13 minutes of Rich's talk taught me what parents & school couldn't teach me in my 24 years, Reading entrepreneurs in cars in Africa and loving it!! Thank you, Rich.
From my young experience, it's always the fear to set expectations, follow them consistently, and set boundaires with others that OFFER to interject in your dreams. Every problem stems from lack of self-esteem and fear of confronting others, while protecting the truth. It's always a problem of fear in the most basic level.
@@wanderlustofvk7029 whatever you do, don't be fake, never stop weightlifting, make sure to speak clearly to people, and NEVER-EVER disrespect yourself to be liked by others. Good luck.
I actually had an argument with a woman I was dating because she was jealous as to how simple I had made my life before meeting her. Most women I meet , live for the chaos ,to bring meaning and a sense of accomplishment to their lives.........WTF.
IME they respond to this life philosophy by saying stuff like "but that's boring, ugh you're boring" all the while telling you how much they've travelled (it's quantity it seems for them)
@@elcapitan6126 yeah, my favorite things are all free or super cheap. Hiking, biking, fishing, reading, crossword puzzles, cooking, weight lifting, etc. When I travel somewhere I want to camp, hike, or hang out at cheap local spots but with most chicks they want to go to places and just go to restaurants, beaches, and resorts. Plus they don't want to go to places I want to because they assume they're dangerous like Turkey and Namibia where you can literally rent truck with a tent on top and have your own safari road trip for weeks
Aquaman Chad being worried about relationship progression is hilarious. RICH is right! Most of us would be thrilled if would could get indicators of interest.
"Woman should have Carfax". Best line of 2022. You killed the game on that one. Never will forget that one. I loved each letter of it. Thank you so much.
I been listening to you. Think it's because I have a son, who's 15 and I worry bout the type of women he will be exposed to in his future. I'm a single mum, making a good man. Life's too short to deal with toxic people! Agree!
The ‘good’ part probably takes care of itself for most. What you want to instil is honesty, being considerate, and to go with it an ability to be shrewd, clever.
Yeah you’re fighting an up hill battle, usually boys who are raised by single mothers don’t grow into men, they grow into beta males , he needs a masculine figure in his life. Look at people from Asia or the Middle East, they always a father around and they grow into a strong masculine man that can do things, is strong, and has drive in life. Me I my father wasn’t around. I learnt the hard way. Please do not dismiss this information for your son sake: rich agrees, all redpill agrees. Single mother houses is what’s wrong with the world. We shouldn’t have people not seeing their kids or people not letting the father seeing their kids , it destroys them. If I become A father I will be there for them no matter what. It’s how god intended life to be. Take one parent away, and you have problems
damn. watching rich get stern and assertive w/ the alex guy who called in was awesome and exactly what he needed. Alex, if you're seeing this, I'd love to see you call back in on another episode w/ an update on your situation. All the best
seemed like it wasn't used in terms of explanation here but rather Rich was using simplicity in the decision making (in this case choosing NOT to look into the explanation too much but rather disassociate with a deal or relationship where the overall gist or intuition is that it's not going to be worth it.
I wish I knew this dude 20 years ago. Better late than never. I found this along time ago but I finally gave it chance and it totally makes sense and is just practical honest, straight forward info. I think I'm gonna pick up the book.
Six months ago I cut off a NPD woman I’ve loved for almost 50 years after a 30 year division. Just prior to “I’m done” I did a lot of research on NPD. Dr. Phil’s- ‘Phil in the Blanks’ was one of the channels on UA-cam. I guess the algorithm brought me here? I’ve only been here about a week and I really like your stuff and the validation I’ve gotten. I used to be ‘that guy’ cleaning up cat 🤮. I grew up under a Narcissistic mother that literally ‘beta beat’ my dad (an ex-Navy WWII fighter pilot) so badly he ended up scattering his brain in her driveway. I’m 70 and I just wish you the best and I wish the wealth of knowledge available on UA-cam was around decades ago. I can tell you there are just many red flag 🚩 women in their mid 60’s and they’re cast in the role of everything an Alpha man doesn’t need. Most have divorced or deceased men in their past and they have a financially ‘secure’ revenue stream that gives them a sense of entitlement. Anyway way, I am really enjoying your channel. To the dude cleaning up after the cats; cut your loss and never bow down again.
