In today's post-show, this divorcing couple and I discuss my break-up and today's WILD video title: ua-cam.com/channels/Le_q9axMaeTbjN0hy1Z9xA.htmljoin
Dissing a woman's car after she gave you all of her savings to get YOU a car that broke down after 6 months is crazy. This man's audacity is off the charts lol
Its wild because she bougt her 06 blazer for $2500, doesnt owe on it, got $5k from insurance and invested $2k(or was it $2.5k) for fixing it. So shes up on her investment if what she said was true.
dude's next car should be a wambulance! he wants to spend $30000 on a new car because he can't take the five minutes it takes to tighten a loose fan belt with a crescent wrench.
They are also splitting the car insurance? Why? She could just get liability on her beater and most of the premium is for his new car. When they get divorced she should get her own policy.
He is behaving like a child and tries to push every problem on his mother or other people. Seems like reality catches onto him and now he has to grow up.
It’s very frustrating how people can avoid accountability for things they consciously did if they can just say it was a trauma response Everyone has trauma dude, and it’s insulting to people who have much worse trauma than being homeschooled and haven’t detonated their lives. One of the guys i served with was in a roadside bombing where several of his teammates burned to death and he was the only one who was able to crawl out, and the dude ended up opening a bar in their memory and is a respected guy in the community
That's all I could think -- he left his mom's house to move in with a secondary mom that he could fuck. I'm glad she's getting out. A lot of women just stay in these kinds of situations and it ruins their lives.
@@qwertyqwerty-tz9ddAnnuled means the marriage legally invalid due to some reason (bigamy, consent issues, reliance on a fraud) and never happened. A divorce is the division of marital property but recognizes there was a valid marriage. With an annulment, you don’t have to go through some of the division of property stuff that takes ages in a divorce.
This girl is amazing. She's the first woman I've seen on this show that didn't insist on showy, expensive things. I can't believe Caleb wasn't more supportive. She absolutely has the right attitude.
They're divorcing at 22 but honestly this girl is dodging a HUGE bullet....too many of these couples come on here years down the line dealing with behaviors like his. She's smart to escape early on.
She might’ve felt that him being emotional showed how traumatised he was and that she could ‘love him into being a different person’ when actually he uses being ‘emotional’ to manipulate people out of confronting him with legitimate issues. It’s giving “I’m broken, if you really loved me you’d deal with my flaws but also you can fix me so if you’re unhappy it’s on you for not trying hard enough to turn me into a person you could love” + crying.
He’s not equipped to be a leader for a family. No woman will ever respect him and will run roughshod all over him. He needs to drastically mature before ever considering marriage again. A “Batman” themed weeding is something a couple of 6 year olds plan out.
She should audition for a Matrix reboot because she dodged so many bullets by divorcing this loser. My GOD! •Car shamming •Calling out his momma but is a mommas boy •Doesn’t like being called out •Narcissistic •”Disassociates numbers” •Doesn’t like drama My brother in Christ YOU ARE THE DRAMA
When Caleb said she could be debt free in a relatively short time and he has astronomically more I felt even more relieved she’s going to be cutting him loose. She has all the tools and emotional maturity to flourish in her twenties
Love involves passion and desire. They are literally childlike. The honeymoon phase always ends, just because the fire isn't burning like it did in the beginning doesn't mean you don't love eachother. The problem with these two is she's controlling and masculine and that makes him defiant because he's feminine and immature. @keyboardwarrior327
Hi Caleb! This is my financial win this year: Your girl here paid her business taxes in full for her 2023 as of today... AND I have money left over for paying my first quarterly taxes! All after aggressively paying off an $8k credit card balance in November. I'm proud of myself!
Congrats my fellow tax-cattle, MOOOOO! Let's all keep sending 40% of our income to our corrupt government so they can arm the taliban and send hundreds of billions to Ukraine. Let's not forget the 600 million to Pakistan for "gender studies" or the 36,000,000,000,000,000 + in debt they put in our name, then printed half of every dollar in existence when Brandon took office, causing the little money we have left to be nearly worthless. MOOOOOOOHH!! 😂
I believe he is emotional. If he had a REAL MAN for a father, he'd have nipped that cry-baby bullshit in the damned bud! Have some EFFING DIGNITY, for God's sake! And the crying can't be manipulation because his girlfriend is OPENLY DISGUSTED at it. If he really was manipulative, he'd stop it because it's clearly not motivating her to give him what he wants.
A man-child who cries when everything is "too difficult", who admits he's lazy, who refuses to accept responsibility for his actions, who blames his entire life situation on trauma, who "hates numbers", who doesn't like to be called out on anything........cut his mother off for being too narcissistic? That's fucking rich.
It’s actually completely believable. If he’s such a mamas boy I’m sure he didn’t cut contact for “no reason” A lot of unhealthy codependency does involve abuse. I can totally believe that he had a toxic relationship that needed to be cut off, and if that’s the case it makes total sense that it would be really difficult and traumatic.
also: thinks a squealing fan belt is a good reason to avoid used cars. dude obviously has no idea that this is one the easiest car problems to fix at home with the toolkit your mom sent you to college with
Most Kia’s are fine now. They’re decent economical cars. Mine has lasted me for 60k miles with only one small $200-300 dollar fix I had to be made. It was way cheaper than any Toyota with the same mileage and year 🤷🏽♂️
I have a feeling that _anyone_ who voices their opinions about him, or has the audacity to talk about their _own_ feelings or problems is considered "narcissistic" to him 🙄 And it's pathetic.
Real, tone it down. Please. I'd rather go back to the old more toned down titles of old. Videos getting to "Reality TV"-ish. Edit: Caleb, its pointless asking the comments to be nice to the guests when the video title itself is completely disrespectful. It breeds and fosters a culture of hostility from viewers.
@llehsir some people do freze up and have to think. My husband takes a minute to answer questions because he has to think but math he's the opposite. I'm the exact opposite, I don't usally have to think about question and answers but mental math is something I suckkkkk at. I didn't learn multiplication until middle school 🙃 then didn't touch it again until high school.(no surprise i failed math my freshman year and almost failed every year after) Our school system sucks but luckily I'm good with budgets and make decent money so it's not affecting anything important to me
@@llehsir well it depends. There's no excuse for this guy's lying about the debt he had and not helping with finances. Being bad at math is common and sometimes it is what it is. But the totality of his problems is the issue, not the numbers thing
Hes the "car guy", but she understands cars more than him. Shes 100% correct that her AC belt squeak is superficial, and doesnt affect engine health. Car is a tool to her. And her old, trusty, hammer still works.
Pretty sure you could throw a dart at the board and land on a more reliable car company than Kia, at least for the older model years @@nicholaschow1907
She def had low self-esteem to marry him in the first place, I hope she starts believing in herself, gets healthy both physically and emotionally, and finds a suitable partner, not an adult child.
My spouse went through a lot of trauma … and it made her more empathetic, more hard working, and more nurturing as a response of being denied safety and love her whole life .
To the young gentleman. It's not that you don't like drama, it's that you don't like conflict, and you are passive-aggressive. You need to stop speaking to your parents for a few years and survive on your own, this will improve the rest of you life greatly.
33:14 how dare he jump at the opportunity on shitting on her PAYED OFF (granted just needed a $2500 repair) when he used HER emergency fund to get his 2022 car.
He didn't use her emergency fund to get his 2022 car. He used her money to get the car that only lasted 6 months before it died then his dad financed the 2022 for him.
As a guy with legitimate trauma, I concur. I find Door Dash overpriced and ultimately useless. To each their own, but I'd rather get the damn take-out myself. It's faster AND cheaper.
Boba tea and Taco Bell delivered to the door doesn't cure trauma (just hunger). $2400/mo is just pitifully small wages, which automatically excludes you from using Door Dash.
I think a lot of people consider trauma to be a reason to avoid responsibility, when actually understanding your trauma should help you take responsibility for it and grow past it.
@@blubb7711my homie used to have a Camry straight piped that mf bro tuned it tf out I would call it a shitbox just to piss him off even though it was a nice car this guy seems like me don’t know shit about cars but knows enough to feel like a car guy but pumping gas is crazy
I want you guys to know your relationship is not broken because he’s emotional and you’re not. Your relationship is broken because he’s irresponsible and not accountable for his actions and she is tired of the negative interaction cycle- having the same convo over and over. Also it is 100% the person with the crazy mom responsibility to handle your mom and set clear boundaries
Im actually proud of that girl! Very proud! She just saved herself a life time worth of financial issues. I never say divorce is the way but in this relationship it had to be done! Especially when i saw how happy you were saying what car you drive with no payments! You go girl!
