I have a family member who is (rough estimate) level 6 hoarder, not the worst, but she's at a point in her life where she believes she can't change. I've been showing her your videos, and it gets her excited to start letting things go. With the hoarders tv show, she always said that the only way they could get the homes so much better was thousands of dollars and a team of 12 cleaners, but seeing the transformations you give people gave her a little kick in the butt that it is possible with just us. It's slow going, but she's been at it for almost 3 months now, and she's been able to get rid of all the actual garbage and about 15-20% of the useless junk (with her admitting that it's useless and needs to go). Her goal is to have her first floor finished by Christmas, fingers crossed we can help her achieve it (you with your fantastic videos, and me with some time and elbow grease as needed).
Please tell your family member we are all routing for them! The hard part is asking and allowing people to help. It won't be easy but give yourself grace and take one box at a time. You can do it! ❤
There are people who pretend to know what depression is like, and then there’s this guy. The way you explained it is spot on and that is so appreciated. Most people can’t wrap their minds around the idea of mentally not being able to clean. It isn’t laziness. Sometimes we just can’t.
I plan to send this video to a friend because he explained it so much better than I ever could even though I live with PTSD, depression and anxiety disorder.
if you have enough energy to create the mess you have enough energy to clean it… if you just can’t clean you also just can’t get up and make the mess in the beginning
BTW. After years of therapy for my hoarding, I have NOTHING on my countertops anymore. I have clutter blindness. I am also NOT allowed to bring anything else into the home. I don't buy decor, magazines, books, DVDs, candles, or anything that will clutter my home. I do buy cleaner and paper towels lol. My home may look boring, but it is clean and easy to clean. P.S. I also gave away all my magnets on the fridge. One less thing to buy when traveling.
Yes! The magnets on the fridge can become clutter. My SIL has a fridge full of them. Her fridge, pantry, cupboards, sheds, games cupboard and office are also packed full 🧐
Thank you. I know I need professional help to sustain getting to where you have gotten. I must be frugal. Any suggestions? I am blessed having a good dear friend trying to help me with the cleaning. 😢
So basically, the first thing I had to deal with was the trauma. Then we address the compulsive spending. The OCD therapist said that it is genetic, so I do get that from both my parents. Every item that I buy has to be for a use in the home. If it is a want and not a need then I have to wait and think about the purchase. @@juliherron8991
my husband is in the airforce. His idea of cleaning involves tracing the edges of the inside of drawers with a Qtip and metho, , rubbing brass handles with brasso and a toothbrush, soaking tea towels in bleach and lavender oil, then ironing. Im going to show him this and watch him pass out.
I'm a hoarder. I have dug out my old house, sold it, and moved and am actively combating my disease, weekly cleaning and so far, have kept my house reasonably clean for 2 years. I'm also a registered nurse, retired, and I understand what causes hoarding. You gave one of the best and most compassionate explanations for hoarding I've heard. I really like that you have expressed the need for therapy to break the cycle. It is really essential! Thank you for helping these folk and being so compassionate. This is so hard to let someone come in and clean and help. I let them haul away 3 small dumpsters and still should have let more go. Even knowing what was wrong. We can be our own worst enemies sometimes.
You are on your way and it feels so liberating and great. The more stuff you have, the harder to clean your space. And then the mental and physical health. No stuff is worth it. Happy for you!!
Hoarding is often a symptom of trauma, especially trauma we try to hide. I pray for your healing, in Jesus name, from any trauma wounds preventing you from letting go. It's ok to let go....you are enough and Jesus loves you. ❤ there is NO sin that he won't forgive.
My problems started after my son died in a car accident. It will be 20 yrs soon, and it's so hard to let go because it's the brain saying it's still good. It's a process of telling yourself it's OK and in the past when I cleaned for days.... wow! It is truly liberating to purge your home and your thoughts. When you are looking at cutter day in and day out... Sadly, that is a mirror image of your thoughts. Only cleaning will ease your thoughts and, more importantly.... your heart. ❤
After years of amphetamine abuse, drinking everyday, trash hoarding and having my house look like this.... after a year off speed I have become obsessed with cleaning and working on my house. I love watching these videos while cleaning at night. Its become super therapeutic. Love it.
I just found your channel and love it! My mom hoards, and it has gotten worse since her husband died. All of us kids were really focused on getting her to throw things away which of course, just made her more anxious. Every time I went home I got anxious too, because it was just so overwhelming. The last time I went, I just decided to vacuum, sweep, and clean up the yard of branches and debris. I trimmed bushes and bought some cheap solar lights to light up her mailbox and pathway to the house. She was so delighted. She started asking me to help her with some stuff inside. She asked me to help her reorganize two bedrooms. Just some little things, They looked so much better when we were done and she was very happy with it. I think knowing that I wasn't going to try and make her throw things away made her more open to talking about things. She even showed me a dead mouse on a glue trap behind the microwave and asked me to get rid of it. It was mummified. Since then she has been getting rid of some things on her own. Anything she asks me if I want, instead of saying,"I don't need that junk, you should just throw it away." I thank her profusely and take it. If I don't want it, I just drop it off at Goodwill. At any rate, watching this really inspired me and next time I go I will clean the cabinets!
This is the only cleaning channel, where my no. 1 reason for coming back is not the cleaning or even the transformations. It's the smack talking and the passion for helping others without making it a big deal of it or trying to make others see you as an angelic saviour. Stupid though, that we still see you like that. If there where more people like you around this world it would be a better place. Lots of love from germany 😘
I'm a hoarder and have decided that enough is enough. I want a house I love and can entertain and fill with memories. Found this video and your channel is spurring me on to fix my house and my life. Thank you ❤
take it slow and steady! you are doing something that takes incredible strength!! Keep your mental wellbeing in mind, and please never be afraid to reach out for help! Even if its just someone to be there with you for support.
When you spoke of the piles of waste and pads. I immediately knew the smell. Amonia. It's something you'll never forget. I worked with the elderly for years, and when urine sits, it turns into something that could burn your nasal membrane. It's sad she went through this, and im glad you helped her. It takes a strong person to deal with something like that. God bless you. 🙏❤️😮
THANK YOU for programming the clock on the microwave ❤ That shows that extra level of care that you have for those struggling with this horrible disorder!
@karenpeck4344 Its a 'two edged sword' really. While it is great to care, and do those little extra things, you are creating a point of disconnect also.
@@snakezdewiggle6084 woah, really? Can you elaborate? I just want to make sure that when I help people struggling with this issue that I don't hurt them, even by accident.
@catherinedufresne3543 I have no significant education or training this matter. The comment is based on observation and my own thought processes. Consider this scenario. A mother spends 18yrs picking up after her child, she cleans all the messes, packs away the toys, every day. Lovingly, the mother wants only the best for her child. At 18yrs the child has never learned to do for himself. So, setting the clock on the microwave oven. Do you save the owner the few minutes it takes to set it, or leave the owner to work it out for themselves. Here is the disconnect. "ah, I'll get it next time.", "not now, my hands are full.", "yeah, later." Personally, I would pull the owner aside and say, "I wil read out the instructions, while you follow by pressing the buttons yourself.". Even tho its a small act, the owner has now participated in the clean up, and you have lovingly educated the owner. Well done and handshakes all round.😆 This just one opinion.
@timestax How selfish of you. It's very sad that you don't understand compassion and empathy. It is very obvious that you have never given of yourself to others. I wish you prosperous journeys in this New Year.
I really admire how even with the amount of work you have to put in to clean these houses you take so much care to make it as pleasant visually as you can. I can only imagine how grateful the homeowners are ❤
Собствениците после със сигурност съжаляват,че боклуците и ненужните им вещи са изхвърлени 😂 това е болест, но и голям непоправим мързел. Едно е да трупаш старателно ненужни вещи а съвссем друго е да потънеш в мърсотия и да не чистиш нищо😮
I'm not a hoarder but I am disabled.... My family has lived in the same place for over 40 yrs and I can't clean like I want because there is just way to much for me... All the rooms here are supposed to be white, but because of family smoking for so long the walls and ceilings are now yellow.... I wish I had someone like y'all that could help me... What you are doing for this disabled couple is a God cent, and all my prayers go out to you....
I really appreciate how respectful your cleaning style is - I've seen people act like they forgot this is someone's home, and you never seem to do that.
I'm not a hoarder. I don't think my home is even particularly dirty, especially compared to something like this situation. But it easily gets overwhelming for me to confront cleaning it all. Seeing the two of you work through this space methodically and improve it so much is really inspiring me that I can do it too!
If it's in your budget, you could consider hiring someone to do a weekly or biweekly clean. I'm always motivated to tidy up before the cleaner arrives so they can do a better job 😂
Not only do you arrange the treasures nicely, you reset the clocks on all the appliances. You sir, are a blessing to everyone you help. God bless your socks, off! 😊
I love your casual no-nonsense attitude towards your cleaning projects and how you do them with incredible kindness and understanding. You know that what you're doing isn't going to be a permanent fix but it's still a HUGE help for the people that you do this for. Sometimes all they need is that little kick and yeah it might get bad again but at least you're giving them the clean slate to try. I also love the way you casually but lovingly roast the shit out of your kids lmao
My sister was a level 9 I realize now. She had a stroke, and that was what I found. There was trash, cat waste, and food waste at least shoulder deep. We had to rent U-Haul truck that we filled 3 times to take to the dump. I didn't realize the things you talk about, so when we got her home and left, she started right back. I don't know how you did it. We actually damaged our backs from all we did. You are amazing.
Noticed, for me, it isn't only about watching the cleaning process. Living with severe childhood trauma, on top of being autistic as well, it's felt almost inevitable for me to get fired from locations. Places I rather liked, places I came in and worked my ass off at, places where nothing I did ever seemed to be good enough. Coming to your channel helps to show me that my skills have a beneficial use somewhere. That the almost servitude style expectations on my childhood, alongside my innate autistic traits, can be applied to something sustainable. There's days I'll skitter over here, just so I can get a hefty reminder that I'm not doomed to poverty and homelessness. I'm scared for my future. Thank you for giving me reasons to be less scared.
❤️ My ideal society is where people are really helped out to have a home, a job they suit, and social connections. The attitude that all people can easily get a job, home and friends is not helpful. Some people find it so hard.
Yes, I enjoy watching house transformations but I had to block the TV program because it's awful. It encourages the viewers to be judgmental and cruel.
They aren’t mean. The point is trying very calmly to get them to actually SEE what hoarding does. They ignore actual trash and rotting food, and piling up your bathroom with poop and urine. These people are so deep into their disorder, that they try to defend their lifestyle tooth and nail. Hoarders also helps others, showing other hoarders that they’re not alone, and help is available through therapists, and finding out where this started so they can work through it. It also helps people get motivated to clean because they don’t want to end up in that situation.
