Yep and therefore they are harassing positive people with their energetic pollution. Mostly they know everything better while their state in life is worse then yours. Or if their society position is 'better' accordjvg to their materialistic norms, they will abuse it to control and belittle.
Ted Berry Technically their souls do have peace but it is veeeery very wounded. They have so many wounds and insecurities to the point where they feel so bad about themselves to the point where they project it on to others. This is why its important to look inside.
Narcissists are empty shells and they use people to fill their lives up with reflected glory, which projects them as successful, important and worthy of respect. Their exaggerated show of happiness is just a contrived performance. They are happy as long as no one figures out the truth about them and happiest when those who do, are destroyed.
Nelumbo Nucifera perfect comment.... there are.several narcissists in my family..didn't realize there's different types of narcissists in this world..most have illusions of grandeur ..image is everything..they want people to look up to them.. constantly need attention ..obsessed with money.... they are done with you..when you don't feed their ego..people are just tools they use..to get what they want..sadly I've been hurt and broken down by these people..( I don't trust anyone ) experiences have changed me ..now I do ..everything possible to avoid them
I beg to defer. All the listed " happiness ideas" are unreal; they can only contribute to sheer and additional unhappiness. Either God's intervention (only if allowed) or death (total rest) can bring happiness to a devout Narc😱. The devil, Father of Narcissism, is he ever happy? NAH!
True, they have to many options it's unbelievable how you see evil, mean people having social circles and always a partner. Pretending to be decent people with families while bullying and very manipulative. Disgusting. And they are not rarely in leading roles. Well they are represented in all levels and layers of society and life. I've met more including two dangerous violent creeps still here going strong but I felt the torture of insults, emotional manipulation. Family, work, in romantic area. I'm alone and free now although the two friends I connect with also make me wonder at times. Narcissists are also completely blind. I think some know what they are doing and others don't see their own projecting behaviors. Depending on their place in the spectrum.
They get the best fuel supply from tears and begging to understand what's going on. Once I understood this, I quit, I went grey rock and said something like, "well OK" and walked away. That really confused him 😂😂😂😂. Don't give them ⛽. It takes a lot of practice to learn to act and not react. Blessings to you!
They are only happy when they have got their own way,destroyed the other persons life,hurt them as much as they can,ruined all their other frienships and done all they could to cause enough pain. Keep WELL away from narcissists for ever.
THEN HEAL THE NARC BY you DOING GODS work AND planting the seed AND WATERING IT AS WELL AND SLAYING THE THE DEVIL BY BABYSITTING HIS TOO SLICK FOR HIS OWN GOOD LOSING SNAKE IN THE GRASS BASTARD BEHIND THAT HE IS AMEN
@@curli-lettey4319 to this THE TRUTH AMEN as My Father has not given us a spirit OF FEAR but a spirit of love and a sound mind AUTHORITY SLAY ALL DEMONIC SPIRITS WITH COURAGE STRENGTH AND BOLDNESS IN JESUS NAME.AND BY HIS SPIRIT AMEN
What makes a narcissist happy? When they get you to hate yourself as much as they hate themselves. And believe me, they haven't a shred of self-respect. If they did, they wouldn't be narcissists.
So true Claris, Number 5 does brings them a ultimate pleasure. That's the Narcissist cruel and twisted world. However, one other thing is also a fact... Karma always catch up with them. It never fails, I have witnessed it first hand !
@@janegreen191 Too long to explain all details in this format. Basically my Narc went into a permanent depression. Gained weight, was evicted from her place, and most of the Flying Monkeys that used to do her dirty deeds abandoned her....
@Leonato August I hope so! To me, justice would be for the enablers and flying monkeys 🐒 to receive a dose of the narcissist's wicked poison! It baffles me that they are able to turn a blind eye and pretend to not see how evil and cunning the narcissist is!
Thank You For Sharing I Have Wasted 6 Years Of My Life Chasing The Narcissists Wanting His Acceptance. The More I Chased The More I Was Given The Silent Treatment.More Abuse
I was raised by 2 of them. I am no contact now. Wow! They did a smear campaign on me! This video is spot on for parent narcs too! Life is joyful without narcs but you really have to work hard to get rid of them!
How true they never happy..they act as if they happy but they not..its because of their horrible past..parents who never showed them love..friends who acted as if they loved them but laughed behind their backs..family members who acted as if they cared but took them as baggage...n sad wen they do meet one who really understood them gave them love they get scared ...they dont believe anyone could love them for who they are. Talking from personal experience..i met one..took care of him as a baby..showered him with love attention..n instead of thanking me he got upset...i dont hate him ..in fact i pity him..these are lost souls brooken hearts n peope who cant find peace so move from one to anoder looking for happiness n peace n love...god guide n protect them...
hey thanks for the insight . i would love your opinion on my experience- the ex narc broke the romantic relationship of 5 months but then for 3 years he was messaging me and remained friends ( via text only ) while he was telling me that he is at an age where he needs be married ( not with me but hypothetical) and 6 months ago i went no contact and blocked him. who won ?
Wow! I kind of knew through my experiences and observations that these 5 things are what they tend to crave, but I'd never yet put them together and thought about it in this way that these are the things they thrive on and which bring them happiness. It seems so obvious now and makes perfect sense. Thank you for bringing them together like this.
