L O N E L I N E S S | ultimate corecore mix
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- You shouldn't be here. I'm not here.
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The second video in this series highlights the loneliness epidemic. I've selected the best corecore videos from tiktok and curated them into an edit.
This is a melancholic video that I hope brings some catharsis and possibly makes some feel seen. I'll be making hopecore videos soon that will hopefully bring a fresh and more uplifting perspective.
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Lost the girl, lost my parents, lost the drive. A quiet tired resilience is all I have left
fuckkk mate! its all coming to an end at some point mate! keep going!
I lost it all too. I hit bottom and rebounded you can too I promise bub. It took me years but I got in the best shape of my life and built things in my life I never thought possible. If I can you can to. Keep going you matter more than you will ever know in someone’s life even if you don’t see it.
You've never truly lost if you don't keep fighting your battle stay strong and keep pushing.
Friend, everything will be fine, we are on your side. I'm very sorry for you. Know that I believe in you😥
I’m in the same storm as you. But you still have yourself, we have to focus on ourselves, better ourselves.
"And then you realize, everyone loves you, but no one likes you." This one right here.
Only if you're a girl. If you're a boy no one cares about you
i have a girlfriend but i’m moving to a different country idk what to do i feel like we’ve gotten further apart. idk what to do i just feel alone gen when im with a ton of people i just feel alone
I loved that quote, but I feel like I genuinely can’t understand what it truly means, like if u love someone how can you not like them at the same time? 🤔
love isnt meant literally but as surface-level aquaintance designation. Or it means their feelings are a duty and not a joy. @@saladwibba
@@saladwibba people think of Love and Like as if it's a ranking of one's feelings but I don't see it that way. "Love" is, generally speaking, different from "Like."
People can Love you but not Like you as a person. Or maybe you can Love someone but never Like them as a person.
Just like how some Love their parents but don't really Like them.
Love is where you show care to someone but not really someone you'd want to spend your time with. It's a DUTY to Love someone wherein Liking feels more GENUINE.
"The only thing i won was being alone" real.
Yes it’s all lost everything but WAIT hope is here he is here he said 🗿 I am the light of the world those who follow me will not walk into darkness but will have the light of the world 🗿🌅🗿
Don't watch too much of these, watch a bit and then go out into the world and LIVE.
haha agreed hopecore coming soon
They didn't want me out there so I'm back. If the real world wasn't so isolating why would I be here watching lonliness videos?
-_-
there is noting out
@@veimat3394but every thing is within
playing this in my car on new years and im here.
❤ we‘re all in this together
you have ur own car lucky u. i drive i dont have my own car i use to have my own place after covid that changed. So i hustle through. charm or manipulate my way to having some affection from someone again. Some warmth , i go biking to calm myself and feel better. But i know eventually ill snap in some way.
Stay strong brother...
Stay strong man
Love you bro stay strong ❤️
Men either miss out on love because they are trying to protect their heart or experience fake love because of their gifts or whatever good they can bring to the table.
Or they fuck things up and fumble the love they could have had for the rest of their life.
@@davidhausmann5894 or somebody else does it for them.
Videos like this and the viewers watching it with me funny enough, make me feel less alone.
Thanks for sharing this, it made my day.
You've scrolled pretty far haven't you traveler? Come take a rest.
I just want to be happy.
Instead we got to be strong, but strong men create happy times
Stay strong brother...
@adamemedia3139 too many weak men creating hard times.
The best way I can describe this is well, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times, but hard times create strong men
Look man, if you aren't happy, don't push your feelings away and just try to be strong. Talk to someone you love dude, be it your mom, dad, maybe a school counselor or something. The world makes us men feel like we need to suppress our feelings, and that doing so will make us happier, but it doesn't. All it does is make us be distracted from our issues. Trust me when I say, though, those who love you will listen to you.
A man is never truly alone until he loses his mother. I still have mine. Im empty but im not alone.
Sigmund Freud? 😂
My mothers still alive but I have lost her, she won’t even udder a word to me, my whole life is falling apart
@@cameronwilliams-kopp9938 I don't know your circumstances brother. But mothers should be mothers and always look forward to their children calling.
Keep trying. It's better to try today than to regret not trying for the rest of your life.
I live in Australia, am a stranger online but if you need to just "shoot the breeze" I'm here.
my mom died a year ago. my fiances left me and im not in a completrly new city. i met a girl but she has moved on from me because of my mental state. im ready for it to be over
my mom died a year ago. my fiances left me and im not in a completrly new city. i met a girl but she has moved on from me because of my mental state. im ready for it to be over
Loneliness is always by your side, as soon as you reject it, it jumps at you giving you a sense of loss but if you accept it, then it will give you peace and serenity instead. Loneliness isn't an emotion or the absence of other people of importance but rather its a beast that can be tamed, don't let it ravage you, tame it, and you will surely see the beauty of it
I’m only 16 and I haven’t had a single friend in 5 years, I go to bed every day hugging and crying myself to bed,I am so tired
Pray to God
cry about it , i don't care what you say, I Believe in God@@ich_liebe_AxxL
It will change, trust me. stay curious, focus on becoming the best version of you. reading, working out, learning hobbies and skills
Hey m8 do you want to join me in doing something special. Let's me n you go out and just meet ppl and show all these lonely ppl all it takes is balls and a good friend to do it with. We can also document it to inspire all these lonely people. Doesn't matter where you are in the world we can do it together in our own city's. What do you say? Are you in or are you out? Let me know if your in and I will send you my email let's do something to inspire all the lonely ppl to go out and make friends. It's just a balls game and a numbers game. Let me know if you in. I'm so tired of being lonely, socially anxious and seeing so many lonely ppl!
