Another Beta Male Shows Us How Dangerous They Are To Themselves

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  • Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
  • It's a sad outcome, when a man takes permanent steps, to solve a temporary problem in his life. In this video we look at what happened to Christopher Christensen, 51, a Huntington Beach school principal to recently took his own life over a false DV charge...
    Facebook post before it happened: t.co/d7o0lTkyvA
    Source: t.co/1OXp2wymIJ
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  • @EntrepreneursInCars
    @EntrepreneursInCars  Рік тому +25

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    • @daddyinacaddy
      @daddyinacaddy Рік тому

      You should also include referral links (that pay you) tied to any purchasable products you mention in your video. Example: those books by Warren Farrell.
      I'd even include Amazon referral links to purchase literally everything in your background (including the chair or one similar to it) + the equipment you use to make the show (computers, mics and etc).
      Make it easy for us to give you our money and support.

    • @ACY2otter
      @ACY2otter Рік тому

      You have no idea how this one read just helped me tremendously. I can’t believe I’ve been acting like a beta with these women.

    • @leroypope6739
      @leroypope6739 Рік тому

      this is fire 🔥🔥
      I was dating a woman with an 8 yr old daughter. she had a toxic baby daddy and I didn't see the dangers of such a situation. boom 💥 here comes baby daddy with an allegation of me touching the little girl. the only reason I wasn't destroyed is because I had irrefutable proof that I was never alone with his daughter. I moved on and learned!!!!

    • @Jason-nosaJ
      @Jason-nosaJ Рік тому

      Ever since my Uncle passed, and Both your content and the Late Kevin Samuels content is the best bar none.
      Keeps me grounded in truth.

    • @mavericks2730
      @mavericks2730 Рік тому

      its funny they don’t arrest LGBTQP people for child endangerment

  • @jrhamilton4448
    @jrhamilton4448 Рік тому +648

    He violated the cardinal rule of placing the woman on a pedestal and when that fairytale house of cards collapsed it destroyed his idealistic world so he destroyed himself. A guarantee she's feeling zero sadness over this and is already moved on to some other poor sucker.

    • @5831a
      @5831a Рік тому +62

      & inherited his estate too

    • @Anonymous-le1pt
      @Anonymous-le1pt Рік тому +1

      @@5831a haha

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Рік тому +19

      He was probably making $250k plus...I bet she is feeling that.

    • @jrhamilton4448
      @jrhamilton4448 Рік тому +22

      @@riggitydoo5116 I'm sure somehow she still got the life insurance payoff. There are some instances where even if someone commits suicide the insurance company will still pay out. I'd be surprised if she didn't get a cool half mil.

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Рік тому +7

      @@jrhamilton4448 don't ruin it for me. You're probably correct but I'll stick to my version.

  • @lennylink8772
    @lennylink8772 Рік тому +314

    Careers that can be destroyed by false allegations is a conversation worth having.

    • @georgevue8175
      @georgevue8175 Рік тому +19

      Fidelity Investments 1990's - During a meeting a man accidently answered a question using words that the feminist attendee interpreted as being sexist. 2 days later that man was walked to the front door & told not to return. Career over!

    • @JJ-mh3hb
      @JJ-mh3hb Рік тому +2

      Pick a highly male dominated career. Guaranteed to naturally boost your testosterone.

    • @dragorn3212
      @dragorn3212 Рік тому +6

      @@georgevue8175 There's female privelage for you

    • @tjhammer24
      @tjhammer24 Рік тому +7

      But rich isn't going to have it because he's so focused on ripping the beta male.
      Male idealism isn't just about being beta rich. I love Cooper and a lot of what he's done but there's a part of him that is severed from empathy. You know I'm right

    • @dragorn3212
      @dragorn3212 Рік тому +10

      @@tjhammer24 Just my take, but i can't listen to this guy because his only advice is to become high income and if you're not high earning you're beta. This does nothing to help the guys that actually need help the most.

  • @zachrorke9046
    @zachrorke9046 Рік тому +285

    Similar thing happened to me. Wife claimed sexual assault. I touched her breast while she wanted a divorce because she was cheating on me. After the restraining order, her boyfriend was in the house. My guy friends in the neighborhood kept watch. Dudes need to stick together. Bible says... Just as iron sharpens iron ...one man sharpens another. We had 2 young kids. I did everything for the kids. Wife was bipolar and alcoholic. Wife regretted the 911 call. States Attorney took the case. She got restraining order. I beat 11 years in prison. I did the work on my case proving her failure, cut ties talking to ex, rearranged my life as provider so I could manage child care. I got majority custody and they lived with me and she was supposed to pay child support. After 6 months of child support she stopped paying. Currently owes 30k ...never spent a night in jail. State refuses to hold her accountable. For all the dad's out their ...this channel is telling the truth. Save your money, have money on the side.... Have a backup plan for separating and you sharing custody. The main thing is .... ALWAYS FIGHT, ALWAYS SPEND THE MONEY TO DEFEND YOURSELF, YOU CAN ALWAYS MAKE MORE MONEY... The big point is WHEN ITS TIME TO FIGHT...YOU FIGHT AS HARD AS YOU CAN....don't let her dictate the rest of your life!

    • @satanlaughingspreadshiswings
      @satanlaughingspreadshiswings Рік тому +8

      "I touched her breast while she wanted a divorce because she was cheating on me."
      Yeah, that doesn't sound like assault at all. 😂🙄

    • @zachrorke9046
      @zachrorke9046 Рік тому +17

      @@satanlaughingspreadshiswings What I typed was confusing. She was talking about divorce... but we still fooled around. I didn't know about the cheating till after I was out of the house. The next week my neighbor said a guy was spending the night most nights. After a month or so she had him around our 9 year old daughter and 12 year old son.

    • @satanlaughingspreadshiswings
      @satanlaughingspreadshiswings Рік тому +2

      @@zachrorke9046 Right. There is no doubt in my mind there is more to the story.

    • @bws1971
      @bws1971 Рік тому

      @@satanlaughingspreadshiswings Of course there's not doubt in your mind. You're Satan. IOW, GFY. YMMV

    • @revysledbum
      @revysledbum Рік тому +8

      Wood Chippers are cheap Buddy

  • @Nick_Gurr80
    @Nick_Gurr80 Рік тому +155

    Now she’s riding that wave of “oh no feel sorry for me” on social media and loving every minute of it.

    • @user-kb1hw2yq2f
      @user-kb1hw2yq2f Рік тому +10

      women love being a victim. Takes all responsibilities away from them. There is a reason why women want alpha males. Staying single and working on yourself and enjoying your life is the best thing you can do for yourself. A real woman who will love you unconditionally pretty much doesnt exist in the US. YOu'll have to go overseas to find one.

    • @kb9788
      @kb9788 Рік тому

      Jamar B-You look like a guy that has to pay for kitty. So sit down.

    • @apontutul
      @apontutul Рік тому +3

      @@user-kb1hw2yq2f nah overseas ones are same brother

    • @user-kb1hw2yq2f
      @user-kb1hw2yq2f Рік тому

      @@apontutul noooo. Whyyyyy

    • @shawnmorrissey1866
      @shawnmorrissey1866 Рік тому +1

      Agents of Chaos; don't keep them in your life permanently.

  • @Sweatsofficiallytheworst
    @Sweatsofficiallytheworst Рік тому +179

    This man's whole mindset destroyed him, he put his wife on a pedestal, she didn't desire him (never did) she took him to the cleaners and he just couldn't take it anymore, sad stuff man.

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +6

      My ex didn’t desire me never did I just walked away.

    • @user-kb1hw2yq2f
      @user-kb1hw2yq2f Рік тому +4

      People keep referring to her and thats it. What about his job? What about his friends? What about the kids? There is more to this story then just "he killed himself because she called 911"

    • @shadowfax7396
      @shadowfax7396 Рік тому +4

      If you place someone on a pedestal expect them to look down at you.

