Thank you coach for all of your advice, i was once been dumped he blocked me in all social media but i dont chase him, during 3weeks with no contact i developed myself, i felt so beautiful and keep on smiling everyday, i do thinking about him every from time to time but i let it be, i don't hurt like the way on my first to 3 days broke up, so after 3 weeks he unblocked and call me but i ignored his call, he sent me a messaged asking forgiveness and begged me to accept him again but i don't reply him right away, i wait untill a day passed and replied saying... "Hi" and he immediately responce but i only read it and replied again the next day. Now we are back again and in good term, i hope this will be the endless happiness and thank God for this second chance.
Thank you for your compassion. I was so blinded by pain and almost braindead with suffering that I could not see reality. I was actually terrified of the depth of my heart and when my ex would try to date me, or just act like a friend I would freeze in place . I needed counseling but didnt know it. I elevated my education, changed my phone number, bought a little house in another town. I never want that experience again.
Me ex left me sick and broke in 2015 . thousands years ago . I was in trauma , hopeless disoriented and devastated. I went through a living hell on earth. thank god I survived , today I am with someone else. Trying to get healthy doing my workout everyday, eating healthy .
I LOVE all your content. You have no idea how much you have helped me. The biggest area I see a gap in is if you have hurt them very badly. Appreciate more on that specifically.
Love is SELFLESS and no contact really does give you time to progressively evolve to a point where you don’t just want someone back because you miss them but you want them to have peace, love, happiness and success even if it’s not with you.
We met up twice. Both times spent several hours talking and laughing. The last time I saw him he asked if he could call me later in the week. I said yes. Silence.
I made the mistake of visiting her house after she seemed as though she was ready to come back when was talking to her on the phone, she stepped away to chsrge her phone she mentioned but her family was giving her a hard time and were wondering I was calling her. By instinct I went to her house to drop off some of the gifts she had given me and to talk to her. Her family didn't want me there and she and them were saying in the background that she wants to close that chapter of her life. Her brother was practically blocking the door and then when I went back it was her dad was there. He mentioned that me and her are moving to the next chapters in or lives especially since she just had her kidnry transplant from her other brother. I feel like her family had a huge influence on the choice she made. I did my part and I'm curious if all hope is lost. Can I still get her back
My ex and I had a good 1 year relationship , we ended on bad terms, and she’s been stubborn, I know I did my best for her and didn’t cheat or anything, I’ve been in no contact for a month and half. I’m losing hope that she’ll come back , I’ve been focusing on myself also but there’s no sign she’ll come back , what do I do it’s been since November , is it too late?
i'm in the exact same boat, just a few months ahead. it's not too late, but it might be too early. these things are part luck, part faith. work on yourself to feel independent of her, so that if the situation presents itself, you're making the right decision out of strength, not desperation. in this case, selfishness is good.
Yeah? And what if she yells “F you” when you walk past her in public when you’ve been minding your own business and been in no contact for two months and she dumped you?
My ex admitted to being stubborn in the past (said we both are). He blew up at me 5 weeks ago and told me to leave and take my stuff. Said I don't know how to be in a relationship I calmly said "as you wish". I don't get the feeling he's told people about the breakup. But he didn't answer my 3 short texts and did not answer a phone call. Never have I begged, yelled, hounded him, etc. I'm friendly when I see him and his friend out and about and I'll hang out for a while then leave. I keep the convo surface level. What do you think?
Take care of yourself. You can be nice to him but he needs to do better in the communication department. He may improve in time and regret his behavior, how long are you willing to wait?
@a.d.b535...it has been 5 months...what did you do, please? It sounded as if you need to do some inner work....leave him alone. you will be much stronger. Hope you respond with better news. Thanks from Darrell.
Great video! I do have a question, does no contact mean that you also don’t view any of your exes social media posts, even when you know they are trying to get your attention? Is it best to ignore their posts and not view if you’re on friendship terms? I also have other questions which I will book you in for 😊
I have broken up with my ex after 3 years. I don’t contact him for last 3 month. I still don’t know way we broke we had small arguments he just said to me live me alone! All that love we had with each other it just gon .
