Great video. And extremely important points. I've ran into many doctors and psychologists, some of which were therapists and they were also in fact some of the most narcissistic people I've encountered. People really need to understand this or they will get hurt. Never automatically assume someone is good
for sure. im a school counselor. when we have meetings, i am disgusted at the majority of the school counselors. they do not smile and are some of the most haughty, bitter things i know....and they are counselors!!!
I agree and that's we are caught up in this madness. I think after being beat down to a point we become desperate for someone to listen and believe us. During such difficult times, we just want to wrap our arms around a complete stranger and weep
@@Richard-vq7ud I infact know a councilor who is the worst covert narcissist on the face of this planet. And I know this because I've raised her children and did her job as a mom since her 2 daughters were 7months old and 2 and married their dad who left her for her actions but in her head I stole him from her and she has proven to have no love or concern for her children . Her only mission the past 8 years has been to destroy me and uses her kids as little pawns in her plan to make my husband and myself miserable. She has never given up on or let go of her jealousy of me. She doesn't even want my husband back or her kids but will stop at nothing to make sure I lose them. It's hell dealing with her and seeing how she hurts her own children . She's abusive in every category there is to them yet covers it so well and always manages to flip our attempts to protect them on making me look like the perpetrator. I don't know how much longer I can deal with her. My love for my hubby and daughters is so strong that I can't walk away and leave them for her to destroy. So I suffer daily to her attacks on me. Turning all my husband's family against me. Leaving the kids hurt by her bad mouthing me when they know how good I am to them since I'm with them almost 24/7. Having affairs with my gullible husband time and time again. But I don't have the heart to abandon these girls. Plz 🙏for my family.
Yeah, it's like I'm sorry, but just you wait! It's better we just heal, move on and share with others this wisdom. The world at this time is very Narcissistic. Thank the Lord Jesus Christ for being their for us in times of need and healing. Especially in the case of Narcissistic abuse. Thank God for all the channels like this that help us through this Crazy making stupidity. God bless and take care..
@@erikatvegan5436 Because they are unable to empathize. Some things however even a normal human being cannot forgive, because it brings the other under *the direct judgement of God* (and one cannot come between that), like sexual sin/fornication. This makes sexual sin a sin out of the ordinary: Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Of course a narcissist (evt. psychopathic = 100% narcissistic, a real phenomenon....) boy/man will try very hard to seduce his "beloved" girl to urgently have sex with him *before* marriage. He sees women as a sort of sex doll and masturbation tool and a "marriage" and evt. children, at the time he needs it, as a mask of sanity for HIS purpose (a charm offensive, so he can cover himself)......
An apology is only an apology if you mean it from your heart. So, a narcissist WILL apologise (if it’s in their best interest) but it won’t be from the heart therefore that apology is VOID.
Will never be loyal, faithful, respectful, embarrassing , will only apologize when they want something and keep you on an up and down rollercoaster and never forgive anyone but EXPECTS FORGIVENESS FOR THEMSELVES
Thank You For Sharing Narcissists Will Never Apologize Narcissist Will Never Tell You They Love You. Narcissists Will Never Take Responsibility Narcissists Will Never Acknowledge You As A Person Narcissists Will Never Owe Up To Anything
You have truly stated the truth. They can't be truthful, loyal, or empathetic. They also do not understand what love is. At best you will only get play-acting they've mimicked from other's behavior. They are truly empty souls seeking a place to inhabit
Narcissists are all about their own wants/needs/happiness... what you want, need think, care about will never, ever matter to them, they are the center of their own universe and better be the center of YOURs if you're in their life. Run away, FAR away.
My ex never said Thank you. When I asked an apology for all the abuse after ending the relationship, he said: " What would that help you now that YOU LEFT ME?" And yes- he holds grudges against women who left him or refused to be with him , his whole life.
The huge damage that narcissistic parents do is to their children for the relations.between them. I'm thinking because any of them thinks that the other is geting the real love. But in reality nobody is getting it because there is no real love around.
True, narcs expect others to forgive and forget, but they are excluded. Also, by forgiving and forgetting what a narc has done, you may slip in the relaxing mode, let your guards down, and this gives the narc another opportunity to destroy and harm you. Only the next time, it will be worst and even more challenging to break away from their deceit. I don't forgive narcs; I just cut them off and have no contact with them to protect myself. Forgiving, I forgive myself for allowing them to exploit and abuse me, and I work on my weaknesses to avoid attracting future narcs. Great Vid, Clarice and enjoy your time off!
Your list is good - I can attest to each item. If you pay attention and do things with them slightly off-kilter, you can catch them in their true nature. For example my narcs house had mirrors on the walls. I would position her to see her face when I hugged her unexpected. She would roll her eyes not knowing I was watching. It got to be like shooting fish in a barrel she was so transparent. Finally dumped her.
Wow!!! I just broke up with my narcissistic BF of nine months! Reading about your hug really hit home! He RARELY ever really hugged me back!!! And he NEVER came to me for love and attention… only sex.