Thank you dear woman for your most excellent work in the subject of Narcissism. This is a beautiful work, you are helping to free those who have been imprisoned by the dark influences of Narcissism. Well done!!!
They wont be happy stopping to be a narcissist because that feeling is so ingrained in them they will feel out of place to actually be the opposite of a narc, which is to have and show feelings for others. They are too self absorbed to do that!
Narcissist = Nauseousness : Causing nausea or disgust. For example: When you realise a narcissist messed with you for so long, and you believed in their lies, you spend a great deal of time in a state of Nauseousness.
“There is a God-shaped vacuum in the heart of each man which cannot be satisfied by any created thing but only by God the Creator, made know through Jesus Christ.” Pascal
You are to be an endless supply of money to them. They are always looking for a Golden Goose to feed their endless need for hi-end things to show how superior they are, and to impose this image on those who are affected by such things....
Wow! I have been forced to look at my life of service to my parents and the people I did my business for and I thought I was "a very good server" and I tried to be proud of that, but I never got anything out of it. I was deeply unsatisfied but felt stuck there. I was never really thanked or valued, and some time people criticized that I missed something or that my price was too high. I never saw that my life was completely about serving others needs for mere sustenance pay and that nothing was ever about my self. I tried to pretend that a mere Christmas gift amount meant I was special, but I realized that it was a repeat of my lower role with my parents of serving their needs... I wondered how this happened and now I am getting my answers. It is shocking and painful and I am afraid to see the control they have had over me with my people-pleasing and almost begging others who always said "no" to me moving up or having more. Equality and respect was completely out of the question. Even though it was what I was trying to earn, they always said "no" and gave praise to others before me for "but t-kissing".
You describe the narcissist very well. It sounds like a politician. Anybody with power. This is what's wrong in our society. We have a lot of these people living here today. And they wondering why the world is going wrong. It is because people like what you just described is doing to our society. It's all about me me me me me. And forget everybody else. Other than that have a great day.
In my experience, the narcissist doesn't want you to throw the match. They want to win. In a thousand different ways she could have gotten what she wanted from me. But for her, asking was impossible...she had to (metaphorically) beat it out of me.
I fail to understand why a "narcissist" can never see the error of their own ways? But I guess that is part of the self-serving disorder they carry with them.
Narcissists are happy when they treat others bad and their victims apologize for it as if was their fault. This kind of people prefer to think that they right to treat others like shit when they stand up for themself or show that they can´t stand a narcissist.
Well done ... thanks ... very well sorted out ...winning ... makes them happy... or suceeding in general in outward situations because they cant win inside... and I like the end of that video... they can only be Happy stopping to be a narcissist.... thanks again for that brilliant peace of work ...
Great video, you are right! Sadly they will never be happy because they live in their own pretend world where they are perfect and everyone wishes they could be the narcissist.
You said the very truth. Very very true Money, power, attention, praise and flattery, breaking and destroying their victims, seeing your tears and pains. Seeing all these practical in a marriage of 35years. Thank you so much for this because this video makes me not to be bordered about making him happy. I pray they stop being narcissists. Pretenders, religious, wicked and evil acts
Being sadistic towards you and very happy and pleasurable and enjoyable and everything possible that you feel just by being sadistic and hurting you over and over and over and over and they want to hear you cry
Dear child of God please do not say that you think anything anymore on your channel. I'm in total confidence of this content that edifies and lifts up and reassures us and gives us confirmation in your relatable testimony which is your Wisdom/ EXPERIENCE.= I BELIEVE,,, YOUR tone and your poise AND spirit is conveyed with such confidence that I would like for you to (believe), DON'T CHANGE A THING ABOUT YOU,OR HOW YOU ARTICULATE AND DELIVER THIS NECESSARY CRUCIAL TESTIMONY FOR THE PUBLIC AWARENESS.TY FOR YOU'RE STRENGTH AND COURAGE TO BE TRANSPARENT BLESS YOUR HEART
Thanks for your encouragement I surely will not EVER CHANGE WHO IM AM!! I AM SO UNDENIABLELY UNAPOLOGETIC ABOUT ME AND MY CONFIDENCE TO STAND IN MY TRUTH MADE BY MY FI RST FATHER AND FIRST MOTHER IN BEING CREATED TO BE AN CONFORMABLE COMPLAINT DIVINE SOUL.I LOVE ME SOME ME.JUST WANTED THE ONES WHO HAVE EYES , EARS TO HEAR AND SEE RECEIVED THIS MESSAGE WITHOUT ANY OFFENSE. Sending so much ❤️ and continued blessings beloved from 🙏💓 the most high God message truly indeed hit the spot so grateful for you seeing my spirit I see yours as well. In Jesus name and by his holy Spirit 🙏 Amen
Oh WOW you know....! Such sick people!!! I bet Karma has a field day with every ruthless, determined, vengeful driven narcissist spoken of here so in closing: May God have mercy and pity in their Souls!!!
The behavior you are talking about, describes the woman I know to a tee.. I have noticed some of these behaviors in work place people. I find it hard to believe these people are narcissistic, but you describe them very well and you are a professional. There must be a lot of them in this world.
