If she misses their wedding, rejects their son and insults the wife at their own home, she doesn't deserves to be in that child's life. And the husband needs to defend his family.
You’re wrong bc if you listened she’s not intentionally being rude. And the Dtr in law has not been an angel either. She has work to do as well. The mother in law’s just a little off but she means well. 36:19
@@ssgundes1she means well? Calling her the spawn of Satan? She’s obviously not mentally well and unless she seeks professional help she wouldn’t be within 500 feet of my grandson
I don't see that at all. We must have watched different episodes. I didn't see any kindness from mil, not one bit. But ppl can make changes it is up to the mil to make those changes. The dil has been put through the ringer. She did feed into the mils craziness but it's up to the mil not to be crazy @ssgundes1
I had a wonderful MIL. She passed away in 2009 and she treated me like her daughter from the first time my husband took me to meet her. She never created problems for he and I. Every time I spoke to her and every time I left her house we told each other we loved each other. I was very blessed.
Aww, mines was some what like this she tried her best, but the world and sin plus the devil has a way of getting the best of people. So I understood that, if we can just hear the word and believe in our Savior it would be beautiful, but unfortunately some won't, so we must be the light to uplift people and show out love because he first loved us while we were still sinners 😢. That change can happen but don't lose your boundaries and don't let people take advantage of you. God is the punisher and he is JUST. I pray for people to be saved and I help them see the love of Jesus in me, and I read and learn, I I've been transformed by the RENEWING of my mind, and I know how this world can manipulate our minds 😢. So to all who read this there is hope, it's in Jesus ❤.
The husband is not to blame. The two women are responsible for their own behavior. They don’t listen to him or Dr Phil. They are grown women so let them take responsibility for their behavior.
@@Jezebellum-l2u Women think they know everything so take responsibility like a big girl. These two “women” act like fools and then get to blame the man. If I was him I’d leave them both. Women never listen to men.
I dream of that. I had issues w/ my MIL. I tried to set healthy boundaries. Hopefully you won't get pulled into family court based on false allegations like I did. Then all rules and protection go out the window. Relationships are severed and the toxicity continues. Protect your family, stay informed, and keep your feet planted firm at all costs. ❤️🙏🏼
I put a like on your comment because every opinion is valid,but tell ya this the Husband getting involved could make him HAVE to choose I personally think it's a smart move,who wants to have to choose between the Mother that gave you life or the woman that gave you a child,Just batton down the hatches and duck for cover and let the Horricaine pass over>I know the Mother is probably thinking,what is this tall beautiful woman wanting from my Son.
Messing with furniture or the kitchen of another woman's house without invitation is the biggest middle finger to the woman of that house and everyone knows it. The problems with Kathy will not be over anytime soon.
@@UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8mdWHY: The root cause is that women don't do well without a husband. Mom doesn't have a husband. It's unnatural and a result of feminists who hate women.
My mother-in-law was extremely difficult. I simply couldn't understand why. My husband told her that she needed to accept that he loved me, and decided to see her as little as possible. She asked if he would be a witness in a case dating back years. We travelled to be there. She had a room prepared for us. Next day my husband's testimony was perfect. The judge ruled for mil, and granted her a large compensation package. She went home happy & we followed later. Arrived and found hubby's ex girlfriend there. Mil had invited her. Thank God my husband was furious. Mil had planned it. He took my hand & we went and packed. We left. Mil sent a letter of vague apology, and a very generous cheque. We emigrated.
SAME! The husband should tell her that until she changes, she's not welcome in their home. They should go visit her once a year, unless she acts badly. And they should stay in a hotel or air B&B, but not with her. My own MIL was a covert narcissist (the MIL on the show is an overt one), and she made 3 of her 4 DIL's lives miserable. The 4th fawned over her, so MIL favored her. I finally set boundaries, only visiting for holidays for a few hours. We only lived a few doors from them, so I'd just leave, but told my husband and kids they could stay. When she died, my first thought was, "I'm free!" My marriage improved dramatically after her death. Interestingly, my eldest daughter said she refers to my Mom (also dead) as Nice Grandma, and my MIL as Evil Grandma.
@@LisaFerguson-lw8ilAnd, the moral of the story is YOU took the money and put a wedge in the family. You probably left out he had a child by his ex!? Some thing off about the story.
and a malignant narcissist at that, a really disgusting sub human. Her son was raised by that demon, he must have CPTSD from growing up with that thing.
Narcissistic mother jealous ..trying to destroy all the relationships… the truth is everything mother says to daughter in law at the beginning.. is mirroring ..and everything SHE is doing
lets not say the daughter in law is telling truth had a daughter in law who had her own interpretation of events, 30 yrs later my son saw truth when he finds out she has been having affair for several yrs
My MIL would verbally abuse me, but I never told my husband. He overheard her on day and told her if she can't be nice to me, she not welcome in our home. She never returned.👏😁
@@debrafields5053WHY: The root cause is that women don't do well without a husband. Mom doesn't have a husband. It's unnatural and a result of feminists who hate women.
The mother in laws attitude is spiteful, cynical, petty and she was restraining from lashing out while trying to make herself look innocent to no avail. This is her son's fault for not laying out some rules right from the beginning.
I lost my mother in law about 6 years ago🥲 She was the most sweetest, caring, loving woman I ever met! She was more a mum to me than my own mum! She always stood up for me. She would actually tell her own son of if she thought he had done me wrong. She was a very special woman and I still miss her till this day🙁
Same here. I lost mine in 2021 and I was divorcing her son. She stayed in touch with me and she is truly missed. Sorry for your loss hun. God bless you and your family.
My ex mother-in-law didn’t like me at all. I never did anything to the woman, but she played favorites so my ex sister-in-law was her favorite. Until she saw the other side of her then all of a sudden she liked me really sad. My ex-husband was trying so hard for her to like him, it was really sad situation
Took my husband ONE time to put his mom in her place (in regards to how she treats me/our daughter and i now come first). She quickly learned, get with it, or get on. No one should ever have to put up with that toxic sh**.
