The hunter-gatherers we are descended from had to work 3-4 hours a day in order to fulfill the needs of daily life, the rest of that time was spent being near others in intimate tribes of well under 10,000 people; the move to agricultural and industrial life meant workdays of 10+ hours with whatever spare free time remaining being put towards navigating massive, impersonal cities of no fewer than 100,000 people. It's not your fault - you're just trying to sit down at the campfire and have a meaningful interaction the way you were evolved to. 🫂❤
Am I wrong in saying that the man in this picture is fake, but the bold women (Egyptianess) are real, based off of coin portraits of CarlosUSsss III of Spain. And the fact that genesis 25:25 exists. Imagine the creepy face of Carlos-us's father had he been pure blood red devil - bold black thin lip bbg steppa girl friend creepy enough. images.app.goo.gl/JEoNuubmHRQXfQBH6 coinquest.com/cq_data/cq_ro/graphics/carolus_iii_real_fake.jpg
As far as being selective and not attaching to people it's probably because you are tired of disingenuous people sucking your energy then ditching you, but there are people who will be a blessing if you allow them in to your life for sure
Most bad habits and addictions stem from meaninglessness in life, followed by boredom. So the bad habits are not the pivot of our predicaments. Its our purposelessness. Our lack of wisdom and perception. i. People often get so fixated on certain bad habits that they start to fear that if they let this certain habit go, they wont be able to feel this beautiful lie anymore. They start fearing the truth...unknowingly. They fall in love with the highs, the rushes, the pleasures. Bad habits are just a mode of escapism. When you dont face your fears, most things you do thereupon becomes a cope for not facing the fears you were supposed to encounter. So yeah, dont blame the bad habits. Accept that you sill a larvae, ever growing and learning. Theres lotta stuff for us to learn. You are still a bucket that hasnt been filled to the rim yet, also dont let that be an excuse, let it be an opportunities. Find growth. Reject weakness, its poison. The best thing you can do to boost this journey of growth is to accept the truth and keep moving forward. Truth will be harsh, but whats the point if its not.
I don't know your age but girl. You are EXTREMELY evolved and self-aware for your age. Honestly. That is why you don't have friends. Maybe, maybe, you could find a friend in someone in their 50s or over. Because young people do not think like you do. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!! There are people like you. But they are few. Sending love
There are exceptions where young people are wise. Like she is one of the exception. I’ve seen people that are wise that that were younger than me.(all in youtube though lol) Im in late 20s
People used to literally die from homesickness. Modern culture has nearly obliterated home and community, thus likely the inundation of addictions and 'mental illnesses', aka most of them probably a completely normal human response to 'homesickness' for cultural connection that is almost no more as well as the inundation of toxins our organs, brains, and emotions have to now contend with.
i love videos like this because you describe my situation perfectly.. love the algorithim for it. i grew up having friends because i thought i needed them and to be honest, it made me so lost not being able to relate to people, leaving me with few people i talk to now. i think its a beautiful thing that social media exists to connect likeminded people though. youre on the right track , keep showing up each day and one day youll have so much strength you won't recognize this "broken person" youre trying to fix. maybe we were never broken but just humans experiencing life and trying to survive with our needs, but as we grow we learn to accept the messy and good parts of life and ourselves. its all about being intentional with our needs, pouring the right thing into the cup that will quench that thirst
thank you for this video. the algorithm reads minds omg. i feel undestood. i'm so full of blame for wasting my time on useless things like social media; it feels like me talking. i think the "need" for me, and probably many others idk, is to feel loved and not alone. loneliness is the fear in my opinion. i understand you even for your need to "overshare" but literally, me too, i am expressive but i've learn to select what i say to whom i say
Yes…I used to try to get rid of pmo for years. I tried everything, and I had soo much shame. Especially as a woman. This year I finally embraced it, yielded to it, silently observed it. It’s very controversial but it’s working for me.
Recognizing and admitting that you are addicted is a crucial first step, similar to how an alcoholic must acknowledge their situation. It takes courage to face this truth, and I admire you for doing so. By addressing this issue and speaking openly about it, you are taking positive steps towards freeing yourself from its hold. Remember that feeding your addiction only diminishes your energy and hinders your growth. It's beneficial to focus on higher thoughts and connect with the divine. Take time each day to meditate and reflect on your journey. I wish you strength and success as you navigate this path towards healing and liberation.
