Here's another tip. Everybody is basically like you. They all want people to be interested in them. So, instead of focusing on "Why am I so unhappy?" ( which is egocentric ) start asking other people questions about themselves. They will love it because you make them feel important and valued. So they will respond by not just liking you, but loving you. Problem solved. It's a paradox really, ie by giving, you get.
What if you had close friendships but they turn into casual friendships. That's the hard thing. Or even if you do try to contact or imply you want to hang out but don't get much of a response. Sure I can find someone else but its sucks. Agree with what you said. I have come a long way. But just frustrated at feeling the "un-fullfilling" "friendships" I have. Sure they have stuff to do, that's fine but no real connection. Not to say I can be everyone's best friend.
There's me expecting a video shitting on the sad bois, loved this and everything about it, wish I'd seen this 11 year ago 😂 but the message still rings true, even after doing it all the hard way 👌 more videos like this on the internet please 🥰
wow, i wish i had heard these simple words 5 or 6 years ago... there is so much wisdom in your words, that just for being so simple, these words are disregarded all the time... i'm still overcoming these social fears, but it gets harder when you have notable physical defects..
I don't know where you stand on this, like what type of person you are. However, being a social introvert, I think you have the right intention speaking about this but people will not get up after watching this video and go to a social event. I hate big crowds; I look down when I walk; I've always been this way. We do this to ourselves, and though we don't receive a lot of social interaction, I think most shy people are much more profound. The perk of being shy, is being special.
im lonely, but im happy.. then what should i do about it? i played online game, listen to all my favourite songs and watch all my favourite movies.. and cook and eat my favourite food.. i think somebody became lonely and unhappy is because they lack of passion or they dont do what they love the most.. lucky me.. i always feel enough and thats alone makes me happy.. and i really hate crowds area or just talk to somebody face to face, idk just dont like it..
You put words on my emotions and soulutions to them to. But something that has grown on you for 8 or some years is hard to change the feling that nobody wants you is so hard to cope with :-( Maybe if i got a bit drunk it wouldnt matter what i thought others cared about me at a party since i would have entertained myself. I want to know more about you and it would be hugely appreciatead to get an answer from you :-)
Hey David. I know this is late, but I can only tell you what I know myself to be true: Find what you love doing -- what you're really good at. You and I both know there's something, even if it's absurdly weird. That doesn't matter. Do that thing as well as you can, get better every day, and learn to love yourself for your inherent abilities. When you love yourself, good people flock to you and your confidence has a solid ground to stand on. I wish you the best of luck in this, and I'd love to hear what your "thing in life" is!
I don't feel lonely in my (hostel) room up to the point where home work (maths home work, to be specific) is left. Problem comes when its finished. I go on looking on the net for maths questions, but it drives me nuts to find problems either too easy or too difficult. I abandon that search, and in a pathetic desperation try to find something that catches my interest. Unfortunately, nothing does. Needless to say, the feeling of loneliness only complicates the problem.
Well, I'm sad I'm trying to help myself and meeting new people.I'm trying to be happy the key word there being trying.. Thanks for the help It's really helping I Think..It's helping in really small increments but it's helping.. -Max.T
at 1:18 was words of wisdom ..I thought I was the only one who thought to my self abouty "if people didn't really care what people thought of them ask them to walk outside naked"..wow we are all mentality connected..
HELP!!!!!!!!! well noo i have tried all of that and none of that works i think everything you are saying is TRUE. but truth is i am a loser and people dont like me. none what so ever. and im not gonna change. sooo what nowww
Well, your videos are adorable and you don't look that old. but i asked because you have a great sense of mind and i was like holy shit she's mature, because you looked young. my bad. lol
no estés triste cantas maravilloso 👏👏👏👏 que vida la mía. , oye si enseñas ingles. vas a tener muchas pero muchas visitas y laik latinoamérica te espera
if you are sad , lonely or depressed then read this. my friend Jesus loves you very much and he is always with you. he cares so deeply and you and he can help you to feel loved and accepted he understands how you are feeling. he died for you and if you will believe in him you will be saved and have eternal life. you are very special and loved very much and you matter alot. god bless you
This video is eleven years old. Wow, I hope this young lady has wonderful people in her life today.
this video showed up in my feed after 11 years , i think the algorithm is trying to tell me something
I am a lonely alcoholic in a dead-end town and I just got out of prison. What in the world??? Thank you for your good words. Damn this is crazy.