I strongly believe this is one of your best videos and conversations. Especially, that one with Alex and everything you said was spot on. I’m 45 and agree. I’m going to mention you in my best seller. Keep up the great work. Real and honest about females Present future past talk. straight 🔥💯. ✊🏽
A constant in my life has always been health & fitness. Since I retired in 2019 I’ve gotten more vocal on the importance of lifting weights, functional fitness as a man along with a diet that works with your energy expended. I observed that it was bothering family members and long time friends. The short of this story, don’t waste your breath on people who are insecure or vice versa. Like Rich was saying it’s a skill to weed out what’s important to you in business and relationships. ( vet slow, fire fast)….
If only they came with car fax! Now he realises why you can't get into a relationship with a woman who's financially more robust than you. Similar thing happened to a buddy of mine. Old enough to know better, but we are creatures of convenience
Thanks for pointing out about the suicide at the start, it is a much larger problem for men these days than we all think. Having watched your videos for a year or so, I find your delivery very concise and sometimes cut throat but with the sprinkle of sympathy and kindness as I know you have been through it all before yourself. Thank you for all that you do.
41:20 "When her happiness relies on you doing things" This is a giant red flag. This is her testing to see how much she can get out of you and she will find every way to justify it other than pointing out her own entitlement. Avoid these women, nothing will ever be enough for them and you will waste your time and energy.
Yes, I saw your talks a few years ago and it probably saved my life,, went through a terrible time of ‘restructuring’ but now I’m good man! I just avoid problems. And so many people love the drama and a weird masochistic born to lose mentality, so no business partners and no LTRs. I enjoy my life now. I earned it.
Funny, I've finally got my sht together, solid career, good money, back in shape and no debt, just about to turn 41. Not where I want or need to be financially, but in the best spot I've been in so far in life. And now that I'm here, I find I just want to keep improving and I'm less inclined to invite any women into my life. I love being alone. Or at least I covet my solitude. I honestly don't feel like dealing with the stress or the potential of a relationship slowing my progress. Still have a long way to go compared to where I want to be.
When I listened to Alex I was like "F dude you're F'ed" but by the time he was done I not only knew I was in a pretty similar situation and now I know what I have to do. Rich, I've been listening to you for a while and I was pretty sure I've had it good but listening to your talk with him was an epiphany... I was blind, but now I see. I've always tought this sudden awakening was cheesy but now I understand, thanks mate!
You guys are lucky you have access to this info before getting married. Even though its going to be hard you still have the chance to make a clean break.
@@CaptainCook83 Already in the process - it's not easy to evict someone here so I've got to work on a clean break or a break off that doesn't leave her with a claim to the house but my eyes are open and now I'm paying attention.
Years ago I heard that Einstein said that if you can't explain it to a 7yr old, you don't understand it at all. My one friend would hate it when I'd do that with car mechanics, but not everyone understands how things work, and work together yet maybe he was threatened by how he's been working on cars for most of his life and my gifted mind picks up new skills quick. He was an anchor. He hasn't heard from me in 2yrs wooooo; 2020 ha
Some people feel belittled when you explain things in the most simple basic way. I say, we don't know what they know or do not know. Better to cover all bases in a simple way to ensure we know they got it.
To the caller Alex....I knew you were from Melbourne even before you said it. Seen a million of you guys down there. That city, and the men there, are not conducive to 'flipping the script' at all, as it were. It is impossible to find RP peers there, so it's very difficult to find real life examples to mimic, and learn how to get in the right frame. As Rich says, Go Boxing. An environment like that has even more to offer than pure exercise.
I just ended a relationship with a woman who I thought was legitimate LTR potential. Dated for 2 months and it went damn near perfect, then 1 weekend she gets drunk and picked a fight over non issues and because I was essentially looking at her with rose colored lens, I gave in and and started arguing with her. Was a total blow out and she proceeded to keep the argument going over text/phone calls the next two weeks, acting like a completely different person that the one I had been spending time with the past months and generally being completely unreasonable and crazy. I finally came to the conclusion, why the hell am I continuing to deal with this, and decided to let her go. So this video from Rich really hit home with me. It's not worth it guys.
I actually feel for Aquaman. Real life dude who wants a genuine relationship with a woman and can't break out of being the fun guy for a night or two. Of course, a lot of guys can't understand what he's upset about because they have trouble experiencing the same. It gets old. He wants a real chick to kick it with. Rich nailed it, but didn't take the time to point out what he normally does about improving SMV through becoming a high-earner, etc. Aqua man, if you read this...you have time! Club chicks...part of the problem.
yes went through this exact phase, was sleeping with women for weeks at a time, til I was tired of them , this when on for a decade. then decided to lock down the first women I met that I thought had potential and fucked up, my advice. aqua man does not need to rush into finding a girl he likes, vet first , then proceed slowly.
