“Do I dare disturb the Universe?” Tolstoy asked. We cannot. A friend of mine walked home from the bar 10 years ago and was struck by a sober couple on their way to work. His decision to walk that night was the direct result of having lost one of our friends to drinking and driving some years before. RIP David “Prego” Pregerson.
thank you Dr Todd. My daughter was killed by an angry drunk in 2001. The woman got 4 years. Bekah lost her life and her loved ones lost her. her killer ended up getting out of prison after a little over 2 years. It was a hit and run, no skid marks, wrong side of the road. She was charged with murder and then allowed to plea for only a 4 year sentence. I remember the day the prosecutor told us about the plea deal. It was like they were killing my daughter all over again. Quite literally the 2nd worst day of my life.
If she had been overcome with remorse and was contrite and humble, maybe twenty years. Considering her attitude, eff her. Line her up and don't even blindfold her and let the whole precinct empty their mags into her.
I have a friend who had two children, and her husband was struck and killed by a young drunk driver who fled the scene, and never called the police. It was estimated that had she called for rescue, he might have survived, but she waited hours and then showed up with her mother. They claimed she had wine after she got home to calm her nerves, but most people knew they had contacted a lawyer to make up such a claim to cover for her drunk driving. She was not arrested, and within days of killing him was posting on FB about going out and drinking and partying. Needless to say she eventually took such posts down. She never served a single day in jail for killing a good husband and father to two children who will never know who he was.
I just came from Anthony Brian video from 4 days ago and he shows the article, as well as posted all the info with their name in description. He is just shy of 1 million subs...
@@milkcatdog394 I watched Bruce Rivers, Atozy, and Penguinz0. Can't remember the other one, I think it was a stream. But if their names were said in those videos then I just missed it
4% of us are psychopaths or sociopaths that have no empathy and then a portion of the population that have little empathy. Thank goodness that they’re not all immoral or criminals
4% of us are psychopaths or sociopaths that have no empathy and then a portion of the population that have little empathy. Thank goodness that they’re not all immoral or criminals
4% of us are psychopaths or sociopaths that have no empathy and then a portion of the population that have little empathy. Thank goodness that they’re not all immoral or criminals
@@01Z06guy I was hit by a car going about 49 mph (June 21, 2023). I (obviously) survived. Based on my own personal experience I consider it highly unlikely a leg can be severed by a car going 45 mph. Assuming the car is not modified.
ya and thats what really underscores the fact alcohol intoxication doesn't actually change personality, it just lowers some inhibitions. But still, most people would be in shock after having hit two people, let alone one...and having a severed leg from one of those people lodged in the grill of her car. She must have seen that as the video clearly shows. One could say initial shock might lead someone to deny hitting anyone...but...we see she said "person hit me", which is a very telling choice of words.
@@austinballard6815 you can have alcohol Induced psychosis. She was not in her right mind she thought she could go to school the next day. I am not saying this to absolve her of anything. I believe ppl should suffer the consequences of their actions regardless of mental illness or psychosis.
Weak judges impose weak sentences. And there's a lot of judges who unfortunately have poor judgement & shouldn't be on the stand. They don't have the brains or the spine to impose what is truly a just sentence for a particular defendant & take the easy way out from making the tough but necessary decisions in regards to sentencing & use the "sentencing guidelines" as a way out from making those tough but necessary decisions. This woman showed a callous attitude, no remorse and she disrespected the court at arraignment & during trial. A judge must determine the defendants ability to be rehabilitated & this woman showed no responsibility or remorse for her actions. That should've led the judge to impose much more than whatever the "guidelines" are which are usually in between the minimum & maximum sentence. A judge with proper discernment should've leaned much more toward the maximum because of the callous way she behaved. If I were the judge weighing the choice between a minimum & 28 max, I would've have told her that her callous disregard for the law & her victim leaves this court to impose a sentence of 24 years behind bars. The court must also weigh her past record & I believe that's her only conviction. That should be a factor in not imposing the full maximum so I would take off 4 years from the max for a clean record but add 10 years to the "sentencing guideline" of 14 years for her callous lack of remorse for her actions & the victim. That is sort of like an aggravated circumstance in imposing those 10 additional years from 14 to 24 years. With my truly "just" sentence, she would spend 16 years behind bars before eligibility for parole. She's too callous & immature to be paroled in 6 years when she's still only going to be 29. That will not be enough time to rehabilitate such an immature, sick & callous human being. She will most likely get out & go back to partying & driving under the influence & causing more death, harm or injury. I used to practice law & have a law degree. I've seen too many immature, addicted & callous people like her get light sentences & early parole & go back to being menaces to society. Over 90% of the people with her problems never learn from a light sentence & what sickens me is that these weak judges who impose these weak sentences are aware of this! It's a sickening outrage. "Sorry for being so long here with this writing. I would've been shorter but I didn't have the time!" Mark Twain 🙂
@@5thfloor584 true. But that's a symptom of having weak judges with poor judgement who shouldn't be on the stand. And there's too many weak prosecutor's & too many corrupt & politically motivated prosecutors and that's a symptom & a result of having a voter base/majority that has poor judgement & is politically motivated. Remember, trial judges & local & state prosecutor's get elected by majority vote by the people. People rightly complain about the injustices of the justice system but these biased & lousy judges & DA"s are bring elected & reelected by the voting majority. Power to the people but unfortunately the people are ignorant, dumb & biased as well.
This is a person that every time shes done something wrong, somebody has fixed it for her. In her mind, everything will always work out, because she's the star of the show.
Modern white women are so entitled its not even funny, yet wanna screech about how theyre oppressed. They think they should be able to get away with murder
I live near where this happened. Her own sister asked the judge to give her 28 years because she has no remorse or consideration for anyone other than herself.
The young man who killed my 18 y o nephew in 1994 received 364 days in jail so he could stay at the county jail and not be sent to a state penitentiary. DUI has never been taken seriously enough. Our family still suffers while he has gone on with his life.
It’s not taken seriously because the public does not care about it. Blame the public. Remove any politicians that do not support mandatory minimums for drunks and remove any judges that give lenient sentences. Period.
Well ya didn't you know weed is the real killer ruining everyone's lives so why should they care about drunk people weed is the problem not alcohol. Also this is a sarcastic comment btw
Im 35. Been to prison and seen guys get heavier sentences for domestic assault. That is barely a punishment. 11 years isnt enough for 2 lives. Our justice system is BROKEN.
Honestly I’m relieved that some people get more than 11 years for DV since abuse cases generally get a slap on the wrist here. I agree though, that she deserves a much harsher punishment. Our society infantilized young adults. Judges worry about them ‘getting out while they are still young.’ I’ve never been arrested but I think if your actions injure or kill someone, it shouldn’t matter very much if it was an accident or intentional. Many states have a max punishment of 25 years for DUIs that result in death. She should have gotten 25 years for each. People need to see young people with their whole lives ahead of them, spend it in prison for egregious actions like this. Many people have driven buzzed when they were young because it’s not treated seriously enough. I was hit by someone who was intoxicated at a young age (I was on foot, and only had some broken ribs thankfully), but it taught me not to do that. If we stop worrying about young perp’s futures more than the victims they create, then maybe this won’t be such a normal young adult experience.
Deaths resulting from DUI don’t qualify for First and Second degree murder. They do qualify for Third degree homicide/manslaughter though. The differences in the offenses are as follows: first degree murder is premeditated and you had a motive to kill the other person. Second degree murders means you had a motive, but the killing wasn’t premeditated. Third degree homicide/manslaughter is a death that occurs as a result of preventable negligence. You killed someone and you must be held accountable of course, but the death wasn’t premeditated and there was no motive. You just did something stupid and preventable and somebody ended up dead. Considering that in most states, the sentence for manslaughter per person killed is 7-10 years, the sentence of 14 years is not abnormal. She’s also a woman. As we know already know, women receive less prison time compared to men for the same equivalent crimes. Make no mistake. Her life is pretty messed up. She’s a felon. Whatever she was going to school for will be practically useless when she gets out due to the passage of time. Because of her felon status, she may not be able to work in that field anyway. She went from being a college student to being stuck in prison for the next 14 years with hardened criminals and real sociopaths/psychopaths. But I can’t say I feel sorry for her. She killed two people. Nothing will ever bring those people back.
It should be First degree murder!!! It's premeditated. You choose to drink, you choose to drive, you kill someone.... You PLANNED this.... DONE... Lock these evil people up and throw away the key!!!!
My husband used to work with a girl who hit and killed a pedestrian on the way to work early one morning. Her friend said she admitted to looking at her phone at the time but she told police it was dark and she couldn’t see him. At work my husband heard her laughing hysterically and asking how many “points” she got for killing a man with her car. We already knew she was a horrible person, but this was a new level of awful even for her.
'ACTING' is the correct word here, my friend... She wasn't really even all that drunk, ya know. In fact, I think she was drinkin' for CLARITY. Her car was heavily modified, and it is widely believed that she was even a street racer. She doesn't believe that she hit those 2 people; she actually thinks that THEY ran into HER. That's why she kept on claimin' that they came outta NOWHERE. Like as if they were GHOSTS. Are we clear on that now? 🍺😆👍
I worked with a guy that killed a motorcyclist. His glasses were the thickest I have ever seen in my life, don't know if poor eye sight was a contributing factor. I've owned 3 motorcycles and trust my own skills but its a matter of time before some negligent driver takes you out.
What's worse is that she'll still be able to live a long and fulfilling life when she gets out because 36 isn't even that old in life. I would be furious if I was the victim's family!
@@trophyscene5015 She has a long time to kill again, with her attitude its only a matter of time, I hope she does get rehabilitated to at least not to drink and drive again at least for her own self interest but I don't know.
Maybe not this video, there are other videos with the police walking towards the car and you can see him looking at the leg on the bumper, grill. But it's blurred, but you can see the color, and shape of the leg
“Can you say that as a cop?”……wow…….I have no words for that level of narcissism. Offended by how someone describes her actions, but not offended by her actions themselves.
Her words tell us a lot about her wretched character. What an absolute disgraceful excuse of a human being. She should never see the light of day again. RIP to the two responsible people, walking home. Condolences to their families and friends ❤❤
@@fionabell2931 The Hangover is real. She obviously needs to take responsibility for her actions but when we’re drunk our pre-frontal cortex turns off. That’s why I don’t get drunk anymore.
Take comfort in this, especially if you are RP-inclined: She will not be able to reproduce, in all probability. She will be post-wall upon release (it was already coming for her, from the look of the body cam footage). If she didn't have "leftover woman" writ large on her before that fateful night, she sure does now. The self-deletion odds will become more favorable (as a bet) in time.
I watched the entire body cam video of this incident on another UA-cam channel...it was extremely disturbing. She didn't just act like she didn't care for a few moments...she kept behaving belligerent throughout, including at the hospital. Never once did she show any emotion for the two people she murdered.
I watched that video as well. I understand when people are drunk that things may not register the same way as when they are sober. However, I kept waiting for her demeanor to change. The officer was not silent. He repeatedly told her what happened and she kept right on smiling and laughing. Most people, even when drunk, would have had reality begin to dawn on them at some point during the evening, but not her. I agree with Dr Grande - that was not the liquor talking, that was her.
@@calendarpageyep, I remember my university days being out drinking and if something went wrong we’d sober up pretty fast - I kept waiting for that to happen with her.
"I'm so sorry for everything, and I will never, ever commit anything like that again,” a tearful Melgoza said. "I have not drunk since that day. I do not plan on drinking ever again. I want to try to do something positive to make a difference, speak out about this and warn others about the dangers that come with drinking." she should've gotten 40 years, 20 years for each of her victims.
José Fernández, a dead MLB pitcher, was high on cocaine driving a speedboat at night. He crashed, killing his two friends. Granted, he died as a result of the crash but he gets tribute videos all over UA-cam. Yet, some no name chick and her family gets torn apart by the internet. The hypocrisy of celebrity worship astounds me.
Logan Paul has around 26 million subscribers here and it's a public knowledge that he scammed people for around 18 million $ via the scam project CryptoZoo. He still has a ton of sponsors which is disgusting and unfair while he should be in prison!@@warplace7058
@warplace7053 That's such a weird thing to say. It's like you're trying to defend her. First, the fact that a previous situation occurred before doesn't mean either is OK. Second, is there footage of whatsisface laughing about it? Or denying it & having zero remorse on camera for all to see? No, he died, too. It's not really the same thing, is it?
Oh my God... I am from Farmington. I knew her family. My sister babysat for Stephanie's family when Stephanie was younger. Her step-dad is a big shot in town and owned several businesses. She thought her step-dad would get her out of trouble with his money. He already did so for her once before. She even had the audacity to ask to walk in her graduation at Bradley.
