@@user_number10110 the white mom of the biracial child probably has a better relationship then most black moms with their daughters particularly if they are darker skinned.
Going through it right now with my own children. I'm hispanic and their dad is white. His family is RACIST. Never took my kids out for ice cream, playground, or even got them a gift worth more than a $1. My oldest is 14. If only I would've known this would have been my future, I would have never pursued the relationship.
Not defending the grandparents but they took care of the daughter when the mother couldn't and the father wouldn't. The girl seems to be doing well. If it was a one time incident, they could have recovered from it.
@@NubianQueen100 ok so do you agree calling a white cracker or white boy is the same as a white calling a black the n word? Why is it not frowned upon the same
Heard a similar story like this before. Sounds like the parents weren’t happy that their daughter had a child by a black man so they tried to shun him away.
The wife did what she was supposed too. A lot of people are bitter & it shows. They are both paying the child so she has every right to speak up & stand with her husband. Let that hurt go.
Yes to both comments. But judge could tell, they were anxious to get there point across about them paying! They were creditable. I don’t think anyone suspected them of lying
Did your mother 'let it go'? Stop telling Blk women to let stuff go when your father and other males mess over their lives and bring us your messes. She wasn't supposed to do anything. You just say that because you think no matter what mess you make out there we're supposed to help you clean it up. I'm not cleaning anything up for some 'out-of-control' walking dildo predator led by his penis screwing young girls who then runs to me to save his life from crumbling. F- that and him too and you too!
@@anthonyf8344i said it stopped him from seeing his daughter. what do the grandparents have to do with that? if anything it pushes my statement because it’s usually the family that are racist. they even put him on child support when he was TRYING to be active in her life and they were telling him she was too young, as if a child is ever too young for their parent who is healthy and loving. please get better discernment looking how you look or find yourself the next victim. your choice.
It has to be consistent in terms of frequency and amount. By giving giving random amounts at random dates of the month, the person paying makes it a gift.
You can definitely tell that her mother and the daughter stayed WITH the grandparents (i mean she was 16 duh). The mother prolly did go to jail for drugs. And at 17 he was prolly being told he wasn’t needed or to stay away. Especially after that cop/bridge situation, her parents did NOT like him. For the mother to say she didn’t need help and daughter was in private school it was ALL from the grandparents. Not HER solely. Now she wants child support. He owes it but the way she spun this story is wild.
She had rights to be there. She is there supporting her husband of 13 years against the devils that kept that baby away from her black side of her family for years!
@Custer55crip EXACTLY 💯 I don't understand women who THINK the wife should stay out of it when they BOTH contribute to the household and what he has to pay affects her and vice versa. The mentality of a bitter, UNMARRIED baby mama. Smh
For her to have the nerve to ask “Help her or help you” like lady at this point your husband is behind so yes it would help the mom if she’s only getting $200 a month.
Why judge Mathis didn’t come down on her for holding the child back from seeing there parent due to child support like he do other women what he didn’t wanna hurt her feelings smh
He is sometimes easier on different races I’ve noticed. Especially the drug habit…. Didnt even ask if she was on crack or dived into her history. Let that been a black mom he would of shamed her for missing out on her daughters life etc keeping him from the baby etc
He should have said something. But the father could have hired an attorney and went to court to demand visitation. He knew those people were racist and were going to bend .
From the comments below, sounds like I was watching a totally different case! Everyone down there blaming the wife for embarrassing herself, feeling sorry for the kid 'n all that. Almost *none* of you paid any attention to the details of this case. 1. The daughter and the wife have some kind of bond. They're joking and laughing with each other the entire time. 2. Not once did either the mother nor the father say anything negative against each other, other than negative *facts.* Facts don't care about feelings. 3. The wife was *not* nosy. Both the defendant *and* his wife own a business and the money comes out of that account for child support. Which means that she has *every* right to stand up and speak, not just on behalf of her husband, but on behalf of the business where the money is being garnished from. The plaintiff made no sense, couldn't produce receipts when she made up her lies, and JM called her out on it. The case got pushed back to the child support court and that's that. Bro was doing the right thing. Mom was doing the right thing. Bro's wife was doing the right thing. And, most of all, *that child is happy!* You can see that on her face! *THAT* is a rare thing to see on shows like this, it's always the child being upset or hurt or something or other. *Nope!* Both litigants are doing *something right* and you can tell by the look on their daughter's face. Point-blank.
Facts! JM also let the plaintiff off the hook after saying the defendant signed over his parental rights! This could have been damaging to his relationship with his daughter. The wife saw here husband losing and helped his case in my opinion.
Thank you! You read my mind! Another commenter said that she felt secondhand embarrassment at the way the wife was contradicting the husband. It was a small mistake, big deal. People can focus on that but not highlight how this man missed years of his child’s life because of her racist grandparents or how her mother was locked up for drugs during her childhood. My own people can be so damn annoying sometimes. 🙄🤦🏽♀️
When she said he gave up his parental rights in court so he didn’t have to pay child support!!! I felt that on my core. My child’s father did the same thing and the gag is I didn’t put in on child support the judge did after him missing many court dates and not going to meeetings to see his child.
The plaintiff is a trip,by trying to constantly insinuate that he was way older than her,when she knows she was down for the cause too and they don't have much of a age difference..
