Madam Speaker ON loosing her 1st born child on her Lobola day

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  • @madams___speaker
    @madams___speaker 11 місяців тому +456

    Thank you so much for having me Promise. If felt good being a guest for a change ❤❤

    • @Ownnarrativepodcast
      @Ownnarrativepodcast  11 місяців тому +10

      You where a breath of fresh air.. thanks sisi

    • @nellnkwe3649
      @nellnkwe3649 11 місяців тому +3

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ @madams_speaker

    • @chamburamekwane415
      @chamburamekwane415 11 місяців тому +4

      Madam u r lovable

    • @Ntuthu28_M
      @Ntuthu28_M 11 місяців тому +2

      My mom passed away at 39 too 2005 but I was 14.thank you for sharing madam speaker❤love and light ❤

    • @Grow_with_Paballo
      @Grow_with_Paballo 11 місяців тому +3

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mashiyamahlesp7942
    @mashiyamahlesp7942 11 місяців тому +39

    Madam Speaker, a woman who creates her own table and be served from it. Love how she knows her worth.. If we can raise more daughters like her, women would be really forces to be reckoned with.

  • @leratosasa4233
    @leratosasa4233 11 місяців тому +13

    I learned a lot from ths interview ❤ur a very strong woman madam speaker 😊

  • @mpatikukame1727
    @mpatikukame1727 11 місяців тому +26

    Promise I really like these interviews you allow your guests to tell their stories without interrupting ❤

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 11 місяців тому +84

    I love how Madam speaker will help you remember your boundaries!
    Women sit in BOILING water while their husbands turn the stove up. And just say “sorry “.
    It’s such a breath of fresh air… and she’s the true definition of IT GETS BETTER ‼️ Let’s fix things, stick by your man etc but ladies; please don’t make the option of leaving that boiling pot too far fetched. Women also deserve to have a happy life.

    • @musie_mt867
      @musie_mt867 11 місяців тому

      Well said Elizabeth

    • @introverted.me.
      @introverted.me. 11 місяців тому +1

      "Turn the stove up" has me floored 😭😭😭😭😭 😂😂😂😂

    • @NCarterMed
      @NCarterMed 10 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯

  • @mokgadimasoga9527
    @mokgadimasoga9527 11 місяців тому +20

    She is so interesting I could listen to her all day

  • @ayandasam2269
    @ayandasam2269 11 місяців тому +26

    2 women I love ke sana🙌 I broke up with someone because of being financial careless, I remember we went to a vacation and I found out this guy took R50 000 loan for vacation I saw ukuthi this is my future and I don't want it.

    • @LebohangNtjana
      @LebohangNtjana 8 місяців тому +1

      I know what you're talking about I was in that kind of situation but I decided that I'm living this guys because he doesn't want to grow up

  • @orearabilekgotle8690
    @orearabilekgotle8690 11 місяців тому +55

    I love how 2 of my favorite woman can come together and talk. We will have disagreements but we'll come together in the name of love❤️Maturity ❤️

  • @thatogix8259
    @thatogix8259 11 місяців тому +40

    The way promise carried this interview… Chef kiss 👌🏿👌🏿

  • @MathabathaCharmaine
    @MathabathaCharmaine 11 місяців тому +10

    Madam speaker is effortlessly funny🤣Love how she calm she is about her situation 💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @rachelandrews5746
    @rachelandrews5746 7 місяців тому +17

    Madam speaker's voice is rich and commands respect. I can listen to her the whole day. So glad you don't pretend. You are beautiful dark chocolate.

  • @andiswapupa1637
    @andiswapupa1637 11 місяців тому +30

    It's my first time hearing her talking positive about her ex husband. ❤ She said he s Handsome with good heart.