I really really really want to see a guest with zero debt that just needs help with their budget and not paying off debt! That would be so helpful and interesting!
Why do I feel like his “emotional” is him freaking tf out, screaming at her, then telling her his emotions are her fault before crying and being like “you know I’m emotional and you still do this to me and it’s all your fault”. I feel like he is volatile and emotionally manipulative behind closed doors.
I was thinking potentially emotionally abusive as well. She seems pretty level headed. Personality wise she reminds me of myself 😅 rational thinking and straight forward.
This is proof that so many of you people don't even understand marriage as a concept whatsoever. You see it as a state contract of civil union... and that's why a majority of them fail...
I got married at 24, my wife was 21, and we'd known each other for under four months prior to marriage (her father was diagnosed with cancer two weeks into our relationship and she wanted him to be able to walk her down the aisle), and a decade later we have four kids and are more in love with each other than ever. I will admit we got very lucky though, it easily could've gone sideways.
In my opinion they both seem confused and they found some sort of comfort in each other.. but the truth is women don't like emotional men.. she clearly wants a man who is in the lead..
One thing my dad regularly said to me growing up, and continues to say after I have started my own family is. A repair bill for your car is still better than a car payment that shows up every month.
This is a momma boy 100%. He left his mom and got himself another mom to take care of him. Grow up man. Your excuse if the woman that you grew up with NO can't blame anyone I didn't have anyone to show me shit and I survived made me even stronger.
Caleb!!!! We started the year with a 6.5% $11,700 student loan. In the first quarter of 2024, we’ve paid it down to $6,200. It’ll be gone by the end of summer. 🤩
great job!!! i’ve paid about 10k in my student loans since starting to watch caleb, minimum monthly payments weren’t doing me well but he lit a fire under me to really tackle them.
My wife grew up with way more childhood trauma than these two jokers. Through sheer determination, she worked through it and has become successful in all aspects in life. Soyboy uses trauma as a crutch to justify poor decision making. Everyone deals with some level of trauma in their life. This under 35 generation has little to no ability to deal with adversity.
I dont really understand what people mean by Trauma... But I will say I dont know what I would do without my car! I'm a massive car guy and most weekends the way I meet ip with friends is we go for cruises and use radios to chat while driving. And weekends are spent fixing/ upgrading our cars. So just cause you dont care for cars doesnt mean they cant be very important to others.
@@ImCanine Yes, having a car in American society is unfortunately pretty necessary. But in his case it sounds like they work together, they live together, they probably could have carpooled. And, he should have looked for a less expensive car. If you want a new car, it's better to at least get something a few years old with 10-30k miles on it or something. Tho, I can't judge too hard because I bought a new car in 2019 as my first car and I am hoping it will last me a lot longer but eventually, once I have to buy a car again (hopefully 10+ years) I'll get a slightly used one.
I could see the argument (but I DONT agree with it) a few years back I wasted so much money chasing a dream I couldn't afford at the time, and it was a humbling moment when I had to basically cut my losses since I couldn't afford the rent where I was building my racecar. I had to get rid of everything and that definitely was one of my all time lows. I wouldn't go so far as to say I had "trauma" over it, but there was a lot of pain and sorrow I had to overcome after the fact. I will say, though, I'm grateful for everything that experience brought me and really opened my eyes as a young adult.
@@SwaggahDontStop I mean just because someone is divorced, it doesnt mean they were not ready. Lots of people get a divorce because the partner cheated, or hid huge financial burdens, got hooked on drugs. Etc.
So, they lacked the ability to be responsible and mature enough to tell there partner they were unhappy, made a mistake, ect. Sounds like they weren't ready@@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist
@@caseyp3447 They could have been the other partner that didn't cheat, hide their finances, get hooked on drugs - they're still getting divorced to no fault of their own.
This poor girl- happy to see she is smart enough to leave and separate herself from this adult child. She has her head on right at such a young age… I’m impressed honestly.
This is kinda terrifying, they're so nonchalant about a divorce one year in. Disregarding finances entirely, it's so weird to hear casually "Oh yeah we're divorcing, we don't like each other anymore"
Financial win: Got completely out of debt after I started watching your channel last year, now have a $15k emergency fund, and had to pay several thousand in taxes (self employed) and just paid it all at once without even dipping into my emergency fund. For younger folks like me (25) who grew up dirt poor, doesn't have any financial help from parents, and didn't learn any financial literacy, what you're doing is incredible, Caleb. At a certain point once you're an adult it's your responsibility to educate yourself and get your shit together, and this channel is an amazing educational resource. Thank you, Caleb! 💜
They're literally children.... -Doesnt like being corrected -Emotional wreck -Over reliant on parents -"Hates" drama but makes everything dramatic -Batman themed... Wedding???💀 -Gets divorced after zero effort to fix marriage
@@antonioiniguez1615 no they're not 😂 they're whatever tf the people getting married want them to be. Are you seriously trying to gatekeep weddings? Lmao
She knew what he was like and married him anyways. Stop white knighting and accept she's a big girl that can learn to cope with the consequences of her actions
I did a self-financial audit and seriously curbed my bs/taquito spending. I'm spending less than a third of what I was three months ago. Thank you, Caleb and Team!
I'm 12 minutes in & man it really seems like she just treats her soon-to-be ex-husband like total garbage. Like she's battered him into absolute dust & it's really sad to hear how she talks about him right in front of him. EDIT: 25 minutes in & I get it now. Goddamn, son.
Almost everyone has some trauma. Doesn't mean it is going to affect your finances. It's easy to use trauma/ disease/ mental health as an excuse for things
As a homeschool grad, his consistent use of that as an excuse bothers ne so much. It makes more sense knowing his mom is a narcissist, but still. He needs to take responsibility for things. Fullstop.
Homeschoolers unite. I'm really glad my parents homeschooled. How do we even know his mom was a narcissist? We only have his word for it and his word is worth jack right now. His mom might have been fine, we can't know that from this.
So he's "emotional" and "dramatic" ... doesn't like being held responsible. doesn't like cooking. doesn't like looking at numbers i.e being responsible for his finances. smiles about his bad spending habits. doesn't tell his WIFE about his biggest credit debts. doesn't know how much he makes a year. he's not emotional - he's manipulative. PS I heard Hammer say to say nice things in here but I'm 20 minutes in and I would ask for a divorce from this man as well if i was in her position jfc.
I dated a guy that always cried about everything and I felt heartless when I got to the point of rolling my eyes. I broke up with him and now I’m with a wonderful guy who can rely on me emotionally but can also rely on himself. (By the way the first guy weaponized his depression and threatened to unalive himself at every disagreement)
Blonde chick will end up successful. Little guy will come out the closest, be buried in debt and either wind up in jail, have a bad addiction or worse. Anytime you run into someone like this guy, run the other way. They seem likable on the surface but their passive aggressive behavior will end up adding nothing but stress to your life.
I thought they were a lesbian couple at first, but then I saw his beard. She is kind of cute in a farm girl way. I would have been into her when I was single.
"I told you to get a Toyota, not a Kia." That right there that got me rolling!!! But for real, don't ever get a Kia or Hyundai. Once in a blue moon, you will get a jewel that drives forever, but the other 99% will blow up like his did. I am a car mechanic, so I have experience.
It's funny because the last number of cars my parents had were 2 Hyundai's they leased and then they just bought a KIA Soul a few years ago(2018 I think). It's not a bad car, but I don't know much about cars and trust everyone in the comments' opinion.` What do people recommend these days? IT seems everyone has a love/hate for every brand.
@AlvinKazu you're not wrong. everyone does have their love/hate relationships with all brands. Like me personally, I will always drive and recommend anything japanese. Mazda, Honda, Toyota, Subaru, etc. Those japanese know how to make a damn good car. But at the end of the day, just research the cat you are interested in. Don't just buy something out of impulse.
'Y'know the ADHD thing where if someone asks you to do the dishes , you won't do the dishes?' That is some oppositional defiance shit, it has nothing to do with ADHD
Oh god who DOESNT have ADHD now?? I'm so sick of self diagnosing cos of a couple of Google searches and some matching traits, and people use it as an excuse for EVERYTHING. ADHD is a real thing and now a brownie badge or a way to get attention. Gen Z didn't get the memo
So obviously they made this up, but to be fair to the community, ADHD, and ODD tend to go together, but most outgrow the ODD, or at least learn to deal with it, as adults.
he did get it wrong labeling it as an ‘ADHD’ thing, but this is called pathological demand avoidance, and it’s a trait of ASD!!! thankfully, it’s not some internet mental health-speak, but a legitimately researched and catalogued symptom of Autism.