    • @shawnmorrissey1866
      @shawnmorrissey1866 Рік тому +1

      @@user-kb1hw2yq2f That's exactly what I was saying; there has to be more to this story for him to delete himself as his last option.

    • @ibabechanel
      @ibabechanel Рік тому

      ...says the clown in the RED drug with the worst collective history of relationships with women of all races. Don't you have some of your bastard kids to abandon ?

  • @chuckhorus3228
    @chuckhorus3228 Рік тому +95

    Thats what happens when a Beta gets a girl he thinks is way out of his league, when she inevitably leaves it absolutely destroys the poor guy

    • @BohemianAndy
      @BohemianAndy Рік тому +7

      @Simon Davis he still saw her as batting above what he could typically get. If he thought she was beneath him, he wouldn’t give 2 shits about what happened and leave her

    • @user-kb1hw2yq2f
      @user-kb1hw2yq2f Рік тому +3

      A woman isnt everyting to a man.Many times his career is more important. If his career was in jeopardy than perhaps there is more to this then just "woman on a pedestal"

    • @davidlemaster2034
      @davidlemaster2034 Рік тому

      @@blueskywings Rich is right....men are disposable.....don't believe me? Here are some stats that will blow your mind.
      Children under the age of 5 very rarely kill themselves, but it DOES happen.....it's usually about 50/50 girls and boys
      from the age of 5 to 10 that number jumps to DOUBLE the number of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      from the age of 10 to 15 that number TRIPLES.....3 times the amount of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      15 to 20? 4 times the amount of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      20 to 30? 6 times the amount of young men kill themselves compared to women.
      30 to 40? Almost 8 times the amount of men kill themselves compared to women.
      40 to 50? the % starts to fall back, men kill themselves about 4 times more than women.
      50 to 70? about triple the number of men kill themselves compared to females.
      Just imagine for a minute or two how society would go absolutely INSANE if these numbers went the other way!!?? Can you even fathom it? My god, we would have a media meltdown if these numbers even began to switch genders. There would literally be an outcry for change to "Save our girls" like nothing you've ever seen. But these stats have been like this for DECADES!! and people barely even care or notice??

  • @rnt45t1
    @rnt45t1 Рік тому +58

    Some men would rather date anything available than be alone. It's a choice. I've been single for years because I won't settle. Don't date just to have someone in your life. Recipe for disaster.

    • @charliesmith7942
      @charliesmith7942 Рік тому +7

      Same here. It's hard being single for so long but perhaps for the best

    • @andrewpizzino2514
      @andrewpizzino2514 Рік тому +10

      Settling, being desperate never ends well

    • @C1Mastermaukka
      @C1Mastermaukka Рік тому +4

      well said

    • @brent4073
      @brent4073 Рік тому

      There is a difference between settling and being less shallow on your standards. Like rich has said, every man wants a woman who makes his dick hard and his life easy. Plenty of women can do that

    • @rnt45t1
      @rnt45t1 Рік тому

      @@brent4073 I won't bang fat chicks. End of story.

  • @RG-ls2db
    @RG-ls2db Рік тому +88

    She won't even care he's gone (unless she missed out on a pay day) but she will sure soak up all of that sympathy that is headed her way.

    • @Job.Well.Done_01
      @Job.Well.Done_01 Рік тому +7

      Oh, for sure she’ll soak it up. Every drop. Lol

    • @robertclark9
      @robertclark9 6 місяців тому +1

      And I’m sure her story will get bigger and bigger now that he’s no longer able to defend himself.

    • @JB111-b4d
      @JB111-b4d 3 місяці тому

      Truth✊

  • @randomargument972
    @randomargument972 Рік тому +96

    Scariest part is: Women will only care if it were their son falsely accused, suspended and jailed and/or committed suicide.

    • @costalamb3065
      @costalamb3065 Рік тому +6

      Kinda makes you wonder if she has a son or not, and if she does, you sort of wish it on her, just to see how it feels.

    • @Alphieisalive
      @Alphieisalive Рік тому

      Not all women are sociopaths dude wtf is wrong with you?

    • @randomargument972
      @randomargument972 Рік тому

      @@Alphieisalive Nobody said all women are sociopaths.
      I said: most women will not even care about other guy being falsely accused. And some of them will even falsely accuse other people (men). And they won't care at all, but some will care only up until when it's their son in question.

    • @itzakehrenberg3449
      @itzakehrenberg3449 Рік тому +5

      Women see their sons as extensions of themselves and so, you are quite correct.

    • @strategic1710
      @strategic1710 Рік тому +1

      Yep. Women only understand this when they have a son who grows up and gets the same treatment. Women don’t care about men, they just latch on to the men who they find useful.

  • @sd6213
    @sd6213 Рік тому +58

    There's a real need to kill the beta before it kills you!

  • @TheGreenArmorPress
    @TheGreenArmorPress Рік тому +183

    If a woman you're with ever calls the police on you for false reasons, leave her. Especially if it results in you going to jail or worse. The guy that deleted himself made himself believe he had the "perfect" life and he rather delete himself than leave it. You may not want to start over but that is better than deleting yourself.

    • @Rocket9944
      @Rocket9944 Рік тому +28

      If she calls the police!??!
      You mean if she ever hints about calling the police you leave her immediately.

    • @TomNook.
      @TomNook. Рік тому +4

      TechLead went through this exact process.

    • @gwynedd1
      @gwynedd1 Рік тому +20

      @@Rocket9944
      A call to the police should generally end the relationship. If its legitimate it means that the man is willing to engage in violence against her. That's not the kind of relationship a woman should be in. Likewise, If she calls the police with no actual threat of violence, then its an act of violence against the man. Same principle. There is no relationship.
      A fair warning perhaps on a naive young girl once to explain the gravity of calling the police , for any reason for that matter. When a woman calls the police without justification its like beating a man within an inch of his life.

    • @K4113B4113
      @K4113B4113 Рік тому +2

      @@gwynedd1 Good points! And I like the way you think.

    • @waynecampbell9208
      @waynecampbell9208 Рік тому +3

      You better believe I would leave her!! If a woman would ever call the police on me for false reasons, I'd be through with her! She wouldn't ever worry about me bothering her again!!

  • @wn5364
    @wn5364 Рік тому +62

    “Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin among the great number who are not good. Hence a prince who wants to keep his authority must learn how not to be good, and use that knowledge, or refrain from using it, as necessity requires.”
    ― Niccolò Machiavelli

    • @ulrohermit1369
      @ulrohermit1369 Рік тому +1

      nothing wrong to holding yourself to a standard , but doing it while you're obvilious to the facts and reality of life and having this perfectionist outlook , your setting yourself up to failure and heartbreak , sometimes beyond any hope rpair and healing , there is a fine line between idealism , perfectionism and wise-virtuous

    • @hermanbinngavionohermanbin8371
      @hermanbinngavionohermanbin8371 Рік тому

      The truth are stranger than fiction..thats the world we live in today

  • @Tylervrooman
    @Tylervrooman Рік тому +46

    To whoever needs to hear this, the world is a better place with you in it. I work as a musician at Disneyland, and definitely know people who know him. Sad. (Thanks for the content Rich)

  • @josephstevens9888
    @josephstevens9888 Рік тому +24

    I work at a large firm. I've noticed through the years that men have pictures of their wives and kids at their desk. Women, on the other hand, only have pictures of their kids.
    Don't invite chaos in to your life - very wise statement, and a philosophy I live. I have no time for B.S.

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph Рік тому +3

      A man only has pictures of his kids on his desk also. His biggest kid is commonly referred to as “wife”

  • @teddybeer6206
    @teddybeer6206 Рік тому +53

    Even if his ex wife had pics of him on her FB, That doesn't mean she is happy. Just because she looks happy on FB does not indicate true happiness.

