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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
  • Melanie claims her 19-year-old daughter’s boyfriend, Michael, is a drug-abusing gangbanger. However, Michael denies Melanie’s accusations. What would cause her to have such a negative opinion of him? Learn why Michael initially agrees to a drug test, and then says he can’t. Will he break down and take it? (From Dr. Phil Season 9)
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  • @lolamaude3449
    @lolamaude3449 Місяць тому +796

    Mom allows him to live with her daughter in her house. First bad decision.

    • @gemee1
      @gemee1 Місяць тому +25

      EXACTLY!

    • @josephchirco4922
      @josephchirco4922 Місяць тому +30

      Totally 100% correct mother shouldn’t have ever allowed the guy to move in!

    • @sedakuday610
      @sedakuday610 Місяць тому +10

      For monitoring I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @reflectiveimageryarts6425
      @reflectiveimageryarts6425 Місяць тому

      @@josephchirco4922

    • @thelmadickinson6811
      @thelmadickinson6811 Місяць тому +16

      Dude is a loser if he’s got to be supported by GF’s mom

  • @carolsorheim7456
    @carolsorheim7456 Місяць тому +319

    Shouldn't allow him to live with your daughter in your house.

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 Місяць тому +13

      Absolutely! Parents that allow the boyfriend to live in your house are condoning it. Don't control your child, but don't advocate it. Why is he living in the house of what appears to be a very young teenager?

    • @lynnes5561
      @lynnes5561 Місяць тому +3

      @carolsorheim7456
      A TEEN at that, she might be your darling but you are wrong to accommodate the son of a gun IN YOUR HOUSE to sleep with your naive daughter, let her get on with him until....

    • @user-zo8uv3rw9e
      @user-zo8uv3rw9e Місяць тому +2

      These mothers don't teach their children good morals.

    • @melissadarienzo1276
      @melissadarienzo1276 21 день тому +1

      Right. I don't get it, especially when she doesn't like him and isn't in favor of the relationship.

    • @sharonmartin1223
      @sharonmartin1223 9 днів тому

      Why are they allowing a grown man to live in your house

  • @marycreagh9786
    @marycreagh9786 Місяць тому +309

    The more she’s told not to be with him the more she will want to be with him!!!

    • @Thehangmancometh
      @Thehangmancometh Місяць тому +16

      Exactly....quit making a big production out of it Mom! As soon as dude can "have" her, then he will just as quickly lose interest. This will be a hard lesson for the girl, but maybe she'll learn from it.

    • @aliciacarstensen7904
      @aliciacarstensen7904 Місяць тому +2

      Yep my mom did same to me. I ran to my ex to escape her and married him. 25 ys! Yuck. What was bizarre is my mom ended up helping my ex control me and make my life difficult. Decades later I'm still not close to my mom. Honestly I replaced her with a better serogate mom

    • @Don6954
      @Don6954 Місяць тому +2

      @@Thehangmancometh You can't ignore it even if she doesn't listen to you.

    • @caliblue2
      @caliblue2 Місяць тому +4

      Yep. The ol Romeo and Juliet effect.

    • @jodiwhitten7454
      @jodiwhitten7454 Місяць тому +4

      That's what I was about to say the more her mother doesn't approve of him the more she'll want to be with him , sometimes your kids have to learn the hard way , when he breaks her heart hopefully then she learns to pick better guys in the future but Mommy has to let her grow up

  • @katesear7631
    @katesear7631 Місяць тому +644

    Definitely no gang vibe but he 100% has a gay vibe. He's not being honest to himself which is a shame. She's 19 but acts 9.

    • @Cdsens
      @Cdsens Місяць тому +64

      My gaydar went off too.

    • @GummyBearWA
      @GummyBearWA Місяць тому

      Are you gay? WTF is a "gay vibe?"

    • @Classyslimes
      @Classyslimes Місяць тому +30

      ALL the way GAY!!! LMFAO 😂😂😂

    • @kellypolfleit3942
      @kellypolfleit3942 Місяць тому +40

      When Phil asked him if he was gay and the kid immediately looked down

    • @danchicoine40
      @danchicoine40 Місяць тому +37

      If he is BI that ' fine just don't lie about it

  • @maryperrysmith5815
    @maryperrysmith5815 Місяць тому +485

    Why would a mother let her daughter’s boyfriend move in ⁉️⁉️. Not good move MOM‼️‼️

    • @ellimae1548
      @ellimae1548 Місяць тому +16

      Ja that kinda struck me too. I guess she let him move in so she can keep an eye on her daughter. But she is 19years old. She needs to live and learn.

    • @kurtk8926
      @kurtk8926 Місяць тому +9

      Very sinful.

    • @maryperrysmith5815
      @maryperrysmith5815 Місяць тому +9

      @@kurtk8926 kids even at 19. Taking on adult responsibilities when they are NOT READY.

    • @MicheleSchick
      @MicheleSchick Місяць тому +5

      Totally irresponsible

    • @ingridakerblom7577
      @ingridakerblom7577 Місяць тому +8

      Bcs if she didn't the daughter would leave & the BF would isolate her from mom.
      So sge knows that if she goes down to hard she will lose her daughter.
      Abusive Men know how to manipulate & have no care about if he hurts or harms someone in the process..

  • @carolinehoward180
    @carolinehoward180 Місяць тому +317

    This guy is a walking, talking RED FLAG. The mother’s instinct and intuition is 100% RIGHT. The daughter is chronically codependent and this is destined for disaster 😭

    • @lynnes5561
      @lynnes5561 Місяць тому +7

      @carolinehoward180
      The best way to teach her a lesson is to say "I love you but until you make better choices go with him and don't contact me" and wait....she'll come running back one day battle scarred

    • @sr2291
      @sr2291 Місяць тому +4

      The daughter has to figure that out.