You are more powerful than "they" want you to believe. Believe in yourself, my friend. God loves you.
I am 18. At the moment, I am feeling what is true loneliness and how painful it is for the first time in my life. All I have to do is just simply bear this pain of loneliness as a man. But still, the feeling hits me hard.........
GOD I swear. I would never let anybody who close to me experience such feelings caused by loneliness.NEVER! Even there is no one beside me.
You can get through it dude❤️ it takes time to push through..you gotta believe..find that one spark in your life and let it burn❤️ you can do it dude
I've been there brother and I agree I would not let anyone feel it if it was within my power. This empathy you've attained is a gift, focus on yourself and this too shall pass and on the other side you'll have a perspective thats poweful.
@@adamemedia3139 Thank you man that's what I needed to hear :)) I wish you have a great life and keep these videos coming
@@reeceson5819 Thank you very muchhhhh :))) That's what I wanted to hear as well! Have a great day and life
Keep pushing my friend, I felt like at 18, I’m 31 now and when I look back at it I wish I could realise the potential I held when I was 18, I wish I could of learnt discipline love and compassion and not get into fuck loads of debt
"Choose a superpower, invisibility or fly? I am already invisible"
I'm not invisible, that's the problem
Lost my parents, my girl, my house and I feel lonely for the past few months of my life, I recently got out of the military and been living a lonely life since then, so for anyone who’s out there and feels lonely just now, God is with you all the time, make your path fight your battles and be a better person for yourself, be better that yesterday! Find God and then you will find you way, love you guys!💪🏻
I just got in. Already feel lonely
Amén, God Bless You and God Bless Everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I know how the military then getting out makes you feel lonely if you need helpd reach out ill be here for you just like i need someone here for me
Hope you’re good, brother
These type of videos have been really useful for purging sadness. Like sticking your finger down your throat when you need to throw up and just want to get it over with quickly. Feel better after crying it out and ready to get back in the gym.
that officer with the guy on the side of the road hit hard.
sometimes all we need is a hug...
Sometimes, it's just me against the world. This video really inspired me to this song ua-cam.com/video/5emlb6vYvrY/v-deo.html
"Is there anything I could do to help ya?"
"I could use a hug"
"I'll give you a hug"
That part gets me every time man...
Its like im hungry but i dont wanna eat
I know exactly what you mean. Like spiritual writers block.
I love corecore videos because it trains to not be easily influenced my unecessary states of minds, like if u watch these videos after some times you will feel their burden but for me in life its important to accept and overcome
I hate this video so damn much because it hits so damn deep and touches on what I've been feeling for years. And Jim carey, he hit it really on the head bout depression
How did we go from try not to laugh (EXTREME EDITION) to this 💀
"The only thing i won was being alone" Realest shit ever.
I finally feel something. Watching these videos makes me sad but at least I'm feeling
melancholy is bittersweet.
Sometimes, it's just me against the world. This video really inspired me to this song ua-cam.com/video/5emlb6vYvrY/v-deo.html
Men are indeed poor creatures innit? Only being loved by everyone on basis of what we provide on the table and often times never being cared by the ones we love so much. Whatever happens we yet put a smile on our face and live our lives to fill up the duties that the society imposed on us. We all are heros for sure, heads up and live this beautiful life of man 🙂
The way nature intended.
@@The_Real_BonesawSeems about right.
For everyone out there saying theres no hope, I got something for you.
Keep pushing forward God has a purpose for you. Never ever give up fulfill what you want to achieve and accomplish.
Push all of those bad emotions away and keep pushing forward being YOU.
Take action…
I know is hard out there, stay strong brothers, Jezus loves his lonely man we got this
Fuck god
I used to be depressed and lonely, I still am but I won't let it control me anymore. I learned how to be happy. I learned how to live with lonliness. I learned how to be myself. It just click to me one day that all of this mopping and not doing anything about it isn't just gonna solve anything. No one gonna be come and help me. So I learned how to help myself.
I want everyone here who shared the same feeling, just know that you got yourself and your future. Try to appreciate yourself even if it is a little. Don't let that "i can't do it" mentality control you. And finally, smile a little. It help:)
These are wise words, yet your still here...these videos only facilitate one person, and yet were all still here for you.
You are here boys. Right now. Keep going. Your eyes are open, and you are ready for the contrast of happiness and plenitude. You are here for a reason. Brofist.
I’m already invisible. Truer words were never said
Eternal sunshine of a spotless mind. No other movie captures heartbreak and loss after breakup like this movie
My childhood got destroyed. I lost time, happiness, time with family and even freedom till this day. I still fight hoping this feeling will leave me. This weight on me will fade away.
