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  • @drphil
    @drphil  2 місяці тому +8

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  • @laurelschiller8753
    @laurelschiller8753 5 місяців тому +1144

    And he’s smiling and smirking through the whole show! He couldn’t care less. His wife is gorgeous and deserves so much better. LEAVE HIM

    • @hekate1971
      @hekate1971 5 місяців тому +31

      But she llloovvvessss him. If you are not serious about your own selfesteem, selfrespect and selfconfedience..you deserve this treatment. You teach the other how you need to be treated.

    • @ellarweegadsden8483
      @ellarweegadsden8483 5 місяців тому +23

      He's smiling and smirking with tears in his eyes.

    • @GeorginaJett
      @GeorginaJett 5 місяців тому +13

      Yep, he couldn't care less

    • @StealthMode3924
      @StealthMode3924 5 місяців тому +40

      She eventually did leave and file for divorce.

    • @Ace-ke7fq
      @Ace-ke7fq 5 місяців тому +11

      @@StealthMode3924 good, cause you can'y change these types,.once it done, forget it!

  • @ElizabethRasmussen-u2e
    @ElizabethRasmussen-u2e 5 місяців тому +217

    I was Anna over 58 years ago. My life has been so much more once I ended that marriage. He never changed and died alone.

    • @jesd5578
      @jesd5578 4 місяці тому +2

      But imagine helping someone to change and not giving up on them, just as a friend. We can help people.

    • @nicolewong4654
      @nicolewong4654 4 місяці тому +3

      Td jakes not qualified Dr. Phil... He needs at present to council himself.. He worst Td n Pablo... A disappointed faithful used to be follower...

    • @dancingfirefly7761
      @dancingfirefly7761 4 місяці тому

      ​@@jesd5578We can only help those who want to be helped. Look at this beautiful girl. She tried to help him, loved him, but he kept cheating and didn't want to change.

    • @ChrisAndCats
      @ChrisAndCats 4 місяці тому +7

      ​@jesd5578 you cannot make someone change. They have to want to do that themselves and then do the work themselves. You cannot do it for them.

    • @SarahSkinnyJeans
      @SarahSkinnyJeans 4 місяці тому

      Awesome

  • @jenniethompson7342
    @jenniethompson7342 5 місяців тому +813

    Why are these women leaving the ball in his court?? Grab some dignity ladies and walk away from this man-child.

    • @debbie4220
      @debbie4220 5 місяців тому

      He’s not a man child. He’s a D O G!

    • @kathconserv
      @kathconserv 5 місяців тому +14

      Amen.

    • @jac3271
      @jac3271 5 місяців тому +13

      Exactly. These cheaters will never change.

    • @ntombidlangalala3298
      @ntombidlangalala3298 4 місяці тому +9

      Ladies please you need to respect , love and be confident of yourself . You need to be independent inorder to realize you deserve better than this . Stand up for yourself and leave these mad men . Please , please . Don't take this nonsense , it is degrading .😮

    • @1964KYM
      @1964KYM 4 місяці тому +2

      Amen sister

  • @sleeplessonterra9845
    @sleeplessonterra9845 5 місяців тому +127

    Dude struck gold and still doesn't appreciate. Lonely future for him.

    • @renaecorrie5675
      @renaecorrie5675 5 місяців тому +2

      I agree. Soooooo true😊

    • @Maximus-OK
      @Maximus-OK Місяць тому

      Are you really that blind ?lol

  • @therainbowhomestead398
    @therainbowhomestead398 5 місяців тому +621

    He's literally the worst kind of gaslighting narcissist. She'll never be able to trust him or have a straight forward conversation. The worst.

    • @stephaniepiazzese2602
      @stephaniepiazzese2602 5 місяців тому +20

      Agree. I study Narcissism every single day, as I heal, and now I have the time to study.

    • @stephaniepiazzese2602
      @stephaniepiazzese2602 5 місяців тому +18

      A woman I worked with, was devastated after finding her husband secretly cheated. He then told her” the Wife is the CATHEDRAL, the other women are just the little churches”,,,, I have been suspicious of Hispanic men ever since. 😢

    • @emirom2
      @emirom2 5 місяців тому +3

      @@stephaniepiazzese2602​​⁠Oh, that is just sick. I wonder what would happen if he got one of those “little churches” pregnant? 🤔

    • @G.G.8GG
      @G.G.8GG 5 місяців тому +11

      Agree. This is far beyond "I got my feelings hurt so I turned outside the marriage." It's a core problem that existed with him way before he met any of these women.

