The Plaintiff is my cousin and I can most definitely say that he is a very good father. He has a little girl now & when I tell you that this man lives for his children. We do not live in the same town but, every time I receive a visit from him (very family oriented man) it is because he is either picking up or dropping his son off (2 hr drive). We did not grow up together, but he always makes sure that he visits when he comes this way, & calls every holiday & birthday. Awesome dude...+ he can throw down in the kitchen! :).
The next time that you speak to your cousin, let him know that there is a group of black women that’s standing up clapping and cheering for him. We respect him, we honor him and we celebrate him… Let him know that we believe him to be a really awesome guy
Plaintiff won based on Defendant's own evidence. Plaintiff's response to husband's accusation that he can't get son a haircut because he can't get him was priceless.
That’s what a “baby momma” will do to “baby daddy”! A “mother” wouldn’t be in court lying about the “father” of her child! If people don’t know the difference between the two they will be fighting with a “baby momma” forever!
That heffa knows she’s dead wrong. I have NEVER understood women who keep the children away from willing fathers as often as we see abandonment. It’s heartbreaking fr. I wish they understood that they’re traumatizing their own children.
Real talk Mercedes 👏🏽 And obviously she doesn't want a good man, she wants a scrub. I bet the new hubby doesn't treat her well as the ex. Just my theory!!
The husband should stay in his place and encourage his wife to let that man be a father to his SON smh…she’s so caught up on proving he wants her that she proved the plaintiffs case for him 😂 EMBARRASSING
Who else screamed when judge asked her what plane ticket she thought she was being sued for, and the camera shot to the plaintiff leaned over the podium, hand to the face, like he waiting too 😂😂😂😂
I knew she was lying when the judge asked her so what plane ticket did she think she was coming to court for.smh.These woman need to stop interfering with these great dads who wanna be a father.Them being there teaching them and showing them different opportunities and advantages such as traveling can save their lives.He needs to fight harder in court to be a father to his child.Seems like she's more concerned about what he has going on in his life
I mean the whole family said it why would his whole family lie I would’ve never felt comfortable leaving my child with anybody who’s been accused of that. That would give me major anxiety I’m sorry.. The fact that we could never know for sure for sure would’ve made me uncomfortable.
Typical & Perfect example of a Mother using her child as a weapon to hurt the father. People don't want to admit it, but this has been happening, is happening, and continues to happen at a much higher rate than most believe.
All Black Women do that. They're so Bitter. As a Black Man myself its why I rather Adopt so I won't have to go through this ghetto B.S. to be with my kids if my Relationship doesn't work out.
The plantiff admitted his family members informed her that he molested a child. As a parent, I would have been anxious about leaving my children. She did the right thing. If she didn't, the comment sections would be lit!
Ok if she really believed he did what the allegations said why would she send her older child with him? Seems like she wants whoever she is with to play father to her children bc the older son was calling the ex dad too at one point.
You can tell from what they allow or label themselves as … if she is ok with being called the baby momma RUN… a real woman or mom would not allow herself to be degraded being called “baby momma”… a real man won’t refer to himself as the “baby daddy” either.. he will insist on being the father…. It’s too many out here that don’t know the difference between the two! Tragic!!
It’s women like her that make it bad for us single mothers 🙄 you push a father away when someone of us would love some help , participation and effort frfr
Exactly that shit is so aggravating to witness, like b*tch do u not understand that there are men who don’t give a flying fuck about their kids & here is a man begging u to be a father?
I can't stand a trifling "mother" using their children as pawns. It hurts the children most. He needs to get the court to establish a third-party handoff so he doesn't have to deal with her. She is jeopardizing her future relationship with her son. I know how hurtful this is because my mother gave my father a HARD time to see my brothers and I. Wouldn't let us outside when he came for us, and she would talk about him to us. He died when I was 16, and I resented my mother for all the time I didn't get to spend with him.
Wowwww! You’d think she would’ve read the messages before printing them out let alone BEFORE handing them to the judge… I pray the man gets to see his son and be in his life like he wants to… hell SHE probably the one that want ol boy back… 😂😂
They also went to court, and it was proven the bro lied. Good riddance, he dodged a bullet from this woman. She's vindictive, petty, and clearly a liar.
