss
On that last video about reading guys body language, I found out that I do a lot of those things when I’m with my friends…. I think I am gay for my friends 💀💀💀
I definitely hate playing with my hair in public since I never got into a habit unless, of course, to angrily get pesky strands of hair out of my mouth or eyes. When speaking to people I always make eye contact since it is rude not to.
I do all the signs for the guy to not approach and he always does. I'd be into him if he wasnt already taken. Idk it's going to take awhile since guys dont read body language as quickly lol
When I enter his personal zone threshold and smile to him, what if he doesnt smile back? Shall I understand that I should stand far from him to talk to him or that he’s not interested at all and I should go away immediately?
I never smile with my teeth showing unless I'm laughing. I look very unnatural to smile with all my teeth showing. Usually, I just smile big from ear to ear but my lips will still be close.
I wish you had another channel. One with Britney. She probably has advice from a female prospective. Unless she dosen't want to be on camera. That's understandable. It could be a channel about sustaining a relationships and marriage.
I get nervous easily i have no experience whatsoever so I have no idea what I'm doing 99% of that time! I don't talk to guys very often mostly because they make me nervous
I play with my hair all the time, but not when I'm with guys I like. I'm going bald and I fear that by touching/moving it I'll get their attention to one of my flaws, so... Last date I had, I decided to tie my hair halfway through it so I turned my back to him meanwhile... Probably gave away the wrong message :/
Hi Ryan . I am avid fan of yours. Can you make a video regarding on how to figure out whether the guy has a crush on you , the first time they met you?. Thank you and Godbless sir Ryan😊😊
They're probably saying that because they think that's what you want to hear. They might not be serious about starting a relationship lol trust your instincts
When a guy moves too fast like that, be careful. You're right, it's not genuine. He may just want sex or to give you a false sense of security so you'll trust them faster. But their motives may be sinister ❌
I work with roughly 50 men. My problem is I am a friendly person and so I have a good working relationship with everyone. (I am not a social person, I can only do that at a working setting because it is work). So I will smile, joke, laugh at jokes and reply to teasing with teasing. This creates two problems. One, I know some mistake that as attraction. Second, how to act around the one who I want to show actual interest without making a fool of myself at work. Oh, and third, since I am friendly with everyone, how do I tell if his firendly replies are just that
Ah the playing with hair is a girl thing ? , if a guy thinks we like him by playing with hair then what do you do if you dont like a guy and still play with your hair , i play with my hair alot when im deep in thought ! Its more of a relaxing thing then anything
Yeah.. I don't know my own strength so my "playful push" nearly pushed him out of a chair and to the ground... Thus, it was followed by an "Oh my gosh! Are YOU OK?" Good thing he found it funny... he's was laughing pretty hard.
I was walking into a store there was his pretty girl standing near the front entrance.. I looked at her she looked back at me for 3 seconds. Then she turns her head to the left walks away to the left. I watched her walk away to the beauty counter she worked there. I could not walk over there what could i buy at the beauty counter? Should I have walked over there? Make up I'm buying something for my sister, friend as a birthday gift?? She did not look back at me. Was there interest? She was the 1st to look away. She did have a smerk on her face as she turned her head walk away. No smile as we looked at each other for 3 seconds.
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Me rewatching this video after a year for another person:👁️👄👁️
Me rewatching this after two weeks for another crush: 👁️👄👁️
And the year after
Hahahaha
I can’t figure out if this girl used tactics on me or it’s been both of us just vibing. Well even if she did sure as f**k worked 😭.
😹 you’re the best
Am i the only one that loves Ryan’s sense of humor ?
Aww thanks Dina 🙂🙂
Haha no you're not alone. 😅
Me too!😊
no, 🤣
No
Met new guy at a park, there was an ant in my hair that he flicked out, I didn't recoil, but the ant landed on my breast!! You should've seen his face!! Then he said 'you'll have to get it now!' He said he wasn't risking getting smacked on the first date!! Lol.... thought you'd find that funny! We had a good laugh!
I hope he's asked you out by now.
And???
@@barbieblue3336 didn't work out, he felt we lived too far from each other!
