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hi anna joyanima have see my lady freind today in town an well been meeting up with her this week or this weekend comeing up soon in few days time well ask if her an i are still on for going out for some cold drinks off beers or wines ate the pub with me sometime soon when shes not soo busying working an soo soo an going out for our coffee dates too togerther soon sometime its time i give her the no contact with me an her for sometime long now see if she come backtoo me
as i am been but busying with new baby lambs comeing out now etc. on the farm life its busying thats for sure an other jobs around the place an haveing a relationship as well with her well see how it gos with her an me bolth have loveley amazing week this week. anna joyanima. an this weekend as well too love from me in new zealand.
Back in early ‘85 my buddy introduced me to his new female co-worker. I was almost immediately enamoured. I spent the better part of the next year pursuing her, but she played ‘hard to get’ to the extreme. I finally said f*** it, and stopped. Cold. Suddenly she was everywhere. But I blew her off. I’d had enough of the games. She finally cornered me at a social gathering, and apologized. Then she asked ME out. Just under 2 years later we were married. We just celebrated our 34th anniversary at the beginning of this month. Not saying it is the solution every time, but as I once heard in a movie; never chase women or buses. If you walk away, and they don’t pursue you, then it was never going to happen anyway. You saved yourself a lot of time, and heartache.
Wow thanks for sharing! True... we'll save time, effort and energy if the girl we're pursuing is n0t meant to be... by d way, did u tell ur wife u like her 0n those 12m0s of "pursuing"?
4 year relationship 1,5 month ago i pulled away because i could sense she was bored and she freaked out seeing me walking away,i told her if you are indifferent i will be too and she asked for space because i hurt her for being distant.I gave her space for one month and i texted her i need to take my stuff from your house it's over.She replied:ok Be willing to go away from these situations,if she comes back and you still want her make your own rules this time and dont make it easy for her,if you dont want her back just move on.
It sure does work. It makes her come back. I have just experienced it again recently. And being mysterious is good. It activates a desire for you in her
We had been seeing / dating each other for 3 months. She said she had no feelings for me and wants to date someone else. I told her I wasn’t interested in that so I will let her go. She cried and said she was going to miss me. Day 3 of walking away staying strong.
She had chose to break up with you. Look what happened after that. It turned out she was not even happy being with another man. She ended up crying because she chose to live a life cheating on you. Nothing worked out in her new relationship. So for that, she cried begging to take her back. She had been thinking she can get away cheating on you. Anyone who wanted a power to cheat will make up any excuse just like that woman. So all this time, you were considered a temporary hook up to her.
IT WORKED! She crossed my boundaries. I told her she just "Blew-up" our renewed relationship "Again." I told her I would not accept her screaming at me. I would not accept "F - bombs." I expect a woman to act and talk like a "LADY." 6 hours later she called offering to come cook me dinner at MY PLACE. I didn't let it happen, but she sure has changed her attitude. Now she is chasing ME!
I walk away, I'm 55. They didn't want me in their prime years, I don't want them in their decline years. The power of walking away secures not being financially ruined for the rest of my life. Men want women more than they need them. Women need men more than they want them.
This is true...a girl at work has been giving me alot of signs to approach her and when I finally did we had a nice chat but I felt like it was one sided and she didn't engage in the conversation as much as I did so basically I don't get the energy I gave...I just stopped talking to her since then and after a couple days she kept popping up out of nowhere to greet me and she had alot more energy she did when we first met as if she was trying alot harder to get my attention...
This happens all the time, I had a girl showing me signs, I ask her out, said yes then flake, then I pull away, she pulls in, I then have a date with her, she is enthusiastic on the date, then later I ask her out again, she become flakey again, then I pull away a little then I got a second date with her. Then later, she ignores me completely when with her friends, her friends ignores me when she is present, but individually they dont ignore me, haha. So I just walk away, then later she ask me to join her for food. Bro, you see what I mean. Better talk to like 5 girls at a time, and care about none. lol
@@MARXMAN2009 that's on you really...yes this happens all the time but I don't go out with these types of girls in the first place I only go out with the ones that click. Most guys make the mistake in asking them out too soon as well or waiting too long and something that just clicks is never that complicated honestly. They don't always work out but you learn from each bad experience and you appreciate the good times alot more
I forced my significant other into accepting and admitting to how she was treating me when I walked away.. I kept telling her that I've come back to the person I was before the relationship and won't put up with bullshit anymore and she won't be getting any from me either.. About a month into having some distance.. she always is all over me whenever we meet up for a moment.. I got my confidence back and my sense of self back and she is happier because I call her on her bullshit and am not a doormat.