    • @someone3187
      @someone3187 5 місяців тому +5

      ​@@G.G.8GGYes, it seemed like he was looking for an excuse for his cheating

  • @muaoribia4140
    @muaoribia4140 5 місяців тому +87

    I love how the two women ganged up on him to troll him as another woman 😂😂😂

  • @chriskvande8900
    @chriskvande8900 5 місяців тому +531

    This is an old episode, she did leave him and meet a real man. She came back on the show for an update.

    • @sherrylong6940
      @sherrylong6940 5 місяців тому +99

      Thanks for the update...good for her!!

    • @heathertjaden756
      @heathertjaden756 5 місяців тому +11

      I'm sure she's cheating on her new man too

    • @Princess-us5so
      @Princess-us5so 5 місяців тому +26

      Awesome for her!!!!!

    • @armceC7106
      @armceC7106 5 місяців тому +95

      @@heathertjaden756 Hey Pablo!

    • @sandrazaluski982
      @sandrazaluski982 5 місяців тому

      @@armceC7106 beat me too it

  • @kerilynn1128
    @kerilynn1128 5 місяців тому +121

    He's not even attractive. Why is she still with him? He's upset because he's getting called out and confronted with everything he's done to her and he is playing the victim from it. He's not all apologetic like he should be

    • @NunyaBizness2.0
      @NunyaBizness2.0 4 місяці тому +7

      He’s not attractive? What does that have to do with anything?Looks aren’t everything.
      The guy is a total jerk and that’s what matters.
      She deserves better but not bc he’s average looking but bc he’s a cheat and a liar.

    • @LoveShackSarah88
      @LoveShackSarah88 4 місяці тому +10

      ​@NunyaBizness2.0 looks are clearly something TO HIM, all of these women are stunningly gorgeous and out of his league, thats why he's doing what he's doing...it's about his ego and his ego only

    • @maryleung1425
      @maryleung1425 Місяць тому +2

      Pablo looks and acts slimy

  • @KatrinaLeFrancois
    @KatrinaLeFrancois 5 місяців тому +425

    Dr. Phil needs to wipe Pablos smirk off of his face. Girl! Run

    • @aramisbarnes8345
      @aramisbarnes8345 4 місяці тому +7

      I'm sooo waiting for the moment 😊

    • @SANA-j9h
      @SANA-j9h 4 місяці тому

      @@KatrinaLeFrancois looollll

    • @KelseyPolarBehr
      @KelseyPolarBehr 3 місяці тому

      That’s exactly what should or should’ve happened. Pablo is an absolute heartless manipulator!

    • @andrematthews1172
      @andrematthews1172 3 місяці тому

      No. Dr Phil is so good, he saw the man was a fool floating on a leaf with no idea what he is doing.
      Dr Phil has a strong character and deep knowledge/skill/understanding. He knew that he could make Pablo see the light. He managed to corral Pablo's thinking, made him see the logic. By sheer strategy he made Pablo see.
      What a wife Pablo has!! That is a real, true and good person. I have faith in her. She'll walk if he doesn't take up the fantastic opportunity she is giving him. I wish her, and him, that it all pans out.❤

  • @KATRACH33
    @KATRACH33 5 місяців тому +72

    She's too good for him. He's a narcissist. He has no feelings for anyone.

  • @OdileFeria
    @OdileFeria 5 місяців тому +437

    He doesn’t love you and doesn’t respect you. Don’t hesitate and leave him for good. Now that you don’t have children

    • @nikkid4890
      @nikkid4890 5 місяців тому +32

      He can’t love anyone. He’s a thrill seeker and will always cheat for the thrill of the new romance

    • @catherineblinsky674
      @catherineblinsky674 5 місяців тому +31

      I think he despises her. See how he looks at her? Eerie. She needs to run before something bad happens!

    • @nohorasims656
      @nohorasims656 5 місяців тому +14

      @@catherineblinsky674 Yes he's scary

    • @moniqueengleman873
      @moniqueengleman873 5 місяців тому +10

      He is not mentally stable.
      He can not love anyone but himself

    • @Lindsey-C
      @Lindsey-C 5 місяців тому +4

      I was married to someone like this for 13 years, with 2 kids. It’s taken me 2 years to finally tell him he know longer will dictate MY LIFE.