As a mother in law to this mother in law, you wouldn't even close your mouth long enough to let Dr. Phil give you good advice. You always have to have the last word. Your son is grown. If he makes a mistake in his life, it is his to make. But if he does make a mistake, and you treat him with no respect, he will not come to you.
@@foechicken8023WHY: The root cause is that women don't do well without a husband. Mom doesn't have a husband. It's unnatural and a result of feminists who hate women.
This mother is outright embarrassing. What a controlling vindictive woman. I feel sorry for the couple. But then the man needs to stand up to his mother and tell her to back off or else.
I can't see the relationship lasting. He's not strong enough and the wife is fighting for herself and for him. She'll get tired of it and will resent not having him put her first.
I agree. When you get married and have a family, you leave your mother and father and become one with your wife/husband. You need to have their back. At the end of the day, they are the one you have chosen to live the rest of your life with. Treat them with respect, love ,dignity, and be loyal. Keep the communication and laughs happening. Never lose that sense of humour or the ability to laugh at yourself. Never let the sun go down on your anger. That's the secret.
The mom will always come 1st,that's your blood ,mom's have a 6th sense almost and something must be off about his wife and what mom wants her son to be with a lazy person.
@@jd-it4onoh bull. If that’s what you think, he’ll be single the rest of his life trying to keep pleasing his momma. No woman wants to deal with a mommas boy. When my kids got married, their spouses are their #1 priority, I wouldn’t want it any other way.
The shock and disappointment in her eyes when he showed the test results tells you everything. Shes one of those devouring mothers where no woman is good enough for her son.
My mother in law is the sweetest, most giving person I know. She will drop everything to help me and never judges me if my house is messy. She doesn’t overstep boundaries, if anything she tries to not overstep so much that we have to assure her that calling us just to chat is ok and she is not bothering us. When my father in law had cancer, she let me step in and help without any hesitation. My husband is an only child and she genuinely has just opened up completely to me as if I was their daughter. I hate that not everyone gets the gem I landed ❤
First mother-in-law doesn't want to see the mother of her grandson? Then she does not get to see the grandson. Keep this poor boy away from this crazy witch.
@@UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8mdWHY: The root cause is that women don't do well without a husband. Mom doesn't have a husband. It's unnatural and a result of feminists who hate women.
My ex-husband's mother rearranged furniture, threw away food, had the house painted while I was at work, etc, with my ex telling me don't worry about it. I left after 3 years, I could not do the quiet anymore. The ulcer was killing me
Yes I said that too. She is projecting off her feelings onto her daughter in law. She is the one making things up and believing her own lies even the son couldn't back up what he supposedly said to her. The mother is a liar & a trouble maker it really comes across.
This is on the husband. He made his choice when he committed in marriage to his wife. If he’s happily married to her then he needs to stick by her 100%! It’s up to the MIL to keep her mouth shut and respect the boundaries, period. A spouse can only take so much.
Wild? Disgusting. U c how being her son still affects him as it did as a child. 1st, it pissed me off😮 a bit when he sat there quiet with his head down. I get it now. Mom & Son need some serious help. No offense to Mom & son. Being sincere..
The guy liked his strong mom and that's why he chose a strong woman as his wife. There is hardly any way the 2 ladies will get to like each other! Mom is trying to get attention from her kids - mo matter how. She dedicated her entire life to her children and forgot to also have a life of her own. That's the whole tragedy summarized...
@@bcpr9812And sadly there are too many of em....ppl like that are why Jesus Christ talked about the wedding parable of a man wearing his own clothes (self righteousness) to the wedding and he was thrown out.
My God does this woman ever shut up she is so rude she interrupts no wonder the daughter-in-law can't stand her I can't stand her and I don't even know her
I'm so blessed!! I absolutely love, appreciate and adore my in-laws!!!! They are the kindest, sweetest, loving human beings I've ever had the honor of having in my life!! I'm the lucky one!!
That marriage won’t last the course, he’s not sticking up for her and letting his mother destroy his wife’s mental health. They need to cut the cord, it’s amazing how accusers consider someone sticking up for themself as being aggressive. She’s raised her family to do as she says and won’t accept she’s the problem. The husband needs to man up quick
The husband is so bland and weak, he needed to man up. The monster-in-law, is so toxic and narcissistic. She's the type of women who give christians a bad name. Love to see a follow-up.
This mother-in-law interrupted Dr. Phil so many times. Her lack of polite manners exposes her selfish personality. I believe everything that the daughter-in-law said. If MoL is this rude in front of the audience and the cameras, I assume that she is even worse at home.
The difference between these two ladies, the wife takes accountability and apologizes for her wrongdoings. Not once in this whole show did his mother apologize or admit wrongdoings. The MIL is a disgusting narcissist!
EXACTLY!! She's SO arrogant and self-righteous, critical, judgmental, and condemning. And I'll tell you what--I'm a Christian, and I see nothing in the MIL that makes me think she's a true Christian. She's certainly not concerned with her DIL's salvation, bc the love of Christ is what wins people to the Lord. In Christian circles, she's what we call a Pharisee, like the religious leaders whom Jesus condemned for their knowledge of the Law of Moses but having no knowledge of the heart of God, and for their arrogance and pride over their position and false piety. They loved the power that came with their position, but did not truly love or know God. A true Christian will weep over their own sin. That woman couldn't even admit she'd done anything wrong, ever!
Mother-in-law is precisely the kind of religious product that make me an atheist. My values are Christian but I do not believe in an all controlling God. I believe I am totally responsible for my own behaviour. I believe that Jesus was a man who laid out wonderful values and behaved kindly and compassionately towards people. This mother-in-law is a dogmatic horrible woman.