@@knightclassic1 unfortunately our women definitely can be very vindictive but I think its most women in general, I say that to try and not continue the great division we have in the black community when it comes to gender.
🙏I hope everything works out for him and his son! She is a liar and SHE wants him to want her, who sues somebody that you want🤣she has told that story so much that she believes it🤣
The defendant lied but she should've told the truth that she touched on early in the case. When someone's whole family says they're a child molester, as a mother you never feel comfortable letting your child be with them. His molestation case was thrown out but often times people get away with it until there are multiple victims. I hope it wasn't true & his son is safe with him.
She's trifling! Let that Man see His Son! The Husband "He doesn't do nothing for His Son" The Plaintiff how could I if She doesn't let me see Him? 🤔😆👌💯
This happened to my husband. It happens so often it has a name, Parental Alienation. This is sick and hurts no one but the children. These women are selfish and immature. The children suffer lifelong trauma from this selfishness.
I’m sorry, I’m not sending my son no where with anyone with a molestation allegation , I’m sorry if he’s innocent it’s just a risk I’m not willing to take!!!
I dealt with a woman just like the defendant. I ghosted her because was I was going through my bm drama that she knew about, I heard her on the phone with her bd telling him that he didn't want to see his son and only wanted her but the entire time i could hear him over the phone cussing her out screaming for his child. I was going through similar and I refused to deal with someone that would refuse the father access to their child. That new husband is not seeing the red flags
Her son is going to hate her when he gets older. She's purposely keeping the son away from him for whatever reason. She needs stop being miserable and allow that man to father her son. As far as the husband goes he just need to stay out of it or tell his wife to be a mother and stop being upset that the child father don't want her.
I would be in civil court suing my baby mother/father too if they tried to keep my child from me. He should file for child support money and full custody of his child.
She's not that bright. I know she had to read the messages that she was going to show, how can she not understand those messages will work against her.
Judge really tried to brush over those allegations. If the whole family said he did it and they went to court about it, he did that! It's an open family secret.
He said he went to court but it was thrown out. The mother also has let her other son go with him. He glossed over it because he wasn't proven guilty. The judge couldn't go on a rant about family secrets because it went to court and he couldn't condemn him because they threw the allegations out. He was neutral which was the right way to go given the circumstances.
Nah, I know someone who family lied on them TWICE about letting others molest their children. Had to let the case go when the baby told the investigators their family member (the accuser) told them to say that. So, it definitely can happen, especially if you have a messy ass family that loves drama.
You can never be too careful with your children. I know that people have been known to lie about this from time-to-time, but when *several* family members are telling the same story, it’s time to stand up and take notice. Where there’s smoke, there’s often fire.
The ending tho..."I can't get his haircut cus I can't get him"...they had nothing to say...
Goofy selves
Exactly
Damn shame😒
He pays child support! She’s supposed to be using the money to take care of there kid. Wtf is wrong with ppl. She’s slow
I wanted that comment!! 😂😂
When he told her shut up 🤣The plaintiff is sick of her.
He ain’t even finish the word he wanted to slap the bitch 😂😂😂
😂
I felt that too lol
He said that with heart
And her husband didn’t say a word 😂😂😂
The Plaintiff is my cousin and I can most definitely say that he is a very good father. He has a little girl now & when I tell you that this man lives for his children. We do not live in the same town but, every time I receive a visit from him (very family oriented man) it is because he is either picking up or dropping his son off (2 hr drive). We did not grow up together, but he always makes sure that he visits when he comes this way, & calls every holiday & birthday. Awesome dude...+ he can throw down in the kitchen! :).
Much success to your cousin and his children...saying hello from Melrose park Illinois ☮️ Peace and blessings to you and your family and friends 💯
The next time that you speak to your cousin, let him know that there is a group of black women that’s standing up clapping and cheering for him. We respect him, we honor him and we celebrate him… Let him know that we believe him to be a really awesome guy
@@thejourney4445 I most definitely will!
@@bluecollarscholarmelrosepa5673 Thank you & Ditto!
