Beautiful speech. My husband was not my "spec" neither was I his "spec" but our CORE VALUES are the SAME! I married him becos he is born again, loves God, lives his life according to God's principle, has a good heart, kind, generous, very loyal, 100% committed, hardworking, from a good family ( All his siblings are born again, happily married and very decent in their marriage) ,trust worthy, and loves me . As a smart babe, I threw away "spec" from my head, married him and after all these many years and children am still one of the happiest married woman alive. My husband has remained the same and we have a happy marriage. Who "spec" help?????? Tall and handsome does not give you a good marriage!!!
I was so blinded in my lately relationship. And i can't stop thanking my Jesus for saving me from that total mess... I agree Love isn't enough to settle. A man that can't be afraid to sin with you or fear God isn't the one. A man that lies his mom in front of you will do so in mariage with you! Whatever he is kind or generous or hardworking or bright or loving, as long as he does not fear the word of the Lord, he's not the one. Thanks God again. May i also behave such a way to please God and follow his rules the same way i desire my husband to be! 🙏
I'm just 18 and with the knowledge Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred has instilled in me...I cannot make mistakes in this life o😂 not just in relationships but in every area of my life. Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley you're indeed a blessing to this generation and I know that I'll be a blessing like this 😇 God bless you
Thank you DR RORPOPOR HERBAL on UA-cam for restoring back my peace, joy and happiness, your herbal supplement really make me great now, am a complete woman
I didn't "love" my man but we were great friends, hangout buddies & gist partners. I wasn't emotionally, sexually & financially attracted to him but him LOVING me(he said he loved me from the first day he saw me) & ticking off the boxes of a GOOD CHRISTIAN MAN in character(a man after God's heart, kind, generous, loving, funny, playful, patient, a provider, prayerful, kind, etc) made me love him. Truthfully there were no butterflies or mushy mushy feelings in me. 3years of beings friends, we got married. He is now everything & I still wonder why my eyes weren't opened even though at times it feels like I don't love him cos of the way love is portrayed in movies. I feel I don't have any of the symptoms 😂😂 Truly you LOVE who you marry, everything is flexible & its all about what you value(a good Christian man- PEACE OF MIND) ❤🎯🎯
Hi. How are you? So, this really got my attention because, I can almost relate hundred percent. My question is , in all honesty you never regreted being with him despite not having those symptoms? And weren't there people you had love 😅kind of symptoms for around or had those thoughts of , waiting till you find a person who gives you those symptoms? Your honest response will really be of help.
I believe God really loved you enough to not allow you to miss him for someone else. I know people usually despise someone and that chance passes when one of then get someone else.
Don't worry God will bring someone good your way since you realised. That's exactly what he's saying. We waste people's time that wanted to marry us on a platter of Gold, good people that originally would have cherished us.
I will soon be married, and I can attest to all of these. I thank God for the Holy Spirit for opening my eyes to what love is and what marriage is some 3years ago. Then now He connected me to His servants who speak the truth of the word of God. Thank you Father for training both me and my husband to be.
Hearing and doing are two different thing... Some people have made up they mind to do what their want to do. Giving advice to someone who is in love is a waste of time and energy. Pastor k. I celebrate your discipline and Grace Sir.
This man and his wife have indeed helped my life all round, 360. They touch all the part of my life, and i have indeed developed so much compared to the me in 2020. Praise God for their lives.
