Best Ways To Handle Conflict In Relationships | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @ngozionyebuchi6754
    @ngozionyebuchi6754 Рік тому +159

    Women talk for affection while men talk for information ,sir u hit the nail on the head
    If u agree with me ,let gather here ❤❤

  • @evek.9022
    @evek.9022 Рік тому +179

    Pastor K. is a Comedian 🤣🤣🤣. I laughed so much while being blessed. He would tell the same story again and again but it will still be funny 😅😅

    • @Hankerleen_Hummpery.1
      @Hankerleen_Hummpery.1 Рік тому +12

      😂😂😂his jokes are always fresh and funny

    • @enejenks3841
      @enejenks3841 Рік тому +5

      As innnnnnn!!!!!!

    • @kadiekamara8461
      @kadiekamara8461 Рік тому +4

      My sister i joined you na 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂He is so funny 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️

    • @nyanibadarko333
      @nyanibadarko333 Рік тому +1

      Yghj😢

    • @kuekodz35
      @kuekodz35 11 місяців тому +2

      I listened to this one as my "going to sleep sermon" for the day, husband was already sleeping, I was laughing throughout I thought i was going to wake him up.😅

  • @sweetestesty
    @sweetestesty 11 місяців тому +41

    "You won't get the best from a woman except you first appeal to her emotionally." Word!

  • @hassanmotunrayo8074
    @hassanmotunrayo8074 Рік тому +53

    Am a Muslim but I love his preaching

    • @Freedom20255
      @Freedom20255 11 місяців тому

      My dear leave Islam. No life in it.

    • @obiageliorji3370
      @obiageliorji3370 11 місяців тому +3

      Please respect all religions. I am a Christian and one of my close friends is a Muslim and she is an excellent friend. I love her regardless. Love is the underlying quality of all religions. So respect and love all. As Christ loved all. Thanks

    • @Freedom20255
      @Freedom20255 11 місяців тому

      @@obiageliorji3370 You are ignorant! You are a Christian without the knowledgeofthe Bible! If your friend dies without Christ they are going to hell fire staight! God's Word can't be change! Truthdoesn't mean disrespect soand sleep! Fom your Bible: John 3:16-18 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
      18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      - Read verse 18and shut up!

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo 11 місяців тому +7

      @@obiageliorji3370 there was no disrespect in the comment. If you are a Christian, your heart must bleed for your Muslim friend. Jesus came that we might have life, and have it in abundance. This dear Muslim man, is on a Christian platform, confident enough to share their religion and that they are finding life in teachings inspired by Christ. Are you a Christian? Because if you are, you’d appreciate the correct spirit in which Hassan was invited to enjoy and experience a life in Christ.

    • @Ray_Chx
      @Ray_Chx 10 місяців тому

      ​@@Freedom20255as what?

  • @renateabi2662
    @renateabi2662 Рік тому +22

    I’m engaged and I must say it’s the perfect time for me to encounter your videos on a deeper level. Thank you so much pastor Sir

  • @sweetestesty
    @sweetestesty 11 місяців тому +17

    Understanding perspectives is the first step to resolving Conflicts. Thank you, PK.

  • @rogersbrandon8474
    @rogersbrandon8474 6 місяців тому +5

    Your parents raised you very well sir😅 you are loaded with wisdom and enthusiasm

  • @hugs2mama425
    @hugs2mama425 Рік тому +28

    Pastor Kingsley you and Pastor Mildred are a blessing to this generation. Thank you.

  • @donmosco4285
    @donmosco4285 Рік тому +9

    This man is a legend , so funny to listen to,i enjoyed literally everything. May God continue to bless you with more wisdom , knowledge and anointing to keep on impacting my generation 🙏

  • @ikehamarachi
    @ikehamarachi Рік тому +5

    Anything that has more than one head is a monster! 🙌🏽

  • @lyndachinasa6189
    @lyndachinasa6189 10 місяців тому +4

    😂😂😂😂😂 pastor thank you for the happiness and laughter you are sharing 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @CordeliaChukwu-pr3xr
    @CordeliaChukwu-pr3xr Рік тому +18

    Pastors K and M are a blessing to many through your impactful teachings. God bless you both.

