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If she pulls away to "test me" after I showed interest and indirectly let her know I like her, then this woman is not for me. The right person will resonate with you and things will flow naturally. These "I have to ignore you to test you" stuff is a flag for me that things are not flowing naturally.
If if you did something to piss her off and she’s not mature enough to tell you what it is and would rather play the guessing game, walk away. She’s not worth it.
If an ex emotionally pulls away with no explanation, let her go. If an ex disrespected you on a regular basis, let her go. If your relationship and love was not reciprocated, let her go. If this woman then leaves you, then just let her go. You never leave what you cherish, she did you a huge justice by leaving.
Cutting it short and summarized Do not chase her Do not chase her validation Give her space (Cary on with your life, make her feel she's missing out) Do not make hasty decisions (be calm and be grounded) Note : if you are sure you were the one that caused her to give you space, then make sure you apologize once things are cooled down
I agree with her. "Do nothing" is the best thing to do. Neutralize all the desperate or need based energy. Like they say , if you love somebody you let them go. If they come back to you , you let them go again :)
When she runs away, send her a new pair of running shoes, with a note telling her to keep going. Even better give her a pair of running shoes on the first date, tell her it's for when she decides to pull away and run because she's a woman...
Yup, it’s easy to get attached to an outcome. Sometimes it’s best to accept that in life there are no guarantees and move on. One way or another you will end up where you were supposed to be, wether it’s with that same person or someone else.
It takes two adults communicating effectively to make a relationship work. If someone wants to be emotionally immature and sacrifice the relationship, they didn't value it anyway.
Benson, the only advice I can give you after several relationships, good & bad, and being currently married, is just accept that this is just how women behave. Adapt to it. If you learn to adapt, knowing that this is their natural state of being, as men have their own, then you can navigate into more fulfilling relationships.
Let's suppose when she pulls away, you should not only feel disrespected, you actually were - move on, nothing worth saving except your own self-respect. End of video.
Best advice? 1) Don't listen to a woman's advice on relationships 2) Don't fall for all the games. Just be yourself and be fair. If you really did something wrong apologize. If not then don't let yourself be manipulated. Remember. Plenty of fish in the sea.
sometimes "people" give good advice. its not about woman or man. you can get good or bad advice from either. in this case, listen to her. in a nutshell never chase a woman who wants her space. every girl ive gotten was bc i left em alone when they pulled away. the cringiest thing to any girl is when i guy becomes overbearing. what the poster meant was not to apologize for no good reason or give a shitty apology. tbh i wouldnt take advice from anyone who refer to women as "fish in the sea" nor uses that dull cliche term.
I really regret losing this amazing woman I met 6 years back. I didn't approach her and express my love for her. I saw her a few weeks back and all those old memories came flooding back. I want to get back at her. I wish I could meet her again.
Because of this sort of advice. This allows women to continue acting like this with ho real reprocussions. "Just let her do her thing" sounds great. But it also allows her to be irresponsible and shitty as long as she wants to be. As men, we have no real recourse.
After 46 years of life, multiple relationships along the way and a 14 year marriage, kids, house, decent job, etc. I have yet to understand women after meeting them throughout life. The best action I have learnt, when in a relationship, is simply to do nothing and go about your business. Also remember that if your wrong in an argument (in a relationship), you’re wrong; but if you’re right you will still be wrong in a woman’s eyes so simply don’t bother, walk away from it. This doesn’t mean ditch her, it means just do no action, let her come around and back to you. Females are like cats, try and pick one up and rest on your lap, it will usually skip off, so don’t try it. Usually, the cat will choose you to rest upon if it so wishes and snuggle down after time. Meantime, do your own thing and purpose, the cat will usually come over to you 😉 If anyone knows why females behave like this, let me know. Most blokes be like, can’t be bothered with that complicated s**t 😂
In my experience, from a universal perspective, if a woman ghosts you, then the universe is doing this to bring attention to the feelings that arise within you when being ghosted. If you have a triggered reaction to this- then it shows you need to heal your inner child. Once you have successfully done this, you will either no longer experience people ghosting you, or you will no longer experience those triggers as a reaction to being ghosted.