Reasons to live:
1. Experiencing love
2. Creating memories
3. Traveling to new places
4. Watching sunsets
5. Enjoying a good book
6. Savoring delicious food
7. Listening to music
8. Learning new things
9. Making friends
10. Helping others
11. Personal growth
12. Celebrating milestones
13. Experiencing different cultures
14. Laughing with friends
15. Watching movies
16. Enjoying nature
17. Having pets
18. Achieving goals
19. Building a career
20. Feeling the rain on your face
21. Experiencing seasons
22. Watching children grow
23. Finding inner peace
24. Discovering new hobbies
25. Exercising
26. Embracing challenges
27. Overcoming fears
28. Feeling accomplished
29. Creating art
30. Making a difference
31. Family gatherings
32. Falling in love
33. Watching a live performance
34. Feeling sand between your toes
35. Stargazing
36. Gardening
37. Feeling a sense of community
38. Witnessing acts of kindness
39. Participating in traditions
40. Reaching personal milestones
41. Discovering new talents
42. Cooking a new recipe
43. Watching wildlife
44. Feeling the wind in your hair
45. Making someone smile
46. Enjoying solitude
47. Experiencing the power of forgiveness
48. Learning to dance
49. Reading poetry
50. Being inspired by others
51. Feeling the warmth of a hug
52. Exploring history
53. Practicing mindfulness
54. Trying new sports
55. Experiencing spiritual growth
56. Witnessing the change of seasons
57. Feeling gratitude
58. Taking road trips
59. Being part of a team
60. Sharing stories
61. Witnessing technological advances
62. Feeling a sense of belonging
63. Writing your own story
64. Teaching others
65. Celebrating holidays
66. Seeing the beauty in the world
67. Participating in meaningful conversations
68. Finding your purpose
69. Watching the clouds
70. Building something with your hands
71. Experiencing synchronicity
72. Feeling joy
73. Discovering new perspectives
74. Experiencing art
75. Finding serenity in chaos
76. Building relationships
77. Learning from mistakes
78. Feeling connected to the universe
79. Observing wildlife
80. Seeing a child's smile
81. Experiencing déjà vu
82. Watching a sunrise
83. Discovering your passion
84. Feeling the energy of a crowd
85. Seeing the ocean
86. Celebrating diversity
87. Understanding different viewpoints
88. Finding inner strength
89. Witnessing personal transformation
90. Experiencing the power of nature
91. Building a legacy
92. Feeling the thrill of adventure
93. Enjoying quiet moments
94. Seeing the first snow
95. Feeling alive
96. Watching leaves change color
97. Experiencing a warm fire
98. Finding peace in routine
99. Making a difference in someone's life
100. Participating in rituals
101. Feeling empathy
102. Learning about the universe
103. Writing your thoughts
104. Experiencing new technologies
105. Sharing your knowledge
106. Feeling a sense of achievement
107. Observing art in museums
108. Taking a leap of faith
109. Reuniting with old friends
110. Celebrating achievements
111. Embracing new opportunities
112. Feeling the energy of a city
113. Enjoying the quiet of the countryside
114. Seeing the stars in a clear sky
115. Experiencing personal freedom
116. Feeling the power of forgiveness
117. Building a family
118. Enjoying a cup of coffee
119. Experiencing unconditional love
120. Feeling the excitement of anticipation
121. Observing human kindness
122. Learning a new language
123. Discovering new music
124. Enjoying a hot bath
125. Feeling the satisfaction of a job well done
126. Watching a sporting event
127. Experiencing different cuisines
128. Discovering your roots
129. Feeling inspired by nature
130. Observing the change in seasons
131. Participating in sports
132. Feeling the exhilaration of a roller coaster
133. Discovering new places
134. Making memories with loved ones
135. Feeling the satisfaction of creativity
136. Observing the night sky
137. Seeing a full moon
138. Experiencing silence
139. Watching a thunderstorm
140. Feeling the power of prayer or meditation
141. Participating in community events
142. Discovering the joy of giving
143. Feeling a sense of accomplishment
144. Witnessing the growth of plants
145. Enjoying the company of friends
146. Feeling the warmth of a fire
147. Celebrating personal victories
148. Observing the beauty of architecture
149. Experiencing the thrill of discovery
150. Feeling the tranquility of a forest
151. Watching a fireworks display
152. Discovering new books
153. Experiencing different art forms
154. Seeing a rainbow
155. Feeling the cool breeze on a hot day
156. Enjoying the sound of waves
157. Participating in a cause you believe in
158. Feeling the energy of live music
159. Observing cultural festivals
160. Discovering new philosophies
161. Experiencing personal breakthroughs
162. Feeling connected to others
163. Witnessing the power of teamwork
164. Enjoying a favorite hobby
165. Seeing the beauty in everyday life
166. Feeling the excitement of learning
167. Experiencing the comfort of home
168. Watching the growth of your children
169. Feeling the love of family
170. Observing the change in landscapes
171. Participating in meaningful work
172. Celebrating life’s simple pleasures
173. Feeling the joy of reunion
174. Discovering new ways to express yourself
175. Observing the power of the ocean
176. Experiencing the warmth of the sun
177. Feeling the excitement of a challenge
178. Celebrating traditions
179. Enjoying the scent of flowers
180. Watching a new generation grow
181. Participating in creative projects
182. Feeling the excitement of a new beginning