The wife had to whisper the" actual amount" of child support owed to his daughter because the Dad didn't know...smh, that how you know he WASNT PAYING..
Not necessarily... I am a business owner as well and sometimes i need reminders on certain bills that are due monthly. That do not mean he does not pay, it appears the wife handles the finances and he perhaps run the operation and that can quickly give you tunnel vision, trust me i know
They have a business and he’s behind on child support. Even with the car payment being deducted he’s still behind. That’s no excuse. Pay the child support and take her back to court to let them know the mom isn’t allowing you to see her. People make things so complicated on both ends.
Exactly!! Boastful about having the business why do you need the car you brought for your daughter deducted from child support? It’s like you can’t do anything else because you want too???? Clown behavior
Exactly! I can hardly believe that the wife of the defendant was so indignant at the end of the case. She gets an attitude about the pitiful amount of $200 a month they are paying of child support, asking the plaintiff if the money is for her! Really lady?! $200 a month does not even come close to covering the costs of raising a child. Have several seats. 😒
JM his daughter was raised by very racist parents and grandparents .And everything is back and forth with them. Even the young girls Mother was trying to cover up her parents and grandparents racism against the father. And I feel she only dated him because she already knew that it would upset her racist parents and grandparents who has a history of racism against African Americans.#OBP BLUESMAN
@@janethoward1161 I agree with everyone of you 💯. JM likes to believe that racism doesn’t exist anymore and I have seen some of his past court cases where racist southerners have been out right disrespectful to him because he is a Black Judge.#OBP BLUESMAN
Unfortunately people will continue to date outside their race and that is their privilege however these things will happen and they will come up I don't care how nice the family is I don't care how long you've known them do something to get under their skin and they will call you the n-word
“The wife should stay out!” Lmfao unuh. If IM also making child support payments to my HUSBANDS daughter, imma be up there fighting next to him for his right to see his baby.
He is a deadbeat, what kind of car are you getting for 2500, putting his kid in a hooptie. The whole thing is typical dust behavior. They told him stay away and you don't have to pay child support and he agreed. Then he buys a gift and wants it deducted.
@@rihannahaiti5570 jesus he hardly your very quick to judge him you don't know him and what he does for his daughter would you say that if it was the women who was a deadbeat as you so elegantly put 🤷♀️
He made me mad by not embracing his child in the end. She (daughter )needs his love. They should've hugged her in the end instead of being on the other side.
The wife, "help her or help you". What difference does it make, the child is living with her mom and he's never paid child support. It's about time that he did. The wife better be happy the mom isn't suing for back support.
So you must’ve watched a very separate case .. did you not hear in the video that she was trying to use it for herself. The money wasn’t for her it’s for her child. That’s why it matters
@@floridagirl386 what are you talking about? The wife and daughter obviously get along, she seems happy to be there support her husband and his daughter. The mother is no prize, she is also a liar. Saying that the dad gave up his rights. The grandparents are racist and kept him away. and from personal experience I know what it's like dealing with racist, manipulative, Grandparents to my children. It's extremely stressful and traumatizing It's a lot.
👉 This mother appears to currently have an addiction of drugs based on her speech & movement. The mother is graving now. The father and wife have a close bond with the daughter. It appears the court filing was unnecessary for $2500 balance (Rightfully deducting the vehicle). The sudden delay of $50 a week of child support was due to the adjustment for the vehicle.
This is nothing new. White women wear the gatekeepers of white supremacy. Plenty of the slave masters had black children and practice racism daily. I can guarantee you that wasn’t the first and only time her mother called him a slur. Hopefully the child knows something about her black side
Her age story isn't adding up 🥴. He mentioned him being the father at 17. Maybe I heard wrong. Also the daughter is stunning. Why did she bring her to court? He terminated his rights but he still is obligated to pay? But you don't have the paperwork?... also the daughter spends time at their home... Mam PLEASE...
Yes. You have to still pay child support my father signed his away when I was 14 almost 15. But he wanted it saying he didn’t owe back pay and I couldn’t go when I was older and sue him( yes a child can sue the parent )
I don't understand why would someone have to pay if they terminated their right and isn't or doesn't want to be there. I don't know nun about the legal system lol
@@momoni368 because you’re still obligated for the child . Usually people do it thinking it’s a way to get rid of a debt owed. You still have to pay. My dad asked to not have to back pay and make it where I can’t take him to courts and I know a guy who signed his rights he still has to pay his child support. I’m older now an adult actually and now my sperm donor is trying to be in my life . Unless he pays me what is owed I’m done anyways he was never in my life
The wife needs to take a backseat and let that man handle his affairs with his child! If you are helping pay because that’s your husband cool do that and hush. Women need to know not to cross lines when a man’s children are involved that’s aren’t hers. All the smart remarks and micro aggression will be cause for the child to feel the need to pick sides. Stay neutral and respectful as long as you’re being respected.
The Mother appears to still have a challenge in her addiction and perhaps got jealous of her daughter's attention from her father and her new stepmother of Jasmine and wanted some of their money-gift-care for herself, so she brought them to court to get PAID as well. But the judge sent her back to CS-Court.