Thats awesome 👏🏾
Plaintiff won based on Defendant's own evidence. Plaintiff's response to husband's accusation that he can't get son a haircut because he can't get him was priceless.
Very
They said all the right things for this man to prove his case even the husband SMH
Facts
That inexplicable aspect!!!!! 🤣🌻☺️
The games that she plays with this man!! And what’s worse, her husband helping her keep his son from him!!
I love it when the baby mother gets her own self caught up with lies!! Great show 💯
That’s what a “baby momma” will do to “baby daddy”! A “mother” wouldn’t be in court lying about the “father” of her child! If people don’t know the difference between the two they will be fighting with a “baby momma” forever!
AMEN 😅✌️
You sound bitter
That heffa knows she’s dead wrong. I have NEVER understood women who keep the children away from willing fathers as often as we see abandonment. It’s heartbreaking fr. I wish they understood that they’re traumatizing their own children.
I salute you Just for using the word Heffa! 😄
@@gwattsrealestate 🤣😅 it’s a subtle alternative
Real talk Mercedes 👏🏽 And obviously she doesn't want a good man, she wants a scrub. I bet the new hubby doesn't treat her well as the ex. Just my theory!!
@@gwattsrealestate Lol 😂 🤣
My ex husband is going through this and I hate that he has to deal with this. I wish my dad would’ve fought to be in my life growing up. This is sad
The way he posted up on that podium… 😂😂😂
Zesty
@@veroniqueprince2282 in all sorts of the word!!!!!!
The husband should stay in his place and encourage his wife to let that man be a father to his SON smh…she’s so caught up on proving he wants her that she proved the plaintiffs case for him 😂 EMBARRASSING
Like girl that man said he wouldn’t fùck u with another man’s díck😂 idk where she from but that ain’t flirting where I’m from🥴🤣
Who else screamed when judge asked her what plane ticket she thought she was being sued for, and the camera shot to the plaintiff leaned over the podium, hand to the face, like he waiting too 😂😂😂😂
Did she not read what she handed the judge 😂😂😂
Nope😹😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️
Yeah! That was obvious. She handed the plaintiff his judgment on a silver platter!
I know right 🤦🏽♀️😂
Proofreading is a must😄
I think she’s delayed or something
I knew she was lying when the judge asked her so what plane ticket did she think she was coming to court for.smh.These woman need to stop interfering with these great dads who wanna be a father.Them being there teaching them and showing them different opportunities and advantages such as traveling can save their lives.He needs to fight harder in court to be a father to his child.Seems like she's more concerned about what he has going on in his life
Here's to all the real fathers real men
🙌🏿👑
Not that real if this Fat Dude doesn't go to Family Court and fight.
Thank you very much ❤️
Indeed! Real fathers and not a baby daddy! She acting just like a bitter baby momma”…. Thinking that man still want her! 😂
🙏🏽
I go to court more than I go to work 🤣🤣🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ LET THAT MAN SEE HIS DAMNNNNN CHILD 🤦🏾♀️🥴🥴
EXACTLY 😁👍👋
The stance the plaintiff had when judge Mathis ask about the plane tickets.
Right 😂
😂😂--Hilarious-- 🤣🤣
The way she stuttered at the end 😂😂😂😂
Bih almost started beat-boxing...
In Joe’s voice “🎶I can tell you’re lying cause when you’re replying.. you stutter stutter🎶” 😂😂😂
@@TallSkinnyCartman 😂She was straight bout to lie but he answered too fast....LOL!!!!
Ah eeeh auuh ooo oh um.....😆😆😆
@@TallSkinnyCartman 😂😂😂
Girl you know he ain’t no molester. That’s one of the worst lies you could ever spread! 😡😡😡😡
His entire family said it so she isn't lying his own brother press charges on him for sexual assault u didn't listen 👂👀
@Alex😍 we don’t know! but to leave a man over an accusation that wasn’t proven and didn’t hold up in court is kinda strange
I mean the whole family said it why would his whole family lie I would’ve never felt comfortable leaving my child with anybody who’s been accused of that. That would give me major anxiety I’m sorry.. The fact that we could never know for sure for sure would’ve made me uncomfortable.
