TUA #1 - Why Men Simp (And How To Stop)
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- Опубліковано 4 лип 2021
- Lets talk about why so many men today have reduced themselves to simping for women (and men) and how that gets them terrible results out of life, and with women.
We'll discuss the factors that creating weak "simping" behaviors in men, provide some tests to establish if you are a simp or not, and how to fix this unattractive behavior going forward so you can get what you want out of life, and with women.
Q&A will be open to all after the monologue, so bring questions during the call in segment.
What is simping?
-a man that goes out of his way to bend the knee to women in hopes she will see his righteousness as attractive and want to be intimate with him. These men are grass fed lions
Why men do it? - In short... It's easy, safe, and comfortable
- a total lack of self respect.
- they have no real purpose in life.
- they think being a 'nice guy' will get them intimacy
- It's taught by parenting (43% by single moms), school, media, government, etc.
- softer, weaker men with an estrogen dominate endocrine system. See the book 'Estrogeneration' by Dr. Anthony Jay for reference.
The simp test
- Constantly trying to impress women
- Showering women with complements & money
- White knighting
- Getting little to zero success with women
- Texting back fast, and persistently
Society doesn't teach men to put themselves first, and calls conventional masculinity 'toxic'
Solution
- be the prize
- put yourself first
- make money, grow muscles, learn how to fight, and learn game
- realize beauty is common, top shelf men aren't
- spend time around more top shelf men
- stop listening to your mom, and other neutered men
- stop following women you aren't intimate with
- call it out - Розваги
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@R D You desperately need to step away from UA-cam grifters and go acquire some actual education/experience.....
@@zogook2953 remember, after you spew... Offer solutions. Don't just point and sputter.
So what do you suggest?
@@bjtucker5 I clearly offered a suggestion....
Ml w
I read the book in one day. Loved it. My buddy is the son of a retired US Senator, and he just went through a NASTY divorce. I felt like I was reading about his life in that one chapter. She was after his family’s money from day one. Now he’s fighting to spend time with his two little girls.
Never worship another human being, especially one that has achieved nothing.
Right, so true, all these that send their hard earned money to some celeb for something like a signed picture, crazy, people should just worry about making themselves a star in their own life
I "worship" some other dudes that had ultimate impact on my world or the World in general. At max...
Neckbeard virgin.
Even those who have "achievements" shouldn't be worshipped
Broo your comment just shook me off thanks 👍
“If you treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan”
Facts. Great quote
Simpin for a dude...perhaps you don't like women.
@@jrdramey easy brother
@@jlrob85 facts, I learned my lesson.. I don’t engage with women anymore
@@jrdramey how much money do you waste in girls onlyfans?
It’s just insane… men need to stop putting women on a pedestal..
There are lazy women who wants top 1% men with no work. Shit attitude, overweight, chaotic life yet they want the best of the best because they deserve it
There are lazy men who want good women by just going to bar with a “good” cologne and their “lucky” shirt. They will not get their money up, take on hard challenges, and their body looks like McDonalds quarter pounder they shove in their mouth every lunch.
Not many people are willing to put in the work. Why do you think we have so many fat man?
The bar is set so low, if you just give a damn about standard, and integrity it will show. That’s the current landscape.
You ask most men, giving women validation and attention, complimenting is not simping. That's just being polite. And maybe she will like him more for it...
@@qbraun9241 You're not doing yourself any favors by complimenting them. That doesn't work anymore and they don't appreciate it. They will treat you like a 'fan'.
Do I need to put it on a pedestal. Something which turning 30 is old, cheats and does not respect most of the men. And thinks that it can do everything without doing some work. Good luck. I love most of them, but the man must be a man first. Then to interact with women. Reality just proves it since begin of time. A woman wants a real man, desperately, she does everything for him, at the same time - f3min1sm. To put this on a pedestal? Guys must see better through the bulls..t. Otherwise they can not only not compete, they could not survive in one real world
@@joshspikerThat couldn't be more true. Never ever give a woman a compliment because they already know they are beautiful. It only strokes their ego.
