she is using the children to satisfy her ego, at the same time she is killing the children 's future ahead of them, because these kids they always traumatized .
Speaking as the daughter of a person with SEVERE Borderline Personality Disorder, I wouldn’t be surprised if this woman was diagnosed with it. She’s got the signs.
Oh. My. God. Did he seriously just ask the ex husband WHY he called the police on the ex wife after she HIT HIM IN HIS FACE!! I’m disgusted, just because she’s a woman does NOT give her the right to lay hands on him, he had every right to call the cops! And that is so low to use those kids as pawns to try to make your point stick. And because she could so EASILY just claim that he hit her first and boom, he’s going to jail no proof needed, THATS why he records everything.
My counselor once said a " A good mom will always worry she's not a good enough. But a bad mom will never think twice about being a good mom" it's different for everyone. But from experience, my husband and my kids say I'm a good mom but I will always feel like I could do more and be better.
Same here! I recently took my 4m-old to her doctor, worried about how little she is and feeling like a failure as a mom, and his FIRST comment was what a happy baby she is-not how small she is. She may be petite, but she’s healthy and enjoys life. I can’t tell you what that news means to me!!! I couldn’t see it myself until he said it because I have PROFOUND self-esteem issues. Lesson learned! I know parenthood is a lifelong endeavor and I will have to face down my MANY weaknesses every day. All we can do is our best, moment by moment. PS other parents: I talk to my therapist every week and he uses a sliding payment scale. Therapy is a GREAT tool! So are online parenting classes. They’re free in my state, and you don’t have to have kids to take them! My husband and I started when I got pregnant, and are so glad we did. Ava is our first child, but even if we had kids before, we would have taken the classes. We ALL have room for improvement! Bless you all, and especially your children. 🤍
I’m not saying Michael is 100% innocent, he may have done some things as revenge for the mother’s behaviour but I think he is much more honest than the mother. The fact that the courts gave him full custody of the kids shows that he is the better caregiver of those kids, without the mother’s coaching and brainwashing tactics.
Oh. My. God. Did he seriously just ask the ex husband WHY he called the police on the ex wife after she HIT HIM IN HIS FACE!! I’m disgusted, just because she’s a woman does NOT give her the right to lay hands on him, he had every right to call the cops! And that is so low to use those kids as pawns to try to make your point stick. And because she could so EASILY just claim that he hit her first and boom, he’s going to jail no proof needed, THATS why he records everything. EDIT: To add, I noticed just about everybody is saying how they feel about the ex wife. And the majority shows that she’s an absolute nut.
Ya, that was terrible! It was victim shaming and just because she didn’t hurt him doesn’t mean it’s not abuse. Neither of them are perfect but that was a horrible comment, Dr. Phil.
I agree! I was looking for this comment. People should not be shamed for reporting domestic abuse. It shows she’s violent and she shouldn’t be around children
This woman is a massive liar. She smirks when she lies and she cant shed a tear but she’s “crying”. Also, she’s absolutely still in love with him because only love can make hate like this.
@@Xouiuexo I think you misunderstand the comment. In order to hate someone so passionately, care so much about everything he does, she must still have emotions about him. If she were totally disengaged and couldn't care less, she'd be able to put the kids first, have a clearer mind and could make more rational decisions, without constantly crying or being snappy or landing her in jail. She is giving him ammunition. I have to agree with that sentiment that she is still very much emotionally involved about him.
Yes! She was not having it. The woman is still so obsessed with being a victim and getting back at her ex. She was pissed at her "You are the adult, YOU have to suck it up!" The audience member was 100% right. The mom is so selfish
Toxic take. Women are often expected to suffer for families. I'm not saying anyone is vetter or worse in this case, but in a general way, women are expected to "suck it up," no matter what is happening. The woman in the audience sounded more self-congratulatory to me. "Look at what a sainted martyr I am; you should try to be more like me. If you don't, you obviously suck, because I'm the best & the standard." Gross.
She's Giving Psychotic Nightmare She Publicly Slandered Him Tried & To Get Him Jumped... Claimed That He Abused The Children & Animals Just To Get Caught Saying She Never Want To Leave Him 🤦🏾♀️
It is ABSOLUTELY fair that he had to protect himself against any false accusations, threats, etc by recording phone calls and interactions… she could have done the same and should have if she was smart. When going thru something like this you record EVERYTHING!!! It’s obvious who the problem is!!!
Dr Phil I find it unbelievable that you are challenging him on why he call the police on his ex wife. Imagine if he hit her, would you say to her why did you call the police? You realise that’s your kids father? Come on Dr Phil, no one should ever hit anyone.
I agree . 100% she should be jailed . I get his point in the grand skeem of things the children suffer but she has to learn to keep her hands to her fucken self
31:53 "i have never once tried to take the children away from Michael" WHAT?? Lady, that statement you just said contradicted everything you've said in the past 30 minutes. What a disgusting liar.
I've found for years Dr. Phil doesn't recognize psychopaths. He is always wanting people to reconcile and both behave honourably. He holds them up to a moral standard when usually, one of the parties got into that situation by behaving honourably in the first place, whereas the other party simply does not have the capability to do so. Phil simply perpetuates the problem.
Thank you for saying that! This woman has an illness! Watch her marrying the new guy and have a child with him. If Dr.Phil still has his show when they divorce, he can have her on the show again - same story!
There’s a specific criteria for diagnosing a psychopath. Just because someone might have a mental illness or personality disorder does not mean they’re a psychopath. There’s definitely people that come on here with major issues, but psychopathy cannot be assumed for the vast majority of these people over a 45 minute program. A lot of narcissistic people are featured on this show, but that does not equate to psychopath. I see a lot of people calling her a psychopath, she is clearly not. She’s toxic and self centered in many aspects, definitely has faked her crying, but she is not a genuine psychopath. She clearly cares about her children, but she’s also inconsiderate of her ex husband’s crucial role as a parent in her children’s lives. Again, that does not equate to psychopath.
