A Fatal Attraction: The Case Of Heather Elvis

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  • @sabrinamassie5606
    @sabrinamassie5606 Рік тому +2363

    Once convicted ... NO ONE should get ANY chance at parole UNTIL they lead the family and law enforcement to the victim's body. PERIOD !!

    • @elizabethmcglothlin5406
      @elizabethmcglothlin5406 Рік тому +32

      Amen!

    • @mtorr2345
      @mtorr2345 Рік тому +58

      10000000000%. Does not make sense why they would ever allow that

    • @bobby_D
      @bobby_D Рік тому +15

      💯

    • @emilyjohnson8463
      @emilyjohnson8463 Рік тому +32

      Yeah I absolutely agree. Just like that Joran Vander****""?(sorry not sure of last name spelling) but he got that deal if he confessed (and it was supposed to be the truth) but I believe he and anyone else should not get any deal or anything until the family is able to bring their loved ones remains home or at least can verify where and what was done with them. That is the cruelest part after everything else, not letting them lay their family to rest

    • @robo6118
      @robo6118 Рік тому +17

      Fully agree.

  • @spitfirestake54
    @spitfirestake54 Рік тому +1657

    Tammy is beyond hateful. Even after she killed Heather, she couldn’t help herself and went online to denigrate Heather even more. Wickedly evil.

    • @smurfylee
      @smurfylee Рік тому

      She's vile

    • @professionaltrollgirl2682
      @professionaltrollgirl2682 Рік тому +122

      HEATHER LITERALLY GOT WITH A MARRIED MAN AND BRAGGED ABOUT IT!!!

    • @GetCraftyLemons
      @GetCraftyLemons Рік тому +236

      ​@professionaltrollgirl2682 She was fucking young, and he was using her. It takes 2 to tango and she didn't deserve to be murdered. Jfc smdh

    • @professionaltrollgirl2682
      @professionaltrollgirl2682 Рік тому

      @@GetCraftyLemons SHE WAS AN ADULT AND SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER THAN TO BE FKG A MARRIED MAN AND BRAGGING ABOUT IT. FK AROUND AND FIND OUT 🙄

    • @spitfirestake54
      @spitfirestake54 Рік тому +11

      @@GetCraftyLemons what’s jfc?

  • @tashibalampkin8555
    @tashibalampkin8555 Рік тому +909

    The fact Sydney wanted to have Heather as an nanny while he was involved with her is wild. The audacity!

    • @LadyAstarionAncunin
      @LadyAstarionAncunin Рік тому +68

      He's a sicko for sure. Sounds like he and his wife were suited for each other.

    • @lucyloo9742
      @lucyloo9742 Рік тому +5

      Shows what kind of person he was ! They are defo guilty not unless she was the most i Lucy person in the world to go and meet him that night and get kidnapped and killed by a complete stranger by being in the wrong place at the wrong time …. But highly unlikely

    • @jimmydee935
      @jimmydee935 Рік тому +21

      @@lucyloo9742considering their exact truck was caught on CC camera footage in the exact same area as Heather’s car puts that myth to bed. It wasn’t some rando person(s)…it was those two weirdos. Sydney coaxed her there, and then proceeded to kidnap and take her life, along with that hideous wife of his. Just abominable. SMH 😢

    • @fernfreeman1729
      @fernfreeman1729 Рік тому

      Heather was dumb and stupid. The guy was a low life, married, basically a no-good-for-nothing, so ....

    • @refugeofthoughts8870
      @refugeofthoughts8870 Рік тому +15

      That’s men for you.

  • @cyka666
    @cyka666 6 місяців тому +145

    I always find it so crazy when, in the course of searching for a missing person, _another_ person’s remains are found…

    • @TnerB91
      @TnerB91 5 місяців тому +21

      I’ve been in on some of those investigations and the reason that usually happens is because you end up looking in places you never thought you would and sometimes you find stuff that has nothing to do with what you’re looking for , we found some crazy things when I was doing that work. Found a skull once which belonged to a 17-19 year old boy, 8 years later still have no idea who that was or what it’s related to since no one has ever come forward or match a reported missing person for it. Found $20,000 wrapped up in ziplock bags once which we thought was drug related but again nothing has happened with that for years now , it’s a wild job and we live in a wild world.

    • @latasha195
      @latasha195 3 місяці тому

      @@TnerB91😮😮😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔💔💔🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @__sativa_diva__5415
    @__sativa_diva__5415 Рік тому +108

    This case happened in my state. Us locals still keep an eye out for new information, updates, clues ect. We'll never forget about Heather ❤

    • @ashajames4541
      @ashajames4541 3 місяці тому +1

      ❤ wow the wife face is pure evil

    • @YumichanXxX
      @YumichanXxX 2 місяці тому +2

      I was in myrtle beach in 2015 and went kayaking where the car was found. We saw posters about a girl and I am pretty sure it was about Heather. No matter whether someone is a Homewrecker or not, no-one deserves this

    • @graydenhudson
      @graydenhudson 2 місяці тому

      ​@@YumichanXxXI live in Myrtle and I think they took her body to another state..

    • @leighannferguson8310
      @leighannferguson8310 4 дні тому

      ​@@YumichanXxXI completely agree with you. Yes as a married woman of 32 years myself, what Heather did was very wrong but the guy is just as guilty and that vile wife of his is discusting. Heather did not deserve to die. Like I said it takes two to have an affair. But she mainly blamed Heather and the husband was too much of a wimp to stand up to his evil wife. 😢😢😢

  • @loriatkinson8275
    @loriatkinson8275 Рік тому +656

    It’s so ironic how Sydney cries over mean people when his wife is a hideous example of true meanness

    • @Mystiqa
      @Mystiqa Рік тому +6

      maybe his wife was one of the mean people and he was crying cuz he couldn't say anything and couldn't escape from her either.. of course, i could be wrong.

    • @user-gb7qb3rq8p
      @user-gb7qb3rq8p Рік тому +5

      I'm sure you would be mean if your husband cheated on you too

    • @Mystiqa
      @Mystiqa Рік тому +13

      @@user-gb7qb3rq8p personally, I won't be mean. I'll just let the relationship go. I would be upset but I don't see a point in being mean and bullying people. I would be mean (only towards my partner) if the relationship was an abusive one and won't let me end it. (Seems like Sydney is in that kind of relationship where he can't leave Tammy)

    • @LauraRushing
      @LauraRushing 11 місяців тому +1

      HEHE IM NOW REALLY STALKING IN SPIRIT AS DIRTY DIANA

    • @Anabel-l8r
      @Anabel-l8r 11 місяців тому

      Only his wife?

  • @etphonehome351
    @etphonehome351 Рік тому +976

    Never get yourself involved with a married man or woman. Trust me, you don't want the drama associated with it. Unfortunately for this case here Heather ended up losing her life because of that.

    • @flossy-kx8kg
      @flossy-kx8kg Рік тому +109

      True. Also guarantee the one who cheated gets forgiven and the mistress will be hated even tho it's the married person who is extremely in the wrong x

    • @obfuscateification
      @obfuscateification Рік тому

      ​@@flossy-kx8kgI did not forgive my husband for cheating. Changed the locks and filed for divorce. I don't hate him or the whore but that does not change her status as a whore. I did not kill her, though. When I was 21, I was hit on by a married man. I was insulted that the man thought I was whorish enough to sleep with another woman's husband. I did not accept his offer as I am not a whore. I made sure to inform his wife. His wife hung in their a few more years but ultimately divorced him. What comes with your "guarantee"?

    • @pamelafoxx129
      @pamelafoxx129 Рік тому +12

      So sad

    • @ximenapaola0
      @ximenapaola0 Рік тому +70

      @@flossy-kx8kgif that person knows the other person is married and still cheats with them, then yeah, hatred is understandable

    • @scaxxce9022
      @scaxxce9022 Рік тому +3

      Well, agree

  • @lotioninbasket9197
    @lotioninbasket9197 Рік тому +307

    I never understand why people can’t press the BLOCK button on their phones. It’s so liberating.

    • @TheWatcherxx99
      @TheWatcherxx99 9 місяців тому +15

      IKR I thought that the same thing

    • @w3ndi973
      @w3ndi973 8 місяців тому +37

      My son dated a girl who turned psycho, when he ended the relationship, it got violent. He was only 20 and moved back home, but she stalked him for months. He did block her but she used other numbers or withheld hers so he couldn’t know. He changed his number twice and she still managed to get hold of it until he changed it again and cut all ties with everyone he’d ever known. He’s now a recluse with extreme anxiety and rarely leaves the house. He’s gone from a loving confident person with a group of friend to having a couple of close friends and a couple of online friends . My heart breaks for him

    • @evangelinenape5951
      @evangelinenape5951 8 місяців тому +4

      I have been in a situation of a jealous friend block her in anyway even social media after she repeatedly message everyone to justify herself the next 3weeks change her phone number and message me unstoppable and threatening me and I wasn’t replying knowing who owns this new number she did try to call me many times so block again the new no..block all those who have access with her!and I feel peace

    • @igitha..._
      @igitha..._ 7 місяців тому +7

      I blocked my mother for being really nasty to me, blocked her for about 5 weeks, and then wasn't told my grandfather died, then got uninvited from my brothers' wedding.