If I was you, I would be doing everything to ruin her familie's lives, she just ruined another family and then we had to see how her father's money caused her to be egotistical and evil enough to kill people in the first place. I would be throwing shit at their house every single day.
@Shuhei Hisagi I left for good more than a decade ago. The dad enabled her. She has a brother around her age and he is a good kid. He joined the army and is doing something good with his life.
@@ryanbales8116 "He joined the army and is doing something good with his life" As someone who served 10 years...no he isn't. He's blowing up kids with drone strikes in Libya. You'd know that, but...well, people have a hard time coming to see the truth. We are the evil empire, friend.
There were so many clues to her narcissism and lack of empathy in that bodycam footage. I think most of the world agrees with you, Dr. Grande, that alcohol does not alter one's personality but instead removes the safeguards that people put in place to keep that part of them under control or locked away.
It will alter one's behavior. It's a poison. After repeated abuse it will change a brain, even if just temporarily. That said, it's still that person's responsibility.
She literally got away with murder. It’s sickening & pathetic all at the same time. She took absolutely no accountability for what she did as if she were still 3 sheets to the wind.
In an age where Uber, lyft and the likes are one tap of the phone away to take you safely home if you become inebriated, there is no excuse for this behavior.
A severed leg stuck in the grill of her car??? I couldn't agree more with you dr Grande - it's time for law enforcement to take DUI far more seriously! This woman's narcissism is beyond comprehension IMHO - time for people to start taking responsibility for their own actions - I think 30 years + would have been a appropriate sentence - thanks again for your analysis dr Grande
It wasn't law enforcement who gave her the sentence. People need to understand that police officers arrest people. That's it. They have no jurisdiction over how the D.A., the judge or the jury behave after that. This was, as usual, the fault of the court.
I had seen the bodycam footage but had never heard about the severed leg- that cop sure was calm and composed the whole way through considering what he’d seen- he BARELY lost his cool.
Lol... law enforcement does take DUI seriously. However, it's SOCIETY that does not take DUI seriously. 10,000 people a year are killed in DUI collisions... take 9/11 and triple it. Every year. For a crime that is 100% preventable.
When the mistake that caused death of innocent, the judge surely should focus on nothing and punishment let alone a cruel rude no remorse murderer!!! Sad world
Such a tragedy. I saw the whole body cam and it was incredible how she was only concerned when she was going back to school and Vegas. The policeman was doing his best not to lose his temper.
I agree! Alcohol doesn't change you into a completely different person. I think she's always been heartless with no empathy for anyone but herself. She was just too drunk to put up mask and pretend to care about anyone but herself
Your comment attempts to undermine the importance of a college education and fails to consider that Vegas provides avenues for improving one's financial situation.
@@RobbieStacks90 A college education will not turn a drunk narcissist into anything else. Vegas, on average, provides an avenue for worsening one's financial situation.
@@jguenther3049 too true. Vegas is known for their unemployment, low wages, homelessness and really high crime and addiction seems like the perfect place for this piece of garbage.
What a good point about her noticing being called "pathetic" but somehow failing to understand "you killed two people." When I read the headline I though she was too drunk to understand, but no... She's a narcissist.
Modern white women are so entitled its not even funny, yet wanna screech about how theyre oppressed. They think they should be able to get away with murder
But this girl kept asking things like "when will i get to go back to school". Doesnt seem like she could fully comprehend what happened. Ive been that drunk before to the point where i couldnt comprehend anything serious at all.
@Mapache Did we watch the same videos? She was rather careless when told she killed two people. You could attribute that to her high BAC, but that doesn’t make it right. She is most definitely a narcissist, that’s proven after the initial arrest. I’d save your pity for the family members of the deceased.
Shes a hardcore narcissist. I bet she thought she was being cute with her singing and antics. They always try to cutsie and charm thier way into manipulating people. It works most the time too.
Your right no sole human effort will convert her soul. Matthew 11:28-30 "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me, for I am meek and lowly of heart and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." Said Jesus Christ Jesus contains Salvation in his name and the Name of the God of Israel. Christ is greek for anointed one, someone smeared with oil consecrated or set apart for a specific purpose. He saves us from our Sins. Sin is defined as an offense or failure a transgression of the Law God's Law.. His Law is fulfilled in one Word Love however not Love in the Modern day sense. This Love involves great sacrifice and grace and extends to both friend and enemy. It is an action. He is the Holy Child of our Creator. Chosen to be Sacrifice, Propitiation of our sins to pay for debt we could not pay for ourselves he was without sin though he dwelled on earth as a man. He's more than that he was with Creator from the beginning of creation and created us he is. eternal. Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you shall be saved. May peace come to you may he be revealed to all.
From a previous Firefighter/1st responder of 15 years... I've picked up severed limbs, brains, eyeballs... YARDS AND YARDS away from a scene. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not drink and drive. Call a friend. Call a family member. Or just SIT STILL until you're SOBER and can safely operate a vehicle. All it takes is ONE ERROR...it doesn't have to be major ,just a half second of looking away, JUST ONE time, to destroy someone's life. Your life. The families and friends and communities of EVERYONE involved. And , believe me , first responders never forget. Each and every scene is permanently emblazoned in our memory. We hold people while they pass away. We try to keep injured people stable on scene with all our might. On Life Flights, ambulance rides, and we PRAY the entire time. We hold parents, sisters, brothers, grandparents, and children of the people injured and of those that are going to jail. We deliver bad news. We catch people when they faint from the news. Love your first responders. Keep them from ever having to pick up anyone else's lifeless body, because of a drunk driver .
and here she is laughing and smiling with body parts stuck in her car right there..........That cop was a saint with his restraint after what he just witnessed.
Thank heavens for people like you. I don't understand how first responders( we call them paramedics in South Africa) do what you do. Next level mental fortitude
ABSOLUTELY ! Alcohol doesn't "make" you mean, racist, or violent. Ppl are ALREADY those things and the alcohol just gives them an excuse to be themselves. 🌟
As a person who's in mourning right now because my nephew was hit and killed by a speeding SUV one week ago today, I'm extremely offended. Rest in peace to the victims and condolences to their families.😢
@Jaegar19Ultima Only ban that AR- 15 style and any other military, war like gun. I'm not talking about hand guns and riffles. Why do civilians need war like guns?
The two people she killed look so friendly and kind. This angers me a lot. Their poor families ..she stole their future memories. It’s hard to watch the faces of two people that look like they could be neighbours. She’s selfish and immature.
As a professional in 4 areas of Forensics, I can say with certainty that you are correct. It would literally terrifying you to know how many…It’s probably best to live in oblivion. There are those of us who know the truth and we’re doing our best to run interference for the rest of the population.
@@heathergreen4184 Having been raised by someone with NPD, I took a pretty dim view to begin with and I'm sorry to say the world hasn't let me down in my assessment.
Its a woman thats why they always get lesser sentences no matter how bad the crime. Severed leg sticking out of your vehicle?...no problem only 14 yeara
Everyone, man or woman, is eligible for 15% off for good behavior. It incentives inmates to not break rules in prison, which makes the prison run more smoothly.
Suppin', ok Loading ' with relatively recently free a l l Joe simply compounds, appen why lil modom played out with her song n dance routine. Think she's still schmiling today, Who ho way hey hey hey?!?!
@@lionelwashington8419 a male in Vegas literally just got 15 years for basically the same crime. Maybe try getting laid so you don't take all your frustrations out on "females".
Modern white women are so entitled its not even funny, yet wanna screech about how theyre oppressed. They think they should be able to get away with murder
You don’t know that at all, not even in the slightest. Don’t pretend you do, don’t pretend your assumption is reality. I cannot understand why y’all refuse to consider the likely possibility that sometimes, *sometimes* people just grow up and become bad people. It’s almost like you guys are just scared of that reality and that’s why you refuse to accept it.
Sadly, they are being trained to be that way. They are encourage to aspire to be billionaires or celebrities just for the sake of the money and fame. They are being trained that money and fame are the sole reason for human existence. It is an absolute cultural and economic train wreck which is heading into a concrete wall.
My 15 year old nephew was killed by a woman who was driving intoxicated. She never even got a ticket! Why? Her boyfriend was the police chief of that town. I struggled for years not to seek revenge on the both of them. I thank God I didn't play out my fantasies of what I wanted to do to them. I miss my nephew and his death destroyed that family.
Wow. I’m amazed at the responses to your comment. Downright evil people. You did the right thing not taking revenge. All balances out one way or another. You are strong for choosing self control over emotional reaction. You’d be in jail for the better part of your life if you were like the people in this comments section
i had close to the same thing happen to me back in 1988 my wife was killed by a drunk driver he had money and the prosecution let him plea to involuntary manslaughter the judge was a corrupt piece of shit who was also friends of his family and he threw the plea bargain out and completely dismissed the case. i never got justice my wife never got justice and my daughter had to grow up without her mommy and a corrupt piece of she judge set her killer free. needless to say i hate judges now.
The way she acted, with absolutely no remorse, is horrific! How awful for the family of those two people she murdered to see her cold, flippant attitude and indifference to their deaths. She should never have been allowed to graduate, and she should’ve gotten the maximum sentence in prison.
I would have been devastated if I clipped a car. She has no remorse from killing 2 people. Sick. A lot of these young people are so off the human base. I blame the parents too. How can you raise a demon with no empathy.
There was a severed leg hanging out of her grill and she's grinning. I'd label her a pyschopath. I can't believe the university went ahead and awarded her a degree. Her sentence should be 6 years of working in a morgue with car wreck victims. Any other country in the West and this woman would never see the inside of a car again.
@@ButterPawsKitty But why? If the person is crazy like she obviously is, being in a morgue wouldn't bother them like it does a normal person who is capable of empathy and kindness.
only 6 years? It would not bother her though, she feels little to no empathy, only thing she might complain about is any smells or environmental things like it might be cold or some crap.
I hadn't realised that she'd struck two pedestrians. I was under the impression that they too were motorists. The fact that she hit two bodies makes it even more horrendous! I once accidentally stepped on a snail and cried for three hours after giving the snail a burial (and I was 22 years old at the time). The fact that she killed two people and has no conscience is beyond unhuman.
Narcs lack compassion -they care nothing for anyone Being a vegan I can not understand the lack of compassion most everyone shows for all life -she just happen to be on a video but really she isn't terribly unusual
I believe that people just have different levels of empathy. I personally have a combination of being socialized to not show emotions as a male and diminished empathy for others due to neglect as a child. Even though I may feel kinda numb about this case, I do feel empathy that this had to happen to a couple that were probably just having a good night together, and I hope their final moments were the best they could have had. But that's also coming from empathy I have learned to have for others. That said, some people have never learned how to have empathy or how to have remorse for their actions, which I assume mostly comes from how you're treated in early childhood. I don't know, but she may have never been punished for anything she has done before.
People need to be accountable for their actions!!!! I was drunk, I was on drugs just don’t cut it. “ you chose to do those things”. You should be held accountable!!!!
It’s not just the difference between states, it’s also the specific charges that she was convicted of, and the fact that she killed 2 ppl instead of 1. If she had not been drunk, or if she had killed 1 person instead of 2, her sentence would have been less. She got extra penalties for the second person as well as for being drunk. On the flipside, something that worked in her favor is that she did call 911 right away, if she hadn’t called or if she had waited to call then her sentence would be longer
This actually shocked me drunk or not if I would've killed 2 people I would've been having a nervous breakdown. She acted cool and calm like it was just another day.
I had a uncle years ago that was sober and a nine year old boy rode into the street, fortunately my uncle was going only 25 mph in a 30 mph zone and both he and the boy swerved but the boys leg was still broken in two places. The young boy healed and everything was okay after his recovery but that has stayed with my uncle big time, from nightmares, night sweats and symptoms on PTSS. He was sober but like you said most people are just horrified by the thought of accidentally hitting or hurting anyone much less a child and this woman didn’t care that she killed two people. I understand praying 🙏🏼 that while driving you never want to hit a pedestrian or another vehicle and that’s while sober, I’ll never understand driving drunk especially knowing how it’s so preventable but like the Doc said some people have traits that lead them to be so reckless, however her lack of empathy was astounding and scary because I see that in more and more young people. My prayers are with the families of the victims, she has no clue just how many lives she’s destroyed and that’s counting her own family. The police officer was correct when he said she was pathetic, seeing the full camera video is truly disgusting. Please forgive all grammatical errors I have (MS) which causes many issues when trying to comment and have it even understandable sometimes. No pity please because I’m grateful and blessed to have my huge family and the strides made in better treatments and medications for MS.
