UNDERSTANDING FEMALE ATTRACTION: THE REAL REASONS WOMEN CHOOSE MEN

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  • @BeYourselff2
    @BeYourselff2 16 днів тому +751

    The silence around Revandles' forbidden books is actually wild.

  • @hiddengem12-o9s
    @hiddengem12-o9s 3 місяці тому +879

    There's a book called Casanova optimization of attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

  • @Chrissy666c
    @Chrissy666c 16 днів тому +349

    It's really crazy that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles

  • @PspTomisi
    @PspTomisi 3 місяці тому +144

    Great video, This past few months has been an eye opener for me, the one I love, the one i cherish still Left me, I lost alot of friends because of her, she often said they were bad influence on me, and she still left me, i still love her and that is what hurts the most. Love sometimes is unexplainable and cruel

    • @elladonaldson-lh6nc
      @elladonaldson-lh6nc 3 місяці тому +1

      I feel your pain,Believe me I do, i was in a similar position, he left me, but i couldnt just let him go because i knew i was the cause of it, i chose my work over him and the kids, I didnt want to loose him, so i contacted a spiritual counsellor for advice on how to get him back and to my greatest surprise it worked out, she brought him back to me, and its been over a year and half, i have never been this happy.

    • @PspTomisi
      @PspTomisi 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for this, I know i wasnt alone on this i often sit and think what i will become without her because i have no one else, I think i might just give this a try,how did you get in touch with him/her, if you do not mind me asking.

    • @elladonaldson-lh6nc
      @elladonaldson-lh6nc 3 місяці тому +1

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @PspTomisi
      @PspTomisi 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @christopherpalmer4243
      @christopherpalmer4243 3 місяці тому

      Rough but that's life's little knocks. Don't marry a woman unless she's madly in love with you, divorce is inevitable

  • @jasonfitzpatrick414
    @jasonfitzpatrick414 5 місяців тому +179

    I'm going to get a sweet, smart, plain woman in a small town. I'm just tired of the games. Social media is killing America's women. Their friends are not helping either.

    • @LoveFaithLive
      @LoveFaithLive 5 місяців тому +7

      😂Will you be good enough for this type of woman??? Are you what a smart woman wants even if she's plain & in a small town.🫣🤔 Hehe heh Good luck💝

    • @franjodelac4103
      @franjodelac4103 5 місяців тому +13

      just recently met one of those. they're so far and few in between, that i can't even believe i was lucky enough to meet and earn her genuine interest. i will do my best to never ever screw up with this one, because it's such a rare find. such women are worth sooooo much more then your 10/10 swedish models.

    • @lovehealth-je6co
      @lovehealth-je6co 5 місяців тому

      Be careful.

    • @lovehealth-je6co
      @lovehealth-je6co 5 місяців тому +5

      Small town ? Wtf? Woman is a woman. Psyche is the same. Listen to Sadia. Just play the game. Don’t risk ur heart man

    • @DevidSword
      @DevidSword 4 місяці тому +3

      Got me one of them. Best woman ever. Never going back

  • @johnvillamil3138
    @johnvillamil3138 5 місяців тому +82

    So true. Pick a woman who’s moral compass is pointing in the right direction.

  • @WakeelAdam
    @WakeelAdam 4 місяці тому +15

    Flashing money when meeting a woman and trying to impress her with money is root of all problems(happend to me) ...pay attention to red flags and set boundaries...
    I'm single now for a year focusing on myself..
    I spoke to a couple of woman this time set boundaries and was simple learnt so much...
    I just observe and was supprised kicked a few to the curb...
    But man this really exposes everything...

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 2 місяці тому +17

    *Understanding attraction goes beyond looks or money - it's about confidence, emotional intelligence, and how you make her feel. Women choose men who can make them feel safe, respected, and valued. The secret is showing authenticity and being comfortable in your own skin. That’s what makes you magnetic.*

    • @GavinBrown-v3u
      @GavinBrown-v3u 27 днів тому +3

      I guess I have none of these "qualities" - I'm 76 and I've never met anyone ! Nothing makes me "magnetic" !

