Dermatologist Kills Wife After Her Concerns About Cross-Dressing | Dr. Richard Sharpe Case Analysis

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  • @rumchata6569
    @rumchata6569 Рік тому +445

    The fact that he was prom king has to be the most surprising and impressive accomplishment he had

    • @mario-qi3yw
      @mario-qi3yw Рік тому +24

      He was successful in college. That’s also shocking.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 Рік тому +34

      Honestly could see him putting thousands of votes in the ballot box for himself lol

    • @larsfinlay7325
      @larsfinlay7325 Рік тому +15

      bro imagine being one of the people that voted for him. that surreal moment when one of the cool smart kids from school shows up in the newspaper is one heck of a surprise.

    • @angelinparadise7282
      @angelinparadise7282 Рік тому +4

      Ikr?? I was surprised too! Maybe it was a school prank...?

    • @jaex9617
      @jaex9617 Рік тому +22

      Pretty much every prom king turns out just like this. Those deals with Satan come at a cost, you know.

  • @SaturnSenshi3105
    @SaturnSenshi3105 Рік тому +711

    Lots of famous serial killers were cross dressers (not accusing anyone just a really weird pattern)

    • @infinitejest441
      @infinitejest441 Рік тому +81

      John Gacy. 🤡

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak Рік тому +2

      It’s a mental disorder in and of itself only probably taken off DSM in the 70s along with other disorders so prevalent (and encouraged) these days.

    • @tylere.8436
      @tylere.8436 Рік тому +1

      Because crossdressing is an abomination to God.

    • @jareya
      @jareya Рік тому +37

      True

    • @DrTiwade
      @DrTiwade Рік тому +225

      It's a perversion. Evil

  • @olson.pamela
    @olson.pamela Рік тому +400

    “People would let him treat their skin but he made their skin crawl” Dr. Grande you are so funny!

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +10

      He’s Ed Gein reborn.

    • @IARRCSim
      @IARRCSim Рік тому +9

      Yeah. Sometimes his jokes don't work but usually they do and sometimes they're downright hilarious. That one was hilarious.

    • @EvadoCouto
      @EvadoCouto Рік тому +13

      That made me laugh so hard. My father is a derm and a jerk. I’m going to use that next time I’m gossiping with my brother

    • @birdn4t0r7
      @birdn4t0r7 Рік тому +3

      @@wormwoodcocktail that's an insult to ed gein

    • @user-mv4mc5xm6h
      @user-mv4mc5xm6h 5 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @czarina7786
    @czarina7786 Рік тому +481

    More than one woman has put a guy thru school and gotten the raw end of the deal.

    • @TheSouthIsHot
      @TheSouthIsHot Рік тому +101

      Yep. To all the ladies listening: NEVER support your husband through his education. He will dump you on the sidewalk like garbage when he's done with you. Don't marry a man (or date one for that matter) who isn't done with his education and/or settled into his career

    • @figplucker3052
      @figplucker3052 Рік тому +27

      @@TheSouthIsHot Yes, they will only get forked in the end

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us Рік тому

      Autogynephiles enjoy living off of people. It's part of their "being treated like a stupid spoiled slut/bimbo/woman" fantasy. They love to go into prostitution, live off parents, the state, take take take. I think they like to become doctors not just for the power and status but because the education process is long and if someone else is paying then they're happy to stay in school forever. I'm surprised this guy became successful. Back in the day "trans women" tended to be trustfund babies or transition once they were in power or retired, now the government provides and people are losing their kids. "girls just wanna have fun" 🙄😂 SICK SAD WORLD 🤡

    • @origamiandcats6873
      @origamiandcats6873 Рік тому +9

      @Fig Plucker noted

    • @Badcompany6969...
      @Badcompany6969... Рік тому +31

      Betty Broderick

  • @donnajanecastle4807
    @donnajanecastle4807 Рік тому +538

    My dad went to him to check a mole and came home exclaiming what a looney tune the guy was. He was playing video games while my dad sat and waited for him to check his mole, right in the same room. It was shortly after that we heard about the murder. She should have gotten out after the first baby and stayed out!

    • @dareU2
      @dareU2 Рік тому +29

      What seriously.....🤪😁😵

    • @crystal-thewall
      @crystal-thewall Рік тому +19

      He sounds like Sam Bankman Fried

    • @theworldrealm72
      @theworldrealm72 Рік тому +28

      Wow! That shows just how small the world can seem at times. Say hi to your dad from me/us, he just became known worldwide for having visited a crazy murderous trans dermatologist and lived to tell the story. That's one amazing story and a great comment. Take care and tell your dad to stay away from mad dermatologists in the future, after all, he has a family to worry over:)

    • @thebeatnumber
      @thebeatnumber Рік тому +26

      Yes, isn't it weird that she waited until he had transferred 2.9 million dollars to her, before she started having an affair and decided to leave him?

    • @crystal-thewall
      @crystal-thewall Рік тому +10

      @@thebeatnumber haha yeah. Quite weird

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom Рік тому +621

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when a cross-dressing dermatologist murders his wife like this.

    • @curtisjeffries9640
      @curtisjeffries9640 Рік тому +22

      🤣

    • @BigZebraCom
      @BigZebraCom Рік тому +7

      @@curtisjeffries9640 :)

    • @taracat7723
      @taracat7723 Рік тому +5

      Good one.

