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You are absolutely right..Dont mentioned about sex,dont think about sex and dont talk about sex in 30 days minimum..you will know if he is really into you..I follow your advice and I am grateful..my boyfriend always chase me even if we are already in a relationship..he is consistent and he always initiate the talks,the calls and the messages.He is proud that I am his girlfriend,and always wanted to be with me not to just have an intimate moment but to cherish every moment.He let his sister know me,also his mom and told his dad about me when we are together while he is talking to them on the phone either voice call or video calls..I saw the big beautiful smile on him while mentioning about me..He always prioritize me.I am so happy and grateful..he always worried about me..he is my hero..
I am a Muslim woman and I don't date. I just watch ur videos to understand relationships better. U talk good. Thank you for sharing bcz I see everyone is going through some problems in relationships!
Make him wait for the cookie, oldest rule in the book, but still works. And if hes just looking for that one thing and you're not you'll know pretty quickly.
What if he likes you so much but you give him intimacy on a 3rd date? But still he said he likes you and he is in love. I did it too quickly maybe and Im afraid he wont make an effort in relationship.
Not gonna lie, when you said "hot and cold guys" I was singing Hot N Cold by Katy Perry in my head. That song is basically your tip in musical form haha
Well done Ryan, that's the 1st time I've seen a plus size person in the stock footage on a coaching video like this!! Thank you! And thank you for using her in a positive empowering moment too!
RYAN I DID IT! I noticed guy on the road when I was driving and he was turning a corner and he was staring at me and I stared at him and he turn the whole corner looking at me and I looked at him it was funnier than shit made my day thank you 👏😆🤣
Hi Ryan, the next time I was driving and saw some guys in work truck so as I turned corner I glanced that way and the driver said “F I N E”. I am really liking this 😂🤣😆♥️
Ryan, I have to tell you that I'm so glad I came across your videos! I appreciate them so much! I realize a lot of things I've always done the wrong way now and after applying so many of your techniques and seeing results, I am simply amazed at how they work for me! So, thank you so much, from the bottom of my heart! You're awesome!
Have a conversation with him about what you want. If he's not on the same page take a step back and take away the benifits! Then just follow this video!
Oh my God Ryan I love your video. This is a great video for everyone and I think I have learned so much from it today. I like this guy a lot and he was pursuing me but I feel like he needs to do it more and I have learned some stuff from your video today which I might start doing it thank you
Oh yes, scoring system is something I use from the very 1st moment I see the guy, even if this is a virtual world to start. My minimum score consists of university degree, no kids, politeness and etiquette. Next goes all other things you mentioned.
I love this video and I love you😳I just wish sometimes I don't forget all your tips when I'm with my boyfriend on outtings 😵😵Omw to the boyfriend blueprint rn... It's needed.
Ryan Can you please do a video about age difference. I am talking and getting close with a man 23yrs younger than me. I just want to know if this relationship is worth pursuing. I like his personality and sense of humor and he really likes me.
Love the advice you have to offer, Ryan! I only wish I would’ve found you a few short months ago. Would’ve saved me some heartache. I definitely am learning from this point fwd 😄
Thank you for helping me to see things a different way, this self worth thing after a abusive relationship is hard going.. But guidance helps a lot 🤗 x
@@gingerfellah5665 Not all men are like that, I've got into a pattern of letting men use me, especially since losing my son, I was looking in the wrong places for some love & Paul the man who abused me saw me coming, just take your time, watching these videos from Ryan they help so much to know we're not flying solo, I can see the things I do wrong I've got to relearn so much but im sure you'll find a lovely man. Just take it one step at at time 🤗 xx
hi i meet a guy hes so perfect in my eyes i like hes personalities, hes looks,, and we commit into relationships .. i see my self fallin in love with so bad .. and i cant see on him the way i love him, after 2 months i am so confused if he really love me or want me ,im thinking maybe he just afraid of telling me and he wants to dump me... so i decided to break up with him and hes just so easy to accept to we will end our relationship and now i feel so broken and so sad.. after i said that i need to end the relationship and he agreed he never message me , and i did not also message him but im am waiting on him i really dont know what to do
This is so informative and thank you so much Ryan! I am single and for sure, there are lessons I still need to learn. Thank you so much for the Tip 4 + 5👏👏 please keep these videos Coming
The point system is something I’ve been doing didn’t know it was a thing. I was keeping track of my boundaries and value to keep things in check. You have great practical advice love your videos😊💕🌈☀️
Ryan Patrick so this potential guy in my life.. we’ve gone out for a few dates. He said he wants to take pictures if that’s okay with me next time we hangout. Since I’m new to the state. He wants to take me around and show me places. So far he’s been super sweet and has said he doesn’t want sex which is awesome because I don’t want sex at all. I just am so grateful for all of your advice. I really try to apply every thing you say into my dating life.