The wife was proud to say she's helping him pay his child support. $200 a month means he's broke... So they wife is probably the breadwinner. Acting like she has a prize 😆
It's horrendous and inexcusable that the mother brought this child to this court hearing! Adult issues should stay between adults. The only positive outcome of all this is that the father was able to get on record how and why he was deprived of being in his daughter's life during her early years. It's shameful the mother and grandparents robbed this precious child of knowing her dad sooner.
Grandparents need to stay within their boundaries, they shouldn't dictate when a parent see their child, shouldn't make racist remarks, it's not healthy for the child.
What was this really about? Mom brought her daughter to court so she could hear her talk bad about her dad. However, she ended up exposing her racist parents (which I'm sure the daughter already knew about), her own drug habit, & her lie about Dad giving up his parental rights. Her & her family were probably saying that for years to explain why he wasn't in his daughter's life, well the truth finally came out. Wife, please SIT DOWN! JM was about to cancel the case because of Mom's huge lie. I don't know why people keep talking after they win.
She looks like a spoiled little grown baby😊 she was happy enough to tune out her parents bickering to be dancing to her own beat in court. I think overall they raised her with Love❣️ so they did good.
Normally I feel the current wife or girlfriend should stay out of it, bit I'm this case no she is making sure the child gets her money and that she is welcomed and at their house feeling loved as well #ItsABlessingWhenItsAGoodVillageHelpingYouRaiseYourKids
I totally believe her parents wanted him to stay away from his daughter. I'm sure the daughter is brainwashed into thinking her father didn't want to have anything to do with her
I wish JM would do update on old shows to let us know how everybody turn out. That brotha learned fast to leave those others along. The daughter now should be around 30 herself
Good to know she have a relationship with her dad now, and they have a good relationship also with his wife that’s all that matters to many dead beat fathers out here that turn their backs on their kids
It is sad for the child. The grandparents should have encouraged the mom to go and get child support set up ASAP from the time of birth through court and also set up visitation for dad. It is not that hard or even rocket science. INSTEAD MOM waits until now to do anything about the CS and denies dad visitation in early years no matter what reason it is.
I understand that some women do say that they don’t need the fathers money that have a deadbeat but if the mother is getting less than 100 a month which some women do. How is that suppose to pay for college in 18 years.🤔
@@WordsByAsti ok but what is she suppose to do with $50 a week. Being a single parent and the judge is saying that she should be grateful for that because that will help with college
@@Taurus42-l8l if my math is correct 50 a week is 2600 a year x 18 years its over 40k. That could do a lot for a child just entering college. especially if the mother was financially stable so that she didn't touch it
So if you invest it and they receive it when they are older! Whew, it's a really nice sum when they are 18+. If you don't invest it's a nice amount for adown payment on a home, land, business. It could be a great start. It could pay off a bill they have when they are independent and so much more. My daughter's money is her money and I can look at her money and say I'm proud of her dad for investing in our childs future.
16 and 17 had no business making a baby and then the numbers don't add up. Lord the wife and him have been together 13 years!!! You can't buy your daughter a car and then say the mother was suppose to take it out of child support. Smh
Crazy he only pays 200 a month which isn't even enough to feed and clothe a kid for a month and he's behind smh. U can tell he's a deadbeat. U bought a car for UR KID and u want that taken off for child support smh
The wife was giving attitude at the end...if you love your stepdaughter, respect her by respecting her mother at all times. The mother was respectful. The daughter is beautiful 😍
I don't understand why you would put yourself in danger. You know that he knew her family is racist. She knew that her mother is racist. How can you leave your daughter in that type of environment. You know the grandmother was calling the little girl all type of things. The mother allowed her to be raised there. The wife as a black woman should have avoided him. For so many reasons. Don't think it's not coming out of her money. You know she is taking care of him. Maybe I misunderstood but did he say that he paid $200 monthly? That age difference is weird. I would be mad about the age too if I was mom. Let's be real she didn't like him because he is black.
They helped raise her. Where was his family with the help. Those YT people paid for everything and raised her, she is biracial not just one. His family and him didn't want to offer a cent. It was all about money. He gave his daughter a cheap gift and wanted it removed from his child support payment. Maybe the family didn't want him alone with her since he was 18 impregnating a 15 yr old.
The mom sounds doped up The father should have went to get visitation rights... He dodged responsibility. The racist parents probably made it difficult for him
Stepmothers need to do a better job of staying the hell outta the way. The wife knows that dude and the plantiff will alwaysthink about trying again. They were young when that got together andit'll never die. It is what it is.
She knew she couldn't get that money like that you have to go through child support court really. When I heard business ik it was her a go but she couldn't get that money can she report him um yep and it would go up from 200.00 a month. Ain't nobody thinking about his wife daughter get your money not Mama money
I believe her parents didn't let him see his daughter for obvious reasons. Smh
Most definitely
Racist
Yup
@@melmel9677 u two months late lol
Could it be because he is a sorry Ninja.
That’s a shame that the young girl was there to listen to all that. She looked so uncomfortable…as she should’ve been
She would find out eventually,.might as well now
I really don't think it was a good idea either but maybe she needs to know who is daddy IDK
I’m pretty sure she has heard this before men love to say why they are absent in their kids life. Especially the way that wife acted at the end.