  • @gloriandagire1452
    @gloriandagire1452 5 місяців тому +47

    That guy's problem is much deeper....he has absolutely no emotion behind his actions and it's scary.

  • @TattooedLuna
    @TattooedLuna 5 місяців тому +467

    Anna is stunningly beautiful. He is such a fool

    • @o0VanessaRae0o
      @o0VanessaRae0o 5 місяців тому

      She’s stupid pretty and he’s a troll.

    • @YJustY1
      @YJustY1 5 місяців тому +14

      More like a Tool!

    • @dancingfirefly7761
      @dancingfirefly7761 4 місяці тому +13

      True! She's Top Model, seems very sweet and loving. She was his trophy wife, and she was doing to him--but his "love" for her was about HER being perfect and how she made him feel. It was about her performance and what she did for him. When she "failed" by not sending him enough packages while he was in Afghanistan, he didn't tell her how he felt, or told her how much the packages meant to him, he just X'd her out of his heart bc she was no longer perfect. I see no way for him, or anyone, ever being able to trust him again. I hope his beautiful wife recovers her self-esteem and finds an honest, faithful man who truly loves and appreciates her.

    • @chilo8187
      @chilo8187 4 місяці тому +4

      That’s probably part of it. He can’t handle having a good woman because deep down knows he doesn’t deserve her, so he self sabotages

    • @Mariacampbell-i6m
      @Mariacampbell-i6m 4 місяці тому +1

      He’s better looking

  • @Meowmeter
    @Meowmeter 5 місяців тому +42

    He’s complaining about his wife not trusting him.. he’s to blame for that… “how many more chairs can you fit over there?!?” REALLY?????

  • @MIRIAMAWAPEJOHN
    @MIRIAMAWAPEJOHN 5 місяців тому +239

    LADIES STOP THIS BLINDNESS, WAKE UP. HE IS CLEARLY A PLAYBOY/CHEATER

    • @palapalak.8907
      @palapalak.8907 4 місяці тому +6

      Hard when you love someone.

    • @najiaziz4954
      @najiaziz4954 4 місяці тому +5

      You’re right he’s not more than play boy 😂

    • @KelseyPolarBehr
      @KelseyPolarBehr 3 місяці тому

      Pablo is a HEARTLESS MANIPULATOR

    • @kirkslayden834
      @kirkslayden834 3 місяці тому

      And then one day he'll wake up and be alone ​@@najiaziz4954

    • @annebos4634
      @annebos4634 3 місяці тому +1

      textbook narc, flips everything and shows no remorse but plays the victim when he's obviously the perpetrator, opts out when he's gotten exposed... lies whenever his mouth's moving.

  • @o0VanessaRae0o
    @o0VanessaRae0o 5 місяців тому +47

    She’s too pretty for him!

    •  3 місяці тому +3

      And he knows that.

  • @MIRIAMAWAPEJOHN
    @MIRIAMAWAPEJOHN 5 місяців тому +215

    WHY FORCE YOURSELF ON A GUY WHO DOES NOT LOVE YOU OR RESPECT YOU.

  • @Sheba62000
    @Sheba62000 5 місяців тому +22

    Once a cheater, always a cheater. RUN THE OTHER WAY, GIRL! You will find someone much better who REALLY loves you!

  • @LarryGoldenTalksLikeBuckwheat
    @LarryGoldenTalksLikeBuckwheat 5 місяців тому +142

    That guy’s wife is beautiful… How did such a dork get her?

    • @IkaneishaJenkins
      @IkaneishaJenkins 5 місяців тому +10

      Right?! My very first question.

    • @laylawalker8897
      @laylawalker8897 4 місяці тому

      There must be a shortage of men in their area otherwise why would anyone even look at this doofus?!?!

    • @dancingfirefly7761
      @dancingfirefly7761 4 місяці тому +10

      I think he knows how to flatter, manipulate, act sweet. He got those other women interested in him. But I don't care for him, he's not all that. His wife is way out of his league.

    • @CarlaLRodriguez-pu8hl
      @CarlaLRodriguez-pu8hl 4 місяці тому +6

      She's too gorgeous for his brazaar self!