Love this. I've been trying to substitute everything in my life with something healthier. Especially things that I would normally think of as a "treat", I am looking at what will give me the same enjoyment while being much better for my soul. Like going for a hike with a friend rather than spending a ton of money eating out or going shopping. This video helped a lot with realizing even more things I can substitute. Thank you :)
Thank you for this new perspective, I think I can now identify my real issues that I try to fulfil by bad habbits. I also realized that my body is really smart and sometimes it tryes to tell me something, but I not always listen. Thank you so so much, you have so much inner wisdom I cannot explain it clearly but I feel it from you.
Wow! Thank you for sharing your perspective. I feel we make things harder for ourselves by exaggerating the importance of things we "need". For me it helps to care less about whether I get something I want or whether things go the way I want. If I take an aloof "we'll see" attitude and let go of controlling the situation, I feel freer, less constrained, and less focused on if/then concerns. If I get it or not, or if this or that happens, it's fine either way! Let life live and let yourself laugh at the craziness. How dull it would be if we always get what we want and nothing surprising happens! 😊
You’re so sincere 🧡 love you, you’re doing a wonderful thing 🫶 Your values are so relatable 🥹🫂 We gotta go through all these difficulties, we can form our future as we truly wish it to be :)
Thank youuuu for your kind words of encouragement and love ❤️ I really appreciate it my friend and I’m so grateful to have you as my best friend in the whole universe thank youuuu and thank youuuu
Важаю це відео геніальним, слухаючи як ти відверто розповідаєш про свої думки та досягнення в теперішньому часі і взагалі як ти бачиш світ навколо себе - це просто захоплює🤩. Чесно скажу сам ось тільки недавно дійшов до схожої думки про зміни, особливо дивлячись на минуле і діючи в майб вже інакшим способом, суть не тільки в аналізі але має бути чітка дисципліна, здорове мислення та завжди робити рішення навіть якщо воно не правильне🥸😋. Бажаю бути й надалі такою відкритою та відвертою на відео, це дуже приємно потім слухати та бачити🙌🙂
Wow! I'm really impressed by your outlook-you are doing an amazing job motivating people to improve their lives even when you are still trying to figure yours out too-all the best! x
Im just here coz i thought the title was quite insightful. You seem pretty young to be contemplating positive entropy and its relationship to anchoring mental stillness.
you looks young and beautiful stop thinking too much and carrying taught that u aren't supposed to think about at this age live each day to the fullest never think about past or future just go live , fail , that's life i hope you have a wonderful life Liza Bashkova
I just wanted to thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. Listen to you is calming and helpful I can relate in many ways and wish you the best keep growing,find peace and happiness.❤
I feel like you're the person on the internet I can relate closest to, like our journey paths are exactly aligned, despite being of different genders. Not that I'm trying to bring up antagonistic gender dynamics, its just surprising to me that the struggle im going through is articulated by a gal better than most (maybe my belief systems just been brainwashed from male-oriented self-improvement content idk) I've thought about this topic too but it sounded so doomful knowing that my unmet needs will drive my bad habits unless I meet them appropriately (which ive tried to find a way for but i cant see an actionable solution to it), so I end up burying it. But then I keep asking myself why I cant break my habits through despite my best attempts lol. Thank you for making this video, your content helped me reached important realizations along the way. Keep doing what you're doing, these stuffs are genuine and authentic 💚
You gave me a thought on the concept of rebirth i.e. Christianity. The surrender of the mind and body to the soul, it feels scary because you have to deny your wants as you learn they're a lie and how to suppress them, IDK why it popped into my head but thanks.
OH yeah, So it seems scary, but the more aligned with what your soul wants you are the better and more elated you feel even during moments of anxiety etc you supercede it.
I love you❤ I am also very transparent and talk openly and sometimes also realizing I share too much but like you said it helps me to get things out of the System. I am a pisces and noticed pisces tend to overshare things. I think it is okay. ❤ we are very real.
thank u so much for posting this! it gives me a new perspective on why i still do some things that i know they won't bring me the healthy gratification..