183. Observing the beauty of wildlife
184. Experiencing the diversity of life
185. Feeling the energy of nature
186. Participating in spiritual practices
187. Discovering new interests
188. Feeling the thrill of a roller coaster
189. Seeing new technological advancements
190. Experiencing the joy of teaching
191. Observing the power of community
192. Feeling the joy of helping others
193. Celebrating milestones with loved ones
194. Seeing the smile on a loved one’s face
195. Enjoying a peaceful morning
196. Feeling the warmth of the sun
197. Watching the beauty of a sunset
198. Experiencing new cultures
199. Building lifelong friendships
200. Seeing the beauty in small moments
201. Feeling the energy of a concert
202. Observing the change in the world
203. Celebrating your achievements
204. Enjoying a walk in the park
205. Feeling the power of nature
206. Participating in traditions
207. Discovering the joy of learning
208. Experiencing the thrill of new experiences
209. Seeing the beauty of a full moon
210. Feeling the energy of a city
211. Observing the power of love
212. Experiencing the comfort of home
213. Enjoying the company of loved ones
214. Feeling the excitement of a new project
215. Observing the beauty of nature
216. Experiencing the joy of creativity
217. Discovering new passions
218. Feeling the power of teamwork
219. Celebrating personal growth
220. Seeing the beauty of a sunrise
221. Feeling the energy of a community
222. Observing the power of kindness
223. Experiencing the comfort of routine
224. Enjoying the company of friends
225. Feeling the joy of accomplishment
226. Observing the beauty of the stars
227. Experiencing the thrill of adventure
228. Discovering new talents
229. Feeling the power of forgiveness
230. Celebrating the joy of life
231. Seeing the beauty of a clear sky
232. Feeling the energy of a crowd
233. Observing the change in the seasons
234. Experiencing the joy of giving
235. Discovering new ways to learn
236. Feeling the power of love
237. Celebrating your accomplishments
238. Seeing the beauty of the ocean
239. Feeling the energy of nature
240. Observing the power of teamwork
241. Experiencing the thrill of discovery
242. Discovering new interests
243. Feeling the joy of helping others
244. Celebrating personal victories
245. Seeing the beauty in everyday life
246. Feeling the excitement of learning
247. Observing the beauty of architecture
248. Experiencing the joy of creativity
249. Discovering new cultures
250. Feeling the power of community
251. Celebrating your milestones
252. Seeing the beauty of a sunset
253. Feeling the energy of a city
254. Observing the power of kindness
255. Experiencing the comfort of home
256. Enjoying the company of loved ones
257. Feeling the excitement of a new project
258. Observing the beauty of nature
259. Experiencing the joy of creativity
260. Discovering new passions
261. Feeling the power of teamwork
All the things you didnt had as you were younger, you can get them now. There are always so many reasons to live and i didnt even get close to all the things you can do and enjoy in life. Dont get any suicidal thoughts, do the things that you enjoy the most. Do what is the best for you!
Im 15. I havent been happy since the third grade. So around 8 or 9. In fact i dont remember what happy is. I just know I started being sad. I can laugh and at times enjoy myself, but Im not happy. I try so hard to better myself thinking it might help, but it just doesnt work. I workout, I run, I am probably one of the smartest of my grade. But none of it makes me happy. I have loved one person. Not my father, not my mom, none of my siblings. But a girl. A girl I dated during the seventh grade. But I still wasnt happy. I was just comfortable. My brother had just been admitted to a mental hospital, so I was too scared to lose her. So, I did everything in my power to do no bad, but in doing that, I did no good either. I had no money at the time, no nothing. I couldnt do anything and she is someone I still love to this day. We pass each other in the halls everyday. I dont love my family. Which might sound weird, but why should I? I would do basically anything for them, but if they died I think I would only be majorly bothered. If I saw them die in front of me it might be a bit traumatic, but I wont experience much sorrow. Its fucked but its true. Ive had so much happen to me but it feels like I cant even be bothered to care anymore. Ive had a porn addiction since 7 and a masturbation addiction since 9. I still havent been able to break myself free from. The first time I attempted sewerslide was when I was 9. It was the middle of class. The teacher wouldnt call on my hand for minutes upon minutes. I felt so insignificant and unimportant. I kept my hand raised and tightened the tie my mom had given me before she left. I tightened and kept my hand raised until she called on me or I died. She eventually called on me but she said I was really red. I said I mustve tightened my tie a bit too much. And none of this even scratches the surface. Ive never told anyone anything. No one knows anything. Besides whoever might happen to see this in the youtube comment section
i love you.
I love you too, continue to be brave, I won't say it will become easier, it won't, but be brave for all of us.
This really hit me hard... Man. Relate to it a bit too much. I know its cliche and often just more annoying than anything but. remember that there are others like yourself going through similiar experiences. Stay strong, i wish you the best.