@@cyracandella2226 I was making a generalized statement about Dr. Phil. And I am sticking with it. I know I am not licensed to diagnose, and could not diagnose from a short video. And I also know that those who are licensed to, often cannot diagnose these types correctly either. I'm not new at this. I follow a definition by an expert and have a lot of years of experience in spotting them. There are many walking among us unrecognized. Most important ingredients: no empathy, no self awareness, no love, not even self-love. Sad, but true. (Edit for grammar)
I had buises all the time...falling from a tree I was climbing or climbing big rocks in the bush and slipping..things like that...My mother was a widow.She never hit me....not once
Speaking as the daughter of a person with SEVERE Borderline Personality Disorder, I wouldn’t be surprised if this woman was diagnosed with it. She’s got the signs.
Standard fare. I know a guy whose drunken ex-wife accused him of r@ping their daughter when she was ONE year old. The girl grew up believing that vile lie, so Dr Phil is wrong is saying the children will find out sooner or later. Some may do, many don’t. I hope his just lost his marbles to make such a statement. He should know better.
N id like to know how the fiancee feels? They got engaged 9 days after the divorce was final! N to hear her conversation about wanting to get back together! So she must of been already cheating when she filed for the divorce.
This woman is an evil narcissist. She hugged and kissed her new boyfriend while staring right at the cameras for attention, just hoping her ex sees it. The entire time she fake cried and didn’t take accountability for one thing she’s done wrong. She never once expressed sympathy for her children. The father needs to have full custody, this woman is a danger to the children.
Just sick how that “mother” when Dr. Phil started reading the daughters letter was pretending to cry until Dr. Phil called her out and she was dry as a bone all indignant looking and rolling her eyes like a 13 yr old herself. Narcissism is so horrible alone but when children are involved it’s absolutely wretched!
She has no right to hit him at all. What is next? Get him murdered? Dr. Phil should stop saying it is wrong for the ex husband to call a police cause he didn’t bleed. The wife is at wrong
Absolutely. I’ve had to do that myself when dealing with a sociopath. The police will almost invariably side with the woman unless there is proof. Is that fair? Yes, when you’re dealing with threats and death threats. No one will ever believe you with the person’s own voice. No one. I hardly believed it myself.
How come Dr Phil can't process the obvious? This story and this type isn't exactly original. And then the show uses the very - and very damning - recordings Phil is so judgmental and pompous about. You think they're bad and 'unfair'? Don't air them then.
I'm literally two minutes in and just going off by the way they are telling their stories, their demeanors and whatnot, he just comes off as so much more genuine and credible. Obviously I have barely started watching so I could be completely wrong but that's just my initial impression.
32:29 The way her hand starts shaking more and more when he reveals the OBVIOUS coaching or forging she did with the letter is just one example of how easy it is to see through her lies! 🤦♀️ I felt like the lady at 35:30-except this hit close to home for me because I grew up with it. I’d have just one thing to say to her: *LOVE YOUR KIDS **_MORE_** THAN YOU HATE HIM!*
I've literally NEVER heard of any police in any jurisdiction to say "you have to wait 24 hours to report this" even missing a persons unit have taken that rule off of their books. With an ongoing domestic violence, they definitely wouldn't stop you reporting something
WTF Dr Phil! Giving the guy a hard time for reporting her hitting him to the police??!! Reverse the roles and out comes Phil's "you don't ever, ever, put your hands on a ________ for any reason..." unfair, dude.
I agree. I thought it was stupid of Dr. Phil to say “you put her in jail for a night”, no, she put herself in jail for a night because she hit her ex-husband!!
I agree that violence and physical abuse is never okay, no matter if the perpetrator is a woman or a man. However, a man is much stronger and bigger than a woman. I am not saying it is okay for a woman to hit or be physically abusive. However, a man hitting a woman causes serious damage. A man can hold a woman down and not allow her to get away. If a woman starts hitting a man, the woman is not as strong and the man can get away.
Dr Phil dropped the ball on this one. Ex wife is clearly psychotic and evil. Recording saved this guy from prison, absolutely nothing wrong with recording interactions in this situation. He has every right to have her arrested for assault regardless of what injuries he had or her parental status. That question would never be asked to a woman
@@ghostsandgraveyards2888This is absolutely true in criminal court and partially true in family law. Money always gets you further than someone without money BUT typically, at least in California where I live, custody battles are almost always in the mother's favor
That woman is a liar. I completely understand why he recorded her. Someone told him to document everything. I haven't had contact with our 3 boys in 8 years, because of someone just like her. I pray every day our boys will figure it out. 😢
They won't figure out what you want them to figure out if you have had zero contact in eight years. There's zero excuse for no contact with 3 children in 8 years.
The police are a neutral party. They are not recording a conversation between officers and a suspect, they are recording a suspect’s conversations trying to investigate a crime. When they do have a conversation between officers and a suspect, like during an interrogation, it is a legal requirement that both parties are fully aware of the recording. Even when they are recording people without their knowledge, there is a tough procedure they have to go through to exercise that investigative tool. It is no small thing to invade people’s privacy, I don’t know if your comment is a joke or not, maybe it is.
@@joeyg448 recoreded a lunatic ex of my sons and i thank God i did becaise she admitted evrrything she was gona do to my family because my son wouldnt take her back.EVERYTHING she tried to accuse each family member of to the police i had a weeks worth of phone calls to give them to listen to. One detective said himself had he of not heard what id recorded he wouldnt of believed me as the girl comes across as plausable..without the recordings itd of been a heck of a fight to prove our innocence. So yes record whomevers gona try wreck your life
If a man had hit a woman in the face and she called the police, nobody would ask her whether he split her lip or why would you bring the law into it. That's so wrong. It doesn't matter how much damage was done. That woman is unhinged and I would not allow her any leeway. If she doesn't want to get carted off to jail because of her kids, she should behave like a mother Edit. She has put on an act the entire time. Crying with no tears, pity plays that fool nobody and she is just a despicable human being who is poisoning her childrens' minds against their father, it is so obvious
Dri Phil making out its not fair he's recording her but I would have done the same thing, the police and the courts are always going to side with the mother so him collecting evidence only seems prudent...his only mistake is not having visual to go with the audio.