Or being ghosted was a blessing. Some other man can put up with her shit. Single life is the best life stress free and free of drama with money to spend on yourself
i love how all the women that give advice want to protect women constantly, while the men are like fuck her, move on. im leaning towards the men are far more correct. being too open and nice with women gets you taken advantage of
I was chasing a girl for a Month, she was not my crush but still being needy for her. This video really made my mind to stop thinking about her anymore. Thank You😅
Thinking back. My first girlfriend kept pulling away, I could never figure out why, I did a few of these mistakes because I was uneducated. But eventually I got sick of it and dumped her permanently. There must come a point where these pull aways are a red flag from her end.
Thank you Anna for making this video. I could relate most of the stuff in my current situation, I’ve been through some of the stuff long story short I apologize to her because when I felt she was disrespecting me I got little frustrated and talk to her in a way that I shouldn’t after a week I said sorry & all I got tear in my eye talking to her it was natural lol. Well we are friends but not like we share our social media or hangout. As of now it’s just like texting thing but very limited. It’s more of one sided sometimes, however I learned why done be a chaser in this situation so it’s like before & after for me I’ve changed for good.
I have an answer for that Say "I am sorry for what it is I am to be sorry for " " then say I like those cute shoes you are wearing" . That will distract her off topic
Hi miss Anna greetings, not only in relationship,.but in life itself, when u put yourself ,in someone else shoes, that's the start ,and the solution for greatness,.I swear.
6:57 Why the hell this actually works I just have no idea. I've been watching videos on what to do when a girl I like tries to pull away ever since she stopped responding to my messages (seenzone) for almost a week since we last saw each other. Nothing comes to mind what I've done wrong during that day we saw each other, but maybe that one text blunder I sent her a few days later. Then just now she started messaging me out of nowhere (I usually am the one initiating the conversation) like nothing happened! Women are weird.
It actually worked 100% She is trying to call me, text me. It took only 3 days. There are so many videos about what to do when she pulls away. Now she has come back. What should I do? Please tell me something.
I've got a policy; I'll ask a woman out once; if she says no; walk away. Her loss. If she likes you she'll ask you out, if she doesn't ask you out she doesn't like you.
Hi joy!! Thanks.. this video is relevant for me this moment. Actually i am trying to attract one of my co-worker that to with an unavailable woman. She also likes me i know but very very cautious. Actually i am ignoring her now. Some other co-worker also aware of this and creating problem for both of us.
Don't threaten to leave. Just leave, unfriend and block her. Lot of them pull that crap right off the bat when you first start talking. The problem is they talk amongst their childish girlfriends and they talk and scheme up ways to screw with the guy and they giggle about it while doing it. If she's playing with you, she along with her 2 or 3 other friends are playing the game with you as well. They are ruthless and cruel.
Wow I also did that on my ex-girlfriend, but not like I was interested in her friend; I wanted to make her feel little jelaous, because she used to tell me how her friend is way too hotter than her; as a consequences, I should not pay attention on her and on my perspective she was not hot as much as her. Additionally, that was not a reason we broke-up.
Last weekend she visited me, we got intimate but afterwards she said we need to take it slowly. Met her last year on Tinder, had a few dates, then she moved to a different city. She made efforts to stay in touch but we both got into different relationships at that time. Now we are both single again, but she is still thinking about her boyfriend she told me. (She broke up with him and sees no future with this guy.) After our recent meetup she takes like 3 days to respond, but is still asking questions, telling me about whats going on in her life etc. Our next date will be in her city next week. Should I worry or avoid doing something here? I'm kinda confused... :D
If she's still thinking about her boyfriend don't get emotionally attached to her. Just have some fun if convenient for you. Be ready to switch to a gal that does think about you / loves you. Let her make the next move if something is to come out of that hookup. If that's difficult for you because your feelings for her are too strong, then take distance before she breaks your heart
@@glennlgg6871 Thanks man! Yeah I was starting to catch feelings, but up to a point where I'm still in control. I will let her do the pursuing now and see where it goes. If she flakes on the date, I'm done and its a win. If we have a good time its a win too 👌
@@rickmuc089 good luck man, all I can tell you is that it's never a good thing if they are not over their ex.. she will always be thinking about someone else when she's there with you.