I’m absolutely sure, she been present when the grandparents said awful things about her father!
Judge Judy would've asked her to leave the courtroom.
I feel sorry for biracial kids with parents and grandparents like this.
It’s so common. Very.
@@user_number10110 no it’s not ❤
@@user_number10110 the white mom of the biracial child probably has a better relationship then most black moms with their daughters particularly if they are darker skinned.
Going through it right now with my own children. I'm hispanic and their dad is white. His family is RACIST. Never took my kids out for ice cream, playground, or even got them a gift worth more than a $1. My oldest is 14. If only I would've known this would have been my future, I would have never pursued the relationship.
Not defending the grandparents but they took care of the daughter when the mother couldn't and the father wouldn't. The girl seems to be doing well. If it was a one time incident, they could have recovered from it.
The judge lost me at “unless they do it regularly”, no, once is enough. Calling someone a racial slur is racist
Right,black people need to stop making excuses for racism from whites,it was embarrassing when he said that like one time is ok
Disagree
You don't call white white people white boy
Yes it is very much so racists...once a person shows you who they are, believe them..
@@NubianQueen100 ok so do you agree calling a white cracker or white boy is the same as a white calling a black the n word? Why is it not frowned upon the same
Heard a similar story like this before. Sounds like the parents weren’t happy that their daughter had a child by a black man so they tried to shun him away.
That's horrible!!! Black people are blackeautiful!!! ❤️✊🏿😭🙏✌️
Only in the beginning and that sounds about right
He probably was a football player she thought she was going to cash in that dream didn't come true and she was stuck with a baby
She was also 15 and got knocked up.
I think the grandmother was just mad at the daughter that she wasn't able to smash with the brotha' as well!! 🤔 ⚖
I would've NEVER made my child sit through that
Me neither
The wife did what she was supposed too. A lot of people are bitter & it shows. They are both paying the child so she has every right to speak up & stand with her husband. Let that hurt go.
i agree, i jus feel they should have rehearsed or got their “ ducks in a row” so to speak before actually going before the judge
Yes to both comments. But judge could tell, they were anxious to get there point across about them paying! They were creditable. I don’t think anyone suspected them of lying
$50 a week doesn’t cover electricity. Stop it! She can sit down!
It’s hard to let it go
Did your mother 'let it go'? Stop telling Blk women to let stuff go when your father and other males mess over their lives and bring us your messes. She wasn't supposed to do anything. You just say that because you think no matter what mess you make out there we're supposed to help you clean it up. I'm not cleaning anything up for some 'out-of-control' walking dildo predator led by his penis screwing young girls who then runs to me to save his life from crumbling. F- that and him too and you too!
Beautiful kid, hope her and her dad have the best relationship ever!! ❤️
i hate they made a joke about that… that wasn’t okay. racism stopped him from seeing his daughter and that was clear as day.
How if the grandparents took care of her and everything that was stupid to even part
@@anthonyf8344i said it stopped him from seeing his daughter. what do the grandparents have to do with that? if anything it pushes my statement because it’s usually the family that are racist. they even put him on child support when he was TRYING to be active in her life and they were telling him she was too young, as if a child is ever too young for their parent who is healthy and loving.
please get better discernment looking how you look or find yourself the next victim. your choice.
In the eyes of the court and child support... anything you do outside of paying child support is considered a gift...been there before
It has to be consistent in terms of frequency and amount. By giving giving random amounts at random dates of the month, the person paying makes it a gift.
This child support systems needs to reconstruct to make it work the right way
You can definitely tell that her mother and the daughter stayed WITH the grandparents (i mean she was 16 duh). The mother prolly did go to jail for drugs. And at 17 he was prolly being told he wasn’t needed or to stay away. Especially after that cop/bridge situation, her parents did NOT like him. For the mother to say she didn’t need help and daughter was in private school it was ALL from the grandparents. Not HER solely. Now she wants child support. He owes it but the way she spun this story is wild.
I agree.
Exactly and judge was so easy on the mom especially joking about the racist stuff anyone else he would of went off
@@itscollysworld1389 exactly
@@itscollysworld1389 I think bc the child was in there she definitely saved a lot of what the judge wanted to say
@@loraboyd8308 I agree
The mom seems spacey or something, idk, something is off with her.😕
She still on drugs probably
Methamphetamines
@@stimmybutler6709or pills
The plaintiff is probably on those perc's!! Bet 💯%!! 💊 ⚖
Gotta be drugs
I believe the grandparents didn't want that black man involved in his child's life
How can you reject child support then reject visitation because of no child support???
She and h.er family were playing games with that daughter
Because she and her family didn't want in him in his daughter life.
OMG! Your girl really desired a hug, not just old dad stating, "She know I love her." Broke my heart for her.
😂😂😂😂
I felt so embarrassed when the defendant’s wife got up all happy-go-lucky and started contradicting him.
Very cringe
I agree with you 💯. Because they definitely weren’t on the same page 📄 with this case.#OBP BLUESMAN
Say what?that has nothing to do you with you yet you're embarrassed?you are a weird one imo
She had rights to be there. She is there supporting her husband of 13 years against the devils that kept that baby away from her black side of her family for years!
She shouldn't have been on the stand in the first place.
you don’t have to know someone to feel embarrassed for them. it’s called vicarious embarrassment.. look it up.
