@@Hamza97 that's not what I meant. Your entire channel what I've seen is looks maxing and some self improvement of men. You made a vid about how society has left behind men, I forget which one. So men are outcast in a gender sense and you speak on that, why not the racial aspect? Do you think there isn't something similar going on in that sense? I'm genuinely curious and that's what I was trying to focus on. Not a looks maxing thing.
@@fionnleamy844 nope. Is making a thing about gender not division?? Tell me why you believe and stated that. It's ok for him to talk about gender based stuff but why do all you red pill types always do that and treat race as some holy and untouchable subject?? Do you hear yourself sometimes man?
Being in the friend zone is like losing an item you care about. When you stop looking for it, it will either return to you, or you will realize that ultimately it doesn't matter you lost it in the first place.
help me bro, i need advice rn i’m talking to a girl i had my intentions clear to her from the very first moment. she says i’m a great guy but she doesn’t wants to be in a relationship in a rush. she says that she wants to know me and also wants to let me know her better and then maybe start a relationship with her. i also tried being stoic and patient and she double texted me as well, she sents me snaps, and replies to my stories if i don’t text her. i’m soo confused. so am i friend zoned? help me :)
@@jootirmoy seems to me like she doesn’t know what she wants. It’s attention without intention. The attention is nice and probably fires up all those chemicals in her brain but she isn’t necessarily talking to you with the intent of pursuing any real relationship. Perhaps she likes the thought of sharing a level of chemistry with someone else but is too scared to really commit to you or just doesn’t want a relationship (with you). She is clearly friend zoning you if she said that stuff and although it may sound like you still have a chance, don’t force it. Double down on self improvement and make your future self happier first then the rest will come naturally.
@@jootirmoy sounds like she's wanting the benefits of a boyfriend without having you specifically be her boyfriend. As soon as a man she wants comes along, she will drop you faster than picking up a hot rock in summer. You need to let her go because all you're doing is causing yourself pain and stopping yourself from finding a girl who's actually into you. Women who are interested in you are interested from the moment you meet. There is no hesitation, no chase. It very easy to tell and they won't wait at all to claim you as a boyfriend. If she's telling you that you have to wait to MAYBE be in a relationship, then she isn't interested and is just looking for free attention and gifts.
Step 1: Dissapear (Give her some space, don't go around her too much.) Step 2: Create a new identity (A.K.A, a better version of yourself like Adonis for instance) Step 3: Make your intentions known (Don't play the mysterious type card too much otherwise the girl is gonna think you're just a creep) Step 4: Forget her and move on (If you want to be more than just a friend for her, just focus on yourself and move on) Enjoy
I learned focusing on your mission brings women to you, ever since I started focusing more on my mission to make self improvement based music, people not just women in my life are more respectful because I’m driven
Kudos to you my brother that’s right I’m more focused on improving myself and my YT platform and people have definitely been trying to grab my attention
*Breaking out of the friend zone starts with shifting how a guy sees himself in the dynamic - confidence and subtle flirting can really change the energy. Not to mention, giving her space to miss you adds a little mystery.*
I was hesitant to watch this video because I was scared of the hard reality of what's happening between me and this girl right now. But no, instead, I watched it and finished the video feeling relaxed and ready to change myself for the better. Everything you said in this video is spot on. Thanks
I’d rather take a rejection upfront than be strung along, I don’t have the time. I think the best thing to do is to withhold your time and attention for women who are being flirty and romantic with you. If she’s not doing that, no attention for her. If she doesn’t care, you just move on.
Trust me, I was in the friend zone twice! But I managed to fight my way out of them. You just have to... disappear out of their lives, and improve yourself overall, physically and mentally. It also helps to smell nice, and dress nice, too. But don't overdo it. Key takeaway: "Less is more." You got this, Adonis! 🤜🤛💪💯
@@ayaan6624 Depends. Did she cause you a lot of mental distress, or emotional damage? Cause if she did, I'd drop her like a ton o' bricks. That's just me. It's your call.
@@mexicanson yah man , she told me stay with me , I want you to be my good friend, after destroying my mental health , she was telling me I love you but I am not ready for relationship, I am scared of relationship, s , I thought maybe she needs time , but today i got my answer , and it hurt my ego i am feeling worth less right now , she is also like below average girl but still i fall for her
@@ayaan6624 I went through the same thing 5 years ago, with this other girl I knew. She told me she didn't like me, and only wanted to be friends, but you could tell she wanted to be with me. Girls play games like that, and you can get yourself caught up. I'd ditch her. You could find someone better, in my opinion. When you do find the right girl, it should be easy like breathing. You like her, and she really likes you. Look for her heart condition, and never date anyone toxic. That's just bad for your health, my dude.
This video has the best timing I've ever since, I just asked out my crush I had since over 5 years, to get a "I really like you as a friend, but I need to learn to love myself more before giving back to someone the love this person gives me" I'm not even mad at it because I wasn't expecting it to go well anyway, but I had to break it to her in other to move on to a new chapter. Yet, after this event, I was scared of keeping this voice in my head telling me "oh maybe just wait some time and she'll be ready for you" Your video hopefully opened my eyes in learning on moving on, close this chapter and focus on something without relying on her or caring about "what she's going to think about me if I do this" The story you told in this video about the Greek girl really reminded me of myself, I will now see how the future is ment for me, but I am really concerned about the fact that I might be "moving on to try and get her back" like you also did with this one girl
I totally agree with Step 1, but it isn't going to be two weeks. I disappeared from a girl who friend zoned me for almost two months now and still haven't heard from her. I've moved on though and if she really wants you in her life she will reach out.
Wish this video came out months ago. I was going through almost the exact same thing Hamza was going through but I'm also glad through his other videos, I have indirectly been following these steps. And yes, I'm very glad about the emphasis on the final step. It sucks cus you may truly care about this girl but at the end of the day, if she doesn't actually value the attention you give her, (in a good way, not like simpy attention), it's her loss. To my other dudes going/who went through something similar, y,all got this. 💪
I wish I could hear this much earlier At January 2021 I met aome girl, she was amazing, we connected on the first meeting. I remember how we used to cuddle together, watch stuff together. I was so happy with her. One time, we we're goofing around in bed and she kissed me in the forehead, and then instantly apologized. I was confused for weeks, because she never wanted to talk about it and I already was into her after that. Months later, still confused, I was friend-zoned. And yeah, I didn't leave, I stayed as her "friend" entire summer. At October I noticed she met someone. I was really envious at that time, like never before. I experienced so much anger and envy in my life that I questioned if it is really me. I couldn't believe I would ever in my life get so hostile towards someone else. After being kind of friend-zoned second time when she said she got into relationship with that dude, but "she won't leave me because I am her best friend". I was so broken thst I planned my suicide by jumping off a high building. The only thing keeping me alive was going to gym (it was my 3rd month of going regularly to the gym). At February 2022 I was on her birthday, well her boyfriend was there too of course. The only thing I remember was the album that dude gave to her with lovely photos with them. By that time when I was looking at these photos I was drinking vodka in high amounts, I got drunk, had a breakdown and got home. In March I was highly devastated by envy, constant anger and guilt for everything I've done wrong to the point that I cut contact with her. I was trying to see if she cares about me at any rate by that time. I didn't write anything to her - she never said anything to me since that. After being completely heartbroken I found the video made by Hamza and got into self-improvement. If I never found this channel, I think I would be dead by now. Thank you Hamza, you saved my life.