    • @moneyfornothing3264
      @moneyfornothing3264 6 місяців тому +3

      @@igitha..._; yikes. Yes, sometimes it can backfire I guess, like in your situation.

  • @princesabonita79
    @princesabonita79 Рік тому +260

    the most unbelievable thing around here is that tammy was only 34

    • @tvoqui3714
      @tvoqui3714 8 місяців тому +1

      how is it unbelievable that she's 34?

    • @princesabonita79
      @princesabonita79 8 місяців тому +68

      @@tvoqui3714 because she looks older than 34, pay attention.

    • @najihafelder2592
      @najihafelder2592 8 місяців тому +7

      Exactly

    • @queenzee520
      @queenzee520 7 місяців тому +51

      She looks 54

    • @n4t4shaaaa
      @n4t4shaaaa 5 місяців тому +21

      Lmfaoooooo seriously I thought she was his mother

  • @nomada6789
    @nomada6789 Рік тому +157

    If your spouse is cheating just leave that relationship for good and find happiness within 🤷‍♀️

    • @clintonibe9050
      @clintonibe9050 11 місяців тому +9

      My dear, unfortunately that's not so easy😢
      Revenge is not a solution. Never ever, but it's difficult to just forget and move on.
      Especially if you have built a life and family with that person

    • @nomada6789
      @nomada6789 10 місяців тому +12

      @@clintonibe9050
      never impossible but you are prolonging your pain 🤷‍♀️ your dignity and family are more important 🌸

    • @juanf5391
      @juanf5391 6 місяців тому +1

      Probably because Sydney was out of Tammy's league and the former was attracted to her wealth.

    • @Shellmickey
      @Shellmickey 5 місяців тому

      ​@@clintonibe9050toxic is toxic and very unhealthy for everyone.

    • @kristinwood8884
      @kristinwood8884 4 місяці тому

      ​@@nomada6789unfortunately some of us have lost our families, I lost my mom at 13 and my dad at 29, also my grandparents (they were a huge part of my life, they even lived one street away my whole life) passed away in my 20's.
      Other than my abusive husband, we had 2 young children (we split up 5 yrs ago, after 25 yrs of abuse, verbal and psychical)
      Sometimes things aren't as easy as they seem.

  • @christinap-c
    @christinap-c Рік тому +180

    The Elvis family is amazing to bring attention to other missing cases as well. That is beyond words. ❤

    • @millwallholdings
      @millwallholdings Рік тому +1

      The sister was very very pretty as well, what a awful case,

    • @horaceball5418
      @horaceball5418 Рік тому

      Its possible, Heather was at the boat landing at 340 am by herself, a different black Ford F 150 was cruising there at 340 am, and Heather happened to smash her phone and walk to seattle and start a new life.

    • @darkangelholz
      @darkangelholz 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@horaceball5418the video said the truck was a 100 percent match of theirs so I'm guessing that meant the registration etc too or maybe the rims etc weren't standard issue ones or other parts had been modified.
      Heather felt like it was all over with Sydney and Tammy until just before she disappeared and to do something like that takes planning. I also don't think she would have put her family through this and would have told them she had to leave and kept in touch with them as they were all very close.
      It would be wonderful to think she was still alive and out there safe and well, possibly married and with a family of her own by now but I think deep down everyone knows that couldn't be further from the truth a decade on x

    • @davisk6408
      @davisk6408 11 місяців тому

      @@horaceball5418 are you fr rn

  • @alisonmcnamara800
    @alisonmcnamara800 Рік тому +660

    Dating married men never works out well! But these two are a horror! Why don't wives ever blame the husband?

    • @GrandTime-17
      @GrandTime-17 Рік тому +52

      Duh, they do, but it takes two to tango, ya know.

    • @adamfarkas51
      @adamfarkas51 Рік тому +20

      I mean its obvious that man was abused into total submission by that evil psycho.

    • @dawnjones6138
      @dawnjones6138 Рік тому +59

      That is my exact thought! Tammy is married to Sydney! Sydney is the one who broke those vows!
      18/19 year old girl is so vulnerable.

    • @katesleuth1156
      @katesleuth1156 Рік тому +40

      @@dawnjones6138 Yes she was young. She appears to have been the one who chased him. Still, he was married & should have resisted her.

    • @blinkypushbuttons
      @blinkypushbuttons Рік тому

      Most people truly believe men are retarded/vulnerable adults.

  • @CJLOVE23
    @CJLOVE23 Рік тому +431

    Such a sad case 😢 Her family deserves her body to give her a proper resting place. Utterly selfish to not tell them where she is

    • @the_uglysteve6933
      @the_uglysteve6933 Рік тому +46

      They should "extract" the information from these disgusting monsters

    • @ГерманУстинов-з1х
      @ГерманУстинов-з1х Рік тому +7

      Monster🐊

    • @thirstonhowellthebird
      @thirstonhowellthebird Рік тому +10

      @@the_uglysteve6933 I would bet they did something very gruesome with her body ie dismembered or burned it or something horrific and don’t want anyone to know.

    • @concernedandequal1928
      @concernedandequal1928 Рік тому +9

      It's also selfish to have an affair with a married man

    • @killerinstinct309
      @killerinstinct309 Рік тому +32

      @@concernedandequal1928it’s even more selfish that a married man cheat on his wife

  • @katherine9109
    @katherine9109 6 місяців тому +30

    I STILL can't believe that murderers actually think they'll get away with it..!?!

    • @Navyfiltered
      @Navyfiltered 4 місяці тому +1

      Right I always think the same things …. Like do u really want to be in jail forever because eventually u will be caught

    • @vaekkriinhart4347
      @vaekkriinhart4347 Місяць тому +1

      they basically did tho
      :(

  • @sueladymancottagelife3765
    @sueladymancottagelife3765 11 місяців тому +7

    You are my new favourite crime channel . You present the facts and the background without interpretation of your personal thoughts. And thats not a criticism. Keep up the good work.

  • @johnniethepom7545
    @johnniethepom7545 Рік тому +401

    In Australia the rule is , no body, no release !

    • @johnniethepom7545
      @johnniethepom7545 Рік тому +45

      @JustnaubreyKaraoke which bit didn't you understand ? If you get convicted of murder in Australia and you don't reveal the whereabouts of the body, they don't let you out of jail . . ever !

    • @brandyjean7015
      @brandyjean7015 Рік тому +26

      Good rule.

    • @johnniethepom7545
      @johnniethepom7545 Рік тому +15

      @brandyjean7015 If enough people lobby their politicians, then you could have could have the same legislation .
      I know this couple was only convicted of kidnapping , but the fact the victim was never ever seen again and no trace proof of life , then there should be a murder charge. Perhaps the prosecutor should offer a 5 year reduction but only to the first one to confess the location of the body , and then the other gets a whole life for murder .

    • @snogglewort1
      @snogglewort1 Рік тому

      @@JustnaubreyKaraokegoogle can if you don’t believe him wtf?

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +4

      ​@@johnniethepom7545They weren't convicted of murder, so it's entirely irrelevant.

  • @jessica_schrecklich
    @jessica_schrecklich Рік тому +308

    Not giving away where Heather is and being the only one knowing what truly happened to her gives Tammy this last bit of control that no one can take from her. I hate that fact..

    • @500erider
      @500erider Рік тому +26

      She is a truly wicked woman. Her involvement in this practically killed her own father, who died of a heart attack during the investigation, trying to withhold information himself, to protect his diabolic daughter. Even that doesn't convict her to come clean about what she and her disgusting husband did to Heather.

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd Рік тому +11

      Maybe not. Maybe she knows it's a bargaining chip that she could use someday. For example, if she had a parole hearing and she can come clean and act like she's really sorry about it and wants to come clean now.

    • @jessica_schrecklich
      @jessica_schrecklich Рік тому +4

      @@Dan-di9jd I just hope she isn't smart like that..

    • @phillipproussier3723
      @phillipproussier3723 11 місяців тому +4

      They probably burned .....

    • @m3li55a5
      @m3li55a5 11 місяців тому +6

      She’s too crazy to keep quiet forever - her husband will piss her off and she’ll run her mouth just to spite him

  • @pyxelated2468
    @pyxelated2468 Рік тому +171

    This is my favorite true crime channel. Your voice adds such emotion and depth to these stories. 👏🏼

    • @whyamiheredlb
      @whyamiheredlb Рік тому

      @@JustnaubreyKaraokeand how about you mind your own damn business. This commenter was simply stating her personal opinion to the content creator, so how on earth has that affected you in any way whatsoever. Go troll yourself back into the dark dank hole you crawled out of.