Hi coach....my boyfriend can't control his anger and gets angry easily over anything....i hated this and i broke up with him after 1.5 yrs of our relationship....but i love him so much...will he come back? I don't wanna talk to him first as it is his fault...💔 Plz reply 🙏
You generally have to msg him first since youre the one that dumped him. He very well could be doing the no contact rule on you. Its almost 100% guarantee he will respond if you msg first.
Yes I’m similar please tell me what to do , he is at fault he breadcrumbed me and I ignored him and he hasn’t sent a second message because I ignored him
I have tried to take your steps, to tell him, Okay, we are not going to be together. He filed for divorce and will not longer talk about anything with me. He has someone else he is doing things for and going on to my vacation spots with in July through August. This is so painful. He is setting up a lasting relationship with her. He is discarding me, forgetting me. How can no communication be best in this situation? Please help! I can't live with that happening.
Exactly need one cause my ex has said he wanted to get back together last year and he says we are just friends but yet I am giving him the no contact he never answer my question either I’m sure he still feels something for me but his ego and he is hella stubborn. It’s been 2 yrs. 😢 How can I get him back coach.
What do I do? I emotionally drained my bf of two years together. Currently living with him but moving out soon. Says I drained him and burned him out, being toxic and starting arguments , he said I lost him. Says I stressed him out , I had relationship anxiety and self sabotaged it from past trauma , is all hope lost ???
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity yes I did the letter , he’s already texting other girls , I confronted him and he told me it’s nothing serious doing it to get detached from me and a distraction.. do I just go limited no contact ? This is the 4th time breaking up :(
@Saniya Hawkins id tell him that HE is emotionally draining you now. Tell him the roles reversed and he needs to be a man and fix the relationship! Dont tell him you love him or anything else. Dont apologize for anything. Just demand that he fixes the relationship. And then go radio silence. Dont post dont talk. Move out asap. Wait like 4 months for him to return. If he doesn't return in 4 months then just move on.
Hi, I have watched a few of your videos and I believe that you can hopefully help me. I have recently broke up with my girlfriend and even though it was a short term relationship meant a lot to me and her aswell. The breakup wasn't good but this is why I believe you can help?
Hi, My girlfriend broken up with me bcz of my behaviour. She made her mind not to stay. But i forced her to stay and she dont want but at the end she conviced to observe me for the change in my behaviour and gave a time of 2 months. She is talking to me but completely in negative way. I cant meet her directly. can you help me how to change her now.
Hello Coaches,my ex and l have met twice for drinks and we had a nice time and he said he wanted to be just friends and l said ok,he sends a message every now and then,what do you think?
I watch videos of you for more than a year now, i understood a lot of things. She annonced this week, that she go back to her country. I feel devasted. How she cannot see that love her so much ? She is more than stubborn. i dont know what to do. Now i dont believe in real love anymore.
i ended an old relationship to be with her because we promised to work this out no matthers what, stick to it. When i date others girls, i feel like i cheated, and not loyal to my true love.
How do I get her back when my ex and I have a kid together and she still lives with me in the same house different room but see each other everyday and she says she is done and when she is done that means everything her words but I realized my mistakes and messed up but she’s the love of my life
coach, is their any specific actions/jokes I could use to make my ex laugh/smile? I tried a couple things and she still seems mad. We broke up Jan 3 for the second time.
Help me my wife is very stubborn,she sent me out of her house while I visit her and she don't what's to see me to tolk to me , she blocked me and let she blocked me and unblocked for 2 months but when my last check I found that she is unblocked? What can do
It is May 10th 2023. Time is 1845. Hello. My name is Angie. My now ex partner as of May 3rd, sent me my other set of keys and other important mail that arrived at his house my certified mail. During this "No Contact" period should I reply with thanks or say nothing? My "good-bye" letter is not supposed to happen until this coming Friday May 12th. I had two sets of keys when I moved into my apartment three months ago and I gave him a set to hold for me for emergency purposes. Is this him saying that the relationship is final on his end? Oh, by the way, he was the one to break things off with me.