@@rickmuc089 it's fine man believe me... I was in a very bad relationship and she kept hurting me, after I left her I was like "not gonna have any serious relationships for a while". Literally after a week I started going out with new friends and met the perfect one... you never expect it so don't give up bro.
Uhm well I did all the things in this video, ended up that she went to another guy and thinking I was not interested, I apologized everything and gave her space, It did not work!! when I actually did the opposite she listened...and we spoke about it morale of the story... everyone is different, the best is communicating with your partner and both should be understanding where you come from and what type of person you are
Why does it have to be about a test? Knowing the knowledge i have found about women lately is maybe she just lost interest for no damn reason, and she dosent even know why its just who they are
Oh, try me. I didn't speak to my then bf for 2 months for something that he did. I got so upset (which rarely happens) . 2 months no contact. When the guy is clearly in the wrong, stonewalling is just too easy. Not as a punishment, but I do it for self respect and self preservation. I think you can follow these tips only for petty fights or when your woman is being unreasonably dramatic. But not on serious disagreements when a guy is clearly and majorly in the wrong. And keep the fights clean. No swearwords, No raising of voice. No violent reactions and don't use break up as a threat. it's a low blow.. just low
Im not judging, but an honest talk isnt a better solution than breaking any contact? The story always have 2 versions - maybe in his you were the villain? Or maybe he had no clue what's going on? Things that are obvious to you could not be so obvious to him (and vice versa). Maybe im weird, but i do respect people. And even tho i might try to talk someone out of their decision, its their call to make. If gf would choose to break any contact... fine. Even tho it would kill me inside i would respect her decision. But we live in adult world and every decision have consequences, so if she would close that doors, she might not being able to open them again. And now the final question, not many people dare to ask themselves this one. Who is the worse person : someone who make an honest mistake and had no idea/didnt thought it could hurt you... or someone who claims that he/she loves you, yet hurt you on purpose? Thats why (once again) i prefer to talk. Say out loud what makes you feel like you feel. How you feel. And maybe even why you feel that way. Focus on yourself, not on the other person. This way that person wont feel like being attacked and wont close themselves. Afterall you dont want to hurt them, you just want to feel better. And as long as you both really care about each other that would solve every problem that have a solution
@@Larikalful that was quite a read lol. Okay. So things are case by case and i only speak for myself here. I am the type who doesn't get angry EASILY. I give 3 strikes. 1 time you make the mistake, i will tell you about it but will let it go. Since it's first offense. 2nd time you repeat the mistake, i will call you out for it and remind you again im going to seriously get mad. 3rd time it happens, i will draw my boundary. Like i said, for my self preservation and self respect. Im not the type to raise her voice. I will confront you in a very calm but assertive manner that you had 3 strikes. This time, i have the right to really get mad right? (I actually asked him this). So what excuse can he have this time? You see people have flaws. If you cant stop it, at least minimize it. I withdraw when i feel like i was taken advantaged of. It's no longer about us or the relationship. It's a personal struggle only you can resolve. When someone deflects their fault at me, should i just allow it?? So exactly the question.why would you KEEP hurting the one you love? And why would i keep allowing it? At that time, we kind of understood each other that no excuse would make me feel better. And i prefer to withdraw than say things i might regret. It took us 2months no contact. Then he came back (crying i might add). I was in a relationship with him for 7 years. if there's one thing i learned from my previous relationships, if your friends tell you you're stupid (in a relationship) then you are being stupid. Better listen.
@@Larikalful i believe that proper conversation will resolve any problem. Proper talk. No raising of voice. No swearing. No violence. You speak, i listen. I speak, you listen. Then we compromise. I dont believe in word match. Why would you intentionally and psychologically inflict pain to someone. Whether you scream or talk calmly, you still need to tell the other person how you feel and think, so why not say it calmly? If it's something difficult to deal with, then take some time off to clear your heads and come up with a solution. I wasn't a perfect girlfriend, but im pretty sure i was a mature one. I remember telling him that if he wants to stay and keep the relationship, i will no longer tolerate that kind of bs from him..
