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I feel gross that I've been too depressed to shower. I think I'm going to do that. It's been a couple days now. I have been brushing my teeth though.
Hell yeah dude, i'm proud of you 👍
@@PiranhaTub awe thanks, I appreciate that.
i showered yesterday for the first time in a week i feel you fam! congrats on brushing your teeth tho!
@@TyTurner thanks man. I'm glad that you were able to get shit done. You deserve it.
I brush my teeth twice a week during a bad bout of Depression and I only shower when I smell bad to me! You are so not alone in this. I do it too. I think it's a way to feel in control that at least this I can control even if it's bad for me.
I feel this so hard, ADHD and PTSD combined has made me into a trash monster
Same I feel so disgusting. Being depressed while being an adult with bills to pay living on your own is the worst, you can’t catch a break. Add dysphoria to it and you simply can’t function.
OMG SAME!! We’ll get through this!💗💗💗
I've had trouble cleaning because of trauma as well. Trauma turns you into a slob.
I'm autistic and have a form of ptsd and I feel this. What's helped for me is to try not to beat myself up over it, and instead find ways to be messy in an organised way, if that makes sense. Like, I hate folding clothes so I literally just chuck them in boxes, after doing a small amount of sorting.
Meee toooo, I finally started getting the jump on it this week. It's like some sort of signal went out that activated all of us 😂
Me, sitting in the room that is even messier than Ty's: welp, i think the time has finally come 🙃
And i should probably take a long shower and wash my clothes too. Depression do be like that
Sending positive thoughts your way, Danny.
I feel this on such a personal level, it took me a week to finally do the piled up dishes but then ended up cleaning the whole apartment lmao
I had several types of moldy dishes last month and had to wash them in the communal bathroom sink at three am to avoid ppl seeing
@@Fruityflootloops good job on washing them though!! ❤️❤️ It takes time but proud of you for accomplishing the task!! I know it may make you feel horrible I know sometimes it makes me feel worse seeing them pile up but in the end it doesn't matter you do them when you do them
I do that too
@@mars-659 aww thanks. ❤️❤️❤️
Honestly, seeing another guy around my age, dealing with similar issues was a big relief. At the old place I lived it was a mess from the day I moved in to the day I moved out. In the moving out process I found clothes from when I was in middle school that was so thorn they had big holes. I was really ashamed to have visitors and whenever I had visitors they always pointed out that I have an issue and need help, full aware that I go to therapy, so it felt more like shaming then a concern (at least in my mind). Well, here's to new beginnings at my new place.
TL:DR; Still depressed, but a bit less stressed about it for the time being
i feel that and this next part isn't important at all, but I dead ass thought my computer was doing some sketch shit and thats why i couldnt see your pfp. Now I see that its the same color as the background lmao
I've been cleaning along with this and other similar "Cleaning with depression videos". I personally don't know anyone as messy and filthy as I am, and it's nice to be able to relate to others who are and to clean along with them.
Love that the dogs wanted to hang out with you while you did this. My dog always wants to lay right in the middle of wherever I need to walk when I'm cleaning 😂
this is a reminder to my sad bois/galls/pals, you can do this! clean your darn room!
Yes, but treat yourselves with loving kindness.
Is no one going to mention 1. the delicious-looking lint burrito or 2. the fact that this this very uplifting and soothing cleaning expedition unearthed a treasure chest??
i know this sounds weird but i get dysphoria over the amount if clothes i have and this video actually helped that
Dw man, same over here.
Same here, I am genderfluid and it is very important for me to dress the way I feel, so I naturally have a bit more clothes. It is not even really bad or something. I'm just too harsh with genderroles on myself and it's very annoying.
@@leckmich5452 exactly! i donated all my clothes when i started transitioning and only wore hoodies and sweatpants because i wanted to do everything in my power to pass but now i have bright colored hawaiian shirts that draw attention cuz i like them and im finally at a point where i know i just have to wait to pass 100% of the time
@@hh-mv3jw so happy for you :3 someone who is confident and shows their personality is the most sexy anyway
I have oh so much clothing- sincerely a closeted nb transfem
when you were searching for a place to put the pile of hangers I just couldn't stop starring at the hanger pole in the closet behind... with room still on it. I don't think I'll ever recover
i had just taken the white hangers out of the closet bc i don't want to use them anymore
@@TyTurner yes i switch out my hangers and got all black ones cause target had a sale and i was bored. It might sound lame but i like cleaning, i can't live in a messy enviroment.