It's a sad epidemic, and I was guilty for decades. Falling at a woman's feet, thinking it will win her over is a losing venture. Sadly this behaviour empowers many women to treat a man like her little doggy. Rule#1: you MUST maintain your self respect. Be prepared to say "no" to this abuse, and even if she looks like a centrefold, be prepared to walk away.
I was raised with my single feminist Mom and two older sisters (one which is a major narcissist). I was told to treat women as if they deserve the world... and then they will eventually be swayed into liking me. I never stood a chance. Now, as I read and watch videos regarding the nature of women - I discuss it with my Mom and she totally agrees - although she never let me in on it. Needless to say, I'm pissed.
I feel you. I was raised with a very liberal mom and an older and younger sister. Dad was at work all week so I was around feminine energy. I'm finally learning what I missed when I was young.
Find your tribe!!! Your tribe is a group of Men. For example...The Gym, Mix martial arts, shoot range, building a house or construction, etc. There u will learn how to learn more skills. Become more wiser and stronger Also, learn a trade, a skill, and be ready to face some of your fears!!! Listen to Joko on utube. Or David Giggs.
The truth will set you free, and then it will piss you off.
Your mom probably didn’t even know because hypergamy is not a conscious thing. Women largely have no idea why they do anything, they just feel and react. Most women really do believe their own fluff about wanting a man who’s kind, sweet, always available, and treats them like a queen.
@@Ace.0.0.0.
But for God's sake, don't stay in that anger phase. That leads to nihilism
I am a women and I agree with a lot of your core content. It is embarrassing to see the lack of integrity and double standards a lot of woman throw out. The devaluation and shaming serve no purpose. I honor all the alpha men. Blessed Be.
Too late 😂
Simping is where you choose to starve a week to beg for scraps, rather than work a day to gain value.
Right
“Grass fed lion” Damn.
Took my red pill, my alpha came back and women noticed. Read your book and then purchased the audio for my bike rides. I have some work to do but this is so much fun actually cleaning “shop”
Happy for you man! A word of warning though, be aware that you have to constantly be on your guard to ensure you don't slip back into Beta and Oneitis habits. I red-pilled, ejected a toxic woman who almost ruined me, got my life back, but then 3 years later I woke up and realised I was spiralling into another case of Onitis, low self worth and simping. A lifetime of beta programming is hard to shake, so the red pill needs to be a regular repeat prescription to stay healthy.
@@steelybojangles
Maaaan, that is so true👏
@Beavis Butthead - yes this is a process but it's a much needed. Staying focused on the goal is key. I will get back to spinning plates but right now do the work and then the spinning will be crazy fun.
Its amazing you noticed brother? If you read it or hear it, it changes your psychology, its like rewriting your whole thinking. Amazing book
No alpha needs another man to tell him what he needs to do LOL.
A lot of guys want the step by step on what to do because their whole life they’ve been told what to do. I was once like this and not listening to other people and putting yourself first is the best thing you can do
@Famus, and I bet you got some flack for that, eh?
Society doesn't like it when you think for yourself.
But it's def liberating. I have to agree with Jon @MLD, "You get tired of hanging around these normies"
@Brandon Smythe ,
Bro, don't eat a bullet. Have you read the Rational Male yet? It may help.
Yeah, my dad worked a lot, but still got to see him. He was the kind to never apologize, though. Now, since my mom died 5 years ago, he's remarried and traded us up. He's definitely "old order thinking."
Don't people please. It's never worth it. I just cut off my wife's brother last night at a bar. He's a pompous prick and better off outta my life.
Hell, I don't even have anything to do with my own blood brother.
You just get to a point when you can't abide normies and betas in your life.