The only time I didn’t feel alone was when I was in the military/ boot camp. Because they take everything from u and give u challenges like some you can’t complete by yourself. So what do you do? Your buddy to your left or to your right starts to help you, and vice versa. And because your all in the same “shit” you grow as a whole. So when you’re thrown back in to society you realise everybody is in different stages in life,so rarely you will see help to a random person, because no one is on the same “level” and that illusion makes us feel alone. I’m happy I experienced real life togetherness at least once in my life.
I’m 16 and I’m doing all I can but I feel like it won’t be enough. I feel I’m never gonna have a best friend/girlfriend/wife/child ever. Loneliness has taken a toll on me and I have both the scars in my brain and the scars on my arms to prove it
Hey anyone who sees this! I hope all is well! Always keep your head up and keep pushing. Never think you aren’t worth it. Everyday is a new opportunity 🙏🏽 cheers and much love to anyone out there struggling
Christ loves you. I love you. Keep going.
You may but I don't
5:50 "it's not that you feel like you don't have anybody; you feel like nobody has you." too real. Hard being a young man sometimes
parents divorced. Dad worked himself to death to pay off the house. Mom left to her other family. I’ve never felt so alone and hurt in my life.I’ve never had a girlfriend got no siblings. What’s the point if your life is misery. I just want to rest and not feel this pain. I hate it. Fk
Those experiences might just be the reason you have the understanding to save someone who needs you. You can’t know that won’t happen.
I know it’s probably not what you want to hear right now but God is the answer man. Just give in to him.
I’m 14 dawg. I’m too young to be feeling this shit.
15. same.
i'm feeling like that since i was 11, bro, life is hard. but accept the things that you cannot change, and don't worry, everything will be fine, be grateful for the little things no matter how hard it is and all you see is darkness. love u 💗
You got time man..don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be great too soon..you have time❤️
Thats when its most intense imo, at least it was for me.
@@h2p293 As was I, things definitely chill out later on especially with such a wise outlook
I looked up Everlong covers how the hell did I fall down this rabbit hole
I think Theo Von put it best. The feeling of being alone isn't necessarily about not having anyone. It's that no one has you. When you're that person for people but no one is for you. That when certain people in your life, no matter what you have going on, if they need you, you're there. But when you're in your time of need. No one's there. You go through your contacts, try to call all the ones you can because you need someone to talk to but you never get an answer. You're just alone until someone else in your life decides THEY don't want to be alone.
this is so powerful man, thanks. Just thanks.
Much love brother
@@adamemedia3139 thanks
I gotta quote for yall out there. “God removed people from your life because he heard conversations you didn’t” shit ain’t always your fault. I lost a few friends but I always remembered “If Gods plan took them out your life, maybe your plan wasn’t right”
Facts.
You have No idea how much I needed to hear this man.
I keep trying to change, to change things... my demons keep pulling me back down. I woke up recently and realized it's been almost a full year since I stopped boxing, stopping working out, stopped eating right... my demons drowned me in alcohol and gas chambered me in pot. Today I worked for hours on a new diet and work out routine. I told people that I would go to the gym with they, I renewed my gym membership. The only thing I didn't do was reach out to my couch and asking if I can return to boxing... honestly that scares me the most... I let him down so much. I am a failure, but damn it I try my best! I just lose track of time and I forget things. I have blank spots in my life and other people never understand that.
I wish, these kind of videos would go forever
all i wanted is them to love me and believe they loved me but when i start to believe they do they leave me.
Love yourself first brother. If they stay they stay if they dont you find out for free they were never worth it. No harm in seeing the best in people and trusting thier intentions -with healthy boundaries of course- dont let the assholes rob you of feeling earnestly towards people. The real winners imo are those who can love everytime like its the first time. Hope that helps and wish you the best in life, sincerely a fool on the interent :)
Keep going cause it might get better. I live on this thought
“Do not pray for easy lives, pray to be stronger men”
"Being acutely lonely is just as stressful as being punched in the face from a stranger"
The past month ,i lost my 5 years gf , lost both of my best friends to a car accident , lost my love for my carrier and in quite bit of debt. I try almost everything. Even the gym , which i been doing for 6 years doesn't feel good anymore. I lost my fire . All i have now is my empty apartment and my mother
keep your head up, find something you can really apply yourself to and work at that and keep getting better at it, your past relationships should never define you no matter what.
I just want to know have anyone felt my sadness?
16 years of my life never felt my love except from my parent. Got betrayed by my friend. Got left behind, doesn’t felt anything anymore and any laugh that I put up was fake it’s just doesn’t felt real. All the achievement was just to make myself felt good. And now I’m lonely even though I have many friends every night I just wake up in the middle of the night because I’m scared of dying alone. I know I have mental problem but I can’t talk to anyone about it.
Ey brothers, we are all brothers, we go trough the same pain eventually. Sometimes you have to take joy in simple things, nature hepls sometimes. But if you feel shit then do something against it? I mean its the only life you will ever live?! There is change, there will always be change, you can decide if you change for good or bad
Agree with every word brother. something weirdly comforting we all go throug the same pain. A comfort I wanted to share.
With Christ one is never alone.
Jesus was the loneliest man on the planet, to be with christ is to be truly alone.
@@fessy4 Except for some time on the cross, Jesus was in constant communion with the Father.
Jesus was also in the Spirit.
Jesus knew that angels would minister to Him at a moments notice, if He willed it.