Here's another tip. Everybody is basically like you. They all want people to be interested in them. So, instead of focusing on "Why am I so unhappy?" ( which is egocentric ) start asking other people questions about themselves. They will love it because you make them feel important and valued. So they will respond by not just liking you, but loving you.
Problem solved.
It's a paradox really, ie by giving, you get.
this is a nice girl, wish i had girls like this in my depressing life right now
I try to be nice to people everyday....still m lonely😣😣
Sometimes people don't have the hormones in their brain to make them happy. That's the hardest kind of depression
To everyone struggling with this - Don't worry, first few years are the hardest, later you get used to it.
UA-cam recommendations on point today
This video recommended at 2 AM in the morning after so many years hits different....
Hey broke, just wanted to say thank you, i was feeling so lonely today and your video made me a bit less sad.
you made me cry cuz you explained the same what I am going through
What if you had close friendships but they turn into casual friendships. That's the hard thing. Or even if you do try to contact or imply you want to hang out but don't get much of a response. Sure I can find someone else but its sucks. Agree with what you said. I have come a long way. But just frustrated at feeling the "un-fullfilling" "friendships" I have. Sure they have stuff to do, that's fine but no real connection. Not to say I can be everyone's best friend.
ye rlly cool but youtube
algorithm decided to bless your video
There's me expecting a video shitting on the sad bois, loved this and everything about it, wish I'd seen this 11 year ago 😂 but the message still rings true, even after doing it all the hard way 👌 more videos like this on the internet please 🥰
What if people make you sad, even if they're not trying?
Thanks I needed to hear this.
im not alone but lonely
i am surrounded by people i get along with and meet new ones often. why hasnt anything changed?
Thank you! You explained what I have been going through as far as the dating scene goes.
wow, i wish i had heard these simple words 5 or 6 years ago... there is so much wisdom in your words, that just for being so simple, these words are disregarded all the time... i'm still overcoming these social fears, but it gets harder when you have notable physical defects..
I don't know where you stand on this, like what type of person you are. However, being a social introvert, I think you have the right intention speaking about this but people will not get up after watching this video and go to a social event. I hate big crowds; I look down when I walk; I've always been this way. We do this to ourselves, and though we don't receive a lot of social interaction, I think most shy people are much more profound. The perk of being shy, is being special.
Thank you for this. Going through this situation right now. Thanks for the advise.
im lonely, but im happy.. then what should i do about it? i played online game, listen to all my favourite songs and watch all my favourite movies.. and cook and eat my favourite food.. i think somebody became lonely and unhappy is because they lack of passion or they dont do what they love the most.. lucky me.. i always feel enough and thats alone makes me happy.. and i really hate crowds area or just talk to somebody face to face, idk just dont like it..
Thanks for posting this video it’s really opened my eyes
You put words on my emotions and soulutions to them to.
But something that has grown on you for 8 or some years is hard to change the feling that nobody wants you is so hard to cope with :-( Maybe if i got a bit drunk it wouldnt matter what i thought others cared about me at a party since i would have entertained myself.
I want to know more about you and it would be hugely appreciatead to get an answer from you :-)
Hey David.
I know this is late, but I can only tell you what I know myself to be true: Find what you love doing -- what you're really good at. You and I both know there's something, even if it's absurdly weird. That doesn't matter. Do that thing as well as you can, get better every day, and learn to love yourself for your inherent abilities. When you love yourself, good people flock to you and your confidence has a solid ground to stand on. I wish you the best of luck in this, and I'd love to hear what your "thing in life" is!