@@abbigailg.9663 Just lean back and enjoy his company 🙂Sounds like you two are already on the same page on sex and have established a rhythm to your communication. I'm happy to help! 👌🏽
Ryan Patrick yes that’s how I feel lay back.. because I want him to feel like he still needs to work for my attention/time. I know he’s interested and wants to see me more, but I want to keep him wondering. I know what you’ve been telling me to do has been working so far! I really can’t wait for the boyfriend blueprint course 🤗💕
I think by having to constantly add points for good behavior and take points away for not-so-good behavior keeps you super sharp and illusion-free of who's in front of you. Red flags are important, but after a while, if you don't really see any, I feel your critical eye can get lazy and you can let your guard down unnecessarily 👌🏽
No doubt, Gina! When enrollment opens next week, take a look and see if it's a good fit for you right now. There is a good amount of work involved, so folks should be prepared for that. My whole thing is, quarantine is the *perfect* time to knock out something like this, because when things open back up, you'll be ready to it tear up out there with the gents! 😁 We'll open enrollment back up early 2021 once enrollment closes next week on August 23rd 👌🏽
Ryan, love your videos! Thank you! Will you please do a video on how to handle a situation where you’re friends with a guy first then it may lead into something more and how to navigate that. Thank you 😘
I embarked on self development after my last toxic relationship. I’ve regained so much I lost. I am not looking to date. BUT, OMG he’s awesome! I over share, I admit, he knows my ex, but wasn’t judgmental. We walked and he listened and heard! We had a great time just hanging out. He didn’t push for anything more(Which is new territory for me) What do I do?!?
But what does it mean if a guy comes up to me and starts a random conversation? He’s shy and doesn’t really say much to other people. Idk what to think! I do have a crush on him.
A question to other viewers: There is this boy that I really like. We met year ago and instantly felt connected with how easy it is for us to talk and how we always have common topics to talk about. Unfortunately he was into my friend so im 100% he didnt look at me as a „girlfriend material” (i talked to her and she says it was just physical and they kissed few times but it was rather for pleasure in that moment than big feelings) Until like a few months ago something changed and we started flirting more, little touching, a LOT of cute situations. And lately he said that once he is back in town, we have to go out for a coffee (he said it like 3 times in different conversations). We were on a trip with our friends for a week and nothing big happened there , i mean again - a lot of cute actions but nothing really mattering. So Im still waiting for him to come to the city. And I was wondering. I know he is rather brave type of person when it comes to a girls, so there is no excuse „he is shy”, but on the other hand I know I suck at giving signals that I like like someone so maybe he is not sure about me. And I was wondering how can I show a guy that I like him? I dont think I want to kiss him first or anything cause Im a bit affraid that I might ruin our friendship, but maybe some gentle signals that he is more than just a friend?
Hey Sky! I saw this comment, so I thought I'd chime in 🙂 When you say "So I'm still waiting for him to come to the city," is this a guy that doesn't live very close by? 🧐
@@BlueCherryNice Got it. If you want to show him you like him in person, body language is your go-to tool. Check out my video "How To Show Him You Like Him" here ----> ua-cam.com/video/xQUGh9Njga4/v-deo.html 🙂
Ryan Patrick thank you! Ive watched it and yup I not only do most of the things „to do” but also things I shouldnt do 😂😂 Which I wasnt fully aware of 😂 I will try to be more careful with these. And also I thought a little about it and I was thinking about maybe cheek kiss for a goodbye? Or is it „too fast” considering Im not sure if he likes me back that way? (Ive never told or even gave a signal to any guy that I like him, so Im not sure what is the right way to do so)
@@BlueCherryNice I'd really focus on your eye contact and have your gaze on him linger a second or two longer than it feels comfortable. That way, it makes him initiate the physical contact of kissing you and you'll control where that goes from there 😉A kiss on the cheek isn't a bad idea, but the "lean back" approach I try to stress in my videos I feel is a better option 👍🏼
I wish I had thought of the point system with my ex-fiance. Had I done that, I would seen he was at a negative 5,000 and wouldn't have wasted numerous years and countless tears on that toxic relationship. And I could have been pursuing a worthy, healthy relationship much sooner than now.
I have been talking to an ex for years, at times it normal conversation and sometimes it about hooking up. Why would a guy hang around for 5 years waiting for a hook up? I think thats strange!
A guy that I’m interested on keep disappearing and always give work as an excuse last time he did a voice recorded and he said he wanted to meet me because he took some days but I got tired of him he never called and didn’t pic up my video call when I called last month I feel a connection with him can’t explain he said the same but I’m kind of lost and don’t answer to his last recording
Yes Ryan, I'm asking the same... I'll piggyback on this comment...subjects are- verbiage he'll use if he's into you, when to progress from online chat, to text, to call, then to meet... do guys read profiles at all or just look at our pictures? What's the right amount of information to write in a profile that gets his attention without over doing it/ looking desperate? And how to interpret the profile of a good guy or desperate catfish.... thanx Ryan, i kno online it's alotta words and those are tricky but maybe my questions will inspire better questions and info💗
Advice please!! So I got a crush on a guy at work. We hardly get to talk but I want to try and be friends with him outside of work to get to know him better. One time I forgot my glasses and hes the only one that noticed and I didn't even think he paid that much attention to me. But he said you forget your glasses today and said yes and he was like that's funny because I was in my car on my way to work tryin to readjust my contacts when i realized I didnt put them in. We joke a lil here and there. Like one a couple times this week ive been working mornings and when it's time for me to leave it's a few hrs after he gets there and I'll be like I'm outta here and he said nope so I jokingly said why you need me around and he said of course with that like uh duh kinda look. That happened twice and the other time I said what am I gonna do keep you company and he said yeah. He even gave me advice on my car which I wasnt able to take unfortunately. And ALWAYS smells so good. I told him that and he smiled and said thanks. A few days ago right when I was leaving I told him dang you always smell so good it just makes me wanna hug you and walked off. I turned around to say bye and he had his arms open wide and i was like really he said yeah so i went and hugged him and said bye. (Had another guy coworker around too that told him no he smells like shit poking fun at him.) Anyway I was really hoping hed ask for my number but he hasnt. So I was thinking next time I see him I'd ask if he had a girlfriend so I'm not stepping on anyone's toes or over stepping boundaries. And just tell him I think your pretty cool and I like the way you carry yourself at work, would ya like to be friends outside of work? Does that sound like a good idea? I'm very hesitant cause I'm not a bold person. I'm tryin to start as friends and see where it goes. If we stay friends awesome if we become more eventually that would be awesome too. I jumped into my last relationship too quickly and ended up being a single mom after 5 years so a lil slow would be nice. And having a friend would be cool too.