Yea dude I think that was her having a drunken nervious breakdown. Shes in total shock and denial and rejecting reality as a way to deal with what she doent want to face. Its not that hard to see. The fact that there is no one saying saying his obvious stuff is just as shocking and dumb as the woman in the video.
@@kelleybutler9203 wow what a story it's a blessing they both where ok in the end. I can see why it would give someone PTSD that has a conscious and morals. This girls I pray she learns something in jail right now she seems to have no remorse.
Her lawyer wrote that! That comment doesn't mean anything cos that's not how she feels! Her lawyer probably wrote her statement to help with her sentence! If she actually felt that way she wouldn't have killed 2 people after driving drunk!
I deal with a lot of calls from drunk people professionally. When they are arrested they sober up quickly. They are crying they aren’t singing and dancing. What I’ve noticed is that at the sentencing she’s still playing victim by talking about the dangers of drinking as if this is something that happened to her. She shows no real remorse for killing these people.
@@facemuscles9 “a cluster B” is a very irresponsible and vague armchair diagnosis. She is antisocial, most probably a sociopath or a psychopath, and bipolar disorder could be involved, maybe a manic episode. But she is not “a cluster B” in the sense that se is mostly, if not solely, someone with antisocial personality disorder. And alcohol abuse is not a sympton of only cluster B disorders. Don’t throw a whole bunch of people into this mess. She’s a psycho, and most cluster b or bipolar people who are not anti social do not commit these types of crimes with no shame and no remorse like she did.
I almost cried when I saw the victims. The girl who killed them is selfish, self-centered, and has little to no conscience - every time she is told about their deaths she has no reaction and starts talking about what she wants to talk about. I’m absolutely certain that when this chick gets out of jail she’s going to be just as self-serving as when she went in. This is one useless, despicable, narcissistic chick.
Fourteen years? Four. Teen. Fucking. YEARS? And you know she'll be out before that and rejoining society, living the rest of her life and having a great time. This turns my stomach.
She's a special, strong, and empowered woman who deserved equitable leniency. Women have been oppressed for too long, so she doesn't deserve a long and harsh sentence.
The fact that she called 911 right away helped with her sentencing greatly. The sentences are less for drivers who call 911 right after the accident because they want to discourage hit and runs.
If it was in my power I would give her the death penalty. Fast and simple. Saves money, time, and less psychos out loose on the streets. A safer world.
The bodycam video has a very telling moment, after the policeman repeats that she killed two people. "People die," she responds - like her thought is -"Oh well - Not my fault. People die anyway." She turns her head and looks directly at the policeman with an open-eyed gaze that says, "So what?" That is the true character of that woman, right there. Thank you so much for your analysis. Definitely she was on more than just alcohol. As far as the family harassment is concerned - perhaps they may have taught her to value life - perhaps local people there see that aspect.
look at her getting offended when he says something critical about her, killing two people? Oh no biggie, when do I get my car back? what you dare say something critical about me?
@@MusMasi Yeah - typical. She can dish out death, but don't you dare, policeman, even tell her that drunk driving and killing people and not understanding what she did is "just sad." Her comment equals this - She has the right to drunkenly kill people - The policeman doesn't even have the right to free speech to tell her it is wrong,
As a career bartender, I’ve always understood “drunken words are sober thoughts” to be true, and that has worked well for me over the years. In vinos veritas!
My mother was killed in a car crash that myself, 3 days after i turned 4 years old and my 2 year old sister were also in. This was 1996, the guy said he was daydreaming. Which I doubt. I dont think drugs and alcohol were that looked into at the time. Its one of the only memories I have of her. Her hair in a ponytail, her head, limp. This hits me so hard. He never served jail time. He's still out there living his life today. Thank you for covering this. They should have thrown the book at him.
She is clearly a sociopath. It should be noted that if she did pull off the road into a parking or rest area, she could be arrested for DUI while not driving. The DUI laws are screwed up and punish the people who do the right thing.
this is more of a psychopathic behavior because narcs still feel a sense of guilt, their shame is more of a public emotion focused on the judgement of others, rather than feeling bad for what she did. While Psychopaths just dont care at all😭
@@erikhughes7150 kinda yeah but kinda also no. today everyone is the star in their own show. have you seen documentaries made by gen Zers? they're all in selfie mode and half the screen is taken up by their face and they talk about how THEY perceive the scene constantly, instead of letting the object of the doco speak for itself. imagine david attenborough constantly shoving his face in the camera. it didnt used to be like this. today "npc" and "normie" are insults. back in the day we all tried really hard to be normal and just go about our boring ass lives.
I JUST watched the body cam video of this horrific event. I was stunned to learn of the lenient sentence, and disgusted that this twisted individual blames alcohol for “causing” her to murder two people: the booze did it. One of the most stunning displays of self absorption and lack of accountability I have had the displeasure of witnessing. Not too sorry for her parents either: they raised that monster. RIP to the victims and condolences to their loved ones. Excellent points made by you, Doctor, thanks for this dissection of a vile mind.
Yet her self-centered personality is understandable. "I got to Bradley, how could this happen to me". I will guarantee that the $15K bail two days after her arrest and her light sentence was due to her parents spending big money for her defense lawyer. She was attending classes in the time before her graduation. I do not believe her behavior disorder will change in the long run. I hope it does.
@@ButterPawsKitty I laughed too, but it's impossible - only because no lawyer would even agree to do that on her behalf. She would be all on her own if she pursued that, no doubt about it.
@@KB4QAA No, narcissists can still care about others, just not as much as they care about themselves. A psychopath doesn’t feel anything for others. This person obviously can’t feel anything for the people she killed. Get your definitions straight.
@@musicnut1966 This single situation with strangers is not a good measure of attachment to others. She shows no cruelty nor strong manipulation that a psychopath would show. Her focus is upon herself as a narcissist would.
@@KB4QAA Psychopaths are everywhere. They don’t always have cruelty tendencies. A famous study was when a professor did a study on his students to find out if any of them were psychopaths, and found out he was one. She isn’t just caring about herself. She has zero empathy for others. She doesn’t have to be acting cruel or mean to others to be a psychopath. A normal narcissist (of which I have had 2 in my family), would at least be taken aback by the fact that 2 people were dead because of her. Yes, she was drunk, but it didn’t even matter at all to her for a split second.
Our social acceptance of alcohol and the destruction it causes is astonishing. We have technology that wouldn't allow a drunk driver to start a car, yet, everyday more tragedy.
When I was in high school my best friend stayed the night. Around 11pm his uncle came and picked him up, but didn't say why. I found out a few hours later that his mother had just been killed by a drunk driver. She had been driving her grand daughter somewhere when a drunk ran into her, the little girls were fine but she was killed instantly. The guy was from a wealthy family and had the best legal protection money can buy; didn't spend a single day in prison.
As an alcoholic in recovery, I can categorically state that when drinking I felt invincible! I really couldn’t even process the notion that “it could happen to me”, and it is only by the Grace of God that I didn’t kill others and/or myself.
Yes… I am in recovery as well… that is my worst nightmare .. by the Grace of God that could have been me. She proly was in a blackout.. no excuse just an explanation for her behavior
Same. Some of the kindest people I know have taken the most foolish risks with the lives of others while young and intoxicated. Alcohol definitely doesn't simply bring out the "real" you, whatever that even is. Being drunk is basically temporary brain damage that happens to be highly pleasurable for a large subset of the population.
My sobriety date is 1/29/22. Videos like these really put into perspective the damage I could have caused due to my selfish choices. Recovery is truly a gift of freedom and dignity, and I am so grateful for it. My deepest condolences to the victims of this woman.
Unless ur an alcoholic in recovery ur not gonna get it… the best people and the most unselfish people that I have met I met in my 12 step program… I want to encourage anyone to check it out.. I just got 11 years.. it’s a miracle
Same. Looking back, I’m HORRIFIED thinking about all the times I drove drunk. It’s a miracle that I didn’t harm anyone. I think about it several times a day, every day and I am so thankful things worked out the way they did.
A drunk driver killed my brother in law, 27, in 1981, I was pregnant when it happened and it was so incredibly tragic and painful for all of us, even my unborn son.😔 The young man, 24, fell to his knees and pleaded guilty, much to his lawyer’s dismay. He did 4 years for vehicular manslaughter, but I’m sure he still thinks about it, just like we do.
Thank you Dr. Grande! The officer was spot on. When I was 13 years old (back in 1986, my brother and I were hit by a drunk driver which caused our truck to flip several times. My brother did not make it. I remember that the officers brought the drunk guy in the hospital and he immediately saw me on the stretcher in the hallway and he was crying. He did ask the officers if he could come to me to apologize which they did and I know I was hurt and my brother (at that time was in surgery or being prepped) but I really felt bad for the drunk driver. He had more empathy than this cretin. I can also guarantee I never drove drunk because of this accident. It was a hard lesson for all, hard for my family and I lost my big brother and I never wish this on anyone. I always tell my son, drink responsibly and if he does drink, I’ll pick him up, no judgement.
When you said that alcohol doesn’t make you have a brand new personality. That’s so telling for people. It’s like it brings out the real self sometimes. The self that they don’t show or have learned to keep hidden. I’ve been intoxicated before and it just makes me silly and more carefree, but I never feel like a totally different person. So this is pretty telling. Never thought of it that way.
@@TheCheesePizzaGuy Because even in court she was still blaming the alcohol and not herself. The first step to being sorry is admitting you were wrong, not transferring blame to inanimate objects.
For heartless sociopathic monsters that you can't reason with, they don't empathy with what they done and how much others will suffer. Only the legal consequence can put a chilling effect on them: we can't ensure that you truely regret for what you have done, but at least we could ensure you won't be able to do that again right away, if ever. We are all humans, but not all humane. And BTW, the way she talks, sings and flirts, reminded me of one of my ex. "They hit my car", that is so typical of her rationale. They are of the same slefish and heartless kind: they could always hold their victim mentality, always manage to blame others for absurb reasons to justify their own immoral actions. Disgusting.
can you imagine living 50 years only to get caught surprise by a drunk college student and that's it. All that time, what you have learned the relationships built and time spent building yourself all taken away in a second.
@@r12rtpilot my friend was going to school to be an EMT,she got a job at the local ER to get some experience helping with emergencies that came in. It completely changed her decision she couldn’t handle it. you can’t just shut all of that off after work. It takes a special kind of person to do these kinds of jobs.
Traffic accidents are just like warfare on the streets. Of course, the movies rarely, if ever, actually show what happens if a grenade goes off by someone or if someone gets shot. TV and the movies show whole people being heaved up on a trampoline from the grenade or a spot or two of blood from a gunshot (old TV programs never even showed any blood -- they were magic bullets). It's John Wayne getting shot in the shoulder and declaring, "Gosh, Pilgrim, It's just a flesh wound" as he cocks his Winchester with the other arm to return fire. In actual car accidents -- as in war -- the body can be literally torn apart in chunks, heads or limbs (or pieces of limbs) being strewn about haphazardly. I served in Vietnam, and although I didn't see much, I saw enough. One time, years later in Southern California, I came upon the aftermath of a train accident that killed one man. The police went down the tracks covering the pieces of his body with tarps, until the coroner could show up to shovel up and bag the debris of what was once a human being. It's very easy to sever a limb from the sudden impact of a car accident. In this case discussed by Dr. Grande, the leg of one of the victims was sticking out of the grill almost as if the car were a shark digesting a meal. Vehicles are more dangerous than you realize. Yes, this defendant should have had her sentenced doubled -- she killed two people.
How in the world did her school seriously let her graduated having missed 1 month of class including her finals. That's insane that they decided to grant her a degree after this without even so much as making her retake her final semester after prison.
She got out on bond and the university allowed her to continue attending class and graduate. Other students protested this by writing messages in chalk on the sidewalk, which was promptly washed off by maintenance staff. I’m really curious what those last few weeks on campus were like for her. I hope her peers dealt out some karma, but it does seem as though she has some sort of privilege and connections with the school.
When one is drunk, the real person comes out. Her remorselessness and oblivious selfishness made her a dangerous person. She was going to hurt someone one way or another.
I’ve been hella hammered, but I’ve never been “2 people are dead because of my careless actions and I think it’s funny” hammered. The fact that she got basically 11 years is ABSURD. How?!
I agree. It's so absurd. One time I accidentally killed a lizard when I was drunk. I sobbed uncontrollably and told everyone that I was a murderer. The alcohol brought out a darkness that was always lurking inside of Stephanie.
This happened 30 minutes from me, and where I have spent a lot of time visiting my family. It makes me sick to think of what their family's have gone through because of this sick woman. Heartbreaking! She deserved way more time imo, people this narcissistic have a low chance of rehabilitation.
