I really liked the part, where you were talking about "you know when someone comes back from a date" and then you put on the screen "I don't know." I just really like your honesty and authenticity which I resonate with on so many things.
Hey, thank you so much for this incredibly insightful video! I really appreciate how you've taken the time to reflect on the idea of attraction and relationships, both online and in real life. Your deep dive into the stages of attraction and how they translate into genuine human connections was so relatable. I especially loved how you pointed out the differences between building relationships online versus in person - it's such a relevant topic, and I think many of us feel the same struggle. It’s amazing how you've put into words the challenges of forming meaningful connections in a world where everything is so fast-paced, and we often feel like we know someone just by scrolling through their profile. I really resonate with your point about not giving away too much of ourselves too soon and about the importance of perceived value and challenge in maintaining interest. It's so easy to fall into the trap of thinking we have deep bonds based on superficial impressions. Thank you for sharing your perspective and for being so open and honest about your experiences. You’ve given me a lot to think about, especially regarding how I approach both my online and in-person relationships. Keep up the great work, and I’m looking forward to more content like this!
It's probably a good exercise to try suspending judgement as long as possible, we have instinctual attractions and other egoic reactions of so many kinds which obscure what's real, especially online interactions which are not totally genuine expression, and everything it helps to know that we don't know anything except ourselves
It seems like a good balance between analyzing and feeling. and you look more confident than ever and cozier within yourself after your London adventures.. Love the new vibes
In my opinion, it does tend to be difficult to form authentic connection through social media only because most people's social media is more an idea of what they are (or a facade) and maybe represent rather than the literal definition of what that individual is; because of the miraculous nature of all of that, it becomes an unnecessary mental struggle for some to know if that person they are making the connection with is what they say they are or represent or are they presenting a facade of what they would like people to see and form an idea of them through though it may not all be truthful. However I really appreciated your takes and how they were articulated; it gave me another point of view to consider. Thank you for that and have a blessed Sunday!
I never really see many people in person as most of them are asleep and fake. I'm happy to have my own company or someone every special. Definitely quality over quantity but also association of someone's energy is serious.
Liza this is so out of topic but you are so beautiful ❤ you have a beautiful aura and I believe you are an angel sent from heaven cuz you first appeared on my fyp right after I prayed I need some guidance cuz I’m cooked. Thank you little sis ilysm ❤
imo 25 is the new 18 and a lot of this stuff resolves itself with age. i've been best friends with internet people in foreign countries since i was a kid in the middle of nowhere. as far as relationships, romantically and otherwise, i fall back on orion taraban (youtube, or read the value of others, his book). great video though and gl on your journey -- i think the difficult thing is transactional situation(s) which is not itself negative but as you said, it's tricky.
someone told me good people have hearts and i thought it to be an analogy because i was insane and remain insane but what was meant by it is that good people are ubiquitous and our perceptions get in the way of making great relationships. neuroscience and human behavior; neuroanatomy must be included in the base curriculum and used as a basis of language alongside other stem fields. it probably is and i missed it somehow.
