I’m grateful that I got to spend my youth alone.

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  • Опубліковано 29 гру 2024
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  • @habibatamer7717
    @habibatamer7717 2 місяці тому +23

    As a Muslim I'm so grateful for our 5 daily prayers. It doesn't take much time, but it helps me put things into perspective and look at life for what it is, freeing me from all my thoughts and helping me build a better relationship with myself and therefore helping me be more ok when I'm on my own. I love everything you talked about and absolutely agree with your points. Thank you for this reminder

  • @GordonGarvey
    @GordonGarvey 2 місяці тому +8

    Im reading meditations by Marcus Aurelius right now and your attitude with being accepting and even grateful for your suffering sounds like whet he was talking about. The pain is a part of your process for living a meaningful life.

  • @salmaelziady4386
    @salmaelziady4386 2 місяці тому +4

    I would take being alone over fake company any day. Great video! 💗You are mature beyond your years. Being alone is a superpower not anyone can handle.

  • @mtewc38
    @mtewc38 2 місяці тому +7

    Girl yes, I tend to go back and forth. I’m so grateful for the isolation and all the time I got for myself, to read, dance, make art, and heal from my past traumas. But at times, esp when I see friends having fun online, I can’t help but wish I was surrounded by good people too.

    • @lizabashkova
      @lizabashkova  2 місяці тому +1

      All in time. Enjoy here right now🫂

    • @rootndshoot4050
      @rootndshoot4050 2 місяці тому

      I understand this feeling. I used to feel the same way. Here’s how I overcame it. I stopped focusing on people who didn’t matter to me. I stopped comparing myself to others and their apparent blessings.
      I practised shifting my focus back to myself, my life, and My dreams. Now, I feel so liberated and abundant. I’ve found joy within myself and I feel connected and grounded. The things that once seemed important don’t matter to me anymore.
      It takes continuous and consistent practice, but start now. You will discover a true connection with yourself. The things that are meaningful in your life will come to you naturally, and you won’t even feel desperate for anything because You will have found abundance within yourself. 🫶

  • @vegapunk09
    @vegapunk09 2 місяці тому +11

    every situation has a blessing/lesson to be taken out of it

  • @LuckyLaure
    @LuckyLaure Місяць тому

    I've always been more of a loner. Cuz of my autism. But I accepted it the older I became, I actually feel good with myself. It's a blessing to care for myself without other's annoyment. It is what it is and I started to rlly find my comfort and peace in it. Not much people do it like me or not that I can see. I felt bad comparing myself to the wrong examples. The right example is me and others more like me. They're out there, just not popular, just like me.

  • @skr8up6232
    @skr8up6232 2 місяці тому +6

    I am also 30 living with cats but I love my life. Was in relationships nonstop from around 14-25 and i eventually ended up trying to be alone and learn myself. I wake up to loving creatures every morning. Been single by choice for about four years now.

    • @vegapunk09
      @vegapunk09 2 місяці тому +3

      really cool that you're at a point of self acceptance and self love. keep going!

  • @prowess2121
    @prowess2121 2 місяці тому +5

    I wouldn't say loneliness is a blessing. People with great childhood experiences tend to flourish later in life; I think the times during youth have the pinnacle moments to build sense of optimism for yourself. It's perfect to learn what and how failure affects you in order to shield yourself from external judgements. It is the experimental phase where society doesn't hold much expectations from you. Essentially, it is the time for many to build a solid foundation to expand further as life progresses. I personally think that not having a social life during your youth is very damaging that leads to dangerous outlooks of life. It is all about how we deal with setbacks which is better taught sooner than later.