    • @CrystalDorsey-xk8xf
      @CrystalDorsey-xk8xf Місяць тому +3

      Absolutely

    • @jennifertiitinen9006
      @jennifertiitinen9006 Місяць тому +2

      The daughter is controlling as well and it’s just a mess at so young

    • @ChrisAndCats
      @ChrisAndCats Місяць тому +1

      I don't know - she thinks he's beautiful!

  • @donwayne4542
    @donwayne4542 Місяць тому +109

    Young lady
    No one is going to love you as much as your mom❤
    Wake up

    • @robf2952
      @robf2952 День тому

      It’s time her mother let her grow up and live her own life even if she makes mistakes. The more she pushes the more likely she will lose her daughter

  • @salder70
    @salder70 Місяць тому +395

    That little girl is so naive. He will break her heart. Mom is 100 percent correct.

    • @florpayan8788
      @florpayan8788 Місяць тому +26

      Mom also needs to learn to let her daughter learn this painful lesson..

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 Місяць тому +12

      @@florpayan8788 that's what I was going to say...the more the mom controls, the more the [very naive] daughter will rebel. This too shall pass...

    • @justylex
      @justylex Місяць тому +11

      @@florpayan8788exactly. She is an adult. Let her make mistakes.

    • @carmenmclaughlin4950
      @carmenmclaughlin4950 Місяць тому

      @@florpayan8788😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

    • @carmenmclaughlin4950
      @carmenmclaughlin4950 Місяць тому

      @@florpayan8788 is the day 😢😢😊was😊we 😊😊😊😊😊r😊😊😊

  • @Eric1935
    @Eric1935 Місяць тому +184

    that girl laughing when the mom cries leads me to believe she’s the problem, not the guy..

    • @nikkid4890
      @nikkid4890 Місяць тому +8

      Yes!!!!

    • @stephanieyoung2261
      @stephanieyoung2261 Місяць тому +24

      total lack of respect for her mom, both her and bf

    • @lilys7431
      @lilys7431 Місяць тому +17

      Yes she is a brat it’s clear she is going to learn through experience, was the route I took. Think it was longer and a bit more painful but, I survived it and am now my mother’s advocate as we navigate dementia.

    • @sheznotfunny
      @sheznotfunny Місяць тому +6

      100%. Everyone in this situation has some sense of reason and honesty....except her

    • @rachelcampbell9733
      @rachelcampbell9733 Місяць тому +7

      Daughter and BF are the problem. The daughter is under age wth is mom doing allowing him to say in her home???

  • @user-dg7bf4xj5f
    @user-dg7bf4xj5f Місяць тому +92

    Why was he allowed to move in!!!!?????

  • @denisemanfre9542
    @denisemanfre9542 Місяць тому +171

    She’s 19 and extremely naive, she’s got her whole life ahead of her Red flags flying high

  • @gregwilliams5637
    @gregwilliams5637 Місяць тому +66

    2011, I'll take a wild guess that they're not together anymore

    • @hirainawhaanga6253
      @hirainawhaanga6253 Місяць тому +10

      I am curious to know if they are still together as well.

    • @SuperGringo71
      @SuperGringo71 14 днів тому

      So sad that Dr. Phil Show isn't on anymore.

    • @GillianLatham-jp7vb
      @GillianLatham-jp7vb 13 днів тому

      😂 welp I thought 🙃 I'd have found out on replys 😮 I'd say not just my gut feeling he probably a different person now and that's not a dig at him cus I have gay friends

  • @TheDrew4288
    @TheDrew4288 Місяць тому +655

    This guy has so many red flags, deflects on everything. The mom is right and the daughter must be incredibly desperate

    • @rustynails8756
      @rustynails8756 Місяць тому +40

      I think you're right though the daughter may have anger issues with Mom or lack of self confidence. Speaking as a Mom sometimes we can alert our children but sadly after a certain age we have to allow them to learn from mistakes and be there and love while they pick themselves

    • @Carnivore1959
      @Carnivore1959 Місяць тому +46

      Daughter needs to be able to make her own choices. Mom might be right intuitively right, but needs to let her daughter make her own mistakes.

    • @denisemanfre9542
      @denisemanfre9542 Місяць тому +40

      Something fishy with him tbh

    • @sunshinehowells9845
      @sunshinehowells9845 Місяць тому +25

      Regardless, mom needs to step back and stay out of her daughters relationship. Daughrer is an adult. The more she hates and pushes the deeper the daughter with cling

    • @brandyb2931
      @brandyb2931 Місяць тому +32

      He's a chinese parade of red flags. Daughter is young and in love and the more you tell them to stop seeing them, the more they want them.

  • @moondancer6488
    @moondancer6488 Місяць тому +44

    He is definitely bisexual if not all out gay. My gaydar is never wrong. 😄

    • @s.k.m.8756
      @s.k.m.8756 Місяць тому +3

      Mine isn't either. I agree with you.

    • @tylerk3616
      @tylerk3616 18 днів тому

      Bi is gay.

  • @mickieerickson7267
    @mickieerickson7267 Місяць тому +104

    Dr. Phil's soft male voice while discussing the second girls boyfriend non relationship is just what she needed, and she took his advice. Dads are so important, and here's an example of why.

  • @lanalou77
    @lanalou77 Місяць тому +255

    This girl is so naive any guy could play her!

    • @user-qr9ze3fb6r
      @user-qr9ze3fb6r Місяць тому +14

      Mom moved him in 😵

    • @elcheapo9444
      @elcheapo9444 Місяць тому +1

      Actually she's quite intelligent.

    • @aliciacarstensen7904
      @aliciacarstensen7904 Місяць тому +4

      Yeah a real book worm😂😂😂😂

    • @Teragram68
      @Teragram68 Місяць тому +14

      Most 19 year olds are naive, we generally lose our naivety as we experience life, but the worrying thing is her self esteem is low she allows behaviour she’s not comfortable with. Crying to her Mum etc if he goes off and she is left behind. She’s clearly very enamoured and in lust with this guy, those emotions are often mistaken for love. The only way to protect our children is to encourage a well rounded self esteem.
      The second girl is a major worry, very obsessed with someone who is not interested. 😢

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 Місяць тому +2

      @@user-qr9ze3fb6r that was a dumb move...never move in the BF!

