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I'll believe you if there's a money back guarantee if the frame doesn't work😂
Wish to be happy forever.
@@HEALTHANDWEALTHCHANNEL-h6o 😊
You have a "girlfriend" for 13 years????? Yeah, you CLEARLY don't have commitment issues, either one of you, huh?? 🤔🤨😒...
The frontal lobe collapse at 2yo wasn't my fault so yes I am a Primary Psychopathic Ultra Sensing INFJ-T Indigo Borderline. Now that you are aware of this I have only 2 classifications in my perception of reality. #1. Subjective... Mainly abstract #2. Objective... Bio Mechanical Robot powered by Alienware good luck and enjoy your journey because optimism is a choice
can we just talk about how crazy it is to actually post your first date like that for everyone to see? Wtf have people become
Narc
Women ☕.
Women are insane.
Mud Shack
Narcissists. They are addicted to exterior validation and have zero ability to regulate self worth from within themselves.
Woman filming at a first date = red flag in and of itself
Exactly.
Definitely !
Absolutely agreed
I'd have walked out tbh
For some young guys, they are so used to cameras that they don't know better.
As a 100% certified FDA approved woman, I can confirm in my own experience that this is all true. Even when I was younger and had panic attacks, if I was with my mum she would get anxious when I had them which made me panic even more. If I was with my dad he would act really calm and just say “just breathe, you’re alright” and it would go away so quickly. I think my mum was switching to my frame and panicking with me which made me feel more unsafe whereas my dad kept his frame strong
@@TomNook. I am pretty sure… 😂
And she claimed to be a Christian this is why I left the church long time ago lots of fake people
@@klopcodez what?
@@Alisha0413 she only dates older men no I suppose taking her everywhere someone come get there daughter
@@klopcodez huh?
The girl I'm talking to made fun of my Slayer tank top I wore to the gym. She said, "I liked Slayer when I was 13." She said it with a hint of patronizing tone. I said "I've seen slayer more than any other band, they are my favorite to workout to." She started apologizing and said she will learn to play one of their songs on the guitar. She plays guitar.
It was a total test. The embracement she displayed after I shot back the IDGF attitude was blissful.
Textbook frame maintenance.
I had this EXACT thing happened to me
4 years ago, I brought a girl to an african restaurant, I was 19, 171cm, 52kg wet feather but I already knew how to act as a man (my granddad had 8 wives lmao) and she saw that and wanted to test me at the end of the date
She said: « I know you want to see me again, you must not get many girls », although she was absolutely right, I had to stand my ground
I took a sip of my drink to take the time to think of the right answer, so I responded: « I already got what I wanted »
She then said: « What’s that »
I answered: « An african chicken made of peanut butter sauce »
She laughed, and a month ago, we celebrated our 4 year anniversary, now I’m still 171cm but 63kg of pure muscle 💪🏾
Good luck men!
God damn I wanna learn the arts of womeneese from your grand dad,man's had a harem of women,what else did he teach you bruh😂
pure chad
@@davidlaid1146 bro, 8 wives over 30 children, over 60 grandchildren and SOMEHOW, it was always there for all of us as a strong masculine figure
FYI, he fought agaisn’t Belgium to end colonization in the DRC, a real warrior
@@davidlaid1146 the art is called patriarchy and beta buxx
@@davidlaid1146 man just trust your ass and like he said, stand your ground, without needing to prove anything to anyone
Considering marriage in today's market is utter FOOLISHNESSSSS. But if you do take cue from PSG - Moroccan footballer Achraf Hakimi. His ex wife tried to get more than 50 % of his assets in divorce only to find out to her bewilderment that HE OWNS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING and all the assets are under HIS MOTHER'S NAME. She lost the case in court and got nothing. Absolutely Nothing.
His Mom is the true hero. I can definitely say it was her idea to transfer his assets in her name to safeguard his interest. She saw his wife's true nature and motive and how she was using him for money and clout. Not all are great mothers but the large majority of moms always do what's best for their sons. Never trust a hoe but always trust your mom.
Man I didn't know this. Great footballer too.
And now, no man want that ole abused hole
@@TomNook. Also a good lawyer to establish a contract when the mom dies to prevent his sister and brother taking 2/3 of his money.