    • @bruceleeroy8302
      @bruceleeroy8302 Рік тому +2

      Yes, but it's a major red flag that she is not happy or satisfied

    • @Rocket9944
      @Rocket9944 Рік тому +7

      The point is she has pictures of the e x on her Facebook but not the guy she's actually married to.

    • @Vipox92
      @Vipox92 Рік тому +7

      Women are never happy lad, when they have an alpha they want a beta and vice versa

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 Рік тому

      @Enzo James looks like he ended himself when she ended the relationship.

  • @milescivis1018
    @milescivis1018 Рік тому +76

    In his defense, most dads and stepdads have probably thought about making that jump while at Disneyland.

  • @marekjandous3709
    @marekjandous3709 Рік тому +81

    Today I have been feeling down over communication with my narcissistic ex regarding my daughter. Somehow this video has put me back on my feet. It’s like “man up, man”. Thanks brother.

    • @Carloss86py
      @Carloss86py Рік тому +5

      Hit the gym brotha, improve your situation financially, etc. Find a tribe of men so you're not alone. I'm also a father but I'm not in that situation so I'm talking hypothetically. I think that if you do everything you can to improve your situation - fitness, financial, academic, etc - and are the best father you can be, eventually time will put things in it's place and your daughter will see reality for what it is.
      Also a quick tip, as Andrew Tate recommended, if she's blocking you access to your daughter, say "ok, I don't have much time now anyway". As hard as saying that would be for a loving father, women are basic and if she sees you're doing well, improving in all aspects, maybe get a hotter girl than her, she will DEMAND that you spend time with your daughter. This is what he recommended and it makes sense to me, lol.

    • @Quickeasyguitarlessons
      @Quickeasyguitarlessons Рік тому +2

      You’ll be alright brother.
      Focus on yourself and your daughter. 💪
      Be like the rocky headland on which the waves constantly break. It stands firm, and round it the seething waters are laid to rest. ~Marcus Aurelius

    • @marekjandous3709
      @marekjandous3709 Рік тому +6

      @@Carloss86py Thanks mate. I think I am a pretty solid, well organized guy, with my life in check. I see my daughter about 45% of time and can take a lot of shit without even blinking. That said, somehow SHE just got to me yesterday. So yeah, even us solid guys have a shit day from time to time 🙂

    • @dylerturden01
      @dylerturden01 Рік тому +5

      Ex wife is taking my kids out of the country for a weekend trip as i write. They'll be on the tarmac taxiing 11.55pm. I filed first and got equal parental responsibility but only 35% time. She immediately filed false dv in retaliation. It's still open in court 3 years in. Still, light years better than her having carte blanche over them. She cannot take them overseas without my consent and she has to provide itinerary and return their passports to the lawyer on her return. Nevertheless I am mindful they are flying out. I am their father. They are my genetic imprint. They need my protection. The state violates a sacred bond. God will execute judgements on all who've created and enabled it. I am looking forward to that day. I just wish it would hurry along a little.

    • @frankharris3380
      @frankharris3380 Рік тому +6

      Stand strong bother. Better days are ahead. Forget women for now and put yourself first.

  • @ukkev7290
    @ukkev7290 Рік тому +39

    One thing Rich didn't mention is that it is obvious she married him so she could divorce him later. She has missed out on his alimony. But I imagine she has got the house.
    If the woman genuinely loved him, she would NEVER have lied to the police. My guess is she was starting the process towards divorce. She wanted him out of the house. And she was going to string him along for a year by talking about getting back together. And after 5 years, she was going to divorce him.

    • @ukkev7290
      @ukkev7290 Рік тому +2

      @Dacia Sandero guys
      Exactly.

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 Рік тому +2

      What did she lie about. He said heated argument. That's verbal abuse. Even if he was quiet, she only needs to feel fear. She knew what she was doing cucking him by cop and the fact she married him secretly not publicly, never changed her name and never showed him on social media shows he was nothing but paydirt.

  • @camels9654
    @camels9654 Рік тому +23

    I gotta tell you guys, single moms will call the cops on you for ANYTHING and EVERYTHING. I had a neighbour, an elderly lady, very quiet, peaceful, all was well. Then a few years in, she let her loser single mom daughter move in with 2 kids. These kids were at least 110 dB at all times. I went over and knocked on her door one day and asked if she could keep it down late at night. She threatened to call the cops on me!

  • @ashleytreeservices3107
    @ashleytreeservices3107 Рік тому +32

    I think even if she threatens you to call for police its time for you to wrap it up.

    • @davidlemaster2034
      @davidlemaster2034 Рік тому

      Rich is right....men are disposable.....don't believe me? Here are some stats that will blow your mind.
      Children under the age of 5 very rarely kill themselves, but it DOES happen.....it's usually about 50/50 girls and boys
      from the age of 5 to 10 that number jumps to DOUBLE the number of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      from the age of 10 to 15 that number TRIPLES.....3 times the amount of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      15 to 20? 4 times the amount of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      20 to 30? 6 times the amount of young men kill themselves compared to women.
      30 to 40? Almost 8 times the amount of men kill themselves compared to women.
      40 to 50? the % starts to fall back, men kill themselves about 4 times more than women.
      50 to 70? about triple the number of men kill themselves compared to females.
      Just imagine for a minute or two how society would go absolutely INSANE if these numbers went the other way!!?? Can you even fathom it? My god, we would have a media meltdown if these numbers even began to switch genders. There would literally be an outcry for change to "Save our girls" like nothing you've ever seen. But these stats have been like this for DECADES!! and people barely even care or notice??

  • @d2svpcfp
    @d2svpcfp Рік тому +40

    Unreal. First hand experience with the law a similar type situation...no DV claimed. Cops will find any reason. As a man, if they show up…you’re in serious danger…regardless of the facts. Tragic situation here…thanks for covering.

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Рік тому

      You might want to protect your identity from the ass hats on the internet.

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. Рік тому +33

    So to summarise:
    The beta's legacy is to leave all his assets to a woman who had kids with a Chad and then left her for other women. Beta provides for Chad's kids.

  • @Mancer1980
    @Mancer1980 Рік тому +98

    I truly hope her kids become aware of this sooner than later. She deserves whatever she gets.

    • @TomNook.
      @TomNook. Рік тому +21

      Are you kidding? They will turn into her.

    • @Mancer1980
      @Mancer1980 Рік тому +7

      @@TomNook. ha excellent point

    • @user-nn9mg3sw9j
      @user-nn9mg3sw9j Рік тому +3

      She won't "get" whatever you or I think she deserves.
      We only get what we allow ourselves to deserve -- and he got his. Act accordingly.

    • @Mancer1980
      @Mancer1980 Рік тому

      @@user-nn9mg3sw9j life experience has shown me otherwise

    • @joefunk76
      @joefunk76 Рік тому +3

      For starters, she is probably going to get all of her husband’s assets. How does she deserve that?

  • @philiusify
    @philiusify Рік тому +300

    A principal in a California school. Probably liberal. Probably woke. Probably votes Democrat. Tells me all I need to know about him.

    • @ukkev7290
      @ukkev7290 Рік тому +67

      He voted for the laws that ruined his life.

    • @jonathanandrew2909
      @jonathanandrew2909 Рік тому +31

      ‘Assumption, assumption, assumption… tells me all I need to know.’

    • @damianstachelski775
      @damianstachelski775 Рік тому +54

      @@jonathanandrew2909 somebody who’s taken the red pill and understands how the world actually works wouldn’t be a Democrat

    • @insanbeno
      @insanbeno Рік тому +4

      Plaese dont say that he is gone :(

    • @damianstachelski775
      @damianstachelski775 Рік тому

      I have a friend who’s a single mom. I straight up told her that her being a single mom is going to cause a lot of men to run away. She agreed and even admitted “I know. The only guys that will date me are all liberals. And I don’t want that”

  • @saturn580
    @saturn580 Рік тому +23

    "She never intended for that night to go this far and knows I would never hurt her or the girls."
    So having him hauled off to jail on false DV charges because of a stupid argument was fine, but she freaked when he might lose his job because of it? Tells you a lot about her mindset. Cold as ice.