I just cut her out completely off because it shows me how immature she is. friendly one day and then hostile the next forget that. Main reason why she had an attitude with me and 2 hours later she had a had another guy there screwing around.
Actually breaking up with her when something really alarming becomes a trend is one of the best things you can do to establish boundaries and increase interest. Maybe she’s confusing people who threaten to break up or maybe she doesn’t understand this well enough. I’m talking about actually being the one to cut the cord. As a man you essentially have little to no chance of getting a woman’s interest back up once she is the one who ends things. Most of the time a woman tests you by acting like a bitch in order to see if you have the nuts to put your foot down and end things if she steps over the line. When she sees that you have a limitation and then the ability to choose someone else that is what makes her feel like she lost something good.
Mirror & Match - she goes cold, I go glacial - she goes quiet, I go grey rock. meh. Honestly, I got tired of it - so I just put all XXs on a 90 day trial period (or less).
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Joy is true, if your intentions are honorable go NC and don't pursue further. Let them stew in their delusions they can't even explain logically. If you don't mind wasting your time and come across them ask why the drama. Don't commit more the few minutes
You need to have close caption for us who are not from England. Your accent causes me not understand what you have said. Other than that the video gave me information on why women do what they do.
So he broke trust. U didn't break it off right then and there... Made him wait a few days before dumping him...got a few more days of attention and simping out of em before kicking him away...huh...
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If she pulls away to "test me" after I showed interest and indirectly let her know I like her, then this woman is not for me. The right person will resonate with you and things will flow naturally. These "I have to ignore you to test you" stuff is a flag for me that things are not flowing naturally.
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yes sir. Dime a dozen out here. play games and theyll be playing alone
exactly, nobody over 30 has time to be playing games.
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@@el-hp1lj hope they like single-player campaigns.
If if you did something to piss her off and she’s not mature enough to tell you what it is and would rather play the guessing game, walk away. She’s not worth it.
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If an ex emotionally pulls away with no explanation, let her go. If an ex disrespected you on a regular basis, let her go. If your relationship and love was not reciprocated, let her go. If this woman then leaves you, then just let her go. You never leave what you cherish, she did you a huge justice by leaving.
Well said my man, just let her go, she was never yours to begin with.
Just Walk 😎
Cutting it short and summarized
Do not chase her
Do not chase her validation
Give her space (Cary on with your life, make her feel she's missing out)
Do not make hasty decisions (be calm and be grounded)
Note : if you are sure you were the one that caused her to give you space, then make sure you apologize once things are cooled down
Then dump her!!! Next!!!
Never apologize. Show her you are of value and by her leaving means she punched her own ticket to the friend zone.
@@markpack798 Sound advice dude !
@@naesgrebner313 She punched her own ticket. Sweet ! I love it
I agree with her. "Do nothing" is the best thing to do. Neutralize all the desperate or need based energy. Like they say , if you love somebody you let them go. If they come back to you , you let them go again :)
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Her pulling away is the mistake.
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Exactly. The woman has to apologize for her shit behavior. Men need to grow a pair.
When she runs away, send her a new pair of running shoes, with a note telling her to keep going. Even better give her a pair of running shoes on the first date, tell her it's for when she decides to pull away and run because she's a woman...
I hate that in order to get past the “does he chase me test” you need to prove who’s more insecure about the other liking them.
Yup, it’s easy to get attached to an outcome. Sometimes it’s best to accept that in life there are no guarantees and move on. One way or another you will end up where you were supposed to be, wether it’s with that same person or someone else.
It takes two adults communicating effectively to make a relationship work. If someone wants to be emotionally immature and sacrifice the relationship, they didn't value it anyway.
Surely? Where is the time and energy for all these mind games? Women are too complicated 🤦🏾
Benson, the only advice I can give you after several relationships, good & bad, and being currently married, is just accept that this is just how women behave. Adapt to it. If you learn to adapt, knowing that this is their natural state of being, as men have their own, then you can navigate into more fulfilling relationships.