  • @EG-hh6zz
    @EG-hh6zz 5 місяців тому +5

    we need this woman right by our side to guide us
    through life your so smart you are god sent
    many women have been hurt over the years by not being educated on these matters

  • @warriormonx
    @warriormonx 5 місяців тому +11

    She has incredible insights that are almost self evident but that haven’t quite occurred to you yet. Amazing stuff

  • @DPMusicStudio
    @DPMusicStudio 4 місяці тому +17

    Every Sadia video is pure gold

  • @sherwinedwin7694
    @sherwinedwin7694 4 місяці тому +55

    She is correct and on point in everything, she has plenty of Knowledge

    • @Footballcornerworld
      @Footballcornerworld 4 місяці тому

      She is looking through a buissness mind to everything,
      American bull shit.
      Every sentence is calculated mind in relationship.
      She is knowing nothing.
      She is a sick buissness women

    • @blaze4464
      @blaze4464 3 місяці тому +4

      No she is not. I watched meny videos with her and she is super tilted to the women side ... she usualy blame man even whan it's obvius that women are more responsible.

    • @FindingNemo38
      @FindingNemo38 3 місяці тому

      Lies ​@@blaze4464

    • @levedia
      @levedia 18 днів тому

      ​@@blaze4464she is correct in this video except for blaming men towards the end. Missing red flags as if its always obvious and as if we can get that "high valued" woman she refers to who is into your status( another form of goldndigger)
      No no not all women are gold diggers ( but you better be high status)
      since im beautiful and a lawyer. Meanwhile i make more money than her being a plumber or a waiter. Loll

  • @OfficialPattStakks
    @OfficialPattStakks 3 місяці тому +6

    Personally, I’ve done well with attractive woman when I was broker than I wanted to be. I met woman of great quality during my worst times 🤷🏾‍♂️ that treated me the best I’ve been treated.

  • @mrfloydp
    @mrfloydp 5 місяців тому +37

    So, why is it ok to blame male victims, but not female ones.
    The reason why I’ve given up is because women have mistreated me, and society doesn’t care.

    • @carloferretti8956
      @carloferretti8956 5 місяців тому

      Cry a river bro, you think woman want a man that cry like this? Can’t blame the girl G

    • @chubbytroll5321
      @chubbytroll5321 4 місяці тому

      Society doesn't care because that is how the dynamic works. Losers whine about their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen. Actually: bitching, whining, complaining, and blaming just isn't all that attractive to have in one's personality. And while men are more likely to put up with complaining and blaming, for women, it tends to be an instant turn-off. Imagine if a world leader or President bitched and blamed and threw a tantrum, hoping for a pity party? Never mind running a business or a country, but most women want a man that has a plan that can protect and provide for her and the household.
      Don't know what you hope to accomplish for blame to be cast, but it sounds like a more difficult life strategy than just improving your overall self as a person so that females will be naturally and uncontrollably attracted to you. And it's not just women that will mistreat you. The government, your boss, strangers, animal, mother nature, and life in general will mistreat you and constantly test you to see if you're for real. If you get real, and get nature, and people's nature, you can flow with it and let it work for you. If you're willing to work for it.

    • @rodplays2936
      @rodplays2936 3 місяці тому +6

      You need to be accountable to yourself because your selection process sucks. That's what she's trying to say.

    • @mrblue777
      @mrblue777 3 місяці тому

      There definitely is which is why you shouldn’t even bother and focus on what you can control. Easier said than done

    • @TobiasTheTraveler
      @TobiasTheTraveler 3 місяці тому +2

      @@rodplays2936Weak men are allergic to accountability.

  • @adrianboyddodd8007
    @adrianboyddodd8007 4 місяці тому +8

    Sadia is my number one go to for relationship advice. Even though I watch a lot of red pill content. Actually she says quite a lot of stuff that red pill content creators would agree with. She is just more balanced than they are.

    • @cornells.1367
      @cornells.1367 2 місяці тому

      Fully agreed, she's my #1, too. She's absolutely brilliant! I used to despise these psychologists and thought they were just for rich people, just listening and charging ridiculous fees for doing nothing and for not giving a fok about your problems...most still are like that but Sadia is the only one I know who is super smart, professional and a no BS person. I love her.