It usually doesn't.` But him playing the victim hooked this girl into feeling sorry for him, and him trapping her because :"how can I leave he has no where to go, and doesn't speak with mommy anymore.." This dude is very manipulative.
@@jogandspHe's exhibiting a lot of signs. He doesn't like to be "called out" (lack of accountability/responsibility), he's emotionally stunted, he doesn't really show much empathy towards his wife and didn't really care about his finances and what he's doing to her.
Oppositional Defiance Disorder can be comorbid with ADHD, but not always. I have severe ADHD but am not oppositional (recovering people pleaser). My ex (who ended up being on the autism spectrum) however, has something similar called “Pathological demand avoidance”. It became so shocking that I became full of awe with how ridiculous it was. This man was able to *book our wedding venue* and invite his family and friends from overseas for the wedding, all while I said “umm aren’t you going to propose?”. He flatly refused to propose *because proposing was my idea*. He couldn’t do something to make me happy (or actually get us engaged) if he perceived he was being “told” what to do. 😂 I broke up with him (because right?) and he just couldn’t accept it. “But we are having a wedding! You WILL marry me!”. No, it’s “WILL you marry me”. He finally said those four words, but in the wrong order! 🤣
Yeah shrinks have came up with all kinds of disabilities that basically sum up to someone being an immature asshole. Everybody has a diagnosis these days when it's mostly BS...people just wanna explain away their stupidity.
I bought my apartment from a young couple that was selling it due to a divorce (after one year of marriage). I’m very grateful for their stupid life choices, cause it was 25% cheaper than the market value.
Sounds like a failed homeschooling case. Limited interaction with others, coddling, no lessons on personal finance. In this case he would have had better luck with private school.
He would've had better luck with public school... Or literally anything else.... And I say this as someone that was homeschooled, it's hard to have a good homeschool education
As an emotional person myself, I get the crying and overwhelming feelings. But you have to learn how to cope and be a rational human being as much as possible. I hope they both continue through therapy.
Yeah my wife is a very emotional person and she has worked on it a lot over the years to help us get through disagreements and small fights more reasonably. I have my shortcomings on the other side. We all need to grow emotionally over time just like any other form of personal growth.
I kinda hope that they learn to persevere through difficult adult circumstances. Therapy will only help them point out the issue and they’ve realized their areas of weakness. Therefore, their next move, especially for him, is to learn that crying in the moment is not going to make the situation get better or make it go away. There’s a time and place for crying and it can be done after overcoming a trial.
Legit though, I was raised by my mother in a house of sisters and aunties, but I’m not crying over “everything” lol what a episode though. Funny enough he probably came at them from a better angle then they’re supposed therapist, like when you told them to quit answering for each other they both look almost taken back ahahah, I recall a marriage councillor who was intentionally pushing couples apart then picking up one or the other later on, they kind of sound like they don’t hate each other, oddly enough even with all they’re examples it sounds like she tried over and over to figure this out but he just would cry about “everything” so would go nowhere by how he says “I don’t like dealing with drama” when he’s dodging questions about his credit card spending habits to his wife ffs ahahahah
Am only at the beginning but it’s fucking wild that the couple getting divorced is more respectful of each other and introspective on their relationship failures than the couples who insist their marriage is fine and only their finances are bad.
I was thinking the same. Obviously they have some feelings on what's happened in the past. But they can speak openly & address issues better than a lot of people in relationships can 😅
“My mother is a narcissist!” But doesn’t like anything that holds himself accountable, mmmmmmkayy. If she’s actually one, the apple didn’t fall far from the tree.
My financial win: after stumbling onto Caleb videos early last year, my friend and I started meeting regularly to discuss our finances and keep each out accountable. He managed to pay off all of his consumer debt a month or so ago and I've managed to get my $12k credit card debt down to $3k. I'm on track to have it all paid off in April!
I agree. And I truly think it’s that boys fault. There’s no masculinity, leadership, control, and goal-oriented. Just a liability and a little boy who blames trauma for his decisions
Nervous laughter is often a trauma response too. It's an automatic response that comes from trying to subconsciously convince yourself it's not as bad as it really it. 😢
I was an inmate in the prison he worked in, let me tell you, THIS MOTHERFUCKER CAN GUARD TF OUT OF A PRISON. If you fell out of line AT ALL, this mfer would take his billy club and JAM it up your ass. He was an absolute menace, and glad that I was able to leave early on good behavior. Don't let his babysoft exterior fool you, it's a ruse.
I was an inmate in the prison he worked in, let me tell you, THIS MOTHERFUCKER CAN GUARD TF OUT OF A PRISON. If you fell out of line AT ALL, this mfer would take his billy club and JAM it up your ass. He was an absolute menace, and glad that I was able to leave early on good behavior. Don't let his babysoft exterior fool you, it's a ruse.
I feel like I always hear the word narcissist from people who absolutely do not have their shit together. Example: my sister in law. 3 kids from 3 different heroin addict daddies and lives off the state. Every person she has ever met is a narcissist.
@@kennethmc2601that just makes sense though 😂 like, would you be surprised if somebody who lived in a hospital said “God, everybody I meet is a freakin’ hospital patient”? Addicts are actively engaging in narcissistic behavior all the time. Doesn’t mean they’re actually narcissists, but as far as you can tell from the outside looking in, that’s definitely how they appear.
This man over here with a car payment telling his future ex wife her car is a pile of shit- OKAY SIR you’ve never lived alone and you have like 10k in credit card debt SIT DOWN and shut up my guy.
This is exactly what stood out to me. Why was he dogging her car so bad? Clearly she knows it’s not new and shiny but she doesn’t have payments, that’s the point.
This infuriated me. He claims he's a car guy, yet won't learn how to fix em? She doesn't have a payment, that car WILL likely last for several years, and dropped 2k on it is called maintenance!!!
@@socoldinsidex3knowing how to fix cars is one thing but bitching about a squeeling accessory belt as if it's going to to cause the car to catastrophically fail makes me think he doesn't know shit. He can tell if a car is shiny and read the horsepower and 0-60 on a spec sheet.
I was homeschooled and my parents did a great job across the board. It's homeschoolers like this who give us a bad name. We're not all weird and helpless yall!!
Recognizing a failing relationship earlier on is far superior to unhappily muddling through life to keep up a societal standard. Repsect and luck to them.
Yeah, too many old people's comments saying it's because kids don't know how to work through problems anymore. She tried, he didn't want to fix anything, so she's cutting bait. Smart woman.
I have a lot of sympathy for Sarah, anyone who has dated someone like this knows how utterly mentally and financially draining it is, she deserves much better.
I think they both do in a way. They both have some serious growing up to do because neither ones mentality will be good for their future relationships.
Yup! They don’t start off like a child so you get sucked into how kind and caring they are and then once it’s too late and they show their true colors and feel stuck
Doordash would be a close 2nd. I think Klarna/Afterpay could be arguably worse. I haven't used either because I live in the country I can't really use DD, Klarna on the other hand can be used anywhere for almost anything
@@Username0467 and nobody gay until it didn't put your life at risk 🤷♀️ boomers are hilarious in thinking that just because something is talked about more today doesn't mean it didn't exist in the past lol
In today's post-show, this divorcing couple and I discuss my break-up and today's WILD video title: ua-cam.com/channels/Le_q9axMaeTbjN0hy1Z9xA.htmljoin
EXCUSE ME Y’ALL BROKE UP???
@@amandatp444 6 months, RIP. But for good and healthy reasons :)
Sorry to hear that Caleb, keep doing your thing! You’re killing it!
@CalebHammer Oh man, well good luck to you. You got this, man!! Rooting for ya!
@CalebHammer this sounds like cope to me
Dissing a woman's car after she gave you all of her savings to get YOU a car that broke down after 6 months is crazy. This man's audacity is off the charts lol
He is not a man that individual is a child for sure.
Its wild because she bougt her 06 blazer for $2500, doesnt owe on it, got $5k from insurance and invested $2k(or was it $2.5k) for fixing it. So shes up on her investment if what she said was true.
Dusty alert
dude's next car should be a wambulance! he wants to spend $30000 on a new car because he can't take the five minutes it takes to tighten a loose fan belt with a crescent wrench.
They are also splitting the car insurance? Why? She could just get liability on her beater and most of the premium is for his new car. When they get divorced she should get her own policy.
He doesn't like cooking. Or numbers. Or emotional situations. Or paying attention. Or being called out. Or learning new things. WTF
You literally just described a 2 year old, except I think they actually like learning things if you give them the opportunity
Or women, yet he married one.
