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  • @Iampromise_k
    @Iampromise_k 22 дні тому +37

    Whose here in August 2024?

  • @fadzaimhlanga4131
    @fadzaimhlanga4131 3 місяці тому +36

    Everytime you like my comment l will be reminded to rewatch this beautiful message 💖

  • @damilolaogundele4479
    @damilolaogundele4479 3 роки тому +480

    She said when you keep someone in prison, you’re also in prison because you have to keep watching over the person. The difference is just the other side of the bar you’re. Forgiveness sets you free and gives you peace. Thanks ma

  • @hoc_by_fe
    @hoc_by_fe Рік тому +65

    One of the reasons I love Pastor M so much is how real she is about her struggles. It really encourages me and gives me hope that with consistent partnership with God, I can improve and become a better version of myself. Thank you so much ma for being a huge blessing ♥

  • @missb1919
    @missb1919 2 роки тому +26

    One thing I love about this woman of God is that she is real; she has experienced the things she preaches about; she knows the pain; she knows how difficult it is but she says: with the love and word of God we can conquer all those hurtful emotions. That is what real Christianity is all about. Thank you ma and may God continue to use you.🙏♥️

  • @yollandabottoman4234
    @yollandabottoman4234 Рік тому +32

    Literally crying right now. I have never been this angry in my life. And i have just stumbled over this message. This message is for me 😭😭 God help me

  • @Ad-ds3dg
    @Ad-ds3dg 3 роки тому +205

    Finaly i found somebody who's reactions and thought patterns are like me. Thank you woman of God.

    • @silvanamounkondila2106
      @silvanamounkondila2106 3 роки тому +7

      I truly found myself in her as well and her experiences have just given me divine directions on how to pray for myself and I thank God for her life and testimony.

    • @lovefelix1566
      @lovefelix1566 3 роки тому +5

      Me too... Similar in demeanor and thought process...

    • @onchegrace7522
      @onchegrace7522 3 роки тому +6

      Kai, this is real Christianity with out pretence or just theory . God bless you. I have been blessed with your teaching.

    • @lloydawoko163
      @lloydawoko163 3 роки тому

      Hehehe. Am a victim too

    • @Ceciliasjourney
      @Ceciliasjourney 3 роки тому

      I knowwww me too!!

  • @tomilolacindarella2314
    @tomilolacindarella2314 Рік тому +35

    I was here planning revenge on someone when I started watching this video, I let it all go. God bless you ma

    • @Debs567
      @Debs567 3 місяці тому +1

      God bless you for letting go. Revenge is only to God.
      May the Lord heal your pain and compensate you ten times.
      Roman’s 12:17
      Never hold a grudge but plan your life around the noblest ways to favor instead.
      Discover the beauty in everyone!
      God bless you indeed🙏🏿❤

  • @pelumiadekoya4620
    @pelumiadekoya4620 3 роки тому +128

    I just found a new mentor. I am grateful for the gift of YOU. Thank you for being a blessing

  • @ndivhuwotshivhase9648
    @ndivhuwotshivhase9648 3 місяці тому +7

    "The word of God must be stronger than what you feeel"

  • @blessedn4614
    @blessedn4614 3 роки тому +69

    Triggers are caused by unhealed emotions mostly Childhood wounds...once we HEAL and involve God in it it helps a lot. I have been there, a melancholy too and still work in progress I thank God for compassion

    • @girlsrock4876
      @girlsrock4876 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for saying this. Been there too and am also a MelPlehg.
      Make Sure to Heal every Kind of Trauma.

  • @oluwaseyiomolayo2821
    @oluwaseyiomolayo2821 2 місяці тому +5

    Just the exact word i need right now ,if things are bad God is the reason why they are not worse .Father Lord am grateful

  • @ngomorastella1091
    @ngomorastella1091 11 місяців тому +15

    "If things are bad,God is the only reason why they are not worse!"
    Thank you God!

  • @dinmadivine7068
    @dinmadivine7068 2 роки тому +22

    Don’t let people turn you to evil because of the evil they’re

  • @mosesojo4728
    @mosesojo4728 3 роки тому +52

    I can't stop listening to Pastor Mildred, honestly. Her message is always simple and clear.

  • @divineceleste.m
    @divineceleste.m 4 роки тому +152

    This was a hard message for me! Forgiveness is indeed the highest form of faith. I have alot of learning & growing up to do in this subject matter. Thank you for this wonderful teaching Pastor M- very insightful.