I’m an Air Force brat. I have moved 23 times.i really didn’t think I was a keeper of things. Then last year, my health has forced me to sell my home and downsize. I was SHOCKED at what I had kept. With help from friends, 18 bags of clothes, towels and bedding were donated. 33 clear bins are packed and labeled, things I absolutely want to keep. My realtor saw it before and after and asked me to speak to his wife lol. I hope after all your hard work, this couple can live somewhat clutter free.
@midwestmagiccleaning By watching your channel a couple of months, I've turned my hoard from a level 7 to a level 2. I was a hoarder stage 4, now I'm stage 2. I've even learned myself to appriciate putting stuff away more than leaving it everywhere. I am not cured from my hoarding, but you helped me put myself in a better place mentally and clutterwise. Thank you for having this channel.
Probably the first time I have ever openly admitted this. I live in a hoarded house. We have had losses on both sides. My partner lost their mother and I lost my father and then step father. Then our garbage service got complicated. Then the trash built up and then stuff from my partners moms house and stuff from my dads arrived. It got worse and worse. Every day I want to clean it up and every day I dont. I have medical problems and I am very overweight. Some time soon we will get a dumpster. This will break the cycle. I am in therapy and honestly starting to improve a lot.
Good going to therapy and starting. Small steps everyday. Pick one tiny spot like a drawer or the surface of an end table and don't do anything else till it's just the way you want. Then you can cheer! God bless you. Im cheering for you!🎉
Just a quick note of encouragement...you CAN do it! I'm in a place of mess from just coming out of a deep depression - I'm not a hoarder, just have let cleaning and organizing go for a long time - but I'm coming out of it now and am overwhelmed with what I need to do to get my home back in shape. I'm making a plan now, and am planning to get started later this week. I wish you the best of luck, and just know, a stranger from the internet believes in you! ❤
In a very small percentage of the hoarding personalities, sometimes cleaning it up, like you just did, it is a relief for them and they can see a light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes just giving them an idea of what could be is enough to spur them on. You did a fabulous job. Cudos to you and your daughter. ❤
Thanks for the tip about using toilet bowl cleaner to clean the kitchen sink. It cracks me up how, the prouder you are of your daughter, the more you talk smack about her. You and Adrienne are both awe-inspiring. Thank you both for how you are helping people.
I'm currently fighting to keep my home clean and tidy, I am a horder as is my mother, it is the most heart wrenching, painful thing to clean up years of memories, I keep myself sane by reminding myself my memory is solid and I don't need a bracelet from 9 years ago to remind me or a pizza box from last week. It's hard but I refuse to pass away and leave that for someone else to clean.
At 7:47, where you pick up the hard red laundry detergent bottle,those are considered to be legal “Sharps” containers for insulin needles. Put duct tape around the cap(or opening if the cap is gone) and write “DO NOT RECYCLE” on the bottle with a permanent ink sharpie. ( I took care of both of my parents for 24 years,both diabetics and that’s what the Refuse Authority told me.)
Before using an insulin pump, I used a needle clipper for syringes. It clips the need off the syringe and the syringe can be tossed. Then when it filled with needles I handed it to my nurse during an appt who tossed in their haz mat disposal. It lasted about 18 months or so.
I am also diabetic, and I use a 2 litre soda bottle, write “sharps” and “biological waste” on the sides with sharpie and put all the syringes, etc. in there. Once full and sealed, it can be disposed of in regular garbage.
I sometimes vaccinate my foster kittens or give them sub-q fluids when they're sick. I bought a cheap half gallon sharps container that can be sealed and disposed of in the trash. It takes me a while to fill one, though.
Just wanted to add my 2cents worth! As a hoarder (currently level 4, was level 8 five years ago), yes it takes determination, perseverance, commitment, and ongoing therapy to deal with the issue. I’ve had people in to help clean four times, and even though I lapse, each time it’s not as bad as before. I am starting cleaning once again with assistance starting this Friday and I am actually not dreading it for a change! yeah me🎉🎉 Your comment about not letting repair people in is spot on - I have two leaky faucets and two ceiling lights that are in need of fixing and have been for almost 6 months - all because I couldn’t let strangers in to see the mess. I believe I will be in a position to have them repaired later next week (I am in a 1bedroom condo) and am looking forward to having good light in my hallway and kitchen once again, and no more running faucets! I truly believe your videos have helped me in this process almost as much as my therapy. Definitely I have been able to ask for help much more easily, and without as much shame, thanks to you, “They call me back spin kicking Johnny in Cincinnati!”
Congrats on being able to improve, no matter how difficult and rocky the road has been. You’re trying, you’re persevering. You’re making positive changes for yourself. Relapses are so, so normal for pretty much everything in life, and especially with disorders or disabilities. Random internet stranger here is super proud of you! 💖
@@Decodethefallenmoon Thank you so much for your kind thoughtful words and encouragement. I was having a bad evening and then I read your comment and it rekindled my courage to continue forward. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏽❤️❤️👊
I hope it makes you proud to know some person on the other side of a phone screen is out here reading this and rooting for you to stick with it though the hard times 🧡
I was a cleaner for a home health agency while I was going for my cna/hha certificate. I was also a container saver/ hoarder until one of my clients showed me what could happen. She had stacks of used, cleaned containers over our heads with a small path thru her house to get to other rooms. I gave my husband permission to discard of my collection, just don't let me see it. It worked.
Amen! So many of them were depressed and had some serious mental issues. However, getting the house clean and sterilized is the most important fact. Maybe they grew up with so little, they make up for it all grown up.
I always feel so much better about my house when I watch your videos. I find myself grateful that I’m healthy enough to keep up with my house and yard. God bless this couple.
I feel the same way, I have made several bottles of APC...keep a kitchen one, and both bathrooms.and have just a 900 sq ft cabin near Sedona...I watch Spin Kick Johnny, then clean one room, top to bottom. Inspired.
My siblings and I cleaned a hoarder's house (family members) several years ago. It a large house (4 BR, 3 Bath). We cleaned every square inch of the house except the ceilings, and we even cleaned some of that. We knew we were in for months of cleaning. The mice and roach infestation were horrible. Roaches were crawling everywhere. They would drop off the ceilings, walls, etc. onto us as we were cleaning. We made many loads to our local landfill of trash. And the homeowners were fighting us almost every step of the way. They had several dogs in the house, and the floors (mostly carpeted areas) were covered in poop and urine. We built a fenced in area and had to practically beg the homeowner to let us install a doggie door (because no one would let the dogs in/out). We had every large appliance in the house repaired in some way or another. The homeowner hired an exterminator after we got the house under control. Then we cleaned up dead roaches for many weeks. Then we re-washed every dish in the house for the umpteenth time. Luckily, we all live on the same land, so it was convenient to go there every day. So, 3-4 of us cleaned 6-8 hours 5 days a week for months. We turned the house into a home. I found that hoarders buy multiples of items because they can't find the last one they purchased, or it's items they really like. In this case just for an example, there was probably at least 100 bottles of nail polish (X approximately $8.00 per bottle). But then, on the flip side there was no toilet paper, light bulbs, kitchen towels, etc. I could go on and on. We repaired many holes in the walls, went through a mountain of unopened mail (the homeowner wasn't interested in helping), and washed probably 100 loads of clothes (we took truckloads to the laundry mat). We paid for almost everything, but we did collect coins from all over the house. My sister would take the coins home with her and wash them and roll them. There was hundreds of dollars' worth of coins.
@@k.goldstein5664 We were all retired by then except for one sibling who helped when possible. Did they appreciate it? Sort of, but my nephew and his many friends proceeded to basically destroy it again. Then a few years later, he met a girl (the one). He was too embarrassed to bring her to his house. So, with his hat in hand, he asked us to help again. We did. He helped us that time and promised it would never happen again. He kept his word. They've been married for several years and have two kids. They have a nice home, and the house we cleaned is now a normal functioning home.
My mother was a hoarder before we knew it was a disorder, and I realize now that I did all the wrong things while trying to ''help'' her. I deeply appreciate that you are bringing this to light and helping to educate people about the illness so others don't have to hurt their loved ones thinking they are doing the right thing.
@@allesasmart I am not sure I am reading your comment correctly. No child can tell their parent or guardian what to do, even as adults it just doesn’t work that way. Yes there are ways but it is so difficult it disrupts family dynamics and causes great distress that a child of the person may not know how to respond too. Therapy is an option, lets say that again, an OPTION, not something a child can put their parent into because their house is a hoarder house. Just the same as a person on the street can’t be told to get supporting help, if they don’t want it, that is that, done. The state is not going to come unless they fire department can not access key points, they don’t mandate a clean house.
My grandfather was a severe hoarder, to the point he purchased other buildings to contain his hoard since he'd already filled the home. I really appreciate your understanding of and empathy toward hoarders and your help to educate others about the disorder. As with many conditions, the shame around it often prevents people from seeking help. Great work!
God bless you and your work. I’m a speech therapist and want to thank you for sharing your diagnosis of autism. I work with young children with autism and their families. I like to share stories with the families about adults with autism. Parents need to see the successes and have hope with their little ones.Thank you!!!!
Besides the cleaning, you are a true artist: you have a rare eye on how to arrange objects to make it look pretty. When I realized this, I started to focus on this, and I find it inspiring. It's not just putting clean things back. It's feeling how to arrange them. Magic! You are an artist like no other here.
My step sister is a level4 hoarder. But she cleans out a trash bag of stuff a day That is pretty good for her and she is in therapy making strides. Her disposing of a trash is hard, but we are proud of her and encourage her. Thanks for these videos.
I have had so much horrific trauma in my life starting at 3 years old. I have been homess 6 time's. I dont think i was ever a typical hoarder but i went thru a time that if i didnt have 80 rolls of toilet paper i would truly freak out. Now im down to 6 packs of baby wipes. If an item isnt multifunctional it doest get into my home. Only thing on my counter is mt recipee box, my cookbook stand, one trivet for hot pans, salt, pepper and a pretty oil dispenser. Of course a soap dispencer and a sponge. I have lost so much and had to start over so many times. I have a strange detachment to stuff. I also have what you described in another video. I will give things to others . It gives me sooo much joy. But i struggle to get things for myself. I have an amazing adopted son who is my full time caregiver. He allows me to do what i can, and picks up the difference. We are a great team. My house is incredibly organized due to my ocd. And clean because my son cleans. We just started a wall photo gallery. I lost all my baby photo albums. And the rest got left behind. For christmas this year my sister gave me many photos. ❤ Anyway, im so glad i found your channell. And you make me belly laugh
I’m not a hoarder but I’m at a place that feels stuck and overwhelmed. When you don’t know where or how to start you feel like this is going to be permanent condition. I have been watching this channel over the past few days and I have a flicker of hope. Even if I do little by little one day I might actually have a HOME!
