Dermatologist Kills Wife After Her Concerns About Cross-Dressing | Dr. Richard Sharpe Case Analysis

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  • @olson.pamela
    @olson.pamela Рік тому +457

    “People would let him treat their skin but he made their skin crawl” Dr. Grande you are so funny!

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +11

      He’s Ed Gein reborn.

    • @IARRCSim
      @IARRCSim Рік тому +9

      Yeah. Sometimes his jokes don't work but usually they do and sometimes they're downright hilarious. That one was hilarious.

    • @EvadoCouto
      @EvadoCouto Рік тому +14

      That made me laugh so hard. My father is a derm and a jerk. I’m going to use that next time I’m gossiping with my brother

    • @birdn4t0r7
      @birdn4t0r7 Рік тому +3

      @@wormwoodcocktail that's an insult to ed gein

    • @JosephineArmstrong-l1u
      @JosephineArmstrong-l1u 10 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @donnajanecastle4807
    @donnajanecastle4807 Рік тому +606

    My dad went to him to check a mole and came home exclaiming what a looney tune the guy was. He was playing video games while my dad sat and waited for him to check his mole, right in the same room. It was shortly after that we heard about the murder. She should have gotten out after the first baby and stayed out!

    • @dareU2
      @dareU2 Рік тому +33

      What seriously.....🤪😁😵

    • @crystal-thewall
      @crystal-thewall Рік тому +25

      He sounds like Sam Bankman Fried

    • @theworldrealm72
      @theworldrealm72 Рік тому +32

      Wow! That shows just how small the world can seem at times. Say hi to your dad from me/us, he just became known worldwide for having visited a crazy murderous trans dermatologist and lived to tell the story. That's one amazing story and a great comment. Take care and tell your dad to stay away from mad dermatologists in the future, after all, he has a family to worry over:)

    • @thebeatnumber
      @thebeatnumber Рік тому +30

      Yes, isn't it weird that she waited until he had transferred 2.9 million dollars to her, before she started having an affair and decided to leave him?

    • @crystal-thewall
      @crystal-thewall Рік тому +12

      @@thebeatnumber haha yeah. Quite weird

  • @rumchata6569
    @rumchata6569 Рік тому +534

    The fact that he was prom king has to be the most surprising and impressive accomplishment he had

    • @mario-qi3yw
      @mario-qi3yw Рік тому +34

      He was successful in college. That’s also shocking.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 Рік тому +44

      Honestly could see him putting thousands of votes in the ballot box for himself lol

    • @larsfinlay7325
      @larsfinlay7325 Рік тому +20

      bro imagine being one of the people that voted for him. that surreal moment when one of the cool smart kids from school shows up in the newspaper is one heck of a surprise.

    • @angelinparadise7282
      @angelinparadise7282 Рік тому +5

      Ikr?? I was surprised too! Maybe it was a school prank...?

    • @jaex9617
      @jaex9617 Рік тому +24

      Pretty much every prom king turns out just like this. Those deals with Satan come at a cost, you know.

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom Рік тому +675

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when a cross-dressing dermatologist murders his wife like this.

    • @curtisjeffries9640
      @curtisjeffries9640 Рік тому +25

      🤣

    • @BigZebraCom
      @BigZebraCom Рік тому +7

      @@curtisjeffries9640 :)

    • @taracat7723
      @taracat7723 Рік тому +5

      Good one.

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us Рік тому

      There should be PSA "AUTOGYNEPHILES ARE POWER SEEKING NARCISSISTS DON'T ALLOW THEM TO MANIPULATE YOU". I dated one that left to blow his married boyfriend that wanted to get rid of me then he punched HIMSELF in the face so he could claim he was defending my honor and could garner sympathy. His other friend told me he faked the fight and bloody nose, I told him he was sick for saying that and never to speak to me again. Turned out to be true. Dude is a fuckin doctor. Fuckin cray cray, thought I was gonna be his beard, incubator, house slave, arm candy. Maybe get him dressed up and pegged between boyfriend visits. What's worse is I didn't avoid trans people after that, I was too kind "not all of them are narcissistic misogynists". Yeah right 😂

    • @catblack4091
      @catblack4091 Рік тому +10

      A situation LIKE that one

  • @subaru7233
    @subaru7233 6 місяців тому +29

    I lived in Gloucester and was a patient of Dr. Sharpe. He was deeply weird even to look at and one of the most arrogant people I've ever met. This event was a huge shock to our community . Karen was a beloved friend to many. It was incredibly sad.

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 Рік тому +581

    “Richard’s felonious fatuous forehead fork folly forwarded him to a mental hospital…” and “Karen forged a fable to the medical staff, she told them not to focus on the forehead fork fiction because it was fictitious and fabricated.” 😂😅
    These phrases were formed in a fine and fantastic fashion. What a funny and fabulous way to describe this unforeseen fact.
    Thank you for the fun and fanciful analysis, Dr. Grande.❤

  • @merry8545
    @merry8545 Рік тому +200

    In loving memory of Karen Hatfield 🙏🏽 ❤️ 🙏🏽 ❤️

  • @jennifers3828
    @jennifers3828 Рік тому +41

    “It’s as if the grinch was a dermatologist.” 🤣 I love your videos. Your voice is so calming.

  • @alisharocklin2741
    @alisharocklin2741 Рік тому +192

    Who needs court tv when we have Dr. Grande!

