You have to realize how dangerous this world is though. As a woman, there is no such thing as physical security without a man. At any point ur wakling down the street someone can grab you and we will never hear from you anymore. You and your children. It's reality. Men are the security and providers. Women are the nurtures. This has never changed since the beginning of time. Men NEED women. Women NEED men.
@@IsaiahsAnythingShow its a privilege to say "outdated" when you're in a first world country. majority however don't have that. the nature of things never change. its in our dna.
@@MarkLindor yeah it is a privilege to live in the West. Why are you bringing up other areas unless you live in them? Either way, a man cannot even guarantee physical security, they are a deterrent and a layer of protection at best if they're taking on a traditional role as 'provider and protector '. I don't think we disagree on much, we aren't cavemen anymore so asserting that women specifically need a man to protect them because our evolutionary history suggests so is false. I do acknowledge that this is a world full of danger though (some types of danger disproportionally affect each sex), shit can happen to anyone at this point
@@IsaiahsAnythingShow these "other areas" make up majority of the world. I am just one person. I don't think you understand how men think. When they see a woman alone vs when she is with another man. There is a HUGE shift in how they would approach a situation and their demeanor. And even so, something happens she calls the police? They're men as well. Only in the west people get so comfortable and their reality is so warped that they forget why god placed two genders in the first place. The answers always lie in our roots. Obviously we are not cavemen, but we are still not far from it. Danger keeps peace. Pleasure chatting with you bro, i'll leave it at that
Nah why would i gotta focus on making money and jobs most of the time women wont even approach or show interested even thought we should be the provider i provide for myself
No one exists for man or women, instead we all exist for Jesus Christ. By understandting that you have no shame in the Lord, that He wants you to find what will fill you with desire. My friend, have value in yourself, for the LORD, who created time and space, Loves you and values you beyond what any human can give. I stuggled with porn for a long time. My problem wasnt even objectifying women or a lack of respect, though that was growing within me. My issue was that I simple didnt love my self. I couldnt image how the Universe / God / Christ could possibly find any value in me. Yet the bible says this: 1Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, 2because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you a free from the law of sin and death. 3For what the law was powerless to do because it was weakened by the flesh, b God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh to be a sin offering. c And so he condemned sin in the flesh, 4in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. To live by the Spirit? What does that mean. Its simple. Its acknolwedging that you are in pain. CRY OUT TO THE LORD AND ASK HIM TO RELIVE YOU OF YOUR PAIN. It is through pain that we can connect with JESUS. Isaiah 53:3 He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain. Like one from whom people hide their faces he was despised, and we held him in low esteem. By seeking Jesus, you will find new purpose and outlook. And your life WILL change for the better. God has been watching you struggle, and He knows your pain. It causes Him a kind of pain. The pain a parent feels when thier child is hurting. God WILL provide you a path out and strengthen your willpower. He will bestow peace and joy. Practice by reflecting on Gods love for you. Say it out loud. Jesus loves me. Understand that this is all we need. From here, you will continue to grow, taking each day 1 at a time. And if you stumble, know this 9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. Rest your weary soul my friend, in our Lord. By seeking Jesus, you will understand how HE views you. How Jesus views us all. And you will start to reflect this love for others, building them up. You will no longer feel rejection, becuase Christ accepts all. You will undertand true love, and you will be able to move forward in faith, trying new things and learning how you are in Chirst's vision.
While I appreciate your insightful thoughts on this. I think there is also a huge societal problem that we have no control over. Notice how most popular songs these days are, for example. It's all about sleeping around, treating women like objects, encouraging men to be as toxic as possible. In my opinion, the biggest roblem is society istelf, and we all gotta do our part to fix it
It sounds like what you mean isn't that we attract people who are a reflection of ourselves, but people who are in some ways our opposites, people who lay bare our weaknesses. Weaknesses that may otherwise have gone unnoticed. In that sense, in the process of connecting with others, we connect with ourselves.