The other day I watched one of your videos and it flipped a switch in me, I’ve been decluttering, deep cleaning and organizing for days and it’s such a great feeling. Also thank you for being so kind and compassionate when you talk about the people whose houses you clean, you’re a rare kind of human!
Thanks for recommending your APC (All Purpose Cleaner) of 70% Isopropol Alcohol and a few drops of Dawn in a spray bottle. My white porcelain tile floor in the kitchen is looking clean and shiny! I will buy some Clean Freak to use before the APC on the really tough jobs. You're an inspiration!
I have a friend who doesn't accept she's a hoarder. She has rooms you can't open the doors to get in. Her ** living room ** has only one accessible chair to sit in. There's nowhere to sit in the kitchen and her bedroom is a bad dream, even her bed...she sleeps on just one spot on it. She's only in her late 40's has a job in mental health... yes I know! I've tried to help her, but she doesn't believe she has a problem as and I quote " all nice things " it's heartbreaking to see her go down to this level.
Thank you so much for taking the time to explain what’s really going on in these houses- that it’s not laziness or some moral failing… tv shows are bad about exploiting the people that they’re “helping “ and having zero empathy for their feelings… they literally just make it worse and perpetuate some ugly stereotypes. You always maintain the dignity of the residents and it really shows
I am so team Adrienne, she's a trooper getting into that with you! Pretty awesome having such a close family willing to work so hard together to help so many people. Humanity and empathy isn't dead. Right on.
I'm not really a hoarder yet, but my mom came over to my apartment today and helped me get a good 40% of my stuff out of here, I have struggled with getting over that mental block keeping me from getting rid of stuff I really don't need. I worry how I'll manage alone one day, but for now I have someone willing to help if I'm over my head. And I am forever grateful for her. I have space now, and every room is clean, I can breath and take my time going over the rest to see what else I can throw out or possibly donate.
Ask yourself exactly when you started hoarding. Then ask yourself what was going on during that time in your life. Why did you need to save everything back then? When you honestly answer that question, you will have the answer. Then, realize that you are no longer in that situation and no longer need to save those things anymore. This is a different part of your life journey. You can choose to change anything you want to change. This has worked for many clients over my career. Mental health counselor here.
I like waching and enjoy your commentary, EXCEPT the way you refer to your children. ie: "she is a piece of crap". One oher hing. The homeowner can ge rid of diabeic needles by putting them in an empty laundry detergent bottle. When it is full she can put he cap on and toss it. Some hospials, pharmacies, etc will dispose of them for you.
I am the same exact way. My house isn’t bad at but I just never can’find the energy to really organize it and keep it in a clean order. I was a drug addict and I’ve been sober for almost 7 years but I just never regained that drive back for cleaning idk why
I'm a former hoarder. I don't even know that elderly couple, but when I heard about their home and health situations, I cried for them. I'm partially disabled, too, so I can relate to that, too. This just made me so sad! I hope that elderly couple is ok now.
You are amazing. The show Hoarders is exploitive and salacious. Our society is dismissive and judgmental to the point of dehumanizing those who suffer with this disorder. You are one of the most compassionate individuals I know of. You are pragmatic in the way you clean, but you never for an instant vilify the owners of the homes. I am so grateful you are in this world.
I am so glad you explained about the adult protective services because I was upset and felt deep sympathy for the multiple injuries and illnesses the couple have. A clean environment would allow for home visiting nurse services and I want for them to be able to have that. Thank you for helping them.
I really like your empathy toward the hoarders. I come from a family of hoarders. I can so relate to your message. It is a daily struggle to keep up things and throw away things we don’t need
I started helping my friend on her house. When she asked for help and I offered, I didn’t know it was a level 9 hoarding house. I watch your channel and this one in particular has helped me to redirect. I was getting overwhelmed. She has been throwing things away, as you stated in the video, that’s a huge help. 6 people and 5 dogs buried under 8 years of depression. Doing the right thing and helping them get unburied is what I can do. A beginning point that they could not find on their own. Thanks for encouraging me to continue on. It’s just me, trying to help them reclaim their house. Roach infestation and all. E have been making the Count on Sesame Street sound for every bag of trash we get rid of. Encouraging somehow. Keep on with the good work.
the comparison metaphor between drug use and hoarding is apt that harm reduction applies to both. You're helping making these people's living environments safer, giving them a place to maybe feel ready to work on healing at their own pace, and even if they never feel ready you gave them however long of a clean environment and that time matters.
Thankyou for your hard work in helping people who can no longer help themselves and for understanding, not judging, them. You are an inspiration and appreciated.
I am an autistic person who has struggled with OCD/hoarding since childhood. Your method is very relatable and satisfying to watch, and your explanation of the disorder was spot on. I'm able to manage my hoarding better than most as I occasionally get the urge to purge and become an extreme minimalist. The urge putters out before I reach minimalism, but I do get close to 'normal'.
You are AMAZING!! I am a recovering level 9. I'm in tears watching this video. I want to praise you and your daughter for doing what your doing. It's a tough job. Mentally and physically. Your sense of humor breaks through at the perfect time. My home was just like this one.... Thankfully I found Jesus and He held my hand and opened doors for me to have my home back. You Sir are a blessing . I can't put into words how your methods are perfect. You are not a threat to someone in this mental state. You create a very trusting environment yet a firm hand in reality. I love that you praise any kind of progress made by the home owner. I pray that anyone with loved ones in this condition will open their minds and their hearts and watch and learn from you. I want you to know your hard work truly can save lives . May God's blessings be upon you. You are a great Dad and a wonderful human being ❤
Jesus came to set the captive free and to set at liberty them that are bound Luke 4 v 18. Hoarding is a type of bondage and Jesus is the chain breaker ~ hallelujah
I have big respect for a person (you) doing this cleaning and helping others in your work without having to resort to having or seeing drama and episodes where people are storming off, angry or "hysterical". Enough! Doing what you do is vital! Let the families help the hoarder via obtaining their therapy, and get further cleaning help for the hoarder(s) in question. It does no one any good airing their own familial 'dysfunctions' on a video, which other channels do so readily!
Those darned small appliances. We get suckered into them for “convenience”,then they take over precious room in kitchens, need to be cleaned and rarely get used etc. (At least in my humble opinion.) Great job on this hoard. Can’t believe how you worked through this situation and cleaned so thoroughly. 👏WOW.
I greatly appreciate that you have an understanding into the cause and symptoms of hoarding, which also is very touching. Thank you so much for the kind things you do for the sufferers! Thanks also for your humor and the sounds of working and speaking during the Timelapse-your squeaky voices are hilarious!
Simply amazing work by you and your daughter. I can only imagine the weight being lifted off the homeowner’s shoulders to see a light through all of this darkness they have been surrounded by. You are an incredibly generous person to do what you do. Thank you sir!
Bless you both for helping this poor couple. FYI-There is a program in Michigan that puts a helper in houses for seniors and the disabled that receive Medicaid. I'm working in a hoarder situation now, and can't tell you how much your videos have helped me understand the client and how to go about helping them. Wish I could work as fast as your videos!
We have that here where I am in California, too. It's called In-Home Supportive Services and the counties pay for people to come in and help disabled or blind seniors with household tasks, personal care, shopping, and transportation to medical appointments.
Peter and I close down our small business every year between Christmas and New Year's. This year we're not going anywhere, so I'm watching hoarder shows to psych myself up for decluttering our place. We're not terrible hoarders, but we had to very quickly move into a small space a couple of years ago, so that we have stuff stacked in boxes all over the place. Some of it is just going to have to go. One other thing I've really started to appreciate after watching these shows is our non-shedding dog. She does track leaves and fir needles into the house, but at least we don't have wads of fur all over. Thank you for what you do.
What a gentle, compassionate gem of a person you (and your family) are. I wish there were more of you in the world. It must be incredibly rewarding work on many levels. Also, sense of humour is spot on 😄
Thank you from my whole heart, Mack. First, for helping these folks. And second, for describing and explaining so brilliantly the mind-set of a hoarder. You described me to a T. Anxiety, depression, loss, physical injuries, embarrassment, physical & emotional abuse, and on & on. I am in therapy, but it is very slow-going . I’m at a loss, but I’m not giving up.
@@melovesmemusic21 Yes! He is the BEST. I laugh and cry during pretty much every one of his videos because they are so heartwarming and funny. Best of luck and love to you. ♥️
Spin kick Johnny you are amazing! I wish I had someone like you . Since moving to a smaller home, with no storage, I am getting overwhelmed. Slowly, but surely my spare bedroom is becoming a junk room. Everywhere is becoming a mess, and the worst it gets the more I seem to shut down. Watching your videos get me going a bit. When I see the finished homes , it reminds me that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you ❤.
@@TheMeleenUs too, you are not alone. He helps others and at the same time helps us all too. He shows us how and it's also possible even in the overwhelm. We are so thankful and inspired, we are not as fast as he is, but his techniques along with Barbies, we are getting there little by little. We've had alot going on the past years. We are standing in the aftermath and are reclaiming our rooms. We are so inspired too. God bless you... 🙏 ❤
You, Aurikatarina, and Barbie need to come together and do a really huge hoarder project that one of you alone could not tackle. That would make for a long and entertaining video!
You're their miracle worker. I just saw your channel on a reel and came over. I subscribed because of the empathy and compassion you're demonstrating while also educating. ❤
Thank you for explaining the hoarding reaction when somebody basically assault-cleans and wants to rip everything apart. Many hoarders hoard because of trauma and because they sometimes were assaulted. Stuff often means safety and control. Stuff, opposite to people and life, is there and trustworthy. And buying it, unfortunately, causes a bit of short-term comfort. The overabundance of cleaning supplies means they really want to clean but just can't. That's a really painful part of the condition.