She accuses him of abusing the children, yet say she never tried to keep the kids from him. If she truly believed he was abusive towards them, why would she not try to keep them away from him?
A narcissist cannot bare it if the person they want to control over wants nothing to do with them . A narcissist will never ever think that’s what they are. It’s always someone else fault
@@debbiechrysler3461she is out of control casting blame on him to satisfy her obstinate need to get control over him! She whines accuses him of physical abuse and lies about it!
It seems she is working to ac use him of child abuse and turn the children against their doctor! She is a major lisr and should not have custody ! This man is right the Mom is a lying abuser and should not be allowed to have custody of the children! Tearless crying shows she is a lisr and whining is fake!
22:55 wtf is Dr Phil acting like her hitting him isnt a big deal and he shouldn't have called the police and in his words "you had the mother of your children arrested" &" bringing in a 3rd party" but supposedly is against DV and his wife runs a company for DV survivors 🤬
At the VERY moment I screamed the same thing, your post popped up. After hearing Dr Phil say that, I was furious. It is NEVER okay for someone to hit another. He was right to have it documented that she was violent towards him. She’s already posted to some MTV blog a solicitation to have her kids father beat up…next she’s going to solicit to have her kids father killed. 😡😡😡
Just from watching a little bit of this show, my thinking is this woman is crazy, narcissistic, vindictive, and she is the parent, in my opinion that needs to be monitored.
I'm dating a man who went through this with his ex wife. It was horrible how she tried to turn his two little boys against him. My boyfriend was in court almost every month as she tried to get full custody. This went on for years, the judges kept changjng, court dates delayed, he had mediation sessions numerous times, his ex didn't agree to anything. She played the victim role all of the time. Thank God the court finally saw through her lies and my boyfriend was given much more visitation. Unfortunately, it was too late for his oldest son, who is now 29. He wants nothing to do with his father and little to do with his mother. I am with boyfriend now 18 years and if I thought he was the guilty party I would have left him long ago. This woman on stage reminds me of what we went through. Hopefully this couple found some way to communicate and stop hurting their children .
This woman is presenting herself as a sociopathic liar. Also, the pediatrician is bound by law to contact CPS if she sees bruising on a child that can’t be reasonably explained. As a certified mandated reporter of child abuse, I’m held to that same law. It was then up to CPS to investigate and provide a determination. This Mom doesn’t realize that the kids can be taken from both parents and placed in foster care, which can then yield a long and arduous reunification process.
Dr Phil “ why did you call the police “ is dr Phil deaf! The women hit him he called the cops! He did what he should have done! Why is it okay for her to hit him and him not call the police but he can’t do the same
It would be impossible for any father to attempt to parent with someone as devious as she is! Great words form the Harvard educated lawyer and Dr Phil. However, the truth is when dealing with mental illness , addiction and hatred you are forced to video and protect yourself! In this case I am praying the father gets custody. Again great advice for 2 normal parents but not so much with one dealing with her mindset!
@IAmStayingAnonymous Nah, it's purely done on purpose in an attempt to make those listening feel sorry for her. It's an easy, affect to add without much cognitive load. It's one of the 1st things a person will do voluntarily OR involuntary to immediately gain sympathy or at least to get ppl who otherwise wouldn't listen, to pay attention...
I DO NOT BELIEVE A WORD THIS WOMAN SAYS. She cries and whines, but not a single tear comes out of her eyes. She is lying through her teeth. She hates her ex-husband more than she loves her children, and that is very very clear.
AFAIK, America is the only western country that relies on that witchcraft. Despite what tv, movies and Steve Wilkos will have you believe, it’s neither accurate nor reliable in any way.
This women is a psycho she is going to ruin her kids life and try and ruin her exes life she wants him back but he has become indifferent to her and she has no one to blame but herself because of her bad behaviour she's toxic.
Her ex is not a saint, and he probably crossed the line a few times himself, but I think this woman is a dangerous and bitter liar. I have no problem with recording others to protect myself. I'm with the father here.
That's not totally true if you are a really good liar they will believe you but if you are a bad liar they don't believe you it's just how you act pretty much
That's not true.. ex DIL accused me of abusing 3 of my grandchildren, and the judge believed her. It was not true, and to this day, all 3 who are now adults spend more time at my home than the exDIL home. Two of them never see her and one rarely. The kids always tell me Nan, you did nothing wrong; it was she that was abusive and that we still have PTSD from.
If she hit him? She deserves to be charged! Why is Dr. Phill questioning like this? If it was the other way, things would have been asked completely differently. As wood how he spoke to the perpetrator!
She's definitely an addict! Slurred speech, erratic behavior. This lady should never be trusted with those poor children. She's a terrible liar & manipulator. The ex husband has got to be so disgusted dealing with her craziness. I really feel sorry for the children 😢🙏🏼
Yes true but that's not really the case for all I have a disability I slurred my speech all the time and I'm not even trying to but either way i don't believe that lady she sounds really terrible liar to me she needs help and fast
His recording for protection doesn't have to be fair, its necessary to prove what might NOT have happened. Its only needed to dispute IF she lies on him, saying he hit her when he didnt.
The first couple? Yes she is bipolar and probably on meds. I have seen this robotic, speech tone, body mechanics in multiple women diagnosed bipolar and on multiple psychotic medications.
I'd say I hope she gets the help she obviously desperately needs, but I won't, because she doesn't think she needs it. Poor kids, they don't stand a chance.
I watch custody cases like this all the time and I kept saying your honor to Dr Phil 😂😂😂😂 but yeah she lying hard. Watching other custody cases will easily back that up
Why is there such leeway given to this woman. You out your hands on ANYONE-- you either get hit back or you go to jail. No female/male bs. Grow up, the real world is real….