  • @surajitpaul1825
    @surajitpaul1825 5 місяців тому +8

    Sadia is Zen Z mind reader. She knows what is going on to the society in terms of relationships. I am just speechless. Whatever she told exactly happening in Metro semi metro or semi unban cities / villages in any country

  • @josedianas548
    @josedianas548 5 місяців тому +10

    You can’t beat genuine attraction. Her treatment towards you truly is night and day compared to the woman you attracted with money, If she’s with you for your money another man can buy her off you

  • @user-sx6tm6qu1t
    @user-sx6tm6qu1t 5 місяців тому +49

    The problem is that now there is only one pool of women

  • @hotwings9684
    @hotwings9684 5 місяців тому +4

    Wow. This is remarkably insightful, and explains so much that I've observed as I've become more successful as an entrepreneur. Thank you for the profound insight.

  • @bartholetbayana9198
    @bartholetbayana9198 5 місяців тому +243

    Cool video. My relationship of 8 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @paulinebricks3441
      @paulinebricks3441 5 місяців тому +8

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @bartholetbayana9198
      @bartholetbayana9198 5 місяців тому +1

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @paulinebricks3441
      @paulinebricks3441 5 місяців тому +6

      Her name is shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @bartholetbayana9198
      @bartholetbayana9198 5 місяців тому +3

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @Unfiltered1000
      @Unfiltered1000 5 місяців тому

      ​@@paulinebricks3441Lol.. fake comments. No one should fall for this scam advertisement.

  • @jaycarl1562
    @jaycarl1562 4 місяці тому +38

    I was on unemployment when I met my wife, 25 years ago

    • @Otsutsukis
      @Otsutsukis 3 місяці тому +3

      These women are not manufactured now 😅..
      It was a sattire, also men have changed a lot in behaviour but not mindset (for the male simps)

    • @hastensavoir7782
      @hastensavoir7782 2 місяці тому

      @@Otsutsukiswhy do people hate simps?

    • @Otsutsukis
      @Otsutsukis 2 місяці тому

      @@hastensavoir7782 you should

  • @SlawcioD
    @SlawcioD 5 місяців тому +23

    in redpill movement woman is not a enemy. idk what content she speaks about...

    • @leedlbagginshield8492
      @leedlbagginshield8492 4 місяці тому

      have you ever seen a red pill comment section? Full of men who resent women and see them as the enemy

  • @SE-hi3my
    @SE-hi3my 5 місяців тому

    Probably the best talk I’ve seen on this channel.

  • @treybie1
    @treybie1 4 місяці тому

    I want to thank you. You brought it all together for me. Thank you so much! That's a life changer!

  • @agrover5
    @agrover5 3 місяці тому +1

    Assuming the statement that beautiful women and rich men are cheated the most. Can we similarly classify who cheats the most, is it the same category or different (rich women and handsome men)?

  • @Underhills
    @Underhills Місяць тому

    So happy I said goodbye to partnership, dating and bothering with all this crap a looong time ago. Haven't looked back. I could write a book on this, so interesting to watch videos on the topic, the suffering goes on in so many homes. My best advice is to stay single and enjoy a happy life with no intrigues and agony. Most people come to that conclusion way too late.

  • @Penguinracer
    @Penguinracer 3 місяці тому +1

    This is predicated upon the woman not having as successful career as the male...which is quite old-fashioned. Often successful & busy men & women meet each other through their work - so there's equality of income, career prestige and prospects right there.

  • @scytheio1879
    @scytheio1879 Місяць тому +2

    Stay single men. Your personal peace is the most important thing in your life. Nothing else matters, no one else matters.

  • @datingskillz9718
    @datingskillz9718 2 місяці тому

    It's not really about whether you've got money or not. It's all about what you lead with. Guys who're constantly showing off their wealth will obviously attract gold diggers. However, a rich guy who shows off his experiences and not necessarily his assets are going to attract a different kind of woman. A woman who values not necessarily what you possess but the experiences she can have enjoy with you. And that's a big difference. Then, there's also the question of once you actually meet a woman, how you relate to her. If you roll out the red carpet for her or whether you treat her like an ordinary woman. All of those things will determine what type of woman you'll end up with.

  • @bobbyjames4300
    @bobbyjames4300 5 місяців тому +25

    Woman today have far to many red flags and the gamble to settle down with one is very high risk. You just can’t take that chance. She loves you now but what about tomorrow ? Don’t listen to their nonsense. Carry on gentleman.

    • @SirBrucie
      @SirBrucie 5 місяців тому

      Damn, but what if she is loving and caring?