  • @lastplayer7048
    @lastplayer7048 Рік тому +67

    I hope the children in this situation are safe and have found some semblance of peace. My heart goes out to them.

    • @Paparoxx
      @Paparoxx 5 місяців тому +1

      ...and got the money and property. I'll bet lawyers made out on this one. The kids got an undisclosed "trust"...

  • @jhunsuc1239
    @jhunsuc1239 Рік тому +107

    "then they finally decided to go to the correct location...they should have taken the advice of her brother and sent the best officers" 🤣🤣😂 completely straight face. Love it!

    • @cathryncampbell8555
      @cathryncampbell8555 Рік тому +3

      What a superb burn, Dr. Grande!

    • @joeyoung4121
      @joeyoung4121 Рік тому +3

      Dr grande did a vice pres. review at the end there's the outtakes when he's can't keep a straight face. priceless Recommend Dr grande therapy

  • @tessjones5987
    @tessjones5987 Рік тому +58

    Dr. Sharpe was my doctor. I saw some compassion in him. I found him to be intense
    yet professional. He had a lot of his young childrens art work in his office. He was a
    very intense super-critical person with some sincere compassion. Really unique guy.
    I feel so sorry for his family. I remember he would call his wife to schedule his calendar.
    So I think they were both co-dependent on eachother for security. I saw her once in his
    office she was very kind and pretty.

  • @SaturnSenshi3105
    @SaturnSenshi3105 Рік тому +838

    Lots of famous serial killers were cross dressers (not accusing anyone just a really weird pattern)

    • @infinitejest441
      @infinitejest441 Рік тому +93

      John Gacy. 🤡

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak Рік тому +2

      It’s a mental disorder in and of itself only probably taken off DSM in the 70s along with other disorders so prevalent (and encouraged) these days.

    • @tylere.8436
      @tylere.8436 Рік тому +1

      Because crossdressing is an abomination to God.

    • @jareya
      @jareya Рік тому +41

      True

    • @DrTiwade
      @DrTiwade Рік тому +269

      It's a perversion. Evil

  • @coolwater55
    @coolwater55 Рік тому +61

    She had a restraining order. The guy had beat her in the past, and was stalking her. Prime scenario for future attacks or killing.
    What the hell is wrong with our system.

  • @phdtobe
    @phdtobe Рік тому +51

    There’s no way to dress up this murderer’s criminal action here to morally justify them.

    • @corbonthec0b
      @corbonthec0b 6 місяців тому +6

      I see what you did there

    • @1LookingUp
      @1LookingUp 4 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂!

    • @bm-ub6zc
      @bm-ub6zc 4 дні тому +1

      it's a travesty

  • @brigittebeltran6701
    @brigittebeltran6701 Рік тому +144

    Another excellent analysis by Dr. Grande. Such a tragedy for all...His insecure wife put up with so much abuse...and the poor children. No winners here. 😪

  • @czarina7786
    @czarina7786 Рік тому +538

    More than one woman has put a guy thru school and gotten the raw end of the deal.

    • @TheSouthIsHot
      @TheSouthIsHot Рік тому +108

      Yep. To all the ladies listening: NEVER support your husband through his education. He will dump you on the sidewalk like garbage when he's done with you. Don't marry a man (or date one for that matter) who isn't done with his education and/or settled into his career

    • @figplucker3052
      @figplucker3052 Рік тому +28

      @@TheSouthIsHot Yes, they will only get forked in the end

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us Рік тому

      Autogynephiles enjoy living off of people. It's part of their "being treated like a stupid spoiled slut/bimbo/woman" fantasy. They love to go into prostitution, live off parents, the state, take take take. I think they like to become doctors not just for the power and status but because the education process is long and if someone else is paying then they're happy to stay in school forever. I'm surprised this guy became successful. Back in the day "trans women" tended to be trustfund babies or transition once they were in power or retired, now the government provides and people are losing their kids. "girls just wanna have fun" 🙄😂 SICK SAD WORLD 🤡

    • @origamiandcats6873
      @origamiandcats6873 Рік тому +10

      @Fig Plucker noted

    • @Badcompany6969...
      @Badcompany6969... Рік тому +35

      Betty Broderick

  • @nightwood4379
    @nightwood4379 Рік тому +91

    Good Evening Dr. G., Ironic that Sharpe could treat skin, yet be so uncomfortable in his own. The alliteration of the letter “f” was fabulous…a welcome interval from the unfolding tragedy . Your smooth, keen and thoughtful analysis was calming. Thank you! Also, kudos on the redo of your studio. New cactus?

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT Рік тому +3

      He's like Bob NEWHART. Lol.

    • @sherylhorlbeck3760
      @sherylhorlbeck3760 Рік тому +2

      You’re right! He kind of is! 😃

  • @labotraduc8448
    @labotraduc8448 Рік тому +42

    I can't believe he was only 54 years old. He looked so much older in some of the pictures.

    • @davinasquirrel7672
      @davinasquirrel7672 5 місяців тому +2

      The effects of testosterone are basically a one-way street. So a 54yo male, to pull off a 54yo female, generally requires a 'million billion' in surgeries.

    • @Rhonda-x3x
      @Rhonda-x3x 12 днів тому

      He didn't have his makeup on.

  • @Summer-en9hs
    @Summer-en9hs Рік тому +37

    You are very great at showing respect for this woman and mother, describing how she wanted to stand on her own and be free but why she couldn’t. Sadly. 💜

  • @jenanne31
    @jenanne31 Рік тому +278

    I've learned so much about psychology from you, Dr. Grande. Thank you.