He is behaving like a child and tries to push every problem on his mother or other people. Seems like reality catches onto him and now he has to grow up.
@@jacob9582frfr def a bottom
man child is the terminology for this one
Do NOT take a drink everytime someone says trauma.
Well unless it is water. Stay hydrated
Kidney and liver failure in the first 3 minutes
Trauma = I'm weak and need excuses.
@sataniclu you can still get water poisoning from drinking too much lol
@@Vub. SO THIS hahahaha. These people are so soooooft.
Its not trauma, its its WEAPONIZED INCOMPETENCE!!
Every Reddit tier loser has “trauma” and a “disability”
It’s very frustrating how people can avoid accountability for things they consciously did if they can just say it was a trauma response
Everyone has trauma dude, and it’s insulting to people who have much worse trauma than being homeschooled and haven’t detonated their lives.
One of the guys i served with was in a roadside bombing where several of his teammates burned to death and he was the only one who was able to crawl out, and the dude ended up opening a bar in their memory and is a respected guy in the community
@TheBajamin I have trauma AND a disability and still manage to not use DoorDash 😂😂
@@BlexgI have trauma from being shot and seeing people like this who have make believe trauma really annoys me
Facts. She enables it. He was created by a single mother. Boys need FATHERS
If you see this comment, do yourself a favor and delete door dash, most of these guests are in worse debt because of this
My thought process has always been if I’m not willing to go get it I don’t want it bad enough
It's their choice to keep clicking until the food gets there.
Truth, when I started using it it was very sporadic. Once you start relying on it the frequency goes up and it's so expensive. Delete that sh*t!!
I’m just glad I’m not stupid enough or I’m too cheap to pay extra for colder food and also feel obligated to leave a tip as well😅 lucky me ☺️
Delete door dash, create a budget, you're not a credit card person, fix your trauma.
This child 100% replaced his mom with this poor woman.
Yeaffff😂😂
I mean cry baby My God it's really pathetic
Home schooling does this
Their size in frame actually is pretty accurate to how they actually are.
That's all I could think -- he left his mom's house to move in with a secondary mom that he could fuck.
I'm glad she's getting out. A lot of women just stay in these kinds of situations and it ruins their lives.
Dude if he hid debts, then that's grounds for annulment based on fraud. Don't get divorced, get anulled
Can you get annulled after a year?
Sometimes it’s easier and cheaper to get a divorce
Whats the difference legally?
@@qwertyqwerty-tz9ddAnnuled means the marriage legally invalid due to some reason (bigamy, consent issues, reliance on a fraud) and never happened. A divorce is the division of marital property but recognizes there was a valid marriage. With an annulment, you don’t have to go through some of the division of property stuff that takes ages in a divorce.
I was thinking this as well.
She can get an annulment.
This girl is amazing. She's the first woman I've seen on this show that didn't insist on showy, expensive things. I can't believe Caleb wasn't more supportive. She absolutely has the right attitude.
She paid £2500 for 4 control arms… from a family mechanic… she’s an idiot
They're divorcing at 22 but honestly this girl is dodging a HUGE bullet....too many of these couples come on here years down the line dealing with behaviors like his. She's smart to escape early on.
She's realizing she doesn't want to replace his mom.
She might’ve felt that him being emotional showed how traumatised he was and that she could ‘love him into being a different person’ when actually he uses being ‘emotional’ to manipulate people out of confronting him with legitimate issues.
It’s giving “I’m broken, if you really loved me you’d deal with my flaws but also you can fix me so if you’re unhappy it’s on you for not trying hard enough to turn me into a person you could love” + crying.
Yup. I’m happy they’re ending it, no babies and still young
Yeah she seems to have a good head on her shoulders, 100% dodging a bullet playing mommy. Dude is a child.
Not making excuses for him, but could you imagine being asked a question and someone answering for you? Every single time?
in the beginning, I thought she was so unnecessarily mean to him, but halfway through the video, I can't stand him. I feel so sorry for her
I couldn't stand him in the first 5 minutes 😂
She really looks embarrassed to have picked him. He is a waste of air.
@@brighteyescry fair enough lol
He’s not equipped to be a leader for a family. No woman will ever respect him and will run roughshod all over him. He needs to drastically mature before ever considering marriage again. A “Batman” themed weeding is something a couple of 6 year olds plan out.
Really? It took less than 5 of him talking to not like him.
“I don’t like being called out.”
Ooooooh, buddy. Youre on the wrong show 😵💫
Who does? Homey ain't special.
She should audition for a Matrix reboot because she dodged so many bullets by divorcing this loser. My GOD!
•Car shamming
•Calling out his momma but is a mommas boy
•Doesn’t like being called out
•Narcissistic
•”Disassociates numbers”
•Doesn’t like drama
My brother in Christ YOU ARE THE DRAMA
He absolutely enjoys each of those issues. They're his whole personality.
He used her in all kinds of ways. She didn't dodged anything. She's just going through surgery to get the bullet removed at this point.
It’s called a gay man.
infantile narcissism, so emotionally immature, still thinks hes at the centre of mommys world
"My Brother in Christ" always cracks me up. You don't hear that unless you really messed up lol
Caleb: “So you guys are married.”
Sarah: “For now.”
Honey, come quick! The new Financial Audit video just dropped!
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My wife refuses to watch these audits 😅😅
It makes her puke😂
Cut to ad haha
When Caleb said she could be debt free in a relatively short time and he has astronomically more I felt even more relieved she’s going to be cutting him loose. She has all the tools and emotional maturity to flourish in her twenties
Providing she hits the gym.
@@redbeard1891I’d be eating a bunch too having to deal with his emotional ahhh
@@stargazer1835💀💀
@@redbeard1891?? Is they needed
@@stargazer1835(Homer Simpson) Mmmmmm bruunnnnch 🤤🤤 🤤
“When the honeymoon phase dies the love dies with it” then you never loved each other to begin with.
That is why they are getting a divorce
Confusing love with passion or desire.. and then this happens.
@@airi8395 Stupid question, how do you tell the difference?
Love involves passion and desire. They are literally childlike. The honeymoon phase always ends, just because the fire isn't burning like it did in the beginning doesn't mean you don't love eachother. The problem with these two is she's controlling and masculine and that makes him defiant because he's feminine and immature.
@keyboardwarrior327
@@keyboardwarrior327
Get past the stage of being horny 24/7 and see if you even still like each other
Hi Caleb! This is my financial win this year: Your girl here paid her business taxes in full for her 2023 as of today... AND I have money left over for paying my first quarterly taxes! All after aggressively paying off an $8k credit card balance in November. I'm proud of myself!
You should be proud. Well done! Here, you dropped this 👑
👏👏👏👏👏
Congratulations it may have been hard but just know that no matter who or where or what you are doing I am proud of how far you have come
Incredible! So proud of you 🎉
Congrats my fellow tax-cattle, MOOOOO! Let's all keep sending 40% of our income to our corrupt government so they can arm the taliban and send hundreds of billions to Ukraine. Let's not forget the 600 million to Pakistan for "gender studies" or the 36,000,000,000,000,000 + in debt they put in our name, then printed half of every dollar in existence when Brandon took office, causing the little money we have left to be nearly worthless. MOOOOOOOHH!! 😂
He's not "emotional"; he's manipulative. He uses tears to get people to leave him alone when he knows he deserves to be called out.
came here to say this!
i wonder where is his mexican grandma because this wouldn't pass with them. I know from experience
I believe he is emotional. If he had a REAL MAN for a father, he'd have nipped that cry-baby bullshit in the damned bud! Have some EFFING DIGNITY, for God's sake! And the crying can't be manipulation because his girlfriend is OPENLY DISGUSTED at it. If he really was manipulative, he'd stop it because it's clearly not motivating her to give him what he wants.
Almost like a woman
Just like a women or child, this (man) clearly is more feminine than this (woman) that much is clear.
My god. MY GOD.
You can tell she DETESTS this guy and she should.
Exactly
Yes she never once turned her head to look at her like he did hahaha
I'm only a little way in and I kind of detest him too already.
Does anyone not detest this boy?
And he should detest her as we
Seems like he financially used her to get out of his moms house, and now she's sick of having to take care of him and his issues.
Agreed
And he went no contact with the mom (at the same time?) so he transferred ALLLL of his baggage right onto this young woman
I hope she raises her self esteem so she doesn't settle for another man-child like this. You need a man who is your equal, not a project.