    • @daviskipleting571
      @daviskipleting571 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/B314zGZPuck/v-deo.html

    • @angelinamazula9328
      @angelinamazula9328 2 роки тому +1

      And this point if saying I have forgiven but I will never forget seriously woman of God you just talked with my life....
      I owez move around with a bleeding heart.....
      This is really insightful

    • @jennypereogbe1053
      @jennypereogbe1053 2 роки тому

      This hit me hard n broke me it broke me . Thank you JESUS. Thank u ma. I pray the holyspirit helps me thru this journey in JESUS NAME AMEN

    • @hannahglover6514
      @hannahglover6514 2 роки тому +1

      6

    • @sundayjonah9900
      @sundayjonah9900 2 роки тому

      I remember early last year where I use to stay, my landlord offended me so badly that I made up my mind that I will never forgive him at all, But everything changed as I heard a similar message as this, which affected my life. So I made practical steps to forgive myself first of all and settled the case in my mind; this is where most battles are won or lost, THE MIND.
      The next thing I did was to start praying for him I.e. my landlord (note: praying for him not against him), though it was painful to me sha..! But I continued to pray, and gradually it started to die down and now my heart is free from every grudge I had against him.
      Why I'm I saying all these? It is through a practical step that we overcome unforgivingness.

  • @nojudgmentqueen
    @nojudgmentqueen 4 роки тому +9

    If not for Christ a lot of people will have been dead by now, I thank God for His spirit.

  • @omosighookunzuwa3775
    @omosighookunzuwa3775 Рік тому +20

    The Word of God must be stronger than what you feel

  • @adadaddy9251
    @adadaddy9251 2 роки тому +16

    The Word of God must be stronger than what you feel 18:46

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 3 роки тому +42

    The Word of God must be stronger than your feelings/emotions... than anger

  • @isiomachristianmorka3920
    @isiomachristianmorka3920 4 роки тому +52

    This is the second time I am listening to this sermon, I don’t know if I am doing the right thing but one thing I know is that this precious sermon is what I needed right now.😊😊😊

    • @sundayjonah9900
      @sundayjonah9900 2 роки тому +1

      Hi Isioma, you can tell whether you doing what is right or wrong. You see the Bible is there to direct our footsteps as we work in this gloomy dark world. It is a light on the part of those who believe.
      Read it to be wise, believe it to be safe, and practice it to be holy. It contains light to direct you, food to support you, and comfort to cheer you. As you read you pray and meditate on it.
      And you will begin to bear the fruit of the Spirit.
      Galatians 5:22‭-‬24
      But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

    • @faithogbeide8529
      @faithogbeide8529 Рік тому

      Same here

  • @SangaiMoliwuloBrowngirl
    @SangaiMoliwuloBrowngirl 3 роки тому +50

    Now I understand the strange works of the holy spirit. This message came just when I am building excuses for unforgiveness. Thank you Pastor M, God has sent you to give me this message even though it has been in existence since February 2020. God, I give you the glory and praise for showing me a way out.

  • @purityokalo2316
    @purityokalo2316 Рік тому +3

    If things are bad God is the only reason they are not worse

  • @margaretikona5382
    @margaretikona5382 Рік тому +9

    I find it hard to forgive but with ur teaching am beginning to forgive wholeheartedly😭

  • @Joyceamisi
    @Joyceamisi 3 роки тому +17

    I never knew I haven’t forgiven my father who died 8 years ago but thanks to the wisdom of pst mildred I’ve free myself and him from the prison we were both 😇
    Thankful to God Almighty

  • @celestebrito8071
    @celestebrito8071 2 роки тому +8

    To see a woman of God so true to the weaknesses and fragility of the flesh 😧😧😧 it is not weakness that is being exposed but indeed the great abundance of Gods grace. It’s not by might not power but by the Spirit. Thank you woman of God for preaching with your own self as the central point we need more of this in the body of Christ. To often leaders paint themselves in such perfection that it makes those seeking God feel like less than or unqualified. God bless you and your ministry. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @YemiOluseun
    @YemiOluseun 4 роки тому +38

    This was too real...Thank you so much for being 100% authentic. Thank you. You remind me of Joyce Meyer. More Grace!