Look for real qualities in a man 1. Caring 2.Listens 3.Generous 4.Faithful 5. Respect the things of god 6.Honest 7.Deceitful 8.Set boundaries 9. Do premarital counselling Manage ur emotions 1.knowledge 2.control your thoughts 3.(
Am dating one awesome man and yesterday I had a conflicting thought about us and i talked to God in my house.. I used pst M direction she said just talk to God like your dad no tension no grammar so i did❤ and i told God I need some serious guidance and this video today is God speaking to me.. I was only conflicted because of this notion that my man has to call me and i have to feel him 24hrs... I've been brainwashed😅😂😂 damn pastor I will carry my love and give the one God has given me Ooooh.. I pray for grace to manage my emotions
Hearing you speak I am comfortable ,cause I really don’t genuinely love the man am with but he loves the things of God and he is a man of full respect and he shows me respect which is projected from loving God. So I believe am on the right part . God is our center priority and source of togetherness
Thank you DR RORPOPOR HERBAL on UA-cam for restoring back my peace, joy and happiness, your herbal supplement really make me great now, am a complete woman
" Love is not so much an emotional decision but rather a practical decision " This is so true because while I am walking up and down looking for one true love all my Indian friends had arranged marriages where their parents just send them pictures of different men and if they are happy within 3 months they are married. Truly they all say the same thing, that the love will come after marriage. Maybe we really need to go back to the arranged marriage practice because this looking for husband by yourself sometimes just does not work especially in this UK, where all everybody does is to work, work and work. If there is anything that I learnt in the lockdown in the UK i it s that companionship truly matters because loneliness is real. I don't care how great your life is or how much you earn at the end of the day you cannot even say I have lots of friends because they have their family as well
You are so correct, the problem with our generation is that we lie to ourselves. The society we live in now pretend and smile while dieing in pain. This is our greatest problem, and it has made the men to lie to much and deceive the ladies left right and centre. The funny thing is this stupid society will still support the men with the bad characters.
Thank you Pastor K. But for those of us abroad, getting a man who shares our values is not easy. So we're not single necessarily because we're looking for "one true love" but because of scarcity of good men
This message has liberated me, it has set me free, it’s an eye opener, it made me know how valuable I’m, I’m so grateful I came across this message. God bless you man of God.
So powerful,,, this message is also for men,, we have some loose knowledge of what love is, and the difference it has from emotions,,, Thank you sir,, I WON'T FAIL IN MARRIAGE, MY AMEN IS SITTING TO LEARN
dear lord, i love you i thank you..you are so intentional about me... i started dating early so i learnt earlier..you allowed me go through all that so that i will have the mindset and wisdom ..i have today..thank you lord!! i ll love wnd worship you forever..me and my family!!
Pastor K this your message came with variations of emotions. I laughed, remembered, and learned. God bless you. "You have to fight for your place" took me out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ah ah. Are you here somebody🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊.
Thank you sir for this teaching. U are not just a pastor but a teacher, preacher and all. May God bless and strength you in all Area. Thank u sir am very blessed with ur teaching sir more grace
God bless you pastor K. You've opened my eyes of understanding about choosing the right man for me. Learning to control my emotions is one key thing I'm leaving with today
So much insights...Kai🤭 Plus your humour during your teachings. Your teachings are held tight.They keep changing my mindset. God bless you PK for blessing me time and time again.
Looking for the one you love is dangerous because what people are actually doing is, forming deep emotional bonds. The kind that is healthy between Mother and child. This is why a Mother will always be there for their child. Now imagine being a girl and loving a boy like that. Won’t he play your head? That is a bond he didn’t deserve. Love must be an after effect of a man who has shown himself to be an effective useful compatible provider protecter, lover and leader to you.
Powerful and very practical message as always. Plus I love the humour you bring to your messages pastor K. God bless and fill you with more wisdom IJMNA.
I thank God for this message. God used this message to open my eyes.... God answers prayers in diverse ways. If I say I am not grateful ehn, I would be lying. May you both not lose your relevance in Jesus.
@Delphine Iracyadukunda I have tried replying you more than 4 good times but it doesn't save. Don't know what's happening‼️ Saying this incase you get alot of replies saying same words & I legit explained it in details but atm I don't have strength to retype it 😭😭😭😭 i which UA-cam does VN. Like I said we were friends so there wasn't room to regret & I legit had PEOPLE who gave the symptoms but they did things that humans shouldn't do & they claimed they are Christians. Las las PEACE OF MIND ❤ & true HAPPINESS is 🔑
Am the most fortunate to hear this talk God bless you with more wisdom knowledge and understanding Sir thanks for the powerful and relevant message 😊 indeed am blessed 🙌 🙏
Thank you Man of God for this teaching, I will listen to it over and over,it has really opened my mind and I am truly Blessed. The wisdom you have poured out is so profound🙌🏽God Richly Bless You!