I am the same I think it is the best qualitaty you can have!!!!! LIZA OUR INTUITION IS PROTECTING US❤ I was always like this. Only trusting a few ones. It is not bad liza. I was also lonely you will be fine. I understand you. I went through the same.
When you get older you realise that you should never use reasoning justify evil or destructive behaviour. Minimise the suffering. That is the aim of a man.
0:38 I have been wearing sunscreen my whole life & most women do not so I always tell women what my Mor mor grandmother Lilly told me to always wear sunscreen to push it into your scalp because you dont want a saggy scalp & to only get tan after 65+ for a healthy look, you will thank me that you still have nice elastic skin & look like yourself in the future You literally keep your skin elastic & dewy & you still look like yourself if you use it religiously Sunscreen makes a HUGE difference just do not skip it whatever you do Khiels makes a great vitamin serum infused one now too
I love the book of ecclesiastes. All is vanity under the sun. The term ecclisia means 'called out.' Lifes purpose is to make us realise that in the end our dependence should be on Christ. Amen
Not really. The purpose lies on the conection within and outer, you are little poor soul that is guided with your promordial potential energy you need create your own history and manisfest that in the tangible world. The human is experience and codes
Nice content liza...i just remind you all that end of time is near prepared with do charity to your goodness in eternal life...dont blame anyone if you get in hell or heaven because life it just a testing that will taking you between heaven or hell after this life...
Couldn’t agree more on each and every topic and thought. Dope video While not exactly on the topic of the title some of the things you touched on is spoken on in a video I just saw called Gen Z Is Still Sleeping. Also dope
I turned to porn at age 12 because I felt I could not sexually explore without punishment or social shame. Now I am 26 and for 4 years I have been healing the harm I did to myself over a decade.
Bad habits are maladaptive behaviors, so no, they're not meeting a need. For example, excessive eating. When you're eating much more calories than you require, you're not meeting a need anymore; you've gone beyond the need, and if you do this habitually, it's a maladaptive behavior. Basically, you're meeting the illusion of a need or a proxy for a need, if you will, but not the need itself. Your conclusion that "a bad habit is meeting a need" is a faulty one. The bad habit is actually an obstacle to meeting the need.
Excessive eating has the same function on the brain as drugs and alcohol- a temporary cover-up and distraction for bad emotions. So it does fill a need, it just doesn't last for very long.
people understand that they are excessively going back to bad habits that are bad for them and they are aware of that however I think the premise of the video was to ask yourself this- why do you/people fall into these bad habits?when do you fall into your bad habits? Do you fall into bad habits more heavily when closer to a timeline where you were stressed out? The whole thing is a bad habit is a comfort that is used when felt needed because that one bad habit could be the only thing making you feel happy in a situation entirely foreign to you that you know is good for you.
Check out this idea. On needs and wants. I call it the Beauty and the Beast, So we have Beauty and Ugliness, or Like and Dislikes, wants and dont wants, Love and Hate, I got over my female addiction by relizing that what we view as Beautifull and Ugly controls our Attention and actions, and that we can move these things around. Everything in this world has no meaning untill we give it a meaning, anything can be beautiful anything can be ugly. Men have problems with porn and women nowadays because they have made women so beautifull in their minds and themselves so ugly in their minds that they are suffering big time, so unbalanced, and all they have to do is look at the uglyness in the beautyfull things and the beauty un the ugly. And this applyes to any addiction, all you have to do is say eww. And youl statt to dislike it, like food for people that over eat. Ofcourse you can always take it to the other extreme and mess it up again. So basically to look at everything as beautifull and uggly is a good balance. Beauty Ultimately is the Highest truth tho, but in this earth life uglyness is created to have a counter balance, a polarity, Duality thats what creates this reality,
Wow, great video! Your title drew me in because I have similar thoughts. Your words were beautifully put and encouraging. I have been working on understanding and accepting that we are all human and this connects us in such a meaningful way. When I think about life I want to have a community around me and love others regardless of personality clashes or traumas we have caused each other. We are all experiencing life and the effects it has on us. What do you all think?