Let's suppose when she pulls away, you should not only feel disrespected, you actually were - move on, nothing worth saving except your own self-respect. End of video.
Best advice?
1) Don't listen to a woman's advice on relationships
2) Don't fall for all the games. Just be yourself and be fair. If you really did something wrong apologize. If not then don't let yourself be manipulated.
Remember. Plenty of fish in the sea.
sometimes "people" give good advice. its not about woman or man. you can get good or bad advice from either. in this case, listen to her. in a nutshell never chase a woman who wants her space. every girl ive gotten was bc i left em alone when they pulled away. the cringiest thing to any girl is when i guy becomes overbearing. what the poster meant was not to apologize for no good reason or give a shitty apology. tbh i wouldnt take advice from anyone who refer to women as "fish in the sea" nor uses that dull cliche term.
@@TheDreamBlog ok. There's plenty of sand in the desert. Better?
@@glennlgg6871 😂😂😂
As soon as a women shows distance or losing interest cut it off and dump them and make sure they never get the chance again.
I really regret losing this amazing woman I met 6 years back. I didn't approach her and express my love for her. I saw her a few weeks back and all those old memories came flooding back. I want to get back at her. I wish I could meet her again.
Why don't woman have to be accountable for acting poorly by pulling away and manipulating me from the beginning?
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Because of this sort of advice. This allows women to continue acting like this with ho real reprocussions. "Just let her do her thing" sounds great. But it also allows her to be irresponsible and shitty as long as she wants to be. As men, we have no real recourse.
How about using your words to communicate what you are feeling?
After 46 years of life, multiple relationships along the way and a 14 year marriage, kids, house, decent job, etc. I have yet to understand women after meeting them throughout life.
The best action I have learnt, when in a relationship, is simply to do nothing and go about your business.
Also remember that if your wrong in an argument (in a relationship), you’re wrong; but if you’re right you will still be wrong in a woman’s eyes so simply don’t bother, walk away from it. This doesn’t mean ditch her, it means just do no action, let her come around and back to you.
Females are like cats, try and pick one up and rest on your lap, it will usually skip off, so don’t try it.
Usually, the cat will choose you to rest upon if it so wishes and snuggle down after time.
Meantime, do your own thing and purpose, the cat will usually come over to you 😉
If anyone knows why females behave like this, let me know.
Most blokes be like, can’t be bothered with that complicated s**t 😂
In my experience, from a universal perspective, if a woman ghosts you, then the universe is doing this to bring attention to the feelings that arise within you when being ghosted. If you have a triggered reaction to this- then it shows you need to heal your inner child. Once you have successfully done this, you will either no longer experience people ghosting you, or you will no longer experience those triggers as a reaction to being ghosted.
Or being ghosted was a blessing. Some other man can put up with her shit. Single life is the best life stress free and free of drama with money to spend on yourself
BS
Don't forget about the old country song.sometimes I thank GOD for unanswered prayers
Oh, another good tip is to say " come on baby, don't be mad at Daddy". And she will immediately smile and hug you.
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And if she doesnt respond?
All we ever hear about is what WE have to do, what WE have to be…
What about what we want?…
This is insane, I would do all these things if I had this problem but I don’t understand why women view it this way..
So, she's playing games
They're all crazy and it's all they know.
I'm sorry to hear that a previous boyfriend did a boundary breaker! Flirting is cheating and a big no no in a relationship my friend!
i love how all the women that give advice want to protect women constantly, while the men are like fuck her, move on. im leaning towards the men are far more correct. being too open and nice with women gets you taken advantage of
I just hd my heart broken..my mind is numb and I can’t think anything straight..
Your sage advice to change the ascetic into the householder is noteworthy.