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It’s hard to catch a woman chasing her like chasing butterflies. You think you have her but suddenly she’s 10 steps away. But then when you set your heart on someone else, she chastises you and you are still in the wrong. Women are always aware when a man is being tortured.
If you walking away from her you have all the power to decide to go back or not depends on the situation, but in my case I've walk away to a person that under valued me but when the time came she chase and try to win back me, I don't come back her anymore in that's my decision, I walk away with dignity as well as to gain my self respect and self worth.
A girl who I work with was being really friendly. After a few weeks, I told her I had sent her a friend request on facebook. The next thing, her profile disappears, and she started acting cold towarrds me. With this, I decided to avoid her, or not speak to her, if we crossed paths. I still caught her staring at me, many times, but she would look away very quickly, when I noticed her staring. This went on for weeks. Now when I catch her looking at me, she doesn't look away, and her staring lingers for a few seconds as our eyes meet. Sadly, I am no longer intetested in her, because of being shunned, for no apparent reason. If she is nearby she talks loudly, which she never used to do. Or starts messing around with another male colleage, right in front of me. Obviously trying to get a reaction out of me! I just carry on regardless and don't react. I have a sense of self worth, and moved on, as soon as she alienated me. Why won't she just leave it at that, and keep away from me?
Joyanima, your true of the human behaviour. If you get near the target they will give the vibes, it's in the eyes, don't hesitate that look or bonus smile
I want to take this opportunity to thank you.. I did everything you said and then she came out of her shell and come to me.. thank you🎉 and happy new year
YES. My natural temperament is I am a little bit unapproachable introvert and that all what you say is true. I have hobby that need I have to be connected with particular people and of course, that my activities are way to make friends too. But in other side, I am natural unapproachable introvert. That my behavior is a little bit controversial and some girls in work are staring at me like crazy.
I have tonight just had to tell the girl I care deeply about that I need to walk away because I’m not getting what I deserve from her, I’m putting far too much effort in for next to no return from her and I need to walk away. She called things off about 4 months ago and we started to reconnect little over 2 weeks ago but she is extremely avoidant and emotionally unavailable. Told her I can’t accept friendship and truly wish her well. She is now asking to talk about it and stuff. Truth is yes, I do want what I’m doing to realise her attraction, but at the same time I genuinely feel I need to walk away. This hurts.
It's true. it's the strategy i always give my guy friends.. Now you see me, now you don't. Do not be always available. Just like how girls intentionally take their time before answering your calls. Here's what you're going to do. Be with her, pay her attention, be the gentleman, whatever you do to get her affection. Do it for 2-3 days. Then, after that, BE BUSY. Don't pay her much attention. Don't answer her calls all the time. Just send her a text maybe once. Do it for 2-3 days as well. She will be annoyed. She will be pissed. BUT, SHE WILL MISS YOU. then, go back to her.. repeat the process 😂 it's push and pull.
yea the thing is though whenever a girl deliberately ignores your calls its just gonna make you think shes not worth it lol. It makes sense though since women don't have to do anything for dating thats why theyre so bored with it, and seek a "challenge" no matter how backwards it seems
@@zafiruzoma6234 if you think the woman "don't do anything"in the dating process then your game is wrong. That's the "challeng". Make her fall and chase you. You think you were able to approach that woman and got her number because "she did not do anything?". That's funny. Besides, I said take time to take the call. They will let it ring for a while but then answer it. If she ignores your call.. you know where you at in her priority list.
Great video as always. Appreciate it. Started ignoring her/mo contact yesterday. Btw…. You should make a video in regards to reasons NOT being blocked after being told that we are done/broken up. I am going thru a similar situation where my fiancé broke it off, gave me back my house keys and ring after being told she is torn between being happy and loving me. She then goes and says she knew we were done after I told her to think what you want to think after she said “I know you are talking to someone else. Not romantically, but talking”. She then gave me back the stuff after dinner out. An hour later she texted me and says I am sure you have someone else lined up. Then the next day she says I did not plan have what happened but knew we were done after you said the think what you want think part. Btw… she has not blocked me.
I actually lived a moment of reatraction gain massively by walking away...with an ex...but she must truly believe it therefore you must be really willing to walk away you will just transmit it so strongly naturally...if she cares about you...she will react
@@kidronreddy1671 Two weeks after I wrote that I started to completely ignore her. She tried to say "Hello" two or three times and then started ignoring me back. Evey couple of months she will try to catch my eye but I won't make eye contact. It has been 8.5 months and she never came to me asking what is wrong. We just ignore each other.
