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This is the second time I've tried to buy Tiege Hanley. Then as now for some reason the site is broken. I've tried accepting cookies, lowering shields, no VPN etc. It just never takes me to any kind of shopping cart. I get stuck at the "choose your system" screen. I select systems, try to select gifts, get no further. Is it because I'm not American?
I really don't care enough about skin-care to solve this problem, which I'd think would make me their target demographic.
talk about alimony law, how to protect yourself from having a governemnt tax to pay spouse while kids are not allowed to be accesible to the parent even if the parent is paying
Not sure if you are away but this video has audio issues. During the sections of you speaking into the white microphone it sound like your talking into a tube or something. It is a very close echo type thing. I've noticed it in at least one other video as well.
Come on Alexander you should have known you were going to get that backlash 😂. You said it yourself in multiple videos. Women are not wired to empathize with a man's pain.
women get bored of men when they have emotionaly, financially, mentally and spiritually dominated a man whats the difference?
Men can’t speak on women’s well being but women can speak on men’s well being… ooookay got it!
More double standards!
@Z: Know your place, servant!
Exactly 💯
Ironically theyre the ones always complaining about "mansplaining".
They want to control it
Shaming and insults are their resort when confronted with facts
Yes other woman are close minded unfortunately and uneducated
As if they don’t use biology as explanations either.
not true, it's just immature behavior but there are plenty of times where someone who is correct will insult someone who is in wrong. Usually stems from frustration over trying to explain something to an idiot
@@hungrymusicwolf you do realize that people can call out others as idiots if they act like an idiot?
You have very childish world view
Shame Insults Guilt Need to be right - SIGN Language
Turns out women have a huge amount of power and don't like to be told they are wrong.
They don't care about statistics, they only care about their selfish narcissistic feelings.
You just found that out? Sneako and tate are banned by feminist with the help of the LGBTQ party. Men are waking up i hope.
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@@thenarrator1984 that happens to me also idk whose doing it
@@jaminchristopherwhite5616 ... It's UA-cam. Censoring
The women on TikTok are probably the least scientific women. Don’t let your daughter use it, ever!
TikTok: "Rome never existed"
@@sevdev9844 If Metatron would not have been the one who showed that to me I would not have believed anyone believed that.
TikTok is aweful for many reasons.
TikTok: “There is no war in Ba Sing Se.”
If it wasnt for tik tok we wouldnt know female nature lol irony
I find I'm able to climax much better when a new rat is introduced. Unfortunately the folks at the pet store didn't see this as a positive and now I'm looking for a new job. Thanks a lot, Grace.
What the hell is this XD
The Donkey sanctuary will gladly hire you for your animal bonding skills.
@@johnsmith-ht3sy nonononononononononono
👏👏👏👏👏
Facts thats why i have a 365 dogs
it's funny how they can have a superiority complex about how compassionate they act and then act like the worst men they complain about.
A bunch of neurotic sophists with no conscious.
Who is "they" exactly?
@@HughMirin-Bruh I think we're talking about some female tick-tock respondents specifically and the culture they come from more generally.
@@ZIbroweed women in general; the tik tok respondents represent a generalized chunk of female nature.
No compassion, just what they can get from you. If you fit their lifestyle you are part of her life, if not see you later
10 men + 1 woman = 1 baby in 9 months.
1 man + 10 women = 10 babies in 9 months.
This is the foundation for everything about our species. This shouldn't be a shock to anyone.
That’s why I laugh when feminists say that monogamy is a way of men controlling women.
Yep that is why we can't board the lifeboats XD
@Jetsetbob2 How so? Sounds like complete bs.
@@dante19890 We could if we wanted to.
@Jetsetbob2 yeah so not controlling women......
But protecting them
I'm quite surprised you didn't get 3000 "Who hurt you?" comments tbh. These women always sing from the same songsheet, every ex boyfriend was 'abusive' and 'controlling'. They can't exist without the female hive mind telling them what to think.
You are right! its like they all get handed a Handbook filled with canned responses! No thinking necessary for them!
Their exes were "abusive" by not falling down on their faces in worship in their presence in most cases.
@@stevescuba1978 yeah and the ones who do are boring lmao
@@QuinquetPourpre a woman will not respect a man who can be controlled, but they won't accept a man who can't be controlled.
This is why God told men to lead, and not to follow women. They have purpose, but it is not to be in charge.
@@stevescuba1978 He was emotionally abusive and controlling because he didn’t want her dressing like a stripper and f*cking half the town behind his back.
Insults, gaslighting, unaccountability, boxed wine, and cats. Just another day in the life of the modern woman.
They are saying "he's single" as if it was an insult
"I bet you don't even use your money on women who disrespect you!"
Women don't care about how it makes men feel.. only how they feel about it
No, you are wrong. Of all the people I know there are only 2 people that ever care about what I feel are 2 girls.
more importantly, what women can get out of it.
To be honest its tik tok .Lots of wokeness there .So these type of comments make sense .Its bad but im not surprised not so many people have logic in terms of dating
Yeah, it's almost as if its total objectification or something.
