@@Pbcvl this is an amazing question that I hope I have the answer for you brother. the thing is I was asking myself this question so much throughout high school (2019-22) and now as I'm sitting here outside I will most likely just make a video on it. it is because it gets deep but most of the time it is because you don't love yourself enough.
@@TheRealestTiller It's. not really an obsession. I noticed that during the winter 2 week break I didn't think of her once. Back to school now and saw her, I don't really think that much about her but still. Ngl she is perfect (I know everyone says that but really)
It took me a long time to realize that just because a girl is nice to you (or even talks to you) that doesn’t mean that she is into you. You have to realize that chasing doesn’t work, you have to stop putting them on pedestals that way.
Bro I have a question There is a classmate of mine who was looking at me Tried to speak and laugh with me and complement me and gave me signals to approach her and I heard her speak about me with her friends But I just played as I didn't notice and I made her leave and didn't speak to her so she tried But with time as I spoke to her she lost interest in me and now she doesn't even like speaking with me with her face expressions But I like her now And that was because I am not funny and I am very serious and logical in my speaking but I tried to make her laugh and at first I just played around her like a dumbass bcuz I didn't like her She speaks and smiles with a foreign language when I am speaking and her friends are around
The word “chasing” gets thrown around a lot and confused. Most guys are taking this to mean don’t initiate or approach/talk to women and wait for them to come to you. Wrong.
This "fake til you make it" mentality worked for me when I needed a job and was insecure at the time. Now it's time to do this with girls and I'm confident this will work again. Cheers
@@kaua7561 Those weeks were rough. The company I'm working in is going bankrupt and people were being fired, one at time. No time to think about girls. I was one of the few left, I thought all hope was lost but I got a very unexpected interview today, went to it with an absolute ADONIS mentality and got the job on the spot. Inside I was shaking, but nailed it. I'm sure being confident helped a lot, because the position was way higher than my level. When things get better around here I'll update
@@kaua7561 update: things got better, had an amazing date, unfortunately we didn't develop a nice connection. It was surprisingly easy to start and maintain a conversation, things flowed nicely. I got to follow a girl (complete stranger) on instagram, get her attention, start a casual conversation that lasted for weeks and get out on a date. It looks like a casual thing for most, but I had social phobia for most part of my life and I'm proud of myself.
Bro I have a question There is a classmate of mine who was looking at me Tried to speak and laugh with me and complement me and gave me signals to approach her and I heard her speak about me with her friends But I just played as I didn't notice and I made her leave and didn't speak to her so she tried But with time as I spoke to her she lost interest in me and now she doesn't even like speaking with me with her face expressions But I like her now And that was because I am not funny and I am very serious and logical in my speaking but I tried to make her laugh and at first I just played around her like a dumbass bcuz I didn't like her She speaks and smiles with a foreign language when I am speaking and her friends are around
imo that's one of the best advices you can get "you're the biggest guy in the gym so why not train like the biggest guy in the gym?" "you're the most confident guy in the country so why not act confident?" "you're the most focused person in the world so why not focus on the work?" just think all day about what your goal looks like and try to become it in every part of your life good luck 💪
I did a small part of this subconciously, i really wanted to get better at just talking in general and not making all those weird sex jokes and just get to become closer to be the most perfected version of myself. Then as i progressed little by little i began to notice that girls were looking at me way more. This mindset actually works so well so i'm wondering why there aren't (many) others that also share this advice.
@@belivuk2526 yeesh how depressing. Just take up a hobby make a good bond with a random. Do not try to make it sexual as soon as possible. You and the girl wil begin to like eachother for who you are. Boom you've fallen for eachother and now you can make the next move. You don't have to compete with genes or resources. Your personality is the only unique thing you have nobody can compete with you on that front. Just like business it's not always about how big the company is or how many employees it's about the mission the reputation of the company if this stands out from the rest you won't have to compete. And if they like it they won't change companies and hopefully also not guys :)
@@nathanricetalks Damn bro this made me have to think for a while, you hear alot from hamza about not caring too much about woman in the first part of your progress to become adones. First get rid of all those unnecesary things like videogaming and fapping, in that stage you won't get any woman that will last. If you have almost become adones thats the time when you have to worry about picking up girls and it will probably come natural.
@@Jeta_z i strongly disagree with you on that point. I have adopted a LOT of good habits and still can't go up to women. And Adonis is the ideal, so he's unreachable for everyone. Also top 1% males have their flaws. I just felt like with adapting more good habits and reduce the bad ones, that didn't do anything for me in terms of confidence when it comes to women. It makes me more confident in other areas of life tho.
I'm like 120 pounds and I've been on self improvement for a year now. I started as the skinny kid and bald kid but I've started bulking up and I have low body fat which helps me look very good with my physique. I've been scared to talk to girls but this year I will do my best to learn how to talk to women while focusing on my shit too. I simply want some love. Thank you for reading have a blessed days my brothers
Thank you Hamza, I just turned 14 and before i started self-improvement, I was skinny fat, addicting to the hub, had zero confidence, and had a lot of feminine energy. I found your channel and I started self-improvement and I'm glad I started it. Still on the grind!!
This is how you do it, you become a great one at something, people think you are the shit, you stay humble, more people will find you, some will be more interested in you, you listen to them, and you reassure them they matter, then you keep doing your thing, then they begin to chase you. In general, its becoming great at a skill within a social hierchy, for example, becoming boxer or skater, a dancer, a hobby that can be used in competition or that has an audience, and you become a good person, but not an overbearing person, and it helps to be skillful at something so you have something to do instead of being clingy.
A little patience goes a long way. What matters isn't how many women you've slept with, but who you are with at the end. Get practice in of course, but not at the expense of building yourself up. A good reminder to those of you(and myself) who are struggling to keep focused.
