Nothing better than being a single father. Half-time with my favourite person (my daughter) and the other half for myself.., hiking, exercising, working on new projects, reading, doing whatever I like, even just watching a movie. More time for doing all kinds of things. Remember if you invite a woman into your life you also invite all her drama. I'm social and like to talk to both women and men, colleagues or acquaintances, but I need a date like I need quicksand on my hiking path. It''s so much easier and better to stay single. No anger, just peace. Live and let live.
@@schahrzadmorgan I agree on the sexual part, I also want that. But you can meet and get to know someone just for sex for a while, and you may get more of that than if in a fixed relationship (i.e. living together) / marriage. Right now I don't have that either, which is a trade off (mainly saving my own time). But time, freedom and peace is more important. Imo the ONLY reason for moving in together (or worse: marrying) is to have children. Children fare better with two parents. But if, or rather when, it breaks, they take the hardest hit. My concern now is the well-being of my daughter. I'd trade anything for that. Don't misunderstand me, I love being with a woman and I am highly sexual, but in today's society and culture a man is simply much better off on his own.
@@jans724spot on. Amazed how society has gone and women now wonder where all the good men are it's ridiculous.. I too stayed single last 4&1/2 years not even been in a date I LITERALLY have no interest now. My sanity is worth more than sex even having had a prolific sex drive and sex life. I'm in my mid 40s, fit, young for my age, successful, intelligent and ive just had enough, if I look for a woman next it's going to be abroad for a younger woman with traditional values and morals. Not corrupted by the broke mentality of most western countries. Aside from some of the more traditional ones which is what I'd stick to if I seek a woman in the west..
Totally living the same lifestyle man. I could interact with women and see some success or get into a relationship but it's just not better than having freedom and peace. I have been in multiple relationships and have been married. Single is so much better.
Men are angry because they have had their house and children taken off them by a system that helps women but stamps men into the ground. Are we surprised that some men are angry?Good video.
Don't forget that is a new concept, up until the 1960s, it was vice versa and men had far more control and power in divorce. That's why men are so angry now, they cannot understand why the control and power isn't all with them. However, the pendulum has swung too much the other way and yes, more fairness is needed.
As a man who is not angry or passive i do not see a huge benefit in entering a relationship. Sex is the only benefit after bulding myself up and completely able to take care of myself. I cook more often and better than most women i have met. I am fit. I work on myself consistently. I dont drink or smoke. I dont waste hours. Watching tv or playing video games. I find it easy to maintain relationships and have people to travel and enjoy experiences away from home. I like eating out and going to the movies on my own. No added drama. I know how to plan dates and communicate assertively. I understand how to make a woman orgasm multiples times in a session by taking my time and her body and doing foreplay. The only thing is i dont see a benefit of me doing all of this to make someone happy when im already happy.
I am not angry at all.......I am very happy staying single.........I spent my entire life with women and know exactly how they are, and its just so much easier and peaceful on your own....I love women and love being around them....but it's still not worth the time and effort involved in keeping a relationship b/c she WILL eventually get bored and leave.....if I ever do get in one again.......she stays at her place and I stay in my home that's paid for...that way WHEN she decides to end things I won't have to move again
If it's not worth the time and effort keeping relationships with women, then it defintely sounds like you don't love them. Instead, it sounds like you appreciate them from afar. That's not love but that's OK. PS the likelihood that she will eventually get bored, and leave only exists to the level in which you allow her to get bored and how easily predisposed she already is to getting bored. You leave me with the impression that you're not exactly looking to date someone in need of constant attention like Jennifer Lawrence. That's also okay.
Totally agree, you have the right idea and we ALL are thinking the same now, men are finally waking up after years of being mistreated taken for granted unappreciated and being taken for everything financially and often times for many in other ways also as it facilitates getting everything.. it's disgusting what such a high percentage of men have been put though and/or are going though..
@@AB-C1 Yes I agree. I'm like, "why did he marry that bitch who tried to poison him/take all his money in the divorce?" I am baffled by the choices some men make. The men tell me, "yes but she was HOT HOT HOT". Okay - choose BETTER.
Women don't understand that playing a man's role is very hard. Males used to do it because their family depended on them and the hard work was worth it. Now with a 50/50 chance of divorce, losing the kids and half the wealth you've worked for, it's not worth the time, effort, and sacrifices. If you work hard she'll say you don't spend enough time at home, if you earn the cash she'll say your bedroom life is boring, if you live carefree she'll say you're a broke deadbeat etc etc
Some women might yes. But some won't. Same as some men dump their wives for a younger women once the wife hits her 40s. It's not just women who leave marriages, men too often clear off because they want excitement, fresh, younger etc. Both men and women are as bad as each other nowadays
I'm contentedly divorced since 98 & neither lonely nor desperate, but there are many guys who need to ponder your advice. However, I don't see many females who can check all the boxes for qualities you propose they should have. Dating market is realistically closer to a thrift store environment, where one may score the find of a lifetime, but is just hoping to find something that isn't too damaged or stinky.
I'm 52, and I went to a gender reveal this past weekend. We were at least 60 people from which there was about 25 of my generation. I have only seen two women among a dozen that weren't overweight. Most guys were fat as well. So sad.