Mz H. I am a very shy person. Honestly just trying to open up to others and have light conversations scares me to death but I find it alot easier when I'm in a good and happy mood. Just smile more and tell yourself your worth it. Just start with a hi every once in a while while your lookin at him maybe? It helps me. But dont force yourself to do things your uncomfortable with. Small steps still go a long way. 🤗 when you get up the courage maybe try it when it's just yall.
@@serenityflores7372 Girl..I tend identify with being an Ambivert 2.0 😁!! If I feel that chemistry quickly..kaboom. Thing about this particular situation isssss..I believe unconsciously I initiated this crush. Once I asked him a question (at work) he turned ,stared at me and proceeded with a grin. I promised I didn't pick up on anything. A few days later he's popping up everywhere I am. So he initiates the "Hi nervously". I reciprocated and well he never says nothing more. But...he goes on break when I happen to take one yet when I speak to other co workers (Male) his frustration shows up. 🤔😒 Hasnt asked for my#, social media, nothing. Nothing more than Hi and making sure I have his attention. WTH !!!SIGH !! FYI he is sooooo fine Girl.
Im talking to this guy.. and he has the wishey washy thingy... and when he did something wrong he used the i love u to make up for it... it feels like its not real but idk what to do anymore...
I am desperate for guidance because I don't know what to do anymore. If I can repair my relationship, whats going on with my boyfriend what he wants or what he's thinking, or if things are just in my head out of fear. We've been together for 3 years and lived together nearly the whole time. Long story short but he started to really pull away from me 9 months ago, I finally asked him in April what was going on and he said he loves me and is in love with me but that he feels like the spark and passion is completely gone, and that we've become best friends. Yet he tells me he is still in love with me and doesn't want to hurt me or him hurt but thinks its at a dead end. He has claimed we've done things to fix it but we haven't. We just got back into the same routine every day and only took 1 camping trip together. Whenever there is anything upsetting or conflict with our relationship (has happened about 5 times since April) he goes back to saying that he still thinks nothing has changed, he still feels that the relationship isn't going anywhere, that he doesn't think we can bring it back and doesn't know how. I've asked him over and over again what he wants, and what he needs, if he wants to break up or take a separation and he always says "idk". He will go from doubting it all and saying its done, to reaching over and pulling me close to him wanting to cuddle, and writing notes on our fridge saying "thank you for all you do for us, I love you, you're amazing", and every so often has days where he just writes me all day telling me I"m gorgeous and he loves me etc. HELPPPP!! I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should walk away and take a break or keep fighting to rebuild. I know I killed the attraction long ago because I was always so insecure, negative and a downer to be around, and I never did anything to encourage him, lift him up or make him feel good. But now idk what to do to fix this. some one please help, I'm desperate to find a direction
Girl...do what he's doing! He's making the best of it and trying to make it work by doing all those cute things, when you keeo asking him over and over what he wants it just reopens old wounds. Enjoy each others company and let it flow however it may go.
Hey how do i know if im ready to start dating again? I feel really broken from the last guy and wanna move on, i fell to hard and he also has a new girlfriend
I’m sorry you’re going through that pain. Been there myself. I would recommend you take your time to heal first. That can take longer than you might want, in some cases, but it’s crucial. You just don’t want to risk meeting new guys before you’re ready, because they will most certainly become short-lived rebound relationships that will only make you feel worse. I might double-down on a passion or activity you’ve been wanting to explore right now and make this journey all about you 🙂
Hi ryan, Im new to your channel but you seem great giving advises. What if im dating this guy and i already let something happen between us in the first date, not the whole thing (cause i really like him) but i want to recover from this. Like i feel he maybe have a wrong impression about me, i dont usually get physical in first dates but yeah... we had THAT chemistry i usually dont find easy with anyone. What should I do? He invited me to his house this week and i feel like ill be there just because i already let something happen in the first date, for sure he knows something may happen in the second one. I dont wanna be like demanding in telling him " no, lets go for dinner, or lets go somewhere else that is not your place" but i also dont want to give him the impression i'm an easy girl and i know that if i go to his place ill be caught up in a situation where something else may happen.
And well if i say no, im afraid he may say like ... so whay did you come here or feel like im wasting his time... dont wanna put y self in that painful and yet unconfortable situation... but i really want to see him.. so its pretty complicated. Maybe he just not looking for somthing serious and it would be pathetic to show him i am and or play hard on him after i already let something happen.
Aww fantastic Ryan. Do you think it is a bad idea to send a picture of myself to a guy who i haven't seen for 5 months? It really like him i don't know what to do! Errr 👌
5 months, definitely not. It's too much of a "Hail Mary." Let's get you some new, fresh guys in the queue for sure. The Boyfriend Blueprint will be red-hot for that 👌🏽🔥
What if it's a virtual video chats for 20 days, if we meet face to face will you consider sex as part of it or should I wait more. Another question is if 30 days means 3 times a day week or total 30 days of seeing each other
30 days from your actual face-to-face first date and seeing each other consistently throughout that time. I want to stress that 30 days in an absolute *minimum* 👍🏼
@@datingcoachryanpatrick do you have video for long distance or within 7 hours distance for this kind of 30 days with no sex. I wonder how this works. Honestly nowadays with virtual and cov19 with no contact. How this works really? It would be stretch out big time. I could be wrong but thought to ask you about this. In the past, I talked with this guy for like two months straight constantly before met then first date was the best of ever I had. Then second date went bad and sour especially with long distance so time length of my experience was April to August. It takes a lot of commitment and agreement but it still hurt at the end. That’s why I’m struggling with this because of location where I live is impossible for me to meet “hearing guys” because I’m deaf. Sigh. This is so hard.