@@Windperfire To be honest - yes. I haven't felt so good in a long time. I am actively changing my diet, sleep routine and working out hard. My gym results are getting better and better. I am also more used to being alone. I don't care about girls now, I am focused on different aspects of my life.
@@shphoThat's amazing to hear about. If I were you help out anyone that is in the friendzone and make them understand that people with self respect wouldn't be ok with being friends with a girl after she rejected you and friendzoned you like I'm moving on from that.
40 years ago I was put in the friendzone by 2 really nice girls. recently out of the blue I took them out on a dinner date to meet my wife after they got divorced and live alone or with their mothers. The nerd of yesteryear turned out to become a medical doctor who trains krav maga and has no debts, 3 houses, 3 luxury cars, travels abroad frequently and goes to the opera. Is this revenge or compassion?
I'm in that exact situation right now and everything you said is 100% correct comes down to growing a pair of balls! This is the first time I'm seeing you you got my attention God bless you
I had this crush on a girl for few months and i tried to flirt with her and we had some good moments but then recently I found out that she likes someone else and I was disappointed at myself. Not like I can control what she feels. When I was sad about this news, she noticed it and asked me about it. I told her about herself but didn't mention it was her I was talking about so I got it off my chest and then she told me about the guy she likes and I feld embarassed to go through that. I got friend zoned when it's clearly not my intention. I'm gonna accept with humility that I got complacent on my self improvement while obsessing over a girl, someone who I wasn't even sure will stay in my life. But I promise, I'm going to disappear and work on myself, build a new and better personality not just to find love but to achieve self love. Thank you so much hamza for this video. This could not have happened at a better time. I'm grateful for this
It's quite crazy that this is what caused me to stumble upon you're videos a couple days ago. Now to see you post something about this it feels like you're directly talking to me. Seriously man, thank you. I'm excited to be a better person, and actually be a man. I love your content, keep up the hard work brother, Godspeed!
I can relate to so many of these points… Wanted to get to know someone better, but i got friendzoned after she thought i was asking her on a date. I stopped contact with her and started on improving myself. Randomly saw her on my way out of the gym one day and we started texting long paragraphs to eachother with life-updates and shit. She even said she thought back to the time i asked her to hang out and brought up that we should meet up some time. I then showed her my desperate side and that i hadn’t changed my identity. We never met up. Big rip All in all, this video hit me hard and taught me a lot and i’ll use it to the best of my abilities. Thank you hamza. You’re the goat.
Being an early pioneer of the Friend Zone the only thing to do is leave. And just think, you will keep some self respect and two she will take far more interest in you when you go missing. You will get a better return in time spent on yourself and on people that appreciate you. Finally, being some ones Plan B is a turn off.
Hello Hamza, I just wanted you to know that you appreciate video you make. It means a lot of us that you are helping the rest of the younger men out. Thank you :)
Currently i am on Step 3 , Tomorrow is the Time i will ask her out to Be in a Relationship , If it Worked then Very Well but if it doesn't. I Promise i will Completely forget her and Move on. Wish me luck Thanks Hamza For the advice
As a teen feminine(ish) man who's been through childhood trauma and is shattered, where do you draw a line between being needy and finding comfort, understanding and a parent-like-figure in your partner/potential partner. Because sometimes it's gets too fu**in hard to deal with stuff all alone. I desperately need your take on this Hamza.
my past self can strongly relate to you homie from my experience you have to start loving yourself first giving yourself positive affirmations say no to people stay away from fake or toxic friends try to make your own decisons these are the basics that you can do to stop the "being needy and finding comfort" because i was exactly like this But now alhamdulillah iam good bhai
try and find a best friend who you KNOW you won’t fall for (for me, same gender cuz im straight) and vent to them. if the girl you want does want your attention, she’ll ask why you don’t talk as much anymore. then you hit her with the “i dont want to be friends, i wanna date you”. you probably get a straightforward yes or no. won’t 100% work on GETTING her but hey its a good way to find out her feelings i’ve found.
Hamza, If you are reading this, thank you bro, I used you doubt but I started exercising and started to meditate and I'm looking forward to trying to gain a more aesthetic body and greater people skills and honestly I am determined to achieve those goals before my 20's it's a long road but one that's worthwhile.
Most people don't like Hamza bc they can't accept that they're being described perfectly. I admit that I was like that too at one point. But hey, thanks for the advice man.
I remember when I really liked my ex and she left me, I was devastated for a long time. These days now I find it hard to ever think of going back to her, I realized relationships were a preferred indifference. I'm happy working on myself, looking into philosophy, and working hard on my academics. I can see things similar to this video in my life, and at this point when I think about my ex I realize I'm happy she left me, because it changed me to become a new person. One step closer to Adonis
I strongly resonate w u, glad you find a way to become a better person. My ex dumped me in 2019 and I wished to go back to her until I tried to contact her and she blocked me, 2 years of suffering ended up in 2 seconds, now I feel really grateful she crushed my heart bc I became someone stronger and better. Cheers! Keep focusing on the work!
hamza you made not only me but all my friends stronger. Thank you. Now we all go to the gym. Meditate and eat healthy just for sum p*ssy. We all tryna get money and be milionares. If it wasnt for you we still be playing video games late night and watching tik tok all day long for nothing. Thank you. You are a life saver
This is fax. I went through the same journey myself and everything that you’ve mentioned is on point. I just wish I’d stumbled upon your videos a couple years ago so that I didn’t have to learn everything through trial and error.
One of the best things I ever realized when I was friendzoned that helped me move on? I realized the kind of man she wanted to date was not the kind of man I wanted to be. I realized I would much rather be in the friend zone with her than be in a relationship, because being in a relationship would require me to compromise my values and individuality.