You hit that one right on the nose! Unbelievable, I will be embedding this on my website soon! Way to pin point the main happiness of these sick people. Crazy how they are all the same. What do you call a covert and and I I vert narcissistic person that has both horrible qualities?
@@ExposingtheNarcissist I figured out more about grandious narcissist, who actually have both narcissistic characteristics rather than just one or the other.
The only fault I find with this is that you came to me too late! I should have known all this decades ago and instead am learning of the dangers at the age of 67. Very regrettably, the characteristics you describe seem to fit a certain well-known, rich and powerful ethnic minority in the West. They also describe more than the usual proportion of South Asians. By the way, I am a South Asian. :)
This is why I know there is an afterlife. God says "vengeance is mine, I will repay" saith the Lord. We may never see the fall of these toxic people on this earth, however, they DO NOT WIN !!!!
Where are you from? Im hearing the Caribbean and I think its great that this subject is tackled,especially for the youth brought up to be seen,not heard as as a result become pawns in their own lives by not exercising their personal power. Good going! So..am I right? Trinidad(that's me) or ...?
Hey Clarice, I hope you’re well. Thank you for the information as always. However I have an additional question: Are narcissistic abuse survivors victims of circumstance? Are we innocent bystanders? I Sometimes I have a problem when people say we have to be accountable for the negative outcome of the relationship. These people are fully aware of entering a relationship and tricking their significant others for their sadistic pleasures. I am curious what your opinion is on this matter. God bless.
Hi London! Okay...I will have to think about that one but my topic this Sunday is 'When the Narc plays a Victim' it only covers the part that the narcissists plays so I may have to do a separate vid to address your question. Stay tuned...Peace and blessings!
@@ExposingtheNarcissist OMG narcs love playing the victim!!!!! I'm a female who has recently encountered one. He is fully capable of turning on the waterworks if need be. But every one of your videos thati watch I'm nodding and (wryly) laughing with ah hah moment after moment of recognition. He fits the profile absolutely. They're all so similar in so many ways aren't they. Every single one of your videos has me nodding along saying "yes, this!!!"
A lazy, very comfortable partying lifestyle paid by somebody else ,with a group of "friends" admiring everything he does or says,with an extremely tolerant, attractive crazy sex loving partner who accepts an open relationship on his side but who is faithful and deeply fond of him. I'm writing about a type I happened to deal with, of course.Squaring the circle.
You just described 2 coworkers who were involved with each other at my job and both are narcs! He was the lazy one, partying lifestyle that had to be paid either by her AND others because he seem to be broke (he always called out). She admired him for his portrayal of having money because our job was his 2nd job and he wore name brand clothes, naively tolerant (she didnt know he was narcissistic till later on), crazy sex loving (at and away from the job), both had someone - he had a girlfriend and she have a husband (that she denied and later lied about). She was about 7 years older than him and she just knew she could have him wrapped around her finger (at the beginning he was acting like her trained puppy making sure he dont speak to none of us when she was around) later on down the line I guess he started showing her his narc ways and playing games on her. He had 2 cellphones she knew of only one, he had other engagements he would race out from work to tend to and it wasnt her because the next day she would give him the silent treatment and wont even look his way. THATS when he would loosen up and socialize with the rest of us (at times) making her angry. Both of them are sad, nasty and pitiful.
Just came across this video and wanted to say thank you very much you are spot on with your Analysis! I haven't yet had the opportunity to view any more of your videos but I would like to ask you when a Narcissist cries are they real tears or tears of joy if they were surprised or tears of sadness because they realize that they really were wrong?? Also do any of them really Stop?
Hi thanks for visiting my channel. Narcissists use their tears to manipulate. They would cry to make you believe that they are sad, happy or whatever the situation calls for. Everything is about manipulation and control. Some have realised that shedding tears can be very effective. No, the narcissist will not stop.
@@ExposingtheNarcissist Thank you very much! I could write a book about fifteen years with this person and though we did spend time overnight at her place we always maintained separate residences! I always thought she was bipolar! Found out one day reading an article on ten ways to tell if a person is a narc! She had eight of them easily! Found this all out ten years after I ended the relationship. I was told I was the first guy to dump her and that she always did the dumping! About two years after we broke up she wanted to get back together, I asked what would change! She could not answer me! I said that is what I thought! Have not seen her for around fourteen years now but even though I have no feeling for her I would still like to get into that head with what I now know and learned! Thank you again, appreciate the way you explain everything and do find this so fascinating! I have no ill will for when times were good I have never had better but it was inevitable!
Narcissists are one of the most ungrateful people you will ever find. And most unashamed people on this planet who can go to any extent for their personal desires. Moreover, i found Narcissist women so fast especially in spreading fire and hate and they are full of doubts and can track you each n everywhere. Hope i spread my message to the point
My narc broke me, never been this low, and she did it amazingly fast, life sucked b4 u angie, now you have proven to me my life has no meaning whatsoever, please get help b4 you do this to your children, anyonelsw, or yourself
hey thanks for the insight . i would love your opinion on my experience- the ex narc broke the romantic relationship of 5 months but then for 3 years he was messaging me and remained friends ( via text only ) while he was telling me that he is at an age where he needs be married ( not with me but hypothetical) and 6 months ago i went no contact and blocked him. who won ?i only ask because i need to know that i didnt seem weak
hey thanks for the insight . i would love your opinion on my experience- the ex narc broke the romantic relationship of 5 months but then for 3 years he was messaging me and remained friends ( via text only ) while he was telling me that he is at an age where he needs be married ( not with me but hypothetical) and 6 months ago i went no contact and blocked him. who won ?