    • @jamesaston2031
      @jamesaston2031 Рік тому +4

      @@JustnaubreyKaraoke They were complimenting the creator on the production of their videos. What has that got to do with the case?

    • @stevielagan1948
      @stevielagan1948 Рік тому +3

      The only thing I don't like about it is all of her useless droning on and on about what an angel the victim was, who EVERYBODY loved, and whose smile lit up the room, yadda, yadda, yadda.
      When she starts up on that shit, I usually start getting anxiety, and just click over to ThatChapter or ThisIsMonsters.

    • @sneekz07
      @sneekz07 Рік тому

      Read the room.

    • @sneekz07
      @sneekz07 Рік тому +1

      @@stevielagan1948 Anxiety over words that the family and friends used to describe her? Grow up.

  • @louisecampbell2628
    @louisecampbell2628 Рік тому +22

    Tammy is SMILING in her mug shot WTF!!!

  • @CNile-se9xw
    @CNile-se9xw Рік тому +40

    It's beyond my comprehension that Heather agreed to meet Sidney in such a remote location.

    • @LauraRushing
      @LauraRushing 11 місяців тому

      SHE DIDNT JOKES ON HIM NOW

    • @jukenukem9667
      @jukenukem9667 11 місяців тому

      Easy, she was heavily under the influence- Semen is one hell of a drug especially when she was ovulatin and he was fillin her up with loads of it raw d on the reg. Thats how he knocked her up so quick remember. 3rd month together she got preg. When you have that on yer mind like she did that alls it takes is a quick drive and you can get your fix to get stuffed full like a Thanksgiving turkey with a big ol cream pie for desert. If you ain't a you g gal mite sound wrong but the Semen is the ultimate hook it's bioligy

    • @21silvermoon
      @21silvermoon 19 днів тому

      She was in love with him.

  • @Mordraneth
    @Mordraneth Рік тому +77

    Don't be the side guy/gal. Love triangles always end badly. Of course no one deserves to die for cheating, or being the side-chick/dude, but people react with a rage seldom seen when betrayed in that fashion. Why risk it? Also if they will cheat with you, they will cheat ON you. There is no future there.

    • @blinkypushbuttons
      @blinkypushbuttons Рік тому +3

      A woman is the side gal 99.9% of the time even if she’s married

    • @Mordraneth
      @Mordraneth Рік тому

      @@blinkypushbuttons The problem is, the 3 most common fantasies for women are daddy/daughter/grape scenarios, cheating with someone else, and threesome/gangbang/getting trained scenarios. Women will live out fantasies as much as they can since they are mentally stimulated instead of visually.
      They'll start calling out Daddy! while you bang (ick af but common). Some will seek out gangbangs and threesomes (rarer than the 1st due to many various factors), but the easiest one to do, the one they can fulfill at anytime with minimal effort, is the cheating. It's something they fantasize about. It's something they crave to do. Eventually, the majority give in.
      I just assume every woman is a cheater, or will be. Saves me the headache.

    • @tammytom9
      @tammytom9 2 місяці тому

      common, she was young and had to learn a lot. What did she know about that

    • @Maibu-y4e
      @Maibu-y4e Місяць тому

      ​@@blinkypushbuttonsNOT..stop with the lies..90% of cheaters are MARRIED MEN..so GTFOH

    • @Maibu-y4e
      @Maibu-y4e Місяць тому

      ​@@blinkypushbuttons😂😂😂😂yeah right..only in your pea-brain..smh

  • @kewldude1991
    @kewldude1991 Рік тому +136

    The smirk on her face in the mug shot just sends chills. 😵‍💫

    • @sankey8888
      @sankey8888 Рік тому +10

      Evil

    • @DorianGreen-x4f
      @DorianGreen-x4f 11 місяців тому +4

      Spot on!😱

    • @4exgold
      @4exgold 11 місяців тому +8

      yep a truly hideous lowlife. How Sidney married and had children with this creature I will never know. Not absolving him of blame of course,, just that she was the ringleader in it all and had total control over her husband.

    • @jenniferstursa8707
      @jenniferstursa8707 5 місяців тому +2

      Pure evil… this case was so sad

  • @KRISTINA-mm1uf
    @KRISTINA-mm1uf Рік тому +308

    Good grief the wife went over board she’s definitely insecure. And that guy has no balls.

    • @brandyjean7015
      @brandyjean7015 Рік тому +24

      Their relationship was definitely toxic. And ya, he was whipped.

    • @eviehammond9509
      @eviehammond9509 Рік тому +27

      Spot on. Tammy was the obsessed one. IMO I think she stalked Heather either in real life or social media or both & with Heather's noticeable weight gain assumed she was pregnant by Sydney. Ans that alone took her right over the edge. She made Sydney get a pregnancy test to confirm it by meeting with Heather that night. And when it came out positive either Tammy showed up to help him murder Heather or made her spineless husband do it alone and hide her remains.
      I'm not condoning anyone who pursues a relationship with someone whose currently married. Just knowing they would do this to their partner should tell the person your most likely next in line to be cheated on. Once you start a relationship as the "other"woman, you will never be the only woman. Love & lust makes us do stupid things but it certainly isn't a mistake deserving of a death sentence in my opinion, but why was Heather the only one vilified? Seems to me Sydney, her balless husband should of been held accountable for some of Tammy's fury. Had he kept it in his pants & stuck with his marriage vows it wouldn't of happened to begin with.
      Those 2 POS have got to think the rest of the world is totally stupid to believe their pleas of innocence. I can't believe Tammy let her jealousy & rage jeopardize her kids left to be orphaned as they rot in jail.
      Sadly Heather's family are the ones serving a life sentence of no knowing where their daughter's remains are. And to me, that proves just how unfair life can really be sometimes.

    • @estellar8186
      @estellar8186 Рік тому +5

      Yeah but what did she say? If he slept with 100 women she wouldn't care??

    • @LadyAstarionAncunin
      @LadyAstarionAncunin Рік тому +25

      Never, ever, ever get between a couple who have an abusive relationship. They will always turn on you _together_ and make you pay for interfering (as they see it). I wish this lesson was learned, but we keep seeing cases like this.

    • @refugeofthoughts8870
      @refugeofthoughts8870 Рік тому

      How is she insecure for not wanting her husband to stick his dick in other women?

  • @keithdrummond1003
    @keithdrummond1003 Рік тому +21

    By being a coward, a liar, and unfaithful, he lost everything.
    His freedom and family are destroyed.
    Never invite a married person into your private life.

    • @antmanselector
      @antmanselector 4 місяці тому

      @@keithdrummond1003 he was controlled by his wife

  • @xlnuniex
    @xlnuniex Рік тому +20

    So he killed Heather after the pregnancy test he purchased had revealed she was indeed pregnant. That’s sick. He not only killed Heather but their baby too. I truly hope her remains are found. Why dont the police just check his phone location that night?

    • @joebauers3746
      @joebauers3746 11 місяців тому +3

      Possibly, we don't know if she was preggers, no body found yet... But yea, you are right, they likely did not want to pay child support so they killed her. Also her weight gain was crazy, went from cute to fat real fast, likely pregnant. The pics of her learning to drive a stick shift, damn, easily 40lbs heavier than any other picture they showed. Even on her missing fliers they had her at 5'1" 110lbs when she was easily 150ish when she went missing...

    • @tonylozina9545
      @tonylozina9545 11 місяців тому +1

      They said the phone was shut off at the boat launch area. While it is widely suspected modern phones can still broadcast such info even when you turn it off, it is pretty unlikely a phone from 2013 did that.

  • @orionwesley
    @orionwesley Рік тому +416

    It's so amazing how Tammy went on that rant about her family being stalked & terrorized by Heather's father, especially considering the tremendous amount of bullying, harrassment, and terrorizing she herself did to that poor girl. Not to mention the fact she and her lapdog hubby kidnapped & murdered her. May they rot in peace after a long, long time in prison.
    I feel bad for their kids. Their dad was an idiot who led his life dick first while their mother was a manipulative, domineering harpy. Here's hoping the Maurer kids can lead some sort of normal life after all this.
    Also, I hope Heather's family finds some peace & comfort in this life as well, and that Heather is, for now, resting in peace.

    • @LiquidShivaz
      @LiquidShivaz Рік тому +15

      You’ve said it exactly like it is. Thank you for putting my thoughts into words

    • @sharongrigg5336
      @sharongrigg5336 Рік тому +13

      Couldn't have said it any better..