It is against the law to assault someone. Idc if she didn’t split his lip, that is ridiculous Dr. Phil. If he would have hit her he would have been arrested.
This woman shouldn't have any contact with children. She is a liar, and probably a few other things as well. If she remains in her daughters' lives, they are going to be messed up. She needs help.
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She’s is so angry smh she clearly is brainwashing their daughters and it’s disgusting!!
She is crying the entire time without shedding a single tear!
I noticed that too, I feel like she is a huge manipulator. She couldn’t even fake cry!
EXACTLY. Dr. Phil sees right through her. She is scary.
they both are scary
she is using the children to satisfy her ego, at the same time she is killing the children 's future ahead of them, because these kids they always traumatized .
She is fake . Feel sorry for that guy who need to co-parenting with this cry women.
NOT ONE TEAR ROLLED DOWN THAT FACE 😂 She is actually insane.
Everyone just keeps repeating the same lol
I think she took fake cry lessons from ROBYN BROWN 😂 There I said it
She is... her deflection skills are incredible... yet so transparent
I think she is an absolute liar., And a manipulator
Speaking as the daughter of a person with SEVERE Borderline Personality Disorder, I wouldn’t be surprised if this woman was diagnosed with it. She’s got the signs.
I’m getting second hand embarrassment for her watching her fake cry and try to act like she isn’t lying straight through her teeth.
I think the husband is embarassed too. He can't look at her crocodile tears.
Sad because they hate each other more than they love their babies.... Horrible, and I truly hope they're both ashamed of themselves.
Amber turd vibes
Wonder what year this was filmed 😢 and where are they now 🤔 the children must be grown up now😮
Oh. My. God. Did he seriously just ask the ex husband WHY he called the police on the ex wife after she HIT HIM IN HIS FACE!! I’m disgusted, just because she’s a woman does NOT give her the right to lay hands on him, he had every right to call the cops! And that is so low to use those kids as pawns to try to make your point stick. And because she could so EASILY just claim that he hit her first and boom, he’s going to jail no proof needed, THATS why he records everything.
Why blaspheme? Use your mothers name instead.
@@freyamccauley ??? Huh?
I big reason why men do not like calling the police when they’re being abused by a woman. What Dr phil said was so wrong!!
I'm very disappointed with Phil, on the respect of a man not allow calling the police if a woman, hit him
@@freyamccauley. What are we 12 year olds?
That lady is a terrible liar. Nothing she says is believable. She's overly dramatic thinking that will make people believe her.
She is pretty damaged. Almost presents like she has a Histrionic Disorder.
Absolutely 😣Do you think she believes her lies or is she fully aware she's lying? Because...wow.
I don’t believe a word she is saying. Something is 100% shady about her.
@@mamc1986 totally agree!
@@mamc1986 I don't think anyone believed her, Dr. Phil definitely did not.
My counselor once said a " A good mom will always worry she's not a good enough. But a bad mom will never think twice about being a good mom" it's different for everyone. But from experience, my husband and my kids say I'm a good mom but I will always feel like I could do more and be better.
Same here! I recently took my 4m-old to her doctor, worried about how little she is and feeling like a failure as a mom, and his FIRST comment was what a happy baby she is-not how small she is.
She may be petite, but she’s healthy and enjoys life. I can’t tell you what that news means to me!!! I couldn’t see it myself until he said it because I have PROFOUND self-esteem issues. Lesson learned! I know parenthood is a lifelong endeavor and I will have to face down my MANY weaknesses every day. All we can do is our best, moment by moment.
PS other parents: I talk to my therapist every week and he uses a sliding payment scale. Therapy is a GREAT tool! So are online parenting classes. They’re free in my state, and you don’t have to have kids to take them! My husband and I started when I got pregnant, and are so glad we did. Ava is our first child, but even if we had kids before, we would have taken the classes. We ALL have room for improvement!
Bless you all, and especially your children. 🤍
Mom crying crocodile tears! I'm on the side of the father! 😊 Michael don't give up with your kids! ❤❤❤
I’m not saying Michael is 100% innocent, he may have done some things as revenge for the mother’s behaviour but I think he is much more honest than the mother. The fact that the courts gave him full custody of the kids shows that he is the better caregiver of those kids, without the mother’s coaching and brainwashing tactics.
@@Sam20201I wasn't so lucky. The courts don't always judge correctly, so your point is kinda moot
@@Sam20201exactly!
There actually wasn't any tears.
I wish I could cry without shedding a tear like that....what a talent!
Takes practice 😂😂😂
LOL,Right!!
She cries a lot but never sheds a tear.
EXACTLY!!!!!
Yup!!!
She is so manipulattivve. Always playing the victimm.
Not everyone can sheds a tear when they are crying
lols yes!!!
Oh. My. God. Did he seriously just ask the ex husband WHY he called the police on the ex wife after she HIT HIM IN HIS FACE!! I’m disgusted, just because she’s a woman does NOT give her the right to lay hands on him, he had every right to call the cops! And that is so low to use those kids as pawns to try to make your point stick. And because she could so EASILY just claim that he hit her first and boom, he’s going to jail no proof needed, THATS why he records everything.
EDIT: To add, I noticed just about everybody is saying how they feel about the ex wife. And the majority shows that she’s an absolute nut.
Ya, that was terrible! It was victim shaming and just because she didn’t hurt him doesn’t mean it’s not abuse. Neither of them are perfect but that was a horrible comment, Dr. Phil.
I agree! I was looking for this comment. People should not be shamed for reporting domestic abuse. It shows she’s violent and she shouldn’t be around children
I noticed dr phil often is too light on female abusers. It’s a shame
I agree. Women should not get a pass on abuse. If he smacked her in the face, everyone would tell her to press charges.
I agree 100%!! Men also are victims of domestic abuse. Dr Phils comment on this was very unprofessional.