This whole case is heart breaking. Just let that man be a father and pay your support.
I don’t understand why the defendant’s wife is even there let alone speaking. This is between the mother, father, and child no one else!
I agree
Exactly I hate that.
Facts!
@Custer55crip EXACTLY 💯 I don't understand women who THINK the wife should stay out of it when they BOTH contribute to the household and what he has to pay affects her and vice versa. The mentality of a bitter, UNMARRIED baby mama. Smh
Right my stepmother stayed out my mom &nd dad business &nd they're still friends 30 plus yrs later...
The wife really needs to not be questioning the mom about finance when she knows her husband is behind on his measley $200 monthly child support.
she hates her hubby 🧡 white meat before black,
They went to court and that’s what the court order right?
I don't understand why she there
For her to have the nerve to ask “Help her or help you” like lady at this point your husband is behind so yes it would help the mom if she’s only getting $200 a month.
@@cookied6153 wife is a mammy. Y give money when the preference have a community of men with resources?
I’m sorry but the mother still seems like she’s on something. I’m glad the daughter is with her dad and his wife most of the time
Why judge Mathis didn’t come down on her for holding the child back from seeing there parent due to child support like he do other women what he didn’t wanna hurt her feelings smh
He is sometimes easier on different races I’ve noticed. Especially the drug habit…. Didnt even ask if she was on crack or dived into her history. Let that been a black mom he would of shamed her for missing out on her daughters life etc keeping him from the baby etc
The daughter is literally sitting there. He was treading light on her behalf. The mom intentionally brought the daughter.
That was years ago when they were both very young so it’s kinda irrelevant….the important matter is their daughter who seems to love both her parents
@@itscollysworld1389 exactly, I just seen a case where he did that. Smh
He should have said something. But the father could have hired an attorney and went to court to demand visitation. He knew those people were racist and were going to bend .
Give your daughter a hug, and tell your wife to hush it 😂
🙏🏿(Dap!)
That's his wife for 13 years not his girlfriend so mind your business clown
@@carltonwomble4790 🤡
Bw always the last option
@@weavemademeadeadbeatdad2888 and white women get the deadbeats
From the comments below, sounds like I was watching a totally different case! Everyone down there blaming the wife for embarrassing herself, feeling sorry for the kid 'n all that. Almost *none* of you paid any attention to the details of this case.
1. The daughter and the wife have some kind of bond. They're joking and laughing with each other the entire time.
2. Not once did either the mother nor the father say anything negative against each other, other than negative *facts.* Facts don't care about feelings.
3. The wife was *not* nosy. Both the defendant *and* his wife own a business and the money comes out of that account for child support. Which means that she has *every* right to stand up and speak, not just on behalf of her husband, but on behalf of the business where the money is being garnished from.
The plaintiff made no sense, couldn't produce receipts when she made up her lies, and JM called her out on it. The case got pushed back to the child support court and that's that. Bro was doing the right thing. Mom was doing the right thing. Bro's wife was doing the right thing. And, most of all, *that child is happy!* You can see that on her face! *THAT* is a rare thing to see on shows like this, it's always the child being upset or hurt or something or other. *Nope!*
Both litigants are doing *something right* and you can tell by the look on their daughter's face. Point-blank.
I agree with this!
Hello! Goes to show you, ppl enjoy negative energy instead of positive outcomes
Facts! JM also let the plaintiff off the hook after saying the defendant signed over his parental rights! This could have been damaging to his relationship with his daughter. The wife saw here husband losing and helped his case in my opinion.
The defendant has some nice arms. Wife is lucky
Thank you! You read my mind! Another commenter said that she felt secondhand embarrassment at the way the wife was contradicting the husband. It was a small mistake, big deal. People can focus on that but not highlight how this man missed years of his child’s life because of her racist grandparents or how her mother was locked up for drugs during her childhood. My own people can be so damn annoying sometimes. 🙄🤦🏽♀️
When she said he gave up his parental rights in court so he didn’t have to pay child support!!! I felt that on my core. My child’s father did the same thing and the gag is I didn’t put in on child support the judge did after him missing many court dates and not going to meeetings to see his child.
The plaintiff is a trip,by trying to constantly insinuate that he was way older than her,when she knows she was down for the cause too and they don't have much of a age difference..
You better pay your child support, or risk going to jail.
That's right. Sadly one of my brothers is 5 figures in arrears in child support and the IRS have not caught up with him yet.
@Big Dawg Ent why didn't he file for visitation rights?
@Big Dawg Ent I did Sr. In no moment he mentioned filling for visitation rights.
@Big Dawg Ent At 17,if he you are old enough to make babies, you are old enough to file for see your child.
@Big Dawg Ent selling drugs
They didn’t want to let the little girl know she was black 🤦🏾♂️
Yeah because mirrors don't exist. Get real
@@floridagirl386 You make no sense at all
@@216Browniee as an entire niqqa who are you trying to speak to about not letting the baby know she black? Yall got to get real sometime in your life.
@@216Browniee elaborate on how I am not making sense.