Except for some time on the cross, Jesus was the least lonely person on the planet.
Beautiful, thank you for making this.
Even when I cry in front of my father he jus tells me not to cry, that’s it’s a waste of tears crying as a man, he knows no one cares and he doesn’t even try to sugar coat it, I’m gonna b miserable forever lol
Men arent allowed to cry I agree. you may be miserable throughout your life but I disagree it will be your main or dominant emotion.
I try to cry but the tears won’t come out,just suffering
I smile. However, the act of smiling strikes me as so morbidly amusing, that I can only laugh. But the sound is so ghastly and hollow that I can't help but weep. And, even though my tears, I recognize the absurdity of it all, and that makes me oddly happy. So I smile.
i met the love of my life two years ago. we had a lot in common at the time and we truly loved each other. she was everything to me, and i wanted to care for her for the rest of my life. but of course i messed up everything. i said the wrong things. i was never there for her when i should have been there. she had been through so much and i only ended up making things worse when i tried to help. she broke up with me on the last day of school and she moved on to someone else less than a week later. i had never felt more pain in my entire life. i have never felt more alone. i still think about her, miss her. i don’t think i could ever love another girl like i loved her. i always thought i was an okay guy but nope, just ruined everything
Humans are imperfect by nature. Everyone makes mistakes
And thats okay
You dont have to torture yourself. Use this experience as a lesson. Be happy for all the good moments you got to experience and start to forgive yourself for being imperfect and making mistakes no matter how big or small they were and move on . I know its hard . But its definitely worth it compared to wasting your years in grief and regretting it later!
Take it a step at a time . Talk to someone about it if you feel like you need to. Let it out!
Itll be alright
@@Msrobot3948 thanks, i really appreciate it
wow i realized im really young to be completely honest i am 13 and people normally would say "bro you're just 13 you're just faking it you are not depressed" then my mother is like you're okay bla bla bla but i did things i really regret doing but without me doing those things i wouldn't have a personality but ohhh right i already don't have one and im just scared to say the things i regret doing to my mother and father because they would just go like "is that really what my son is, a failure?'"i only have 2 friends that i actually take time to go outside with go to their place and chillout but ever since i have fallen in depression i can't relate alot to my friends because of that, the reason is that why im in depression is because of loneliness and sure my friends are there but one day my friend told me he had a gf 4 months later or so he said he broke up with his gf because his gf cheated on him i really could care less but when my other friend told me he recently had a gf 2 months ago i keep on telling myself how much of a failure i am i can't speak to the people i like because i am too scared of their reaction and how it is going to destroy me, the only place i feel at home is on the internet plus a girl wouldn't have anything to like me for i am pretty ugly and also i don't have anything beautiful that i accomplished in my life i don't have ANYTHING to like me for, i have NO ONE AND NOTHING except me my friends that can semi-relate to me
i feel lonely.
I am slowly losing all feelings for attachments and life in general, i have always had these feelings and the pills just make it harder to mask it. I am thankful for my mom and my dog buddy. They are the only things keeping me grounded in reality and to life.
6:46 hits crazy
im not ok. i numb the pain with mind numbing videos. i never cry. it took burnout to finally make me cry. i don't feel okay. help. please. let me cry. let me feel happy. let me... live.
19, moved out at 18, work full time in a town hours away from any one I know, school was a nightmare, never had a girlfriend, never had true close friends, never shared experiences with people I love, never partied, I mean never been on a plane ffs. Struggled through therapy for years over social anxiety and still struggle. I give so much effort in trying to stay positive, trying to be a better person, trying to meet people with similar values and hobbies, But when I never share enjoyment with anyone it all seems useless. I just hope one day things will turn around. I need to get this off my chest. Feels like I've been ignored all my life, overlooked, an object. This world just wasn't built for me. But I keep pushing because if I stop now, then all I've worked for would be useless and a waste. I guess what I'm talking to myself here about...is to see the good in life, how lucky we are to be here be concious of our presence in time and space and what a phenomenon it is. Keeping fighting my brothers in this unfair world, as will I.
2:33 I choose to be alone because I gave up on finding people who are worth keeping in my life, my circle is very small.
I feel that shit
I’m here eating next to my girlfriend, we live together. We have such a happy life.. but that quote “I help everybody except for myself” almost made me bawl out of nowhere. But it’s not even because I’m helpful to people, but it’s more 5:12 because I make everyone hate me and make them forget I even exist. And I understand why I do it. I don’t feel like I deserve to be loved, Like I don’t deserve to be. So I push everyone away the moment they start giving me attention. But… I don’t want to be unseen, I want them to care, but I just I don’t know, I don’t know how to help myself.
I feel you brother. It feels the same here. We'll make it brother don't you worry.
The thing that hurts, is when it comes in waves. There’s days your okay, but then there’s days when you’re just done with the fake smile and you just shut down.
real (I just want to be loved by someone)
I think we live all these moments in our lives brothers. Life is hard and loneliness may seem like a burden to you. But do not let your eyes be absorbed by the precipice while you are dizzy. Keep looking up, setting goals knowing that you can reach the top of your mountain if you take one very small step after another. And while you strive to climb, enjoy the trip, watch the beauty of a starry sky, enjoy the simple moments we take for granted, force yourself to get out of your comfort zone a little, don't be afraid to make mistakes, we all make them. Be attentive and good with others, but above all be that with yourself. Take care of yourself and just do the best you can, that’s already great. Strength and courage my brothers ✌️
Whats hard for lonely people to understand and people in general is that youre not alone.