    • @Son-of-Krypton
      @Son-of-Krypton 4 місяці тому +3

      Nailed it 👍🏼

    • @bobbyjames4300
      @bobbyjames4300 3 місяці тому

      @@SirBrucie it’s like that before you put the ring on their finger , it truly changes over time. They love that control and are in a winning position after you say “ I do “ . Listen to older men , they will tell you the same story. Peace bro. 😎

    • @Otsutsukis
      @Otsutsukis 3 місяці тому

      ​@@SirBrucie men are often blinded by their own lust.. Just that goes and everything appears clear

  • @josephpasquarella2123
    @josephpasquarella2123 5 місяців тому +5

    Money does not generate sexual desire or attraction, and the only real relationship a man will be fulfilled in is with a woman who has sexual attraction and desire for him. end of debate. Idk how many more men need to get this through their skull.

  • @Vishnu-pj8om
    @Vishnu-pj8om 5 місяців тому +165

    This is just the beginning. Read the forbidden book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.

    • @AlextsarDiary
      @AlextsarDiary 5 місяців тому +6

      Share some of those secrets

    • @Michael-rm1bx
      @Michael-rm1bx 5 місяців тому +5

      Share some wisdom

    • @anilyorulmaz4398
      @anilyorulmaz4398 5 місяців тому +12

      Nice advertasing for ebook

    • @deletevil
      @deletevil 4 місяці тому +4

      "the secrets they're keeping from us" hahahahahahahah xD

    • @p9a9r21
      @p9a9r21 3 місяці тому

      She raises excellent points, but not the whole story. Very financially or professionally successful men can still be incredibly naive and ignorant about the true nature of women and attraction. Very successful men tend to lead into a relationship almost exclusively on their clout and money. Doing this blinds them to the fact women are emotional and if a man leads with it that's what she is going to emotionally connect to.
      From direct experience I can say most professional athletes (NBA /NFL) and financially successful men are well goofs when it comes to social skills and women. If it looks "good" and it's made "available" they buy it hook line and sinker. One notable exception is Kelsey Graham who broke up with a black girl who thought she was going to get his cash. Well she wasted four years and got replaced by.....Taylor Swift a white girl whose clout and fame exceeded Kelsey's.
      Superficial predatory women being attracted to wealth is like flies being attracted to $hit. And the very successful wealthy men like Kelsey do the EXACT OPPOSITE they CONSERVE not SPLURGE when it comes to women and finance. The blood sucker and the beautiful women who show up quickly lose interest because their intended victim or mark is cheap.

  • @shivrajsinhrajput7773
    @shivrajsinhrajput7773 3 місяці тому

    Now this the thing i'm looking for
    this is the type of mentality a men should be having, this is the vision of how a high value men should see the world.

  • @markb4595
    @markb4595 5 місяців тому +1

    Ok, I've confronted my weak past, spent years changing my life, now im healthy with good boundaries, good life, friends, active etc. I recognize red flags and say no. In all of that, I'm having trouble meeting healthy women to share a healthy loving and meaningful relationship.....What am i missing?

    • @kamilmusalat
      @kamilmusalat 4 місяці тому

      Probably meeting and interacting with lots of them....

  • @marcusmcgraw3519
    @marcusmcgraw3519 5 місяців тому +18

    This exposed one of my problems. I reject too many women. But at least it’s much better than the other way around because I’m gaining power

    • @panpunkt5185
      @panpunkt5185 5 місяців тому +1

      Przecież ona zachęca do odrzucania toksycznych kobiet.

    • @Otsutsukis
      @Otsutsukis 3 місяці тому

      No one is gaining power bro.. There is more to life than women.. God???

  • @mikethomas6715
    @mikethomas6715 2 дні тому

    @5:40 The Red Pill teaches men how to protect themselves from the Golddiggers. It teaches them what qualities to look for in a women.
    Most of all it teaches them how to protect their assets

  • @rainman-y8q
    @rainman-y8q 4 місяці тому +1

    She's absolutely correct and interesting talk.

    • @callejon24
      @callejon24 3 місяці тому

      She’s one million percent wrong on everything

  • @viralresearcheducatorsdige503
    @viralresearcheducatorsdige503 3 місяці тому +1

    Where did she acquired that wisdom.... she is always on point.

    • @Otsutsukis
      @Otsutsukis 3 місяці тому

      The thing is westerners spoke so much shit over a millennia where these thoughts seem repulsive.. Which is inherent in all humans

  • @caryg4638
    @caryg4638 5 місяців тому +2

    I absolutely love this woman’s honesty and wisdom. Never seen a woman so spot on.

