5 Signs You’re Dating the Wrong Person

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  • @life.church
    @life.church  Рік тому +156

    What's one thing you value in your relationship or friendships?

    • @colleenelainemoodley7380
      @colleenelainemoodley7380 Рік тому +20

      Truthfulness.

    • @chaitanyahulyal5681
      @chaitanyahulyal5681 Рік тому +8

      Love

    • @denonjoka8848
      @denonjoka8848 Рік тому +3

      Hawayu Life Church 4 I Say That The 2 Things I Value In My Friendships & My Coming Relationship are Serving God & Honesty Where I Want Friends Who Serve God While Even They're Honest & God Bless Yu Life Church & Pst. Craig Groeschel So Veryyyyy, Veryyyyyy Much.🕊️🕊️🙏🙏

    • @brandynicole8382
      @brandynicole8382 Рік тому +10

      Growing to know Our heavenly Father, together, Trust, honesty,Love, a listening ear.

    • @malcolm24568
      @malcolm24568 Рік тому +4

      Everyone does their fair share, and quick to help each other. ❤️

  • @julietgenius4946
    @julietgenius4946 Рік тому +581

    “Don’t give them your heart if God doesn’t have theirs” so profound👌

    • @musicinme2010
      @musicinme2010 4 місяці тому +1

    • @cindyrivera1376
      @cindyrivera1376 Місяць тому

      This is so true...If my partner don't adore Jesus Christ and live for him...I do not want to continue a relationship with someone who do not love Jesus

    • @Marie24Mucolours
      @Marie24Mucolours 27 днів тому

      That was deep!

  • @kenji2342
    @kenji2342 Рік тому +1169

    5 Red flags:
    1. Partner is not consistently pursuing Christ
    2. Family and Friends(ideally christian family and friends) don't approve of him/her
    3. Lack of healthy conflict
    4. When you can't trust your partner
    5. When they lead you away from Jesus

  • @stephenwilliams59
    @stephenwilliams59 Рік тому +1644

    The one thing that was not discussed here is the wolf in sheep's clothing. There are those who proclaim to be sheep following Christ, but act like wolves. They may say all the right things, but later (maybe months, even years later) the true person emerges. The red flags are not always apparent, especially early on in a relationship.

    • @marleeandme6527
      @marleeandme6527 Рік тому +71

      Yes that’s the scary part

    • @rebekahcraiker
      @rebekahcraiker Рік тому +186

      I’ve dealt with this first hand. I didn’t know the warning signs, but looking back on it, I can confidently say that “love-bombing” is actually a huge red flag! Pay attention and ask for discernment.

    • @carmenlocklear
      @carmenlocklear Рік тому +105

      Butterflies are warning signs that I ignored. You’re heart is supposed to feel full and not your stomach feeling queasy.

    • @elizabethhoshii426
      @elizabethhoshii426 Рік тому +37

      el espíritu santo nos guía a toda verdad y justicia amen

    • @LuhRen
      @LuhRen Рік тому +46

      Yup that's why we gotta take our time in dating and not rush into anything. Make sure they are who they saw they are.

  • @clarissahastings2307
    @clarissahastings2307 Рік тому +857

    Love this! I married a believer. However, we were faithless at times. We were so young when we met (I was 18). We faced traumatic events. We were foolish at times. We loved each other through things. Love indeed never fails. Forty years have passed… and we are still married! To GOD be the glory!! We are so grateful!!!

  • @PattySpicer
    @PattySpicer Рік тому +422

    God, if you’re not in it, then I don’t want it!❤

  • @BuenasMusicaEnIngles
    @BuenasMusicaEnIngles Рік тому +233

    Hallelujah......I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter and a new identity... A child of God.

    • @Neilyv7
      @Neilyv7 Рік тому +1

      Glory to him ! be blessed

    • @julianamorenorestrepo2857
      @julianamorenorestrepo2857 Рік тому +1

      Hey, I think you can help me. I have a question how was your process when you started to change your life and know Jesus. How long before you got married?

    • @melliegotsoul
      @melliegotsoul Рік тому +5

      i’ve seen this exact post on other videos

    • @icyfilips
      @icyfilips 6 місяців тому

      Same, I started looking at the UA-cam accounts, different profiles but all promoting Christian music. What is happeninggggg @@melliegotsoul

    • @rjoettesquire9358
      @rjoettesquire9358 3 місяці тому

      A great testimony!