@@3arthandsky doesn't sound lame at all, sounds actually way better than living in my room where i barely have space in my bed to sleep on
@@duckplushie8421 that used to be me in high school but i started caring cause i felt like my dog was suffering cause of my mess
@@3arthandsky I'm really trying but my cats love the mess
The bigger question is….why did I spend 20-something minutes watching some guy cleaning his room and doing his laundry…instead of ME cleaning my room and doing my laundry?! Ugh.
It's a step in the right direction, Kaiwaza. Does it help motivate you to start?
Thanks Ty, I needed this... I have very short-term depressive episodes that last a few days and I'm in one right now. I lay in bed and watch videos all day and feel guilty about it. It's so nice to see someone else dealing with these problems in a no-shame way, it makes me feel a lot better.
I do the same exact thing! When I feel like that I find it helpful to tell myself I only have to do one thing today (which can be dishes, just wipe up the counter, or even just take a shower) and then I can let myself relax. Sometimes you need to recharge and the next day you feel a little better and start working on stuff little by little.
When I'm feeling like this I find the tiniest task I can do and make sure I feel proud of that. Even if it's rinsing with mouthwash or shaking the crumbs off my bed :)
I'm a neat freak and hate having a lot of stuff so this was simultaneously painful and satisfying to watch
I thought i was the only one
I love being neat and clean, but I feel like when I’m feeling shitty I subconsciously punish myself by procrastinating cleaning and chores
watching someone ELSE clean their room is a whole new level of meta for me :'D
Certainly good for motivation;) good video, and also may I commend you on your editing skills? Been watching you since you started your journey; proud of you Ty, it's been quite the ride watching your grow!
Thank god I’m not the only one that does this. I thought my 6+ hour cleaning spree post-depression was unique to just me... Now I feel less alone. Thank you for making me feel less crazy.
I'm 24 too living alone with depression. I spend days avoiding upkeep letting the place go until it gets to the point where I snap and become a clean freak. It's a violent cycle, but getting that small motivation helps much. My closet has so many clothes in garbage bags that I fear just opening the door though...
Omggg you have separate rooms?! I thought I was the only one who wanted my own room from my partner....
Hey Ty, your video popped up in my recommended after all these years. Just wanted to say that I started T on the 13th. When I first started watching you, I was still in secondary school and never thought I would even get to start. Thanks for being you and here's to many years more of being ourselves. :)
Maybe this will finally give me the motivation to clear out my wardrobe of the clothes that make me feel dysphoric-
Me: I'm not interesting enough to do UA-cam
Also me: watches Ty do chores for 20 minutes
I opened UA-cam to put something on while I clean my depression room and was honestly so glad to see this
I'm turning 22 next month and I have things from middle school too lmao. You can't buy shirts that comfy and broken in!! I even have some things from elementary school!! (they were way too big back then)
You inspired me to unpack my bag from a camping trip I've just been walking around for weeks. Thanks dude. Weirdly peaceful watching you tidy up your stuff. Thanks.
Ooooofff this struck a chord.. I'm in a huge mess right now. Lost my job because of Covid and not having any sort of structure in my week has sent my ADHD ass FLYING off into a depression. I have a whole lot to do around the house 🙃 but I'm staring at a new job soon and I'm hoping it'll help my mood and hopefully the schedule from work will give me some sort of grip to hang on to lol.
I've been too sick to work for about 3 weeks now and absolutely losing it. I don't remember eating being this difficult. Good luck
Hope you're in a good place!
@@flizbath7395 I started the job and quit, then started another study and quit within the first year. But I started therapy since, which is a great step to getting to a good place so I'm on my way there.
@@dddgr7150 Wishing you luck and persistence! Hope you click with your therapist and benefit from the work you do together.