She’s a Christian I suppose and all those dudes keep spending thousands of dollars on her and let me guess she will say she’s waiting for marriage
Moreso, now SHE wil pay HIM, since (on paper) she now has more money than him! 🤣🤴😎✌👍
superb video, i'm a 24 year man from morocco (north africa), i found mentoring from your videos, they really helped me understanding the dynamics between men and women, and helped me lessened my resentment toward womens.
She's on her first date with these dudes, and she's resting her head on their laps and hugging them? That's a caulk tease.
I once went on a date with a woman where it was more like being in a job interview, with her issuing questions to me from a list on a yellow legal pad. After the date, I sent her an email saying that I didn't think I could meet her lofty expectations of me.
Shoulda told her you can't hire her because she uses notes instead of a laptop so she doesn't meet YOUR requirements
You should tell her you too have a list!
You should've told her you have to decline as the second job... I mean girl is more attractive, funny, naughty and had the most beautiful smile.
Alex is right frame makes men attractive but here is the caveat: frame is attractive to genuinely feminine women. For masculine women (women that tend to be more masculine than most men) its a turn off. I been in the US military since 2010, one observation is that female NCO are usually more assertive and masculine than most young male NCO. Many of these women are lesbians but not all. But these women are very confident outwardly (maybe they are compensating for not being male?). But most women outside the military are fake masculine. They were told to be confident, fierce, strong, dominant... any adjective that fits what they would call "toxic masculinity." Maybe boys were humbled when they did they tough guy act and so when they join the military in an environment that calls for them to act "manly" they self doubt or get self conscious for faking it. While girls never got shut down for acting bossy or assertive, so their transition to the military leadership role is more natural. Most women are more feminine on the inside than their public persona. So when a man maintains his frame, the feminine women will appreciate it while the masculine women will see it as a challenge.
Almost no men care about masculine women, they are cringe delusional women.
Female NCOs is a joke bro. I served in another country and wanted to join the US military too but one of the reasons that put me off is the idea that some pissant half my age that has never seen combat is going to be barking at me as if she were Field Marshal Rommel. That and the fact how poorly US treats its veterans, the ridiculous salary they pay for risking your life, among other things. Which branch were you in? I heard the Chair Force is the only one with acceptable quality of life.
Thanks for sharing this. I've never thought about this.
I've worked with many gay and lesbian people in the restaurant industry.
All of those women would be very happy living in the frame of a celebrity. I've turned my fair share of "gay" girls straight. You just have to be extremely strong in your "frame" and look good to her, if you have those 2 things it's over.
spot on
My frame is much to valuable. It's peace and tranquility is a calm sea in the storm of female drama. Of female " testing".
Alexander gives so much good advice on how to deflect womens' attentions without them even knowing they're being rejected.
I think this is one of your best videos Alex, and that's really SAYING something.
Sooo much quality, I feel like every single minute of your videos are pure gold, I feel so grateful you share this with the world.
23:01 This is so true! I enter your frame to seek (new) information, knowledge etc., but once I am back in my frame I will filter through it, think about it critically and drop what I don't agree with and take with me on my path the things you said that seem reasonable. To sum it up, I hear your words, but don't take everything for granted.
14:25 If a woman ever said something this rude to me on a date, I would not be offering a second date and would not talk to her again. That's not a test that's someone who wasn't raised properly and not worth my time 😂
Yup, I don't why some dudes think they have to "win" a woman over.
Facts. I would still hit tho. But that ain´t no wifey
That right there is called failing the test. Thicker skin may be in order
Yes, I would just look like WTF/ disgusted at her and ask: "So you think that low of yourself? 🤦♂️ You really think, a man, who wants to see you, must be a loser? What does it tell about YOU? I guess, nothing that I would want to have" and then I would walk out on her.
@@NorthernSpartan she clearly has issues. You don't stick it into crazy, trust me, been there, done that. no good comes out of it.
That is interesting point I haven't considered. I'm neither emasculated guy, neither I'm dumb. I just like giving open ended questions to girls to see how they think. A good talk was always super important to me. Guess that's what might have been biting me in the butt all the time. I'll try it.