I've got these hints from this girl for so long... I started to ask her out, and she accepted one date, and started to play hard to get, i told her when she said ""idk" to a date request was "Ok, either we go on a date, or I'm cool completely with a no" Now the entire dynamic has changed....
I walked away, when I saw her again, it was as if she was in shock. It was not bad for me or about me. She seemed sad, so I not talk to her too much, just politely. Sort of felt bad for her, because I care for her as a human being and it seemed as if he favorite dog died. I also learned, yes I felt bad, because we are both human, but I also learned not to care too much. A friend asked me do you care? I nope, I don't care, it is her problem now not mine
Yes, aaaall of what Anna says is true....until they find someone new. So, pay attention gentlemen: walk away at the right time. Don´t wait to get replaced as I got.
@@Jake-by9ly Well, for what she told me, she got really hurt in the past. She gave excuses not to go out on a date with me: she wasn´t ready and such. I walked away by aggreeing on blocking each other. Came back two months later saying she missed me, so she came back but not to be together....I kept her around, started flirting like we always did, but she said once "its ok to play but not to fall in love" There´s when it hit me...last week I told her to meet for a coffee, and said she had to think about it cuz she was already seeing someone else, and didn´t want to ruin it, or have a misunderstanding with the other dude. It hurt. Only thing I did was "Thank you for everything. You have been a great lesson in my life and I wish you the best" "i wish you the best too" and blocked her. I would´ve erased her number...but the "edit" button is on the cracked non touchable part of my phone XD.
@@mosh2099 Sad for you. But you handled like a alpha for thanking her etc. When a woman is hurt...she will hurt good men actually.... mostly unintentionally
@@90s-Trance_86 Thanks for the alpha compliment! Felt nice! Yes, she came from bad relationships where she wasn´t a priority. Don´t know why she didn´t take a chance with me. Anyway, life goes on. So do I. Have a great day!
My ex came back after 2 years and when her new relationship ended. It does happen. Just remember most guys they date will fuck up. Just work on yourself, achieve your goals. By the time she came crawling back. I had a better job, a better body, moved out. New car. New place. And New girl!
Great content as ever....Unlike other coaches The best thing I like about you "Joy" is that you talk positively and does not force your decision (refer 1:46 )
I would say walking away only works if you actually mean it. If you use it as a tactic to pretend to be over her and wait for her to chase after you, she will be able to tell. If you walk away, it's with the understanding it's for real and she's not coming back. You're doing it for your own self care and self respect because you don't want to invest more time and effort into her. Should she actually start chasing you should see that as a bonus not your objective.
When I walk away it’s because I have stopped caring, or I never did. Good luck flipping the switch back on, but usually, yeah, no. Not interested, but what’s more insulting is when I’ve genuinely cared it’s been thrown back in my face and the potential ruined. So meh. I’ve checked out.
This video is only true for some women. If it’s a women who is highly desirable, she won’t be back for a lot longer vs a woman who isn’t as desirable. IF that highly desirable woman comes back, it’s usually for a self esteem boost to make sure you would take her back in a heart beat.
I've seen some of those beautiful women fall head over heals for years over a single dude this is maybe true to some degree but when you win her heart that's just not true
🤔 I'm in a matrix glitch where : I walked away because she walked away Or is testing me Or bored by my antics because I said something because I was bored by her antics as fuck you if you don't appreciate me
This might work with a few women as long as it's a very attractive man walking away, but to most women, men are easily replaceable. You walk away and she can find multiple men to take her out that evening.
Ok here it goes, Met this girl back in August, we instantly hit it off, i am older by 20 years , We hooked up every time we got together, had amazing conversations, fun together and just alot of fun. I have to admit I feel to quickly and told her, ( big mistake) she got overwhelmed, said she needed space. So i did, this is the second time to give her space. She knows Im not friend zone material, and I really like her, we connected again but she says she misses me, but she still acts distant. Should i just walk away, I consider myself a great catch, ??
it’ll serve you better if you just walk away now instead of being forced to later. She most likely has options and unfortunately she probably doesn’t view you as the highest one. If she did she wouldn’t be acting the way she is. Once a woman starts being distant all you can do is walk away, it hurts especially when you car about that person but keeping your self respect is the most important thing..