    • @carolnahigian9518
      @carolnahigian9518 Рік тому +5

      my ex Husband R J cancelled myheat; turned off HEAT IN OUR HOME WHERE WE HAD minor children,...... pure anger& Hatred of WOMEN (ug)!

    • @NotChefCook
      @NotChefCook Рік тому

      @@carolnahigian9518 - I hope he was punished as he deserved dear .

    • @justincraig398
      @justincraig398 Рік тому +6

      Tell us what your learned Jen. In a 10 page paper, 1/2 spaced , size 07 font. Due tomorrow morning 6am.

    • @jenanne31
      @jenanne31 Рік тому +1

      @@justincraig398 Such a comedian! 🤣

    • @daviep520
      @daviep520 Рік тому +4

      I've learned so much about myself 🤦‍♂️😩

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 Рік тому +97

    He looks so upset in his pics. What a terrible guy and disgusting what he did. Great analysis, giving us info & smiles. Thanks Dr G😊💙💙

    • @barbaraspector6689
      @barbaraspector6689 Рік тому +6

      Blame the Dr.’s parents.

    • @CesarClouds
      @CesarClouds Рік тому

      Unhappy Jagger.

    • @jbirish2144
      @jbirish2144 Рік тому +3

      I watched the trial where he pretended to be crazy. It was almost unbearable watching his contorted facial expressions and listening to his malingering.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 Рік тому +1

      @@jbirish2144 I can't even imagine how unbearable that could be🙄😐🤪

  • @chococookies7292
    @chococookies7292 Рік тому +36

    I actually can't believe he found the success he did, given that they were both unestablished and was raising a child while both attending college. That's EXTREMELY hard to do and usually the men will just work to provide. Not try for Bachelor's degree, masters , and medical school. She had to support HIM and get abused all the while through /feel TRAPPED! I can't believe she even finished nursing school!

  • @gregofthedump
    @gregofthedump Рік тому +32

    Amusing alliteration added to amazing analysis.

  • @tiffanyeyoung1800
    @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому +147

    This is so sad and typical of abusive relationships. This is typical of the cycle of violence repeating itself.
    I'm even more upset about Karen's parents not protecting her or their grandchildren.
    I can't imagine how traumatic it was for the babysitter and the children to see her murdered like this

    • @dila4834
      @dila4834 Рік тому +26

      I blame her. Not the parents. She knew he was an abuser within the first year of marriage. She was afraid of proving her parents right. They have nothing to do with it.

    • @robburrows2737
      @robburrows2737 Рік тому +16

      Not all abused kids become abusive. There has to be personal responsibility.

    • @agnes4428
      @agnes4428 Рік тому +11

      @@dila4834 I suggest reading about the "battered woman syndrome" and then seeing how much to blame Karen was for what had happened to her. Because I think it's very telling that he killed her AFTER he lost control over her.

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому +5

      @@robburrows2737 That's true. I grew up in a violent home and I am not abusive. Unfortunately, other problems do come up. Like the codependency between these two

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому +2

      @@user-account-not-found You stand up for others and yourself. Nothing wrong with that. Keep up the great work

  • @prod.arcsyne2990
    @prod.arcsyne2990 Рік тому +67

    Its so sad that a child got abused then learned violence was the only correct answer, repeating the cycle

    • @farmerchick3040
      @farmerchick3040 Рік тому +17

      He made those choices. Many people who come from abusive households don't go on to abuse others because they have their brains to recognize it was wrong. Please stop making excuses for murderers.

    • @prod.arcsyne2990
      @prod.arcsyne2990 Рік тому +9

      @@farmerchick3040 its not an excuse its an understanding. Trauma and mental health is important, because sometimes that stuff can turn u into a monster without mindfulness

    • @pitbull6527
      @pitbull6527 Рік тому +3

      He had a choice to not do these things...and a choice to seek therapy. My father was APD. I won't go into the things he did to the three of us kids, but I did intensive therapy over many years to deal with the PTSD, Anxiety, and Depression. I did not want to be my father. Even my father being APD...he had a choice too.

    • @imjustbarelygettingstarted7352
      @imjustbarelygettingstarted7352 Рік тому +3

      @@farmerchick3040 Peoples brains rewire according to the abuse. They dont always know right from wrong, or that they need therapy. Everyone experiences and responds differently, and in their own timeframe

    • @prod.arcsyne2990
      @prod.arcsyne2990 Рік тому +3

      @@pitbull6527 he had a choice, but he also had experience that helped shaped them into a monster. at some point during the abuse he lost his empathy for others.

  • @duromusabc
    @duromusabc Рік тому +190

    Narcissists can commit suicide when they experience a devastating narcissistic collapse- like this dermatologist who lost his medical license and medical career stuck in jail and his main narcissistic supply dead and narcissistic supply from within himself during the narcissistic collapse phase wasn’t enough to keep him regulated and live anymore

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому

      Bingo. And prison probably gave him few opportunities to steal women’s panties.

    • @oliverxhmll
      @oliverxhmll Рік тому +33

      yeah anyone can commit suicide when they lose everything in their life.

    • @RipsGirl
      @RipsGirl Рік тому +3

      Hello Duane, If you don't mind me asking, do you have a degree in psychology?

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 Рік тому +4

      I always figured that narcissists got their attention from everyone, everywhere. Doesn't seem like any narcissist would limit their supply of attention to just one person, lest they be a lazy narcissist.