Recognising them is a huge task,as we come across them everyday but we fail to see their true self, sometimes it's too late but there are fortunate few who recognise them in time and move away
Your videos are the best by far that I’ve watched trying to make sense of my marriage to a malignant narcissist. You are spot on and great at defining this behavior so I can wrap my head around the truth. I filed for divorce months ago, and I have been “no contact” for at least 5 months and believe me that is nothing short of a miracle. I’ve almost blown it several times but I force myself to listen to your videos to jerk me back to reality. The toughest part for me has been ACCEPTING that this is their personality and it WILL NOT CHANGE. I’ve been able to, though, thanks to your wisdom and willingness to share it. I’m grateful.
I think that narcissists like the idea of ridiculing people as a way of showing off thinking it’s ok. I’ve been through this myself lol! It’s worse when there’s more people in the room or if you’re out in public.
WOW ! THAT SOUNDS LIKE MOST PEOPLE I HAVE KNOWN IN MY LIFE. AND I AGREE WITH THE GUY THAT SAID A LOT OF PEOPLE IN CHURCHES ARE THAT WAY. IVE SEEN TONS OF THEM IN THE BIG CHURCH I QUIT GOING TO. THATS THE STORY OF MY LIFE, PEOPLE STABING ME IN THE BACK. EXCEPT FOR A FEW.
A narc will never agree that his victim has a right to her beliefs. He will rage when confronted with other opinions on Religion, politics, etc, that don't square with his beliefs/opinions.
My ex cheated on me and he said it wasn't cheating. I told him you don't have any remorse and you never apologize. The narc said "Well let me apologize. Is it okay now?" Lol he thinks I'm dumb. He wasn't even sincere and serious. He was laughing while I was hurting. I left his ass and went full no contact, never again!
BEST VIDEO ..CLARICE...🤗💫💥❤ SPOT ON my experience wth my narc husband for 26 years ..bein d wife mother to him & his teen boys now..has made me resonate wth ds video.. Dey kno wat dey put you tru but will remain silent tru out..shame A narcissist is demon possessed
Very mentally and emotionally undeveloped individuals. Very good at faking it but are very empty hollow creatures that is why they constantly need new supply Attention adoration admiration fuel they can't be alone ever and fear abandonment yet will abandon you in a second flat
This is so true I think I hit a milestone, though I experienced these attributes I am not triggered and just accept that was life then. Now is much better if there is a cure for loving one of these monsters I have not found it. I cherish my love for her and know she could never appreciate me or love me back. I did notice that very early. I was on my own in a relationship.
Today they forgive you and tomorrow they recall all the forgiven to blame you for a little bad incident. So they don't stand to or for anything but the best outcome for themself in the exact now moment.
Thank you!! I am lost for words, the health profession, family, Church folks, & associates!!! ECT. (If you don't forgive don't you expect to be forgiven) 🔥
That is a great educational video, for anyone who would think twice before getting married to a unexpected dishonest dictator, like my ex-wife and her mother. My pastor and i felt victim to my wifes lying and she turned her back on me after she got caught.
I left my narc in late October. This video was him 100%. No loyality, lies, cheater, cold, non validating. I couldnt stand it anymore. He has had many women, but every time a relationship fails, he goes back to his ex wife. I think she is as messed up as he is to keep taking his cheating, pathetic form back. He went back to her a few days after our break up. Mine had double standards too. He could go see his ex wife on the pretense of seeing his daughter, but if I went around my ex husband, he was pissy. So glad to be free of him.
Your support is so appreciated thanks for being a subscriber! Yes! More quality time with my 4 children before the summer is over...spending more time in nature with them by going for walks, the parks, beaches etc.
Great video I love how you emphasize and went over everything in detail absolutely true very simple very clear video thank you so much God bless you in Jesus name!
Dear Clarice, a very good and educational video again. In one mather we will not agree and that is that I strongly believe that narcissists will never ever change.
There is always a remanant. Do you know the story in the bible of Elijah when he thought that he was the only godly person left and the Most High told him he had preserved at least 7000 men who had not bow their knee to Baal. Well that's how I see even today...We are surrounded by evil on every but I believe there is a remnant, of even reformed narcs who have decided to make a change for the better.
Great video! Thank you so much because of you now I'm aware to my narcicistic partner. you save me to being a narcicist victim. I hope I will be okay someday
They are never grateful and loathe having to say thank you, they may do so to save face but you can feel it's forced and makes them feel uncomfortable, it's because they feel they are lowering themselves in that moment. If they receive a gift they don't like it's easy to see the glimpse of distain before they cover it up with a fake Ta or thanks then put the item out of sight never to be seen again. If you give them something they really do like, they may wear it around you but if someone else admires it and you are with them they won't acknowledge it's a gift from you, it's like they want the admirer to think they are the ones with good taste.