    • @xhavaritakalani8670
      @xhavaritakalani8670 11 місяців тому +13

      She always does, in most of her videos she mentioned his good side. Just their main problem was the way he handled his money. But seemed to be good father to his kids

  • @simangelemunyai3756
    @simangelemunyai3756 11 місяців тому +44

    I love how you speak highly of your ex husband regardless of everything you want through 😊

  • @tanginahelao
    @tanginahelao 11 місяців тому +12

    I used to listen to MS on Tik Tok and wondering who is this lady really?? listening to and understanding her story made me have a newfound love and appreciation for her. Such a good narrator and such a brave and intelligent woman. I wish her the very best in this new season♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @phaladimagongoa8370
    @phaladimagongoa8370 11 місяців тому +17

    Financial Abuse is real guys! Most of us are in such marriages sadly😢😢 Big ups that you escaped the trap. The good heart neh....😢😢😢😢

  • @ndamulelopreciousthengatsh9021
    @ndamulelopreciousthengatsh9021 11 місяців тому +33

    What I love about madam speaker is that she is truly a speaker ❤
    Her voice is commanding, you are fierce madam 🫶🏽

  • @Mokgadi_masedi
    @Mokgadi_masedi 11 місяців тому +34

    One thing about madam speaker she articulate very well❤

  • @mologadimologadi9461
    @mologadimologadi9461 11 місяців тому +22

    Oh my God, bless her, I'm literally bowling over regarding the baby, it's so painful. 😭😭😭

  • @thembimnaphu4919
    @thembimnaphu4919 11 місяців тому +8

    Madam speaker is a very strong lady❤

  • @AntoniaMakwaeba85
    @AntoniaMakwaeba85 11 місяців тому +18

    I have so much respect for madam speaker, great interview as always❤

  • @amantlematiti8265
    @amantlematiti8265 11 місяців тому +3

    I didn't know Madam speaker until this show . What a powerhouse , highly intelligent and incredibly articulate. I watched right till the end . You have gained a fan Madam ! Top tier content.

  • @nhlaposibongile2734
    @nhlaposibongile2734 11 місяців тому +16

    Yooh madam speaker, we have walked the same path of loosing babies, I lost my first at 6 months, and nothing makes sense to one during that time but God is always God, I only cried when the hearse came to fetch her for her last rest yooh....I beleive I grew to this strong woman I am today because of that loss, Gosh after the funeral I will find myself lost in the Ackermans baby section only when in there I will remember that I don't have a child anymore then, but yoday I am happy again I am a mother to a rainbow child❤🕯

  • @xhavaritakalani8670
    @xhavaritakalani8670 11 місяців тому +26

    I wish you and owami can one day sit and talk.like this just share your experiences

    • @sueeland5675
      @sueeland5675 11 місяців тому +5

      True this pettyness amongst us women must stop let's fix each others crown.love these two ladies so mature no drama.AND classes shame

    • @neegee3755
      @neegee3755 11 місяців тому +5

      Can you referee?

  • @lydiasekete3584
    @lydiasekete3584 11 місяців тому +4

    Madam speaker, keep on speaking and empower woman
    You intelligent, brave and courageous

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 11 місяців тому +27

    Madam speakers dad's advise is the best ever ...I appreciate this episode very intriguing to watch. I love seeing our generation making our ancestors proud...it's amazing that we able to go through life,the good and the bad as well as be able to express our emotions with no fear what's so ever.

  • @rebeccaphakula9840
    @rebeccaphakula9840 11 місяців тому +21

    Finance is a deal breaker in a relationship 💯

  • @masegonyambeni456
    @masegonyambeni456 11 місяців тому +32

    Listening to Madam Speaker talk about holiding her deceased baby took me back to 2021 when I was in the very same position. The nurses telling you to spend time with the baby before they take her away and you begging God to take you instead. I pray to get to the part of healing where Madam Speaker is now, it truly is inspiring.