@@Bridgets524😢💔
“Playing with Your Hair”
Me, who plays with my hair because I have anxiety: Now I know why so many guys think I like them 😂
Same! It’s just a habit for me, but It has gotten me in trouble so many times bc they think I’m flirting with them 😂
If I do anything with my hair, men always hit on me more.
Enchanted Luna exactly! Same here I hate it lol
I play with my hair all the time, but not when I'm with guys I like. I'm going bald and I fear that by moving it I'll get their attention to one of my flaws, so...
Last date I had, I decided to tie my hair halfway through it so I turned my back to him meanwhile... Probably gave away the wrong message :/ but they'll still catch it, I'm way too bald now
maybe i’m not a woman hahah i don’t do tgis . if i like a guy i tend to not talk to them or completely ignore them .
Me, too! I can talk to any guy in the world, EXCEPT a guy I'm attracted to...
i just giggle and look at them way too much
SAME!💀💀
I think this is if you actually want them to know that you like them
It's a Introvert thing, if you're shy or introvert. You'll not talk to him ever. I for one don't talk to Men, because I'm not into Men at all.
hope these work from six feet away...damn you corona virus social distancing...
Might have to wait just a few weeks to work these moves yes 😩
😂
@@datingcoachryanpatrick six months ago lol...
Just wear stronger cologne lol....someone needs to invent a special one lol ...vivid covid chanel
@@datingcoachryanpatrick this aged poorly... *lol*
Usually when I like a guy, I’ll try to talk to him as much as possible plus flirt and ask him to hang out or shoot just even ask him out on a date. I ain’t afraid!
I’ve confessed my feelings to someone before and he rejected me but I would’ve rather done that than keep quiet like I’ve done with my other former crushes.
It's important to be forthright, but in the beginning, try and see if you can spot signals he's feeling the same way about you. As a good rule of thumb, I'd hold off on disclosing true feeling until after consistently dating for a few months. Then, it won't come out of the blue to someone if you've been seeing them for a while 🙌🏼
I’m sorry girl but you are radiating masculine energy!!
@@biancacherry7059 ?
No
I need to do this. I see this bag boy every so often. He’s so gorgeous. I am 17 (in July) and I don’t know his age or anything about him. Just his name..
“Deliberate eye contact”
👁👄👁
Started doing that with my crush... we’ll see how it goes ;)
@@mari4nne how did it go???
@@hermoinegranger7165 well I’m confused, I think he was scared to be in a relationship… but he definitely loved me back. Yeah it’s tough 😭
@@mari4nne owww it's okie don't be sad he'll come to you someday or a more better suitable person will come to your life✨💜❤️
@@hermoinegranger7165 thank uuu! I’ll try to get him back! and if it doesn’t work I’ll move on 💖
So, hum I am a senior citizen who has a major crush on a neighbor. The problem is he's Brazilian. It's hard to read his interest. Although he speaks to me daily. He's said if I ever need anything don't hesitate to ask. Yesterday he told me I always seem so happy. He's very active. He's the headed maintenance man at a big resort. It's a spectacular job. Very covetted postion he's had for decades. His yard & house are beautiful. He still looks good for his age nice hair, beautiful smile, trim flat stomach... It's been more than 3 years & he hasn't made a move yet. Other then cutting my grass for free once.
Thank you for including the shy people not just the confident, out going people!!:)
I get all giggly and nervous around him, you think he knows? 😝
I love how he gives advise but is Funny at the same time. Makes me feel more Relaxed instead of watching men give advice staring at the camera without blinking 😂
“Play with your hair”
Me as a hijabi 😀
💀
😂😂😂😂
Same lol
Wtf is a hijabi just say you're a Muslim woman
Then you make it❤😂
can you do a video about eyes, considering most of us have to wear masks these days.. 😷
Omg yes
The moment he looked in my eyes and I in his eyes from a short distance was the best day of 2020. It was magical. I hope we somehow get in touch again
@Moi Maris: let's pray to Jesus Almighty that pandemic gets over , so u may rejoin your beloved soon 😊😇🙏 I feel ur guy must be a shy person, that's why he might be behaving differently.