    • @CarlaLRodriguez-pu8hl
      @CarlaLRodriguez-pu8hl 4 місяці тому

      He's an idiot! So glad she put him on blast! Grow up be a real man stop lying to woman!

  • @sinavaitululeupolu1455
    @sinavaitululeupolu1455 4 місяці тому +36

    Girl divorce him. Love yourself first. He ain't no prize

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 5 місяців тому +185

    The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior 😢🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @1standlast
      @1standlast 5 місяців тому +6

      Well said.

    • @ellarweegadsden8483
      @ellarweegadsden8483 5 місяців тому +12

      No, the best predictor of future behavior is current behavior.

    • @Jesussavedme
      @Jesussavedme 5 місяців тому +2

      People can change trust me

    • @helenmcdonnell2585
      @helenmcdonnell2585 5 місяців тому +2

      People can change that's true, it may not be fast enough for you

    • @enshrinehd
      @enshrinehd 4 місяці тому

      And current behavior

  • @carniarrow
    @carniarrow 5 місяців тому +34

    Just from divorce court.......and I quote Judge Lynn......'do not let a man tell you twice he doesn't love you '.

  • @chriskvande8900
    @chriskvande8900 5 місяців тому +117

    How to take down a narsissist. The victim blaming, the lying..he is a real narsissist.

  • @chrizzliebear9803
    @chrizzliebear9803 4 місяці тому +19

    Ana is actually a legend. She’s trying to save other women from the pain that this douche has caused her. I’ve been exactly where she is, and I wish I could have called him out on national TV.

  • @NicoleBrown-oc7je
    @NicoleBrown-oc7je 5 місяців тому +123

    He is very selfish and self centred. She needs to move on.

    • @pennyanonymous4293
      @pennyanonymous4293 2 місяці тому

      Dr. Phil hit the nail on the head. He is traumatized. And it may well have been because of what happened in Iraq. If he can work with someone to heal those wounds and really look at himself, he may be able to handle a relationship with one woman. Maybe not, but I noticed that when Dr. Phil said he was "damaged" that he got a tear in his eye. He was mortified being up there in front of America. You have to give the guy credit. He stuck it out to the end. I hope they can fix the marriage and that he can work on himself. Mostly I hope that they get someone who does some sort of Energy Psychology because it's the best way and the fastest way to heal trauma. Other than having an epiphany, a spiritual awakening, I don't think anything else really works without something like psychedelic drugs, maybe.

  • @shoeminister4250
    @shoeminister4250 5 місяців тому +228

    "When I first met Anna, I thought she was the most beautiful _THING_ I ever saw" 💀💀💀

    • @fiz1202
      @fiz1202 5 місяців тому +23

      Was looking for this comment 🙌

    • @nohorasims656
      @nohorasims656 5 місяців тому +13

      Exactly

    • @Toby616
      @Toby616 5 місяців тому +27

      It can only be a narcissist who sees people as things.

    • @yoyoclodie
      @yoyoclodie 5 місяців тому +14

      It's just a commonly used phrase.

    • @sawneybean8011
      @sawneybean8011 5 місяців тому +1

      What do these women see in him. He looks like a creep!

  • @InvalidUsername480
    @InvalidUsername480 4 місяці тому +26

    A personal trainer that studies criminal justice and psychology? That's literally every guy on every dating site.

  • @susiedalziel2171
    @susiedalziel2171 5 місяців тому +102

    He is the definition of narcissist. Ladies run as fast as you can

    • @beppiefleurdenheyer4486
      @beppiefleurdenheyer4486 Місяць тому

      Run girl 💪 out of the property front door and never return back to the idiots 😢😮😮

  • @mistysouders7823
    @mistysouders7823 5 місяців тому +24

    He's a NARSISSIT. The only one he loves abd cares about is HIMSELF. these ladies need to get some self respect and walk away from him.

  • @katiemckay-pd4il
    @katiemckay-pd4il 5 місяців тому +22

    She’s gorgeous! Girl he’s got a solid five years before he’s bald, get you a real man!

  • @Grelotmystiqueetal
    @Grelotmystiqueetal 5 місяців тому +101

    “just talking” to SEVEN women.
    Liar. No morals.