The scary part is when they don't rest until they see their victims broken. Then they wonder why life goes bad for them later in life they really don't care about their karma huh. Hey Exposing the Narcissist I knew this older woman in her late 40s almost 50 years old. No matter what she's always in some financial difficulty or like she buys a car and a few months later her car got destroyed or taken due to nonpayments. I don't think shes a Narcissist at all but she did always pay me back if I ever loaned her cash. Lets use that lady for example and I'm not saying that nobody doesn't fall on hard times sometimes. But with that example on things always going bad financially is it due to their karma on what they did in life
Narcissists are very insecure that's why they go out their ways to try to destroy another humans life .
They are also very sadistic.
@@pegasus5148 yep
They are NEVER HAPPY
I KNOW REACH NARSISTS THAT ARE NOT HAPPY AT ALL
They're happy when others are hurting or facing challenges
Yes, especially if they caused it
Exactly but then they cant take what they give out
You nailed it !
@Byrd Fornino agree...glad we know their bull shit
Yuuup
Money and power and humiliating other people make them happy.
Money and causing chaos in people’s lives!
Janus Correct!
Facts
No lies detected
Chaos more like it
It is terrible how their souls know no peace.
Yep and therefore they are harassing positive people with their energetic pollution.
Mostly they know everything better while their state in life is worse then yours.
Or if their society position is 'better' accordjvg to their materialistic norms, they will abuse it to control and belittle.
They don t have a soul
Ted Berry Technically their souls do have peace but it is veeeery very wounded. They have so many wounds and insecurities to the point where they feel so bad about themselves to the point where they project it on to others. This is why its important to look inside.
Absolutely none!!!!
@@ba-nee7989 well said thanks.
Narcissists are empty shells and they use people to fill their lives up with reflected glory, which projects them as successful, important and worthy of respect. Their exaggerated show of happiness is just a contrived performance. They are happy as long as no one figures out the truth about them and happiest when those who do, are destroyed.
It's so amazing how acurate you are about the narc " Allways on point ! My respect and much love .
Nelumbo Nucifera perfect comment.... there are.several narcissists in my family..didn't realize there's different types of narcissists in this world..most have illusions of grandeur ..image is everything..they want people to look up to them.. constantly need attention ..obsessed with money.... they are done with you..when you don't feed their ego..people are just tools they use..to get what they want..sadly I've been hurt and broken down by these people..( I don't trust anyone ) experiences have changed me ..now I do ..everything possible to avoid them
You're videos on narcs are the most informative, and concise!
Nothing makes them happy so if you think your goal is to make them happy don't waste your time and energy.
I beg to defer. All the listed " happiness ideas" are unreal; they can only contribute to sheer and additional unhappiness. Either God's intervention (only if allowed) or death (total rest) can bring happiness to a devout Narc😱. The devil, Father of Narcissism, is he ever happy? NAH!
Perfectly explained
Money, power, ego, control and ruining good people.
Oh and winning.
Seeing a person or partner demoralized is what makes them happy.
Demoralized is a very good words for it!
I make sure he never has information of mu current life. Moved to.another town
.got off Facebook. And Blocked him every where. Free now.
The golden rule regarding narcissists....
Once you Know, You GO!
You get out and STAY out.
The only solution, Zero Contact.
Starve the narc's,the narc's have too many options...The narc's are never appreciate anyone good to them !!!
True, they have to many options it's unbelievable how you see evil, mean people having social circles and always a partner.
Pretending to be decent people with families while bullying and very manipulative.
Disgusting. And they are not rarely in leading roles. Well they are represented in all levels and layers of society and life.
I've met more including two dangerous violent creeps still here going strong but I felt the torture of insults, emotional manipulation. Family, work, in romantic area.
I'm alone and free now although the two friends I connect with also make me wonder at times.
Narcissists are also completely blind.
I think some know what they are doing and others don't see their own projecting behaviors. Depending on their place in the spectrum.
They will never be happy . Money will make them smile and is their main priority.
They get the best fuel supply from tears and begging to understand what's going on. Once I understood this, I quit, I went grey rock and said something like, "well OK" and walked away. That really confused him 😂😂😂😂. Don't give them ⛽. It takes a lot of practice to learn to act and not react. Blessings to you!
🤣🤣🤣 So good!!!
Correct. It does take practice. I think we are all getting much better at this.
They need to be in total control of whatever!!!!
They are only happy when they have got their own way,destroyed the other persons life,hurt them as much as they can,ruined all their other frienships and done all they could to cause enough pain. Keep WELL away from narcissists for ever.
True 100% my mother destroyed me , warning
Sharon Budworth,You look cute 🌷🌹🌹,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
@@christianpulisic7784 No i'm definitely not with a narc.