Bruuuhhh do what I do, don't talk much and keep to yourself, BUT when you do speak, say something that really grabs their attention or makes their jaw drop
@@SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 😆 I don't know that I care if it is a game. I allow people to leave my life with or without explanation. It matters not to me. 🤷♀️ If I have been seeing someone for a while and they disappear, I will probably check in on them to make sure they are okay and don't need anything... but if a relationship is new and the man doesn't know me all that well, I will assume he has found someone else or gotten preoccupied with life. Find yourself a woman who is complete without you. She won't chase you, but she will be a healthy partner.
They are attracted until you come back and then they lose interest again. Walk away for a month with zero contact and you will never hear from her again.
Then why would she get mad at me for walking away if she failed to make an effort to show up and be present. I asked her a million times, then finally told her that I was done. I'd she can't meet me in the middle and show up and be present. I'm done. I'm out.
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hi anna joyanima have see my lady freind today in town an well been meeting up with her this week or this weekend comeing up soon in few days time well ask if her an i are still on for going out for some cold drinks off beers or wines ate the pub with me sometime soon when shes not soo busying working an soo soo an going out for our coffee dates too togerther soon sometime its time i give her the no contact with me an her for sometime long now see if she come backtoo me
as i am been but busying with new baby lambs comeing out now etc. on the farm life its busying thats for sure an other jobs around the place an haveing a relationship as well with her well see how it gos with her an me bolth have loveley amazing week this week. anna joyanima. an this weekend as well too love from me in new zealand.
Can u please tell what to do when she come back?
This is true.
@@RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson the same ^^ ^^
Back in early ‘85 my buddy introduced me to his new female co-worker. I was almost immediately enamoured. I spent the better part of the next year pursuing her, but she played ‘hard to get’ to the extreme. I finally said f*** it, and stopped. Cold. Suddenly she was everywhere. But I blew her off. I’d had enough of the games. She finally cornered me at a social gathering, and apologized. Then she asked ME out. Just under 2 years later we were married. We just celebrated our 34th anniversary at the beginning of this month. Not saying it is the solution every time, but as I once heard in a movie; never chase women or buses. If you walk away, and they don’t pursue you, then it was never going to happen anyway. You saved yourself a lot of time, and heartache.
Thanks for sharing your love story!
God bless you..
Love it. Makes sense
Awsome love story. Very Alpha handling! You confront her and then she started to chase you. You two ahould have played in 'Catch Me If you can'😛
Wow thanks for sharing! True... we'll save time, effort and energy if the girl we're pursuing is n0t meant to be... by d way, did u tell ur wife u like her 0n those 12m0s of "pursuing"?
Never ever go away with the idea that "she/he will want me more".
Just go, if the person does come back, you go faster.
So true.
or when one door shuts hold the f^ker shut and dont let it back in...
fear of loss is 100x stronger then gaining something
In any relationship, whoever cares less has the leverage. Always be ready to walk away, even if you've been married for decades.
... but why is it more often so than not?
Well said. Works with buying and selling too.
I walked away from her two months ago and kept going.who wants a person who's glued to a phone 24/7 like most people today
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Exactly
Trust me guys if you end up in such videos, the person whom you love/like is not worth your time💯
Distance makes the heart grow fonder, but the hand go fondle.
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4 year relationship 1,5 month ago i pulled away because i could sense she was bored and she freaked out seeing me walking away,i told her if you are indifferent i will be too and she asked for space because i hurt her for being distant.I gave her space for one month and i texted her i need to take my stuff from your house it's over.She replied:ok
Be willing to go away from these situations,if she comes back and you still want her make your own rules this time and dont make it easy for her,if you dont want her back just move on.
It sure does work. It makes her come back. I have just experienced it again recently. And being mysterious is good. It activates a desire for you in her
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We had been seeing / dating each other for 3 months. She said she had no feelings for me and wants to date someone else. I told her I wasn’t interested in that so I will let her go. She cried and said she was going to miss me. Day 3 of walking away staying strong.
How is it going?
How'd it go
Dude keep walking, DO NOT take her back. Dumping you is the ultimate in disrespect.
Bros still walking
She had chose to break up with you. Look what happened after that. It turned out she was not even happy being with another man. She ended up crying because she chose to live a life cheating on you. Nothing worked out in her new relationship. So for that, she cried begging to take her back. She had been thinking she can get away cheating on you. Anyone who wanted a power to cheat will make up any excuse just like that woman. So all this time, you were considered a temporary hook up to her.