  • @jaedessi
    @jaedessi Рік тому +79

    "Don't give them your heart if God doesn’t have theirs" AMAZING!! 🙌🏾

  • @worshiplibrary7157
    @worshiplibrary7157 Рік тому +214

    I pray a special prayer for someone passing through hard times,a hard time which seem to be mental, financially and emotionally damaging. I pray for the person reading this comment right now, that GOD will come to your rescue, wipe your tears and restore you whole in Jesus Mighty Name.Amen

  • @bethzaliealejandramartinez5234
    @bethzaliealejandramartinez5234 Рік тому +95

    I am giving my life to Jesus

  • @sbent955
    @sbent955 Рік тому +328

    This is really timely. Going down the checklist I am realizing that I’ve been avoiding the truth that we’re not aligned. This is my sign to leave and stand in my faith that God will bless me with the person I deserve.

    • @adreanefoster9912
      @adreanefoster9912 Рік тому +4

      Keeping you in prayer 🙏🏾

    • @maiaharden_
      @maiaharden_ Рік тому +8

      Same! May the courage of the Lord be with us! Amen.

    • @Medietos
      @Medietos Рік тому +8

      S Bent: Do you communicate with your spouse first though? Sometimes someone is just not aware of some faults or wrong thinking or attitudes or habits, and are willing to change,practise better ways once they become aware of it.We have blind spots...I wish ppl had told me of some faults I had no idea of...

    • @nate3811
      @nate3811 Рік тому

      I hope you get who u deserve those are the best ones

    • @NC-ou6kc
      @NC-ou6kc Рік тому

      Run

  • @RagebrosINC
    @RagebrosINC Рік тому +322

    Truly an amazing message. I married an amazing woman who helped me come closer to God. But I struggled in our marriage. I allowed the devil in and threw so many red flags at her. She tried so very hard to help me but I let the darkness in. She made the wise decision to leave me. It broke me. I never felt so much pain in my life. But it was at that time, in the darkest place in my life, God grabbed me and lifted me up. I am now the happiest I have ever been because I follow Christ and rebuked the devil from my life. I will always be sorry for pushing my ex wife away but I am grateful for the lesson and the new life of walking with God.

    • @magentared5822
      @magentared5822 Рік тому +5

      @RagebrosNC, do you plan to win her back?

    • @RagebrosINC
      @RagebrosINC Рік тому +22

      @@magentared5822 I'll always love her and wish she would come back. But I know i caused so much pain for her. I just pray for her to be blessed and happy.

    • @Applied_Pressure
      @Applied_Pressure Рік тому +53

      @@RagebrosINC if she is not re-married... and you really are a different man and would lead her in Christ... go get your wife! 🙏🏼

    • @SamanthaBrookesTV
      @SamanthaBrookesTV Рік тому +14

      @@Applied_Pressure what she said!! 👆🏾👆🏾

    • @Lydz201137
      @Lydz201137 Рік тому +13

      :( Definitely if she's not remarried, get her back! So glad you're happy in Christ! Get others to battle with you in prayer!

  • @pingotskie675
    @pingotskie675 Рік тому +65

    This is actually happened to me right now😢. We broke up because I obeyed the voice of the Holy Spirit. That person really mean so much to me but I love Jesus so much too.
    I'm not regret but I actually hurt and so much pain 😭. I'm still praying for healing and restoration of heart. I'm praying too that he will be saved before the Lord's second coming.

  • @brandynicole8382
    @brandynicole8382 Рік тому +158

    Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. 🙏🤗

    • @charlesbroady
      @charlesbroady Рік тому

      That is absolutely true, we have to understand life do not need anger and violence to promote the bad attitudes of how we resolve issues. Righteousness, listening well and tongue should be a master of self.

  • @Biancalexx
    @Biancalexx Рік тому +81

    Giving my life to Jesus. Thank you for this beautiful sermon.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +2

      We’re so excited for you, Alexis Hernandez! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
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      -Kat

    • @luannemartel6100
      @luannemartel6100 5 місяців тому

      Welcome to the family!🎉

  • @lucymuzungu7258
    @lucymuzungu7258 Рік тому +62

    You are so right. I have been through divorce and it’s horrible. I personally wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. It’s better to choose right. I am praying I choose right this time.