My ex say’s also that we don’t ever get come back together, but we have a child together and for that reason we see each other every week to drop of our Son. How can i use the no contact rule?
I watch many of your video i had some sessions with you guys but after 5 months she still doesnt wanna talk i didnt bug her i didnt beg almost full nc i fix myself i sent accountability letter...whats next...
Hi, thank you very much for your time and great advices. I’ve been watching a lot of videos and it’s been enlightening a lot of things to me. I had a personal question for you regarding this subject of the stubborn ex. I’m currently in this breakup situation with a rigid ex. I was watching the video and you gave as a tip to reach back with positive things like activities or other new things that coudl intérest him or get his attention. What if my ex was someone who doesn’t have a lot of hobbies or interest in activities as I was the one taking him out of his comfort zone and pushing him to discover things. What would be your advice to me as an approach to my ex who doesn’t have many interests in life, so I can still catch his attention in a positive way/energy? Thank you
My ex agreed to meet me for a coffee second time in two weeks time after 6 months we had very good time together and decided to go meal and cinema but she said she is busy for another two weeks because Easter I said ok then couple of days later she became silent and cold with responding my whatsapp messages brief and late then yesterday she didn't respond my scenery picture message, what is going on,why is she doing that has she changed her mind, shall I keep texting or wait her reach out to me? thanks
He sees my stories that I post sometimes also respond to it but doesn't really call or text me Doesnt reach out. Its almost 3 months since our breakup idk what else to do besides no contact or react in front of him as he lives in my neighbourhood
I apologize to him after pressuring him to get back together by using other person. I did not get any response. After a couple of days he stalked me in my account but still not replying. I saw him posting qoutes that he liked someone else.What does it mean? Can I still get my ex back?
Hey coach Alex and Adrian, my ex is adding WhatsApp status daily to get my attention and now he has started changing the WhatsApp DP also very frequently, why is he doing this? Is this a breadcrumbing?
I contacted my ex off and on for 10 months after break up Ik she still cares I’m her first love but what should I do now I made many mistakes she responded a few times but either mad or stubborn
Thank you It would depend on why you and her broke up and possible the reasons that lead to this. We are here to help, have you considered 1:1 session with us? www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Alex
I cheated our first year being together she took me back for another year but I was truly horrible our first year together we couldn’t get past it no matter what
Uh, that's pathetic. Winning back a stubborn ex? Come on that's not something you're desperate about unless he/she one big time billionaire but still you can't force someone to bow down to you. Move on duh.
Thank you coach for all of your advice, i was once been dumped he blocked me in all social media but i dont chase him, during 3weeks with no contact i developed myself, i felt so beautiful and keep on smiling everyday, i do thinking about him every from time to time but i let it be, i don't hurt like the way on my first to 3 days broke up, so after 3 weeks he unblocked and call me but i ignored his call, he sent me a messaged asking forgiveness and begged me to accept him again but i don't reply him right away, i wait untill a day passed and replied saying... "Hi" and he immediately responce but i only read it and replied again the next day. Now we are back again and in good term, i hope this will be the endless happiness and thank God for this second chance.
i'm glad yall are back together
That’s amazing, I’m so happy for you! Hope you guys are going strong 🙏🏾❤️
I think focusing on yourself and moving on would be a better idea
Thank you for your compassion. I was so blinded by pain and almost braindead with suffering that I could not see reality. I was actually terrified of the depth of my heart and when my ex would try to date me, or just act like a friend I would freeze in place . I needed counseling but didnt know it. I elevated my education, changed my phone number, bought a little house in another town. I never want that experience again.
Me ex left me sick and broke in 2015 . thousands years ago . I was in trauma , hopeless disoriented and devastated. I went through a living hell on earth. thank god I survived , today I am with someone else. Trying to get healthy doing my workout everyday, eating healthy .
So why are you watching this video I’m confused? Do you regret
8:15 on exs fear of recreating the past and the need to re-envision yourself is so accurate
I LOVE all your content. You have no idea how much you have helped me. The biggest area I see a gap in is if you have hurt them very badly. Appreciate more on that specifically.