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 Рік тому +8

      She knew exactly what she was doing whether he can accept it or not. Starting with the secret wedding, not changing her name and no fotos of him. He's still simping saying that.

    • @DwyaneWadeCounty
      @DwyaneWadeCounty Рік тому +3

      You're as cold as ice
      You're willing to sacrifice our love
      You never take advice
      Someday you'll pay the price, I know
      I've seen it before, it happens all the time
      You're closing the door, you leave the world behind
      You're digging for gold, you're throwing away
      A fortune in feelings, but someday you'll pay
      You're as cold as ice
      You're willing to sacrifice our love
      -Foreigner

  • @morrismwaniki7209
    @morrismwaniki7209 Рік тому +23

    The guy didn't even have his own kids. That's sad!

  • @edbergeron
    @edbergeron Рік тому +21

    I’m recovering from something similar. Years of being a beta took a toll on my mental health and left me in a really dark place. Messages like this have helped me change my mindset and take care of myself. Stay strong Kings.

  • @GLDn1
    @GLDn1 Рік тому +27

    Doing it at Disney tells me that he chose to get as much publicity as he could.
    Like many many men now, One could hazard a guess he felt unheard.

    • @mashleyred2180
      @mashleyred2180 Рік тому +1

      Id put money on it yes he was never involved in anything or at least got moaned at when he was.

  • @markdurling9562
    @markdurling9562 Рік тому +30

    I went through this during my divorce 15 years ago.
    My ex wife's attorney advocated using a false DV accusation as a tactic to get me out of the marital home and to use in the divorce to enhance her position.

    • @suefleming
      @suefleming Рік тому

      It's a crooked system.
      Avoid women. Pro$essionals only....

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. Рік тому +3

      If you have proof, you ought to report him to the law society. Even the cops.

    • @davidlemaster2034
      @davidlemaster2034 Рік тому

      Rich is right....men are disposable.....don't believe me? Here are some stats that will blow your mind.
      Children under the age of 5 very rarely kill themselves, but it DOES happen.....it's usually about 50/50 girls and boys
      from the age of 5 to 10 that number jumps to DOUBLE the number of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      from the age of 10 to 15 that number TRIPLES.....3 times the amount of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      15 to 20? 4 times the amount of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      20 to 30? 6 times the amount of young men kill themselves compared to women.
      30 to 40? Almost 8 times the amount of men kill themselves compared to women.
      40 to 50? the % starts to fall back, men kill themselves about 4 times more than women.
      50 to 70? about triple the number of men kill themselves compared to females.
      Just imagine for a minute or two how society would go absolutely INSANE if these numbers went the other way!!?? Can you even fathom it? My god, we would have a media meltdown if these numbers even began to switch genders. There would literally be an outcry for change to "Save our girls" like nothing you've ever seen. But these stats have been like this for DECADES!! and people barely even care or notice??

  • @gazlyno
    @gazlyno Рік тому +8

    male suicide isn't just about weak beta males Professionals ie Doctors Surgeons members of the military, Special Forces ect are very much prone!

  • @Patgh2407
    @Patgh2407 Рік тому +30

    Hey Rich, I've been through a similar situation to getting the cops called on me by my ex psycho GF after only dating her for over two months, fortunately for myself I didn't get locked up in a cell overnight and no charges were laid against me as I started recording the moment I stepped in her apartment (I had a gut feeling she would try to set me up) to collect some gear I left behind in her place and to tell her the news I was breaking up with her and that's when she went psycho and locked me in her apartment and trying to provoke me into hitting her while she called the cops on me so I was able to prove directly to the police that I was innocent with my recorded evidence. Then after that she made other claims against me that I somehow stole 20k from her and had the fraud squad investigating me but I had a great lawyer who helped me out and manage to solve the legal case outside of court. After that breakup I realized how much of big bullet I dodged and was very grateful for not getting her pregnant and this was when I started seeking more red pill wisdom and came across channels like yours a while back. My life has never been better since I've been focusing on building excellence for myself while understanding women's nature more clearly and navigating how not to get in trouble with legal system again when it comes to dealing with crazy women. At the end of day life goes on and no woman is ever worth sacrificing your life over which is what unfortunately happened to that beta male who tragically ended his.

  • @lapamful
    @lapamful Рік тому +38

    I've lost 3 friends in the last 10 years to NPDs. Can't tell you how accurate this explanation is. What you don't see in these stories is how the NPD wears the poor sucker down, but the poor, stupid victim is completely oblivious to what's going on and can even get angry with you for mentioning anything.

    • @seanl3384
      @seanl3384 Рік тому +10

      You’re spot on. I lived it, it was hell. For reference, I lost a limb and eye in combat and didn’t skip a beat but I let that chick turn me upside down and think I was crazy. Gents, avoid dark triad women like the plague.

    • @trevtall1094
      @trevtall1094 Рік тому +4

      That's my experience with weak male victims, they usually fly off the handle when show them reality

    • @shawnmorrissey1866
      @shawnmorrissey1866 Рік тому +5

      There are some women who wear masks, and play a character to manipulate you. Be very careful, and make a plan B, if the situation goes south. And PLEASE, DON'T GET MARRIED.

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph Рік тому

      Bingo!

    • @sherryf2477
      @sherryf2477 Рік тому

      What’s NPD?

  • @Snarge22
    @Snarge22 Рік тому +15

    Notice in his pictures he was always leaning in to her.
    He was her ATM machine, nothing more.
    I'll bet the bedroom fun went away pretty fast as well.

    • @massimoforesti
      @massimoforesti Рік тому +3

      If it was there beyond maintenance sex to begin with

  • @rogercook7345
    @rogercook7345 Рік тому +19

    She's already on the hunt for her next vick

  • @Mrhilljack
    @Mrhilljack Рік тому +35

    My 21 year old Son Dylan took his own life In may 2019 and I found him. Worst thing to ever happen in my life . Dylan also posted his goodbyes to us all on Facebook.. Dylan never did any kind of drugs, he took his own life because of the way women are in today's world including his mother that left him when he was 11 years old , he never seen her again till the day he died. Women are for the most part not really worth having around full-time... I am very angry with the creator if there even is one, and also angry with all women. But I will still lay up with a woman from time to time. But that's hard to do because I am always thinking about my son.

    • @deaddropsd1972
      @deaddropsd1972 Рік тому +3

      Gotta choose wisely. Some women are wonderful

    • @Mrhilljack
      @Mrhilljack Рік тому +1

      @@deaddropsd1972 very few that are wonderful in Arkansas. Have to be very selective around here

    • @Goodkidjr43
      @Goodkidjr43 Рік тому +2

      If there is no Creator, this implies no after life. This implies that you will never see your son again. The Universe proves the existence of God and Jesus Christ proves the existence of an after life. May God bless you with the light of Truth.
      My father killed himself at 65. So I have some understanding of what you are going through.

    • @Mrhilljack
      @Mrhilljack Рік тому

      @@Goodkidjr43 that's how I feel as if will probably never see my son Dylan Again. Ive all but give up on the whole after life idea because the creator has disappointed me largely. I haven't seen much proof in a god. Wish there was something more than what comes in dreams and coincidences

    • @mmmbbop9351
      @mmmbbop9351 Рік тому +1

      Omg man, that's truly awful. I have a son myself and I can barely imagine the pain you went through.
      I will be schooling my little man on women for sure.

  • @geoffreywren2053
    @geoffreywren2053 Рік тому +57

    I wonder if you looked deeply if you would find she has called the cops on a man before at least once. If she backed off in her complaint after making it, it could have been because she realized that his losing his job would mean no alimony for her.

