What It Takes To Make A Relationship Work | Love Is Not Enough | Kingsley Okonkwo

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 7 жов 2024
  • Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he teaches "What It Take To Make A Relationship Work | Love Is Not Enough"
    To Join The LDM Academy of Counselors visit ldmonlinecours...
    To Book Counseling: Visit www.ldmwithpk.... or Reach +2348077714412 on WhatsApp
    For Books & Other resources: Visit www.ldmwithpk.... or Reach +2348077714413
    --
    Stay Connected
    Website: ldmwithpk.org
    Instagram: / ldmwithpk
    Twitter: / ldmwithpk
    Facebook: / lovedatingandmarriage
    Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
    Kingsley Okonkwo UA-cam: bit.ly/kingsley...
    Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: / pastorkingsleyokonkwo
    Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: / kingsleypst
    Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: / kingsleypst
    #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon

КОМЕНТАРІ • 355

  • @mariageorge9304
    @mariageorge9304 10 місяців тому +396

    Pastor Kingsley okonkwo is underrated honestly, we need to celebrate him. We're blessed to have you in this Generation.

    • @esenamawudey1619
      @esenamawudey1619 10 місяців тому +8

      We're indeed more than blessed to have him

    • @silasjames3035
      @silasjames3035 10 місяців тому +1

      I agree with u

    • @brightejekwu2469
      @brightejekwu2469 10 місяців тому +10

      Please who underrated him? He is the Pastor of the Youths in the Christendom.

    • @theestherkay
      @theestherkay 10 місяців тому +1

      I totally agree with you 💯

    • @VeraSamuel-kh9vk
      @VeraSamuel-kh9vk 10 місяців тому

      ​@@esenamawudey1619😊p😮😮😮😊😮

  • @feliciajackson7192
    @feliciajackson7192 8 місяців тому +38

    “Don’t use kindness as a strategy, it must be your lifestyle “ I got this 👍

  • @IdowuObadeyi
    @IdowuObadeyi 11 місяців тому +133

    Can't count how many times I literally LAUGHED OUT LOUD, listening to this 😂. Afgha...Afghanistan 😂😂😂. Thanks MoG... 6yrs married and getting better each day together.. God bless you sir

    • @violettachikungu7975
      @violettachikungu7975 10 місяців тому +4

      This man is something else

    • @agnesamitamasinde
      @agnesamitamasinde 10 місяців тому +5

      I heard to repeat the Afghanistan part,afghan afghan 😂😂😂😂that can be a hit😂😅. I love his teachings and the wife, started listening even before I got married and they really shaped me.

    • @Kingly_priest
      @Kingly_priest 10 місяців тому +1

      He is an epitome of wisdom.

    • @ednaoyegunle5428
      @ednaoyegunle5428 10 місяців тому

      @@Kingly_priest u

    • @miriamkiarie8190
      @miriamkiarie8190 9 місяців тому +2

      Afgha has been playing in my head the whole day🤣🤣🤣

  • @lydiayohanna5732
    @lydiayohanna5732 10 місяців тому +31

    Kindness is not a strategy but kindness is a Lifestyle

  • @edokpaigbevictory3622
    @edokpaigbevictory3622 10 місяців тому +35

    Am coming back next year wt my hubby to drop a comment….

  • @daniellegriffiths9342
    @daniellegriffiths9342 6 місяців тому +4

    I usually dread listening to teachings on marriage. I don’t always come away feeling hopeful. Pastor K and First Lady are not like that. I’m able to laugh and learn. Very grateful for their ministry.🙏🏾

  • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
    @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 11 місяців тому +69

    You can surely dance on your wedding day with the knowledge that the wars of marriage will be faced as a TEAM, not ALONE with ENDLESS COUNSELLING together, not only for 6mths before wedding day.
    This guy and his wife, ehn... so blessed to have the WEALTH OF KNOWLEDGE APPLIED by themselves as a testament in these streets of today's generation's relationships!!!🤔
    The Shoe Analogy is perfect:
    Focus on the COMFORT and QUALITY of the shoe you will wear for a lifetime as it is MORE IMPORTANT than LOOKS/BEAUTY.
    #OvercomeYourFeelings💥 #LoveIsNotEnough 💯

  • @prospero9955
    @prospero9955 6 місяців тому +5

    In fact, I feel like sharing all his messages on marriage to the entire world for everyone to have wisdom. He's indeed rich in this. He should be awarded globally about marriage talks.