  • @user-cy4vw1qj9m
    @user-cy4vw1qj9m Місяць тому +136

    Why did the mother allow him live in her house.

    • @dingo1666
      @dingo1666 Місяць тому +6

      She didn't, the daughter has her own flat. They keep saying this.

    • @lindaruzicka579
      @lindaruzicka579 24 дні тому +1

      No they didn't have their own place for 6 months. The Mother said they lved in her house for 6 months. Why? My sister did the same stupid thig.

    • @EvolutionaryYak
      @EvolutionaryYak 24 дні тому

      she said she moved him in so she could keep an eye on him, no boyfriend will ever be good enough for this mom, she needs to find her own reason for breathing,...not control everything in her daughters life.

    • @RoselandeBazelais-hn5rh
      @RoselandeBazelais-hn5rh 9 днів тому

      ​@@dingo1666She didn't ask them to move m

  • @lauramooney5181
    @lauramooney5181 Місяць тому +207

    This guy has shifty eyes and looks so dishonest. The Mom should not let them live together in her house. She's giving him a home, food and her daughter. Back off mom, let them figure this out and he will be gone sooner rather than later.

    • @carolyndavison6095
      @carolyndavison6095 Місяць тому +26

      Thi Mom is totally out of her mind letting this guy live in her house!! She shouldn’t complain as she gave this situation a green light.

    • @rebeccawright9599
      @rebeccawright9599 Місяць тому +6

      Good advice!

    • @denisemanfre9542
      @denisemanfre9542 Місяць тому +5

      The daughter said she has her own place

  • @Burmeseti
    @Burmeseti Місяць тому +257

    I don't judge people by appearance, and from all he said, it's clear he's a liar at the very least. The fact that he was happy about being paid to go to San Diego for a scam photoshoot tells you he doesn't have much money. He's probably using her for a place to stay and food.

    • @MaryVanDyke-Watkins
      @MaryVanDyke-Watkins Місяць тому +1

      First mom won’t give it up…

    • @caliblue2
      @caliblue2 Місяць тому +11

      That ridiculous. Kids these days are doing way worse than being taken advantage of by an underwear photographer. A liar how? He admitted to his past drug use. Sure he’s slept with other people in his lifetime but now he wants to be with just her. Y’all need to remember what it’s like to be young.

    • @moniquek6400
      @moniquek6400 Місяць тому +6

      He's acting evasive, yes, but that doesn't make him a liar. I bet you also believed he was lying about not having used drugs, trying to avoid being tested .. and yet it turns out he was clean. We know nothing about this young man, why he was doing drugs at such a young age, and why he can't live with his parents instead of the girlfriend's mother, but here you are, ready to judge and condemn.

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 Місяць тому +11

      @@caliblue2 you obviously are not a mother of a teen daughter! He is a walking red flag...

    • @leg4495
      @leg4495 Місяць тому +1

      @@lisawentworth6831I’m not but I’ve been a teen daughter!!! The mom needs to back off-her daughter is only 19, it’s her first “serious” boyfriend and she thinks she’s in love. Ya gotta let her feel her feelings & let it run its course & when it’s over she might even tell her mom she was right. Mom needs to remember herself at that age & realize she’ll prob date a few more losers before she figures out what she really wants.

  • @alanaadams7440
    @alanaadams7440 Місяць тому +78

    How about they get a job and move out

  • @dcarley1339
    @dcarley1339 Місяць тому +33

    She loves her daughter. And she is her life. Protective and rightfully so

  • @starrlashesxo8307
    @starrlashesxo8307 Місяць тому +26

    He’s a walking red flag & that girl is delusional. The end

  • @susymartins9531
    @susymartins9531 Місяць тому +100

    This guy did it at home with somebody else’s urine. Please give me a break. Mom is right. This guy gives me the creeps.

    • @dingo1666
      @dingo1666 Місяць тому +14

      Absolutely, I bet that the girl gave hers somehow. Peed in a cup, hid it in the toilets, he picked it up and used it.

    • @laurad324
      @laurad324 Місяць тому +4

      Absolutely

    • @dayinthelifeofmycat
      @dayinthelifeofmycat Місяць тому +9

      Agree, he used somebody else's pee.

    • @jackiegarica3543
      @jackiegarica3543 Місяць тому +9

      Some drugs are out of your system after a few days. I don't trust him at all.

    • @Oconnorjm
      @Oconnorjm 22 дні тому +1

      Or synthetic urine. You can buy it VERY cheap at ANY smoke shop. People used them ALL the time for jobs before marijuana became legal. I'm sure they still use them for other purposes!

  • @KateSanders-uz6ki
    @KateSanders-uz6ki Місяць тому +119

    Listen to your mother sweetie. When you’re older you will understand

    • @caliblue2
      @caliblue2 Місяць тому +5

      🙄 did you do what your mommy said? Doubt it!

    • @dingo1666
      @dingo1666 Місяць тому +4

      @@caliblue2 Did you grow up and now understand? Because I do. So OP is right.

    • @kezzokav5905
      @kezzokav5905 Місяць тому +3

      She's 19, she can make her own decisions.

    • @animallover6645
      @animallover6645 Місяць тому +3

      I did what my mother told me too, never was really rebellious.

    • @juliebowes3977
      @juliebowes3977 Місяць тому

      You have to let your kids flourish,and make mistakes,so they can learn...The mother is pushing her towards him...

  • @amyanndiamond13
    @amyanndiamond13 Місяць тому +177

    She's 19, an adult, let her learn the hard way.