Same here, that's probably the only thing in the video I disagree with. I don't see how asking open ended questions is weak, especially since the types of questions Alex suggests as alternatives are also open ended (though much more direct and assertive, I think that's probably what he's talking about). I can see how straight up asking "what kind of music do you like" might come off as a little weak, depending on the context, but not because its an open ended question. It's just a little cliche and overused I suppose, and might give the impression that it's intended as small talk rather than a genuine interest. Could be altered a bit with some more direct language, but really its context specific imo
What women want: a guy who is tall, strong, handsome, athletic, well-endowed, well-dressed, smart, funny, confident, creative, charming, ambitious, adventurous, educated and successful. Must have a nice car and a large income.
What women offer in return: nothing.
Modern women*
Man! you exist in your own little bubble. Maybe some women are like that but most women are good people.
Woman only care about the attractive part. The rest will fall into place because of the halo effect
Its not even really about what they offer. Its honestly the delusion they believe in. A man like that is never dating just one woman.
Believe this and you will just get this, continuously.
For all the time I've been absorbing rp content, it's only now that the concept of frame has properly clicked. So many "authorities" in the field are nebulous in their description of it. Thanks Alex.
I noticed that too.
ChatGPT is a better wife than the tiktok generation.
😂word
ChadGPT
ChatGPT doesn't nurse you when you are I'll. Doesn't appreciate you for reaching your goals. Doesn't... etc.
Wake up, it's made to make you weak!
@@thegermantomoeser neither will modern women
@@thebigree6155 I'm talking about real women, not NPCs
I'm the only dude that I know off that hasn't been on "dates" and I'm very proud of that. Ever since a teen, I recognized the power imbalance in it. The woman gets free, unearned attention and validation, and on top of that free entertainment, while the man gets the "possibility" of seggs. If the man "plays his cards right" and "impresses" the girl, then maybe....just maybe, he can get seggs. And the women is just sitting there on her high horse, like a king, entertaining and dismissing any potential suitors. Maybe I'm a little radical but I refuse to give out free attention.
so whats your method?
@@wutzgedudel honestly, I've sort of opted out of dating. Not out of some type of "resentment" or "bad experiences". I honestly dont really like people to begin with, so the idea of someone like me chasing or pursuing someone who I probably wouldn't even like or respect in the first place, is extremely difficult for me. Ever since a teen, I always recognized that i would build my status up and then have women come to me. Not saying that I deserve to be chased or pedestalized or anything, I just think things should be equal. I dont knock men for taking women out on dates by the way, I just personally can't do it.
@@wutzgedudel Why do men have to have a method!?
How is that equality!? That says women are dependent on men.
@@Kingwithoutathrone that's cool. any success so far?
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Excellent video Alexander. Thank you for such a clear explanation of "frame", a concept I have been vaguely aware of but had not read/heard it as well as you put it.
Great advice. It's rare to find people who can really pinpoint our psychological flaws in life and relationships.
None of those guys who failed, will be harmed by their failure with her. Because they are attractive, they will be awarded opportunities to get back in the batters box over and over again and learn from their experience and mistakes. There will be countless women willing to give them chances in hope that they turn out to be the guy she wants.
Awesome information. That ranks among the best videos I've seen from you.
This was a great video Alex. I like how you used the concept of framing. Great way for me to understand 👍👍👍
This is the ultimate life altering concept people should know. The frame.
I kind of doubt that girl was unimpressed because those guys "lacked frame." Pretty sure she's just flexing for attention. For even mildly attractive women, I don't think it's that difficult. If anything, I suspect they never had a chance because it was always just a fun tiktok game for her... I've seen some of my own friends doing this stuff because... it's funny to reject guys, and show (or tell) everyone.
Anyway, with regard to "frame," guys that good looking already have frame, right? You're the cool guy and you know it (because you have looks/power/money/etc)? I guess faking it can work to a degree, but I'm not sure most people actually buy that (at least not for long). I mean, if some clowny dude comes up to me playing cool. I don't really see myself being impressed and "falling into his frame." I think I'd just walk away. Seems like this is a very roundabout way to say "just be confident."
Yeah, they've gotta find new ways to rope people into this stuff. If they just come out and say "be confident," it's too easy to spot the BS. If they say "maintain frame," it ultimately turns into a chore of keeping up appearances and filtering everything that goes through your head. For the most part, she isn't gonna be with you if she doesn't already want to be with you
In order to be successful with women you have to behave like the kind of guy that you wouldn't want to be friends with. That's the saddest thing for me.