  • @lujosocakes8834
    @lujosocakes8834 5 місяців тому +4

    I wish my husband will listen to this God

  • @macDonalduzor
    @macDonalduzor 11 місяців тому +49

    If you will succeed in relationship and marriage, you must learn to go beyond your feelings to do what is right.❤❤❤

    • @badujosephdaniel
      @badujosephdaniel 10 місяців тому +1

      💡

    • @kirabogloria2187
      @kirabogloria2187 10 місяців тому +2

      Exactly my dear....we pray that we get to that..thru christ

    • @kirabogloria2187
      @kirabogloria2187 10 місяців тому +2

      U have just gained a subscriber here....much love from 🇺🇬 Uganda

    • @macDonalduzor
      @macDonalduzor 10 місяців тому +1

      @@kirabogloria2187 Thank you for the subscription.

    • @immannadi2876
      @immannadi2876 9 місяців тому +1

      indeed

  • @damilolaadekanmbi2751
    @damilolaadekanmbi2751 4 місяці тому +1

    Lord, thanks for the gifts of Pst. K and Pst. Mildred to the body of Christ. Their teachings are biblical, practical and balanced. May the good Lord continue to bless them and their ministry, Amen.

  • @tungwapemiriam3383
    @tungwapemiriam3383 9 місяців тому +33

    As powerful as fire is, if it has nothing to burn, it goes out. 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you pastor Kingsley for this word.👌🏻

  • @deborahbrobbey1443
    @deborahbrobbey1443 8 місяців тому +7

    I came here immediately after listening to your wife. The knowledge I acquired from her I knew I’ll get even more from you 😌🙏 God bless you both and thank y’all for impacting such knowledge to the generation 👏👏

  • @estheragwang1035
    @estheragwang1035 6 місяців тому +2

    I have only watched 2 videos of pastor Kingsley so far but I must admit am not the same again
    Like seriously I feel empowered
    Imagine taking initiative to listen to his messages more often, it really makes a greater impact to one's life
    God bless this family 🙏🙏🙏

  • @jeremiahdorcaschidimma3036
    @jeremiahdorcaschidimma3036 10 місяців тому +33

    I can't get tired of listening to pastor k...I was privileged to serve in this program last month

  • @chikwenduuchechi2886
    @chikwenduuchechi2886 3 місяці тому +1

    May God Almighty help us we singles on this journey of marriage 🙏

  • @chrischuks7810
    @chrischuks7810 10 місяців тому +13

    Love is all-encompassing. Love is a set of all good and positive things. Affection is a subset of love, understanding is a subset of love, politeness is a subset of love, loyalty is a subset of love, gentleness is a subset of love, kindness is a subset of love, faithfulness is a subset of love, patience is a subset of love etc. All goodness and mercies emanates from love

    • @Realtor_Ola
      @Realtor_Ola 8 місяців тому +2

      I was watching this program on my tv so i couldn’t comment, but i came here to tell you this comment deserves an award, it opened my eyes “LET LOVE LEAD” this “Love” you described is the kind of love that’s in the quote, you are wise, thanks for teaching.

  • @gladysadebusuyi8149
    @gladysadebusuyi8149 4 місяці тому +1

    I wish i saw this on time, i wont have made the mistake i made, but thsnk God it never too late to make a new turn

  • @MaryFlavour-eb6ly
    @MaryFlavour-eb6ly 6 місяців тому +4

    This message is everything a single needs to listen before getting married. Thank you pastors k and M 👏👏👏👏.

  • @esthernjuguna6713
    @esthernjuguna6713 11 місяців тому +33

    Kindness is a "LIFESTYLE" not a strategy 👍🏼👌🏼.