Hey. So.. I've been binging your videos. I'm enjoying them a lot. I have a question.. do you have a video or any advice about how to get a guy interested again? I was seeing a guy and.. i think I made one big error.. but up until that point he was behaving exactly how your videos describe a guy will behave if he's really into you. Idk what to do.. if i should just message and apologize and see if he would give it another shot, or if there's no point in bothering messaging because it will just be more of a turn off?
Hi there, on the note of sex- what if it is a long distance relationship and after we talk for while, we finally decided to meet in person. It is ok to sleep with him on the first date?
As far as step five,, can you change what he may be thinking about you if you did get caught up in the moment & got carried away? 😬 Not completely sex but if things went further than they should have.
what if you already messed up by not making him wait for the cookie? LoL..... what if you already knew the guy from 8 years ago. ( old friends).. and stayed in contact with him through social media, but once you started "talking" on a different level, yoi did mot wait for sex...... what to do npw??? The heart is invested , qnd dont want to let this one go
*NEW SUMMER 2024*
I now offer self-guided *online courses* to help women of ANY age and experience level CRUSH those single streets FASTER and more efficiently! 🙂
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You are absolutely right..Dont mentioned about sex,dont think about sex and dont talk about sex in 30 days minimum..you will know if he is really into you..I follow your advice and I am grateful..my boyfriend always chase me even if we are already in a relationship..he is consistent and he always initiate the talks,the calls and the messages.He is proud that I am his girlfriend,and always wanted to be with me not to just have an intimate moment but to cherish every moment.He let his sister know me,also his mom and told his dad about me when we are together while he is talking to them on the phone either voice call or video calls..I saw the big beautiful smile on him while mentioning about me..He always prioritize me.I am so happy and grateful..he always worried about me..he is my hero..
Sounds like you have a winner there, Nora! Congrats! 🙂💯
@@datingcoachryanpatrick 😍😍😍
Well my guy best friend also did it ( text me first ) but we re just friends... nothing more
Wow...I'm overwhelmed dear 😂
I am a Muslim woman and I don't date. I just watch ur videos to understand relationships better. U talk good. Thank you for sharing bcz I see everyone is going through some problems in relationships!
Lol this year no guy has asked me out ( I'm not mad about it) ... I purely watch these videos because I really enjoy watching Ryan talk...
Cebile Sibiya sameeeeeeee
Well I'm honored, Cebile! Thank you! 😄
Cebile Sibiya same here!
Same 🙋🏼♀️
Covid ruined everything!!!!
Make him wait for the cookie, oldest rule in the book, but still works. And if hes just looking for that one thing and you're not you'll know pretty quickly.
Tooooootally 😉👌🏽
What if he likes you so much but you give him intimacy on a 3rd date? But still he said he likes you and he is in love. I did it too quickly maybe and Im afraid he wont make an effort in relationship.
Being an instant gratification love chaser has been why I'm still single. So hard to just chill.
Not gonna lie, when you said "hot and cold guys" I was singing Hot N Cold by Katy Perry in my head. That song is basically your tip in musical form haha
LOL good one!! 😂
"Men want women who respects themselves and know what they want." Yes girl!
Yes...And if a man isn't looking for a woman who respects herself, then he's not interested in a serious relationship!
“He’ll see only what you see in yourself.” 💯
GOLD!!!!! LOL "Think we missed a couple of steps before this"...Gonna remember this one!
Yeah my wife really liked that text response too lol 😄 Use it!!
'Ya know...I think we missed a couple steps.' Is a Mood 😁💯
You better believe it K Dub 😁😁🙏
I always find myself downloading your videos so that I go back n check just in case I forget. The score card point is just dope. Thanks!
The score card IS dope, isn't it? 😋
Ryan, you are the right on the money when it comes to advice about men.
Ahhhh God bless ya! 🕺🏼
We love you Ryan Patrick!!!! Thanks for being our relationship coach 🥺❤️😭
You bet, KB! The pleasure is all mine!! ❤️
RYAN THIS IS THE HAIR STYLE FOR YOU!!!! Game changer
That last point.... boom... so powerful. Thanks a ton
Well done Ryan, that's the 1st time I've seen a plus size person in the stock footage on a coaching video like this!! Thank you! And thank you for using her in a positive empowering moment too!
Yay I wish the b-roll selection allowed for more use of literally *all* types, but I'm glad to take advantage and represent when I can! 🙌🏼
I posted pretty much this exact comment several videos ago! The inclusivity is nice to see.
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Quit being available. If he is 10 minutes late without a call, leave. Do not be there.
RYAN I DID IT! I noticed guy on the road when I was driving and he was turning a corner and he was staring at me and I stared at him and he turn the whole corner looking at me and I looked at him it was funnier than shit made my day thank you 👏😆🤣
Keep up that eye contact, Kathy! 👀🙌🏼
Hi Ryan, the next time I was driving and saw some guys in work truck so as I turned corner I glanced that way and the driver said “F I N E”. I am really liking this 😂🤣😆♥️
I needed to hear this! Thanks Ryan!