What kind if guy is that, can you elaborate? In my opinion even egotistic narcissists are compatible with loyalty and if they see life as them and their friends vs the world then it can work.
Not true. You're projecting your lack of masculinity. In the context of the video, your frame sucks. Watch it again, and again, until you get it. Alex just gave you the keys to the kingdom. Your lack of success, with women, has virtually nothing to do with women. Stop being a victim, and grow a pair. You are the man. Act like it, and the women will respond accordingly.
@@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM So you don't want to be the type of guy that can say hello to a woman confidently, and have her respond with a smile, and a hello back. It doesn't take much more than that. Being an arsehole is optional.
so true😂
@@georgemartyn5268 an f-boy
Your channel is leading the way in this genre 👌
15 years ago was not the same dating environment. This clip shows how entitled the woman can be and that they have a lot of choice when it comes to attractive guys. To sit back and not communicate your expectations will reveal a fail to the other each and every time.
I’ve met plenty of girls like this. No guy will be good enough for her and then she hits her 30’s and settles for a provider or she becomes a single boss babe that complains about how there are no good men
This is how women end up alone.
Wow. I always think I know a lot about datin, masculinity and so on. But you are just able to still tell me something new to learn, something I have never came across. That rarely happens, thanks so much. Like I said before: The world would be a better palce, if every woman in the world would also watch your content.
This man is single-handedly saving a whole generation of men. Thx Alexander. Much love from across the tasman.
18:04 Alexander, starting at this time stamp, I found myself fascinated, inspired, and awestruck. These very "visual" examples are worthy of a product that I'd absolutely pay for. Your demonstration of how it should feel in real time is so valuable. I can imitate the frame I just witnessed and acknowledge it.
What you said about making your short and long term goals crystal clear on the first date can be both a good and a bad thing. But absolutely necessary like you mentioned. Because if you're on a first date with someone whose goals have a conflict of interest with yours, then there's no way that you're going to secure a 2nd date.
Oy. That’s the point. He didn’t want a second date if she wasn’t going to get on board with his goals. Wanted someone to share his future with, not waste his time.
I'm 58, I dated a 30 year old woman a couple of years ago. Never, never, never, never again. I'll take saggy and sweet ANY DAY. God am I glad I was 30 in 1995.
Haha good one sir, 3 days ago i said if i was 30 in the 90”s i”d be living the dream date world:)
@andreichetan4694 it was a lot easier. It was still hard but...not like now.
But she still let all five hit
Nope, she found one night stands at a bar after those dates gave her free meals.
She needs to like you more than you like her. A lot of guys don’t know what it’s even like to have a girl genuinely interested. They didn’t get the precious few years prior to Instagram when more men had an opportunity. The way I see it, if you don’t notice her noticing you,
- eye contact, do you catch her looking at you? Does she look away embarrassed but then quickly look back and check (submission)
- does she touch you or move closer to you in conversation.
- has she made any advances or shown interest as far as engaging in convo or asking for your social media/contact.
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As a woman, I can 100% confirm that your frame is very important. In fact, while watching this video, I realized that I'm only watching it because I like your frame and your point of view on dating. I think this is a very interesting observation and every man should know this about women. Good job 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯
Um…am I the only be noticing the pattern in the intro video? Come on.
Very interesting video. I just sent it to my son.
Imagine what the frame and behavior is when she's out with her besties...
Only one time in my life did I actually get the girl for being a "nice guy". Not despite being a nice guy, but because of it. Trust me, it shocked me as much or more than anyone who KNOWS nice guys finish last with attractive women, and this girl was HOT. Here's how it happened and I'll try to keep it brief. We hung-out at the same club, but I never made a play for her and we never even exchanged hello's. I was at that stage where if a girl didn't say hello to me first, then I wasn't breaking the ice. IOW's that was my Sigma stage which I still go into depending on my mood. Anyway she's sitting right next to me with her GF's at the bar, but as usual we haven't even acknowledged one another's presence. All of the sudden this drunk guy on the opposite side of me starts insisting the bartender shorted him on change of 20 or someone stole it, and it's OBVIOUS he's about to start trouble over it which can end bloody in a NYC club, so in order to prevent a scene, which I was just in no mood for, a take a 20 out of my pocket, bend down and pretend to pick it up, and tell the guy, this must be yours and you must have dropped it. So I hand him 20 of my own money just to avoid it escalating. Well unbeknownst to me that girl was watching the whole thing. She knew it was my own 20 and she could tell I was just trying to prevent trouble, which was worth a lousy 20 for all I cared, I just wanted to keep the peace (of mind). She instantly said I saw what you did, all of it, and I just want you to know I couldn't be more impressed. She said I had you all wrong (because I had a rep for being tough and hurting people, mostly from when I was a kid and had anger issues) and I feel foolish for judging you that way. Afterwards we dated for quite sometime.