I think it’s REALLY important to understand that this house did not become this way overnight. And once you clean it up, it will not return to the previous condition overnight. I think you did a really, really great job of explaining how one small thing, then another small thing, then another and another multiply to get a house to this point. The tough thing here is going to be the difference between how the husband and wife handle the clean up. In fact, I would not be surprised to hear that the husband returned from work to pick items back out of the dumpster. Hopefully, they will both be able to put the health and safety of each other over the hoard. And sadly, sometimes the threat of APS intervention is the ultimatum that is needed to motivate high level hoarders to allow help with a clean up. Now on a different note, I am an ICU nurse…we are pretty tolerant and handle THE GROSSEST OF GROSS and then go out to dinner after our shifts. But the ONE THING that will have even the baddest of RN’s in a bunny suit faster than a beat of VFib is bedbugs!!!! Can’t wash those off in the shower and those little shits are sneaky. Please take precautions!!! I’d also like to add -mainly for the urban and non-US viewers - that I’m also from the rural Midwest. My parents both passed away in the past couple of years and we have been working on cleaning up their small farm. While I would not classify my folks as hoarders (other than jokingly) they were both raised in rural areas and on farms. And while neither were old enough to have experienced the depression, they were raised by folks who did. They were also from a generation of people who repaired equipment and mended clothing and saved old bent nails to straighten out for future projects. The items they purchased were investments to last a lifetime. My folks both struggled with todays ‘throwaway’ society. A great example is my moms sewing machines…all metal parts that can be replaced or repaired. My sewing machine: 99% plastic or soft bendable metal, sold to be thrown away instead of repaired. So as we’re cleaning out barns and buildings and attics, I’m kind of fascinated by the materials I’m finding. Some things I’ve had to take to other old farmers to identify. I’d also like to mention that rural homes in the Midwest are very prone mice infestation. MMC has explained this in previous videos…mice live in the surrounding cornfields. When the corn is harvested and they still need to eat (and stay warm), they head to the houses. It’s a common pest to battle in this part of the world.
@@sazennonumber ‘barn’ cats are super common! And while my dad wasn’t a big fan of snakes, he usually wasn’t quick to run them off. They are great at controlling mice, too! (We only have two venomous species of snake common to the area, and one is pretty rare, the other most often found in water). Most, while icky (to me, anyway) are completely harmless to humans or pets.
Im level 3 to 4..this REALLY helped me to be aware..thank you 😢🙏 My husband suicided a few yrs back,b4 then my house was well maintained and not a bloody biohazard..Now..omfg..i need therapy and a cleaning fairy. But since watching ur vids..its REALLY helped me realise why i got to where i have xx sarah
I just realized that some of the traits that makes you so good at this are empathy and patience. Most people get really frustrated with hoarders because they won't just get rid of useless stuff. But, as you keep telling us, that does not help them. You know what will. You're doing great work.
Way to be a hard worker Adrienne- especially despite being elbowed, kneed and drop kicked. What a tough gal! 😂 The kitchen is totally transformed. Thanks for being so compassionate toward this family! Subscribed!
I appreciate you deep cleans and the assistance to others. As a leader and genuine caring soul you and your helper(s) are saints to assist others I need. Your acknowledgment of mental health counseling is to be commended.
All the best from Australia to this couple that let you two in to clean ❤ I have an inspection tomorrow and your videos have helped me to not only clean (ie stainless steel sinks), but also feel more motivated to get rid of stuff I no longer need anymore. I’m not a hoarder, but I’m an a single mum of two boys and stuff sure does accumulate, especially as they grow! Getting rid of smaller clothes and old toys makes such a huge difference to the space in our house and your videos have inspired me😊
Your video helped motivate me to clean an area that has needed cleaning for a while now. I love the idea of thinking of things in small bits rather than the whole, and also the idea of just move one thing, just get started...both of those ideas helped me so much. I went into the area that was in my opinion, overrun with stuff, and did small piece by small piece and within an hour and 1/2 or so (I have severely bad back so I need to take many sitting breaks to let my back relax in between work periods) the area was much more tidy and organized. I didn't get it completely done but oh my goodness...it was changed in a huge way. I even thing my boys were impressed. So, thank you so much for giving me that idea, and thank you for the motivation to just move one thing, just get started. I will forever think that way now with house tasks that seem to be so huge that it paralyzes me and prevents me from even starting...I now think I can actually do this. Thanks so much.
When you first started talking about these two I thought they were a very old couple, it broke my heart even more finding out they are still very young, with a long life in front of them but at a standstill because of this hell they live in, to be completely honest, you might have saved their lives by doing this, you are an angel, I pray for their recovery
My mum was/is a hoarder. We grew up with her blaming us for the mess, and even once everyone was moved out, she still blamed us kids, even though it got worse. Your understanding that it all comes down to the individual and their readiness is spot on. I tried everything to help, we could spend hours going through things carefully but it always just ended up piled in a different spot because she wasn't willing to let go. We had 20 yr old newspapers from before I was born. I tried telling her that if she hadn't heard the news yet, that it wasn't that inportant, but then came other excuses: recipes, advice columns, crosswords, you name it. We eventually settled into an uncomfortable arrangement where she would "hand me down" stuff and I would take care of disposing of it. She hated me, knowing I was getting rid of it, but somehow, that helped her to let go. Not the healthiest, but she didn't do well in therapy. I also appreciate that you tell all the folks saying trash it to get stuffed. Your understanding that it is complex and that the people suffering from the disorder find security in their hoards is a lesson to all. We cannot simply rip away their security blanket, they need to be able to develop the feelings of safety and self-reliance they lack and which would only be worsened by losing all their security all at once. Thank you and your amazing little Jr. Filthbags for all you do 😉🙏
I know this is very late, but whoever she gets the needles from, probably a pharmacy, can likely take those needles back. Her physician, if she is willing to talk with them about environmental concerns and self-care concerns, can probably help with a care management, social worker, or similar referral. I hope this lady is taking good care of herself. You have a wonderful spirit to be going after this kind of need the way you do with such compassion and good humor, never mocking or belittling, but making opportunities for lighthearted laughter amid the wonderful advice bombs and mountainous tasks. I respect what you and your family are doing here. It's inspiring!
I found it fascinating that while the rest of the kitchen was a hot mess, the plants were clearly well tended. Credit to them for taking the first step
As someone who has battled with depression, anxiety, and loss I know how easy it is for a depression nest to get out of hand. I had to have ppl come in 3 times to help with the mess. I finally got rid of all my dishes and silverware and started using disposable products. I understand that is a huge amount of waste but it was either that or begin the cycle again. You are right about ppl not getting ppl in to repair items in the house b/c I did that too. I have just recently moved out of that apt b/c the landlord wanted to renovate. I now begin the quest for a new place to live, striving to never let my home get that way again. I won't be afraid to ask for help if it is too much. Thank you for the way you help people. It does me a tremendous difference.
That kitchen looks so bright and cheerful with the floor and countertops clean. I hope the lady can slowly get rid of some of her stuff, the kitchen would look even better. You and Adrian did a great job.
I have a family member who is (rough estimate) level 6 hoarder, not the worst, but she's at a point in her life where she believes she can't change. I've been showing her your videos, and it gets her excited to start letting things go. With the hoarders tv show, she always said that the only way they could get the homes so much better was thousands of dollars and a team of 12 cleaners, but seeing the transformations you give people gave her a little kick in the butt that it is possible with just us. It's slow going, but she's been at it for almost 3 months now, and she's been able to get rid of all the actual garbage and about 15-20% of the useless junk (with her admitting that it's useless and needs to go). Her goal is to have her first floor finished by Christmas, fingers crossed we can help her achieve it (you with your fantastic videos, and me with some time and elbow grease as needed).
I also love Auriikatarina's videos. Her "oven cleaner + transparent film over night" tip is gold.
Bless you for making yourself available to her. Prayers for a Very Merry Christmas.
@@superXfairXgirl Thanks for the Auriikatarina referral. Her videos look very interesting.
She should be proud of herself for taking this on - and you are so lovely for helping :)
Please tell your family member we are all routing for them! The hard part is asking and allowing people to help. It won't be easy but give yourself grace and take one box at a time. You can do it! ❤
There are people who pretend to know what depression is like, and then there’s this guy. The way you explained it is spot on and that is so appreciated. Most people can’t wrap their minds around the idea of mentally not being able to clean. It isn’t laziness. Sometimes we just can’t.
Amen... 🙏 ❤
Spot on, friend!
Yes! Especially as it gets more and more unmanageable.
I plan to send this video to a friend because he explained it so much better than I ever could even though I live with PTSD, depression and anxiety disorder.
if you have enough energy to create the mess you have enough energy to clean it… if you just can’t clean you also just can’t get up and make the mess in the beginning
BTW. After years of therapy for my hoarding, I have NOTHING on my countertops anymore. I have clutter blindness. I am also NOT allowed to bring anything else into the home. I don't buy decor, magazines, books, DVDs, candles, or anything that will clutter my home. I do buy cleaner and paper towels lol. My home may look boring, but it is clean and easy to clean. P.S. I also gave away all my magnets on the fridge. One less thing to buy when traveling.
Excellent post! Clutter is contagious. It is ok for everything to be very streamlined. I am cheering you on 😊
@@marysiegel7974 Thank You very much.
Yes! The magnets on the fridge can become clutter. My SIL has a fridge full of them. Her fridge, pantry, cupboards, sheds, games cupboard and office are also packed full 🧐
Thank you. I know I need professional help to sustain getting to where you have gotten. I must be frugal. Any suggestions? I am blessed having a good dear friend trying to help me with the cleaning. 😢
So basically, the first thing I had to deal with was the trauma. Then we address the compulsive spending. The OCD therapist said that it is genetic, so I do get that from both my parents. Every item that I buy has to be for a use in the home. If it is a want and not a need then I have to wait and think about the purchase. @@juliherron8991
my husband is in the airforce. His idea of cleaning involves tracing the edges of the inside of drawers with a Qtip and metho, , rubbing brass handles with brasso and a toothbrush, soaking tea towels in bleach and lavender oil, then ironing. Im going to show him this and watch him pass out.
lol 😂
Pass out? do you mean, have a stroke? 😂😂😂😂
Bleach and lavender oil holy fekk
he must go through tea towels fairly regularly, bleach weakens the fibres
😂😂😂 Men, your husband is perfection. My dad and brother are filthy I wish I knew what it was like to leave with a cleanly male human
I'm a hoarder. I have dug out my old house, sold it, and moved and am actively combating my disease, weekly cleaning and so far, have kept my house reasonably clean for 2 years. I'm also a registered nurse, retired, and I understand what causes hoarding. You gave one of the best and most compassionate explanations for hoarding I've heard. I really like that you have expressed the need for therapy to break the cycle. It is really essential! Thank you for helping these folk and being so compassionate. This is so hard to let someone come in and clean and help. I let them haul away 3 small dumpsters and still should have let more go. Even knowing what was wrong. We can be our own worst enemies sometimes.