Male or female, Tik-Tok is largely an intellectual desert.
The TikTok algorithm largely favors short 7 second videos. There is not much substance you can get out of a 7 second video. It also amazes me that people are so easily entertained by people dancing.
That's been my experience of the social playing field in general for the past 4 decades, honestly
I literally want the same TikTok that is had in China, in which antisocial content (e.g. videos on neopronouns, illegal and dangerous "challenges," otherkin garbage, etc.) is censored in favor of educational content.
Alexander: 2+2=4
Women: "how could you? That's disgusting"
Women: we math too
Yes sir 🤣
Women think with their heart. They're illogical 🤣
@@wilberslater9967 more like meth
@@wilberslater9967 💀
@@wilberslater9967 bruh 💀💀💀💀💀💀
Saw sarah dawn make an excellent point the other day.
Generally, male dating coaches focus on accountability and self-improvement.
Female dating coaches focus on helping women accept themselves as they are (no matter how unattractive) and on choosing better men.
No accountability at all.
thankfully the lady in TheHappyWifeSchool channel is all about female accountability. great channel
@@marvthedog1972 she truly is, but I fear that 99% of her audience are men.
Just tell them that period cramps aren't that bad. We get stomach ache too 😂
Their minds would melt 😂
Yes, of course. But first, you don't have stomach ache every month, second, it is not only about cramps, there are lots of other sideeffects too and third, it is a nessecarity to produce a baby ( and yes, women produce babys, men just have fun).There is no use in stomach aches.
There's always a Mijal.... Always.
@3six967 how can someone be so stupid man😂😂
Men don't just have fun, they spend many uncomfortable and difficult hours making money to provide for those children. They also risk their lives to protect, etc.
This goes to show you that women will twist your words if they don't like it. He never said anything about this being okay for men to do. He never encouraged men to cheat. He said it was normal for some men to be not as attracted to their partner but still care for them.
This is just a joke.
In the médiéval time and industrial révolution even before those, mariage was not an question of love but survival.
@@zoune1144 while i agree with you, that's not the point. The point is that he said something that is blatantly obvious and has been studied and women are taking this as "this is how you should act around women and treat them. You should cheat for this reason." When he never said any of that. I'm more harping on the women who are clearly misrepresenting the TikTok in question. Screw the TikTok itself. I'm focusing on what the reaction was.
This is why men refuse to open up about anything.
At the same time I'm glad there were other comments that were in Alex's defense. That means that it's not female nature to think like that, it's just the biased, deep ignorant way of thinking. And there're a lot of those.
@@ZoniZahiRoniZahi it just bothers me how massive it is. Its the whole reason I spend my time on youtube and not really on twitter or facebook anymore.
I still have to meet a woman that doesn't do that. That thingie of changing tiny words, and the meaning of what you say and the throw it back to you..... I hate it.
You expected far too much, woman caring to understand men? Cmon man!
why do you even expect women to care about your struggles as a man ? You want some sympathy ? A shoulder to cry on ? Cmon man !
@@lestwins8114 what do you think my comment meant? No one cares and we know it.
Why would you expect women to care to understand men? All men ever do is bash them and try to control them
That's like asking a dog to fly
lmao bro,who cares. Go cry in the corner. You are a man
Well, unfortunately to most people these days, pushing a narrative is more important than facts.
The saying used to be "facts dont care about your feelings" now its "feelings dont care about facts"
just watch just pearly things channel.. women are brainwashed nowadays... and of course, 0 accountability
Cause they dont have to accept reality in a peaceful society
Facts destroy any narrative. Dont be afraid to speak facts even if a mayority follows a narrative.
Actually 🤓…humans have always been and will forever be this way. This isn’t a new state of mind for the majority of the human species.
A female here, thank you for sharing, I learnt something new today and it make sense to be honest. It is sad that you had to experience much hate from some women 😢 I actually appreciate my partner even more now, simply by knowing how hard it is for him to just be with me and stay loyal despite the way he was created.
You think he's loyal.
These women are just upset they haven't found a man their attracted to that cares for them.
@W High Value Men being monogamous is unheard off.
@W Yeah I'm sure "some" would be... extreme minority though
Of you think it's a struggle for him to be with you, why are you with him?
Stop devaluing yourself
"I made a lot of women angry" can relate, subbed
I suppose it never occurred to any of these women that they could use this information as motivation to adjust their own behaviors to take advantage of this instinct.
I genuinely worry about my sons, and their abilities to successfully navigate the dating scene these days, when this is the pool of irrational, hostile, and damaged girls.
Well you know that old proverb about modern ladies and accountability.
If you love your son you will make him also watch Austin holleman on UA-cam and tell him to get a passport and stop dating western women and stay overseas and work remote and not bring her back to the USA so she don’t get “westernized” and start hating men
@@RealJayNice because I love my son, I don’t “make” him do anything. He’s 28. Men who expect their mothers to manhandle their relationships are just a different problem, no less distressing.
It’s also a bit of a cop out to tout the “magic Eurotrad” as the only worthwhile solution.