@@sharonbudworth4862 Oh ok dearest 🌹🌷🌺.I am Christian from the States.You?
They are not worth the time of day!
Love ❤️ yourself first and make yourself the Priority!
That is what makes them angry. So proceed swiftly!!!!
THEN HEAL THE NARC BY you DOING GODS work AND planting the seed AND WATERING IT AS WELL AND SLAYING THE THE DEVIL BY BABYSITTING HIS TOO SLICK FOR HIS OWN GOOD LOSING SNAKE IN THE GRASS BASTARD BEHIND THAT HE IS AMEN
@@curli-lettey4319 to this THE TRUTH AMEN as My Father has not given us a spirit OF FEAR but a spirit of love and a sound mind AUTHORITY SLAY ALL DEMONIC SPIRITS WITH COURAGE STRENGTH AND BOLDNESS IN JESUS NAME.AND BY HIS SPIRIT AMEN
What makes a narcissist happy?
When they get you to hate yourself as much as they hate themselves.
And believe me, they haven't a shred of self-respect.
If they did, they wouldn't be narcissists.
Good analogy..very true..
So true Claris, Number 5 does brings them a ultimate pleasure. That's the Narcissist cruel and twisted world.
However, one other thing is also a fact... Karma always catch up with them. It never fails, I have witnessed it first hand !
Yepp. I just saw it first hand. She failed out Pharamacy school and is now trying to relocate to a new school
how have you witnessed it
@@janegreen191 Too long to explain all details in this format. Basically my Narc went into a permanent depression. Gained weight, was evicted from her place, and most of the Flying Monkeys that used to do her dirty deeds abandoned her....
Is that true? I've suffered immensely while her 'evil' core is living well.
@Leonato August I hope so! To me, justice would be for the enablers and flying monkeys 🐒 to receive a dose of the narcissist's wicked poison! It baffles me that they are able to turn a blind eye and pretend to not see how evil and cunning the narcissist is!
Thank You For Sharing I Have
Wasted 6 Years Of My Life Chasing
The Narcissists Wanting His Acceptance.
The More I Chased The More I Was Given The
Silent Treatment.More Abuse
They love being chased...the more you chase the more they ignore...whereas if you ignored them, they chase you instead.
Exposing the Narcissist
You Are Absolutely Right Thank You
Can You Do A Video On The Narcissists
Silent Treatment
I waited 7 and he made me feel like I wasn’t good enough for him. Why why why did I keep trying to prove myself to him!? 🙏
@@djw8504
I’m So Incredibly Sorry I Understand😢
I Was Discarded Like Trash.Last Week I Feel So Incredibly sad
I was raised by 2 of them. I am no contact now. Wow! They did a smear campaign on me! This video is spot on for parent narcs too! Life is joyful without narcs but you really have to work hard to get rid of them!
Escaping years of cruelty is not easy but worth every moment in the years ahead.
They are like a gypsy curse. You have to throw them off.
How true they never happy..they act as if they happy but they not..its because of their horrible past..parents who never showed them love..friends who acted as if they loved them but laughed behind their backs..family members who acted as if they cared but took them as baggage...n sad wen they do meet one who really understood them gave them love they get scared ...they dont believe anyone could love them for who they are. Talking from personal experience..i met one..took care of him as a baby..showered him with love attention..n instead of thanking me he got upset...i dont hate him ..in fact i pity him..these are lost souls brooken hearts n peope who cant find peace so move from one to anoder looking for happiness n peace n love...god guide n protect them...
Absolutely true....how resonating it is
hey thanks for the insight . i would love your opinion on my experience- the ex narc broke the romantic relationship of 5 months but then for 3 years he was messaging me and remained friends ( via text only ) while he was telling me that he is at an age where he needs be married ( not with me but hypothetical) and 6 months ago i went no contact and blocked him. who won ?
NARCS HAVE THE ATTENTION SPAN OF GOLDFISH,HUMMINGBIRDS,MOTHS&REQUIRE AN EXORCISM!
you left out NATT. Lol
Ha ha ha.
@Anti Gov Anti Jesuit that is not a joke my friend
Am I the only one that hears "Hello, Clarice" in my head when she introduces herself?
Yes
😂😂
I heard it.....😂
Nope! You not the only one...
Wow! I kind of knew through my experiences and observations that these 5 things are what they tend to crave, but I'd never yet put them together and thought about it in this way that these are the things they thrive on and which bring them happiness. It seems so obvious now and makes perfect sense. Thank you for bringing them together like this.
You are very welcome!💖
Thank you dear woman for your most excellent work in the subject of Narcissism. This is a beautiful work, you are helping to free those who have been imprisoned by the dark influences of Narcissism. Well done!!!
It's make the narc happy when he can make someone elses day miserable.
Or when you take the bite and fall in the vortex of their insanety.
You cannot make anyone but yourself happy. I believe it's a state of mind
The last point is spot on .... They love seeing those they hate destroyed !!!!
They wont be happy stopping to be a narcissist because that feeling is so ingrained in them they will feel out of place to actually be the opposite of a narc, which is to have and show feelings for others. They are too self absorbed to do that!