    • @elizabethcarder5247
      @elizabethcarder5247 Рік тому

      @R Voit it increases female hormones.

  • @bricksloth6920
    @bricksloth6920 Рік тому +18

    Hello Grande cacti, I hope you're all enjoying the festive season and getting enough sun.

  • @mleecthulhu
    @mleecthulhu Рік тому +34

    The fact that Dr. Grande can pull out JOKES FOR DAYS W A STRAIGHT FACE, AND VERY PROFESSIONAL BEDSIDE MANNER! 💯😂

    • @SporadicUploads1
      @SporadicUploads1 6 місяців тому +1

      What's professional about it? A flat affect is not the same as professional.

    • @Arukan
      @Arukan 5 місяців тому

      That is also a feature of sociopathy

    • @joellenruggiero4953
      @joellenruggiero4953 4 місяці тому

      His alliteration game is top drawer as well

  • @missyskye_sea_land9424
    @missyskye_sea_land9424 Рік тому +74

    “Richard was…, creepy looking,…made their skin crawl…”😂 I shouldn’t be laughing but couldn’t help it.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva Рік тому +3

      The descriptors were hilarious. I watched the trial on court tv back in the day and all of those seem fitting. He acted like that during his trial.

  • @ccpperrett7522
    @ccpperrett7522 Рік тому +66

    My grandchildren's father, his girlfriend and her mother are all narcissists. Ugly, awful, hateful people. My 14 year old granddaughter is counting the minutes, hours and days until she no longer must live in her father's home. I pray to God it will be soon. 🙏

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 Рік тому +4

      God doesn’t exist so that’s a silly thing to do.

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie Рік тому +19

      @@icturner23 That tired old comment is becoming passe'. Prove your assertion.

    • @Linda72.
      @Linda72. Рік тому +2

      I can relate. Best wishes x

    • @theriddlerUSA
      @theriddlerUSA Рік тому +7

      Prayers to you and your family. ♥️

    • @susanbarnes9800
      @susanbarnes9800 Рік тому +8

      I. C. Turner, maybe not for you. So sad.

  • @crazyfangirl12
    @crazyfangirl12 Рік тому +54

    From dad jokes to inordinate alliteration: Dr. Grande, you are a joy 🥰

  • @De_Nome
    @De_Nome Рік тому +39

    My mother and father divorced when i was three years old and my mother often used to beat us with whatever she was finding at her disposal after drinking so much many times letting us to sleep outside even though our grandmother bought her a house especially so that all of us could live a better life. My childhood was a living hell until i was able to grow up and leave the house eventually working hard and being able to live a decent and normal life so whoever uses this as an excuse to harm another is just being extremely selfish.

    • @j3suisd3
      @j3suisd3 6 місяців тому +1

      ⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @1LookingUp
    @1LookingUp 4 місяці тому +6

    Tragic story. Sins of the father. Generational curses. The ties that bind.😢

  • @pageribe2399
    @pageribe2399 Рік тому +27

    The four plastic surgeries didn't help him much.

  • @tinabenson1492
    @tinabenson1492 Рік тому +17

    Possibly, he was an AGP.

  • @susanmann5286
    @susanmann5286 Рік тому +18

    Stating this for a friend. Obtaining higher education is not a substitute for needed clinical treatment of one's self.

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva Рік тому +250

    Poor Karen. She was so young when the relationship started.
    I hope their kids are doing ok.

    • @panushjo
      @panushjo Рік тому +21

      She was selfish. Had kids with a bad character, tried to break up a marriage, etc.

    • @Prefabfan-q2q
      @Prefabfan-q2q Рік тому +7

      I’m impressed you spelled “their” correctly.

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us Рік тому +47

      What a life, she never had one! I'm glad I don't put out. I dated an Autogynephile accidently. No kids then ESCAPED. He's a doctor. Horrifying narcissists.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +1

      @@panushjo Good luck with your gender transition! Just stay out of women’s washrooms!

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +18

      @@terrorists-are-among-us I am so sorry about your situation. Take care, these men are pure evil.

  • @vq2vx
    @vq2vx Рік тому +6

    your spin on the best police officers had me laugh out loud :D Thanks Dr G!

  • @jackiegrice714
    @jackiegrice714 Рік тому +85

    This case had a lot of interesting angles. It’s sad how Richard perpetrated the violent 9behavior he learned at the hands of his father on Karen. It’s also sad that Karen couldn’t seem to get away from the relationship, even though she knew almost from the beginning that marrying Richard was a bad idea. Thanks for analyzing this one Dr. Grande-and thank you for lightening the subject up with your trademark humor.

    • @agnes4428
      @agnes4428 Рік тому +4

      Three words "battered woman syndrome". Yes, it's actually a thing. And yes, it's explains a lot about Karen's behavior through out her relationship with her husband. Including the fact that she unfortunately lost her life after he lost his control over her. Control he thought of as absolute. Meaning that she wouldn't use the fact that he'd most of his wealth over to her (as a measure for to fight being sued for malpractice) to finally get away from him.

    • @DrTiwade
      @DrTiwade Рік тому +3

      The important angle not mentioned is SIN.

    • @farmerchick3040
      @farmerchick3040 Рік тому +2

      I don't understand how people are so willing to blame violence on their past....you are not your past. He made these choices.

    • @jbrown8601
      @jbrown8601 Рік тому +3

      @@farmerchick3040 his past made him a wacko but he chose to pull the trigger.