    • @UncondtionalLove72
      @UncondtionalLove72 Місяць тому +18

      True but she needs some guidance still🌻

    • @Thelightning782
      @Thelightning782 Місяць тому +4

      but what if it ends up killing her the mother shoudl e taught her duaghter this before she even was a adult

    • @amyanndiamond13
      @amyanndiamond13 Місяць тому +15

      @@Thelightning782 you can only do so much as a parent. She could've taught her all about this, raised her in all the right ways, in all the right things, that doesn't guarantee she'll listen. She might rebel, she might end up with different beliefs & views. You can show your child the path & walk with them some of the way but somewhere down it they'll need to continue on their own & all you can do at that point is hope they take your advice. There are some parents who did all the right things & were the "perfect" parent yet their children become awful people or make horrible mistakes. Some of it comes down to parenting but not all.

    • @Thelightning782
      @Thelightning782 Місяць тому +5

      @@amyanndiamond13 you do have a point

    • @catherineblinsky674
      @catherineblinsky674 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@amyanndiamond13 You are so right! 👍

  • @AlexisS998
    @AlexisS998 21 день тому +10

    I spent 45 mins looking it up so you don’t have to.
    His name is Jason Michael Jones:
    He was on the Lee County most wanted list. Wanted in Lee County for multiple warrants for the possession of a controlled substance and driving while his license was revoked. His latest warrant comes on the heels of him being pulled over for a traffic stop where officers found meth and fentanyl.
    His license was suspended or revoked in both Florida and South Carolina.
    He is also a repeat offender and has been arrested a dozen other times locally for aggravated battery, theft, grand theft and drugs, and has been sent to prison once for theft, meth and heroin related charges.
    He’s also got photos on cam sites.

  • @user-ov6bv9cn1o
    @user-ov6bv9cn1o Місяць тому +129

    She’s 19 and mom can’t stop her. She will ruin her life.

    • @pinecone1811
      @pinecone1811 Місяць тому +2

      Mum or daughter or both..?

    • @user-ov6bv9cn1o
      @user-ov6bv9cn1o Місяць тому +10

      @@pinecone1811 the daughter is an adult. It’s up to her what she does with her life. I had been out of the house for a year at her age, and never looked back.

    • @susiekathryn8570
      @susiekathryn8570 Місяць тому +2

      I thought she was 17

    • @thecongenital3035
      @thecongenital3035 Місяць тому +12

      Mums right . Leave the daughter to find out he's gay 😂😂😂😂

    • @user-ov6bv9cn1o
      @user-ov6bv9cn1o Місяць тому +6

      @@thecongenital3035 the more you forbid two young people from being together the more they will double down. That’s the unfortunate truth.

  • @Littlebirdie886
    @Littlebirdie886 Місяць тому +55

    He’s 100% gay. I dated a guy in HS who was going through the same thing. Same pattern, especially with the best friend. My mother warned me but I ignored all the signs. We are best friends now but looking back I ignored a lot. I’m just glad he’s out now and happy, he’s married to his now husband and I like him way more bc he’s is his true self ❤️

    • @s.k.m.8756
      @s.k.m.8756 Місяць тому +3

      he kicks out a vibe that he is gay. Talk about heartache! She is hetero and she is in love with a gay man. :(

    • @ElsHappyPlace
      @ElsHappyPlace Місяць тому +2

      Especially these days ppl can be out comfortably Bette than back then. I remember someone my mother knew back then who couldn’t enjoy life properly because he was gay. It broke my heart he died not knowing what love is because he couldn’t be himself 😢 I appreciate ppl like you random person on the internet

    • @Littlebirdie886
      @Littlebirdie886 Місяць тому +2

      @@ElsHappyPlace thank you so much! Love is love and the world would be a better place if we all just showed that! 💜 you made my day 🙂

    • @shelleynielsen6411
      @shelleynielsen6411 Місяць тому +1

      He’s not in love with her . He needs help .

    • @Ninnjette-
      @Ninnjette- Місяць тому

      ​@ElsHappyPlace He died not knowing what love was? lol Did he not know that other gay people existed?

  • @joifire
    @joifire Місяць тому +57

    She looks to him and smiles when her mom cries in fear!

    • @melriquajackson8480
      @melriquajackson8480 Місяць тому +15

      That sht was mad weird

    • @sashaparker3065
      @sashaparker3065 Місяць тому +4

      Yeah that very cold of her !,,

    • @caliblue2
      @caliblue2 Місяць тому +6

      Her mom needs to grow up. Her baby ain’t no baby and it’s natural to pair up. You got to let your kids learn their own lessons in love otherwise you’re just a creeper mom.

    • @ttephi3667
      @ttephi3667 Місяць тому +2

      Terrible.

    • @homohits1
      @homohits1 Місяць тому

      Her mom is a drama queen who weaponises her crying, that's why.

  • @973BrickCity
    @973BrickCity Місяць тому +73

    So, what was the hesitation on not taking the drug test on Dr. Phil but ok privately with the mom & and daughter?!?! I've been there and done that. That girl gave him her urine. That's the only reason it came out negative. Period

    • @bec8595
      @bec8595 Місяць тому +13

      I'm thinking that's probably not possible. But I do think he was worried the drugs were not out of his system!

    • @973BrickCity
      @973BrickCity Місяць тому +22

      @bec8595 That's definitely not the case. Drug attics know how long it takes for whatever drug to leave your system. They live plotting around these things. He just didn't expect for Dr. Phil to be prepared with a professional drug screening evaluation at his show. So, he didn't have time to prepare for a negative result. Either way, that girl should run as far away as she can from him. Most girls that turn into drug addicts were influenced by their boyfriend & used with them for their first time.

    • @hairdressertothestars9877
      @hairdressertothestars9877 Місяць тому

      ​@bec8595 it could definitely happen, I was a drug counselor, people would take someone else's urine, put it in a waterbottle, keep a hotpack on, put it in between their legs so it would mimic body temperature. So it's a common method used to trick addiction specialists and addiction Dr's. There are other ways as well, I'm sure he knew it was a possibility and came prepared.

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 Місяць тому +8

      That never occurred to me, but it's very possible.
      He was extremely reluctant and evasive around the issue, when if he was genuinely clean, he would have been completely confident of a clear result passing the test.