@@floridagirl386you do realize the kid can come out looking full white.. do you know how genetics work
The wife got up bringing nothing relevant to the case at all. She was loud and wrong 😭EMBARRASSING
@ The Royal Hood squad you are funny and you are gorgeous
The wife saying “$50 a week!” Ma’am that is $200 per month🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣
The wife had to whisper the" actual amount" of child support owed to his daughter because the Dad didn't know...smh, that how you know he WASNT PAYING..
Not necessarily... I am a business owner as well and sometimes i need reminders on certain bills that are due monthly. That do not mean he does not pay, it appears the wife handles the finances and he perhaps run the operation and that can quickly give you tunnel vision, trust me i know
They have a business and he’s behind on child support. Even with the car payment being deducted he’s still behind. That’s no excuse. Pay the child support and take her back to court to let them know the mom isn’t allowing you to see her. People make things so complicated on both ends.
Right! And he’s behind even though he’s only paying $200 a month. Why no pay more from that business account that the wife just had to bring up
Exactly!! Boastful about having the business why do you need the car you brought for your daughter deducted from child support? It’s like you can’t do anything else because you want too???? Clown behavior
Exactly! I can hardly believe that the wife of the defendant was so indignant at the end of the case. She gets an attitude about the pitiful amount of $200 a month they are paying of child support, asking the plaintiff if the money is for her! Really lady?! $200 a month does not even come close to covering the costs of raising a child. Have several seats. 😒
JM his daughter was raised by very racist parents and grandparents .And everything is back and forth with them. Even the young girls Mother was trying to cover up her parents and grandparents racism against the father. And I feel she only dated him because she already knew that it would upset her racist parents and grandparents who has a history of racism against African Americans.#OBP BLUESMAN
TRUTH BE TOLD 🗣️
ESPECIALLY living in vero beach Florida that’s damn near Polk County and yep I believe EVERYTHING he said
@@janethoward1161 I agree with everyone of you 💯. JM likes to believe that racism doesn’t exist anymore and I have seen some of his past court cases where racist southerners have been out right disrespectful to him because he is a Black Judge.#OBP BLUESMAN
Unfortunately people will continue to date outside their race and that is their privilege however these things will happen and they will come up I don't care how nice the family is I don't care how long you've known them do something to get under their skin and they will call you the n-word
Exactly..
“The wife should stay out!” Lmfao unuh. If IM also making child support payments to my HUSBANDS daughter, imma be up there fighting next to him for his right to see his baby.
The wife stated she's always at our house. People love to feel bad for the deadbeats.
File a petition in family court for visitation & pay child support. Only innocent is daughter
They weren't fighting to see her. Lmao but go right ahead & pay that child support for your man #dummy
Buying a car is a gift, that is not at all child support.
He is a deadbeat, what kind of car are you getting for 2500, putting his kid in a hooptie. The whole thing is typical dust behavior. They told him stay away and you don't have to pay child support and he agreed. Then he buys a gift and wants it deducted.
@@rihannahaiti5570 jesus he hardly your very quick to judge him you don't know him and what he does for his daughter would you say that if it was the women who was a deadbeat as you so elegantly put 🤷♀️
@@rihannahaiti5570 she’s 16. Does she need a $40,000 car??
@@keran3709 exactly
I am glad he didn't give her a dime to snort or what ever she does! Did you see her or am I alone on this one?
His wife almost messed his testimony up
I’m surprised JM didn’t call her a crack head. I guess because the child was there but this was most definitely a time to use that term 😂
He made me mad by not embracing his child in the end. She (daughter )needs his love. They should've hugged her in the end instead of being on the other side.
The wife, "help her or help you".
What difference does it make, the child is living with her mom and he's never paid child support. It's about time that he did. The wife better be happy the mom isn't suing for back support.
You must’ve heard the wrong case never applies he did nothing
Right the wife just wants to argue and have drama
Oh please the mother is the reason why all of this started the mother of her racist parents
So you must’ve watched a very separate case .. did you not hear in the video that she was trying to use it for herself. The money wasn’t for her it’s for her child. That’s why it matters
@@floridagirl386 what are you talking about? The wife and daughter obviously get along, she seems happy to be there support her husband and his daughter. The mother is no prize, she is also a liar. Saying that the dad gave up his rights. The grandparents are racist and kept him away. and from personal experience I know what it's like dealing with racist, manipulative, Grandparents to my children. It's extremely stressful and traumatizing It's a lot.
👉 This mother appears to currently have an addiction of drugs based on her speech & movement. The mother is graving now. The father and wife have a close bond with the daughter. It appears the court filing was unnecessary for $2500 balance (Rightfully deducting the vehicle). The sudden delay of $50 a week of child support was due to the adjustment for the vehicle.
The defendant looks much younger than the plaintiff
one ages like a banana & the other ages like fine wine.
@@ms.tasiaa toshay
@@sabrinaburton3466 touché*
Benny is FOINE with all that CHOCOLATE MELANIN!!
He has a business and pays 200 a month and wants the car to be taken from the support.. man just buy her the car ..smdh
His wife looks too happy to be standing up, it’s very cringe. 🙁
"Now it's time to call him one I been holding back all these years "
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This is nothing new. White women wear the gatekeepers of white supremacy. Plenty of the slave masters had black children and practice racism daily. I can guarantee you that wasn’t the first and only time her mother called him a slur. Hopefully the child knows something about her black side
Her age story isn't adding up 🥴. He mentioned him being the father at 17. Maybe I heard wrong.