BrokeTheInterweb i really apreciate the anwser :)
I would say it's photogrophy, and matematics XD
the world is a vampire
Wow, you just inspired me. Very special video and special person, god bless.
I like her.
Thanks for the advice. I have been pretty lonely & taken much abuse from people so this helps.
i love your way of thinking!!! :)
I don't feel lonely in my (hostel) room up to the point where home work (maths home work, to be specific) is left. Problem comes when its finished. I go on looking on the net for maths questions, but it drives me nuts to find problems either too easy or too difficult. I abandon that search, and in a pathetic desperation try to find something that catches my interest. Unfortunately, nothing does. Needless to say, the feeling of loneliness only complicates the problem.
Hi, I was wondering if I could use your video for a song?
go for it!
thank you I try your advise and go out more instead of staying inside because I'm scared to get hurt again. I just need to move on from my past.
I think you are wright, thanks for the advice, i will try to follow it. I felt depressed so many times...
As a fellow ADDer I love your videos :)
I’m so lonely 😭 I want a friend
Well, I'm sad I'm trying to help myself and meeting new people.I'm trying to be happy the key word there being trying..
Thanks for the help It's really helping I Think..It's helping in really small increments but it's helping..
-Max.T
at 1:18 was words of wisdom ..I thought I was the only one who thought to my self abouty "if people didn't really care what people thought of them ask them to walk outside naked"..wow we are all mentality connected..
I can't help to notice but is everybody sad ?
What's so interesting about a guy who listens to classical, and jazz music, to escape reality?
explains why i have been so sad in the past
you're so right... nice vid
Thank You.
i never feel this way
BECAUSE I AM A ROBOT!!!
mind if i use this for a song?
sure! go for it
Thanks to your video I decided not to kill my self I found this video while I was uploading my last will and testament Ty for this great video
It's awfully considerate of you to think of me here
And I'm much obliged to you for making it clear
That I'm not here...
somebody's speaking from experience.
i feel like this everyday
Liberal Women these days watching this would scoff at this lovely girl and what she has to say.
Its just the human condition... not unique
that was the best things said to me since 2020
Nice video, very true
Same I don't have any friends
🙂 I can’t sleep
very inspirational...
Basically i knew everything u said. I just don't have the will to act on it!!! am lonely not stupid!!! no offence
I like your video!
Eres real, me encanta lo que dices! Gracias. and i support what juanitoblaugrana said that you are so cute
Thanks, moreover you have a very understandable american accent.
Thanks
I think you are wright, thanks for the advice, i will try to follow it.
My best whishes for you, from Chile...interesting way of thinking...gringa..:D Saludos....cuídate mucho...;)
HELP!!!!!!!!! well noo i have tried all of that and none of that works i think everything you are saying is TRUE. but truth is i am a loser and people dont like me. none what so ever. and im not gonna change. sooo what nowww
Spot on.
why is the top comment from 2 years ago
you are one smart lady.
Smart lady - :)
Damn, you would make a great life partner. Who ever has you better keep you lol
Thank you
Well, your videos are adorable and you don't look that old.
but i asked because you have a great sense of mind and i was like holy shit she's mature, because you looked young. my bad. lol
great video , have this happened to you? :/
ty
i just watched this entire video without hearing anything besides 'you're pretty' in my head
no estés triste cantas maravilloso 👏👏👏👏 que vida la mía. , oye si enseñas ingles. vas a tener muchas pero muchas visitas y laik latinoamérica te espera
are those your real eyes cause u r so pretty
if you are sad , lonely or depressed then read this. my friend Jesus loves you very much and he is always with you. he cares so deeply and you and he can help you to feel loved and accepted he understands how you are feeling. he died for you and if you will believe in him you will be saved and have eternal life. you are very special and loved very much and you matter alot. god bless you
@BrokeTheInterweb I like your video
@BrokeTheInterweb wtf jaja parese mas joven unos 17-18
hi...from chile...nie too see u...;)
How old are you?