  • @laurenbreezy5443
    @laurenbreezy5443 5 місяців тому +15

    "So you can get sick of yourself" broooooo she killed 🔥

  • @cheney-z8g
    @cheney-z8g 5 місяців тому +96

    He's a habitual liar and cheater. He's not a man and he can't be held accountable for his own actions. It's very rare they change.

  • @beth1412001
    @beth1412001 5 місяців тому +30

    Pablo is the definition of a gaslighting narcissist. Omg!!!!!

  • @danielsmith9500
    @danielsmith9500 5 місяців тому +54

    Omg Anna is so beautiful. She would be a amazing wife that would stand by ur side thru anything.

  • @krisbrian5290
    @krisbrian5290 5 місяців тому +11

    I’m in the same situation. One of my soon-to-be ex-husband’s girlfriends is also Amanda. lol. Girl, there is no saving what was built on fraud. This guy doesn’t even know himself. Take it as a blessing that you won’t be wasting more than 3 years of marriage on this narcissist. You can do so much better. Free yourself and fly ✨

  • @christineclark2479
    @christineclark2479 5 місяців тому +36

    What a beauty she is! Don’t be his stepping stone to move on. Don’t train him to be better for someone else. He is decades, if ever to becoming anywhere close to what you deserve. God Bless.

  • @christine-r1j
    @christine-r1j 4 місяці тому +5

    I was married to somebody like this, fast forward 30 years, he never changed he is a narcissist, and still plays the victim, lies through his teeth, and never sees the damage he has done over the years, the thing is they just do not care, stay clear of people like this.

  • @RobynA11
    @RobynA11 5 місяців тому +117

    He’s butthurt because she stopped sending presents? Give me a freaking break

    • @ericbrady8965
      @ericbrady8965 4 місяці тому +4

      Presents? Dude is In the military. I guess you don't understand the stress and anx that can give someone who's gone overseas putting his life on the line. Guaranteed they had a mutual agreement that she would support him in this way and it wouldn't take a genius to realize her suddenly slowing down and stopping would make anyone anxious.

    • @ChrisAndCats
      @ChrisAndCats 4 місяці тому +4

      She didn't stop. She said it eased a bit.

    • @ScanMan1967
      @ScanMan1967 3 місяці тому +1

      There's a lot more to it than just that, he did the same thing to all the other women and probably did it to a bunch of women before that.

  • @minae9935
    @minae9935 5 місяців тому +11

    Once a cheater, always a cheater. Never give them another chance. He’s blaming his infidelities on her. Yuck!

  • @alliejones9864
    @alliejones9864 5 місяців тому +30

    He’s over it, he’s also troubled and for whatever reason, he’s indifferent, unhappy and wants out. They both need to move on. Not defending cheating, but you can’t keep a person who doesn’t want you any longer.

  • @janniebee9501
    @janniebee9501 4 місяці тому +19

    This guy is as cold as they come!!! Ladies, RUN RUN RUN. I think he's a psychopath

  • @laurelschiller8753
    @laurelschiller8753 5 місяців тому +91

    He thinks this is hilarious- he makes me sick!

  • @josephinekarr3327
    @josephinekarr3327 5 місяців тому +8

    When TRUST in a relationship is gone, there is no sense in saving or rebuilding it.

  • @SandraRichards-w3l
    @SandraRichards-w3l 5 місяців тому +54

    I hope all ladies taking a good look at pablo face.

  • @1927su
    @1927su 5 місяців тому +11

    She SHOULD feel FREE! She never has to stay with that guy again … RUN ANNA RUN… you will never be able to trust him again …

  • @sherron44
    @sherron44 5 місяців тому +63

    Liar and cheater! Leave him!!!!

  • @ellieenglezou8526
    @ellieenglezou8526 4 місяці тому +19

    Shes beautiful and can do a lot better! She deserves better too!

  • @educostanzo
    @educostanzo 5 місяців тому +44

    Love the plot twists in this episode, when he told the 4th lady was a plot from the other two I lost it
    I'm surprised the guy didn't left the stage, he was full of shame, his face at the end was very different from his little smirk from the start

  • @darlayeates510
    @darlayeates510 5 місяців тому +19

    There is no hope for narcissists.

  • @ibjensen8626
    @ibjensen8626 5 місяців тому +52

    Weird ending. Why bring on this gentleman, who wrote the book? Just to promote it?
    Dr Phil asking Pablo if he wants help to work on this. After Pablo just said he doesn't love her and wants out. Pablo is a narcissist and runs on narcissistic supply. It's not that his wife was there for him. He just got offended the supply slowed down. Telling her they need to reflect and then go on a cruise with another woman is beyond belief. And she needs to run away from him as soon as possible.