  • @amechimogekwu4735
    @amechimogekwu4735 3 роки тому +36

    It's very hard... May God help us... Pastor M is so real, unlike a lot of children of God who always wanna make us feel like the Lord is not with us. GOD BLESS YOU MA FOR THIS MESSAGE. I teared up while watching this and I just had to forgive. A very hard thing to do by the way😢

    • @seleghascrew
      @seleghascrew 2 роки тому

      Girrrrrl.....she is super real.

  • @missyngaks7903
    @missyngaks7903 2 роки тому +11

    Today I had a great day since I found you suddenly in this site pastor midled kingsley, am in real bad side with ma husband and I cry with this darkness in a month now....but since the time I found u in today you open my heart and I feel free fast than I never expected
    Thank you so much, I can't explain....please be blessed forever🙏

  • @nadjeremy6635
    @nadjeremy6635 2 роки тому +13

    29:35... 'your flesh will become quieter and the spirit strong' Thank You Lord

  • @plamialuisa823
    @plamialuisa823 3 роки тому +22

    I almost choked with laughter listening to this message. And i believe it will change me, because am melancholy in nature. Weldon Pastor Mildred 🥰

  • @estadastarbeauty2426
    @estadastarbeauty2426 4 роки тому +13

    I literally cried. It's hard but I'm willing to submit to God's word concerning forgiveness.
    Edit: I've yet to understand why it is that some people put a '👎' on these videos like... What on God's good earth is wrong with you???

    • @nee6102
      @nee6102 2 роки тому +2

      Forgive them for they know not what they do

    • @sundayjonah9900
      @sundayjonah9900 2 роки тому

      Hi ESTADASTAR, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer.
      Remember, it is the spirit that quickens the flesh the flesh profited nothing.
      Through the application of the word of God, the s made flesh in us and we live not to fulfil the desires of the flesh but rather the desire of the spirit of God.

    • @stanleyidiwat2094
      @stanleyidiwat2094 2 роки тому

      Hi Estadastar , I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive:
      1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little.
      2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave.
      3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me.
      idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @abopeace3640
    @abopeace3640 2 роки тому +4

    This woman of God is very real. She's talking about her journey and it helps encourage us that we can get there too.

  • @dhebrahaditaa6605
    @dhebrahaditaa6605 2 роки тому +23

    God is so amazing! See a person who struggled with unforgiveness now teaching about overcoming it. Helping others come out of it. Forgiveness is really faith and we are truly comforted by the comfort we have received. Thanks for being a blessing ma!

  • @christieadewusi8963
    @christieadewusi8963 2 дні тому

    Hum
    May GOD hold my Heart.
    Your past is me right now mumy and GOD is still working on me. One of my friend did bad to me last week I hold onto that. Anytime I’m thinking about her I can feel that anger again.
    I was telling to myself I forgive her but don’t wanna be friend with her anymore.
    This Christianity is hard when you wanna really follow GOD and to obey him.
    But I will be free by the Holy Spirit From that spirit in Jesus name🙏
    People please pray for me🙏
    Thanks

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 3 роки тому +17

    Love is your greatest weapon. When you fight with love, God will fight for you!!!

  • @therryzahgambrah1028
    @therryzahgambrah1028 Рік тому +6

    I have listened to this sermon for over 100times… My daily pills😍

  • @patiencebulere
    @patiencebulere 3 роки тому +9

    😭😭😭😭😭 God draw here tonight, omg, I don’t even know what to say. But all i can say is God please forgive me and give me the grace to let it go😭😭. Thank you ma for this message, more grace in Jesus name, your anointing will never dry in Jesus name. Amen 🙏

    • @sundayjonah9900
      @sundayjonah9900 2 роки тому

      Hi Patience, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer.
      Remember, it is the spirit that quickens the flesh profited nothing.

    • @stanleyidiwat2094
      @stanleyidiwat2094 2 роки тому

      Hi patience, I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive:
      1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little.
      2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave.
      3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me.
      idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @edenphilemon7459
    @edenphilemon7459 11 місяців тому +1

    Jesus was tempted in every point of life so that when He tells me to do something I can know that he understands how it feels and He thinks so highly of me that I can be like Him and also overcome.