@@d2svpcfp yeaa it was real lol, but definitely learned from my mistakes in rushing into a LTR way to soon and having a child with her, were not together but get to see and be around my boy all the time , i got lucky there lol. But glad I found all this content and can power up.
@@mikeheaton8424 after 6 months of moving in and paying all the bills, she wasn't happy after 6 months and started getting abusive. So I packed up and left. Became homeless then eventually git my own place again. Never again though.
Hi Rich, I just found your channel. I am not one of your "brothers." I'm a single woman who figured out the far-reaching meaning of Occam's Razor in my life. When I see "crazy" I drop it like a hot potato. This attitude is not highly regarded by other (delusional) women. I believe this approach is what authentic people do. Thanks for your wisdom.
Alex, no deals. Move out. If she wants you to stay, it's on your terms or goodbye. I'm laughing my ass off because to be fair, when I was deeeeeep blue pill in my last marriage I allowed 3 CATS to live in the house!!!!! I can't believe some of my behavior as a fake husband in my last marriage. It did feel good at the end to give her the boot and stay in the house.
You should have told Aquaman's brother that the reason girls are not interested in relationships with him is that he already has 2 kids. Young women don't want to be a mother to someone else's kids and get in the middle of a ready-made family. Otherwise girls would be fighting to lock a guy like that up 😂
With respect to things like Bruno described, Danny DiVito had a great line in the movie "Tin Men". He tells a rival who sleeps with his wife "She's your problem now, pal". And proceeds to throw her junk out of the house.
Rodney has a legit dilemma. San Diego and California in general are great places to be aside from the politics. I've lived in multiple states and ended up coming back to CA. Now that I'm here, I can't wait to get the f**k out!
Oh god I dealt with the constantly calling me when I left her place. It’s like I’m going back to my dorm tonight or I need to stay later at the lab tonight I’m not coming over. There were days that she’d make me feel guilty and lure me back that I’d end up sleeping over when I didn’t want to. And I’d always get irritated and leave and then she’d call saying “I don’t want you to end up crashing when you’re upset comeback” sure I’ve tried ignoring my phone but then I’d get several voicemails
Once you unplug women become so predictable. I’ve been on the unplugged journey for 3 years now and red flags become more and more noticeable. It’s really entertaining to watch & listen to them.
I lost a friend last week to suicide, I know how Rich feels, so many questions and guilt for not seeing it and wondering why nothing was said, maybe I could have helped, at least listened to help release some of his burden, it's crazy, I actually was planning to travel to go hang out with him and some other friends.
Alex seems trapped and suficated. He seems controlled by the kitty. If you're thinking about leaving the relationship then most likely there is a reason for it.
I had to deal with the cat cleanup too at one point. Because she had a gag reflex to picking up cat waste which is why she’d have me do it. Yet the cats came with the apartment they were a pain in that they were indoor/outdoor cats without licenses and vet appointments so one time they brought in fleas one time she took in her friends stray temporarily til they could get an apartment that accepted pets and she’d keep the cat food out all day for the kitten that the cat would shit so much that the box had to be changed every 2-3 days I ended up taking care of her friends stray it sucked. No the cat wasn’t sick you overfed the thing
2:00 Cars don't make people happy. You can enjoy them if you have a lot of joy. But few people still want their dream car even 50% as much as they did b4 they attained it within a few months. Rich? You never saw Galaxyquest? 👀
occam's razor is meant to be a heuristic to search for the simplest explanation. what it isn't is a criteria for correctness or understanding. it's worth pointing out that distinction because there's plenty of examples of the use of occam's razor to oversimplify an explanation for the sake of simplicity over accuracy. if one can't succinctly explain something it's in part related to the gap in perspectives / aspects between two participants, even if they both know their domains in and out. case in point many mathematicians, quantum physicists, computer programmers etc could not work in the fields without fairly deep understanding, alas translating the concepts to "everyday" language can miss important distinctions. there's always a trade-off.
having listened to more of this one it's clear you're more talking about keeping decision-making simple rather than keeping an explanation simple. by not depending on an explanation that does make decision making simpler (less to consider and frees up energy for future broad decisions)
For the people commenting on here. Can you clarify? Does Rich consider himself to be in a LTR? They don’t live together which allows him the freedom of self. Curious to know everything about this type of relationship what boundaries have been established. The difficulties of this type of relationship?