  • @ojewalesegunraphael8533
    @ojewalesegunraphael8533 10 місяців тому +5

    Thanks somuch for this pastor Kingsley..I have been getting it all wrong all these times. You are speaking directly to me and mine...I will value this lessons for life! Thank you Jesus...way to Go!!!❤

  • @thetaniart
    @thetaniart 8 місяців тому +4

    I need people to know that when PK is giving examples about man and woman's differences, he's talking about good and responsible people. Not some foolish men for example we have that want to marry rich women to live soft life or some women who don't want to work or do anything but still feels she should have a say in a home.
    As PK says always, the church is like a hospital and people shouldn't marry cos they saw someone in church meanwhile his or her life outside that church is like Batman and Bruce Wayne's life.
    As a Muslim, I'm happy you Christians have a man like PK to guide you in marriage because the world is in a mess. I have my Muslim preachers are listen to too like the likes of Mufti Menk and Co but generally I'm happy I'm still alive to listen to honest men of God because the future of our children and grandchildren are not safe at all....there's a lot of work to do to protect them even when we are no more so pls (christians) hold such men very very tight and heed their teachings because many pastors preach based on how the finances can be made and trust me I know....my mother is a Christian so I really do know that we have far more fewer pastors and bishops to just speak the truth and guide another human being to be better.

  • @JokiinJo
    @JokiinJo Рік тому +8

    The sermon was great, but something I've noticed with Pastor K's messages is that they always seem to run out of time and rush the actual topic of the sermon. I was really looking forward to learning more about conflict resolution.

  • @stepheniseyemi2313
    @stepheniseyemi2313 Рік тому +4

    Seriously, "We need to talk" Scares me more dan anything.... Pst. K always on point

    • @blessingekanem6474
      @blessingekanem6474 10 місяців тому

      My husband to be is always scared. When I say “we need to talk”😂

    • @stepheniseyemi2313
      @stepheniseyemi2313 10 місяців тому

      LOL, That word fears most men, cause the thought will be what have i done again@@blessingekanem6474

  • @adegbenrooluwabunmi9113
    @adegbenrooluwabunmi9113 Рік тому +4

    Even this msg will help.parent understand their male children and the female children, so they don't think the male child do not remember them until when they need something unlike the female child

  • @onyinyeokoyeuzu8850
    @onyinyeokoyeuzu8850 Рік тому +6

    Pastor Kingsley and Mildred will always be a blessing to me. ❤Am glad i got to know them even before I will get married, i must have learnt a lot from their wealth of knowledge and experience

  • @emmerogbeide
    @emmerogbeide 6 місяців тому +2

    Pastor K you have just explained a whole lot. Thank you and May God continue to impart wisdom on you.

  • @princessmelthembani7210
    @princessmelthembani7210 21 день тому

    I was blessed and kept me awake from sleeping at wok😂😂😂 God bless this couple 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @olateekay
    @olateekay Місяць тому

    Awareness
    Acceptance
    41:38
    Appreciation 45:31
    Adjustment
    Alternation

  • @KingdomLifeDec
    @KingdomLifeDec Рік тому +2

    I have learned to appreciate veey much that my husband is hrd working and not lazy. He is a great provider. But I still hate not seeing him home every night,because of work😩

  • @runderbongfenepsemiki8210
    @runderbongfenepsemiki8210 Рік тому +6

    I can't get enough of this teaching and illustrations . I felt this was timely and talking directly to me. Chaii, sir, thank you immensely

  • @bukolamodupe6263
    @bukolamodupe6263 Рік тому +7

    No there is special Grace for Pastor Kingsley , couldn’t agree less with everything he said about we the women 😂✨

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo 2 місяці тому

      *agree more. To agree less is to disagree.

  • @kemiore
    @kemiore Рік тому +4

    Just WOW. It's good to know one's calling, prefect it and continually walk in it. Highly blessed!