Thanks so much Hamza. 16 on my self improvement journey and I feel confident bout my progress im very lean im 55 kg and im targeting 65 kg by the end of 2023. Im in great shape already but I feel the bulk will do me a favor. ROAD TO ADONIS
Just wanted to say that you’ve helped me a lot. Yes I still have a gaming account haha but never play anymore. I went from being the kid that stayed in all day to being the one that stay on track with routines. Making my bed in the morning, keeping my space clean and organized. Educating myself, eating nutritious and stay on the grind with training. Not until now have I realized what I was missing out on. I’m now much happier, confident and organized in my life. Knowing that I actually have the courage to go after things. Which also made me meet more people irl and made more friends. So, everyone out there that’s working on themselves. I’m proud of you all because it takes damn work 🤝
@@chaosinfernoid9008 Totally understand you. I was in that situation too. I believe in you though, I know everyone says this but it’s always hardest in the beginning. After it’s a habit it’s just a part a part of your routine. Stay on the grind bro
Nice. Keep it up. I had a girl tell me one time that cleanliness matters man. Clean car clean room and she will want to be in your bed. Always smells nice and is organized. My dad was German so he made sure I fucking cleaned LOL
Hamza its been almost a year since i started watching you. Seeing you grow like that from 30k to 1.5million was one of the most inspiring thing I had ever witnessed. Thank you a lot for changing our lives brother
@@andreharris144 crazy! From a skinny fat, puffed face, porn addict, gamer with literally zero girls,needy to a good physique, 8 month no fap streak, lean face with hallow cheekbones, literally 12+ girls,the focusing on my self & Idgaf mentality.... When I dont feel like doing anything i look back at where and why I started
@@andreharris144 I'm litteraly an entirely different person rn people that i havent seen since 2021 barley recognize me anymore. I used to be always anxious nowadays i almost never feel any anxiety only a little bit when faced with a big task where im about to be judged
Hamza, first of all, thank you. You inspire me to continue this hard journey of self improvement. I have 13 years old and in from Brazil. The thing is, here in Brazil, there aren't good self improvement contents. I had to learn English just so I can watch more productive videos. You are astonishing. The bad thing is, my family is getting pissed at me bcz I'm going to bed early, waking up early, basically, taking it to seriously. My dad says I should not believe any UA-camrs out here, especially if they are "gringo" ( it means not from Brazil). And also says I should only believe his counsels. He isnt allowing me to watch your videos. My family says that the important is the balance. Don't eat only junk food but don't eat only healthy foods. I thinks it's a wrong way of thinking. Although in really struggling with my family, they are tired of me waking up early and taking too seriously the things I see on internet. What should I do hamza? Thanks for reading. Regards from Brazil 🤘😎
Bro dont listen to these biggots in the chat that comment to you or your father. You are doing a fucking amazing work my friend, FOCUS on the grind. Everyone that says otherwise are DISTRACTIONS. Remember? - F O C U S Now get back to the grind and move everyone who distracts you. Continue the path that youre doing!
Always care about someone, even if it’s from a distance. do not let these internet influencers make your life “situational”. Act the way you know is beneficial to letting you feel yourself, regardless of how someone acts towards you. (Not caring and/or chasing makes you attract people who do not care about themselves so they could never be loyal to you or love you“. That’s why they have partners who are uninterested in them, because they like being unsure of themselves and having to chase validation of one who does not care. they use you to feel good about themselves as you open up after “not caring”, and you learn to ignore yourselves/ not care about yourself when you pretend to not care about other people or your feelings for them. )
Yes, Hamza made some good points but to say that the guy should not take much interest in the girl’s life or hobbies is not a good idea It is important to set boundaries with a girl. It is important to make it clear to her what you are okay with and what you will not tolerate It is important to set expectations clear You can do all this while taking interest in her as a person It should be a fair value of exchange. Taking too much interest in girls life before she has committed is not right But taking too little to no interest in her will prevent you from building a bond
I'm 13 years old and I'm on self improvement for about 6 months so huppy that I discovered this amazing channel thank you so much hamza you made me the person that I always wanted to be 🖤
You are saving hundreds of peoples life man and I’m thankful for that ❤ You inspired me to go harder and focus on my goals which is making more music 🎧 Hopefully I can make it one day ☝ Is my music good ⁉️
Litterally everything u say is right man. Boys from my school that don't even know me right oder even people that know me start calling me a fuck boy or player. And honestly it feel quite good haha. Since I changed my mindset I have lots of girls in my life and it makes me happy to wake up everyday with the idea of improving my social skills. Your videos are such a big help man. I appreciate u a lot
I've always known from a young age that being yourself is the best way to attract a girl, no tricks and bs. Yes they sometimes work but being confident in who you are and not appearing desperate or jealous can create things with women and they will desire you eventually in some way, I've actually friendzoned girls more than they have to me.
Be yourself. Be good to yourself. Be good to good people. - Marquett Davon Barton Work on improving yourself. Show the best version of who you are. Don't fake being someone you're not.
This actually happened to me. In the past i used to beheave like a jeffrey, in middle school i liked this girl who i talked with at least 10 times in 3 years and i thougt i was "in love" with her. The second year of high school i texted her something like: "hei it's me from middle school, how are you" and she blocked me, finally i was free from that mental prison. This summer i started to like one of my oldest friends, we're pretty good friends and i gave it a shot, i wrote her that i liked her and she makes me happy... but she ghosted me. That summer i also got interested in self improvement and i started no fap, working out (more than i already did) and something changed because of that girl, i don't know what it was but my mind developed this new "lifestyle". I developed the will of improving in every aspect of my life, especially social life. So at the start of the 3rd year of school i was the same person, but with a different aura, my confidence was at an all time high and i felt like i could have done anything. I was slowly starting to lose interest in that girl and in that moment, when i was only chasing my goals, i noticed that someone was chasing me, and it's going infinitely better than the other times, dude she stares at me, i stare at her back and she looks away, she's kind, she compliments me, i gave her a letter (not a confession) and she hugged me, yesterday she invited me to her birthday! Nothing like this ever happened to me, and the only thing that changed everything...was my mind set
one time a wise men said "focus on your garden and the butterflies will come by their on", wich says if you want girls, first you need to focus and building youself physicaly, mentally, espiritually and of course on your career
You realize that not showing interest turns alot of women away right? Hamza is a quack, also you have to be extremely attractive for this to even work, and i know 99 percent of guys who watch this arent, sad but true.