  • @CamBist29
    @CamBist29 6 місяців тому +13

    Guys, there are zero red flags in my relationship! Praise God

  • @DanaeLaurenTolbert
    @DanaeLaurenTolbert Рік тому +83

    I am blessed by this message and I desire no relationship outside of God's will. Platonic, romantic or business.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +2

      There are so many questions to consider for lasting relationships. Find guides, stories, and wisdom to help you find confidence, peace, and direction in any relationship here: www.life.church/betterrelationships/
      SM - Team LC

    • @SarahBearah2023
      @SarahBearah2023 8 місяців тому

      A m e n

    • @TickleyourBuds1111
      @TickleyourBuds1111 Місяць тому

      This is where u have to be careful … people use relationship weither it’s companship or partnerships or actual relationship as a business tool
      I believe that love isn’t found there …. Find a women that loves u so deeply that u never have to compete with her ….. find a portal where u can work grow togther but most importantly your women allows her man to have the legacies he wants …. True love isn’t based on business tool … it’s based on a women who always sacrifices for her family and husband happiness
      That’s called a real shivshakti portal … I know this because I’ve seen this in my family … wives have always stuck to their husbands happiness even if it ment to sacrifice there own
      A women sacrificing isn’t vulnerable… because she’s in love with her man … and a true women who know me how to love would only find her happiness in her husband happiness … and this is true facts
      Amen 🙏🏼… thank u am glad I found this comment it was powerful for me ☺️

  • @juliasquier3894
    @juliasquier3894 Рік тому +61

    The number one thing is what Pastor Craig led with. If they are following Christ, love Jesus, I truly believe everything else gets worked out. I ignored this primary red flag to my detriment and my children's. It is disobedience actually plain and simple.

  • @allanenfield6818
    @allanenfield6818 Рік тому +68

    I really needed to hear this message today. Me and my fiance broke up recently. I ignored all the warning signs that i saw because i wanted it to work. It blew up and we both got hurt. This message was helpful. I want to learn from how it went down, pursue Jesus, and do it right the next time someone is blessed into my life.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +5

      Thanks for sharing Allan. We’re glad it the message was a blessing to you my friend. Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good

    • @krystaldee22
      @krystaldee22 7 місяців тому +1

      Same here, my relationship with my now ex boyfriend recently ended and we were going to get engaged. I realized we weren’t ready for marriage and he was not pursuing Jesus the way he said he was. I ignored the signs because I wanted it to work also.

    • @jacs.a.million6209
      @jacs.a.million6209 4 місяці тому +1

      God help us be wiser, have discernment, and wait for You God to give us the Yes 🙌🏼🙏🏼

  • @sandroslewa7134
    @sandroslewa7134 Рік тому +43

    “Don’t give your heart if god don’t have theirs” very true meaning. God bless you!! This sentence will remain in heart forever!❤

  • @fullsoul5850
    @fullsoul5850 Рік тому +31

    She broke up with me through text, then wanted me back, and I rejected. I’ve been embracing the pain and lessons with God and myself alone for 2 years since then.

    • @judehemsworth85
      @judehemsworth85 Рік тому

      I also to had very Similar thing happened to me as well had a Text message from My Ex and He broke up with Me that way He to was a Christian as well

  • @estherh5008
    @estherh5008 Рік тому +32

    I needed to hear this exactly at this moment! I am currently experiencing the end of a 1 year relationship. I was conflicted so long spiritually and emotionally but ignored every single red flag that was so glaringly obvious they kept me up at night from almost the very beginning. But all I saw was the world and worldly pleasures. Thank you, again much needed.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +3

      Thank you for sharing your heart. We are filled with joy that this message was what you needed and it touched you in such a powerful way. I am sharing a link below that might be encouraging and useful.
      We’re praying for you as you navigate the world of singleness and dating. If you’re looking for wisdom or support, you can find both here: finds.life.church/tag/dating/
      Rachelle

    • @jacs.a.million6209
      @jacs.a.million6209 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for that link. Please pray for me too. I don’t know how I gave in to guys games lately. I need to just focus on Jesus and not be so distracted!

  • @malcolm24568
    @malcolm24568 Рік тому +14

    Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak, Slow to get Angry 🙏🏾

  • @laurasenke7198
    @laurasenke7198 Рік тому +23

    I want to be closer to Jesus in my relationship, in my carrier and in all that I do.
    I'm going through a heartbreaking heartbreak and this message is really helpful. My first time watching your channel and I'm blessed 😊

  • @EvangelistTJ
    @EvangelistTJ 4 місяці тому +10

    “Don’t give them your heart if God doesn’t have theirs”

  • @rachelg.2593
    @rachelg.2593 Рік тому +26

    2 minutes into this message and almost in tears. Thank you for bringing a much needed message to the younger generation.

  • @irmagarcia8266
    @irmagarcia8266 Рік тому +23

    If I would’ve listen to advice 35 years ago, I would not have dated my ex husband now! Divorce hurts…. Listen to the Word and follow Jesus! After 25 yrs of marriage he walked away leaving us (4 kids) now single and another relationship for 4 years failed! Do things right land stay close to Jesus ❤

    • @bulletpoint728
      @bulletpoint728 7 місяців тому +1

      I read this, but then I think you wouldn’t of had those beautiful kids if you did it any other way.