The thing is that I never liked social media and barely uses UA-cam just for informative videos on here and never bought into social media. I only use my phone for movies and shows a big o 90 percent is movies the 10 percent is shows and also use UA-cam this app for uploading videos
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
I had just seen a few videos of - Kasley Killam | The Art and Science of Connection. She is taking about how we have things we do for physical health (for example) but are we doing what we need to for social (health) /wellbeing? I have not read her book, but I did like what she was talking about in her videos. Cheers
i do agree resonate we don't know who is a good person is we have to be careful who we trust there are some that can be trusted and some that can't not be trusted the only thing i disagree you said don't be despertate because i think there is nothing wrong if some of us want to be despertate i think it's not bad unhealthy unantal thing to me i see it as a good natural thing to me but i do agree resonate that we should not force peer pressure anyone to like us back there will be someone that will not like us back don't feel the same way and some will like us back that do feel the same way that's ok we have to respect that with there boundaries respect there wishes we wouldn't like it if someone force some of us to do things we don't wanna do but there will be most that will feel the same way just have to be pateince just let it happen naturally
I just watched all your video by curiosity Great to see that you start questioning more about what you could not see behind the scenes. I'm sure in two or three years you will realize that there are many things that are missed in your analysis. Also, could you explain me how you could find someone amazing based on a few musical reviews? Sounds very superficial. I would suggest you to learn which techniques people are using to manipulate you. Sometimes, we have some values but we should question where did we build that from? Generally speaking, we build our taste and personality on several type of surroundings (family, friends,cultural influence, musical influence... ). You know that if you get a biased opinion on political, music when your brain is uncapable of opening to new experience. You might have already been manipulated in the past so you focus on a specific set of values and losing flexibility. If you could not be dettach from a fixed mindset, you will always be with the same type of individuals based on your mechanism of attraction. Bringing more diversity to your surrounding will make you think differently, instead of being with the type of people you think you share the same value with. There are always surprise and deception but you will know with time. Do not put any obstacles in the quest of learning more about yourself
Relationship 1 - YOU How will you ever get ANY relationship right if you havent started at you? And dont say you have when you start the vid off "im alone in this city" that just proves my point, you're including you in alone 😉 This is clearly not an a$$ kissing comment, but theyre a dime a dozen. Just the one stage for ya there, keep it simple. Have a great day.
all so true. dont play that game of status (its lose-lose), play your own game of authenticity with people like yourself (win-win).
This is a very interesting topic - the sociology of the Internet. I'm glad I found your channel.
Online feels like faux community. Quantity rather than quality
I really liked the part, where you were talking about "you know when someone comes back from a date" and then you put on the screen "I don't know." I just really like your honesty and authenticity which I resonate with on so many things.
Hey, thank you so much for this incredibly insightful video! I really appreciate how you've taken the time to reflect on the idea of attraction and relationships, both online and in real life. Your deep dive into the stages of attraction and how they translate into genuine human connections was so relatable. I especially loved how you pointed out the differences between building relationships online versus in person - it's such a relevant topic, and I think many of us feel the same struggle.
It’s amazing how you've put into words the challenges of forming meaningful connections in a world where everything is so fast-paced, and we often feel like we know someone just by scrolling through their profile. I really resonate with your point about not giving away too much of ourselves too soon and about the importance of perceived value and challenge in maintaining interest. It's so easy to fall into the trap of thinking we have deep bonds based on superficial impressions.
Thank you for sharing your perspective and for being so open and honest about your experiences. You’ve given me a lot to think about, especially regarding how I approach both my online and in-person relationships. Keep up the great work, and I’m looking forward to more content like this!
It's probably a good exercise to try suspending judgement as long as possible, we have instinctual attractions and other egoic reactions of so many kinds which obscure what's real, especially online interactions which are not totally genuine expression, and everything it helps to know that we don't know anything except ourselves
It seems like a good balance between analyzing and feeling. and you look more confident than ever and cozier within yourself after your London adventures..
Love the new vibes
In my opinion, it does tend to be difficult to form authentic connection through social media only because most people's social media is more an idea of what they are (or a facade) and maybe represent rather than the literal definition of what that individual is; because of the miraculous nature of all of that, it becomes an unnecessary mental struggle for some to know if that person they are making the connection with is what they say they are or represent or are they presenting a facade of what they would like people to see and form an idea of them through though it may not all be truthful.
However I really appreciated your takes and how they were articulated; it gave me another point of view to consider. Thank you for that and have a blessed Sunday!
I never really see many people in person as most of them are asleep and fake. I'm happy to have my own company or someone every special. Definitely quality over quantity but also association of someone's energy is serious.