I can imagine that meeting a woman, complement her, smile, and walk away, now that is powerful. Thank you, Joyanima.
IT WORKED! She crossed my boundaries. I told her she just "Blew-up" our renewed relationship "Again." I told her I would not accept her screaming at me. I would not accept "F - bombs." I expect a woman to act and talk like a "LADY." 6 hours later she called offering to come cook me dinner at MY PLACE. I didn't let it happen, but she sure has changed her attitude. Now she is chasing ME!
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Don't let her back in. No matter what!
@@akbauer2525 It wont change, it will soon get worse!
I walk away, I'm 55. They didn't want me in their prime years, I don't want them in their decline years. The power of walking away secures not being financially ruined for the rest of my life. Men want women more than they need them. Women need men more than they want them.
So well said
This is great wisdom right there. 👌🏼
Last two lines sums it up
*When you show that you’re not afraid to leave, it signals confidence and high value - traits women are naturally drawn to.*
I love Being Mysterious..And I don't want to reveal my self and I don't want to talk to much.
This is true...a girl at work has been giving me alot of signs to approach her and when I finally did we had a nice chat but I felt like it was one sided and she didn't engage in the conversation as much as I did so basically I don't get the energy I gave...I just stopped talking to her since then and after a couple days she kept popping up out of nowhere to greet me and she had alot more energy she did when we first met as if she was trying alot harder to get my attention...
Hope you will get a long term awsome relationship!
Men need to focus on the womans mind MORE then WOman into mens mind!! That's a fact
thats a time sink bro
This happens all the time, I had a girl showing me signs, I ask her out, said yes then flake, then I pull away, she pulls in, I then have a date with her, she is enthusiastic on the date, then later I ask her out again, she become flakey again, then I pull away a little then I got a second date with her. Then later, she ignores me completely when with her friends, her friends ignores me when she is present, but individually they dont ignore me, haha.
So I just walk away, then later she ask me to join her for food. Bro, you see what I mean. Better talk to like 5 girls at a time, and care about none. lol
@@MARXMAN2009 that's on you really...yes this happens all the time but I don't go out with these types of girls in the first place I only go out with the ones that click. Most guys make the mistake in asking them out too soon as well or waiting too long and something that just clicks is never that complicated honestly. They don't always work out but you learn from each bad experience and you appreciate the good times alot more
I forced my significant other into accepting and admitting to how she was treating me when I walked away.. I kept telling her that I've come back to the person I was before the relationship and won't put up with bullshit anymore and she won't be getting any from me either..
About a month into having some distance.. she always is all over me whenever we meet up for a moment.. I got my confidence back and my sense of self back and she is happier because I call her on her bullshit and am not a doormat.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my UA-cam channel 6 months ago about self development. Now I have 411 subs and > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessonsÀ we that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
It’s hard to catch a woman chasing her like chasing butterflies. You think you have her but suddenly she’s 10 steps away. But then when you set your heart on someone else, she chastises you and you are still in the wrong. Women are always aware when a man is being tortured.
If you walking away from her you have all the power to decide to go back or not depends on the situation, but in my case I've walk away to a person that under valued me but when the time came she chase and try to win back me, I don't come back her anymore in that's my decision, I walk away with dignity as well as to gain my self respect and self worth.
A girl who I work with was being really friendly.
After a few weeks, I told her I had sent her a friend request on facebook.
The next thing, her profile disappears, and she started acting cold towarrds me.
With this, I decided to avoid her, or not speak to her, if we crossed paths.
I still caught her staring at me, many times, but she would look away very quickly, when I noticed her staring.
This went on for weeks.
Now when I catch her looking at me, she doesn't look away, and her staring lingers for a few seconds as our eyes meet.
Sadly, I am no longer intetested in her, because of being shunned, for no apparent reason.
If she is nearby she talks loudly, which she never used to do.
Or starts messing around with another male colleage, right in front of me.
Obviously trying to get a reaction out of me!
I just carry on regardless and don't react.
I have a sense of self worth, and moved on, as soon as she alienated me.
Why won't she just leave it at that, and keep away from me?
We broke up a month ago and it was so hard to walk away. But now I finally have the power to do so.
Just Walk away if you don't deserve to Stay.
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When you walk away, DON'T GO BACK! It ends for a reason. My life is so much better.
It depends on the issue somethings can be fixed ..
Tired of games and being hurt! No more relationships for me! I am walking away.