  • @kimberlysmith7311
    @kimberlysmith7311 Рік тому +25

    💖 your analysis Dr. Grande. So very sad for his wife and children. 😥

  • @rebeccavelayas8868
    @rebeccavelayas8868 Рік тому +7

    Being a cross dresser should have been the first sign there were mental issues. We all have a history and for many of us it is traumatic but that does not give anyone the right to be abusive. This guy even looks scary.

  • @Automedon2
    @Automedon2 Рік тому +15

    Amazing that someone could have so many personal things going on in his life including addiction and at the same time be so successful in business.

  • @mcc1483
    @mcc1483 Рік тому +33

    I watched this case many years ago on Court TV. Even after all this time, I still remember how strange Sharp was and how on the stand at trial how he kept his eyes closed the entire time when being questioned. His wife appeared to be such a nice and good person, who got messed up w the wrong guy. Her life must have been sheer hell.

    • @heidistabbert3062
      @heidistabbert3062 Рік тому +2

      Same! His testimony was creepy as hell. I'll never forget it.

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 Рік тому

      *Sharpe

    • @catalinaortoljo2821
      @catalinaortoljo2821 Рік тому +3

      Ditto! Absolutely one of the strangest defendants of all the trials I've followed on Court TV. If creepy was a person.

    • @Jenny-nz8fb
      @Jenny-nz8fb Рік тому +1

      He probably kept his eyes shut because he thought if he couldn’t see you then you couldn’t see him. Classic baby man narcissist.

    • @manichairdo9265
      @manichairdo9265 Рік тому +1

      Very good explanation. Esp about why Karen stayed with the rancid creep.
      Here in the UK, police can refuse to drop violence charges esp if they believe the victim has been coerced or manipulated into withdrawing the complaint. I wish the cops had charged him at the outset anyway.
      I hope their children have since thrived.

  • @kweefypete
    @kweefypete Рік тому +39

    Your content has exceeded expectations as always, Dr.Grande 💜

  • @tergish1
    @tergish1 Рік тому +8

    So. Please take this with a grain of salt. This is my first video of yours. I love true crime. And I hate asmr. But after watching your video I get it. The way you speak is so calming and comforting. I like to listen to cases to help my insomnia. You my clinical diagnosistian friend, have a new subscriber

  • @Mrs.Silversmith
    @Mrs.Silversmith Рік тому +71

    Clearly a smart guy, but a miserable human being. I wonder how his life would have turned out if he had been raised in a loving, supportive environment.

    • @theriddlerUSA
      @theriddlerUSA Рік тому +6

      I wonder how his siblings are doing?

    • @nancyk7954
      @nancyk7954 Рік тому +5

      He would have had a much better chance of not being what he turned out to be. Becoming a narc is a choice they make. It's nut curable and they will likely never be anyone different that how they are. They are very sick and dangerous people. I pity anyone who ends up with one.

    • @pwallace5359
      @pwallace5359 Рік тому

      He was a muring , abusive POS. Just because he was a cross dresser doesn’t mean he deserves pity. His poor wife is the one that deserves pity not that self scented psychopath.

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 Рік тому

      I wonder how his (and other people's) lives would have been immeasurably better and happier if not for the Cult of Intelligence/ Cult of Death (CIA, DoD and pals)?

  • @gailbrevittlenton6667
    @gailbrevittlenton6667 Рік тому +24

    A surprising case, always interesting to learn from Dr. Grande, and this time with poetic tongue twisters thrown in! Thanks Dr.

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 Рік тому +10

    Excellent job on the tongue twisters Dr Grande. Your humour is much appreciated.😂

    • @andshewas296
      @andshewas296 Рік тому +1

      Could it get any drier? I need some water.

  • @brittanywilcox7377
    @brittanywilcox7377 Рік тому +53

    Dissociation is normal for everybody to experience in small amounts. I've never heard of anyone who believes it doesn't exist. That being said, it's a stupid defense for murder. Most people dissociate at the movies, for example, because you can feel like that two hour movie "flew by" (if it was good lol). You don't lose your sense of right and wrong in that moment. How absurd.

    • @takemyjobpleeez
      @takemyjobpleeez Рік тому +3

      Truth! It's a weird feeling when it happens. Sometimes, putting myself into loud, bustling, crowded, situations can do it for me. It doesn't happen often, but it's a strange experience when it does.

    • @jakethedude100
      @jakethedude100 Рік тому

      I have it after being sexually abused as a child. It’s a horrible condition..

    • @brittanywilcox7377
      @brittanywilcox7377 Рік тому

      @@jakethedude100 have what?

    • @susanboyd3260
      @susanboyd3260 4 місяці тому

      2 hr terrible movie could feel like 4 hrs___LOL

  • @kathymichelle1978
    @kathymichelle1978 Рік тому +16

    How many times did you have to shoot all the words with "f"? You've done an outstanding video. I don't think I could have ever gotten through those perfect words with a straight face if I could have done it at all. I know you analyze serious situations but I appreciate your humor.

  • @pennsydude9723
    @pennsydude9723 Рік тому +8

    Dr. G. This was a story I've never heard before. Good one. No pun intended. I don't want to seem morbid. But Hollyweird hasn't nothing on your stories Dr. G.😉👍🏾

  • @CarlStreet
    @CarlStreet Рік тому +12

    Really enjoyed your alliterative analysis -- certainly it yielded more truth than poetry...