Yes exactly. I recently watched Columbo (a 1980s TV show). All the men are LEAN. WOW!!! Fat people are unhealthy physically and I find them unattractive.
In my social circles, most people (men and women alike) are overweight and unhealthy. I don't expect to date a supermodel or college athlete, but even asking for some basic level of physical fitness gets me called "shallow".
Many of my male clients just can't find a feminine traditional woman anymore. I think anger is part of that too within the women, but women are so masculine today that is the biggest turn off I believe to my especially high value men looking for wives
Yes, exactly! Women are told that being a mom or wanting to nourish a man is weak. Like the incels and passive men, these women are also weeded out of the dating pool.
I would love to meet a masculine man. Where are these men you are talking about? I also find men my age and older to be too run down physically or emotionally so I don't find them attractive.
I was suggest that your male clients are probably looking in the wrong place. There are feminine traditional women all over the planet. If I were searching for a diamond, I wouldn't limit myself to looking in my backyard.
They are all around you, it's just that they're not going to hit you over the head and drag you back to their cave because these days society frowns upon that.@@schahrzadmorgan
I came in hot on my last comment. I deleted it. I listened to your video again. You make some really great points. I think it becomes easy to just not care anymore - I have. I am angry with women, and I don't respect most women. I have found other paths to happiness - solo.
Oh thank you so much for saying that. I admire you so much for that. I don't recall your comment, however I agree it's easy to get cynical and I honestly don't respect most women either. I should make a video on how hard it is to find a good female friend.
@@schahrzadmorgan My previous comment attacked you, and I will say you have approached the topic of the Men/Women divide with more balance and common sense then almost anyone on UA-cam right now. I listened to your analysis of disqualifying yourself from success with the opposite sex and its true. Believe me, I am no Incel, but I just have a hard time visualizing a successful relationship anymore. I am working through those thoughts, and in the meantime I am happy being alone. Who knows what the future holds. Keep up the honesty and integrity it shines through on your videos.
@@watamutha A man in his 20s is building so he is broke (student loans, debts, no money) but he does not rely on a woman for that. He can build alongside her. My ex husband and I bought her first house, we ate on the floor for months until he BUILT us out of wood some furniture. We built together. What kind of women are going after you and why are they doing that if you are married? I see that as toxic wounded women. That is not something to brag about - it is seriously demented of them, w no respect for your relationship, for family, for themselves. I've heard other men tell me similar stories (and they're not even that hot or successful).
Traumas hold people back. Some people don't seek help to overcome such matters. People Pleasing can be a trait of trauma. I know this because of having to work on and overcome my situations. In other words, I had to take the garbage (unhealthy things) out to the trash so that I could grab healthy things to overcome. Some people have to totally change things, and it's totally alright to step back when necessary. I tried dating after my divorce, and it sucked. Sucked because I was a damned emotional wreck who didn't understand things. I had to slam on the brakes and work on myself. I'm grateful I at least tried and knew I was messed up. Other ways I've experienced being messed up were: not knowing the differences between humility and humiliation as well as being alone and lonely. I felt lonely and humiliated due to people pleasing behavior. Counseling was a must, and I'm glad I had the sense to seek help.
You touched in it before. There are no spaces where men and women meet casually. Like a coffeeshop. Friend groups. Birthdayparties. Sportingclub. Theatergroup. Performing music. Work and college where most people used to meet is off limmits now. Everything is online now. It is digital psychological sterilisation.
I am aware that there are men who hate women for not being able to have one, in my case my decision to be celibate is because I know the feminine nature and the feminist agenda, Knowing that I can't do anything to change the female mentality, I just walk away so as not to suffer from gender slavery. My celibacy taught me a life full of true freedom, tranquility and peace. I no longer bother to interact with women and that has liberated me intellectually, celibacy is an easy alternative path to walk, fast and prosperous, Without hatred towards women I wish you to be as happy as I am with my celibacy
I was asked about my celibacy by a friend. He couldn't understand it. I asked him if he remembered life as a boy, before puberty, before the chase was on for women and sex. And how free and innocent we were, and how generally happy life was. It's like that I said, but better because as an adult I alone determine what I will or will not do, when and where. Then he understood.
I really like this video discussion. I am 73, and I see so many men and women much younger than me who have lost their purpose and desire. I don't know why any younger man would not want to date you. If I were single, I would go after you, even though you are 20 years older than most women I find attractive physically and intellectually.
It's not just married men that are doing well. Many of them are Is unhappy because of sexless marriages. Being single on the contrary. Is very pleasant . Women have to understand also. Is that the # Me too movement and extreme Feminism. Have driven men away.
Today's modern women get so much attention and offers through social media that ordinary traditional men with middle income are no longer enough. And why would they when the offers are in abundance and the self-confidence via all the flattery and praise via social media is at the very highest level. When an average girl thinks she is a "10" she will naturally rate a "7". Heard your conversation/interview in your last video where you reasoned that a return to more traditional dating will probably become more common in the future. I don't think so, because why would one part, the women, opt out of the amazing library of wooing men to pick and choose from, via dating apps!? More single households are to be expected, and more divorces and children growing up with only one parent because women in particular see through their mobile apps that they frequently have courting options. And in times where self-actualization values are held in high esteem, that probably means more partner changes.