@@ashleighforde3754 she said the “whole family” we only know of brother and aunt the brother prob told the aunt who told her
@@ashleighforde3754 she was lying in court and you still believe her when she said the whole family said it 🙄 geez
When the Defendant started stuttering, it was totally OVER.
Typical & Perfect example of a Mother using her child as a weapon to hurt the father.
People don't want to admit it, but this has been happening, is happening, and continues to happen at a much higher rate than most believe.
Yep...typical toxic behavior from grown bitter women.
Facts!
ABSOLUTELY 💯
All Black Women do that. They're so Bitter. As a Black Man myself its why I rather Adopt so I won't have to go through this ghetto B.S. to be with my kids if my Relationship doesn't work out.
@@mrshappilymarried1 Only Black Women that are bitter, I've seen it all
This was a crazy case and I feel real bad for the Plaintiff and the defendant's son because he deserves to see his Father!
By the way she keeps saying my child and not our child I know she be giving him a hard time smh 🤦🏾♀️
💯
Wow! It goes to show as soon as you hear an allegation of child molestation we sometimes jump to conclusions. I did not see this coming.
I'm sure the judge has found out those charges were proven false.
Yeah, you can tell she's a huge liar and will say/do anything to screw him over, even if it means putting false information out there.
I can’t get his hair cut cause I can’t get em! 😂 facts pay up an give that man his son …
I would jump to conclusions too. It happens more often than not
The plantiff admitted his family members informed her that he molested a child. As a parent, I would have been anxious about leaving my children. She did the right thing. If she didn't, the comment sections would be lit!
The way he told her shut up 🤣🤣🤣🤣
When she said he said “wash ya sheets ima come over” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that was it for me.
7:25 had me dead the way he way looking at her😂
When I tell you I was looking for this comment! When they cut to him leaning on that counter I lost it! Lmaooooo
Lmfaoo
😂😂😂😂😂
His body movement was like “Prove it Bih!” 😂😂😂😂
@@monumentalmoments7757 Fr 😂
Your situation will not always be like this. Better Days Are Coming!
Thank you Keisha. I needed to hear this
Here! Here!!
When he threw his head down and threw his finger up 😂‼️ & 7:30 the lean on the podium waiting for the response 🤣
Ok if she really believed he did what the allegations said why would she send her older child with him? Seems like she wants whoever she is with to play father to her children bc the older son was calling the ex dad too at one point.
I love when the truth prevails…
ALWAYZ!!❤🎉
I LOVE HOW HE BENT OVER AND START LOOKING AT HER WHEN THEY GOT TO TALKING ABOUT THAT PLANE TICKET BAEBEEE WHT TICKET🤣🤣🤣
The plaintiff is a great father 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It's all about who you decide to have a child with out here these days. It can bring a lifetime of pain if it's the wrong person.
If it’s the wrong person get ready for a life time of headaches.#OBP Bluesman
Absolutely correct
Preach
True story.
You can tell from what they allow or label themselves as … if she is ok with being called the baby momma RUN… a real woman or mom would not allow herself to be degraded being called “baby momma”… a real man won’t refer to himself as the “baby daddy” either.. he will insist on being the father…. It’s too many out here that don’t know the difference between the two! Tragic!!
When she got to stuttering I lost it 😂😂😂
It’s women like her that make it bad for us single mothers 🙄 you push a father away when someone of us would love some help , participation and effort frfr
Absolutely she is a liar.
That part!!!
Exactly!
Exactly can't stand that
Exactly that shit is so aggravating to witness, like b*tch do u not understand that there are men who don’t give a flying fuck about their kids & here is a man begging u to be a father?
She's delusional 🙄 😐 😒 🤦 😕 🤣
I can't stand a trifling "mother" using their children as pawns. It hurts the children most. He needs to get the court to establish a third-party handoff so he doesn't have to deal with her. She is jeopardizing her future relationship with her son. I know how hurtful this is because my mother gave my father a HARD time to see my brothers and I. Wouldn't let us outside when he came for us, and she would talk about him to us. He died when I was 16, and I resented my mother for all the time I didn't get to spend with him.