    • @yepitsme3336
      @yepitsme3336 5 місяців тому +5

      Exactly. Seemed to me to be a last minute "Hey, come on my show and I will promote your book!" The book really has nothing to do with this situation. It's like Dr. Phil was scamming US

    • @TheAislynnRose
      @TheAislynnRose 5 місяців тому +4

      No the excuse to "need to reflect " was so he could go on the cruise. Cruises are booked ahead. It was planned. The week to reflect was so he could get away and go on the cruise. I mean with his job he couldn't say, hey going to a week long convention ect. Lol He also needed a reason to be out of contact.

  • @nanealdiamond28
    @nanealdiamond28 5 місяців тому +11

    That's how all relationships end. One person wants to be together and the other doesn't.

    • @gregrising3668
      @gregrising3668 4 місяці тому +2

      Wow. With logic like that, you should be a psychologist.

    • @nanealdiamond28
      @nanealdiamond28 4 місяці тому +1

      @@gregrising3668 No that's common sense

    • @gregrising3668
      @gregrising3668 4 місяці тому +2

      @nanealdiamond28 ok, that's nice, but some day you'll understand that most things are more common than others and some things are more complicated .

  • @boogieuggie7865
    @boogieuggie7865 5 місяців тому +29

    He already knows that she knows exactly what he is, she is on to him. He cant control her anymore so he wants out.

  • @nancyramirez516
    @nancyramirez516 5 місяців тому +14

    SHE'S GORGEOUS, GIRL YOU NEED AND DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER!! SHE IS WAY TOO GOOD FOR HIM!!
    HE'S NOT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!!

  • @FlexAppeal839
    @FlexAppeal839 5 місяців тому +17

    He’s going to be a lonely old man who lives with guilt and regret

    • @wandaberry998
      @wandaberry998 4 місяці тому +4

      Narcissistic people don't have guilt. That is an emotion they can't ever feel

    • @annbow4064
      @annbow4064 3 місяці тому

      ​@@wandaberry998He won't he will have another woman quick smart,I was married to one like him he got a woman in no time and its me who is alone not him.

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 5 місяців тому +49

    The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior 😢🤦🏼‍♀️people like him are literally looking for a reason to step out in their marriage 😢😢

    • @RoughJustice2k18
      @RoughJustice2k18 5 місяців тому +3

      "You can't change what you don't acknowledge" - Dr. Phil.

  • @GypsyGirl317
    @GypsyGirl317 5 місяців тому +4

    As a counsellor I find myself wondering what Pablo's upbringing was like.
    His ego strength has been shattered and he is utilising an external locus of control - relying on positive feedback from others rather than being able to genuinely value himself and be able to give himself in relationships.
    I hope he gets the help he needs.
    I also hope that Anna will be able to make the right decision for her future to be healthy and happy. ❤

  • @PandaHead602
    @PandaHead602 5 місяців тому +68

    He got catfished !!! 😂😂😂😂

    • @janiqueunique8361
      @janiqueunique8361 4 місяці тому

      Yes Pablo did😂😂😂

    • @kaykaykay6969
      @kaykaykay6969 4 місяці тому +3

      The women got catfished as well, Lol 😢😮😢 he ain't even cute and his facial expressions are creepy and the way he looks at Doc!

  • @nyc4233
    @nyc4233 4 місяці тому +12

    The guy is a mess! He's a serial liar! She needs to get rid of him!

  • @zikondenyirenda
    @zikondenyirenda 5 місяців тому +45

    Why are they still together if they don't trust each other

  • @ElianeDAguiar-b2n
    @ElianeDAguiar-b2n 5 місяців тому +14

    Don’t try to change Pablo , Pablo will be Pablo

    • @Megan6772
      @Megan6772 4 місяці тому

      Pablo will Pablo lol

  • @anneoreilly4900
    @anneoreilly4900 5 місяців тому +34

    He has no future as a phychologist or in criminal justice. Glad this was on public tv. She’s one in a million. Glad she’s getting out but still trying to got help him get help.

