Marriage is good thing, the only issue is finding people to who are worth that commitment are few...Chose wisely!!!!!But sometimes you don't have to just dont do it.
" New Age " marriages appear to be heavily challenged to me. Our generation can barely survive marriage. I wish as Africans we stuck to the ways of our forefathers. Modernity has really messed us up.
I am so happy resources like this are out there. But the comments absolutely show how most people should not be getting married because they simply do not understand the legal and financial implications of it amongst other things. People only have simplified perspectives of legal processes surrounding marriage due to media, religion and anecdotal experiences likely from other uneducated people.
In short, don't get married. Marriage today is treated as a business. Hence the different marriage contracts. It's a scam and a trap. I don't want to get married or have kids. Those two things are just a trap.
If I am married, & I give my parents money & grocery monthly with/without my spouse's knowledge. Can my parents claim for maintenance from my estate should I die?
Some husbands refuse to work! They just stay home sleep daytime and movies or out nighttime. No financial help whatsoever, no cooking, cleaning, laundry! Woman still needs to do all those things and parents’ meetings at kids’ schools; hubby a no show! Hubby also abusive. When she finally divorces him after many years of enduring, he claims spousal support! 😭😭😫😳😳😳🥺
Tshepho Mojapelo is very informed about the law however her judgement is slightly clouded when it comes to how the law operates mainly when it focuses on men.
What if i got divorced before i started working? Divorced in 2006. Started working in 2012. Is he entitled to what i own? Im not able to listen to whole video
At 1:55:37 This host is either a weirdo or really immature (likely both). Why would you think a situation involving a family breakdown is "fun"? Traumatized children, a partner traumatized by infidelity and this guy thinks it's "fun". He was doing this same giggling in the interview with the gay guy who had wasted 15 years of a woman's life whom he married and had a child with. Clown behavior.
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We need to go back. Either we reprogram ourselves to never get married or figure out how not to divorce.
You've put it so well. This episode ... 😮😮😮
"I'm happy because I'm not married" 😂 love this lady
What I learned on today's podcast is that, for those who intend to get married, OUT&OUT is the way to go👌🏽
Yes the out and out is the way
way to go
I wish I heard this chat when I was 25, but it's never too late. I can transfer this awareness to my kids
A lot of people plan the wedding and get every detail right but they fail to plan the marriage
Marriage is a blessing from GOD but in today s life is taken like business. Thanks KingDavid for the lessons you bring here
She needs to come back again 😂 What a beautiful episode !
This was a Master class in Love, Marriage and Divorce. Thanks Aus'Tshepo.
Closing the gap between legal services and our people.
Thank you my sister.
Marriage is good thing, the only issue is finding people to who are worth that commitment are few...Chose wisely!!!!!But sometimes you don't have to just dont do it.
Amen! Cause now it's like 10% good people and 90% bad, so the choose wisely is like🥺 are there humans from other planets?
We Learn everyday on this channel, Thanks KING DAVID for always bring so much value by bringing the best expects.
South Africa’s version of Fadzai Mahere. 🙌🏾
This was the best episode on this channel 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
The episode I didn’t know I need. ❤what an episode. Eye opener. Thanks Bhuti David for this podcast😁💫🫶🏼🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
I love these kind of talks. I enjoy talks that has to do with law and related matters. From ausi Nthabiseng Dubazana to here. Keep up David.
This ladies smile is so beautiful 😊
King David .. one day, I'll be your guest .. mark my wish and remember my name . NOLLEN MDAKA
to those who arent married, get an antenuptial agreement with or without accrual dont sign up for community of property
I would love a conversation on child maintenance tlheng
I enjoyed this so much! Love love love Tshepho!
Very informative, thank you Dav & sis Tshepho 🙏
Thank you for an informative session 👏🏾
David thank you,this is an education channel.
I enjoyed this topic so much. So enlightening
So worth the watch. Informative.
Bro David really sounds like he has baby mommas 😂
Seems like its better write down a business contract than to get married. It's hard to see any benefits in involving the government into ones affairs.
" New Age " marriages appear to be heavily challenged to me. Our generation can barely survive marriage. I wish as Africans we stuck to the ways of our forefathers. Modernity has really messed us up.