  • @ekyessien570
    @ekyessien570 Рік тому +4

    P K dey preach sha. Thanks for always giving me advice whenever I need them I just to your channel and search for messages that resonate with my present situation.

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 3 місяці тому

    Praise God for making man and woman different! I therefore bind myself and my god-ordained spouse to desire to understand and accept the differences in preoccupations between man and woman in marriage while binding to hell every lack of desire to understand and accept tge differences in preoccupations between man and woman in marriage, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking desire to understand and accept the differences in preoccupations between man and woman in marriage, in accordance with this word and 1 peter 3:7, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

  • @kemiakogun7667
    @kemiakogun7667 9 місяців тому

    😂😂😂😂absolutely love listening to pastor K. I laugh and learn at the same time.😂😂😂

  • @nwankwonkechi6557
    @nwankwonkechi6557 Рік тому +2

    We love you Pastor K. Thank you for making us smile.
    God bless you and your wife for this wonderful teaching.

  • @nwachanglory6723
    @nwachanglory6723 7 місяців тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Thank you so much.... I've indeed have perspective and extremely bless.
    As a single, I've breakup with guys due to "undiluted altitude" as per my thoughts resulting from my ignorance about such vital information and was about to do same with the present guy thinking he making everything up . And now, i bless Almighty God for leading me to your soul uplifting message (s). Thank you so much Pastor. Am Bless and redeem from the power of ignorance all thanks to you.
    God bless you glorious with more heavenly blessings in Jesus mighty name,AMEN🙏🙏🙏

  • @kellyamouzou7278
    @kellyamouzou7278 Рік тому +2

    Running this one back twice! Thank you so much Pastor K, more blessings on your mission to help and educate us on important skills and tools for a successful kingdom marriage 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
    And thank you so much for the laughter!! 😂

  • @ibingoshuaibubok5610
    @ibingoshuaibubok5610 11 місяців тому +2

    God bless you Pst K, this was exhilarating, satisfying and kept me glued. If I'd known some of these facts I would have made adjustments long ago but it is never too late. God bless you Sir and cause your ministry to continue to flourish in the name of JESUS CHRIST AMEN

  • @sundaystella8023
    @sundaystella8023 Рік тому +2

    Pastor k is just the best…. Much love pastor M❤️🙌

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 9 місяців тому

    Just go straight to the point ! Lol A man just gave a place to be touched ! 😊

  • @flondah4380
    @flondah4380 Рік тому +3

    Complete message
    From Cameroon

  • @mammatehilapr5443
    @mammatehilapr5443 Рік тому +4

    Waaaooouuuh ! I realy like your teaching PK. ❤😂

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 9 місяців тому

    Pastor K . I respect you , you know your stuff . More anointing , God bless your ministry . ❤❤🙏🏾👏👏

  • @jollynansubuga7796
    @jollynansubuga7796 Рік тому +1

    Long live pr kingsley

  • @LauraKingsley-r5q
    @LauraKingsley-r5q Рік тому +2

    Even from conception, the xx is fast and lives longer while xy is very slow and dies off quickly.

  • @kennyshairdoafroeuropean4525
    @kennyshairdoafroeuropean4525 Рік тому +2

    I love your preaching sir. You are funny😂

  • @VeryVicky
    @VeryVicky Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much pastor K. For the dispensation of this knowledge.This need to be taught in every church because many marriages are in conflict due to lack of this knowledge. I am blessed and l had so much fun.

  • @FelixPatrick-k5j
    @FelixPatrick-k5j 7 місяців тому

    May God gives us wisdom to succeed in our marriage

  • @adinduoluchukwu5136
    @adinduoluchukwu5136 8 місяців тому

    Hmmmmmmm thank you pst K and pst M am blessed with this teaching

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy Рік тому +4

    Men nko? Mummy already said they didn't dey💀🤣😂😂
    Enjoyed every bit of every second ❤❤❤

  • @joshuapeter14794
    @joshuapeter14794 Рік тому +2

    Whenever I listen to PK I always feel blessed 😊 and motivated. God bless u sir and more wisdom for u 🙏🏾

  • @marianaharita8834
    @marianaharita8834 Місяць тому

    I really enjoyed this teaching 🙏

  • @Priscilla_Oseremen
    @Priscilla_Oseremen Рік тому +4

    This teaching is a blessing to me ✨I thank God I came across it….. at the right time⏰

  • @EstherEmmanuel-fl2oe
    @EstherEmmanuel-fl2oe 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Pastor. I'm blessed by your practical message.