Hamza you are one of my reasons on why I will change to be the man that I desire to be. I will do whatever it takes to become the man I desire to be. I’ve been watching ur videos for a couple of days, they’ve been inspirational and helpful, and I’d like to say thank you for the advice and help to keep masculinity on top.
Only way out of the friend zone, just move on to the next one. Live an awesome life. Hook up with other girls. You'll realize you don't need that girl. Small chance she'll change her mind when you aren't giving her attention and validation.
Recently, I gained some look-based compliments from women, like "You are in a better shape than XX months ago." From a random woman I just saw a few times when doing running cardio or "Your Face is so clean. What kind of skincare did you use?" from classmate. It's a good sign that I'm on the right path but that doesn't effectively mean I'm within my goal yet.
Usually if I get friendzoned, I simply say: "Sorry, I have genuine feelings for you and my intention is to date you. I have no interest in being platonic friend." What dudes say about that, the whole 'she'll chase you' thing is a bunch of horsehsit and that's not why you should do it. It's just about having selfrespect and choosing your mental health over a pity friendship
Happened to me with a girl who was originally into me. She friendzoned me when I didn't make a move but then a few weeks later she ran into me and my CUTE date. She started messaging and even calling me at night. All of a sudden she's asking me about the girl I was with etc I legit lost interest though at that point
You have one way to handle the friend zone Accept it and move on to the next girl, it’s a numbers game so don’t waste your time on the girl that friend zoned you
I agree with what u mentioned in this video about: improving urself, changing ur identity and being open about wat u want. But I DNT agree with the idea of being a 'f*ck boy'. I am hesitant with the people around me as I want a genuine and caring person. But when I see the indicators they aren't the one as they may be too moody, inconsiderate, are ignorant I won't hate that person they only need some guidance but I find it hard to explain this to others without somehow making them feel like hurt or something. I'm already working on myself but if I see them do things where they DNT really prioritise me or engage clearly something is wrong. But I've become a better person I work out now, I am more sensible, I can engage in Convo, but some people won't realise wat they have until its no longer there.
Thank you Hamza for this video, it made me remember when my first "girlfriend" (in Spain we call it "novia" as a way to call your parthner before marriage) me and a friend deducted that she wanted to state her love for me, and I told her that I also had somethingto tell her, we agreed for me to tell it first, so after I came from holidays we organised a "hang out" and because I was so fucking insecure I made her tell it first, and when she did I hugged her and kissed her on the cheek (at the time I had phalinxitis or just throat sick) starting to date her, we probably broke up because I had too much femenine enegry, and she had to much masculine energy. At this point I was a third of a year into self improvement. Now I am two thirds of a year into self improvement, you helped me a lot, I experienced the rewards of being masculine, two weeks ago a couple of friends of mine and I started a "tribe" al, this because we spent two days in a trip, now me and one friend of mine who also had a great importance in the making of our tribe, both of us are the "leaders" of the tribe now, and we're having a blast being so masculine, my friend almos got a girlfriend from the tribe, I didn't, those girls were too degenerated for my standards, I haven't partied in my life, so I'm putting up that standard. To end this coment Hamza, I cannot state how grateful I am for your videos, keep it up dude. Thank you a lot.
Escape You can’t convince her/change her mind to not see you as a friend, you were needy. Now you need to disappear and- Focus on yourself and your work than your “need for her.” She’ll notice you’re no longer needy and reach out some weeks down the line where you’ll embody your new identity and state your intentions clearly. It’ll be the first time actually breaking the physical touch barrier when the girl is needy for the guy. Anastasia is now the one obsessing over Adonis. “I don’t wanna be your friend I wanna take you out” Start polarizing. Push her to the extremes of either: loving you or hating you. No in between. Be content with that split. Be bitter or be better. Always polarize women: I vow to never be stuck in the friend zone again.
A lot of women and a few simpy dudes will disagree with this but I had a girl try that "can't we just be friends ?" shit on me once. It took me a nanosecond to realize her game and told her "Nah, I'm good. Out of respect for my future lady, I don't keep women as friends" and walked away. She's either looking to keep you as an option or an emotional tampon.
Had a girl I was friends with at uni try to call me out for a random bike ride in the city once when I had so much shit to do. I remember getting straight to the point and asking her if it was meant to be a date or not. She got so confused and angry she stopped speaking to me completely. But it felt sooo good to finally not be strung along by some bimbo who’s never been told no in her life. Funnily enough she called me back a few months later. 😂 This red pill shit is real guys. Value yourself, turn your life around and women will flock to be part of your much improved lifestyle.
As a man you shouldn’t have ANY women who disrespects you. If she doesn’t respect you maybe as a joke then it seems like shes just toying with you and doesn’t mind getting on your bad side.
This is going to be a long comment so I apologize it's my personal experience but hopefully it will help somebody. My really good friend ( female) tell me what the friend zone really was... The actual friend zone is where most women put men who has everything she wants but not the sexual attraction. A lot of women use it as manipulation to get what she wants without having to do anything which is why they give attention every so often or do things to keep them close. Or the friend zone may be used for the man she wants to be with Aunt Mary but she's not done being ran through like fast track so what she will do is keep the guy she wants to marry in the friend zone and do everything with him as like a test and then if he passes all the tests that's her husband. Which is why you hear a lot of women say we were friends first..
I actually prefer your content over most UA-camrs like this other ones just make it too difficult and hard to understand you're just straight to the point and blunt and I salute you for that
It's been said before by many others but girls don't put you in the friendzone, you put YOURSELF in the friendzone. If you find yourself there it's because you're doing something wrong, and it's in a typical dynamic the thing you're doing wrong isn't how you treat the object of your desire, but how you are treating yourself and your own life. If you're a loser, then of course she's not going to be attracted to you. The great news is, improving yourself is entirely in your hands. Use the girl as the catalyst to motivate you into finally becoming a better person with a better life. Accept the pain and turn it to your advantage, as the stoics would advise.
I need to improve approaching and sparking a convo up. Hamza gave a good pointer at the start… pay a genuine compliment. Whatever it is, outfit, this and that. Good tip
Its strange how I did all 4 of these things with my ex while also commiting all the mistakes you mentioned. Tho it took me a lot of time to move on, and I still havent been in a relationship since.
honestly, the way you get into the friendzone is because you talk to a girl in a friendly way. if you don’t want to be in a friendzone situation try not to look friendly but have some rizz and shit
If a girl "friend zone", it's better to say: I respect your feelings, but I need to move on. I wish you all the best. Give me a call if you change your mind. But also don't count on her return. Just keep doing your own thing for YOU. She'll respect a guy more if he respects his own wishes and desires. 95% of guys would be her friend in hopes that she'll change her mind, don't be that ninety-five-percenter. I did this to a girl: 2 months later she called me. But then I was no longer interested in her.