Bingo. Dudes a literal man child. 😂
Exactly
A man-child who cries when everything is "too difficult", who admits he's lazy, who refuses to accept responsibility for his actions, who blames his entire life situation on trauma, who "hates numbers", who doesn't like to be called out on anything........cut his mother off for being too narcissistic? That's fucking rich.
It’s actually completely believable. If he’s such a mamas boy I’m sure he didn’t cut contact for “no reason”
A lot of unhealthy codependency does involve abuse. I can totally believe that he had a toxic relationship that needed to be cut off, and if that’s the case it makes total sense that it would be really difficult and traumatic.
Dude bought a used kia over a toyota, it broke down and he bought a chevy spark. I agree with her, Dude is NOT a car guy lol.
he never even had his car
also: thinks a squealing fan belt is a good reason to avoid used cars. dude obviously has no idea that this is one the easiest car problems to fix at home with the toolkit your mom sent you to college with
Most Kia’s are fine now. They’re decent economical cars. Mine has lasted me for 60k miles with only one small $200-300 dollar fix I had to be made. It was way cheaper than any Toyota with the same mileage and year 🤷🏽♂️
@user-ey4ut9uc8w cheaper because of depreciation my dude. I have 280k on my 06 acura. All original equipment. Just routine maintenance.
@@dr_mugen155k on my 04 Acura I definitely agree 😅 minor maintenance
Saying she is narcissistic while she is still trying to help him is wild. Hope she goes on to have a much happier life and gain financial stability
I have a feeling that _anyone_ who voices their opinions about him, or has the audacity to talk about their _own_ feelings or problems is considered "narcissistic" to him 🙄 And it's pathetic.
I think alot of people here heard that wrong. He meant his mother was a narcissist if you follow the line of dialog.
that's a ✨️man child✨️
I only heard him call his mom a narcissist and that he cut her off and that it causes issues in their relationship or something like that
@@SAAWood13na it’s a trans man lmao
these titles are getting more and more unhinged every day
Seriously. I'm embarrassed to see the titles and thumbnails in my feed anymore.
Yea i don't really mean to critique Caleb or contribute to any negativity but the titles are so mean spirited
Honestly how am I supposed to share it with people
Real, tone it down. Please. I'd rather go back to the old more toned down titles of old. Videos getting to "Reality TV"-ish.
Edit: Caleb, its pointless asking the comments to be nice to the guests when the video title itself is completely disrespectful. It breeds and fosters a culture of hostility from viewers.
It’s marketing guys… you need a title n thumbnail to grab attention for his business
imagine having THIS as your husband... lmao i'd rather die alone
This comment CRACKED ME UP! 😂 😂 if I was a woman…I wud feel the same way.
@@toms.1773or a gay man like me 🏳️🌈
This dude worked at a prison… I’m so curious what he did there… door greeter maybe?
@@MaffyTaffyHaffythat guy is you.
The wife isn’t any better.
This kid is so soft. Can't count, can't cook, can't do anything without crying. Just move back in with mommy.
When she was like “I’m better with numbers but for him he has to really sit and think about it” Soooo an inability to do simple mental math?!
@llehsir some people do freze up and have to think. My husband takes a minute to answer questions because he has to think but math he's the opposite. I'm the exact opposite, I don't usally have to think about question and answers but mental math is something I suckkkkk at. I didn't learn multiplication until middle school 🙃 then didn't touch it again until high school.(no surprise i failed math my freshman year and almost failed every year after) Our school system sucks but luckily I'm good with budgets and make decent money so it's not affecting anything important to me
Mommy is the reason he is this way. His dad abandoned him and his mother overcompensated by coddling him.
@@llehsir well it depends. There's no excuse for this guy's lying about the debt he had and not helping with finances. Being bad at math is common and sometimes it is what it is. But the totality of his problems is the issue, not the numbers thing
He is, but she's an underrated POS here.
Hes the "car guy", but she understands cars more than him. Shes 100% correct that her AC belt squeak is superficial, and doesnt affect engine health. Car is a tool to her. And her old, trusty, hammer still works.
100%
He bought a KIA, he is not good with cars
Even she knows that a Toyota is a much better choice than a Kia. The audacity of him to think he is the "car guy"!
Pretty sure you could throw a dart at the board and land on a more reliable car company than Kia, at least for the older model years @@nicholaschow1907
Yo do the people know what the title of the video is gonna be 😂
Why do they look like they're going to send out invitations for the divorce? 😅😂
😅😅😅
"No children" by the Mountain Goats starts playing.
Divorce parties are a thing.
Bad finances can cause divorce, so it ties in
@@TaratheEnchantressright but usually, both spouses are not in attendance at the same party 😂
She def had low self-esteem to marry him in the first place, I hope she starts believing in herself, gets healthy both physically and emotionally, and finds a suitable partner, not an adult child.
She did 3 years ago when she met him, she is now in a better mental head space this child isnt worth staying around for
I’m so fucking sick and tired of everyone using “trauma” to justify every single bad decision in their life. Grow up.
hate that is people my age who use the word trauma so loosely that they will say trauma when talking about the time their parents took away their ipad
My spouse went through a lot of trauma … and it made her more empathetic, more hard working, and more nurturing as a response of being denied safety and love her whole life .
Seriously! Therapy and trauma addicts.
So sick of it!
Every person in the history of the world has had "trauma." Use it! Learn from it, grow up and be a better person.
Most times it’s first world BS
To the young gentleman. It's not that you don't like drama, it's that you don't like conflict, and you are passive-aggressive. You need to stop speaking to your parents for a few years and survive on your own, this will improve the rest of you life greatly.
2 years of kicking and screaming until I got my husband to see that for himself, definitely agree with you
thats not a dude. lol
There’s no aggression in him
@@BidenCuckSoyBoy nah… He’s just super ghey…
Thats a trans man yo
I'm not married to this dude and I wanna divorce him! I don't blame her at all!
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33:14 how dare he jump at the opportunity on shitting on her PAYED OFF (granted just needed a $2500 repair) when he used HER emergency fund to get his 2022 car.
* PAID
Thank you for saving the grammar nazis from having an aneurysm
@@b.h.8421
?? He IS a grammar Nazi!
He didn't use her emergency fund to get his 2022 car. He used her money to get the car that only lasted 6 months before it died then his dad financed the 2022 for him.
He's not a car guy, he's a car snob.
She looks so validated every time Caleb yells at her future ex-husband
"We both have trauma". Join the club of adulthood. TRAUMA IS NOT AN EXCUSE TO DOOR DASH.
As a guy with legitimate trauma, I concur. I find Door Dash overpriced and ultimately useless. To each their own, but I'd rather get the damn take-out myself. It's faster AND cheaper.
It's the new buzzword for l00000000zers
Boba tea and Taco Bell delivered to the door doesn't cure trauma (just hunger). $2400/mo is just pitifully small wages, which automatically excludes you from using Door Dash.
Funniest shit to hear
I think a lot of people consider trauma to be a reason to avoid responsibility, when actually understanding your trauma should help you take responsibility for it and grow past it.
Bro learned how to pump his own gas and calls himself a "car guy" now lol
“Car guy” drives a Chevy spark 😂
Bro you cooked me with the Chevy spark 😭
@@trinityherring209you can even be a car guy with a Prius… but a spark is just terrible
@@blubb7711my homie used to have a Camry straight piped that mf bro tuned it tf out I would call it a shitbox just to piss him off even though it was a nice car this guy seems like me don’t know shit about cars but knows enough to feel like a car guy but pumping gas is crazy
@@trinityherring209 Literally just bought a spark..
I want you guys to know your relationship is not broken because he’s emotional and you’re not. Your relationship is broken because he’s irresponsible and not accountable for his actions and she is tired of the negative interaction cycle- having the same convo over and over. Also it is 100% the person with the crazy mom responsibility to handle your mom and set clear boundaries
Im actually proud of that girl! Very proud! She just saved herself a life time worth of financial issues. I never say divorce is the way but in this relationship it had to be done! Especially when i saw how happy you were saying what car you drive with no payments! You go girl!
Divorce for stupid reasons I'm not a fan of, but these 2 were just not meant to be together... Both have issues they need to work on.
@@AlvinKazu u right. They both need the right boyfriend :)
@@fuse911That is exactly what I thought.😂
@@fuse911Loool 😭😭
F this guy. Dragged her into financial debt at such a young age. Super selfish and considerate of him
It would be good if each one of them came back individually after their divorce as an update!
I'd LOVE to see that!
My money is on her succeeding.