it’s works more often times than not but a lot of ppl don’t know what respect is or don’t respect ppl that life according to their own principles so will never appreciate this kinda thing…grateful for my gf who understands my mindset and how I conduct myself
It's not even that you were "nice" it's that you were socially clever without over-reacting emotionally. Most guys can figure out stuff like working out to get in-shape and stacking up money, but most men go the grave without ever learning social cues.
I read the end as "we dated for a while and then she dumped me"
@@T2Master01 Actually it was the opposite. I had a great opportunity to move from NYC to Florida and I took it. She cried her eyes out and begged me not to leave, but I told her I HATE NY and I'm taking this offer to get out. I didn't even ask her to come with me because I wanted to be single in Florida.
@@2GunRockrespect bro
Excellent content. My only issue is your teasing a video of a girl who rejected multiple suitors after one date and never including any content of that video.
From the videos I've watched of you, this is the most valuable one. Everything else builds on it.
Your videos are actually very useful and you learn something new each time. I want to subscribe to your patreon but im very poor 😢
I appreciate your frame dude. It's similar to mine regarding the glass being half full, something this modern age needs more and more. Godspeed!!
Fantasic video, makes so much sense.
Tried a stronge frame with my hard to deal with boss, and it was such an exciting conversations.
When she tried to blow past my question about our task, I straight up told her "hold on, listen to me" with a short pause after and she did. We ended that conversation laughing.
Thank you. I am ready to approach more women now.
as a 20 yo dude with aspergers, this was probably the last puzzle piece i needed to understand how attraction works between man and woman. cheers
I’m not sure this all applies to older women. Most young women, absolutely. Women who have their own strong frame still want to lean into a man’s frame, but it will need to be a reasonable match for her frame.
Correct. Some people forget that everyone isn't in their 20s or don't date women in their 20s.
Great video, Alexander. And you're right... I do find myself coming back to your channel. Thank you
Great video on frame my guy. Thanks
Best explanation of "frame" I've heard. Thanks.
In recent years I've become so fixated on developing myself that I can no longer envision a woman existing within my "frame". There's no room for her anymore. She would be in the way. A persistent distraction. Anyone else feel this way, or is it just me?
That's why I prefer Escorts now whenever I feel like it.
Everything in life that doesn't yield progress is a distraction. But the good news is no matter how far you get in life, you will always remain just a monkey in a piece of floating rock, suspended in the infinite void. So might aswell enjoy life a bit too man.
A good example of delusional confidence is in the movie Titanic, the dinner scene, where Leo somehow spins his situation into a good thing.
This has to be one of your best topics when a man is ready to enter the dating market in full earnest.
This was one of the first of your videos I watched when UA-cam started recommending you to me. After watching your full catalog (including Patreon) on masculinity and male psychology, UA-cam has again suggested this video.
It is more meaningful and impactdul watching it a second time.
Women need the following, confidence, competence, direction, physicality and take care of your body, a vision for the future and have to be able to pleasure them well and be a good lover. If you have that they cant help but be profoundly attracted. If you lose one of those things then she will lose attrraction for you. You have to control the frame. Great video Alexander.
I stumbled across your videos when searching dating advice for women, and mistakes that women make, and trying to learn what I can change about myself. The other videos in this space either say men are terrible or women are terrible with no empathy. It was depressing to watch those and made me just want to give up. I can't imagine how dejected men feel after watching those.
Your videos are positive and uplifting. They make real, reciprocal relationships feel possible. Your positive frame may have had something to do with why I was drawn to these videos lol. But seriously, thank you. Your content makes me feel less pessimistic about dating.