The young dude Tom had his head in a good place I’d say perhaps he can offer value via the work he does, voiceover while doing screen share tutorial of CAD work maybe pepper in “advice” from perspective of 20-21yr old dude no preaching anything but showing how to autocad whilst talking about what/who he’s learning from in this male-verse.
I’m a woman and I enjoy watching your videos. I’m interested in the male perspective and I agree with some of your advice. You absolutely have to be very mindful of who you invite into your life and if it’s not a hell yes, it IS a big f*Ck NO! It seems like trying to find the right person sometimes feels like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I sure wish I realized this and had the knowledge, wherewith all and sense to listen to my gut years ago. Sigh 😔
I've finally got this concept Rich! Keep it simple! Know your own worth. Go after your goals. Examining is worthless, just make life easy.
Mike Bossy just passed away
This is the classic Rich Cooper I appreciate
13 minutes of Rich's talk taught me what parents & school couldn't teach me in my 24 years,
Reading entrepreneurs in cars in Africa and loving it!! Thank you, Rich.
From my young experience, it's always the fear to set expectations, follow them consistently, and set boundaires with others that OFFER to interject in your dreams. Every problem stems from lack of self-esteem and fear of confronting others, while protecting the truth. It's always a problem of fear in the most basic level.
Yep
I’m in my 20s and I agree with this ☝️
Fear is a major culprit here! Fear of whatever. There is always fear behind reasons
@@wanderlustofvk7029 whatever you do, don't be fake, never stop weightlifting, make sure to speak clearly to people, and NEVER-EVER disrespect yourself to be liked by others. Good luck.
Feel the fear, and just go for it the best you can. No failures, just lessons. 💪👍
Very well said
“Fuckkk the catt!”
Really enjoyed this one 😂
55:18 ----> 55:48 min "I don't think that i ever met a cat that was cool " what a sentense hahahahaha !!!
I actually had an argument with a woman I was dating because she was jealous as to how simple I had made my life before meeting her. Most women I meet , live for the chaos ,to bring meaning and a sense of accomplishment to their lives.........WTF.
I became a minimalist which would have been impossible when I was married
IME they respond to this life philosophy by saying stuff like "but that's boring, ugh you're boring" all the while telling you how much they've travelled (it's quantity it seems for them)
@@elcapitan6126 yeah, my favorite things are all free or super cheap. Hiking, biking, fishing, reading, crossword puzzles, cooking, weight lifting, etc. When I travel somewhere I want to camp, hike, or hang out at cheap local spots but with most chicks they want to go to places and just go to restaurants, beaches, and resorts. Plus they don't want to go to places I want to because they assume they're dangerous like Turkey and Namibia where you can literally rent truck with a tent on top and have your own safari road trip for weeks
@@idiotengineer3925 damn. youre my soulmate bro
Yup!!! Well said
Aquaman Chad being worried about relationship progression is hilarious. RICH is right! Most of us would be thrilled if would could get indicators of interest.
Aqua Chad is a little blue pilled and looking for a LTR.
@@CaptainCook83 if he was blue pilled, he wouldn’t spin plates and would be dating a single mom.
@@CaptainCook83 just like the real aquaman actor himself oddly enough
Just proves that even Chads have “ male mother need.”
Rich this podcast episode is better than any expensive ass therapy session a guy could get. Real wisdom here.
"Woman should have Carfax". Best line of 2022. You killed the game on that one. Never will forget that one. I loved each letter of it. Thank you so much.
It’s called social media and looking at each action if you’re interested in long term relationship.
I been listening to you. Think it's because I have a son, who's 15 and I worry bout the type of women he will be exposed to in his future. I'm a single mum, making a good man. Life's too short to deal with toxic people! Agree!
You are good mother whose paying attention,, keep up the good work!!
Keep listening. Get your son Rich’s book - The Unplugged Alpha. Will really help him.
The ‘good’ part probably takes care of itself for most. What you want to instil is honesty, being considerate, and to go with it an ability to be shrewd, clever.