The daughter in law SITS on a gay friends lap so it's OK. The mother in law rearranged the sitting room due to daughter in laws bad back and expecting company....The son is on his second marriage so he may be the problem. Dr Phil acts like he's the expert so God help any in law who would try to disagree with his house hold.
This mother in law is vicious , rude and very disrespectful . And she keeps saying how good of Christian she is , that confused me , because I think any nice people will not call your own daughter in law a horrible name .
The mother-in-law is awful but the husband is worse for allowing his mother to treat his wife so badly. He needs to grow a pair and go low contact with his controlling mother.
@@TihnieSo many WOMEN fail to realize this. I have watched hundreds of videos where the man is to blame. That man was raised in his mother's care. That is his normal. He has never been taught how to stand up for himself let alone to his mother! Furthermore, if a man does stand up to a woman he's automatically labeled as misogynistic, abusive, and a narcissist. If he doesn't stand up for his wife then he's labled as a momma's boy. I have already scrolled through the comments and without hesitation, the man is to blame! You are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT, he doesnt control either one of them!! WOMEN need to hold other WOMEN ACCOUNTABLE!!!
One of the times my MIL was being hateful to me (in my own house) my husband stood up and told her”she’s my wife, she will always be my wife and if you don’t like it there’s the door don’t let it hit you on your way out.” That’s what a REAL man does. If he hadn’t done that we would never have stayed married, 43 yrs and going strong.
What a horrible woman. I wouldn’t let my son to have a relationship with such a grandma. He has other grandparents to build a relationship with. She is a person full of venom.
Geez. I live in a cottage on my daughter and son-in-law's property. I go into their house to do the laundry. I wouldn't dare touch anything. It's called respect and boundaries. When you start crossing boundaries, you're setting yourself up for conflict.
You and I both know we wouldn't be able to get that narc to apologise lol. The only way to exist with them is with strong boundaries. And not taking the bait.
Seems staged to me. Like a lot of his guests are playing a role. But, if this is real she better just divorce him now. Because that mother will never stop. It'll only get worse as she ages
That's how my late MIL was. She was jealous of all of us except the oldest son's wife. That one catered to her. She found many ways to let the DILs know that we were not the same as her sons.
Mom should get out of their life. None of their problems for themselves or the child will be her fault. I'm sorry bozo can't figure it out. He is married to his wife, not his mother. Mom can pray for them and the child. In 20 years, she can try to have a relationship. Much wisdom will not be given to the child. The child will suffer. I don't believe the wife should exclude grandma and still expect gifts from her at holidays.
What sort of person says ," I will mop the floor with her " should be ashamed ....husband obviously made into whimp by his overbearing mother ,stick up for your wife
Yes I feel that too. She was hiding behind "god" and projecting onto her daughter in law. The husband/son needs to grow a pair set a boundary and put a stop to his mother over stepping. Like Dr Phil said he has to handle his people and vise versa for anyone coming at their marriage.
I’m reading just a small amount of comments and I want to comment on them but there is heapsss saying the same thing and I TOTALLY AGREE! This guy should have more respect for his wife and not allow his mother mouth off at her! Some of the mother in laws behaviour is disgusting 🤮 this poor wife, she is beautiful and deserves more from her husband ❤
This is her sons family. The son needs to stand up for his wife and son. Period. He needs to set boundaries and mom needs to respect them. He married her and is the head of the house. He’s not picking sides by doing that. He’s just taking the lead of his household.
The mother in law figures she knows everything and is always right, she is insufferable and controlling and she wants her son to take care of her, not the other woman. Clearly she doesn’t have a husband, I wonder why!?
After what she did, what she said, this mother in law should never be alowed in the house of this young couple. I would divorce this passive, useless husband.
If he didn’t straighten this out with his mother, I would give him one more chance to tell her if she attacks his wife again, she will no longer be welcome in their lives. She is out of control and needs to be told to butt out or get out.
The mother in law takes ZERO accountability for anything she has done. At least the daughter in law has insight and can admit her role in the situation. The mother in law is unbearable and the husband is just weak.
The mother in law is so vile. Claims to be Christian but doing evil things. Shame on you Narcissist MIL. Take care Angie. You are brave and strong woman. I hope your son will grow up like you, and not like his weak father.
I think Dr. Phil was 100% incorrect to encourage that woman to be in the child's life. If I were that daughter in law, I would be just fine with her living out of state.
The mother-in-law is hateful and Dr. Phil added 0 value to their situation. He didn't even address the reality of the effects on the grandson if she believed he wasn't her son's and she despises his mother. I guarantee you that shows up inhow she treats and talks to him. If I was the wife I wouldnt trust her around my son at all.
@@mickieerickson7267oh my gosh I forgot about that. Plus filming the son and dil in their bed? Just disrobing in the presence of a 3yo is enough to have her register as a child pred.
@@bonniebloom4953 Same here! I must have immediately tossed that sick visual right out of memory. That's weird beyond weird. Look at my previous comment, before I read and commented on this sub-thread - about thinking M-i-L let sonny boy sleep in her bed until he was a teenager. This just adds more fuel to it. 💯%
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I wouldn't want this woman anywhere NEAR my children, no matter if she's related or not!
If she misses their wedding, rejects their son and insults the wife at their own home, she doesn't deserves to be in that child's life. And the husband needs to defend his family.
You’re wrong bc if you listened she’s not intentionally being rude. And the Dtr in law has not been an angel either. She has work to do as well. The mother in law’s just a little off but she means well.
36:19
@@ssgundes1she means well? Calling her the spawn of Satan? She’s obviously not mentally well and unless she seeks professional help she wouldn’t be within 500 feet of my grandson
I don't see that at all. We must have watched different episodes. I didn't see any kindness from mil, not one bit. But ppl can make changes it is up to the mil to make those changes. The dil has been put through the ringer. She did feed into the mils craziness but it's up to the mil not to be crazy @ssgundes1
Yes, well said.