Narcs are relentless in evening the score with their target. They are always plotting to get back at them. Narcs don't want their targets to fight back. I wish someone, something could cure narcissism so narcs can leave non narcs alone
Narcissists should not be allowed to study. A narcissist is an information gobbler. They seem to gobble up information when "studying", process it like a machine and later spit it out as some evil parrot, now being able *to fabricate "better" lies to (more sophisticated) hurt deeper and broader.*
Could I request topics to consider covering ? Could you do video on how to heal the trauma of being abused and cutting your trauma bond for good and forgiving yourself and the narcissist and move on and or a video on the lessons you should learn from the experience and if you agree with me that they are in our lives because they exploit and retraumatise our past wounds and so we have what we need to heal in ourselves highlighted and how to heal those old wounds or a video on how much they are conscious of the tactics they use and why they use it or if different narcissist have different levels of awareness of what and why they do what they do and how you can tell the level of awareness the one your dealing with has, thank you love your videos
Hi Emma, I'm glad you find my vids helpful.. Please check out my other channel re: healing and self-love after narc abuse ua-cam.com/channels/ruPG6tnLLqFC9M-FpY66IQ.html
Oh no I've been married to one for 24 years. She told my family that she stopped loving me 11 years ago. She physical abused our boys by punching them in the chest. She beat up her oldest son since much so that he jumoed off the third floor balcony.
I was told after I started grey rock we were over for 2 years. Maybe you stopped loving her 11 years ago? The abuse of children occurs to hurt you because you know about it or witness it. Very sorry for your experience. You will see one day you will all stronger then all the bullshit that happened.
24 years in myself left for ever 2 years almost ago. Rarely a day or sometomes hour goes by that I do not remember the chaos and hell. I try to remember good times when my brains ruminates now.
They are pure evil 👿 😡 and I mean no good. They will treat you nice at first 😉👍. Take you out to eat. Buy you things. And start treating you a little bad. Maybe they had a bad day or something bothered them. They will Hoover you, start treating you nice again as if nothing happened. This will go on for while. Each time they will do less for you 😉 and start getting meaner. They know exactly what you want and like. And when you're beat down, they will give it to you. You can't fake either 😂. They know fake from real( they profess on it) it's a real sad trauma bond) what normal person would stay friends with a none fool, trash,evil doer, some one always putting you down, talking to you any kind of way. They would not have one day of it. They can dish it out but they can't take it. Please believe it!
I've been studying narcissists ever since May when I dumped my narcissist girlfriend before she dumped me. I believe like on The Wizard of Oz the Tin Man well these people they are born without a soul or a conscience. They don't care that leave you feeling like you want to die cuz you thought they loved you and you love them with all of your heart it doesn't matter to them they don't care. And they keep calling my house and don't say anything. And they're not even my family and they were my nurse's aide and I have to go to Family Court cuz they lied. First sentence I had a sexual relationship with my client being my nurse's aide that was wrong. The judge in Family Court wanted to drop it she lied she can go to jail for perjury. But she does not care she doesn't care about her own children that's why I got rid of her why would she care about me. I cannot believe there are people like this running around in the world and there are many many narcissist I think our president is the biggest one of them all
Thank you. I know exactly what you are talking about. Been there done that. Never even knew what he was still someone told me. Thank you thank you. Hugsx
They will not apologize even if they want to. Just look in the eye and give them the signal " I understand " believe me their act for their best interests. But in the end they are empty and shallow.
Thank U 4 helping get through a difficult time! I am grateful for channels like this because it helps make sense of these trials!!! I THANK GOD BECAUSE IT'S GETTING BETTER AND HE HAS ALLOWED ME TO TAKE A DEEP DIVE AND TAKE A HONEST LOOK AT MYSELF!!! I AM SO GLAD I DECIDED TO FOLLOW JESUS AND HOLD ON TO HIM NO MATTER WHAT!!! LOOKING AND MOVING FORWARD!!!💜
Love your video's they are all spot on. Can you please do one on *How to break up with a narcissist and get him out of MY house. Also one about * Money * Free loading * How to tell them they have to pay their half of the household bills. I hope so-Thanks He's so tight he squeaks when he walk!
Thank you..I have done one on money see here ua-cam.com/video/ULoqashxUyY/v-deo.html If you are not married and his no stake in your property just tell him to get out..Give him a deadline , If it comes and he is still not gone, wait until he is out, then pack up his stuff, put it out and call the police to make sure he leaves without any problems. Change the locks etc. Narcissist want a free ride wherever they can get it...If you told them they had to start covering a bill that may be enough to get them looking for somewhere else to stay.