Mental point of origin ftw
@Brandon Smythe i understand what you mean, had a dad but didn’t at the same time. Be the man you wanted when you were a kid, you’ll never please everyone. You’re a husband now you need to lead, you have one life start doing things that make you happy and fulfilled. Put yourself first not other people
Society wants men to be this way. Western countries program men to be submissive and agreeable to not stand up to authority and be a good little sheep. Need to take the wheel and go for what you want in life without giving a f about others opinions or disapproval.
Most of my life, I didn’t give a shit about women and just took the ones I wanted and if I didn’t like them they were gone. I was called a dick, player, a bad guy, girls were told to stay away from me etc. I went through a divorce and decided that maybe they were all right about me and I should change. With that change all I got in return was walked all over, left groveling over some chick that wouldn’t have even been on my radar before etc. It was a horrible ducking idea and literally lead me into a depression. Listen to this guy! He’s dead fucking right!
Same here man, women without male leadership self destruct
Needed to see this today.
Thank you
Simping ain't the answer bro! It's the players who get what they want,minus all of the bullshit. Sad but true.
Rich is correct when he said that women want to do things for men, instead of wanting men to do things for them.
Another Red Flag from women - when she commits to a relationship with you, but still keeps photos from an ex-lover in her showcase, drawers or Social Media. Is it an Alpha widow?
If you can match or better that alpha (especially in bed) it has a probability of working out over time.
Yes.
Always.
@@gunsandpoker7432 in ALL cases.
Duhhhhh
I always think that's weird when someone is in a relationship on FB and they have multiple ex pictures
Simpin has historically made me the equivalent of a girlfriend with muscles.
Lol! I hear ya
Roflmao.
Now thats funny.
I admire your self-honesty and self-reflection.
lmao
Virgin
I played the White Knight all my life and I'm almost 50 now. Only this yr have I been awakened to the reality of my mistakes and fairy tale beliefs. Not once ever has my loyalty or simping paid off, not with GF's not with my ex wife. I have always lost the relationship to betrayal. I wish I learned all this 25 yrs ago.
What you said about men not knowing their gift or purpose is spot on. My focus shifted on pursuing my purpose once I discovered it. Beforehand, I wasting my time on things that don’t matter, in this case chasing women who never gave me a time of day.
Same here, I tried everything to get a girls attention but got kicked to the curb.. I don’t engage with them no more or go out of my way I just do my own thing maybe take up a trade!!
Tacos for the algorithm 🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮
I'm hungry 😆
@@victorbruce3315 🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮
Here on the same accord 🍿
U might upset tacco Tammy ...she needs to chill and drink a bottle of Cabo ..
With avocados from Mexico
Simping has been happening a long time. Romeo simped for Juliet, and that did not end well.
Good point.. and with the use of a popular cultural reference that most people are familiar with lol
Waking up hard is a good indicator of testosterone. Eat less sugar and more veggies etc helps a lot
I am listening to the book right now on audible. I am a mother of four boys and a daughter. Our oldest is 11 and their father and I have been married 13 years in December. I appreciate the outlook, "ask her about her father." It makes sense. Over the years woman are always told, "if you want to know how he will treat you look at how he treats his mother and sisters." I've never thought to ask females about their fathers in search of red flags, but as a mother of 4 sons I will keep this in mind.
I'm starting to feel blessed that I was born in Poland.
I never felt patriotic or anything. And I have lived and worked in "the west" all my adult life.
But I am beginning to REALLY appreciate how many old school women there still is in east Europe. A good plentiful stock. One day I'll drive back and get myself a wife/LT partner.
Bro, let me come with. These feminist are fixing to die alone.
My dad's ex was polish, your right on par.
This is why I'm moving to Russia.
God bless Eastern Europe
@@RR-mg5ss - Probably not the best choice of destination in east Europe. Even pre war. An insane choice at current moment.
@@jeremiaha5167 Only St Petersburg. Looks amazing
This has completely wrecked my entire belief system....and I’m so glad !!
This is the truth that the world needs to hear.