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us Рік тому

      There should be PSA "AUTOGYNEPHILES ARE POWER SEEKING NARCISSISTS DON'T ALLOW THEM TO MANIPULATE YOU". I dated one that left to blow his married boyfriend that wanted to get rid of me then he punched HIMSELF in the face so he could claim he was defending my honor and could garner sympathy. His other friend told me he faked the fight and bloody nose, I told him he was sick for saying that and never to speak to me again. Turned out to be true. Dude is a fuckin doctor. Fuckin cray cray, thought I was gonna be his beard, incubator, house slave, arm candy. Maybe get him dressed up and pegged between boyfriend visits. What's worse is I didn't avoid trans people after that, I was too kind "not all of them are narcissistic misogynists". Yeah right 😂

    • @catblack4091
      @catblack4091 Рік тому +10

      A situation LIKE that one

  • @coolwater55
    @coolwater55 9 місяців тому +36

    She had a restraining order. The guy had beat her in the past, and was stalking her. Prime scenario for future attacks or killing.
    What the hell is wrong with our system.

  • @merry8545
    @merry8545 Рік тому +179

    In loving memory of Karen Hatfield 🙏🏽 ❤️ 🙏🏽 ❤️

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 Рік тому +537

    “Richard’s felonious fatuous forehead fork folly forwarded him to a mental hospital…” and “Karen forged a fable to the medical staff, she told them not to focus on the forehead fork fiction because it was fictitious and fabricated.” 😂😅
    These phrases were formed in a fine and fantastic fashion. What a funny and fabulous way to describe this unforeseen fact.
    Thank you for the fun and fanciful analysis, Dr. Grande.❤

    • @jmfs3497
      @jmfs3497 Рік тому +44

      LOL. My head began to explode under the alliteration.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 Рік тому +5

      😊💙Agreed

    • @Gagalover1569
      @Gagalover1569 Рік тому +14

      Bam! So true. Love Dr. G’s dry, quick wit! LOL.

    • @melissavolcy317
      @melissavolcy317 Рік тому +21

      I found myself laughing a little too hard when he said that. I love Dr. Grande.

    • @Neilsowards
      @Neilsowards Рік тому +5

      baddddd!

  • @phdtobe
    @phdtobe 9 місяців тому +39

    There’s no way to dress up this murderer’s criminal action here to morally justify them.

  • @cactusitude
    @cactusitude 9 місяців тому +119

    If your husband starts wearing your underwear or talking about his gender confusion, run away

    • @SporadicUploads1
      @SporadicUploads1 23 дні тому +6

      That is just shaming and conservative values pushing. Saying to abandon a loved one over that is narcissistic.

    • @suppy4254
      @suppy4254 23 дні тому

      @@SporadicUploads1you should look into spousal betrayal ptsd and its connection with this exact subject. You might learn something interesting

    • @ImNotaRussianBot
      @ImNotaRussianBot 23 дні тому +5

      I'm not going to run away from a confused person. They aren't dangerous and I'd hope I loved them since I would be married to them.
      Maybe go to therapy rather than abandon a loved one in their most vulnerable time?

    • @Jebe_Noyon
      @Jebe_Noyon 22 дні тому +15

      @@SporadicUploads1shut up, you know it’s logical 🤣

    • @Jebe_Noyon
      @Jebe_Noyon 22 дні тому +17

      @@ImNotaRussianBot“they aren’t dangerous“…while hearing about one murdering 🤷🏼‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤣

  • @jhunsuc1239
    @jhunsuc1239 Рік тому +97

    "then they finally decided to go to the correct location...they should have taken the advice of her brother and sent the best officers" 🤣🤣😂 completely straight face. Love it!

    • @cathryncampbell8555
      @cathryncampbell8555 Рік тому +2

      What a superb burn, Dr. Grande!

    • @joeyoung4121
      @joeyoung4121 Рік тому +3

      Dr grande did a vice pres. review at the end there's the outtakes when he's can't keep a straight face. priceless Recommend Dr grande therapy

  • @denome3725
    @denome3725 Рік тому +21

    My mother and father divorced when i was three years old and my mother often used to beat us with whatever she was finding at her disposal after drinking so much many times letting us to sleep outside even though our grandmother bought her a house especially so that all of us could live a better life. My childhood was a living hell until i was able to grow up and leave the house eventually working hard and being able to live a decent and normal life so whoever uses this as an excuse to harm another is just being extremely selfish.

    • @j3suisd3
      @j3suisd3 Місяць тому

      ⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @alisharocklin2741
    @alisharocklin2741 Рік тому +183

    Who needs court tv when we have Dr. Grande!

  • @lastplayer7048
    @lastplayer7048 Рік тому +51

    I hope the children in this situation are safe and have found some semblance of peace. My heart goes out to them.

    • @Paparoxx
      @Paparoxx 18 днів тому

      ...and got the money and property. I'll bet lawyers made out on this one. The kids got an undisclosed "trust"...

  • @jennifers3828
    @jennifers3828 Рік тому +32

    “It’s as if the grinch was a dermatologist.” 🤣 I love your videos. Your voice is so calming.

  • @labotraduc8448
    @labotraduc8448 Рік тому +24

    I can't believe he was only 54 years old. He looked so much older in some of the pictures.

    • @davinasquirrel7672
      @davinasquirrel7672 15 днів тому

      The effects of testosterone are basically a one-way street. So a 54yo male, to pull off a 54yo female, generally requires a 'million billion' in surgeries.