@@Flame-ci7fw I guess the actual way is just to be normal and treating her like a human beeing. It's not about the Chad not even talking to her lol. It's all about Charisma, Self-Confidence and not beeing like the rest. Beeing interesting i guess. Looks are way to overhyped BatChest i hecking love Bodybuilders. Nah nah it's not that important. Muscle in the end just shows that you worked on yourself. And that's all about it.
@@Flame-ci7fw Yes !!! A sane person in this comment section. Nobody likes to be turned away. The key is just not obsessing over her and giving her space to make it seem like she's chasing you. The grooming, self-improvement is just something that makes you a better person to be around which adds to the attraction. Not being a jerk, you won't get good women like that.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:26 🚶♂️ *Stop obsessing over the girl and start focusing on personal progress and goals like Adonis to become more attractive to women.* 01:51 🔄 *Flip the script: Instead of chasing her, let her chase you by pursuing your studies, business, fitness, and goals passionately.* 03:16 🙅♂️ *Overcome neediness, a major turn-off, by either getting an abundance of women interested in you or faking it by changing your mindset.* 05:23 🔄 *Change your self-perception: Brainwash yourself into believing you are attractive and act like the alpha male, as this psychological shift significantly impacted the creator's success with women.* 06:35 💪 *Combine psychological shifts with positive actions, such as improving social skills, building confidence in flirting, and working on physical attractiveness in the gym, to enhance overall success in attracting women.* 07:30 🔄 *Imitate success: Act more like the guys who are successful with girls, even if it means copying their behaviors, as this straightforward approach proved effective for the creator.* Made with HARPA AI
Hamza you truly are inspiring so many young men, including me. I come from a relationship of about two years and let's say that the girl i was with was pretty toxic, she literally claimed me for her alone. Now that we've broken up i started working out, working on my music, just being more disciplined and i wouldn't have been able to find the courage and energy needed if it wasn't for you and Andrew. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for leading so many of us towards a great life with purpose and sole commitment.
Oh Hamza, we are so blessed, To have you in our lives, as a guest, A UA-camr, so wise and true, Sharing your knowledge, to guide us through. Self-help, productivity, fitness, and more, Your videos, we always adore, A way to be the best version of us, With your guidance, we learn and trust. Delaying instant gratification with ease, A role model, for so many teens, Your cult following, is a testament, To the impact, you've made, indelent. So let us sing, and raise our voice, In gratitude, for your guiding force, Hamza, you are a light in our days, With your wisdom, we'll pave the way.
@@Flame-ci7fw Because i’m fit, attractive, got money, and wise. Need proof? Btw, the poem was a joke, I asked chatGPT to write it just to troll your bitchass🤡
There is a saying: If you spend Your time chasing butterflyes they wil fly away, But If you spend Your time bulding a beautiful garden the butterflyes wil come to you.
omg thank you so much Hamza. Bro like I was talking to this girl ye and I was preaching all this s*** people like you and Tate say after post breakup and lemme tell you she was more interested than any other girl has been in my life. God bless🙏🤝
the key is to not need anyone but yourself. once you learn to be happy alone you won't need to fake anything. you can choose who to allow into your life, being around others will be because you want to be around them.
Ever since I started to take care of my hair and making it longer, I went from girls running away from me to them coming and flirting with me, and when they do that I would chase them and then the stop talking to me, you helped me really solve that problem matter a fact I got a date in two days with the popular girl, yeah im 13 but this is a big thing for me
It's funny because I've done the opposite (being 100% real. Not compromising what I want for anyone and doing what I feel like doing in the moment 100% of the time), and that's what has worked for me the best. It's when I started doing this (and at the same time stopped working out and eating gigantic amounts of junk food, to the point where I put on a bit of fat), is when I noticed the best results I've ever had with girls, and I didn't even approach them. They approached me. It's funny because when I was doing what Hamza said to do for about 3 years (fake it til you make it), attractive girls would barely approach me (only 2 did... Both were drunk as fuck and one wasn't even hot). It's only when I decided to be myself completely and started doing what I felt like doing 100% of the time, in the moment, is when hot girls started approaching me, and I didn't even have to do anything. Hamza talks about how the guys who get girls don't care about them, yet then says to fake it til you make it. By doing so you are caring about girls. I think the first and most important step to getting girls is to do what you want to do completely. If you WANT to do things like working out (a lot of girls say they don't even like guys work out anyway) and focusing on your career then that's just a bonus. But the most important thing is to do what you want to do in the moment, and by doing so you care less about what people think about you. Even if you want to think positive affirmations such as, "I'm a Chad, I'm hot" etc, that's fine and all but it has to be because you WANT to do it in the moment. Think about what you want to do most in the moment and do that 100% of the time (even if it's shit like eating junk food or playing video games), keep doing it for a while and watch hot girls approach you when you go out.
Hamza, You have helped me so much throughout the past 8 months, however I believe all of us would love a new and improved diet guide similar to the one you made in 2021.
What if I doing all the good habits and really pushing myself hard in studies and fitness etc. To be the perfect "man" for my crush. Although still focusing fully on my goals but using my desire for her as a motivation to push myself even further beyond. Is that counted as being feminine even though I am chasing a Major goal/passion? Thanks for your time and attention. Extraordinary vid Hamza.
I wouldn't say it's feminine or something. It's just that though you use your crush as motivation, don't make her the ONLY reason for your improvements. If your crush turns out to be something you didn't think she is, it might devastate you. So yah there's nothing wrong with it but don't make it the only reason.
Naw bro you're low-key doing sexual transmutation. Using your sexual energy to have the same drive you would with or for a woman, on your goals. It's talked about in think and grow rich.