@@dgarzaart2000 this probably sounds bad but just based on her reaction, I hope she never feels a genuine smile again. She tried so hard to absolve herself just for the sake of getting on with her life. What she did may never really sink in for such a selfish brat.
She is clearly a sociopath. It should be noted that if she did pull off the road into a parking or rest area, she could be arrested for DUI while not driving. The DUI laws are screwed up and punish the people who do the right thing. There is a lack of outrage on these laws.
As a recovering addict I have never taken my driving test as I know I would've drived drunk. The things I've done on booze is way worse than what heroin & crack ever caused me to do. I'm 42 now and the idea of getting drunk ever again scares the sh*t out of me.
Are you in recovery now? (What you said about getting drunk again). If so, congrats! I'm just getting started on getting clean. Would you drive now if you aren't drinking?
@@spiralout1839 I'm clean/sober but I would still never take my test. I can drive,I learnt when I was 14 on private property. I just know that there is a risk of relapse so I wouldn't want my license. I was clean for 6 years and then relapsed so I have to be aware that no amount of time makes me "clean". Well done on you getting yourself sorted, as we say in Portsmouth (Pompey) UK we'd say, "well done mush, relax & don't cop on yourself"😘
@@carolinerowles5951 I relapsed at 25 years when my best friend passed away. Never imagined I'd do it but I didn't even think twice when I made that decision. I've often heard at meetings something like a relapse could happen but there's no guarantee on another recovery. I was blessed that after 1.5 years I got sober again. I have a little more than 5.5 years now. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
How in the world can you give 14 yrs. to someone who killed 2 people? It’s beyond me how the judge could be so lenient. There should be a mandatory sentence for such appallingly behavior especially since she is so self-centered. It just boggles the mind.
She reminds me of a female highschool classmate of mine ; rich , narcissistic, and extremely careless. It's almost like they were taught since young, in a fairytale-ish manner, that everything revolves around them, everything involving you will work out okay , and there are no consequences at all.
I call that the "cheerleader mentality" because cheerleaders were picked out of the prettiest girls and afforded many privileges and immunities far sbove "ordinary" students. Football players enjoyed the same impumity.
Most rich people do not act like that, because acting like that makes you poor very quickly. Bring reliable and delivering high quality services is what makes you rich.
Wow… the first time I saw clips of this, I thought she was in alcohol psychosis or something. She seemed to lose touch with reality. But hearing the part about the “DUI club” and whether this would affect her graduating shows she was much more aware of what was happening than I initially thought. Horrible.
This is the modern woman . Zero accountability for anything . They all live in lalala land . This behavior is pretty common once you’ve seen it in society . I’m good with society bunch of clowns
I think every car should have a breathalyzer. Like how all cars come standard with seatbelts, I know some people would game the system but I bet it would save thousands of lives each year.
Dr. Grande, I just want you to know how much I enjoy your videos. Your calm demeanor, dry humor, and intellect make for great viewing. I'm a now retired due to medical reasons. I'm an RN,BSN who worked for 34 yrs. Being unable to work has caused anxiety and some depression. Many late nights have been spent listening to your analysis, which I find right on target and always gives me more to contemplate. Congratulations on your UA-cam success. It's been fun watching your platform rise in popularity! ❤
I watched the video on another you tube channel and was absolutely shocked at her disassociation with killing two people and everything that goes with it. There are actually people out here like her is really scary.
@@oldreprobate2748well said, I am scared of seeing how much the culture pushes “me me me” attitude. Literally a drunk girl killed two people and goes “not my fault”… it’s like “no honey it’s 100% your fault and everyone knows it and YOU know it”
Even completely sober at her sentencing hearing, when allowed to say her piece and “apologize”, every single sentence started with “I…”. Every one. She didn’t name the victims even once. I’d be shocked to learn that she even knows their names today.
I’m afraid I must respectfully disagree… some substances certainly are powerful enough to literally alter ones personality temporarily. I also think their are gradients, steps to it, like a spectrum: from a simply chemical altering of ones personality all the way up to full-on demonic possession through doors these substances open up.
The responsible people that *walked* from the bar instead of driving ended up the ones losing their lives. It’s always so unfair.
Being responsible is not drinking
@@mandycote5662 seriously bars themselves need to be shamed
What you said makes more sense than any of the other responses.
Cut that 'always' and you are right
“Do I dare disturb the Universe?” Tolstoy asked. We cannot. A friend of mine walked home from the bar 10 years ago and was struck by a sober couple on their way to work.
His decision to walk that night was the direct result of having lost one of our friends to drinking and driving some years before.
RIP David “Prego” Pregerson.
thank you Dr Todd. My daughter was killed by an angry drunk in 2001. The woman got 4 years. Bekah lost her life and her loved ones lost her. her killer ended up getting out of prison after a little over 2 years. It was a hit and run, no skid marks, wrong side of the road. She was charged with murder and then allowed to plea for only a 4 year sentence. I remember the day the prosecutor told us about the plea deal. It was like they were killing my daughter all over again. Quite literally the 2nd worst day of my life.
I'm so sorry 🥺
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your daughter.
Lawyers r scum.
Oh wow. 😮
I’m so sorry.
❤
God bless you sweet Barb. I hope you find peace again in your life, and I hope you meet someone someday who has your daughter's spirit.
“Those people hit my car.”
Wow, I have no words for this.
11 years , that’s two words for it.
😂
@@justincraig398 honestly tired of women getting lesser sentences for being a woman
If she had been overcome with remorse and was contrite and humble, maybe twenty years. Considering her attitude, eff her. Line her up and don't even blindfold her and let the whole precinct empty their mags into her.
"The one person even got their leg stuck in my grill!"
I have a friend who had two children, and her husband was struck and killed by a young drunk driver who fled the scene, and never called the police. It was estimated that had she called for rescue, he might have survived, but she waited hours and then showed up with her mother. They claimed she had wine after she got home to calm her nerves, but most people knew they had contacted a lawyer to make up such a claim to cover for her drunk driving. She was not arrested, and within days of killing him was posting on FB about going out and drinking and partying. Needless to say she eventually took such posts down. She never served a single day in jail for killing a good husband and father to two children who will never know who he was.
Unbelievable!
So sad. 🙏
🤯Wow! That makes me so angry! I have no idea how difficult that must be. I'm sorry for your loss!🙏🏼
I've seen literally 4 other videos about this and you're the first one to mention the victims' names and show a picture. It's appreciated, thank you
I just came from Anthony Brian video from 4 days ago and he shows the article, as well as posted all the info with their name in description. He is just shy of 1 million subs...
That’s hard to believe
Yeah I’ve seen so many videos about this and this is my first time hearing the severed leg attached to her car. It gets so much worse
@@johnnylawrence9099 I haven't heard of him, but thanks for telling me. I'll check him out!
@@milkcatdog394 I watched Bruce Rivers, Atozy, and Penguinz0. Can't remember the other one, I think it was a stream. But if their names were said in those videos then I just missed it
What’s scary is there is a lot of people out there with lack of empathy
4% of us are psychopaths or sociopaths that have no empathy and then a portion of the population that have little empathy. Thank goodness that they’re not all immoral or criminals
Yes she has none for the poor victims
4% of us are psychopaths or sociopaths that have no empathy and then a portion of the population that have little empathy. Thank goodness that they’re not all immoral or criminals
4% of us are psychopaths or sociopaths that have no empathy and then a portion of the population that have little empathy. Thank goodness that they’re not all immoral or criminals
they are called women
“My car got hit” tells you everything you need to know about this woman
100%
It was someone else's fault
Right. My son when he was 5 would say “the door hit me”, No son you ran into the door
Two pedestrians hit her car and then fell down and died
@@pikazzor4186 She will now sue the families of the dead pedestrians for damage to her car.
The most disturbing part to me was that there was a "severed leg sticking out of the grill". What a horrible and painful way to die. 😢
Being eaten by a car 😢
To me that was the most disturbing also and she had to have seen it. Fourteen years is too generous.
Which means she was going a lot faster that the 45 she admitted to.
@@crand20033 Really? You have a lot of experience with how much speed is required to sever a leg?
@@01Z06guy
I was hit by a car going about 49 mph (June 21, 2023). I (obviously) survived. Based on my own personal experience I consider it highly unlikely a leg can be severed by a car going 45 mph. Assuming the car is not modified.
The sick thing is even as the night goes on and she becomes less and less drunk, she still never changes her deranged attitude to what happened.
ya and thats what really underscores the fact alcohol intoxication doesn't actually change personality, it just lowers some inhibitions. But still, most people would be in shock after having hit two people, let alone one...and having a severed leg from one of those people lodged in the grill of her car. She must have seen that as the video clearly shows. One could say initial shock might lead someone to deny hitting anyone...but...we see she said "person hit me", which is a very telling choice of words.
Less drunk than .26 ? She was never anywhere near sobering up.
@@pokeydokey8226 right. She wasn't sober until half way through the next day
@@austinballard6815 you can have alcohol Induced psychosis. She was not in her right mind she thought she could go to school the next day. I am not saying this to absolve her of anything. I believe ppl should suffer the consequences of their actions regardless of mental illness or psychosis.
Yeah, it’s takes a person a lot longer than that to sober up when this intoxicated. There’s a good chance she won’t remember most of the night.
I agree that the judge was too lenient in this case.
Weak judges impose weak sentences. And there's a lot of judges who unfortunately have poor judgement & shouldn't be on the stand. They don't have the brains or the spine to impose what is truly a just sentence for a particular defendant & take the easy way out from making the tough but necessary decisions in regards to sentencing & use the "sentencing guidelines" as a way out from making those tough but necessary decisions.
This woman showed a callous attitude, no remorse and she disrespected the court at arraignment & during trial.
A judge must determine the defendants ability to be rehabilitated & this woman showed no responsibility or remorse for her actions.
That should've led the judge to impose much more than whatever the "guidelines" are which are usually in between the minimum & maximum sentence. A judge with proper discernment should've leaned much more toward the maximum because of the callous way she behaved. If I were the judge weighing the choice between a minimum & 28 max, I would've have told her that her callous disregard for the law & her victim leaves this court to impose a sentence of 24 years behind bars.
The court must also weigh her past record & I believe that's her only conviction. That should be a factor in not imposing the full maximum so I would take off 4 years from the max for a clean record but add 10 years to the "sentencing guideline" of 14 years for her callous lack of remorse for her actions & the victim. That is sort of like an aggravated circumstance in imposing those 10 additional years from 14 to 24 years.
With my truly "just" sentence, she would spend 16 years behind bars before eligibility for parole. She's too callous & immature to be paroled in 6 years when she's still only going to be 29. That will not be enough time to rehabilitate such an immature, sick & callous human being. She will most likely get out & go back to partying & driving under the influence & causing more death, harm or injury.
I used to practice law & have a law degree. I've seen too many immature, addicted & callous people like her get light sentences & early parole & go back to being menaces to society. Over 90% of the people with her problems never learn from a light sentence & what sickens me is that these weak judges who impose these weak sentences are aware of this!
It's a sickening outrage.
"Sorry for being so long here with this writing. I would've been shorter but I didn't have the time!"
Mark Twain 🙂
No, that's just how they act towards female defendants. They've always had it easier in the justice system.
@@5thfloor584 true. But that's a symptom of having weak judges with poor judgement who shouldn't be on the stand. And there's too many weak prosecutor's & too many corrupt & politically motivated prosecutors and that's a symptom & a result of having a voter base/majority that has poor judgement & is politically motivated.
Remember, trial judges & local & state prosecutor's get elected by majority vote by the people.
People rightly complain about the injustices of the justice system but these biased & lousy judges & DA"s are bring elected & reelected by the voting majority.
Power to the people but unfortunately the people are ignorant, dumb & biased as well.
A FULL 60 YEARS MINIMUM
I really don’t understand how the death penalty wasn’t imposed and isn’t imposed on these horrible crimes.
This is a person that every time shes done something wrong, somebody has fixed it for her. In her mind, everything will always work out, because she's the star of the show.
Modern white women are so entitled its not even funny, yet wanna screech about how theyre oppressed. They think they should be able to get away with murder
Not anymore she’s not!
Typical privileged woman
Sounds like you're describing women in general 🤪
Probably been told her life she is a victim of an oppression society brigade she is acting like the victim despite the fact that she killed 2 poeple .
I live near where this happened. Her own sister asked the judge to give her 28 years because she has no remorse or consideration for anyone other than herself.
Reminds me of my sister
@@TheGamekingShow
Your sister that would do this?
Or your sister would rake you over the coals?
💔 The judge committed a crime by ignoring her own sister and giving the killer very little time. 🚫⚖️
@@daviegriffin3539 She got 14 years. That's actually high for this type of crime (sadly)
@@HeathcoatmanIt doesn't seem high for this specific case, considering all the factors that Dr. Grande explains in his analysis.