  • @mleecthulhu
    @mleecthulhu 10 місяців тому +25

    The fact that Dr. Grande can pull out JOKES FOR DAYS W A STRAIGHT FACE, AND VERY PROFESSIONAL BEDSIDE MANNER! 💯😂

    • @SporadicUploads1
      @SporadicUploads1 23 дні тому

      What's professional about it? A flat affect is not the same as professional.

    • @Arukan
      @Arukan 22 дні тому

      That is also a feature of sociopathy

  • @prod.arcsyne2990
    @prod.arcsyne2990 Рік тому +59

    Its so sad that a child got abused then learned violence was the only correct answer, repeating the cycle

    • @farmerchick3040
      @farmerchick3040 Рік тому +15

      He made those choices. Many people who come from abusive households don't go on to abuse others because they have their brains to recognize it was wrong. Please stop making excuses for murderers.

    • @prod.arcsyne2990
      @prod.arcsyne2990 Рік тому +9

      @@farmerchick3040 its not an excuse its an understanding. Trauma and mental health is important, because sometimes that stuff can turn u into a monster without mindfulness

    • @pitbull6527
      @pitbull6527 Рік тому +3

      He had a choice to not do these things...and a choice to seek therapy. My father was APD. I won't go into the things he did to the three of us kids, but I did intensive therapy over many years to deal with the PTSD, Anxiety, and Depression. I did not want to be my father. Even my father being APD...he had a choice too.

    • @imjustbarelygettingstarted7352
      @imjustbarelygettingstarted7352 Рік тому +2

      @@farmerchick3040 Peoples brains rewire according to the abuse. They dont always know right from wrong, or that they need therapy. Everyone experiences and responds differently, and in their own timeframe

    • @prod.arcsyne2990
      @prod.arcsyne2990 Рік тому +3

      @@pitbull6527 he had a choice, but he also had experience that helped shaped them into a monster. at some point during the abuse he lost his empathy for others.

  • @chococookies7292
    @chococookies7292 Рік тому +21

    I actually can't believe he found the success he did, given that they were both unestablished and was raising a child while both attending college. That's EXTREMELY hard to do and usually the men will just work to provide. Not try for Bachelor's degree, masters , and medical school. She had to support HIM and get abused all the while through /feel TRAPPED! I can't believe she even finished nursing school!

  • @brigittebeltran6701
    @brigittebeltran6701 Рік тому +139

    Another excellent analysis by Dr. Grande. Such a tragedy for all...His insecure wife put up with so much abuse...and the poor children. No winners here. 😪

  • @subaru7233
    @subaru7233 Місяць тому +5

    I lived in Gloucester and was a patient of Dr. Sharpe. He was deeply weird even to look at and one of the most arrogant people I've ever met. This event was a huge shock to our community . Karen was a beloved friend to many. It was incredibly sad.

  • @duromusabc
    @duromusabc Рік тому +180

    Narcissists can commit suicide when they experience a devastating narcissistic collapse- like this dermatologist who lost his medical license and medical career stuck in jail and his main narcissistic supply dead and narcissistic supply from within himself during the narcissistic collapse phase wasn’t enough to keep him regulated and live anymore

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому

      Bingo. And prison probably gave him few opportunities to steal women’s panties.

    • @oliverxhmll
      @oliverxhmll Рік тому +31

      yeah anyone can commit suicide when they lose everything in their life.

    • @RipsGirl
      @RipsGirl Рік тому +3

      Hello Duane, If you don't mind me asking, do you have a degree in psychology?

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 Рік тому +4

      I always figured that narcissists got their attention from everyone, everywhere. Doesn't seem like any narcissist would limit their supply of attention to just one person, lest they be a lazy narcissist.

    • @elizabethcarder5247
      @elizabethcarder5247 Рік тому

      @R Voit it increases female hormones.

  • @tessjones5987
    @tessjones5987 Рік тому +41

    Dr. Sharpe was my doctor. I saw some compassion in him. I found him to be intense
    yet professional. He had a lot of his young childrens art work in his office. He was a
    very intense super-critical person with some sincere compassion. Really unique guy.
    I feel so sorry for his family. I remember he would call his wife to schedule his calendar.
    So I think they were both co-dependent on eachother for security. I saw her once in his
    office she was very kind and pretty.

  • @ccpperrett7522
    @ccpperrett7522 Рік тому +62

    My grandchildren's father, his girlfriend and her mother are all narcissists. Ugly, awful, hateful people. My 14 year old granddaughter is counting the minutes, hours and days until she no longer must live in her father's home. I pray to God it will be soon. 🙏

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 Рік тому +2

      God doesn’t exist so that’s a silly thing to do.

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie Рік тому +17

      @@icturner23 That tired old comment is becoming passe'. Prove your assertion.

    • @SuperCrazyPsycho731
      @SuperCrazyPsycho731 Рік тому

      Ugly people are always bad people. Personally, I think it's their true self being reflected and exposed by their outward appearance. 🤮

    • @Linda72.
      @Linda72. Рік тому +2

      I can relate. Best wishes x

    • @theriddlerUSA
      @theriddlerUSA Рік тому +6

      Prayers to you and your family. ♥️

  • @jenanne31
    @jenanne31 Рік тому +279

    I've learned so much about psychology from you, Dr. Grande. Thank you.

    • @carolnahigian9518
      @carolnahigian9518 Рік тому +5

      my ex Husband R J cancelled myheat; turned off HEAT IN OUR HOME WHERE WE HAD minor children,...... pure anger& Hatred of WOMEN (ug)!