Sure thing, Patricia! 🤗
This is amazing Ryan! Timely poped out! 💛
Awesome! 🙂
I really like your content. I find it super helpful. I'm glad I came across your channel. Cheers from Argentina.
Ryan, I have to tell you that I'm so glad I came across your videos! I appreciate them so much! I realize a lot of things I've always done the wrong way now and after applying so many of your techniques and seeing results, I am simply amazed at how they work for me! So, thank you so much, from the bottom of my heart! You're awesome!
AMAZING!! 😃 Thank you so much for taking the time to leave this feedback for me! 🤗
Love the point system! One step forward or one step back.
I absolutely love your Podz….you are so helpful and I love all your advise! I’ve used some of your pointers too! I will continue to watch you!
can you please do a video on what to do after the relationship began or midway through a situationship to reset boundaries and such? thanks!
Have a conversation with him about what you want. If he's not on the same page take a step back and take away the benifits! Then just follow this video!
I like that suggestion a lot, Michelle! Thanks for leaving it here 😀
Yup!
I'm ready for the course
You rock, Grace! 😎
Oh my God Ryan I love your video. This is a great video for everyone and I think I have learned so much from it today. I like this guy a lot and he was pursuing me but I feel like he needs to do it more and I have learned some stuff from your video today which I might start doing it thank you
Glad you enjoyed it! 🙏
I will remember this one
Good stuff! ✊
LOVE UOUR VIDEOS!!! THANK YOU A PLENTY FOR MAKING THEM, PUTTING THE TIME AND ENERYGY!!!! HAVE A LOVELY DAYYYYYYYY WEEEE
Thank you! You too! 🙂
Oh yes, scoring system is something I use from the very 1st moment I see the guy, even if this is a virtual world to start. My minimum score consists of university degree, no kids, politeness and etiquette. Next goes all other things you mentioned.
I love this video and I love you😳I just wish sometimes I don't forget all your tips when I'm with my boyfriend on outtings 😵😵Omw to the boyfriend blueprint rn... It's needed.
Thanks Marshmallow! Rick back at ya! 😜
I love your energy . You are really helping me get through a brake up
Hi Ryan I love the score system. It will help to keep things into perspective. Thanks for another great video.👍
Wonderful! 😜
I like this one! Gotta practice all of these lol. Hello Ryan! I'm always excited to watch your new uploaded videos. 😊❤️
You're the best, Brenda! 🙂
@@datingcoachryanpatrick You're always welcome 😊
I’m ready Ryan and can’t wait!!!
Outstanding 😎
I’m ready for the course!!!
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Ryan Can you please do a video about age difference. I am talking and getting close with a man 23yrs younger than me. I just want to know if this relationship is worth pursuing. I like his personality and sense of humor and he really likes me.
Thank you ❤️Ryan Patrick my dating coach I followed what you said and it's work my boyfriend is chasing to me now😁😍❤️❤️😘 thank you very much❤️❤️❤️
Thanks, Ryan! I love the point system! It reminds me of the book, "The Scorecard".
I'm so happy to see people loving that suggestion! I'll have to check out "The Scorecard!" 🙂
I love your advices. They totally changed some things on my approach. I think i am ready for the course.
Excellent Ryan, thank you.
you are brilliant Ryan.
I like the point system. I write mine on a Google document. 😆 Sometimes I forget, so it's easy to look at it and be like o he did this. Thanks!
Love the advice you have to offer, Ryan! I only wish I would’ve found you a few short months ago. Would’ve saved me some heartache. I definitely am learning from this point fwd 😄
Better late than never, Cynthia! Glad to have you here in the community 😀
I’m ready for the boyfriend blueprint
This came at the right time...thank you Ryan🙂🤞
Beautiful! 🙌🏼
Thank you for helping me to see things a different way, this self worth thing after a abusive
relationship is hard going.. But guidance helps a lot 🤗 x
You got this, Claire! Glad you're on the channel 😉
Helen Johnson Good for you Helen .... I hope you find a loving man who treats you right xx 🤗
@@gingerfellah5665 Not all men are like that, I've got into a pattern of letting men use me, especially since losing my son, I was looking in the wrong places for some love & Paul the man who abused me saw me coming, just take your time, watching these videos from Ryan they help so much to know we're not flying solo, I can see the things I do wrong I've got to relearn so much but im sure you'll find a lovely man. Just take it one step at at time 🤗 xx
hi i meet a guy hes so perfect in my eyes i like hes personalities, hes looks,, and we commit into relationships .. i see my self fallin in love with so bad .. and i cant see on him the way i love him, after 2 months i am so confused if he really love me or want me ,im thinking maybe he just afraid of telling me and he wants to dump me... so i decided to break up with him and hes just so easy to accept to we will end our relationship and now i feel so broken and so sad.. after i said that i need to end the relationship and he agreed he never message me , and i did not also message him but im am waiting on him i really dont know what to do
So sorry to hear...😥
I am ready for the course Ryan
BOOM! 💥
I tried to apply for it but l cant idk why
This is so informative and thank you so much Ryan!
I am single and for sure, there are lessons I still need to learn. Thank you so much for the Tip 4 + 5👏👏 please keep these videos Coming
No doubt! Keep an eye out for next Monday's video FYI. It's one of my top 5 all-time favorites... 😜
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Yes!! I will, thank you so much Ryan 👏
I cannot make a man a chase me I only chase two things here on earth God and money
Ready for your course Ryan! 💙
Awesome! Thank you J! ❤️
Im ready !!!!
The point system is something I’ve been doing didn’t know it was a thing. I was keeping track of my boundaries and value to keep things in check. You have great practical advice love your videos😊💕🌈☀️
Love it!! 🤟🏼
I am ready, Ryan!!