Yeah you’re fighting an up hill battle, usually boys who are raised by single mothers don’t grow into men, they grow into beta males , he needs a masculine figure in his life. Look at people from Asia or the Middle East, they always a father around and they grow into a strong masculine man that can do things, is strong, and has drive in life. Me I my father wasn’t around. I learnt the hard way. Please do not dismiss this information for your son sake: rich agrees, all redpill agrees. Single mother houses is what’s wrong with the world. We shouldn’t have people not seeing their kids or people not letting the father seeing their kids , it destroys them. If I become A father I will be there for them no matter what. It’s how god intended life to be. Take one parent away, and you have problems
@@hsimons181 everything you said was great until you mention this dude named God lol
damn. watching rich get stern and assertive w/ the alex guy who called in was awesome and exactly what he needed. Alex, if you're seeing this, I'd love to see you call back in on another episode w/ an update on your situation. All the best
I am in the same situation as him except it is with my own family members and not gf, thus I need to shift out
"The simplest explanation is ussually the correct one." I like that concept.
seemed like it wasn't used in terms of explanation here but rather Rich was using simplicity in the decision making (in this case choosing NOT to look into the explanation too much but rather disassociate with a deal or relationship where the overall gist or intuition is that it's not going to be worth it.
so it's more of a conservation of personal energy rather than seeking a simple explanation.
The number one reason a man complicates his life: ‘brings a wrong woman into his life’ 🤔
and yet we do the "noble" thing and take care of the problematic woman that no one else does provided that she satisfies a few of the needs.
Compliment >complicate if not there’s the 🚪✌🏾
@@grimmjager did this same shit
Bringing the wrong woman into his life is a symptom of the wrong mindset.
1000%
I wish I knew this dude 20 years ago. Better late than never. I found this along time ago but I finally gave it chance and it totally makes sense and is just practical honest, straight forward info. I think I'm gonna pick up the book.
Six months ago I cut off a NPD woman I’ve loved for almost 50 years after a 30 year division. Just prior to “I’m done” I did a lot of research on NPD. Dr. Phil’s- ‘Phil in the Blanks’ was one of the channels on UA-cam. I guess the algorithm brought me here? I’ve only been here about a week and I really like your stuff and the validation I’ve gotten. I used to be ‘that guy’ cleaning up cat 🤮. I grew up under a Narcissistic mother that literally ‘beta beat’ my dad (an ex-Navy WWII fighter pilot) so badly he ended up scattering his brain in her driveway. I’m 70 and I just wish you the best and I wish the wealth of knowledge available on UA-cam was around decades ago. I can tell you there are just many red flag 🚩 women in their mid 60’s and they’re cast in the role of everything an Alpha man doesn’t need. Most have divorced or deceased men in their past and they have a financially ‘secure’ revenue stream that gives them a sense of entitlement. Anyway way, I am really enjoying your channel. To the dude cleaning up after the cats; cut your loss and never bow down again.
Wow, what a crazy story about your dad. I’m sorry to hear it. Thanks for the heads up though!
I strongly believe this is one of your best videos and conversations. Especially, that one with Alex and everything you said was spot on. I’m 45 and agree. I’m going to mention you in my best seller. Keep up the great work. Real and honest about females Present future past talk. straight 🔥💯. ✊🏽
YOU HAVE REALLY IMPACTED MY LIFE SINCE I STARTED WATCHING YOUR CHANNEL
A constant in my life has always been health & fitness. Since I retired in 2019 I’ve gotten more vocal on the importance of lifting weights, functional fitness as a man along with a diet that works with your energy expended. I observed that it was bothering family members and long time friends. The short of this story, don’t waste your breath on people who are insecure or vice versa. Like Rich was saying it’s a skill to weed out what’s important to you in business and relationships. ( vet slow, fire fast)….
It was bothering those we weren't in shape, or as fit as you ???
@@na-dk9vm I believe it hit a nerve or insecurity within them that they did not want to face.
One of the most valuable things I learnt on this channel was to store concepts down. Acknowledge other peoples opinions. Learn from it absorb.
If only they came with car fax! Now he realises why you can't get into a relationship with a woman who's financially more robust than you. Similar thing happened to a buddy of mine. Old enough to know better, but we are creatures of convenience
Thanks for pointing out about the suicide at the start, it is a much larger problem for men these days than we all think. Having watched your videos for a year or so, I find your delivery very concise and sometimes cut throat but with the sprinkle of sympathy and kindness as I know you have been through it all before yourself. Thank you for all that you do.
41:20 "When her happiness relies on you doing things" This is a giant red flag. This is her testing to see how much she can get out of you and she will find every way to justify it other than pointing out her own entitlement. Avoid these women, nothing will ever be enough for them and you will waste your time and energy.