@@ExposingtheNarcissist I appreciate you for getting back to me so quickly. It's for someone else, I know, I know ppl do say that but really it is... No they are not married but been living together for over 20 years. I'm sure the rental house is in both of there names if so then what? Doesn't he have rights to stay there too? What gets me is she doesn't even have a key to the mailbox, he gets the mail everyday. Control over the mail. That how I think he got a credit card in her name, you know how they send those pre-approved letters in the mail well...🤔 She's not that strong minded, she has put up with so much narcissistic abuse it's not funny. If it was me.. I would have took that chance to press charges on the credit card issue & while he was in jail I'd rent a truck, get all his crap and put it in a storage! (Like MILES AWAY from where I live) I'd take something to all those cameras & intercoms he has in each room, the cameras he has on the outside of the house he even has cameras in the inside of the house (even one over the kitchen stove!) Anyways, I'd smash them all to bits (That's for to release all the anger for all the years of abuse) Then, put them in a box marked "STUPID" Change ALL.the locks for sure and put my own security system up. Id also have his mail held for pick at the post office or forwarded to a friends or family members place. Then send him a key(s)with the address of the storage/and where he can pick up his mail and say nothing more, expect a restraining order attached! And if he couldn't pay for his stuff in the storage, then he can say bye bye to his crap. Bcuz its NOT my problem. But, that just me. I wish she would do that so bad. (Sigh) I know, its her will that has to come first, to make that decision and NO TURNING BACK! Then with a lot of planning with trusted friends & family it can be done. OR PLAN B (Always have a plan B) Rent another house and she needs to move out that way for awhile he won't know where she's at, bucz I'm sure he will find out, unless of course he's too lazy and to busy trying to find his next VICTIM. BUT I like plan A much better thought. Thanks I will watch the video on money and send to her. She made the mistake of watching a video at home, she was downstairs and I was upstairs, he walked in on her when the video said narcissist...🤦♀️ I told her when she watches the video go somewhere else, bcuz of the cameras & intercoms Q: why are narcissist so sneaky and quite when they come around? 1 minute your alone then All of u sudden they're there, Like a creeper, It's so creepy. Why? Anyways, thanks again for all the work you do to make these videos Ty 💕🌺💕
Great video. And extremely important points. I've ran into many doctors and psychologists, some of which were therapists and they were also in fact some of the most narcissistic people I've encountered. People really need to understand this or they will get hurt. Never automatically assume someone is good
for sure. im a school counselor. when we have meetings, i am disgusted at the majority of the school counselors. they do not smile and are some of the most haughty, bitter things i know....and they are counselors!!!
I agree and that's we are caught up in this madness. I think after being beat down to a point we become desperate for someone to listen and believe us. During such difficult times, we just want to wrap our arms around a complete stranger and weep
@@Richard-vq7ud I infact know a councilor who is the worst covert narcissist on the face of this planet. And I know this because I've raised her children and did her job as a mom since her 2 daughters were 7months old and 2 and married their dad who left her for her actions but in her head I stole him from her and she has proven to have no love or concern for her children . Her only mission the past 8 years has been to destroy me and uses her kids as little pawns in her plan to make my husband and myself miserable. She has never given up on or let go of her jealousy of me. She doesn't even want my husband back or her kids but will stop at nothing to make sure I lose them. It's hell dealing with her and seeing how she hurts her own children . She's abusive in every category there is to them yet covers it so well and always manages to flip our attempts to protect them on making me look like the perpetrator. I don't know how much longer I can deal with her. My love for my hubby and daughters is so strong that I can't walk away and leave them for her to destroy. So I suffer daily to her attacks on me. Turning all my husband's family against me. Leaving the kids hurt by her bad mouthing me when they know how good I am to them since I'm with them almost 24/7. Having affairs with my gullible husband time and time again. But I don't have the heart to abandon these girls. Plz 🙏for my family.
@@tammiguzman8317 i will pray for you.most counselors are narcs and use clients for supply
They will not forgive even if takes 10 to 20 years. They will seat and patiently wait for the perfect time to strike back.
.....and it will be outlandish.....
Yeah, it's like I'm sorry, but just you wait! It's better we just heal, move on and share with others this wisdom. The world at this time is very Narcissistic. Thank the Lord Jesus Christ for being their for us in times of need and healing. Especially in the case of Narcissistic abuse. Thank God for all the channels like this that help us through this Crazy making stupidity. God bless and take care..
But why they don't t forgive?
@@erikatvegan5436 Because they are unable to empathize.
Some things however even a normal human being cannot forgive, because it brings the other under *the direct judgement of God* (and one cannot come between that), like sexual sin/fornication.
This makes sexual sin a sin out of the ordinary:
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
Of course a narcissist (evt. psychopathic = 100% narcissistic, a real phenomenon....) boy/man will try very hard to seduce his "beloved" girl to urgently have sex with him *before* marriage. He sees women as a sort of sex doll and masturbation tool and a "marriage" and evt. children, at the time he needs it, as a mask of sanity for HIS purpose (a charm offensive, so he can cover himself)......
@@gratefulsoul1661 Amen to that 100 percent
They only apologize when they want something from you like money. They lie a lot.
It is true they don’t have remorse and they are not sorry they fake it..
A narcissist will apologise if it is in their interest to do so.
That is a false apology and they will repeat their behaviour as and when suits them.
But they won't mean it but it never sounds like they are sorry
An apology is only an apology if you mean it from your heart.
So, a narcissist WILL apologise (if it’s in their best interest) but it won’t be from the heart therefore that apology is VOID.
@@Izannaziza
In other words,
Lip service to B*llsh*t.
