The Ultimate Red Flag: Marrying a Mama's Boy with a Toxic Mother-in-Law…

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  • Опубліковано 18 вер 2024

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  • @Princessdollamanda
    @Princessdollamanda 19 днів тому +158

    Kevin pissed me off this entire movie, not once did he stand up for Charlotte! he made excuses for her every single time. When they went to her house for what was supposed to be “a little lunch date” and it was basically a black tie event with very important people and he brushed that off, she not only embarrassed Charlie but her son too because he wasn’t even dressed for the occasion nor was his fiancé! I would’ve left that party and him too

    • @iconicallyiconic
      @iconicallyiconic  19 днів тому +38

      Yes! He knew exactly who his mother was and never once told her about herself. Charlotte truly needed to run quick, fast and in a hurry lol.

  • @FishareFriendsNotFood972
    @FishareFriendsNotFood972 19 днів тому +82

    I think Kevin liked the mother in law drama. It made him feel important.

  • @TamESQ
    @TamESQ 19 днів тому +111

    It’s on the MAN to put his raggedy mother in check. Some of these men don’t know how to tell their mothers to back off and know their place.
    Anyway… I love Monster in Law! Jane Fonda did an amazing job!
    One of my favorite scenes was when Viola said all she wanted was her son to be happy and Wanda Sykes’ character simply said “What made you think he WASN’T?” And it instantly clicked to her.

    • @iconicallyiconic
      @iconicallyiconic  19 днів тому +14

      Absolutely. Some of these men will go to great lengths to dismiss your feelings, making you question your own validity. It’s simply not worth the emotional toll of being with someone so deeply enmeshed in their mother’s influence. You have to choose you first, and let it go if that continues.
      Wanda was the only one who checked her nonsense lol

  • @lovefromwonderland
    @lovefromwonderland 12 днів тому +27

    Not standing up for your partner, ESPECIALLY to a family member, is a red flag in my opinion. They’re supposed to be the number one in your life

  • @leiiib
    @leiiib 19 днів тому +41

    There is nothing worse than a man who allows his mother to disrespect you and tells you - that’s just how she is or you know how she is - don’t even bother wasting your time, it doesn’t matter how good he is, she will always be apart of your relationship because he allows it. They don’t know their place. Charlie should’ve went with her intuition and left him

  • @riritheedon8967
    @riritheedon8967 19 днів тому +70

    The ultimate red flag girl like I can’t stand mama’s boys they are so weak 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @ellebassa9288
    @ellebassa9288 19 днів тому +52

    The only positive example of a mom's boy is Jeremiah fisher. Its clearly that he loves and cares for Susanna but he's also still able to be an independent person.

  • @beautelle1065
    @beautelle1065 19 днів тому +52

    I remember dating this guy a few years ago and he frequently talked about how close he was with his mother and I thought it was sweet because I like when people in general talk about how much they love their parents, but it wasn't until I found out his mother was still come to his apartment and wash his clothes from time to time as a grown almost 30 year old man. She called him all times of the day and would just pop up on him whenever she felt like it (because she had a key) , she was always involved and giving input in his relationships and coddled him so much that I had to stop dating him. That was a 🚩 and almost every girlfriend he's had she had an issue with and I finally understood why as much of an attractive, established, good guy he was he didn't know how to establish boundaries with his mother and never would

    • @leiiib
      @leiiib 19 днів тому +17

      Girl you made the right choice! Still washing his clothes ?!!!! popping up whenever ?! I understand giving your mother a spare key, but she was taking advantage and acting like he was her husband. Like imagine y’all were doing your adult thing and she just popped up, they really act like they want to be with their sons, it’s so strange 😐

    • @PeaceLovePaperbacks
      @PeaceLovePaperbacks 19 днів тому +4

      Reminds me of trey from sex and the city.

    • @beautelle1065
      @beautelle1065 19 днів тому +8

      @@leiiib The crazy thing is that her and his father were married for 40 years, and he would tell her about herself, but she didn't care she was just one of those obsessive boy moms and it's not like he was the only child. he was the only boy though, but it's very common with West Indian mothers, they treat their sons as if they're gold

  • @milaakajau861
    @milaakajau861 19 днів тому +27

    Jane Fonda is such an icon. The moment I saw Kevin's mother constantly calling him would've been enough for me to cut him off, he really acted like he didn't know his mother was this jealous, manipulative person. I'm sure almost every relationship he got in he had these problems, and I feel like he didn't tell Charlotte about his mother because she would've left like all of the other women, so he had to play oblivious instead of putting his mother in her place

  • @nicolesherman8974
    @nicolesherman8974 19 днів тому +35

    Tell me why I am going to watch this tonight for my movie night lmao?? Perfect timing.

  • @trevannaparks1037
    @trevannaparks1037 13 днів тому +13

    What upset me the most was when his mother put peanuts in the gravy (In which Charlie was allergic to) and she got off Scott-free. She could have literally killed Charlie! Kevin didn't even defend her or call her out on her behaviour once. If I was Kevin, I would be so angry and tell her off, and cut off all ties with her.