She will do so well he would rot or find another victim
It would but I think this child would continue to leech off his roomates her and the other. He chooses not to learn how to be an adult
The titles scream clickbait, but the content is always aligned haha. Madness 😂
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The accuracy is unreal
I know!!! I was like no way... okay ill bite. Oh shit
I really really really want to see a guest with zero debt that just needs help with their budget and not paying off debt! That would be so helpful and interesting!
no it has to be a flaming reckage
I've been thinking the same thing! Was even thinking about applying...
@@tinywalnut6337 do it!!!
I'll apply.
He's done those
Why do I feel like his “emotional” is him freaking tf out, screaming at her, then telling her his emotions are her fault before crying and being like “you know I’m emotional and you still do this to me and it’s all your fault”. I feel like he is volatile and emotionally manipulative behind closed doors.
I was thinking potentially emotionally abusive as well. She seems pretty level headed. Personality wise she reminds me of myself 😅 rational thinking and straight forward.
Maybe so, but as far as we are concerned it's an assumption. An educated one but an assumption nonetheless.
You soft boys and gals love to use the words manipulative and abusive with no real proof really fast.
@@chuckgamble5696she said "why do i feel like" which implies shes giving an assumption.
without question he is more volatile with her behind closed doors than he is with Caleb in this episode.
Honestly him not telling her about the credit card, is reason enough for a divorce
More like annulment
This is proof that so many of you people don't even understand marriage as a concept whatsoever. You see it as a state contract of civil union... and that's why a majority of them fail...
Laughing about getting divorced at 22 after only a year of marriage 😳😳😳 STOP RUSHING THINGS
I got married at 24, my wife was 21, and we'd known each other for under four months prior to marriage (her father was diagnosed with cancer two weeks into our relationship and she wanted him to be able to walk her down the aisle), and a decade later we have four kids and are more in love with each other than ever. I will admit we got very lucky though, it easily could've gone sideways.
@@RushedAnimationI think maturity is the issue with this couple more than age.
@@kristencouch598 you got it, this home schooled boy with an narcissist for a mom isn't ready for the real world yet
A Batman themed wedding. 😢
In my opinion they both seem confused and they found some sort of comfort in each other.. but the truth is women don't like emotional men.. she clearly wants a man who is in the lead..
One thing my dad regularly said to me growing up, and continues to say after I have started my own family is. A repair bill for your car is still better than a car payment that shows up every month.
My dad said "if you have to finance it, you can't afford it."
My boss said the opposite lol, “you can have monthly payments on a new car or repair bills on an old one”
@@SamJ-sc9ojNot really the opposite when its an either or lol
“What do you cry about” was low key hilarious
😂
This is a momma boy 100%. He left his mom and got himself another mom to take care of him. Grow up man. Your excuse if the woman that you grew up with NO can't blame anyone I didn't have anyone to show me shit and I survived made me even stronger.
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This mommy is too mean to him :(
Yup. His mommy is a "narc" is the go to all the time. The day he was called out, attempted discipline, or told him no.....she got that label
She married him knowing he was already like that though. Why she would act like she didn't know or could change him is beyond me?
He’s a good example why boys absolutely NEED their father or a strong male role model growing up. Everything about him and his mannerisms is feminine
"i dont like" is not a valid reason for bad behavior from any actual adult
When the IRS asks me why I didn't pay my taxes, I'm just going to say, "I don't like paying them"
She is so sick of being his mom... I've been in her shoes before.
Caleb!!!! We started the year with a 6.5% $11,700 student loan. In the first quarter of 2024, we’ve paid it down to $6,200. It’ll be gone by the end of summer. 🤩
Congrats 🎉
Well done
I wish he'd bring ppl like you to the show!!
Unfortunately, he only wants to bring financial train wrecks or celebrities on the show.
great job!!! i’ve paid about 10k in my student loans since starting to watch caleb, minimum monthly payments weren’t doing me well but he lit a fire under me to really tackle them.
I believe zero "trauma" claims from people who say they were "broken" by not having a car, because they just like cars.
My wife grew up with way more childhood trauma than these two jokers. Through sheer determination, she worked through it and has become successful in all aspects in life. Soyboy uses trauma as a crutch to justify poor decision making. Everyone deals with some level of trauma in their life. This under 35 generation has little to no ability to deal with adversity.
I dont really understand what people mean by Trauma... But I will say I dont know what I would do without my car!
I'm a massive car guy and most weekends the way I meet ip with friends is we go for cruises and use radios to chat while driving. And weekends are spent fixing/ upgrading our cars. So just cause you dont care for cars doesnt mean they cant be very important to others.
@@ImCanine Yes, having a car in American society is unfortunately pretty necessary. But in his case it sounds like they work together, they live together, they probably could have carpooled. And, he should have looked for a less expensive car. If you want a new car, it's better to at least get something a few years old with 10-30k miles on it or something. Tho, I can't judge too hard because I bought a new car in 2019 as my first car and I am hoping it will last me a lot longer but eventually, once I have to buy a car again (hopefully 10+ years) I'll get a slightly used one.
I could see the argument (but I DONT agree with it) a few years back I wasted so much money chasing a dream I couldn't afford at the time, and it was a humbling moment when I had to basically cut my losses since I couldn't afford the rent where I was building my racecar.
I had to get rid of everything and that definitely was one of my all time lows. I wouldn't go so far as to say I had "trauma" over it, but there was a lot of pain and sorrow I had to overcome after the fact. I will say, though, I'm grateful for everything that experience brought me and really opened my eyes as a young adult.
You have inspired my husband and I to pay off 16,000 dollars in a 4 month period! That’s our financial win this year!
That’s phenomenal!
Awesome work!
Great job. That’s awesome.
It's so interesting to see two people with the same income, rent, and utilities but very different budget outcomes
Jojo Siwa married Lord Farquaad? Wild times.
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This comment is the best this video is going to get 😂
Now i cant unseen it 😂😂😂
I immediately saw Lord Farquaad! And now I can’t I see Jojo! 😂😂😂
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As someone who has been married and divorced, neither of these 2 were ever ready to be married.
I guess neither were you then?
@@SwaggahDontStopnope, I wasn’t. I rushed into a bad relationship. I’m looking forward to not doing that again.
@@SwaggahDontStop
I mean just because someone is divorced, it doesnt mean they were not ready.
Lots of people get a divorce because the partner cheated, or hid huge financial burdens, got hooked on drugs. Etc.
So, they lacked the ability to be responsible and mature enough to tell there partner they were unhappy, made a mistake, ect.
Sounds like they weren't ready@@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist
@@caseyp3447 They could have been the other partner that didn't cheat, hide their finances, get hooked on drugs - they're still getting divorced to no fault of their own.
Have you ever found yourself saying, "who the hell would date this person?" Then I watch these shows
Never underestimate how lonely people are
This is one of those so-called lgtv community happy families........ lol
This poor girl- happy to see she is smart enough to leave and separate herself from this adult child. She has her head on right at such a young age… I’m impressed honestly.
This is kinda terrifying, they're so nonchalant about a divorce one year in. Disregarding finances entirely, it's so weird to hear casually "Oh yeah we're divorcing, we don't like each other anymore"
That’s how life goes
They laugh about it. Disgusting.
she started to resent him after seeing him cry. rolling your eyes when your SO cries? lol what
@@lot2196 cope is disgusting. Personal responsibility is paramount to success
no women wants to see a man cry. she is gonna need a really tough guy to out man her as well. @@biigsmokee
Financial win: Got completely out of debt after I started watching your channel last year, now have a $15k emergency fund, and had to pay several thousand in taxes (self employed) and just paid it all at once without even dipping into my emergency fund.
For younger folks like me (25) who grew up dirt poor, doesn't have any financial help from parents, and didn't learn any financial literacy, what you're doing is incredible, Caleb. At a certain point once you're an adult it's your responsibility to educate yourself and get your shit together, and this channel is an amazing educational resource.
Thank you, Caleb! 💜
You did fantastic
That’s awesome! Way to go man
Great job. 👏
They're literally children....
-Doesnt like being corrected
-Emotional wreck
-Over reliant on parents
-"Hates" drama but makes everything dramatic
-Batman themed... Wedding???💀
-Gets divorced after zero effort to fix marriage
Theyre in their 20s its fine.
Honestly i wish all my break ups had been this cordial/mature.
I’m pretty sure the guy isn’t straight. That’s the main issue.
What do you have against people having fun weddings? 🙄
@@droid2D2C3P0 Weddings are supposed to be formal events
@@antonioiniguez1615 no they're not 😂 they're whatever tf the people getting married want them to be. Are you seriously trying to gatekeep weddings? Lmao
He is a disgrace for being called a man. Not one time did he take responsibility for anything.