    • @irmagarcia8266
      @irmagarcia8266 7 місяців тому +1

      @@bulletpoint728True! God will take our mistakes and those kids are now my treasures ❤

  • @ethandavis8412
    @ethandavis8412 Рік тому +39

    I appreciated the part about "I can't believe I just said that in Church." I think it's important to speak of such things at church in the appropriate context as was done today.

  • @haphuongle2920
    @haphuongle2920 Рік тому +38

    I have just ended a dating relationship with a church and Evangelical rehab center staff. Even when he is doing some work in the church, all he really cared in this relationship is my body despite the advice from a church member who took the rehab program with him (they both came to this rehab center at the same time and have been clean for 4 years), and the church and rehab center rules for interactions between a man and a woman. I many times tried to warn him to keep purity in dating relationships because I was taught carefully by pastors and school teachers on this matter, and I escaped a relationship where the other person only wants to satisfy his flesh. He ignored and guilt tripped me for being unloving and found all occasions to touch me where I don't want to.
    Thanked GOD that after I felt so uneasy and prayed, HE made that man broke up with me so I don't have to explain to his parents (I met his parents, he met my mother and his mother met my mother). My close friends in this church introduced this man to me, including the leaders and elders. If it wasn't for trusting them, I wouldn't have even cared about dating.
    Not every church staff is after GOD-Jesus's heart. The one gave advice now is married and waiting for his first born son to be born. The one ignoring the advice is still wanting.

    • @Varaidzo1
      @Varaidzo1 Рік тому +8

      I'm really glad that you listened to God on this and got out of the relationship. Sometimes people only know somebody from the outside. Often it's only when you date them or know them very well, that you see that they are not following Christ closely.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +5

      Hi Varaidzo1,
      Thank you for the great reminder. God knows our hearts and if we are truly His He will guide us no matter what.
      Laura - Team LC

    • @womanofgod2199
      @womanofgod2199 Рік тому +5

      Been in this situation. He was introduced by his Christian friends who gave me all the Bible verses just to convince me to entertain this guy because accdg to them, he is really kind and loving. Turned out he is verbally abusive. Thank God I got out of the relationship!
      Just because they seem to be kind outside doesn’t mean they really are. That’s why we need to study the character of a person before letting them in into our lives. Be careful who you let into your life.
      Be gentle like a dove, be wise as a serpent.

  • @heuy1216
    @heuy1216 Рік тому +18

    2. Be mindful of you have ungodly friends who have other motives. Ladies be mindful of friends that want to compete against you, or, don't like how boring/logical your relationship is.

    • @briennaclifford9699
      @briennaclifford9699 5 місяців тому +1

      Such sound wisdom this was big for me looking back..

  • @LyndaBustillos-dd8wd
    @LyndaBustillos-dd8wd Рік тому +19

    All single strong Christians should listen to this incredible video!! it's Just so eye opening. So loved it!❤

  • @tpisbrave1135
    @tpisbrave1135 Рік тому +23

    Excellent Points. These kind of messages need to be taught to the youth before they get to the age of Marriage.

  • @agtrots
    @agtrots Рік тому +31

    This is a series that speaks directly to me. Definitely needed to hear it!

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +3

      We are so glad to hear that this message series had an impact on your life!
      Mechel - Team LC

  • @TashaNatasha22
    @TashaNatasha22 Рік тому +9

    I am quick to listen. Slow to speak and I am slow to become angry. I speak it into my life. AMEN

  • @Leonimat23
    @Leonimat23 Рік тому +8

    Good luck finding this person in this present age!..
    after striking out all the red flags, we are left to loving and finding peace in God and within ourselves .. That is true Happiness!
    with waiting on Gods timing, the right person will show up.
    But,Remember Gods timing not ours!.. GodBless!

  • @recreationistwms3439
    @recreationistwms3439 Рік тому +8

    I am giving my life to Jesus🎉🎉🎉

  • @chrisjohnson4802
    @chrisjohnson4802 Рік тому +13

    Amen... God kept me away from a girl, because He has something better for me. It hurt, but better caught early, than to make a lifelong mistake. Thank you Jesus.

  • @operationseekingtruth
    @operationseekingtruth 3 місяці тому +2

    I’m quick to listen, slow to speak and slower to anger. Yes, Lord, help me to be more like Jesus.
    Amen.

  • @anaj6114
    @anaj6114 Рік тому +24

    I felt that this spoke to me today but I struggle with following god and my intuition and always going back to old habits even when I know it’s wrong and I don’t feel good about it (him). I pray that god renews my mindset, soul and life to a better happy meaningful life!