    • @KathleenDoyle-og9ug
      @KathleenDoyle-og9ug 7 днів тому

      Yes to me that is such a caring person. Shes put herself in the other womens shoes n chooses to help him see the damage he is doing.

  • @Cazlouisa123
    @Cazlouisa123 3 місяці тому +3

    That woman handled herself with more grace, love and dignity than he has in his pinky finger.

  • @followerofyeshua7779
    @followerofyeshua7779 5 місяців тому +18

    His wife is beautiful she can do much better than a cheater.

  • @Yadigar23
    @Yadigar23 5 місяців тому +9

    His issues is he showed his wife he could not be trusted....and he is pitying himself??!!!

  • @pauladouglas9891
    @pauladouglas9891 5 місяців тому +32

    Took his wife's wedding ring to give to another woman.

  • @FlexAppeal839
    @FlexAppeal839 5 місяців тому +13

    Oh please TD Jakes giving advice on honesty, integrity lmao

  • @user-tv7un4bt9e
    @user-tv7un4bt9e 5 місяців тому +25

    This man got no respect and no shame

  • @jennytoves7270
    @jennytoves7270 5 місяців тому +31

    This guy gives off serial killer vibes. Super creepy the way he sits her smiling.

  • @lauram3334
    @lauram3334 5 місяців тому +15

    He's a sooking baby. Shes a beautiful lady that deserves love and a real man. She can do so much better for herself.

  • @Tabby-t2s
    @Tabby-t2s 5 місяців тому +5

    He never checked out. This is his SOP. He will never, never change.

  • @Ruth--Butler
    @Ruth--Butler 5 місяців тому +34

    leave him.

  • @vb9043
    @vb9043 4 місяці тому +5

    Anna is such a good person. You can see she has a good heart. He blames everything on her. Sociopath

  • @Ashley_e91
    @Ashley_e91 5 місяців тому +21

    His little smirk is disgusting. He doesn't deserve someone as kind and beautiful as her. He doesn't deserve anyone.

  • @Ace-ke7fq
    @Ace-ke7fq 5 місяців тому +8

    That cheat with Pablo saying she was already married the proceeds to have an affair, calling Pablo a liar! She for real.?

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 4 місяці тому

      Exactly

    • @americannightmare2109
      @americannightmare2109 4 місяці тому +1

      She was married too. Prolly not anymore 😂. The irony

    • @annbow4064
      @annbow4064 3 місяці тому +1

      I was looking for this comment to see if I had imagined her saying that she was married lol,what a cheek.

  • @jennypalmer331
    @jennypalmer331 5 місяців тому +21

    Leave him B4 you get pregnant. He is self centred, cheater and a liar. Worst man I have ever heard

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 4 місяці тому

      Unfortunately, he isn't the worst guy I've ever seen.

  • @AmericafromthegrindWolfe
    @AmericafromthegrindWolfe 5 місяців тому +9

    She needs to just divorce the guy and get on with her life. He is such a clown she's to save the rest of her years.

  • @michellepalmer1160
    @michellepalmer1160 5 місяців тому +70

    This is hard for her this is her first marriage and first guy she slept with hard to let go...

    • @overcomer4060
      @overcomer4060 5 місяців тому +17

      It’ll be extremely hard for her to leave for those reasons, and on top of it he acts like a narcissist; very toxic, and she likely has damage from his emotional abuse and it will cause her to be drawn to him. It’s going to be tough, but I hope she’ll leave. He’s horrible. He will waste the best years of her life and will damage her mental and physical health. She’s beautiful, I hope she runs.

    • @artofwinemaking
      @artofwinemaking 5 місяців тому +10

      She’s Trauma Bonded to him 😢

    • @ntombidlangalala3298
      @ntombidlangalala3298 4 місяці тому +3

      He needs help .

    • @DemetrioConstantiny
      @DemetrioConstantiny 4 місяці тому

      She is a true wife fighting for her marriage like she promised when they said I do. That’s today’s problem, most people leave when they start having issues and that’s why kids are being raised without a father.

    • @RoseRose-ow5zy
      @RoseRose-ow5zy 4 місяці тому +4

      @@DemetrioConstantinyI agree with you, but when it comes to multiple affairs and being selfish, it’s not worth saving the marriage.

  • @f7e8t9i3
    @f7e8t9i3 5 місяців тому +24

    He’s such a disgusting human being making everyone think that his wife was having an affair when she clearly never did.