Narcissist = Nauseousness : Causing nausea or disgust. For example: When you realise a narcissist messed with you for so long, and you believed in their lies, you spend a great deal of time in a state of Nauseousness.
😂Very true!
Correct. Money, power, attention, praise and breaking/destroying their victims.
“There is a God-shaped vacuum in the heart of each man which cannot be satisfied by any created thing but only by God the Creator, made know through Jesus Christ.”
Pascal
True statement. However, narcissists also try to gaslight and manipulate God.
They think they are god
When I gave my ex narc money that made him happy for a couple of hours
WOW... they are truly sap(sad and pathetic)people smh
You are to be an endless supply of money to them. They are always looking for a Golden Goose to feed their endless need for hi-end things to show how superior they are, and to impose this image on those who are affected by such things....
Wow! I have been forced to look at my life of service to my parents and the people I did my business for and I thought I was "a very good server" and I tried to be proud of that, but I never got anything out of it. I was deeply unsatisfied but felt stuck there. I was never really thanked or valued, and some time people criticized that I missed something or that my price was too high. I never saw that my life was completely about serving others needs for mere sustenance pay and that nothing was ever about my self. I tried to pretend that a mere Christmas gift amount meant I was special, but I realized that it was a repeat of my lower role with my parents of serving their needs... I wondered how this happened and now I am getting my answers. It is shocking and painful and I am afraid to see the control they have had over me with my people-pleasing and almost begging others who always said "no" to me moving up or having more. Equality and respect was completely out of the question. Even though it was what I was trying to earn, they always said "no" and gave praise to others before me for "but t-kissing".
They are so happy when you give them full and utter control! 😢😊
You describe the narcissist very well. It sounds like a politician. Anybody with power. This is what's wrong in our society. We have a lot of these people living here today. And they wondering why the world is going wrong. It is because people like what you just described is doing to our society. It's all about me me me me me. And forget everybody else. Other than that have a great day.
Emotional energy makes them feel powerful n energised 🥴 this is the closest to happiness they get 🧡🖤 Get out n stay out ❤
Winning! And everyone else is losing. One up on everything!!! Winning is life or death!!
They HAVE to win.
Money and manipulation...
Yep
Narcissist is all about pride, ego and bragging. That can make them happy. To brag and be admired. They want to be like gods.
Yes, they’re exhausting. 🙄
I can’t wait to grey rock mine, like I did my in-laws.
I knowcthey like to be admired and praised a lot
In my experience, the narcissist doesn't want you to throw the match. They want to win. In a thousand different ways she could have gotten what she wanted from me. But for her, asking was impossible...she had to (metaphorically) beat it out of me.
I fail to understand why a "narcissist" can never see the error of their own ways?
But I guess that is part of the self-serving disorder they carry with them.
I tried to understand sick people...but then I realized you can't really understand them unless you are sick also..
It's so amazing how acurate you are about the narc" And allways on point as usual ! My respect and much love .
I appreciate that. Thank you!
Narcissists are happy when they treat others bad and their victims apologize for it as if was their fault. This kind of people prefer to think that they right to treat others like shit when they stand up for themself or show that they can´t stand a narcissist.
A narc (my ex-wife and her mom) Does things their way without admitting it, is what makes them happy.
Only 5?! There’s WAY more. Break free and NEVER look back ♥️
Well done ... thanks ... very well sorted out ...winning ... makes them happy... or suceeding in general in outward situations because they cant win inside... and I like the end of that video... they can only be Happy stopping to be a narcissist.... thanks again for that brilliant peace of work ...
Thank you for watching. You are very welcome!💖
Great video, you are right! Sadly they will never be happy because they live in their own pretend world where they are perfect and everyone wishes they could be the narcissist.
We are dealing with demons in human form. That's why
Perfect insight! thank you very much, you nailed it!! This describes my narc to the T!
This is 100% spot on. Thank you for the video. All of the above is true
You're very welcome💖
They love themselves that's all
On point. I've experienced this word for word.
When they are basically killing with a thousand cuts, they are very very happy. ☹️
They are happy when they see their victims in sorrow and sadness
Everything so simply put, yet so accurate.
The narcissist will label all your efforts when you're trying to make them happy as "bare minimum"
Me: I just want you to be happy.
The Narc: Well that's not going to happen.
You said the very truth. Very very true Money, power, attention, praise and flattery, breaking and destroying their victims, seeing your tears and pains. Seeing all these practical in a marriage of 35years.
Thank you so much for this because this video makes me not to be bordered about making him happy.