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +1

      We’re praying for you, and we hope you see more and more how much God loves you and treasures you. If you’re looking for wisdom or resources from people who’ve experienced similar struggles, you can find those here: finds.life.church/tag/identity/
      - Team LC Ronnie

    • @evelynbusayo1287
      @evelynbusayo1287 Рік тому

      Amen and Amen 🙏❤️

    • @jacs.a.million6209
      @jacs.a.million6209 4 місяці тому

      I’m w you sister. Me too 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @leandraestellegovender3479
    @leandraestellegovender3479 Рік тому +33

    i really found this sermon so informative and it's been very difficult for me to avoid the red flags but with God all things are possible and he will guide each and everyone of us that are suffering with broken relationships, marriages and hearts. Thank you Pastor Craig Groeschel❤

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +6

      Amen. With God everything is possible
      Gabi

    • @Ms.Amy1
      @Ms.Amy1 Рік тому +1

      Amen 🙏

  • @jocelynruiz8301
    @jocelynruiz8301 Рік тому +9

    This guy was literally the cherry on top of all my confirmations that it’s time to go. It’s been a confusiiiiing painful journey, but now I can’t say idk what to do. It would be blatant disobedience to not move forward with what I know is Gods will. Thanks guy! This was FIRE ❤

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      ❤️ So glad you’re here and found it helpful. Thanks Jocelyn for sharing.
      Keli - Team LC
      ”Whoever finds God, finds life!”

  • @momof3880
    @momof3880 Рік тому +14

    This is so timely. My friend is going through a separation and she is being thrilled by the excitement of reuniting with her childhood sweetheart . I have to forward this to her so she may have good perspective in finding a new love❤

    • @dachater1
      @dachater1 3 місяці тому +2

      That in itself is a red flag if she is married. If she is going through a separation she should not be looking for another spouse but rather allowing God to heal her and establish her in firm footing otherwise she will go and make another mistake.

  • @sorealKhutso_M
    @sorealKhutso_M Рік тому +13

    Thank you so much for this.just got back into the dating scene, celibacy is my priority. This is a great addition to making sure that I stay on track. I pray for discernment in Jesus Name

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/
      Rachelle - Team LC

  • @annec5008
    @annec5008 Рік тому +13

    I feel like this message was made just for me. This is exactly what I needed to hear today.

  • @victoriasjourney1577
    @victoriasjourney1577 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for this, I struggled with relationships a lot starting to date at 16 (mostly for attention and peer pressure) and told myself pretty much every excuse you list. I wish I would have had a loving church explain this to me and my youth group. It might have saved me a ton of hurt and emotional abuse

  • @yunasurie01
    @yunasurie01 Рік тому +32

    The best sermon on dating I've ever heard....

  • @leviramnarain5391
    @leviramnarain5391 5 місяців тому +4

    I'm giving my life to Jesus 😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NikkiD1445
    @NikkiD1445 Рік тому +10

    I don’t want to ever idolize marriage or try to treat it like it will fill any void I have. I know it won’t. Only God can do this. I guess for me, because it’s so hard to find men that take their walk with God seriously, I get more and more discouraged about ever finding a spouse (or him finding me). It would be so much easier if God would just take my desire to be married away…which I have begged Him to do….not sure why He hasn’t…I really want to honor God with my life without distraction….yet I still see a beautiful purpose in two people coming together and honoring God in their union…idk I just get very discouraged with this dating topic. Anyway thank you pastor for sharing

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +1

      Hi Nikki,
      Thank you for joining us and sharing your heart. God always has a plan, and His timing is perfect. Keep leaning in and trusting Him and He will fulfill the desire of your heart in Him timing.
      Laura - Team LC

    • @dachater1
      @dachater1 Рік тому +3

      Hey Nikki. I can so relate with you. It’s so hard to meet men that I am attracted to that really serve God. It can really be discouraging! I unfortunately have compromised and dated men that just are not living up to that standard and it just isn’t worth it - so much heartache in the process! All I can say is BUT GOD- I will keep looking unto Him because all it takes is one right person that I trust him to bring into my life

    • @jacs.a.million6209
      @jacs.a.million6209 4 місяці тому

      Amen! I don’t try to date, but if I did, I would get discouraged. I still have hope. I believe that God wants us to have someone, in His timing.🙌🏼

  • @Melaniegallegos76
    @Melaniegallegos76 Рік тому +22

    these signs really resonate! understanding whether you're dating the wrong person is essential for a healthy relationship. speaking of connections, have you ever heard of Spanish Fly Pro? my partner and i have been experimenting with ways to add more excitement to our relationship, and it's been quite the journey. trying something new can truly bring a fresh perspective!