You say this. Because you wouldnt understand me
agree with both of you lol
sometimes you just feel like ending your life but then you’re scared to be alone. scared to miss the moments that’ll come after. so you just decide to stay? or atleast try to.
Dellor really got me there
0:43 I helped everyone around me and didnt help myself. You don't realize how far you have fallen till it feels too far away to come back. Worse part: No one is doing for you what you did for them.
I fear after everything my ex put me through, my next if i ever get one, i will never fully trust and will lose again because of it. Or I'll get those words, i love you and just burst out crying and be hated or viewed different. I have recently been making notes and made promises to end my life on new years if i stay the same through this year. It's gotten to a point the shit i dealt with the entire time broke me, i cannot continue with it. I sit here daily faking happiness like i actually feel happy and it turns like a flip of a switch, This is not a cry for sympathy i don't even know why I'm saying this myself, I'm only 18 and i already don't want any more of life.
You know, I'm not gonna be like "Oh everything's gonna be alright just give it time" because I honestly don't know. I think I'm in a similar situation. I try to hide that I feel this way by trying to feel happy but it just doesn't work long-term. I think the key is to just hope that it'll get better someday. Most things are out of our control, I think that includes our feelings and trauma responses too. This may sound cliché but I just think you gotta fight those responses and just hold out hope. It's not gonna be easy and it can of course get worse, you gotta make yourself ready for that. But if you don't try, the chances of this getting better are severely lowered. I don't really know where I was going with this but if this helped you in any way, I'm happy.
@@Zerocarknowledge i get what you mean, there is no way to help it. Tried so many different methods, its strange and some people might think its a bad thing but love is literally my life, all my life goals are centred about love and to have it ripped away the way it was just broke me mentally. I don't have anything to work for or goals, i only enjoyed anything because i knew i was doing it so i could make someone else happy in the future with it.
I do hope it'll get better simply bc i want to experience it again, but i do know i probably wont bc of the memories. I have sympathy for ur situation, not being able to or not wanting to speak out for whatever reason even though it's so easy is just hell. And its so hard to get out of it, i suppose we both just have to hold on for dear life and do some praying, not religious so i wouldn't know where to start with that one, probably end up conjuring some demon instead. Well thank you anyway i do hope u have a great day, I'm glad at least one person cared enough to reply to me, thank you
@@NERVv.I was in the talking stage with someone during the summer of last year. We had met in July and even during just those 2-3 months that we were talking for, I thought she was the one. Sure, it might sound a little desperate or whatever but all of my goals suddenly had her included in them. I was thinking about like moving in together and like starting a family and working on our shared interests together and all of that. She told me that she had those same goals with me at the time.
Everything seemed great during that time and I couldn't see any signs of anything bad happening in the near future anyway. Then one day out of the blue, she just didn't respond to my messages anymore. I woke up one day and it was just silence, didn't even send me a breakup text or anything (we were dating for like 2 weeks before this cus we thought that making it official any earlier would've been too soon). For 3 months my life was basically like: Wake up, check my phone, she didn't respond, go to school, send her a goodnight text and maybe the occational instagram reel, send an "I hope you're doing ok, I love you", and go to bed. No response, ever. I was ghosted for 3 months before she decided to delete her instagram account (our only form of communication). Then I basically had to move on. Now it's been like 5 months since then, and I don't have feelings for her and barely even think about her anymore.
The point I'm trying to make by telling this story is, you can move on. Sure, it may take some time and you gotta be ready for that, but it can be done. Maybe your trauma and issues won't magically disappear, but moving on is a great first step. And you can reconstruct your goals to fit your current situation, trust me. It won't be easy, definitely not. It's not impossible for anyone though. It can be done.
Also had a look at ur channel, and u come across as a solid ass guy ngl, wholesome content u have. Id certainly have u as a friend if u went to my college, would love to have a friend like u there. Fr its hell on earth, kinda like a bunch of toddlers with the mindset of Fortnite kids
@@NERVv. Loll I’m just a Swedish car guy don’t mind me 😅 I just got my first car in april of last year so I’m posting a bit of that sometimes but eh. Thanks tho :D
Coming back to this masterpiece.
I’m in so much pain I just don’t wanna ever let anyone in.. I think I’m okay with dying alone, 21 my girl left me bc I’m a fuck up, and she left me tbh when I rlly needed her the most….
Imo, take the lesson of your fuck up and try again, forgive yourself and do better
I love being alone. Sometimes... just sometimes, I wish I had someone. I got cheated on and didn't want to be this character anymore. For the longest time, I hated loneliness but have grown to love it.
"Why are you so afraid of having someone care about you, why are you so afraid of caring about someone?"
Because they leave. They leave and the only thing left is the memory of happiness, and the deafening silence of emptiness. The thousands of pieces of my soul, that got shattered, that I now have to pick up and put together again, and the ever so persistent questions of "What went wrong? Why did it turn out this way? What did I fuck up this time?"