I'm nice, I'm agreeable, not because I have to be, but because I don't need to be. Why would a man want to add more stress in their lives. Years ago I decided I'm not going to change to a A hole just to get a woman. I got my passport, and went looking abroad, no games, some serious vetting and now I'm happily married.
I am a man who is almost 60, and I would date you, I have that good masculine energy that you speak of. Not only that but I am active and fit like you. Just so you know there are man your age or near who do possess that young vibrant and masculine energy too. The older guys at the gym I go to ask the same questions you bring up.
I fit the women's rule of 6's, yet women want to date multiple men and play games and think we're supposed to be understanding of that. Men are taught how to treat women from a young age, but women are not taught how to treat men! Men are the prize and deserve better than modern women!
Jordan, peterson and others routinely point out that ninety seven percent of the men out there are completely ignored by a hundred percent of the women. I'd like to actually listen to the rest of this video.
@@mgtowcowboy8159Spot on! I've said the same 85% of women are sleeping with the same 10-15% of men! 60% of men are not in a relationship or had sex in over a year! 85% of relationships and marriages are ended by the women! 60% of men under the age of 25 now are virgins! Yet only 5-10% of women are! These are hard cold FACTS!
Mostly agree but there are good men in their late 60's, and early 70's who are masculine, fit, healthy with a strong libido, and sexually active. I do understand they are not the norm.
To your point about the Gloria Steinem-led second wave feminism, it brought with it the slow but steady destruction of marriage and monogamy. Until women get to the point where they realize that no-fault divorce has been a disastrous failure, and join us in lobbying for changes to the divorce laws, the downward spiral will continue. Marriage is such a bad deal for men that if it were any other type of arm’s length business deal, courts of law would declare it unenforceable. In this day and age there is no way I would advise anyone-myself included-to sign that contract
As the economy crumbles all i hear is money money money, its always been like that but it seems a little bit worse lately. I definitely don't hate them, but alot want to be in a relationship with an ATM machine.
This is bull crap. Every women has their own taste and preferences. I seen homeless men have partners and drug addicts too. Serial killers in jail have lot's of admirers. There's not the " ideal " guy for a woman. Same goes for what guy's like.There's someone for everyone.
Definitely! I've met men on low incomes and average looks yet they are happily married to their average wives! This idea that ALL women are obsessed with money etc just doesn't hold true. Some women are obsessed with money just like some men are obsessed with dating top model looking women
We're not angry at all - just bored. So we're doing fun stuff without the drama and over analyzing. We'll happily sacrifice the "free" sex and just pay for it. It's super clean that way and we don't have to listen to all the me too crap. Saw this gal at the gym the other day with a Me Too t-shirt on and she was 70 pounds over fighting weight. Not now, not ever. Lol.
Tradional men deserve tradition women, full stop Either we find women willing to SUBMIT without malice or we will move to the ends of the Earth to find that AND avoid these women Nobody gonna shame that, stop that, or even slow it down Feminists have NO power over me
14:48, not that it matters but in my opinion, I believe both sexes play a role in procreation, the percentage is not important to the one who created us, just the results, & it takes "Two" to mate.
If women don’t need men, do they need other women? If yes, then what do they need them for? And whatever it is, can men not also provide the same things, and more?
The OP would probably call me passive aggressive. I took the path of the MGTOW monk 22 years ago, as a reaction to interactions with members of the Female Collective (think Borg Collective). Women were not interested. I looked like a Ken Doll and had and was everything that women were supposed to want, but women kicked me aside in their rush to throw themselves crotch first at sociopathic bad boys. It is not possible to experience nearly 20 years of rejection and watching women with bad boys without forming an unflattering opinion of the female cognitive process. Not long after I turned 30, I realised that the situation was hopeless. I applied the first principle of tactics, which I was taught when the Australian Army trained me as an officer. That principle is: fight only the battles that can be won. That was when I took the path of the MGTOW monk. When I was a bit older, women who would have told me to FOAD (fuck off and die) when they were 20 began to come sniffing around and trying to make nice, but by that time I was too bitter and resentful to be interested. Women continue to try to make nice with me, but I remain too bitter and resentful to be interested. I know that when they were 20 they would have treated me as though I had been a plague carrier. A few times I let women in, when I thought that the woman might have been a unicorn. Without exception, they broke my heart. As best I can determine, interactions with females have caused me to become psychologically incapable of feeling eros for a woman.
If she doesn't offer anything of substance then what else is there to pursue? She's not going to pay your bills, and most modern women don't want to work as wives
4:10, if Gloria stein. doesn't need a man then what does she need? If she desires a woman, then what role will she play a masculine one? Can't escape how your created, with a Male or Female composition.
You’re a straight shooter, and I appreciate your delivery. Do you think there is a thing as a man having too much aggression? Side note: We need to hear you play a little Chopin on your channel.
Video's of people coming emotionally unglued... Are NOT all people. Angry people teach the rest of us how to navigate that insanity. The response from a simple "Hello" will tell you volumes about that person.
This video is great, thanks. A breath of fresh air for sure. I will definitely work on some of the things you mentioned, they make a lot of sense. Especially about not being angry. Still won't ask women out though, seems suicidal. I don't have and dont want a car so it's a moot point anyways.