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 3 місяці тому +1

      Actually it isn't clear if she did or not.. MAYBE SHE DID..? MAYBE SHE DIDN'T? I actually didn't find her very credible when dr.phil questioned her about it 😂

    • @suezettemills5336
      @suezettemills5336 4 дні тому

      Agreed 👍

  • @theavanrensburg8196
    @theavanrensburg8196 5 місяців тому +11

    Pablo is not a man, he’s a mouse!!

  • @dingopearl
    @dingopearl 5 місяців тому +27

    This is deja vu, except a different name. Old Mike Haar begged to marry me, meanwhile he was knocking boots with anything he could. I'm surprised someone's husband hasn't hurt him yet. These kind of unfaithful people are trash.

  • @KG-ly5fu
    @KG-ly5fu 4 місяці тому +6

    Narcissist, everything he does, the cheating, him loosing his job he says is all her fault. He's not taking responsibility for anything.

  • @hekate1971
    @hekate1971 5 місяців тому +66

    She; he cheated and he lies.
    He: she didn t send me a package.
    Please.

  • @ItsMaisyDaisy
    @ItsMaisyDaisy 4 місяці тому +4

    Good grief, Pablo reminds me of my ex husband. Cheated all the time & gaslit me like crazy.

  • @lucys1288
    @lucys1288 5 місяців тому +33

    Anna is gorgeous! I hope she has left this clown and found someone worthy! ❤

  • @cheetahtfk7274
    @cheetahtfk7274 5 місяців тому +10

    Ugh I hate it when Dr Phil brings on guests just to plug their product.
    Dr Phil always puts emphasis on the product rather than telling every one of those girls that they deserve better, that the husband is scum, and that this marriage should be completely dissolved asap.

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 4 місяці тому

      Dr. Phil tries to get to the root of why people behave like scum though and tries to fix it and work it out.

    • @cheetahtfk7274
      @cheetahtfk7274 4 місяці тому +3

      @Naturefan354 typically, but in this episode he sure didn't. All he cared about was plugging some random guys book that had zero to do with the topic.

  • @isabeld.3795
    @isabeld.3795 5 місяців тому +18

    If this isn't a narcissist I don't know what is.

  • @mrflynn01
    @mrflynn01 3 місяці тому +3

    Wow, what a piece of work!!!

  • @PandaHead602
    @PandaHead602 5 місяців тому +29

    How he get all these beautiful woman

  • @nohorasims656
    @nohorasims656 5 місяців тому +16

    He is a complete narccicist

  • @Northern.Town.
    @Northern.Town. 5 місяців тому +10

    Leave him. He won't change. EVER. You can do better. (I used to be "the other woman" and can tell you these men never change.)

  • @MaxMarais-y9f
    @MaxMarais-y9f 5 місяців тому +5

    So grateful that I'm blessed with a real man. ❤

  • @oliviaphillips4934
    @oliviaphillips4934 5 місяців тому +19

    Yes girl smile.... 😂😂 let it set in.!!! He won't ever make anyone happy.😮

  • @kimharrington7050
    @kimharrington7050 5 місяців тому +5

    drop him lady? this is not the good man for you.

  • @PandaHead602
    @PandaHead602 5 місяців тому +14

    He wants divorce let him go silly gurl

    • @meredithcoleman446
      @meredithcoleman446 5 місяців тому +1

      This was 10 yrs ago

    • @justYouJesus1God
      @justYouJesus1God 5 місяців тому

      1 Corinthians 7:39 the wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives but if he be dead she's released of the law of marriage. There's only through death not divorce that one is released to marry again

  • @9lifes979
    @9lifes979 4 місяці тому +6

    T.D. Jakes did not come to help anyone, he came to sell his book and make him richer.

  • @susanpaulson9010
    @susanpaulson9010 5 місяців тому +7

    He never faces Dr. Phil. He turns his eyes towards him.

  • @robertamontgomery4549
    @robertamontgomery4549 5 місяців тому +8

    Td Jakes is the last person to be giving advice on infidelity 🤨🙄

  • @Misstaylee
    @Misstaylee 5 місяців тому +14

    I don’t how all these ladies are into him😂

    • @kynleechapman7472
      @kynleechapman7472 5 місяців тому

      For real. He looks creepy af, I wouldn’t touch him with a 10 foot pole 😅