  • @saijinkai
    @saijinkai 5 місяців тому +2

    Finally someone who says what’s been in my mind about the red pill garbage.

  • @masterj4777
    @masterj4777 4 дні тому

    She is the truth 🙏👏👏🧠

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw 5 місяців тому +2

    Wow she is making good points

  • @1tavell
    @1tavell 5 місяців тому +24

    She so true n real honest

    • @byronryan4216
      @byronryan4216 5 місяців тому

      So she is saying all females are prostitutes .. 😂

    • @unknown-xy3dk
      @unknown-xy3dk 5 місяців тому

      That’s the formula 🫡

  • @muazj26
    @muazj26 3 місяці тому +1

    She's correct and i am afraid

  • @anujsaxena2861
    @anujsaxena2861 3 місяці тому

    First off, this lady is so charming. Her voice has a soothing tone to it. I would love to listen to her talk.
    That apart, i really wonder if those type of women who value quality time and attention and affection from ONE man, truly exist.
    From what i know, they value wealth above all. And if they dont get it from their wealthy partner, they are likely to look for affection and attention from some other man, WHILE holding onto the wealthy man. Most woman today want love, affection and sexual gratification, but want wealth, status and comfort even more. A woman today, as i see her, will never choose an affectionate but not so rich man, over a fabulously wealthy man whos also a cold blooded reptile.
    In summary, what Ms Khan is talking about women wanting to be with men who give them time and attention, even if they are not very wealthy, sounds good in theory, but is never seen in reality.
    Women love to bemoan that their man doesnt give them time or attention, while sitting in a large mansion!

  • @marioleclerc4566
    @marioleclerc4566 3 місяці тому +3

    You can be rejected by any women - 2 out of 10 or 9 out of 10. So go for it men. You get used to it so we can say it is a number game. And remember even if she's into you it does not mean she would be a good match or any match for you. Also, the such 4 out of 10 or 7 out of 10 is relative - there is no concensus on that topic. Be youself enjoy the journey!

  • @Ausnapify
    @Ausnapify 5 місяців тому +31

    Women will choose anything. End of story & discussion.

    • @Cee_Eff
      @Cee_Eff 5 місяців тому +6

      So long as the hot chemistry is there...and most likely trumps/overrides red flags

    • @Blondiee777
      @Blondiee777 5 місяців тому +2

      No not true. There is a saying about choosing the fireplace instead of the fire. My husband was and is the fireplace. Warm and stable.

    • @LoveFaithLive
      @LoveFaithLive 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Blondiee777Ahhh so lovely to hear🤗 God bless your marriage 🙏

    • @CenationTroop
      @CenationTroop 5 місяців тому +2

      Choose anything? Please explain

    • @baisinbu98
      @baisinbu98 4 місяці тому

      NOT TRUE. 😂

  • @DragonFly525
    @DragonFly525 Місяць тому

    The desire to be loved is the last illusion. Give it up and you will be free.

  • @paulmcnamara9272
    @paulmcnamara9272 3 місяці тому

    She is so wonderful and always right.

  • @ShawnLofty
    @ShawnLofty 3 місяці тому

    So on point Sadia just good stuff

  • @Christobar777
    @Christobar777 3 місяці тому

    Youve been with this one and that one what happens when the right one comes along

  • @steventheartist7667
    @steventheartist7667 4 місяці тому +4

    Money.....doesn't keep people together, cars,....house.....its always back...to the basic......respect and love and holy spirit......read the book of GENESIS....

  • @subhramchakraborty6017
    @subhramchakraborty6017 5 місяців тому

    I want to ask her , what are the materialistic/ non materialistic qualities an woman searches for in a man before falling for him?

  • @jankurcek3717
    @jankurcek3717 3 місяці тому

    A friend of mine is just doing the red flag program right now....cannot stop it

  • @thetruther954
    @thetruther954 5 місяців тому

    You and Dr. Besler. She would not picture with me riding in a Corvette waving at the people walking on the street. And she insisted I always call her “doctor”. In my family, beauty was an answer. The successful socialite would give the life a hard working steel worker could never. It’s a woman thing, I don’t claim to understand it. But just a single friend or single doctor. If I was not beautiful myself, at least I knew someone who is. It provided comfort. Like filling in the missing piece so I could go on living. “Beauty, yeah I got that. No problem over here.”