  • @Nonye17
    @Nonye17 6 місяців тому

    Your message always blessess my soul. More wisdom Daddy.

  • @MillicentChukwuma
    @MillicentChukwuma 6 місяців тому

    I love listening to pst K

  • @mwanamrembo
    @mwanamrembo Рік тому +2

    EXCELLENT! In fact it was too short for me. Thank you for putting it all into perspective as you always do. Your teaching style helps me connect easily because I can relate. I see it in my relationship with the male. God bless you . Keep enlightening us. Blessings from Kenya.

  • @JoanWanjikuwatenga-fp5wz
    @JoanWanjikuwatenga-fp5wz 8 місяців тому

    I have listened to this soo many times ❤❤

  • @StellaOluchi-v4s
    @StellaOluchi-v4s Рік тому +2

    pastor k, you're full of wisdom, you and pastor m have been a blessing to me.

  • @ob312100
    @ob312100 Рік тому +1

    Wowwwwwww. Powerful. Thank you Sir❤. Such a blessing

  • @MhizroseEtim
    @MhizroseEtim 9 місяців тому

    Just when I needed this message
    Thank you pastor K🙌🙌

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 Рік тому +2

    You are funny I was laughing all the way, but Thank you I am not married as yet

  • @Bella-u3z
    @Bella-u3z Рік тому +1

    Pastor Kingsley thank you so much your good work ❤

  • @Obby_channel24
    @Obby_channel24 Рік тому +2

    Am so blessed Listening to you sir

  • @antemelizabeth4543
    @antemelizabeth4543 Рік тому +2

    Am blessed to know you pastor k

  • @modestermbah4881
    @modestermbah4881 9 місяців тому

    God bless you pastor k my mind has been renewed

  • @olamy8403
    @olamy8403 11 місяців тому

    Aweome....so true yet hilarious....sooooo true....This is indeed your ministry!
    That chewing gum story in Dubai is super hilarious

  • @Jjjjjmnn2910
    @Jjjjjmnn2910 Рік тому +2

    This words are not just hilarious but very informative on or before marriage. Thank you sir!!!

  • @bankoleolufunke3909
    @bankoleolufunke3909 8 місяців тому

    Enjoying these so real

  • @monicamburugu9815
    @monicamburugu9815 11 місяців тому

    God bless you pastor Kingsley and Mildred. You inspire me every time you speak.

  • @faithomolara3172
    @faithomolara3172 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much sir....I have been blessed by all your teaching 🙏

  • @perpetualgbesemete6678
    @perpetualgbesemete6678 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the teaching
    I'm much enlightened

  • @bukiehuldah
    @bukiehuldah Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much Pastor K for your insight. I am always blessed and enlightened whenever I listen to you. God bless you sir.

  • @rudomwadiwa2183
    @rudomwadiwa2183 9 місяців тому

    Wow, knowledge indeed profiteth much

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa7017 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Papa for sharing your wisdom. I enjoyed every bit of it, insightful and interesting.
    More grace Sir!!! 😊🙏🙏♥️

  • @amutamercy143
    @amutamercy143 9 місяців тому

    Thank you sir. I'm blessed

  • @tahmichealineanim6941
    @tahmichealineanim6941 8 місяців тому

    I'm blessed sir.