And the rearranging of the house?!!
What's that about...
It's not "nice", it's RUDE.
son needs to grow a set!!
I had a wonderful MIL. She passed away in 2009 and she treated me like her daughter from the first time my husband took me to meet her. She never created problems for he and I. Every time I spoke to her and every time I left her house we told each other we loved each other. I was very blessed.
Aww, mines was some what like this she tried her best, but the world and sin plus the devil has a way of getting the best of people. So I understood that, if we can just hear the word and believe in our Savior it would be beautiful, but unfortunately some won't, so we must be the light to uplift people and show out love because he first loved us while we were still sinners 😢. That change can happen but don't lose your boundaries and don't let people take advantage of you.
God is the punisher and he is JUST.
I pray for people to be saved and I help them see the love of Jesus in me, and I read and learn, I I've been transformed by the RENEWING of my mind, and I know how this world can manipulate our minds 😢. So to all who read this there is hope, it's in Jesus ❤.
You probably contributed as well. You seem like an appreciative, good person.
I'm really happy for you. My own MIL made her family miserable and drove a wedge between "my boys" and us wives. After she died, my marriage improved.
Same
I love mine
@@paxsmile I like to think I did. I was as good to her, as she was to me.
The husband is entirely to blame. The mother wouldn't be overstepping the mark unless he allowed it
The husband is not to blame. The two women are responsible for their own behavior.
They don’t listen to him or Dr Phil.
They are grown women so let them take responsibility for their behavior.
@@debrafields5053 Obviously you weren't listening to Dr Phil either.
@@Jezebellum-l2u Women think they know everything so take responsibility like a big girl. These two “women” act like fools and then get to blame the man. If I was him I’d leave them both. Women never listen to men.
Truth
He didn't say much@@Jezebellum-l2u
No husband should ever allow his mother to treat his wife like that!!!! EVER!!!
My mother in law literally pretends that me and my child don't exist. But she calls the ex wife from 17 years ago.
@@amyb9037
She's demented.
Amen
Some will always hang onto mama’s tit. And the mother in law should know better.
Mine did
I'm disappointed that Dr. Phil didn't address the psychological abuse that this mother-in-law has put in this poor woman. This was sickening to watch.
It is sickening.
Because she didn’t do that. 😂
That woman would never be allowed anywhere near me, my child, my home. If hubby doesn't agree, the same goes for him.
Absolutely that husband maybe will never be...
Exactly 💯
I dream of that.
I had issues w/ my MIL. I tried to set healthy boundaries. Hopefully you won't get pulled into family court based on false allegations like I did. Then all rules and protection go out the window. Relationships are severed and the toxicity continues. Protect your family, stay informed, and keep your feet planted firm at all costs. ❤️🙏🏼
❤
AMEN!
Husband is a spineless wimp....mom is a drama seeking control freak
I put a like on your comment because every opinion is valid,but tell ya this the Husband getting involved could make him HAVE to choose I personally think it's a smart move,who wants to have to choose between the Mother that gave you life or the woman that gave you a child,Just batton down the hatches and duck for cover and let the Horricaine pass over>I know the Mother is probably thinking,what is this tall beautiful woman wanting from my Son.
Yes he is and she could do TONS better than him…if he truly loved his wife he’d put his mother in her place!!!!!!!
Explains why he’s like that!
Typical woman
@lisalambrecht6676 too many feminists broke him down.
Her “so-called husband” needs to SERIOUSLY GROW A PAIR !!!!!!
Messing with furniture or the kitchen of another woman's house without invitation is the biggest middle finger to the woman of that house and everyone knows it. The problems with Kathy will not be over anytime soon.
Her entitlement is mind blowing.
Right, how dare she?? Who does that??? I would never invade anyone's privacy or cross boundaries like that. That's terrible.
What about the wife saying she had back problems?
@@tamra9867
So? Thats not an invitation, when my SIL got pregnant i helped her exactly how she wanted to help…
@@tamra9867 That was just the MIL's excuse.
The man is so weak. No man should let their mom treat so disgustingly their wife.
Pathetic.
Yeppp
@@UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8mdWHY: The root cause is that women don't do well without a husband.
Mom doesn't have a husband.
It's unnatural and a result of feminists who hate women.
This son is a pathetic excuse for a man!
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That woman would be banned from my house and my life!
My mother-in-law was extremely difficult. I simply couldn't understand why. My husband told her that she needed to accept that he loved me, and decided to see her as little as possible.
She asked if he would be a witness in a case dating back years. We travelled to be there. She had a room prepared for us. Next day my husband's testimony was perfect. The judge ruled for mil, and granted her a large compensation package.
She went home happy & we followed later. Arrived and found hubby's ex girlfriend there. Mil had invited her. Thank God my husband was furious. Mil had planned it. He took my hand & we went and packed. We left.
Mil sent a letter of vague apology, and a very generous cheque. We emigrated.
@@LisaFerguson-lw8il Awful. Awful. I'm sorry you had to put up with that rubbish.
SAME! The husband should tell her that until she changes, she's not welcome in their home. They should go visit her once a year, unless she acts badly. And they should stay in a hotel or air B&B, but not with her. My own MIL was a covert narcissist (the MIL on the show is an overt one), and she made 3 of her 4 DIL's lives miserable. The 4th fawned over her, so MIL favored her. I finally set boundaries, only visiting for holidays for a few hours. We only lived a few doors from them, so I'd just leave, but told my husband and kids they could stay. When she died, my first thought was, "I'm free!" My marriage improved dramatically after her death. Interestingly, my eldest daughter said she refers to my Mom (also dead) as Nice Grandma, and my MIL as Evil Grandma.