  • @besgordon
    @besgordon 3 роки тому +23

    I used to be so angry so I understand...thank you for this message. Anger shuts you down completely and you lose control, hence the reason we live by the knowledge of God's word instead of our emotions

  • @judeakpobasa8901
    @judeakpobasa8901 3 роки тому +18

    This is so real! Thanks and thumbs up, Pastors... I'm hardly a fan of non-Catholic preaching, but you've spoken loads of realistic truth. Keep it up!

    • @daviskipleting571
      @daviskipleting571 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/B314zGZPuck/v-deo.html

    • @namusabimariam4734
      @namusabimariam4734 2 роки тому

      Wow......thank you for this teaching woman of God. I needed this massage 💆‍♂️ at this time. Lol from Uganda

    • @oluebubeobi9343
      @oluebubeobi9343 2 роки тому

      I am a Catholic too. But, this is inspiring

  • @ireneannang4229
    @ireneannang4229 2 дні тому

    God richly bless you Pastor M.i was badly hurt and was crying in prayer when the Holy Spirit led me to this message and I'm healed

  • @sophy.thesocialmedia_elevator
    @sophy.thesocialmedia_elevator 2 роки тому +6

    This is the best ever Life-Saver Message😖😖😔😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏.. I have ever listened to!💯💯🙌.
    Holy Spirit🙇😢 I surrender completely and totally to You and Your Ways and Wills🙏, Please help me to be A good Representative of Christ...in my everyday life with You in Jesus name. Amen!!!🙏😭

    • @sundayjonah9900
      @sundayjonah9900 2 роки тому

      Hi SOPHY, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer.
      Remember, it is the spirit that quickens the flesh the flesh profited nothing.

  • @oghalemercy
    @oghalemercy 3 роки тому +10

    Is in why haven't I come across this woman and her husband since? My God!!! They such a blessing to me since I came across them online. God bless you both for saying yes to the Lord.

    • @churchinn
      @churchinn 2 роки тому

      They are a great blessing to this generation

  • @shayshay6374
    @shayshay6374 Рік тому +5

    Omg I wished I could sit under her I love how real she is but yet has a heart for God to teach us and help us grow listening from Chicago

  • @trishnisha4607
    @trishnisha4607 3 роки тому +9

    I like your sermon 😀😀especially the part you said Satan will give you supportive words(completely,at all and fast😀😀😀)

  • @amaraokenwa3853
    @amaraokenwa3853 Рік тому +2

    I cried watching this because I can understand everything Pastor he said. But the Holy Spirit keeps reminding me that I am a love being and I have to love people the way He ha loved me. That is what is keeping me going. I trust this process God is taking me through.

  • @sandradollar359
    @sandradollar359 3 роки тому +6

    I thought I have been the only one in this unforgiveness act, I dont fight but I meditate on offense and get justification for myself but thank God for Holy Spirit. Finally God gave me a mentor Pastor Mildred I love you bcos you're real and God sent you to me personal. I can't wait to meet you in person

  • @agapembise3518
    @agapembise3518 Рік тому +7

    I love the Sincerity of this Woman of God

  • @komuhangikate7468
    @komuhangikate7468 8 місяців тому +2

    The word of God must be stronger than what you feel. Thank you so much mama Mildred. You are truly a woman of God.

  • @babiryeannette77
    @babiryeannette77 3 роки тому +12

    Anger has been a challenge to me. I have tried to fight it with God's grace, but today u have taught me to manage it in Jesus Christ might name.

    • @sundayjonah9900
      @sundayjonah9900 2 роки тому +1

      Hi Babirye, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? By Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer.
      Remember, it is the spirit that quicken the flesh the flesh profited nothing.

    • @babiryeannette77
      @babiryeannette77 2 роки тому

      @@sundayjonah9900 Thank you dear

    • @stanleyidiwat2094
      @stanleyidiwat2094 2 роки тому

      Hi Babirye Annette, I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive:
      1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little.
      2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave.
      3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me.
      idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @agyapongmaapriscilla1789
    @agyapongmaapriscilla1789 3 роки тому +13

    I've not regretted listening to you Woman of God. May God bless you for every single word that was spoken through you to me.