@hamza how do we handle racial slurs thrown at us ,being discriminated in a job or being told we cannot work because of our race and being turned down by women just because of our race/religion
I've been in a spiritual journey for the past months, and here's what I learned that has to do with the video. 1. You can get over neediness by having self love, healing your inner child and fear of abandonment. We get the grasping feeling when we feel we're gonna get abandoned, and we want people to show up for us instead of we showing up for ourselves, that's what neediness is. 2. You don't ge tattention and girls because of your thoughts and feelings torwards yourself. People who are bad with girls don't believe they're attractive, bcs their beliefs are creating a reality where they're still not good with them. What if you woke up everyday thinking you're attractive and desired ? How would that feel? And therefore, what kind of reality would you be creating ? Subconscious is no joke, it literally runs our reality and it's our job to shape it into what we want
@@northerntribe144 I'm not super brave to do cold approaching anymore, I would stick more to the "hey, I find u cute and I don't want to bother, is it ok if I get your Instagram?". I'm more ok with that, but when it comes to social media only, u can be more loose
Tbh this is true, but only works with low value women. I was very affectionate with a girl I liked and it worked, she was totally obsessed with me. But then I started listening to red pill advice and that mixed with my past trauma made me lose this girl, she was absolutely perfect and the love of my life, by I listened to this type of advice and I lost her.
Yeah, this wont work on girls who have a lot of self respect. I tried this ignore and act busy tactic on a girl that loved me and she lost interest and left. This is not a 100% guarantee tactic. It works on the majority of girls but not all.
as a woman, this is bullshit. all women are different. personally, i want a man to care about me. i dont want the “hard to get” attitude because that’s so unattractive. you can improve yourself while still openly caring about a woman.
Okay so I have a question .if Your girl (gf not crush) is becoming a bit distant bcz she is more focused on her goals and you're confused why she suddenly changed herself and did something to gain the previous dynamic back is that a jeffery move ?
Hello Hamza I just cant thank you enough because i started reading and couldt really pay full attention and my mind would drift off but know with meditating it has improved alot i can remeber alot about the book and pay full atention and read 1 hour striaght with full attention and i am so happy i am making progress
I hate how true this is but what I just experienced showed me the truth. I was in a dark place in 2022 and when I started hanging out with this girl I thought that was the light at the end of the tunnel. She had some family shii going on so she was busy and started to peel away and even after everything was settled it was like she fully lost interest in me. But by lay December going into 2023 I just started going full self improvement focusing on myself & all of the sudden she’s the one hitting me up instead of vice versa. I’m at the part I gotta control my emotions and not become an attached puppy but continue to show my interest
“Don’t waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come.” ~ Mario Quintana
@@Vyper71 yeah i love this quote. simple but wise
And if no butterflies come, you'll still have a garden.
Loved this one 😍😎
I love these quotes what a legend
make da butterflies and then reverse ones
"Stop looking for a partner. Focus on your goals and rebuilding your life. The right person will eventually find their way to you." ~ Robert Tew
I dont believe in that because if everyone thinks like that even females then nobody would have a partner
HOW DO I GET HER OUT OF MY HEAD
I think that's bullshit
@@Pbcvl this is an amazing question that I hope I have the answer for you brother. the thing is I was asking myself this question so much throughout high school (2019-22) and now as I'm sitting here outside I will most likely just make a video on it. it is because it gets deep but most of the time it is because you don't love yourself enough.
@@TheRealestTiller It's. not really an obsession. I noticed that during the winter 2 week break I didn't think of her once. Back to school now and saw her, I don't really think that much about her but still. Ngl she is perfect (I know everyone says that but really)
It took me a long time to realize that just because a girl is nice to you (or even talks to you) that doesn’t mean that she is into you. You have to realize that chasing doesn’t work, you have to stop putting them on pedestals that way.
Bro I have a question
There is a classmate of mine who was looking at me
Tried to speak and laugh with me and complement me and gave me signals to approach her and I heard her speak about me with her friends
But I just played as I didn't notice and I made her leave and didn't speak to her so she tried
But with time as I spoke to her she lost interest in me and now she doesn't even like speaking with me with her face expressions
But I like her now
And that was because I am not funny and I am very serious and logical in my speaking but I tried to make her laugh and at first I just played around her like a dumbass bcuz I didn't like her
She speaks and smiles with a foreign language when I am speaking and her friends are around
The word “chasing” gets thrown around a lot and confused. Most guys are taking this to mean don’t initiate or approach/talk to women and wait for them to come to you. Wrong.
"Chase your goals, not the hoes" -Ghandi
Ghandi is a Chad apparently.
Ghandi : I also make two girls clean my shit everyday
lmfaooo
Says the dude that made 2 women force fully clear his poop every day by their hands
@@sohamhalder1042 😂
This "fake til you make it" mentality worked for me when I needed a job and was insecure at the time. Now it's time to do this with girls and I'm confident this will work again. Cheers
How's it going
@@kaua7561 Those weeks were rough. The company I'm working in is going bankrupt and people were being fired, one at time. No time to think about girls. I was one of the few left, I thought all hope was lost but I got a very unexpected interview today, went to it with an absolute ADONIS mentality and got the job on the spot. Inside I was shaking, but nailed it. I'm sure being confident helped a lot, because the position was way higher than my level. When things get better around here I'll update
@@kaua7561 update: things got better, had an amazing date, unfortunately we didn't develop a nice connection. It was surprisingly easy to start and maintain a conversation, things flowed nicely. I got to follow a girl (complete stranger) on instagram, get her attention, start a casual conversation that lasted for weeks and get out on a date. It looks like a casual thing for most, but I had social phobia for most part of my life and I'm proud of myself.
One of the only comments from someone who looks like he understood the video.
Bro I have a question
There is a classmate of mine who was looking at me
Tried to speak and laugh with me and complement me and gave me signals to approach her and I heard her speak about me with her friends
But I just played as I didn't notice and I made her leave and didn't speak to her so she tried
But with time as I spoke to her she lost interest in me and now she doesn't even like speaking with me with her face expressions
But I like her now
And that was because I am not funny and I am very serious and logical in my speaking but I tried to make her laugh and at first I just played around her like a dumbass bcuz I didn't like her
She speaks and smiles with a foreign language when I am speaking and her friends are around
imo that's one of the best advices you can get
"you're the biggest guy in the gym so why not train like the biggest guy in the gym?"