@schahrzadmorgan hi Iam not angry with you but I don't think you have an understanding of men at all. You come across as me me me it's all about me, you don't have a balanced view
A thing is it’s easy to fall into the “spiteful” I hate the opposite sex conversation. Recently split up from a 13 year” relationship”,and realised she ticked a lot of narcissistic boxes.Thats the second 10 year plus relationship I’ve been in,and to be honest I cannot stand the thought of going anywhere near a female again in a sensitive way. Obviously it takes two to tango and I’m not perfect ,but I am finding myself loathing the thought of dating again.And it’s a bit strange you saying if you was a man ,you would like a feminine type physically.I hate to break it to you but you look more “ chisled” and muscle toned than half the guys I know ( and no they are not out of shape moose’s ”.I’m mentally worn out by the stress these” modern women” give out ,and commercials now paint men as wimpy pushovers and bungling idiots. Let’s face it the liberal ,woke ,feminist movement has f up the western world ,it’s a fact that it is the age of the single man.It’s called being bored of hearing about how women do not need men,men have not changed that much it’s the women who have become “ empowered” if you can call it that.
Are women wonderful? I think it depends on the woman. I don't think most women (or most men for that matter) are beyond average. Certainly, they're not exceptional --and women ARE oriented to desire exceptional men. So, the better question is: What should men do to become exceptional? Interesting video. I disagree with some of the opinions expressed, but it provided food for thought.
What advice do you have for men or women so that we can desire each other and flourish in relationships? Knowing that a large part of the population cannot attain that or doesn't want to.
Neither men or women are in control completely, God is in control nothing happens without his knowledge and without his permission. if anyone thinks they got this, think again people need to stop believing that they got this, and if they need the right person in their lives, they need to take that up with God he is the only one who can help you with that.the waiting game is not an easy game to play, but it's a lot better than you trying to do it on your own and think you got this, because in reality beyond the human five senses nobody really knows anybody at all even if they think they known that person for 20 or 30 years you don't really know that person at all. only that individual and God knows. everyone else is a different expression of that individual, but not the whole person at all. not all men and women are bad ,it not easy to weed out the good from the bad out because they look the same and one cannot do this on their own five senses or to say use their own wits. the waiting game is not easy game to play this can go on for days months or years, I should know but as you wait you might as well learn how to weed these people out and also look into yourself as well to make sure that you're not one of the bad ones either.Remember you're not the only one in the same boat there's plenty of people like yourself in the same boat as well.
Nothing better than being a single father. Half-time with my favourite person (my daughter) and the other half for myself.., hiking, exercising, working on new projects, reading, doing whatever I like, even just watching a movie. More time for doing all kinds of things. Remember if you invite a woman into your life you also invite all her drama. I'm social and like to talk to both women and men, colleagues or acquaintances, but I need a date like I need quicksand on my hiking path. It''s so much easier and better to stay single. No anger, just peace. Live and let live.
What is the process w women and 2) what about sex?
I want a relationship for the sex.
@@schahrzadmorgan I agree on the sexual part, I also want that. But you can meet and get to know someone just for sex for a while, and you may get more of that than if in a fixed relationship (i.e. living together) / marriage. Right now I don't have that either, which is a trade off (mainly saving my own time). But time, freedom and peace is more important. Imo the ONLY reason for moving in together (or worse: marrying) is to have children. Children fare better with two parents. But if, or rather when, it breaks, they take the hardest hit. My concern now is the well-being of my daughter. I'd trade anything for that. Don't misunderstand me, I love being with a woman and I am highly sexual, but in today's society and culture a man is simply much better off on his own.
@@jans724spot on. Amazed how society has gone and women now wonder where all the good men are it's ridiculous.. I too stayed single last 4&1/2 years not even been in a date I LITERALLY have no interest now. My sanity is worth more than sex even having had a prolific sex drive and sex life. I'm in my mid 40s, fit, young for my age, successful, intelligent and ive just had enough, if I look for a woman next it's going to be abroad for a younger woman with traditional values and morals. Not corrupted by the broke mentality of most western countries. Aside from some of the more traditional ones which is what I'd stick to if I seek a woman in the west..
@@jans724Especially if a man was hurt by a woman and divorced he is less likely want something serious again.
Totally living the same lifestyle man. I could interact with women and see some success or get into a relationship but it's just not better than having freedom and peace. I have been in multiple relationships and have been married. Single is so much better.
Men are angry because they have had their house and children taken off them by a system that helps women but stamps men into the ground. Are we surprised that some men are angry?Good video.
MEN ARE NOT BORN ANGRY AT WOMEN ---- IT TAKES A FEW REALLY ANGRY WOMEN TO ATTACK THEM --- THEN MEN MIGHT TURN ANGRY
Don't forget that is a new concept, up until the 1960s, it was vice versa and men had far more control and power in divorce. That's why men are so angry now, they cannot understand why the control and power isn't all with them. However, the pendulum has swung too much the other way and yes, more fairness is needed.
As a man who is not angry or passive i do not see a huge benefit in entering a relationship. Sex is the only benefit after bulding myself up and completely able to take care of myself. I cook more often and better than most women i have met. I am fit. I work on myself consistently. I dont drink or smoke. I dont waste hours. Watching tv or playing video games. I find it easy to maintain relationships and have people to travel and enjoy experiences away from home. I like eating out and going to the movies on my own. No added drama.