  • @ImaginaryShadows1
    @ImaginaryShadows1 5 місяців тому +1

    The things I learn over the years. Having lots money isn’t a bad thing. You can tell which women are red flags and green flags.

  • @shubhamjain248
    @shubhamjain248 5 місяців тому

    Great video! Thanks.

  • @SunnyFrosty-h8j
    @SunnyFrosty-h8j 4 місяці тому

    I love Ms.Khan she is the best, although at the end she was talking about black pill not red pill.

  • @Habeebi1
    @Habeebi1 6 днів тому

    how do you stop a woman from bullying you ?

  • @ericgartner5201
    @ericgartner5201 Місяць тому

    If there is such a think like red pill behaviour.... It is only being able to not search for online attention, but rather stay in real life.
    Thst enables a man in case of rejection to keep working on himself.... As time will never be waisted with the online - phone - stuff...

  • @Tamar-sz8ox
    @Tamar-sz8ox 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m female , a wife , 💍 mother and professional
    Who would want to take someone’s credit card and just spend someone else’s money ? It makes no sense to me .
    Life is about earnership
    That’s disgusting

  • @Devastator123
    @Devastator123 5 місяців тому +4

    All may be true but I have given up on dating! My experience as of late is a lot of bad moral women!

    • @olaxajayi
      @olaxajayi 3 місяці тому

      I love the choice of words, “as of late”

    • @amandareataranch
      @amandareataranch 3 місяці тому

      It is unfortunate that there is alot of immortality out there, but there are good ones, watch their conduct, speech and way of dressing 🙏 tells you a lot about a lady

  • @marcin_peta-F-W-Z
    @marcin_peta-F-W-Z 5 місяців тому +2

    She said wrong about RED PILL !!! Women is not your enemy! It says only a rules of this game!

  • @DionLYA
    @DionLYA 5 місяців тому +35

    This is tough. Almost every woman I met have red flags. And the ones that don't are already in a relationship.
    I haven't come across a woman who asked to spend quality time together (except my aunt and my mom, but they are family).
    They only come and talk to you whenever they need your help, but when you want their time, they ignore you.
    You're right when you said that if we lead with money or that lifestyle, then we are going to attract those type of women who only cares about money.
    But where are we going to find the ones that don't? Especially when these types don't socialize or mix around with others.

    • @racalu1993
      @racalu1993 4 місяці тому +3

      All women care about money and about lifestyle… not doing so would be detrimental to their wellbeing. You need to find a woman that won’t care about money after you start a relationship, not before. Focus on being a desired person and you won’t lack women to choose from.

    • @mohdfaizansiddiqui1171
      @mohdfaizansiddiqui1171 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@racalu1993 Good point mate

  • @Lisstable3224
    @Lisstable3224 Місяць тому +1

    Trust me. You are not her 1st choice. You are replaceable.
    Remember, so is she!

  • @randallchase5215
    @randallchase5215 2 місяці тому +1

    Although I think a lot of Sadie's content is valid and insightful for men, she still relies heavily on the "blame the man" ideology, and always leaves women a "backdoor excuse" to continues to sherk their responsibility and faults by blaming the man...in this, Sadie is not much different as most other relationship "gurus"..

  • @michaelazariah73
    @michaelazariah73 2 місяці тому +1

    My granddad told me go to church ⛪️ to find a good girl 👧

  • @danyaanbostic1778
    @danyaanbostic1778 5 місяців тому

    She has women logic great to see your mind alot of times don't override your nature

  • @khaledabed4441
    @khaledabed4441 4 місяці тому +1

    Sorry but alot of what she says , Red pill also confirms ! Yes i disagree with some of his ideas, however, red pill DOES blame the men for their short comings and not always women!🤷‍♂️

  • @nolang4495
    @nolang4495 5 місяців тому +12

    I disagree on making men weaker on red pill

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 5 місяців тому +2

      all they do whine and complain

    • @meme-zv7kw
      @meme-zv7kw 5 місяців тому +1

      She made good points but her she sounds red pill her advice is red pill so red pill doesn't make men weak

    • @ethosterros9430
      @ethosterros9430 5 місяців тому

      ​@@kc270352there's a lot to whine about

  • @elasticharmony
    @elasticharmony 3 місяці тому

    I am hundred percent one of those kind of men, who value beauty and sex . I have no problem with a woman i can find those traits in but otherwise set alone working. Other guys might question me because I do not have a girl friend but they dont know who ive been with.
    I am what you might call devoted and it has worked out for me, but ive realized nothing but that is the best.
    My bros would say why dont you have a girl friend and i say , i am saving my self for Victorias secret.