I'm sorry i just want slap him he's one of those people who just pisses you off
He did admit that a sandwich isn’t cooking and he’s just too lazy to bring lunch to work
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You don't think he's a gay plant and this is a fake couple.
She knew what he was like and married him anyways.
Stop white knighting and accept she's a big girl that can learn to cope with the consequences of her actions
For a divorcing couple, theyre very self aware and present between themselves. Very respectable.
I'm pretty sure it's actually cause he's g a y
I agree. Divorce can be extremely contentious, so it's kind of refreshing to see it not appear to be that way with them.
car guy who cant fix his own cars = not a car guy
same thought. Real car guys RARELY buy brand new cars...He'd had that trailblazer squeak gone last year if he was a car guy.
Car guy would not go for a KIA
Squeaky AC could literally just be a loose belt
Also what car guy buys a new chevy spark😂😂
He’s a car guy, just not to the extent of he knows how to fix one
I did a self-financial audit and seriously curbed my bs/taquito spending. I'm spending less than a third of what I was three months ago. Thank you, Caleb and Team!
Nice work! It’s crazy how quick “no bs spending” becomes “I have actual savings”
This is awesome!! So happy for you!
Thats awsome. You should be very proud of yourself
I'm 12 minutes in & man it really seems like she just treats her soon-to-be ex-husband like total garbage. Like she's battered him into absolute dust & it's really sad to hear how she talks about him right in front of him.
EDIT: 25 minutes in & I get it now. Goddamn, son.
Just hit 25 mins 😂😂😂😂
Lmao same😂😂😂
Shes done with his BS
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took a drink everytime someone said trauma, i now have alcohol poisoning
I hate this generation
These people looooooove to blame their parents for their reckless spending.
bro misunderstood the assignment
When you get out of the hospital you can watch the remaining 45 minutes of the episode
Almost everyone has some trauma. Doesn't mean it is going to affect your finances. It's easy to use trauma/ disease/ mental health as an excuse for things
As a homeschool grad, his consistent use of that as an excuse bothers ne so much. It makes more sense knowing his mom is a narcissist, but still. He needs to take responsibility for things. Fullstop.
Homeschoolers unite. I'm really glad my parents homeschooled.
How do we even know his mom was a narcissist? We only have his word for it and his word is worth jack right now. His mom might have been fine, we can't know that from this.
@@pensandshakers This is true. For all we know he is the nacississt
Yeah most homeschoolers do better than the average public schooler, but this guy is the type that makes people think homeschooling is a bad idea
I was homeschooled. He is not the norm by a long shot.
Is she a narcissist though? We only know his side, which seems sus.
So he's "emotional" and "dramatic" ... doesn't like being held responsible. doesn't like cooking. doesn't like looking at numbers i.e being responsible for his finances. smiles about his bad spending habits. doesn't tell his WIFE about his biggest credit debts. doesn't know how much he makes a year.
he's not emotional - he's manipulative.
PS I heard Hammer say to say nice things in here but I'm 20 minutes in and I would ask for a divorce from this man as well if i was in her position jfc.
I dated a guy that always cried about everything and I felt heartless when I got to the point of rolling my eyes. I broke up with him and now I’m with a wonderful guy who can rely on me emotionally but can also rely on himself.
(By the way the first guy weaponized his depression and threatened to unalive himself at every disagreement)
Blonde chick will end up successful. Little guy will come out the closest, be buried in debt and either wind up in jail, have a bad addiction or worse.
Anytime you run into someone like this guy, run the other way. They seem likable on the surface but their passive aggressive behavior will end up adding nothing but stress to your life.
"Little guy will come out of the closet" lol my thoughts exactly
You nailed it except the part where you implied this guy seems likeable at first. He's obnoxious and pathetic.
Lmfao. I’m happy to know I’m not the only one watching this for pure entertainment
I thought they were a lesbian couple at first, but then I saw his beard. She is kind of cute in a farm girl way. I would have been into her when I was single.
He seems likeable? 🤣🤣🤣
Caleb trying to be a therapist listening to their problems 😂 I love it cause he asking questions we want to know. This was a good episode.
Agree. That dude was so diabolical it was so entertaining.
"I told you to get a Toyota, not a Kia." That right there that got me rolling!!! But for real, don't ever get a Kia or Hyundai. Once in a blue moon, you will get a jewel that drives forever, but the other 99% will blow up like his did. I am a car mechanic, so I have experience.
My step dad drives for enterprise rental. They get people all the time from broken down Kia's.
Currently trying to sell our Hyundai and no one wants it.
Those damn gdi motors😂 they live burnin up that oil lol
It's funny because the last number of cars my parents had were 2 Hyundai's they leased and then they just bought a KIA Soul a few years ago(2018 I think). It's not a bad car, but I don't know much about cars and trust everyone in the comments' opinion.`
What do people recommend these days? IT seems everyone has a love/hate for every brand.
@AlvinKazu you're not wrong. everyone does have their love/hate relationships with all brands. Like me personally, I will always drive and recommend anything japanese. Mazda, Honda, Toyota, Subaru, etc. Those japanese know how to make a damn good car. But at the end of the day, just research the cat you are interested in. Don't just buy something out of impulse.
everybody has trauma buddy, the only difference is that we dont bring it up every possible minute
'Y'know the ADHD thing where if someone asks you to do the dishes , you won't do the dishes?' That is some oppositional defiance shit, it has nothing to do with ADHD
Oh god who DOESNT have ADHD now?? I'm so sick of self diagnosing cos of a couple of Google searches and some matching traits, and people use it as an excuse for EVERYTHING. ADHD is a real thing and now a brownie badge or a way to get attention. Gen Z didn't get the memo
So obviously they made this up, but to be fair to the community, ADHD, and ODD tend to go together, but most outgrow the ODD, or at least learn to deal with it, as adults.
he did get it wrong labeling it as an ‘ADHD’ thing, but this is called pathological demand avoidance, and it’s a trait of ASD!!! thankfully, it’s not some internet mental health-speak, but a legitimately researched and catalogued symptom of Autism.
@@Northernheros✨*trauma* ✨
@@JasonGroomdon’t forget ASD
And this guy calls him mom the narcissist, looks like the apple didn’t fall too far off.
It usually doesn't.` But him playing the victim hooked this girl into feeling sorry for him, and him trapping her because :"how can I leave he has no where to go, and doesn't speak with mommy anymore.."
This dude is very manipulative.
He's not a narcissist. He's just immature
@@jogandspHe's exhibiting a lot of signs. He doesn't like to be "called out" (lack of accountability/responsibility), he's emotionally stunted, he doesn't really show much empathy towards his wife and didn't really care about his finances and what he's doing to her.
seems like he was probably the golden child to the narcissist
@@karlypark3683Yup, it's painful to watch.
That thing she’s talking about is oppositional defiance. And it’s the most annoying things to deal with as a partner or sibling.
Oppositional Defiance Disorder can be comorbid with ADHD, but not always. I have severe ADHD but am not oppositional (recovering people pleaser).
My ex (who ended up being on the autism spectrum) however, has something similar called “Pathological demand avoidance”. It became so shocking that I became full of awe with how ridiculous it was.
This man was able to *book our wedding venue* and invite his family and friends from overseas for the wedding, all while I said “umm aren’t you going to propose?”. He flatly refused to propose *because proposing was my idea*. He couldn’t do something to make me happy (or actually get us engaged) if he perceived he was being “told” what to do. 😂 I broke up with him (because right?) and he just couldn’t accept it. “But we are having a wedding! You WILL marry me!”.
No, it’s “WILL you marry me”. He finally said those four words, but in the wrong order! 🤣
Yeah shrinks have came up with all kinds of disabilities that basically sum up to someone being an immature asshole. Everybody has a diagnosis these days when it's mostly BS...people just wanna explain away their stupidity.
She didn't look at him once😂😂😂. She can't stand his behind and I don’t blame her.
Every time he goes to speak I swear I can feel her distane n disgust thru the phone lmao
This is one of the episodes that I would definitely love to see them return, and see where they both are in about a year.
I'd love to see where she's at in a year. He's irritating to the point of annulling my curiosity
when caleb said “what are u crying about” i lost it lmfao
I bought my apartment from a young couple that was selling it due to a divorce (after one year of marriage). I’m very grateful for their stupid life choices, cause it was 25% cheaper than the market value.
Bought an apartment?
In that case divorce is a good thing?😂
“I don’t like being called out” it’s called guilt. Dude got that blonde rich girl energy but he broke.