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 Рік тому +2

      He said her messages to her friends show she was trying to clear his name. If she was admitting to her friends nothing much happened, it doesn't mean she's trying to clear his name and was not following through with wrecking him totally and taking everything he had

    • @costalamb3065
      @costalamb3065 Рік тому +2

      @@cruiser6260 She could have been lying you know. Judge a woman by what she DOES, not what she SAYS. So what she told her friends this and that, behind the scenes she was likely doing jack-fuck-all about it.

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 Рік тому +3

      @@costalamb3065 of course, she's not clearing his name...he's trying to clear her name.. she didn't mean it, she didn't want it to go this far.. both our lives are ruined. No only his.

    • @elzoog
      @elzoog Рік тому +2

      "it could have been because she realized that his losing his job would mean no alimony for her."
      Well, I guess she won't be getting any alimony now, will she?

  • @insanbeno
    @insanbeno Рік тому +21

    Every boy and man needs to see this video on earth. Thank you Rich.

  • @neilus0
    @neilus0 Рік тому +15

    I like this channel, i'm a 53 years old, 5'7" and a bit overweight. However I have never had a problem finding women. My current partner is 35, and not overweight by the way.
    I love cooking, food and wine. Read and fairly well educated. Have a professional job but not rich. The reason why i'm commenting is that if you believe in yourself, love yourself and try to be a good person you will meet good women.
    Be careful of being too negative and too obsessed with only physical things like cars and your appearance. These things will naturally attract the wrong types, and then Rich will have to give you advise.

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Рік тому +1

      What do you do at your profession? I ask because I am wondering how you build your social network. Mostly finding women has been about being in proximity with them for me.
      Or maybe you have the face or voice of an angel or something.

    • @eotikurac
      @eotikurac Рік тому

      dude, you must be picking them in a shelter or something and when one misbehaves you get a new one.

    • @DavidSmith-fw3if
      @DavidSmith-fw3if Рік тому +1

      @@eotikurac Ya lol. 5'3", 53, and overweight? Come on man lol. These are gremlins you're attracting.

  • @Bob31415
    @Bob31415 Рік тому +15

    Rich is a high end public service provider for our F-ed up society. Thanks Rich.

  • @tomfilippone6303
    @tomfilippone6303 Рік тому +10

    Thank you Rich for all that you do! I was married to a woman for 15 years who had about 30 red flags when I met her. After she met a doctor she made a false DV/restraining order… 14 days later I was able to prove that it was false, but it came back to haunt me 3 years later when I applied to become an attorney. The bar organization opened an investigation, and it took two years to finally get admitted. She receive no penalty whatsoever for her lies and perjury - I will never never never get married again.

  • @Jason-nosaJ
    @Jason-nosaJ Рік тому +10

    I've noticed guys that you would call "Beta males" never had a confrontation with their Dad. I'm older and grew up in an old school home, and I had the "Grab the belt" moment where I challenged my fathers authority. That's normal, most of the guys that I ever knew that had issues speaking up for themselves never had a moment similar to that. I think there is some link there.

  • @christimaristany7347
    @christimaristany7347 Рік тому +48

    Blames the cops. Blames the system. “ we loved each other very much till two weeks ago“. Ridiculous. Even in death still a beta

    • @leonelorozco2514
      @leonelorozco2514 Рік тому +1

      She took the house and will take his money. Not even his kidz. He is beta. She is a monster.

    • @wvwyut
      @wvwyut Рік тому

      They are the filthiest

    • @user-kb1hw2yq2f
      @user-kb1hw2yq2f Рік тому +7

      He's dead. Show a bit of respect. Sure he was beta when he was alive but his frustration and pain must have been extreme. As a woman, I'm sure thats something you experienced all the time. And yet you expected either your man or your friends to come and save you from that misery. Perhaps he didnt have anyone at that time to turn to. I cant stand this closed off 2D thinking that so many people have.

    • @christimaristany7347
      @christimaristany7347 Рік тому

      @@user-kb1hw2yq2f - pffft. Dramatic much? Your one dimensional thinking that women run to their friends is one I can’t stand. Speak for yourself

    • @SunglassesatKnight88
      @SunglassesatKnight88 Рік тому +1

      @@user-kb1hw2yq2f that makes two of us that feel this way. i am with you on this one. you could have not said it any better. thank you brother!

  • @adamantlyadam5201
    @adamantlyadam5201 Рік тому +12

    It makes me wonder. I knew a guy once who I looked up to. He was great looking, intelligent and very confident. He married a single mother of 4 kids. A decade later out of the blue he took his own life.
    I wasn’t close enough to him to know what he may have been going through but the obituary said he was struggling with depression. it finally occurred to me a couple years ago….I wonder if it had anything to do with his wife.

    • @brent4073
      @brent4073 Рік тому

      Women often plant ideas and use doublespeak on guys. They say they want a divorce and as they walk out the door they say “dont kill yourself” which is their way of telling you “kill yourself, it will make this process easier for me”

    • @michaelcivitella9119
      @michaelcivitella9119 Рік тому +2

      I'll bet any amount of money that it DID!!!

  • @maxwillson
    @maxwillson Рік тому +28

    He obviously had no friends or family members to talk about his issues. Healthy men will just talk shit about it at the bar with some of his friends and then move on. This is way over the top and dramatic. The guy also seemed way too attached to his job. If I lost my job today, I'd be like "well, this sucks, time to find another job that I might like better than the one I had" ahahahaha

    • @xmaniac99
      @xmaniac99 Рік тому +9

      One mistake is that men make is that they associate their purpose of life with work. Work is just a task, a grind, a necessity not a purpose.

    • @crazymonkeyVII
      @crazymonkeyVII Рік тому +3

      Good luck finding a good new job after an accusation like that...

    • @maxwillson
      @maxwillson Рік тому +2

      @@crazymonkeyVII Hard labor jobs don't care about people's past. That's a massive excuse for American men. Toughen up and do actual hard work.

    • @crazymonkeyVII
      @crazymonkeyVII Рік тому +1

      @maxwillson yes, I'm sure someone of his age with a background in music and sitting behind a desk all day for 20+ years being forced to resign is a great catch for every company that requires hard manual labor... look I'm not excusing his choice here but all I'm saying is, I can understand why it can have looked hopeless from his perspective. Seeing your reputation and lives work being undone unfairly can be really tough to deal with. I wished for his child(ren?)'s sake that he had given it some time, I'm sure he could've gotten over it, but I do understand how in such a dark moment you might not see any hope and just want to end the suffering.

    • @maxwillson
      @maxwillson Рік тому +1

      @@crazymonkeyVII Get in shape is what we're saying LOL

  • @camels9654
    @camels9654 Рік тому +6

    The comment about the beta male having pics of him with the girl, and the girl has pics of just her and her kids is spot on. Whenever I see a guy simping I look at his girls FB page, and 100% of the time it's pics of just her, you'd think she was single.

  • @jackcolton1069
    @jackcolton1069 Рік тому +8

    Holy shit Rich, you've gone from helping men to saving men. You should be very proud of the work you're doing. Thank you.

  • @sonyamoste
    @sonyamoste Рік тому +4

    That one night / one phone call didn't do it. It was one night of probably many where he was disrespected that put him over the edge. He obviously lacked resilience. He's weak. I'm not attracted to men like this. This is why men need to quit being so emotional.

  • @spiritualtalk-f3m
    @spiritualtalk-f3m Рік тому +20

    Reading your book Unplugged Alpha 🔥😎 literally man thanks for providing wonderful gift 🙏to each and every men for making right decisions in their life lot's of respect from India 🇮🇳

    • @jinkazama2555
      @jinkazama2555 Рік тому +1

      congrats man. I know alot of Indian men are si-mps, im glad your leveling up yourself up. As am i :)

    • @veerswami7175
      @veerswami7175 Рік тому

      @@jinkazama2555 are u indian

    • @jinkazama2555
      @jinkazama2555 Рік тому

      @@veerswami7175 i am yes, but not from India.