The young man who killed my 18 y o nephew in 1994 received 364 days in jail so he could stay at the county jail and not be sent to a state penitentiary. DUI has never been taken seriously enough. Our family still suffers while he has gone on with his life.
this is so painful to read, i’m so sorry you lost your nephew
It’s not taken seriously because the public does not care about it. Blame the public. Remove any politicians that do not support mandatory minimums for drunks and remove any judges that give lenient sentences. Period.
Well ya didn't you know weed is the real killer ruining everyone's lives so why should they care about drunk people weed is the problem not alcohol. Also this is a sarcastic comment btw
Don’t drink in Florida-zero tolerance,
Wow that's insane. I. Sorry for your nephew
Im 35. Been to prison and seen guys get heavier sentences for domestic assault. That is barely a punishment. 11 years isnt enough for 2 lives. Our justice system is BROKEN.
Exactly. This is fukn outrageous
Yup crazy
Honestly I’m relieved that some people get more than 11 years for DV since abuse cases generally get a slap on the wrist here. I agree though, that she deserves a much harsher punishment. Our society infantilized young adults. Judges worry about them ‘getting out while they are still young.’ I’ve never been arrested but I think if your actions injure or kill someone, it shouldn’t matter very much if it was an accident or intentional. Many states have a max punishment of 25 years for DUIs that result in death. She should have gotten 25 years for each. People need to see young people with their whole lives ahead of them, spend it in prison for egregious actions like this. Many people have driven buzzed when they were young because it’s not treated seriously enough. I was hit by someone who was intoxicated at a young age (I was on foot, and only had some broken ribs thankfully), but it taught me not to do that. If we stop worrying about young perp’s futures more than the victims they create, then maybe this won’t be such a normal young adult experience.
No shit
The judge is a simpy man if the judge was a man get red pilled guys
All DUI -- caused deaths should result in 2nd degree murder charges at a minimum.
first degree, they chose to drink knowing they had a weapon .....their car
@MisterKool I’m in Canada it’s different here !!
Lead boots in a lake 😊🐟😱☠️
Deaths resulting from DUI don’t qualify for First and Second degree murder. They do qualify for Third degree homicide/manslaughter though. The differences in the offenses are as follows: first degree murder is premeditated and you had a motive to kill the other person. Second degree murders means you had a motive, but the killing wasn’t premeditated. Third degree homicide/manslaughter is a death that occurs as a result of preventable negligence. You killed someone and you must be held accountable of course, but the death wasn’t premeditated and there was no motive. You just did something stupid and preventable and somebody ended up dead. Considering that in most states, the sentence for manslaughter per person killed is 7-10 years, the sentence of 14 years is not abnormal. She’s also a woman. As we know already know, women receive less prison time compared to men for the same equivalent crimes.
Make no mistake. Her life is pretty messed up. She’s a felon. Whatever she was going to school for will be practically useless when she gets out due to the passage of time. Because of her felon status, she may not be able to work in that field anyway. She went from being a college student to being stuck in prison for the next 14 years with hardened criminals and real sociopaths/psychopaths. But I can’t say I feel sorry for her. She killed two people. Nothing will ever bring those people back.
It should be First degree murder!!! It's premeditated. You choose to drink, you choose to drive, you kill someone.... You PLANNED this....
DONE... Lock these evil people up and throw away the key!!!!
My husband used to work with a girl who hit and killed a pedestrian on the way to work early one morning. Her friend said she admitted to looking at her phone at the time but she told police it was dark and she couldn’t see him. At work my husband heard her laughing hysterically and asking how many “points” she got for killing a man with her car. We already knew she was a horrible person, but this was a new level of awful even for her.
'ACTING' is the correct word here, my friend... She wasn't really even all that drunk, ya know. In fact, I think she was drinkin' for CLARITY. Her car was heavily modified, and it is widely believed that she was even a street racer. She doesn't believe that she hit those 2 people; she actually thinks that THEY ran into HER. That's why she kept on claimin' that they came outta NOWHERE. Like as if they were GHOSTS. Are we clear on that now? 🍺😆👍
She will get hers one way or the other.
can't believe how the law and car culture protect some murderer, straight up evil...
@@OtomoTenzi if she was a street racer she must have been even more stupid than i thought for trying to make a fiat fast
I worked with a guy that killed a motorcyclist. His glasses were the thickest I have ever seen in my life, don't know if poor eye sight was a contributing factor. I've owned 3 motorcycles and trust my own skills but its a matter of time before some negligent driver takes you out.
It’s the detail about the severed leg that’s really chilling. Yikes! May those 2 people RIP after being carelessly killed.
What's worse is that she'll still be able to live a long and fulfilling life when she gets out because 36 isn't even that old in life. I would be furious if I was the victim's family!
@@trophyscene5015 She has a long time to kill again, with her attitude its only a matter of time, I hope she does get rehabilitated to at least not to drink and drive again at least for her own self interest but I don't know.
@@MusMasi She doesn’t really seem to care which is the problem
@@trophyscene5015 Prison inmates will not tolerate her attitude... so, she may not exist long enough to get released! 😮
Maybe not this video, there are other videos with the police walking towards the car and you can see him looking at the leg on the bumper, grill. But it's blurred, but you can see the color, and shape of the leg
“Can you say that as a cop?”……wow…….I have no words for that level of narcissism. Offended by how someone describes her actions, but not offended by her actions themselves.
Her words tell us a lot about her wretched character. What an absolute disgraceful excuse of a human being. She should never see the light of day again.
RIP to the two responsible people, walking home. Condolences to their families and friends ❤❤
@@fionabell2931 The Hangover is real. She obviously needs to take responsibility for her actions but when we’re drunk our pre-frontal cortex turns off. That’s why I don’t get drunk anymore.
Dumb
Take comfort in this, especially if you are RP-inclined: She will not be able to reproduce, in all probability. She will be post-wall upon release (it was already coming for her, from the look of the body cam footage). If she didn't have "leftover woman" writ large on her before that fateful night, she sure does now. The self-deletion odds will become more favorable (as a bet) in time.
It's really sad
I watched the entire body cam video of this incident on another UA-cam channel...it was extremely disturbing. She didn't just act like she didn't care for a few moments...she kept behaving belligerent throughout, including at the hospital. Never once did she show any emotion for the two people she murdered.
I watched that video as well. I understand when people are drunk that things may not register the same way as when they are sober. However, I kept waiting for her demeanor to change. The officer was not silent. He repeatedly told her what happened and she kept right on smiling and laughing. Most people, even when drunk, would have had reality begin to dawn on them at some point during the evening, but not her. I agree with Dr Grande - that was not the liquor talking, that was her.
@@calendarpage 💯
@@calendarpageyep, I remember my university days being out drinking and if something went wrong we’d sober up pretty fast - I kept waiting for that to happen with her.
I bet millions of people in America are just like her. Mainly worthless entitled rich white people.
I wish there was a camera on her the next day when it hits her
"I'm so sorry for everything, and I will never, ever commit anything like that again,” a tearful Melgoza said. "I have not drunk since that day. I do not plan on drinking ever again. I want to try to do something positive to make a difference, speak out about this and warn others about the dangers that come with drinking." she should've gotten 40 years, 20 years for each of her victims.
Straight off an attorneys script 😂
José Fernández, a dead MLB pitcher, was high on cocaine driving a speedboat at night. He crashed, killing his two friends. Granted, he died as a result of the crash but he gets tribute videos all over UA-cam. Yet, some no name chick and her family gets torn apart by the internet. The hypocrisy of celebrity worship astounds me.
Logan Paul has around 26 million subscribers here and it's a public knowledge that he scammed people for around 18 million $ via the scam project CryptoZoo. He still has a ton of sponsors which is disgusting and unfair while he should be in prison!@@warplace7058
Blaming alchohol for her actions? She is pathetic.
@warplace7053 That's such a weird thing to say. It's like you're trying to defend her. First, the fact that a previous situation occurred before doesn't mean either is OK. Second, is there footage of whatsisface laughing about it? Or denying it & having zero remorse on camera for all to see? No, he died, too.
It's not really the same thing, is it?
“Those people hit my car.” shows she was aware she ran over two people - and the callousness of her spirit.
Stupid....
Oh my God... I am from Farmington. I knew her family. My sister babysat for Stephanie's family when Stephanie was younger. Her step-dad is a big shot in town and owned several businesses. She thought her step-dad would get her out of trouble with his money. He already did so for her once before. She even had the audacity to ask to walk in her graduation at Bradley.
If I was you, I would be doing everything to ruin her familie's lives, she just ruined another family and then we had to see how her father's money caused her to be egotistical and evil enough to kill people in the first place.
I would be throwing shit at their house every single day.
@Shuhei Hisagi I left for good more than a decade ago. The dad enabled her. She has a brother around her age and he is a good kid. He joined the army and is doing something good with his life.
wym audacity? he didn't kill 2 people
@@ryanbales8116 "He joined the army and is doing something good with his life" As someone who served 10 years...no he isn't. He's blowing up kids with drone strikes in Libya. You'd know that, but...well, people have a hard time coming to see the truth.
We are the evil empire, friend.
@@Sputterbug read what I wrote again. I said, SHE had the audacity.
There were so many clues to her narcissism and lack of empathy in that bodycam footage. I think most of the world agrees with you, Dr. Grande, that alcohol does not alter one's personality but instead removes the safeguards that people put in place to keep that part of them under control or locked away.
It will alter one's behavior. It's a poison. After repeated abuse it will change a brain, even if just temporarily. That said, it's still that person's responsibility.
Absolutely! It's a good way of knowing what kind of person you're really dealing with.
Very interesting. I think she looks like a drunk psychopathic teletubbie.
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This is your america
I prefer BRICS alliance
I think this is what you get when you are used to getting off light all-the-time. Eventually even death is a joke and you expect a slap on the wrist.
She literally got away with murder. It’s sickening & pathetic all at the same time. She took absolutely no accountability for what she did as if she were still 3 sheets to the wind.
I agree with Dr. Grande the sentence was quite generous but I wouldn't call over a decade in prison "getting away with murder."
In an age where Uber, lyft and the likes are one tap of the phone away to take you safely home if you become inebriated, there is no excuse for this behavior.
This!
I totally agree and tell my son that all the time. I will even pay for Uber rides if needed. No questions asked.
Taxis have always been a thing...they didn't use them then, they won't use the others either...
@@Road_Rash before uber's and lifts there where free rides for people in cali at least. I know for a fact
Say it louder for the ones in the back
A severed leg stuck in the grill of her car??? I couldn't agree more with you dr Grande - it's time for law enforcement to take DUI far more seriously! This woman's narcissism is beyond comprehension IMHO - time for people to start taking responsibility for their own actions - I think 30 years + would have been a appropriate sentence - thanks again for your analysis dr Grande
It wasn't law enforcement who gave her the sentence. People need to understand that police officers arrest people. That's it. They have no jurisdiction over how the D.A., the judge or the jury behave after that. This was, as usual, the fault of the court.
I had seen the bodycam footage but had never heard about the severed leg- that cop sure was calm and composed the whole way through considering what he’d seen- he BARELY lost his cool.
Lol... law enforcement does take DUI seriously. However, it's SOCIETY that does not take DUI seriously. 10,000 people a year are killed in DUI collisions... take 9/11 and triple it. Every year. For a crime that is 100% preventable.
I would of thrown up and being inconsolable, being drunk does not make you immune to empathy and trauma.
When the mistake that caused death of innocent, the judge surely should focus on nothing and punishment let alone a cruel rude no remorse murderer!!! Sad world
Such a tragedy. I saw the whole body cam and it was incredible how she was only concerned when she was going back to school and Vegas. The policeman was doing his best not to lose his temper.
I agree! Alcohol doesn't change you into a completely different person. I think she's always been heartless with no empathy for anyone but herself. She was just too drunk to put up mask and pretend to care about anyone but herself
Your comment attempts to undermine the importance of a college education and fails to consider that Vegas provides avenues for improving one's financial situation.
@@RobbieStacks90 A college education will not turn a drunk narcissist into anything else. Vegas, on average, provides an avenue for worsening one's financial situation.
@@jguenther3049 he's being sarcastic ...
@@jguenther3049 too true. Vegas is known for their unemployment, low wages, homelessness and really high crime and addiction seems like the perfect place for this piece of garbage.
It always seems like complete trash is killing good people. All over the place.
So true
What a good point about her noticing being called "pathetic" but somehow failing to understand "you killed two people." When I read the headline I though she was too drunk to understand, but no... She's a narcissist.