  • @victoryamadi9646
    @victoryamadi9646 Рік тому +30

    I'm so glad I followed this series. Thank you Life Church

  • @glowieokenney7915
    @glowieokenney7915 Рік тому +6

    Ty for this message. ❤. The alcoholism was a sign 24 years ago with my hubbs. I dealt with the awful behavior for years and years. Christmas Eve was a crap show. I had to get him arrested for putting his hands around my neck. He left for 6 nights. Jail and living with his parents. My daughter and I welcomed him back with open arms after 6 days. He quit vodka 3 weeks ago!!!!! We are so happy to live a peaceful life now. ❤
    Prayer is powerful! 24 years of praying for him to stop drinking. We are blessed! ❤ don’t ever give up praying for your loved ones.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      Hallelujah! Praise God!
      That’s so wonderful to hear, Glowie!
      We’d love to invite you to Life.Church Online. 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      Keli - Team LC
      “Whoever finds God, finds life!”

  • @Bluefeathermedicine
    @Bluefeathermedicine Рік тому +16

    There is situations where the red flags are just unhealed wounding from past relationships but time and love can transform that,though if the other person doesnt want to heal or guide there way to the highrr power its always a choice

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +1

      Broken relationships can be so tough to navigate, but we know God is at work. If you’re looking for encouragement or resources on how you find healing and bring restoration to this situation, we’d suggest you start here: finds.life.church/tag/the-grudge/
      - Team LC Ronnie

  • @Natalia-xo1yj
    @Natalia-xo1yj 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank God for this page. May the Lord lead me in the direction I'm supposed to go in in terms of finding the right person. May it happen in your timing Jesus, amen! 🤍🕊️✨🙏

  • @stellargravity5195
    @stellargravity5195 Рік тому +7

    Normally this kind of stuff doesn't appear in my recommendations. I have been praying about dating and marriage because its been on my mind so much lately and I feel like God has led me here to learn something before I pursue any of it. I did find this helpful.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +1

      Amen! God always shows up at the right time and the right situation. ❤️ - Heather, Team LC

  • @sandrabailey2433
    @sandrabailey2433 Рік тому +4

    I'm wanting to leave this toxic relationship it's been hard because of being disabled and being mentally beat down told I can't, but God has given me the desire to come back to him and to break away from this toxic and dangerous relationship Thank you for this message 🙏

  • @psalmone8953
    @psalmone8953 Рік тому +19

    Walk away from missionary dating, thinking you will win the person to Jesus. Pay attention to red flags and blind spots, they get worse after marriage. Deal with baggage before you get to committed and heart broken.

  • @danielmartin7456
    @danielmartin7456 Рік тому +5

    I want to be closer to God in all my relationships and in all I do

  • @jenniferwalsh1731
    @jenniferwalsh1731 Рік тому +3

    I am amazed at what he has said that I have encountered. If you can't trust someone, make sure you're healed and ready to date first. You could find someone amazing and then put them through the ringer from your own past and not healed wounds.

  • @KacieMichelle
    @KacieMichelle 7 місяців тому +2

    Love can make you do an awful thing- ignore god. God says don’t follow your heart, your heart will deceive you, listen to me. Took me years and heartbreak to listen. Thank goodness we have a patient forgiving god.

  • @felicia4025
    @felicia4025 Рік тому +6

    I give my life to Christ Jesus. I surrender to You, yes to You. Take my life, take it all and use me. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 🇳🇬

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      We’re so excited for you, felicia lagok! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      Gabi Team LC

  • @kimberlyjonas4529
    @kimberlyjonas4529 Місяць тому

    I want to be closer to you Lord, in my relationships, in my works, in my thought's, in my church, in my everyday life. Amen

  • @zoe-rq9fd
    @zoe-rq9fd Рік тому +6

    i know that the person I’m with is not for me. I think we are not fit for each other but I can’t leave yet. I feel like I need time & please many prayers 💔💔

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      Thanks so much for reaching out. UA-cam isn’t the easiest place to have a conversation, so head to Life.Church Online at live.life.church. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one.
      - Team LC Ronnie

  • @mariannacharalambous2958
    @mariannacharalambous2958 Рік тому +10

    Thank you pastor graig. I knew the Red flags. Bt mostly I thank you coz I had a really bad day at work. I exusted myself and you always help me see Jesus. Thank you.