Awesome work
Rich is a pretty "toxic" guy, yet none of his critics have called him that. Toxic masculinity is a hoax.
The critics know that Rich will hit back so they have to think twice and he has the power of the words to have an intelligent conversation. Nothing like actual proof/evidence when going into battle.
@@davewrightthethinker If you think about it… it’s almost like the return or rise of racism. Yes… racists exist… but I think that they account for 3-4% of the general population & by nature most people aren’t racist. It’s something that’s said & did so that the other person is knocked back on their heels & don’t know how to respond (@ 1st). But it also shows the insecurities that person has, & in some ways is a form of projection. Whatever it is that they hate about themselves they put onto you calling you a racist. Toxic masculinity is pretty much exactly the same thing in my book.
The only masculinity in the world that is toxic is the kind the comes from a girl.
Toxic in what way?
How is he toxic
What a great episode. And the blokes that called in, it shows that you have built a great community, none of them seemed overly ego invested nor trying to show someone they are not. Enjoyed it through and through.
glad to have been here for this first episode :) I was late getting to the live, so certainly glad its added on here quickly so i can watch in entirety.
“Stop being a nerd, stop it ! Join a dojo join a gym…” love it!
This first TUA episode had so many gems I didn’t want it to end big ups rich you’re definitely making your dent in the universe and helping guys do the same
what does TUA stands for?
Thank you Richard. Loving this content - a lot of young men need to wake up
This is one of the reasons so many companies are hiring or can't find employees.
I watched another of your videos, and made it half way through this one before buying TUA. So on point it’s almost frightening. Thank you, Rich.
Just say no to simping
Started reading this book and am actually feeling every part as i read...thanks man!!!from🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Thanks for doing this. Great work. Spread the message.
Commenting and linking for the algorithm. Keep up the good work Rich. Men need to hear this
Men sure do need to hear his. So they know who the fuckin morons are.
Stop aiming to be a boyfriend... Be the MAN she wants.
To hell with what SHE wants! Be the MAN for you!
@@MM-ug5ec exactly... and when you are, or are at least working toward it, women like that, want that kind of man. We're saying the same thing brother. Thx
@@MM-ug5ec excellent!!
Virgin
@@jrdramey nope. Married 16yrs in sept.
I appreciate your videos, always full of knowledge, and Wisdom. You're a wise man. I am glad that I found your utube channel. 😎👍💪
Thanks for all the help bro. I dropped a like for the algorithm and bell notifications are on. Get that bread man, best wishes.
I work overnight. I'm permanently a sick person from diabetes since I was 19 years old. I can't afford health insurance, and yet these women can sleep in front of a camera and make a half a million a year. It's not jealousy, it's anger for me. There really is no justice in this world.
It's you who is respectable and smart. Sex in front of the camera is scarred for life no matter how much money. Repercussions go along way
@@joedub5486 I suppose I get it, and I do agree it would be difficult to was that image away, but it makes all of my hard work and sacrifice feel non-existent when they can just jump in front of a camera for 10 minutes and make more in that time than I make in a year.
So?
Why aren’t you angry at the men who pay women to sleep in front of a camera? Why you don’t criticize male nature that has pushed some women to prostitution? Why some men feel so empty that pay a woman get naked in front of a camera? As a woman, I have no respect for those women but see men more guilty.
Updates?
Looking forward to this series, back to basics
i'm glad that channel like this exist i remmber when i was thinking that somthing was not right and then find out red pill and now i life is way easer
The term "Real men" is always followed by one of two things:
1. Something that benefits the person saying it (normally from a woman).
2. Something that is an affirmation of the person's choices and life decisions (normally from a man).
I ignore both if your decisions are based on your personal values, you don't need anyone to agree with you.
Underrated comment. I almost completely agree: I've learned to totally ignore it by default since it is nearly always a manipulation tactic. Any man can and most certainly should make his own definition of a "real man" and stick by it. And realise that this is his definition and his alone. Women talking about real man is just asinine by default.