Hearing an exotic woman with a stunning voice and gorgeous looks talk about love being for all of us doesnt fill me with too much confidence being a sub par looking guy with a spinal problem. Then I heard her say ‘the man you you’ll attract’ ahh makes sense it’s not for us men who likely lots of us are single for life.
I think the issues people are having with relationships in these last few years, especially in the west, are bigger than us, far bigger than problems in individuals. Where I live, a one story house costs one million dollars. Where I live, women hate men. Average women think they are too good to be with average men. Divorce rates are extremely high, and there is a huge focus on abortion. Politicians are obsessed with the right to kill babies, but not the right to raise them in loving, caring and healthy households. Rates of single people are going up. I could go on and on. I can fix problems within myself all day long, but the real problems are bigger. They’re societal and cultural, not personal or individual. The environment itself is now toxic and not conducive to family creation and preservation, at least not anymore. To continue beating this dead horse about “self improvement will get you love” misses the point and the greater issues and is actually deceptive and disingenuous. I appreciate the video and the message, but I’ve heard it a hundred times now and know that it’s not the solution. To insinuate “you’re not good enough to be in a healthy relationship; you need to fix problems in yourself” is a lie, when I know my dad and my dad’s dad and his dad’s dad were all in decent relationships, and all of these people are 99.999% similar to me. My ancestors didn’t have trouble finding wives. But I’m born into a dysfunctional generation and now I’m told I’m the problem when I’m really not. It’s the one lie I just simply won’t accept.
I agree. You're totally right that there are societal issues and they are even getting worse and worse. But what do you think you can do in such situations? The only way to contribute towards fixing the society is by starting with your own self! Our ancestors lived happier and more peaceful due to a lot of other factors as well.. Both women and men were different. In the end, if you think about it, WE are the society.
Wow, all of us men can’t even get a text. Can’t even match on Tinder. Can’t get any kind of interest you’re gonna act as if this is some kind of help for the hopeless. It’s truly insulting here and you say this while you have 99 Likes on every platform waiting for you.
Tinder is shithole tbh. The best women you meet will be at events, or activities you personally enjoy; the only way you connect with them is if you drop the negative (victim) mindset. How do I know this? I had the same experience as you, worked on myself and attracted some of the most amazing women I've seen in my life.
Most men realise what is a true love after few years of marriage. They realise what is really worth is - 1. Their own time 2. Their own energy 3. Their own talents This is when a man truly starts loving himself.
Excellent spiritual insight unfortunately narcissists are very charming. One way to find a guy who is not narcissistic is to approach him first .(Narcissists have no fear of people. So if a male narcissist sees you he'll flirt with you. So flirt first.) Put God first and he'll be the guide.
There are many people who think they are unlovable because of defects that seem unfixable, like disability, sexual dysfunction, chronic health issues, very bad looks or being past the age when that is possible. The usual thinking pattern is "if I had a replay button on life, then maybe, but not in this life anymore". This hits heterosexual men way harder, as in these cases, the man is expected to do the approaching and pushing things forward. If a woman is completely given up on love, and thinks she is worthless, that does not mean life will surprise her giving her a chance she never expected. If a heterosexual man gives up on love, that is the end of story, nothing will happen. He will never have anyone else in his life, even if he has still decades to live.