"you're the most confident guy in the country so why not act confident?"
"you're the most focused person in the world so why not focus on the work?"
just think all day about what your goal looks like and try to become it in every part of your life
good luck 💪
I did a small part of this subconciously, i really wanted to get better at just talking in general and not making all those weird sex jokes and just get to become closer to be the most perfected version of myself. Then as i progressed little by little i began to notice that girls were looking at me way more.
This mindset actually works so well so i'm wondering why there aren't (many) others that also share this advice.
same here. But how do you go from "they look at me way more" to actually going up to them?
Yeah true bro
@@belivuk2526 yeesh how depressing. Just take up a hobby make a good bond with a random. Do not try to make it sexual as soon as possible. You and the girl wil begin to like eachother for who you are. Boom you've fallen for eachother and now you can make the next move. You don't have to compete with genes or resources. Your personality is the only unique thing you have nobody can compete with you on that front. Just like business it's not always about how big the company is or how many employees it's about the mission the reputation of the company if this stands out from the rest you won't have to compete. And if they like it they won't change companies and hopefully also not guys :)
@@nathanricetalks Damn bro this made me have to think for a while, you hear alot from hamza about not caring too much about woman in the first part of your progress to become adones. First get rid of all those unnecesary things like videogaming and fapping, in that stage you won't get any woman that will last. If you have almost become adones thats the time when you have to worry about picking up girls and it will probably come natural.
@@Jeta_z i strongly disagree with you on that point. I have adopted a LOT of good habits and still can't go up to women. And Adonis is the ideal, so he's unreachable for everyone. Also top 1% males have their flaws.
I just felt like with adapting more good habits and reduce the bad ones, that didn't do anything for me in terms of confidence when it comes to women. It makes me more confident in other areas of life tho.
I'm like 120 pounds and I've been on self improvement for a year now. I started as the skinny kid and bald kid but I've started bulking up and I have low body fat which helps me look very good with my physique. I've been scared to talk to girls but this year I will do my best to learn how to talk to women while focusing on my shit too. I simply want some love. Thank you for reading have a blessed days my brothers
You have this bro
@Doorarius what. I'm the male, I have to approach them while they are feminine.
Thank you Hamza, I just turned 14 and before i started self-improvement, I was skinny fat, addicting to the hub, had zero confidence, and had a lot of feminine energy.
I found your channel and I started self-improvement and I'm glad I started it.
Still on the grind!!
lets gooo
It’ll never stop 😎
nice man now you need to change your name because we will be adonis lets go man you got this hard work build your mindset
@@dimitropulosproductiontv6992 for sure I will, but only once I arrive at that level
We will make it brahs!
This is how you do it, you become a great one at something, people think you are the shit, you stay humble, more people will find you, some will be more interested in you, you listen to them, and you reassure them they matter, then you keep doing your thing, then they begin to chase you. In general, its becoming great at a skill within a social hierchy, for example, becoming boxer or skater, a dancer, a hobby that can be used in competition or that has an audience, and you become a good person, but not an overbearing person, and it helps to be skillful at something so you have something to do instead of being clingy.
A little patience goes a long way. What matters isn't how many women you've slept with, but who you are with at the end. Get practice in of course, but not at the expense of building yourself up. A good reminder to those of you(and myself) who are struggling to keep focused.
Thank you for everything you do for us Hamza, you're a great man, I'll never quit and that's on you brother
Thanks so much Hamza. 16 on my self improvement journey and I feel confident bout my progress im very lean im 55 kg and im targeting 65 kg by the end of 2023. Im in great shape already but I feel the bulk will do me a favor. ROAD TO ADONIS
Yoo man same iam 16 and iam 50 iam aiming 65 too by the end of 2023 ..u got insta ?
@@Arjun-pt9fq amazing goals guys! Im 16 and 62 kg rn, aiming to be 75ish kg. Keep up the good work lads
16 57kg and i want to stay this way tbh i like my shape
@@Arjun-pt9fq you've got this
@@Arjun-pt9fq therealbamise
i really needed this, thanks hamza 💙
You are a life saver hamza you have no idea the influence you have, helping mature boys, this came out perfect time.
Hello Hamza! ive been "following" these tips for quite some while now, you´ve made it way easier for me to talk with Girls, Happy new year man
Just wanted to say that you’ve helped me a lot. Yes I still have a gaming account haha but never play anymore. I went from being the kid that stayed in all day to being the one that stay on track with routines. Making my bed in the morning, keeping my space clean and organized. Educating myself, eating nutritious and stay on the grind with training. Not until now have I realized what I was missing out on. I’m now much happier, confident and organized in my life. Knowing that I actually have the courage to go after things. Which also made me meet more people irl and made more friends. So, everyone out there that’s working on themselves. I’m proud of you all because it takes damn work 🤝
Well, laziness is literally a deadly sin. And i have big problems in my life i gotta fix. Like biiiig ass problems.
@@chaosinfernoid9008 Totally understand you. I was in that situation too. I believe in you though, I know everyone says this but it’s always hardest in the beginning. After it’s a habit it’s just a part a part of your routine. Stay on the grind bro
Nice. Keep it up. I had a girl tell me one time that cleanliness matters man. Clean car clean room and she will want to be in your bed. Always smells nice and is organized. My dad was German so he made sure I fucking cleaned LOL
Video games are not a bad thing from time to time... but board games are much better! And incomparably more social.
Hamza its been almost a year since i started watching you. Seeing you grow like that from 30k to 1.5million was one of the most inspiring thing I had ever witnessed. Thank you a lot for changing our lives brother
Same I'm proud off him I remember his videos where he'd go outside and do a hoop routine
how has your life changed since u started watching hamza
@@andreharris144 crazy! From a skinny fat, puffed face, porn addict, gamer with literally zero girls,needy to a good physique, 8 month no fap streak, lean face with hallow cheekbones, literally 12+ girls,the focusing on my self & Idgaf mentality.... When I dont feel like doing anything i look back at where and why I started
@@sg7981 how did u heal the porn addiction
@@andreharris144 I'm litteraly an entirely different person rn people that i havent seen since 2021 barley recognize me anymore. I used to be always anxious nowadays i almost never feel any anxiety only a little bit when faced with a big task where im about to be judged
Man i recently found about Hamza and all i can say is that he is changing my life. In better. Keep grinding and focused on yourself kings👑👑
you the best BRO!!!!!!!!