    • @sandrathomas3413
      @sandrathomas3413 Місяць тому

      ​@@973BrickCityaddict not the upstairs attic

  • @randywolff580
    @randywolff580 Місяць тому +28

    This is Randy's wife commenting. I used to have a lot of gay friends, fun people, but they were always looking at straight men to "persuade them" to seduce them. Even married men. If he has many gay friends and constantly socializes with gay men, I absolutely believe he is "active" in the gay community. Why is this Mom letting him live free in her house making it easy for the relationship to flourish. If he has to work and pay bills and rent, it will be a true test of their commitment to each other. The Mom wants them under her roof to monitor everything , but needs to let go and let her daughter make her own mistakes.

  • @mariedetlefs8505
    @mariedetlefs8505 Місяць тому +23

    What kind of mother allows/invites her daughter’s boyfriend to move into her home?! 😮

    • @s.k.m.8756
      @s.k.m.8756 Місяць тому +1

      She can keep an eye on her daughter this way.

  • @gardenplots283
    @gardenplots283 Місяць тому +136

    I can't figure out if this guy is evasive or dim or both.

  • @1927su
    @1927su Місяць тому +55

    Hopefully she doesn’t have to wait until she’s in her 40’s to realize Mother was right. 😮

    • @nastybigJim
      @nastybigJim Місяць тому

      She’s around 32 now, I’m sure she learned some lesson from this situation.

    • @pp-hw4bl
      @pp-hw4bl 21 день тому

      Facts

  • @powderriver3554
    @powderriver3554 Місяць тому +64

    She doesn’t magically become an adult at 18. She needs coaching and guidance for years to come as a part of maturity.

    • @Carnivore1959
      @Carnivore1959 Місяць тому +8

      Coaching and guiding is different than nagging and anger.

    • @rustynails8756
      @rustynails8756 Місяць тому +7

      Unfortunately our society has moved far from our tribal traditions. In those times young would live with an Older Aunt, or uncle if male, or even generations would live together. who would respect and help care for the elder
      In return the elder could have more patience in listening, plus guide the young person. Not a perfect system but it usually worked well

    • @kezzokav5905
      @kezzokav5905 Місяць тому +1

      Wow, if you're lucky.

    • @sr2291
      @sr2291 Місяць тому

      Legally she is an adult.

    • @powderriver3554
      @powderriver3554 Місяць тому

      @@sr2291 we all need guidance into adulthood and beyond. Coaching and mentoring never ends. I’ve received invaluable advice over the years by those I don’t even consider family but who I grew to trust and respect. I’m 66 now and expect to keep learning, listening, and growing.

  • @Shell593
    @Shell593 Місяць тому +18

    He’s interested in men and that’s totally fine. Just be honest with the girlfriend.

    • @s.k.m.8756
      @s.k.m.8756 Місяць тому +1

      He won't tell her because this will be a deal-breaker for her and he will ruin the good thing he has going on in regards to the meal ticket and gravy train her Mom is providing!

  • @hannahrachelxo2281
    @hannahrachelxo2281 Місяць тому +29

    I want to know what happened after this and where they are now?!

    • @AlexisS998
      @AlexisS998 21 день тому +5

      Oooh lucky for you I spent 45 mins looking it up!
      His name is Jason Michael Jones:
      He was on the Lee County most wanted list. Wanted in Lee County for multiple warrants for the possession of a controlled substance and driving while his license was revoked. His latest warrant comes on the heels of him being pulled over for a traffic stop where officers found meth and fentanyl.
      His license was suspended or revoked in both Florida and South Carolina.
      He is also a repeat offender and has been arrested a dozen other times locally for aggravated battery, theft, grand theft and drugs, and has been sent to prison once for theft, meth and heroin related charges.
      There’s also pictures of him on cam sites

  • @danastone130
    @danastone130 Місяць тому +82

    I'd love an update in this one cuz this dude is on the DL. At least he was then. He might be out and proud now🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @sherryhudson6879
      @sherryhudson6879 Місяць тому +1

      Hahaahaaaaaaa

    • @ebbyf294
      @ebbyf294 Місяць тому +7

      Yaaassss!! I'm watching this saying the same thing

    • @devonbrianspencerlewis
      @devonbrianspencerlewis Місяць тому +1

      @@ebbyf294yes same!

    • @AlexisS998
      @AlexisS998 21 день тому +2

      Oooh lucky for you I spent 45 mins looking it up!
      His name is Jason Michael Jones:
      He was on the Lee County most wanted list. Wanted in Lee County for multiple warrants for the possession of a controlled substance and driving while his license was revoked. His latest warrant comes on the heels of him being pulled over for a traffic stop where officers found meth and fentanyl.
      His license was suspended or revoked in both Florida and South Carolina.
      He is also a repeat offender and has been arrested a dozen other times locally for aggravated battery, theft, grand theft and drugs, and has been sent to prison once for theft, meth and heroin related charges.
      He’s also got photos on cam sites.

    • @crybabychrononaut
      @crybabychrononaut 12 днів тому

      ​@@AlexisS998Alexis with the TEA.

  • @tinajoerossignol
    @tinajoerossignol Місяць тому +45

    He might consider himself as not gay,but he will have seg with gay men for money. He knows he has a beautiful body and he uses it anyway he can for the attention, money and drugs.

  • @lyndamuller2025
    @lyndamuller2025 Місяць тому +9

    The second girl reminds me of a relationship I had when I was young . The boy would break up with me before birthdays or Christmas to avoid having to give me a gift. He went off for several weeks and I knew that he would break up with me so that he could see other girls so I finally came to my senses and made plans with a friend to go out that night even though we had a date during which he wanted to "talk". When he arrived, I was able to say. "Let's just get this over with, I've got plans tonight. " I never got back with him even though he expected that I would.