Boiii this was me 3 days ago
Ty. why is your washer the wrong way????
the water thingy is on the wrong wall :(
It’s SO upsetting and then the dryer door opens on the wrong side too. Shame on the builders.
I love post depression clean up. Its like a breath of fresh air after the storm.
My fave thing is opening the windows after not even thinking about it for days, it makes such a difference!
Can't wait for this to be me again, I had a WAY too busy week but TY JUST UNTANGLE THE HANGERS AND HANG THEM UP? I wanna know the reasoning for not putting them in the closet 🤣 or at least hung up in the laundry room
Those were sorted out hangers
At ~21:00 when you said "There you have it folks, I cleaned my room" and then laughed a bit, I legit expected you to make a Jordan Peterson joke xD
To be honest a comment about lobsters would have fit right in lol.
In other news I agree with every other comment that this is a fucking mood. My home looked like this when I was alone and now I have a kid it looks like this but also with toys, fml
def can be messy, am on the messier side, but somehow i cant stand clothes and thing son the floor lol. and my mess somehow is organized lol yet its messy, idk how to explain it but id put my pile of clothes in a specific corner only lol
The cat is saying "fäther you hamve a drimking pröblem"
I’m half way through cleaning up a year and a half of depression mess in the two rooms I rent in my roommate’s house. It makes me feel better to see I’m not alone in this. It’s been a rough year and a half between the pandemic and a bunch of personal stuff including have to move out of my own place and into a shared space when I am SUPER introverted and need time completely alone to really unwind and it all just kind of piled up around me. Thanks for posting this. I know it can be hard to be open about this kind of stuff but it really does help others to know we’re not alone in this kind of thing.
I'm the same... and sorting out the clothes is the worst for me, i hate it so much ! Since i started adhd treatment it helps a bit but without it my level of procrastination is so high ! And you haven't run out of hangers, you have two dozens under your bed ! ;) Also i'm 35 and I still have some clothes i bought when i was in high school !
The best thing I ever did was put a desk in my room for drawing. I can’t draw in a messy space, so It’s been a way of forcing myself to keep my room clean, and it’s done wonders for my mental health :3
Can you Depop some of the clothes you aren’t interested in anymore? Love your style bro.
yes please!!
Omg your pets are soo cute!
Sexiest thing I've ever seen.
Now thats a Ty-dy room 😏
Great job, Ty! I hope having a tidy room (even if it's just for a few days) helps you feel better.
Now it's my turn to clean my room, which is like 4 times as messy, and I hope the same for me. Thanks for the relatable content :D
This is the most relatable and helpful video ever. Seriously thank you for making this
Unironically my favourite type of content on yt
Why was this so satisfying? I feel like I accomplished something!
Bruh first ten seconds and I’m like yeah same.... I’m doing my clean up tomorrow
Wow .. I have adhd and I've got a bunch of projects and haven't finished a one.. I sooo can bvb relate.. I miss your face ty turner...❤👍😘🙂
Me realizing we have the same lurking class backpack 👀
ty did so good im so proud of him!!
This was me today! It started with my closet and then started everything else.
I didn't clean with you but oh man does this really make me want to go through my closet/generally get shit more organized (curse it being 10 at night with somebody sleeping in the next room over lol)
My room isn't necessarily messy, but I just have a lot of stuff, and I think better sorting my clothes and tackling that closet would help with making it feel more manageable
Plus I really want to get rid of this one dresser and chair in my room (but chair is currently being used as a classic The Chair, and dresser has a lot of shit in it and on top of it)
Does recording it help you stay accountable? I should try that, or take progress pics or something...
yes! that's 99% of why this vlog exists
I love your voice! So soothing.
yo i actually did my own post depression room cleanup yesterday lol. solidarity
This is really helpful for me… my mother was sick along time, and her stuff piled up. She died, and I was a closeted FTM, so all this kinda happened everywhere in the house. This is helping me go room by room… thank you Ty! You’re like the brother I never had (I’m sure many feel this way!) I have adhd and ptsd and really crappy depression… and it’s like the stuff isn’t even there some days.