This message is really powerful. It has opened my understanding on soo many things. Thank U so much Sir and May God increase His knowledge and wisdom in U.
Beautiful speech. My husband was not my "spec" neither was I his "spec" but our CORE VALUES are the SAME!
I married him becos he is born again, loves God, lives his life according to God's principle, has a good heart, kind, generous, very loyal, 100% committed, hardworking, from a good family ( All his siblings are born again, happily married and very decent in their marriage) ,trust worthy, and loves me .
As a smart babe, I threw away "spec" from my head, married him and after all these many years and children am still one of the happiest married woman alive. My husband has remained the same and we have a happy marriage.
Who "spec" help?????? Tall and handsome does not give you a good marriage!!!
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Thank you very much for this comment, I learnt alot from it. May God keep your home.
I love this comment.i am trying to learn not to marry cox of spec .God help me
God please help me to stop looking at fine man oooh before I even date faaaa spec shouldn't be the main thing but core values oo
Amen to this Sis!! God bless your home.
I was so blinded in my lately relationship. And i can't stop thanking my Jesus for saving me from that total mess... I agree Love isn't enough to settle. A man that can't be afraid to sin with you or fear God isn't the one. A man that lies his mom in front of you will do so in mariage with you! Whatever he is kind or generous or hardworking or bright or loving, as long as he does not fear the word of the Lord, he's not the one. Thanks God again. May i also behave such a way to please God and follow his rules the same way i desire my husband to be! 🙏
Almost this same story like mine.
Virtual hug sis
Place on
Nice ideology.
May God ALMIGHTY help us in Jesus name Amen.
Amen
I'm just 18 and with the knowledge Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred has instilled in me...I cannot make mistakes in this life o😂 not just in relationships but in every area of my life. Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley you're indeed a blessing to this generation and I know that I'll be a blessing like this 😇 God bless you
Me too❤️
Asin❤❤❤. God bless PK and PM
Please hold all the teachings tight
Don't dismiss them when proposals start coming..mehn! I wish I knew earlier. We thank God for Christ Jesus 🙇🙇🙇
Me too Ohhh 😌🔥 we are just blessed to know such things at a young age
God bless you my dear, you are so lucky to be young at a time such as this with so much knowledge...You will not make any mistake in Jesus Name.
When the title started with "Don't build on love", I just knew that this table will be completely shattered to dust 😂😂😂
Thank you DR RORPOPOR HERBAL on UA-cam for restoring back my peace, joy and happiness, your herbal supplement really make me great now, am a complete woman
I didn't "love" my man but we were great friends, hangout buddies & gist partners.
I wasn't emotionally, sexually & financially attracted to him but him LOVING me(he said he loved me from the first day he saw me) & ticking off the boxes of a GOOD CHRISTIAN MAN in character(a man after God's heart, kind, generous, loving, funny, playful, patient, a provider, prayerful, kind, etc) made me love him.
Truthfully there were no butterflies or mushy mushy feelings in me. 3years of beings friends, we got married. He is now everything & I still wonder why my eyes weren't opened even though at times it feels like I don't love him cos of the way love is portrayed in movies. I feel I don't have any of the symptoms 😂😂
Truly you LOVE who you marry, everything is flexible & its all about what you value(a good Christian man- PEACE OF MIND) ❤🎯🎯
Awww beautiful
Hmmm
Hi. How are you?
So, this really got my attention because, I can almost relate hundred percent. My question is , in all honesty you never regreted being with him despite not having those symptoms? And weren't there people you had love 😅kind of symptoms for around or had those thoughts of , waiting till you find a person who gives you those symptoms? Your honest response will really be of help.
Very true
I believe God really loved you enough to not allow you to miss him for someone else. I know people usually despise someone and that chance passes when one of then get someone else.
I lost a good man I swear. But I know God will forgive me. And bless me as his sending another my way.
Me too darling..it's really painful..but soulmates are many thou rare
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Don't worry God will bring someone good your way since you realised. That's exactly what he's saying. We waste people's time that wanted to marry us on a platter of Gold, good people that originally would have cherished us.