@@Gianni.chellini Thank you very much. Amen
@@moimaris3369 how r u doing there? Any update on ur situation with your crush? How is it going on? Does he try to contact you or make a move?
Omg same to me.
This is great but what happens when my brain spazzes when I see them
Totally underrated comment!
This is me ... I have failed 😔..... he looked at me and I froze and looked away .. today he actually can close I still felled 🚶🏽♀️
I absolutely love it when you say “Right Now” It’s so cute....
Very helpful. I'm a huge flirt, sometimes it's not even on purpose but I agree with everything you said. The part where he's fidgety and that's a good sign surprised me a little but now I'm more sure the guy I like likes me too, so thank you.
Heey could you do one about meeting and talking to guys on apps for those of us who are stuck at home and bored, shout-out to covid19 💃
Hmmm maybe "Teasing through Text" to get him hooked on meeting you after social distancing passes? 🤔
@@datingcoachryanpatrick yeeeees please 🌝
Ryan Patrick yes
angela collins it’s a yes from me to lol
@@datingcoachryanpatrick when is social distancing passing? I don't think 2020 lol
My favorite thing to do is to slowly roll my eyes during eye contact with a subtle half smile. It’s my favorite type of tease
Thank you! I needed this! For me I am very jittery but also very friendly and sometimes my friendliness sometimes gets mistaken for flirting or whatever so thank you!!
You bet, Bella! Yup, if you can practice just slow down your movements and speech when you feel all that coming on, you might find those involuntary responses stop happening over time 😉
Ryan Patrick awesome thank you!
I always give myself a “spritz” of angel, my signature perfume. I even keep one handy in my car door pocket & if i get pulled over i mist a cloud while they cop is walking over to my window, roll it down when his face is close & i ask what’s the matter! Never got a ticket yet
That’s a good one..😂
I was sitting beside him and almost automatic laid my head on his shoulder/cheast and he hold my hand like it was normal. I think I’m good🤷♀️😅
And?
Yooo go Girl 😂😂
@@barbieblue3336 Shut tf up
@@haroldedwardstyles4392 i thnk she's just asking what happened next, idk
That's beautiful!
Ure my backbone for my dating process
Glad I can back you up! 🙌🏼
I cross my arms all the time, it's a comfortable habit...x
Hi Ryan, I'm a single mom and would like to try and date again. Can you do a video for single moms looking to date?
the eye contact thing works so well when he’s like a full foot taller. especially if you have a hat on. example; into my coworker. he’s a lot taller. we wear hats (it’s a restaurant.) so if i want to make eyecontact, i have to strain my neck, otherwise my hat will block my line of eyesight from him. it makes it obvious. the eyecontact thing i’ve been doing since before this, i didn’t really know about it. and from that point on he started hitting on me.
This is really good to know. My crush is 6'3" and I'm 5'5", and we definitely do make eye contact at random moments sometimes. I'll keep the elevations in mind and maybe even at some point let it be obvious like you did naturally with the hat! (This is one of my brothers' favorite human beings in the world so the dynamic is close, but very delicate.)
Hi Ryan,
I recently found your channel and I am enjoying your videos immensely. I was drawn to it as someone who is interested in becoming a relationship coach, but also as someone who is single. All your topics are amazing and very helpful, not only for dating and relationship purposes but also for self-growth. As I was watching your videos I was thinking of my past experiences, how I put myself out there and what may be holding me back. So with being connected to body language, I'd love to see a video on dating and being in a relationship while suffering from Anxiety (or any kind of mental health issues) since having anxiety can hugely impact how you date and how you form relationships.
Wow!! It’s my first time on this channel!! You’re so informative! I really enjoyed watching! Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge :)!
Thanks Tatiana! Nice to have you here 🙂
Yes. Ryan gives great practical advice! And always straightforward.
Obsessively watching all your videos wondering where you were 3 years ago. I love this channel 😍 thanks for all your work and for sharing it
If we end up dating I’m gonna miss searching up how to tell if he likes me and how to attract him
Earlier, I just searched "How to communicate with your crush nonverbally" and saw first MEN'S BODY LANGUAGE DECODED. now I'm here at your another video. Thank you, tho.