Thank you for making this! Gonna use this video as motivation (and maybe a backing track)
I highly recommend finding a depressed trash goblin friend and just cleaning each others rooms. It’s so much easier.
Cleaning other people's messes is for some reason so much easier
So much love for you Ty. This whole video was a massive mood.
Why are they in 2 different rooms? No hate just curious
mostly because we both had beds and a lot of our own stuff before we moved in here so we took separate rooms but i sleep in her room with her lol
Honestly I feel this. I recently spent an entire week just sorting through my closet and I had such a large amount that was given to me by people who figured I'd just be able to fit them and I was too polite to say no when in reality they don't fit my lifestyle at all and were just collecting space and dust.
I really liked your video really awesome dude love you bro take care God bless
Spare hangers can be donated - heard they are always appreciated :)
This video was a vibe and what I needed to relax 😭
This made me feel less alone. Thank you.
Also story time: Just yesterday I had a man come over from facebook marketplace to look at some display cabinets (I was ironically trying to declutter...he didn't buy them)....I wasn't expecting him to actually come (I thought he decided he wasn't interested), so I left my cabinets in my 'mess room' upstairs (I was planning to bring them down stairs where it's tidy once someone wanted to collect them). I was so mortified when he came to my door asking for me that I actually had to just walk him upstairs where it's messy and cluttered to show him. I don't normally allow strangers (or anyone, really) to witness my 'clutter zone'. Hated it. But I guess it reminded me that I live another day despite the embarrassment I always feared - so I continue with this major declutter project.
The laugh right at the beginning. Oh how I relate. 😂😂😭❤️
bro the trash/recycling/laundry etc it piles up and my mental illness wants me to lay down and watch youtube
this makes me miss having a dryer
Every time I try to organize my stuff, it just falls back into chaos in about two days
Love a couple with separate rooms.
This was me yesterday xD I feel your pain, clothes are a damn chore. And half of them I don't even wear and they end up all over the place lol
I'm wondering why you don't get an airer / clothes horse to dry your clothes on rather than hanging them on hangers in random places lol. Is that not a thing in the US?
They were dried in the dryer. Idk why he hung them up on the pull-up bar.
You just motivated me to do my laundry, ty
you have such good helpers !!🐶🐱💖
Motivating me to do a post depression clean
Your dogs look sooo concerned at you cleaning 😭 I love dogs
This is nothing. I haven't cleaned my apartment since 2017. 😅
All you need to hide your things under your bed is a manly bed “ruffle…not a ruffle, though). You can get great plain ones…it will work wonders! Good job. My son has depression too. His wife left him 3 years ago, but he’s just now able to address his home he still won’t let me help or come over, but he’s moving forward. I know how you feel. Get better, please. This happens to more people, including women, than you know! Good job!!! Proud of you.
ADHD, Depression, PTSD and just pure laziness combine into my room where my clean clothes have been on the floor for MONTHS and have not been folded or put away ONCE in that time
ADHD makes me a messy bitch. I've been living out of a laundry basket for MONTHS.
I suffer with depression (and I don't think that it is only that, I'm going to a neurologist and trying to find out), and this happens to me way often, my way to cope is to clean my room every Saturday, the day that I'm responsible to do the deep cleaning on the whole house. It must be harder when living alone, I only clean because of my family.
Im so proud of you and everyone else in these comments for being so strong.
It’s hard to push past mental issues but you’re all doing great and you got this! The room looks lovely mister Ty Turner, you’re doing amazing.
I'm so sorry for this terribly inappropriate question but did your feet grow on T :'0
I'm SORRY I just noticed how masc they looked in the vid and I was hoping mine would grow too
I think some people go through this actually, knowing how the body changes a lot during that period of starting it, being on it for as long as he has.
Dude, I feel this on so many levels! Depression is terrible for self-care and as I'm coming out of a long spell now, I am looking at my room and thinking "F__K!". It's good to know that we aren't alone in this though! Thanks for sharing!
As someone with OCD and Depression and is a hoarder, my room is a complete tip. It's a disgrace. Not really fit for living.