So theres a little story that i experienced that i found great Once I started talking to a girl at school and one day out of nowhere she went to talk to another boy, that crushed my soul. So I started to get into self-improvement so i went away from school for a while to focus on other things (not self-improvement) but i came back different, so guess what, the same girl started hitting on me, i accepted but moderately without romanticizing or wanting anything serious, so I started hugging her (asking for permission and she always let me). I sent her a distance kiss in the air one day, this girl loved it, them one day the same guy was waiting for her, when she arrived i didnt lost any time, i took her under her arm and walked away, I held her hand and walked some more. Shortly afterwards the boy came up to me saying he was her boyfriend, like she never said anything to me about any boyfriend, after that she tried to come with this friendzone bullshit so I replied "It wasn't what you implied, but it's your decision" And blocked her, she was probably some unfhaitful bitch who will replace her in the first opportunity. And the best part is that i dont give a fuck, because its not my problem. Im glad that i didn't get attached before anything.
I got out of the friendzone. It was step 4 (just had to leave for good). Sometimes you need to take a step back and some time away to realise what an utter POS someone truly is. Right now you guys are just too caught up in the fantasy. After 2 months she tried to message me and pull me back into the friendzone. but I continued on ghosting her. She's going nowhere anyway.
It is difficult to be friends with an attractive women and even more difficult to be best friends with them. Some can manage to do this without messing up things by feelings. So, if you can't manage to do like that, maintaining a distance would be good for both. Remember! If compatibility exists, things get escalated automatically.
Ahh it's me, I got friend zoned by a girl whom I used to love a lot she just said that she only see's me as a good friend I was kinda broken I just moved on after that now I just talk with her sometimes in a week i know many guys have gone through this but still I do kinda have feelings for her Heyy Hamza , does love make you weak ?
My answer to the question in the start: • +10kg of muscle, visible abs, jawline amd a good haircut • good grades/good job/a lot of money • funny jokes and interesting conversation that doesnt run out and its not awkward There much more to self improvment like emotional control, urges control, philosophy, psychology etc but for that question this is my answer
Tough one here, was in the friend zone for a year (my crush had a BF), she broke up with him and did insist we be friends still, thought I got out of it with a quickie in my car but now she has a new boyfriend. Explain that haha
@@-whackd I was guilty of it too and she is pretty. She is even giving me signals after her breakup, but somewhere a voice inside me says it's not worth-it so i didn't gave a shit.
Thanks to this guy, now I am the one friendzoning them. Love your advice bro, it works like a charm, the more I focus on myself the more they chase, it's crazy how foolproof this strategy is. Finding this guy was the best thing that ever happened in my life, I've been imrpoving like crazy bruv.
It’s rare for a girl to like you once you are FZ. Move on. There are thousands of girls to pick from. Even if she comes back to you. Don’t go for her. She didn’t like you for who you were.
Hey Hamza, I'm curious why you never talk about race. Is there any reason why?
cant change/improve it so thinking about it isn't worth our time. Focus on what you can improve.
@@Hamza97 Hamza idk how to thank u bro , you've made my life a lot better through those hour long videos
If he makes a thing about race he is creating more division
@@Hamza97 that's not what I meant. Your entire channel what I've seen is looks maxing and some self improvement of men. You made a vid about how society has left behind men, I forget which one.
So men are outcast in a gender sense and you speak on that, why not the racial aspect? Do you think there isn't something similar going on in that sense? I'm genuinely curious and that's what I was trying to focus on. Not a looks maxing thing.
@@fionnleamy844 nope. Is making a thing about gender not division?? Tell me why you believe and stated that.
It's ok for him to talk about gender based stuff but why do all you red pill types always do that and treat race as some holy and untouchable subject??
Do you hear yourself sometimes man?
Being in the friend zone is like losing an item you care about. When you stop looking for it, it will either return to you, or you will realize that ultimately it doesn't matter you lost it in the first place.
frind zone = fu+k other girls until this girl wants you
help me bro, i need advice
rn i’m talking to a girl
i had my intentions clear to her from the very first moment.
she says i’m a great guy but she doesn’t wants to be in a relationship in a rush.
she says that she wants to know me and also wants to let me know her better and then maybe start a relationship with her.
i also tried being stoic and patient and she double texted me as well, she sents me snaps, and replies to my stories if i don’t text her.
i’m soo confused.
so am i friend zoned? help me :)
@@jootirmoy seems to me like she doesn’t know what she wants. It’s attention without intention. The attention is nice and probably fires up all those chemicals in her brain but she isn’t necessarily talking to you with the intent of pursuing any real relationship.
Perhaps she likes the thought of sharing a level of chemistry with someone else but is too scared to really commit to you or just doesn’t want a relationship (with you).
She is clearly friend zoning you if she said that stuff and although it may sound like you still have a chance, don’t force it.
Double down on self improvement and make your future self happier first then the rest will come naturally.
@@jootirmoy sounds like she's wanting the benefits of a boyfriend without having you specifically be her boyfriend. As soon as a man she wants comes along, she will drop you faster than picking up a hot rock in summer. You need to let her go because all you're doing is causing yourself pain and stopping yourself from finding a girl who's actually into you. Women who are interested in you are interested from the moment you meet. There is no hesitation, no chase. It very easy to tell and they won't wait at all to claim you as a boyfriend. If she's telling you that you have to wait to MAYBE be in a relationship, then she isn't interested and is just looking for free attention and gifts.
@@SEliteGuitarist99 w
Step 1: Dissapear (Give her some space, don't go around her too much.)
Step 2: Create a new identity (A.K.A, a better version of yourself like Adonis for instance)
Step 3: Make your intentions known (Don't play the mysterious type card too much otherwise the girl is gonna think you're just a creep)
Step 4: Forget her and move on (If you want to be more than just a friend for her, just focus on yourself and move on)
Enjoy
Thanks for the summary
You are the nigga who used to comment on foreverworld's channel?😂
Thank u ,saved me too much time
Step 3 is a a big one let her know by flirting/eye contact/smiling
Good summary my guy I’ve really been inspired to make motivational just like Hamz it feels good knowing I’m helping other people
man.. I just love the honesty of Hamza, he literally explains his whole life, his mistakes.. mad respect!
If a girl wont take you in your worst they dont deserve ur best. Stay up kings.