Also the daughter is stunning. Why did she bring her to court? He terminated his rights but he still is obligated to pay? But you don't have the paperwork?... also the daughter spends time at their home... Mam PLEASE...
Yes. You have to still pay child support my father signed his away when I was 14 almost 15. But he wanted it saying he didn’t owe back pay and I couldn’t go when I was older and sue him( yes a child can sue the parent )
Facts.
I don't understand why would someone have to pay if they terminated their right and isn't or doesn't want to be there. I don't know nun about the legal system lol
@@momoni368 because you’re still obligated for the child . Usually people do it thinking it’s a way to get rid of a debt owed. You still have to pay. My dad asked to not have to back pay and make it where I can’t take him to courts and I know a guy who signed his rights he still has to pay his child support. I’m older now an adult actually and now my sperm donor is trying to be in my life . Unless he pays me what is owed I’m done anyways he was never in my life
She looks older than him…
They age faster than us
That’s what drugs will do to you
How you don’t have evidence of him terminating his rights 🙄🧐
The wife needs to take a backseat and let that man handle his affairs with his child! If you are helping pay because that’s your husband cool do that and hush. Women need to know not to cross lines when a man’s children are involved that’s aren’t hers. All the smart remarks and micro aggression will be cause for the child to feel the need to pick sides. Stay neutral and respectful as long as you’re being respected.
Judge Mathis be acting so blonde
Because he said nom custodial parents should pay child support. Yup
😂
She ruined her daughters life. Why didn’t she let her daughter see her father these single mothers are bitter and angry
She was 15 did you miss that part.
He ruined his daughter's life. Can you live off 50 dollars a week? Have the nerve to be behind. GTFOH
You sound like a fool who didn't listen to anything from the case
@@RacieRain And he didn't pay til the child was much older and his wife pays the child support.
Sooo if a man truly wants to be in his kids life he will make it happen
The Mother appears to still have a challenge in her addiction and perhaps got jealous of her daughter's attention from her father and her new stepmother of Jasmine and wanted some of their money-gift-care for herself, so she brought them to court to get PAID as well. But the judge sent her back to CS-Court.
The wife was proud to say she's helping him pay his child support.
$200 a month means he's broke... So they wife is probably the breadwinner. Acting like she has a prize 😆
I dont think he is broke. The wife said the money was coming out of their business account. He is actually smart...lol
@@logent80 still broke if you’re paying $200 a month for a child. What’s so smart hiding money?
@@DestinationTakeover. That's the whole idea. He wants you to think he's broke. 🤫🤫🤣🤣
Right jumped up proud to say they had a business then have the audacity say it’s $50 a week 😂😂
Their paying through their business account she's not paying it herself.
It's horrendous and inexcusable that the mother brought this child to this court hearing! Adult issues should stay between adults. The only positive outcome of all this is that the father was able to get on record how and why he was deprived of being in his daughter's life during her early years. It's shameful the mother and grandparents robbed this precious child of knowing her dad sooner.
Grandparents need to stay within their boundaries, they shouldn't dictate when a parent see their child, shouldn't make racist remarks, it's not healthy for the child.
Her parents are racist and he used their racism to stay away smh poor baby (the child)
If you’re financially stable why are we here 🙄😒
As the baby girl is so precious ❤
That little girl is the only innocent person in this case
What was this really about? Mom brought her daughter to court so she could hear her talk bad about her dad. However, she ended up exposing her racist parents (which I'm sure the daughter already knew about), her own drug habit, & her lie about Dad giving up his parental rights. Her & her family were probably saying that for years to explain why he wasn't in his daughter's life, well the truth finally came out.
Wife, please SIT DOWN! JM was about to cancel the case because of Mom's huge lie. I don't know why people keep talking after they win.
Right tho!!! he literally was about to tell the plaintiff about herself for lying about him canceling parental rights
She looks like a spoiled little grown baby😊 she was happy enough to tune out her parents bickering to be dancing to her own beat in court. I think overall they raised her with Love❣️ so they did good.
Normally I feel the current wife or girlfriend should stay out of it, bit I'm this case no she is making sure the child gets her money and that she is welcomed and at their house feeling loved as well #ItsABlessingWhenItsAGoodVillageHelpingYouRaiseYourKids
I totally believe her parents wanted him to stay away from his daughter. I'm sure the daughter is brainwashed into thinking her father didn't want to have anything to do with her
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@@Lushus40 Thank You
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I wish JM would do update on old shows to let us know how everybody turn out. That brotha learned fast to leave those others along. The daughter now should be around 30 herself
Lol she should be like 23 24
This brother aged really well
Good to know she have a relationship with her dad now, and they have a good relationship also with his wife that’s all that matters to many dead beat fathers out here that turn their backs on their kids
If 'sitcho A$$ down' was a person
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I can tell she’s lying by all the fidgeting and shuffling papers. She was in jail which is why the grandparents dealt with him.
It’s crazy how she looks so much older than him
Poor girl listening too this
Right that's what I was thinking the Same thing
Why’d she bring the daughter with her to the case?! Seems like that’s another way to keep the child to see him in a bad way which is soo sad😢
The defendant is a fine piece of chocolate. ❤😮
😂😂😂😂
Yes . He's a DEADBEAT.