    • @NotChefCook
      @NotChefCook Рік тому

      @@carolnahigian9518 - I hope he was punished as he deserved dear .

    • @justincraig398
      @justincraig398 Рік тому +6

      Tell us what your learned Jen. In a 10 page paper, 1/2 spaced , size 07 font. Due tomorrow morning 6am.

    • @jenanne31
      @jenanne31 Рік тому +1

      @@justincraig398 Such a comedian! 🤣

    • @daviep520
      @daviep520 Рік тому +4

      I've learned so much about myself 🤦‍♂️😩

  • @tiffanyeyoung1800
    @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому +144

    This is so sad and typical of abusive relationships. This is typical of the cycle of violence repeating itself.
    I'm even more upset about Karen's parents not protecting her or their grandchildren.
    I can't imagine how traumatic it was for the babysitter and the children to see her murdered like this

    • @dila4834
      @dila4834 Рік тому +26

      I blame her. Not the parents. She knew he was an abuser within the first year of marriage. She was afraid of proving her parents right. They have nothing to do with it.

    • @robburrows2737
      @robburrows2737 Рік тому +16

      Not all abused kids become abusive. There has to be personal responsibility.

    • @agnes4428
      @agnes4428 Рік тому +11

      @@dila4834 I suggest reading about the "battered woman syndrome" and then seeing how much to blame Karen was for what had happened to her. Because I think it's very telling that he killed her AFTER he lost control over her.

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому +5

      @@robburrows2737 That's true. I grew up in a violent home and I am not abusive. Unfortunately, other problems do come up. Like the codependency between these two

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому +2

      @@user-account-not-found You stand up for others and yourself. Nothing wrong with that. Keep up the great work

  • @bjewel3751
    @bjewel3751 Рік тому +20

    A true narcissistic sociopath.He lacked so much self awareness that he didn’t realise he was making Karen and their home like how his dad did. You’d think him being that smart, he would recognise and try and break the chain

    • @basskitten808.
      @basskitten808. 9 місяців тому +5

      Agreed. Narcissists don't have the ability to do this though. They're essentially weak overgrown children who refuse to accept responsibility for their wrongs (even the fairly self aware ones.)

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva Рік тому +242

    Poor Karen. She was so young when the relationship started.
    I hope their kids are doing ok.

    • @panushjo
      @panushjo Рік тому +20

      She was selfish. Had kids with a bad character, tried to break up a marriage, etc.

    • @duilawyr
      @duilawyr Рік тому +7

      I’m impressed you spelled “their” correctly.

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us Рік тому +47

      What a life, she never had one! I'm glad I don't put out. I dated an Autogynephile accidently. No kids then ESCAPED. He's a doctor. Horrifying narcissists.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +1

      @@panushjo Good luck with your gender transition! Just stay out of women’s washrooms!

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +17

      @@terrorists-are-among-us I am so sorry about your situation. Take care, these men are pure evil.

  • @Summer-en9hs
    @Summer-en9hs Рік тому +35

    You are very great at showing respect for this woman and mother, describing how she wanted to stand on her own and be free but why she couldn’t. Sadly. 💜

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 Рік тому +93

    He looks so upset in his pics. What a terrible guy and disgusting what he did. Great analysis, giving us info & smiles. Thanks Dr G😊💙💙

    • @barbaraspector6689
      @barbaraspector6689 Рік тому +6

      Blame the Dr.’s parents.

    • @CesarClouds
      @CesarClouds Рік тому

      Unhappy Jagger.

    • @jbirish2144
      @jbirish2144 Рік тому +3

      I watched the trial where he pretended to be crazy. It was almost unbearable watching his contorted facial expressions and listening to his malingering.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 Рік тому +1

      @@jbirish2144 I can't even imagine how unbearable that could be🙄😐🤪

  • @taracat7723
    @taracat7723 Рік тому +77

    After Dr G said he started taking her birth control pills..I went right to the comments

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +25

      Autogynephilia. He probably thought it was akin to HRT.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 Рік тому +19

      Dude no kidding! I was across the room from my phone and said “oh what the f?!” And immediately ran over to rewind and I’ve been in the comments ever since 😂

    • @normanorman
      @normanorman Рік тому

      @@wormwoodcocktail it’s unproven

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +12

      @@normanorman I’m sure you watched a ContraPoints video that says that. Too bad he’s an autogynephile.

    • @normanorman
      @normanorman Рік тому

      @@wormwoodcocktail every mental illness is autogynephilia to u people. whatever ur smoking must be the same shit dr. sharpe was on to make him lose his mind

  • @nightwood4379
    @nightwood4379 Рік тому +88

    Good Evening Dr. G., Ironic that Sharpe could treat skin, yet be so uncomfortable in his own. The alliteration of the letter “f” was fabulous…a welcome interval from the unfolding tragedy . Your smooth, keen and thoughtful analysis was calming. Thank you! Also, kudos on the redo of your studio. New cactus?

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT Рік тому +3

      He's like Bob NEWHART. Lol.

    • @sherylhorlbeck3760
      @sherylhorlbeck3760 Рік тому +2

      You’re right! He kind of is! 😃

  • @missyskye_sea_land9424
    @missyskye_sea_land9424 Рік тому +74

    “Richard was…, creepy looking,…made their skin crawl…”😂 I shouldn’t be laughing but couldn’t help it.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva Рік тому +3

      The descriptors were hilarious. I watched the trial on court tv back in the day and all of those seem fitting. He acted like that during his trial.