Love is SELFLESS and no contact really does give you time to progressively evolve to a point where you don’t just want someone back because you miss them but you want them to have peace, love, happiness and success even if it’s not with you.
I think a video on how to deal with your stubborn ex and who is in a rebound relationship now!
We met up twice. Both times spent several hours talking and laughing. The last time I saw him he asked if he could call me later in the week. I said yes. Silence.
Thank you
Continue with no contact at this time is our best suggestion
Thanks
Coach Adrian
I made the mistake of visiting her house after she seemed as though she was ready to come back when was talking to her on the phone, she stepped away to chsrge her phone she mentioned but her family was giving her a hard time and were wondering I was calling her. By instinct I went to her house to drop off some of the gifts she had given me and to talk to her. Her family didn't want me there and she and them were saying in the background that she wants to close that chapter of her life. Her brother was practically blocking the door and then when I went back it was her dad was there. He mentioned that me and her are moving to the next chapters in or lives especially since she just had her kidnry transplant from her other brother. I feel like her family had a huge influence on the choice she made. I did my part and I'm curious if all hope is lost. Can I still get her back
I really wish he can come back 💔😪
My heart is with you, I feel the same about my self😢
No contact works wonder!! But you need to be patient.. 😊
Exactly!
My ex and I had a good 1 year relationship , we ended on bad terms, and she’s been stubborn, I know I did my best for her and didn’t cheat or anything, I’ve been in no contact for a month and half. I’m losing hope that she’ll come back , I’ve been focusing on myself also but there’s no sign she’ll come back , what do I do it’s been since November , is it too late?
i'm in the exact same boat, just a few months ahead. it's not too late, but it might be too early. these things are part luck, part faith. work on yourself to feel independent of her, so that if the situation presents itself, you're making the right decision out of strength, not desperation. in this case, selfishness is good.
Any luck now?
Hi , do you have anything on dealing with a ex who felt because they have cancer? And how to deal with it ?
Yeah? And what if she yells “F you” when you walk past her in public when you’ve been minding your own business and been in no contact for two months and she dumped you?
Shes crazy
My ex admitted to being stubborn in the past (said we both are). He blew up at me 5 weeks ago and told me to leave and take my stuff. Said I don't know how to be in a relationship
I calmly said "as you wish". I don't get the feeling he's told people about the breakup. But he didn't answer my 3 short texts and did not answer a phone call. Never have I begged, yelled, hounded him, etc. I'm friendly when I see him and his friend out and about and I'll hang out for a while then leave. I keep the convo surface level. What do you think?
Take care of yourself. You can be nice to him but he needs to do better in the communication department. He may improve in time and regret his behavior, how long are you willing to wait?
@a.d.b535...it has been 5 months...what did you do, please? It sounded as if you need to do some inner work....leave him alone. you will be much stronger. Hope you respond with better news. Thanks from Darrell.
Great video! I do have a question, does no contact mean that you also don’t view any of your exes social media posts, even when you know they are trying to get your attention? Is it best to ignore their posts and not view if you’re on friendship terms? I also have other questions which I will book you in for 😊
Thank you for elaborating on that note.
My pleasure!
I’ve lost feelings during no contact, how to tell him when he comes back that I don’t want him anymore
Just the way he said, exactly same way
I have broken up with my ex after 3 years.
I don’t contact him for last 3 month.
I still don’t know way we broke we had small arguments he just said to me live me alone! All that love we had with each other it just gon .
Hi coach....my boyfriend can't control his anger and gets angry easily over anything....i hated this and i broke up with him after 1.5 yrs of our relationship....but i love him so much...will he come back? I don't wanna talk to him first as it is his fault...💔 Plz reply 🙏
You generally have to msg him first since youre the one that dumped him. He very well could be doing the no contact rule on you. Its almost 100% guarantee he will respond if you msg first.