💔
The new husband's face was priceless 11:14
So glad that the plaintiff won!!! Good job dad!!!!!!! ❤
I believe everything he said! He still a little zesty tho! 😂
I bet that lady new husband is playing a role in him not being able to see his son
Wowwww! You’d think she would’ve read the messages before printing them out let alone BEFORE handing them to the judge… I pray the man gets to see his son and be in his life like he wants to… hell SHE probably the one that want ol boy back… 😂😂
Hold up his whole family?! But he said his brother lied. So which is it? Yeah Adios
Right. We not playing with that.
The brother was the one spreading the rumor and the family believed it
They also went to court, and it was proven the bro lied. Good riddance, he dodged a bullet from this woman. She's vindictive, petty, and clearly a liar.
The Defendant was giving Period Ahhh Period Uhh at the end 😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why would she deny him visitation of his own child when both of them are the parents?
Pettiness honestly. Its childish behavior.
@@relaxitsme_alex9104 Absolutely I agree 👍💯
All Black Women do that, sir. They use their kids as a Weapon.
@@knightclassic1 exactly
@@knightclassic1 unfortunately our women definitely can be very vindictive but I think its most women in general, I say that to try and not continue the great division we have in the black community when it comes to gender.
The way he leaned over looking at her around 07:42 mark almost took me out 😂😂😂😂
Sherman Sherman Sherman 😂😂
Hell naw 😅😅😅
😂
Y’all wrong🤣🤣🤣🤣
I died😂😂😂
The way I just screamed 😂😂😂😂
The defendant wrapped herself up in her lies with all that stuttering 😂😂😂😂
Damn she shot her own self in the foot 😳 🤣🤣
Not him doing the "Imma little tea pot" dance move on the thumbnail...
😢😢😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
That’s what made me click on the video and the case and this comment section did not disappoint! 😂
Lmbo at “I can’t get his hair cut because I can’t get him!” He told him right!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
If she got spooked because of the potential molestation charges she could have asked for supervised visitation.
He better get a DNA test before fighting for visitation over another man's child unknowingly! Ijs! 🤔🤨👎🏾
I Had the exact same thought. Shame that Maury isn't on the air anymore.
@@JoanvsJoanP
Huh?? What do you mean? Maury comes on every weekday at 11am where I live! Lol 🤗
🙏I hope everything works out for him and his son! She is a liar and SHE wants him to want her, who sues somebody that you want🤣she has told that story so much that she believes it🤣
The defendant lied but she should've told the truth that she touched on early in the case. When someone's whole family says they're a child molester, as a mother you never feel comfortable letting your child be with them.
His molestation case was thrown out but often times people get away with it until there are multiple victims. I hope it wasn't true & his son is safe with him.
It was thrown out because his BROTHER lied.
This just breaks my heart as a father. Sigh. SMH. I’m at a loss for words.
The telling statement is that she keeps saying "my child". It's not just your child, lady.
Might be only hers. With her ways, he might not even be the daddy
I noticed the announcer called the child “her son” instead of their son.
This is a good one. She lied and got caught and them stumbled. "I try to walk away and I stumble" (church dip)
This chick has 2 kids and 2 baby daddies. YOU meet her and say "I need you to be my wife." BRUH.
Mannnn at 7:43 I was weak ! lmao he was looking at her!
My man's stance at 7 minutes and 43 seconds. "So you did know?!"
“I can’t get his haircut cuz I can’t get him” I FELL OUUUUUT 🤣🤣🤣
"Any other evidence you wanna give me to kill your claim???"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He pays child support 🤣talking about he don’t do nothing for his kid
She's trifling! Let that Man see His Son! The Husband "He doesn't do nothing for His Son" The Plaintiff how could I if She doesn't let me see Him? 🤔😆👌💯
But why would they accuse him of that??