AGREED!!! Omg I’m like sitting here swearing at her from my screen 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
@@LisaFerguson-lw8ilAnd, the moral of the story is YOU took the money and put a wedge in the family. You probably left out he had a child by his ex!? Some thing off about the story.
The mom was a controlling, narcissistic, manipulative mother and now the son is a spineless, weak bystander.
I would like to meet the son's father. Bet he's just as spineless.
and a malignant narcissist at that, a really disgusting sub human. Her son was raised by that demon, he must have CPTSD from growing up with that thing.
Narcissistic mother jealous ..trying to destroy all the relationships… the truth is everything mother says to daughter in law at the beginning.. is mirroring ..and everything SHE is doing
Yip💯just like my ex and his mother
Totally agree
That child is better off without the grandmother. She will ALWAYS do more damage than good.
Absolutely correct. The focus is what's best for the child, and grandma ain't it.
Absolutely! She will poison the child against his mom...
lets not say the daughter in law is telling truth had a daughter in law who had her own interpretation of events, 30 yrs later my son saw truth when he finds out she has been having affair for several yrs
be careful that girl is not telling total truth
@@blip-2024I was thinking the same thing.
The husband, if he wasn’t such a child, could have settled this whole fiasco.
My MIL would verbally abuse me, but I never told my husband. He overheard her on day and told her if she can't be nice to me, she not welcome in our home. She never returned.👏😁
CAUSE BYE GURL!!!!!! 🤣👏🏾 Good on your husband 🫶🏾
Bye Felicia' 😁 Good on him, shows that he values you!
My hubby never stood up for me and that’s why we’re not together
You married a real man.
Wonderful decision
The husband needs to grow a backbone.
Stop blaming the husband. It doesn’t matter what the husband does nobody is going to listen to him.
The problem is between the two women.
And a pair as well
Absolutely correct!! His mother admitted to saying enough vile things. He should put his foot down and say, "Enough!".
@@debrafields5053WHY: The root cause is that women don't do well without a husband.
Mom doesn't have a husband.
It's unnatural and a result of feminists who hate women.
Both women are far from perfect.. In my opinion.
The mother in laws attitude is spiteful, cynical, petty and she was restraining from lashing out while trying to make herself look innocent to no avail. This is her son's fault for not laying out some rules right from the beginning.
If she was my mother in law she would Never be allowed in my home
Agreed. Her absence is a good thing.
Period!! ‼️‼️
Yup
Yeah, I wouldn't want her toxic energy polluting my home.
I lost my mother in law about 6 years ago🥲
She was the most sweetest, caring, loving woman I ever met!
She was more a mum to me than my own mum!
She always stood up for me.
She would actually tell her own son of if she thought he had done me wrong.
She was a very special woman and I still miss her till this day🙁
Same here. I lost mine in 2021 and I was divorcing her son. She stayed in touch with me and she is truly missed. Sorry for your loss hun. God bless you and your family.
you were lucky, I had the most evil one.
My ex mother-in-law didn’t like me at all. I never did anything to the woman, but she played favorites so my ex sister-in-law was her favorite. Until she saw the other side of her then all of a sudden she liked me really sad. My ex-husband was trying so hard for her to like him, it was really sad situation
My mother in law was great too! I miss her to this day! We were blessed!
You were so blessed to have had her in your life I’m so sorry for your loss.
Took my husband ONE time to put his mom in her place (in regards to how she treats me/our daughter and i now come first). She quickly learned, get with it, or get on. No one should ever have to put up with that toxic sh**.
Same here
We set the standard on how we want to be treated hey
As a mother in law to this mother in law, you wouldn't even close your mouth long enough to let Dr. Phil give you good advice. You always have to have the last word. Your son is grown. If he makes a mistake in his life, it is his to make. But if he does make a mistake, and you treat him with no respect, he will not come to you.
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Amen the people say amen.
Women, do not go into a relationship with a weak man. You will be sorry.
I agree
@@foechicken8023WHY: The root cause is that women don't do well without a husband.
Mom doesn't have a husband.
It's unnatural and a result of feminists who hate women.
You can say that again! Wish I had known better 15 years ago! 😢
Peaceful is very different than harmless. I want a peaceful man, not a harmless one. This guy seems pretty harmless to me. Ijs.
Some times you don’t know until after the fact.
This mother is outright embarrassing. What a controlling vindictive woman. I feel sorry for the couple. But then the man needs to stand up to his mother and tell her to back off or else.
The husband is so disgusting. Look how hurt the wife is and he allows the mother to hurt her this way.
I can't see the relationship lasting. He's not strong enough and the wife is fighting for herself and for him. She'll get tired of it and will resent not having him put her first.
I agree. When you get married and have a family, you leave your mother and father and become one with your wife/husband.
You need to have their back. At the end of the day, they are the one you have chosen to live the rest of your life with.
Treat them with respect, love ,dignity, and be loyal.
Keep the communication and laughs happening. Never lose that sense of humour or the ability to laugh at yourself.
Never let the sun go down on your anger.
That's the secret.
The mom will always come 1st,that's your blood ,mom's have a 6th sense almost and something must be off about his wife and what mom wants her son to be with a lazy person.
@@magpiegirl3783he will be better off with out her
@@jd-it4onoh bull. If that’s what you think, he’ll be single the rest of his life trying to keep pleasing his momma. No woman wants to deal with a mommas boy. When my kids got married, their spouses are their #1 priority, I wouldn’t want it any other way.
The shock and disappointment in her eyes when he showed the test results tells you everything. Shes one of those devouring mothers where no woman is good enough for her son.