I struggle with maintaining eye contact.
Anyone else read the board behind him as "How to get the spork back in a relationship"?? 😂 I'm hoping that means I need glasses, not that I'm doomed to be alone forever haha
LOL 😂 Sporks are *very important* in a relationship
@@datingcoachryanpatrick I don't like spooning I like sporking 😂
🤣🤣
What's a spork?
*Expressing interest in a genuine and subtle manner is so important. Let's embrace these tips and be confident in showing our feelings.*
The first time my crush touched me, he scared the crap out of me and I punched him in the stomach.
I was doing work on a computer and he got a scam phone call. (There are some really bad ones going around Canada telling you that you're social insurance number has committed fraud) we had talked about them and had a good laugh about how bad the grammar was, so he decided it would be funny to come up behind me and put his phone up to my ear while resting the other on my shoulder... well I've been in the military for 10 years and don't respond well to being grabbed from behind... I felt so bad, and appologised profusely... it's been a month, and he just gave me a gentle shoulder pat. So hopefully I didn't scar him too much😅
😂😂😂
This is a great video! I’m happy that I found it and will start to use these tips asap. Thanks!!
I cried laughing at the present your neck and apply chapstick bit 🤣 it turned into a herbal essences ad in my mind 😋
That is going to be difficult for me as most of the signals I do because I actually feel insecure and timid.
I had one guy literally lean against me at the bar . From time to time. He was gross and just got there. Sober. So I knew he was doing it on purpose- so after he did it three times I moved on the other side next to my friend and the guy leaned back, shocked I wasn't there and made a huge scene knocking over a bar stool and moving another one. My friends were 🤣😂
oh my god i’m already doing all of this. and i just watched the video on how to tell if a guy “friend” is interested in you on a more than friendly level and he does all of THOSE. i think we’re both just too nervous to tell each other whoops
i’m literally 20 years old and i feel like a little 15 year old with a crush again watching videos like this lmao
@@dandelion2490 Any updates?👀
Cute! c:
The consistent advice I run into is to cultivate a friendship, so if you meet someone how can you develop that friendship while considering a relation in the future..is that even a thing?
Casy that is exactly what i’m trying to do! i’m trying to be friends with my crush and get to know him as a friend first. I don’t want to act too casual toward him because i don’t want to be treated as one of the guys. Hopefully i can muster up to be more flirty toward him whenever we hang out so that he’ll get the hint and hopefully be together lol
I actually like this plan a lot! Definitely distinguish yourself from his guy friends 🙌🏼
For sure, Casy. It's about building up trust now so you can build up intimacy later. Trust and intimacy are the two bedrocks of what will make the long-term relationship last down the road. Focus on the trust within the friendship now 😉
Great information - thank you!
Hey Ryan, I hope you & Brittney are doing well 🙂Thanks for another great video🙂I could've gone with this video the other day lol 🙂 Especially the opposite part, I've been trying to reject a guy by avoiding & ignoring him. Which has caused him to do things he knows will piss me off to get my attention. Long story short... he finally got my attention on Saturday. I lost my cool & called him some really horrible names. Which I honestly meant, but I didn't mean to say them to him. Which sucks because he's gone from annoying me because he likes me to now annoying me because he doesn't 😩I just wanted him to leave me alone to begin with.
Thank you, Jax! I really believe, aside from the negative body language I mentioned in the video, we can all take advantage of the "social distancing" excuse to get away from people who we don't care to be around. I have a feeling that will become the go-to breakup text of a generation... 🤔🤦🏻♂️😄
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Most certainly 🙂Though I reckon coughing might be more effective, they'd have to decide are you a risk or not & are they willing to take that gamble 😇Social distancing for most people is impossible, I have the opposite problem. I can talk to people online, but I can't stand being around them in person & those I can stand to be around in person, I can't stand talking to them online because they're 💩with computers😂
Anyways... take care of yourself, Brittney & your loved one during this virus & congratulations on hitting 50K 🥂🍾
@@iinspiredmantic2301 You too, Jax! And thank you so much for being there since the beginning! 🤗On to 100K!