    • @SuperCrazyPsycho731
      @SuperCrazyPsycho731 Рік тому +7

      Always trust your gut. If you are repulsed by someone It's just your instincts telling you that they aren't a good or suitable mate of any kind. Listen to your gut not people crying over hurt feelings and reality.

  • @Mrs.Silversmith
    @Mrs.Silversmith Рік тому +64

    Clearly a smart guy, but a miserable human being. I wonder how his life would have turned out if he had been raised in a loving, supportive environment.

    • @theriddlerUSA
      @theriddlerUSA Рік тому +6

      I wonder how his siblings are doing?

    • @nancyk7954
      @nancyk7954 Рік тому +5

      He would have had a much better chance of not being what he turned out to be. Becoming a narc is a choice they make. It's nut curable and they will likely never be anyone different that how they are. They are very sick and dangerous people. I pity anyone who ends up with one.

    • @pwallace5359
      @pwallace5359 Рік тому

      He was a muring , abusive POS. Just because he was a cross dresser doesn’t mean he deserves pity. His poor wife is the one that deserves pity not that self scented psychopath.

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 Рік тому

      I wonder how his (and other people's) lives would have been immeasurably better and happier if not for the Cult of Intelligence/ Cult of Death (CIA, DoD and pals)?

  • @crazyfangirl12
    @crazyfangirl12 Рік тому +53

    From dad jokes to inordinate alliteration: Dr. Grande, you are a joy 🥰

  • @pageribe2399
    @pageribe2399 Рік тому +10

    The four plastic surgeries didn't help him much.

    • @GheyR
      @GheyR 22 дні тому

      😂😂😂

  • @kim_yong_un
    @kim_yong_un Рік тому +29

    That’s strange, i have a friend who crossdresses.. Also has a jealousy for his sister. I heard crossdressing is always related to jealousy of women, rather than adoration.

    • @j3suisd3
      @j3suisd3 Місяць тому +6

      Seems so 😬

    • @renny6151
      @renny6151 Місяць тому

      Probably was abused and saw that his sister never faced such abuse. The mistreatment of boys in society is making boys and men want to be women and girls, because they see how society cares about them more, sadly.

    • @suppy4254
      @suppy4254 23 дні тому +2

      Usually yes! Either this or the hobby is a result of chronic 🌽 addiction

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 23 дні тому

      Yep

    • @alouettedemer5366
      @alouettedemer5366 23 дні тому +1

      You heard wrongly.

  • @susanmann5286
    @susanmann5286 Рік тому +9

    Stating this for a friend. Obtaining higher education is not a substitute for needed clinical treatment of one's self.

  • @tinabenson1492
    @tinabenson1492 Рік тому +13

    Possibly, he was an AGP.

  • @nomorelies1867
    @nomorelies1867 Рік тому +20

    Hmmm. It’s as if the paraphilia known as cross-dressing and gender confusion in general is highly correlated with extremes in behavior and a higher prevalence of personality disorders 🤔 ….But what do I know? I’m no licensed psychologist.

    • @Anon_E_Muss
      @Anon_E_Muss 9 місяців тому +4

      Seems like you're noticing patters here

  • @mcc1483
    @mcc1483 Рік тому +29

    I watched this case many years ago on Court TV. Even after all this time, I still remember how strange Sharp was and how on the stand at trial how he kept his eyes closed the entire time when being questioned. His wife appeared to be such a nice and good person, who got messed up w the wrong guy. Her life must have been sheer hell.

    • @heidistabbert3062
      @heidistabbert3062 Рік тому +2

      Same! His testimony was creepy as hell. I'll never forget it.

    • @icturner23
      @icturner23 Рік тому

      *Sharpe

    • @catalinaortoljo2821
      @catalinaortoljo2821 Рік тому +3

      Ditto! Absolutely one of the strangest defendants of all the trials I've followed on Court TV. If creepy was a person.

    • @Jenny-nz8fb
      @Jenny-nz8fb 9 місяців тому +1

      He probably kept his eyes shut because he thought if he couldn’t see you then you couldn’t see him. Classic baby man narcissist.

    • @manichairdo9265
      @manichairdo9265 9 місяців тому +1

      Very good explanation. Esp about why Karen stayed with the rancid creep.
      Here in the UK, police can refuse to drop violence charges esp if they believe the victim has been coerced or manipulated into withdrawing the complaint. I wish the cops had charged him at the outset anyway.
      I hope their children have since thrived.

  • @brittanywilcox7377
    @brittanywilcox7377 Рік тому +50

    Dissociation is normal for everybody to experience in small amounts. I've never heard of anyone who believes it doesn't exist. That being said, it's a stupid defense for murder. Most people dissociate at the movies, for example, because you can feel like that two hour movie "flew by" (if it was good lol). You don't lose your sense of right and wrong in that moment. How absurd.

    • @takemyjobpleeez
      @takemyjobpleeez Рік тому +3

      Truth! It's a weird feeling when it happens. Sometimes, putting myself into loud, bustling, crowded, situations can do it for me. It doesn't happen often, but it's a strange experience when it does.

    • @jakethedude100
      @jakethedude100 Рік тому

      I have it after being sexually abused as a child. It’s a horrible condition..

    • @brittanywilcox7377
      @brittanywilcox7377 Рік тому

      @@jakethedude100 have what?