I found love we were each other world and it's ended with the stupidest way after 5 years I talked to her father and i was gonna marry her after 2 months, but to be honest F*CK LOVE Don't do this shit to yourself trust me no matter how good you are not gonna work out and you gonna be sad of all of the invesments you done in this sh*t but look on the good side LIFE TIME GYM MOTIVATION
Genesis 1 is not mainly an admittedly ancient account of origins. It is, admittedly, a life-centric, Earth-affirming account. That life-centrism is seen in two main ways, and in a third, subordinate way. The simplest of the two main ways the account is life-centric is that of the exactly five namings just mentioned. These namings easily seem to identify the main three of the Earth's own physical subsystems for mediating stellar radiation for benefit of life: A. the thermally regulative day/night cycle ('day' and 'night', v. 5); B. the thermally regulative atmosphere (special, home-centric sky, 'shamayim', as in Gen 1:8 and Gen 2:4b - NOT 'ha-shamayim', phenomenologically general sky, as in Gen 1:1 and Gen 2:4a); C. the land/sea surface thermal exchange system ('earth' and 'seas', v. 10). The second main life-centric way in Genesis 1 is the seven-fold, life- and marriage-centric recursion that spans all of Genesis 1 and 2: 1. The general, or 'masculine', cosmos and...the special, or 'feminine', Earth (Gen 1:1); 2. The Earth, as its own general subject, and its...special kind of material wealth: its abiding maximal abundance of open liquid water (v. 2); 3. That water, in general, and its...special cycling (the water cycle, vs. 3-10); 4. The water cycle, in general, and its...special beneficiaries: biological life (vs. 11-12); 5. Biological life, in general, and its...special category, animal biology (vs. 20-25); 6. Animals, in general, and its...special category, humans (plant/animal/mineral/physics) (vs. 26-29); 7. The general human and the...special kind of human: woman (Genesis 2:7-25). The third, and subordinate way in which this marriage of the two accounts is life-centric is that of how the Day Four portion of the first account explicitly values the stellar members of the cosmos. The secular manner of valuing those members would be to mention only that realm, unto itself. And it would do so as if its members are best understood as being in a death match against each other, to determine which of them would survive the mutual beatings. Genesis 1 does NOT take after any Secularistic set of values. And, in its Day Four potion, it clearly poses all the 'lights' of the stellar realm as a good family, and this family all working together for sake of life on Earth. But many modern secular skeptics retain their own secular notion of a life-indifferent sense as to true objectivity. So they construe this Day Four as its claiming that the phenomenological sizes and brightnesses of these lights are also the life- and Earth- indifferent sizes and brightnesses of these lights. They think the account is a 'backward', superstitious fairy tale. And so they think the Day Four portion is itself claiming that the Sun and Moon are objectively as big and bright as they two lights appear to us who live ON the Earth.
yeah, it is nice you are trying to pick people up, but nowadays only good looking people like you can believe in love. Ask yourself how many times you felt in love in some sub 5 quazimodo guy? The same goes to us guys. Somehow most of us only fall in love with the prettiest girl in the class.
my name is jana too! i saw this video title yesterday and said to myself "its not for me". then today i see it again and we have the same name, this is for me.
Very timely message. This applies not only to women, but to men also. The truth is unpleasant, but it makes us free.
You have to realize how dangerous this world is though. As a woman, there is no such thing as physical security without a man. At any point ur wakling down the street someone can grab you and we will never hear from you anymore. You and your children. It's reality. Men are the security and providers. Women are the nurtures. This has never changed since the beginning of time. Men NEED women. Women NEED men.
so rigid and outdated to have this mindset. last sentence 10/10 tho
@@IsaiahsAnythingShow its a privilege to say "outdated" when you're in a first world country. majority however don't have that. the nature of things never change. its in our dna.
@@MarkLindor yeah it is a privilege to live in the West. Why are you bringing up other areas unless you live in them? Either way, a man cannot even guarantee physical security, they are a deterrent and a layer of protection at best if they're taking on a traditional role as 'provider and protector '. I don't think we disagree on much, we aren't cavemen anymore so asserting that women specifically need a man to protect them because our evolutionary history suggests so is false. I do acknowledge that this is a world full of danger though (some types of danger disproportionally affect each sex), shit can happen to anyone at this point
@@IsaiahsAnythingShow these "other areas" make up majority of the world. I am just one person. I don't think you understand how men think. When they see a woman alone vs when she is with another man. There is a HUGE shift in how they would approach a situation and their demeanor. And even so, something happens she calls the police? They're men as well. Only in the west people get so comfortable and their reality is so warped that they forget why god placed two genders in the first place. The answers always lie in our roots. Obviously we are not cavemen, but we are still not far from it. Danger keeps peace. Pleasure chatting with you bro, i'll leave it at that
Nah why would i gotta focus on making money and jobs most of the time women wont even approach or show interested even thought we should be the provider i provide for myself
I dont exist for women. Im living ghost. Suffer and pain is my simulation.
real
You are not alone..