Women in western countries got this way because men allowed it and enabled them. This isn’t just a failure of society. It’s a failure of fathers. Many men I know successfully raise high quality daughters in North America, despite the withering cultural problems. Men need to take back responsibility for their families. It’s what makes messages like this so important.
@@handygingergal You clearly don’t understand why Western Dating has gone downhill through out the years you just blamed it on “fathers” when that’s not the real reason women will always try to find a way to blame men for all the problems . Plus you basically said “I don’t make him do anything” the point is not to make him do anything is to tell your son that dating in the west is not ideal. Us men in our early 20s and 30 and up already know by being good looking masculine having money the type of women being offered in the USA and the way they are raised is not good to consider a wife or raise a family especially with these horrible marriage laws.
Here’s a video to understand more hopefully you and your son understand.
ua-cam.com/video/v3Veq66tNTc/v-deo.html
Make them marry abroad. I travelled to many Eastern Europe, Southern American, Asian and Middle Eastern countries (I'm actually Arabic) and there's still a lot of traditional, God fearing women out there. Marriage and dating in the US is pretty much doomed lol. I won't be surprised if the US in the upcoming years start taking a China like approach and create programs that reward people for marrying by providing them financial incentives (Jobs, less taxes, money rewards, etc..)
Plus why the hell would you voluntary make your sons marry in a country where if the relationship failed he'll get robbed blindly by the court system? You're still here to look out for them in case something bad happens but what will happen after you're gone? I heard many cases like this happening to men in the US and they either try to overcome it or go the self-deletion route.
I really respect that you consume such content to help you have a better understanding of the psychology as well as the needs and wants of men as it will definitely help you raise your kids better.
My mom is the same and I'm really grateful that I can go to her to hear me out and provide me with guidance without having an unbiased female perspective.
EDITED: I just saw your other comment responding to the guy who had a similar point of view. I'm not saying that you should force them. Simply advise them lol. Show them why marrying in the US can be a bad idea for them mentally and financially.
You shouldn't stop acting as an advisor to them just because they're young adults now lol. Especially if you have a good relationship with them. I'm sure they'll appreciate your insight about such topics.
Strange - as I see many women say they hate men cheatning but when the man cheats and is popular they almost never leave him.
it depend)
They concern more about "emotional cheating" than "physical"
Pre-selection. Well reognised behaviour. I never got hit on so much in my life as when I wore a wedding ring. "If that high value woman wants him then he must be good enough for me". That is why IG influencers have a hold on women. They want the shoes, the bag even the man they date as they aspire to be like them rather than build their own quality persona and tastes.
@@michaelhurin But men rarely emotionally cheat! Women are the ones predisposed to emotional cheating.
Depends on the status and caliber of the man. If she’s pining for your validation and has burning desire for you, she will be more likely to tolerate cheating because you’re high value enough. If she views you as an equal or views you as someone she settled for, she will not tolerate cheating.
Other women want him, so she values him. Being a player can have it's perks i guess.
When you expose their tactics, they got real because you were right.
Don’t worry about or justify yourself to people too intellectually lazy to understand you. 🤷🏻♀️
I'm sure a lot of women have already told you this, but I'm a woman and I find your content very interesting, informative, and I've found i agree with 99% of what you say (I can't actually think of something i've disagreed with you about, I just don't want to say I agree with 100% lmao). You also come otf as very unbiased and classy. You're genuinely making the world a better place, and making me a better woman. Thank you.
As a man who never feels listened to about my experiences, my trauma, my suffering, I completely agree with all that you said. Whenever I try to talk about my problems with women from my life, they always twist it and make it about themselves.
You arent lying! This is why men need to save those things for their tribe, unless its imperative a woman hears it(so she can behave better).
Bro never talk to a woman about your problems like WTF! Talk to other men. If you don't have a close circle of men in your life currently then do something to change that. Hit the gym, join a sports team etc.
I immediately crush that talk. If I choose to share an issue, at the first sign of them making it about themselves, I point out their selfishness and bring the conversation back to me.
If it happens twice, conversation over, with a staunch admonishment for having no compassion or empathy....coupled with a jab about how women are supposedly that compassionate empathetic sex.
@@mojojojo11811 I have to agree and disagree
I've been married for 18 years, and our relationship is better than ever. I talk about my problems with my wife. She talks about hers. It should be this way. However, I only bring up my problems when I'm feeling a little lost or overwhelmed, she brings up hers constantly.
She knows that, if I am bringing up something that bothers me, it is serious and she listens and responds appropriately. When she brings up her problems, it is mostly to vent, and she has learned, through experience and argumentation, that she needs to be very clear about when she wants input or action on my part.
Just because most modern women have lost their way, does not mean that men have to suffer everything alone or with only their bros. Teach your woman how to respond to you.
Women respond with disgust to men sharing their feelings, especially if we get emotional. If you truly need support and a friendly ear, speak to men. Men understand and will lft you up. Women would vomit on you if they could.
I have barely been able to talk to my own mother about my male specific issues without her taking something that women have to deal with and throwing it in my face and minimizing my own problem.