I know how to plan dates and communicate assertively. I understand how to make a woman orgasm multiples times in a session by taking my time and her body and doing foreplay.
The only thing is i dont see a benefit of me doing all of this to make someone happy when im already happy.
Then stay single and be happy!
I am not angry at all.......I am very happy staying single.........I spent my entire life with women and know exactly how they are, and its just so much easier and peaceful on your own....I love women and love being around them....but it's still not worth the time and effort involved in keeping a relationship b/c she WILL eventually get bored and leave.....if I ever do get in one again.......she stays at her place and I stay in my home that's paid for...that way WHEN she decides to end things I won't have to move again
I hear your boundaries and what you want. Thank you for sharing.
What do women do that turns you off?
If it's not worth the time and effort keeping relationships with women, then it defintely sounds like you don't love them. Instead, it sounds like you appreciate them from afar. That's not love but that's OK.
PS the likelihood that she will eventually get bored, and leave only exists to the level in which you allow her to get bored and how easily predisposed she already is to getting bored. You leave me with the impression that you're not exactly looking to date someone in need of constant attention like Jennifer Lawrence. That's also okay.
@@TheAirlockExcellent comment.
Totally agree, you have the right idea and we ALL are thinking the same now, men are finally waking up after years of being mistreated taken for granted unappreciated and being taken for everything financially and often times for many in other ways also as it facilitates getting everything.. it's disgusting what such a high percentage of men have been put though and/or are going though..
@@AB-C1 Yes I agree. I'm like, "why did he marry that bitch who tried to poison him/take all his money in the divorce?" I am baffled by the choices some men make. The men tell me, "yes but she was HOT HOT HOT". Okay - choose BETTER.
Women don't understand that playing a man's role is very hard. Males used to do it because their family depended on them and the hard work was worth it. Now with a 50/50 chance of divorce, losing the kids and half the wealth you've worked for, it's not worth the time, effort, and sacrifices. If you work hard she'll say you don't spend enough time at home, if you earn the cash she'll say your bedroom life is boring, if you live carefree she'll say you're a broke deadbeat etc etc
Some women might yes. But some won't. Same as some men dump their wives for a younger women once the wife hits her 40s. It's not just women who leave marriages, men too often clear off because they want excitement, fresh, younger etc. Both men and women are as bad as each other nowadays
Nothing wrong with standards, men have to be 6'5" $500k and and look like Tom Brady. Good luck with that.
And not even TB or Kevin Costner could avoid being sued for divorce. What the hell chance do the rest of us have?
I'm contentedly divorced since 98 & neither lonely nor desperate, but there are many guys who need to ponder your advice. However, I don't see many females who can check all the boxes for qualities you propose they should have. Dating market is realistically closer to a thrift store environment, where one may score the find of a lifetime, but is just hoping to find something that isn't too damaged or stinky.
I'm 52, and I went to a gender reveal this past weekend. We were at least 60 people from which there was about 25 of my generation. I have only seen two women among a dozen that weren't overweight. Most guys were fat as well. So sad.
Yes exactly. I recently watched Columbo (a 1980s TV show). All the men are LEAN. WOW!!! Fat people are unhealthy physically and I find them unattractive.
In my social circles, most people (men and women alike) are overweight and unhealthy. I don't expect to date a supermodel or college athlete, but even asking for some basic level of physical fitness gets me called "shallow".
I know what you mean. The average woman in my country (USA) weighs almost 20 pounds more than I do
that is sad. i can't be with someone overweight. eliminates most people in the South for me.
Many of my male clients just can't find a feminine traditional woman anymore. I think anger is part of that too within the women, but women are so masculine today that is the biggest turn off I believe to my especially high value men looking for wives
Yes, exactly! Women are told that being a mom or wanting to nourish a man is weak. Like the incels and passive men, these women are also weeded out of the dating pool.
I would love to meet a masculine man. Where are these men you are talking about?
I also find men my age and older to be too run down physically or emotionally so I don't find them attractive.
I was suggest that your male clients are probably looking in the wrong place. There are feminine traditional women all over the planet. If I were searching for a diamond, I wouldn't limit myself to looking in my backyard.
THIS.
They are all around you, it's just that they're not going to hit you over the head and drag you back to their cave because these days society frowns upon that.@@schahrzadmorgan
When a genuine masculine man and feminine woman meet there's a balance in their world at that moment.
I came in hot on my last comment. I deleted it. I listened to your video again. You make some really great points. I think it becomes easy to just not care anymore - I have. I am angry with women, and I don't respect most women. I have found other paths to happiness - solo.
Oh thank you so much for saying that. I admire you so much for that. I don't recall your comment, however I agree it's easy to get cynical and I honestly don't respect most women either. I should make a video on how hard it is to find a good female friend.
@@schahrzadmorgan My previous comment attacked you, and I will say you have approached the topic of the Men/Women divide with more balance and common sense then almost anyone on UA-cam right now.
I listened to your analysis of disqualifying yourself from success with the opposite sex and its true. Believe me, I am no Incel, but I just have a hard time visualizing a successful relationship anymore. I am working through those thoughts, and in the meantime I am happy being alone. Who knows what the future holds. Keep up the honesty and integrity it shines through on your videos.
