“Detransition” and Dissociative Identity Disorder | Our Story
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- Hey Goblins! We wanted to go a bit more into detail about our journey with gender and where we are now. Hopefully this helps answer your questions, but if you still want to ask something, please leave a comment 💗
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i think its lovely to follow what feels right at the time; in the past and now. i think that is a wonderful kindness to the self
As a trans person I support you completely and honestly i think 99% of trans people and 99% of people who detransition/retransition support one another. The media just sucks and platforms detransitioners who have bad politics. I'm glad you all are doing whats right for you. I think making the choices you know are right for yourself at every point in life is a beautiful thing and i wish you the best. Thank you for sharing your story
Why cant more people be like you😭🩷
AFAB... mostly male alters... it's hilarious when our deeper-voiced alters fronts and refuses to mask. 😂Yeah... I'm guilty, too... I'm so proud of you for doing what works for YOUR system. We decided to never transition our body, no matter how many males there are. We like our body. - Emery
I like your name! 😍
So glad you feel more comfy in your body ! Blessings and health to you
Don't worry we're here to support you all no matter what I'm glad that you guys are comfortable sharing your experiences.
I love your hair and makeup in this video, Heather. It is so nice with the red lipstick. So pretty!
damn the mentioning someone’s name and they IMMEDIATELY come to the front and then u have to negotiate is sO TRUE AND REAL!!!
Thank you for sharing your story, Heather
So happy to see you guys making content again 😊
I just want to say, you are such a beautiful person. Both inside and out. So proud of you for having the courage to share your experience with us. You are helping so many with these videos. Peace, love and light to you and yours.
Thank you for sharing this?!
This makes me feel less anxious about this subject.
See: ive thought about this in depth for ourselves....and you know, maybe seeing as your voice range now is almost exactly mine currently while pre-testosterone....maybe this decision should/can wait till we we have worked more on ourselves?
I know now is not the best time anyway for us, but this...this made me realize there isn't just one person to think about here 😅
I think you are all very brave to be talking about all of this, especially with the added stigma of "de-transitioning" I hope that it will help show that not everyone that de-transitions is against transitioning in the first place. I hope you continue to be so honest and open about your experiences. Much love!
Can't wait to get to know Heather and the other alters more in the future. Glad y'all are happy. Love to Acrylic and the rest of Aether system as well.
We are MtF also have DID. It is a little complex trying to deal with what is/is not gender dysphoria related or DID related. We transitioned 10 years ago before we were Dx. Although when we transitioned we learned about the system as I took over being host and I am a woman. Now after 10 years and lots of DID therapy there is some discussion about detranstioning in the system for safety and stability. We do not regret transitioning and without it we would have not received the help we needed. Thank you for posting this it gives us food for thought.
I think it is important for everyone to know trans people don't have to transition.
Trans ⚧ people just need to have the personality/identity of another gender to the gender/sex of their physical body.
Personally I think both the Left and the Right are obsessing over changes in the body and appearance, when it is really not very important to dealing with trans people anyway. Plus it manipulates trans people into getting into various transitions they don't need or want.
It is just a state of being. It doesn't necessitate anything change, except people's awareness so the trans person can be their authentic selves.
Please don’t stop educating cisgender people about their implicit transphobia, or insisting cisgender people work through their “preferences.” Truly, most people are not as “cis-essentialist” as they think they are. They only adhere to cis-normativity in relation to dating, romance, and sex because of social pressure, and because they don’t think they need to reflect on why they have those preferences.
Thank you for the update; be safe!
We are so happy you find a way to make it all work. We would want to go on T, but we can't, and it's so nice to see someone being able to do what they want.
Hi, we didn't know you guys made a comeback, so glad to see you guys again. It's been 5 months, and I hope to see y'all again soon.
AMAB transfemme system here. We are polyfrag but the vast majority of us are female. We have NB alters, genderfluid alters, and even male alters. There's still a lot of us who aren't documented yet but we're pretty confident most of them are either women or femme leaning alters.
We have some complicated feelings about gender since our gender was used to control us when the body was younger.
Our abusers let us present femme every so often in exchange for obedience.
We've talked to most of the alters including the male alters and the most of us who are documented or semi documented have agreed to transition medically and surgically.
The males used to front a lot when we were younger because the dysphoria was too much for most of the system and it was really hard on our system with so few males available to front to cope with dysphoria.
So we are very certain these are the right steps for us. We are very happy with our transition so far and don't want to transition back to male. It's just too hard on our system.
Question! I'm new to the gender identity and trans community, wondering what AMAB means. Thank you
@@enoch4499 AMAB = assigned male at birth
hope yall are doin well. was thinking of u today, sending u good vibes w/ whatever youre up to 😊
The absolute first thing that went into my mind was acctually how much I realy love the voice of you AND your alters. It's so sensual and southing.