  • @gregofthedump
    @gregofthedump Рік тому +27

    Amusing alliteration added to amazing analysis.

  • @TheAllianceEnt
    @TheAllianceEnt Рік тому +16

    "There's only room for ONE dress in this closet!"

  • @kimberlysmith7311
    @kimberlysmith7311 Рік тому +24

    💖 your analysis Dr. Grande. So very sad for his wife and children. 😥

  • @czarina7786
    @czarina7786 Рік тому +40

    His corporate interests certainly go along with wanting to transition to female. Hair removal. Skin moisturizer etc.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +1

      Totally creepy. Autogynephilia. Ed Gein Buffalo Bill stuff.

    • @anyways661
      @anyways661 Рік тому +6

      It puts the lotion on its skin.

    • @evelynwaugh4053
      @evelynwaugh4053 Рік тому +3

      @@anyways661..... or it gets the hose again.

  • @jackiegrice714
    @jackiegrice714 Рік тому +83

    This case had a lot of interesting angles. It’s sad how Richard perpetrated the violent 9behavior he learned at the hands of his father on Karen. It’s also sad that Karen couldn’t seem to get away from the relationship, even though she knew almost from the beginning that marrying Richard was a bad idea. Thanks for analyzing this one Dr. Grande-and thank you for lightening the subject up with your trademark humor.

    • @agnes4428
      @agnes4428 Рік тому +4

      Three words "battered woman syndrome". Yes, it's actually a thing. And yes, it's explains a lot about Karen's behavior through out her relationship with her husband. Including the fact that she unfortunately lost her life after he lost his control over her. Control he thought of as absolute. Meaning that she wouldn't use the fact that he'd most of his wealth over to her (as a measure for to fight being sued for malpractice) to finally get away from him.

    • @DrTiwade
      @DrTiwade Рік тому +3

      The important angle not mentioned is SIN.

    • @farmerchick3040
      @farmerchick3040 Рік тому +2

      I don't understand how people are so willing to blame violence on their past....you are not your past. He made these choices.

    • @jbrown8601
      @jbrown8601 Рік тому +3

      @@farmerchick3040 his past made him a wacko but he chose to pull the trigger.

  • @NenaM
    @NenaM Рік тому +21

    Autogynephilia strikes again.

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 Рік тому +6

      True

    • @davinasquirrel7672
      @davinasquirrel7672 14 днів тому +3

      Not disputing that could be the case (as is often the case), but I did not pick up any clues to that one. This one is probably more complex that simple autogynephilia, he appeared to have a deep-rooted misogyny (as many of them do), plus add into the mix an extreme narcissist (probably NPD) and domestic abuser. Seemed like a volatile cocktail going on.
      Deep-rooted misogyny can also be 'failed masculinity' as well, the so-called beta male trying to make alpha. More layers to this one than an onion tbh. But misogyny is definitely in the mix.

    • @EvelynTokamp
      @EvelynTokamp 2 дні тому

      Had to look that up, autogynephilia.

    • @freyjathorsdottir5126
      @freyjathorsdottir5126 День тому +1

      @@EvelynTokamp
      There’s a lot of that going around.

    • @EvelynTokamp
      @EvelynTokamp 16 годин тому

      @@freyjathorsdottir5126 Yes, I`m not surprised ...

  • @Automedon2
    @Automedon2 Рік тому +13

    Amazing that someone could have so many personal things going on in his life including addiction and at the same time be so successful in business.

  • @twinstarr2013
    @twinstarr2013 Рік тому +50

    Sad that peoples minds can become so warped that it leads them to commit evil

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak Рік тому +10

      Or to cross-dress.

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak Рік тому +6

      @Will Rivers No, I just get to see more crazy people than 10 or 20 years ago when out. You can't possibly argue that's a good thing.

  • @samzach2057
    @samzach2057 9 місяців тому +9

    This guy was just ahead of his time. He would be a hero in 2023!!!

  • @nanaman
    @nanaman Рік тому +11

    The cyclical trend of high functioning abusers has been driven by generations of entitlement. The lack of empathy and awareness about the damage done to the lives of the people who are victims is so tragic, as is obvious from this person who had to grow up with it.
    It is sad that people who have money don’t use it to get help for themselves and their families.

    • @judithhofweber4858
      @judithhofweber4858 Рік тому

      In many ways these situations are replay of the slave culture that is part of American history.
      Someone feeling that they're the master and that they, through Terror can enslave those less powerful. The damage is lifelong.
      Often collusion protects the perpetrators, perfectly.

  • @dissidentfairy4264
    @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +74

    What did he think taking his wife's birth control pills was going to do for him? I totally get where she was coming from in terms of not wanting to admit failure to her family. What a tragic case. I think that Richard was brilliantly insane. It sounds like he had narcissistic rage for sure amongst other psychological conditions. I feel bad for their children.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +4

      He probably had some delusions that taking female hormone treatments would make him a real woman. Typical autogynephile Ed Gein logic.

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +5

      @@wormwoodcocktail I think you nailed it. I don't know why I didn't think of that. lol

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail Рік тому +3

      @@dissidentfairy4264 I have a PhD in the behaviour of weird perverts. You didn’t think of it because you’re a normal person.

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +3

      @@wormwoodcocktail I'm afraid you under estimate me. Normal is generic and boring! My mind is like a Rubik's Cube. It moves with the speed of light:-)

    • @EmmaJ_462
      @EmmaJ_462 Рік тому +16

      It's a form of estrogen, similar to feminizing hormone therapy. He was most likely trans.