    • @professionaltrollgirl2682
      @professionaltrollgirl2682 Рік тому +15

      Uuugh... MAYBE HEATHER SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN AN UNREMORSEFUL HOMEWRECKER

    • @kaybeebn5109
      @kaybeebn5109 Рік тому

      ⁠​⁠@@professionaltrollgirl2682 So you’re saying that murder is an appropriate response to dealing with a “homewrecker”? Didn’t Tammy say she didn’t care where Sydney put his d!ick since they had an open marriage and she had boyfriend of her own for TWO YEARS?! So which is it… was Heather a homewrecker? Or was she “just a hoe” exactly like Tammy was??? 😂

    • @jennross6466
      @jennross6466 Рік тому +1

      *Moorer

  • @rubix1651
    @rubix1651 Рік тому +88

    It’s so glaringly obvious that they killed her

  • @Baehobie
    @Baehobie Рік тому +20

    Heather should not have gotten with Sydney knowing he was married but how is Tammy only blaming Heather, Sydney is a lot more to blame than Heather. I don’t understand why did Heather keep calling Sydney on that pay phone and then went out I’m presuming to see him?

    • @valbow
      @valbow Рік тому +1

      She was pregnant with his child.

  • @amandaburks1177
    @amandaburks1177 10 місяців тому +13

    Never, ever get involved with a married person. NO MATTER WHAT. It’s never a good idea.

    • @antmanselector
      @antmanselector 4 місяці тому

      This guy was controlled by his wife he was probably looking for a way out now she screwed his entire life up

  • @EYE_GOTCHA
    @EYE_GOTCHA Рік тому +124

    Sidney and Tammy are depraved and despicable creatures. Heather was young and naive and Sidney should have stayed the hell away from her. She did nothing to deserve being murdered and disposed of like garbage.

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому

      No, but she was a bit of a cretin.

    • @angelareitz5122
      @angelareitz5122 Рік тому

      not so naive, running around f*ucking married men lol... so "independent"

  • @elisawetsit7235
    @elisawetsit7235 Рік тому +124

    I dont think they will ever admit to what they did with Heather

    • @sleepywife9567
      @sleepywife9567 Рік тому +16

      Which is sad. 😢 I hate him for not stepping away and leaving her alone either he wanted to be with her… I know it’s never ok. He isn’t innocent. I know he did something to her like Tammy did 😢

    • @JaceB-tf3vf
      @JaceB-tf3vf Рік тому

      Womp womp

  • @TenFalconsMusic
    @TenFalconsMusic Рік тому +232

    "I look 20."
    Is that 20 in turtle years?

  • @markstar6056
    @markstar6056 Рік тому +40

    Why she went out in the early hours of the morning to meet that creep is baffling. I just want to scream at her and tell her what a bad decision she’s making and not to go. It’s very frustrating when young people make such bad and silly decisions that will cause them their lives. RIP Heather, it’s so sad for her and her family ❤

    • @blacknight2149
      @blacknight2149 Рік тому +5

      She was probably pregnant and felt she had ttalk to him...she probably wanted to keep it too.

    • @Baehobie
      @Baehobie Рік тому +8

      ⁠@@blacknight2149but she knew how crazy Tammy was, she literally expressed how scared she was of Tammy but she went knowing this will trigger Tammy

    • @alsuwailem999
      @alsuwailem999 Рік тому

      She missed the D

    • @allylondon9579
      @allylondon9579 11 місяців тому +1

      Because she was being "manipulated " and "groomed". 😒

    • @blacknight2149
      @blacknight2149 11 місяців тому +2

      @Baehobie he probably lied to her about Tammy being there, made up some story and tricked her. He knew what to say to her and manipulate her. It's really not hard to imagine what was going through her head, especially since she was likely pregnant. She needed to talk to him about her pregnancy and trusted him to not bring Tammy along with him. Sadly she was wrong. At least these murderers are in jail.

  • @OG213LA
    @OG213LA Рік тому +18

    Never mess around with a married man or woman because you don’t know how their partner will react.

    • @alookabab4810
      @alookabab4810 8 місяців тому +3

      Don't mess around with anyone married because it's an amoral thing to do.

    • @julieatkin3188
      @julieatkin3188 7 місяців тому

      Watch the movie Butterfly on a wheel

  • @estellar8186
    @estellar8186 Рік тому +56

    My cousin went missing for 5 days and it was torture. We finally found his body in a pond* but it was closure. I couldnt imagine suffering for years or forever without answers. This family deserves to lay her to rest. What inhumane people. I understand they cant tell because it would screw their chances of appeals but I hope when they exhaust them they tell this family where their daughter is.

  • @Klara-Hvar
    @Klara-Hvar Рік тому +223

    Heather was at a stage in life where one tends to make bad decisions, the other two monsters were adults, one is a coward with aspirations to be a heartthrob and the other is a psychopath. Every time I see an update on this case I hope that they have found the body, for her family and for these two to be charged with murder (as they should have been from the beginning)... they know it well, and that's why they keep their mouths shut.

    • @GrandTime-17
      @GrandTime-17 Рік тому +59

      Heather was not a child. Which means she was an adult too. I love how you tried to pass over that fact in your comment. 🙄

    • @Klara-Hvar
      @Klara-Hvar Рік тому +41

      @@GrandTime-17 Legally, she was an adult, but at 20 one does not have the same maturity or experience as at 40 (and just to be clear, under no circumstances do I endorse relationships of this type)... although, as has been seen, those two were almost 40 and their brains only had garbage.

    • @GrandTime-17
      @GrandTime-17 Рік тому +3

      @@Klara-Hvar You are correct. Have a good evening. 😊

    • @Klara-Hvar
      @Klara-Hvar Рік тому +3

      @@GrandTime-17 You too.

    • @ahirusaru
      @ahirusaru Рік тому +50

      She was also an adult? And clearly a bad one. She doesn’t deserve murder but she was still a horrible person who is fully responsible for her selfish choices.

  • @ST-tk7oq
    @ST-tk7oq Рік тому +340

    If murder is an acceptable and predictable outcome due to an affair, why wasn't the husband murdered?
    The husband is the one who made vows...
    The husband is the one who broke those vows...
    Heather didn't owe Tammy anything other than an appology.
    Considering how it ended, the perpetrators should not be afforded any sympathy...unless of course you identify with psychotic weirdos who terrorised then murdered a 20 year old...

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +27

      I don't think anyone's said that murder is an acceptable outcome of an affair, have they?

    • @Agencetourix
      @Agencetourix Рік тому +20

      @@eadweard. Way to miss the point...

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +10

      @@Agencetourix You'd need to be more specific really.

    • @clairewalton2275
      @clairewalton2275 Рік тому +4

      Well said 👏🏻👏🏻

    • @nbrangan
      @nbrangan Рік тому +24

      @eadweard. people are saying in these comments 'what did she expect?' Which implies that if you sleep with a married guy, you should indeed expect to be murdered

  • @11pupona
    @11pupona 11 місяців тому +15

    I cant understand anyone willingly engaging with a married person

    • @nancydawkins3818
      @nancydawkins3818 4 місяці тому +3

      I have never had a married man who is interested in me tell me he is married.

    • @tammytom9
      @tammytom9 2 місяці тому

      maybe they didn't want you

  • @travishutchings5423
    @travishutchings5423 Рік тому +11

    Do all relationship that begin this way end up this way? No. Do you want to be the one who find out how bad it can get? Nothing is worth being killed for or dying over.

  • @tracyp1815
    @tracyp1815 Рік тому +72

    I can only imagine Heather's family's pain of not knowing what happened to her, my heart goes out to them 😢

    • @sunshineonmyshoulder4800
      @sunshineonmyshoulder4800 4 місяці тому

      and Tammy will never tell them where the body is... they will find out that Heather was really pregnant.. and possibly that it was Sidney's baby.

  • @Lel_J
    @Lel_J Рік тому +179

    I've never heard of this case, so sad for Heather and her family. Yes she made poor decisions but she was just a young lassie, I'm sure lots of us have done things we're not proud of when we were young and daft without life experience. I don't think they'll ever tell what really happened and where Heather is, because Tammy hated Heather and hates her family, and Sidney is so submissive he would never go against his wife. Another brilliant episode, thank you ladies! 🙂

    • @rubix1651
      @rubix1651 Рік тому +20

      Exactly! She was too young to realise what a dangerous position she was in. As for him, he’s to blame because as the elder in their “relationship” he should have known better. Sickening to think he exploited her like that and to then torture her further throwing insults at her with him and his wife- bullying a young lass like that is just absolutely sickening. They absolutely murdered her and those charges shouldn’t have ever been dropped

    • @janedoe4316
      @janedoe4316 Рік тому +13

      I agree with everything except that Sidney would never go against his wife, since he had an affair in the first place

    • @user-gb7qb3rq8p
      @user-gb7qb3rq8p Рік тому +6

      This is an old case

    • @user-gb7qb3rq8p
      @user-gb7qb3rq8p Рік тому +35

      ​@@rubix1651Wrong! She was old enough to know EXACTLY what it is to commit ADULTERY! Ain't NO woman...I don't care if she is a teenager, stupid enough to know that you DON'T mess with married men

    • @Danica.Powell
      @Danica.Powell Рік тому +29

      ​@user-gb7qb3rq8p No, you shouldn't mess with married men. She made a terrible error of judgement although she was very young and I can't say that I didn't do really stupid things at her age. No matter what, she didn't deserve to be hurt, to be murdered. Nobody deserves that.