Modern white women are so entitled its not even funny, yet wanna screech about how theyre oppressed. They think they should be able to get away with murder
But this girl kept asking things like "when will i get to go back to school". Doesnt seem like she could fully comprehend what happened. Ive been that drunk before to the point where i couldnt comprehend anything serious at all.
@Mapache you assume so much. She didnt wake up in the jail before this footage. She hadnt seen the jail yet. Quit excusing entitled behavior you simp
@Mapache Did we watch the same videos? She was rather careless when told she killed two people. You could attribute that to her high BAC, but that doesn’t make it right. She is most definitely a narcissist, that’s proven after the initial arrest. I’d save your pity for the family members of the deceased.
Shes a hardcore narcissist. I bet she thought she was being cute with her singing and antics. They always try to cutsie and charm thier way into manipulating people. It works most the time too.
What a heartless creature she was. No amount of rehabilitation will work on someone who clearly has no soul.
Your right no sole human effort will convert her soul.
Matthew 11:28-30 "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me, for I am meek and lowly of heart and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." Said Jesus Christ
Jesus contains Salvation in his name and the Name of the God of Israel.
Christ is greek for anointed one, someone smeared with oil consecrated or set apart for a specific purpose.
He saves us from our Sins.
Sin is defined as an offense or failure a transgression of the Law God's Law..
His Law is fulfilled in one Word Love however not Love in the Modern day sense.
This Love involves great sacrifice and grace and extends to both friend and enemy.
It is an action.
He is the Holy Child of our Creator.
Chosen to be Sacrifice, Propitiation of our sins to pay for debt we could not pay for ourselves he was without sin though he dwelled on earth as a man.
He's more than that he was with Creator from the beginning of creation and created us he is. eternal.
Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you shall be saved.
May peace come to you may he be revealed to all.
From a previous Firefighter/1st responder of 15 years...
I've picked up severed limbs, brains, eyeballs... YARDS AND YARDS away from a scene.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not drink and drive. Call a friend. Call a family member. Or just SIT STILL until you're SOBER and can safely operate a vehicle. All it takes is ONE ERROR...it doesn't have to be major ,just a half second of looking away, JUST ONE time, to destroy someone's life. Your life. The families and friends and communities of EVERYONE involved.
And , believe me , first responders never forget. Each and every scene is permanently emblazoned in our memory. We hold people while they pass away. We try to keep injured people stable on scene with all our might. On Life Flights, ambulance rides, and we PRAY the entire time.
We hold parents, sisters, brothers, grandparents, and children of the people injured and of those that are going to jail.
We deliver bad news. We catch people when they faint from the news.
Love your first responders. Keep them from ever having to pick up anyone else's lifeless body, because of a drunk driver .
I am sorry that you went through all that.
and here she is laughing and smiling with body parts stuck in her car right there..........That cop was a saint with his restraint after what he just witnessed.
This brought tears to my eyes. Thank you 🙏🏽💕
Thank heavens for people like you. I don't understand how first responders( we call them paramedics in South Africa) do what you do. Next level mental fortitude
God bless you and your loved ones for your sacrifice and commitment. Thank you for your undeniable selfless service for others.
This creep should have gotten the maximum sentence which should be life in prison, no parole. This country is too soft on violent crime.
I agree with her father. I read her sister pleaded with the judge for the maximum sentence of 28 years. So many lives ruined by one selfish act.
that speaks VOLUMES the sister felt so strongly her sister was to be punished!
I guess a narcissistic drunk.
I don't think it's very rare.
These days people are trained to be nuts from their youth.
they’re mid lives anyway
Nah, just 2 worthless lives.
@@legioparati2711 Just because you see your own life as worthless, doesn't mean others are.
I think alcohol just tends to magnify people's true nature. This woman seems evil.
Yes, I agree. But I think she's not only evil but probably dumb as well.
seems no she does not seem she IS
Don't think too hard you might break something.
ABSOLUTELY ! Alcohol doesn't "make" you mean, racist, or violent. Ppl are ALREADY those things and the alcohol just gives them an excuse to be themselves. 🌟
@@nbrown5907 dumb
As a person who's in mourning right now because my nephew was hit and killed by a speeding SUV one week ago today, I'm extremely offended. Rest in peace to the victims and condolences to their families.😢
Sorry for you loss ❤
Sending hugs 😢
@Jaegar19Ultima Only ban that AR- 15 style and any other military, war like gun. I'm not talking about hand guns and riffles. Why do civilians need war like guns?
@@amberkelly3187 Thank you my
@Jaegar19Ultima I also kinda feel motorcycles need to be ban also. They are dangerous and a lot of people killed and seriously injured on them.
The two people she killed look so friendly and kind. This angers me a lot.
Their poor families ..she stole their future memories.
It’s hard to watch the faces of two people that look like they could be neighbours. She’s selfish and immature.
What scares me is I suspect there are way more people like her walking around than we'd like to think.
I'm ok with them walking, but keep them away from any machinery
It scares me too... it looks like an epidemic of severe and dangerous mental illnesses such as Borderline, Bipolar and Narcissistic disorders.
As a professional in 4 areas of Forensics, I can say with certainty that you are correct. It would literally terrifying you to know how many…It’s probably best to live in oblivion. There are those of us who know the truth and we’re doing our best to run interference for the rest of the population.
@@4Kandlez I'm ok with them walking around in prison.
@@heathergreen4184 Having been raised by someone with NPD, I took a pretty dim view to begin with and I'm sorry to say the world hasn't let me down in my assessment.
It's horrible that a murderer like her gets a reduced sentence, for absolutely no reason.
Its a woman thats why they always get lesser sentences no matter how bad the crime. Severed leg sticking out of your vehicle?...no problem only 14 yeara
What's crazy is in other states people get 40 years for the same thing.
Everyone, man or woman, is eligible for 15% off for good behavior. It incentives inmates to not break rules in prison, which makes the prison run more smoothly.
Suppin', ok
Loading ' with relatively recently free a l l Joe simply compounds, appen why lil modom played out with her song n dance routine.
Think she's still schmiling today, Who ho way hey hey hey?!?!
@@lionelwashington8419 a male in Vegas literally just got 15 years for basically the same crime. Maybe try getting laid so you don't take all your frustrations out on "females".
Obviously she has been "protected" her entire life. Raised like a princess and knowing little about the real world or herself. Good job parents!!
She is a psycho.
Its a hard pill to swallow for parents that want to spoil their kids since they had a rough upcoming, they never knew the importance of life lessons
Modern white women are so entitled its not even funny, yet wanna screech about how theyre oppressed. They think they should be able to get away with murder
You don’t know that at all, not even in the slightest. Don’t pretend you do, don’t pretend your assumption is reality. I cannot understand why y’all refuse to consider the likely possibility that sometimes, *sometimes* people just grow up and become bad people. It’s almost like you guys are just scared of that reality and that’s why you refuse to accept it.
and shes built like a bus
Lipstick on a pig and call it Stephanie.
I know it's immature, but I don't care. That thing is evil.
Oh stop it, it's not a big deal
Stop being such a judgemental person
as soon as I saw her stumbling walk in her sobriety test, my mind was "who let the hogs out? oink oink oink oink oink!!
Sounds based to me.
It is truly alarming to witness individuals who show no regard for others' lives, lack empathy, and evade responsibility.
You've just described most of the U.S. Congress.
Sadly, they are being trained to be that way. They are encourage to aspire to be billionaires or celebrities just for the sake of the money and fame. They are being trained that money and fame are the sole reason for human existence. It is an absolute cultural and economic train wreck which is heading into a concrete wall.
@@marianhunt8899 Society is not responsible for her behavior and actions. Only she is.
My 15 year old nephew was killed by a woman who was driving intoxicated. She never even got a ticket! Why? Her boyfriend was the police chief of that town. I struggled for years not to seek revenge on the both of them. I thank God I didn't play out my fantasies of what I wanted to do to them. I miss my nephew and his death destroyed that family.
I’m sorry for you loss and my heart goes out to you. No one should have to live with that.❤️
u should have taken revenge
@@thelatelatelatelateshowlmao yup
Wow. I’m amazed at the responses to your comment. Downright evil people. You did the right thing not taking revenge. All balances out one way or another. You are strong for choosing self control over emotional reaction. You’d be in jail for the better part of your life if you were like the people in this comments section
i had close to the same thing happen to me back in 1988 my wife was killed by a drunk driver he had money and the prosecution let him plea to involuntary manslaughter the judge was a corrupt piece of shit who was also friends of his family and he threw the plea bargain out and completely dismissed the case. i never got justice my wife never got justice and my daughter had to grow up without her mommy and a corrupt piece of she judge set her killer free. needless to say i hate judges now.
The way she acted, with absolutely no remorse, is horrific! How awful for the family of those two people she murdered to see her cold, flippant attitude and indifference to their deaths. She should never have been allowed to graduate, and she should’ve gotten the maximum sentence in prison.
I would have been devastated if I clipped a car. She has no remorse from killing 2 people. Sick. A lot of these young people are so off the human base. I blame the parents too. How can you raise a demon with no empathy.
I'm so glad she got 14 years. Too many of these scumbags are getting a slap on the wrist
she was extremely drunk, she did have remorse in court when she was sober. I dont think she had any empathy when she decided to drink and drive though
@@bhillis99 lmao has nothing to do with age, boomer
@@Sputterbug lol wow. You just showed some ignorance. You take up for the killer. I won’t now don’t reply to me again. Bye.
A leg stuck in the bumper... horrifying, she is a menace to society and belongs in prison for a long time.
There was a severed leg hanging out of her grill and she's grinning. I'd label her a pyschopath. I can't believe the university went ahead and awarded her a degree. Her sentence should be 6 years of working in a morgue with car wreck victims. Any other country in the West and this woman would never see the inside of a car again.
Ooo, I like the Morgue job! That should be a regular sentence.
@@ButterPawsKitty But why? If the person is crazy like she obviously is, being in a morgue wouldn't bother them like it does a normal person who is capable of empathy and kindness.
only 6 years? It would not bother her though, she feels little to no empathy, only thing she might complain about is any smells or environmental things like it might be cold or some crap.
@@ButterPawsKitty you get paid a good amount for that though
Sadly a life driving ban is rare here in the UK. "Car brain" society.
She should get 22 years for each person she killed.
EXACTLY!!!
She killed my soul. Does that count as as another 22?
I agree
Sentence should be a minimum of life expectancy of victim less victims age.
So 85 less 55 means 30 years served prior to being eligible for parole
I hadn't realised that she'd struck two pedestrians. I was under the impression that they too were motorists. The fact that she hit two bodies makes it even more horrendous! I once accidentally stepped on a snail and cried for three hours after giving the snail a burial (and I was 22 years old at the time). The fact that she killed two people and has no conscience is beyond unhuman.
Narcs lack compassion -they care nothing for anyone Being a vegan I can not understand the lack of compassion most everyone shows for all life -she just happen to be on a video but really she isn't terribly unusual
I killed a spider yesterday on accident and was thinking about it and tearing up for hours
A severed leg was hanging off her car and she was just laughing. Also, that's very sweet that you gave the snail a burial. 🐌
I believe that people just have different levels of empathy. I personally have a combination of being socialized to not show emotions as a male and diminished empathy for others due to neglect as a child. Even though I may feel kinda numb about this case, I do feel empathy that this had to happen to a couple that were probably just having a good night together, and I hope their final moments were the best they could have had. But that's also coming from empathy I have learned to have for others. That said, some people have never learned how to have empathy or how to have remorse for their actions, which I assume mostly comes from how you're treated in early childhood. I don't know, but she may have never been punished for anything she has done before.
I didn't realize they were just out for a walk also, that is insane. I thought they were driving a car..
People need to be accountable for their actions!!!! I was drunk, I was on drugs just don’t cut it. “ you chose to do those things”. You should be held accountable!!!!
It's genuinely disturbing to see how she does not care at all about the 2 people she killed.
She's a narcissist.
I dont understand, why do some killers in USA get 2-3 life sentences and she gets 14 years?
The difference from state to state is sooo huge!
Women also tend to get lighter sentences than men.
cuz the state still needs its birthrate
Car crimes are always punished a lot less severely
Because she's a woman.
It’s not just the difference between states, it’s also the specific charges that she was convicted of, and the fact that she killed 2 ppl instead of 1. If she had not been drunk, or if she had killed 1 person instead of 2, her sentence would have been less. She got extra penalties for the second person as well as for being drunk. On the flipside, something that worked in her favor is that she did call 911 right away, if she hadn’t called or if she had waited to call then her sentence would be longer
This actually shocked me drunk or not if I would've killed 2 people I would've been having a nervous breakdown. She acted cool and calm like it was just another day.