Yes, I saw your talks a few years ago and it probably saved my life,, went through a terrible time of ‘restructuring’ but now I’m good man! I just avoid problems. And so many people love the drama and a weird masochistic born to lose mentality, so no business partners and no LTRs. I enjoy my life now. I earned it.
Rich thanks again for these videos, your calm and clear cut demeanor is a great example for young men
Damn. Probably the best talk I've ever heard regarding life, in general.
Funny, I've finally got my sht together, solid career, good money, back in shape and no debt, just about to turn 41. Not where I want or need to be financially, but in the best spot I've been in so far in life. And now that I'm here, I find I just want to keep improving and I'm less inclined to invite any women into my life. I love being alone. Or at least I covet my solitude. I honestly don't feel like dealing with the stress or the potential of a relationship slowing my progress. Still have a long way to go compared to where I want to be.
With all the recent improvements I was assuming you just got out of a bad relationship?
When I listened to Alex I was like "F dude you're F'ed" but by the time he was done I not only knew I was in a pretty similar situation and now I know what I have to do. Rich, I've been listening to you for a while and I was pretty sure I've had it good but listening to your talk with him was an epiphany... I was blind, but now I see. I've always tought this sudden awakening was cheesy but now I understand, thanks mate!
You guys are lucky you have access to this info before getting married. Even though its going to be hard you still have the chance to make a clean break.
@@CaptainCook83 Already in the process - it's not easy to evict someone here so I've got to work on a clean break or a break off that doesn't leave her with a claim to the house but my eyes are open and now I'm paying attention.
I am in the same situation as him except it is with my own family members and not gf, thus I need to shift out
Shout out to my fellow Aussies Bruno and Alex. You've got a band of brothers to help you unplug and stay on the right course.
Shout out to you Michael, from a fellow Aussie. Have a great day.
Thanks Michael
57:59 is pure gold
Yes we do suffer in silence
Years ago I heard that Einstein said that if you can't explain it to a 7yr old, you don't understand it at all. My one friend would hate it when I'd do that with car mechanics, but not everyone understands how things work, and work together yet maybe he was threatened by how he's been working on cars for most of his life and my gifted mind picks up new skills quick. He was an anchor. He hasn't heard from me in 2yrs wooooo; 2020 ha
Some people feel belittled when you explain things in the most simple basic way. I say, we don't know what they know or do not know. Better to cover all bases in a simple way to ensure we know they got it.
Wow this some video today Boss ,totally putting us back on track as usual
To the caller Alex....I knew you were from Melbourne even before you said it. Seen a million of you guys down there. That city, and the men there, are not conducive to 'flipping the script' at all, as it were.
It is impossible to find RP peers there, so it's very difficult to find real life examples to mimic, and learn how to get in the right frame.
As Rich says, Go Boxing. An environment like that has even more to offer than pure exercise.
Yep us Adelaidians wouldn’t put up with that crap. Fancy letting a cat live in the house.
I just ended a relationship with a woman who I thought was legitimate LTR potential. Dated for 2 months and it went damn near perfect, then 1 weekend she gets drunk and picked a fight over non issues and because I was essentially looking at her with rose colored lens, I gave in and and started arguing with her. Was a total blow out and she proceeded to keep the argument going over text/phone calls the next two weeks, acting like a completely different person that the one I had been spending time with the past months and generally being completely unreasonable and crazy. I finally came to the conclusion, why the hell am I continuing to deal with this, and decided to let her go. So this video from Rich really hit home with me. It's not worth it guys.
nothing to say here, Great job Rich - Just commenting to promote the algorithm.
I actually feel for Aquaman. Real life dude who wants a genuine relationship with a woman and can't break out of being the fun guy for a night or two. Of course, a lot of guys can't understand what he's upset about because they have trouble experiencing the same. It gets old. He wants a real chick to kick it with. Rich nailed it, but didn't take the time to point out what he normally does about improving SMV through becoming a high-earner, etc. Aqua man, if you read this...you have time! Club chicks...part of the problem.
yes went through this exact phase, was sleeping with women for weeks at a time, til I was tired of them , this when on for a decade. then decided to lock down the first women I met that I thought had potential and fucked up, my advice. aqua man does not need to rush into finding a girl he likes, vet first , then proceed slowly.
@@PoyTroy So right. A long road of lessons on getting good at vetting too. Even then. Decade long phase (?)…damn brother!