  • @jenniferharris7704
    @jenniferharris7704 Рік тому +60

    Tammy has those crazy eyes. Too bad they couldn’t work out a plea deal with Sydney because my guess is Tammy was the mastermind since Sydney seemed to be submissive and probably scared of Tammy. RIP to Heather and hugs for her family. 😢

  • @cathyvanzyl6306
    @cathyvanzyl6306 11 місяців тому +11

    My heart goes out Heather, and her family. RIP Heather.❤

  • @ShechinahRetzer
    @ShechinahRetzer 4 місяці тому +27

    What heather ever saw in that guy is the real mystery

    • @skel760
      @skel760 3 місяці тому +4

      Seriously. Him and his Mr Ed fake teeth. He was just dingy, creepy guy

    • @ShechinahRetzer
      @ShechinahRetzer 3 місяці тому

      @@skel760 Mr Ed teeth 🤣🤣

    • @reha1066
      @reha1066 3 місяці тому

      And his wife was so homely! She is very unattractive!

  • @robinbank5
    @robinbank5 Рік тому +43

    South Carolina has a lot of gators. That's probably how they've hidden her body. They fed it to gators. What a despicable couple. RIP, Heather.

  • @PositiveVibesChangeLives
    @PositiveVibesChangeLives Рік тому +27

    I first discovered this case on a different true crime channel and it's cases like this that really get to me because the victim is never found. Not knowing what happened and not having the body brought home to the family is absolutely heartbreaking.

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb 10 місяців тому +2

      I've seen it on true crime daily first too.

  • @dianadundidit5343
    @dianadundidit5343 Рік тому +225

    What could POSSIBLY go wrong when you have an affair with a MARRIED MAN IN A WORLD OF UNSTABLE PEOPLE??!!
    AND FYI TO THOSE INEXPERIENCED IN RELATIONSHIPS; IF SOMEONE MARRIED TELLS YOU THEY ARE IN A "UNHAPPY" MARRIAGE TELL THEM TO LOOK YOU UP WHEN THEY ARE DIVORCED!! BECAUSE THAT IS ONE OF THE OLDEST TACTICS IN THE BOOK!!

    • @taydestiny38
      @taydestiny38 Рік тому +16

      Wise words!!

    • @shannonosaile2137
      @shannonosaile2137 Рік тому

      Nowhere did I see that Heather was Experienced in relationships. And even if she was They were both grown adults. You're a special kinda stupid if you th8nk that her death was in any way her fault. RIP sweet, beautiful Heather and may Tammy and her punk ass botch rot in hel....l

    • @dianadundidit5343
      @dianadundidit5343 Рік тому

      Being in an "unhappy" marriage is far worse for your kids! ASK MINE! They don't want to pay child support or lose half! But when theygive YOU THIS LINE//.. IT IS JUST SO THEY CAN HAVE THEIR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO!! @@v3le

    • @kelsielovesbbu
      @kelsielovesbbu Рік тому +10

      Dude she was 20. Cut her slack

    • @matthewwilliams3827
      @matthewwilliams3827 Рік тому +7

      People are starting to say what I thought for years, I see. the world is full of unstable people.

  • @dchanelb.3289
    @dchanelb.3289 9 місяців тому +7

    “They kept the Christmas tree up and her presents are waiting for her” 😢🥺

  • @LinzYoutube
    @LinzYoutube Рік тому +68

    There is never an excuse to cheat. If you aren't happy in your relationship, then break up.

    • @chattahuffman5117
      @chattahuffman5117 Рік тому +1

      Yeah, cuz every situation and scenario is just that easy or simple. That is a very ignorant, judgemental take on situations you clearly know nothing of.

    • @chunglu
      @chunglu Рік тому

      @@chattahuffman5117 found the cheater lol

    • @valbow
      @valbow Рік тому

      Tammy said multiple times she had her own boyfriend too.

    • @Navyfiltered
      @Navyfiltered 4 місяці тому

      @@chattahuffman5117it’s not easy and it takes time and a plan but u should leave. I was married 15 yrs I knew at 11 yrs I had to go I finally but things in place 4 yrs later and left . There was no cheating ..

    • @sonjaotwell5439
      @sonjaotwell5439 2 місяці тому

      You can think cheating is wrong and still not try to imply that it’s justification for murder.

  • @eviehammond9509
    @eviehammond9509 Рік тому +61

    Sadly, Heather's family are the ones serving a much harsher life sentence without Heather or knowing where her remains are.

  • @robpalwrites
    @robpalwrites Рік тому +24

    I've seen this case on a couple of other true crime channels, and this is absolutely the best one. Great job 👍

  • @julivillalta
    @julivillalta Рік тому +49

    I cannot wrap my brain around the way people handle situations sometimes. Like, if your husband refuses to stop cheating, you leave. You don’t kill his mistress. Also in like 5 years she won’t even care about Sydney anymore. Would it all have been worth it then? The crassness of it all.

  • @triciamyers99
    @triciamyers99 11 місяців тому +17

    This case stills haunts me to this day. The pain, and heartache these parents have endured all of this time is brutal, and agonizing. And, poor Heather. She didn't deserve any of this. My heart breaks for the family, especially her parents. I've had to bury a child, so I feel every ounce of what you're going through.

  • @Poppyy2021
    @Poppyy2021 11 місяців тому +36

    Moral of the story . Don’t sleep with married men and post it all over social media.

    • @cjvaye99
      @cjvaye99 6 місяців тому +9

      Fr these comments are pathetic anybody who feels bad for Heather is a dope

    • @DSmith-e5e
      @DSmith-e5e 5 місяців тому

      Don't sleep with married men!

    • @michaelmur7691
      @michaelmur7691 5 місяців тому +4

      Honestly nobody really knows how crazy any person is, people are walking around like there's no consequences. I watch too much true crime to mess around.

    • @t.j.7789
      @t.j.7789 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@cjvaye99I find it hard to find her likeable!!!

    • @stevewhitener4903
      @stevewhitener4903 3 місяці тому

      @@cjvaye99So you think because of words on a piece of paper that they are married means that Heather deserved to be murdered?

  • @astroinked
    @astroinked Рік тому +163

    After enough torturing, I’m sure those two would tell you what they did with that poor girl. We should treat monsters like them with no compassion.

    • @Z.78
      @Z.78 Рік тому +8

      That’s what I was thinking, they would have spoken under torture

    • @polaide8036
      @polaide8036 Рік тому +13

      Torture is not only unethical and illegal under the Geneva convention 1984, it's also useless because people will confess to anything under torture, even things they haven't done.
      Torture as a method for obtaining information is inherently flawed because there is no way to tell if the subject possesses the desired knowledge. Thus if the subject denies to give the information it is assumed they are not yet broken, and once they are broken they will say anything to make the torture end.

    • @Corinne-v9c
      @Corinne-v9c Рік тому +8

      @@polaide8036it's obvious the husband & wife committed this murder. Did you not watch the video & see all the evidence? Yeah, torture isn't good, but this case would be a great exception because there would be a result...they would either tell where the body is, or how they destroyed it.

    • @FedupwitDC
      @FedupwitDC Рік тому +10

      Confessions under torture can usually be verified. Sydney and or Tammy would crack and blame the other. Torture works well with codefendents.

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd Рік тому

      Maybe they should take a page out of Walker, Texas Ranger. Where Chuck Norris tells the main bad guy the other guy spilled the beans on him and they know everything and this is his last chance to come clean. This works 100% of the time on the show no matter how tough the bad guy was prior.@@FedupwitDC

  • @R.PMcMurphy
    @R.PMcMurphy Рік тому +67

    Looks like a bunch of bad decisions from everybody involved. A complete shitshow

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 3 місяці тому +1

      so many of these murders are. the victims are usually unstable and into things that can get you hurt, killed, or put in jail

  • @SnowWhite717_
    @SnowWhite717_ Рік тому +75

    Thank you for all of your hard work bringing us these cases. 😊They’re always well researched, full of details and each person is presented in a respectful and compassionate manner. Please keep the Grade A cases coming to us! ❤ Have a wonderful and safe weekend everyone

    • @TrulyCriminal
      @TrulyCriminal  Рік тому +12

      Thank you so much for the kind words we really appreciate it! Hope you have a wonderful weekend yourself :) 🖤

    • @BucketHeadianHagg
      @BucketHeadianHagg Рік тому +4

      Hey you! Thank you for supporting this channel in this way! It means so much to the creators, and encourages us to do it too! You’re awesome! Sending a hug your way from Las Vegas!