Listening to this is really entertaining and a good reminder
Going to miss BTT, but enjoyed the first episode I’d TUA.
Learning so much about why I naturally resist from “simp’n”
Thanks Rich for this valuable content, Love & respect from Morocco
Rich you are so PRO us as men. Very grateful to you for helping me through a fairly challenging time in life. We are the prize thank you for everything you give us.
Got the book on audible. Very very good book. Keep them comming. Thank you.
You meet so many people in your community at the gym. Fitness advice, places to check out, activities happening at the beach. Hence, I live in Huntington Beach. So many commonalities and opportunities to meet different qualities of men and connect. That statement alone earned another subscriber ✔️
When you’re single, you rule.
When you’re in a relationship, she rules.
Stay single, Gents :) !!
What a load of BS. You can have a relationship and still be in charge of your life.
@@wouterdegruijl4303 I think it was said in jest but your comment is absolutely true
@@wouterdegruijl4303 …until she makes a false accusation! Good luck with that 😎
Love and respect to Moff... damn greqt nuggets of info gents.
Great to see the series evolve and continue!
@41:38 this dude Popofsky dropped a legit truth bomb about staying off of social media. Thank you!
Rich, this is one of your best and most important episodes.
The blueprint is to live life and be satisfied without. When you don't need they come calling
Simping can be defined as - providing resources (money, things, time, attention) to another with the express purpose, either consciously or unconsciously, of realizing one's reproductive strategy.
Avoid simping by becoming your own mental point of origin.
Great Advice guys .I'm 52 and iv learnt so much from this guy..Listem to him .
This has helped me today. Thank you.
I just purchased some of your tactical soap and cologne. Can’t wait to try it. Thanks for the recommendation.
You don’t take advice from a bad fishman, or someone without a boat and fishing pole on how to catch fish. Gold, sir. Keep it real.
This information is a truth bomb in my life.
Loved Moff. BE THE PRIZE!!!
I was resting up for working hard, nonstop for a while. And I was listening to Danica’s intense talks because I like how she ask questions, think, and people she have as guesses and “Alpha male” topics Rich Cooper was the one peaked my interest. It was very interesting so I clicked on the other topics and I have similar outlook as Rich was talking about and I wished more guys tun into it get something out of it before it’s too late. Rich is very sensible, intelligent, and his actions shows what he says.
I admit when I was younger I would do the nice guy simping like carry stuff, listen to their problems etc bc I thought well it gets me closer at least and sometimes I do end up getting lucky. But modern simping i just dont understand. Like you pay hundreds if not THOUSANDS of dollars just to have an average looking woman say your name on stream with 100 other dudes? Men, are we really THIS pathetic now?
This is the truth...great channel
Another point. Reddit recommend the Dating Advice subreddit for me to look at. So I was like okay lets have a look. And wow! The amount of BP men on there is astounding. So many are asking for dating advice on why she ghosted me etc etc insert common problem and most of the comments were women giving their advice which is biggest BS plus there were other men giving their BP advice. The comment sections is literally a looping monologue of the same trivial BS advice. These guys are not going to go anywhere. Another big slap to the face was where the were one or two RP type of advice and those comments were berated and scorned upon. I was like wow! This is just a dumpster fire of BS.
Greatness as usual
Great stuff right here!
Yo good word of advice, in general, the sooner you stop expecting shit from anything the better off you'll be
Thanks for the show really good
I noticed there's a difference in how men are expected to treat women in the Manosphere vs. what Stoic philosophers teach. I would love to listen in on Cooper's take on this topic (similarities & differences).
Thanks for putting this vid. out there.
I like the “BTT” title, but “TUA” is even better. Keep up the awesome content. I guess I just “simped” on you, Rich. Shame on me! 😂
Moff dropping facts!
Great channel.
It's sad I know but I'm glad I'm learning everything that you talk about it's home damn I got some changing to do
grass fed lions, good thought! i'll remember that for future use. thanks
Greatness as usual.