Oddly relatable. Study the law of relativity if you're going in loops. After doing so, I increased my self-image to a point where I no longer think about those people and things. This is also easy to watch, she looks like a doll
@@lizabashkova Dw about a thing princess ur a gorgeous girl ur a pretty girl and u have so much 2 give such a such a soul an incredible heart an very special woman u really know how 2 control urself ur speaking fax right now period w u girl u got friends and all that right from the heart always cheers 2 u 4 this 1
do you ever look back at videos and realize you don’t agree with what you said anymore or your thoughts changed on the topic? i want to start a channel like this, but i don’t want to look back and feel like i’m lying if i think differently a while later
Yes definitely. It’s an ego crushing experience that helps you build confidence while accepting that you’re an ever changing imperfect human. It’s uncomfortable at first to admit that your opinions and feelings aren’t a stable metric of your value but it’s liberating
The hunter-gatherers we are descended from had to work 3-4 hours a day in order to fulfill the needs of daily life, the rest of that time was spent being near others in intimate tribes of well under 10,000 people; the move to agricultural and industrial life meant workdays of 10+ hours with whatever spare free time remaining being put towards navigating massive, impersonal cities of no fewer than 100,000 people. It's not your fault - you're just trying to sit down at the campfire and have a meaningful interaction the way you were evolved to. 🫂❤
For real
best comment i read in a while
this is so insightful, thank u
Am I wrong in saying that the man in this picture is fake, but the bold women (Egyptianess) are real, based off of coin portraits of CarlosUSsss III of Spain. And the fact that genesis 25:25 exists. Imagine the creepy face of Carlos-us's father had he been pure blood red devil - bold black thin lip bbg steppa girl friend creepy enough.
images.app.goo.gl/JEoNuubmHRQXfQBH6
coinquest.com/cq_data/cq_ro/graphics/carolus_iii_real_fake.jpg
where are you getting this info from?
As far as being selective and not attaching to people it's probably because you are tired of disingenuous people sucking your energy then ditching you, but there are people who will be a blessing if you allow them in to your life for sure
amen🙏🏽 ur speaking to my soul
I always say that addictions are a replacement of something that's missing in ur life
Most bad habits and addictions stem from meaninglessness in life, followed by boredom.
So the bad habits are not the pivot of our predicaments. Its our purposelessness. Our lack of wisdom and perception. i.
People often get so fixated on certain bad habits that they start to fear that if they let this certain habit go, they wont be able to feel this beautiful lie anymore. They start fearing the truth...unknowingly. They fall in love with the highs, the rushes, the pleasures. Bad habits are just a mode of escapism.
When you dont face your fears, most things you do thereupon becomes a cope for not facing the fears you were supposed to encounter.
So yeah, dont blame the bad habits. Accept that you sill a larvae, ever growing and learning. Theres lotta stuff for us to learn. You are still a bucket that hasnt been filled to the rim yet, also dont let that be an excuse, let it be an opportunities. Find growth. Reject weakness, its poison.
The best thing you can do to boost this journey of growth is to accept the truth and keep moving forward. Truth will be harsh, but whats the point if its not.
I don't know your age but girl. You are EXTREMELY evolved and self-aware for your age. Honestly. That is why you don't have friends. Maybe, maybe, you could find a friend in someone in their 50s or over. Because young people do not think like you do. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!! There are people like you. But they are few. Sending love
There are exceptions where young people are wise. Like she is one of the exception. I’ve seen people that are wise that that were younger than me.(all in youtube though lol) Im in late 20s
@@experiencelifelittleone Yeah- I do hope she finds them. :)
People used to literally die from homesickness. Modern culture has nearly obliterated home and community, thus likely the inundation of addictions and 'mental illnesses', aka most of them probably a completely normal human response to 'homesickness' for cultural connection that is almost no more as well as the inundation of toxins our organs, brains, and emotions have to now contend with.