Will never be loyal, faithful, respectful, embarrassing , will only apologize when they want something and keep you on an up and down rollercoaster and never forgive anyone but EXPECTS FORGIVENESS FOR THEMSELVES
Thank You For Sharing
Narcissists Will Never Apologize
Narcissist Will Never Tell You They Love You.
Narcissists Will Never Take Responsibility
Narcissists Will Never Acknowledge You As A Person
Narcissists Will Never Owe Up To Anything
They might say I love you, But they wont mean it.
They say I love but they simply don't mean it
Three of the five I've witnessed with my ex wife.
@@spockb1186 totally!
Mine said it, only after sex☹️
You have truly stated the truth. They can't be truthful, loyal, or empathetic. They also do not understand what love is. At best you will only get play-acting they've mimicked from other's behavior. They are truly empty souls seeking a place to inhabit
They won't ever see the wrong they've done.
They're not genuine.
You just described my mother and someone else's mother.
Nothing like watching your own mother tell lies in public then call you the liar.
The narc parents can be a total pain in the a**. They are suppose to be the mature ones but act like the child instead.
Everything you stated is so True,these self absorbed 😈are full of pride,hatred,and jealously....
Narcissists are all about their own wants/needs/happiness... what you want, need think, care about will never, ever matter to them, they are the center of their own universe and better be the center of YOURs if you're in their life. Run away, FAR away.
My ex never said Thank you. When I asked an apology for all the abuse after ending the relationship, he said: " What would that help you now that YOU LEFT ME?" And yes- he holds grudges against women who left him or refused to be with him , his whole life.
They will never support, protect or uplift you.
They apologise when they want something from you. They're fake!! Their lies speak for itself.
The huge damage that narcissistic parents do is to their children for the relations.between them. I'm thinking because any of them thinks that the other is geting the real love. But in reality nobody is getting it because there is no real love around.
True, narcs expect others to forgive and forget, but they are excluded. Also, by forgiving and forgetting what a narc has done, you may slip in the relaxing mode, let your guards down, and this gives the narc another opportunity to destroy and harm you. Only the next time, it will be worst and even more challenging to break away from their deceit. I don't forgive narcs; I just cut them off and have no contact with them to protect myself. Forgiving, I forgive myself for allowing them to exploit and abuse me, and I work on my weaknesses to avoid attracting future narcs. Great Vid, Clarice and enjoy your time off!
Your list is good - I can attest to each item. If you pay attention and do things with them slightly off-kilter, you can catch them in their true nature. For example my narcs house had mirrors on the walls. I would position her to see her face when I hugged her unexpected. She would roll her eyes not knowing I was watching. It got to be like shooting fish in a barrel she was so transparent. Finally dumped her.
Good for you im married to a narc 13yrs l plan n leaving carefully
True, even I used to wonder what was wrong?!!!
Wow!!! I just broke up with my narcissistic BF of nine months! Reading about your hug really hit home! He RARELY ever really hugged me back!!! And he NEVER came to me for love and attention… only sex.
My technique is to casually use the word narcissist. They literally get whiplash turning to look at you.
Recognising them is a huge task,as we come across them everyday but we fail to see their true self, sometimes it's too late but there are fortunate few who recognise them in time and move away
Your videos are the best by far that I’ve watched trying to make sense of my marriage to a malignant narcissist. You are spot on and great at defining this behavior so I can wrap my head around the truth. I filed for divorce months ago, and I have been “no contact” for at least 5 months and believe me that is nothing short of a miracle. I’ve almost blown it several times but I force myself to listen to your videos to jerk me back to reality. The toughest part for me has been ACCEPTING that this is their personality and it WILL NOT CHANGE. I’ve been able to, though, thanks to your wisdom and willingness to share it. I’m grateful.
Hi Stacy. I am so happy for you. I wish you only the best. Peace and Blessings
🎉🎉🎉🎉🙏🏽💯🏃♀️🏃♀️🙌🙌💥💥
I have been narc free for 9 years and all of this it still so clear in my mind
I think that narcissists like the idea of ridiculing people as a way of showing off thinking it’s ok.
I’ve been through this myself lol!
It’s worse when there’s more people in the room or if you’re out in public.
Well that perfectly sums up my 37yr marriage to the covert narc to a T. He repulses me .
Yep Satan is A Father of Lies And Without Him Narcissist Will Never Lie,
You are on point!! That describes my x 💯💯 that's why i have been narc free for 1 year on Aug 26. Best move i ever did!!
Good girl... i could not... have no where to go, trapped
@@svetlana7904 ❤
It's so sad. This sums up my last relationship. I'm still suffering.
❤️ In same boat right now
WOW ! THAT SOUNDS LIKE MOST PEOPLE I HAVE KNOWN IN MY LIFE. AND I AGREE WITH THE GUY THAT SAID A LOT OF PEOPLE IN CHURCHES ARE THAT WAY. IVE SEEN TONS OF THEM IN THE BIG CHURCH I QUIT GOING TO. THATS THE STORY OF MY LIFE, PEOPLE STABING ME IN THE BACK. EXCEPT FOR A FEW.