I was chasing a girl for a Month, she was not my crush but still being needy for her. This video really made my mind to stop thinking about her anymore. Thank You😅
Same thing for me this video clarifies me what I’ve learned & also what some people told me at the end one word describes a lot ‘Don’t be desperate’ 😅
@@d2.050 True that
@@KO-pw9wt yup learned it hard way :)
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we were happier 100 years ago....
love has become mind game
Thanks for the tips, I was being ghosted once.
best talk it out,, if that doesn't work....later for her...get another
If she pulls away, ........................."the juice is not worth the squeeze."
Day is not completed without you anna.!
summary: don't show emotions or behave emotional towards a woman when she pulls away
Thinking back. My first girlfriend kept pulling away, I could never figure out why, I did a few of these mistakes because I was uneducated. But eventually I got sick of it and dumped her permanently. There must come a point where these pull aways are a red flag from her end.
Don’t chase under any circumstances. It took me way too long to realize this.
Thank you Anna for making this video. I could relate most of the stuff in my current situation, I’ve been through some of the stuff long story short I apologize to her because when I felt she was disrespecting me I got little frustrated and talk to her in a way that I shouldn’t after a week I said sorry & all I got tear in my eye talking to her it was natural lol. Well we are friends but not like we share our social media or hangout. As of now it’s just like texting thing but very limited. It’s more of one sided sometimes, however I learned why done be a chaser in this situation so it’s like before & after for me I’ve changed for good.
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I have an answer for that
Say "I am sorry for what it is I am to be sorry for " " then say I like those cute shoes you are wearing" . That will distract her off topic
Hi miss Anna greetings, not only in relationship,.but in life itself, when u put yourself ,in someone else shoes, that's the start ,and the solution for greatness,.I swear.
Gentlemen remember even ladies are watching this so they may make a fool out of you
6:57 Why the hell this actually works I just have no idea. I've been watching videos on what to do when a girl I like tries to pull away ever since she stopped responding to my messages (seenzone) for almost a week since we last saw each other. Nothing comes to mind what I've done wrong during that day we saw each other, but maybe that one text blunder I sent her a few days later. Then just now she started messaging me out of nowhere (I usually am the one initiating the conversation) like nothing happened!
Women are weird.
It goes both ways
If she pulls away, drop a ninja smoke bomb and ghost her, never look back or feel bad....
When a girl gets wierd I text her emojis every 5 minutes and she laughs it works everytime
It actually worked 100% She is trying to call me, text me. It took only 3 days. There are so many videos about what to do when she pulls away. Now she has come back. What should I do? Please tell me something.
Always Love your Videos and You. David
Ok chase her, then dont chase her, then....she should chase you...this game is a bit shit
I've got a policy; I'll ask a woman out once; if she says no; walk away. Her loss. If she likes you she'll ask you out, if she doesn't ask you out she doesn't like you.
Thank you Joyanima I will be okay it hurts very bad married 8 years and would give her my best with nothing in return
So what should I do?
Great info, learned so much here,love the statedgy when it came to apologizing to much,thanks✔✔
Terrific advice
Hi joy!! Thanks.. this video is relevant for me this moment. Actually i am trying to attract one of my co-worker that to with an unavailable woman. She also likes me i know but very very cautious. Actually i am ignoring her now. Some other co-worker also aware of this and creating problem for both of us.
Threatening to end the relationship is just as toxic as someone pulling away for no reason though 😅
Don't threaten to leave. Just leave, unfriend and block her. Lot of them pull that crap right off the bat when you first start talking. The problem is they talk amongst their childish girlfriends and they talk and scheme up ways to screw with the guy and they giggle about it while doing it. If she's playing with you, she along with her 2 or 3 other friends are playing the game with you as well. They are ruthless and cruel.
Refreshing good advice
My wife’s not ignoring me but she’s being extremely cold and heartless to me ..
Thank you for this video. It's very timely
.... Love it! I do really like this video. Right on the money!
What if i have had all these mistakes said above no point of return nothing to salvage this?
If she ignores you, ignore her back and move on.
Don't get caught up in petty mind games.
NEVER CHASE A WOMAN.
If she pulls away i pull my ignore-isolate card
Giving her some space and post on social videos and pics it's a good idea I approve it...