    • @BucketHeadianHagg
      @BucketHeadianHagg Рік тому +4

      I just dontated and mentioned your name! ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @SnowWhite717_
      @SnowWhite717_ Рік тому

      @@BucketHeadianHagg So Awesome!!! I’m sure they appreciate it! Have a wonderful week! ☀️💖

    • @BucketHeadianHagg
      @BucketHeadianHagg Рік тому

      @@SnowWhite717_ you too, sweetness 😇

  • @Angelina_not_Jolie928
    @Angelina_not_Jolie928 Рік тому +3

    You did a fabulous job on the details for this video

  • @lktzu2821
    @lktzu2821 Рік тому +3

    The devastation on the father's face broke my heart. My condolences to Heather's family and loved ones.

  • @charmaineswaddle2286
    @charmaineswaddle2286 Рік тому +59

    There is only one hateful, spiteful and evil person in all of this and it’s Tammy…you were living with her!! RIP Heather ❤

    • @concernedandequal1928
      @concernedandequal1928 Рік тому

      heather is no angel. she slept around with a married man. I would say that's pretty evil. It's actually a sin. It's called adultery. And no, her being young is not an excuse.

  • @HaveFaith_11
    @HaveFaith_11 Рік тому +133

    I wish Heather would had gone to the police & made a report when Tammy first started attacking her. It’s sad & pathetic Tammy acted like a CHILD! Attacking & belittling a young woman is disgusting. She should have put all that energy on leaving Sydney & growing up.

    • @ElaAusDemTal
      @ElaAusDemTal Рік тому +9

      You wish Heather would have gone to the police, not "of went"!

    • @TowGunner
      @TowGunner Рік тому +7

      Since the grammar police is out and about: “literal child” Tammy morphed into a pubescent girl? Tammy acted like a child would be best.

    • @dazediss6629
      @dazediss6629 Рік тому +1

      I don’t think you understand what a psychopath is.

    • @HaveFaith_11
      @HaveFaith_11 Рік тому

      @@dazediss6629 oh I do…

    • @samnous2002
      @samnous2002 Рік тому +3

      The police would've done nothing if Heather had gone to them.

  • @BurnItUpp2009
    @BurnItUpp2009 Рік тому +60

    Poor Heather. Tammy and Sydney are evil incarnate. Yes Heather had an affair with a married man but she was moving on and didn't deserve to be murdered. Poor Heather's family. My heart breaks for them.

    • @randomkeir
      @randomkeir Рік тому +6

      She wasn’t moving on, she was going through the motions. Heather NEVER should have met this dude at 1 am. That’s both crazy and suicidal.

    • @Baehobie
      @Baehobie Рік тому +8

      @@randomkeirI’m actually wondering why did she keep calling him on that pay phone and then went to meet him at night. Knowing how crazy Tammy was behaving in the past, wasn’t she moving on from all this?

    • @cricketstarr1489
      @cricketstarr1489 Рік тому +2

      She was sleeping with somebody else’s husband..

    • @Tragedyval
      @Tragedyval 11 місяців тому +4

      @@Baehobie she was pregnant with his child and he probably tell her that he can take care of the baby, and end up kidnapping her and kill both heather and her baby. Heather most likely don't want anyone else to know that shes pregnant with Sidney kid.

    • @EssElle89
      @EssElle89 10 місяців тому

      Ruined a marraige and wasa tramp. Karma

  • @Lumame
    @Lumame Рік тому +12

    She did put herself in that position. Calling yourself angel while shacking married man… she didn’t deserve to die but she sure as hell wasn’t a good person

    • @tobeexcite
      @tobeexcite 3 місяці тому

      You made a good point. However, even though adultery is a sin, murder is a quantum leap in sinning. Heather didn't deserve her fate, despite her faults.

    • @Southamericangirl42
      @Southamericangirl42 3 місяці тому

      @tobeexcite
      Man makes that distinction - to silence his conscience evidently. But to the Lord sin is sin. Telling a lie, promiscuity, theft, being jealous, cheating on tests, drug use, drunkenness, taking His name in vain, using curse words, adultery, homosexuality, sex with minors, disrespect towards parents and elders, murder, hate and so on. In fact if you hate someone it's considered the same as murder. There's no clearer example that every sin is as heinous as the other. To our detriment we've forsaken this truth.

    • @sandienesta1467
      @sandienesta1467 2 місяці тому

      tammy had a bf for years and an open marriage.. those were her words. why blame heather? sydney knew what he was doing!

  • @DrBiBeatz
    @DrBiBeatz Рік тому +3

    Rip Heather. No one deserves what she went through. Some people are really evil

  • @soft_machine_
    @soft_machine_ Рік тому +69

    LMAO the Tammy tattoo 😂. That guy is a fool 🤡

    • @spiritwalker9903
      @spiritwalker9903 6 місяців тому

      A totAl coward

    • @carolynw3602
      @carolynw3602 5 місяців тому

      He’s such a whipped loser, and Tammy is demonic.

    • @matthew152
      @matthew152 3 місяці тому +1

      He could easily turn that "A" into an "O" if he finds a prison wife named Tommy😂

    • @patricia-fz8et
      @patricia-fz8et 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes, that is the response that men get when it is revealed that they are the victim of domestic violence...do your research.

    • @EvilWizardWeedSheeee
      @EvilWizardWeedSheeee 3 місяці тому

      ​@@patricia-fz8et Exactly. If the gender roles were reversed everyone would 💩their brain out of their ears

  • @Itsmarianna.
    @Itsmarianna. Рік тому +201

    It’s always best to just leave married men alone.

    • @Everybody_Say_Love
      @Everybody_Say_Love 5 місяців тому +20

      The same could be said for anything that we know we’re not supposed to do. Don’t over eat, don’t smoke don’t drink anddrive. Regardless when you do indulge you shouldn’t be punished with your life.
      And always

    • @arconeagain
      @arconeagain 5 місяців тому +11

      ​@@Everybody_Say_Love yes, but like this person's advice, it's always best to leave married men alone.

    • @rudolfgunther5304
      @rudolfgunther5304 4 місяці тому +15

      @@Everybody_Say_Love What a stupid thing to say wrecking a marriage and over eating etc. are on the same level of misconduct.

    • @arconeagain
      @arconeagain 4 місяці тому +4

      @@rudolfgunther5304 exactly, what's her point. I could say, I don't know... don't stare at leaves on a deciduous tree in autumn. WTF?

    • @----.__
      @----.__ 4 місяці тому +5

      @@Everybody_Say_Love Overeating can kill you. Smoking can kill you. Driving drunk can kill you....
      And what do you know, sleeping with married men can kill you too. Your comment is pointless. When you "indulge" you are quite often punished with your life. If you want a long and healthy life then stay away from habitual overindulgence.

  • @justanothersmith6012
    @justanothersmith6012 Рік тому +69

    This happened about 1&1/2 hours from me . We put up some fliers at stores/gas stations on Hwy 17N . Trucks and and cars had them plastered in their windows all over the state. Everyone knew fairly early that Tammy & Sidney were involved . Without signs of life , I don’t understand why they can’t be charged with murder. If they’ve been convicted of kidnapping her, that’s the next obvious step.

    • @oldpunker885
      @oldpunker885 Рік тому +5

      This happened in my town. My sister was in jail briefly with POS Tammy. My sisters boyfriend was in jail with Sydney. Police should have used them as informants to extract information from them

    • @justanothersmith6012
      @justanothersmith6012 Рік тому +10

      @@oldpunker885 Seriously! Tammy scares me more than Sydney .🧌

    • @oldpunker885
      @oldpunker885 Рік тому

      @@justanothersmith6012 Tammy was definitely the puppet master. Total relentless psychopath.

    • @debra6513
      @debra6513 Рік тому +4

      She looks bitter and dangerous yikes scary monster

    • @chelleyd4020
      @chelleyd4020 Рік тому

      Because you can’t charge someone with murder if there’s no body, and if they did then if a body was found they couldn’t be trialed again sue to double jeopardy iirc

  • @beckystarrski
    @beckystarrski Рік тому +3

    I really enjoy this ch. so much. Your voice is amazing & soothing to hear. And with many cases you divulge information I never heard about via other TC ch’s. As well as pics. I didn’t know that Heather’s friends were calling /pretending to be Tammy etc. Perhaps they were trying to help her to defuse the situation before it got too crazy? Anyway, I always enjoy your episodes. Thx👍

  • @sly4u247
    @sly4u247 Рік тому +17

    Are we really gonna let slide the fact that Heather helped Sydney cheat and announced it on Facebook/Tumblr. No normal person does that.