Liza this is so out of topic but you are so beautiful ❤ you have a beautiful aura and I believe you are an angel sent from heaven cuz you first appeared on my fyp right after I prayed I need some guidance cuz I’m cooked. Thank you little sis ilysm ❤
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
imo 25 is the new 18 and a lot of this stuff resolves itself with age. i've been best friends with internet people in foreign countries since i was a kid in the middle of nowhere. as far as relationships, romantically and otherwise, i fall back on orion taraban (youtube, or read the value of others, his book). great video though and gl on your journey -- i think the difficult thing is transactional situation(s) which is not itself negative but as you said, it's tricky.
someone told me good people have hearts and i thought it to be an analogy because i was insane and remain insane but what was meant by it is that good people are ubiquitous and our perceptions get in the way of making great relationships. neuroscience and human behavior; neuroanatomy must be included in the base curriculum and used as a basis of language alongside other stem fields.
it probably is and i missed it somehow.
Very cool monologue. I love unedited eloquence. Biggest turn on even as a podcast you rate high. ;)
The thing is that I never liked social media and barely uses UA-cam just for informative videos on here and never bought into social media. I only use my phone for movies and shows a big o 90 percent is movies the 10 percent is shows and also use UA-cam this app for uploading videos
This is an excellent subject. Very much enjoyed. Connections and their associations, navigating the varying aspects of reality and perception.
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Beyond UA-cam I've never bought into social media. I've always thought it was for dummies.
The which are made in Internet or online are not true friend some may be cheaters but wbome we meet or my neigbour are true
I had just seen a few videos of - Kasley Killam | The Art and Science of Connection. She is taking about how we have things we do for physical health (for example) but are we doing what we need to for social (health) /wellbeing? I have not read her book, but I did like what she was talking about in her videos. Cheers
Where can we make online friends? I only know about gaming communities and I'm not into gaming
i do agree resonate we don't know who is a good person is we have to be careful who we trust there are some that can be trusted and some that can't not be trusted the only thing i disagree you said don't be despertate because i think there is nothing wrong if some of us want to be despertate i think it's not bad unhealthy unantal thing to me i see it as a good natural thing to me but i do agree resonate that we should not force peer pressure anyone to like us back there will be someone that will not like us back don't feel the same way and some will like us back that do feel the same way that's ok we have to respect that with there boundaries respect there wishes we wouldn't like it if someone force some of us to do things we don't wanna do but there will be most that will feel the same way just have to be pateince just let it happen naturally
Mark the perfect man, and behold the upright: For the end of that man is peace. Psalm 37:37
I just watched all your video by curiosity Great to see that you start questioning more about what you could not see behind the scenes. I'm sure in two or three years you will realize that there are many things that are missed in your analysis. Also, could you explain me how you could find someone amazing based on a few musical reviews?
Sounds very superficial.
I would suggest you to learn which techniques people are using to manipulate you. Sometimes, we have some values but we should question where did we build that from? Generally speaking, we build our taste and personality on several type of surroundings (family, friends,cultural influence, musical influence... ). You know that if you get a biased opinion on political, music when your brain is uncapable of opening to new experience. You might have already been manipulated in the past so you focus on a specific set of values and losing flexibility.
If you could not be dettach from a fixed mindset, you will always be with the same type of individuals based on your mechanism of attraction. Bringing more diversity to your surrounding will make you think differently, instead of being with the type of people you think you share the same value with. There are always surprise and deception but you will know with time. Do not put any obstacles in the quest of learning more about yourself
Kinda funny that our generation is self teaching this otherwise basic stuff cuz we're all in the same void.
Only one stage of attraction face and height
the armr lip smacking noises go crazy 🔥
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@@lizabashkova nah I'm just kidding though!! nice video 🙂
you remind me of the girl from that new limited series Penelope
are you based in canada omg
Tudo bem?
Relationship 1 - YOU
How will you ever get ANY relationship right if you havent started at you?
And dont say you have when you start the vid off "im alone in this city" that just proves my point, you're including you in alone 😉
This is clearly not an a$$ kissing comment, but theyre a dime a dozen.
Just the one stage for ya there, keep it simple.
Have a great day.
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No one is good. Only Jesus Christ is Good pls repent from your sins and have faith and believe in Jesus Christ
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u so brave
No, it has not.