This woman is a massive liar. She smirks when she lies and she cant shed a tear but she’s “crying”. Also, she’s absolutely still in love with him because only love can make hate like this.
That's not love my frieeend
💯 agree….this wannabe mother can’t love! She’s sick
Lol, that's what I was thinking, she's so full of BS.
@@Xouiuexo I think you misunderstand the comment. In order to hate someone so passionately, care so much about everything he does, she must still have emotions about him. If she were totally disengaged and couldn't care less, she'd be able to put the kids first, have a clearer mind and could make more rational decisions, without constantly crying or being snappy or landing her in jail. She is giving him ammunition. I have to agree with that sentiment that she is still very much emotionally involved about him.
“Only love can hate like this.” 😂
❤️🍀
If he didn’t record, he would be screwed.
That lady in the audience showed more genuine emotion for these kids than the actual mother did
Yes! She was not having it. The woman is still so obsessed with being a victim and getting back at her ex. She was pissed at her "You are the adult, YOU have to suck it up!" The audience member was 100% right. The mom is so selfish
Toxic take. Women are often expected to suffer for families. I'm not saying anyone is vetter or worse in this case, but in a general way, women are expected to "suck it up," no matter what is happening. The woman in the audience sounded more self-congratulatory to me. "Look at what a sainted martyr I am; you should try to be more like me. If you don't, you obviously suck, because I'm the best & the standard." Gross.
I thought it was an actress
@@sullyortiz3476could’ve been 😊
😂😂😂
She is the drama with no tears
The ex-husband looks tired to me. I think dealing with her and worrying about the children is doing him in!
She's Giving Psychotic Nightmare She Publicly Slandered Him Tried & To Get Him Jumped... Claimed That He Abused The Children & Animals Just To Get Caught Saying She Never Want To Leave Him 🤦🏾♀️
Yeah, she is a nightmare. She is another example of why millions of men choose to never marry. Many choose to not even commit.
Idk why dr phil randomly acts like this dude is in the wrong.? This lady is unhinged
Phil is absolutely wrong about the unfairness of his recording the ex. He has to do it to protect himself.
Spot on 👌 !
I would record her to protect myself.
Agreed. How else do you prove an abuser is abusive? Without recordings its he said-she said.
And gave him grief on getting her arrested 😮
She is lying! Wow...she thinks she can fool us.
It is ABSOLUTELY fair that he had to protect himself against any false accusations, threats, etc by recording phone calls and interactions… she could have done the same and should have if she was smart. When going thru something like this you record EVERYTHING!!! It’s obvious who the problem is!!!
Well we know why she didn't ...its because she knows it was pointless since there was NOTHING HE WAS DOING WRONG.
Dr Phil I find it unbelievable that you are challenging him on why he call the police on his ex wife. Imagine if he hit her, would you say to her why did you call the police? You realise that’s your kids father? Come on Dr Phil, no one should ever hit anyone.
I agree.
Facts. That should go both ways!!!
I agree . 100% she should be jailed . I get his point in the grand skeem of things the children suffer but she has to learn to keep her hands to her fucken self
I agree!
I agree! I can’t believe he was asking why you’d call the cops on someone who is hitting you
It’s the crying with no tears, and going back to straight face in a matter of seconds for me
31:53 "i have never once tried to take the children away from Michael" WHAT?? Lady, that statement you just said contradicted everything you've said in the past 30 minutes. What a disgusting liar.
I've found for years Dr. Phil doesn't recognize psychopaths. He is always wanting people to reconcile and both behave honourably. He holds them up to a moral standard when usually, one of the parties got into that situation by behaving honourably in the first place, whereas the other party simply does not have the capability to do so. Phil simply perpetuates the problem.
Thank you for saying that! This woman has an illness! Watch her marrying the new guy and have a child with him. If Dr.Phil still has his show when they divorce, he can have her on the show again - same story!
There’s a specific criteria for diagnosing a psychopath. Just because someone might have a mental illness or personality disorder does not mean they’re a psychopath. There’s definitely people that come on here with major issues, but psychopathy cannot be assumed for the vast majority of these people over a 45 minute program. A lot of narcissistic people are featured on this show, but that does not equate to psychopath. I see a lot of people calling her a psychopath, she is clearly not. She’s toxic and self centered in many aspects, definitely has faked her crying, but she is not a genuine psychopath. She clearly cares about her children, but she’s also inconsiderate of her ex husband’s crucial role as a parent in her children’s lives. Again, that does not equate to psychopath.
@@cyracandella2226 I was making a generalized statement about Dr. Phil. And I am sticking with it. I know I am not licensed to diagnose, and could not diagnose from a short video. And I also know that those who are licensed to, often cannot diagnose these types correctly either. I'm not new at this. I follow a definition by an expert and have a lot of years of experience in spotting them. There are many walking among us unrecognized. Most important ingredients: no empathy, no self awareness, no love, not even self-love. Sad, but true. (Edit for grammar)
I had buises all the time...falling from a tree I was climbing or climbing big rocks in the bush and slipping..things like that...My mother was a widow.She never hit me....not once
Speaking as the daughter of a person with SEVERE Borderline Personality Disorder, I wouldn’t be surprised if this woman was diagnosed with it. She’s got the signs.
She divorce him, begged him to take her back when he say no, she start fabricating child abuse. OMG
My thoughts also.
You are 💯 correct
Standard fare. I know a guy whose drunken ex-wife accused him of r@ping their daughter when she was ONE year old.
The girl grew up believing that vile lie, so Dr Phil is wrong is saying the children will find out sooner or later. Some may do, many don’t.
I hope his just lost his marbles to make such a statement. He should know better.
Their entire life is being aired out, I wouldn't be surprised if any one of you wasn't completely messed up.
N id like to know how the fiancee feels? They got engaged 9 days after the divorce was final! N to hear her conversation about wanting to get back together! So she must of been already cheating when she filed for the divorce.