You are on your way and it feels so liberating and great. The more stuff you have, the harder to clean your space. And then the mental and physical health. No stuff is worth it. Happy for you!!
Hoarding is often a symptom of trauma, especially trauma we try to hide. I pray for your healing, in Jesus name, from any trauma wounds preventing you from letting go. It's ok to let go....you are enough and Jesus loves you. ❤ there is NO sin that he won't forgive.
Thanks for sharing
My problems started after my son died in a car accident. It will be 20 yrs soon, and it's so hard to let go because it's the brain saying it's still good.
It's a process of telling yourself it's OK and in the past when I cleaned for days.... wow! It is truly liberating to purge your home and your thoughts.
When you are looking at cutter day in and day out... Sadly, that is a mirror image of your thoughts. Only cleaning will ease your thoughts and, more importantly.... your heart. ❤
@@kathleenbrown1395 sorry for your loss, May he rest in peace
After years of amphetamine abuse, drinking everyday, trash hoarding and having my house look like this.... after a year off speed I have become obsessed with cleaning and working on my house. I love watching these videos while cleaning at night. Its become super therapeutic. Love it.
A little surprising that the meth didn’t make you clean more. Happy for you getting better
I just found your channel and love it!
My mom hoards, and it has gotten worse since her husband died. All of us kids were really focused on getting her to throw things away which of course, just made her more anxious. Every time I went home I got anxious too, because it was just so overwhelming.
The last time I went, I just decided to vacuum, sweep, and clean up the yard of branches and debris. I trimmed bushes and bought some cheap solar lights to light up her mailbox and pathway to the house. She was so delighted.
She started asking me to help her with some stuff inside. She asked me to help her reorganize two bedrooms. Just some little things, They looked so much better when we were done and she was very happy with it. I think knowing that I wasn't going to try and make her throw things away made her more open to talking about things. She even showed me a dead mouse on a glue trap behind the microwave and asked me to get rid of it. It was mummified.
Since then she has been getting rid of some things on her own. Anything she asks me if I want, instead of saying,"I don't need that junk, you should just throw it away." I thank her profusely and take it. If I don't want it, I just drop it off at Goodwill.
At any rate, watching this really inspired me and next time I go I will clean the cabinets!
I just wanted to say, you are a very caring person. I’m in tears after reading this ❤
Wow that’s exactly the best way to do it you are amazing ❤
Well done you and your mum 😊
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Her helping throw things away is such a huge step for healing. It solidifies that she can do this. She can do hard things. That she can heal.
This is the only cleaning channel, where my no. 1 reason for coming back is not the cleaning or even the transformations. It's the smack talking and the passion for helping others without making it a big deal of it or trying to make others see you as an angelic saviour. Stupid though, that we still see you like that. If there where more people like you around this world it would be a better place. Lots of love from germany 😘
I'm a hoarder and have decided that enough is enough. I want a house I love and can entertain and fill with memories. Found this video and your channel is spurring me on to fix my house and my life. Thank you ❤
Your life will be transformed. I wish you the best of luck
Wow! Im so proud of you!. Dont try to be a 10 at cleaning right away. baby steps! And appreciate yourself for each of those baby steps!!
keep going.... little by little.
Bag by bag - You can do it ❤
take it slow and steady! you are doing something that takes incredible strength!! Keep your mental wellbeing in mind, and please never be afraid to reach out for help! Even if its just someone to be there with you for support.
When you spoke of the piles of waste and pads. I immediately knew the smell. Amonia. It's something you'll never forget. I worked with the elderly for years, and when urine sits, it turns into something that could burn your nasal membrane. It's sad she went through this, and im glad you helped her. It takes a strong person to deal with something like that. God bless you. 🙏❤️😮
THANK YOU for programming the clock on the microwave ❤ That shows that extra level of care that you have for those struggling with this horrible disorder!
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Its a 'two edged sword' really. While it is great to care, and do those little extra things, you are creating a point of disconnect also.
@@snakezdewiggle6084 woah, really? Can you elaborate? I just want to make sure that when I help people struggling with this issue that I don't hurt them, even by accident.
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I have no significant education or training this matter. The comment is based on observation and my own thought processes.
Consider this scenario.
A mother spends 18yrs picking up after her child, she cleans all the messes, packs away the toys, every day. Lovingly, the mother wants only the best for her child. At 18yrs the child has never learned to do for himself.
So, setting the clock on the microwave oven.
Do you save the owner the few minutes it takes to set it, or leave the owner to work it out for themselves.
Here is the disconnect. "ah, I'll get it next time.", "not now, my hands are full.", "yeah, later."
Personally, I would pull the owner aside and say, "I wil read out the instructions, while you follow by pressing the buttons yourself.".
Even tho its a small act, the owner has now participated in the clean up, and you have lovingly educated the owner.
Well done and handshakes all round.😆
This just one opinion.
@timestax
How selfish of you.
It's very sad that you don't understand compassion and empathy. It is very obvious that you have never given of yourself to others.
I wish you prosperous journeys in this New Year.
Going back and reading my comment it was made to you by mistake. It should have been addressed to catherinedufresne3543
I really admire how even with the amount of work you have to put in to clean these houses you take so much care to make it as pleasant visually as you can. I can only imagine how grateful the homeowners are ❤
Looks so very nice! 👍👍
Adrian what a fantastic dishwasher you are. ☺️
Oh look!
More dishes 😉
Собствениците после със сигурност съжаляват,че боклуците и ненужните им вещи са изхвърлени 😂 това е болест, но и голям непоправим мързел. Едно е да трупаш старателно ненужни вещи а съвссем друго е да потънеш в мърсотия и да не чистиш нищо😮
Your empathy and understanding of the hoarding disorder humbles me. You are a wonderful man. Thank you for the good work you and your team do.
AMEN ❣️
You’re very kind and understanding but more than that - you take action. 🎉
I'm not a hoarder but I am disabled.... My family has lived in the same place for over 40 yrs and I can't clean like I want because there is just way to much for me... All the rooms here are supposed to be white, but because of family smoking for so long the walls and ceilings are now yellow.... I wish I had someone like y'all that could help me... What you are doing for this disabled couple is a God cent, and all my prayers go out to you....
I really appreciate how respectful your cleaning style is - I've seen people act like they forgot this is someone's home, and you never seem to do that.
I'm not a hoarder. I don't think my home is even particularly dirty, especially compared to something like this situation. But it easily gets overwhelming for me to confront cleaning it all. Seeing the two of you work through this space methodically and improve it so much is really inspiring me that I can do it too!
That is exactly why I am glued to the outcome too!!!
👍 *U can do it!* 🙏
Same! Good luck!
If it's in your budget, you could consider hiring someone to do a weekly or biweekly clean. I'm always motivated to tidy up before the cleaner arrives so they can do a better job 😂
@@tarazieminek1947 I do the same thing!🤣
Not only do you arrange the treasures nicely, you reset the clocks on all the appliances. You sir, are a blessing to everyone you help. God bless your socks, off! 😊
Only real ones calibrate da clocks.
I love your casual no-nonsense attitude towards your cleaning projects and how you do them with incredible kindness and understanding. You know that what you're doing isn't going to be a permanent fix but it's still a HUGE help for the people that you do this for. Sometimes all they need is that little kick and yeah it might get bad again but at least you're giving them the clean slate to try. I also love the way you casually but lovingly roast the shit out of your kids lmao
My sister was a level 9 I realize now. She had a stroke, and that was what I found. There was trash, cat waste, and food waste at least shoulder deep. We had to rent U-Haul truck that we filled 3 times to take to the dump. I didn't realize the things you talk about, so when we got her home and left, she started right back. I don't know how you did it. We actually damaged our backs from all we did. You are amazing.
Noticed, for me, it isn't only about watching the cleaning process. Living with severe childhood trauma, on top of being autistic as well, it's felt almost inevitable for me to get fired from locations. Places I rather liked, places I came in and worked my ass off at, places where nothing I did ever seemed to be good enough. Coming to your channel helps to show me that my skills have a beneficial use somewhere. That the almost servitude style expectations on my childhood, alongside my innate autistic traits, can be applied to something sustainable. There's days I'll skitter over here, just so I can get a hefty reminder that I'm not doomed to poverty and homelessness. I'm scared for my future. Thank you for giving me reasons to be less scared.
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Just quietly - the autistic people I have met have ALL had a superpower, and it is extraordinary! Hope you can harness yours! 🌟
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My ideal society is where people are really helped out to have a home, a job they suit, and social connections. The attitude that all people can easily get a job, home and friends is not helpful. Some people find it so hard.
@@steggopotamus Thank you for caring about my situation and offering advice! I've found somewhere for the time being, we'll see what happens.
The hoarding shows demoralize people even more and your compassion and understanding of mental health is wonderfully refreshing and appreciated ✌️❤️🐿️
In a way they do! I don't like when they ask whee do you go to the bathroom. And are so eager to show inside the toilet!
they treat hoarders like some kind of exhibition, something to warn others about rather than a person who needs help.
Yes, I enjoy watching house transformations but I had to block the TV program because it's awful. It encourages the viewers to be judgmental and cruel.
They aren’t mean. The point is trying very calmly to get them to actually SEE what hoarding does. They ignore actual trash and rotting food, and piling up your bathroom with poop and urine. These people are so deep into their disorder, that they try to defend their lifestyle tooth and nail. Hoarders also helps others, showing other hoarders that they’re not alone, and help is available through therapists, and finding out where this started so they can work through it. It also helps people get motivated to clean because they don’t want to end up in that situation.
@@XLindsLuvsPinkX If they wanted to do that, they wouldn't do it on TV.
I’m an Air Force brat. I have moved 23 times.i really didn’t think I was a keeper of things. Then last year, my health has forced me to sell my home and downsize. I was SHOCKED at what I had kept. With help from friends, 18 bags of clothes, towels and bedding were donated. 33 clear bins are packed and labeled, things I absolutely want to keep. My realtor saw it before and after and asked me to speak to his wife lol.
I hope after all your hard work, this couple can live somewhat clutter free.
@midwestmagiccleaning By watching your channel a couple of months, I've turned my hoard from a level 7 to a level 2. I was a hoarder stage 4, now I'm stage 2. I've even learned myself to appriciate putting stuff away more than leaving it everywhere. I am not cured from my hoarding, but you helped me put myself in a better place mentally and clutterwise. Thank you for having this channel.
Probably the first time I have ever openly admitted this. I live in a hoarded house. We have had losses on both sides. My partner lost their mother and I lost my father and then step father. Then our garbage service got complicated. Then the trash built up and then stuff from my partners moms house and stuff from my dads arrived. It got worse and worse. Every day I want to clean it up and every day I dont. I have medical problems and I am very overweight.