  • @Jammo1978
    @Jammo1978 Рік тому +91

    You can see the deep routed bitterness in the wifes face

    • @AllergicToFantasy
      @AllergicToFantasy Рік тому +15

      Indeed. The hate is oozing out of her pores

    • @DFSLJC
      @DFSLJC Рік тому

      @@AllergicToFantasywas an early wall

    • @LeilaniKristina
      @LeilaniKristina 9 місяців тому

      Facts, those sorts you typically can. Their face wreaks of it. Poor kid, she was 20 years old and had a life ahead of her. May they never get out of prison. 🤍🙏🏼

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 3 місяці тому

      the young woman was messing with her kids by wanting to be their nanny and though she said it was sydney's idea, I doubt it. sydney probably knew his wife would never allow such a young pretty woman to live with them - especially if she was from the same town and then moved to the new town.

  • @SerenDipity64711
    @SerenDipity64711 Рік тому +41

    Poor Heather. Naive and young. I hope she is found one day and send my love to her family❤

    • @behramadivar1164
      @behramadivar1164 Рік тому +2

      Not possible....bones would be collapsed to dust under the water

  • @juliahill7732
    @juliahill7732 Рік тому +20

    This is heartbreaking. Her family needs her back. As a mother I don't know how you go on not knowing where your missing child is.💔

    • @annabanana9240
      @annabanana9240 7 місяців тому

      Where was the family when she dated married man? Why they didn't stopped her? Didn't talked? They see posts on twitter. They knew nothing beautiful will happen with much older married man

  • @baileyparker3803
    @baileyparker3803 11 місяців тому +4

    Sindey, goes publicly states things like, "we and us". Tammy goes publicly and says, "me, my, and I"....
    Thats says a lot.

  • @MZ-bl6wg
    @MZ-bl6wg Рік тому +9

    I’ve watched every video on this case and it’s heart breaking , she was taken advantage of and manipulated by a much much older man and EVERY ounce of evidence points directly at Sydney and Tammy , but with no body they keep getting off. I read a comment from a fisherman that loves by the boat ramp saying there are Gators everywhere in there , that it eould take virtually no effort or time before gators would take anything moving in the water that time of night and a gator would be the easiest way to make someone disappear , a lot of theories are the same where we know they met her at the ramp and she wasn’t seen again. It’s so sad that Florida is one of those few states that regardless of eveidence can’t give a murder conviction without a body. We know it was them, and I think truly it was the crazy wife, he was infatuated with her and friends of his say he’s one of the nicest guys but anyone that knows Tammy says she’s insane and she did threaten death to Heather multiple time and knowing she’s was pregnant with his baby that’s surely push her over the edge but he definelty played a part. Breaks my heart as a father of daughters

  • @lyndamck3446
    @lyndamck3446 Рік тому +114

    I can never understand why, when a husband cheats on a wife, the other woman gets vilified. She, the other woman, is not the one who made the vow to be faithful and is usually relying on what the husband is telling her when deciding whether or not to get involved.

    • @tapoemt3995
      @tapoemt3995 Рік тому +73

      That does not give you a free pass to screw around with a Married man. I'm in no way siding with the 2 losers, however she knew full well he was married and chose to lay down with him anyways.

    • @GrandTime-17
      @GrandTime-17 Рік тому

      I guess the other woman should just get a fucking cupcake then, huh? 🙄 You're ridiculous.

    • @sharongrigg5336
      @sharongrigg5336 Рік тому +50

      ​@@tapoemt3995of course it doesn't but the husband is the one who's stepped outside the marriage, he's the one who lied & cheated on his wife. I'm married & if my hubby ever had an affair my anger is purely towards him. I'll never understand why they go after the other person but often forgive their partner, once the trust is broken the marriage is over. Let's face it this young girl made a huge mistake getting involved with this POS, but he definitely manipulated her & the fact he was nearly 40 & she was only 20 make's both him & his wife disgusting by both their actions towards this girl.

    • @elizabethlevesque6978
      @elizabethlevesque6978 Рік тому +42

      Sorry but if the other woman KNOWS he’s married, she’s at fault too. He shouldn’t be trying to outside of his marriage but she shouldn’t be encouraging it either. Same goes for a married woman/single man dynamic

    • @ericalexander5890
      @ericalexander5890 Рік тому +31

      It still speaks to the morality of someone who knowingly sleeps with someone who is married...

  • @jmaxim917
    @jmaxim917 Рік тому +34

    They should never get out of prison.

  • @RRM13
    @RRM13 Рік тому +23

    “Always wanted to live to the fullest”. I don’t need to hear anything more.

    • @GrandTime-17
      @GrandTime-17 Рік тому +8

      Lmao, yea, these people. Why can't they ever just chill n be normal

    • @lindaholtzhausen1539
      @lindaholtzhausen1539 7 місяців тому

      Live to the fullest! And you pay a price you can't afford! You pay with your life or your freedom !

  • @barbiewhite9000
    @barbiewhite9000 Рік тому +8

    DO NOT MESS W/MARRIED MEN!

    • @Raw_Roots
      @Raw_Roots 5 місяців тому

      Married men shouldn't chase 20 yr olds..barely legal..

    • @Challenger2A7
      @Challenger2A7 4 місяці тому

      Well, yes, don't get involved with married men, but what gets me is, why do these men bother to get married in the first place if they want to chase after women all the time? Surely it would be much easier to remain single and chase as many women as possible???

  • @missp78
    @missp78 9 місяців тому +3

    The smugness of Sydney (and those crazy teeth!) Tammy is an embarrassment. If you’re at the point where you’re handcuffing your partner to a bed to ensure they don’t sneak out, you need to reevaluate your relationship. Tragic case.

  • @BostonShovinstuff
    @BostonShovinstuff Рік тому +44

    That tattoo is nuttier than squirrel turds !!! I can smell the craziness and toxicity from Boston . Geez , this is a crazy tale . Great work by the way

    • @reyannecopus6624
      @reyannecopus6624 Рік тому

      His wife look at bat shit crazy

    • @dianeshannon7988
      @dianeshannon7988 Рік тому +3

      Total narcissistic borderline pyscho wife it was only ever going to end badly

    • @BostonShovinstuff
      @BostonShovinstuff Рік тому +1

      @@dianeshannon7988 YUP! It doesn't "set the mood" for normalcy whatsoever

    • @dianeshannon7988
      @dianeshannon7988 Рік тому +3

      @BostonShovingstuff I agree that narcissistic request screams he is her possession I suspect he is being abused so sought solicitor outside the toxic marriage messy allround

    • @TransKidRevolution
      @TransKidRevolution Рік тому +1

      You might be smelling boston

  • @mentalbreak4653
    @mentalbreak4653 Рік тому +70

    This is why you don’t f**k around with married people . There’s billions of people out there find a different one.

    • @BlissGallant
      @BlissGallant 5 місяців тому +3

      That's a really hateful thing to say. This isn't about you and your husband who's cheated on you, that's exactly what you sound like.😂

    • @Raw_Roots
      @Raw_Roots 5 місяців тому +6

      Married men shouldn't chase 20 year olds..

    • @morganholdman1091
      @morganholdman1091 4 місяці тому

      @@BlissGallant been a mistress once or twice? Why take offense? Play with fire, get burned

    • @SweetCandy-x4j
      @SweetCandy-x4j 4 місяці тому

      Exactly!!!

    • @nicolem1865
      @nicolem1865 3 місяці тому

      @@Raw_Rootsbut you as a single 20yr old also have the ability to stay away! I have heard way too many stories of married men killing their side pieces it it not worth your life!

  • @TheRealNativeSun
    @TheRealNativeSun Рік тому +19

    Well that was messy. 😢 Boggles my mine that I don’t hear not one talk of restraining orders. She kept going back and forth with them. That’s crazy.

    • @peabuddie
      @peabuddie Рік тому +1

      I'm thinking she didn't want to be exposed to family and friends. She esp. probably didn't want her dad to find out about this relationship with a married older man. She was in a scary mess and wasn't thinking clearly.

  • @TheExplainerOfStuff
    @TheExplainerOfStuff Рік тому +5

    They should put them both in solitary confinement until they give up where they put the girl. We've got to stop catering to criminals in this country because it's just getting worse. In this case it's so cruel to the parents it's unbelievable. And yet this unholy mess of a woman.
    was up on the stand crying about how she was being taken away from HER CHILDREN , because of "all this"

  • @darcydavies-jones1503
    @darcydavies-jones1503 11 місяців тому +1

    Getting involved with someone who is married, especially knowingly will more often than not always end in violence.