Joyanima, your true of the human behaviour. If you get near the target they will give the vibes, it's in the eyes, don't hesitate that look or bonus smile
I want to take this opportunity to thank you.. I did everything you said and then she came out of her shell and come to me.. thank you🎉 and happy new year
YES. My natural temperament is I am a little bit unapproachable introvert and that all what you say is true. I have hobby that need I have to be connected with particular people and of course, that my activities are way to make friends too. But in other side, I am natural unapproachable introvert. That my behavior is a little bit controversial and some girls in work are staring at me like crazy.
I have tonight just had to tell the girl I care deeply about that I need to walk away because I’m not getting what I deserve from her, I’m putting far too much effort in for next to no return from her and I need to walk away. She called things off about 4 months ago and we started to reconnect little over 2 weeks ago but she is extremely avoidant and emotionally unavailable. Told her I can’t accept friendship and truly wish her well. She is now asking to talk about it and stuff. Truth is yes, I do want what I’m doing to realise her attraction, but at the same time I genuinely feel I need to walk away. This hurts.
It's true. it's the strategy i always give my guy friends.. Now you see me, now you don't. Do not be always available. Just like how girls intentionally take their time before answering your calls. Here's what you're going to do. Be with her, pay her attention, be the gentleman, whatever you do to get her affection. Do it for 2-3 days. Then, after that, BE BUSY. Don't pay her much attention. Don't answer her calls all the time. Just send her a text maybe once. Do it for 2-3 days as well. She will be annoyed. She will be pissed. BUT, SHE WILL MISS YOU. then, go back to her.. repeat the process 😂 it's push and pull.
You can't do this forever tho
@@niveke only until she says yes.. The moral lessons of the story are
1. be brave enough to walk away when it isn't for you
2. Have a life.
yea the thing is though whenever a girl deliberately ignores your calls its just gonna make you think shes not worth it lol. It makes sense though since women don't have to do anything for dating thats why theyre so bored with it, and seek a "challenge" no matter how backwards it seems
@@dimpledimple5545 i am gonna try this. We started taking again today so in 3 days i'll just dissapear for a day and see what happens
@@zafiruzoma6234 if you think the woman "don't do anything"in the dating process then your game is wrong. That's the "challeng". Make her fall and chase you. You think you were able to approach that woman and got her number because "she did not do anything?". That's funny. Besides, I said take time to take the call. They will let it ring for a while but then answer it. If she ignores your call.. you know where you at in her priority list.
The video is about those who already have a girl... I'll see myself out now, thanks.
When you walk away, STAY AWAY.
If you return she will never forget it, or forgive you and she will plan revenge and you will deserve it, and her.
Great video as always. Appreciate it. Started ignoring her/mo contact yesterday. Btw…. You should make a video in regards to reasons NOT being blocked after being told that we are done/broken up. I am going thru a similar situation where my fiancé broke it off, gave me back my house keys and ring after being told she is torn between being happy and loving me. She then goes and says she knew we were done after I told her to think what you want to think after she said “I know you are talking to someone else. Not romantically, but talking”. She then gave me back the stuff after dinner out. An hour later she texted me and says I am sure you have someone else lined up. Then the next day she says I did not plan have what happened but knew we were done after you said the think what you want think part. Btw… she has not blocked me.
I actually lived a moment of reatraction gain massively by walking away...with an ex...but she must truly believe it therefore you must be really willing to walk away you will just transmit it so strongly naturally...if she cares about you...she will react
I don't know if walking away will make your crush change their mind, but it's a far better step then being needy
Very dangerous, people kill themselves over love
I started distancing myself and spending less time with her. Now she ignores me.
Any update on this comment.Did yourll fet back etc?
@@kidronreddy1671 Two weeks after I wrote that I started to completely ignore her. She tried to say "Hello" two or three times and then started ignoring me back. Evey couple of months she will try to catch my eye but I won't make eye contact. It has been 8.5 months and she never came to me asking what is wrong. We just ignore each other.
I show the power in the relation, I kiss my girl then I sit in the car and go home. Allways live your own life, enjoy the times together.
I've got these hints from this girl for so long...
I started to ask her out, and she accepted one date, and started to play hard to get, i told her when she said ""idk" to a date request was
"Ok, either we go on a date, or I'm cool completely with a no"
Now the entire dynamic has changed....
is she start to chasing you now?
@@boboiboy9350 yes and no, shes into me, but im totally unintressed now...
@@davidekback3963 i think you owe her one date at least that she has given you the first time. Or do you think its unacceptable as of now?
@@boboiboy9350 i have zero interest, i dont even want to smash...