This goes back to my childhood. My mother was the first woman to show me that I'm completely on my own and responsible for any and every female's emotional upsets. If I was having a problem I had best man up and figure it out on my own, but if she was frustrated with some asshole she was dating I had the honour of being her crying shoulder This started around age eleven. I had no idea how toxic it was. It set me into a pattern of being disconnected and/or ashamed of my own male sexual preferences and playing the role of tissue box to any and every girl who needed an emotional tampon. Needless to say, women would use me and give me nothing in return and have zero respect for me. I had become so disconnected from my own instincts that when they came up and tried to express a huge wave of shame wouldn't wash over me, as I was showing signs of becoming like the men that my mother and the girls my age would so often cry and complain about. I couldn't do anything flirty or assertive to advance any situation with a woman without believing that it would classify me as a creep, a douchebag, am asshole, etc. Over the years I became the kind of man who would be part of a mismatched couple, dating women who were far below me in every way or who would use me as a psychological punching bag or as an ego boost or for revenge. Now I understand too much of women's psychology to feel any romanticism about male/female relationships. I see all of it with a cool detached sociologists/ anthropologists viewpoint. The one and only motive I can have to move me to interact with a woman is to satisfy a physical urge, however I choose celibacy, as I find mediation, studying, training and working out, practicing skills, and exploring the woods to me more satisfying that busting a nut.
You are a clever man. Continue 👍
And less expensive!
Sorry brother you found out that way so early! Sounds like mum wasnt mature/capable of raising a boy! and you suffered the fall out! But sounds like you have a smart plan .Best of luck to you!
There's no need for this cynicism. I can tell you the exact evolutionary mechanisms that produced the human morality instinct, would that make you conclude morality is meaningless and embrace nihilism?
If not, then why do you abandon love simply because it's evolutionarily derived?
@._. He said: "Now I understand too much of women's psychology to feel any romanticism about male/female relationships. I see all of it with a cool detached sociologists/ anthropologists viewpoint. The one and only motive I can have to move me to interact with a woman is to satisfy a physical urge, however I choose celibacy"
06:50 Notice how shaming is only acceptable today when it's shaming men.
White men*
Fixed it for you.
@@damienmayne7205 Even that i have heard "your white man your priviliged..." few times. They still shame every race possible if they are on her way. It's not about race, it's about her insecurities.
@@damienmayne7205 The marxist poison doing it's job
@@damienmayne7205 You just need not to identify any race and it'll include all men, when they want to shame non-white men, too. Though, of course only white men can be directly referred as so, because if you do it with other races, you're r*cist. So, to play safe, just include all.
@@damienmayne7205 Believe me, men of other races get absolutely zero extra compassion.
“Wow I didn’t realize that men have such strong instincts that ran in direct contradiction to our culture of monogamy. That must be difficult to deal with.” Said no woman ever. But I feel vindicated. So thank you.
The reason they don't say it, is because they are very scared of it and there for also might feel a great disgust. And so would the most men too, when a woman would tell him, that it is a strong female instinct to cheat on her partner with a more attractive man , to get a baby with better genes and let it be raised and provide by her partner, who isn't the father.
Conclusion: there is a bunch of traits in female psychology that are depressing to us and a bunch of traits in male psychology that are depressing to them.
Mens' traits enrage them, not depress.
@@cjh36 only once a month, in which case, it's wise to throw chocolate and run.
Men exposing them & men traits enrages them.
Toxic women on a toxic platform have toxic reactions to the truth.
Good luck to them all in the coming depression. I won't lift a finger for women outside my family.
"I won't lift a finger for women outside my family."
If everyone did that then women would apreciate men from their family (including husband), and be more attached to them.
@@Temporalplace everyone used to do that it was apart of our culture so assuming you are right explain how we got here
Why do you lift a finger for them tho?
They choose to be Strong Independent Women that can go to a 9-5... Let them lay in the bed they maid, maybe they will learn approbation after some years.. Or at 32years old when the wall hits..!
@@Temporalplace the problem is the simps. They are undermining the rest of us.... But they get what they deserve in divorce court
@@ishyameru6232 Is it a question ?
Modern women are honestly depressing in general. In almost every single imaginable aspect.
Well said
The feminine women are attractive, whereas feminists are completely unattractive. Let the toxic feminists forever lie when they say “I don’t need a man” because they are strong and independent. Yet, they still want to use us to pay their bills etc
Man this girl who cheated on her boyfriend with ME whom I am friends with just told me she loves me yesterday 🤦🏾♂️ that makes it even worse because it’s so disingenuous
@@ishyameru6232 Stop supporting them in cheating. It is not virtuous. Be better.
@@dannyborke6551 Nah I'll take the free sex, screw the beta boyfriend unless I'm friends with him.
let's not forget that no woman can walk in a mans shoes for very long.
All of them committed suicide, and that is an amazing insight
They don't fit!
Yeah. And men can’t walk in women’s either. Patriarchy affects everybody
@@kiera6326 How is patriarchy affecting women in the west in 2022?