  • @tesaigriewesh
    @tesaigriewesh Місяць тому +1

    AAHHH LIZA MAKA A VIDEO ABT ALL THE BOOKS U RECOMMANDE US TO READ

  • @annaondemand
    @annaondemand 2 місяці тому +1

    This was the best video I’ve watched on UA-cam in a while! Tysm for sharing ❤

    • @lizabashkova
      @lizabashkova  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for watching! ❤️

  • @pilarmartin394
    @pilarmartin394 Місяць тому

    lately your videos inspire me to write, to be in touch with myself and my worth, thank u for that ❤ i’m seeing you from Argentina 🇦🇷

  • @lauvbae09
    @lauvbae09 2 місяці тому

    love everything you said. I was feeling isolated for a long time now , honestly this helped me a lot to understand my situation. Thank you for this

  • @paulyx
    @paulyx 2 місяці тому +2

    In love with ur 17 posterrrr

  • @VivekSharma-eh2tv
    @VivekSharma-eh2tv 2 місяці тому

    this is so encouraging .. i love your stuff... my heart uplifts when i listens ... makes me work so good . sending my best wishes

  • @randomrey002
    @randomrey002 2 місяці тому +1

    I really relate to this especially within the definitions of being Alone but not necessarily lonely within a group of people like colleagues, friends, family, etc. In my case it was being so prepared for my future while some friends and mainly family keep emphasizing to remain present and focus on the future when it comes, but for me I can't because I have a plan that I want to be prepared for which has me working toward success from now at the mild cost of some things in the present (which always happens to those who get deemed great who have made sacrifices) but in the years to come when you're at home with your wife and the children living off the work you started from young no matter the scarifices...it should be worth it (at least in my opinion).

  • @renosance8941
    @renosance8941 2 місяці тому

    This was lovely. Thank you for sharing! 🔥

  • @vegapunk09
    @vegapunk09 2 місяці тому

    lmao I love your vids, they're like what I do on a random day and I've done all my tasks for the day

  • @emilymiller3118
    @emilymiller3118 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for reflecting back to me exactly what I needed to hear today

  • @vegapunk09
    @vegapunk09 2 місяці тому

    yeah, you're right. creating is so fulfilling

  • @KaelaAlleyne
    @KaelaAlleyne 2 місяці тому

    Thank you liza 💚

  • @hodoreszter8430
    @hodoreszter8430 2 місяці тому

    thank you Liza, just thank you. you are a blessing 🤍

  • @pyrodiscoflash6115
    @pyrodiscoflash6115 2 місяці тому

    It's so Simple, God's Soul is the Universe and We are One With the Universe, our Soul is our Pure Quantum State of Consciousness and Resonates with God's Harmony, the More in tune you are with your Soul the More God's Harmony is in Tune with You, We each must Evolve into our Higher Spiritual State throughout our Journey of Existence

  • @Senays_random_stuff
    @Senays_random_stuff 2 місяці тому +1

    What’s inspiring this sudden burst of videos? I’m here for it though!! 😊

  • @Lissitchka
    @Lissitchka 2 місяці тому

    Love towards you🌬🌟💞 our minds are connected ✌🏼

  • @LiamODonovan-l6e
    @LiamODonovan-l6e 2 місяці тому +1

    I plan to live my life alone. I have absolutely no interest in forming bonds with anyone. I am better off alone

    • @lizabashkova
      @lizabashkova  2 місяці тому +5

      I believe there is so much opportunity for peace in sharing life with others as long as it’s beyond the level of the mind and solitude is needed for this skill of presence to develop.

    • @LiamODonovan-l6e
      @LiamODonovan-l6e 2 місяці тому

      @lizabashkova the less people know me the better. That's what I feel all the time

  • @jarifaakternagori7252
    @jarifaakternagori7252 2 місяці тому

    I wish i had a sister like u🫶🫂

  • @Lissitchka
    @Lissitchka 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Pedritox0953
    @Pedritox0953 2 місяці тому

    How do you know what is right or what is wrong, if you don't take the time to think about it, in solitude without the noise of people, news, etc...

  • @xycan8734
    @xycan8734 2 місяці тому

    True

  • @ericlakota
    @ericlakota 2 місяці тому

    I'm always alone iv got everything except humen skills at 42 years old

  • @nrspinelli
    @nrspinelli 2 місяці тому

    what's the song at the start of the video called?

  • @MohamedElkassim
    @MohamedElkassim 2 місяці тому

    Fiiirst lvy liza❤

  • @Knytz
    @Knytz 2 місяці тому

    She listens to XXXTentacion >

  • @randomrey002
    @randomrey002 2 місяці тому +1

    I don't know if this is the appropriate place to ask this but what did you think of CHROMAKOPIA?