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Yes he is and they pink shirt making him lol even more delicious 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😍
@@QuiteTheLady don't start squirting everywhere
It is sad for the child. The grandparents should have encouraged the mom to go and get child support set up ASAP from the time of birth through court and also set up visitation for dad. It is not that hard or even rocket science. INSTEAD MOM waits until now to do anything about the CS and denies dad visitation in early years no matter what reason it is.
That’s sad how they had the daughter there she looks confused and uncomfortable and unhappy 🙏
I knew I knew his wife or girlfriend from somewhere isnt that that rapper YNM MELLY mother however u say his name
Yup.
Omg really
Wow 😮
The defendants are a Beautiful couple ❤
she can't add .
Beautiful & dumb.
@@stumack9755 lmfaaaooooooo
Why is the daughter there while they are hashing out their mess😳💔
I understand that some women do say that they don’t need the fathers money that have a deadbeat but if the mother is getting less than 100 a month which some women do. How is that suppose to pay for college in 18 years.🤔
$50 a week. The sudden delay was about the agreement with the $2500 for the vehicle.
@@WordsByAsti ok but what is she suppose to do with $50 a week. Being a single parent and the judge is saying that she should be grateful for that because that will help with college
@@Taurus42-l8l if my math is correct 50 a week is 2600 a year x 18 years its over 40k. That could do a lot for a child just entering college. especially if the mother was financially stable so that she didn't touch it
So if you invest it and they receive it when they are older! Whew, it's a really nice sum when they are 18+. If you don't invest it's a nice amount for adown payment on a home, land, business. It could be a great start. It could pay off a bill they have when they are independent and so much more. My daughter's money is her money and I can look at her money and say I'm proud of her dad for investing in our childs future.
@@yeshathegardener oh ok
16 and 17 had no business making a baby and then the numbers don't add up. Lord the wife and him have been together 13 years!!! You can't buy your daughter a car and then say the mother was suppose to take it out of child support. Smh
JM Was so embarrassed when the wife said yes she helped with child support he had to give her an attitude. His ego is ugh! 😒
OMG I noticed that. He was so ready to dismiss her before she even started talking
His ego does get in the way of things most of the time
The wife is a fool for even helping with the child support, like why be with a man who can't support his kids??
@@NubianQueen100 if she like it, I love it! Better than being with a man who don’t pay it at all. He seems like a decent man.
She shouldn't b with him. She a placeholding mammy to a preference.
Didn’t need a daddy til she needed some money
Judge "know" what's up. That's all ima say. 🤐
I see he switched back to the black women after that mess 😂😂❤❤
Crazy he only pays 200 a month which isn't even enough to feed and clothe a kid for a month and he's behind smh. U can tell he's a deadbeat. U bought a car for UR KID and u want that taken off for child support smh
Aww the end made me happy. All that matters is if the child is happy and she seemed like she loves all of them dearly.
His wife his mouth piece so sad
Nahhh…she tried it, but he shut it down
Sooo he had the option of taking custody and chose not too? Yea pay that back support
She still a dope fiend!!!
At 13 she was old enough to know she was biracial 😂
He was not allowed to see the daughter because he’s black.
The wife was giving attitude at the end...if you love your stepdaughter, respect her by respecting her mother at all times. The mother was respectful. The daughter is beautiful 😍
When? Was giving attitude? I didn't catch that.
Girl please. The woman don’t have to respect the mom to be able to respect her. Clearly she lied
I don't understand why you would put yourself in danger. You know that he knew her family is racist. She knew that her mother is racist. How can you leave your daughter in that type of environment. You know the grandmother was calling the little girl all type of things. The mother allowed her to be raised there. The wife as a black woman should have avoided him. For so many reasons. Don't think it's not coming out of her money. You know she is taking care of him. Maybe I misunderstood but did he say that he paid $200 monthly? That age difference is weird. I would be mad about the age too if I was mom. Let's be real she didn't like him because he is black.
They helped raise her. Where was his family with the help. Those YT people paid for everything and raised her, she is biracial not just one. His family and him didn't want to offer a cent. It was all about money. He gave his daughter a cheap gift and wanted it removed from his child support payment. Maybe the family didn't want him alone with her since he was 18 impregnating a 15 yr old.
the defendants wife lowkey embarrassed herself
Totally agree
How ?
How is he behind on child support?
The mom sounds doped up
The father should have went to get visitation rights... He dodged responsibility. The racist parents probably made it difficult for him
Stepmothers need to do a better job of staying the hell outta the way. The wife knows that dude and the plantiff will alwaysthink about trying again. They were young when that got together andit'll never die. It is what it is.
IF HE COULDN'T SEE HIS DAUGHTER BECAUSE OF CHILD SUPPORT... WHY WOULD SHE BEFORE HAND SAY, SHE DIDNT NEED HIS HELP?
She knew she couldn't get that money like that you have to go through child support court really. When I heard business ik it was her a go but she couldn't get that money can she report him um yep and it would go up from 200.00 a month. Ain't nobody thinking about his wife daughter get your money not Mama money
I never find anything funny when a black person is called a racial slur. Nothing to be made lightly of.