Whoo hoo!! 🤠
Could you make a video on how to avoid abusive men?
Thanks your the best that's just what I need to hear 😊 also Ryan show me the rebound video ,I'm all ears here 😊
If you have the time, I think a good topic would be signs you and him are not compatible!
Aha compatibility! Great topic suggestion, Alexa! ✊
I am ready for the course !!🤞🏼
Yay you'll love it Abbigail! 💥
Ryan Patrick so this potential guy in my life.. we’ve gone
out for a few dates. He said he wants to take pictures if that’s okay with me next time we hangout. Since I’m new to the state. He wants to take me around and show me places. So far he’s been super sweet and has said he doesn’t want sex which is awesome because I don’t want sex at all. I just am so grateful for all of your advice. I really try to apply every thing you say into my dating life.
@@abbigailg.9663 Just lean back and enjoy his company 🙂Sounds like you two are already on the same page on sex and have established a rhythm to your communication. I'm happy to help! 👌🏽
Ryan Patrick yes that’s how I feel lay back.. because I want him to feel like he still needs to work for my attention/time. I know he’s interested and wants to see me more, but I want to keep him wondering. I know what you’ve been telling me to do has been working so far! I really can’t wait for the boyfriend blueprint course 🤗💕
Omg, I just found you! You are the best!
I like the first one...be high value woman🔥🔥🔥🔥
The scorecard idea seems calculating, but then again...how different is that from looking out for red flags? lmao 😂
I think by having to constantly add points for good behavior and take points away for not-so-good behavior keeps you super sharp and illusion-free of who's in front of you. Red flags are important, but after a while, if you don't really see any, I feel your critical eye can get lazy and you can let your guard down unnecessarily 👌🏽
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Facts. Definitely.
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I like your video so much! I’m just so busy right now! I’m interested in joining though!
No doubt, Gina! When enrollment opens next week, take a look and see if it's a good fit for you right now. There is a good amount of work involved, so folks should be prepared for that. My whole thing is, quarantine is the *perfect* time to knock out something like this, because when things open back up, you'll be ready to it tear up out there with the gents! 😁 We'll open enrollment back up early 2021 once enrollment closes next week on August 23rd 👌🏽
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Yay!!
You most certainly are! Thanks for watching! 🙌🏼
Ryan, love your videos! Thank you! Will you please do a video on how to handle a situation where you’re friends with a guy first then it may lead into something more and how to navigate that. Thank you 😘
I am ready for the course
I'm so glad Jenne! 🤗
Nothing but facts I do all these things and it’s empowering 👏🏽👏🏽
I embarked on self development after my last toxic relationship. I’ve regained so much I lost. I am not looking to date. BUT, OMG he’s awesome! I over share, I admit, he knows my ex, but wasn’t judgmental. We walked and he listened and heard! We had a great time just hanging out. He didn’t push for anything more(Which is new territory for me) What do I do?!?
I'm ready for the boyfriend blueprint! 😉
YASSSSSS!!! 😄
But what does it mean if a guy comes up to me and starts a random conversation? He’s shy and doesn’t really say much to other people. Idk what to think! I do have a crush on him.
A question to other viewers:
There is this boy that I really like. We met year ago and instantly felt connected with how easy it is for us to talk and how we always have common topics to talk about. Unfortunately he was into my friend so im 100% he didnt look at me as a „girlfriend material” (i talked to her and she says it was just physical and they kissed few times but it was rather for pleasure in that moment than big feelings) Until like a few months ago something changed and we started flirting more, little touching, a LOT of cute situations. And lately he said that once he is back in town, we have to go out for a coffee (he said it like 3 times in different conversations). We were on a trip with our friends for a week and nothing big happened there , i mean again - a lot of cute actions but nothing really mattering. So Im still waiting for him to come to the city. And I was wondering. I know he is rather brave type of person when it comes to a girls, so there is no excuse „he is shy”, but on the other hand I know I suck at giving signals that I like like someone so maybe he is not sure about me. And I was wondering how can I show a guy that I like him? I dont think I want to kiss him first or anything cause Im a bit affraid that I might ruin our friendship, but maybe some gentle signals that he is more than just a friend?
Hey Sky! I saw this comment, so I thought I'd chime in 🙂 When you say "So I'm still waiting for him to come to the city," is this a guy that doesn't live very close by? 🧐
@@datingcoachryanpatrick We live in different cities, but study in one. And since we have vacation now, he is in his hometown ^^
@@BlueCherryNice Got it. If you want to show him you like him in person, body language is your go-to tool. Check out my video "How To Show Him You Like Him" here ----> ua-cam.com/video/xQUGh9Njga4/v-deo.html 🙂
Ryan Patrick thank you! Ive watched it and yup I not only do most of the things „to do” but also things I shouldnt do 😂😂 Which I wasnt fully aware of 😂 I will try to be more careful with these.
And also I thought a little about it and I was thinking about maybe cheek kiss for a goodbye? Or is it „too fast” considering Im not sure if he likes me back that way? (Ive never told or even gave a signal to any guy that I like him, so Im not sure what is the right way to do so)
@@BlueCherryNice I'd really focus on your eye contact and have your gaze on him linger a second or two longer than it feels comfortable. That way, it makes him initiate the physical contact of kissing you and you'll control where that goes from there 😉A kiss on the cheek isn't a bad idea, but the "lean back" approach I try to stress in my videos I feel is a better option 👍🏼
I wish I had thought of the point system with my ex-fiance. Had I done that, I would seen he was at a negative 5,000 and wouldn't have wasted numerous years and countless tears on that toxic relationship. And I could have been pursuing a worthy, healthy relationship much sooner than now.