This woman is an evil narcissist. She hugged and kissed her new boyfriend while staring right at the cameras for attention, just hoping her ex sees it. The entire time she fake cried and didn’t take accountability for one thing she’s done wrong. She never once expressed sympathy for her children. The father needs to have full custody, this woman is a danger to the children.
Lots of “crying” and not one tear. Scary woman.
was literally zooming in trying to see if i could catch any moisture on her cheek. nope
HE DID THE RIGHT THING IN RECORDING
Just sick how that “mother” when Dr. Phil started reading the daughters letter was pretending to cry until Dr. Phil called her out and she was dry as a bone all indignant looking and rolling her eyes like a 13 yr old herself. Narcissism is so horrible alone but when children are involved it’s absolutely wretched!
So now you are diagnosing
She has no right to hit him at all. What is next? Get him murdered? Dr. Phil should stop saying it is wrong for the ex husband to call a police cause he didn’t bleed. The wife is at wrong
Tell me phil. What should he do if he cant rec9rd? Let her lie and get him locked up? Huhhhhh shes a psycho
Spot on 👌 !
Good point!!!
I'm on board with him recording for sure. She's crazy
He can record, but he ought to let his ex wife know so that they're on equal ground. That's all Dr. Phil is suggesting.
Exactly
Why Dr Phil ok with women hitting men? If you hit someone then jail is consequences of those actions
I don't blame him for recording her when he has contact he has to protect himself so she can't lie about him .
Absolutely. I’ve had to do that myself when dealing with a sociopath. The police will almost invariably side with the woman unless there is proof.
Is that fair? Yes, when you’re dealing with threats and death threats. No one will ever believe you with the person’s own voice. No one. I hardly believed it myself.
How come Dr Phil can't process the obvious? This story and this type isn't exactly original. And then the show uses the very - and very damning - recordings Phil is so judgmental and pompous about. You think they're bad and 'unfair'? Don't air them then.
@canasta59 You're not the professional, he needs to do what he needs to do to get them both on track and do better. It's not your show.
@@Ninnjette- not yours either sweetie yet here you are dishing out the advice you think others can't or shouldn't. Hypocrite much?
So when the tape is off and he starts an argument then turns it on when he knows she's going to respond. Narcissistic
Narcissists destroy lives and she is one of them
I'm literally two minutes in and just going off by the way they are telling their stories, their demeanors and whatnot, he just comes off as so much more genuine and credible. Obviously I have barely started watching so I could be completely wrong but that's just my initial impression.
I absolutely agree her affect honestly makes me feel like she’s lying. I’m just being vicious and manipulative.
32:29 The way her hand starts shaking more and more when he reveals the OBVIOUS coaching or forging she did with the letter is just one example of how easy it is to see through her lies! 🤦♀️ I felt like the lady at 35:30-except this hit close to home for me because I grew up with it. I’d have just one thing to say to her:
*LOVE YOUR KIDS **_MORE_** THAN YOU HATE HIM!*
He has every right to record.
That girl is such a liar. You can certainly file a police report within 24 hours.
With small children and a custody battle, I believe that you definitely can.
I've literally NEVER heard of any police in any jurisdiction to say "you have to wait 24 hours to report this" even missing a persons unit have taken that rule off of their books. With an ongoing domestic violence, they definitely wouldn't stop you reporting something
That's what she says
@@morganlawrie1158some don't really listen at all
@@J.BK23 bro, you don’t listen she clearly said she had to wait 24 hours to report missing
WTF Dr Phil! Giving the guy a hard time for reporting her hitting him to the police??!! Reverse the roles and out comes Phil's "you don't ever, ever, put your hands on a ________ for any reason..." unfair, dude.
You are right
If he didn't record some of the exchanges, he would be rotting in prison and would have lost his kids.
Where he belongd
Why is DR. PHIL ASKING THE FATHER WHY HE CALL THE POLICE… BECAUSE SHE SLAP HIM. IF IT WAS A WOMAN IT WOULD BE OK. DR. PHIL IS WRONG.
SO WRONG OF HIM TO ASK HIM THAT
Spot on 👌 !
I agree. I thought it was stupid of Dr. Phil to say “you put her in jail for a night”, no, she put herself in jail for a night because she hit her ex-husband!!
💯 Dr. Phil and the mother are wrong
I agree that violence and physical abuse is never okay, no matter if the perpetrator is a woman or a man. However, a man is much stronger and bigger than a woman. I am not saying it is okay for a woman to hit or be physically abusive. However, a man hitting a woman causes serious damage. A man can hold a woman down and not allow her to get away. If a woman starts hitting a man, the woman is not as strong and the man can get away.
Dr Phil dropped the ball on this one. Ex wife is clearly psychotic and evil. Recording saved this guy from prison, absolutely nothing wrong with recording interactions in this situation. He has every right to have her arrested for assault regardless of what injuries he had or her parental status. That question would never be asked to a woman
The shocked look on the man's face was duly noted.
if the court gave HIM full custody 4 SEPARATE TIMES with her only getting visitation, something is wrong with her she's lying
@@ghostsandgraveyards2888 That is NOT true!
@swimfast724 That’s so true! They almost never favor the woman. As a divorced man in Texas it is GUILTY until proven INNOCENT for the man
@@ghostsandgraveyards2888yeah sorry that’s horsesh*t. It’s a woman’s court
@@ghostsandgraveyards2888women absolutely get the benefit of the doubt in family court.
@@ghostsandgraveyards2888This is absolutely true in criminal court and partially true in family law. Money always gets you further than someone without money BUT typically, at least in California where I live, custody battles are almost always in the mother's favor
She's a Narcissist. It honestly shows in her voice. She is a master manipulator.
Every question dr phil asked the mom she has lied. She's not stable
🙏
Very true
She’s two pills short of bunnies in a pot.
Every time she lies she shuts her eyes, no tears when she cries. Don't believe a word that comes out her mouth.
Getting full on Amber Heard vibes from the mom.
I was thinking the same thing.
Exactly 👌 !
So true!