Hamza, first of all, thank you. You inspire me to continue this hard journey of self improvement. I have 13 years old and in from Brazil. The thing is, here in Brazil, there aren't good self improvement contents. I had to learn English just so I can watch more productive videos. You are astonishing. The bad thing is, my family is getting pissed at me bcz I'm going to bed early, waking up early, basically, taking it to seriously. My dad says I should not believe any UA-camrs out here, especially if they are "gringo" ( it means not from Brazil). And also says I should only believe his counsels. He isnt allowing me to watch your videos. My family says that the important is the balance. Don't eat only junk food but don't eat only healthy foods. I thinks it's a wrong way of thinking. Although in really struggling with my family, they are tired of me waking up early and taking too seriously the things I see on internet. What should I do hamza? Thanks for reading. Regards from Brazil 🤘😎
You’re only 13 mate don’t take life too seriously with schedules and all that just focus on your social skills and being a good person
@@stayawayfromthewoke3412 school is most important at his age
Bro dont listen to these biggots in the chat that comment to you or your father. You are doing a fucking amazing work my friend, FOCUS on the grind. Everyone that says otherwise are DISTRACTIONS. Remember? - F O C U S
Now get back to the grind and move everyone who distracts you. Continue the path that youre doing!
I ain’t reading allat😂😂😂😂
Omg Neymar country 😱😱😱😱😱
Always care about someone, even if it’s from a distance. do not let these internet influencers make your life “situational”. Act the way you know is beneficial to letting you feel yourself, regardless of how someone acts towards you. (Not caring and/or chasing makes you attract people who do not care about themselves so they could never be loyal to you or love you“. That’s why they have partners who are uninterested in them, because they like being unsure of themselves and having to chase validation of one who does not care. they use you to feel good about themselves as you open up after “not caring”, and you learn to ignore yourselves/ not care about yourself when you pretend to not care about other people or your feelings for them. )
Yes, Hamza made some good points but to say that the guy should not take much interest in the girl’s life or hobbies is not a good idea
It is important to set boundaries with a girl. It is important to make it clear to her what you are okay with and what you will not tolerate
It is important to set expectations clear
You can do all this while taking interest in her as a person
It should be a fair value of exchange. Taking too much interest in girls life before she has committed is not right
But taking too little to no interest in her will prevent you from building a bond
I saw a video with similar title earlier. This is definitely the right information.
Thank you hamza love your work, keep it, adonis!
I've been working out and on self improvement for 7 months now and my life has improved so much thanks to Hamza so thank you bro
Yesss it does I've built this routine to try tommorow very excited to see if it works
I'm 13 years old and I'm on self improvement for about 6 months so huppy that I discovered this amazing channel thank you so much hamza you made me the person that I always wanted to be 🖤
respect bro, keep it up!
You're a winner, kid. Keep following that route.
me too lmao
gg kid hope u keep it up
You've got the world in your hands as long as you always try your hardest and never quit brother, keep it up
Incredible video again Hamza!
hamza, just wanted to thank you for everything. ❤❤❤
You are saving hundreds of peoples life man and I’m thankful for that ❤
You inspired me to go harder and focus on my goals which is making more music 🎧
Hopefully I can make it one day ☝
Is my music good ⁉️
Litterally everything u say is right man. Boys from my school that don't even know me right oder even people that know me start calling me a fuck boy or player. And honestly it feel quite good haha. Since I changed my mindset I have lots of girls in my life and it makes me happy to wake up everyday with the idea of improving my social skills. Your videos are such a big help man. I appreciate u a lot
Meat eating is crazy☠️☠️
Thanks so much for this, i will give it my all to be like Adonis
Hamza motivated me to improve everyday and share it on YT 😎 I truly appreciate that
Hamza changing my whole perspective every day
@Test Account yeah
I've always known from a young age that being yourself is the best way to attract a girl, no tricks and bs. Yes they sometimes work but being confident in who you are and not appearing desperate or jealous can create things with women and they will desire you eventually in some way, I've actually friendzoned girls more than they have to me.
Best time for this, thank you Hamza.
Hamza has inspired me to start my own channel and give back what I have learnt. Pass on the wealth brothers
Hamza you changed my life, thank you. I’m forever grateful for you.
yo hamza bro, i've been going through a tough time and your content has helped me a lot in keeping me sane, so thank you
Tysm!
Thank you 🥹👍🏻
Make an unfiltered version of destroying your neediness
Your goals and dreams should be priority. Look after yourself first so you can take care of others when the times right
Suprised to see hamza speak about the topic of affirmations, they help significantly
you read my mind everytime and post the perfect video for meh
Be yourself. Be good to yourself. Be good to good people. - Marquett Davon Barton
Work on improving yourself. Show the best version of who you are. Don't fake being someone you're not.
Progress is the mission not the end goal 💪
There's never a end it's a forever journey full off fun
@@FrankZee007 hundred percent 💯 keep up the grind bro 💪
@@matthewrobinson577 I will do and you too I'll see ya at the top
Good job to the person who makes the thumbnails I like the new ones
Thanks!
This actually happened to me.
In the past i used to beheave like a jeffrey, in middle school i liked this girl who i talked with at least 10 times in 3 years and i thougt i was "in love" with her. The second year of high school i texted her something like: "hei it's me from middle school, how are you" and she blocked me, finally i was free from that mental prison. This summer i started to like one of my oldest friends, we're pretty good friends and i gave it a shot, i wrote her that i liked her and she makes me happy... but she ghosted me. That summer i also got interested in self improvement and i started no fap, working out (more than i already did) and something changed because of that girl, i don't know what it was but my mind developed this new "lifestyle". I developed the will of improving in every aspect of my life, especially social life. So at the start of the 3rd year of school i was the same person, but with a different aura, my confidence was at an all time high and i felt like i could have done anything. I was slowly starting to lose interest in that girl and in that moment, when i was only chasing my goals, i noticed that someone was chasing me, and it's going infinitely better than the other times, dude she stares at me, i stare at her back and she looks away, she's kind, she compliments me, i gave her a letter (not a confession) and she hugged me, yesterday she invited me to her birthday! Nothing like this ever happened to me, and the only thing that changed everything...was my mind set
lmaomoamaoma
one time a wise men said "focus on your garden and the butterflies will come by their on", wich says if you want girls, first you need to focus and building youself physicaly, mentally, espiritually and of course on your career
you are 100% right with this, bro!