@@anneb889 Ah jeez lol. Do you want a list? It’s kind of a systemic thing. It’s intergrated so deeply into our society that you can’t even begin to categorise it. It’s like explaining racism beyond slavery. Some people don’t believe it exists, but in reality, it’s insurmountable. Just in general, the idea that women are inferior to men, in every way, as portrayed here and everywhere else. As prejudiced attitudes, examples of violence, micro-aggressions etc. In everyday life, homes, workplaces, media and also outright laws. Similarly, you don’t need to force women into hijabs and deprive them of the vote to identify misogyny. And like I said, it affects everybody, so sexist attitudes about men are also examples of why we need feminism.
It's like they're wired to immediately say they have it so much worse then men at all times and in all things- it's an extreme resentment & bitterness they hold against the opposite sex.
It's all part of some curse when some vvoman listened to some talking snake, then she got her husband to go along with her program.
There’s no way women understand the male drive for sexual novelty. Those women on TikTok aren’t even self-aware.
Women often get sexual novelty through multiple partners. They project that the men she wants get that novelty when he exercises his options.
Indeed.
The craziest part is all these chicks saying "hes just justifying cheating" are probably the same chicks to say "body count doesnt matter, theres nothing wrong with having a hoe phase."
@@callanc3925 Yup
There is arguably a more serious issue for many women. A very large percentage of women are not able to sustain an attraction to their husbands. This causes a lot of sexless marriages. Men have a wondering eye but can still want to have sex with their wives, whereas many women cannot muster up desire for a man once they have lived together a few years. Give them a new man and boom, their desire returns.
Correct, women can't relate to something unless it directly affects them. You see this in their media preferences - they prefer to watch main characters that are blank slates that they can project themselves onto. They prefer comedy that's "relatable" rather than funny. Women are inherently solipsistic. Evolutionarily, it's because women need to prioritize their own and their children's survival above all. Sadly, it's gone from a useful focal point to total narcissism (and often, a total lack of desire for children).
Don't remind me of shehulk
They have become their own children!
Sad really. Wonder if Nature will fix that little kink anytime soon.
@@botezsimp5808 Hard times are coming. Women can't afford to be children when food and shelter are on the line.
This is why most civilizations had religious philosophies that, in some way, suppress instinctive female behaviours like hypergamy and gossip.
They've become the very own thing they swore to destroy
Don't forget variables like men typically use UA-cam more & women typically use Twitter/insta etc more. By simply moving to that platform you're immediately exposing yourself to more female viewers.
80% are bots
And hate. Haters gonna hate!
I do think that is his intention. if the hope is to educate people (which i believe it is) reaching only half the demographic isnt enough! But it didnt know that Tweeter/Instragraham were female dominated.
@@inconnu4961 It does make sense mean girl is a movie for a reason and given's twitter rather *cough* brand of toxicity it makes a lot of sense that it is female dominated
It won't be long before Alexander gets kicked off tik tok
Women hate to hear the truth and since biology are talking against them they only have one choice left.
Attacking and bullying those that tells the truth.
Alexander keep up the good work you are spot on with what you are saying.
TikTok women are some of the worst I've ever seen. I have a coworker who is obsessed with it and she tries her hardest to get on that stupid app every chance she gets. She has 4 kids from 2 different men and the worst part is she tried to hook up with me but thankfully I was smart enough to reject her immediately. I don't have time for that bullshit.
A definite insight into how ugly they can be smh.
And stupid
So glad I’m gay
This is way as men you have to put women in there place from time to time….unfortunately
This is just normal female behavior on tiktok, they have formed a hate group and tiktok is pushing it to cause problems
@@cajunking5987 youre gay because you like men, I'm gay because I hate woman. We are not the same
Lucky TikTok didn’t ban you. Good on you for setting out the facts - educating people. In a way it’s an indirect pushback on female behavior which is happening. Keep holding the high ground my friend!
...yet
He will get banned eventually
The 12 moderators with the combined braincells of 6 are still trying to figure out if his content is offensive with all the "scientific" words he used! 🤣
@@brandonx8292 😂
Your video hit them right in the feels; it never got the chance to reach all the way up to their intelect. And they wonder about the 'women are emotional' stereotype.
So true
What intellect?
@@Why.Just_why
Most men don't have intellecct
Most women don't even have the chance to have intellect
Most of them were only saying that they feel the same way, which is true.
I don't understand what you're blabbing about.
He's fault was not to say to them to shut up because he was addressing his message to men.
@@carlrogers8113 it's not true.
They don't feel this. It's a masculine thing
Once a guys realises it is impossible for women to feel empathy for them, this should come as no surprise.
Hypergamy in action
Love how this guy just re analysed them after they insulted him
Shaming, Strawman & Relativizing
are the three pillars of "modern woman".
*correction* just women... not modern women. Women have always been this way. Human nature doesnt change. This is why most cultures dont take women seriously or grant them less freedom due to their destructive/irrational/immature nature.
SIGN Language = Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be right.
Good one
Yes, when men talk about relativism, it is all about Relativity.
😂
Man: What a beautiful blue sky.
Woman: So you're saying you hate women.
Man: What, that's not even close to what I said.
Unfortunately this is how most interactions between men in women play out when discussing topics like this. There is no room for civil discourse.