So sad to think about. Ironically feel less “alone” in my loneliness but not in a good way
i love videos like this because you describe my situation perfectly.. love the algorithim for it. i grew up having friends because i thought i needed them and to be honest, it made me so lost not being able to relate to people, leaving me with few people i talk to now. i think its a beautiful thing that social media exists to connect likeminded people though. youre on the right track , keep showing up each day and one day youll have so much strength you won't recognize this "broken person" youre trying to fix. maybe we were never broken but just humans experiencing life and trying to survive with our needs, but as we grow we learn to accept the messy and good parts of life and ourselves. its all about being intentional with our needs, pouring the right thing into the cup that will quench that thirst
I love how we are all connected in some way. I truly felt every word you said as I did the exact same things.
thank you for this video. the algorithm reads minds omg. i feel undestood. i'm so full of blame for wasting my time on useless things like social media; it feels like me talking. i think the "need" for me, and probably many others idk, is to feel loved and not alone. loneliness is the fear in my opinion. i understand you even for your need to "overshare" but literally, me too, i am expressive but i've learn to select what i say to whom i say
Yes…I used to try to get rid of pmo for years. I tried everything, and I had soo much shame. Especially as a woman. This year I finally embraced it, yielded to it, silently observed it. It’s very controversial but it’s working for me.
Recognizing and admitting that you are addicted is a crucial first step, similar to how an alcoholic must acknowledge their situation. It takes courage to face this truth, and I admire you for doing so. By addressing this issue and speaking openly about it, you are taking positive steps towards freeing yourself from its hold. Remember that feeding your addiction only diminishes your energy and hinders your growth. It's beneficial to focus on higher thoughts and connect with the divine. Take time each day to meditate and reflect on your journey. I wish you strength and success as you navigate this path towards healing and liberation.
I actually related to every single thing you have said and experienced it's actually crazy! Thank you bc I feel less alone about it all :)
Love this. I've been trying to substitute everything in my life with something healthier. Especially things that I would normally think of as a "treat", I am looking at what will give me the same enjoyment while being much better for my soul. Like going for a hike with a friend rather than spending a ton of money eating out or going shopping. This video helped a lot with realizing even more things I can substitute. Thank you :)
Thank you for this new perspective, I think I can now identify my real issues that I try to fulfil by bad habbits. I also realized that my body is really smart and sometimes it tryes to tell me something, but I not always listen. Thank you so so much, you have so much inner wisdom I cannot explain it clearly but I feel it from you.
Wow! Thank you for sharing your perspective. I feel we make things harder for ourselves by exaggerating the importance of things we "need". For me it helps to care less about whether I get something I want or whether things go the way I want. If I take an aloof "we'll see" attitude and let go of controlling the situation, I feel freer, less constrained, and less focused on if/then concerns. If I get it or not, or if this or that happens, it's fine either way! Let life live and let yourself laugh at the craziness. How dull it would be if we always get what we want and nothing surprising happens! 😊
I relate so much to you and it makes me feel that im not alone
It makes me feel that way too
love when im on time to your wisdom
Just in time.
No one is perfect but we need to move forwards instead of backwards or sitting in a slump. Solid video💪🏾❤️from 🇿🇦
You’re so sincere 🧡 love you, you’re doing a wonderful thing 🫶
Your values are so relatable 🥹🫂
We gotta go through all these difficulties, we can form our future as we truly wish it to be :)
Thank you so much! Bless your heart
Thank youuuu for your kind words of encouragement and love ❤️ I really appreciate it my friend and I’m so grateful to have you as my best friend in the whole universe thank youuuu and thank youuuu
Yearn for adversity and love the adversary. The whirled is perfect. Resistance perpetuates dissolution of self.
My story is the same. I'm sure you'll find a place of belonging one day. Everything at its right time. 🙏
this video is such a great reminder. i love conversations like these so much. so much value to be found.
Важаю це відео геніальним, слухаючи як ти відверто розповідаєш про свої думки та досягнення в теперішньому часі і взагалі як ти бачиш світ навколо себе - це просто захоплює🤩. Чесно скажу сам ось тільки недавно дійшов до схожої думки про зміни, особливо дивлячись на минуле і діючи в майб вже інакшим способом, суть не тільки в аналізі але має бути чітка дисципліна, здорове мислення та завжди робити рішення навіть якщо воно не правильне🥸😋.
Бажаю бути й надалі такою відкритою та відвертою на відео, це дуже приємно потім слухати та бачити🙌🙂
Wow! I'm really impressed by your outlook-you are doing an amazing job motivating people to improve their lives even when you are still trying to figure yours out too-all the best! x
Im just here coz i thought the title was quite insightful.