It’s funny how you want the perfect guy on a plate. The idea of you building up a man, loving him and nurturing him is not even in your radar.
You want a Mommy? There are rescuers out there aka female people pleasers. Go get one!
@@watamutha A man in his 20s is building so he is broke (student loans, debts, no money) but he does not rely on a woman for that. He can build alongside her. My ex husband and I bought her first house, we ate on the floor for months until he BUILT us out of wood some furniture. We built together. What kind of women are going after you and why are they doing that if you are married? I see that as toxic wounded women. That is not something to brag about - it is seriously demented of them, w no respect for your relationship, for family, for themselves. I've heard other men tell me similar stories (and they're not even that hot or successful).
Men often want perfect girlfriends so it's a two way street.
Traumas hold people back. Some people don't seek help to overcome such matters. People Pleasing can be a trait of trauma. I know this because of having to work on and overcome my situations. In other words, I had to take the garbage (unhealthy things) out to the trash so that I could grab healthy things to overcome. Some people have to totally change things, and it's totally alright to step back when necessary. I tried dating after my divorce, and it sucked. Sucked because I was a damned emotional wreck who didn't understand things. I had to slam on the brakes and work on myself. I'm grateful I at least tried and knew I was messed up. Other ways I've experienced being messed up were: not knowing the differences between humility and humiliation as well as being alone and lonely. I felt lonely and humiliated due to people pleasing behavior. Counseling was a must, and I'm glad I had the sense to seek help.
You touched in it before. There are no spaces where men and women meet casually. Like a coffeeshop. Friend groups. Birthdayparties. Sportingclub. Theatergroup. Performing music. Work and college where most people used to meet is off limmits now.
Everything is online now. It is digital psychological sterilisation.
Yes, agree with you. Social media has caused lots of problems
It's by design... no breeding.
I am aware that there are men who hate women for not being able to have one, in my case my decision to be celibate is because I know the feminine nature and the feminist agenda, Knowing that I can't do anything to change the female mentality, I just walk away so as not to suffer from gender slavery. My celibacy taught me a life full of true freedom, tranquility and peace. I no longer bother to interact with women and that has liberated me intellectually, celibacy is an easy alternative path to walk, fast and prosperous, Without hatred towards women I wish you to be as happy as I am with my celibacy
I was asked about my celibacy by a friend. He couldn't understand it.
I asked him if he remembered life as a boy, before puberty, before the chase was on for women and sex.
And how free and innocent we were, and how generally happy life was.
It's like that I said, but better because as an adult I alone determine what I will or will not do, when and where.
Then he understood.
I believe you met masculine women not feminine women.
Good for you. Women too would probably benefit from this for a peaceful life
I really like this video discussion. I am 73, and I see so many men and women much younger than me who have lost their purpose and desire. I don't know why any younger man would not want to date you. If I were single, I would go after you, even though you are 20 years older than most women I find attractive physically and intellectually.
It's not just married men that are doing well. Many of them are Is unhappy because of sexless marriages. Being single on the contrary. Is very pleasant . Women have to understand also. Is that the # Me too movement and extreme Feminism. Have driven men away.
Yes I agree.
Today's modern women get so much attention and offers through social media that ordinary traditional men with middle income are no longer enough. And why would they when the offers are in abundance and the self-confidence via all the flattery and praise via social media is at the very highest level. When an average girl thinks she is a "10" she will naturally rate a "7".
Heard your conversation/interview in your last video where you reasoned that a return to more traditional dating will probably become more common in the future.
I don't think so, because why would one part, the women, opt out of the amazing library of wooing men to pick and choose from, via dating apps!?
More single households are to be expected, and more divorces and children growing up with only one parent because women in particular see through their mobile apps that they frequently have courting options. And in times where self-actualization values are held in high esteem, that probably means more partner changes.
Works both ways. Men too have become picky and very focused on above average looking women!
I'm nice, I'm agreeable, not because I have to be, but because I don't need to be. Why would a man want to add more stress in their lives. Years ago I decided I'm not going to change to a A hole just to get a woman. I got my passport, and went looking abroad, no games, some serious vetting and now I'm happily married.
I am a man who is almost 60, and I would date you, I have that good masculine energy that you speak of. Not only that but I am active and fit like you. Just so you know there are man your age or near who do possess that young vibrant and masculine energy too. The older guys at the gym I go to ask the same questions you bring up.
I fit the women's rule of 6's, yet women want to date multiple men and play games and think we're supposed to be understanding of that. Men are taught how to treat women from a young age, but women are not taught how to treat men! Men are the prize and deserve better than modern women!
Jordan, peterson and others routinely point out that ninety seven percent of the men out there are completely ignored by a hundred percent of the women. I'd like to actually listen to the rest of this video.
@@mgtowcowboy8159Spot on! I've said the same 85% of women are sleeping with the same 10-15% of men! 60% of men are not in a relationship or had sex in over a year!
85% of relationships and marriages are ended by the women!
60% of men under the age of 25 now are virgins! Yet only 5-10% of women are! These are hard cold FACTS!
That can't be true. I've seen many couples who are average ie average looks, average income etc and they are happy living in average housing.
Wasn't Peterson a junkie? Why would I listen to someone like him... Pop psychology nonsense. With zero substance whilst lining his pocket..
OMG, her comments from around minute 15 to 16 or 17 about older men and men in general is PURE gold!!