Most Women I know for sure
A narc will never agree that his victim has a right to her beliefs.
He will rage when confronted with other opinions on Religion, politics, etc, that don't square with his beliefs/opinions.
The mfer ain't always a he
They are always pointing fingers & telling me how I should feel or think .Tell me I am just crazy !
When they are the Crazy ones! Projecting their madness as usual.
Same song, different words. MIKE W.
Mike, stop being a VICTIM. GO FOWARD.
@@ExposingtheNarcissist They have to project onto others in order to "protect" themselves.
My ex cheated on me and he said it wasn't cheating. I told him you don't have any remorse and you never apologize. The narc said "Well let me apologize. Is it okay now?" Lol he thinks I'm dumb. He wasn't even sincere and serious. He was laughing while I was hurting. I left his ass and went full no contact, never again!
Before I even started the video I knew not apologizing would be one of them
Clarice's 'Exposing the Narcissist' is the #1 expert narcissist informational channel on UA-cam.
Thank you!🙏💖
BEST VIDEO ..CLARICE...🤗💫💥❤
SPOT ON
my experience wth my narc husband for 26 years ..bein d wife mother to him & his teen boys now..has made me resonate wth ds video..
Dey kno wat dey put you tru but will remain silent tru out..shame
A narcissist is demon possessed
Very mentally and emotionally undeveloped individuals.
Very good at faking it but are very empty hollow creatures that is why they constantly need new supply
Attention adoration admiration fuel they can't be alone ever and fear abandonment yet will abandon you in a second flat
Great content. Experienced all five and decided to go no contact and setting strong boundaries.
This is so true I think I hit a milestone, though I experienced these attributes I am not triggered and just accept that was life then. Now is much better if there is a cure for loving one of these monsters I have not found it. I cherish my love for her and know she could never appreciate me or love me back. I did notice that very early. I was on my own in a relationship.
Soooooooo very true! She fits all of this exactly. Thank-you.
Today they forgive you and tomorrow they recall all the forgiven to blame you for a little bad incident. So they don't stand to or for anything but the best outcome for themself in the exact now moment.
this is key..coverts do apologize but they passive aggressively prove it insincere by initiating another petty attack or quarrel
Man, # 1, so on point! It helps them play out their whole role.
Thank you!! I am lost for words, the health profession, family, Church folks, & associates!!! ECT. (If you don't forgive don't you expect to be forgiven) 🔥
You were spot on. Very sad but so true. Thank you for your insight.
That is a great educational video, for anyone who would think twice before getting married to a unexpected dishonest dictator, like my ex-wife and her mother. My pastor and i felt victim to my wifes lying and she turned her back on me after she got caught.
I LOVVVVVVE, LOVVVVVVE YOUR VIDEOS! You’re so on point about everything!!!!
Thank you so much!!
Exposing the Narcissist YW! 😘
I left my narc in late October. This video was him 100%. No loyality, lies, cheater, cold, non validating. I couldnt stand it anymore. He has had many women, but every time a relationship fails, he goes back to his ex wife. I think she is as messed up as he is to keep taking his cheating, pathetic form back. He went back to her a few days after our break up. Mine had double standards too. He could go see his ex wife on the pretense of seeing his daughter, but if I went around my ex husband, he was pissy. So glad to be free of him.
And take and take and take and take...
Peace and blessing to you
Stay safe, you're so appreciated
Yep my narc X husband did all 5..... Frustrating and maddening... just what they want, along with being vindictive...
May the Lord truly bless you for everything you do
Thank you, God bless you too!
Let me say one of the best channels out on UA-cam and right on point on these kind of people. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for watching! You are very welcome!
The change is usually never genuine..it is only because if they DO NOT, they stand to lose alot
Extremely beneficial as always my dear Clarice! Make the best of your time off! You deserved it beautiful soul! 💙🤗
Your support is so appreciated thanks for being a subscriber!
Yes! More quality time with my 4 children before the summer is over...spending more time in nature with them by going for walks, the parks, beaches etc.
@@ExposingtheNarcissist yaaaaaaaay make the best of it Clarice! And I can't help but to support and love you! 🤗
Very clearly addressed. Concise and accurate. Good UA-cam clip. Thank you.
You are very welcome!🌹
That's on them that they can't forgive, it messes with them not me😜
They are often unemployed and dependent upon someone else and end up in jail
Another fantastic video with accurate content as far as I'm concerned. Thank you Clarice you're spot on again.👍🏽
You are very welcome. 💖
Straight on point! 💯
Thanks, these videos saved me after ten years of chaos..
11years I've never gotten an apology never
All true!. Thank you so much Clarice... For all your hard work to get these videos out... to save souls. I love 💕❤️ you sister. God bless you.
You're welcome---God Bless you too😍
@@ExposingtheNarcissist 🙏 thank you. ❤💕
Great video I love how you emphasize and went over everything in detail absolutely true very simple very clear video thank you so much God bless you in Jesus name!
Thank you timely - you are marvellous for your contribution.