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars Місяць тому +47

    Once in a while moms are right believe it or not 😮

    • @tiger1976
      @tiger1976 Місяць тому +5

      The older you get the more you realise "mom was right..."

  • @christinefrances5598
    @christinefrances5598 Місяць тому +5

    Why, why is this dude living in your home????????

  • @barbriescalisi8142
    @barbriescalisi8142 Місяць тому +11

    I have a daughter never never would We let a guy move in I mean never

  • @nikkid4890
    @nikkid4890 Місяць тому +37

    Am I the only one who hears it in his speech?

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 Місяць тому +6

      No, many of us do. 🙆🏻‍♀️
      It's not going to end well for this girl, unless she wakes up. ❤️

    • @jennifergannuscio6086
      @jennifergannuscio6086 Місяць тому +2

      It’s called an impediment!!!

    • @nikkid4890
      @nikkid4890 Місяць тому

      @@jennifergannuscio6086 Woah, speaking like a gay man is an impediment? 😂

  • @camellia8625
    @camellia8625 Місяць тому +3

    The fact he was so reluctant to undertake a drug test indicates to me that he likely had been taking drugs.

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 10 днів тому

      Absolutely!! He knew he wouldn't pass!

  • @laurafessenden38
    @laurafessenden38 Місяць тому +11

    Obviously with Mom. Smarky teen daughter thinking she knows everything.
    Glad I don't have kids.

  • @tonyautonga
    @tonyautonga Місяць тому +10

    Did they not say that this girl is 19yr old? Why are you ask a mother Allowing this boy to living in your house with your teenage girl.

  • @Gothiclovesick
    @Gothiclovesick Місяць тому +38

    Mom doesn’t like him but moved him in. She needs to get him out of her house, then allow their relationship to unfold. It will sort itself out in due time.

    • @TDeezyDoesIt
      @TDeezyDoesIt Місяць тому +5

      Yeah. Mom doesn't want to let go of her baby. So moving him in she can still have control over her. I moved put on my own a month before my 19th birthday. My mom didn't give 2 shits about who I was dating because she knew she couldn't do anything about it!

  • @purgatoriprytania5382
    @purgatoriprytania5382 Місяць тому +13

    She's a beard with benefits.

  • @catherinedonoghue3508
    @catherinedonoghue3508 Місяць тому +70

    The kid will learn the hard way.

    • @vasilijawilson2463
      @vasilijawilson2463 Місяць тому +1

      Yes I agree with you completely
      What a Mess this Mather is in Big Big Mess
      God’s blessings to you as a Mather
      Amen

    • @aliciacarstensen7904
      @aliciacarstensen7904 Місяць тому

      ​@@vasilijawilson2463you talk like a scammer😂😂😂😂

  • @annmariemazzotta2495
    @annmariemazzotta2495 Місяць тому +19

    Where are his parents?

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 Місяць тому +5

      I'm glad I'm not the only one who picked up on that.
      He sounded sad when he was talking about their relationship and said "I never had that". 😔

    • @sr2291
      @sr2291 Місяць тому

      Some people don't have parents.

  • @daffeneydaniel9937
    @daffeneydaniel9937 Місяць тому +31

    19 she’s a baby. Everyone screaming “adult “ like we don’t know the age of 18 is because of war. She can’t even go into a bar, she’s still developing and needs guidance .

    • @bethanykarlsson3074
      @bethanykarlsson3074 Місяць тому +3

      Absolutely!

    • @jennifergannuscio6086
      @jennifergannuscio6086 Місяць тому +2

      She needs growing SPACE! All her mom is doing is hindering her growth and putting a wedge between her and her daughter !

  • @SarahSherman-di7ku
    @SarahSherman-di7ku Місяць тому +21

    She'll figure it out when she walks in on him with another guy someday..

  • @ericachitwood2465
    @ericachitwood2465 Місяць тому +4

    Im going to say it. Daughter is avg looking. He is good looking and daughter thinks she has won the lottery. All looks and no substance. This mom will have to let daughter learn the hard way. Its a right of passage. No since fighting it. I hate it for mom and daughter. Oh and Mom it was a really bad idea to let this boy move in with you and your daughter. That is a horrible thing to do and it screams irresponsibility. There's some things as a parent you just do not do and that is one of them!!! I kind of feel like Mom is lost the right to now complain when she has been a very big part of the problem.

  • @holylandfan3275
    @holylandfan3275 Місяць тому +9

    He’s such a cheater, he even cheated on his drug test. NO WAY would he act THAT nervous, if he was clean. 🚩

    • @pp-hw4bl
      @pp-hw4bl 21 день тому +1

      I agree thts why he did test at home so je can use fake pee lol

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 10 днів тому

      Absolutely!!

  • @smarie3874
    @smarie3874 28 днів тому +2

    Young people saying “I’m an adult and you can’t tell me what to do” while living at home are frustrating to me. If you want to treated as an adult, move out and support yourself. Independence is a 2 way street. Mom wouldn’t be nearly as involved in the relationship if they didn’t all live together.

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 10 днів тому

      That was always my rule.. my house, my rules! If you live here, you go by the rules!

  • @crystalgoode8411
    @crystalgoode8411 Місяць тому +7

    I don't believe he even used his own pee..I believe it was hers!

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 10 днів тому

      It definitely wasn't his!!

  • @valcooper4327
    @valcooper4327 Місяць тому +22

    As the mom of 7 grown children I can tell any mom....back off let you kids live and learn especially when it comes to relationships. It is a passage into adulthood, and although it hurts to see them hurt, it's a valuable experience. Trust you did your job as a mom and taught your daughters to be strong and if they are not, they will learn from it.

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 Місяць тому +3

      Exactly. 👍🏽😅🙆🏻‍♀️
      I'm now a great Nana and I completely agree with you. ❤️

    • @missgramirez4446
      @missgramirez4446 Місяць тому +3

      I disagree. Every situation is different. This relationship could go wrong right away. She could get raped get on drugs etc. as parents we can certainly guide our young adults.