Bro speaks facts fr. (literally me)
No one exists for man or women, instead we all exist for Jesus Christ. By understandting that you have no shame in the Lord, that He wants you to find what will fill you with desire. My friend, have value in yourself, for the LORD, who created time and space, Loves you and values you beyond what any human can give. I stuggled with porn for a long time.
My problem wasnt even objectifying women or a lack of respect, though that was growing within me. My issue was that I simple didnt love my self. I couldnt image how the Universe / God / Christ could possibly find any value in me. Yet the bible says this:
1Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, 2because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you a free from the law of sin and death. 3For what the law was powerless to do because it was weakened by the flesh, b God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh to be a sin offering. c And so he condemned sin in the flesh, 4in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the flesh but according to the Spirit.
To live by the Spirit? What does that mean. Its simple. Its acknolwedging that you are in pain. CRY OUT TO THE LORD AND ASK HIM TO RELIVE YOU OF YOUR PAIN. It is through pain that we can connect with JESUS.
Isaiah 53:3
He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain. Like one from whom people hide their faces he was despised, and we held him in low esteem.
By seeking Jesus, you will find new purpose and outlook. And your life WILL change for the better.
God has been watching you struggle, and He knows your pain. It causes Him a kind of pain. The pain a parent feels when thier child is hurting.
God WILL provide you a path out and strengthen your willpower. He will bestow peace and joy.
Practice by reflecting on Gods love for you. Say it out loud. Jesus loves me. Understand that this is all we need.
From here, you will continue to grow, taking each day 1 at a time. And if you stumble, know this
9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.
Rest your weary soul my friend, in our Lord. By seeking Jesus, you will understand how HE views you. How Jesus views us all. And you will start to reflect this love for others, building them up. You will no longer feel rejection, becuase Christ accepts all. You will undertand true love, and you will be able to move forward in faith, trying new things and learning how you are in Chirst's vision.
Lmao this is not the right mindset, use that as motivation and get better man❤️🔥
Love your take on this. this for all of us. love is for everyone who you choose to love is not good for everyone.
let her preach! 👏👏thank you for all this wisdom and guidance we all needed this
While I appreciate your insightful thoughts on this. I think there is also a huge societal problem that we have no control over. Notice how most popular songs these days are, for example. It's all about sleeping around, treating women like objects, encouraging men to be as toxic as possible. In my opinion, the biggest roblem is society istelf, and we all gotta do our part to fix it
It sounds like what you mean isn't that we attract people who are a reflection of ourselves, but people who are in some ways our opposites, people who lay bare our weaknesses. Weaknesses that may otherwise have gone unnoticed. In that sense, in the process of connecting with others, we connect with ourselves.
Hearing an exotic woman with a stunning voice and gorgeous looks talk about love being for all of us doesnt fill me with too much confidence being a sub par looking guy with a spinal problem.
Then I heard her say ‘the man you you’ll attract’ ahh makes sense it’s not for us men who likely lots of us are single for life.
Shes and girls like these are talking about Chads. The average guy is invisible
@ you’re spot on. Be a rich a well built muscular man and you get lucky enough to have a woman. Everyone else gets nothing
is it really important how she looks like? That doesn't should temper her statement in any way
@@rail7646 I agree... >.> kinda weird take
I think the issues people are having with relationships in these last few years, especially in the west, are bigger than us, far bigger than problems in individuals. Where I live, a one story house costs one million dollars. Where I live, women hate men. Average women think they are too good to be with average men. Divorce rates are extremely high, and there is a huge focus on abortion. Politicians are obsessed with the right to kill babies, but not the right to raise them in loving, caring and healthy households. Rates of single people are going up. I could go on and on.
I can fix problems within myself all day long, but the real problems are bigger. They’re societal and cultural, not personal or individual. The environment itself is now toxic and not conducive to family creation and preservation, at least not anymore.