You seem pretty young to be contemplating positive entropy and its relationship to anchoring mental stillness.
you looks young and beautiful
stop thinking too much and carrying taught that u aren't supposed to think about at this age
live each day to the fullest never think about past or future
just go live , fail , that's life
i hope you have a wonderful life Liza Bashkova
Idk what she said but shes sooo pretty
Yeah continuing talking Liza, it's definitel working, you are becoming a Legend fr
Namaste 🙏💯✅
just needed to say thank you so much
I just wanted to thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. Listen to you is calming and helpful I can relate in many ways and wish you the best keep growing,find peace and happiness.❤
I feel like you're the person on the internet I can relate closest to, like our journey paths are exactly aligned, despite being of different genders.
Not that I'm trying to bring up antagonistic gender dynamics, its just surprising to me that the struggle im going through is articulated by a gal better than most (maybe my belief systems just been brainwashed from male-oriented self-improvement content idk)
I've thought about this topic too but it sounded so doomful knowing that my unmet needs will drive my bad habits unless I meet them appropriately (which ive tried to find a way for but i cant see an actionable solution to it), so I end up burying it. But then I keep asking myself why I cant break my habits through despite my best attempts lol.
Thank you for making this video, your content helped me reached important realizations along the way. Keep doing what you're doing, these stuffs are genuine and authentic 💚
You gave me a thought on the concept of rebirth i.e. Christianity. The surrender of the mind and body to the soul, it feels scary because you have to deny your wants as you learn they're a lie and how to suppress them, IDK why it popped into my head but thanks.
OH yeah, So it seems scary, but the more aligned with what your soul wants you are the better and more elated you feel even during moments of anxiety etc you supercede it.
I love you❤ I am also very transparent and talk openly and sometimes also realizing I share too much but like you said it helps me to get things out of the System. I am a pisces and noticed pisces tend to overshare things. I think it is okay. ❤ we are very real.
thank u so much for posting this! it gives me a new perspective on why i still do some things that i know they won't bring me the healthy gratification..
I am the same I think it is the best qualitaty you can have!!!!! LIZA OUR INTUITION IS PROTECTING US❤ I was always like this. Only trusting a few ones. It is not bad liza. I was also lonely you will be fine. I understand you. I went through the same.
Please do pray for me....
Thank you so much Queen!
ive had these similar bad trips-derealization, i felt accompanied and thank you for sharing
When you get older you realise that you should never use reasoning justify evil or destructive behaviour. Minimise the suffering. That is the aim of a man.
0:38 I have been wearing sunscreen my whole life & most women do not so I always tell women what my Mor mor grandmother Lilly told me to always wear sunscreen to push it into your scalp because you dont want a saggy scalp & to only get tan after 65+ for a healthy look, you will thank me that you still have nice elastic skin & look like yourself in the future
You literally keep your skin elastic & dewy & you still look like yourself if you use it religiously
Sunscreen makes a HUGE difference just do not skip it whatever you do Khiels makes a great vitamin serum infused one now too
Very well articulated and relatable
Thank you lady, I appreciate you, love ya ♥♥
I relate to this so much ❤️🩹😭
thank you for this!!! you’re great liza
I love the book of ecclesiastes. All is vanity under the sun. The term ecclisia means 'called out.' Lifes purpose is to make us realise that in the end our dependence should be on Christ. Amen
Not really. The purpose lies on the conection within and outer, you are little poor soul that is guided with your promordial potential energy you need create your own history and manisfest that in the tangible world. The human is experience and codes
I'm entirely devoid of love. Homelander without the superpowers.
Love and blessings to you Liza, ill be your friend ❤️🙏🏾
Excellent advice madam ☝️
Very great message. I appreciate it a lot and got a lot from it!
Are you my sister? 😂 I can hear myself here. I get you ❤
Amazing speech lady!
"I don't have friends for that reason"
It's okay you can't trust me.
Realmente uma mulher admirável.
For of one feel much truth being pushed from many minds hear keep up the great videos y3 ty for sharing my beautiful spirit sister of ❤3
do breathing exercizes to grow your aura ... love and talk to animals dont eat them ...