  • @anitawies5732
    @anitawies5732 Рік тому +4

    I think you hit this one out of the park. Loved the many puns about 'skin' being he was a dermatologist! You may not smile much but you definitely have a sense of humor. Love it.

  • @bjewel3751
    @bjewel3751 Рік тому +25

    A true narcissistic sociopath.He lacked so much self awareness that he didn’t realise he was making Karen and their home like how his dad did. You’d think him being that smart, he would recognise and try and break the chain

    • @basskitten808.
      @basskitten808. Рік тому +6

      Agreed. Narcissists don't have the ability to do this though. They're essentially weak overgrown children who refuse to accept responsibility for their wrongs (even the fairly self aware ones.)

  • @Villinos
    @Villinos 2 місяці тому +5

    Intelligence is nothing without character and morals.

  • @Haffina
    @Haffina Рік тому +33

    I loved the alliteration run, very cool. I also dislike Christmas, but I don't try to make it miserable for anyone else, mostly because the reason I dislike Christmas is because my abusive former step-father used to do that.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 Рік тому +4

      Your step-father used to make Christmas miserable?

    • @Haffina
      @Haffina Рік тому +6

      @@lindseyhendrix2405 yeah.

  • @amberg1617
    @amberg1617 Рік тому +6

    Nothing better than seeing an upload from Dr. Grande - let’s get to speculating!

  • @JHjh88
    @JHjh88 Рік тому +20

    This as always was excellent Dr Grande. Your compassion shows through without compromising your professionalism. ❤️ From Oz🐨

  • @augustovans
    @augustovans Рік тому +10

    Love your new set, especially the lighting!

  • @debbles
    @debbles Рік тому +17

    I remember watching his trial on Court TV year's ago. Very bizarre.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva Рік тому +3

      I remember too because he acted so ridiculous throughout!

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 Рік тому

      Now I wanna see it

  • @mtm00
    @mtm00 Рік тому +4

    Despite your deadpan demeanour/demeanor, listening to your analysis, Dr. Grande, is like tuning-in to story-time! Subject matter aside, you are able to make your analysis an enjoyable listen with your highly honed wordsmith skills -- the many word-plays, and, as with here, throwing in a good smattering of alliterations, always make me smile. 👍Thank you.

  • @taracat7723
    @taracat7723 Рік тому +94

    After Dr G said he started taking her birth control pills..I went right to the comments

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +29

      Autogynephilia. He probably thought it was akin to HRT.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 Рік тому +22

      Dude no kidding! I was across the room from my phone and said “oh what the f?!” And immediately ran over to rewind and I’ve been in the comments ever since 😂

    • @normanorman
      @normanorman Рік тому

      @@wormwoodcocktail it’s unproven

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +18

      @@normanorman I’m sure you watched a ContraPoints video that says that. Too bad he’s an autogynephile.

    • @normanorman
      @normanorman Рік тому

      @@wormwoodcocktail every mental illness is autogynephilia to u people. whatever ur smoking must be the same shit dr. sharpe was on to make him lose his mind

  • @browniehendricks3726
    @browniehendricks3726 Рік тому +13

    His behaviour and facial expressions on the stand were quite strange! Look up the case and you will not be disappointed. Thanks for your hard work. Keep up the the coverage of these unusual cases.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 Рік тому

      Definitely going to do so after finishing this! And high five for the same last name!! 😂🙏🏽

  • @im19ice3
    @im19ice3 9 місяців тому +6

    feel so bad for the children, sounds very hard to cope with

  • @dissidentfairy4264
    @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +76

    What did he think taking his wife's birth control pills was going to do for him? I totally get where she was coming from in terms of not wanting to admit failure to her family. What a tragic case. I think that Richard was brilliantly insane. It sounds like he had narcissistic rage for sure amongst other psychological conditions. I feel bad for their children.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +4

      He probably had some delusions that taking female hormone treatments would make him a real woman. Typical autogynephile Ed Gein logic.

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +5

      @@wormwoodcocktail I think you nailed it. I don't know why I didn't think of that. lol

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +3

      @@dissidentfairy4264 I have a PhD in the behaviour of weird perverts. You didn’t think of it because you’re a normal person.

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +3

      @@wormwoodcocktail I'm afraid you under estimate me. Normal is generic and boring! My mind is like a Rubik's Cube. It moves with the speed of light:-)

    • @EmmaJ_462
      @EmmaJ_462 Рік тому +17

      It's a form of estrogen, similar to feminizing hormone therapy. He was most likely trans.

  • @iangallager4091
    @iangallager4091 Рік тому +9

    had his father not so abusive what kind of person would he have really been?

  • @mizsparkie5479
    @mizsparkie5479 Рік тому +22

    Dr. Grande, could you address the question: have there been studies on how often those with narcissistic personality disorder commit suicide? Thanks!

    • @stevebutler812
      @stevebutler812 Рік тому

      Jeffery Epstien?

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 Рік тому +3

      @@stevebutler812 But did he 🤔

    • @stevebutler812
      @stevebutler812 Рік тому +2

      @@sarahjaye4117 Inquiring minds want to know. He was well connected but apparently his connections left him hanging

    • @graykobain6001
      @graykobain6001 Рік тому

      I read that the rate is a bit higher than the general population's suicide rate

    • @erfolgreich
      @erfolgreich Рік тому

      I've read of numbers of around 15%.