Though not quite as good of an actress. At least Amber could conjure up tears.
Yesssss! I could not place it but YES!
That woman is a liar. I completely understand why he recorded her. Someone told him to document everything. I haven't had contact with our 3 boys in 8 years, because of someone just like her. I pray every day our boys will figure it out. 😢
They won't figure out what you want them to figure out if you have had zero contact in eight years. There's zero excuse for no contact with 3 children in 8 years.
Police investigators record calls all the time, without the suspect knowing. So what Phil. The man is legally covering his butt.
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The police are a neutral party. They are not recording a conversation between officers and a suspect, they are recording a suspect’s conversations trying to investigate a crime. When they do have a conversation between officers and a suspect, like during an interrogation, it is a legal requirement that both parties are fully aware of the recording. Even when they are recording people without their knowledge, there is a tough procedure they have to go through to exercise that investigative tool. It is no small thing to invade people’s privacy, I don’t know if your comment is a joke or not, maybe it is.
You completely missed the point.
@@joeyg448 recoreded a lunatic ex of my sons and i thank God i did becaise she admitted evrrything she was gona do to my family because my son wouldnt take her back.EVERYTHING she tried to accuse each family member of to the police i had a weeks worth of phone calls to give them to listen to. One detective said himself had he of not heard what id recorded he wouldnt of believed me as the girl comes across as plausable..without the recordings itd of been a heck of a fight to prove our innocence. So yes record whomevers gona try wreck your life
It depends on the state. Some states are one party consent and others are two party consent.
Crying but no tears. I feel sorry for everyone but we can tell she’s the one lying.
The daughter did not write that letter. Despicable woman
Of course, she didn't. The mother is poisonous and in the kids ear.
Did you see how much her hand was shaking when “Dr” Phil pulled that letter out
Yes or the therapist who is playing out her agenda of issues with males.
The therapist put the letter together with the comments of the child. We do that sometimes
@@bonniegalliers1956 that may be, but I truly believe that the ex wife coached that child, or with how psycho she is, probably threatened
If a man had hit a woman in the face and she called the police, nobody would ask her whether he split her lip or why would you bring the law into it. That's so wrong. It doesn't matter how much damage was done. That woman is unhinged and I would not allow her any leeway. If she doesn't want to get carted off to jail because of her kids, she should behave like a mother
Edit. She has put on an act the entire time. Crying with no tears, pity plays that fool nobody and she is just a despicable human being who is poisoning her childrens' minds against their father, it is so obvious
Dri Phil making out its not fair he's recording her but I would have done the same thing, the police and the courts are always going to side with the mother so him collecting evidence only seems prudent...his only mistake is not having visual to go with the audio.
She accuses him of abusing the children, yet say she never tried to keep the kids from him. If she truly believed he was abusive towards them, why would she not try to keep them away from him?
She’s a narcissist, 100%!
she is!!!!
A narcissist cannot bare it if the person they want to control over wants nothing to do with them . A narcissist will never ever think that’s what they are. It’s always someone else fault
Rather borderline
@@debbiechrysler3461she is out of control casting blame on him to satisfy her obstinate need to get control over him! She whines accuses him of physical abuse and lies about it!
It seems she is working to ac use him of child abuse and turn the children against their doctor! She is a major lisr and should not have custody ! This man is right the Mom is a lying abuser and should not be allowed to have custody of the children! Tearless crying shows she is a lisr and whining is fake!
22:55 wtf is Dr Phil acting like her hitting him isnt a big deal and he shouldn't have called the police and in his words "you had the mother of your children arrested" &" bringing in a 3rd party" but supposedly is against DV and his wife runs a company for DV survivors 🤬
I get fed up of the double standards
At the VERY moment I screamed the same thing, your post popped up. After hearing Dr Phil say that, I was furious. It is NEVER okay for someone to hit another. He was right to have it documented that she was violent towards him. She’s already posted to some MTV blog a solicitation to have her kids father beat up…next she’s going to solicit to have her kids father killed. 😡😡😡
Isn’t dr Phill a 3rd party?
Just from watching a little bit of this show, my thinking is this woman is crazy, narcissistic, vindictive, and she is the parent, in my opinion that needs to be monitored.
Of course he should record her! She's unhinged. Guys....you should record your volatile partners, it could save you from jail.
she is such a liar. she needs to loose custody of those kids
No problem recording. Always safer when dealing with someone who lies.
Protecting yourself by recording is just part of self defense.
I realize this episode was many, many years ago but I need an UPDATE!!!
I'm dating a man who went through this with his ex wife. It was horrible how she tried to turn his two little boys against him. My boyfriend was in court almost every month as she tried to get full custody. This went on for years, the judges kept changjng, court dates delayed, he had mediation sessions numerous times, his ex didn't agree to anything. She played the victim role all of the time. Thank God the court finally saw through her lies and my boyfriend was given much more visitation. Unfortunately, it was too late for his oldest son, who is now 29. He wants nothing to do with his father and little to do with his mother. I am with boyfriend now 18 years and if I thought he was the guilty party I would have left him long ago. This woman on stage reminds me of what we went through. Hopefully this couple found some way to communicate and stop hurting their children .
This woman appears to have quite an agenda going.... deep deep anger
This would have gone in a very different direction if the roles were flipped
This woman is presenting herself as a sociopathic liar. Also, the pediatrician is bound by law to contact CPS if she sees bruising on a child that can’t be reasonably explained. As a certified mandated reporter of child abuse, I’m held to that same law. It was then up to CPS to investigate and provide a determination. This Mom doesn’t realize that the kids can be taken from both parents and placed in foster care, which can then yield a long and arduous reunification process.
I don’t think the mom care if they both lose the kids.
Yes and a disastrous outcome for the children
Dr Phil “ why did you call the police “ is dr Phil deaf! The women hit him he called the cops! He did what he should have done! Why is it okay for her to hit him and him not call the police but he can’t do the same
I wouldn’t trust this woman with my guppy.