Some time soon we will get a dumpster. This will break the cycle. I am in therapy and honestly starting to improve a lot.
Can you do just one trash bag full to throw out each day?
Good going to therapy and starting. Small steps everyday. Pick one tiny spot like a drawer or the surface of an end table and don't do anything else till it's just the way you want. Then you can cheer!
God bless you. Im cheering for you!🎉
Another element I feel is forgiving yourself. I’ve come down so hard on myself in the past that I just couldn’t move let alone clean.
Just a quick note of encouragement...you CAN do it! I'm in a place of mess from just coming out of a deep depression - I'm not a hoarder, just have let cleaning and organizing go for a long time - but I'm coming out of it now and am overwhelmed with what I need to do to get my home back in shape. I'm making a plan now, and am planning to get started later this week. I wish you the best of luck, and just know, a stranger from the internet believes in you! ❤
how's it going man?
In a very small percentage of the hoarding personalities, sometimes cleaning it up, like you just did, it is a relief for them and they can see a light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes just giving them an idea of what could be is enough to spur them on. You did a fabulous job. Cudos to you and your daughter. ❤
It is like a little kickstart. A little spark for the sparkplug in their brains to show hope!!
@@melodygelpi9491Definitely, for some people, this is the beginning of an entirely new life !
Thanks for the tip about using toilet bowl cleaner to clean the kitchen sink. It cracks me up how, the prouder you are of your daughter, the more you talk smack about her. You and Adrienne are both awe-inspiring. Thank you both for how you are helping people.
I'm currently fighting to keep my home clean and tidy, I am a horder as is my mother, it is the most heart wrenching, painful thing to clean up years of memories, I keep myself sane by reminding myself my memory is solid and I don't need a bracelet from 9 years ago to remind me or a pizza box from last week. It's hard but I refuse to pass away and leave that for someone else to clean.
At 7:47, where you pick up the hard red laundry detergent bottle,those are considered to be legal “Sharps” containers for insulin needles. Put duct tape around the cap(or opening if the cap is gone) and write “DO NOT RECYCLE” on the bottle with a permanent ink sharpie. ( I took care of both of my parents for 24 years,both diabetics and that’s what the Refuse Authority told me.)
True!
Before using an insulin pump, I used a needle clipper for syringes. It clips the need off the syringe and the syringe can be tossed. Then when it filled with needles I handed it to my nurse during an appt who tossed in their haz mat disposal. It lasted about 18 months or so.
I am also diabetic, and I use a 2 litre soda bottle, write “sharps” and “biological waste” on the sides with sharpie and put all the syringes, etc. in there. Once full and sealed, it can be disposed of in regular garbage.
I sometimes vaccinate my foster kittens or give them sub-q fluids when they're sick. I bought a cheap half gallon sharps container that can be sealed and disposed of in the trash. It takes me a while to fill one, though.
As a retired pharmacist, I approve of this comment 😊
Just wanted to add my 2cents worth! As a hoarder (currently level 4, was level 8 five years ago), yes it takes determination, perseverance, commitment, and ongoing therapy to deal with the issue. I’ve had people in to help clean four times, and even though I lapse, each time it’s not as bad as before. I am starting cleaning once again with assistance starting this Friday and I am actually not dreading it for a change! yeah me🎉🎉
Your comment about not letting repair people in is spot on - I have two leaky faucets and two ceiling lights that are in need of fixing and have been for almost 6 months - all because I couldn’t let strangers in to see the mess. I believe I will be in a position to have them repaired later next week (I am in a 1bedroom condo) and am looking forward to having good light in my hallway and kitchen once again, and no more running faucets!
I truly believe your videos have helped me in this process almost as much as my therapy. Definitely I have been able to ask for help much more easily, and without as much shame, thanks to you, “They call me back spin kicking Johnny in Cincinnati!”
Congrats on being able to improve, no matter how difficult and rocky the road has been. You’re trying, you’re persevering. You’re making positive changes for yourself. Relapses are so, so normal for pretty much everything in life, and especially with disorders or disabilities. Random internet stranger here is super proud of you! 💖
@@Decodethefallenmoon Thank you so much for your kind thoughtful words and encouragement. I was having a bad evening and then I read your comment and it rekindled my courage to continue forward. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏽❤️❤️👊
Your comment was so thoughtful and so helpful❤❤ I hope things continue on the up and up for you.
I hope it makes you proud to know some person on the other side of a phone screen is out here reading this and rooting for you to stick with it though the hard times 🧡
You, sir, are a legend! Finally, someone who knows what they're talking about, has empathy, and a beautiful generous soul! Love you !
I was a cleaner for a home health agency while I was going for my cna/hha certificate. I was also a container saver/ hoarder until one of my clients showed me what could happen. She had stacks of used, cleaned containers over our heads with a small path thru her house to get to other rooms.
I gave my husband permission to discard of my collection, just don't let me see it. It worked.
Understanding WHY someone hoards is KEY. Thank you for never being judgmental!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Amen! So many of them were depressed and had some serious mental issues. However, getting the house clean and sterilized is the most important fact. Maybe they grew up with so little, they make up for it all grown up.
I always feel so much better about my house when I watch your videos. I find myself grateful that I’m healthy enough to keep up with my house and yard. God bless this couple.
Absolutely the correct sentiment 🙏
Remember, your life can be changed in a minute ! 🤔
I feel better in that I have hope for even the worst spots of my house. He gives great tips for overcoming the overwhelm.
I feel the same way, I have made several bottles of APC...keep a kitchen one, and both bathrooms.and have just a 900 sq ft cabin near Sedona...I watch Spin Kick Johnny, then clean one room, top to bottom. Inspired.
@@pattimartin7250 Loving the apc too. It's truely a game changer. Good idea having a few bottles where you use them the most. tks
My siblings and I cleaned a hoarder's house (family members) several years ago. It a large house (4 BR, 3 Bath). We cleaned every square inch of the house except the ceilings, and we even cleaned some of that. We knew we were in for months of cleaning. The mice and roach infestation were horrible. Roaches were crawling everywhere. They would drop off the ceilings, walls, etc. onto us as we were cleaning. We made many loads to our local landfill of trash. And the homeowners were fighting us almost every step of the way. They had several dogs in the house, and the floors (mostly carpeted areas) were covered in poop and urine. We built a fenced in area and had to practically beg the homeowner to let us install a doggie door (because no one would let the dogs in/out). We had every large appliance in the house repaired in some way or another. The homeowner hired an exterminator after we got the house under control. Then we cleaned up dead roaches for many weeks. Then we re-washed every dish in the house for the umpteenth time. Luckily, we all live on the same land, so it was convenient to go there every day. So, 3-4 of us cleaned 6-8 hours 5 days a week for months. We turned the house into a home. I found that hoarders buy multiples of items because they can't find the last one they purchased, or it's items they really like. In this case just for an example, there was probably at least 100 bottles of nail polish (X approximately $8.00 per bottle). But then, on the flip side there was no toilet paper, light bulbs, kitchen towels, etc. I could go on and on. We repaired many holes in the walls, went through a mountain of unopened mail (the homeowner wasn't interested in helping), and washed probably 100 loads of clothes (we took truckloads to the laundry mat). We paid for almost everything, but we did collect coins from all over the house. My sister would take the coins home with her and wash them and roll them. There was hundreds of dollars' worth of coins.
Jesus. I can handle alot but roaches gross me out.
@@spikesgirl9371 It was horrible!
Wow! Did any of you have jobs or a life of your own? That’s really nice of you to do that for them. I hope they appreciated what you did.
@@k.goldstein5664 We were all retired by then except for one sibling who helped when possible. Did they appreciate it? Sort of, but my nephew and his many friends proceeded to basically destroy it again. Then a few years later, he met a girl (the one). He was too embarrassed to bring her to his house. So, with his hat in hand, he asked us to help again. We did. He helped us that time and promised it would never happen again. He kept his word. They've been married for several years and have two kids. They have a nice home, and the house we cleaned is now a normal functioning home.
Your daughter wearing a "Best Grampa Ever" shirt tells me the sense of humor is hereditary
Thanks to Mmc I successfully helped a stranger to 13 hrs straight of my time to clean just the kitchen It’s taken a week to recover😂Hats off to you 🎉
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My mother was a hoarder before we knew it was a disorder, and I realize now that I did all the wrong things while trying to ''help'' her. I deeply appreciate that you are bringing this to light and helping to educate people about the illness so others don't have to hurt their loved ones thinking they are doing the right thing.
@@allesasmart I am not sure I am reading your comment correctly. No child can tell their parent or guardian what to do, even as adults it just doesn’t work that way. Yes there are ways but it is so difficult it disrupts family dynamics and causes great distress that a child of the person may not know how to respond too. Therapy is an option, lets say that again, an OPTION, not something a child can put their parent into because their house is a hoarder house. Just the same as a person on the street can’t be told to get supporting help, if they don’t want it, that is that, done. The state is not going to come unless they fire department can not access key points, they don’t mandate a clean house.
My grandfather was a severe hoarder, to the point he purchased other buildings to contain his hoard since he'd already filled the home. I really appreciate your understanding of and empathy toward hoarders and your help to educate others about the disorder. As with many conditions, the shame around it often prevents people from seeking help. Great work!
God bless you and your work. I’m a speech therapist and want to thank you for sharing your diagnosis of autism. I work with young children with autism and their families. I like to share stories with the families about adults with autism. Parents need to see the successes and have hope with their little ones.Thank you!!!!
Besides the cleaning, you are a true artist: you have a rare eye on how to arrange objects to make it look pretty. When I realized this, I started to focus on this, and I find it inspiring. It's not just putting clean things back. It's feeling how to arrange them. Magic! You are an artist like no other here.
My step sister is a level4 hoarder. But she cleans out a trash bag of stuff a day
That is pretty good for her and she is in therapy making strides. Her disposing of a trash is hard, but we are proud of her and encourage her. Thanks for these videos.
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So therapy does help. I wonder how they have gotten her to toss one bag a day.. interesting
I have had so much horrific trauma in my life starting at 3 years old. I have been homess 6 time's. I dont think i was ever a typical hoarder but i went thru a time that if i didnt have 80 rolls of toilet paper i would truly freak out. Now im down to 6 packs of baby wipes. If an item isnt multifunctional it doest get into my home. Only thing on my counter is mt recipee box, my cookbook stand, one trivet for hot pans, salt, pepper and a pretty oil dispenser. Of course a soap dispencer and a sponge.