  • @josevela2943
    @josevela2943 Рік тому +10

    Extremely sad, had to look that up, daughter told papers it was his only way out cause wifey was very manipulative. This is why your content is very important , I have also purchased your book by the way and it's great every male should read. Thank you for everything you do for us to make us better and also aware.

  • @seansingh8862
    @seansingh8862 Рік тому +6

    What a waste: he could have at least taken a family court judge or two with him.

  • @Son-of-Krypton
    @Son-of-Krypton Рік тому +15

    Rich this is vicious example of many…
    Makes you wonder if an alone man living on his own terms is the best to live 🤔

    • @charliesmith7942
      @charliesmith7942 Рік тому +3

      I'm single have been since I was 27. 41 now. Definitely board, miss having someone around, but no drama and problems associated with a relationship.
      Painful being alone but perhaps the best. I don't know.

    • @MikeG82
      @MikeG82 Рік тому +2

      Rich has always said it's a bad idea to live with a woman
      most women don't even cook these days so what is the point?

    • @costalamb3065
      @costalamb3065 Рік тому +2

      Better to be alone for the right reasons than with someone for all the wrong reasons.

  • @MeZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZ
    @MeZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZ Рік тому +17

    This is such an important video. This guy probably thought he had done right his whole life and wondered why me?
    What a devastating and sad story, rip.

    • @davidlemaster2034
      @davidlemaster2034 Рік тому

      Rich is right....men are disposable.....don't believe me? Here are some stats that will blow your mind.
      Children under the age of 5 very rarely kill themselves, but it DOES happen.....it's usually about 50/50 girls and boys
      from the age of 5 to 10 that number jumps to DOUBLE the number of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      from the age of 10 to 15 that number TRIPLES.....3 times the amount of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      15 to 20? 4 times the amount of boys commit suicide compared to girls.
      20 to 30? 6 times the amount of young men kill themselves compared to women.
      30 to 40? Almost 8 times the amount of men kill themselves compared to women.
      40 to 50? the % starts to fall back, men kill themselves about 4 times more than women.
      50 to 70? about triple the number of men kill themselves compared to females.
      Just imagine for a minute or two how society would go absolutely INSANE if these numbers went the other way!!?? Can you even fathom it? My god, we would have a media meltdown if these numbers even began to switch genders. There would literally be an outcry for change to "Save our girls" like nothing you've ever seen. But these stats have been like this for DECADES!! and people barely even care or notice??

  • @johnrobinson1840
    @johnrobinson1840 Рік тому +8

    So even on the way out the door he's acting "soy-boy"

  • @dcuthbertson5778
    @dcuthbertson5778 Рік тому +7

    Very sad situation for dude. I wish he could've just talked to someone. If it was false, it would've worked out for him. Imagine working your whole life to only end up like this. She completely fucked up his life and now watch...She will be with someone else in 6 months. This is why I never get caught up in a chick. They will always leave you and be with someone else.

  • @freakiesh
    @freakiesh Рік тому +13

    I was subjected to allegations of threatening violence over an ex who tried to put a protection order against me. At the time I was somewhat plugged into the matrix. Prior to the court case I will admit that I had thoughts of ending my life, but there was this determination in me to protect my innocence. I had a family solicitor send me my ex's statement one day prior to the court case and my heart sank at all the spurious allegations. What was somewhat interesting about this case is that my solicitor who represented me is female and so is the judge. Anyways, the trial was transient and with everything stacked against me the judge could see the lies and eventually dropped the protection order. She just recommended that I stay away from her, which is what I was doing in the beginning. Boy did a sigh of utter relief come over me at the trials end. I will admit that the mental scars caused by this experience prevented me from even talking to a single woman. After reading the unplugged alpha I am now on a journey to excellence. Thank you so much for the time you take to create such awesome content and for your support, Rich. You are like the dad I never had.

    • @suefleming
      @suefleming Рік тому +1

      DO NOT TRUST WOMEN.
      PAID PRO$ESSIONALS ONLY.
      GET A DOG 4 LOYAL COMPANIONSHIP.

    • @DwyaneWadeCounty
      @DwyaneWadeCounty Рік тому +2

      Glad that you came out of it alive.

  • @LatimusChadimus
    @LatimusChadimus Рік тому +2

    Yes men have always been the disposable sex but they've also been the prized sex for a very long time. Even in the Bible all the way up until the mid-1900s it was always a prize for a woman to give her husband a son, especially many sons because men are much more valuable to have, even if they are disposable

  • @rickai9945
    @rickai9945 Рік тому +7

    The overwhelming desire to look for 🐱is very strong and never gets old. Men have to be aware and understand this biological imperative to unplug.

  • @christopherbuckley7544
    @christopherbuckley7544 Рік тому +6

    There are two realities: The one you believe, and the one that exists. People who resort to such "permanent" means, mistakenly choose their beliefs, instead of reality. For example, you believe you're going to lose your job because you've been under extreme pressure to meet deadlines...however, you've been under extreme pressures to meet deadlines to see if you're the right material for a better job offer from the company. Don't buy the negatives, continue to believe positively. Negative gets you nowhere. ;)

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph Рік тому

      Exactly! Companies WILL test you like this just before they promote you!

  • @chrisfoucher8460
    @chrisfoucher8460 Рік тому +6

    Rich this is amazing advice. I was dumb enough to date a single mom and she got pregnant (my fault actually). My resulting son has been the best thing in the world for me and change my life for the better for sure, but not without it's heartache to say the least. His mom and I are not together since he was 1 (he's now 10). When he was 1 yo, she pulled a DV situation on me which resulted in so much heartache. Finally, I fought for a 50/50 custody arrangement and have always had a great relationship with my boy. But, yes, watch out for single moms. I'm a succesful Dr. btw (which you've eluded to are some of the most targeted by single moms). Heed Rich's advice guys. Kindly, Chris

  • @derekthetrader2929
    @derekthetrader2929 Рік тому +9

    Great clip, thanks for the content Rich. Yeah, it’s rough out there. I think if this guy came across your content (or any other red pill content) he would likely still be with us, sad. Guys like this simply did not have the right information and deleted themselves over a temporary problem. Thank you again Rich for this content 🙏

  • @juanwhitehead6183
    @juanwhitehead6183 Рік тому +11

    I find it weird how harsh Rich is on this dude considering he was having the same thoughts when a single mother did him dirty. I don’t blame him for checking out. He put himself in that situation I know, but he told his story so we could learn from it. She is the main problem. IMO

    • @ukkev7290
      @ukkev7290 Рік тому +14

      That "dude" was a hardcore Democrat who would have backed the woman if the same thing happened to another guy.

    • @juanwhitehead6183
      @juanwhitehead6183 Рік тому

      @@ukkev7290 so?

    • @eotikurac
      @eotikurac Рік тому +2

      i think he wasn't harsh enough. the guys that end themselves are losers and we should call them out.

    • @circus3422
      @circus3422 Рік тому +8

      "She is the main problem. IMO" disagree, our culture and laws that enable her is the main problem.

  • @douglashazelrigg4377
    @douglashazelrigg4377 Рік тому +27

    Alpha, beta, whatever, it baffles me that any real man would cash in over something like this. Weak

    • @dpstrial
      @dpstrial Рік тому +1

      Many men these days are weak. They need to get unplugged, but they won't.

    • @whiterabit09
      @whiterabit09 Рік тому +5

      Do something about your weight.