Men won’t get women by hating them? Who would’ve ever thunk it?
I got to have a girlfriend. Without the girl it’s no good.
It’s a man’s but it don’t mean nothing without a woman or a girl
Mostly agree but there are good men in their late 60's, and early 70's who are masculine, fit, healthy with a strong libido, and sexually active. I do understand they are not the norm.
And they have a solid marriage behind them AND are currently single?
There was some study done that was women found 80% of men were unattactive. I didnt know i had so much company
Men become attractive through how they make us feel. Only gay men are beauty objects
Too bad for you women, that while telling us men you don’t need us, we discovered it is actually us who don’t need you.
This AWESOME commentary should be put into book form entitled "How To Be A Man" or something like that!
So much for "hitting the wall", you younger men who have been fed that myth.
To your point about the Gloria Steinem-led second wave feminism, it brought with it the slow but steady destruction of marriage and monogamy. Until women get to the point where they realize that no-fault divorce has been a disastrous failure, and join us in lobbying for changes to the divorce laws, the downward spiral will continue. Marriage is such a bad deal for men that if it were any other type of arm’s length business deal, courts of law would declare it unenforceable. In this day and age there is no way I would advise anyone-myself included-to sign that contract
As the economy crumbles all i hear is money money money, its always been like that but it seems a little bit worse lately. I definitely don't hate them, but alot want to be in a relationship with an ATM machine.
too late. been ripped apart too many times. 60, on my own. lonely and have my dog. Millionaire and all done.
Very few feminine women around , women also are always in groups or they never look up , so hard to interact for most men
This is bull crap. Every women has their own taste and preferences. I seen homeless men have partners and drug addicts too. Serial killers in jail have lot's of admirers. There's not the " ideal " guy for a woman. Same goes for what guy's like.There's someone for everyone.
Definitely! I've met men on low incomes and average looks yet they are happily married to their average wives! This idea that ALL women are obsessed with money etc just doesn't hold true. Some women are obsessed with money just like some men are obsessed with dating top model looking women
It’s hard to take a woman who is buffed out like a dude seriously when it comes to dating advice.
That sort of reactivity is poison to a woman. Get a grip.
And men need women like water need fish. That's the cosmic harmony.
We're not angry at all - just bored. So we're doing fun stuff without the drama and over analyzing. We'll happily sacrifice the "free" sex and just pay for it. It's super clean that way and we don't have to listen to all the me too crap. Saw this gal at the gym the other day with a Me Too t-shirt on and she was 70 pounds over fighting weight. Not now, not ever. Lol.
The only males that get free sex are ultra high status males.
Your happy, and probably the girl in the gym who you put down because of her weight is happy too, so it's all good.
I totally agree with you! We women do need men!
Tradional men deserve tradition women, full stop
Either we find women willing to SUBMIT without malice or we will move to the ends of the Earth to find that AND avoid these women
Nobody gonna shame that, stop that, or even slow it down
Feminists have NO power over me
14:48, not that it matters but in my opinion, I believe both sexes play a role in procreation, the percentage is not important to the one who created us, just the results, & it takes "Two" to mate.
This is all so true! Thank you for this video!
NO it's not.. it's ridiculous
If women don’t need men, do they need other women? If yes, then what do they need them for? And whatever it is, can men not also provide the same things, and more?
Ask Gloria Steinem. I say women do need men.
Feminine women are my attraction.
I love women who define what a man is or should be. It’s endlessly funny.
I guess it's much the same how men define what women should or shouldn't be
I play Ginger Baker daily workout, eat nails for breakfast.
приятно слушать грамотного и уравновешенного человека)
Согласен. Прям в голове всё уложилось и хочется взять себя в руки.
_'AnD tHaT's YoU!'_
The OP would probably call me passive aggressive.
I took the path of the MGTOW monk 22 years ago, as a reaction to interactions with members of the Female Collective (think Borg Collective).
Women were not interested.
I looked like a Ken Doll and had and was everything that women were supposed to want, but women kicked me aside in their rush to throw themselves crotch first at sociopathic bad boys.
It is not possible to experience nearly 20 years of rejection and watching women with bad boys without forming an unflattering opinion of the female cognitive process.
Not long after I turned 30, I realised that the situation was hopeless. I applied the first principle of tactics, which I was taught when the Australian Army trained me as an officer. That principle is: fight only the battles that can be won.
That was when I took the path of the MGTOW monk.
When I was a bit older, women who would have told me to FOAD (fuck off and die) when they were 20 began to come sniffing around and trying to make nice, but by that time I was too bitter and resentful to be interested.
Women continue to try to make nice with me, but I remain too bitter and resentful to be interested.
I know that when they were 20 they would have treated me as though I had been a plague carrier.
A few times I let women in, when I thought that the woman might have been a unicorn. Without exception, they broke my heart.
As best I can determine, interactions with females have caused me to become psychologically incapable of feeling eros for a woman.
I admire you for the choices you’ve made. If my marriage ever ends it will be the last woman I get involved with
Fair enough, best stay single then
Do you think its ok to persue a woman for sex when you’re not really after a relationship with her?