My mother in law is the sweetest, most giving person I know. She will drop everything to help me and never judges me if my house is messy. She doesn’t overstep boundaries, if anything she tries to not overstep so much that we have to assure her that calling us just to chat is ok and she is not bothering us. When my father in law had cancer, she let me step in and help without any hesitation. My husband is an only child and she genuinely has just opened up completely to me as if I was their daughter. I hate that not everyone gets the gem I landed ❤
First mother-in-law doesn't want to see the mother of her grandson? Then she does not get to see the grandson. Keep this poor boy away from this crazy witch.
I totally agree
She’s jealous of the girl.
@@UnderTheMilkyWay-mc8mdWHY: The root cause is that women don't do well without a husband.
Mom doesn't have a husband.
It's unnatural and a result of feminists who hate women.
They always invoke god don't they. No matter how ridiculous or how childish act they have right and they bring in the bible to make themselves so.
@@katherinehutton9870 I have a zealot MIL... she's just like this "gem" of a MIL🤯
My ex-husband's mother rearranged furniture, threw away food, had the house painted while I was at work, etc, with my ex telling me don't worry about it. I left after 3 years, I could not do the quiet anymore. The ulcer was killing me
This mother in law is never going to CHANGE
Because she's always right.
@@aplaowattanakul7760 Because she can't.
@@Jezebellum-l2u She can't change, bc she has to admit that she was wrong. But for her, she always right.
For sure!
Only Jesus Christ is able to change the hearts of these women.❤
That mother-in-law is 100% projecting. Everything she accuses the wife of doing she is actually doing. Some people really lack self-awareness.
I noticed that too.
Narcissism 101.
Yes I said that too. She is projecting off her feelings onto her daughter in law. She is the one making things up and believing her own lies even the son couldn't back up what he supposedly said to her. The mother is a liar & a trouble maker it really comes across.
This is on the husband. He made his choice when he committed in marriage to his wife. If he’s happily married to her then he needs to stick by her 100%! It’s up to the MIL to keep her mouth shut and respect the boundaries, period. A spouse can only take so much.
You, as the husband, should have sent your mom packing a long time ago.
Hope Angie left her big baby with his Mommy , & took her baby & went on to live a happy life far away from them. Jmo
Exactly. What in the world is he doing to his little boy? Don't boys need a strong father to look up to?
@@bonniebloom4953 yes they do!
Allowing your mother to disrespect your wife AND your son is sad and pathetic. He’s a coward.
A husband that wouldn’t confront his mother over this kind of mom … I’d be out !
Why is he allowing his mother to treat his wife that way??? That is WILD
Wild? Disgusting. U c how being her son still affects him as it did as a child. 1st, it pissed me off😮 a bit when he sat there quiet with his head down. I get it now. Mom & Son need some serious help. No offense to Mom & son. Being sincere..
I would be livid.
@@gloriacook393she is a toxic “ boy mom”. Search it up. She literally raised him like that.
The guy liked his strong mom and that's why he chose a strong woman as his wife. There is hardly any way the 2 ladies will get to like each other! Mom is trying to get attention from her kids - mo matter how. She dedicated her entire life to her children and forgot to also have a life of her own. That's the whole tragedy summarized...
He's a coward
Apparently this in law has jealousy issues about her son . She has been replaced and she cant stand it .
That mother-in-law is not a Christian! She does not show love at all! Calling her daughter-in-law Satan is pure evil! 😥
She is very judgemental and holier than thou. Religious narcissists are the worst.
YEAH! She also forgets the part that says, "Judge not lest ye be Judged."
@@bcpr9812And sadly there are too many of em....ppl like that are why Jesus Christ talked about the wedding parable of a man wearing his own clothes (self righteousness) to the wedding and he was thrown out.
My God does this woman ever shut up she is so rude she interrupts no wonder the daughter-in-law can't stand her I can't stand her and I don't even know her
Oh, I thought you were talking about the daughter-in-law when you said that about interrupting.
She comes across quite spiteful in her facial expressions. You can tell there's years of spite and quarrels behind that face
@@Cyndy-b9vso you’re saying the daughter in law interrupts?
I'm so blessed!! I absolutely love, appreciate and adore my in-laws!!!! They are the kindest, sweetest, loving human beings I've ever had the honor of having in my life!! I'm the lucky one!!
Enjoy them, please!!
That marriage won’t last the course, he’s not sticking up for her and letting his mother destroy his wife’s mental health. They need to cut the cord, it’s amazing how accusers consider someone sticking up for themself as being aggressive. She’s raised her family to do as she says and won’t accept she’s the problem. The husband needs to man up quick
The old " b!tch" wouldn't last 5 minutes with me...
The husband is so bland and weak, he needed to man up. The monster-in-law, is so toxic and narcissistic. She's the type of women who give christians a bad name. Love to see a follow-up.
Me too.
This guy needs to listen his wife, and protect her. The mother is way out of boundaries.
This mother-in-law interrupted Dr. Phil so many times. Her lack of polite manners exposes her selfish personality.
I believe everything that the daughter-in-law said. If MoL is this rude in front of the audience and the cameras, I assume that she is even worse at home.
James 1:19 💯
Never allow toxic people to poison your life. Regardless of who they are or how they're related. Period.
If the husband is splitting the lip of his ONE year old baby, the situation is WAY more serious than a toxic mother in law.
I totally agree! Disgusting and very disturbing.
My Mother in law is ONE OF THE BEST women I’ve ever met. I’m so thankful for her ❤
Mine is great also. I love them.❤
Awe! I love that!
Mine too
Same. She’s in Heaven now but in any wait to be with her again.
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The difference between these two ladies, the wife takes accountability and apologizes for her wrongdoings. Not once in this whole show did his mother apologize or admit wrongdoings. The MIL is a disgusting narcissist!
Agree 100%. The mother is a narcissist, a martyr and saint in her own mind.
The wife admitted her past wrongs . This woman is evil and will not change . So religious but she truly is a whitened sepulchre .