I pray they stop being narcissists. Pretenders, religious, wicked and evil acts
Being sadistic towards you and very happy and pleasurable and enjoyable and everything possible that you feel just by being sadistic and hurting you over and over and over and over and they want to hear you cry
God is exposing these demons..share with everyone
They are Sadistic and happy passing out PAIN and evil😈😈
Putting this in words ,oh my goodness you are great
Dear child of God please do not say that you think anything anymore on your channel. I'm in total confidence of this content that edifies and lifts up and reassures us and gives us confirmation in your relatable testimony which is your Wisdom/ EXPERIENCE.= I BELIEVE,,, YOUR tone and your poise AND spirit is conveyed with such confidence that I would like for you to (believe), DON'T CHANGE A THING ABOUT YOU,OR HOW YOU ARTICULATE AND DELIVER THIS NECESSARY CRUCIAL TESTIMONY FOR THE PUBLIC AWARENESS.TY FOR YOU'RE STRENGTH AND COURAGE TO BE TRANSPARENT BLESS YOUR HEART
Thank you Susan. It means a lot. God bless🙏
Thanks for your encouragement I surely will not EVER CHANGE WHO IM AM!! I AM SO UNDENIABLELY UNAPOLOGETIC ABOUT ME AND MY CONFIDENCE TO STAND IN MY TRUTH MADE BY MY FI RST FATHER AND FIRST MOTHER IN BEING CREATED TO BE AN CONFORMABLE COMPLAINT DIVINE SOUL.I LOVE ME SOME ME.JUST WANTED THE ONES WHO HAVE EYES , EARS TO HEAR AND SEE RECEIVED THIS MESSAGE WITHOUT ANY OFFENSE. Sending so much ❤️ and continued blessings beloved from 🙏💓 the most high God message truly indeed hit the spot so grateful for you seeing my spirit I see yours as well. In Jesus name and by his holy Spirit 🙏 Amen
Great summation of Narcissistic behaviour - most narcs I know behave like this!
Oh WOW you know....! Such sick people!!! I bet Karma has a field day with every ruthless, determined, vengeful driven narcissist spoken of here so in closing: May God have mercy and pity in their Souls!!!
The behavior you are talking about, describes the woman I know to a tee.. I have noticed some of these behaviors in work place people. I find it hard to believe these people are narcissistic, but you describe them very well and you are a professional. There must be a lot of them in this world.
Money and the people who also love money and power to be glamorous attention and sex is a major tool *
THIS IS SO ACCURATE, ESPECIALLY WITH THE FEMALE NARC I'M DEALING WITH.!! Thanks so much!..
Clarice, like always...I'm surprisingly shocked because what you've just described here is sos so true...alive and well.
Thats why a Sycophant and a NARC goes together like a well oiled machine lol.
Absolutely, they expect every one around them to become their sycophants!
This is a very good video, very on point!
You hit that one right on the nose! Unbelievable, I will be embedding this on my website soon! Way to pin point the main happiness of these sick people. Crazy how they are all the same.
What do you call a covert and and I I vert narcissistic person that has both horrible qualities?
Awesome! Thank you! I am not sure about your question though. Are you asking if someone is covert and overt ?
@@ExposingtheNarcissist I figured out more about grandious narcissist, who actually have both narcissistic characteristics rather than just one or the other.
Your last point adequately describes Perps who target individuals i.e. empty people whose happiness comes only from hurting others.
Everytime I take a gift to that person's child for birthday he will say " oh we already have plenty of that!
The only fault I find with this is that you came to me too late! I should have known all this decades ago and instead am learning of the dangers at the age of 67. Very regrettably, the characteristics you describe seem to fit a certain well-known, rich and powerful ethnic minority in the West. They also describe more than the usual proportion of South Asians. By the way, I am a South Asian. :)
Only happy when everyone else isn't
This is why I know there is an afterlife. God says "vengeance is mine, I will repay" saith the Lord. We may never see the fall of these toxic people on this earth, however, they DO NOT WIN !!!!
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Yes Amen sooner or later 🦋♥️🙏
When they are sucking the life out of you like a vampire 😒
Sad but True!
I love your videovery informative! Thank you soo much for your insight❤️
Just awesome. Ty so much
Where are you from? Im hearing the Caribbean and I think its great that this subject is tackled,especially for the youth brought up to be seen,not heard as as a result become pawns in their own lives by not exercising their personal power. Good going!
So..am I right? Trinidad(that's me) or ...?
I've been told that I sound Trinidadian before but no SK originally. Do you know that island?
Hey Clarice, I hope you’re well. Thank you for the information as always. However I have an additional question: Are narcissistic abuse survivors victims of circumstance? Are we innocent bystanders? I Sometimes I have a problem when people say we have to be accountable for the negative outcome of the relationship. These people are fully aware of entering a relationship and tricking their significant others for their sadistic pleasures. I am curious what your opinion is on this matter. God bless.
Hi London! Okay...I will have to think about that one but my topic this Sunday is 'When the Narc plays a Victim' it only covers the part that the narcissists plays so I may have to do a separate vid to address your question. Stay tuned...Peace and blessings!
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OMG narcs love playing the victim!!!!! I'm a female who has recently encountered one.
He is fully capable of turning on the waterworks if need be.
But every one of your videos thati watch I'm nodding and (wryly) laughing with ah hah moment after moment of recognition.
He fits the profile absolutely.
They're all so similar in so many ways aren't they.
Every single one of your videos has me nodding along saying "yes, this!!!"
She should STOP 🛑 and Go NO CONTACT!!!
Nicely done! And thanks!
A lazy, very comfortable partying lifestyle paid by somebody else ,with a group of "friends" admiring everything he does or says,with an extremely tolerant, attractive crazy sex loving partner who accepts an open relationship on his side but who is faithful and deeply fond of him. I'm writing about a type I happened to deal with, of course.Squaring the circle.