I hope he got the girls full time, she seems crazy
And mean!
She’s definitely doing all the wrong things
I’ve never seen anyone cry so much without shedding a single tear. 🙄
34:53 no way. a 13 year old did not write that. that is fake
Edit: someone said it was 11 not 13 but either way
11
@@SabrinaLWilliamsno way an 11 year old wrote that, it's fake
It would be impossible for any father to attempt to parent with someone as devious as she is! Great words form the Harvard educated lawyer and Dr Phil. However, the truth is when dealing with mental illness , addiction and hatred you are forced to video and protect yourself! In this case I am praying the father gets custody. Again great advice for 2 normal parents but not so much with one dealing with her mindset!
The affected, vocal fry, low volume voice - Dead giveaway for lying & manipulation...EVERY SINGLE DAY ALL DAY LONG
For sure
I assumed the vocal fry was from opiates 🤷
@IAmStayingAnonymous Nah, it's purely done on purpose in an attempt to make those listening feel sorry for her. It's an easy, affect to add without much cognitive load. It's one of the 1st things a person will do voluntarily OR involuntary to immediately gain sympathy or at least to get ppl who otherwise wouldn't listen, to pay attention...
Dr. Phil got this one wrong.
She’s such a liar and her fake crying is so telling.
I DO NOT BELIEVE A WORD THIS WOMAN SAYS. She cries and whines, but not a single tear comes out of her eyes. She is lying through her teeth. She hates her ex-husband more than she loves her children, and that is very very clear.
Lady's body language is telling. Protect them from their father? I see wickedness and evil.
😂
The mother is so intent of hurting her x husband because she still wants him back, every word out of her mouth is a lie.
That woman is so full of venom.
She's exactly like my girls mother. Vengeful women like this are so dangerous and bring misery all round for their own twisted needs
I was hoping for a lie detector test so badly.
AFAIK, America is the only western country that relies on that witchcraft. Despite what tv, movies and Steve Wilkos will have you believe, it’s neither accurate nor reliable in any way.
This woman acts like she has a substance issue. She appears very selfish and angry. The fiancé needs to run,
This women is a psycho she is going to ruin her kids life and try and ruin her exes life she wants him back but he has become indifferent to her and she has no one to blame but herself because of her bad behaviour she's toxic.
Her ex is not a saint, and he probably crossed the line a few times himself, but I think this woman is a dangerous and bitter liar. I have no problem with recording others to protect myself. I'm with the father here.
If the court doesn’t believe you , that means you are lying lady🤣🤪
That's not totally true if you are a really good liar they will believe you but if you are a bad liar they don't believe you it's just how you act pretty much
That's not true.. ex DIL accused me of abusing 3 of my grandchildren, and the judge believed her. It was not true, and to this day, all 3 who are now adults spend more time at my home than the exDIL home. Two of them never see her and one rarely. The kids always tell me Nan, you did nothing wrong; it was she that was abusive and that we still have PTSD from.
If she hit him? She deserves to be charged! Why is Dr. Phill questioning like this? If it was the other way, things would have been asked completely differently. As wood how he spoke to the perpetrator!
She's definitely an addict! Slurred speech, erratic behavior. This lady should never be trusted with those poor children. She's a terrible liar & manipulator. The ex husband has got to be so disgusted dealing with her craziness. I really feel sorry for the children 😢🙏🏼
her home interview I also noticed she was slurring and her speech was slow. I feel sorry for those kids as well!
Yep, she’s definitely still using something.
Did you notice how badly she's shaking? Either drugs, anger or fear (fear of being caught in a lie?).
Yes true but that's not really the case for all I have a disability I slurred my speech all the time and I'm not even trying to but either way i don't believe that lady she sounds really terrible liar to me she needs help and fast
An addict!!! 😂😂😂, what are you on !!!🙄
His recording for protection doesn't have to be fair, its necessary to prove what might NOT have happened. Its only needed to dispute IF she lies on him, saying he hit her when he didnt.
Something wrong this lady !
And Dr Phil, too. He’s not the man he used to be.
Would he EVER ask a woman who was beaten or slapped in the face why she called the police?
The first couple? Yes she is bipolar and probably on meds. I have seen this robotic, speech tone, body mechanics in multiple women diagnosed bipolar and on multiple psychotic medications.
Is she on drugs
I'd say I hope she gets the help she obviously desperately needs, but I won't, because she doesn't think she needs it. Poor kids, they don't stand a chance.
This woman is pure looney tunes! Poor children. Her fiancé knows this but is weak. She has issues.
I watch custody cases like this all the time and I kept saying your honor to Dr Phil 😂😂😂😂 but yeah she lying hard. Watching other custody cases will easily back that up
That woman plays "poor pitiful me", all too well.
Why is there such leeway given to this woman. You out your hands on ANYONE-- you either get hit back or you go to jail. No female/male bs. Grow up, the real world is real….
It’s all that male privilege. Oh wait….
It is against the law to assault someone. Idc if she didn’t split his lip, that is ridiculous Dr. Phil. If he would have hit her he would have been arrested.
She's not a good person.
You think?
Lord she is sanctimonious
I came from an abusive home. Dr Phil I DO NOT AGREE WITH THE WAY YOU HANDLED THIS INTERVIEW. Not a Dr. just one who lived it.
Mom is a " Liar" !!!
This woman shouldn't have any contact with children. She is a liar, and probably a few other things as well. If she remains in her daughters' lives, they are going to be messed up. She needs help.
Those poor kids.
Dr Phil would never say why call the police if she was the one who got slap in the face . This means men should tolerate everything from women.
She is so evil
Evil walks among us.
Pointedly fighting to the end without seeing the big picture, sigh...Judge Judy originally comes from family court & as shrill as she is, I like that she once said, You have to love your children more than you hate each other. Truth!❤
The Father should get full custody and the Mother supervised visitation.
They both need a court ordered evaluation, drug and alcohol to be fair. If they pass, then court ordered therapy.