But bro shes is so beautiful
@@Shibatsukiyomi3 doesn’t matter there is always better 🤷♂️ don’t be a munch
If you look at that statement from outside in, it's simply not true or helpful.
just logically that is saying that they have standards and once someone meets them they can be with that person
Easiest tip. Reject the friendzone. If she says "we could be friends" just say "No. I am not interested in being just friends with you."
And then stop contacting her
Perfect response
Works like a charm, said this to a girl once, and she wouldnt leave me alone afterwards, after a while she accepted going out with me
@@jpebrz yeeeah
@@jpebrz and then you woke up
Guys I've officially left the friendzone... Now we're not even friends
Good, good.
Good on you tbh. Don't let some b use you.
Being direct of your feelings and intentions is basically the key to not stay in the friendzone.
I disappeared and she texted me 3 months later😂
If you have Discipline, Patience and consistency, success is inevitable and foreseeable In anything you seek 🔱
shush
@@legeb80 shush
To whom shall I give the credit for the quote?
@@legeb80 sheeeeeeeesh
@@legeb80 Dude, have some class.
I learned focusing on your mission brings women to you, ever since I started focusing more on my mission to make self improvement based music, people not just women in my life are more respectful because I’m driven
This. Since I've been more focused on my self improvement, my career and personal projects, I get more respect and attention from overall people.
Thank you, that song has become an anthem of my life. Glad people like it
Kudos to you my brother that’s right I’m more focused on improving myself and my YT platform and people have definitely been trying to grab my attention
The thing is you start liking your career and girls doesn't matter that much on that point
*Breaking out of the friend zone starts with shifting how a guy sees himself in the dynamic - confidence and subtle flirting can really change the energy. Not to mention, giving her space to miss you adds a little mystery.*
I was hesitant to watch this video because I was scared of the hard reality of what's happening between me and this girl right now. But no, instead, I watched it and finished the video feeling relaxed and ready to change myself for the better. Everything you said in this video is spot on. Thanks
Update? Did you get the girl?
I’d rather take a rejection upfront than be strung along, I don’t have the time. I think the best thing to do is to withhold your time and attention for women who are being flirty and romantic with you. If she’s not doing that, no attention for her. If she doesn’t care, you just move on.
Facts it’s definitely time-consuming and I don’t have time for that I’ve got a channel to grow! 💯👍🏾🔥
*Summary:*
- Disappear and Improve Yourself 👻📈
- Change your identity (😔to✝️🏋️♂️)
- Making your intentions clear ❤️
- Forgot her and move on 🚗💨
Thank you bro
@@ren.8137 Only Jesus can renew your heart.
@@ren.8137 From Jesus himself. He claimed that, and either he’s lying or telling the truth.
I accept it as a truth and He set me free.
@@ren.8137 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
@@ren.8137 He gave you the answer dude
Trust me, I was in the friend zone twice! But I managed to fight my way out of them. You just have to... disappear out of their lives, and improve yourself overall, physically and mentally. It also helps to smell nice, and dress nice, too. But don't overdo it. Key takeaway: "Less is more." You got this, Adonis! 🤜🤛💪💯
less is more fr
Should I unfollow her on social media , or show her ,what I have become
@@ayaan6624 Depends. Did she cause you a lot of mental distress, or emotional damage? Cause if she did, I'd drop her like a ton o' bricks. That's just me. It's your call.
@@mexicanson yah man , she told me stay with me , I want you to be my good friend, after destroying my mental health , she was telling me I love you but I am not ready for relationship, I am scared of relationship, s , I thought maybe she needs time , but today i got my answer , and it hurt my ego i am feeling worth less right now , she is also like below average girl but still i fall for her
@@ayaan6624 I went through the same thing 5 years ago, with this other girl I knew. She told me she didn't like me, and only wanted to be friends, but you could tell she wanted to be with me. Girls play games like that, and you can get yourself caught up. I'd ditch her. You could find someone better, in my opinion. When you do find the right girl, it should be easy like breathing. You like her, and she really likes you. Look for her heart condition, and never date anyone toxic. That's just bad for your health, my dude.
after this girl friend zoned me i started going to the gym and moved on and basically focused on my self and now i've gotten so much more girls
Yessir
ive watched so much hamza
i start hearing his voice in class its crazy
Damn Hamza got ice spice obsessing over him
@@youssafsu2307 lol
Me too :D
I wish I had had this video a few years ago when I was down bad after being friend zoned. You’re doing God’s work here Hamza
Thanks hombre for helping thousands of lost souls
Listening to your story I just felt how true the phrase "love is war" is.
This video has the best timing I've ever since, I just asked out my crush I had since over 5 years, to get a "I really like you as a friend, but I need to learn to love myself more before giving back to someone the love this person gives me"
I'm not even mad at it because I wasn't expecting it to go well anyway, but I had to break it to her in other to move on to a new chapter.
Yet, after this event, I was scared of keeping this voice in my head telling me "oh maybe just wait some time and she'll be ready for you"
Your video hopefully opened my eyes in learning on moving on, close this chapter and focus on something without relying on her or caring about "what she's going to think about me if I do this"
The story you told in this video about the Greek girl really reminded me of myself, I will now see how the future is ment for me, but I am really concerned about the fact that I might be "moving on to try and get her back" like you also did with this one girl
I totally agree with Step 1, but it isn't going to be two weeks. I disappeared from a girl who friend zoned me for almost two months now and still haven't heard from her. I've moved on though and if she really wants you in her life she will reach out.
Wish this video came out months ago. I was going through almost the exact same thing Hamza was going through but I'm also glad through his other videos, I have indirectly been following these steps. And yes, I'm very glad about the emphasis on the final step. It sucks cus you may truly care about this girl but at the end of the day, if she doesn't actually value the attention you give her, (in a good way, not like simpy attention), it's her loss. To my other dudes going/who went through something similar, y,all got this. 💪
I did the whole venting thing to my Girlfriend and then she broke up with me, but then I used your strategies and I managed to get her back!
bro. careful with this
careful
@@rosenvladev9654 wym?
@@winstonooi4603 wym?
I wish I could hear this much earlier
At January 2021 I met aome girl, she was amazing, we connected on the first meeting. I remember how we used to cuddle together, watch stuff together. I was so happy with her. One time, we we're goofing around in bed and she kissed me in the forehead, and then instantly apologized. I was confused for weeks, because she never wanted to talk about it and I already was into her after that.
Months later, still confused, I was friend-zoned. And yeah, I didn't leave, I stayed as her "friend" entire summer.
At October I noticed she met someone. I was really envious at that time, like never before. I experienced so much anger and envy in my life that I questioned if it is really me. I couldn't believe I would ever in my life get so hostile towards someone else.