Thank you for the advise
All you have said is truth thanks alot for great videos n advice, indeed at back we wer n erra to fail in all those mistakes uhv mentioned
Hmmm....insightful!!!
i didnt realise women used the withdrawal method anna sex education at my school was basic 😂😂😂👍
Wow I also did that on my ex-girlfriend, but not like I was interested in her friend; I wanted to make her feel little jelaous, because she used to tell me how her friend is way too hotter than her; as a consequences, I should not pay attention on her and on my perspective she was not hot as much as her. Additionally, that was not a reason we broke-up.
Thank you for the Video 😊
My Girl has pulled away but she has a birthday in little less than two weeks. My question is, if she continues...shall I Wish her Birthday ??
Fellas here's what you do: Cheat.
Last weekend she visited me, we got intimate but afterwards she said we need to take it slowly. Met her last year on Tinder, had a few dates, then she moved to a different city. She made efforts to stay in touch but we both got into different relationships at that time. Now we are both single again, but she is still thinking about her boyfriend she told me. (She broke up with him and sees no future with this guy.)
After our recent meetup she takes like 3 days to respond, but is still asking questions, telling me about whats going on in her life etc. Our next date will be in her city next week.
Should I worry or avoid doing something here? I'm kinda confused... :D
If she's still thinking about her boyfriend don't get emotionally attached to her. Just have some fun if convenient for you. Be ready to switch to a gal that does think about you / loves you. Let her make the next move if something is to come out of that hookup. If that's difficult for you because your feelings for her are too strong, then take distance before she breaks your heart
@@glennlgg6871 Thanks man! Yeah I was starting to catch feelings, but up to a point where I'm still in control. I will let her do the pursuing now and see where it goes. If she flakes on the date, I'm done and its a win. If we have a good time its a win too 👌
@@rickmuc089 good luck man, all I can tell you is that it's never a good thing if they are not over their ex.. she will always be thinking about someone else when she's there with you.
@@feested3402 Its over already. She said she cant meetup again. And she told me it doesnt work for her. So nothing I can so right now
@@rickmuc089 it's fine man believe me... I was in a very bad relationship and she kept hurting me, after I left her I was like "not gonna have any serious relationships for a while". Literally after a week I started going out with new friends and met the perfect one... you never expect it so don't give up bro.
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Uhm well I did all the things in this video, ended up that she went to another guy and thinking I was not interested, I apologized everything and gave her space, It did not work!! when I actually did the opposite she listened...and we spoke about it
morale of the story... everyone is different, the best is communicating with your partner and both should be understanding where you come from and what type of person you are
give her feelings she misses you...
Will she come back in the future if I did most of these
Thanks
She plays hard to get I play easy to leave, life is short & hard already.
Why does it have to be about a test? Knowing the knowledge i have found about women lately is maybe she just lost interest for no damn reason, and she dosent even know why its just who they are
Oh, try me. I didn't speak to my then bf for 2 months for something that he did. I got so upset (which rarely happens) . 2 months no contact. When the guy is clearly in the wrong, stonewalling is just too easy. Not as a punishment, but I do it for self respect and self preservation. I think you can follow these tips only for petty fights or when your woman is being unreasonably dramatic. But not on serious disagreements when a guy is clearly and majorly in the wrong. And keep the fights clean. No swearwords, No raising of voice. No violent reactions and don't use break up as a threat. it's a low blow.. just low
Im not judging, but an honest talk isnt a better solution than breaking any contact? The story always have 2 versions - maybe in his you were the villain? Or maybe he had no clue what's going on? Things that are obvious to you could not be so obvious to him (and vice versa).
Maybe im weird, but i do respect people. And even tho i might try to talk someone out of their decision, its their call to make. If gf would choose to break any contact... fine. Even tho it would kill me inside i would respect her decision. But we live in adult world and every decision have consequences, so if she would close that doors, she might not being able to open them again.
And now the final question, not many people dare to ask themselves this one. Who is the worse person : someone who make an honest mistake and had no idea/didnt thought it could hurt you... or someone who claims that he/she loves you, yet hurt you on purpose?