Thanks Hamza!
Key to attracting women is pretending like you don’t care about them. Another great video like always Hamza 👍🏼.
You realize that not showing interest turns alot of women away right? Hamza is a quack, also you have to be extremely attractive for this to even work, and i know 99 percent of guys who watch this arent, sad but true.
@@Flame-ci7fw
I guess the actual way is just to be normal and treating her like a human beeing. It's not about the Chad not even talking to her lol. It's all about Charisma, Self-Confidence and not beeing like the rest. Beeing interesting i guess. Looks are way to overhyped BatChest i hecking love Bodybuilders. Nah nah it's not that important. Muscle in the end just shows that you worked on yourself. And that's all about it.
@@chaosinfernoid9008 i agree, you can talk to a girl alot without being needy.
@@Flame-ci7fw Yes !!! A sane person in this comment section. Nobody likes to be turned away. The key is just not obsessing over her and giving her space to make it seem like she's chasing you. The grooming, self-improvement is just something that makes you a better person to be around which adds to the attraction. Not being a jerk, you won't get good women like that.
Hamza your really a diamond bro you keep changing young men's life
Holy shit hamza you saved me. I could reflect all the things and now you enlightened me. I can see light. Thank you!
nice video editing and animations man
Can you make a video on akne or pimple scars
reduce carbs I think
Go and check Brett Maverick!
"Just be confident and 6'3"
Hamza is saving lives
How does this dude upload the right video at the right time every single time
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:26 🚶♂️ *Stop obsessing over the girl and start focusing on personal progress and goals like Adonis to become more attractive to women.*
01:51 🔄 *Flip the script: Instead of chasing her, let her chase you by pursuing your studies, business, fitness, and goals passionately.*
03:16 🙅♂️ *Overcome neediness, a major turn-off, by either getting an abundance of women interested in you or faking it by changing your mindset.*
05:23 🔄 *Change your self-perception: Brainwash yourself into believing you are attractive and act like the alpha male, as this psychological shift significantly impacted the creator's success with women.*
06:35 💪 *Combine psychological shifts with positive actions, such as improving social skills, building confidence in flirting, and working on physical attractiveness in the gym, to enhance overall success in attracting women.*
07:30 🔄 *Imitate success: Act more like the guys who are successful with girls, even if it means copying their behaviors, as this straightforward approach proved effective for the creator.*
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Hamza you truly are inspiring so many young men, including me. I come from a relationship of about two years and let's say that the girl i was with was pretty toxic, she literally claimed me for her alone. Now that we've broken up i started working out, working on my music, just being more disciplined and i wouldn't have been able to find the courage and energy needed if it wasn't for you and Andrew. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for leading so many of us towards a great life with purpose and sole commitment.
This is spot on
Up at night to complete my day with hamza's video
Oh Hamza, we are so blessed,
To have you in our lives, as a guest,
A UA-camr, so wise and true,
Sharing your knowledge, to guide us through.
Self-help, productivity, fitness, and more,
Your videos, we always adore,
A way to be the best version of us,
With your guidance, we learn and trust.
Delaying instant gratification with ease,
A role model, for so many teens,
Your cult following, is a testament,
To the impact, you've made, indelent.
So let us sing, and raise our voice,
In gratitude, for your guiding force,
Hamza, you are a light in our days,
With your wisdom, we'll pave the way.
yeah you definitely need this video
nerd
@@Flame-ci7fw I still get more pussy than you;)
@@kanankontorovsky6537 reread your comment and tell me why i would believe you've even got your first hug yet bro
@@Flame-ci7fw Because i’m fit, attractive, got money, and wise. Need proof? Btw, the poem was a joke, I asked chatGPT to write it just to troll your bitchass🤡
There is a saying: If you spend Your time chasing butterflyes they wil fly away, But If you spend Your time bulding a beautiful garden the butterflyes wil come to you.
loving the uploads
omg thank you so much Hamza. Bro like I was talking to this girl ye and I was preaching all this s*** people like you and Tate say after post breakup and lemme tell you she was more interested than any other girl has been in my life. God bless🙏🤝
early asf
the key is to not need anyone but yourself. once you learn to be happy alone you won't need to fake anything. you can choose who to allow into your life, being around others will be because you want to be around them.
Ever since I started to take care of my hair and making it longer, I went from girls running away from me to them coming and flirting with me, and when they do that I would chase them and then the stop talking to me, you helped me really solve that problem matter a fact I got a date in two days with the popular girl, yeah im 13 but this is a big thing for me
love the light behind you
It's funny because I've done the opposite (being 100% real. Not compromising what I want for anyone and doing what I feel like doing in the moment 100% of the time), and that's what has worked for me the best. It's when I started doing this (and at the same time stopped working out and eating gigantic amounts of junk food, to the point where I put on a bit of fat), is when I noticed the best results I've ever had with girls, and I didn't even approach them. They approached me. It's funny because when I was doing what Hamza said to do for about 3 years (fake it til you make it), attractive girls would barely approach me (only 2 did... Both were drunk as fuck and one wasn't even hot). It's only when I decided to be myself completely and started doing what I felt like doing 100% of the time, in the moment, is when hot girls started approaching me, and I didn't even have to do anything. Hamza talks about how the guys who get girls don't care about them, yet then says to fake it til you make it. By doing so you are caring about girls. I think the first and most important step to getting girls is to do what you want to do completely. If you WANT to do things like working out (a lot of girls say they don't even like guys work out anyway) and focusing on your career then that's just a bonus. But the most important thing is to do what you want to do in the moment, and by doing so you care less about what people think about you. Even if you want to think positive affirmations such as, "I'm a Chad, I'm hot" etc, that's fine and all but it has to be because you WANT to do it in the moment. Think about what you want to do most in the moment and do that 100% of the time (even if it's shit like eating junk food or playing video games), keep doing it for a while and watch hot girls approach you when you go out.