  • @sasham8102
    @sasham8102 11 місяців тому +57

    I was once Madam Speaker's ex husband. Unfortunately, my husband is an introvert and can't express himself. On the other hand, I'm expressive and defensive.Things were not good for almost a year, he resented me.He was paying for everything except giving me extra money that I was misusing while I was employed as well.
    I'll forever be grateful to God for granting me the wisdom to realise that I was taking advantage of him before he asked for a divorce. He wouldn't talk about it, but I knew what the problem was. I woke up one day and shook stubbornness and stupidity off me, and took responsibility. We worked on our marriage which had no other problems but my impulsive spending. We now put our finances on the table. I really thought there was a lot where it all came from. Taking accountability really saves relationships. Since then, we know when we have more and when we are short. When we are broke, we're broke together.

    • @NCarterMed
      @NCarterMed 10 місяців тому +4

      I know that for my marriage to work, I had to let go of some parts of myself that I needed to survive my childhood. Because some parts of our character may have been necessary at some point in our lives, but are not necessary in other stages of our lives! Some ppl had to "survive" as children, but are still in survival mode as adults, instead of living fully! It takes a lot of maturity and probably therapy, to recognise that, acknowledge it, and be willing to let it go! ❤❤

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 4 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤

  • @khulisomashau578
    @khulisomashau578 11 місяців тому +11

    I am so glad that I listened to her story because I feel like I never gave myself a chance to know her well through her work. Thank you so much Promise. 🥰

  • @Grow_with_Paballo
    @Grow_with_Paballo 11 місяців тому +17

    Two intelligent women having a healthy conversation ❤

  • @penelopemamba5665
    @penelopemamba5665 11 місяців тому +14

    The bread and butter must be Eskom mmmmh. Beautiful conversation. Love from 🇸🇿

  • @nonkosi8021
    @nonkosi8021 11 місяців тому +22

    With physical death, you get emotional support, but divorce is the only death where you mourn alone. A huna vhalidzi.
    Ndi lufu lune na lila ni nothe ra dovha ra ni judge.

  • @exhortationsbyeva6345
    @exhortationsbyeva6345 11 місяців тому +8

    Love you both.. Strong beautiful women! I'm sorry for the loss of your baby Madam speaker❤

  • @tebogomacipa9048
    @tebogomacipa9048 9 місяців тому +3

    *Life happens to the living* powerful words. I really enjoyed this interview.

  • @thatogix8259
    @thatogix8259 11 місяців тому +9

    I loved loved loved this conversation…. Am obsessed ❤️

  • @tholangmoeketsi6093
    @tholangmoeketsi6093 11 місяців тому +10

    Oh Madam speaker it's first time hearing your baby story,so heartbreaking,it's true God revives you such a great woman,God bless you more sisi

  • @nothandomadalane4041
    @nothandomadalane4041 11 місяців тому +3

    Very beautiful to watch, Madam Speaker indeed is a speaker because all I wanted to do was to listen to her speak.. ❤❤❤ Thank you MrsLaw for such a beautiful episode..

  • @ndilihonge7839
    @ndilihonge7839 11 місяців тому +5

    My two favorite ladies in one video,I love you madam speaker you are such a strong woman and that's my type woman.

  • @phililemosia6956
    @phililemosia6956 11 місяців тому +13

    Madam speaker is an amazing person, She is an engineer, fashion designer, motivational speaker, owns a UA-cam channel wee kuningi nje kuningi umama wabantwana ,sister, frnd, aunt haibo konke nje 😊❤

  • @PortiaLethoba-lx4gh
    @PortiaLethoba-lx4gh 8 місяців тому +2

    You go girl, it is very true what you said about that Man you are my colleague🤝❤❤

  • @marymulea4338
    @marymulea4338 11 місяців тому +8

    This episode really helped to heal yoh I lost my 12 month old girl I have trauma of neonatal ICU praying one day I will heal and speak about it like Madam thank you Promise