I have lost so much and had to start over so many times. I have a strange detachment to stuff. I also have what you described in another video. I will give things to others . It gives me sooo much joy. But i struggle to get things for myself. I have an amazing adopted son who is my full time caregiver. He allows me to do what i can, and picks up the difference. We are a great team. My house is incredibly organized due to my ocd. And clean because my son cleans. We just started a wall photo gallery. I lost all my baby photo albums. And the rest got left behind. For christmas this year my sister gave me many photos. ❤
Anyway, im so glad i found your channell. And you make me belly laugh
I’m not a hoarder but I’m at a place that feels stuck and overwhelmed. When you don’t know where or how to start you feel like this is going to be permanent condition. I have been watching this channel over the past few days and I have a flicker of hope. Even if I do little by little one day I might actually have a HOME!
I believe you can move a mountain one shovel at a time. Do just a little each day. Wishing you well
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@@patjonker6576 thank you!
The other day I watched one of your videos and it flipped a switch in me, I’ve been decluttering, deep cleaning and organizing for days and it’s such a great feeling. Also thank you for being so kind and compassionate when you talk about the people whose houses you clean, you’re a rare kind of human!
It's one of the most healing things, it really feels great. Right on!
I am overwhelmed with the Love and Help he provides for people.
He is amazing! ❤
For some reason, having someone there helping can be a great kickstarter. I'm the same way.
Thanks for recommending your APC (All Purpose Cleaner) of 70% Isopropol Alcohol and a few drops of Dawn in a spray bottle. My white porcelain tile floor in the kitchen is looking clean and shiny! I will buy some Clean Freak to use before the APC on the really tough jobs. You're an inspiration!
I have a friend who doesn't accept she's a hoarder. She has rooms you can't open the doors to get in. Her ** living room ** has only one accessible chair to sit in. There's nowhere to sit in the kitchen and her bedroom is a bad dream, even her bed...she sleeps on just one spot on it. She's only in her late 40's has a job in mental health... yes I know! I've tried to help her, but she doesn't believe she has a problem as and I quote " all nice things " it's heartbreaking to see her go down to this level.
Thank you so much for taking the time to explain what’s really going on in these houses- that it’s not laziness or some moral failing… tv shows are bad about exploiting the people that they’re “helping “ and having zero empathy for their feelings… they literally just make it worse and perpetuate some ugly stereotypes. You always maintain the dignity of the residents and it really shows
This video was so good it held me hostage and told me to clean my kitchen or it would spin kick me until I cleaned it. Good job MMC!
I am so team Adrienne, she's a trooper getting into that with you! Pretty awesome having such a close family willing to work so hard together to help so many people. Humanity and empathy isn't dead. Right on.
I'm not really a hoarder yet, but my mom came over to my apartment today and helped me get a good 40% of my stuff out of here, I have struggled with getting over that mental block keeping me from getting rid of stuff I really don't need. I worry how I'll manage alone one day, but for now I have someone willing to help if I'm over my head. And I am forever grateful for her.
I have space now, and every room is clean, I can breath and take my time going over the rest to see what else I can throw out or possibly donate.
This channel has so many positive uses.😊
Good for you! That’s so great.
Ask yourself exactly when you started hoarding. Then ask yourself what was going on during that time in your life. Why did you need to save everything back then? When you honestly answer that question, you will have the answer. Then, realize that you are no longer in that situation and no longer need to save those things anymore. This is a different part of your life journey. You can choose to change anything you want to change. This has worked for many clients over my career. Mental health counselor here.
I like waching and enjoy your commentary, EXCEPT the way you refer to your children. ie: "she is a piece of crap". One oher hing. The homeowner can ge rid of diabeic needles by putting them in an empty laundry detergent bottle. When it is full she can put he cap on and toss it. Some hospials, pharmacies, etc will dispose of them for you.
I am the same exact way. My house isn’t bad at but I just never can’find the energy to really organize it and keep it in a clean order. I was a drug addict and I’ve been sober for almost 7 years but I just never regained that drive back for cleaning idk why
I'm a former hoarder. I don't even know that elderly couple, but when I heard about their home and health situations, I cried for them. I'm partially disabled, too, so I can relate to that, too. This just made me so sad! I hope that elderly couple is ok now.
Watching Adrian do all those dishes literally hurt the attention span part of my brain! Amazing that she stuck to it that long!!! ❤
You are amazing. The show Hoarders is exploitive and salacious. Our society is dismissive and judgmental to the point of dehumanizing those who suffer with this disorder. You are one of the most compassionate individuals I know of. You are pragmatic in the way you clean, but you never for an instant vilify the owners of the homes. I am so grateful you are in this world.
I totally agree. I just wish there were more people like him in this world!!
This is so true. Nothing those people did on Hoarders helped those people. It just made them a freak show to make fun of. It always bothered me.
I am so glad you explained about the adult protective services because I was upset and felt deep sympathy for the multiple injuries and illnesses the couple have. A clean environment would allow for home visiting nurse services and I want for them to be able to have that. Thank you for helping them.
I really like your empathy toward the hoarders. I come from a family of hoarders. I can so relate to your message. It is a daily struggle to keep up things and throw away things we don’t need
We never could live like these people….. very inspiring to see the reward of the struggle to not reach this
A hallmark for this line of work is a dark sense if humor. Truly a master of the craft.
Dear Spin-Kickin Johnny, you have the biggest heart. I wish there were more people like you in this world. Keep on Keeping On!!!
I started helping my friend on her house. When she asked for help and I offered, I didn’t know it was a level 9 hoarding house. I watch your channel and this one in particular has helped me to redirect. I was getting overwhelmed. She has been throwing things away, as you stated in the video, that’s a huge help. 6 people and 5 dogs buried under 8 years of depression. Doing the right thing and helping them get unburied is what I can do. A beginning point that they could not find on their own. Thanks for encouraging me to continue on. It’s just me, trying to help them reclaim their house. Roach infestation and all. E have been making the Count on Sesame Street sound for every bag of trash we get rid of. Encouraging somehow. Keep on with the good work.
I'm so happy to know you're helping your friend. Thank you for being so kind
It helps to have someone working with you on hard decisions, as long as they don't throw out stuff you really want.
@@sherryyarger3753I ask before I toss anything that I would consider as garbage. It’s valuable to the person I’m helping.
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Thank You for being a good friend. The people and animals deserve a good place to live. Donating your heart and time is absolutely amazing ❤
the comparison metaphor between drug use and hoarding is apt that harm reduction applies to both. You're helping making these people's living environments safer, giving them a place to maybe feel ready to work on healing at their own pace, and even if they never feel ready you gave them however long of a clean environment and that time matters.
The most amazing thing about this is that you genuinely enjoy it because of your as you say "weird brain", it's a win win all around
I really respect you for helping people and your no judgement attitude. The world needs more people like you
You’re a good dad. You’re showing your kids how to be of service to others. 😊
You are good people... takes a lot of patience and compassion to do this without judgement.
Thankyou for your hard work in helping people who can no longer help themselves and for understanding, not judging, them. You are an inspiration and appreciated.
I am an autistic person who has struggled with OCD/hoarding since childhood. Your method is very relatable and satisfying to watch, and your explanation of the disorder was spot on. I'm able to manage my hoarding better than most as I occasionally get the urge to purge and become an extreme minimalist. The urge putters out before I reach minimalism, but I do get close to 'normal'.
You are AMAZING!! I am a recovering level 9. I'm in tears watching this video. I want to praise you and your daughter for doing what your doing. It's a tough job. Mentally and physically. Your sense of humor breaks through at the perfect time. My home was just like this one....
Thankfully I found Jesus and He held my hand and opened doors for me to have my home back. You Sir are a blessing . I can't put into words how your methods are perfect. You are not a threat to someone in this mental state. You create a very trusting environment yet a firm hand in reality. I love that you praise any kind of progress made by the home owner. I pray that anyone with loved ones in this condition will open their minds and their hearts and watch and learn from you. I want you to know your hard work truly can save lives . May God's blessings be upon you.
You are a great Dad and a wonderful human being ❤
Jesus came to set the captive free and to set at liberty them that are bound Luke 4 v 18. Hoarding is a type of bondage and Jesus is the chain breaker ~ hallelujah
Love this so much. Thank you for sharing your story!
I will forever refer to a lazy Susan as a “Swingin’ Betty” for the rest of my life. You have such a big heart!❤
I have big respect for a person (you) doing this cleaning and helping others in your work without having to resort to having or seeing drama and episodes where people are storming off, angry or "hysterical". Enough! Doing what you do is vital! Let the families help the hoarder via obtaining their therapy, and get further cleaning help for the hoarder(s) in question. It does no one any good airing their own familial 'dysfunctions' on a video, which other channels do so readily!
Those darned small appliances. We get suckered into them for “convenience”,then they take over precious room in kitchens, need to be cleaned and rarely get used etc. (At least in my humble opinion.) Great job on this hoard. Can’t believe how you worked through this situation and cleaned so thoroughly. 👏WOW.
Agree! Big Box stores and Amazon make it so much easier to overshop. It's sad to think of all the wasted money from a lifetime of hard work.
That was THE best cleaning job of a hoarder house that you have cleaned so far. Well done sir! and Adrienne. The transformation is unreal.
Your story of how you have to cope with the bedbugs made me so sad, for those poor people. You are a real hero. Thanks for all you do. Really.
I greatly appreciate that you have an understanding into the cause and symptoms of hoarding, which also is very touching. Thank you so much for the kind things you do for the sufferers! Thanks also for your humor and the sounds of working and speaking during the Timelapse-your squeaky voices are hilarious!
Simply amazing work by you and your daughter. I can only imagine the weight being lifted off the homeowner’s shoulders to see a light through all of this darkness they have been surrounded by. You are an incredibly generous person to do what you do. Thank you sir!
Well said... amen
Bless you both for helping this poor couple. FYI-There is a program in Michigan that puts a helper in houses for seniors and the disabled that receive Medicaid. I'm working in a hoarder situation now, and can't tell you how much your videos have helped me understand the client and how to go about helping them. Wish I could work as fast as your videos!
In Livonia?
We have that here where I am in California, too. It's called In-Home Supportive Services and the counties pay for people to come in and help disabled or blind seniors with household tasks, personal care, shopping, and transportation to medical appointments.
@@sarah_b_555 Entire state of MI, call your local DHHS office
@@lindacowles756 Mack mentioned that he wasn't familiar with these programs, so we can help him help people out of his area.