I started listening to you and I’m so much happier
Thank you for this video Hamza. I needed it so much right now. You always upload the right video at the right time
Damn bro, you got rejected by her 🙂😢
I'm talking to myself ig 🗿
😭😭😭
It didn't work, I'm now banned from being within 30 meters of a childcare center.
You can't have succes without a bit of failure
"Don't chase them, Let them chase you."
only works if you're attractive big dawg
That will never happen big dawg
Black pills 👆
@@23DXEE yea right big bro
@@walterwhite6216 I know
Hamza, You have helped me so much throughout the past 8 months, however I believe all of us would love a new and improved diet guide similar to the one you made in 2021.
This makes sense!
What if I doing all the good habits and really pushing myself hard in studies and fitness etc. To be the perfect "man" for my crush. Although still focusing fully on my goals but using my desire for her as a motivation to push myself even further beyond. Is that counted as being feminine even though I am chasing a Major goal/passion?
Thanks for your time and attention. Extraordinary vid Hamza.
The only sane mindset which I found worthy of being praised.
Wdym by your comment?
I really just wanna know this is considered feminine.
I wouldn't say it's feminine or something. It's just that though you use your crush as motivation, don't make her the ONLY reason for your improvements. If your crush turns out to be something you didn't think she is, it might devastate you. So yah there's nothing wrong with it but don't make it the only reason.
Naw bro you're low-key doing sexual transmutation. Using your sexual energy to have the same drive you would with or for a woman, on your goals. It's talked about in think and grow rich.
@hamza how do we handle racial slurs thrown at us ,being discriminated in a job or being told we cannot work because of our race and being turned down by women just because of our race/religion
you should watch hamza’s mental health guide to get the answer
talk to a therapist?
@@Flame-ci7fw can't afford in my country
@@ajithsidhu7183 just look it up online, hamza has too many comments he cant respondt o u
Thank you hamza
Love u Hamza!
I've been in a spiritual journey for the past months, and here's what I learned that has to do with the video.
1. You can get over neediness by having self love, healing your inner child and fear of abandonment. We get the grasping feeling when we feel we're gonna get abandoned, and we want people to show up for us instead of we showing up for ourselves, that's what neediness is.
2. You don't ge tattention and girls because of your thoughts and feelings torwards yourself. People who are bad with girls don't believe they're attractive, bcs their beliefs are creating a reality where they're still not good with them. What if you woke up everyday thinking you're attractive and desired ? How would that feel? And therefore, what kind of reality would you be creating ?
Subconscious is no joke, it literally runs our reality and it's our job to shape it into what we want
It's crazy because u wrote that cuz alot of the time I catch them staring at me but I still can't change my mind to move in that spirit and I flop it.
How do you get into that spirit I feel like doubt messes it up
@@northerntribe144 I learned a lot from the teachings of a man called Neville Goddard
@@northerntribe144 I'm not super brave to do cold approaching anymore, I would stick more to the "hey, I find u cute and I don't want to bother, is it ok if I get your Instagram?". I'm more ok with that, but when it comes to social media only, u can be more loose
Tbh this is true, but only works with low value women. I was very affectionate with a girl I liked and it worked, she was totally obsessed with me. But then I started listening to red pill advice and that mixed with my past trauma made me lose this girl, she was absolutely perfect and the love of my life, by I listened to this type of advice and I lost her.
Yeah, this wont work on girls who have a lot of self respect. I tried this ignore and act busy tactic on a girl that loved me and she lost interest and left. This is not a 100% guarantee tactic. It works on the majority of girls but not all.
@@reezis1619 yeah my girl was very mature and understanding so she wouldn't play games
Great vid
u have became one of my fav youtuber keep it up
Hi
as a woman, this is bullshit. all women are different. personally, i want a man to care about me. i dont want the “hard to get” attitude because that’s so unattractive. you can improve yourself while still openly caring about a woman.
your trying to discourage men into chasing you.
Hamza I'm 15. I'm focusing on my goals. Thank you for your tip to man guide. I really appreciate it.
You gon make it bro
The way you attract women is to improve your self in many different areas and see yourself as having abundance!
Okay so I have a question .if Your girl (gf not crush) is becoming a bit distant bcz she is more focused on her goals and you're confused why she suddenly changed herself and did something to gain the previous dynamic back is that a jeffery move ?
When a girl is focused on her goals it looks like she it too masculine a guy should focus on the his girl and purpose and a women should be submisive
@@breadclips7366 huh?
@@breadclips7366 ain’t no wayyyy💀💀💀💀💀💀💀hamza has got to this man’s head, it’s not the 17th century anymore.
@@breadclips7366 bro prob a fat sack of lard asking why no bitches hittin up his line 😂😂😂
Keep going brother
Act as if. Great advice Tysm!
Hello Hamza I just cant thank you enough because i started reading and couldt really pay full attention and my mind would drift off but know with meditating it has improved alot i can remeber alot about the book and pay full atention and read 1 hour striaght with full attention and i am so happy i am making progress
I hate how true this is but what I just experienced showed me the truth. I was in a dark place in 2022 and when I started hanging out with this girl I thought that was the light at the end of the tunnel. She had some family shii going on so she was busy and started to peel away and even after everything was settled it was like she fully lost interest in me. But by lay December going into 2023 I just started going full self improvement focusing on myself & all of the sudden she’s the one hitting me up instead of vice versa. I’m at the part I gotta control my emotions and not become an attached puppy but continue to show my interest
You made me make my own music bro. I only have a small following but it’s changing my life! You’re a legend 🔥
Perfect Video🗿🔱✨
Thanks Hamza, u changed my life :))