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 7 місяців тому +1

    Nothing but Holy Spirit . My marriage is my ministry ! You have preached it all . 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 7 місяців тому +1

    Afgha!!!! This man do not kill us with laughter . Marriage was never designed for the mood . 😊😊😊😊

  • @joeemmanuel8587
    @joeemmanuel8587 10 місяців тому +7

    This message is what most young people of our generation need to watch and learn from. Rather than blaming what they shouldn't have blamed if they seeked for knowledge.

    • @kirabogloria2187
      @kirabogloria2187 10 місяців тому

      Exactly dea

    • @tofunmiayoola5455
      @tofunmiayoola5455 8 місяців тому +1

      Picture yourself in this message n learn and don't mirror others in it.

  • @blossomzagga941
    @blossomzagga941 10 місяців тому +18

    GOD WILL TRULY BLESS YOU PASTOR K AND PASTOR M. YOUR LABOUR FOR THIS KINGDOM WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN

  • @carolinebirungi4721
    @carolinebirungi4721 6 місяців тому +1

    I celebrate you Dr. Kingsley. Important points here. People think arranged marriages are outdated. Yet they are still important especially in this Era and time. Thank you Dr.

  • @woleolugbenle
    @woleolugbenle 10 місяців тому +45

    Gather here if you are learning relationship is not what the world and culture says but what God determined before time and we will all eat fruits we sow. As for me and my future house, we will serve the lord. Also gather here for potential match :)

    • @tosin.o
      @tosin.o 10 місяців тому +1

      On point human being. Onward Christian soldier...

    • @adakeke3639
      @adakeke3639 9 місяців тому

      True

    • @Olu_tv
      @Olu_tv 2 місяці тому

      ​@@adakeke3639hello

  • @Ella-uk2kv
    @Ella-uk2kv 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank you pastor Kingsley. By God's grace I Kno my marriage wout fail when I get married with how you and your rib has been teaching me. God bless you sir. More grace.

    • @obaalinda8360
      @obaalinda8360 7 місяців тому

      Please can I get the link of the wife. Wants to follow her and learn more

  • @rabeccachabala127
    @rabeccachabala127 7 місяців тому +1

    I don't know how many times I'm listening to this message now but PK is just amazing and funny😂😂😂😂.
    You and PM are truly a blessing, God bless you 🙌🙌

  • @ugochukwuvictorokafor6444
    @ugochukwuvictorokafor6444 7 місяців тому +1

    "Don't use kindness as a strategy, it must be a lifestyle. Kindness should be a lifestyle." 🌟🤝

  • @bernicepopoola8796
    @bernicepopoola8796 9 місяців тому +3

    Thanks so ooooooo much pastor Kingsley, how I wish all single boys are girls can follow your pages before entering into marriage, divorce will definitely reduced to minimum. More grease to your elbow my brother. Heaven is your goal in Jesus mighty name 🙏

  • @NgoziAtitiVlogs
    @NgoziAtitiVlogs 6 місяців тому +1

    Gbam ! i say this always and some people still argue with me, "Love is not enough! period intentionality is key

  • @nkengsandy8658
    @nkengsandy8658 5 місяців тому +1

    Chaiiiii this pastor 🙌 🙏 👏 I pray I have the opportunity to attend one of his conferences.
    It is always a delight 😊

  • @phillipine1
    @phillipine1 7 місяців тому +3

    God bless you Pastor K.
    I dedicated my February to reading your books and listening to your messages. I've been soo blessed thus far 🙏.
    @Kingsley Okonkwo , you are a blessing to our generation Sir 🙏.

  • @ElohorElyanah
    @ElohorElyanah 5 місяців тому +1

    I celebrate you sir@Pst kingsley Okonkwo

  • @adesolaolalere2439
    @adesolaolalere2439 5 місяців тому +1

    🎉 May God continues to make you relevance in the ministry...may your anointing increase daily till eternity.More grace of God...I'm so blessed by your messages.