  • @kgotatsomothle8075
    @kgotatsomothle8075 11 місяців тому +2

    enjoyed this episode.... oooh how i love Madam Speaker, they way she conduct herself👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @zanelekhumalo1393
    @zanelekhumalo1393 11 місяців тому +29

    Thanks to madam speaker for opening my eyes. I'm in the process of leaving my toxic marriage, I was in denial all along

    • @DearLisa
      @DearLisa 11 місяців тому +1

      I know it might not be easy. I hope God gives you the strength and protects you ❤

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 4 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤

  • @miahwame1782
    @miahwame1782 10 місяців тому +7

    "Sometimes the things that you wanna work on, are things thats gonna kill you"

  • @nthabisengmoshana8589
    @nthabisengmoshana8589 11 місяців тому +3

    Thoroughly enjoyed the interview, my only complaint is that it was too short, wished it was longer, she has so much to say. I love Madam Speaker

  • @machego_M
    @machego_M 11 місяців тому +3

    Yoh madam speaker you such a strong soul, i dont think i will get back to life after i lost my first child❤, more strength to you sis

  • @siamisangsia6840
    @siamisangsia6840 11 місяців тому +14

    Madam Speaker is very funny😂😂😂.. I just love her ❤

  • @connymontsho
    @connymontsho 11 місяців тому +3

    Madam Speaker you are strong, i was gon tell my baby's story crying

  • @phelosikhakhane
    @phelosikhakhane 11 місяців тому +23

    Thanks Madam speaker for sharing your story. I feel like you were married to my husband. I divorced him for pretty much the same reasons, I was exhausted.

  • @thibedianchalene4190
    @thibedianchalene4190 8 місяців тому +1

    Listening to your painful journey of loosing your child and going for therapy gives me hope that one day I will also be strong like you❤Thak you for motivating me to keep ON🙏

  • @khanyisamajodina7684
    @khanyisamajodina7684 11 місяців тому +4

    Tada afta tada😂😂😂😂 girl you inspire me so much,we have similarities of life stories i can relate thanks for sharing your story,i lost 7 months old beautiful baby girl but when i think about her i literally cry i can't accept the will of god but youade me strong by sharing your story

  • @motshewamaope6879
    @motshewamaope6879 11 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much madam spreaker for sharing your story. I am touched in so many ways.

  • @Mo-Mo809.
    @Mo-Mo809. 11 місяців тому +16

    Addressing issues in a relationship is a must,most people hold on to nothing hoping things will mericulously change.

  • @Reset_With_Louisa
    @Reset_With_Louisa 11 місяців тому +3

    My favorite episode. You are doing very well and growing Mrs Law. Keep it to your own lane always❤️❤️Love and light Madam Speaker

  • @ReshoketsweMthombeni
    @ReshoketsweMthombeni 11 місяців тому +16

    The video quality is so crisp, really beautiful! Also loving the new studio. Enjoyed this conversation ladies❤️

  • @auditingtaxmadeeasy
    @auditingtaxmadeeasy 11 місяців тому +6

    Beautiful soul. Beautiful mind. Well spoken.

  • @BK-lf1nw
    @BK-lf1nw 11 місяців тому +21

    Promise, you are a gifted interviewer. I thoroughly enjoy how you are able to effortlessly connect with people and pull honest conversations from them.
    Please make these interviews 2 hours, I always want more 😂

    • @WetsoMogorosi
      @WetsoMogorosi 11 місяців тому +1

      seconded.❤

    • @nangasikade2992
      @nangasikade2992 11 місяців тому +1

      I'm with you ❤️

    • @cindyrambau4476
      @cindyrambau4476 6 місяців тому

      She didn’t pull anything from her, madam came ready.. she’s dishing out

  • @lifewithvivy
    @lifewithvivy 11 місяців тому +5

    Promise i like how you handled this interview...very good

  • @paulushelena7819
    @paulushelena7819 11 місяців тому +3

    Jooog I learned a lot from this...this woman is intelligent

  • @hildadavids217
    @hildadavids217 11 місяців тому +4

    Madam speaker, you are a brilliant woman. You are elequent in expressing yourself. Thank you for helping the women out there.