My dear pray ooo he’s not gone but you had to learn/ experience!! Pray for his come back, if truly God will grant you another chance!!
You were all doing shakara abi?
People are servicing themselves outside marriage that's why they don't see the need to get married - PK
I will soon be married, and I can attest to all of these. I thank God for the Holy Spirit for opening my eyes to what love is and what marriage is some 3years ago. Then now He connected me to His servants who speak the truth of the word of God. Thank you Father for training both me and my husband to be.
No doubt this man was sent by the Almighty God.
Hearing and doing are two different thing...
Some people have made up they mind to do what their want to do.
Giving advice to someone who is in love is a waste of time and energy.
Pastor k. I celebrate your discipline and Grace Sir.
As much as I really enjoyed the humour, this was a very deep and well timed message for me. Thank you Pastor 🙏
This man and his wife have indeed helped my life all round, 360. They touch all the part of my life, and i have indeed developed so much compared to the me in 2020. Praise God for their lives.
A woman can only build a man who has wisdom.
Thank you Jesus for this message. I need help . 40 and still waiting. 😊😊😊 need this message. Thank you Sir
Your waiting not in vain ooh 🙌☺️ you will have a happy blessed marriage 🙏🏾🥰
You are continually strengthened and Father will give you the best! Keep enjoying singleness in wait. My prayers are with you! ❤️❤️
It is well
Look for real qualities in a man
1. Caring
2.Listens
3.Generous
4.Faithful
5. Respect the things of god
6.Honest
7.Deceitful
8.Set boundaries
9. Do premarital counselling
Manage ur emotions
1.knowledge
2.control your thoughts
3.(
Am dating one awesome man and yesterday I had a conflicting thought about us and i talked to God in my house.. I used pst M direction she said just talk to God like your dad no tension no grammar so i did❤ and i told God I need some serious guidance and this video today is God speaking to me.. I was only conflicted because of this notion that my man has to call me and i have to feel him 24hrs... I've been brainwashed😅😂😂 damn pastor I will carry my love and give the one God has given me Ooooh.. I pray for grace to manage my emotions
I wish I heard this message in my 20s😢😢 never the less is not too late.
Hearing you speak I am comfortable ,cause I really don’t genuinely love the man am with but he loves the things of God and he is a man of full respect and he shows me respect which is projected from loving God. So I believe am on the right part . God is our center priority and source of togetherness
Thank you DR RORPOPOR HERBAL on UA-cam for restoring back my peace, joy and happiness, your herbal supplement really make me great now, am a complete woman
Contact DR RORPOPOR HERBAL with this link and get Cured totally 👇🌿
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This is so true .I had a worldly view of love which I missed out on good men because I am thinking love is a feeling. Wow thank you Lord for truth 🙏
" Love is not so much an emotional decision but rather a practical decision " This is so true because while I am walking up and down looking for one true love all my Indian friends had arranged marriages where their parents just send them pictures of different men and if they are happy within 3 months they are married. Truly they all say the same thing, that the love will come after marriage. Maybe we really need to go back to the arranged marriage practice because this looking for husband by yourself sometimes just does not work especially in this UK, where all everybody does is to work, work and work. If there is anything that I learnt in the lockdown in the UK i it s that companionship truly matters because loneliness is real. I don't care how great your life is or how much you earn at the end of the day you cannot even say I have lots of friends because they have their family as well
So true
You’ve just read and repeated everything on my mind ..
You are so correct, the problem with our generation is that we lie to ourselves. The society we live in now pretend and smile while dieing in pain. This is our greatest problem, and it has made the men to lie to much and deceive the ladies left right and centre. The funny thing is this stupid society will still support the men with the bad characters.
This is absolutely correct.
You've detailed my thoughts so well.
I think pastor K and M shld come to 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 because we need more of this Melody about marriages. Thanks for the message Pastor
I know right, we surely do need them for a week plus
Loyal, kind, faithful, a provider, generous , accountable, honest, visionary, fearing, hardworking, a protector.