  • @kendosventures4513
    @kendosventures4513 7 місяців тому +2

    Remain lifted and keep soaring high☝️ ❤️🙏❤️

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 7 місяців тому +1

    Even the desk will tell you that you outgrow the class . Do things in your season .

  • @priscagampyal232
    @priscagampyal232 8 місяців тому +3

    Pst K wounded me severally... Aaaaaahhhhh... I have seen the light. Thank you Pst K and Pst M. I love you so much

  • @MARGRETJOHN080
    @MARGRETJOHN080 10 місяців тому +4

    We thank God for the gift of pst K and pst M for this Generation.
    Thank you MOG...

  • @MarychukwuTV
    @MarychukwuTV 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you PK God will continue to increase your wealth of knowledge in Jesus name

  • @lydiayohanna5732
    @lydiayohanna5732 10 місяців тому +5

    Look beyond the physical and feeling for your marriage to work and also love alone cannot make the marriage work and also you look for common things before and after... Thank you Sir. My marriage will work and succeed in Jesus name Amen 🙌🙌.

  • @mwanamrembo
    @mwanamrembo 10 місяців тому +3

    i know you go far and wide into the nations of the world but truly Africa is blessed to have you and PM. Thank you for heeding to God's call in your life. Blessings from Kenya.

  • @kendosventures4513
    @kendosventures4513 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm blessed with this message from my Dear brother Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo❤

  • @chiaterjapheth
    @chiaterjapheth 8 місяців тому +1

    There are so many things to learn in this message. The problem is selfishness

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 7 місяців тому +1

    Personalities , compatibilities are so important . Marry someone you compatible with .

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 7 місяців тому +1

    You are a helper through and through . Anyone you marry is your venture in life .

  • @oyinkansolaola4598
    @oyinkansolaola4598 10 місяців тому +3

    Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred are huge blessings to this generation.Thank you so much for always giving,may God continually bless you both🙏🙏

  • @JuststartMedia1
    @JuststartMedia1 11 місяців тому +40

    Love is never what will keep you in a marriage. Submission to God and compatibility with your spouse is what keeps your marriage guaranteed. I wish a happy married life to everyone, in Jesus name. Amen🙏❤

  • @florencediya3999
    @florencediya3999 10 місяців тому +12

    Pastor K you are too intelligent 🧠 ! I have learned a lot from your messages , thank you soo much sir. 🙏👌👍👏💃🏿😇💕❤️.

  • @loveokwuokenye6376
    @loveokwuokenye6376 10 місяців тому +1

    Met a man who translates d head to be cultural, funniest thing, he is a member of This church 😊

  • @agnesamitamasinde
    @agnesamitamasinde 10 місяців тому +7

    Wowww!! I really loved this! Thank you pastor kingsley. I started listening to him and his wife even before I got married and they really shaped me. God bless you. But the Afghanistan, Afghan,afghan part got me,had to even repeat it😅😅🤣🤣🤣I shook at my wedding too😂 for a short while

  • @favour_etie
    @favour_etie 10 місяців тому +13

    I heard of a story of a man who said God told him to go and marry another wife. He truly felt and understood it to be another marriage to another woman. He actually did but it backfired on him. Because later God told him on the sick bed. He did not mean another woman. But to build another church /branch. And he began asking God for mercy. Thing is that, it's one thing for God to speak it's another for us to really understand what exactly He means. And you can't understand it by mere human thinking. But go to God and ask , verify "what exactly do you mean by this God" and until you get clarity, don't act out anything.
    Because sometimes, God speaks in parables and it's every where in scriptures. So it's key to go back to God to verify fro Him. Sometimes, if you do not ask Him, He may not tell you anything and you decide to act out of your own will or poor understanding you will most likely miss. It is clear in Proverbs 3:5-7....... Do not lean on your OWN understanding but in ALL , not some of your ways, but in ALL YOUR WAYS ACKNOWLEDGE ME (GOD) THEN, He will direct you .