Yikes negative 5,000?? Glad he's finally an ex... 😬
@@datingcoachryanpatrick I may be a tad bit dramatic... lol. But he was (and is) truly awful. I'm also so very, very glad he's an ex. 😊
Thank you for such good advice😍🤗🤗🤗
So good!
Appreciate that! 😊
I’m ready for sure. ♥️
Wonderful! 😁
OMG... LOVE the point system. Brilliant... thanks, Ryan! 🥰
YAY!! Glad you dig it, Jeannine 😎
Not me watching these videos to help my friend with her crush! XD
We want a new "boyfriend blueprint" sess ;)
I have been talking to an ex for years, at times it normal conversation and sometimes it about hooking up. Why would a guy hang around for 5 years waiting for a hook up? I think thats strange!
You would be surprised
Thankies so muches for your help
My pleasure, Mimi! 🙂
A guy that I’m interested on keep disappearing and always give work as an excuse last time he did a voice recorded and he said he wanted to meet me because he took some days but I got tired of him he never called and didn’t pic up my video call when I called last month I feel a connection with him can’t explain he said the same but I’m kind of lost and don’t answer to his last recording
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I am ready for the course, how about giving us a trial before we pay all the funds lol
Excellent! Love how you do slow mo and pronounce "penalize"!!😁❤😅🎆📒
Can you do a video on online dating?
Sure Rachel! What kinds of things would you like to see in the video? 🤔
Yes plz! I agree...cuz at 51, im finding it to only be a waste of time or dull convo.
@@QueenJooseLaMonica Noted Queen! 🙂
Yes Ryan, I'm asking the same... I'll piggyback on this comment...subjects are- verbiage he'll use if he's into you, when to progress from online chat, to text, to call, then to meet... do guys read profiles at all or just look at our pictures? What's the right amount of information to write in a profile that gets his attention without over doing it/ looking desperate? And how to interpret the profile of a good guy or desperate catfish.... thanx Ryan, i kno online it's alotta words and those are tricky but maybe my questions will inspire better questions and info💗
Advice please!! So I got a crush on a guy at work. We hardly get to talk but I want to try and be friends with him outside of work to get to know him better. One time I forgot my glasses and hes the only one that noticed and I didn't even think he paid that much attention to me. But he said you forget your glasses today and said yes and he was like that's funny because I was in my car on my way to work tryin to readjust my contacts when i realized I didnt put them in. We joke a lil here and there. Like one a couple times this week ive been working mornings and when it's time for me to leave it's a few hrs after he gets there and I'll be like I'm outta here and he said nope so I jokingly said why you need me around and he said of course with that like uh duh kinda look. That happened twice and the other time I said what am I gonna do keep you company and he said yeah. He even gave me advice on my car which I wasnt able to take unfortunately. And ALWAYS smells so good. I told him that and he smiled and said thanks. A few days ago right when I was leaving I told him dang you always smell so good it just makes me wanna hug you and walked off. I turned around to say bye and he had his arms open wide and i was like really he said yeah so i went and hugged him and said bye. (Had another guy coworker around too that told him no he smells like shit poking fun at him.) Anyway I was really hoping hed ask for my number but he hasnt. So I was thinking next time I see him I'd ask if he had a girlfriend so I'm not stepping on anyone's toes or over stepping boundaries. And just tell him I think your pretty cool and I like the way you carry yourself at work, would ya like to be friends outside of work? Does that sound like a good idea? I'm very hesitant cause I'm not a bold person. I'm tryin to start as friends and see where it goes. If we stay friends awesome if we become more eventually that would be awesome too. I jumped into my last relationship too quickly and ended up being a single mom after 5 years so a lil slow would be nice. And having a friend would be cool too.
We don't mess with guys at work nor do we mess with roommates/flatmates 😉
@@datingcoachryanpatrick thank you 👍 good advice! Glad I asked before I did it.
I really resonated with your comment. I especially liked the "hugging part" I am scared to death to try it, Thats how much I'm crushing on him..whew!!
Mz H. I am a very shy person. Honestly just trying to open up to others and have light conversations scares me to death but I find it alot easier when I'm in a good and happy mood. Just smile more and tell yourself your worth it. Just start with a hi every once in a while while your lookin at him maybe? It helps me. But dont force yourself to do things your uncomfortable with. Small steps still go a long way. 🤗 when you get up the courage maybe try it when it's just yall.
@@serenityflores7372 Girl..I tend identify with being an Ambivert 2.0 😁!!
If I feel that chemistry quickly..kaboom. Thing about this particular situation isssss..I believe unconsciously I initiated this crush. Once I asked him a question (at work) he turned ,stared at me and proceeded with a grin. I promised I didn't pick up on anything. A few days later he's popping up everywhere I am. So he initiates the "Hi nervously". I reciprocated and well he never says nothing more. But...he goes on break when I happen to take one yet when I speak to other co workers (Male) his frustration shows up. 🤔😒 Hasnt asked for my#, social media, nothing. Nothing more than Hi and making sure I have his attention. WTH !!!SIGH !!
FYI he is sooooo fine Girl.
Im talking to this guy.. and he has the wishey washy thingy... and when he did something wrong he used the i love u to make up for it... it feels like its not real but idk what to do anymore...
I am desperate for guidance because I don't know what to do anymore. If I can repair my relationship, whats going on with my boyfriend what he wants or what he's thinking, or if things are just in my head out of fear.