Thank you so much for sharing! Very much appreciated here. 😌
Take care. 🌈
okay haha sorry ADHD won’t let me finish the video before commenting but FFFFF IM SO HAPPY I GOT SOMEONE TO SHARE THIS VIDEO W ME OVER ON THE DID REDDIT
cause legit okay as a cishet dude in an afab body + our trans guy, we have been soooo lacking others’ experiences transitioning as a system!!
for us personally we have agreed to start T and also we did have too surgery which only ONE of our alters isn’t happy w but i had had no IDEA how easy it was to buy a full-on BOOB VEST until i looked into it. so we are getting that for her and she doesn’t really front that often anyway.
but the rest of us are ELATED bc no chest!! best decision ever made even if we ARE in deep financial debt atm lmao.
anyway and our voice did deepen but most of alters still have the same voice. bodies are weird.
thank u so much for speaking about this!! it’s literally so important to us to hear others’ experience w this cause in our local trans community, we are the only ones :’)
She's got the range!!!!!!!
Wow. Thank you for being brave enough to talk about it. I know it must have been hard for you.
Y’all do y’all bbs! Glad you are feeling good where you’re at with your physical gender. My curiosity thanks you for this vid, although it should go without saying that it’s like, not really anyone’s business but your own. 🤗
Your voice is beautiful, your lipstick too and your laugh contagious so...fuck it :D
Very exciting update ❤ take good care of you. We’re all so glad you exist you awesome system you!
Do any of the different alters feel very uncomfortable in the body
What about hollow?
Like, how has the detransition affected Hollow? Or just how is he in general?
@@AcrylicAndAether general has hollow found more blue stuff
Our Simon transitioned into Mona. Yours can have that name if she wants :)
we have the same gender deal but we got super crazy masc and try our best to be ok with, not masking? idk, we change voices a lot and dont mind it unless a super anxious alter is front. were polyfrag tho so its a little funky
omg we saw another older vid of yours a while back and didnt even realize it was the same system jfc
Can having a host change be scary 😨?
when would you come back to regular video making
Both of us are getting stabilized, once we have some stuff figured out we'll start making videos on a regular basis again. I'm not sure exactly when that will be, but we hope to be back very soon.
-Acrylic
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I'm glad you have things figured out for you and your system. ❤ One thing I'd like to mention about what you've said at the beginning though: you have to consider that most people who detransition don't have DID. That's why they might experience it differently, and with a harsher look on it in the end, making them turn against it, which is absolutely valid in my opinion. I'm just speculating here, but your general experience with your DID might have unintentionally given you the opportunity to look at gender related things in a more fluid way. Most people don't have that kind of unique experience though. So it might be more drastic for them, especially if the decision wasn't thought through with the absolute care and sensitivity it deserves and needs. (And that's what many of those detransitioned people try to say, is that sadly some people tend to push transitioning and other things onto others, like trends... and that's not how any of it should be handled.) Like how you said, it might be different for everybody.
(Also, I just rediscovered your content. Keep doing what makes you happy.😊) I also used to be part of the Amino App community you created a few years back. I haven't been on there for a looong long time, but back then it gave me the opportunity to talk to many nice people, so I just wanted to thank you for that too here!
Your voice is beautiful, your long hair suits you as well and I hope you're all doing great!😊
Yall have always looked fab no matter what, just sayin' ❤ I admire your bravery! Thanks so much for sharing
I follow your channel for years and I really appreciate your clean, sophisticated way, especially not using cursing words. One gentle remark if I may, using folks when addressing your audience would be appropriate especially after I have heard that you refer to males in your system as guys. In the 21st we should not use guys to a mixed audience. And for those who think guys is gender neutral, give a try and call groups of males "girls" and watch their reactions. And let me know your experience.
I think you meant to say straight males lol
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Hey there, I noticed you said it upsets you that a lot of folks who detransition use their platform to go against the trans community. That would really upset me too. I don't know if this is helpful or not, maybe it gives you hope, I haven't seen them yet. I don't doubt they are out there, yet the only folks online I've seen detransition have been very respectful of the community, and focused on personal awareness.
Thank you for your videos as always! Watching your content helped us a lot when we first discovered our systemhood. We listen to Ballista's video reading the book for littles by Jade. Is she still a member of your system? How is she? 🩷
Where is your diagnosis???? Prove it!!!!!!!!
We both have made videos on it, we don't need to prove anything. Why are you entitled to our therapist notes? Also check out the video "why you don't want D.I.D" very insightful. But go off I guess 🤷
@@AcrylicAndAether You are a liar, I have it, This is not what it looks like you are making it hard for people who have it. There are no "we," they are all "me,""just different levels of consciousness!!!
@@enlightenment6994clearly you are undereducated, everyone’s experience is different.
In fact, your comments sound so unintelligent that you must be trolling.