  • @Thetemiloluwa.adegboye
    @Thetemiloluwa.adegboye 3 роки тому +4

    Forgiveness is indeed a challenge but may God give us the grace as humans to practice such quality 🙏

  • @lovechinmandubuisi3623
    @lovechinmandubuisi3623 3 роки тому +4

    I wish I can like, and love this video 1000times

  • @maxineadderley5378
    @maxineadderley5378 3 роки тому +5

    Forgiveness is a choice, but forgetting is not.. the difference is how you react in remembering.. that will determine if you have truly (forgiven). You will remember when you see the offender, but you will not feel offended

  • @officialfavourasamah8942
    @officialfavourasamah8942 Рік тому +2

    I have been seeing this video for a while now.. and I just scroll pass it... but today I got hurt deeply.. and i wanted to just listen to some worship.. and this video came up again.. I decided to watch it.. its was exactly what I needed to hear at this point.. am so bless and God bless you..

  • @chinyereirabor1897
    @chinyereirabor1897 3 роки тому +5

    Pastor Mildred, God Bless you richly for this message, you're so so real and so Truthful. The you I knew back then in the University is totally different from the you am seeing now. Everytime I listen to your message I always learn something New. I thought I've got it all with the teachings on forgiveness, am one of those people that forgives easily but you took me thru a different dimension on this teaching. I pray God keeps increasing you in his Wisdom and Knowledge, you're a Blessing to Pastor K, the church of God and to this Generation. God Bless you Richly ma.

  • @ChidinmaIsu
    @ChidinmaIsu 11 місяців тому +2

    "God can never give you something that you can't handle".😊

  • @Sophiepaul91
    @Sophiepaul91 2 роки тому +11

    I struggle with forgiveness because I'm so hot tempered. Thanks to God for His grace. I have been blessed by this message greatly.
    God bless you servant of God.

    • @Prophetessdaejaligula
      @Prophetessdaejaligula 2 роки тому +1

      Me too but we have to pray for God to help us with this temper

    • @stanleyidiwat2094
      @stanleyidiwat2094 2 роки тому

      @@Prophetessdaejaligula Hi Mrs Daeja, you know, sometimes you think you have forgiven, but it is still in your heart. Well, the way out is for you to pray to God to forgive the person that offend you. You may say I have forgiven, but it is still in your heart. Just pray to God to forgive them, and be sincere. I know it may be hard. I remember the day I asked God to forgive someone that has been in my heart for months, I cried, I couldn't really hold back the tears. But from that day, my healing began, and I realize that after some days, I was free with them, I didn't have anything against them anymore. For the case of being hot tempered, the first thing to do is to go to your bible app, search for anger, every place that anger is mentioned in the bible will show there put your phone in flight mode, take a pen and a book, study and write down notes. When you see a place that touch you, purse, pray with it, and asked God to help you according to what the place says. After that, continue studying untill you finish or had studied all the portion of that bible that talked about anger. When ever you are angry, take a deep breath, don't speak for 5 seconds take a deep breath. Then after that respond. For more or for questions you might want to ask, write me. idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @tiwuhsergemukala9653
    @tiwuhsergemukala9653 Рік тому +3

    I'm grateful! - you know there's one thing I love about you is " kingdom "
    You align the difference between the world and the kingdom.

  • @Cryonic7740
    @Cryonic7740 2 роки тому +1

    One thing I love about this pastor is that she keeps it real. She doesn’t pretend like she’s inhuman because she walks with the lord. Some may judge, even myself I thought what kind of pastor is this. At the end, the relatability factor is what makes the difference and I’m so glad to have come across this message today. I am one of those that say “it’s okay” and think I’ve forgiven and but deep down i consider that person dead to me. Truly a challenge to try and live in the likeness of Christ, but everyday we have to try.

  • @salomemunukayumbwa9171
    @salomemunukayumbwa9171 3 роки тому +9

    Am blessed by this word...frm 🇿🇲Zambia

  • @cynthiasmith6913
    @cynthiasmith6913 3 роки тому +4

    I don't know how I came here but I am glad i am here. I bless by your message. I am trying to manage my emotions. I just blocked my fiance on every social media because of anger. I came to UA-cam to listen to music and i saw this. Thanks for blessing me

    • @abigailadu6183
      @abigailadu6183 3 роки тому

      God be with you and envelop you with mighty love, peace and strenght. Amen. Peace be with you, sister

    • @cynthiasmith6913
      @cynthiasmith6913 3 роки тому

      Abigail Adu Amen 🙏! Thanks so much for your kind words

  • @maxineadderley5378
    @maxineadderley5378 3 роки тому +2

    Sacrificial praises is necessary when things are going wrong.. it’s our best weapon 🙏🙌

  • @sopuruchidarling7226
    @sopuruchidarling7226 2 роки тому +8

    This message went deep into my heart..Anger and unforgiveness is a lifestyle for me ..Thank you so much for this peace you just brought into my life.God bless you ma.I mentor you for this grace..