The thing is, I broke up with my ex and they finally moved out a few weeks ago, but there is so much of their stuff left. A lot of the mess was their fault, but I was so depressed they I could barely move because all I wanted to sleep. Every time I woke up, the piles of miscellaneous items, clothes and junk would be a little bit higher. There is almost a year's worth of crap since my last clean-out. It's just tough to finish off... but I really want to because I want to completely gut and restyle my house, especially my room, which is just a mess of memories I want to distance myself from. I want to move on with my life and finally feel ready to start T. I want to start living authentically. It's just so difficult to pull myself out of my self loathing long enough to focus. Until I sort my room, I can't sort my life. I can't think with the mess. It makes me depressed, like I am a garbage person who deserves to live in garbage... but that depression caused by the shitty room causes me to not deal with the room. It's a feedback loop of depression, getting worse as time drags on.
Watched this instead of cleaning my apartment which is overrun by like six months worth of garbage and clothes and where is the floor (ADHD, autism, depression, and grad school combined in really shitty ways, i should not live alone)
Huge thanks for this video! Depression is horrible but we can beat it!
Ty why didn't you just...hang the hangers...am confusion lol
Goose looks like he worked hard as the supervisor. I can relate to the clothes. I bought a house a couple of years ago and honestly wish I wouldn't have. Between yard work, laundry, and keeping the dishes clean, one or all of them fall behind. Dealing with depression about 70% of the time doesn't help.
I've been this messy since I can remember. Even as a child my room looked like shit. It got better over the years, but it's still hard to nearly impossible to keep my room clean.
Thank you for the vid, really motivated my to start cleaning!
oof,, I relate to this on a spiritual level
Cleaning along with someone fells very good.
It took me 3 weeks to finally go through my toys from childhood. Now I can donate them to the local kindergarten.
Thank you thank you for making this bc I put myself in this position more often than not😭
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I should probably do that too.
Laundry has always been one of the most daunting things for my depression. I can get my clothes washed on a good day, but putting them away always seems like a monumental task. So I'll just have baskets of clean clothes laying around. cleaning my house always gets neglected as well.
Wait do you and Kristi (sp?) maintain separate bedrooms???? I love that if you do!
Dude, I watched this yesterday and inspired me to clean my dump heap I call a room... it’s tidy and nice now. Thanks my g
I had to move to my parents and I have just a one room and a ton of stuff cause I'm making art professionally and I'm also into upcycling so I have a ton of "trash" (it's very important tho and I'm gonna use it! XD) and I studied fashion design so imagine how much shit I have in this room including mashines, textiles, a shit ton of art supplies etc. I'm literally drowning in here. Also I have ALL my old works in here, even my works from artschool when I was 16 and I'm 24 now. It's literally piles of canvas and papers that lay on top of my furniture and touch the seiling D: But I just decided I'm so done with it and I'm gona put 3/4 of my room in trash bags and put it somewhere (honestly no idea where, gonna think about it after the fact lol) and I'm even putting my decorations to boxes too, there is no space for it, it has to wait untill I have my own place again. I'm gonna leave only stuff that I need on a DAILY basis like clothes and all the supplies I need for work cause it's honestly unlivable and it's really getting out of hand. I'm not even gonna say anything about my depression pile of clothes and tea cups on my nightstand and my glass full of cigarette butts 🤦 Wish me luck!
Just had to pause this only a few seconds in,to comment;) Dudeee, I need to write myself to do lists nightly, due to no recall/ memory anymore ( ptsd,amnesia, trauma etc blah blah blah;)) Anyway, only thing I didn't get to was my room and laundry today. My ocd was beating me up about it, bc I need to get that clutter cleaned...but when you showed your room?! Ty, I started lol-ing 🤣...I don't feel soo bad now...my room is immaculate, after seeing this. 😅 💜..k, back to it;)
I just spent the last two days deep cleaning my apartment and this was great motivation. There was rotting food in my fridge from 2 months ago that I finally threw out. It feels so nice to clean my home
Bruh I’m cleaning my room rn and this video came up in my recommended lmao
This video made me feel less alone. Thanks for sharing Ty. Rooting for you.