  • @cherylsurplice1417
    @cherylsurplice1417 Рік тому +60

    It’s just so frustrating that they can charge them with kidnapping but not her murder! Obviously if they did kidnapped her they murdered her!
    I think she met up with that loser bc he tricked her and his psycho wife kept her hostage while he bought the pregnancy test then it was positive so they killed her!
    Maybe one day the guilt of what he did will make him say what he did with Heathers body. From what I’ve seen on this vid abt his wife she will NEVER break bc she’s a psychopath! What kind of person handcuffs their husband to their bed to keep him from sneaking out?
    That really says a lot abt her!
    RIP Heather you got some justice but not enough. I really hope her parents will some day get some answers and bring her home.
    It really makes me sick to c that these monsters didn’t get tried for murder I just hope they both have to stay in prison for the entire 30 years!! I hope they’re both suffering EVERY DAY in prison!!!

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +1

      Kept her hostage?

    • @BeccaBullard8
      @BeccaBullard8 Рік тому

      There are ways to get people to talk even someone like that’s crazy woman. But the legal system won’t do it because it’s not civilized. As for the husband I think all you would have to do is threaten to do something to him and he would talk. IMO

    • @MsSwitchblade13
      @MsSwitchblade13 Рік тому

      ​@@eadweard.Speculation that may have happened

  • @b4ubcomeold
    @b4ubcomeold Рік тому +20

    Here's a PSA tip for everyone in a relationship.... *IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU "HAVE TO" HANDCUFF YOUR S/O TO THE BED AT NIGHT TO INSURE THEY DON'T GO OUT & FIND THEIR BOOTIE CALL.... THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP TO SAVE!!! THEY NO LONGER LOVE YOU!! YOU'RE NOT THE ONE!!! THERE'S NO TRUST! TRUST IS THE FOUNDATION & WITHOUT A SOLID FOUNDATION, IT'S BOUND TO CRUMBLE!* And add to that forcing them to get a tattoo with the other persons name, change their password so ONLY THE OTHER PERSON KNOWS IT, have the other person followed (keeping tabs on 'em) screen their calls, dictate what they wear, where they work, when they work and where they go.... It's OVER! Pack your bags and leave! *YOU'RE NOT THE ONE!!!*

    • @girlwhomustnotbenamed4139
      @girlwhomustnotbenamed4139 Рік тому +1

      You're right but it's pointless explaining it to a narcissistic psychopath like Tammy, unfortunately. They can't function based on reason. She threw a tantrum and lashed out like a 4-year-old who is completely unable to regulate her emotions. These kinds of people are extremely dangerous and there is no reasoning with them.

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 3 місяці тому

      how do we know he was handcuffed? Did sydney tell the young woman that?

  • @NinaDuffy
    @NinaDuffy Рік тому +31

    Happy Saturday everyone!
    This case is tragic. Everyone involved was wrong on some level. It is sad it had to escalate the way it did.

  • @danielmoran9902
    @danielmoran9902 Рік тому +4

    I was watching TV one day, years ago, and the news came on. The lead story was about a child who had gone missing while out playing. Someone in the family said 'the kid's probably dead'. She must have seen the look on my face, because she looked at me and said' Look: once they've been gone 24 hours, they normally are. You'll see'.
    Sadly, she wasn't wrong. Usually, once they've been missing overnight, they normally end up dead. You'll see.

  • @amandaowens2016
    @amandaowens2016 Рік тому +3

    The grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence. 😢 just say NO and thank God for unanswered prayers 🙏 ❤

  • @theblackglove
    @theblackglove Рік тому +10

    I am constantly impressed with your writing and narration on this channel.

  • @luvmibratt
    @luvmibratt Рік тому +30

    This tragic story has been told plenty of time,but TC told Heather's side instead of belittling the young girl.

    • @Baehobie
      @Baehobie Рік тому +3

      RIP Heather, but at 20 you know it’s wrong to mess around with someone knowing they are married, she wasn’t that young to not know the consequences. Now her poor family is suffering and grieving their child. This case is heartbreaking, she definitely didn’t deserve punishment that great.

    • @sarahjane4701
      @sarahjane4701 5 місяців тому

      Why but, the poor girls not around anymore let her rest with out saying she was 20 and should have known better to mess around with a married man, no one deserves being killed, it takes two to tango plus don't judge this girl or the situation, it's not right and she's not here to defend herself.
      Rest with the Angels Heather x ♥️ 💓 ❤
      Your missed her loved very much Xxx

    • @luvmibratt
      @luvmibratt 5 місяців тому

      @sarahjane4701 yeah,that's basically what I said.

  • @SharonM-uh9cq
    @SharonM-uh9cq Рік тому +19

    What an utterly tragic story. Thank you for your excellent coverage as always.

  • @anthonyparisella7224
    @anthonyparisella7224 Рік тому +4

    Young woman having an affair with a married older man is a recipe for disaster. Naive girl couldn't see she was just being used

  • @jonathanchen1026
    @jonathanchen1026 11 місяців тому +4

    The dark side of getting with someone that’s married, you never know who’s on the other side of that marriage. Poor girl found out who the real devil was in her Angel and Devil love story.

  • @FrostRare
    @FrostRare Рік тому +49

    “Believe me, I had the friends to make me _that kind of girl_ , but I didn’t do it.”
    Perhaps the most incriminating thing she said. This is textbook cognitive dissonance. “I could have been in the NBA but I wanted to be an insurance broker so I turned it down.”

    • @HalloTschuess
      @HalloTschuess 11 місяців тому +2

      That's also some textbook manipulative, powerplay NPD talk right there. (Narcissistic Personality Disorder)

  • @sonjaheck3156
    @sonjaheck3156 Рік тому +40

    She was such a fool to fall for such a creep. It is so sad she lost her life over him. Her Twitter history is crazy. What could she possibly have seen in him?

    • @joebauers3746
      @joebauers3746 11 місяців тому +6

      Even crazier is that Sidney stayed with his ham hock of a wife instead of developing a relationship with Heather, all three of them were nuts apparently...

    • @BOFAMET
      @BOFAMET 11 місяців тому

      I hate to say it but this case FRUSTRATED me because of that, I'm so sick of these naive young girls glamorizing "relationships" with these creepy loser older men. Like sure any gal will be attracted to a nice DILF but that doesn't mean you need to try and act on it... Much less when said loser is MARRIED! I'm a mother and I can't imagine how ashamed I would be knowing that my daughter got herself involved with these weirdos. Such a sad waste of a life - I really don't want to be judgmental but someone really should have steered that girl a little harder in the right direction. It seems like her best friend was very mature in giving her advice about it too.

    • @ganwang1439
      @ganwang1439 10 місяців тому +1

      Only for lust I guess, nothing serious, she is away from her family, she felt lonely.

    • @mikemcmike6427
      @mikemcmike6427 9 місяців тому

      @@joebauers3746exactly they were all nuts/bad/scum in their own way. Clearly Tammy was the worst by faaaar but each person was crap in their own way.
      That said NOOO WAY Heather deserved this

    • @cjvaye99
      @cjvaye99 6 місяців тому +3

      like I said before... everyone in this story is a nut job

  • @loveforeignaccents
    @loveforeignaccents Рік тому +13

    Wow, great coverage of this case, ladies. Glad some sort of justice prevailed; just wish her family had her body to lay to rest.
    Anyhow, enjoy the rest of your weekend!

  • @NB-mi2jr
    @NB-mi2jr 11 місяців тому +4

    Warm, popular, well-liked, free spirited, loving art, smiles, loving life blabla, this bullshit really gets old, it is in all of the beginnings of these movies, after which they get killed brutally. It's always the most talented, skilled and most loved people so it seems.

  • @KimmySaurusRex44
    @KimmySaurusRex44 Рік тому +4

    I mean this is just a perfect example of why you shouldn't mess with married men. Seemed like she was proud of it too posting it online and stuff.

  • @LadyAstarionAncunin
    @LadyAstarionAncunin Рік тому +16

    For the religious out there, there's a saying: God will never send you someone else's partner. Think about that. And for both the religious and non-religious, be logical: If someone who is married is approaching you, something is WRONG with them! Don't be flattered, be insulted! They're not offering you their best.

    • @shannonosaile2137
      @shannonosaile2137 Рік тому

      And so you think it's alright they killed her??

    • @Agencetourix
      @Agencetourix Рік тому +2

      @@shannonosaile2137 The victim blaming in this comment section is off the charts. Probably a lot of incels out and about.

    • @scootvirtual5609
      @scootvirtual5609 Рік тому +5

      @@shannonosaile2137 Where in his comment does he say "it's alright they killed her" ?

    • @rachey5300
      @rachey5300 Рік тому +3

      Exactly, leave the married men and women alone. Nothing good will come of it.

    • @jasontodd1896
      @jasontodd1896 10 місяців тому

      God ain’t real