  • @Brother_hood35
    @Brother_hood35 5 місяців тому +1

    Understanding Male attraction: Pulse. ✅️

  • @michaelazariah73
    @michaelazariah73 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank god im very handsome man 👨 with charisma no girl problems ❤

  • @TailsDreams
    @TailsDreams 5 місяців тому +1

    Careful with the words you speak, not all black and white, it takes discernment, both ways.

  • @HerveMendell
    @HerveMendell 3 місяці тому

    A perfect example of this is the video by Madonna called "Express Yourself" or "Express Himself," something like that. It came out in the late 80's and it was shown in a cultural studies class at University. It was hailed as an example of female empowerment under the "patriarchy." Now that I have been red-pilled I see it in a whole new light. In the video Madonna is just lounging around in the lap of luxury wearing a skimpy little dress. She does nothing, but is a kept woman. But she's bored because her husband doesn't "express himself" whatever thst means. (Maybe because he's working 80 hours a week running his business) So Madonna cheats with him with a hot young stud who is working in the factory. This was presented as an act of empowerment in the class (UCSC) because it was just so unfair that the older man who was funding her lifestyle didn't "express himself."

  • @pratik6342
    @pratik6342 3 місяці тому

    What happened to Tom? He used to be healthy looking and muscular...🤔

  • @brianprice5152
    @brianprice5152 2 місяці тому

    Love is the cure, sex is a disease, wanna be healed, or ill
    Prevention is the best remedy ❤

  • @Imhotep397
    @Imhotep397 3 місяці тому

    This is why paying for it makes sense. Get your needs met and leave, until you’re ready to slow down.

  • @himadrikhanra7463
    @himadrikhanra7463 Місяць тому

    I am just sharing my views
    " choose your best option not better "
    Now problem arise , when men going to attract you , you have right to choose best
    Now most of women are attention sicker , to get attention don't humiliate men as a coin has two sides
    We want focus minded women
    Next , prank call by their friends phone
    The reason behind getting humiliate by spouse after marriage
    Next express your thoughts straight forwardly
    You know , girls vs boys in school/ college life
    After few years at the age of marriage men vs women
    Next put your man a place ie different from other men
    Sharing you my college a college life condition
    A situation two girl comes Next to mine , I have to choose from
    No means no , I replied I love both of you , they felt anxious and it is their fault not mine
    At the same situation we put forward to them
    "I f want a man in your life , be a women "
    Don't tell cheezy flirting line " you know , I think you have many girlfriends "
    Reply may be :- star your sister , she really deserve it so do I.

  • @SuperViktube
    @SuperViktube 3 місяці тому +2

    lot of stuff she says is BS. If a 4/10 guy has no money has no chance, if he has good job he still has chance with a woman. Take her advice 50-50

  • @alexs983
    @alexs983 5 місяців тому +2

    She is right my wife hates men who work to much and wants my attention looks get you access

  • @melenico4512
    @melenico4512 14 днів тому

    Attraction always comes first. You can try buy attraction but that is purely transactional.

  • @GavinBrown-v3u
    @GavinBrown-v3u 27 днів тому +1

    I'm probably a 2/10 man - No one has EVER "chosen" me !

  • @dawudabdul-malik4417
    @dawudabdul-malik4417 5 місяців тому +17

    I disagree with her especially in the modern world women are choosing the guys with money so respectfully she's being disingenuous and dishonest in general women desire security

    • @TheMississauga333
      @TheMississauga333 5 місяців тому +7

      but remember its never her fault lol

    • @carloferretti8956
      @carloferretti8956 5 місяців тому +1

      Na bro those men are getting cheated she’s right, they will cheat on you for a more phenotypical man. Stay in your lane

  • @alwaysgreatusa223
    @alwaysgreatusa223 Місяць тому

    Even a 10 man is not going to keep a woman unless he has an emotional connection with her. Yeah, she will be very happy in the beginning at having gotten a 10 -- not least because many other women will be envious of her. But just like the guy with money and/or power, or even the guy who is just good at sex, she will eventually get bored with him, and then seek a man with whom she can have an emotional connection -- i.e. intimacy.
    Of course, I am Red Pill, so I am not saying a man should ever 'try' to build an emotional connection with a woman --- that is a basic Blue Pill mistake. Take away the 'try' and simply accept the fact that, while dating her, it's either going to happen NATURALLY or NOT AT ALL !