Nice content liza...i just remind you all that end of time is near prepared with do charity to your goodness in eternal life...dont blame anyone if you get in hell or heaven because life it just a testing that will taking you between heaven or hell after this life...
Couldn’t agree more on each and every topic and thought. Dope video
While not exactly on the topic of the title some of the things you touched on is spoken on in a video I just saw called Gen Z Is Still Sleeping. Also dope
I have the same problem with friends I wish if you could talk more about that topic❤
There's the word earning in yearning. That's kinda interesting.
I turned to porn at age 12 because I felt I could not sexually explore without punishment or social shame. Now I am 26 and for 4 years I have been healing the harm I did to myself over a decade.
Needed this ❤
Liza how can I stop watching your beautiful face
Damn right you’re a legend
As much as you are 🫵
Bad habits are maladaptive behaviors, so no, they're not meeting a need. For example, excessive eating. When you're eating much more calories than you require, you're not meeting a need anymore; you've gone beyond the need, and if you do this habitually, it's a maladaptive behavior. Basically, you're meeting the illusion of a need or a proxy for a need, if you will, but not the need itself. Your conclusion that "a bad habit is meeting a need" is a faulty one. The bad habit is actually an obstacle to meeting the need.
Excessive eating has the same function on the brain as drugs and alcohol- a temporary cover-up and distraction for bad emotions. So it does fill a need, it just doesn't last for very long.
people understand that they are excessively going back to bad habits that are bad for them and they are aware of that however I think the premise of the video was to ask yourself this- why do you/people fall into these bad habits?when do you fall into your bad habits? Do you fall into bad habits more heavily when closer to a timeline where you were stressed out? The whole thing is a bad habit is a comfort that is used when felt needed because that one bad habit could be the only thing making you feel happy in a situation entirely foreign to you that you know is good for you.
How do we find out how to fulfill your needs with more genuine and healthy ‘habits’?
Check out this idea. On needs and wants. I call it the Beauty and the Beast, So we have Beauty and Ugliness, or Like and Dislikes, wants and dont wants, Love and Hate, I got over my female addiction by relizing that what we view as Beautifull and Ugly controls our Attention and actions, and that we can move these things around. Everything in this world has no meaning untill we give it a meaning, anything can be beautiful anything can be ugly. Men have problems with porn and women nowadays because they have made women so beautifull in their minds and themselves so ugly in their minds that they are suffering big time, so unbalanced, and all they have to do is look at the uglyness in the beautyfull things and the beauty un the ugly. And this applyes to any addiction, all you have to do is say eww. And youl statt to dislike it, like food for people that over eat. Ofcourse you can always take it to the other extreme and mess it up again. So basically to look at everything as beautifull and uggly is a good balance. Beauty Ultimately is the Highest truth tho, but in this earth life uglyness is created to have a counter balance, a polarity, Duality thats what creates this reality,
Love that, so it is!
Wow, great video! Your title drew me in because I have similar thoughts. Your words were beautifully put and encouraging. I have been working on understanding and accepting that we are all human and this connects us in such a meaningful way. When I think about life I want to have a community around me and love others regardless of personality clashes or traumas we have caused each other. We are all experiencing life and the effects it has on us. What do you all think?
Oddly relatable. Study the law of relativity if you're going in loops. After doing so, I increased my self-image to a point where I no longer think about those people and things. This is also easy to watch, she looks like a doll
your english is quite good. where are you from if you are not native? I am not native aswell
girl,don't you ever put that mic down you literally saved me
This means so much 😭
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tks for this video
What need makes me spend too much time on my phone?
do you ever look back at videos and realize you don’t agree with what you said anymore or your thoughts changed on the topic? i want to start a channel like this, but i don’t want to look back and feel like i’m lying if i think differently a while later
Yes definitely. It’s an ego crushing experience that helps you build confidence while accepting that you’re an ever changing imperfect human. It’s uncomfortable at first to admit that your opinions and feelings aren’t a stable metric of your value but it’s liberating
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Thank you I’m Ukrainian
@@lizabashkova ukrainian as well! Marta Kostyuk is one of my favorite tennis players
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Banger ending, rap beef Kanye now.
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when you rode a few books and now you have to tell anyone what you learned 😂😂 no offense but who needs advice from a kid ?
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Lmao, morals are a joke