You just described 2 coworkers who were involved with each other at my job and both are narcs!
He was the lazy one, partying lifestyle that had to be paid either by her AND others because he seem to be broke (he always called out). She admired him for his portrayal of having money because our job was his 2nd job and he wore name brand clothes, naively tolerant (she didnt know he was narcissistic till later on), crazy sex loving (at and away from the job), both had someone - he had a girlfriend and she have a husband (that she denied and later lied about). She was about 7 years older than him and she just knew she could have him wrapped around her finger (at the beginning he was acting like her trained puppy making sure he dont speak to none of us when she was around) later on down the line I guess he started showing her his narc ways and playing games on her. He had 2 cellphones she knew of only one, he had other engagements he would race out from work to tend to and it wasnt her because the next day she would give him the silent treatment and wont even look his way. THATS when he would loosen up and socialize with the rest of us (at times) making her angry.
Both of them are sad, nasty and pitiful.
Omg me too i turned to Christ n the most high enough of this for me
True. Thank you for making it clear.
Thank You
And the only way they can STOP being a narcissist is to STOP breathing!!!😌🙏🏽💯🔥
Just came across this video and wanted to say thank you very much you are spot on with your Analysis! I haven't yet had the opportunity to view any more of your videos but I would like to ask you when a Narcissist cries are they real tears or tears of joy if they were surprised or tears of sadness because they realize that they really were wrong?? Also do any of them really Stop?
Hi thanks for visiting my channel. Narcissists use their tears to manipulate. They would cry to make you believe that they are sad, happy or whatever the situation calls for. Everything is about manipulation and control. Some have realised that shedding tears can be very effective. No, the narcissist will not stop.
@@ExposingtheNarcissist Thank you very much! I could write a book about fifteen years with this person and though we did spend time overnight at her place we always maintained separate residences! I always thought she was bipolar! Found out one day reading an article on ten ways to tell if a person is a narc! She had eight of them easily! Found this all out ten years after I ended the relationship. I was told I was the first guy to dump her and that she always did the dumping! About two years after we broke up she wanted to get back together, I asked what would change! She could not answer me! I said that is what I thought! Have not seen her for around fourteen years now but even though I have no feeling for her I would still like to get into that head with what I now know and learned! Thank you again, appreciate the way you explain everything and do find this so fascinating! I have no ill will for when times were good I have never had better but it was inevitable!
Narcissists are one of the most ungrateful people you will ever find. And most unashamed people on this planet who can go to any extent for their personal desires. Moreover, i found Narcissist women so fast especially in spreading fire and hate and they are full of doubts and can track you each n everywhere. Hope i spread my message to the point
My narc broke me, never been this low, and she did it amazingly fast, life sucked b4 u angie, now you have proven to me my life has no meaning whatsoever, please get help b4 you do this to your children, anyonelsw, or yourself
What makes a narcissist happy is your misery of any kind
hey thanks for the insight . i would love your opinion on my experience- the ex narc broke the romantic relationship of 5 months but then for 3 years he was messaging me and remained friends ( via text only ) while he was telling me that he is at an age where he needs be married ( not with me but hypothetical) and 6 months ago i went no contact and blocked him. who won ?i only ask because i need to know that i didnt seem weak
I don't know why I'm here cause I really don't care anymore, lol
Same Here😂😂😂😂‼️
Same that bitch can do one
Fr! Same, at this point it’s more than enough confirmation lol
Thanks, very informative.Their soul is a void
They only care about themselves for themselves an only themselves walk away not a word don't look back keep walking away
Great video thank you so much spot on .
Omg! I saw all of that with my ex narc.
I'm glad you are now free!💖
That’s all true my ex husband is the most outstanding narcissist but I heard that he was arrested for fraud .. karma hits him
hey thanks for the insight . i would love your opinion on my experience- the ex narc broke the romantic relationship of 5 months but then for 3 years he was messaging me and remained friends ( via text only ) while he was telling me that he is at an age where he needs be married ( not with me but hypothetical) and 6 months ago i went no contact and blocked him. who won ?
Hey.....great video...are you a Trinidadian ?
Thanks. No I am not Trinidadian but I have been told I sound like them😀
Their desire to break their victims works both ways.
The scary part is when they don't rest until they see their victims broken. Then they wonder why life goes bad for them later in life they really don't care about their karma huh. Hey Exposing the Narcissist I knew this older woman in her late 40s almost 50 years old. No matter what she's always in some financial difficulty or like she buys a car and a few months later her car got destroyed or taken due to nonpayments. I don't think shes a Narcissist at all but she did always pay me back if I ever loaned her cash. Lets use that lady for example and I'm not saying that nobody doesn't fall on hard times sometimes. But with that example on things always going bad financially is it due to their karma on what they did in life
DTM-KARMA NEVER LOSES OR FORGETS AN ADDRESS!
Yes it could very well be karma as you reap what you sow. The good or bad you do will come back to you. Karma is not just reserved for narcissists.
Or just being incredibly irresponsible with money.
I wouldn't say it's her, I would say that it is more important for her to use her money to buy friends that to pay for her bills
Narcs won't pay you back and if they do it won't even be close to what you've given them