I wish I could give 100 likes to this video...God bless you sir, the teachings have really changed my mindset
I need to give Pastor K a proper offering ooooh. What a message ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is a deliverance for my mindset! Truly blessed
Pastor Kinsley was too loud with this one...😂😂. Just the right amount of violence we needed. 😂😂😂😂
This was funny and VERY deep.I'm going to choose WISELY this time around by God's grace;mid 30's or not!!!Thank you Pastor K
For every time I watch any of Pastor Kingsley's message; I'm always grateful.. Thank you so much Sir
More ppl need this information. Help young people find good Godly partner and marriages.
Thank you Pastor K. But for those of us abroad, getting a man who shares our values is not easy. So we're not single necessarily because we're looking for "one true love" but because of scarcity of good men
This message has liberated me, it has set me free, it’s an eye opener, it made me know how valuable I’m, I’m so grateful I came across this message. God bless you man of God.
All we need is generous men not rich men #word
Not all ladies...my list of qualities relates to character and God not superficial but I appreciate this may relate to some women...
Hmmn... Your emotion grow based on information you hear... What you value... Your affection follows what you value... Thanks a lot, Pastor K
Awesome timely word and reminder. God bless you man of God. This message will save and reroute many ladies. He who has ears let him hear...
So powerful,,, this message is also for men,, we have some loose knowledge of what love is, and the difference it has from emotions,,, Thank you sir,, I WON'T FAIL IN MARRIAGE, MY AMEN IS SITTING TO LEARN
dear lord, i love you i thank you..you are so intentional about me... i started dating early so i learnt earlier..you allowed me go through all that so that i will have the mindset and wisdom ..i have today..thank you lord!! i ll love wnd worship you forever..me and my family!!
Pastor K this your message came with variations of emotions. I laughed, remembered, and learned. God bless you. "You have to fight for your place" took me out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ah ah. Are you here somebody🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊.
Why am I just hearing this now. It's not fair😣😭😢
Thank you sir for this teaching. U are not just a pastor but a teacher, preacher and all. May God bless and strength you in all Area. Thank u sir am very blessed with ur teaching sir more grace
Very beautiful message. God bless you for opening our eyes as women in this present generation!
God bless you pastor K. You've opened my eyes of understanding about choosing the right man for me. Learning to control my emotions is one key thing I'm leaving with today
Thank you Pastor K. I have learnt a great deal from you. I just wish more women would see this and learn.
God bless you, Past. K.
The Holy Spirit is still working on us
So much insights...Kai🤭
Plus your humour during your teachings.
Your teachings are held tight.They keep changing my mindset.
God bless you PK for blessing me time and time again.
I am so so blessed listening to this sir
Thank you PK for opening my eyes to see were am getting it wrong, everytime I listen to you there is always a lesson.
This message is indeed for me, it has just reset my brain from being lost
Looking for the one you love is dangerous because what people are actually doing is, forming deep emotional bonds. The kind that is healthy between Mother and child. This is why a Mother will always be there for their child. Now imagine being a girl and loving a boy like that. Won’t he play your head? That is a bond he didn’t deserve. Love must be an after effect of a man who has shown himself to be an effective useful compatible provider protecter, lover and leader to you.
Pastor K I pray for God's continuous health upon your life, may he keep you and keep enlightening you to enlighten us. Amen.
This message is so much needed in times like this. Thank you Sir for this teaching. You have opened a lot of peoples eyes.
I love Ps King rain or shine.
I want a house where a can sleep. I'll plant a pineapple. I will plant orange. Great words, Pastor K
Powerful and very practical message as always. Plus I love the humour you bring to your messages pastor K. God bless and fill you with more wisdom IJMNA.
Preach pastor❤❤ i could listening to u 24/7
Praise God for this message 🙌 🙏 from East Africa 🇺🇬 .
Wow 🤩 PK really saw my heart 💓 and sang that song that way I sing 🎤 “somebody son done find me” Jesus first and then hubby 😊
Somebody’s son done found me 👏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾
I appreciate pastor am a young adult and am definitely learning a lot n hopefully making good decisions that wil yield good results
I feel so blessed for listening to this message. It might be able an old message but It is a new message to me
Greatly Awesome!!!