    • @brent4073
      @brent4073 Рік тому

      If you arent used to a woman up and leaving you, i could see how guys would do this. Guys who have been with a lot of women know better

    • @douglashazelrigg4377
      @douglashazelrigg4377 Рік тому

      @@whiterabit09 Thanks. That's an an old picture from when I switched to gmail about 10 years ago

  • @j.borchard2208
    @j.borchard2208 Рік тому +4

    Prime example of Beta-Bob dude that fell for a an example of an ex-carousel rider and Divorce’ who cared about his resources, not his lack of manliness and looks! She played him like a fiddle and he payed for it ultimately! Excellent case study in what NOT to do in relationships. Very Sad.

    • @stephengrunden4830
      @stephengrunden4830 Рік тому +2

      Private wedding was the giveaway. Marriage is supposed to be a public proclamation.

  • @poprocksminneapolis
    @poprocksminneapolis Рік тому +3

    I'm guessing there is more to this, he is leaving out the part about here cheating.

  • @casperscornerandkids
    @casperscornerandkids Рік тому +3

    Game of attrition, sounds like she was ashamed of him and wanted him to leave. She was dropping hints and he couldn’t pick them up. She went extreme, another sign of a beta - GET A CLUE.

  • @ToxiCisty
    @ToxiCisty Рік тому +8

    Honestly, when something like this happens, and u watch your life Unfold and people turn on you. It’s crazy, society has just been completely conditioned to defend women and take them 100% at their word. There was legitimacy to, “me too”, maybe at some point in the beginning but at this point it’s had a lot of toxic effects. All u could do is maintain your own dignity and disregard the people who attack you without the facts. Also don’t hope for karma or people to regret their actions once your name is clear, because it may never happen. You just have to move on for you and you only.

    • @roythousand13
      @roythousand13 Рік тому

      There was a time, that a woman's word didn't mean shit! I'm sorry but women lie, and I think they lie more than men do! Honor is not a feminine trait!

    • @ToxiCisty
      @ToxiCisty Рік тому +3

      @@roythousand13 a great man once told me, “if you love a woman, you’ll never understand her, if you understand women, you’ll never love them”.

    • @roythousand13
      @roythousand13 Рік тому

      @@ToxiCisty ,I'm the latter!

  • @Thermopylae2007
    @Thermopylae2007 Рік тому +3

    This tragic story reminds me of the thesis of Dr. Robert Glover that most Western men in recent generations were raised in an education system run by women school teachers that encouraged this beta behaviour in boys, who were raised to think that if they follow the rules that they were taught that they will ultimately be rewarded for it (Glover's concept of covert contracts, "if I do x, I will get y in return"). Sadly, the fellow under discussion was so blue-pilled (to be expected of a contemporary high-school educator) that he couldn't stomach life the moment he realized that the world doesn't operate that way and all of his nice-guy behaviour might not be rewarded in the end. Many kudos to Richard for making a teachable moment out of this sad turn of events.

  • @hoosfoosfull
    @hoosfoosfull Рік тому +7

    Seemed like a genuinely decent guy. How devastating it must be for his immediate family.

  • @alexandermikhailov2481
    @alexandermikhailov2481 Рік тому +4

    It is ironic how a man who sadly chose the permanent solution to his temporary problems had an underlying permanent personality condition that he tried to solve by temporary and feeble fix such as hoping that a single mom marching into his life flying a bunch of red flags would cure his depression, and yes, there are signs that he was depressed. It lacks logic whatsoever. Rich, thanks for your work, it not only saved me but made me better. 👍

  • @cojovamanolo6422
    @cojovamanolo6422 Рік тому +7

    Yeah man. Similar story here. Although nobody really knows yet the full story, a family friend of mine told me of her niece. The husband asked her to take a drive. As they crossed over a large bridge on the highway, he asked her to stop and pull over. He got out and jumped.....Crazy.

  • @riggitydoo5116
    @riggitydoo5116 Рік тому +9

    She saw that paycheck drying up then the dude cut off the life insurance. Pretty sure she is feeling the pain caused in part by her actions.

    • @DP-cz9xi
      @DP-cz9xi Рік тому +5

      As far as I know, insurance doesn't pay for "checking out"
      Policy is null

    • @cruiser6260
      @cruiser6260 Рік тому +2

      @@DP-cz9xi that's what he meant

  • @MrBoxofplastic
    @MrBoxofplastic Рік тому +3

    I'm 40 years old and there's no one to date long term because they're all single moms, have young kids, or have had no kids due to avoidant attachment or unrealistic expectations/partying too long. I have 2 girls 12&14 and they shouldn't be living with any unrelated teenage boys. I refuse to get anyone pregnant and "start over". I guess my only option is a very young empty Nester.

    • @costalamb3065
      @costalamb3065 Рік тому +1

      There's worse fates you know.

    • @MrBoxofplastic
      @MrBoxofplastic Рік тому

      @Matt THX haha, so you're saying all I have to date is 25 year olds who just want sex. That's not what I am looking for and it takes time to vet her out.

    • @MrBoxofplastic
      @MrBoxofplastic Рік тому

      @Matt THX maybe. Don't dip into crazy, I say.

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph Рік тому

      Based on what you wrote, you’re still very much plugged into the matrix

  • @marcelthorsen
    @marcelthorsen Рік тому +2

    Very disingenuous that the bloke preaches for others to treat people better and yet he treats himself badly enough to put a permanent end to a temporary problem? It’s terrible that it came to that but he should’ve heeded his own words.

  • @d.j6371
    @d.j6371 Рік тому +4

    A miserable life is the best possible outcome when getting in a relationship with a single mom. I have never seen a great outcome.

  • @erichjung4192
    @erichjung4192 Рік тому +2

    "Life is difficult" . Weak males make good victims and the common female was raised to be a shrewd victimizer .

  • @noc8076
    @noc8076 Рік тому +2

    Before taking the final solution, always delete those that wronged you so you leave a better world.

  • @Tonybologne805
    @Tonybologne805 Рік тому +2

    If Robin Williams can do it this man can too. Glad we have the internet to show men/ young men what woman have been doing for decades

  • @nicholastracy4915
    @nicholastracy4915 Рік тому +3

    When I was in prison/county jail. I met MANY people with these minor domestic charges. They are minor charges, too. Even if convicted he would have had done a county bid, something light.

  • @_Delta_P_
    @_Delta_P_ Рік тому +2

    happened to a friend of mine. his wife was having episodes where she was seeing things. she got worse and worse. she came at him with a small kitchen knife and he grabbed her arm. she calle the cops... this Vice President of Sales, great father, and overly loving husband has now been in JAIL TWICE. hes like 50.

  • @Thramak
    @Thramak Рік тому +15

    The thing about not being in her photos is indeed a huge red flag. If she doesn't want the world to see you, then she's not into you.
    My ex wife did a similar thing, the last four years of our marriage she removed all photos of me and our child. She was in an out of affairs during this time, she had checked out and was using social media for validation from other men. If she has social media, and pretends you do not exist, that's because she doesn't want the world to see you so she can still appear single.
    I'm dating someone new for the last 3 months, I don't even have social media anymore but she's always taking photos ... telling people about me and has that desire, sometimes we bang 3 times a day I can hardly keep up. I don't know if it's sustainable but I have to admit that it's a great starting point!

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Рік тому +1

      Wow. I'm not sure how you waited 4 years on that. I'd consider any of it 2 weeks notice and let her "go out with the girls" for that time. Good riddance.

    • @Sweatsofficiallytheworst
      @Sweatsofficiallytheworst Рік тому +5

      "If she doesn't want the world to see you, then she's not into you" is the most on point comment I've seen in awhile, I know a couple chick right now that literally are either married or in relationships and they don't post their husbands/bf and their status is either on single or nothing is there lol. 😂😂💯💀

    • @Thramak
      @Thramak Рік тому +5

      @@riggitydoo5116 Married with a kid. No support network, was stuck and tried to make it work. Yes, it was a waste of time but when I finally got out I was able to do it on my terms and didn't get my life destroyed. Small price to pay!