  • @bricksloth6920
    @bricksloth6920 Рік тому +17

    Hello Grande cacti, I hope you're all enjoying the festive season and getting enough sun.

  • @im19ice3
    @im19ice3 4 місяці тому +4

    feel so bad for the children, sounds very hard to cope with

  • @anitawies5732
    @anitawies5732 Рік тому +3

    I think you hit this one out of the park. Loved the many puns about 'skin' being he was a dermatologist! You may not smile much but you definitely have a sense of humor. Love it.

  • @vq2vx
    @vq2vx Рік тому +5

    your spin on the best police officers had me laugh out loud :D Thanks Dr G!

  • @kweefypete
    @kweefypete Рік тому +39

    Your content has exceeded expectations as always, Dr.Grande 💜

  • @viviansytsui
    @viviansytsui Рік тому +14

    "But he made their skin crawl" Oh how ironic! He failed as a Dermatologist, then. :P

  • @cuppycakey5013
    @cuppycakey5013 Рік тому +7

    “Just as he was rejected by his wife, he would later be rejected by a jury.” I don’t know why, but that made me laugh, and so did the skin puns. 😅

  • @stacyyoust
    @stacyyoust Рік тому +10

    The most dangerous time is when you are leaving 💢😡

  • @theSemiChrist
    @theSemiChrist Рік тому +22

    Ah, plastic surgery. I was wondering how he looked more like Cher than a cross dresser does when they're actually trying to look like Cher.

  • @ceilconstante640
    @ceilconstante640 Рік тому +8

    Having a low self esteem attracts bad partner choices!

  • @Haffina
    @Haffina Рік тому +32

    I loved the alliteration run, very cool. I also dislike Christmas, but I don't try to make it miserable for anyone else, mostly because the reason I dislike Christmas is because my abusive former step-father used to do that.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 Рік тому +3

      Your step-father used to make Christmas miserable?

    • @Haffina
      @Haffina Рік тому +5

      @@lindseyhendrix2405 yeah.

  • @gailbrevittlenton6667
    @gailbrevittlenton6667 Рік тому +23

    A surprising case, always interesting to learn from Dr. Grande, and this time with poetic tongue twisters thrown in! Thanks Dr.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Рік тому +30

    It’s Grande time. Let’s do this. ❤ Thanks for the interesting content. I listen to your case studies each day.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Рік тому +13

    She didn’t have a clue about how to protect herself. What a sad beginning, middle and end.

  • @rxbbielee
    @rxbbielee 9 місяців тому +5

    i can’t believe he stole those children’s mother and then stole their father by suicide. so sad

  • @sookiebyun4260
    @sookiebyun4260 10 місяців тому +2

    OMG, your deadpan humor just kills me! 😂😂😂 No pun intended! 😂

  • @dylswife8048
    @dylswife8048 Рік тому +4

    I knew this whole family..i was just a kid...such a crazy story!

  • @reavanante2160
    @reavanante2160 Рік тому +5

    I can't cite a study but I have heard that there is a definite corellation between how 'nice' a person is and how it attracts violence and victimization. So, accordingly, the nicer one is the more abusers one attracts. It explains a lot of life.
    Also, there is something in the animal world called imprinting. Humans supposedly are not affected by imprinting, but I don't believe this. Like when baby condors emerge from their eggs, they have to see Condors, as their parents, it happens at this specific time and if they see humans, they will adopt the human as their parent.

    • @Mouse_Metal
      @Mouse_Metal Рік тому

      Humans are to some extent affected by imprinting too.

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 Рік тому

      True ,serial killer try to find the nicest the more apologetic victims in public places

  • @JHjh88
    @JHjh88 Рік тому +20

    This as always was excellent Dr Grande. Your compassion shows through without compromising your professionalism. ❤️ From Oz🐨

  • @RinpochesRose
    @RinpochesRose Рік тому +21

    I guess if he was taking her birth control pills and being coercive, she may have found avoiding pregnancy challenging ☹️

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 Рік тому +5

      Only stands to reason 😮

    • @chilenapromedioRU
      @chilenapromedioRU Рік тому +10

      Absolutely. That's a form of abuse.

    • @staffryte951
      @staffryte951 Рік тому +6

      was he taking them by mouth or just taking them away?

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 Рік тому

      He took the pills for hormones,,he might thought he was a womam
      or fetishism of woman body

  • @rumchata6569
    @rumchata6569 Рік тому +18

    My guess is he resented his sister for not getting whooped and he took it out on his wife.

  • @Berendo4ever
    @Berendo4ever Рік тому +6

    All those "F"s in an alliterative sentence, but no room for" fetish"???

  • @SploinkyDH.
    @SploinkyDH. Рік тому +6

    The alliteration in this episode is fantastic.

  • @tergish1
    @tergish1 Рік тому +6

    So. Please take this with a grain of salt. This is my first video of yours. I love true crime. And I hate asmr. But after watching your video I get it. The way you speak is so calming and comforting. I like to listen to cases to help my insomnia. You my clinical diagnosistian friend, have a new subscriber

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 Рік тому +10

    Excellent job on the tongue twisters Dr Grande. Your humour is much appreciated.😂

    • @andshewas296
      @andshewas296 Рік тому +1

      Could it get any drier? I need some water.

  • @debbles
    @debbles Рік тому +16

    I remember watching his trial on Court TV year's ago. Very bizarre.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva Рік тому +3

      I remember too because he acted so ridiculous throughout!