God bless you n me.
Dear Clarice, a very good and educational video again.
In one mather we will not agree and that is that I strongly believe that narcissists will never ever change.
That's fine. Many have concluded as you have but for me; There is always hope!
@@ExposingtheNarcissist hope is something to hang on to, but from my experiences and how society is developing I don't have that hope.
There is always a remanant. Do you know the story in the bible of Elijah when he thought that he was the only godly person left and the Most High told him he had preserved at least 7000 men who had not bow their knee to Baal. Well that's how I see even today...We are surrounded by evil on every but I believe there is a remnant, of even reformed narcs who have decided to make a change for the better.
Great video! Thank you so much because of you now I'm aware to my narcicistic partner. you save me to being a narcicist victim. I hope I will be okay someday
My ex narc was a lawyer or liar lawyer lol. Perfect profession for a bully.
They are never grateful and loathe having to say thank you, they may do so to save face but you can feel it's forced and makes them feel uncomfortable, it's because they feel they are lowering themselves in that moment. If they receive a gift they don't like it's easy to see the glimpse of distain before they cover it up with a fake Ta or thanks then put the item out of sight never to be seen again. If you give them something they really do like, they may wear it around you but if someone else admires it and you are with them they won't acknowledge it's a gift from you, it's like they want the admirer to think they are the ones with good taste.
My narc wouldnt say thank you for anything that I did or gave him.
They’ll tell you and only you supposed secrets about themselves in order to see if you share it with anyone else.
the best and most important description of all,,,, thank you 🌸
I love your videos. You are 100% correct. Married to one.
I like you and your video very much, very clear and profound information, very useful.
An eye opener video , every line is so true
So Very TRUE
You are so right on...keep up ur Good work
Be safe Clarice! I am looking forward to the next video.
Thank you Clarice, well done, your videos are a big help. May the Grace of God be with you. Blessings.
Thank you! You too!
Every word u speak in the video has been my experience
Awesome, great job and thank you very much!
Narcs are relentless in evening the score with their target. They are always plotting to get back at them. Narcs don't want their targets to fight back. I wish someone, something could cure narcissism so narcs can leave non narcs alone
The only cure is PRISON where most narcs belong.
@liberty CAN true, narcs lack a sense of boundaries
They convince their spouses to take out million dollar life insurance policies on themselves, then harangue them to death.
I knew a narcissist who gotten beaten up real bad. How often do narcissist get beaten up?
there are everywere
Narcissists should not be allowed to study.
A narcissist is an information gobbler. They seem to gobble up information when "studying", process it like a machine and later spit it out as some evil parrot, now being able *to fabricate "better" lies to (more sophisticated) hurt deeper and broader.*
Sounds exactly like my mother!
thank you very much for your very wisdom reminding. 👍👍
You are so welcome💖
Could I request topics to consider covering ? Could you do video on how to heal the trauma of being abused and cutting your trauma bond for good and forgiving yourself and the narcissist and move on and or a video on the lessons you should learn from the experience and if you agree with me that they are in our lives because they exploit and retraumatise our past wounds and so we have what we need to heal in ourselves highlighted and how to heal those old wounds or a video on how much they are conscious of the tactics they use and why they use it or if different narcissist have different levels of awareness of what and why they do what they do and how you can tell the level of awareness the one your dealing with has, thank you love your videos
Hi Emma, I'm glad you find my vids helpful.. Please check out my other channel re: healing and self-love after narc abuse ua-cam.com/channels/ruPG6tnLLqFC9M-FpY66IQ.html
Exposing the Narcissist ok thanks
oh yeahhhh!!! So true🤣🦅
It hurts soooo much
At first, but it does get better.🌹
How true, how true, how very true!
Oh no I've been married to one for 24 years. She told my family that she stopped loving me 11 years ago. She physical abused our boys by punching them in the chest. She beat up her oldest son since much so that he jumoed off the third floor balcony.
I was told after I started grey rock we were over for 2 years.
Maybe you stopped loving her 11 years ago?
The abuse of children occurs to hurt you because you know about it or witness it.
Very sorry for your experience.
You will see one day you will all stronger then all the bullshit that happened.
24 years in myself left for ever 2 years almost ago. Rarely a day or sometomes hour goes by that I do not remember the chaos and hell. I try to remember good times when my brains ruminates now.
Oh my! What a monster! the abuse of the children breaks my heart.
They are pure evil 👿 😡 and I mean no good. They will treat you nice at first 😉👍. Take you out to eat. Buy you things. And start treating you a little bad. Maybe they had a bad day or something bothered them. They will Hoover you, start treating you nice again as if nothing happened. This will go on for while. Each time they will do less for you 😉 and start getting meaner. They know exactly what you want and like. And when you're beat down, they will give it to you. You can't fake either 😂. They know fake from real( they profess on it) it's a real sad trauma bond) what normal person would stay friends with a none fool, trash,evil doer, some one always putting you down, talking to you any kind of way. They would not have one day of it. They can dish it out but they can't take it. Please believe it!
Very useful!