EXACTLY!! She's SO arrogant and self-righteous, critical, judgmental, and condemning. And I'll tell you what--I'm a Christian, and I see nothing in the MIL that makes me think she's a true Christian. She's certainly not concerned with her DIL's salvation, bc the love of Christ is what wins people to the Lord. In Christian circles, she's what we call a Pharisee, like the religious leaders whom Jesus condemned for their knowledge of the Law of Moses but having no knowledge of the heart of God, and for their arrogance and pride over their position and false piety. They loved the power that came with their position, but did not truly love or know God. A true Christian will weep over their own sin. That woman couldn't even admit she'd done anything wrong, ever!
Mother-in-law is precisely the kind of religious product that make me an atheist. My values are Christian but I do not believe in an all controlling God. I believe I am totally responsible for my own behaviour. I believe that Jesus was a man who laid out wonderful values and behaved kindly and compassionately towards people. This mother-in-law is a dogmatic horrible woman.
The daughter in law SITS on a gay friends lap so it's OK. The mother in law rearranged the sitting room due to daughter in laws bad back and expecting company....The son is on his second marriage so he may be the problem. Dr Phil acts like he's the expert so God help any in law who would try to disagree with his house hold.
Omg she is so jealous of her daughter in law's youth, beauty and relationship with her son.
I talk to "the little boy", THAT’S how she refers to her grandson??? What a monster
She's a narc. Look at her smug grin each time she says something nasty
The mother in law seems disappointed that the grandchild is actually her son’s, how sad.
Yes, because she needs to vilify her daughter n law
I ihoecyoa on by prayer let also. You believe everything you say.
Disappointed because she took joy in saying "I accept my grandson"... she's a professional victim.
It's jealousy. The mother in law can't even identify her own emotions towards her son's wife. Her jealousy is eating her alive. Christian my arse
When she said she was shocked, that was sad. So very very sad.
I would never let his mom in my home again. NEVER. The daughter in-law is correct at every word she’s said.👿
Yes, "she's tried everything"...to break them up and destroy their relationship. That mother-in-law is so filled with hate. That's not of GOD.
AMEN!!!
Jason is a wimp!!!! He needs to grow up and put his mother in her place.
Awful husband.She is far too good for him
This mother in law is vicious , rude and very disrespectful . And she keeps saying how good of Christian she is , that confused me , because I think any nice people will not call your own daughter in law a horrible name .
Thou shalt not bear false witness against your enemy.
Pretty clear the in-law broke that commandment!
"Christian" and bad behavior often go together.
I hope she divorces this spineless whimp and let his mother take care of him. She can do better.
Mom is JEALOUS AND HUSBAND IS A WIMP…….THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN SHOULD RUN FOR HER LIFE……
The "Husband " is a COWARD
It’s embarrassing, isn’t it?
And apparently a child abuser. If he is splitting the lip of his ONE year old, the situation is WAY more serious than a toxic mother in law.
Another spineless husband.
we're all a product of our upbringing to a certain extent - it's not hard to join the dots here
Yet WE marry those boys and then are SHOCKED!!!
Societies influence is strong
Exactly, nobody's would call my wife names and rearrange her house decorations. Mom died in 70 and she wouldn't have pulled that mess
@@ryanmcguire9951more like controlling parents and religion.
The mother-in-law is awful but the husband is worse for allowing his mother to treat his wife so badly. He needs to grow a pair and go low contact with his controlling mother.
Agreed ‼️💯
The girl is a mirror of the mother, that’s why they hate each other. They are the same person.
How is he worse then the actual mother in law and wife? He doesn't control either one of them
He's the husband, it's his job to protect his wife by putting his mother in her place...
@@TihnieSo many WOMEN fail to realize this. I have watched hundreds of videos where the man is to blame. That man was raised in his mother's care. That is his normal. He has never been taught how to stand up for himself let alone to his mother! Furthermore, if a man does stand up to a woman he's automatically labeled as misogynistic, abusive, and a narcissist. If he doesn't stand up for his wife then he's labled as a momma's boy. I have already scrolled through the comments and without hesitation, the man is to blame! You are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT, he doesnt control either one of them!! WOMEN need to hold other WOMEN ACCOUNTABLE!!!
She’s projecting all her negativity onto her daughter in law. Very sad.
This monster in law will never change. Never.
One of the times my MIL was being hateful to me (in my own house) my husband stood up and told her”she’s my wife, she will always be my wife and if you don’t like it there’s the door don’t let it hit you on your way out.” That’s what a REAL man does. If he hadn’t done that we would never have stayed married, 43 yrs and going strong.
I stopped this at 2:52. I don’t need to hear anymore. Lady, the moment your husband allows his mother to overstep like this, you’ve already lost.
Mother in law can’t take ownership in anything. Blames everybody else and has an excuse for everything. She is a miserable person.
Narcissist
Mother should not be at their home except with an invitation. Keep her "know it all" opinions to her self and not rearrange anything.
The mother in law is a true narc
What a horrible woman. I wouldn’t let my son to have a relationship with such a grandma. He has other grandparents to build a relationship with. She is a person full of venom.
The guy is unbelievably weak. Imagine letting his mum speak to his missus like that 😂
Geez. I live in a cottage on my daughter and son-in-law's property. I go into their house to do the laundry. I wouldn't dare touch anything. It's called respect and boundaries. When you start crossing boundaries, you're setting yourself up for conflict.
Sounds like you're a good mama and a good MIL.
I'm super grateful for my in laws in moments like these. ❤
She is toxic, she is a waste of time.
Leave the man to his mother. Not worth it. Unless he grows some balls really fast
Dr. Phil, you dropped the ball not making mom apologize to the wife. That should’ve been on national television. And you know it.
He knew she wouldn’t have actually meant it, so he wasn’t going to waste everyone’s time
You and I both know we wouldn't be able to get that narc to apologise lol. The only way to exist with them is with strong boundaries. And not taking the bait.