🤣💀
"Who hurt you?"
ua-cam.com/video/JhtqsKIbMUM/v-deo.html Literally what happens in this video. Piers Morgan talking with Andrew Tate. Piers keeps making insane jumps in logic trying to make Tate look bad. An example from the video is Tate saying that 19 yo women are more attractive than 25 yo women because they have had less sexual encounters and Piers says that Tate hates women because of this. Like wtf.
@@NeoZeta Yeah I think they're all given the same "Shaming Playbook" because they seem to say stuff like this on the same order.
That’s why I don’t debate anymore, I prefer to sit in the background and soak up information. But as for finding a partner, passport is my only hope of genuine relationships. Women here are just fun before I get bored or lose the desire to associate with American women
To be fair, this is not really a phenomenon exclusive to this specific subject or population. In our time, MOST OF THE TIME, whenever you make a well thought out argument or logical proposition, the response is usually just "reeeee"
People no longer hear what you said, but what they think you said. What a time to be alive.
Yup. People don't listen, they just wait for their turn to speak.
Are you sure this is unique to our time, though? But men CAN be reasoned with. Its far more difficult to get a woman out of her emotions to reason with her. So while you are not wrong, women exhibit the toxic version far more often(bcuz they are encouraged to feel)
It's because most people lack critical thinking skills. And they happen to be the most vocal at the same time. I bet you most people that agreed with Alexander didn't even leave a comment.
the point he made about it being a curse and how we dont want it is so true. Some men fall prey to these baser instincts but most of us are frustrated by it and want it to go away. we feel guilty and stressed and we dont want to think about sexual desire so often.
unfortunately the more you learn about women the harder it is to like them or take them seriously
I love how you explain what people do evolutionarily, and are explaining that it's normal, even if it's not societally okay, and these women just take it at face value of "this is how men react and must react to women."
Women only feel empathy for very young children. They do not feel it for men. That's a naive desire.
It's awesome that your reaching out to men on tiktok but it's a cesspool, worse then twitter at this point.
Looks like a great social experiment to me.
Modern whamen - They weep and gnash their teeth!
I was assuming he was trying to reach WOMEN, not men. its good for men for gain understanding, but women need to gain understanding too if we hold any hope that we can end the battle of the sexes and have them work together.
@@inconnu4961 Modern feminist women are using conflict theory from Marxism taught to them by their Marxist Professors to divide and destroy western society.
@@Nomammosway a great Chinese government controlled social experiment. 👌
Women supposedly “mature faster” than men, however they seem to lack empathy on the male struggle, perspective, boundaries, and preferences at the same time.
Tiktok is not where someone with an educated,rational, fact based, statement should voice it😂. Hence why I won’t ever have it.
They say Women are the more empathetic sex but that mostly seems to only be with other women.
Not really, we women rip each other apart. Usually behind their backs too.
That's even a lie because most women don't like most women
@@dubbcee1000 as a woman , you’re spot on
They need no conversation, they need war.
They dont have to like it or dislike it, its facts. Man keep doing what your doing 👌.
What women lack the most is 2 things:
- ASSERTIVENESS
- EMPATHY
you forgot competence and accountability.
@@geraldg350 And logic and self reflection.
I was thinking it was either "who hurt you?" or "somehow making it about themselves". I'm getting better at this.
Women and empathy don't go hand in hand.
There is a saying:” if you pissed a woman, it’s because you did something right “
I’ve found that with women, it’s wise to preface topics like this with your intended motive for discussion.
This goes some way (but definitely doesn’t always help) to preventing your motives being misjudged.
Yes! And that way you can bring out the best in women. Because even if their first reaction is anger or denial, it's not because they are evil or stupid but because they were taught to think this way and have never been challenged. But many of them will gladly engage in the discussion once you address their worries.
Yeah, Alex made a mistake with that. I know that with the women in my personal life if a prefaced this conversation with ‘this isn’t a justification for cheating’ I’d get a much better reaction than I would without. Women would be less likely to strawman, shame and deflect because they would feel less emotionally charged and threatened by the theories.
You should never do this when addressing a group tho, only in intimate settings. It hurts your argument and/or the understanding of the information you are presenting. If someone can’t sit and process basic information, a preface to them is meaningless anyway.
@@grzegorzmj4881 Wishful thinking with modern feminist whamens! Maybe he did it intentionally without a preface to gage the response.
Very good advice
I know that one of Alexander's goals is to help men to better themselves, and find a good woman in today's society. But when I see reaction like this from young women today I have to ask if that is even possible. Good, intelligent woman is extremely rare and hard to find in crowds of these childish, self-centred people. It's sad.
True story and, working in an environment full of girls between 25-35yo, I see how these new gens are and, apart rare cases, I'm truly disgusted by them. Entitlement, shallowness and aggressivity is all they have.
When you said that women envy men, I think that you hit on the core of the feminist movement. Well said.
It’s ironic your last name is Grace. Cause that was the most graceful rekt I’ve ever seen.