We've been together for 3 years and lived together nearly the whole time. Long story short but he started to really pull away from me 9 months ago, I finally asked him in April what was going on and he said he loves me and is in love with me but that he feels like the spark and passion is completely gone, and that we've become best friends. Yet he tells me he is still in love with me and doesn't want to hurt me or him hurt but thinks its at a dead end. He has claimed we've done things to fix it but we haven't. We just got back into the same routine every day and only took 1 camping trip together. Whenever there is anything upsetting or conflict with our relationship (has happened about 5 times since April) he goes back to saying that he still thinks nothing has changed, he still feels that the relationship isn't going anywhere, that he doesn't think we can bring it back and doesn't know how.
I've asked him over and over again what he wants, and what he needs, if he wants to break up or take a separation and he always says "idk". He will go from doubting it all and saying its done, to reaching over and pulling me close to him wanting to cuddle, and writing notes on our fridge saying "thank you for all you do for us, I love you, you're amazing", and every so often has days where he just writes me all day telling me I"m gorgeous and he loves me etc.
HELPPPP!! I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should walk away and take a break or keep fighting to rebuild. I know I killed the attraction long ago because I was always so insecure, negative and a downer to be around, and I never did anything to encourage him, lift him up or make him feel good. But now idk what to do to fix this. some one please help, I'm desperate to find a direction
Girl...do what he's doing! He's making the best of it and trying to make it work by doing all those cute things, when you keeo asking him over and over what he wants it just reopens old wounds. Enjoy each others company and let it flow however it may go.
I sent him a somewhat goodbye message and got no response. Was his ego attacked or does he not care at all?
Hey how do i know if im ready to start dating again? I feel really broken from the last guy and wanna move on, i fell to hard and he also has a new girlfriend
I’m sorry you’re going through that pain. Been there myself. I would recommend you take your time to heal first. That can take longer than you might want, in some cases, but it’s crucial. You just don’t want to risk meeting new guys before you’re ready, because they will most certainly become short-lived rebound relationships that will only make you feel worse. I might double-down on a passion or activity you’ve been wanting to explore right now and make this journey all about you 🙂
@@datingcoachryanpatrick ok thanks i really appreciate it
Interesting ❤️
Glad you think so!
He said no mind games jim
Hi ryan, Im new to your channel but you seem great giving advises. What if im dating this guy and i already let something happen between us in the first date, not the whole thing (cause i really like him) but i want to recover from this. Like i feel he maybe have a wrong impression about me, i dont usually get physical in first dates but yeah... we had THAT chemistry i usually dont find easy with anyone. What should I do? He invited me to his house this week and i feel like ill be there just because i already let something happen in the first date, for sure he knows something may happen in the second one. I dont wanna be like demanding in telling him " no, lets go for dinner, or lets go somewhere else that is not your place" but i also dont want to give him the impression i'm an easy girl and i know that if i go to his place ill be caught up in a situation where something else may happen.
And well if i say no, im afraid he may say like ... so whay did you come here or feel like im wasting his time... dont wanna put y self in that painful and yet unconfortable situation... but i really want to see him.. so its pretty complicated. Maybe he just not looking for somthing serious and it would be pathetic to show him i am and or play hard on him after i already let something happen.
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Aww fantastic Ryan. Do you think it is a bad idea to send a picture of myself to a guy who i haven't seen for 5 months? It really like him i don't know what to do! Errr 👌
5 months, definitely not. It's too much of a "Hail Mary." Let's get you some new, fresh guys in the queue for sure. The Boyfriend Blueprint will be red-hot for that 👌🏽🔥
@@datingcoachryanpatrick thanks Ryan your fantastic 👏 😀 👍
@@Louise-xg4pd 😁✌🏼
What if it's a virtual video chats for 20 days, if we meet face to face will you consider sex as part of it or should I wait more. Another question is if 30 days means 3 times a day week or total 30 days of seeing each other
30 days from your actual face-to-face first date and seeing each other consistently throughout that time. I want to stress that 30 days in an absolute *minimum* 👍🏼
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thank you
@@datingcoachryanpatrick do you have video for long distance or within 7 hours distance for this kind of 30 days with no sex. I wonder how this works. Honestly nowadays with virtual and cov19 with no contact. How this works really? It would be stretch out big time. I could be wrong but thought to ask you about this. In the past, I talked with this guy for like two months straight constantly before met then first date was the best of ever I had. Then second date went bad and sour especially with long distance so time length of my experience was April to August. It takes a lot of commitment and agreement but it still hurt at the end. That’s why I’m struggling with this because of location where I live is impossible for me to meet “hearing guys” because I’m deaf. Sigh. This is so hard.
Hey. So.. I've been binging your videos. I'm enjoying them a lot. I have a question.. do you have a video or any advice about how to get a guy interested again? I was seeing a guy and.. i think I made one big error.. but up until that point he was behaving exactly how your videos describe a guy will behave if he's really into you. Idk what to do.. if i should just message and apologize and see if he would give it another shot, or if there's no point in bothering messaging because it will just be more of a turn off?
Hi there, on the note of sex- what if it is a long distance relationship and after we talk for while, we finally decided to meet in person. It is ok to sleep with him on the first date?
As far as step five,, can you change what he may be thinking about you if you did get caught up in the moment & got carried away? 😬 Not completely sex but if things went further than they should have.
what if you already messed up by not making him wait for the cookie? LoL..... what if you already knew the guy from 8 years ago. ( old friends).. and stayed in contact with him through social media, but once you started "talking" on a different level, yoi did mot wait for sex...... what to do npw??? The heart is invested , qnd dont want to let this one go
Love the points!