  • @mattvalor9640
    @mattvalor9640 3 місяці тому

    So accurate. Van Sadia just be wrong in my eyes for one minute?

  • @DavidStClair-gy8hn
    @DavidStClair-gy8hn Місяць тому +1

    Need to ask yourself, why are you listening to this. She has spelt out the truth, no woman is going to love and support you. Expect them to cheat, lie and be self centred you are only in her life to enhance her life. Just watch her videos, all say the same thing, she is only going to tolerate you while she is receiving some benefit and that's not you loving her.

  • @wgw808
    @wgw808 5 місяців тому +3

    I think she’s talking about black pill or she’s lumping all mens groups together like incel, mgtow, red pill, etc,,,, From what I’ve seen of red pill content they suggest better yourself like get into shape, grooming, dating strategies, etc… Not trying to get the 9 and 10 but even average or above average women.

  • @Dehota
    @Dehota 2 місяці тому

    I disagree about a man’s wife explaining his libido. One lyric of a song narrows it down, “I do what I want, you do what you can”

  • @christopherpalmer4243
    @christopherpalmer4243 3 місяці тому

    How do you access a woman without money?

  • @BLUECNOTE2024_REALONE
    @BLUECNOTE2024_REALONE 12 днів тому

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  • @amoswtorgbor5775
    @amoswtorgbor5775 4 дні тому

    She right

  • @MamaBulgaria
    @MamaBulgaria 5 місяців тому +10

    This is exactly true, my last relationship was so sad - he was constantly away, I wanted more quality. Good guy, CFO but who care since he was literally non existent.

    • @Underhills
      @Underhills Місяць тому

      But bet you wanted to marry him so you could harvest the benefits of a good income. And I bet if you met a person that was unemployed you would think negatively about that. So basically women wants economical stability with a guy but won't accept the work it takes. That's the most typical scenario of all.

    • @MamaBulgaria
      @MamaBulgaria Місяць тому

      @ I met him when he was unemployed and I was married. So there was no possibility me to marry him at the time. + I had no idea where I will end up living, due to a family situation so the relationship was not serious due to its nature. You can live with a man without marriage and still be financially taken care of by him, so marriage is not necessary. Marriage can greatly impact your finances in a negative way because a lot of men like to spend and go into business ventures and credits, so your husband can drain your savings. Also divorce costs a lot.

  • @intellectualtalks2332
    @intellectualtalks2332 4 місяці тому

    Mam youe smile is ❤and your knowledge is awesome

  • @kylegreaves1308
    @kylegreaves1308 5 місяців тому +5

    I need to see her debate Myrone

  • @dardaissangya6958
    @dardaissangya6958 2 місяці тому

    Keeping a woman who dont like you is hard than getting her.

  • @raywhitehead730
    @raywhitehead730 3 місяці тому

    My job, my car, my apartment my money. Yea, I got it.

  • @allthingsmundane.11
    @allthingsmundane.11 5 місяців тому +8

    newsflash: SHE IS NOT A PSYCHOLOGIST. Psychologist is a protected title across the board, not just those who are in clinical practice. Her Masters is not even in Psychology, it's in Education which means she is not even eligible to do a PhD program in Psychology thus making her ineligible to acquire a license as well. SHE IS MISREPRESENTING HERSELF IN A HUGE WAY.
    Don't get me wrong, I can see that some of the things she's saying might make sense but please be aware that it's not a clinical judgement but rather just a mere opinion. She can talk all she wants but she needs to be honest about her qualifications and respect those who are legitimately in the practice.

  • @seankay8137
    @seankay8137 3 місяці тому +1

    It does not matter if you are rich or poor, a woman will still cheat if that's her personality and has low moral values. Sadia thinks she's an expert but in reality, she really hasn't got a clue what she's talking about.

  • @Royalchess1
    @Royalchess1 21 день тому

    A piece of advice to this lady. . .either S.L.O.W. down when you make your point, or SIMPLIFY YOUR POINT even more. I would do BOTH! Give us guys TIME TO ABSORB your message when you are talking!