    • @Ty-pi8yx
      @Ty-pi8yx 7 днів тому +3

      If I remember correctly, he wasn’t aware of the peanuts situation. She never disclosed it to him and also she never disclosed anything like though his mom came off passive aggressive. Charlie never told him like no I’m not Finna, Stay here with your mom while you go out of town because She makes me feel this way. She never said anything granted he should’ve peeped the signs but she never spoke up.

  • @gingerkid1048
    @gingerkid1048 5 днів тому +7

    Fun Jane Fonda story for those who love her…she’s a real deal class act. A family friend worked as a driver for her when she filmed in Toronto a while back. He raves about her kindness & that she took him out for dinner because she didn’t want to eat alone. Even gifted him a nice watch as a thank you for taking care of her while she was in town filming. He’s in his 60s so it’s his prized possession. You can tell a lot about famous people by how they treat “the staff”.

  • @nataliesasha8216
    @nataliesasha8216 19 днів тому +13

    Now I'm going to rewatch it for the 600th time

    • @iconicallyiconic
      @iconicallyiconic  19 днів тому +5

      Listen, I watch this movie about 10 times a month lol

  • @zinhlemakh
    @zinhlemakh 18 днів тому +12

    Crazy Rich Asians needs a deep dive too

    • @Lisanalguib
      @Lisanalguib 16 днів тому +1

      I agree we need this one because Nick young did do something unlike Kevin “Monster in-law.”

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 19 днів тому +18

    Kevin should had stood up for charlie to me viola was totally wrong to treat Charlie like that if i was in that situation i would had broken up with kevin
    Jane Fonda was amazing in monster in law and wanda Sykes as ruby

  • @withneyjoseph51
    @withneyjoseph51 18 днів тому +8

    To be honest that shit scares me

  • @nachtaii
    @nachtaii 19 днів тому +13

    Kevin had no boundaries with his mom which made for a great movie but in real life would be awful!!!

  • @TheGlamorousLifeofNae
    @TheGlamorousLifeofNae 19 днів тому +10

    I’ve been around mothers like this, I couldn’t take it! You spoke so many facts girl! 💖💕

  • @Juicyxcouture
    @Juicyxcouture 19 днів тому +12

    Just when I was looking for something to watch 😂😂. Thank you

  • @BLACKBUTT3RFLI1
    @BLACKBUTT3RFLI1 19 днів тому +15

    Since you did this video. Can we get a deep dive into Jump The Broom. Maybe this can be a new series

  • @isaiahedwards6586
    @isaiahedwards6586 19 днів тому +14

    Apparently Ben mom don't like her, life imitates art😂

  • @therealmarlonbellamy
    @therealmarlonbellamy 19 днів тому +11

    This was a great breakdown. I would like for you to do a deep dive on Think Like A Man next.

  • @mariaturner1407
    @mariaturner1407 19 днів тому +6

    Lol. I saw this movie with my ex mother-in-law and she got offended.

  • @queenscarlettpimpsunkiss..5537
    @queenscarlettpimpsunkiss..5537 17 днів тому +3

    Everytime Viola Shadily introduced Charlie & said ''Shes a Temp 🙂🙃🙂'' .. Baby Cracked Me TF UHP !! .. lives rent free in my head 😂😭

  • @PeaceLovePaperbacks
    @PeaceLovePaperbacks 19 днів тому +2

    One of my favorites but you make so many points.

  • @venusbleu5764
    @venusbleu5764 19 днів тому +5

    This is one of my favorite movies ever lol saw it in theater with my mom

  • @aidamou
    @aidamou 3 дні тому

    You've just unlock my childhood memories of this movie and I ahev to rewatch it RIGHT.NOW!

  • @ajenesolomon1982
    @ajenesolomon1982 7 днів тому

    I could have hardly made it through this movie. Viola was despicable.

  • @sherrylatrice8733
    @sherrylatrice8733 16 днів тому +1

    I love Nine to Five too! ❤ It's a classic.

  • @MissP483
    @MissP483 18 днів тому +2

    OMG..... I really forgot about this one. Now I have to go rewatch.Have you seen Heartbreakers with Jennifer Love Hewitt?

  • @Lexxii2FABOOLUS
    @Lexxii2FABOOLUS 19 днів тому +2

    One of my most favorite movies🙌

  • @jesselandgraab3386
    @jesselandgraab3386 13 днів тому

    I hated Kevin so much it was crazy.

  • @jaidat.6771
    @jaidat.6771 19 днів тому +4

    I love this movie!

  • @MichellaneousMe
    @MichellaneousMe 16 днів тому

    Your review makes me want to watch this tonight. Thank you!

  • @BestversionofKP
    @BestversionofKP 19 днів тому +2

    I love this movie sm!!!! 🩷

  • @QUEENVLOGZZBYKALIOFFICIAL
    @QUEENVLOGZZBYKALIOFFICIAL 19 днів тому

    Yyeesssss🎉🎉