Sometimes when I drive, I pray I won’t hit anyone. That’s something you would live with forever.
I had a uncle years ago that was sober and a nine year old boy rode into the street, fortunately my uncle was going only 25 mph in a 30 mph zone and both he and the boy swerved but the boys leg was still broken in two places. The young boy healed and everything was okay after his recovery but that has stayed with my uncle big time, from nightmares, night sweats and symptoms on PTSS. He was sober but like you said most people are just horrified by the thought of accidentally hitting or hurting anyone much less a child and this woman didn’t care that she killed two people. I understand praying 🙏🏼 that while driving you never want to hit a pedestrian or another vehicle and that’s while sober, I’ll never understand driving drunk especially knowing how it’s so preventable but like the Doc said some people have traits that lead them to be so reckless, however her lack of empathy was astounding and scary because I see that in more and more young people. My prayers are with the families of the victims, she has no clue just how many lives she’s destroyed and that’s counting her own family. The police officer was correct when he said she was pathetic, seeing the full camera video is truly disgusting.
Please forgive all grammatical errors I have (MS) which causes many issues when trying to comment and have it even understandable sometimes. No pity please because I’m grateful and blessed to have my huge family and the strides made in better treatments and medications for MS.
Yea dude I think that was her having a drunken nervious breakdown. Shes in total shock and denial and rejecting reality as a way to deal with what she doent want to face. Its not that hard to see. The fact that there is no one saying saying his obvious stuff is just as shocking and dumb as the woman in the video.
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@@kelleybutler9203 wow what a story it's a blessing they both where ok in the end. I can see why it would give someone PTSD that has a conscious and morals. This girls I pray she learns something in jail right now she seems to have no remorse.
"I'll will live with this for the rest of my life..." Yeah, at least you'll be living!
Her lawyer wrote that! That comment doesn't mean anything cos that's not how she feels! Her lawyer probably wrote her statement to help with her sentence! If she actually felt that way she wouldn't have killed 2 people after driving drunk!
I deal with a lot of calls from drunk people professionally. When they are arrested they sober up quickly. They are crying they aren’t singing and dancing.
What I’ve noticed is that at the sentencing she’s still playing victim by talking about the dangers of drinking as if this is something that happened to her. She shows no real remorse for killing these people.
I was thinking some cluster b with the alcohol. Her level of entitlement is off the charts.
Looks like a entitled itch
Exactly. She doesn't get it at all.
@@facemuscles9 “a cluster B” is a very irresponsible and vague armchair diagnosis. She is antisocial, most probably a sociopath or a psychopath, and bipolar disorder could be involved, maybe a manic episode. But she is not “a cluster B” in the sense that se is mostly, if not solely, someone with antisocial personality disorder. And alcohol abuse is not a sympton of only cluster B disorders. Don’t throw a whole bunch of people into this mess. She’s a psycho, and most cluster b or bipolar people who are not anti social do not commit these types of crimes with no shame and no remorse like she did.
When she said "my car got hit" I really lost it
It's a shame she only got 14 yrs. This sicko deserved the full 28 yrs.
She deserves to be outcasted by her friends and family. Let her sit in depression and regret for the rest of her dumbass life
The judge outed himself as a simp in his ruling. He said he was worried about ruining her future.
@@MakerInMotionI bet the judge was a POC that’s why
She's a women they generally get lesser sentences even though they don't deserve to.
Minimum 20 years
I almost cried when I saw the victims. The girl who killed them is selfish, self-centered, and has little to no conscience - every time she is told about their deaths she has no reaction and starts talking about what she wants to talk about. I’m absolutely certain that when this chick gets out of jail she’s going to be just as self-serving as when she went in. This is one useless, despicable, narcissistic chick.
Well you have a soul
If she gets any jail time, that is.
I agree!! amberdecameron
Narsisitic, is the right word.
She's probably not wanting to admit reality
Fourteen years? Four. Teen. Fucking. YEARS?
And you know she'll be out before that and rejoining society, living the rest of her life and having a great time. This turns my stomach.
Dr grande really puts effort into the aesthetics of his presentation and trying new backgrounds and clothing. I really appreciate that effort
he just adds more cacti 💀
I noticed the lighting is just perfect somehow.
I would like to see him dressed like a late Victorian or Edwardian dandy while he offers his opinion-not-diagnosis.
@@icebrew😂😂😂😂 cacti
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Unbelievable that she will only serve 11 years, if that. She deserves life for two lives taken and in a horrible way too!
She's a special, strong, and empowered woman who deserved equitable leniency. Women have been oppressed for too long, so she doesn't deserve a long and harsh sentence.
The fact that she called 911 right away helped with her sentencing greatly. The sentences are less for drivers who call 911 right after the accident because they want to discourage hit and runs.
@@randomcommenteronyoutube1055 Is that sarcasm I feel
I hope they sue her for any future income she makes.
If it was in my power I would give her the death penalty. Fast and simple. Saves money, time, and less psychos out loose on the streets. A safer world.
The bodycam video has a very telling moment, after the policeman repeats that she killed two people. "People die," she responds - like her thought is -"Oh well - Not my fault. People die anyway." She turns her head and looks directly at the policeman with an open-eyed gaze that says, "So what?" That is the true character of that woman, right there. Thank you so much for your analysis. Definitely she was on more than just alcohol. As far as the family harassment is concerned - perhaps they may have taught her to value life - perhaps local people there see that aspect.
look at her getting offended when he says something critical about her, killing two people? Oh no biggie, when do I get my car back? what you dare say something critical about me?
She is correct, people die everytime. If not for her, those two would die by another cause, so why not die now as well?
@@legioparati2711 Um - be sure to walk around in front of bars where people are driving drunk. . .let's see the outcome for you.
@@MusMasi Yeah - typical. She can dish out death, but don't you dare, policeman, even tell her that drunk driving and killing people and not understanding what she did is "just sad." Her comment equals this - She has the right to drunkenly kill people - The policeman doesn't even have the right to free speech to tell her it is wrong,
Is there a timestamp for this moment?
As a career bartender, I’ve always understood “drunken words are sober thoughts” to be true, and that has worked well for me over the years.
In vinos veritas!
My mother was killed in a car crash that myself, 3 days after i turned 4 years old and my 2 year old sister were also in. This was 1996, the guy said he was daydreaming. Which I doubt. I dont think drugs and alcohol were that looked into at the time. Its one of the only memories I have of her. Her hair in a ponytail, her head, limp. This hits me so hard. He never served jail time. He's still out there living his life today. Thank you for covering this. They should have thrown the book at him.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I’m sorry for your loss.
And HER.
She is clearly a sociopath.
It should be noted that if she did pull off the road into a parking or rest area, she could be arrested for DUI while not driving. The DUI laws are screwed up and punish the people who do the right thing.
@SCRATCHING FOR CASH thank you ❤️
It seems like she's never been held accountable for her actions, ever! This is what parents raise when they're little unicorn without accountability.
From one cat to another, "Ain't that the 'meow'."
The level of narcissism in this world today is off the charts 😢😵💫
Yes
Today?🤦🏻♀️
this is more of a psychopathic behavior because narcs still feel a sense of guilt, their shame is more of a public emotion focused on the judgement of others, rather than feeling bad for what she did. While Psychopaths just dont care at all😭
It's always been like this my friend. The world has always been full of destructive people who simply want power. The history of humanity.
@@erikhughes7150 kinda yeah but kinda also no. today everyone is the star in their own show. have you seen documentaries made by gen Zers? they're all in selfie mode and half the screen is taken up by their face and they talk about how THEY perceive the scene constantly, instead of letting the object of the doco speak for itself. imagine david attenborough constantly shoving his face in the camera.
it didnt used to be like this. today "npc" and "normie" are insults. back in the day we all tried really hard to be normal and just go about our boring ass lives.
I JUST watched the body cam video of this horrific event. I was stunned to learn of the lenient sentence, and disgusted that this twisted individual blames alcohol for “causing” her to murder two people: the booze did it. One of the most stunning displays of self absorption and lack of accountability I have had the displeasure of witnessing. Not too sorry for her parents either: they raised that monster. RIP to the victims and condolences to their loved ones. Excellent points made by you, Doctor, thanks for this dissection of a vile mind.
Yet her self-centered personality is understandable. "I got to Bradley, how could this happen to me". I will guarantee that the $15K bail two days after her arrest and her light sentence was due to her parents spending big money for her defense lawyer. She was attending classes in the time before her graduation. I do not believe her behavior disorder will change in the long run. I hope it does.
So many people in our modern society lack empathy even without the inhibition of alcohol.
Ain't that the truth!
So you mean to say that alcohol is innocent 😅
@@kaytee8716 No alcohol needed
Ya think??
I'm only surprised she didn't say that she was going to sue the surviving family members for damages to her car.
😆Had to laugh because it's the truth, but I'm sorry the grief the families are going through right now.
Ikr?
@@ButterPawsKitty I laughed too, but it's impossible - only because no lawyer would even agree to do that on her behalf. She would be all on her own if she pursued that, no doubt about it.
@@trophyscene5015 maybe that lawyer "joe tacopina" would have taken the case...
Pretty funny and sad all at once
This is what a psychopath looks like. She has ZERO feelings except for herself. Wow. Truly chilling.
No, it is Narcissism. Get your definitions straight.
@@KB4QAA No, narcissists can still care about others, just not as much as they care about themselves. A psychopath doesn’t feel anything for others. This person obviously can’t feel anything for the people she killed. Get your definitions straight.
@@KB4QAA get your definitions right, you mental midget. Psychopaths have no empathy, which is what she displayed along with narcissism.
@@musicnut1966 This single situation with strangers is not a good measure of attachment to others. She shows no cruelty nor strong manipulation that a psychopath would show. Her focus is upon herself as a narcissist would.
@@KB4QAA Psychopaths are everywhere. They don’t always have cruelty tendencies. A famous study was when a professor did a study on his students to find out if any of them were psychopaths, and found out he was one. She isn’t just caring about herself. She has zero empathy for others. She doesn’t have to be acting cruel or mean to others to be a psychopath. A normal narcissist (of which I have had 2 in my family), would at least be taken aback by the fact that 2 people were dead because of her. Yes, she was drunk, but it didn’t even matter at all to her for a split second.
Our social acceptance of alcohol and the destruction it causes is astonishing.
We have technology that wouldn't allow a drunk driver to start a car, yet, everyday more tragedy.
It's scary that such vile narcissism walks (AND DRIVES) the streets every day.
When I was in high school my best friend stayed the night. Around 11pm his uncle came and picked him up, but didn't say why. I found out a few hours later that his mother had just been killed by a drunk driver. She had been driving her grand daughter somewhere when a drunk ran into her, the little girls were fine but she was killed instantly. The guy was from a wealthy family and had the best legal protection money can buy; didn't spend a single day in prison.
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There's justice and there's justice...
May his mother rest in pieces.
That's terrible.
@@legioparati2711u r gross...
She's the kind of person who viciously assaults you but then when you call the police she's like, "WhY aRe yOu aTtAcKiNg MeEeEe..."
I'm thinking that a doubling of her sentence would be more appropriate, she deserves a long and miserable 25 years IMO. She got off way too lightly.
Dr Grande I love hearing your opinions on issues. I haven’t heard any opinion of yours differ from mine. I agree totally.
As an alcoholic in recovery, I can categorically state that when drinking I felt invincible! I really couldn’t even process the notion that “it could happen to me”, and it is only by the Grace of God that I didn’t kill others and/or myself.
Yes… I am in recovery as well… that is my worst nightmare .. by the Grace of God that could have been me. She proly was in a blackout.. no excuse just an explanation for her behavior
Same. Some of the kindest people I know have taken the most foolish risks with the lives of others while young and intoxicated. Alcohol definitely doesn't simply bring out the "real" you, whatever that even is.
Being drunk is basically temporary brain damage that happens to be highly pleasurable for a large subset of the population.
My sobriety date is 1/29/22. Videos like these really put into perspective the damage I could have caused due to my selfish choices. Recovery is truly a gift of freedom and dignity, and I am so grateful for it. My deepest condolences to the victims of this woman.
Unless ur an alcoholic in recovery ur not gonna get it… the best people and the most unselfish people that I have met I met in my 12 step program… I want to encourage anyone to check it out.. I just got 11 years.. it’s a miracle
Same. Looking back, I’m HORRIFIED thinking about all the times I drove drunk. It’s a miracle that I didn’t harm anyone. I think about it several times a day, every day and I am so thankful things worked out the way they did.