This was such great value video for me. As i was thinking the same lately and this confirmed my thinking was correct.
They should sue her for this.
thanks man. very interesting topic.
This stuff is so real you have me hanging on every word.
The coal is certainly being burnt huh
Because, she knows, KNOWS, she is not worthwhile. Not even for a typical man. So, delusion intact. Forever.
That date again in the next few days could also mean that "I'm working for 10 days solid after that" or it could mean "We're doing a two week long distance yacht race starting Sunday", or "I'm doing an overseas book tour for my first novel".
That test is standard. You need to explain to her your life, priorities and set both expectations and boundaries immediately.
it has to do with the girls personality mostly, you can accommodate to a girl somewhat and still hold frame, but that girl and many others are young entitled bored and playing games. it comes down to personality of the woman thats always going to be the whole enchilada of any mans relationship life. it always comes down to who is this woman and what's her personality, thats the holy grail of dating, picking the right personality it basically all starts from their.
I'm 56 and agree 100% with everything you say. Wish i knew these things long ago.
In short: Be more selfish and don't care about her opinions. Women love selfish men. The more the better, even though they call it toxic, they will fall for it.
No, that's not what he's saying. There is a difference between confidence and knowing what you want in life and selfishness. Women want confident men, not selfish men. Selfishness is childish behaviour and women are attracted to men not boys.
@@Alex_-oc4bt You can word-play that any way you want, but prioritizing one's own goals and wants is selfish. Women are attracted to that, ergo they are attracted to selfish men.
Which explains why they end up with selfish assholes and wonder why "all men" are trash.
Sounds like you basically have to be manipulative to get approved.
i manipulate my student into passing class by saying "time is running out" and "think of the regret of wasting tiem and money if you dotn make the best of this class" and "think of what this school bs will eventually buy you" ... manipulation isnt nessesarily a bad thing. when women use femnine character to manipulate men into doin gstuff for them, it isnt nessesarily manipulating him into wasting his effort to fund garbage....
I love the idea that men are just islands and women are boats. Thats facts.
You should make a video on what questions to ask when matching on a dating site - I know the game is rigged but all it takes is making one real connection with a woman.
All I am hearing from mano-sphere is that the man still needs to put in a ton of effort to attract women. The mano-sphere just wants to inform you where to focus your effort.
I am middle-age. The only thing I am willing to do at this point to attract a woman is dress well when out. If a relationship is found, I will be honest, polite, mindful and hopefully fun. A relationship isn't worth more effort than that.
Exactly
This is one of your best presentations. Thank you for making it.
this one video is the needle in the haystack, thank you
"Just hold frame bro.."
Stardust?
I read that in Stardusks voice
Thanks. Im learning a lot from you!
Great video, one of your best.
As a soon-to-be father of two daughters, here's a topic recommandation: how to bring up girls in this post feminist, post sexual revolution, post redpill, post-PUA, post me too world? How do you even navigate here, there's so many dangers, horrific scenarios, pitfalls and such?
God help you.
That girl give's me future single mother vibes...
I don’t know boss, not being tested at all sounds a-lot more attractive
Women will test men and vice versa. It's how you can potentially avoid a toxic relationship.
@@acch20 these tests have nothing to do with toxicity except on the woman's part.
Love how he kept a straight face while introducing the ad " if you don't have great skin women won't find you attractive.."
I treat women like 💩 bc let’s be honest…they ain’t 💩 😂
Alex bro I wish we were friends I swear. Where have you been all my life 😂
You know what you're talking about, respect cuz. You're a real O.G. 🙏
I'm 56 and single. The frame makes so much sense
We get information from other creators, too. You being right on a lot of issues doesn't necessarily imply being right about everything. Masculinity IS superior to femininity. Women turn masculine to survive in a world where they are not provided for and protected by men. If you break your leg hiking in the mountains with your wife, she can't carry you back down to safety. You CAN carry her. Femininity is CONDITIONAL on masculinity being there, around women, to protect femininity and enable it to develop, manifest and flourish.
Brother, this video was epic. Thank you!