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thanks for being so awesome 🙂 I love all of your videos & the fact you let me be me & aren't offended by it. The dating coach I use to watch before I found your channel, he'd grumble at me, hide & remove my comments. Then one day I saw your comment on his channel & I haven't looked back 🙂 Yours & Brittney's advice has been really helpful & it's nice feeling accepted, I consider you both as friends & it's so awesome to have smart educated down to earth funny people like you, Brittney & your followers to talk too 🙂 I wish you & your channel all the success in the world, 100K & beyond 🙂
True. This is a very informative videos. Ty
Oh I almost forgot...how about a body language video with current COVID precautions in place? Like the mask hides the smile and the social distancing etc...
Ew I hate seeing the world Corona virus and 2 years ago like dang it’s been a long time
Lol I’m 32 years old and have never been approached in public ever. Nor has anyone asked me for my number or given me theirs. Does this really happen in real life?
Ryan salute..like your advices..i swear they work..thankss and big up alot 💋💋😍😍✌✌👌
Thanks Amina! 😉
Thanks Ryan! Very educational
Obviously these should be applied after social distancing calms down but 💁🏻♂️Thanks Jen!
@@datingcoachryanpatrick I hope everything calms down soon. This is craziness Ryan. My job was closed because of this nonsense. And right at the time I now have 2 guys all into me. Yikes! Take care of yourself and Britney
@@DrJenTattoo You too Jen!!
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thank you Ryan! Happy St. Patrick's day 🌈🍀
All of your videos are so helpful ! Thank you ! 💕
Thanks so much, Bailey! 😀
When you were talking about eye contact it made me think about how my crush always has staring competitions with me. Could that be a sign for something?
What do I do if I'm nervous and kinda untrusting of people because of past interactions with others and bullying.
Love your videos!!! Because of the COVID-19 situation and the social distancing; do you have tips or advise on how to keep our partners still focused on us? Specially if we’re not in a serious relationship yet. Thank you for reading. 🙂
So hard to see the smile with a mask on so I guess I’ll have to focus on the eye muscles lol
Ok 3rd time watching this video, these tips r super helpful & I wanna make sure I have these tips down
Great list! Can you think of tips to get one step closet to a date in this time of social distance and maybe Facetime instead of IRL ? How do you get a guy to talk freely after texting for some time? It can be weeks until we can meet in person... Take care from Amsterdam 🙏
NEED ADVICEEEEEE
So theres this guy and we never talked much except when we were talking to a mutual friend
Now all of the sudden after our homecoming game (which was the last game because it got canceled due to covid) he started saying hi to me
Like we NEVER talked without a mutual friend and now hes saying hi to me like what?
Hes all bubbly and his voice goes higher like "Hi Queen Sparkles!" and now we cant go walking past each other without saying hi without getting offended jokingly
Can guys or something tell me whats going on? I mean I think he might like me but idk mannn we havn't really gone past "how was your day? " "whats your next class" or "have a nice day"
I need help with these signsssss
My head is shaved and my teeth are bad. What can I do? I can’t play with my hair or smile showing all my teeth.
New subscriber here 🙋♀️ You're amazing and your videos are on point 🤩
On that last video about reading guys body language, I found out that I do a lot of those things when I’m with my friends…. I think I am gay for my friends 💀💀💀
So helpful. Love this video 😊
Your so great Ryan love your videos!!! Keep them coming !!!
Love your videos and you make me laugh !!! J'adore
How do I know if I've been friend zoned?
I definitely hate playing with my hair in public since I never got into a habit unless, of course, to angrily get pesky strands of hair out of my mouth or eyes. When speaking to people I always make eye contact since it is rude not to.
Right
I do all the signs for the guy to not approach and he always does. I'd be into him if he wasnt already taken. Idk it's going to take awhile since guys dont read body language as quickly lol
Great video Ryan.
Thank you, Shirley! 😃
Wow so I have just naturally been doing all these thing and somehow knew I was flirting and attracting the guy.
Huh.