When you see men rushing to defend a man accused of such heinous acts , just know they get down the same damn way
IDK why but the plaintiff reminds me of professor klump.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Y’all disrespectful 😂
Idk why either 🤔 because no he doesn't 🤣🤣
So what hater
Cuz he does look like Professor Klump
😭😭😭 the haircut line was too funny😂😂😂
I don't know if he looks like professor clump or Cleveland?😂
Good case MAthis!! 🫡
This happened to my husband. It happens so often it has a name, Parental Alienation. This is sick and hurts no one but the children. These women are selfish and immature. The children suffer lifelong trauma from this selfishness.
Hello Octavia 🤗
7:42 his stands got me in tears lmao 🤣 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m sorry, I’m not sending my son no where with anyone with a molestation allegation , I’m sorry if he’s innocent it’s just a risk I’m not willing to take!!!
What the announcer said doesn’t make sense he obviously has reasons to take her to court multiple times
This mother is just like my baby mama,playing games with her son so his biological dad CANT raise him. She is disgusting
Ummm ok… so why does his entire family believe he is a rapist? Let’s talk about that…
This woman and current husband came on this show and made a right fool our of themselves! What liars!
😂😂😂😂she is lying,,,,,,stuttering, let that man see his son
I dealt with a woman just like the defendant. I ghosted her because was I was going through my bm drama that she knew about, I heard her on the phone with her bd telling him that he didn't want to see his son and only wanted her but the entire time i could hear him over the phone cussing her out screaming for his child. I was going through similar and I refused to deal with someone that would refuse the father access to their child. That new husband is not seeing the red flags
You were smart to ghost her. And you're right, the defendant's new husband is not seeing the red flags. He should run before they have children.
I’m still trying to see where the allegations came from
Her son is going to hate her when he gets older. She's purposely keeping the son away from him for whatever reason. She needs stop being miserable and allow that man to father her son. As far as the husband goes he just need to stay out of it or tell his wife to be a mother and stop being upset that the child father don't want her.
Her husband is a punk, he should have checked him about that shut up.
Protect your kids cause he just might be what he is accused of 😔
Plaintiff: he said she said, she believed everything everyone said it except for me
Defendant: that’s a lie
😑😂😂😂😂
It's always the good fathers that deals with the most bulls**t!
I would be in civil court suing my baby mother/father too if they tried to keep my child from me. He should file for child support money and full custody of his child.
She's playing way too much
She's not that bright. I know she had to read the messages that she was going to show, how can she not understand those messages will work against her.
I love when a defendant plays themselves.
Praying for all my brothers going through this Bs with these women. Love you all brother hold ya head baby 🤘🏼we all we got
They better protect their babies from a predator
She has a SONS-Band !!! That husband is under her control … ✌🏽 😮
She's a lying wide back receiver.
She's childish. She should be happy to get breaks from the kids. Let that man be a dad.
2 uploads on a Sunday? Happy Sunday indeed! Hey JM fam ❤
That stuttering from the defendant at the end TOOK ME OUT🤣🤣🤣‼️
The comments section got me on the floor🤣🤣🤣🤣
Her husband is there lookin mighty embarrassed
Judge thank you so
Judge really tried to brush over those allegations. If the whole family said he did it and they went to court about it, he did that! It's an open family secret.
He said he went to court but it was thrown out. The mother also has let her other son go with him. He glossed over it because he wasn't proven guilty. The judge couldn't go on a rant about family secrets because it went to court and he couldn't condemn him because they threw the allegations out. He was neutral which was the right way to go given the circumstances.
Yes…that was disturbing
Nah, I know someone who family lied on them TWICE about letting others molest their children. Had to let the case go when the baby told the investigators their family member (the accuser) told them to say that. So, it definitely can happen, especially if you have a messy ass family that loves drama.
You can never be too careful with your children. I know that people have been known to lie about this from time-to-time, but when *several* family members are telling the same story, it’s time to stand up and take notice. Where there’s smoke, there’s often fire.
@@NubianP6 but not always. Like this time. She just keeps making up lies. Like he wants her.
Her husband at the end just needs to shut up her lies got exposed right in front of him and he still tryin make the plaintiff out to be a bad guy
The husband sounds like he has a little sugar in his tank
😢😂
Yeah he does
Idc what nobody say, this man is telling the truth!!