@@d2svpcfp yeaa it was real lol, but definitely learned from my mistakes in rushing into a LTR way to soon and having a child with her, were not together but get to see and be around my boy all the time , i got lucky there lol. But glad I found all this content and can power up.
Thanks Rich, these videos always put things into perspective.
I love cats. Dogs on the otherhand are a pain in the ass
Love it - I appreciate Steve Sims for introducing us !!!!
Oh boy its too bad I didn't find your videos last year. I wish I could tell you just how badly I fucked up so we can all have a good laugh 😂
Put more books out🔥 bringing so much value!
I made that mistake moving in another girls place. I left my place and moved in with her. Never do that I'm telling you right now.
I’m listening .
@@mikeheaton8424 after 6 months of moving in and paying all the bills, she wasn't happy after 6 months and started getting abusive. So I packed up and left. Became homeless then eventually git my own place again. Never again though.
Hi Rich, I just found your channel. I am not one of your "brothers." I'm a single woman who figured out the far-reaching meaning of Occam's Razor in my life. When I see "crazy" I drop it like a hot potato. This attitude is not highly regarded by other (delusional) women. I believe this approach is what authentic people do. Thanks for your wisdom.
Alex, no deals. Move out. If she wants you to stay, it's on your terms or goodbye. I'm laughing my ass off because to be fair, when I was deeeeeep blue pill in my last marriage I allowed 3 CATS to live in the house!!!!! I can't believe some of my behavior as a fake husband in my last marriage. It did feel good at the end to give her the boot and stay in the house.
I am in the same situation as him except it is with my own family members and not gf, thus I need to shift out
You should have told Aquaman's brother that the reason girls are not interested in relationships with him is that he already has 2 kids. Young women don't want to be a mother to someone else's kids and get in the middle of a ready-made family. Otherwise girls would be fighting to lock a guy like that up 😂
Bro you’re right on point.!! 👍🏼
Absolutely Rich the Manoswamp is rotting can’t wait for your course!
Simplicity is truth's most becoming garb.
With respect to things like Bruno described, Danny DiVito had a great line in the movie "Tin Men". He tells a rival who sleeps with his wife "She's your problem now, pal". And proceeds to throw her junk out of the house.
Always trust your gut and expect people to be who they are. Life is too short to not have peace in your life!
44:10 TAKE THIS JEWEL AND PROSPER FELLAS
I very seldom disagree with you, Rich. But you're killing me with the disdain for cats and Tavarish's 675LT! 😂
Yeah, there's gotta be something deeper with the cats given how dramatically he lost his composure. Curious!
King Richard The Lionheart: " She is going to hear everything you say here"
Alex: " I love her"
What a U turn lol
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Alex. If the head is good and you get it when you ask you have a good thing going.
All the best to Alex. I can understand the frustration and hurt of yours…
Rodney has a legit dilemma. San Diego and California in general are great places to be aside from the politics. I've lived in multiple states and ended up coming back to CA. Now that I'm here, I can't wait to get the f**k out!
Great advice and perspectives
Oh god I dealt with the constantly calling me when I left her place. It’s like I’m going back to my dorm tonight or I need to stay later at the lab tonight I’m not coming over. There were days that she’d make me feel guilty and lure me back that I’d end up sleeping over when I didn’t want to. And I’d always get irritated and leave and then she’d call saying “I don’t want you to end up crashing when you’re upset comeback” sure I’ve tried ignoring my phone but then I’d get several voicemails
You are on fire 🔥 today! Bam!
Pray for Gonzalo Lira! That he may be found safe.
Who's Gonzalo Lira?
@@johnnycray4427 lunatic pro Russian that hid for clout and now found again
Thanks!
That Dominic guy at 27:00 reminds me of myself when I was 21 and thought I had it all figured out 😂
About 95 % of what Rich says applies to people in general. Chasing excellence rather than trying to please others is a firm principle
Thank you
Complication = chaos = drama = a space that’s full. Women love it.
Men love empty, simple space.
Rich Cooper - saving mens’ lives !
I have a friend who has been going through a friend for 13 years,, she went to high school with,,,
Thanks, Man !
Women are very good at acting when they want something or someone. You need to pay attention what she says about her family and her life in general.
Once you unplug women become so predictable. I’ve been on the unplugged journey for 3 years now and red flags become more and more noticeable. It’s really entertaining to watch & listen to them.