To continue beating this dead horse about “self improvement will get you love” misses the point and the greater issues and is actually deceptive and disingenuous. I appreciate the video and the message, but I’ve heard it a hundred times now and know that it’s not the solution. To insinuate “you’re not good enough to be in a healthy relationship; you need to fix problems in yourself” is a lie, when I know my dad and my dad’s dad and his dad’s dad were all in decent relationships, and all of these people are 99.999% similar to me. My ancestors didn’t have trouble finding wives. But I’m born into a dysfunctional generation and now I’m told I’m the problem when I’m really not. It’s the one lie I just simply won’t accept.
I agree. You're totally right that there are societal issues and they are even getting worse and worse. But what do you think you can do in such situations? The only way to contribute towards fixing the society is by starting with your own self! Our ancestors lived happier and more peaceful due to a lot of other factors as well.. Both women and men were different. In the end, if you think about it, WE are the society.
@@jana_amm where are you from ?
Words of wisdom. Glad you discovered this. Too bad everyone doesn’t think this way. The world would be a much better place.
I gave up on love when i was very young. I feel love in nothing but an illusion
Wow, all of us men can’t even get a text. Can’t even match on Tinder. Can’t get any kind of interest you’re gonna act as if this is some kind of help for the hopeless. It’s truly insulting here and you say this while you have 99 Likes on every platform waiting for you.
Tinder is shithole tbh. The best women you meet will be at events, or activities you personally enjoy; the only way you connect with them is if you drop the negative (victim) mindset.
How do I know this? I had the same experience as you, worked on myself and attracted some of the most amazing women I've seen in my life.
@ cope. They will ignore you there while matching who they actually find attractive on tinder. LEAVE THEM ALONE
@@geek4040 It's not a negative victim mindset. It's called truth.
@ lmao, tinder and bumble never worked but I ended up pulling 10s from events. Try reading 3% man by Corey Wayne. That should help
I would never get married solely to be a bodyguard or to provide security ! as a man i would married to be loved ...
Most men realise what is a true love after few years of marriage.
They realise what is really worth is -
1. Their own time
2. Their own energy
3. Their own talents
This is when a man truly starts loving himself.
Amen
Excellent spiritual insight unfortunately narcissists are very charming. One way to find a guy who is not narcissistic is to approach him first .(Narcissists have no fear of people. So if a male narcissist sees you he'll flirt with you. So flirt first.) Put God first and he'll be the guide.
Oh dear sister, I don't think being dragged through divorce court if things don't work out is for me.
There are many people who think they are unlovable because of defects that seem unfixable, like disability, sexual dysfunction, chronic health issues, very bad looks or being past the age when that is possible. The usual thinking pattern is "if I had a replay button on life, then maybe, but not in this life anymore". This hits heterosexual men way harder, as in these cases, the man is expected to do the approaching and pushing things forward. If a woman is completely given up on love, and thinks she is worthless, that does not mean life will surprise her giving her a chance she never expected. If a heterosexual man gives up on love, that is the end of story, nothing will happen. He will never have anyone else in his life, even if he has still decades to live.
I already love myself yet all girls I liked didn't love me... Oh well at least I love myself
Needed that, thank you. I also love the way you state your arguments, you're very clear. 👈
as someone who doesn't believe in god, how shall I think about the future?
Just live your best and do your best. Don’t waste a single day. Don’t let other people’s opinions steer you in a direction you don’t want to go
I really feel comfortable listening to you
Thankyou so much This helped me a lot ❤❤
You always talk about relatable topics. Love your videos ❤.
The timing is crazy girl ❤
You’re ahead of your time 🙌
I think this is God's way of answering a question I asked, cause this popped up on my fyp yet never knew about it
Yeah loves not for me but dang stole my heart already wit that intro
Ask yourself what does he want, what is love to him that solves the missing part I. This self retrospect
this is like unintentional asmr
They only want what they can’t have
Why do you use word "attracting", when you should use word "choosing". Everything is your fault, and God is not going to help you.
sounds like a fishing guide when talking about attracting
I found love
we were each other world
and it's ended with the stupidest way after 5 years I talked to her father and i was gonna marry her after 2 months, but to be honest F*CK LOVE Don't do this shit to yourself trust me no matter how good you are not gonna work out and you gonna be sad of all of the invesments you done in this sh*t but look on the good side LIFE TIME GYM MOTIVATION
actually toxic, hope you can break out of this coping and turn back to life
@rail7646 ty♥️
Love is for me.mbut not the way I thought. I'll watch to see whatchu got
Genesis 1 is not mainly an admittedly ancient account of origins. It is, admittedly, a life-centric, Earth-affirming account. That life-centrism is seen in two main ways, and in a third, subordinate way.