  • @jenagya7855
    @jenagya7855 3 роки тому +4

    This is a very hard truth and educative....may God grant us the to live a holy and rightous life cos I don't want to miss heaven.

  • @lamanyeberedugo1100
    @lamanyeberedugo1100 3 роки тому +26

    I have a lot against my ex to the extend praying evil for him but have forgiven him

  • @amarachinkisi-orji71
    @amarachinkisi-orji71 Рік тому +6

    this message is so timely and accurate. we need to forgive and move on. Thank you Pastor Mildred. it is always refreshing listening to your messages

  • @afonjaolubukola8716
    @afonjaolubukola8716 Місяць тому

    I love you always
    If I didn't listen to your messages
    It looks like something is missing in me.
    Pastor M,
    To be sincere with myself
    I really love everything about you
    Thank you for allowing the call of God upon your life.
    Keep shining, Mama.

  • @nyivururesper2754
    @nyivururesper2754 3 роки тому +6

    I've found a new mentor in you Pr. Mildred. Thanks for sharing the word with all honesty and zeal. May the lord bless you continuously.

  • @levineakampa9432
    @levineakampa9432 3 місяці тому +1

    Mbu smoke is coming. Ps. Mildred will finish me 1 day with laughter.

  • @kanyadishi1346
    @kanyadishi1346 3 роки тому +4

    The sense of calmness I have watching this 😌

  • @chilizzylizzy5234
    @chilizzylizzy5234 3 роки тому +5

    You're a Divine Gift, thank you so much Ma. You hit and confirmed that point which the holy spirit ministered to me " don't let people change you or who you want to be"

    • @olatejuibiyomi6886
      @olatejuibiyomi6886 2 роки тому

      Well said ma, more of God's grace in Jesus mighty name amen

  • @Joyce_Chijioke
    @Joyce_Chijioke 2 роки тому +2

    The word of God must be stronger than your emotions.. Hallelujah..☺️🥰

  • @adeeniolorunda58
    @adeeniolorunda58 3 роки тому +4

    Joyce Meyer of Nigeria! I love this!

    • @ginacorneille3935
      @ginacorneille3935 3 роки тому +1

      Hey sis! Just discovered Pastor M...such a blessing. 😇🙏🏾

    • @yolisamrso9827
      @yolisamrso9827 3 роки тому +1

      To compare her with Joyce Meyer is an understatement, this Woman of God is just on her own rank.

    • @adeeniolorunda58
      @adeeniolorunda58 3 роки тому +1

      @@ginacorneille3935 hey sis!!! Omgosh.

    • @adeeniolorunda58
      @adeeniolorunda58 3 роки тому

      @@yolisamrso9827 I respect your opinion as well! But I believe I was gravitating towards the rawness they both bring to the table of sermons and practicality.

  • @uchok3051
    @uchok3051 3 роки тому +5

    I like this sermon.i want to hear more about how you overcame the spirit if anger (or anger that leads to sin)...as you were talking i just saw how similar we are🤣🤣only that i haven't slapped or slammed someone onto a car.but i will bottle up,spark plot revenge(cool down) etc. Thank God for jesus...love conquers all

    • @stanleyidiwat2094
      @stanleyidiwat2094 2 роки тому

      Hi uch ok, I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive:
      1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little.
      2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave.
      3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me.
      idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @raissasongwa7100
    @raissasongwa7100 2 роки тому +3

    So sincere, so real, when you fight with love God always fights for you…🥺🥺🥺🔥🔥🔥so powerful Pastor M, I’m a melancholic too so I feel every word you say…God is taking me through the journey. Be blessed🙏🏽🥰

  • @funnymaseya1142
    @funnymaseya1142 2 роки тому +4

    My first time seeing this, you have just made me love you.... We really need God to manage this our emotions

  • @nazomsdiary1503
    @nazomsdiary1503 3 роки тому +13

    This entire message was just so me and hearing this powerful message from you has sent a great help to me.
    Ma,you are indeed a bunch of blessing.God bless you ma.Thank God for the gift of you.