12:41 tbh, this "frame" thingy is totally bogus and useless when she doesn't find you physically attractive/appealing. You can have however strong "frame" you want, but it would all be dog crap if she doesn't find you hot. I can confirm this fact based on personal experience as well. There's just no way to circumvent it unfortunately
So basically I am going through some trouble of understanding myself and women; but when I see women with some one who is not as good looking as me or let’s say he’s short and even not good looking than me ; but still manages to get a girl, then I get so confused about what is going wrong with me.
@@pratikparbat341 it's really likely the case that the dude is being a betabux. And let me advice you something. Never try to attract a woman and/or lead a relationship with your wallet
I am from India but honestly , both of the cases I can be sure that it’s not the case. They were being intimidate in public and that’s a clear sign right? I don’t know what is wrong; and also I am going to move to US in August and I just feel like it’s a chapter of my life that I need to understand where I’m wrong.
@@pratikparbat341 Well girls aren't fools as well. They will fake the affection, especially in the initial stages or ramp it up when they really need something from the guy. Also, if you are moving to the US you should be 100 times more cautious and careful. I am also an Indian, currently in India, and the perception western women have of Indians is really negative, including Indian women as well unfortunately. If you want to have foreign women as your girlfriend though, you should try eastern European nations or Russia as they are much less racist and anti-Indian along with having excess female population. Also, never marry and/or cohabitate with a women in US. The laws there will make you a slave to that women and she won't hesitate to suck you dry of your money and resources.
@@user-nq5hy7vn9k I am actually going out for perceiving ms but I am already cautious about these things and I solely believe that if a woman doesn’t have a burning desire for you, you’re better off.
I told a girl I was on the verge of achieving time travel and I to take her with me. She was intrigued because I believed in myself. If confidence can beat a lie detector then why not. This guy's mind chakra is wide open.
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I am second week in an ex-Soviet country in a small town eating dinner with my new younger date and her small daughter. The guys on the next table are drunk and one of them starts teasing her. She is begging me to switch tables. Her daughter starts crying. She refuses to eat. I am not a big guy, so in between of the bites on my bloody rare steak, I start chatting with his two less aggressive friends next to me even though they speak very little English and I speak almost zero Russian. They were curious about my dog tag, if I fought in the Ukraine war etc. Then, this tall guy from the far table in the corner leaves his wife and sister and comes over with his toddler son, talks to the one a**hole guy and says to me in English: "you have no problem here". I said: "Oh I wasn't worried before but now I feel like home" he sat down talking about his job being a truck driver and having long trips away from his family and how they had a.miscarriage trying for the second kid, etc.
Yes, I didn't lose "frame", but for a second there, it was close!
Good stuff mate.
Frame is everything. I had to learn the hard way.
Yup so did I.
This comment does not directly address your subject material. However, IMHO, dating should be where a couple vet each other for a committed, intimate relationship, preferably marriage. If she tests me, she fails, period. Vetting is not about 'testing.' Apart from having common values, a relationship needs absolute trust, which is built on absolute truth over time. So, if I say I am this type of person, or this is how I react in certain situations, then over time, you will either see that happen, or not, and trust adjusts accordingly. But if she sets up a situation to test that, she loses and she's gone. She will certainly know, in advance, that lies (including white lies and lies of omission) will result in a loss trust and, therefore, the relationship. In the dating time frame, however, it's okay to acknowledge that some topics are simply out of bounds until trust has been built to a higher level. But if a topic never becomes in bounds, then there's no way I could trust a partner in any committed relationship. Does that mean I will never marry? Maybe, but if I do, the marriage will have the best chance of being successful.
Bravo knows what you want, in law of attraction works better, when you know what you want, the desire become real sooner wen you know what you want, once fulfilled the desire you realice that it doesn't make you happy but you know now that is not it.... and you gain self love, self value, and real power, the good frame is power, but a bad frame is not.
Well you point a very good point that I live by as well. We have positive goals for why we do what we do but its the other persons interpretation of if they realize the positive angle….this I find points more to where people minds are lacking and not wanting to see that angle…its very interesting and gets depressive to notice how negative people are
Theres some nuance here to discuss the difference between frame and environment. Especially for a lady at her parents house. They will be quick to say that this is a actions congruent with that environment, and not their parents "frame."
First iron rule of Tomassi: Frame is everything.
They aren't "boats", most are pirates.
I think this very good advice. I never looked at it like this.
It’s also true the other way around. Women stay true to your principles 🙌