Yes I’m similar please tell me what to do , he is at fault he breadcrumbed me and I ignored him and he hasn’t sent a second message because I ignored him
Thank you so much I have been listening to you videos is been helping me a lot ❤
Hope it's ok to say this...coach Adrian you have a lovely printed shirt on! ❤
Thank you
Coach Adrian
I have tried to take your steps, to tell him, Okay, we are not going to be together. He filed for divorce and will not longer talk about anything with me. He has someone else he is doing things for and going on to my vacation spots with in July through August. This is so painful. He is setting up a lasting relationship with her. He is discarding me, forgetting me. How can no communication be best in this situation? Please help! I can't live with that happening.
Exactly need one cause my ex has said he wanted to get back together last year and he says we are just friends but yet I am giving him the no contact he never answer my question either I’m sure he still feels something for me but his ego and he is hella stubborn. It’s been 2 yrs. 😢 How can I get him back coach.
What do I do? I emotionally drained my bf of two years together. Currently living with him but moving out soon. Says I drained him and burned him out, being toxic and starting arguments , he said I lost him. Says I stressed him out , I had relationship anxiety and self sabotaged it from past trauma , is all hope lost ???
Have you considered accountability letter?
Thanks
Coach Adrian
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity yes I did the letter , he’s already texting other girls , I confronted him and he told me it’s nothing serious doing it to get detached from me and a distraction.. do I just go limited no contact ? This is the 4th time breaking up :(
@Saniya Hawkins id tell him that HE is emotionally draining you now. Tell him the roles reversed and he needs to be a man and fix the relationship! Dont tell him you love him or anything else. Dont apologize for anything. Just demand that he fixes the relationship. And then go radio silence. Dont post dont talk. Move out asap. Wait like 4 months for him to return. If he doesn't return in 4 months then just move on.
Hi, I have watched a few of your videos and I believe that you can hopefully help me. I have recently broke up with my girlfriend and even though it was a short term relationship meant a lot to me and her aswell. The breakup wasn't good but this is why I believe you can help?
Good job guys🎉
Thanks!
Hi,
My girlfriend broken up with me bcz of my behaviour.
She made her mind not to stay.
But i forced her to stay and she dont want but at the end she conviced to observe me for the change in my behaviour and gave a time of 2 months.
She is talking to me but completely in negative way. I cant meet her directly. can you help me how to change her now.
Hello Coaches,my ex and l have met twice for drinks and we had a nice time and he said he wanted to be just friends and l said ok,he sends a message every now and then,what do you think?
I kicked my ex out of our home and now I regret it now I haven’t heard from her and I apologized
I watch videos of you for more than a year now, i understood a lot of things. She annonced this week, that she go back to her country. I feel devasted. How she cannot see that love her so much ? She is more than stubborn. i dont know what to do. Now i dont believe in real love anymore.
i ended an old relationship to be with her because we promised to work this out no matthers what, stick to it. When i date others girls, i feel like i cheated, and not loyal to my true love.
That's you being selfish bro, you want her to stay purely because YOU love her. Not her love for you.
Thanks guys!!!!
How do I get her back when my ex and I have a kid together and she still lives with me in the same house different room but see each other everyday and she says she is done and when she is done that means everything her words but I realized my mistakes and messed up but she’s the love of my life
coach, is their any specific actions/jokes I could use to make my ex laugh/smile? I tried a couple things and she still seems mad. We broke up Jan 3 for the second time.
How about trying romantic gestures that she will remember close to her heart
Thanks
Coach Alex
Wonderful
My x said he will not come back to me. What to do??
Help me my wife is very stubborn,she sent me out of her house while I visit her and she don't what's to see me to tolk to me , she blocked me and let she blocked me and unblocked for 2 months but when my last check I found that she is unblocked? What can do
My ex: I don't love you anymore!
Me: Hmm okay, i enjoying my life😜
My ex hates me because of my overreaction,,he keeps on saying he has forgiven me but he can't get back with me,,,I want him back 😢😢help
It is May 10th 2023. Time is 1845. Hello. My name is Angie. My now ex partner as of May 3rd, sent me my other set of keys and other important mail that arrived at his house my certified mail. During this "No Contact" period should I reply with thanks or say nothing? My "good-bye" letter is not supposed to happen until this coming Friday May 12th. I had two sets of keys when I moved into my apartment three months ago and I gave him a set to hold for me for emergency purposes. Is this him saying that the relationship is final on his end? Oh, by the way, he was the one to break things off with me.