If she doesn't offer anything of substance then what else is there to pursue? She's not going to pay your bills, and most modern women don't want to work as wives
4:10, if Gloria stein. doesn't need a man then what does she need? If she desires a woman, then what role will she play a masculine one? Can't escape how your created, with a Male or Female composition.
You’re a straight shooter, and I appreciate your delivery.
Do you think there is a thing as a man having too much aggression?
Side note: We need to hear you play a little Chopin on your channel.
Video's of people coming emotionally unglued... Are NOT all people.
Angry people teach the rest of us how to navigate that insanity. The response from a simple "Hello" will tell you volumes about that person.
This video is great, thanks. A breath of fresh air for sure. I will definitely work on some of the things you mentioned, they make a lot of sense. Especially about not being angry.
Still won't ask women out though, seems suicidal. I don't have and dont want a car so it's a moot point anyways.
Nice top, good sense.
Sounds about right... 😊 👍 -70SomethingGuy
“Reactive little bitches” 😂
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subscribed. thanks. very encouraging.
to late ladies. I no longer want you. Im happy alone. Good luck
bad grammar.
@@flyandshy00 Who cares. You understand what I was saying. Nobody cares. We aren't writing a technical paper.
If you are happy alone then that's best for you. Some are and some aren't. Many men and women are still going to date.
@b.m.t.h.3961 I'd reconsider if women weren't such awful people.
This girl and that what she is is full of it
What specifically makes you so angry w me?
@schahrzadmorgan hi
Iam not angry with you but I don't think you have an understanding of men at all. You come across as me me me it's all about me, you don't have a balanced view
You remind me of someone I used to date, agree with everything.
not passive but not interested in putting out the effort for something that has no value
Fair enough. Carry on as you are. Everyone is different
Great guns! I wish I had that level of commitment.
Now we no longer need women. Our dreams of love and starting a family are dead and women killed them.
For a family you need money to support wife and kids. If your income alone is not enough to pay for 3 people - you cannot afford it.
We will keep the money in our own pocket, thank you !@@flyandshy00
No they didn't. Many people marry all the time it's just you assuming no men are bothering anymore which simply isn't true
good content , real talk no chicken soup like all of them out there for their own benefit spreading false messages
A thing is it’s easy to fall into the “spiteful” I hate the opposite sex conversation.
Recently split up from a 13 year” relationship”,and realised she ticked a lot of narcissistic boxes.Thats the second 10 year plus relationship I’ve been in,and to be honest I cannot stand the thought of going anywhere near a female again in a sensitive way.
Obviously it takes two to tango and I’m not perfect ,but I am finding myself loathing the thought of dating again.And it’s a bit strange you saying if you was a man ,you would like a feminine type physically.I hate to break it to you but you look more “ chisled” and muscle toned than half the guys I know ( and no they are not out of shape moose’s ”.I’m mentally worn out by the stress these” modern women” give out ,and commercials now paint men as wimpy pushovers and bungling idiots.
Let’s face it the liberal ,woke ,feminist movement has f up the western world ,it’s a fact that it is the age of the single man.It’s called being bored of hearing about how women do not need men,men have not changed that much it’s the women who have become “ empowered” if you can call it that.
So a top ten bro then and disregard the other nighty precent
Not all men can get the girl. I'm here to give men tips.
I noticed that anger on the eyes / eyebrows. Msm are pushing for that . Please keep helping both to get back to social interactions 🎩
Are women wonderful? I think it depends on the woman. I don't think most women (or most men for that matter) are beyond average. Certainly, they're not exceptional --and women ARE oriented to desire exceptional men. So, the better question is: What should men do to become exceptional?
Interesting video. I disagree with some of the opinions expressed, but it provided food for thought.
What advice do you have for men or women so that we can desire each other and flourish in relationships?
Knowing that a large part of the population cannot attain that or doesn't want to.
Great shoulders! 😊
Neither men or women are in control completely, God is in control nothing happens without his knowledge and without his permission. if anyone thinks they got this, think again people need to stop believing that they got this, and if they need the right person in their lives, they need to take that up with God he is the only one who can help you with that.the waiting game is not an easy game to play, but it's a lot better than you trying to do it on your own and think you got this, because in reality beyond the human five senses nobody really knows anybody at all even if they think they known that person for 20 or 30 years you don't really know that person at all. only that individual and God knows. everyone else is a different expression of that individual, but not the whole person at all. not all men and women are bad ,it not easy to weed out the good from the bad out because they look the same and one cannot do this on their own five senses or to say use their own wits. the waiting game is not easy game to play this can go on for days months or years, I should know but as you wait you might as well learn how to weed these people out and also look into yourself as well to make sure that you're not one of the bad ones either.Remember you're not the only one in the same boat there's plenty of people like yourself in the same boat as well.
#Preach
I want to be single after. But I dont want a wife. What should i do?
Not all women want to get married. What do you want?
@@schahrzadmorgan Sorry for confusion, I want to be a father, But I dont want a wife or get married.
@@richardv9648Adopt a child or foster care and your dream will come true. But before this try to babysit someone so you see if you like it or not.
@@richardv9648 Oh, I see.
@@richardv9648Adopt a child?
Do you need a man or do you need men? Does as a man need a woman or does he need women?
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14:15
So this woman wants to date down… look in the mirror
What's your experience w women?
I am an older Gent, and I am healthy and still going strong sexually ?
Fabulous!!
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