Thats why (once again) i prefer to talk. Say out loud what makes you feel like you feel. How you feel. And maybe even why you feel that way. Focus on yourself, not on the other person. This way that person wont feel like being attacked and wont close themselves. Afterall you dont want to hurt them, you just want to feel better. And as long as you both really care about each other that would solve every problem that have a solution
@@Larikalful that was quite a read lol. Okay. So things are case by case and i only speak for myself here. I am the type who doesn't get angry EASILY. I give 3 strikes. 1 time you make the mistake, i will tell you about it but will let it go. Since it's first offense. 2nd time you repeat the mistake, i will call you out for it and remind you again im going to seriously get mad. 3rd time it happens, i will draw my boundary. Like i said, for my self preservation and self respect. Im not the type to raise her voice. I will confront you in a very calm but assertive manner that you had 3 strikes. This time, i have the right to really get mad right? (I actually asked him this). So what excuse can he have this time? You see people have flaws. If you cant stop it, at least minimize it. I withdraw when i feel like i was taken advantaged of. It's no longer about us or the relationship. It's a personal struggle only you can resolve. When someone deflects their fault at me, should i just allow it?? So exactly the question.why would you KEEP hurting the one you love? And why would i keep allowing it? At that time, we kind of understood each other that no excuse would make me feel better. And i prefer to withdraw than say things i might regret. It took us 2months no contact. Then he came back (crying i might add). I was in a relationship with him for 7 years. if there's one thing i learned from my previous relationships, if your friends tell you you're stupid (in a relationship) then you are being stupid. Better listen.
@@Larikalful i believe that proper conversation will resolve any problem. Proper talk. No raising of voice. No swearing. No violence. You speak, i listen. I speak, you listen. Then we compromise. I dont believe in word match. Why would you intentionally and psychologically inflict pain to someone. Whether you scream or talk calmly, you still need to tell the other person how you feel and think, so why not say it calmly? If it's something difficult to deal with, then take some time off to clear your heads and come up with a solution. I wasn't a perfect girlfriend, but im pretty sure i was a mature one. I remember telling him that if he wants to stay and keep the relationship, i will no longer tolerate that kind of bs from him..
@@Larikalful Your commentary is perfect!
I just cut her out completely off because it shows me how immature she is. friendly one day and then hostile the next forget that. Main reason why she had an attitude with me and 2 hours later she had a had another guy there screwing around.
If a woman pulls away the sex act as being consummated I've watched David Attenborough😂👍
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what insecure means? women say men are insecure all the time. and that makes no sense.
Okay, this is what you don't do, what do you do?
Pour une fois je suis d'accord avec toi. Il ne faut pas courir derrière elles. Cette fois tu as donnée de vrais conseils
Actually breaking up with her when something really alarming becomes a trend is one of the best things you can do to establish boundaries and increase interest.
Maybe she’s confusing people who threaten to break up or maybe she doesn’t understand this well enough. I’m talking about actually being the one to cut the cord.
As a man you essentially have little to no chance of getting a woman’s interest back up once she is the one who ends things.
Most of the time a woman tests you by acting like a bitch in order to see if you have the nuts to put your foot down and end things if she steps over the line. When she sees that you have a limitation and then the ability to choose someone else that is what makes her feel like she lost something good.
Mirror & Match - she goes cold, I go glacial - she goes quiet, I go grey rock. meh. Honestly, I got tired of it - so I just put all XXs on a 90 day trial period (or less).
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Joy is true, if your intentions are honorable go NC and don't pursue further. Let them stew in their delusions they can't even explain logically. If you don't mind wasting your time and come across them ask why the drama. Don't commit more the few minutes
Yes. Preach it to me sistas
This was good but how about for the beginner's in love(approaching period)
You need to have close caption for us who are not from England. Your accent causes me not understand what you have said. Other than that the video gave me information on why women do what they do.
Morals of the story: whatever you do or say you will be anyway fu**ed 😁
Unless beta & simp...playing mind games will end relationship
So he broke trust. U didn't break it off right then and there... Made him wait a few days before dumping him...got a few more days of attention and simping out of em before kicking him away...huh...
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