When I enter his personal zone threshold and smile to him, what if he doesnt smile back? Shall I understand that I should stand far from him to talk to him or that he’s not interested at all and I should go away immediately?
I never smile with my teeth showing unless I'm laughing. I look very unnatural to smile with all my teeth showing. Usually, I just smile big from ear to ear but my lips will still be close.
You're so good at this. ❤💯🤙🌹
I wish you had another channel. One with Britney. She probably has advice from a female prospective. Unless she dosen't want to be on camera. That's understandable. It could be a channel about sustaining a relationships and marriage.
I'm picturing the scenario in my head, knowing it would never happen 🤣🤣.. Will probably try to use the inputs though..
Him "smile" .. covid/masks.
Me "smile with you're eyes. Got it and no touch I guess"..
How am I supposed to play with my hair if I dont have any??🤣🤣🤣
How do I tell him I like him?
I get nervous easily i have no experience whatsoever so I have no idea what I'm doing 99% of that time! I don't talk to guys very often mostly because they make me nervous
Ah like button highlighted this time! 😂😂😂
Thank you for the tips! 😊
Looked a bit surprised, and then give a coy smile as a come back?
I play with my hair all the time, but not when I'm with guys I like. I'm going bald and I fear that by touching/moving it I'll get their attention to one of my flaws, so...
Last date I had, I decided to tie my hair halfway through it so I turned my back to him meanwhile... Probably gave away the wrong message :/
yey finally...thank you🙂
Sure thing, Cebile! 👍🏼
Thank you so much
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Hi Ryan . I am avid fan of yours. Can you make a video regarding on how to figure out whether the guy has a crush on you , the first time they met you?. Thank you and Godbless sir Ryan😊😊
The hair & neck signals, are there versions of these for those of us with natural afro-like hair?
Very good. Thank you!
Playing with you hair:
Me having ADHD: I'm doing that all the time...👁👄👁
What if my teeth are ugly and I don’t want to smile that big?
I think my trainer and I are flirting and we do a lot of eye contact but I'm not sure about the walking close so he can smell me lol
I watch his videos just for his hilarious face expressions he does throughout the video 🤣
hi just a question, what it means when a guy says "iloveu" "ilikeu" on the second date but i feels like its not genuine. thanks😊
They're probably saying that because they think that's what you want to hear. They might not be serious about starting a relationship lol trust your instincts
When a guy moves too fast like that, be careful. You're right, it's not genuine. He may just want sex or to give you a false sense of security so you'll trust them faster. But their motives may be sinister ❌
Yup yup!
thank you😊
He is a little confused and wants to fund out how you feel to keep on or delay some
I got too anxious on the last date to maintain eye contact. He was really staring lol
Again - this guy is awesome!
I work with roughly 50 men. My problem is I am a friendly person and so I have a good working relationship with everyone. (I am not a social person, I can only do that at a working setting because it is work). So I will smile, joke, laugh at jokes and reply to teasing with teasing. This creates two problems. One, I know some mistake that as attraction. Second, how to act around the one who I want to show actual interest without making a fool of myself at work. Oh, and third, since I am friendly with everyone, how do I tell if his firendly replies are just that
Ah the playing with hair is a girl thing ? , if a guy thinks we like him by playing with hair then what do you do if you dont like a guy and still play with your hair , i play with my hair alot when im deep in thought ! Its more of a relaxing thing then anything
Omgad this is gold
Yeah.. I don't know my own strength so my "playful push" nearly pushed him out of a chair and to the ground... Thus, it was followed by an "Oh my gosh! Are YOU OK?"
Good thing he found it funny... he's was laughing pretty hard.
It's totally normal.. Men can only do one thing at a time but women two
I was walking into a store there was his pretty girl standing near the front entrance.. I looked at her she looked back at me for 3 seconds. Then she turns her head to the left walks away to the left. I watched her walk away to the beauty counter she worked there. I could not walk over there what could i buy at the beauty counter? Should I have walked over there? Make up I'm buying something for my sister, friend as a birthday gift?? She did not look back at me. Was there interest? She was the 1st to look away. She did have a smerk on her face as she turned her head walk away. No smile as we looked at each other for 3 seconds.