Peter and I close down our small business every year between Christmas and New Year's. This year we're not going anywhere, so I'm watching hoarder shows to psych myself up for decluttering our place. We're not terrible hoarders, but we had to very quickly move into a small space a couple of years ago, so that we have stuff stacked in boxes all over the place. Some of it is just going to have to go. One other thing I've really started to appreciate after watching these shows is our non-shedding dog. She does track leaves and fir needles into the house, but at least we don't have wads of fur all over. Thank you for what you do.
What a gentle, compassionate gem of a person you (and your family) are. I wish there were more of you in the world. It must be incredibly rewarding work on many levels. Also, sense of humour is spot on 😄
Thank you from my whole heart, Mack. First, for helping these folks. And second, for describing and explaining so brilliantly the mind-set of a hoarder. You described me to a T. Anxiety, depression, loss, physical injuries, embarrassment, physical & emotional abuse, and on & on. I am in therapy, but it is very slow-going . I’m at a loss, but I’m not giving up.
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Yes! He is the BEST. I laugh and cry during pretty much every one of his videos because they are so heartwarming and funny.
Best of luck and love to you. ♥️
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Spin kick Johnny you are amazing! I wish I had someone like you . Since moving to a smaller home, with no storage, I am getting overwhelmed. Slowly, but surely my spare bedroom is becoming a junk room. Everywhere is becoming a mess, and the worst it gets the more I seem to shut down. Watching your videos get me going a bit. When I see the finished homes , it reminds me that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you ❤.
@@TheMeleenUs too, you are not alone. He helps others and at the same time helps us all too. He shows us how and it's also possible even in the overwhelm. We are so thankful and inspired, we are not as fast as he is, but his techniques along with Barbies, we are getting there little by little. We've had alot going on the past years. We are standing in the aftermath and are reclaiming our rooms. We are so inspired too. God bless you... 🙏 ❤
@@melovesmemusic21His explanations and videos are so healing.... ❤
You, Aurikatarina, and Barbie need to come together and do a really huge hoarder project that one of you alone could not tackle. That would make for a long and entertaining video!
I would book holiday from work to watch that. Seriously
Omg! Yes! Good idea! Would watch awesome team!
Maybe as a fundraiser? Not sure what for but I'm down to watch no matter what!
I think they did that already, right? I saw Barbie and another person with Mac on a project recently.
@@k.goldstein5664 this comment was from nine months ago.
You're their miracle worker. I just saw your channel on a reel and came over. I subscribed because of the empathy and compassion you're demonstrating while also educating. ❤
Thank you for explaining the hoarding reaction when somebody basically assault-cleans and wants to rip everything apart.
Many hoarders hoard because of trauma and because they sometimes were assaulted. Stuff often means safety and control. Stuff, opposite to people and life, is there and trustworthy. And buying it, unfortunately, causes a bit of short-term comfort.
The overabundance of cleaning supplies means they really want to clean but just can't. That's a really painful part of the condition.
Thanks for explaining this it is very helpful.😊
I think it’s REALLY important to understand that this house did not become this way overnight. And once you clean it up, it will not return to the previous condition overnight. I think you did a really, really great job of explaining how one small thing, then another small thing, then another and another multiply to get a house to this point.
The tough thing here is going to be the difference between how the husband and wife handle the clean up. In fact, I would not be surprised to hear that the husband returned from work to pick items back out of the dumpster. Hopefully, they will both be able to put the health and safety of each other over the hoard. And sadly, sometimes the threat of APS intervention is the ultimatum that is needed to motivate high level hoarders to allow help with a clean up.
Now on a different note, I am an ICU nurse…we are pretty tolerant and handle THE GROSSEST OF GROSS and then go out to dinner after our shifts.
But the ONE THING that will have even the baddest of RN’s in a bunny suit faster than a beat of VFib is bedbugs!!!! Can’t wash those off in the shower and those little shits are sneaky. Please take precautions!!!
I’d also like to add -mainly for the urban and non-US viewers - that I’m also from the rural Midwest. My parents both passed away in the past couple of years and we have been working on cleaning up their small farm. While I would not classify my folks as hoarders (other than jokingly) they were both raised in rural areas and on farms. And while neither were old enough to have experienced the depression, they were raised by folks who did. They were also from a generation of people who repaired equipment and mended clothing and saved old bent nails to straighten out for future projects. The items they purchased were investments to last a lifetime. My folks both struggled with todays ‘throwaway’ society. A great example is my moms sewing machines…all metal parts that can be replaced or repaired. My sewing machine: 99% plastic or soft bendable metal, sold to be thrown away instead of repaired.
So as we’re cleaning out barns and buildings and attics, I’m kind of fascinated by the materials I’m finding. Some things I’ve had to take to other old farmers to identify.
I’d also like to mention that rural homes in the Midwest are very prone mice infestation. MMC has explained this in previous videos…mice live in the surrounding cornfields. When the corn is harvested and they still need to eat (and stay warm), they head to the houses. It’s a common pest to battle in this part of the world.
Mice can become a real problem. I guess that's why people who live in rural areas often have multiple cats.
@@sazennonumber ‘barn’ cats are super common! And while my dad wasn’t a big fan of snakes, he usually wasn’t quick to run them off. They are great at controlling mice, too! (We only have two venomous species of snake common to the area, and one is pretty rare, the other most often found in water). Most, while icky (to me, anyway) are completely harmless to humans or pets.
Watching that kitchen floor get mopped was a whole other level of satisfying lol
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Im level 3 to 4..this REALLY helped me to be aware..thank you 😢🙏
My husband suicided a few yrs back,b4 then my house was well maintained and not a bloody biohazard..Now..omfg..i need therapy and a cleaning fairy. But since watching ur vids..its REALLY helped me realise why i got to where i have xx sarah
I just realized that some of the traits that makes you so good at this are empathy and patience. Most people get really frustrated with hoarders because they won't just get rid of useless stuff. But, as you keep telling us, that does not help them. You know what will. You're doing great work.
I love listening to your reasoning for this disorder, it all makes sense the way you describe it! Please save your knees and get some knee pads.
Way to be a hard worker Adrienne- especially despite being elbowed, kneed and drop kicked. What a tough gal! 😂
The kitchen is totally transformed. Thanks for being so compassionate toward this family!
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You are amazing. This is what I feel where you make a difference in this world. We need more of you. ❤️❤️👍
I appreciate you deep cleans and the assistance to others. As a leader and genuine caring soul you and your helper(s) are saints to assist others I need. Your acknowledgment of mental health counseling is to be commended.
Videos like this are why I gladly pay for a membership to your channel. You are a godsend to this couple, thank you for helping them.
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All the best from Australia to this couple that let you two in to clean ❤
I have an inspection tomorrow and your videos have helped me to not only clean (ie stainless steel sinks), but also feel more motivated to get rid of stuff I no longer need anymore. I’m not a hoarder, but I’m an a single mum of two boys and stuff sure does accumulate, especially as they grow! Getting rid of smaller clothes and old toys makes such a huge difference to the space in our house and your videos have inspired me😊
Us too... Perfect name Midwest Majic Cleaning! You are majic to clean and make it better!
Best and most compassionate explanation of hoarding disorder I have ever heard.
Your video helped motivate me to clean an area that has needed cleaning for a while now. I love the idea of thinking of things in small bits rather than the whole, and also the idea of just move one thing, just get started...both of those ideas helped me so much. I went into the area that was in my opinion, overrun with stuff, and did small piece by small piece and within an hour and 1/2 or so (I have severely bad back so I need to take many sitting breaks to let my back relax in between work periods) the area was much more tidy and organized. I didn't get it completely done but oh my goodness...it was changed in a huge way. I even thing my boys were impressed. So, thank you so much for giving me that idea, and thank you for the motivation to just move one thing, just get started. I will forever think that way now with house tasks that seem to be so huge that it paralyzes me and prevents me from even starting...I now think I can actually do this. Thanks so much.
When you first started talking about these two I thought they were a very old couple, it broke my heart even more finding out they are still very young, with a long life in front of them but at a standstill because of this hell they live in, to be completely honest, you might have saved their lives by doing this, you are an angel, I pray for their recovery
My mum was/is a hoarder. We grew up with her blaming us for the mess, and even once everyone was moved out, she still blamed us kids, even though it got worse.
Your understanding that it all comes down to the individual and their readiness is spot on.
I tried everything to help, we could spend hours going through things carefully but it always just ended up piled in a different spot because she wasn't willing to let go. We had 20 yr old newspapers from before I was born. I tried telling her that if she hadn't heard the news yet, that it wasn't that inportant, but then came other excuses: recipes, advice columns, crosswords, you name it.
We eventually settled into an uncomfortable arrangement where she would "hand me down" stuff and I would take care of disposing of it. She hated me, knowing I was getting rid of it, but somehow, that helped her to let go. Not the healthiest, but she didn't do well in therapy.
I also appreciate that you tell all the folks saying trash it to get stuffed. Your understanding that it is complex and that the people suffering from the disorder find security in their hoards is a lesson to all. We cannot simply rip away their security blanket, they need to be able to develop the feelings of safety and self-reliance they lack and which would only be worsened by losing all their security all at once.
Thank you and your amazing little Jr. Filthbags for all you do 😉🙏
I know this is very late, but whoever she gets the needles from, probably a pharmacy, can likely take those needles back. Her physician, if she is willing to talk with them about environmental concerns and self-care concerns, can probably help with a care management, social worker, or similar referral. I hope this lady is taking good care of herself. You have a wonderful spirit to be going after this kind of need the way you do with such compassion and good humor, never mocking or belittling, but making opportunities for lighthearted laughter amid the wonderful advice bombs and mountainous tasks. I respect what you and your family are doing here. It's inspiring!
I found it fascinating that while the rest of the kitchen was a hot mess, the plants were clearly well tended. Credit to them for taking the first step
As someone who has battled with depression, anxiety, and loss I know how easy it is for a depression nest to get out of hand. I had to have ppl come in 3 times to help with the mess. I finally got rid of all my dishes and silverware and started using disposable products. I understand that is a huge amount of waste but it was either that or begin the cycle again. You are right about ppl not getting ppl in to repair items in the house b/c I did that too. I have just recently moved out of that apt b/c the landlord wanted to renovate. I now begin the quest for a new place to live, striving to never let my home get that way again. I won't be afraid to ask for help if it is too much. Thank you for the way you help people. It does me a tremendous difference.
I don't know how you do it, and you never lose your enthusiasm, or sense of humor.
Never change, these people need you. Take care.
That kitchen looks so bright and cheerful with the floor and countertops clean. I hope the lady can slowly get rid of some of her stuff, the kitchen would look even better. You and Adrian did a great job.
You are such heroes for helping them like this, thank you! Wishing this couple healing and continual help for the future.