  • @jessicageiger8273
    @jessicageiger8273 Рік тому +5

    I did breakup with my ex through text but it was for safety reasons and it truly felt like God told me to. A lot of these signs were describing us and it hurts to hear it from someone else. It’s been a very painful 2 months since I texted him and I pray to be truly healed soon. Thank you for this message

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      God, please reach your loving arms around Jessica through this challenging time of her life. 🙏 God, I know your love, and I know your peace, and I pray right now that you guide Jessica through her healing process and show her that she can be strong with your help. In Jesus name, Amen.
      -Jess

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      God, please reach your loving arms around Jessica through this challenging time of her life. 🙏 God, I know your love, and I know your peace, and I pray right now that you guide Jessica through her healing process and show her that she can be strong with your help. In Jesus name, Amen.
      -Jess

  • @skkkoury6156
    @skkkoury6156 Рік тому +10

    Great sermon. I needed to hear this after a few unyolked relationships. Lord forgive me.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      Thank you for sharing the ways your marriage is struggling. We’re here for you, and we want to connect you with resources that can help. Finds.Life is a great place to start-take a look here: finds.life.church/tag/marriage/
      Isaac K- Team LC

  • @crystalheaton8537
    @crystalheaton8537 Рік тому +5

    This is a great message it helped me alot, being in a 6 year marriage where I've ignored every red flag this brought them to the light... thank u

  • @Marie24Mucolours
    @Marie24Mucolours 27 днів тому +1

    This was a beautiful sermon. It came in very helpful. Thank you Abba father...🙏💯

  • @Ruth-vy1qj
    @Ruth-vy1qj Рік тому +5

    These are some good tips to look for in a relationship a lot of people base on lust and/or one-sided relationship. I want to grow in Christ Im struggle to give him my life 100% I think it because of the fear of the unknown and not put him first daily.

  • @eliaslopez8364
    @eliaslopez8364 Рік тому +1

    I want my life and relationship be closer with Jesus❤️✝️.

  • @nathanglennwidjaja7528
    @nathanglennwidjaja7528 Рік тому +8

    Very blessed! 36 mins felt like it was under 15 mins!

  • @PersianDollTarot
    @PersianDollTarot Місяць тому +1

    My husband is the best thing that ever happened to me and the only person who’s ever been good to me after six years of therapy I finally heal from narcissistic abuse and PTSD thank God for my husband

  • @deborahhudson3289
    @deborahhudson3289 Рік тому +3

    I want to be closer to Jesus, I want to seek you first. I need the strength to get through these trying times. Amen

  • @biancacarrim4121
    @biancacarrim4121 Рік тому +1

    Quick to listen slow to speak. I love you so much Lord Jesus!

  • @peterkinblewhite8780
    @peterkinblewhite8780 Рік тому +3

    I will try my best to put jesus first in all that do

  • @matrixrc28
    @matrixrc28 Місяць тому

    He’s not sharing no lie. I’m a living witness.

  • @tammykillam2070
    @tammykillam2070 Рік тому +8

    I FOUND OUT THE HARD WAY

  • @lynniieeheart
    @lynniieeheart Рік тому +2

    I just got out of a seven year relationship. And it's hard. And I don't know what Im going to do. We also lived together for six years. We were unyoked. So this hurts. My family loved him. Despite us breaking up. My family still loves him. Which makes me so happy. I know God is near to the broken hearted. I just pray he comes and fully comes to Jesus. I hope God continues to draw me closer. And him as well

  • @dachater1
    @dachater1 Рік тому +4

    Lord give me the courage to do the right thing!

  • @faithantonettecasas9399
    @faithantonettecasas9399 Рік тому +1

    I wanna be closer to Jesus in my relationships, career, dreams, finances, and ministries.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/
      SM - Team LC

  • @richricogranada9647
    @richricogranada9647 Рік тому +5

    Not just consistently pursuing Jesus but consistently pursuing you as well

  • @bitesclamado7596
    @bitesclamado7596 2 місяці тому

    Wow! See it now! Thank God for His redirection.

  • @dachater1
    @dachater1 Рік тому +20

    Hardest thing is getting deep into a relationship only to start to realize the red flags. How on earth do you begin to dismantle your heart and walk away?

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +5

      Hi, Deborah! In that kind of difficult situation, getting help from friends and family is probably your best route to walking away. They can be there for you and offer support as you start fresh.
      - LK, Team LC

    • @denisehughes2898
      @denisehughes2898 Рік тому +4

      It would be VERY painful! However, you've GOT TO do it! In this current world you HAVE TO learn to force yourself to do painful things. This world is NO paradise and DON'T even expect it to be! The paradise is in the World to Come for Christian Believers! However, you will RUIN your life if you get hooked up with the wrong person.