The simplest of the two main ways the account is life-centric is that of the exactly five namings just mentioned. These namings easily seem to identify the main three of the Earth's own physical subsystems for mediating stellar radiation for benefit of life:
A. the thermally regulative day/night cycle ('day' and 'night', v. 5);
B. the thermally regulative atmosphere (special, home-centric sky, 'shamayim', as in Gen 1:8 and Gen 2:4b - NOT 'ha-shamayim', phenomenologically general sky, as in Gen 1:1 and Gen 2:4a);
C. the land/sea surface thermal exchange system ('earth' and 'seas', v. 10).
The second main life-centric way in Genesis 1 is the seven-fold, life- and marriage-centric recursion that spans all of Genesis 1 and 2:
1. The general, or 'masculine', cosmos and...the special, or 'feminine', Earth (Gen 1:1);
2. The Earth, as its own general subject, and its...special kind of material wealth: its abiding maximal abundance of open liquid water (v. 2);
3. That water, in general, and its...special cycling (the water cycle, vs. 3-10);
4. The water cycle, in general, and its...special beneficiaries: biological life (vs. 11-12);
5. Biological life, in general, and its...special category, animal biology (vs. 20-25);
6. Animals, in general, and its...special category, humans (plant/animal/mineral/physics) (vs. 26-29);
7. The general human and the...special kind of human: woman (Genesis 2:7-25).
The third, and subordinate way in which this marriage of the two accounts is life-centric is that of how the Day Four portion of the first account explicitly values the stellar members of the cosmos. The secular manner of valuing those members would be to mention only that realm, unto itself. And it would do so as if its members are best understood as being in a death match against each other, to determine which of them would survive the mutual beatings.
Genesis 1 does NOT take after any Secularistic set of values. And, in its Day Four potion, it clearly poses all the 'lights' of the stellar realm as a good family, and this family all working together for sake of life on Earth.
But many modern secular skeptics retain their own secular notion of a life-indifferent sense as to true objectivity. So they construe this Day Four as its claiming that the phenomenological sizes and brightnesses of these lights are also the life- and Earth- indifferent sizes and brightnesses of these lights. They think the account is a 'backward', superstitious fairy tale. And so they think the Day Four portion is itself claiming that the Sun and Moon are objectively as big and bright as they two lights appear to us who live ON the Earth.
Talk dating advice, you'll explode on youtube, trust me
yeah, it is nice you are trying to pick people up, but nowadays only good looking people like you can believe in love. Ask yourself how many times you felt in love in some sub 5 quazimodo guy? The same goes to us guys. Somehow most of us only fall in love with the prettiest girl in the class.
⬛💊💯
From war? Where are you from, sweetheart?
love your tempo of speaking
Why half of these videos are always religion commercials😭
Whats your skincare routine 🙏🏼💀
Im sure you rejected plenty of good guys, so Im also sure it is 100% your fault
You have no clue what you’re talking about, i’m sorry.
oh god thank you i never had attract someone to me so that mean im special and my reflect dosen't existe
So if someone kills himself it was written by a god... i dont get it?
There is no creator. No god.
my name is jana too! i saw this video title yesterday and said to myself "its not for me". then today i see it again and we have the same name, this is for me.
🫶🏻
Hello there....💫
Mybe love is for us pookie
10:02 ????? or you would attract a submissive man?
are you syrian?
hope not j3wish
She is definitely Syrian or Palestinian.
do you have a younger sister?
you're not the CEO of women