  • @sindisiwesibiya3939
    @sindisiwesibiya3939 11 місяців тому +4

    Loved this, madamspeaker has a new fan❤.
    This was done so well Promise🎉

  • @pfulu
    @pfulu 11 місяців тому +7

    Love you madam speaker , you are so brave . You didn’t wanna please people or Ps by staying in dysfunctional merriage.

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 11 місяців тому +11

    Sent studio is super amazing

  • @LebogangRaisibe
    @LebogangRaisibe 11 місяців тому +1

    Madam speaker thank you so much my dear for sharing you are a strong woman I love you ❤❤I wish you all the best ladies

  • @kms708
    @kms708 11 місяців тому +6

    The studio is so beautiful❤❤...a great interview.

  • @hymnistmapulaphaho7848
    @hymnistmapulaphaho7848 11 місяців тому +1

    Shuuuuuuu I think I love Madam speaker even more now❤❤❤❤❤And also you Sesi Promise you captured my heart

  • @hildadavids217
    @hildadavids217 11 місяців тому +7

    Debt is a serious problem, it can break family. That is something that everyone must be careful about. I would prefer getting married out of community of property. What is yours is yours and what is mine is mine. Antinaptual contract is the way to go. If not, your assets will be attached because of your irresponsible partner.

  • @lebogangletlhare2443
    @lebogangletlhare2443 11 місяців тому +3

    My two fave❤.Beautiful interview Promise.well done mami.
    Love n light to you Madam Speaker,May your baby's beautiful soul rest in eternal peace 🕯

  • @Used-h4w
    @Used-h4w 11 місяців тому +7

    Very nice to get to know madam speaker more ❤❤

  • @juliamosoane6113
    @juliamosoane6113 11 місяців тому +1

    Oh madam speaker you are so liberated.. i respect you so much.. i appreciate you sharing your story 🥺❤

  • @katebimbito3009
    @katebimbito3009 11 місяців тому +6

    Madam speaker😢may God perform wonders with your life❤

  • @HerDangLife
    @HerDangLife 11 місяців тому +3

    Limpopo weeh.. basadi ba go godiswa botse.. I am loving this promise.. Re tlo mo shapa ex husband deacon

  • @MukwevhoRofhiwaLeaneth
    @MukwevhoRofhiwaLeaneth 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your experience, love you so much ❤❤❤

  • @oitumetselekana
    @oitumetselekana 11 місяців тому +3

    I really enjoyed this episode …very eye opening for those planning on getting married ❤️

  • @mrsspringbok
    @mrsspringbok 11 місяців тому +11

    What I’m learning here is the importance of pre-marital counselling. Most divorcees say they were red flags but they ignored them. Almost zero of them admit that a man just made a 360 change in a marriage

    • @tebogolesaba9520
      @tebogolesaba9520 11 місяців тому +2

      Pre-counselling is very critical
      Financial, Spiritual and Legal councellong

    • @mrsspringbok
      @mrsspringbok 11 місяців тому

      @@tebogolesaba9520 I can’t emphasise it more it’s like having a navigator, constantly giving you directions each time you get to an intersection. Ofcoz it’s your responsibility to follow its directions. But imagine not having navigation at all, yoh! Disaster!!

  • @ntsako98mashele4
    @ntsako98mashele4 11 місяців тому +1

    My love goes to you Madam speaker ❤ .Thank you so much Promise ❤

  • @karabomalapile
    @karabomalapile 11 місяців тому +1

    I love this woman ❤she is a good example of a diary of a black woman 😊

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane8935 11 місяців тому +5

    This podcast teaches alot of ppl about ppl we open our hearts to, thank you Promise for this podcast ❤

  • @sazi7128
    @sazi7128 11 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful show indeed. I enjoyed listening to Madam Speaker. I really love her so much. Cheers 🍻 to you, Promis. ❤

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 11 місяців тому +6

    Great conversation ladies! People who want to get married should listen to real life experiences. It's a survival kit homestly!