That's all. Nothing more, nothing less.
I think the better question than "what are your hobbies?" is "what are your hobbies when you're depressed?" That is harder to answer, sometimes you want to do absolutely nothing. But if you could just figure out that answer, you'd be set. Mine is digging a hole by myself in a field, or chopping wood, I could do either, something physical mindless and alone. Or maybe sailing, no shore in sight, maybe a storm, alone. Something about that I could do in any state. It makes me think it all will pass, every time.
I am 20 now... I spent a year drunk, mostly due to puting all of my self into selfish people ever since i was born, like a snake eating its own tail. Now I am a ship wreck that has failed as a son, and now I am writing this from a dark hotel room in the middle of the desert.
You haven't failed. You aren't defined by your mistakes or by how others treat you or make you feel. I know you will get through this
You still have time. Sounds like you know what needs to be done. I believe in you.
Time to read Bukowski my friend Get his poems and novels hell help you through ❤❤ your so lucky being 20 with all yr wild adventures ahead
I hope none of my brothers/friends are going through this without me. Too scared to speak to anyone sober it’s too difficult but I’m able to handle it all so far to the point where I won’t hurt myself just my mind? Hope everyone’s okay reading this I’m here for every single one of you.
First time crying in almost few years, life is to much for me. On one end I have a loving gilfriend, but in the other I still fell sadness. I thought it will go away, but no, today was just to much for me. I couldn't pass my driving exam and I just broke. I fell like a lozer, like an idiot. It's weird that I cry, because I didn't think that I could. Sress is eating me alive guys
Stray strong by accepting your faults brother, no one is perfect, most people fail a driving exam or two, many people lie about it too.
Perfection is the enemy of good and it can really mess you up to chase. Happy to hear you have love in your life, all the best, you defintley arent a loser.
Jsem takovej osaomecej pinda bez budoucnosti….
Vy jste jediný, co objevili recept na život :D
jim described it perfectly
I have never felt so alone since my dad past earlier this year, didnt even get to say good bye just got picked up after school to my uncle crying and i knew what happened i tried to hide it but i couldnt the tears just started flowing. After that day i just blame myself for not talking to him that much before he died or not even saying bye to him that morning. Forever 48
Everyday my parents are constanly arguing and its been happening in the last 7 years, im the funny kid in class, my "friends" are trauma dumping on me and all i can do is listen to them, i dont have any real friends, no one to talk to.
Hang in there man
use your time to transfrom. you're young that a massive advantage. stay busy, workout, read learn skills, take up hobbies. Youll become so busy and passionate that the other things you mention wont bother you as much, you'' be distracted by your numerous goals and research towards them. fast forward 10 years and you are a different beast.
@@adamemedia3139 i worked out consistently for 1 year already. Went from 56kg to 74kg and im already busy on weekdays but it just keeps bothering me that all this grinding i did, sacrificed my time with family and friends. The most fucked up thing in my life is i dont have a dream or vision.
when i was 8 i didnt have any friends in school.... and when i finally realized that it was my personality that was the problem, i removed it. Now im 14 and i know that the 8 year old i left behind , was the only happy person inside of me...
When you feel this this is when life actually starts you find your purpose in life your reason to go on with life you find a reason to be happy
That cut to Jordan Peterson sitting quietly choked me up 😭
I never had anything, I still have nothing, still waiting for nothing to happen never.
only after we lose everything are we free
I like listening to this, deeply reflecting, then BAM! I get a 10 second add :)
"Everyone loves you, but nobody wants to love you."
good translation
3:40 hits hard
damn bro, this was nice
Appreciate it brother
Sometimes when I think about giving up, I remember that the world would be a better place without me, and I simply cannot let that happen.
It feels wrong to feel lonely because I did it to myself, or at least it feels like I did.
I know it's more like you choose it and not that it happened to you
Even people who got harmed in an accident and they were in fault, they still deserve to have their wounds treated
When I broke up it really hurt like most brake ups but the feeling isn’t just losing the person it’s the fact you saw yourself growing and loving that person and getting that took away from you does something to you no matter what you do or what you think it still hurts it really eats away at you it takes so long to get over it sometimes you never do but it’s fine it’s not about getting over it it’s about moving on
Very good video fr
Appreciate it
“I needed somebody but they didn’t need me” real
I love being alone, but I’m terrified of being alone.
Absolutely agree
Why are things like this? Is this even true are we lying to ourselves our we a bunch of meat chunks randomly floating in space “because if God is really real where is the same that we say might not even exist becomes real to us but only when we are dying in bed”
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Why are things like this? Is this even true are we lying to ourselves our we a bunch of meat chunks randomly floating in space “because if God is really real where is the same that we say might not even exist becomes real to us but only when we are dying in bed”
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Why are things like this? Is this even true are we lying to ourselves our we a bunch of meat chunks randomly floating in space “because if God is really real where is the same that we say might not even exist becomes real to us but only when we are dying in bed”
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Why are things like this? Is this even true are we lying to ourselves our we a bunch of meat chunks randomly floating in space “because if God is really real where is the same that we say might not even exist becomes real to us but only when we are dying in bed”
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