After being kind of friend-zoned second time when she said she got into relationship with that dude, but "she won't leave me because I am her best friend". I was so broken thst I planned my suicide by jumping off a high building. The only thing keeping me alive was going to gym (it was my 3rd month of going regularly to the gym).
At February 2022 I was on her birthday, well her boyfriend was there too of course. The only thing I remember was the album that dude gave to her with lovely photos with them. By that time when I was looking at these photos I was drinking vodka in high amounts, I got drunk, had a breakdown and got home.
In March I was highly devastated by envy, constant anger and guilt for everything I've done wrong to the point that I cut contact with her. I was trying to see if she cares about me at any rate by that time. I didn't write anything to her - she never said anything to me since that.
After being completely heartbroken I found the video made by Hamza and got into self-improvement. If I never found this channel, I think I would be dead by now.
Thank you Hamza, you saved my life.
I’m so glad you are here, man. You get to see how far you can go, how much you can achieve.
not your loss bro, trust me
How's it now good brother?
@@Windperfire To be honest - yes. I haven't felt so good in a long time. I am actively changing my diet, sleep routine and working out hard. My gym results are getting better and better. I am also more used to being alone.
I don't care about girls now, I am focused on different aspects of my life.
@@shphoThat's amazing to hear about. If I were you help out anyone that is in the friendzone and make them understand that people with self respect wouldn't be ok with being friends with a girl after she rejected you and friendzoned you like I'm moving on from that.
40 years ago I was put in the friendzone by 2 really nice girls. recently out of the blue I took them out on a dinner date to meet my wife after they got divorced and live alone or with their mothers. The nerd of yesteryear turned out to become a medical doctor who trains krav maga and has no debts, 3 houses, 3 luxury cars, travels abroad frequently and goes to the opera. Is this revenge or compassion?
Imagine being that pathetic manchild, you’re actually looking for validation on UA-cam while claiming being successful
I think maybe you wanted to show off a little bit, but that may not be a big problem. Btw, you have a brazilian name, are you perhaps from Brazil?
@@Raul-oz5mg Portugal, the small country that had the greatest medieval empire including Brasil
@@jluis333 portugal caralhooo
lmfaoooo
Thank you man, that's all I need to say.
I'm in that exact situation right now and everything you said is 100% correct comes down to growing a pair of balls! This is the first time I'm seeing you you got my attention God bless you
I had this crush on a girl for few months and i tried to flirt with her and we had some good moments but then recently I found out that she likes someone else and I was disappointed at myself. Not like I can control what she feels. When I was sad about this news, she noticed it and asked me about it. I told her about herself but didn't mention it was her I was talking about so I got it off my chest and then she told me about the guy she likes and I feld embarassed to go through that. I got friend zoned when it's clearly not my intention. I'm gonna accept with humility that I got complacent on my self improvement while obsessing over a girl, someone who I wasn't even sure will stay in my life. But I promise, I'm going to disappear and work on myself, build a new and better personality not just to find love but to achieve self love. Thank you so much hamza for this video. This could not have happened at a better time. I'm grateful for this
Hamza should make a book or course on this stuff step by step
It's quite crazy that this is what caused me to stumble upon you're videos a couple days ago. Now to see you post something about this it feels like you're directly talking to me. Seriously man, thank you. I'm excited to be a better person, and actually be a man. I love your content, keep up the hard work brother, Godspeed!
I wished I found your channel 6 years earlier.
Me to my man
I can relate to so many of these points…
Wanted to get to know someone better, but i got friendzoned after she thought i was asking her on a date. I stopped contact with her and started on improving myself. Randomly saw her on my way out of the gym one day and we started texting long paragraphs to eachother with life-updates and shit. She even said she thought back to the time i asked her to hang out and brought up that we should meet up some time. I then showed her my desperate side and that i hadn’t changed my identity. We never met up.
Big rip
All in all, this video hit me hard and taught me a lot and i’ll use it to the best of my abilities. Thank you hamza. You’re the goat.
Being an early pioneer of the Friend Zone the only thing to do is leave. And just think, you will keep some self respect and two she will take far more interest in you when you go missing. You will get a better return in time spent on yourself and on people that appreciate you.
Finally, being some ones Plan B is a turn off.
Hello Hamza, I just wanted you to know that you appreciate video you make. It means a lot of us that you are helping the rest of the younger men out. Thank you :)
Currently i am on Step 3 , Tomorrow is the Time i will ask her out to Be in a Relationship , If it Worked then Very Well but if it doesn't.
I Promise i will Completely forget her and Move on.
Wish me luck
Thanks Hamza For the advice
what happened ? she said yes?
As a teen feminine(ish) man who's been through childhood trauma and is shattered, where do you draw a line between being needy and finding comfort, understanding and a parent-like-figure in your partner/potential partner.
Because sometimes it's gets too fu**in hard to deal with stuff all alone.
I desperately need your take on this Hamza.
Love yourself first
You need therapy first. Trust me. Work on yourself first. You are still so young seek therapy before opening up your trauma onto others.
my past self can strongly relate to you homie
from my experience you have to start loving yourself first
giving yourself positive affirmations
say no to people
stay away from fake or toxic friends
try to make your own decisons
these are the basics that you can do to stop the "being needy and finding comfort"
because i was exactly like this But now alhamdulillah iam good bhai
@@Dalabombana is there any free online therapy nowadays?
try and find a best friend who you KNOW you won’t fall for (for me, same gender cuz im straight) and vent to them. if the girl you want does want your attention, she’ll ask why you don’t talk as much anymore. then you hit her with the “i dont want to be friends, i wanna date you”. you probably get a straightforward yes or no. won’t 100% work on GETTING her but hey its a good way to find out her feelings i’ve found.
Bro is speaking heavy facts
Hamza, If you are reading this, thank you bro, I used you doubt but I started exercising and started to meditate and I'm looking forward to trying to gain a more aesthetic body and greater people skills and honestly I am determined to achieve those goals before my 20's it's a long road but one that's worthwhile.
Most people don't like Hamza bc they can't accept that they're being described perfectly. I admit that I was like that too at one point. But hey, thanks for the advice man.
I remember when I really liked my ex and she left me, I was devastated for a long time. These days now I find it hard to ever think of going back to her, I realized relationships were a preferred indifference. I'm happy working on myself, looking into philosophy, and working hard on my academics. I can see things similar to this video in my life, and at this point when I think about my ex I realize I'm happy she left me, because it changed me to become a new person.