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 Рік тому

      Now I wanna see it

  • @nathrogers7
    @nathrogers7 Рік тому +40

    Richard managed to get a gun, no-one knows how he did this in America.

    • @andshewas296
      @andshewas296 Рік тому +3

      Haha!!

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому +2

      It's easier than a lot of people think

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak Рік тому

      The same way people in communism were getting things they weren’t supposed to have (food, drinks, foreign currency, jeans, color TVs, detergent, rare and expensive medications for their children...): black market! It cannot be prevented by “laws”.

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому

      @@megamillionfreak What are you talking about?

    • @megamillionfreak
      @megamillionfreak Рік тому

      @@tiffanyeyoung1800 Can you not read/understand English?

  • @amberg1617
    @amberg1617 Рік тому +6

    Nothing better than seeing an upload from Dr. Grande - let’s get to speculating!

  • @augustovans
    @augustovans Рік тому +10

    Love your new set, especially the lighting!

  • @kgfes
    @kgfes 10 місяців тому +4

    So he was a non- serious student in elementary school but ended up in medical school. Dr. Grande missed out on telling us what caused him to take academic work more seriously

  • @memyself4431
    @memyself4431 Рік тому +10

    Who needs to research for a college paper when we have dr Grande 😊

  • @kathymichelle1978
    @kathymichelle1978 Рік тому +14

    How many times did you have to shoot all the words with "f"? You've done an outstanding video. I don't think I could have ever gotten through those perfect words with a straight face if I could have done it at all. I know you analyze serious situations but I appreciate your humor.

  • @CarlStreet
    @CarlStreet Рік тому +12

    Really enjoyed your alliterative analysis -- certainly it yielded more truth than poetry...

  • @jhoughjr1
    @jhoughjr1 Рік тому +10

    Who would imagine a guy like that could do that?

  • @browniehendricks3726
    @browniehendricks3726 Рік тому +11

    His behaviour and facial expressions on the stand were quite strange! Look up the case and you will not be disappointed. Thanks for your hard work. Keep up the the coverage of these unusual cases.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 Рік тому

      Definitely going to do so after finishing this! And high five for the same last name!! 😂🙏🏽

  • @forallthestupidshit3550
    @forallthestupidshit3550 Рік тому +31

    Dear Dr. Grande, your voice is so soothing, I listen to your videos on repeat while working, like it's a NPR podcast. Yours is the best thing to have on to ensure my coworkers don't know I'm on YT during work hours. Your smooth, alto delivery is like a calming lullaby.
    Much love to your channel! Never quit, please : )

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT Рік тому

      Me too

    • @joeyoung4121
      @joeyoung4121 Рік тому +2

      When Dr grande did one on the vice president at the end they do the outtakes it is hilarious I highly recommend Dr grande therapy 👍

    • @jht3fougifh393
      @jht3fougifh393 Рік тому +3

      Like old-school NPR (you know, better days). It's nice.

  • @lizs7301
    @lizs7301 10 місяців тому +2

    Omg-the alliteration about the fork cracked me up. I had to tap back at least 3 times to hear it again!
    Again I love your delivery and story telling. Such a sad case.

  • @mizsparkie5479
    @mizsparkie5479 Рік тому +21

    Dr. Grande, could you address the question: have there been studies on how often those with narcissistic personality disorder commit suicide? Thanks!

    • @stevebutler812
      @stevebutler812 Рік тому

      Jeffery Epstien?

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 Рік тому +3

      @@stevebutler812 But did he 🤔

    • @stevebutler812
      @stevebutler812 Рік тому +2

      @@sarahjaye4117 Inquiring minds want to know. He was well connected but apparently his connections left him hanging

    • @graykobain6001
      @graykobain6001 Рік тому

      I read that the rate is a bit higher than the general population's suicide rate

    • @erfolgreich
      @erfolgreich Рік тому

      I've read of numbers of around 15%.

  • @huletnadof313
    @huletnadof313 Рік тому +4

    This guy lived just a couple of miles from where I lived during the same time period (the late 1960s and early 1970s). His odd and strange behavior was also, I observed, not infrequent among some of the boys in my class. Something in the water?

  • @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413
    @thisisgonnabegoodiknowit9413 Рік тому +9

    It was as if the Grinch was a dermatologist
    ROFL 🤣

  • @ZYX84
    @ZYX84 Рік тому +9

    Good evening
    Dr.Grand🧩e.
    I so look forward to seeing you. Your analysis & evaluation of each story you bring to us is so thorough & insightful.
    I always complement you on your ability to fit so much information into such a short amount of time.
    Thank you again for being my constant!✨

  • @lulumoon6942
    @lulumoon6942 Рік тому +6

    At one time it was believed that most cross dressers weren't aggressive or dangerous.

  • @Olive131
    @Olive131 Рік тому +9

    Thanks Dr. Grande. Much appreciation for your coverage of the story.

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Рік тому +6

    Prayers for her Children, and Family 🙏💔🙏💔🙏💔🙏💔

  • @iangallager4091
    @iangallager4091 10 місяців тому +4

    had his father not so abusive what kind of person would he have really been?

  • @rebacrow5604
    @rebacrow5604 Рік тому +5

    Hi Dr Grande, I watch you every time you come home. I just think you are so smart and I love your dry sense of humor. I get happy when I see you have a new vlog. Have a blessed day