Hard to imagine he didn't see the level of narcissistic behavior on that stage.
Seems staged to me. Like a lot of his guests are playing a role. But, if this is real she better just divorce him now. Because that mother will never stop. It'll only get worse as she ages
🎯🎯🎯Maybe he wants EVERYONE to love him and his show.
Can read her like a book. She won't change for anything. A sad, sad woman.
Divorce. Let the husband and his mommy live happily ever after.
He is such a wuss. She needs to send him home with his mother
I totally agree. I would leave him then & there
No kidding. Pack his bag. What a disappointment
@@mildredwebster2822 Agree and make sure he takes his dirty underwear with him.
It's so creepy that some mothers can't cut the cord. They will hate anyone that he marries no matter how great they are.
That's how my late MIL was. She was jealous of all of us except the oldest son's wife. That one catered to her. She found many ways to let the DILs know that we were not the same as her sons.
What happened to the first marriage?
Mom should get out of their life. None of their problems for themselves or
the child will be her fault.
I'm sorry bozo can't figure it out. He is married to his wife, not his mother.
Mom can pray for them and the child.
In 20 years, she can try to have a relationship. Much wisdom will not be given to the child. The child will suffer. I don't believe the wife should exclude grandma and still expect gifts from her at holidays.
What sort of person says ," I will mop the floor with her " should be ashamed ....husband obviously made into whimp by his overbearing mother ,stick up for your wife
That mother-in-law is so full of hate which she tries to disguise as love/Christianity, that I don’t hold out much hope for their relationship
Yes I feel that too. She was hiding behind "god" and projecting onto her daughter in law.
The husband/son needs to grow a pair set a boundary and put a stop to his mother over stepping. Like Dr Phil said he has to handle his people and vise versa for anyone coming at their marriage.
There is an epidemic of phony Christians. I'm so glad to see the real Christians calling them/her out!
I would be UTTERLY ASHAMED of myself if I EVER treated my D.I.L like this or interfered in my son's marriage in that way.
Shame on the husband for not supporting his wife; getting his mother under control. He is a whimp!!!
Why would they want that destructive woman in their child's life?
Mother in law is a narcissist. The son is unable to see just how twisted his mother is.
And holier than thou
He was AFRAID of momma!!!
@@arbonneladyTNI know! So would I be if I'd been raised by that thing 👹 day in and day out
I’m reading just a small amount of comments and I want to comment on them but there is heapsss saying the same thing and I TOTALLY AGREE! This guy should have more respect for his wife and not allow his mother mouth off at her! Some of the mother in laws behaviour is disgusting 🤮 this poor wife, she is beautiful and deserves more from her husband ❤
This is her sons family. The son needs to stand up for his wife and son. Period.
He needs to set boundaries and mom needs to respect them.
He married her and is the head of the house. He’s not picking sides by doing that. He’s just taking the lead of his household.
Her spouse needs to stand up to his mother. The mother is off her rocker.
Just for the record, I'm a Christian and WE DO NOT CLAIM THAT MIL
The mother in law figures she knows everything and is always right, she is insufferable and controlling and she wants her son to take care of her, not the other woman. Clearly she doesn’t have a husband, I wonder why!?
After what she did, what she said, this mother in law should never be alowed in the house of this young couple. I would divorce this passive, useless husband.
If he didn’t straighten this out with his mother, I would give him one more chance to tell her if she attacks his wife again, she will no longer be welcome in their lives. She is out of control and needs to be told to butt out or get out.
The mother in law takes ZERO accountability for anything she has done. At least the daughter in law has insight and can admit her role in the situation. The mother in law is unbearable and the husband is just weak.
The mother in law is so vile. Claims to be Christian but doing evil things. Shame on you Narcissist MIL.
Take care Angie. You are brave and strong woman. I hope your son will grow up like you, and not like his weak father.
Someone needs to pray for the MIL she doesn’t worship the same Lord Jesus Christ I do because this is wrong in every way
Sh is lying non stop but tge nut D Phil is Islas useless
That daughter n law is a poor daughter n law. She added to the fuel. She's just as bad!
Angie needs a restraining order against her mother in law.
And stop sitting on other men's laps.
Who goes into ANOTHER person''s home and touches, much less moves their stuff?
What a nasty mother in law! Nasty,nasty,nasty!!!!!!!
Well said.
Omg what an evil woman ! Man up husband , grow a pair and put your wife and child first!! Your mother is horrible !!
Agreed! Horrible human being!
The grandmother couldn't have been more shocked and disappointed when she found out the boy is her grandchild. She should be ashamed of herself!
"There's LINT!!!"
My God. Just unforgivable.
😂she would really lose it if she saw behind my dryer.
I think Dr. Phil was 100% incorrect to encourage that woman to be in the child's life. If I were that daughter in law, I would be just fine with her living out of state.
The mother-in-law is hateful and Dr. Phil added 0 value to their situation. He didn't even address the reality of the effects on the grandson if she believed he wasn't her son's and she despises his mother. I guarantee you that shows up inhow she treats and talks to him. If I was the wife I wouldnt trust her around my son at all.
I completely agree. Especially knowing that the MIL disrobed in front of their 3 years old son.
@@mickieerickson7267oh my gosh I forgot about that. Plus filming the son and dil in their bed? Just disrobing in the presence of a 3yo is enough to have her register as a child pred.
@@bonniebloom4953 Same here! I must have immediately tossed that sick visual right out of memory. That's weird beyond weird. Look at my previous comment, before I read and commented on this sub-thread - about thinking M-i-L let sonny boy sleep in her bed until he was a teenager. This just adds more fuel to it. 💯%
There’s a clear line between loving your children and being obsessed with them to the point that you display taboo creepy behavior.
She doesn’t love her son, she gets off on controlling him.