  • @janemwanu6228
    @janemwanu6228 Рік тому

    Very enlightening but also funny 😂😂😂😂😂 which makes it very interesting 😅

  • @funmilayogbokoyi7363
    @funmilayogbokoyi7363 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this message sir
    I was richly blessed

  • @bellosudya2690
    @bellosudya2690 10 місяців тому

    Thank you sir and ma, i recently started following you, and im truly blessed

  • @Nathaniel_MD
    @Nathaniel_MD Рік тому +2

    Thank you very much for this message. God bless you. 🙏🏾❤

  • @fredrickkiwala6767
    @fredrickkiwala6767 Рік тому

    Powerful,,,, pastor K,,,,,I have received more than I expected 🎉🎉❤❤❤God continue to bless you

  • @amourelove475
    @amourelove475 10 місяців тому +1

    Too much wisdom

  • @Dovelyte10
    @Dovelyte10 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for your good work sir

  • @EstherFaithAmoding21-xj7cp
    @EstherFaithAmoding21-xj7cp 22 дні тому

    This man😂😂😂😂has made while blessing me

  • @joshuaolutoke
    @joshuaolutoke Рік тому

    Respect Pastor Kingsley.😅❤

  • @wealthmiracleofficial
    @wealthmiracleofficial Рік тому +1

    Pastor K, I think women blame MEN for everything and not the other way round.

  • @oluwadamilareblossom7612
    @oluwadamilareblossom7612 4 місяці тому

    This message!!!! 👏

  • @sandraezejianyaele
    @sandraezejianyaele Рік тому

    This topic is a very crucial one in marriage and pst.k as always nailed it. Your fun way of teaching is always commendable.

  • @ubamiidris
    @ubamiidris Рік тому

    Wow... Pastor k. This is really impactful. I'm blessed 😅

  • @maydvicky3316
    @maydvicky3316 Рік тому

    Pastor K is knowledgeable

  • @theresanamonje
    @theresanamonje 10 місяців тому

    Very informative and interesting, thank you Sir🙏🏽

  • @victoirek.esther2641
    @victoirek.esther2641 Рік тому

    Always blessed listening to PK

  • @gingerb9997
    @gingerb9997 Рік тому +1

    😂😂pastor is soooo right about savers.....i am a big saver

  • @ericaharris4728
    @ericaharris4728 5 місяців тому

    On point message

  • @ifyrose2943
    @ifyrose2943 Рік тому

    Oh my God! This is so impactful

  • @jmadume07
    @jmadume07 9 місяців тому

    Good teaching. May God continue to minister to and through this ministry for his glory. Just to stir up a healthy discussion, I like to add that I agree with things are done differently in the various homes people were brought up. Amongst many example is the issue of shouting to say hello or shouting just having a discussion loool. My comment now is that, should we not also teach on what can be agreed as the right way or a better way to do things in alignment with the word. For example, am sure the bible teaches about be considerate about others. So I find shouting during conversations, especially in public areas not a considerate thing to do. That's why some have issues in the office, house share and even relationships because it's almost the norm for people in our part of the world (Nigeria) to be so loud during conversation. Even though the person is right next to you looool. Ps: I know it's not just part of our world that do such lool.
    Anyways just thinking out loud.

  • @chidocleopatraspears7899
    @chidocleopatraspears7899 Рік тому

    Thank you for the profound teaching Pst K

  • @VictoriaEzenwa-xd3qb
    @VictoriaEzenwa-xd3qb 10 місяців тому

    Pastor K, you're meeting a need in this generation

  • @FelixPatrick-k5j
    @FelixPatrick-k5j 7 місяців тому

    Pst k, thank you

  • @lucyphiri7352
    @lucyphiri7352 Рік тому

    You have wisdom and sense of humor too... Keep up!🥰👏😁

  • @somtoowinifred9128
    @somtoowinifred9128 Рік тому

    Thank you P.K your teachings give me a whole different perspective everytime.

  • @ADENIYI-MERCY-ADEOLA
    @ADENIYI-MERCY-ADEOLA Рік тому

    God bless PK

  • @judithdamoahawere736
    @judithdamoahawere736 Рік тому

    Thank you so much Ps. K. May God bless and keep you. 🙏🏾

  • @annysolomon7370
    @annysolomon7370 Рік тому

    Preach!!! Pastor Preach

  • @alichristy2031
    @alichristy2031 Рік тому

    Thank you sir I came across this and I enjoyed it 🙌 🙏