One step closer to Adonis
I strongly resonate w u, glad you find a way to become a better person. My ex dumped me in 2019 and I wished to go back to her until I tried to contact her and she blocked me, 2 years of suffering ended up in 2 seconds, now I feel really grateful she crushed my heart bc I became someone stronger and better. Cheers! Keep focusing on the work!
hamza you made not only me but all my friends stronger. Thank you. Now we all go to the gym. Meditate and eat healthy just for sum p*ssy. We all tryna get money and be milionares. If it wasnt for you we still be playing video games late night and watching tik tok all day long for nothing. Thank you. You are a life saver
This is fax. I went through the same journey myself and everything that you’ve mentioned is on point. I just wish I’d stumbled upon your videos a couple years ago so that I didn’t have to learn everything through trial and error.
One of the best things I ever realized when I was friendzoned that helped me move on? I realized the kind of man she wanted to date was not the kind of man I wanted to be. I realized I would much rather be in the friend zone with her than be in a relationship, because being in a relationship would require me to compromise my values and individuality.
Hamza you are one of my reasons on why I will change to be the man that I desire to be. I will do whatever it takes to become the man I desire to be. I’ve been watching ur videos for a couple of days, they’ve been inspirational and helpful, and I’d like to say thank you for the advice and help to keep masculinity on top.
This video is so accurate and so True.. everything happend same to me..
Can you explain your story mate
Only way out of the friend zone, just move on to the next one. Live an awesome life. Hook up with other girls. You'll realize you don't need that girl. Small chance she'll change her mind when you aren't giving her attention and validation.
I used to watch you and you really helped me. I got back to see how are you doing now and you are doing amazing. Thank you for helping me change.
Recently, I gained some look-based compliments from women, like "You are in a better shape than XX months ago." From a random woman I just saw a few times when doing running cardio or "Your Face is so clean. What kind of skincare did you use?" from classmate. It's a good sign that I'm on the right path but that doesn't effectively mean I'm within my goal yet.
Well done brother
Ngl this guy has helped me so much
Usually if I get friendzoned, I simply say: "Sorry, I have genuine feelings for you and my intention is to date you. I have no interest in being platonic friend."
What dudes say about that, the whole 'she'll chase you' thing is a bunch of horsehsit and that's not why you should do it. It's just about having selfrespect and choosing your mental health over a pity friendship
Tbh if you have been friendzoned its not worth the effort of getting out because you'll probably end back in it
Happened to me with a girl who was originally into me. She friendzoned me when I didn't make a move but then a few weeks later she ran into me and my CUTE date.
She started messaging and even calling me at night. All of a sudden she's asking me about the girl I was with etc
I legit lost interest though at that point
You have one way to handle the friend zone
Accept it and move on to the next girl, it’s a numbers game so don’t waste your time on the girl that friend zoned you
I needed this 5 months ago. Thank you for this, we can only get better :)
Good job bro.. it's strength to the point.
I agree with what u mentioned in this video about: improving urself, changing ur identity and being open about wat u want. But I DNT agree with the idea of being a 'f*ck boy'. I am hesitant with the people around me as I want a genuine and caring person. But when I see the indicators they aren't the one as they may be too moody, inconsiderate, are ignorant I won't hate that person they only need some guidance but I find it hard to explain this to others without somehow making them feel like hurt or something. I'm already working on myself but if I see them do things where they DNT really prioritise me or engage clearly something is wrong. But I've become a better person I work out now, I am more sensible, I can engage in Convo, but some people won't realise wat they have until its no longer there.
Thank you Hamza for this video, it made me remember when my first "girlfriend" (in Spain we call it "novia" as a way to call your parthner before marriage) me and a friend deducted that she wanted to state her love for me, and I told her that I also had somethingto tell her, we agreed for me to tell it first, so after I came from holidays we organised a "hang out" and because I was so fucking insecure I made her tell it first, and when she did I hugged her and kissed her on the cheek (at the time I had phalinxitis or just throat sick) starting to date her, we probably broke up because I had too much femenine enegry, and she had to much masculine energy. At this point I was a third of a year into self improvement. Now I am two thirds of a year into self improvement, you helped me a lot, I experienced the rewards of being masculine, two weeks ago a couple of friends of mine and I started a "tribe" al, this because we spent two days in a trip, now me and one friend of mine who also had a great importance in the making of our tribe, both of us are the "leaders" of the tribe now, and we're having a blast being so masculine, my friend almos got a girlfriend from the tribe, I didn't, those girls were too degenerated for my standards, I haven't partied in my life, so I'm putting up that standard. To end this coment Hamza, I cannot state how grateful I am for your videos, keep it up dude. Thank you a lot.
I'm happy to have found this channel
I admit here, I am that Guy who sends paragraphs☠️
Escape
You can’t convince her/change her mind to not see you as a friend, you were needy. Now you need to disappear and-
Focus on yourself and your work than your “need for her.”
She’ll notice you’re no longer needy and reach out some weeks down the line where you’ll embody your new identity and state your intentions clearly.
It’ll be the first time actually breaking the physical touch barrier when the girl is needy for the guy.
Anastasia is now the one obsessing over Adonis.
“I don’t wanna be your friend I wanna take you out”
Start polarizing. Push her to the extremes of either: loving you or hating you. No in between. Be content with that split. Be bitter or be better. Always polarize women: I vow to never be stuck in the friend zone again.
A lot of women and a few simpy dudes will disagree with this but I had a girl try that "can't we just be friends ?" shit on me once. It took me a nanosecond to realize her game and told her "Nah, I'm good. Out of respect for my future lady, I don't keep women as friends" and walked away. She's either looking to keep you as an option or an emotional tampon.
Hamza thank you so much for everything hope you read this
Had a girl I was friends with at uni try to call me out for a random bike ride in the city once when I had so much shit to do. I remember getting straight to the point and asking her if it was meant to be a date or not. She got so confused and angry she stopped speaking to me completely. But it felt sooo good to finally not be strung along by some bimbo who’s never been told no in her life. Funnily enough she called me back a few months later. 😂
This red pill shit is real guys. Value yourself, turn your life around and women will flock to be part of your much improved lifestyle.
This is the exact video I needed, thank you.
The first tip worked so well. I ghosted her for two days and she got texted me. Exept this time i ignored it because she was disrespectful towards me
As a man you shouldn’t have ANY women who disrespects you. If she doesn’t respect you maybe as a joke then it seems like shes just toying with you and doesn’t mind getting on your bad side.