    • @lizabashkova
      @lizabashkova  2 місяці тому +3

      I was expecting more experimental sound but I liked it. Take your mask off is my fav

    • @randomrey002
      @randomrey002 2 місяці тому +3

      @@lizabashkova I definitely agree with your more experimental point especially considering the 3 snippets we got; however , in short, I really admired and loved the maturity of Tyler throughout the album on certain songs. IGOR is still my favorite album personally and my fav from CHROMAKOPIA is Darling, I.

    • @vegapunk09
      @vegapunk09 2 місяці тому

      @@lizabashkova ouu ykb

    • @vegapunk09
      @vegapunk09 2 місяці тому

      @@randomrey002 yeah IGOR is his best work . and yeah, the album was such a complete beautiful body of work. he's grown so much

    • @Senays_random_stuff
      @Senays_random_stuff 2 місяці тому

      @@randomrey002 My fav is RAH TAH TAH

  • @JF1LMS
    @JF1LMS 2 місяці тому

    Bored people are just boring people

    • @SeethingSimp
      @SeethingSimp 2 місяці тому

      I fell asleep reading your comment

  • @vegapunk09
    @vegapunk09 2 місяці тому +1

    I'd ask..how do you know you're not life maxxing?

  • @NEXUS-xq5wt
    @NEXUS-xq5wt 2 місяці тому +1

    Calling loneliness a blessing made me just laugh. Speaking of consistency, I don't have any problems with that. I can do my stuff everyday without a problem. I've been alone my entire lifetime, haven't really felt any love by anyone not even by my parents because they weren't about that. And I'm terrible now. Sure, I do my things, I do have consistency, I try my best at my work etc. But not having literally anyone in this life is just so sad and painful to accept. No one can really see you progressing and no one seems to care whether you exist or not. You don't really happen to talk to anyone in a day, because simply, you are lonely and have no one. No one knows if you are doing fine or not. No one cares about you and that's what the loneliness is. Everything is just empty. Now you don't understand this feeling because people actually care about you. Because you're simply not alone but you think you are. The time when you no longer have this channel or when no one knows who you are anymore, that's when you can actually feel this frustration. That's when you do anything to escape this. But now, you don't really understand

    • @lizabashkova
      @lizabashkova  2 місяці тому

      Don’t assume what anyone is going through because they’re talking with a mic on your screen. I hope you grow through this challenge you’ve been given it does sound exhausting 🫶

    • @NEXUS-xq5wt
      @NEXUS-xq5wt 2 місяці тому

      @@lizabashkova I didn't really assume you. You're just here and you encourage people to be alone and you make being alone look good, while in reality it's much darker than this. It's not all flowers and "oh yeah im alone so I'll definitely be the best!" stuff. After like a while of loneliness you'll begin to actually do anything to just feel that you're loved and feel like people can notice you. To feel like you're not invisible anymore. That finally others are able to see and notice you. But thing about you, it's either, now that you have this place and stuff, you don't really understand what it means to be alone anymore, or you were just never alone and never really felt any loneliness. I didn't mean to judge you, you just gotta know that putting yourself out into the world can have these things too.

    • @derinstt
      @derinstt 2 місяці тому

      ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@NEXUS-xq5wtShe may sounds like she is encouraging people to be alone,I get it. But I assume that this is her first video you have watched,because in her other videos she mentioned about how loneliness also effects her. I see this video as her saying “if you are lonely then rather than making it torture for yourself,you can try to look at it in this type of positive mindset”

    • @NEXUS-xq5wt
      @NEXUS-xq5wt 2 місяці тому

      ​@@derinsttAlright then that's somewhat better, I guess.

  • @CopperWolf_AshEagle_Ice
    @CopperWolf_AshEagle_Ice 2 місяці тому

    .

  • @randomrey002
    @randomrey002 2 місяці тому

    First.

  • @amshabaz
    @amshabaz 2 місяці тому

    Bro is cooked, spending your time alone with ur youth is terrible cuz ur missing out on your prime years bruh. alot of old people regret being alone cause they realized how boring their life is without people

  • @MushtaqAhmed-c8l
    @MushtaqAhmed-c8l Місяць тому

    Please no lecture beautiful lady

  • @yakeliniglesias2888
    @yakeliniglesias2888 2 місяці тому

    Thank you , you saved me today ❤️‍🩹