My ex say’s also that we don’t ever get come back together, but we have a child together and for that reason we see each other every week to drop of our Son. How can i use the no contact rule?
♥️🙏 Very Appreciated.
Now I am move on
Hi thank you very much for your advice it works ❤❤❤
I watch many of your video i had some sessions with you guys but after 5 months she still doesnt wanna talk i didnt bug her i didnt beg almost full nc i fix myself i sent accountability letter...whats next...
Hi, thank you very much for your time and great advices. I’ve been watching a lot of videos and it’s been enlightening a lot of things to me. I had a personal question for you regarding this subject of the stubborn ex. I’m currently in this breakup situation with a rigid ex. I was watching the video and you gave as a tip to reach back with positive things like activities or other new things that coudl intérest him or get his attention. What if my ex was someone who doesn’t have a lot of hobbies or interest in activities as I was the one taking him out of his comfort zone and pushing him to discover things. What would be your advice to me as an approach to my ex who doesn’t have many interests in life, so I can still catch his attention in a positive way/energy?
Thank you
My ex agreed to meet me for a coffee second time in two weeks time after 6 months we had very good time together and decided to go meal and cinema but she said she is busy for another two weeks because Easter I said ok then couple of days later she became silent and cold with responding my whatsapp messages brief and late then yesterday she didn't respond my scenery picture message, what is going on,why is she doing that has she changed her mind, shall I keep texting or wait her reach out to me? thanks
That’s my issue for now
Thank you Allison for watching
Coach Alex
Wait why would u talk to ur ex if they dont want to talk to u? Shouldn't u go NC?
Me and my ex's rs last about 4 years and then we broke up 1year ago
i didn't go no contact
And,a month ago,she told me she has a new boyfriend.
You did no contact for one year ?
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity no i start no contact about a month ago
If I'm blocked and we don't meet, how can I show what has changed?
You can watch this video : ua-cam.com/video/rhuSq96xNE8/v-deo.html
Hello sir if my ex has blocked me on WhatsApp nd contact then i should do the same or not ?
He sees my stories that I post sometimes also respond to it but doesn't really call or text me
Doesnt reach out. Its almost 3 months since our breakup idk what else to do besides no contact or react in front of him as he lives in my neighbourhood
Hello Dhara
I know it is hard, continue with no contact and your personal growth!
Coach Alex
What to do if he went to a foreign contry a day after the breakup?
Thank you
You must use this time for personal growth
Thanks
Coach Alex
I walked away from a stubborn controlling Taurus man.,No I miss him. I blocked him.
I apologize to him after pressuring him to get back together by using other person. I did not get any response. After a couple of days he stalked me in my account but still not replying. I saw him posting qoutes that he liked someone else.What does it mean? Can I still get my ex back?
Thank you, it is still a possibility, have you considered 1:1 session
See link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunitydo you have coupons
Hey coach Alex and Adrian, my ex is adding WhatsApp status daily to get my attention and now he has started changing the WhatsApp DP also very frequently, why is he doing this? Is this a breadcrumbing?
Hello
This could be to get your attention, and possibly to get you to contact them
Thanks
Coach Alex
Great conversation thankyou. Love you guys
I contacted my ex off and on for 10 months after break up Ik she still cares I’m her first love but what should I do now I made many mistakes she responded a few times but either mad or stubborn
Thank you
It would depend on why you and her broke up and possible the reasons that lead to this. We are here to help, have you considered 1:1 session with us?
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
I cheated our first year being together she took me back for another year but I was truly horrible our first year together we couldn’t get past it no matter what
I assume she needs actual time to heal although she still cares for me what I did was a lot
❤🎉😊
Uh, that's pathetic. Winning back a stubborn ex? Come on that's not something you're desperate about unless he/she one big time billionaire but still you can't force someone to bow down to you. Move on duh.
❤
Thanks for watching!
Coach Adrian