    • @sundayjonah9900
      @sundayjonah9900 2 роки тому +1

      Hi Nazom, God so love you that he brought such a message to you. Well, lets not stop the point of acknowledging but also to take practical steps to forgive our neighbours.

  • @dagogoalabota4118
    @dagogoalabota4118 4 роки тому +3

    The word of God must be stronger than what you feel. So true ma'am. Haleluyah.

  • @Okehflorence
    @Okehflorence 11 місяців тому +1

    God doesn’t give you what he knows you cannot handle and don’t let people change who you are Florence.❤

  • @tessyboss9794
    @tessyboss9794 3 роки тому +10

    This is so much all I need to forgive and forget and move on... You blessed my life with this sermons... God bless you Ma. I wish I can reach out to you one on one... I have been listening to you words of wisdom and coming from a Woman who is very realistic... I can have a new turn around..

  • @dinmadivine7068
    @dinmadivine7068 2 роки тому +2

    God expects you not to be led by your feelings but to manage them

  • @awajigbanamenene2015
    @awajigbanamenene2015 3 роки тому +5

    This message touched every part of me. Sometimes God allows you go through things so he can use your experiences to bless others. God bless you ma. More grace to you.

  • @midnightstar3340
    @midnightstar3340 2 роки тому +5

    "The more you pray for those that have offended you.The more your spirit will strengthen and the flesh will weaken".I want this for myself 🤲

    • @sundayjonah9900
      @sundayjonah9900 2 роки тому

      The more you fulfil the desire of the spirit. For as many that are led by the spirit these are the sons of God.

  • @marieasangwe4453
    @marieasangwe4453 3 роки тому +1

    Log out or stonewall, all of me, no resentment no affection. I’m free from holding anyone. The Word & Holy Spirit makes the walk easy. Soo blessed

  • @graceakpan1616
    @graceakpan1616 2 роки тому +1

    Oh my God, ma'am you are talking to me oooo
    I couldn't if laugh even when you were funny bcos I see myself in all you have said and mine is worst bcos it's over little things. Anger and I pray God have mercy on me 😭😭😭

  • @BakeInngh
    @BakeInngh 2 роки тому +1

    ...The more your flesh will be weakened 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @eunicesunday2226
    @eunicesunday2226 3 роки тому +11

    No way! Can we have a part 2 of this preaching!!thanks to UA-cam that suggested this for me to watch and do blessed !!I

  • @favourgirlchannel6071
    @favourgirlchannel6071 2 роки тому +1

    You were speaking to me . I am very melancholic. Koraaaaaaa we are alike fully

  • @mafunasekaisi2290
    @mafunasekaisi2290 Рік тому +1

    Thanks very much. Right now I am working on it. It hsd come at ther right.

  • @nnennahannahorjiugo1986
    @nnennahannahorjiugo1986 Рік тому +4

    This message is gold.

  • @luckyeresuccess8967
    @luckyeresuccess8967 Рік тому +1

    Have fall in love with this Woman of God, the teaching are very powerful and so touching. There's no day I don't listen to her teaches. Oh God lift your servant above this level more and more IJN. I am well loaded with her teaches and am bless.

  • @bleslightenterprise3173
    @bleslightenterprise3173 Місяць тому

    Life changing message i am glad God please inbide in me the spirit of unconditional forgiveness

  • @celinewaweru7497
    @celinewaweru7497 Рік тому +3

    My life is changed..... Glory to God

  • @prudence-leah
    @prudence-leah 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you pastor and thank u holy spirit, help me to fight with love this time

  • @kadurujuliet1631
    @kadurujuliet1631 Рік тому +1

    You are so real with the Word of God.... In Human and in the Holy Spirit... God bless you abundantly.

  • @shalenelewis2031
    @shalenelewis2031 3 роки тому +2

    The one you help the most is always the one who hurt u the most.😔😔

  • @victordon7424
    @victordon7424 4 роки тому +4

    Ma u have truly touch me dis nite,God bless u

  • @Forzykay
    @Forzykay 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much ma for this message. A lot of the things you said about yourself is as though you were talking about me. I have a lot to work on. I won't let anyone turn me to evil because they are evil. One thing I have as a gift is that when I forgive, I barely remember what the person did to me. I forget maybe not because I choose to but I am wired that way. I just let it go. God bless you ma.