    • @SachelleCambria
      @SachelleCambria Рік тому +2

      If you’re a born again Christian, you have the Holy Spirit. He’s your Comforter and will guide you every step of the way.

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@denisehughes2898 u better say it...whole life pass u by while u gain nothing, its not fruitful....then they will be angry with themselves for alllllll the time they can't get back if they had just went through the pain earlier rather than later 🙏🏽

  • @VanessaLovesJesus
    @VanessaLovesJesus 8 місяців тому +1

    I want to be closer to you Jesus

  • @juanderuano8969
    @juanderuano8969 Рік тому +7

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому +3

      Hi Juande,
      Broken relationships can be so tough to navigate, but we know God is at work. If you’re looking for encouragement or resources on how you find healing and bring restoration to this situation, we’d suggest you start here: finds.life.church/tag/the-grudge/
      Laura - Team LC

  • @princessbubblebut
    @princessbubblebut Рік тому +8

    I love me some Jesus. I read scripture. I attend church (mostly online). I praise and worship. I love to the best of my ability, I forgive quickly, I am slow to anger, and I extend grace in never ending handfuls. I am not perfect but I am committed to following Jesus. BUT I never open a conversation with "Hi, my name is Monika and I love Jesus." And I don't think that should be considered a red flag. My relationship with Jesus is intimate and personal and will be spoken about when I am ready.

  • @besthillsongworshipsongs48
    @besthillsongworshipsongs48 Рік тому +5

    I'm sad and feel empty. I feel nothing but when I listened to this song. I can't stop myself from crying because I can feel the love of God to me. I'm still awake and overthinking everything. I don't even know the purpose of my life. I'm a shy person so, I don't usually talk to other people about my feelings. That's why I'm happy because I found this song and it helps me to express myself by sharing how I felt.

    • @TheSameSpot.
      @TheSameSpot. Рік тому +2

      @best Hillsong worship songs...God really has a purpose for you...I'm a strong believer and each day,,I pursue Christ to find and live my purpose ...I'd call you to chase after the cross the more... eventually God will ignite and direct your purpose...You'll be at peace when pursuing your purpose...God loves you and has sent you on a mission...just seek His will the more...

  • @actionjacksonmightymax722
    @actionjacksonmightymax722 5 місяців тому +1

    i wish more pastors would preach the truth about dating and boundaries and what's meant for marriage etc

  • @comewinedownhereandleavepe6106

    I want to be closer to Jesus In every area of my life!

  • @pabalelomohutsiwa
    @pabalelomohutsiwa 20 днів тому

    I want to be closer to jesus in everything i do and in all my friendships and relationship❤

  • @malcolm24568
    @malcolm24568 Рік тому +5

    I GIVE MY LIFE TO JESUS CHRIST MY LORD AND SAVIOR 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @paulodili751
    @paulodili751 Рік тому +2

    People should ask God to direct, show, connect them to their spouse. And we should pray and ask for the spirit of discernment. Relationships and marriage belongs to God and He wants to help. The book of proverbs 19vs 14 says: a prudent wife is from the Lord.

  • @modiciamartin5659
    @modiciamartin5659 Рік тому +5

    I wish I had known about this years ago so sorry I didn't understand the red flags.. This is very good information.blessings to all of you.♥️🙏♥️

  • @deenawright1838
    @deenawright1838 Рік тому +1

    I want to honor God in all my relationships and seek you first Jesus . Give the wisdom to have the right relationships

  • @shyletbhiza1100
    @shyletbhiza1100 Рік тому +3

    Profound message after l have managed to escape a toxic and Non Jesus oriented relationship. Proudly single and waiting for a Godly spouse

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      Praise God! ❤️
      Keli - Team LC
      ”Whoever finds God, finds life!”

  • @shanekawallace-graham2190
    @shanekawallace-graham2190 5 місяців тому +1

    Absolutely, positively powerful message ❤❤❤ I am blessed to be edified by it 🙌🏾

  • @MsBrittanyykk
    @MsBrittanyykk Рік тому +3

    Thank you, pastor. God is so good

  • @christinehousewright4798
    @christinehousewright4798 Місяць тому

    I loved this video. Praying for this type of relationship everyday.

  • @aditisarkar982
    @aditisarkar982 Рік тому +3

    yes I'm giving my life to God. thank you for this session.

    • @life.church
      @life.church  Рік тому

      We’re so excited for you, Aditi Sarkar! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God.
      We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church
      - LK, Team LC

  • @gematrevino1242
    @gematrevino1242 21 день тому

    Today is my new beginning let’s God to continue working on me… no more excuses or Questions about the future!!
    My Lord is my Present and my Future that is all I need…