    • @ebbyf294
      @ebbyf294 Місяць тому +3

      Not true. If you're in my house you're not grown. So I'm in your business. Fudge outta here

    • @MidnightPasta0
      @MidnightPasta0 Місяць тому

      I agree with you. The more you tell them no, the more they will do it. My daughter had two horrible relationships… lucky for circumstances she’s in the military so these boys didn’t have access to her 24/7. I used reverse psychology… the first schmuck even called me mom. I steered from the sidelines with gentleness and only in the end did I tell her, and only once, that she had to let him go. The second relationship was worse but at that point I trusted her to see the red flags and have self respect. She did. It’s hard, but it’s their life. The more you try to control, the less control you actually have.

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 10 днів тому

      My kids weren't even allowed to date until they were 18 😂 and they wouldn't dare ask for their boyfriends to live at my house! boys weren't ever allowed in our house if we weren't home, and were never allowed in bedrooms or behind closed doors..
      Parents that don't have control never took control.. it starts as a baby

  • @MsDekz
    @MsDekz Місяць тому +8

    Thats yuck how the daughter laughed when her mum cried.... wow

  • @TakeLoveX3
    @TakeLoveX3 Місяць тому +5

    Omg the first time he opened his mouth and sounded totally gay i laughed so hard 😂😂😂

  • @kellydavis6821
    @kellydavis6821 Місяць тому +25

    I'm confused. If he wasn't using drugs, why the hesitation to take the test for so long??

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 Місяць тому

      Exactly. I wonder if she secretly offered her pee for the test.
      Someone else suggested that, and it makes sense to me.

    • @taylolz
      @taylolz Місяць тому +2

      He needed a clean doner.

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 10 днів тому +1

      Yep.. he knows he won't pass a drug test and the only way to get out of it is to do one at home where he can use someone else's urine..

  • @libbypaige6160
    @libbypaige6160 Місяць тому +12

    He's definitely having dirty little trips away and coming home living a sudo straight life with her. He probably only does drugs while on these weekends away being gay. This is a very common pattern with "brothers on the down-low" it's sad for her, and also for him. It's likely he hasn't accepted himself as gay.

  • @arlenedorego1277
    @arlenedorego1277 Місяць тому +19

    Mom is beautiful

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 Місяць тому

      Which mum?
      The second one I thought was beautiful. 😊
      The first one is less so because of the negative facial expression. 😔

  • @marcianicotra
    @marcianicotra Місяць тому +38

    He is getting high and she is a little dummy!

  • @yvonnemendez547
    @yvonnemendez547 Місяць тому +2

    A 19 year old living with her mommy and her BF? What is that mom thinking!!!!

  • @Kittyququmber
    @Kittyququmber Місяць тому +5

    This girl is SOOOOO naive and WILL SUFFER. Did drugs 2 months ago??? He DOES drugs.

  • @jacqueline8559
    @jacqueline8559 Місяць тому +3

    The term 'gang bang' has a completely different meaning in the UK 😂

  • @1927su
    @1927su Місяць тому +14

    That daughter is soooo naive …

    • @definity-zx6iv
      @definity-zx6iv 20 днів тому

      Agreed however each person grows emotionally at different stages.

  • @ninikshoemaker8628
    @ninikshoemaker8628 Місяць тому +6

    Why does the mother allow the boyfriend to live with her.?

  • @StefaniClowdis
    @StefaniClowdis Місяць тому +6

    Just a question….where are the fathers of these girls

  • @mareemiller1335
    @mareemiller1335 Місяць тому +16

    I do not believe him.....his eyes are darting everywhere

  • @dennislalla8623
    @dennislalla8623 Місяць тому +23

    Why is he in your house

  • @bonnieanderson1029
    @bonnieanderson1029 Місяць тому +12

    Very STRANGE young man.

  • @peggylingard622
    @peggylingard622 Місяць тому +10

    Ummm, mom he is this really bad guy.....help me to understand why you allowed him to live with your daughter under your roof?

    • @s.k.m.8756
      @s.k.m.8756 Місяць тому

      yep! I agree 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 10 днів тому +1

      Because mum never had control of her daughter and has given in to whatever her 'Angel' wants..

  • @rachelporter280
    @rachelporter280 Місяць тому +4

    The daughter isn’t as wise as she thinks she is. She said that if he was cheating on her, she would know it because she’s the one that is around him and is sleeping with him. Sorry babes, but you’re going to be the LAST one to know. Keep your mom close to you because she’s the one that will be there for you when you feel your life has imploded. Good luck to you both, and I hope I’m wrong!

  • @carolynrussell5049
    @carolynrussell5049 Місяць тому +5

    Why is he living with them?!

  • @user-ww8zb1qp5d
    @user-ww8zb1qp5d Місяць тому +6

    Bro sounds like a South Park character
    Cartman is that u?

  • @gw6975
    @gw6975 Місяць тому +33

    Something weird about Michael.

  • @ziaddeselva1075
    @ziaddeselva1075 Місяць тому +32

    He's 100% Gay!

    • @jessealava7747
      @jessealava7747 Місяць тому +3

      It’s the lisp for me

    • @Onxy1976
      @Onxy1976 Місяць тому +2

      ​@jessealava7747 yep...he comes across as feminine and the lisp is a clear giveaway!

    • @saugusguy
      @saugusguy Місяць тому

      He's not gay..he's THE gay..what a queen..gay for pay at the very least

  • @sashaparker3065
    @sashaparker3065 Місяць тому +11

    Why let him live with mom.? Staying there to live with her boyfriend they need to find a place to live..

  • @sharonfoley2610
    @sharonfoley2610 Місяць тому +2

    I'm 70, made a bunch of mistakes and know that moving in the daughter's boyfriend is a bbbbiiiigggg mistake.

  • @kjl6039
    @kjl6039 Місяць тому +9

    Shut the phones down! What is wrong with parents that think that their child’s tantrums over the phone determine what they do with the phone!