So i see absolutely no reason to go on a date
when you walk away, you keep walking away. Otherwise it's an emotional tactic of a male dark empath who is playing her
Hi from México, I love your videos, very useful, thanks Anna.
I walked away, when I saw her again, it was as if she was in shock. It was not bad for me or about me. She seemed sad, so I not talk to her too much, just politely. Sort of felt bad for her, because I care for her as a human being and it seemed as if he favorite dog died. I also learned, yes I felt bad, because we are both human, but I also learned not to care too much. A friend asked me do you care? I nope, I don't care, it is her problem now not mine
Yes, aaaall of what Anna says is true....until they find someone new. So, pay attention gentlemen: walk away at the right time. Don´t wait to get replaced as I got.
Tou might be surprised after she gets hurt by other men. She may come back with a different attitude.
@@Jake-by9ly Well, for what she told me, she got really hurt in the past. She gave excuses not to go out on a date with me: she wasn´t ready and such. I walked away by aggreeing on blocking each other. Came back two months later saying she missed me, so she came back but not to be together....I kept her around, started flirting like we always did, but she said once "its ok to play but not to fall in love" There´s when it hit me...last week I told her to meet for a coffee, and said she had to think about it cuz she was already seeing someone else, and didn´t want to ruin it, or have a misunderstanding with the other dude.
It hurt. Only thing I did was "Thank you for everything. You have been a great lesson in my life and I wish you the best" "i wish you the best too" and blocked her. I would´ve erased her number...but the "edit" button is on the cracked non touchable part of my phone XD.
@@mosh2099 Sad for you. But you handled like a alpha for thanking her etc. When a woman is hurt...she will hurt good men actually.... mostly unintentionally
@@90s-Trance_86 Thanks for the alpha compliment! Felt nice! Yes, she came from bad relationships where she wasn´t a priority. Don´t know why she didn´t take a chance with me. Anyway, life goes on. So do I. Have a great day!
My ex came back after 2 years and when her new relationship ended. It does happen. Just remember most guys they date will fuck up. Just work on yourself, achieve your goals. By the time she came crawling back. I had a better job, a better body, moved out. New car. New place. And New girl!
If you are mysterious enough she will be convinced you are a secret agent, off saving the world... 😉
like james bond?
Great content as ever....Unlike other coaches The best thing I like about you "Joy" is that you talk positively and does not force your decision (refer 1:46 )
I would say walking away only works if you actually mean it. If you use it as a tactic to pretend to be over her and wait for her to chase after you, she will be able to tell. If you walk away, it's with the understanding it's for real and she's not coming back. You're doing it for your own self care and self respect because you don't want to invest more time and effort into her. Should she actually start chasing you should see that as a bonus not your objective.
When I walk away it’s because I have stopped caring, or I never did. Good luck flipping the switch back on, but usually, yeah, no. Not interested, but what’s more insulting is when I’ve genuinely cared it’s been thrown back in my face and the potential ruined. So meh. I’ve checked out.
damaging gone for ever
exactly 🤷🏻♀️
If a girl leaves u and comes back she didnt come back bc she misses u she came back bc no one misses her 💯
Walking away means no looking back.
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Another Great video Anna!
Glad you liked it Mark!!
Wonderful, wonderful Video! Thank you Joyanima !
It is true. Everything that she said.
It's all about self respect
Joyanima sweetie Please share something on LDR & how to imcrease attraction.
Abstinence makes the heart grow fonder.
OK now I'll end my relationship with her and with all women and with you too
Enough is enough
Headache and anxiety
@Syl Marques and with you too
Relationships suck. I’m retiring from the game for good.
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Brilliant videos Anna regards from Ireland 👍☘
Thank you Anna your amazing ❤️
This video is only true for some women. If it’s a women who is highly desirable, she won’t be back for a lot longer vs a woman who isn’t as desirable. IF that highly desirable woman comes back, it’s usually for a self esteem boost to make sure you would take her back in a heart beat.
I've seen some of those beautiful women fall head over heals for years over a single dude this is maybe true to some degree but when you win her heart that's just not true
Thank u! interesting topic..❤
Last but not least, if she has no interest in you, you gain lots of time and open a door to new opportunities.
Just did it,,she all over my socials
Hi Anna! Just what is the time difference between walking away but staying a thing vs. staying away to seal a breakup?
7:40
Rather wanna stay for something fake?!