  • @Marthashiningstar
    @Marthashiningstar 11 місяців тому +13

    Thats not love,u cant pay School fees butu claim to love the kids

  • @boitshokomoepi
    @boitshokomoepi 9 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤I've never seen such a well spoken and strong woman yho!!! When you spoke about the accident ya ngwana i was emotional but your firmness was telling me to gather myself together and listen and learn.. you are a force! You are heard and you know how to speak! LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤KEO RATA !

  • @NomhleMatyila
    @NomhleMatyila 2 місяці тому +1

    You are A blessing to All the Children of this Country ,Some of the quiet elders Who died earlier were full of Scars because they never ventilated ,Now The kids Are following the same path whether emotionally or physically some Are demented,Ventilation is the best ❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊solution

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 2 місяці тому

    Madam speaker. I ❤ you so much because Uyibeka ,kamnandi indaba yakho.Ngempela uyakwazi ukukhuluma .Ukhuluma kahle kakhulu

  • @MothebanesweetnessTlaka-ig3hk
    @MothebanesweetnessTlaka-ig3hk 11 місяців тому +11

    Loved every minute of this❤️

  • @EmmahMtshwene
    @EmmahMtshwene 11 місяців тому +11

    For me the way she looks she seems like a tall lady

  • @Jcel4786
    @Jcel4786 7 місяців тому

    I love this woman bazalwane , very powerful ❤

  • @naledimadiba7524
    @naledimadiba7524 11 місяців тому +3

    I really enjoyed the interview big up ladies

  • @ncumisalwenhle
    @ncumisalwenhle 11 місяців тому +5

    The power in her voice yerrrrrrrrrrr

  • @mahlohonololebuso741
    @mahlohonololebuso741 11 місяців тому +4

    I cried when she was talking about the baby😢

  • @ceciliakunene9106
    @ceciliakunene9106 11 місяців тому +5

    The interview is Very Informative and Honest. It's a Great Eye Opener. The interview ers sitting positions are too disruptive to my concentration.

  • @debbiethephoenix6451
    @debbiethephoenix6451 11 місяців тому +5

    In Setswana we call what Promise was describing “sea ntlo”… the practice of a man marrying his late wife’s younger sister .. my grandad did it with my grandmother 😊

  • @nthabisengtimbane4572
    @nthabisengtimbane4572 11 місяців тому +3

    Life changing episode I loved watching your podcast

  • @PulengLiphate
    @PulengLiphate 4 місяці тому

    Olwys saw u on tiktok, beautiful soul indeed🎉

  • @zaneleluhabe8863
    @zaneleluhabe8863 11 місяців тому +2

    Thanks Promise for this convo with Madam Speaker.I really doubt that that ex-hubby of hers is kind at all.Jackal in a sheep's skin.All the best for 2024 ladies❤

  • @neliamagumula2911
    @neliamagumula2911 2 місяці тому

    Great, intelligent and insightful conversation ladies. Thank you.

  • @Gift-k7v
    @Gift-k7v 11 місяців тому +2

    This is touching for me coz my mom passed on 2005 due to kidney failure...and was left with my dad who loved us soo much....

  • @tellyourstorywithlorraine8629
    @tellyourstorywithlorraine8629 11 місяців тому +3

    Madam speaker is young!😊 15 turning 16 in 2005 I was 25 and getting married

  • @ratshilimadzulani
    @ratshilimadzulani 11 місяців тому +14

    The love i have for madam speaker❤

  • @busiswazanendaba5282
    @busiswazanendaba5282 11 місяців тому +5

    I went through the same with my baby daddy, up until this day he is humble and good hearted. But the character made me leave.