    • @s.k.m.8756
      @s.k.m.8756 Місяць тому

      totally agree! 👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @TheFaithAlexander
    @TheFaithAlexander Місяць тому +4

    This guy is bad news. 😢 This sweet girl needs to run. Her mom has intuition. You can tell he’s lying and obviously, he ‘can’t’ take the drug test! I wouldn’t trust him as far as you can throw him. He’s using them for a place to live as well.

  • @Google.Is.Skynet
    @Google.Is.Skynet Місяць тому +10

    Big difference between someone who’s smoked weed vs Meth

  • @reneekuhr611
    @reneekuhr611 Місяць тому +4

    Stupid move letting him move in. PARENTS QUIT TRYING TO BE A FRIEND TO YOUR CHILD BE A PARENT

  • @davidsewellclarke4997
    @davidsewellclarke4997 Місяць тому +66

    I never smoked pot when I was at college. He's wearing his shirt cuffs like myself and others back in the 70's 80s, but then it was the style, so was platform shoes . Now it's a red flag for a man liking other men. He's very arrogant, and she's been brainwashed by him .

    • @user-qr9ze3fb6r
      @user-qr9ze3fb6r Місяць тому +20

      I think the trip without her was a hookup ( probably for $$$$). The trip was paid for. 😚

    • @pamelalansbury94
      @pamelalansbury94 Місяць тому +9

      This episode is 10 years old

    • @shoestringfries3418
      @shoestringfries3418 Місяць тому

      He looks like the actor for Anthony Bridgerton (who is a gay man in real life) and has a lisp/dresses/is very fit like a gay stereotype.
      I also suspect he’s on drugs from the way he looks at Dr Phil. I have a suspicion that his girlfriend is on something too…

    • @retroplank
      @retroplank Місяць тому +6

      He probably came out by now.

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse Місяць тому +1

      I never did either

  • @FlyingGuillotine
    @FlyingGuillotine Місяць тому +14

    He’s a weird mix of Sylvester Stallone and Temu Jake Gyllenhaal lol

  • @angiebenjamin9772
    @angiebenjamin9772 Місяць тому +8

    I’m pretty sure Temo Marky Mark is not getting any Calvin Klein modeling offers

  • @dennislalla8623
    @dennislalla8623 Місяць тому +29

    The daughter is controlling the mother why would she allow her daughter to move in with her boyfriend.

    • @whosaidthat9265
      @whosaidthat9265 Місяць тому +3

      She’s 19. Not up to mom at that point

    • @hayleymanchios8908
      @hayleymanchios8908 Місяць тому

      ​@@whosaidthat9265it's up to the mom to let him live in her house

    • @Shortcake5
      @Shortcake5 Місяць тому +6

      Ummm up to mom who lives in her house.

    • @Thelightning782
      @Thelightning782 Місяць тому +3

      ​@@whosaidthat9265yes it is because its her house whatever the mom says goes

  • @alieyesonme247
    @alieyesonme247 Місяць тому +3

    This kid just set up there and national TV and told the world confidently that he'll go take the drug test right now and pass it with flying colors but when push came to shove guess what his bluff was called and he was made to look like a liar, no wonder the mother doesn't trust him she sees right through him. She knows you can't trust anything he says

  • @marilynmanord1790
    @marilynmanord1790 10 днів тому +2

    I am dealing with the same issue with my 23 year old daughter. I can’t make my child understand how this guy is not good for her.

    • @user-js5fe5kt4j
      @user-js5fe5kt4j 7 днів тому

      The more you tell them no the more they push to stay they have to learn on their own sadly I have 4 girls can’t stand my oldest daughter boyfriend I keep pushing her told her he is bad news 2 weeks ago she came over to tell me she is pregnant 😡she is 26
      My second oldest was also with a terrible guy for 6 years I prayed that guy away 😂she is now in a new relationship guy seems nice but I think he is a wolf in sheep clothing so moral of the story the more we push they will show us

  • @pollycebula605
    @pollycebula605 Місяць тому +40

    This Mom let him move in with her daughter.

  • @marcelpatel9017
    @marcelpatel9017 Місяць тому +4

    Allowing him to move in was the first mistake.

  • @WillowB-dn6if
    @WillowB-dn6if Місяць тому +12

    He’s been clean now for months 😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @walkwithrach22
    @walkwithrach22 Місяць тому +25

    He's got something going w his male friend imo.
    She needs a spine. He's shady and she's very vanilla, he's using her for something other than a relationship.

    • @Vrin137
      @Vrin137 Місяць тому

      Maybe the 'modelling job' was a 'trick', many male models are straight but will do guys for money. When I was a pro model, I knew males that worked for my agency who also had extra gigs (hookups) after a photoshoot and bragged about how much they made.

  • @eliser9776
    @eliser9776 Місяць тому +18

    It's always it's a red flag when people say someone else is "so controlling." The last person that said I was "so controlling" was a man who was doing dangerous, careless things over and over and I was asking him to stop. I am talking about ordinary things that anyone knows is dangerous and reckless.

    • @thelmadickinson6811
      @thelmadickinson6811 Місяць тому +2

      When someone calls you controlling it’s because you are an obstacle to them and they don’t have complete control

  • @paulinenewman1611
    @paulinenewman1611 Місяць тому +4

    Even if this mother is right her daughter needs to learn from her own mistakes. The moms role is to be there to support her daughter if things go wrong

  • @tiger1976
    @tiger1976 Місяць тому +38

    When you sleep with the dog... 🙄 they (the daughter and the boyfriend) are not afraid to tell a lie. The moms instinct is right, he is no good and will ruine her life but she won't listen. She will have to learn the hard way.

  • @anjab6266
    @anjab6266 Місяць тому +2

    Busted!!!! He "can't take the drug test" all of a sudden😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gaia8888
    @gaia8888 Місяць тому +10

    She is Lucky to have a Mom Like that.
    Run Girl ! Runnnnnn
    Nice tactic from Dr Phil at the end👌