Thank you for showing the victims so people see their faces
A drunk driver killed my brother in law, 27, in 1981, I was pregnant when it happened and it was so incredibly tragic and painful for all of us, even my unborn son.😔 The young man, 24, fell to his knees and pleaded guilty, much to his lawyer’s dismay. He did 4 years for vehicular manslaughter, but I’m sure he still thinks about it, just like we do.
At least he had a conscious right.this woman’s a demon and rest in peace to your loved ones.😕
Yeah he only got 4 years while your brother is in the ground forever. That’s not justice. Should get at least 20 years minimum
4 years? Really? People do more time for tax evasion as "normal citizens."
@@trophyscene5015 longer for a cig of weed.
I couldn't agree with you more! It's so refreshing to hear you so eloquently tell it as it is. Thank you
Thank you Dr. Grande! The officer was spot on. When I was 13 years old (back in 1986, my brother and I were hit by a drunk driver which caused our truck to flip several times. My brother did not make it. I remember that the officers brought the drunk guy in the hospital and he immediately saw me on the stretcher in the hallway and he was crying. He did ask the officers if he could come to me to apologize which they did and I know I was hurt and my brother (at that time was in surgery or being prepped) but I really felt bad for the drunk driver. He had more empathy than this cretin. I can also guarantee I never drove drunk because of this accident. It was a hard lesson for all, hard for my family and I lost my big brother and I never wish this on anyone. I always tell my son, drink responsibly and if he does drink, I’ll pick him up, no judgement.
You're the only one who mentioned the victims. Thank you, Dr. Grande.
Dragging a severed leg? Her parents must be very proud.
When you said that alcohol doesn’t make you have a brand new personality. That’s so telling for people. It’s like it brings out the real self sometimes. The self that they don’t show or have learned to keep hidden.
I’ve been intoxicated before and it just makes me silly and more carefree, but I never feel like a totally different person. So this is pretty telling. Never thought of it that way.
She’s not sorry for what she did, she’s sorry she’s being punished.
How would you possibly know that?
@@TheCheesePizzaGuy Because even in court she was still blaming the alcohol and not herself.
The first step to being sorry is admitting you were wrong, not transferring blame to inanimate objects.
@@TheCheesePizzaGuybecause she didn’t admit to it immediately perhaps. She wasn’t concerned about her actions. Just a couple of reasons…
For heartless sociopathic monsters that you can't reason with, they don't empathy with what they done and how much others will suffer.
Only the legal consequence can put a chilling effect on them: we can't ensure that you truely regret for what you have done, but at least we could ensure you won't be able to do that again right away, if ever.
We are all humans, but not all humane.
And BTW, the way she talks, sings and flirts, reminded me of one of my ex. "They hit my car", that is so typical of her rationale.
They are of the same slefish and heartless kind: they could always hold their victim mentality, always manage to blame others for absurb reasons to justify their own immoral actions.
Disgusting.
I don't even think she's sorry at all. Probably so delusional that she doesn't even know why was arrested. Getting that drunk can do that to someone.
can you imagine living 50 years only to get caught surprise by a drunk college student and that's it. All that time, what you have learned the relationships built and time spent building yourself all taken away in a second.
Thought Provoking for sure
@@supme7558 victim blaming much! Christ
Or you were back at the bar picking up another meth whore to tie up against her will.
You don't know anything about those people.
Severed leg sticking out of the grill?! I never knew that could even happen. Absolutely horrific 😳
you have no idea the horrifying sights at a fatal accident. I still have nightmares about my time in emergency services
@@r12rtpilot my friend was going to school to be an EMT,she got a job at the local ER to get some experience helping with emergencies that came in. It completely changed her decision she couldn’t handle it. you can’t just shut all of that off after work. It takes a special kind of person to do these kinds of jobs.
And laughing about it, what an absolute psycopath
Traffic accidents are just like warfare on the streets. Of course, the movies rarely, if ever, actually show what happens if a grenade goes off by someone or if someone gets shot. TV and the movies show whole people being heaved up on a trampoline from the grenade or a spot or two of blood from a gunshot (old TV programs never even showed any blood -- they were magic bullets). It's John Wayne getting shot in the shoulder and declaring, "Gosh, Pilgrim, It's just a flesh wound" as he cocks his Winchester with the other arm to return fire. In actual car accidents -- as in war -- the body can be literally torn apart in chunks, heads or limbs (or pieces of limbs) being strewn about haphazardly. I served in Vietnam, and although I didn't see much, I saw enough. One time, years later in Southern California, I came upon the aftermath of a train accident that killed one man. The police went down the tracks covering the pieces of his body with tarps, until the coroner could show up to shovel up and bag the debris of what was once a human being. It's very easy to sever a limb from the sudden impact of a car accident. In this case discussed by Dr. Grande, the leg of one of the victims was sticking out of the grill almost as if the car were a shark digesting a meal. Vehicles are more dangerous than you realize. Yes, this defendant should have had her sentenced doubled -- she killed two people.
I AM OUTRAGED!! 💔 Those two people's lives are worth only 14 years!?!? 😢 If I was the victims family I would NOT have accepted a plea! Oh my!
The family doesn't necessarily get a say in the plea deal.
On one hand I agree, on the other, sometimes it’s easy to forget how long 14 years is.
It's absolutely terrifying that people like this exist and that they're able to make it this far in life
How in the world did her school seriously let her graduated having missed 1 month of class including her finals. That's insane that they decided to grant her a degree after this without even so much as making her retake her final semester after prison.
Did she miss the last month? I assumed that she finished her classes while out on bond.
@@nickpavia9021 I thought they didn't grant her bond but maybe they did end up setting a bond. It had to have been a really high bond.
@@LostSoulsmusic22 The bond couldn't have been nearly as high as she was.
"Will I be able to go on Tuesday though"? ... college..
She got out on bond and the university allowed her to continue attending class and graduate. Other students protested this by writing messages in chalk on the sidewalk, which was promptly washed off by maintenance staff. I’m really curious what those last few weeks on campus were like for her. I hope her peers dealt out some karma, but it does seem as though she has some sort of privilege and connections with the school.
When one is drunk, the real person comes out. Her remorselessness and oblivious selfishness made her a dangerous person. She was going to hurt someone one way or another.
I’ve been hella hammered, but I’ve never been “2 people are dead because of my careless actions and I think it’s funny” hammered.
The fact that she got basically 11 years is ABSURD. How?!
She should have 50 years in prison
WOMEN ARE MORE EXPENSIVE TO KEEP IN JAIL AND IF THERE WERE MORE WOMEN IN JAIL THAN MEN, EVERYONE WOULD CRY ABOUT IT!!!!
she is hispanic, probably mexican. mexicans never get punished for anything! 🤬
At least.....
I agree. It's so absurd. One time I accidentally killed a lizard when I was drunk. I sobbed uncontrollably and told everyone that I was a murderer. The alcohol brought out a darkness that was always lurking inside of Stephanie.
This happened 30 minutes from me, and where I have spent a lot of time visiting my family. It makes me sick to think of what their family's have gone through because of this sick woman. Heartbreaking! She deserved way more time imo, people this narcissistic have a low chance of rehabilitation.
I am pretty sure she will struggle to survive in prison.
@Blingfire She will not have buddies, she will have abusers.
I agree. I wouldn’t waste my sadness on someone this callous dying in prison. I’m sick of this old crappy story.
@@dgarzaart2000 this probably sounds bad but just based on her reaction, I hope she never feels a genuine smile again. She tried so hard to absolve herself just for the sake of getting on with her life. What she did may never really sink in for such a selfish brat.
She is clearly a sociopath.
It should be noted that if she did pull off the road into a parking or rest area, she could be arrested for DUI while not driving. The DUI laws are screwed up and punish the people who do the right thing. There is a lack of outrage on these laws.
As a recovering addict I have never taken my driving test as I know I would've drived drunk. The things I've done on booze is way worse than what heroin & crack ever caused me to do. I'm 42 now and the idea of getting drunk ever again scares the sh*t out of me.
Are you in recovery now? (What you said about getting drunk again). If so, congrats! I'm just getting started on getting clean. Would you drive now if you aren't drinking?
@@spiralout1839 I'm clean/sober but I would still never take my test. I can drive,I learnt when I was 14 on private property. I just know that there is a risk of relapse so I wouldn't want my license. I was clean for 6 years and then relapsed so I have to be aware that no amount of time makes me "clean". Well done on you getting yourself sorted, as we say in Portsmouth (Pompey) UK we'd say, "well done mush, relax & don't cop on yourself"😘
You bring candid may save another. Your lack of private transportation due to your lack of restraint is still commendable. Well done.
I agree I tell my kids this I’ve done way more stupid things when I was drunk then on anything else
@@carolinerowles5951 I relapsed at 25 years when my best friend passed away. Never imagined I'd do it but I didn't even think twice when I made that decision. I've often heard at meetings something like a relapse could happen but there's no guarantee on another recovery. I was blessed that after 1.5 years I got sober again. I have a little more than 5.5 years now. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
How in the world can you give 14 yrs. to someone who killed 2 people? It’s beyond me how the judge could be so lenient. There should be a mandatory sentence for such appallingly behavior especially since she is so self-centered. It just boggles the mind.
She reminds me of a female highschool classmate of mine ; rich , narcissistic, and extremely careless. It's almost like they were taught since young, in a fairytale-ish manner, that everything revolves around them, everything involving you will work out okay , and there are no consequences at all.
I call that the "cheerleader mentality" because cheerleaders were picked out of the prettiest girls and afforded many privileges and immunities far sbove "ordinary" students. Football players enjoyed the same impumity.
@@ColonelMarcellus My then classmate would have definitely enjoyed that kind of treatment.
Most rich people do not act like that, because acting like that makes you poor very quickly. Bring reliable and delivering high quality services is what makes you rich.
@@777jones Idealistic, but true. Or as a wise man once said: Um, Kimosabe, hit nail on head.
@@ColonelMarcellusthey’ll get one hell of a wake up call post high school though
Wow… the first time I saw clips of this, I thought she was in alcohol psychosis or something. She seemed to lose touch with reality. But hearing the part about the “DUI club” and whether this would affect her graduating shows she was much more aware of what was happening than I initially thought. Horrible.
This is the modern woman . Zero accountability for anything . They all live in lalala land . This behavior is pretty common once you’ve seen it in society . I’m good with society bunch of clowns
Exactly, my thoughts as well.
We live among these kinda people unfortunately. It’s scary . Thanks Dr for your insight to this case . Fans in Ireland 🇮🇪
Just remember, most aren’t like this. Naturally the ones who are end up on Dr. Grande subject list. Don’t be that guy.
I think every car should have a breathalyzer. Like how all cars come standard with seatbelts, I know some people would game the system but I bet it would save thousands of lives each year.
@@Aaron-kj8dv It would help but people here have a friend or family member blow in it.
I really enjoy your unbiased, unemotional analyses in your videos
Dr. Grande, I just want you to know how much I enjoy your videos. Your calm demeanor, dry humor, and intellect make for great viewing. I'm a now retired due to medical reasons. I'm an RN,BSN who worked for 34 yrs. Being unable to work has caused anxiety and some depression. Many late nights have been spent listening to your analysis, which I find right on target and always gives me more to contemplate.
Congratulations on your UA-cam success. It's been fun watching your platform rise in popularity! ❤
The bit in the ER when she says the cop "you're being too quiet so I'm going to sing" was just unfucking believable
Jodi Arias, Shana Hubers, this horrible chick, for some reason all sing after committing murder 🤔
Right? I hate awkward silence. Atleast talk about the weather or something
She was trying to deny reality
I watched the video on another you tube channel and was absolutely shocked at her disassociation with killing two people and everything that goes with it. There are actually people out here like her is really scary.
Narcissism is in pandemic proportions in the United States.
@@oldreprobate2748well said, I am scared of seeing how much the culture pushes “me me me” attitude. Literally a drunk girl killed two people and goes “not my fault”…
it’s like “no honey it’s 100% your fault and everyone knows it and YOU know it”
Even completely sober at her sentencing hearing, when allowed to say her piece and “apologize”, every single sentence started with “I…”. Every one. She didn’t name the victims even once. I’d be shocked to learn that she even knows their names today.
THEY hit MY car! 😝
Being intoxicated doesn't change who you are, it strips away your inhibitions and reveals who you are underneath them.
EXACTLY!!!
As someone who is sober 40 years and has met thousands of alcoholics in AA I can absolutely say that you are wrong.
That is absolutely false
I’m afraid I must respectfully disagree… some substances certainly are powerful enough to literally alter ones personality temporarily. I also think their are gradients, steps to it, like a spectrum: from a simply chemical altering of ones personality all the way up to full-on demonic possession through doors these substances open up.
As someone who use to drink everyday and did a ton of stupid shit, you are completely wrong and have absolutely no idea what you are talking about.