  • @stacyyoust
    @stacyyoust Рік тому +18

    The most dangerous time is when you are leaving 💢😡

  • @viviansytsui
    @viviansytsui Рік тому +16

    "But he made their skin crawl" Oh how ironic! He failed as a Dermatologist, then. :P

  • @dalepointer9414
    @dalepointer9414 Рік тому +12

    GRANDE'S UNDRESSING
    🧠
    HE LOOKS CAREFULLY
    EACH CASE UNIQUE
    HE EVALUATES
    ALLOWING THE VIEWER A PEEK
    HE UNDRESSES MANY LAYERS
    TRYING TO BUTTON-UP EACH ONE
    THROUGH A SLY SENSE OF HUMOR
    USUALLY IT'S WELL DONE
    AND WE SHAKE OUR HEADS
    IN AGREEMENT MOST OF THE TIME
    CASE CLOSED AND EVALUATED
    UNTIL ANOTHER HE'LL FIND

  • @mamaduck9370
    @mamaduck9370 Рік тому +12

    Great analysis... Giggled at every tongue twister and pun.

  • @Andersonsdanish
    @Andersonsdanish Рік тому +9

    Thanks Dr. Grande. Much appreciation for your coverage of the story.

  • @twinstarr2013
    @twinstarr2013 Рік тому +52

    Sad that peoples minds can become so warped that it leads them to commit evil

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak Рік тому +11

      Or to cross-dress.

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak Рік тому +6

      @Will Rivers No, I just get to see more crazy people than 10 or 20 years ago when out. You can't possibly argue that's a good thing.

  • @lizs7301
    @lizs7301 Рік тому +2

    Omg-the alliteration about the fork cracked me up. I had to tap back at least 3 times to hear it again!
    Again I love your delivery and story telling. Such a sad case.

  • @memyself4431
    @memyself4431 Рік тому +10

    Who needs to research for a college paper when we have dr Grande 😊

  • @nanaman
    @nanaman Рік тому +14

    The cyclical trend of high functioning abusers has been driven by generations of entitlement. The lack of empathy and awareness about the damage done to the lives of the people who are victims is so tragic, as is obvious from this person who had to grow up with it.
    It is sad that people who have money don’t use it to get help for themselves and their families.

    • @judithhofweber4858
      @judithhofweber4858 Рік тому

      In many ways these situations are replay of the slave culture that is part of American history.
      Someone feeling that they're the master and that they, through Terror can enslave those less powerful. The damage is lifelong.
      Often collusion protects the perpetrators, perfectly.

  • @theSemiChrist
    @theSemiChrist Рік тому +24

    Ah, plastic surgery. I was wondering how he looked more like Cher than a cross dresser does when they're actually trying to look like Cher.

  • @anotherlittlepieceofmyart
    @anotherlittlepieceofmyart Рік тому +4

    I used to converse with him while he was in prison. I was a psych student and told him I wanted to write about him. He called the murder "the tragedy," claimed he did not remember anything from it, and asked me if I would contact a person he was dealing with from 20/20 news show and vouch for his character 🤔

    • @An_Drea_Calling
      @An_Drea_Calling 2 місяці тому +1

      What vibes did you pick up? Was he charismatic, creepy, credible, manipulative?

    • @anotherlittlepieceofmyart
      @anotherlittlepieceofmyart 2 місяці тому +2

      @@An_Drea_Calling extremely intelligent, highly manipulative, and very charismatic.

    • @An_Drea_Calling
      @An_Drea_Calling 2 місяці тому +2

      @@anotherlittlepieceofmyart Thanks! Oh man... the perfect mix. Must have been scary and fascinating to speak with someone like him. At the same time, I hope I never come across someone like that in real life.

    • @anotherlittlepieceofmyart
      @anotherlittlepieceofmyart 2 місяці тому +1

      @An_Drea_Calling It really was. I was shocked that he wrote back, and did it so quickly. I had written to several high profile inmates and he was the only person to reply. He is a fascinating person. I still have the letters and hoped to put a book together, but I never noticed a lot of interest in the case.

    • @skibidi.G
      @skibidi.G 17 днів тому

      Nice channel 😊

  • @rebacrow5604
    @rebacrow5604 Рік тому +5

    Hi Dr Grande, I watch you every time you come home. I just think you are so smart and I love your dry sense of humor. I get happy when I see you have a new vlog. Have a blessed day

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Рік тому +6

    Prayers for her Children, and Family 🙏💔🙏💔🙏💔🙏💔

  • @ChaoticCurlz
    @ChaoticCurlz Рік тому +9

    Never thought I’d say this but I’m here for the puns!😆 Never will they be enough, lol. Spot on analysis as usual😊

  • @nomorelies1867
    @nomorelies1867 Рік тому +33

    Hmmm. It’s as if the paraphilia known as cross-dressing and gender confusion in general is highly correlated with extremes in behavior and a higher prevalence of personality disorders 🤔 ….But what do I know? I’m no licensed psychologist.

    • @Anon_E_Muss
      @Anon_E_Muss Рік тому +6

      Seems like you're noticing patters here

  • @michellehobbs3709
    @michellehobbs3709 Рік тому +4

    Great use of alliteration! I love your dry sense of humor.

  • @TheAllianceEnt
    @TheAllianceEnt Рік тому +17

    "There's only room for ONE dress in this closet!"

  • @RudeJudy
    @RudeJudy Рік тому +5

    I knew this whole family..i was just a kid...such a crazy story!