Here’s where I’m confused. If you know when to walk away or why to walk away, then how do you know when to come back? 🤔🤔🤔
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🤔 I'm in a matrix glitch where :
I walked away because she walked away
Or is testing me
Or bored by my antics because I said something because I was bored by her antics as fuck you if you don't appreciate me
Hi anaaa following ur tips creates magic moments to me
This might work with a few women as long as it's a very attractive man walking away, but to most women, men are easily replaceable. You walk away and she can find multiple men to take her out that evening.
If you a low value male she won't give a squat if u walk away.
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In their minds, they wouldn't think a lower value dude to walk off...
A low value male won’t walk away
Great video!
Does all of this work even when she told me to not text her again and blocked me? 🤔😆
Hey does this added up to younger women too? Pretty sure it could because there are some who just don't give up.
Does this work on female friends too?
Doesn't work on a dismissive avoidant. They move on real quick.
Ok here it goes, Met this girl back in August, we instantly hit it off, i am older by 20 years , We hooked up every time we got together, had amazing conversations, fun together and just alot of fun. I have to admit I feel to quickly and told her, ( big mistake) she got overwhelmed, said she needed space. So i did, this is the second time to give her space. She knows Im not friend zone material, and I really like her, we connected again but she says she misses me, but she still acts distant. Should i just walk away, I consider myself a great catch, ??
it’ll serve you better if you just walk away now instead of being forced to later. She most likely has options and unfortunately she probably doesn’t view you as the highest one. If she did she wouldn’t be acting the way she is. Once a woman starts being distant all you can do is walk away, it hurts especially when you car about that person but keeping your self respect is the most important thing..
It’s crazy how females don’t gotta do anything all they gotta do just exist
Anna make a video on how to be mysterious among everyone
Bruuuhhh do what I do, don't talk much and keep to yourself, BUT when you do speak, say something that really grabs their attention or makes their jaw drop
Great thanks 👍
Mind games are for the weak. 2 people who bond with warmth and love and respect will be perfectly happy.
Getting her to text back?
Do all these tips work if she is the one who lost feelings?
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@@maitreychahataray3535 unfortunatly i don't talk to her anymore
Just done it
As a woman, I respectfully disagree. I certainly don't want a man to smother me, but if he wants to walk away and play games like this, I'm out.
Yeah well that works both ways
@@elliptor I completely agree. And honestly, it should.
How will you know that this is a game... 😁😁
@@SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 😆 I don't know that I care if it is a game. I allow people to leave my life with or without explanation. It matters not to me. 🤷♀️
If I have been seeing someone for a while and they disappear, I will probably check in on them to make sure they are okay and don't need anything... but if a relationship is new and the man doesn't know me all that well, I will assume he has found someone else or gotten preoccupied with life.
Find yourself a woman who is complete without you. She won't chase you, but she will be a healthy partner.
"Don't Treat a woman like an actress or Celebrity.. Because she'll treat like a fun"
-COACH PAPONG
Does this apply when she tells you she talking to someone else and then you tell her you can’t do this anymore and walk out?
Yes it applies here too. If you made some type of emotional impact on her(ie if she’s attached to you in any way) it will happen.
I've walked away, blocked her, and moved halfway across the country. Ball's in your court now, Anna. (Am I doing this right?)
Walking away also helps you re-regulate your nervous system.
Moving on is much Easier Than That I've Never Even been in a Relationship but I Some little bit of Things about girl
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Or....ask her friend out on a date.
Out of sight out of mind Anna ever heard of that one?
You walk away....they simply ignore you and move on to next.....just be practical....🤨🥴
That’s not always true the ones the ones who genuinely care will make the change .
They are attracted until you come back and then they lose interest again. Walk away for a month with zero contact and you will never hear from her again.
You are my lighthouse
Then why would she get mad at me for walking away if she failed to make an effort to show up and be present. I asked her a million times, then finally told her that I was done. I'd she can't meet me in the middle and show up and be present. I'm done. I'm out.
“Once they smell your desperation, they won’t respect you and you will never get what you want”
- (Harvey Spectre , Suits)
You’re going to have to work for this ice+cream flavor.
I’m not chasing a woman Anna because I’m not Elmer Fudd and she’s not Bugs Bunny.
This only works if you're attractive to begin with. If you're average, they won't care
Wonderful I love this video haha 😄
Can confirm. This doesn't work. I have walked away plenty of times and did not get these results.
Lend her some cash and then walk away or disappear-she'll definitely keep you in her thoughts!
If it doesn't add, walk away.
-CGA
Never take her back.
-SSM