I lost a friend last week to suicide, I know how Rich feels, so many questions and guilt for not seeing it and wondering why nothing was said, maybe I could have helped, at least listened to help release some of his burden, it's crazy, I actually was planning to travel to go hang out with him and some other friends.
You are the man
Australian Alex never heard a word you said..the guy is a complete hamster
Alex seems trapped and suficated. He seems controlled by the kitty. If you're thinking about leaving the relationship then most likely there is a reason for it.
"Alpha males do not pick up cat vomit." 48:58.
LOL. Good one.
“If you hear someone rambling for hours over a topic, they simply don’t understand it.”
Tell that to your buddy rollo tomassi lmao
True, I’m sure rollo’s style suits some but i couldn’t get through his book but love the unplugged alpha book. Much better straight to the point.
Lmaooo
@@matthewlaw5107 haha I like rollo! Rational male was an insightful read. But damn! does he like to hear himself talk
I get dad advice from Rich that my dad can’t give me
Alex refuses to take Rich's advice. He wants to be miserable.
Watching from Tanzania a big fan
Bought the book. Fucking eye opening! Rich you're an inspirational guy! Thank you very much. Lots of regards from Israel!
I agree about the cats!
My boy got a single mother pregnant despite my every protest. He keeps complicating his life I can't wait to see what he does next
@@gmoney6595 God I hope not haha
"Coach Red Pill" Gonzalo is currently missing in Ukraine.
Good stuff.
I had to deal with the cat cleanup too at one point. Because she had a gag reflex to picking up cat waste which is why she’d have me do it. Yet the cats came with the apartment they were a pain in that they were indoor/outdoor cats without licenses and vet appointments so one time they brought in fleas one time she took in her friends stray temporarily til they could get an apartment that accepted pets and she’d keep the cat food out all day for the kitten that the cat would shit so much that the box had to be changed every 2-3 days I ended up taking care of her friends stray it sucked. No the cat wasn’t sick you overfed the thing
Alex will get it eventually. Once unplugged you can’t go back. Moving into a female’s environment is a pretty big screw up though.
This is really god advice. The ability to say NO is important.
Waiting for Rich's next 📖
2:00 Cars don't make people happy. You can enjoy them if you have a lot of joy. But few people still want their dream car even 50% as much as they did b4 they attained it within a few months. Rich? You never saw Galaxyquest? 👀
Common Alex... You're Big G.
Sounds like Alex doesn't want your help. Maybe he likes being dominated by his girl. Poor guy, probably drives an FJ Cruiser.
occam's razor is meant to be a heuristic to search for the simplest explanation. what it isn't is a criteria for correctness or understanding. it's worth pointing out that distinction because there's plenty of examples of the use of occam's razor to oversimplify an explanation for the sake of simplicity over accuracy. if one can't succinctly explain something it's in part related to the gap in perspectives / aspects between two participants, even if they both know their domains in and out. case in point many mathematicians, quantum physicists, computer programmers etc could not work in the fields without fairly deep understanding, alas translating the concepts to "everyday" language can miss important distinctions. there's always a trade-off.
having listened to more of this one it's clear you're more talking about keeping decision-making simple rather than keeping an explanation simple. by not depending on an explanation that does make decision making simpler (less to consider and frees up energy for future broad decisions)
For the people commenting on here. Can you clarify? Does Rich consider himself to be in a LTR? They don’t live together which allows him the freedom of self. Curious to know everything about this type of relationship what boundaries have been established. The difficulties of this type of relationship?
Alex at 45:13 needs to watch more videos of Andrew Tate. That will fix his mindset.
The young dude Tom had his head in a good place I’d say perhaps he can offer value via the work he does, voiceover while doing screen share tutorial of CAD work maybe pepper in “advice” from perspective of 20-21yr old dude no preaching anything but showing how to autocad whilst talking about what/who he’s learning from in this male-verse.
Great video. My cat is cool and doesn't bother at all, and sleep outside the house
Rich is a Boss jo 🙌
dude, Alex is faced. he needs to leave. the woman no longer respects him. he no longer respects himself with her.
He isn't going to do it.
I think the guy with the cats problem is a troll.
I’m a woman and I enjoy watching your videos. I’m interested in the male perspective and I agree with some of your advice. You absolutely have to be very mindful of who you invite into your life and if it’s not a hell yes, it IS a big f*Ck NO! It seems like trying to find the right person sometimes feels like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I sure wish I realized this and had the knowledge, wherewith all and sense to listen to my gut years ago. Sigh 😔