Thank you pastor K. I must control my emotions so that I will marriage the right person
God bless you Pastor K more grace for you sir you are a blessing to the body of Christ and to the families of the earth
Thank you sir 4 waking me up to dis realities, God bless & increase you to kip impacting lives
This is so impactful. I was blessed. More anointing Pastor K
Beautiful message! More grace sir!
I thank God for this message. God used this message to open my eyes.... God answers prayers in diverse ways. If I say I am not grateful ehn, I would be lying. May you both not lose your relevance in Jesus.
This is the best message I have listened to in years
U are very right sir, it's seems this generation aren't thinking deep, they just to things to impress people instead of fulfilling God's will
A real eye opener. God bless you Pastor K 🙏🏽
Thanks so much Pastor K... Listening to you over the years has made me so responsible of my emotions.
Wow🙌🙌🙌🙌and because of this word I believe a lot are about to enter into their new season in Jesus name 💯🙌. Thank you pastor sir. May God bless you.
@Delphine Iracyadukunda I have tried replying you more than 4 good times but it doesn't save.
Don't know what's happening‼️ Saying this incase you get alot of replies saying same words & I legit explained it in details but atm I don't have strength to retype it 😭😭😭😭 i which UA-cam does VN.
Like I said we were friends so there wasn't room to regret & I legit had PEOPLE who gave the symptoms but they did things that humans shouldn't do & they claimed they are Christians.
Las las PEACE OF MIND ❤ & true HAPPINESS is 🔑
Wow thank you for this presentation pastor...been broken left right center I really needed to hear this.
Pastor K!!!! May God continually bless you. Your words have changed my thinking.
I'm a guy here but I learnt a lot. God bless you. Everything you said is just on-point 🤏
Forever grateful i bumped to pastor k and pastor m....love from kenya
Wahoo! This message is a master piece. A soul touching one- thanks to God and to pastor and his family, from Liberia 🇱🇷
This is counseling was amazing 👏 ! God's bless you man of God
This is the good stuff
I like you pastor K. Okonkwo. You have a good sense of humor. God bless you for your counseling. I am holding on fast to it.
God is really using you Sir... I'm so Grateful. More Grace Sir♥️♥️♥️
Am the most fortunate to hear this talk God bless you with more wisdom knowledge and understanding Sir thanks for the powerful and relevant message 😊 indeed am blessed 🙌 🙏
I am so blessed by this exposure. God bless you man of God for sharing this wisdom. I can't make mistakes in relationship again. So help me God
Thank you Man of God for this teaching, I will listen to it over and over,it has really opened my mind and I am truly Blessed. The wisdom you have poured out is so profound🙌🏽God Richly Bless You!
You are so real. You just realese my mind .....may God keep annoiting u pastor K
This message is really powerful. It has opened my understanding on soo many things. Thank U so much Sir and May God increase His knowledge and wisdom in U.
Thanks for simple common sense message that lacking in this day and age
This has really changed my life,may u continue with the same spirit
Powerful message! More grace sir🙏🏿
Pastor K is always indepth
Am truly blessed, learnt alot....Also what i have remembered that" NEVER LET YOUR EMOTIONS CLOUD YOUR JUDGEMENT "
Be Blessed Sir 😊🙏🏻
This is just me.... They've really opened my eyes to alot, I'm just so in love with this two pastor & wife.
Pastor Kingsley you are a blessing to our generation, thank you very much more Grace sir,
Thank you Sir for this message this has really changed my thoughts towards my perception about whom to chose as a life partner God bless you Sir
Taking opportunity to learn alot
While still single 😊
OMG!!! This message has me completely mind blown. God bless you sir
I wish I heard this msg waaaaaaay sooner. Tooo many nuggets of wisdom loaded here. Better late than never sha.
I’m so happy I found your ministry .
God bless you Pk🙏🏻🇸🇱🇸🇱
God Bless you sir! you just delivered me from myself chai
Me too . I'm a victim
I'm a victim