    • @Thramak
      @Thramak Рік тому

      @@Sweatsofficiallytheworst It's probably just a matter of time I'm afraid

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Рік тому

      @@Thramak good for you. I took too long to pull the trigger (figuratively) on my baby mama as well, just not 4 years. Glad you made it out with light damage.

  • @mrmcbeth
    @mrmcbeth Рік тому +2

    The hair dye is also a sign of emotional instability. Same with tattoos.

  • @barnswardrowan3022
    @barnswardrowan3022 Рік тому +3

    the legal system really can be blamed for a lot

  • @user-nn9mg3sw9j
    @user-nn9mg3sw9j Рік тому +1

    Lmao -- the first comment is essentially the meme: "Man commits suicide, woman most affected".
    It's a reminder that if you remain blue pilled, follow "the rules", put the woman as number one priority, take care of another man's children -- aka do everything right, per beta standards -- you can still have your life turned upside down with one simple call.
    To quote Samuelson: "You can't make this shit up".

  • @troyvan6952
    @troyvan6952 Рік тому +3

    Get the book, it's an incredible read. Gave it to my 21 year old son. Everything seen now in a new light.

    • @scopeway
      @scopeway Рік тому

      The dating dictionary by 'doc love' is a good read too

  • @profoundcontender4696
    @profoundcontender4696 Рік тому +1

    MARLENA LYNN
    Is any family member of Chris going to stand up for him? This horrible gold diggerrr of a woman MARLENA LYNN should be held accountable. Chris' daughters should be standing up for him and file charges of false allegations on MARLENA LYNN that drove their dad to taking his ownnm life

  • @YMagoulo
    @YMagoulo Рік тому +8

    After a major argument with my then wife she threatened to call the cops and have me removed. I told her straight up if you call the cops for no reason, I guarantee you there will be a reason when they get here. I was never again threatened with that.

    • @attilaseyfullah8522
      @attilaseyfullah8522 Рік тому +2

      Based.

    • @YMagoulo
      @YMagoulo Рік тому

      @@joserhekjinzhun3992 It wasn't a threat it was a promise and back in 1996 she wouldn't have been able to record anything.

  • @Electriclineman
    @Electriclineman Рік тому +2

    A friend of a friend was dating a Mom for about two year and the son was in his early 20s. The son was a little off. So one night the three went to dinner and on the ride home the son started yelling at his mom and she was yelling back then the son smacked the mom and the guy turned around and beat the shit out of the son for hitting his mother.. They get to their home and she called the cops. ON THE MAN. Lied for the son and said he just attacked him and her. That was two years ago and he is still going to court and pretty much lost everything.

    • @mikeheaton8424
      @mikeheaton8424 Рік тому +1

      Why any guy would get involved with a single mother is beyond me.

  • @janmolekula3900
    @janmolekula3900 Рік тому +5

    "If your partner falsely and knowingly accuses you of something you didn't do and you end up in jail and you stay with that person, then you deserve absolutely everything that is coming to you after that." - Lao Tzu

  • @Timesynergy
    @Timesynergy Рік тому +2

    An unplugged guy would never get into that situation in the first place by dating a single mom

  • @rachelparradelong
    @rachelparradelong Рік тому +3

    That’s just so sad…. Their relationship seemed weird and her calling the cops on him was ridiculous…. But his weak mind destroyed him…. He should have divorced her and left his job and moved on….. this whole story is just a tragedy

    • @wiseonwords
      @wiseonwords Рік тому

      @rachelparradelong9677 - Well, actually she destroyed him. He may have been weak, but make no mistake, SHE destroyed him. You made a nice attempt at covering for her though. ;)

  • @SMSBJM1981
    @SMSBJM1981 Рік тому +1

    Just replace beta male with people pleaser as a coping mechanism for chaos generally caused by a poor female partner.

  • @doughooper9918
    @doughooper9918 Рік тому +5

    You can poke a lot of holes into Richs ideas of what is considered being on your purpose but you need to listen to him when he talks about women and society these days. He is always been absolutely correct on that matter.

  • @christopherbuckley7544
    @christopherbuckley7544 Рік тому +2

    The sad reality is he just didn't want to own his own bad behaviour. He never should have lost his "sh*t", and then his lack of value in himself as a man, allowed his beliefs to lead him down a road that had no basis in reality: being "worthless". Unplug fellahs. Get to the freaking GYM!!!!

  • @uup116
    @uup116 Рік тому +3

    Sounds like he was in the closet...every sign was there.

    • @Thiiink
      @Thiiink Рік тому

      worse case scenerio he had alot of chances to pull a young chick at his school - so yeah more than likely

    • @stephengrunden4830
      @stephengrunden4830 Рік тому +1

      Including hiding their marriage.

  • @stevegrantland1201
    @stevegrantland1201 Рік тому +2

    After watching this several times I finally caught the very valuable truth that, “this is not happening to me, but for me.”. What a powerful mind shift this is for me! Thank you Rich!!

  • @Chchenry18
    @Chchenry18 Рік тому +7

    Just recently bought your book, I’m an alpha male, 90k earner, 31yrs, 6ft 2 225lbs with abs… but the “beta-tization by 1000 concessions” hit hard as Fuck….
    The red flags were nuts.. I missed them..
    Literally whats happened in my marriage over 8 years.. and now it’s over, no kids thankfully.. would love to write you in and see your perspective.

    • @deaddropsd1972
      @deaddropsd1972 Рік тому +2

      Go to Brazil

    • @andrewcolleypropertiesreal1941
      @andrewcolleypropertiesreal1941 Рік тому +1

      Yes the 1000 concessions happened to me you don’t see it coming a bit like the frog in boiling water

    • @SMSBJM1981
      @SMSBJM1981 Рік тому +1

      Same happened to me. Brought me to a really dark place. Luckily had the balls to end it and no kids. Feeling the best I have in years.

    • @jeremiaha5167
      @jeremiaha5167 Рік тому +1

      Yeah. I feel you. I entered my last LTR as a "bad boy" alpha but at the end I was super apologetic and just constantly making sure she wasn't upset for any (or no) reason.
      One has to catch oneself doing it before it becomes a thing

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph Рік тому

      Know one gives a rip how tall you are. I’m the same height as you and other than this post, you will never see me mention it. Mentioning it screams beta to me.

  • @Paul-yk7ds
    @Paul-yk7ds Рік тому +2

    I was “canceled” and lost my career and almost all of my social circle ~4 years ago. It was the hardest thing I ever went through, but it does get better. You come out the other side smarter and stronger from the experience. If anyone else is struggling with something like that now, don’t take the beta way out (lol). Success is the best revenge, so do what it takes to come back stronger than ever.

  • @NickRedstar
    @NickRedstar Рік тому +4

    Years ago. It was New Year’s Eve. Me and friends met up to have some fun. We were walking across the parking. We seen a man with his woman in his face screaming at him. Then pow she slapped him across the face. The guy didn’t flinch hands down my his side nodding his head with a smile. When come back guess who’s sitting in the back seat of the cop car, him. We went up and told the cops what we seen. After that the cops turned their attention to the girl. I don’t know what happened after that. I hope that guy got lucky and didn’t spend a night in jail.

  • @RalphRomano2
    @RalphRomano2 Рік тому +1

    School job at his level is 300k+ and since it's Cali it could be 450+. NOBODY is gonna hire him at 1/2 that salary. These WOKE JOBS are overpaid to keep you on point to STAY WOKE. NO PLACE TO GO. And this is why he is panicking, because NO WAY does he keep his life either. His entire way of life is GONE over a user and abuser. She ENJOYS the life of WRECKING MEN !!!!!!!!!!!!! Wohmen are rewarded for being reckless and enjoy the drama that ensues from it. She NEVER EVER dedicates her life to him. HE IS TEMPORARY !!!!!!!!!!!!!! And he can not see it until it's too late, and his way of life is gone. So sad to hear he deleted himself !!!!!!!!!!!