I've been studying narcissists ever since May when I dumped my narcissist girlfriend before she dumped me. I believe like on The Wizard of Oz the Tin Man well these people they are born without a soul or a conscience. They don't care that leave you feeling like you want to die cuz you thought they loved you and you love them with all of your heart it doesn't matter to them they don't care. And they keep calling my house and don't say anything. And they're not even my family and they were my nurse's aide and I have to go to Family Court cuz they lied. First sentence I had a sexual relationship with my client being my nurse's aide that was wrong. The judge in Family Court wanted to drop it she lied she can go to jail for perjury. But she does not care she doesn't care about her own children that's why I got rid of her why would she care about me. I cannot believe there are people like this running around in the world and there are many many narcissist I think our president is the biggest one of them all
Everytime I listen to Amanda Lamberts song TIN MAN I think of my ex narc
Thank you. I know exactly what you are talking about. Been there done that. Never even knew what he was still someone told me. Thank you thank you. Hugsx
They will not apologize even if they want to. Just look in the eye and give them the signal " I understand " believe me their act for their best interests. But in the end they are empty and shallow.
Very good video Clarice, thank you
Glad it was helpful!
Great and thanks 🙏
I agree!
I agree...based on my experience.
Thankyou, please take care
They only do shame
Thank U 4 helping get through a difficult time! I am grateful for channels like this because it helps make sense of these trials!!! I THANK GOD BECAUSE IT'S GETTING BETTER AND HE HAS ALLOWED ME TO TAKE A DEEP DIVE AND TAKE A HONEST LOOK AT MYSELF!!! I AM SO GLAD I DECIDED TO FOLLOW JESUS AND HOLD ON TO HIM NO MATTER WHAT!!! LOOKING AND MOVING FORWARD!!!💜
Love your video's they are all spot on.
Can you please do one on *How to break up with a narcissist and get him out of MY house.
Also one about
* Money
* Free loading
* How to tell them they have to pay their half of the household bills.
I hope so-Thanks
He's so tight he squeaks when he walk!
Thank you..I have done one on money see here ua-cam.com/video/ULoqashxUyY/v-deo.html
If you are not married and his no stake in your property just tell him to get out..Give him a deadline , If it comes and he is still not gone, wait until he is out, then pack up his stuff, put it out and call the police to make sure he leaves without any problems. Change the locks etc.
Narcissist want a free ride wherever they can get it...If you told them they had to start covering a bill that may be enough to get them looking for somewhere else to stay.
@@ExposingtheNarcissist
I appreciate you for getting back to me so quickly.
It's for someone else,
I know, I know ppl do say that but really it is...
No they are not married but been living together for over 20 years.
I'm sure the rental house is in both of there names if so then what?
Doesn't he have rights to stay there too?
What gets me is she doesn't even have a key to the mailbox, he gets the mail everyday.
Control over the mail.
That how I think he got a credit card in her name, you know how they send those pre-approved letters in the mail well...🤔
She's not that strong minded, she has put up with so much narcissistic abuse it's not funny.
If it was me..
I would have took that chance to press charges on the credit card issue & while he was in jail I'd rent a truck, get all his crap and put it in a storage!
(Like MILES AWAY from where I live)
I'd take something to all those cameras & intercoms he has in each room, the cameras he has on the outside of the house he even has cameras in the inside of the house
(even one over the kitchen stove!)
Anyways, I'd smash them all to bits
(That's for to release all the anger for all the years of abuse)
Then, put them in a box marked "STUPID"
Change ALL.the locks for sure and put my own security system up.
Id also have his mail held for pick at the post office or forwarded to a friends or family members place. Then send him a key(s)with the address of the storage/and where he can pick up his mail and say nothing more, expect a restraining order attached!
And if he couldn't pay for his stuff in the storage, then he can say bye bye to his crap.
Bcuz its NOT my problem.
But, that just me.
I wish she would do that so bad. (Sigh)
I know, its her will that has to come first, to make that decision and NO TURNING BACK! Then with a lot of planning with trusted friends & family it can be done.
OR
PLAN B
(Always have a plan B)
Rent another house and she needs to move out that way for awhile he won't know where she's at, bucz I'm sure he will find out, unless of course he's too lazy and to busy trying to find his next VICTIM.
BUT
I like plan A much better thought.
Thanks I will watch the video on money and send to her.
She made the mistake of watching a video at home, she was downstairs and I was upstairs, he walked in on her when the video said narcissist...🤦♀️
I told her when she watches the video go somewhere else, bcuz of the cameras & intercoms
Q: why are narcissist so sneaky and quite when they come around?
1 minute your alone then All of u sudden they're there, Like a creeper, It's so creepy. Why?
Anyways, thanks again for all the work you do to make these videos Ty
💕🌺💕
@@gwenscott206 The first option would be my way of doing things as well🙄
I hope your friend is able to get the courage to act!
You are a good friend!
@@ExposingtheNarcissist Yes, I will encourage her your way 1st.
Ty so much.
I actually meant your first option 😀 but either will do😀