TikTok is no different than Reddit after its big ideological shift. If you're looking for high quality women with any measure of empathy and emotional intelligence, you won't find them in any sort of online comment section. The kinds of women who spend their time rage-commenting on online content that doesn't affect them in any practical way are violently averse to anything they see on social media that's not all about them, because their sole source of validation, fulfillment, and self-esteem is social media. Any social media interaction other than absolute praise is a nuisance at best, and at worst an existential threat to their very identity. That's why I deleted my reddit accounts, never use TikTok, barely touch Instagram, and left every Facebook group I ever joined. Social Media is a woman's domain through and through, and I say let them have it so long as I get to keep the real world. That's where all the good women are anyways.
Great analysis
As you said woman have that too, but not for the same reasons, not for a sexual reason, but for hypergamy, the sense of envy that the grass is greener elsewhere is what makes woman become "bored" of their man, not because of sexual frustration despite attraction, but because they feel they have an inferior mate and that causes the lack of attraction itself and not direct sexual frustration.
I think you are right. But could it sometimes be that they did not get pregnant with their mate, even after a year or two, and evolutionariy alarm bells kicks in, compelling the woman have sex with another man. Change partner or cheat, both are viable options.
Women are hypergamous this fits their high cheating rate
For women it changes depending on their ovulatory cycle. When she's in her fertile window she becomes more attracted to Chads, and if her husband isn't that, she'll actually resent him. When she's not ovulating though her preference goes back to nice guy/provider types.
Ain’t no one sexually frustrated like a woman. Do mn really think a woman doesn’t wanna have sx with a man just to have sx ? Do men think there’s always an ulterior motive or something?
These responses are to be expected, in to days zeitgeist most things have to be about women and their "lived experiences". It always brings a smile on my face when they cite their "superior" levels of empathy. It is usually a "superior" level of empathy for them selves.
The idea of women having a “superior” level of empathy comes from maternal instinct, but was a concept exaggerated if not created by men in order to fit themselves and women into neat little boxes that could only ever make women successful in nurturing dispositions (but not doctors, interestingly enough). Patriarchy is responsible for all gender stereotypes, positive or negative, and their oppression.
Hahahahahaha. One look at the miniature told it all. Looks like that stung these women to the core xd
And yes Alexander, this topic is VERY controversial beacuse most people never learned about our psychology and physiology, as well as aren't very bright and they can't properly process some ideas - like this one.
I hope it will become normal to have more ''difficult'' conversations in the future.
They aren't very bright? Are you projecting a bit? Most people are of average intelligence, much like your self I'm sure! Most people are capable of understanding these things if the concept is presented 'properly' TikTok is probably a bad place to go if you were hoping for patient understanding.
@@inconnu4961 The average person is kinda dumb
Your content is the best my friend, and just now in the present it's so much needed it!
I'm a good looking guy who has been single my entire life. Years ago after many failed relationships I decided that I was better off alone (also, I realized that I didn't need kids and just wanted peace, not drama). Women often get upset when I let them know that I have no plans to date and haven't for a long time. They all sound the same. Now I know why. They're not just brainwashed, they are literally trying to project their biological need to be in a relationship onto me even though I clearly have no issues living without one. Disgusting. Thanks for the video.
Brother what 😂
@@huhs112 whamen project due to their solipsistic nature. Get it?
I’m a woman and I enjoy your content, please keep it up!✌️
The extent of their inability to understand anything unless it relates to them extends to my favorite social test with them.
Take whatever situation they’re not understanding, and in the simplest, least persuasive terms possible, invent a hypothetical and just swap the roles so that you force them to see it from another perspective. You will be amazed at a) how easily that works and b) how much it literally took “but think if you did thing!” For them to realize it.
Then realize why it took that; they literally never imagine anything from anyone else’s perspective.
As men, we do it constantly to assess threat levels, gauge social cohesion, etc.
“The more empathic gender” is one of the biggest myths of them all.
More partner she get
More bitterness she will be
mark my word.
I would use your science to create another thesis: Many men show self-control as they consciously choose monogamy.
lmao, its a bage of honor my man!
This only goes to prove the significance of the content you make. Don't give up on Tictok more men need to hear that it's okay to be a man. Especially young men on Tictok. I'm glad these women had the reaction they did as it exposes their true nature. Most men lack the knowledge to confront in a healthy way and/or have been beaten down by the entitlement that they have given up. Never be afraid to put ignorant people in their place. Also as a newer subscriber I appreciate the long form content in a world of short clips of dopamine.
You posted a 3-part novel to an app where people have a 10-second attention span.
This is such quality work.
Don’t women cheat as often or more often then men? Anyway this is a legendary social experiment. Well done
They do in fact there is a recent study that shows women between 18-30 cheat more than men but for some reason women never talk about that tho very strange don't you think 🤔
Def can't expect a great deal of maturity from tiktok. Girls can winge with all the power of their entitlement all they want. The women need to step up and help the girls learn
The closer you are to the truth, the louder they will shriek.
They think that just because they feel something, it automatically nullifies every scientific evidence.