The supply and demand is a big reason simping happens. Too many hippo's in America.
Rich is the man, great stuff
Hahaha rich got mad excited at 1:05:05 with the laundry bit 😆😆
what i learn about male female dynamic around me, even if men trying to do the right thing for both gender, women still need to blame men to take responsibility, so i start to do things for myself first with measured risk that i can afford, then the life become much easier
To quote Jim Rome “more of me (host)and less of you ( callers ) is good for the show”
Heartbreaking when brothers say " i haven't thought about it yet . " ( On what do u wanna do /dreams) .
I loooove this!
Your outlook and what you yourself have experienced, is brilliant. (and teaching me all the terms out there of the dating world, lol!)
Its refreshing to see and hear you and the men who listen to you, discuss man life and the reality of life, in general.
get a plastic surgery eww
Love this
"Simpnomics" ... WOW ... i did know that such an "industry" exists. I stumbled by accident onto your video. My interest is business models in general. Up to now I was'nt aware what is possible in times of the internet. Do you know the book "The Long Tail" from Chris Anderson? ... I'm wondering where this business model "Simpnomics" fits into the long tail ...
Astounding that psychological deficiencies can be turned into business models ... what a time ... ! ...
By the way ... I have finished my marriage after 3 decades, after I had realized that you can be even more lonely inside a marriage than living alone ... it was my rescue !
Love yourself and respect yourself.
Bi-sexual women are interesting… they appreciate masculinity… and also appreciate femininity. 🤣 that was funny Rich!
🤣
😆 🤣 😂 😹
Rich was pretty on point about everything, except his response to that Indian guy.
I've been to India twice, and the first thing anyone there should want is to get out of the country ASAP; no matter where that might be. To put the Quality of Life there into perspective: babies come out of the womb and die due to the air pollution in major cities, such as Calcutta. I got an infection in my lung just from the air. Some cold weather is nothing compared to the air trying to murder you.
My ex was Indian, and her dream was to get to America; now that she has her doctorate and lives in America, do you think she plans on going back anytime soon? Hell no.
That dude needs to get out of India ASAP, and then of course transfer somewhere else because Canada is a Leftist nightmare with a heavy authoritarian tilt, especially in response to COVID-19.
I follow a small amount of women on social media not to their staff room or send them free money but to see what rich is talking about in action. A lot of people get upset with what he says saying that he's being presumptuous and assuming a lot that isn't true. The evidence is there if you know where to look. Not only from my personal experience but the experience of literally every man I've spoken to, he is right.
You’re feeding the beast Aka you are sim ping
Love the Moff rant, more of that.
This is absolutely spot on and so entertaining, that's the best way to get the message across lmao
Thanks Disney and out of date advice
You decide what you take in. I get swimming in shite makes it easier but you don't have to swallow it.
To the caller about cars. I went from driving a pos Buick and bought a 2011 M3 frozen black, immediately changed the crowd to hang with.
The great Randy West has good advice concerning this pathetic phenominom as well! He definitely knows.
Solid gold 50 years late, damn you
This stuff is brutal I am getting the book thanks
Please tell me this will be in audio podcast as well. Would be golden for my commutes.
yes
the man took his time to do this video. At least: thank you, it is useful
Straight 🔥
Ok, I know life ain't fair and was never meant to be, but the fact that some chicks earn millions just for breathing still makes some part of me puke in disgust . lol
It has nothing to do with you
@Dekaenn ea
10:34
If we assume Rich’s lowest estimate:
$200k/month * 12 months/year = $2,400,000/year.
(Granted - that may not last very long as there are many alternatives, but that’s a lot while it lasts and can be an advantage if not wasted.)
I have no idea if Rich’s estimate is good, but I would guess that as a content creator he would would have some idea.
So now you jealous of chicks now?
Boo hoo
So do some guys, who never have done anything but being geneticly lucky..
Lack of a strong purpose causes simping.