  • @folakemioluduro
    @folakemioluduro 5 місяців тому +1

    This blessed my life forever ❤

  • @maudlyn25
    @maudlyn25 11 місяців тому +5

    "Two different places by force" chai, got to use this in my sessions ooo

  • @Thedrugexpert
    @Thedrugexpert 7 місяців тому +2

    This message blessed me❤✨ Thank you Jesus for bringing me here

  • @ProductofGodmercy
    @ProductofGodmercy 4 місяці тому

    Pastor Kingsley youre such a blessing 🙌 I'm learning and enjoying at the same time 😅

  • @paulzerina
    @paulzerina 10 місяців тому +10

    Thank you so much Pastor K.❤
    You're really a blessing to our generation, and listening you and Pastor M has made me a better person, and I look forward to having a wonderful marriage.

  • @esthernjuguna6713
    @esthernjuguna6713 11 місяців тому +19

    Interpretate Scripture with Scripture not with "CULTURE".....👌🏼💯.

    • @esthernjuguna6713
      @esthernjuguna6713 5 місяців тому

      @@Nosaomoaghe ...... Excuse me Sir!!!! I am just quoting what Pastor K said as a headline and or most important take away for myself and anyone else who agrees with this comment. This is Christian content there is no need to disparage my comment.....if you feel it is not important to you just move along, with the utmost respect. Thank you 🙏🏼.

  • @KeneilweTshotlhang-lr2pc
    @KeneilweTshotlhang-lr2pc 10 місяців тому +4

    Oh my Jesus, pastor k is anointed with such wisdom from the heavens, and we appreciate the Almighty God for you.

  • @oluwaseunolayera593
    @oluwaseunolayera593 7 місяців тому +2

    I blessed God for coming across this particular video. Immediately i finished praying about God speaking and revealing to me whether to go along with the guy so the Holy Spirit led to watch some videos about relationship and how to know God will. I have watched like 2 before I saw this . I wanted to skip it but the Spirit said calm down and listen first and I thank God I obeyed. Pastor you addressed almost everything that has been given me concerns about this guy, God bless you for yielding to the call of God and impacting our generation.

  • @petersavali814
    @petersavali814 7 місяців тому +2

    Love is not about feeling

  • @CityOnAHill9
    @CityOnAHill9 8 місяців тому +2

    Powerful teaching... Everyone on earth needs to listen to this. Wow!!!

  • @kendosventures4513
    @kendosventures4513 7 місяців тому +2

    Amen and Amen settled! 🙏

  • @taongamakasa9591
    @taongamakasa9591 10 місяців тому +1

    I enjoy your sermons a lot. a few weeks ago I was telling a certain man that a relationship needs more than love to stand and he was looking at me funny. it's true, compatibility is very important.

  • @imodiagloria
    @imodiagloria 22 дні тому +1

    I have laughed so much and learnt so much. Thank you Pr Kingsley

  • @giftelochukwu3542
    @giftelochukwu3542 10 місяців тому +3

    I need grace oh Lord 🤲 to get it right and forever love 🙏

  • @patriciakasenge9927
    @patriciakasenge9927 10 місяців тому +5

    Hallelujah ,I always thank God for your teachings, Pastor Kingsley and Mildred Okwonko❤

  • @angelamartekimarkwei8608
    @angelamartekimarkwei8608 11 місяців тому +3

    Comportability is more important than love

  • @VindicaOnonguekhian
    @VindicaOnonguekhian 4 місяці тому +1

    Watching your videos as blessed Me and helped me understand Marriage better.

  • @briezychips
    @briezychips 4 місяці тому

    Powerful lesson 😊

  • @itohanobarogie1738
    @itohanobarogie1738 6 місяців тому

    I love this message from pastor K thanks sir u are blessed

  • @mirriamnkhatagenti287
    @mirriamnkhatagenti287 11 місяців тому +5

    May the good Lord bless you with more wisdom Pastor Kingsley 🙏

  • @ngwingpenanje
    @ngwingpenanje 2 місяці тому +1

    Great teaching. I recieve grace to be a help meet🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @okechukwuchioma1863
    @okechukwuchioma1863 4 місяці тому

    And yes I was Blessed

  • @MoniqueMulyangote
    @MoniqueMulyangote 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you pastor for such profound teaching that I really needed. This message has made me realise how indifferent I have become to my spouse's need due to some treatment. May God bless and increase you.