  • @bonnielee316
    @bonnielee316 Рік тому +1

    Dr.Grande,
    Dang Dr. Grande, this is a psychological, “ meaty “ video! Lots of good psych information in it and great jokes as well! 🙏❤️

  • @PatataCagnePazzo
    @PatataCagnePazzo Рік тому +3

    The soft lights in the back are really nice!

  • @cottontails9003
    @cottontails9003 Рік тому +11

    Thank you Dr Grande, for the great content. Thank you Dr Grande you are the best .

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 Рік тому +1

      Hello dear. I agree with your comment. Great visit w Mum today🥰💞💛💐🍭🍹🌃Hugs to you all...💌💫🌜🌠

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 Рік тому

      @@zenawarrior7442 Hello my friend, so pleased you're mum is still having good days. The family says too say hello. 😜😚❤💙💙💙✉☕🌷🌸🌹🍀
      BTW Steve asked if your mum is on Aricept , It may have a different name in America, but you can put it in your search engine. It really helps people like your mum who have dementia. ❤💙💖-

  • @sandyhamilton5295
    @sandyhamilton5295 Рік тому +5

    Intelligent and hilarious. I look forward to your videos. You are the greatest.

  • @elizabethwarman9028
    @elizabethwarman9028 Рік тому +17

    Good evening Dr. Grande. As always an excellent analysis. My question is why do women( including myself back in the 90s) stay with me who are abusive?
    Have a wonderful week.

    • @danbie86
      @danbie86 Рік тому +9

      No doctor here. Was in an emotionally abusive relationship and I can tell you that women stay because they dont think they deserve better. Very low self esteem. Along with never having a healthy relationship with a man in their lives (fathers, step fathers…etc)

    • @lisamac8503
      @lisamac8503 Рік тому +9

      If you respect and love yourself you would not stay in such a relationships We want to be validated and to be loved but inwardly we do not feel we deserve love Past abuse makes this much worse Co- dependence tend to attract abusive Narc relationships We think if we just love more and harder and do more then this person who is abusing us will see the light and wake up and love us Sadly this does not work All we can do is get out ,heal and move forward

    • @azulgaia7782
      @azulgaia7782 Рік тому +7

      Or maybe just that he’s threatened to kill you and the kids if you dare ever try to leave.

    • @elizabethwarman9028
      @elizabethwarman9028 Рік тому +4

      @@azulgaia7782 possible

    • @elizabethwarman9028
      @elizabethwarman9028 Рік тому +4

      @@azulgaia7782 another way is to make you feel stupid and useless without him

  • @ceilconstante640
    @ceilconstante640 Рік тому +13

    Having a low self esteem attracts bad partner choices!

  • @SarahAnne44AVEMaria
    @SarahAnne44AVEMaria Рік тому +2

    You’re FREAKING, FABULOUS, FANTASTICALLY FUNNY, and my new FAVORITE FOR FOLLOWING!
    😂🎉❤

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 Рік тому +6

    Always interesting
    Thank you
    Peace 💕🇺🇲

  • @kaycarpenter33
    @kaycarpenter33 5 місяців тому +6

    At one time I had the opportunity to fill-in for his regular secretary when he was a dermatologist. He was very demanding and rude. We witnessed him demeaning his wife Karen in front of everyone. She was so kind and sweet. May she rest in peace.😥🙏🏻💜

  • @czarina7786
    @czarina7786 Рік тому +41

    His corporate interests certainly go along with wanting to transition to female. Hair removal. Skin moisturizer etc.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +1

      Totally creepy. Autogynephilia. Ed Gein Buffalo Bill stuff.

    • @anyways661
      @anyways661 Рік тому +8

      It puts the lotion on its skin.

    • @evelynwaugh4053
      @evelynwaugh4053 Рік тому +3

      @@anyways661..... or it gets the hose again.

  • @jelsner5077
    @jelsner5077 Рік тому +4

    I can relate to Harry. My mom died (cancer) when I was 15, and I didn't believe she was gone, either. I went through years of numb denial, which I guess could have been lessened with some family counseling. (My family didn't believe in therapy, either). Some early intervention could have spared Harry (and myself) from some future problems.

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften Рік тому +4

    Very interesting AND educational.

  • @NenaM
    @NenaM Рік тому +28

    Autogynephilia strikes again.

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 Рік тому +7

      True

    • @davinasquirrel7672
      @davinasquirrel7672 5 місяців тому +6

      Not disputing that could be the case (as is often the case), but I did not pick up any clues to that one. This one is probably more complex that simple autogynephilia, he appeared to have a deep-rooted misogyny (as many of them do), plus add into the mix an extreme narcissist (probably NPD) and domestic abuser. Seemed like a volatile cocktail going on.
      Deep-rooted misogyny can also be 'failed masculinity' as well, the so-called beta male trying to make alpha. More layers to this one than an onion tbh. But misogyny is definitely in the mix.

    • @EvelynTokamp
      @EvelynTokamp 5 місяців тому +1

      Had to look that up, autogynephilia.

    • @freyjathorsdottir5126
      @freyjathorsdottir5126 5 місяців тому +4

      @@EvelynTokamp
      There’s a lot of that going around.

    • @EvelynTokamp
      @EvelynTokamp 5 місяців тому +1

      @@freyjathorsdottir5126 Yes, I`m not surprised ...

  • @sookiebyun4260
    @sookiebyun4260 Рік тому +2

    OMG, your deadpan humor just kills me! 😂😂😂 No pun intended! 😂