Welcome men of culture we met again❤
I've tried showing these videos to my X and she won't watch them. I show them to my GF and she raises her voice and gets wound up, even though I'm showing videos with facts. I told her about the Coolidge effect and that relationships have a time line. It was hard to explain this to her but she agreed that relationships can end. Another woman would ask me to stop the video every 10 seconds and make comments about how it's not correct. The view point of woman watching these videos is feminist, it's very hard to make them watch, and they won't do it on their own. You are not the only one being attacked. Look at the guys who are on TikTok in group panels, they get attacked even though what they are saying is true.
Dump her.
If she doesn't want to listen to men's problems coming from a man and outright dismisses or doesn't believe it, she's going to turn really really nasty on you in the future.
Trying to show and rationalize these videos to them was mistake #1 and #2, my friend.
Alex, I say "GOOD!" that the women on TikTok discovered your video, because the attention that you get from that video will make more people see more of your videos in general, and that will be a good thing overall, especially if any of them continue watching your videos about other other topics, because your info, understandings, interpretations, ideas, and advice is consistently among the very BEST on the internet, regardless of the platform that you're on, so more people, both men AND women, really need to see your content!
You are one of the very few people rn who are making a positive influence in this modern world, especially on the internet, and eventually things will improve in society, but as it is rn, everyone needs to see your content so they can get another good point of view about whatever said topic you might be talking about!
Keep up the great work man! It is greatly helpful AND appreciated, especially among the more enlightened ones of us!
This is how I know I have a significant number of high quality female friends. I've had these discussions about the male experiences with some of them and a couple even took what I said back to their partners and used it to gain insight and understanding.
I paused it because I think I guessed right, women say that they suffer more than men and make it about themselves. (Unpause) Nailed it!
6:00 Most animals? Think she means a few non mammals. Clearly no clue of what these women are talking about.
I can only find four types of "animal" that do it, three insect, one arachnid.
Octopi were mentioned too, but that is more of an opportunistic thing rather than a strictly after mating thing. The male could be caught and eaten by the larger, stronger female, before they have mated, or even if he wasn't present for mating.
You never saw two dogs banging and then the female ate the male dog whole? Me either.
Alex is well put together with his words. A true madlad blessed by the grace 🙏of the great lol
Women☕️
Man those last 5 minutes that you explained are a hard pill to swallow but it's so true.
When fee-fails cannot compete, they complain. This includes insulting and shaming.
Well said, well said. No wonder why men are increasingly finding marriage and relationships as undesirable
I think this video highlights an issue about human psychology that goes deeper than the topic of gender roles alone. I think for most of us, ideas about gender roles (similar to other ideas about personal identity, for example religion, politics and even sports teams) are heavily linked to aspects of our personal well-being/survival, specifically as it relates to our relationship as individuals within a community (or social group of like-minded people).
In a variety of ways, the concept of the "coolidge effect" appears diametrically opposed to aspirations of feminism, which fundamentally is about improving lives of women. What you ultimately have is an opposition of 2 arguments (one about biological phenomenon and on the other hand a very elaborate and complex set of concepts about ethics) that don't actually operate in the same plane. I think in the end it comes down to old triad of logos, ethos and pathos. While you are appealing to reason, your audience is simply having a hard time reconciling that with their own emotional needs, in this case preserving and protecting their concept of identity.
'Sometimes it seems as though women are incapable of understanding something unless it directly relates to them.'
I have experienced this first hand. I told the story of Osiris and Horus to a woman I know. Throughout the story she tolerated me but it was obvious that her interest wasn't there and that she didn't catch nor care for the deeper meaning within the story. That is until I mentioned Isis, Osiris' wife. It was at that moment and that moment alone that she perked up like a dog who just heard a howl in the distance. That was one of those key moments that forever change your perception and open your eyes a bit more to the truth.
'What on Earth is so threatening about men having something of their own?'
Freud called it penis envy. At its most basic it's a sort of inferiority complex which views everything male-exclusive as fundamentally chauvinist. A mind possessed by such an idea concludes that women are excluded because men think of them as inferior. This pairs really well with the popular post-modernist dogma which says that we're all equal and that every difference is socially constructed and a product of oppression. Also narcissism, which goes without saying. A narcissist can't handle the idea that you have something which they can't supervise and control.
Well covered. I had been aware on some level of similarities between "toxic feminism" and narcissism for a long time, but perceived them as coincidental. One day when reading up on patterns of narcissistic abuse, it clicked that the demonstrable characteristic patterns of the two aligned perfectly. As in identical. Naturally skeptical, I deep dived to look for evidence to the contrary, facets that I wasn't considering, and revisited it several times over the next week or so. But nope, it's genuinely uncanny. The relationship dynamic between feminism and men is literally spot on textbook narcissistic abuse. The effect on my worldview since that revelation has been like taking off a pair of those "drunk goggles" the police use after wearing them for like a week straight.
I'm interested in how or what events lead you to explain Osiris and Horus story to someone
@@tranngockha6562 A parent who didn't see something critical but his child did.
I bet if you asked any of them what they bring to the table in a relationship, they’d say something along the lines of empathy. Its so funny how blind they are.
People using Twitter, TikTok and Reddit as legit social media should be classified as a lower class of human!