Great informative conversation, especially the adverse implications on business partnership 🎉
Very informative hle thank you 😘❤️ ausi Tshepo hle wa nkgatla 😍
Always funny and informative another great episode, law runs our lives daily
Glad you enjoyed it
1:03:53 This lady is adding to my cynism (or realistic-ness) towards marriage. 😀
Eye opening, good discussion 👌
I wish I had gotten divorced in South Africa! The law is so fair!
depressing topic watching as a man, im engaged but i have to rethink hard now, Im not marry in community of property
If as an unemployed husband, was supervising the domestic worker, the gardener the car washer,I think I deserve a maintenance 😂
😂😂👊🏾👍🏾
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Iyoooo.... I am informed enough.
Another great interview 🎉 dankie bra David and Tshepho
Now I need to work on creating a cheap lifestyle 🤣🤣🤣
I like this topic, can we also advise about parental allowances.
I am so happy resources like this are out there. But the comments absolutely show how most people should not be getting married because they simply do not understand the legal and financial implications of it amongst other things. People only have simplified perspectives of legal processes surrounding marriage due to media, religion and anecdotal experiences likely from other uneducated people.
Hell yeah! No lifestyle 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
even SIDE CHICKS who were being maintained can lodge a claim???
👀 👀 👀 😨 😨
If there's evidence that they were dependent on you financially.
Aowa😮
Uyintlekisa umtshato stru!!!
divorce really is messy.... esp if there is no mediators during the heated discussions
Bra Dave is preparing for something... o re botse re rokise 😆
My thoughts exactly...theres a thread lately in he's podcast
Re rokise ?😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
@@mapulasethosa7088 eya 😂
It’s lovely when we put face to the voice … 😅😊
Thank you Mdeva 😊😂
In short, don't get married. Marriage today is treated as a business. Hence the different marriage contracts. It's a scam and a trap. I don't want to get married or have kids. Those two things are just a trap.
Law is very complex Broad and interesting
Not sure why I' m here but heyyy
If I am married, & I give my parents money & grocery monthly with/without my spouse's knowledge.
Can my parents claim for maintenance from my estate should I die?
Some husbands refuse to work! They just stay home sleep daytime and movies or out nighttime. No financial help whatsoever, no cooking, cleaning, laundry! Woman still needs to do all those things and parents’ meetings at kids’ schools; hubby a no show! Hubby also abusive. When she finally divorces him after many years of enduring, he claims spousal support! 😭😭😫😳😳😳🥺
It is what it is.
Now you know how men feel. Congrates.
@@sbonzama7013 how’s that the same!?
Mashabela podcast is very interesting.... it last long maybe reduce to hour and half ❤
I'm never going to get married.
Coward😂😂😂
Wow! We're at 96K subscribers💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
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Ai ya neh "The best constitution in the world" 🙄
Tshepho Mojapelo is very informed about the law however her judgement is slightly clouded when it comes to how the law operates mainly when it focuses on men.
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Is a girlfriend allowance viewed as maintenance? Can the girlfriend claim maintenance if we part or if I die, due to the girlfriend allowance?
2:37:12 But why do you not want to share the marital proceeds? 😂
I feel like the video title needs to be changed 😊. As I get to the end of the video ☺️.
Real life issues
2:00:00 YHO YHO YHO 😵😵😵😵😵
What if i got divorced before i started working? Divorced in 2006. Started working in 2012. Is he entitled to what i own? Im not able to listen to whole video
Simple answer No he’s not once divorced it done you’re no longer an item whatever you get thereafter is yours alone no claims to it
This lady looks familiar, did she go to PEPS?
The new DNA law on registration of birth then it will help David for the lies about who fathered the child
they need to add it to divorce as well, becasue there are man who are suppoorting kids that arent theirs
It's official I am not getting married, It is a scam I worked hard for my assets
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David we need time stamps, Your shows are too long, please hire someone to clip time stamps.
Why is it divorce only about women 😬😬😬😳😳😳🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
I don’t think you watched the whole vid.
it looks like men "dont care abt th kids" koz most men ASSUME
that the law ALWAYS allows the woman to keep th kids
marriage is a scam 😅😅😅
Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂
What are we doing with this dutch laws kanti?this is Soo unhuman.that is why people have turned marriage investment
At 1:55:37 This host is either a weirdo or really immature (likely both). Why would you think a situation involving a family breakdown is "fun"?
Traumatized children, a partner traumatized by infidelity and this guy thinks it's "fun".
He was doing this same giggling in the interview with the gay guy who had wasted 15 years of a woman's life whom he married and had a child with. Clown behavior.