    • @Lemi33
      @Lemi33 8 місяців тому

      It takes maturity to realize where you stand. May God give you what you need to fix the misalignment

  • @delight_solutions
    @delight_solutions 11 місяців тому +5

    Pastor Kingsley...I call you blessed ❤

  • @blessingoriaku-g2q
    @blessingoriaku-g2q 7 місяців тому

    God bless you Sir, you are such a blessing to your generation and people around you.

  • @ugwudaniel-z6t
    @ugwudaniel-z6t 7 місяців тому

    I am very much inspired by this sermon thank God for your pastor Kingsley

  • @elizabethObi-i9l
    @elizabethObi-i9l 6 місяців тому

    Sir we are blessed to have you

  • @ngwokechekwube2658
    @ngwokechekwube2658 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you sir and ma

  • @olaoyeifeoluwa5717
    @olaoyeifeoluwa5717 2 місяці тому +1

    I am blessed

  • @kirabogloria2187
    @kirabogloria2187 10 місяців тому +1

    I have loved and enjoyed this wonderful words of wisdom...may God give me a good man ready to be a husband..thx pastor...much love from 🇺🇬 Uganda

  • @lydiaboafo
    @lydiaboafo 4 місяці тому +1

    God bless you Pastor 😇🎉🤩👋👌💪🙌👍🙏

  • @TaalChristy
    @TaalChristy Місяць тому +1

    This is very enjoyable

  • @lyndachinasa6189
    @lyndachinasa6189 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you , you solved my headache by your teaching

  • @GoodnessGarjila
    @GoodnessGarjila 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Sir. I'm so blessed

  • @Amaluv15
    @Amaluv15 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you sir for this message. I have been married for 8 years and still learning.

  • @olaniranifeoluwa6978
    @olaniranifeoluwa6978 10 місяців тому +2

    Oh, I was so blessed! And I laughed hard too 😂. Your anointing will never dry off man of God🙏. I love you sir ❤️

  • @voksari6834
    @voksari6834 6 місяців тому

    This is powerful Sir, more grace

  • @lindawereyesigha7591
    @lindawereyesigha7591 10 місяців тому +2

    I really love you and your wife's honesty in preaching

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy 10 місяців тому +1

    Daddy never dissapoints. Good laugh and good word guaranteed 👌🏾 ❤

  • @kirabogloria2187
    @kirabogloria2187 10 місяців тому +1

    I wish i can join this ....wooow what a wonderful sermon...dating and rship ..woow...we miss such teachings in church...lots ov lv from uganda

  • @chrischuks7810
    @chrischuks7810 10 місяців тому

    Haven't you heard that Love conquers all? Did you think there is a gainsaying to this?
    Love is super enough! Love is the most powerful force in the universe! Love subdues all challenges!

  • @tomisinojo3206
    @tomisinojo3206 10 місяців тому +5

    Putting this message on replay 💯

  • @adeyemijesutola6649
    @adeyemijesutola6649 10 місяців тому +3

    Love is not enough.

  • @Edward-hw8xs
    @Edward-hw8xs 10 місяців тому +2

    Kindness is a "LIFESTYLE " not a strategy 👍

  • @chiagenevievemarah3472
    @chiagenevievemarah3472 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much sir . My God keep blessing you , your wife and children.
    You are building the real church in this crooked and perverse world.

  • @queenlizzy9556
    @queenlizzy9556 6 місяців тому

    The you Pastor K for this message 🙏🙌

  • @RheaEta
    @RheaEta 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much pastor for the insight into relationship issues

  • @ogechukwuoraka2825
    @ogechukwuoraka2825 7 місяців тому +1

    You live up to your tasks that’s why she can t say no, even whn not in the mood.