Sounds like a failed homeschooling case. Limited interaction with others, coddling, no lessons on personal finance. In this case he would have had better luck with private school.
my thoughts too, poor guy
And narc mother who kept the father away.
He would've had better luck with public school... Or literally anything else.... And I say this as someone that was homeschooled, it's hard to have a good homeschool education
Maybe he's just messed up.mentally and it has nothing to do with being homeschooled.
He seems lazy.
@@emmythornthat’s not true. Studies show that homeschooled kids do better in life and are smarter than public schooled kids.
As an emotional person myself, I get the crying and overwhelming feelings. But you have to learn how to cope and be a rational human being as much as possible. I hope they both continue through therapy.
Therapy culture is the cause of nonsense like this. He needs his balls to drop.
Yeah my wife is a very emotional person and she has worked on it a lot over the years to help us get through disagreements and small fights more reasonably. I have my shortcomings on the other side. We all need to grow emotionally over time just like any other form of personal growth.
I kinda hope that they learn to persevere through difficult adult circumstances. Therapy will only help them point out the issue and they’ve realized their areas of weakness. Therefore, their next move, especially for him, is to learn that crying in the moment is not going to make the situation get better or make it go away. There’s a time and place for crying and it can be done after overcoming a trial.
It's called grow the f up and be an adult.
Legit though, I was raised by my mother in a house of sisters and aunties, but I’m not crying over “everything” lol what a episode though. Funny enough he probably came at them from a better angle then they’re supposed therapist, like when you told them to quit answering for each other they both look almost taken back ahahah, I recall a marriage councillor who was intentionally pushing couples apart then picking up one or the other later on, they kind of sound like they don’t hate each other, oddly enough even with all they’re examples it sounds like she tried over and over to figure this out but he just would cry about “everything” so would go nowhere by how he says “I don’t like dealing with drama” when he’s dodging questions about his credit card spending habits to his wife ffs ahahahah
Am only at the beginning but it’s fucking wild that the couple getting divorced is more respectful of each other and introspective on their relationship failures than the couples who insist their marriage is fine and only their finances are bad.
I was thinking the same. Obviously they have some feelings on what's happened in the past. But they can speak openly & address issues better than a lot of people in relationships can 😅
“My mother is a narcissist!” But doesn’t like anything that holds himself accountable, mmmmmmkayy. If she’s actually one, the apple didn’t fall far from the tree.
It's a saying for a reason, unfortunately we can't pick the tree 😂
My financial win: after stumbling onto Caleb videos early last year, my friend and I started meeting regularly to discuss our finances and keep each out accountable. He managed to pay off all of his consumer debt a month or so ago and I've managed to get my $12k credit card debt down to $3k. I'm on track to have it all paid off in April!
Heck ya
How's that emergency fund looking?
Good job dude
Niceeeeee
Way to gooooo! Great job!
This is the most amicable divorce I think I’ve ever seen. They’re just laughing about it
I agree. And I truly think it’s that boys fault. There’s no masculinity, leadership, control, and goal-oriented. Just a liability and a little boy who blames trauma for his decisions
I'm pretty sure they're both playing for the other team.
Nervous laughter is often a trauma response too. It's an automatic response that comes from trying to subconsciously convince yourself it's not as bad as it really it. 😢
Which is pathetic. Marriage has become so secular and it practically means nothing these days 🤷♀️
@@thizzy8859 almost 100% likelihood
He gonna really be crying when he sees her bring someone else in the same house. I dont see how he worked at a prison
He might enjoy watching.
@@RyAbleloooool, he was the one passing the soap along the floor in the showers?
I was an inmate in the prison he worked in, let me tell you, THIS MOTHERFUCKER CAN GUARD TF OUT OF A PRISON. If you fell out of line AT ALL, this mfer would take his billy club and JAM it up your ass. He was an absolute menace, and glad that I was able to leave early on good behavior. Don't let his babysoft exterior fool you, it's a ruse.
I was an inmate in the prison he worked in, let me tell you, THIS MOTHERFUCKER CAN GUARD TF OUT OF A PRISON. If you fell out of line AT ALL, this mfer would take his billy club and JAM it up your ass. He was an absolute menace, and glad that I was able to leave early on good behavior. Don't let his babysoft exterior fool you, it's a ruse.
And when he hears her getting railed.
“They’re brave enough to come on you’re not” 😂 speaking to my soul Caleb. I don’t want anybody looking at my finances 😂
the irony of this guy calling his mom a narcissist
I feel like I always hear the word narcissist from people who absolutely do not have their shit together. Example: my sister in law. 3 kids from 3 different heroin addict daddies and lives off the state. Every person she has ever met is a narcissist.
@@kennethmc2601 The number of people I know like this...
@@kennethmc2601that just makes sense though 😂 like, would you be surprised if somebody who lived in a hospital said “God, everybody I meet is a freakin’ hospital patient”? Addicts are actively engaging in narcissistic behavior all the time. Doesn’t mean they’re actually narcissists, but as far as you can tell from the outside looking in, that’s definitely how they appear.
I mean clearly he wasn't raised in a great way judging by how he is handling adulthood.
Every single person comes on has no idea how much money they make. "What do you make per month?" and watch them have an existential crisis.
Or they answer in such an unclear way.
“I make 22”
An hour?
No, 22 hundred
A month?
No, each pay check. I get paid every two weeks.
@@121schmamgot me like 😐
Yeah as if they didn't know they would be asked that question
@@121schmamhahahaha
Im confused cause I’ve literally imagined in my head how a audit for me would go, and they’re literally signed up on the show and still don’t know ?!
This man over here with a car payment telling his future ex wife her car is a pile of shit- OKAY SIR you’ve never lived alone and you have like 10k in credit card debt SIT DOWN and shut up my guy.
and used her money for his car
This is exactly what stood out to me. Why was he dogging her car so bad? Clearly she knows it’s not new and shiny but she doesn’t have payments, that’s the point.
This infuriated me. He claims he's a car guy, yet won't learn how to fix em? She doesn't have a payment, that car WILL likely last for several years, and dropped 2k on it is called maintenance!!!
speaking hard facts
@@socoldinsidex3knowing how to fix cars is one thing but bitching about a squeeling accessory belt as if it's going to to cause the car to catastrophically fail makes me think he doesn't know shit. He can tell if a car is shiny and read the horsepower and 0-60 on a spec sheet.
I was homeschooled and my parents did a great job across the board. It's homeschoolers like this who give us a bad name. We're not all weird and helpless yall!!
Things ain't lookin' too great for Big Jojo and Lil Keanu.
Lmaooooo
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😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
You thought she was Jojo... but she was dio!
Recognizing a failing relationship earlier on is far superior to unhappily muddling through life to keep up a societal standard. Repsect and luck to them.
Yeah, too many old people's comments saying it's because kids don't know how to work through problems anymore. She tried, he didn't want to fix anything, so she's cutting bait. Smart woman.
I have a lot of sympathy for Sarah, anyone who has dated someone like this knows how utterly mentally and financially draining it is, she deserves much better.
I’m so relieved she is aware of this and is getting separated from this fool!!!!
She isn’t too smart as well
I think they both do in a way. They both have some serious growing up to do because neither ones mentality will be good for their future relationships.
Yup! They don’t start off like a child so you get sucked into how kind and caring they are and then once it’s too late and they show their true colors and feel stuck
I feel for her financially but she jumped on just about every snide remark she could've in this episode.
Financial win: paid a 25k principal payment against our mortgage!
Is that the only debt you have?
This isn't the ex she has trauma from? This will be her second worst ex?? That poor girl
Fool me once
I think he will be worst.
I think door dash is the worst thing to ever happen to this world
And Starbucks. I'm 58, never used/tried either of them. Home and vehicles paid off. Put three children through college.
Even worse than TAQUITOS?
Doordash would be a close 2nd. I think Klarna/Afterpay could be arguably worse. I haven't used either because I live in the country I can't really use DD, Klarna on the other hand can be used anywhere for almost anything
Social media is the worst, then door dash.
Right and the wheel was the worst invention coz it is responsible for all traffic accidents 😂😂😂
Trauma is the most overused word of the 2020s
It's almost like everybody suffering finally feels comfortable enough speaking up about it..... How dare they
It’s like how no one was left handed until it was destigmatized. Funny how that works
@@Username0467 and nobody gay until it didn't put your life at risk 🤷♀️ boomers are hilarious in thinking that just because something is talked about more today doesn't mean it didn't exist in the past lol
Seriously though! “I got caught in the rain, now I’m traumatized when I take a shower” 😅😂
Yeah too comfortable lmao. Get over it