This is going to be a long comment so I apologize it's my personal experience but hopefully it will help somebody. My really good friend ( female) tell me what the friend zone really was... The actual friend zone is where most women put men who has everything she wants but not the sexual attraction. A lot of women use it as manipulation to get what she wants without having to do anything which is why they give attention every so often or do things to keep them close. Or the friend zone may be used for the man she wants to be with Aunt Mary but she's not done being ran through like fast track so what she will do is keep the guy she wants to marry in the friend zone and do everything with him as like a test and then if he passes all the tests that's her husband. Which is why you hear a lot of women say we were friends first..
100 % true
You can actually get out of the 'friend zone' in one easy step: leave her alone & find someone who's actually interested in you.
So you guys just wanna be in a relationship with girls?
That sounds thirsty asf
This video is all facts. I wish I had this a few years ago when I was going through this for the first time. Thank you for this man
This and the last video is what I really needed after breakup to change myself from needy to masculine ,self focused
Thank you Hamza❤
I actually prefer your content over most UA-camrs like this other ones just make it too difficult and hard to understand you're just straight to the point and blunt and I salute you for that
Dont improve yourself for any female. Improve yourself for yourself
Women are people yk, some people seriously just want to be friends. Accept it and move on and find someone else
Dont go chasing waterfalls
i usually work on myself im patient i know life will send me the right woman
Fax
I’ve made these exact same mistakes that you made Hamza. Glad this video is here to confirm I’m now on the right path
It's been said before by many others but girls don't put you in the friendzone, you put YOURSELF in the friendzone. If you find yourself there it's because you're doing something wrong, and it's in a typical dynamic the thing you're doing wrong isn't how you treat the object of your desire, but how you are treating yourself and your own life. If you're a loser, then of course she's not going to be attracted to you. The great news is, improving yourself is entirely in your hands. Use the girl as the catalyst to motivate you into finally becoming a better person with a better life. Accept the pain and turn it to your advantage, as the stoics would advise.
I need to improve approaching and sparking a convo up.
Hamza gave a good pointer at the start… pay a genuine compliment. Whatever it is, outfit, this and that. Good tip
Its strange how I did all 4 of these things with my ex while also commiting all the mistakes you mentioned. Tho it took me a lot of time to move on, and I still havent been in a relationship since.
The art on the thumnail is looking really good
honestly, the way you get into the friendzone is because you talk to a girl in a friendly way. if you don’t want to be in a friendzone situation try not to look friendly but have some rizz and shit
What us 'rizz'? like banter?
@@HerrEngelsman be flirty, show her you're interested in something more.
@@ptrck070 thats what im sayin
Ngl ..the way hamza just brings it out "Adonis", always gets me😂🙂🤲🏽
If a girl "friend zone", it's better to say: I respect your feelings, but I need to move on. I wish you all the best. Give me a call if you change your mind. But also don't count on her return. Just keep doing your own thing for YOU. She'll respect a guy more if he respects his own wishes and desires. 95% of guys would be her friend in hopes that she'll change her mind, don't be that ninety-five-percenter. I did this to a girl: 2 months later she called me. But then I was no longer interested in her.
thank you so much bro
Adonniiiis: I AM NOT IN THE FRIENDZONE I AM THE FRIENDZONER!
Thanks for the tips Hamza
So theres a little story that i experienced that i found great
Once I started talking to a girl at school and one day out of nowhere she went to talk to another boy, that crushed my soul. So I started to get into self-improvement so i went away from school for a while to focus on other things (not self-improvement) but i came back different, so guess what, the same girl started hitting on me, i accepted but moderately without romanticizing or wanting anything serious, so I started hugging her (asking for permission and she always let me).
I sent her a distance kiss in the air one day, this girl loved it, them one day the same guy was waiting for her, when she arrived i didnt lost any time, i took her under her arm and walked away, I held her hand and walked some more.
Shortly afterwards the boy came up to me saying he was her boyfriend, like she never said anything to me about any boyfriend, after that she tried to come with this friendzone bullshit so I replied "It wasn't what you implied, but it's your decision"
And blocked her, she was probably some unfhaitful bitch who will replace her in the first opportunity.
And the best part is that i dont give a fuck, because its not my problem.
Im glad that i didn't get attached before anything.
Love the entrance you make these days for Adonis !
bro, just thank you for that video. I really needed someone to tell me this straight to my face. Thank you Hamza
I got out of the friendzone. It was step 4 (just had to leave for good).
Sometimes you need to take a step back and some time away to realise what an utter POS someone truly is.
Right now you guys are just too caught up in the fantasy.
After 2 months she tried to message me and pull me back into the friendzone. but I continued on ghosting her.
She's going nowhere anyway.
Professor hamza 💪🏻☠️
Just got friendzoned,the pain went away in an hour 😂
W
It is difficult to be friends with an attractive women and even more difficult to be best friends with them. Some can manage to do this without messing up things by feelings.
So, if you can't manage to do like that, maintaining a distance would be good for both.
Remember! If compatibility exists, things get escalated automatically.
Ahh it's me, I got friend zoned by a girl whom I used to love a lot she just said that she only see's me as a good friend I was kinda broken I just moved on after that now I just talk with her sometimes in a week i know many guys have gone through this but still I do kinda have feelings for her
Heyy Hamza , does love make you weak ?
My answer to the question in the start:
• +10kg of muscle, visible abs, jawline amd a good haircut
• good grades/good job/a lot of money
• funny jokes and interesting conversation that doesnt run out and its not awkward
There much more to self improvment like emotional control, urges control, philosophy, psychology etc but for that question this is my answer
Im 12 years old and watching you. You are helping me so much
Bro Your 12 💀
@@clizex2.082 and?
beginning the grind early, thats great
@@maciejpajak9577 Dating Shit Isnt For 12 Yo Bro
@@clizex2.082 im watching self improvment not dating. Im just commenting on a video
Good tips
Tough one here, was in the friend zone for a year (my crush had a BF), she broke up with him and did insist we be friends still, thought I got out of it with a quickie in my car but now she has a new boyfriend. Explain that haha
Rebound, and used bro
One of those slimeballs who crushes on a girl with a boyfriend
@@-whackd I was guilty of it too and she is pretty. She is even giving me signals after her breakup, but somewhere a voice inside me says it's not worth-it so i didn't gave a shit.
Thanks to this guy, now I am the one friendzoning them. Love your advice bro, it works like a charm, the more I focus on myself the more they chase, it's crazy how foolproof this strategy is. Finding this guy was the best thing that ever happened in my life, I've been imrpoving like crazy bruv.
It’s rare for a girl to like you once you are FZ. Move on. There are thousands of girls to pick from. Even if she comes back to you. Don’t go for her. She didn’t like you for who you were.
Man i needed this a few months ago